November 25, 2025 • 26 mins
On this episode of WYHA, Anna and Matt are catching up on life, Suede's 6-month birthday celebrations and looking at the viral trend on TikTok right now, 'The Australian Effect'. Matt also takes a look back on his past year and reflects on where he is now and how he is feeling today. Enjoy x
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I want to stress by saying, beauty is in the
eye at the holder. So when Michael thinks you wake
up and look beautiful, that's in his eyes.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
You're saying, I don't good morning, an Hello, how are
you this morning?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
I'm good. I'm actually a little bit sore yesterday.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
It's going on.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
So I got to work, got to the office. Yeah,
got out my car. I've obviously got my new Forward
Ranger Wild Track. So if anyone's familiar with that, it
is a it's a big one.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Can that loves driving this. You like, it is a
big car, and I look.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Like it.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
It suits me, you know what I mean, Like I
sit there and it suits me.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
You are a big guy, so it does make sense
that you now have a big car. Like before when
you had your little car, your head was touching the roof.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Well, now I've got it. So I've got the proper card.
Now I'm driving around a lot to the office. I've
got my phone in one hand, my arm and latte
two SIPs of it, mind you, in the other hand.
I've got my Chino's on. I've got my north Face
puffer jacket. You know, the full work kit going.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
On, really painting the picture from us.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Because you've got it. You've got to picture this for
it to be fucking to get the actual full like
image of it. Yeah, step out. Obviously there's the runner
on the so you don't hit the ground straight away.
You step on the runner, step onto that. My rm
Williams heel gets caught on the runner. I have my
coffee in this hand, and I shit you not. I
(01:33):
literally just fell and it's like I can still picture
in my head falling like it was so slow motion,
and I've just gone bang and hit the ground my
coffee from the car. My coffee has splatted like I've
landed pretty much in my coffee my phone. You can
see it shattered the glassroom and I just laid there.
(01:55):
I just like that because I was so hurt. More
than like my whole bruise on my side of my
left egg, my elbows all scratched.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Was my ego, Yeah, that's going to take hit. It
was anyone there to witness this grand.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Fall, you know what. I actually wish someone was there
to see it so I could actually like validate that
it happened, because it was so shocking. Like I pulled
myself up and I was like that just happened?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Is that what you said? On the ground for a
little longer, just praying someone would walk pass and be
like are you okay?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Well, just be like what the fuck just happened? Because
it was so like, one minute I'm standing in the
next minute I was on the ground. It was fucking
hilarious though. So if you're picturing that, yeah, so.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Do you have batterle wounds like proper? Like I can
see your phones completely damaged?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
His undressing everyone? Ooh that's nasty.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Yeah, and I think I have a bruise through here,
but it just hurts when you roastand up now.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Oh my god, notes yourself. Be careful with the big
cars further from the ground.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Further literally, and I'm a tall way up. No, just
my heel, it's.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
A long way down for you, to be fair.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
My heel just got stuck in. I know, I was standing.
The next minute I was laying what.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Are you going to do to make sure this doesn't happen?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I think I won't go. I think I'll go three
points to contact.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
So one foot on the thing, one on the rail,
one on the door, always three points of contact.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Oh my god. Well, I had a really nice weekend.
Last weekend we went to Adelaide for Michael's mum's seventieth birthday.
We also met Swede's cousin who is six weeks old, Vivian.
She's so cute. Swede's no longer the baby of the family.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Did they interact six months? Is six weeks is too
young to interact with another baby.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
No, they did tummy time altogether. Oh really, it's really cute.
I'll show you the video. Swedes like padding Vivian on
the head and then we have an older cousin as
well who was like, be careful, Swede. It was really
cute seeing them interact because obviously Swede's an only child,
so he's like not really. I mean we go to
like baby sensory classes and like little classes so you
can meet other kids, but like just being there for
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the whole weekend and having him interacting with other kids,
it was really cute.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
They live in Adelaide.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yes, yeah, they're in Adelaide.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Hopefully it gets enough time with them growing up.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Then yeah, yeah, we're actually going back up there. So
for Christmas we're going to hamilch And Island with my
family and then We're going to Adelaide to spend some
time with Michael's family, so we're going to be away.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
So much of Adelaide.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I mean I saw the beach.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
The beach was lovely, beaches nice.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
It was so blue. I was like, where am I?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yea, the beaches and the winery are probably the best.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
It just makes me realize, like Melbourne beaches just don't hear.
