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February 13, 2024 31 mins
Have you turned your boundary line into a boundary wall? If you find yourself lonely because of unrealistic boundaries, today you can take a sledge hammer and Bring.The.Wall.Down.  I want us to have a real talk and address the issues of isolation and loneliness that many people experience. I want to emphasize: The importance of community and relationships The need for boundaries in friendships  The challenges that come with maintaining healthy relationships The different levels of friendships Friendship is not codependency In some cases we can find ourselves looking at our friends and thinking; “what the heck?” That’s because we don’t have a clear definition of what “friend" means and we’ve given access to the wrong people into our friendship circles. I want you to walk away knowing what friendship IS and IS NOT.  Remember that true friendship and fulfillment can be found in Jesus. Tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know what healthy lines you’ve drawn in your life. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Friends With Benefits // Relationship Boundaries // Bianca Olthoff TFHOC Miseducation of Love Series  Quote People should be loved biblically, valued equally, but treated differently. Takeaways The benefits of community and relationships help against loneliness and isolation Different levels of friendship: casual, close & core The importance of investing in healthy friendships ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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