I know I've said this before, Like I know I'm
a bit down and out about Melbourne beaches, but they're
just the water is like brown.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I don't go to the beach, so I can't comment.
It's just like I don't remember I went to the beach.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Miserable.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Yeah right, maybe I'll go this summer check out the
water and let you know.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I've really like tempted you.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I want to go. I haven't been. I used to. Yeah,
I said that before. I'm not a big fan of the.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Yes, okay, we have to talk about the TikTok Awards.
I posted something on TikTok about this because just for context,
I've been invited once before a couple of years ago,
and I didn't go because I was like, oh, it's
in Sydney. I didn't have a plus one social anxiety.
I literally hate going anywhere by myself, like would prefer
to just not go, even though I did want to go. Anyway,
(05:19):
last year, I was like, I think I'm going to
go to the TikTok Awards this year. When my invite
comes through, I was like, TikTok waiting TikTok. Mind the
pun TikTok didn't come through. Didn't get an invite last year.
So then this year on my goals list, I was like,
I want to go to the TikTok Awards this year.
(05:39):
So I've tried to post more on TikTok.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Is that what gets you with at?
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I don't know. Anyway, TikTok again, the invite wasn't coming
through and I was like, damn, I didn't get invited again.
I'm so like disappointed really listening anyway, yes you do.
And anyway, my manager I was like, check your junk mail,
lo and behold there is an invite sitting in there
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for me. And I was like, yeah, I got invited.
And then I was like, fuck, I have a baby,
can't go to Sydney. And I was like yeah. I
was like really like tossing up, Will I go? Won't
I go? And then Michael, being super dad that he is,
he was like, I'll look after your Swede and stay
home and you go. So that's what's happening.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I'm going, that's exciting. So looking after Swede at six
months old? Yeah, what does that look like? Because obviously
he doesn't have breast to feed.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
A breast on tap, so I am still exclusively breastfeeding.
So from now until the TikTok Awards, I'm like a
pumping machine. I'm like pumping here, I'm pumping there. My
pumps sterilized. Yeah. Yeah, so currently I only have four
frozen bags of milk, which isn't a lot.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
How long does that get swayed?
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Not a lot? But he has started solids. Yeah, So
in my mind, I'm like, if worse comes to worst,
I've got purade vegetables in the fridge for him. But yeah,
I'm going to be pumping like a crazy person and
I'm probably going to get like a whole over milk supply,
which she probably you're looking at me like a crazy person,
like what does that mean?
Speaker 1 (07:13):
I get the gist of it.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Yeah, like you pump more. There's little milk?
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Does your body produce more if you pump more.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Yeah, well yeah, because then your body is like thinking,
oh the baby needs more, so.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Like producing more, you're going to be sore. No, it
doesn't hurt because I'm picturing it like actually milky.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Yeah, yeah that is what it isn't hurt. Do you
know what's so funny? Like sorry you talk about my nipples.
Everyone is listening, but like I have very sensitive nipples
normally too much touching on my nipples. Like it's kind
of like I was like like no, like don't love it,
like a little bit.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah you didn't like nipple play.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I don't love nipple play. I don't love nipple play,
but I like that was what got it going. Yeah,
like a little like I think if you're really turned done,
like yeah, a little bit, but like nothing too much.
Like I'm very sensitive nipples. As soon as I started breastfeeding.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
I don't know what happened. They're they're not sensing. I
think that would just be the body sending it.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Yeah, like the body is like given some sort of
like numbing antigen into.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Because it's like because the baby bites on it almost
doesn't they have a sucking reflex.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Okay, I thought it doesn't It doesn't hurt, like it
shouldn't hurt unless you're getting massis which or blocked out. Anyway,
we're getting really far into breasteeding from that.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
That's one of my favorite topics. Boom. Maybe not yours.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Talking about it, sisters, but it was a bit great.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Yeah it's not I thought you actually this was unreals
that would be earlier.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Was like what So anyway, anyway, going to the TikTok Awards,
I'm very excited. I'm going to be spending just less
than twenty four hours away from Swede, which I'm very
sad about longest time. But in saying that, I think
it's going to be really good. I want to.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Like.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
The reason why I want to go is because I
just like look up to all of the businesses who
are getting Business Creator of the Year. So I want
to get inspired. I want to get empowered and yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
And what's the word put it on your next year's
vision goal list?
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Yeah, to be nominated.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Imagine you can do it.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
I can do it.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Manifest it work hard.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
It's a lot of harder.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
I mean I've manifested stuff and they're coming true. It's
just what you got to do.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
True. Speaking of the business, Goldibee is on Black Friday
sales as well. I've been like a headless chuck running around.
I literally never that, but genuinely like, I have been
the busiest person in the past three weeks, like the
busiest I've ever been.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Speaking of dates, and on the weekend would have been
my one year wedding anniversary.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Yeah, how are you feeling about that? Because I don't know, like,
is that hard?
Speaker 1 (10:11):
I mean, leading up to it, it has been on
my mind a loss because obviously I don't know if
other people do this, but I reminisce in my head
about and compare stuff from like a year ago, and
I think about a year ago. Granted a year ago.
Leading up to it was probably one of the better
times of the relationship, so that made me a little
bit a little bit emotional about it, I guess. On
the day, I obvily did some family activities and surrounded myself
(10:34):
with loved ones to not that I was upset, because
obviously I don't know. It's a real mixed to emotions,
isn't it.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
You're allowed to feel like sad about a divorce, Yeah,
and a relationship breakup, whether it doesn't matter who was
a person who ended the relationship, whatever, like you're allowed
to feel sad about it.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Ah, And I think I see stuff, I hear people
talk and I see different things, and I get it.
Everyone has this our own perception of what happened, and
they can say whatever they want. But I know my
truth and I know that since leaving that I have
felt so much better. So that sort of made me
feel not okay with it, but a lot more comfortable
(11:16):
in it and not as upset, but still looking back
and thinking about it, and to be fair, that day
was great day. All things aside, it was a great day.
It was a great day. There was love in the air,
there was genuine love. Yeah, And it's I guess some
things work out some things, don't you know. It is
what it is.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
I don't know if you'll mind me saying this, but
two weeks ago you were a bit off, and I
feel like you've been like so positive and happy and
like so full of life recently, and then a couple
of weeks ago I was like, what's wrong, it's even
a bit like down, and you were like, oh, I've
kind of been thinking a lot about the fact that
like this time last year, I was getting married and
(11:55):
kind of like, yeah, you were kind of reminiscing and
a bit upset.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yeah, And I think it's completely, like you said, normal
to think about that sort of stuff and have those
sort of thoughts, and like I said, leading up to
was probably some of the better times, if not the
best time of that relationship. They were like, I mean
it's bad. I mean it's funny. I listened to on Spotify.
Know if anyone else does this as a DJ, and
it takes stuff from that you listened to in that
(12:19):
and it actually said this time last year, let's listen
to that, and it put on our wedding song because
obviously we were practicing that and I was like, oh,
fuck me, and how do you live? Came on. I
actually listened to the whole song. I thought it was
I sat there in the fields and listened to it.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Did you cry?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yeah? I got emotional. I had tears in my eyes.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Yeah, Well I might share this story. For our one
year of meeting each other, we got matching bracelets from
Sarah Sebastian and I've ever since we separated, everyone's been
asking me like, when are you going to get that removed,
like because it had a tea initial on it. So
everyone was asking that when you're going to get that removed?
And my answer to everyone was, when it comes off.
It comes off, like you know what I mean, Like,
(13:01):
I don't want to. I feel like if I was
the first one to cut that off, I don't know,
I just didn't sit well with me.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Yeah, So I was like, when it sold it on,
so you can't take it off just for context.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Sorry, yeah, just sold it on. And I was like,
when it comes off, that's when the time is right
for it to come off. And I was in the
bathroom at the office and I walked out and got
caught on a hinge and I didn't realize what it
was and I sort of like pulled my arm and
it foolish because it's like I was so broke. No, no,
it didn't break, but it was like I could have
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rolled it off my hand if I wanted to. It
got really loose. Apparently it's gold and it's really stretchy. Yeah,
and I could have rolled it off if I wanted to,
but I didn't, And it was like really just frustrating
because it rolled down all my wrist and that. So
I went into the shops at Chadston and I went
up and I was like to the girl there was
a couple of girls, and now I waited for them
to leave the shops. I didn't really want everyone to
hear it. I was like to the girl working there,
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I was like, hey, I just got this bracelet. It's
sort of loose. I didn't realize it's under warranty, but
I was like, hey, I want to change the letter.
I was like, this my ex's wife, and I actually
like started choking up as I was talking to her,
and I was like, fuck, I actually didn't think I
was going to get that emotional over it. And then
she was like, oh, like I understand it. She was
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actually really kind. This girl was really kind there and
actually took the time. She's like that's fine, Like this happens.
People come in and get their excess changed over. And
I was like okay, and then she's like, come with
me and took me to like the soldering place where
they do it. And as she was changing it, because
I put a z on there now for Zakowski, and
I started like I was actually holding back tears. In
the middle of the chad stent while she was doing it.
I think she could tell. She sent me a message
(14:36):
on Instagram and said, I hope you're okay. Oh nice girl.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
So you were fully crying.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
I wasn't fully crying obviously, have this the safety glasses on,
and I was just like not looking at it, trying
to hold back tears.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
That's sad.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Yeah, I mean it's just this stuff is like I
don't think he's like, yes, yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
It's just that what Like I feel like everyone's been
asking about that bracelet and it's like that one thing
that was kind of like still almost like connecting you guys.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
I don't like because I got told that she's still
got hers on and I just like I don't know
something there, but.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
I guess, well, I'm proud of you for thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
I thought doing it.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
I wonder like, I don't know, I'm big on like
kind of like what you were saying, like it'll fall
off when it's meant to, or like it'll break when
it's meant to and that'll be like the final like whatever.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Really, and I think that it didn't break and I
went in to change it sort of as well, and
I sort of was like in my mind I don't.
Maybe I just get it fixed and keep the actual
letter there. But I'm like, no, I'm here now, that'd
be silly. Yeah, it was like that would be silly,
you know, Like I knew that if I went there,
I was going to get emotional about it and possibly
cry tear up, which I did. So that was another
(15:41):
reason I was sort of holding back on getting it done. True.
I mean, it's not you don't want to make yourself
cry what he wants.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
To, you know, we avoid that. I don't even watch
sad movies. I'm like, nah today.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Actually, sorry, I should just mention this. Actually I actually
got to the car and cry. Drove the whole way
home crying.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
I think that's like healthy. Oh yeah, I did think
it's healthy to let it out and then be like cool.
I just had about like thirty minutes of full low
and crying, just as long as no one's.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Being was driving down the morning looking at me in
my full range of wild track, just crying while driving.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
There you go, that's so sad.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
It's not it's sad, but it's it's it is what
it is slack, you.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Know, Well, just a pivot from that on the day
that you got married last year. It's also swayed six
month birthday.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
It's a happy So that's happy.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
What's now there?
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Yeah, that's happy. That's good.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
So we are taking him to the aquarium this weekend.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Why are the aquarium? He's six months old? I really
see the sharks.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
We took him to the aquarium in Hawaii and he
was like four months and he loved it. So I
was like, now he's like way more alert, he's way
more interactive. So I feel like just a random question.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
Why it was.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Smaller than I think the Melbourne one, but it was good?
Yeahum is and a quarium. Yeah, it was just a
nice fish and you know last time I went, they
had a huge croc Let me know if it's still there?
Oh is there a crocodile?
Speaker 1 (17:18):
And like stood over it.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Oh yeah, I was just kind of there for the fish.
Colorful fish moving around like it's sensory, Like he goes
to baby sensory class. I feel like this is censory.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
With jellyfish light up in there and see that's cool. Cool,
he'll like that.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
Yeah. Anyway, should we get into today's episodes to it? Okay, guys,
so you might have seen this on TikTok. But everyone
is talking about the Australian effect. It's actually a trend
that's going around at the moment where you see a
person from overseas. I think a majority of these are
from the UK, and when it comes to like the females,
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they normally have like fake eyelashes, fake I don't know,
lip fillar, like just it's a very overdone look. And
then the Australian effect happens and they have this natural
glowy obviously using Goldie Bee, they just have like this
really natural look. So that's trending at the moment, even
(18:18):
with the guys. Like the guys who are doing the
Australian effect, they're kind of like.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
I actually you've seen it. You keep going, you keep going.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Yeah, the guys have the Australian effect. They're like one
in the before they're skinny and pale, and then all
of a sudden they're like beefed up and like got
long hair.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
Girls are doing though, and girls they're not.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
Well, it's just like that natural look. Everyone's going to
that like natural, glowy, really fit type of vibe.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Well, I think the reputation of Australia around the world
is laid back, isn't it. Yeah, like it's more of
a laid back sort of culture. Yeah, so maybe that
fits into that reputation that we have. But I do
agree that I think that the girls and this isn't
saying it's in a nasty way, but I think the
girls in the UK are more into those hair extensions
(19:09):
whit filer, you got.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
The hair flicks, my hairbag or my hair.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
But I genuinely believe that, like if you watch the
Love Island girls in the UK one, I feel like
they've got that sort of energy about him. Ones that
I've seen on Instagram and all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
And it's just a trend. Like I mean, there was
a point in time where like everyone had like the
not everyone, but like a lot of people were like
kind of like duck lip vibes, like the lip filler,
the filler on the face. Now I feel like the
trend is like create that natural look. But in some
ways it's harder to create that natural look. It's more
steps because you're like getting that glowy effect and like
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all of the skincare prep beforehand and like blah blah blah. Anyway,
I saw this study which was really interesting. Basically, they
showed two women to males and females. I think one
was Sydney Sweeney and the other one was a girl
who won Miss Universe Australia. And the girl who won
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Miss Universe Australia was very glam like, lots of makeup, beautiful,
and then Sidney Sweeney and she had more of a
natural look about her, also still gorgeous. Anyway, they showed
these two women to people, and the majority of females
picked the Miss Universe girl so more glam, more makeup,
(20:29):
like visually can see that she's wearing makeup, and then
the males chose the Sydney Sweeney picture because apparently they
found in this study that men hate being able to
see makeup on women. So when they look at a
woman and go, she looks really natural, even if she's
had filler and botox and whatever, but it's more about
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like visually being able to not see the makeup. Men
are more attracted to that. And I just found that
super interesting. So like what the women were like, oh,
she is more beautiful women versus the more natural one
that kind of attracted the men.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I see that. I understand that. I know that when
I've had partners in the past and they'll go out
and get their makeup done professionally for an event or
for a wedding or something like that, I actually prefer
when they just do their makeup for work, just like
chill make chill makeup and that full glam and they
come back from I don't what do you get your
makeup done? The says Mecca. I mean like, and you
(21:27):
come back and then you know how, they will get
it done and then they got this full basic lamb
and I'm like, yeah, you look beautiful. Yeah, But I
actually prefer like just them doing it every day for this.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
See, this is a bane of my existence because Michael
does this to me as well. So like I'll go
to a full glam event. He's like, but you look
better in the morning, and I'm like, but do I
I don't know if I'm.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Not firsting in the morning. I mean, I.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Don't want to plug Godibee again, not like godybe in
the morning. But yeah, when I get my makeup done
and I've got like a full red lip or like
a winged eye line, and I feel amazing, I want
Michael to be like, damn, you look hot, but you
know what I mean, Like, I'm not like really received,
Like he's like, my wife's beautiful. He always says this
one thing, but I prefer you natural. I'm like, like,
(22:16):
what is it with men and this natural thing? I mean,
you can maybe shed some lightmap I.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Don't I don't know. I think how do I explain this?
I think maybe when they get the makeup done, it
is a little overdone sometimes and you're just like you
look at it glam Yeah, it's like you just look
pretty without it. That's what I used to think when
my partners would come back at the full glam maker. Yeah,
they get it over done for the photos and that,
and I just think that, like, yeah, you're naturally beautiful.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't know, but you see, like, okay, let just
let me play Devil's advocate. You are a single man now.
You love a first trap, probably from women where there's
like beautiful, you know, makeup and like overdone.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yeah, I say first traps Gorne of the day of.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
Of a first trap to a first track, yeah, and
getting reeled in by them really yeah, done in the days.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
Okay, I think that I think the whole if someone's
still getting reeled in by a first trap.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Do you know what's so hilarious because this is just
like me adding in a little bit of mum life.
I mean, like we were talking about this the other
day and I was like, you know, at the start
of our relationship, I was like taking all these hot
photos and like sometimes I would send him a cuffle
and be like, oh, just like out with my friends.
Now all I send him is like the baby projector
vomited up Pooh explosion. Our lives is so different.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
That's a natural progression of life. Though, I mean, don't
what's the word, don't don't deprive him of a first trap.
Keep the spark going.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
You know what I mean? Though, Like when he's in
the car driving and it's like you have received a
photo from Anna, He's like another Pooh explosion.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
I mean I was talking more of like when a
girl would post it on the I feel like that
day and age just sort of is done that.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Yeah, And I mean, going back to the Australian effect,
I think this trend is do you think.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
That when you move to Australia that you got the
Australian effect.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
I mean I was like eleven or twelve, I'm going
to go with no very young to get your eyelashes done,
and I wasn't quite onto like the fake lashes the
filler twelve years old. But I mean it is interesting.
I think Australian lifestyle is more conducive to that Australian effect. Look,
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like you know, people were closer to the beach the
sun shines. I mean not really in Melbourne at the moment,
but overall, like we have a warmer climate, so people
are going to the beach. You don't really want to have.
This is more of a an outdoor, outdoor lifestyle.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
Yeah, and like you know, it just people take their
fitness seriously here.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
I feel I know that we're over generalizing. I will
say that like statement, obviously we're doing like we're talking about,
like in general overall, like it is more of an
active lifestyle. I've obviously lived in the UK, have lived
in different places around the world, and like you know,
in the UK, when it's winter for like ninety percent
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of the year or eighty percent of the year, sun
sets it four sometimes. Yeah, specific parts of we're.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
Here in the Gold Coast of Queensland, the sun's up
at four am and they do a five to nine
it is a.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Good lifestyle in the gold Host So I do think
about that sometimes. I know you've lived there, but I
don't know. I'm just like, it would be nice to
just like wake up early in the morning, go watch
the sunset. Do you know what? That is my one
dyslexic thing that I continue to say, and I don't
know if I'm ever going to get over it. I
always mix up sunset and sunrise.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
I had an age why TV shows and movies mixed uff?
And I'm a massive movie man, so like it would
actually boil my place. I know it's a fucking TV show,
not a movie. Stop with my brain.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
I like, it's so annoying. Like when I even go
to say sunrise, I have to really think about it,
Like what isn't clocking with my brain? Sunset?
Speaker 1 (26:11):
I don't know, they're completely Also, I want to stress
by saying, beauty is in the eye of the holder.
So when Michael thinks you wake up and look beautiful,
that's in his eyes.
Speaker 2 (26:24):
Saying I don't.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
I don't remember one hundred fair I'm the only time
you saught me wake up was Love Island. Yeah probably, Okay, guys,
So that's all we have time for I hope you
have a lovely week guys.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Matt just like our producer, and until next time,
I want to stress by saying, beauty is in the
eye at the holder. So when Michael thinks you wake
up and look beautiful, that's in his eyes.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
You're saying, I don't good morning, an Hello, how are
you this morning?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
I'm good. I'm actually a little bit sore yesterday.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
It's going on.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
So I got to work, got to the office. Yeah,
got out my car. I've obviously got my new Forward
Ranger Wild Track. So if anyone's familiar with that, it
is a it's a big one.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Can that loves driving this. You like, it is a
big car, and I look.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Like it.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
It suits me, you know what I mean, Like I
sit there and it suits me.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
You are a big guy, so it does make sense
that you now have a big car. Like before when
you had your little car, your head was touching the roof.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Well, now I've got it. So I've got the proper card.
Now I'm driving around a lot to the office. I've
got my phone in one hand, my arm and latte
two SIPs of it, mind you, in the other hand.
I've got my Chino's on. I've got my north Face
puffer jacket. You know, the full work kit going.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
On, really painting the picture from us.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Because you've got it. You've got to picture this for
it to be fucking to get the actual full like
image of it. Yeah, step out. Obviously there's the runner
on the so you don't hit the ground straight away.
You step on the runner, step onto that. My rm
Williams heel gets caught on the runner. I have my
coffee in this hand, and I shit you not. I
(01:33):
literally just fell and it's like I can still picture
in my head falling like it was so slow motion,
and I've just gone bang and hit the ground my
coffee from the car. My coffee has splatted like I've
landed pretty much in my coffee my phone. You can
see it shattered the glassroom and I just laid there.
(01:55):
I just like that because I was so hurt. More
than like my whole bruise on my side of my
left egg, my elbows all scratched.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Was my ego, Yeah, that's going to take hit. It
was anyone there to witness this grand.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Fall, you know what. I actually wish someone was there
to see it so I could actually like validate that
it happened, because it was so shocking. Like I pulled
myself up and I was like that just happened?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Is that what you said? On the ground for a
little longer, just praying someone would walk pass and be
like are you okay?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Well, just be like what the fuck just happened? Because
it was so like, one minute I'm standing in the
next minute I was on the ground. It was fucking
hilarious though. So if you're picturing that, yeah, so.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Do you have batterle wounds like proper? Like I can
see your phones completely damaged?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
His undressing everyone? Ooh that's nasty.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Yeah, and I think I have a bruise through here,
but it just hurts when you roastand up now.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Oh my god, notes yourself. Be careful with the big
cars further from the ground.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Further literally, and I'm a tall way up. No, just
my heel, it's.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
A long way down for you, to be fair.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
My heel just got stuck in. I know, I was standing.
The next minute I was laying what.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Are you going to do to make sure this doesn't happen?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I think I won't go. I think I'll go three
points to contact.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
So one foot on the thing, one on the rail,
one on the door, always three points of contact.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Oh my god. Well, I had a really nice weekend.
Last weekend we went to Adelaide for Michael's mum's seventieth birthday.
We also met Swede's cousin who is six weeks old, Vivian.
She's so cute. Swede's no longer the baby of the family.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Did they interact six months? Is six weeks is too
young to interact with another baby.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
No, they did tummy time altogether. Oh really, it's really cute.
I'll show you the video. Swedes like padding Vivian on
the head and then we have an older cousin as
well who was like, be careful, Swede. It was really
cute seeing them interact because obviously Swede's an only child,
so he's like not really. I mean we go to
like baby sensory classes and like little classes so you
can meet other kids, but like just being there for
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the whole weekend and having him interacting with other kids,
it was really cute.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
They live in Adelaide.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yes, yeah, they're in Adelaide.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Hopefully it gets enough time with them growing up.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Then yeah, yeah, we're actually going back up there. So
for Christmas we're going to hamilch And Island with my
family and then We're going to Adelaide to spend some
time with Michael's family, so we're going to be away.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
So much of Adelaide.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I mean I saw the beach.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
The beach was lovely, beaches nice.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
It was so blue. I was like, where am I?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yea, the beaches and the winery are probably the best.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
It just makes me realize, like Melbourne beaches just don't hear.
I know I've said this before, Like I know I'm
a bit down and out about Melbourne beaches, but they're
just the water is like brown.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I don't go to the beach, so I can't comment.
It's just like I don't remember I went to the beach.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Miserable.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Yeah right, maybe I'll go this summer check out the
water and let you know.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I've really like tempted you.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I want to go. I haven't been. I used to. Yeah,
I said that before. I'm not a big fan of the.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Yes, okay, we have to talk about the TikTok Awards.
I posted something on TikTok about this because just for context,
I've been invited once before a couple of years ago,
and I didn't go because I was like, oh, it's
in Sydney. I didn't have a plus one social anxiety.
I literally hate going anywhere by myself, like would prefer
to just not go, even though I did want to go. Anyway,
(05:19):
last year, I was like, I think I'm going to
go to the TikTok Awards this year. When my invite
comes through, I was like, TikTok waiting TikTok. Mind the
pun TikTok didn't come through. Didn't get an invite last year.
So then this year on my goals list, I was like,
I want to go to the TikTok Awards this year.
(05:39):
So I've tried to post more on TikTok.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Is that what gets you with at?
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I don't know. Anyway, TikTok again, the invite wasn't coming
through and I was like, damn, I didn't get invited again.
I'm so like disappointed really listening anyway, yes you do.
And anyway, my manager I was like, check your junk mail,
lo and behold there is an invite sitting in there
(06:04):
for me. And I was like, yeah, I got invited.
And then I was like, fuck, I have a baby,
can't go to Sydney. And I was like yeah. I
was like really like tossing up, Will I go? Won't
I go? And then Michael, being super dad that he is,
he was like, I'll look after your Swede and stay
home and you go. So that's what's happening.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I'm going, that's exciting. So looking after Swede at six
months old? Yeah, what does that look like? Because obviously
he doesn't have breast to feed.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
A breast on tap, so I am still exclusively breastfeeding.
So from now until the TikTok Awards, I'm like a
pumping machine. I'm like pumping here, I'm pumping there. My
pumps sterilized. Yeah. Yeah, so currently I only have four
frozen bags of milk, which isn't a lot.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
How long does that get swayed?
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Not a lot? But he has started solids. Yeah, So
in my mind, I'm like, if worse comes to worst,
I've got purade vegetables in the fridge for him. But yeah,
I'm going to be pumping like a crazy person and
I'm probably going to get like a whole over milk supply,
which she probably you're looking at me like a crazy person,
like what does that mean?
Speaker 1 (07:13):
I get the gist of it.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Yeah, like you pump more. There's little milk?
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Does your body produce more if you pump more.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Yeah, well yeah, because then your body is like thinking,
oh the baby needs more, so.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Like producing more, you're going to be sore. No, it
doesn't hurt because I'm picturing it like actually milky.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Yeah, yeah that is what it isn't hurt. Do you
know what's so funny? Like sorry you talk about my nipples.
Everyone is listening, but like I have very sensitive nipples
normally too much touching on my nipples. Like it's kind
of like I was like like no, like don't love it,
like a little bit.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah you didn't like nipple play.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I don't love nipple play. I don't love nipple play,
but I like that was what got it going. Yeah,
like a little like I think if you're really turned done,
like yeah, a little bit, but like nothing too much.
Like I'm very sensitive nipples. As soon as I started breastfeeding.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
I don't know what happened. They're they're not sensing. I
think that would just be the body sending it.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Yeah, like the body is like given some sort of
like numbing antigen into.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Because it's like because the baby bites on it almost
doesn't they have a sucking reflex.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Okay, I thought it doesn't It doesn't hurt, like it
shouldn't hurt unless you're getting massis which or blocked out. Anyway,
we're getting really far into breasteeding from that.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
That's one of my favorite topics. Boom. Maybe not yours.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Talking about it, sisters, but it was a bit great.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Yeah it's not I thought you actually this was unreals
that would be earlier.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Was like what So anyway, anyway, going to the TikTok Awards,
I'm very excited. I'm going to be spending just less
than twenty four hours away from Swede, which I'm very
sad about longest time. But in saying that, I think
it's going to be really good. I want to.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Like.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
The reason why I want to go is because I
just like look up to all of the businesses who
are getting Business Creator of the Year. So I want
to get inspired. I want to get empowered and yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
And what's the word put it on your next year's
vision goal list?
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Yeah, to be nominated.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Imagine you can do it.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
I can do it.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Manifest it work hard.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
It's a lot of harder.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
I mean I've manifested stuff and they're coming true. It's
just what you got to do.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
True. Speaking of the business, Goldibee is on Black Friday
sales as well. I've been like a headless chuck running around.
I literally never that, but genuinely like, I have been
the busiest person in the past three weeks, like the
busiest I've ever been.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Speaking of dates, and on the weekend would have been
my one year wedding anniversary.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Yeah, how are you feeling about that? Because I don't know, like,
is that hard?
Speaker 1 (10:11):
I mean, leading up to it, it has been on
my mind a loss because obviously I don't know if
other people do this, but I reminisce in my head
about and compare stuff from like a year ago, and
I think about a year ago. Granted a year ago.
Leading up to it was probably one of the better
times of the relationship, so that made me a little
bit a little bit emotional about it, I guess. On
the day, I obvily did some family activities and surrounded myself
(10:34):
with loved ones to not that I was upset, because
obviously I don't know. It's a real mixed to emotions,
isn't it.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
You're allowed to feel like sad about a divorce, Yeah,
and a relationship breakup, whether it doesn't matter who was
a person who ended the relationship, whatever, like you're allowed
to feel sad about it.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Ah, And I think I see stuff, I hear people
talk and I see different things, and I get it.
Everyone has this our own perception of what happened, and
they can say whatever they want. But I know my
truth and I know that since leaving that I have
felt so much better. So that sort of made me
feel not okay with it, but a lot more comfortable
(11:16):
in it and not as upset, but still looking back
and thinking about it, and to be fair, that day
was great day. All things aside, it was a great day.
It was a great day. There was love in the air,
there was genuine love. Yeah, And it's I guess some
things work out some things, don't you know. It is
what it is.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
I don't know if you'll mind me saying this, but
two weeks ago you were a bit off, and I
feel like you've been like so positive and happy and
like so full of life recently, and then a couple
of weeks ago I was like, what's wrong, it's even
a bit like down, and you were like, oh, I've
kind of been thinking a lot about the fact that
like this time last year, I was getting married and
(11:55):
kind of like, yeah, you were kind of reminiscing and
a bit upset.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yeah, And I think it's completely, like you said, normal
to think about that sort of stuff and have those
sort of thoughts, and like I said, leading up to
was probably some of the better times, if not the
best time of that relationship. They were like, I mean
it's bad. I mean it's funny. I listened to on Spotify.
Know if anyone else does this as a DJ, and
it takes stuff from that you listened to in that
(12:19):
and it actually said this time last year, let's listen
to that, and it put on our wedding song because
obviously we were practicing that and I was like, oh,
fuck me, and how do you live? Came on. I
actually listened to the whole song. I thought it was
I sat there in the fields and listened to it.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Did you cry?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yeah? I got emotional. I had tears in my eyes.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Yeah, Well I might share this story. For our one
year of meeting each other, we got matching bracelets from
Sarah Sebastian and I've ever since we separated, everyone's been
asking me like, when are you going to get that removed,
like because it had a tea initial on it. So
everyone was asking that when you're going to get that removed?
And my answer to everyone was, when it comes off.
It comes off, like you know what I mean, Like,
(13:01):
I don't want to. I feel like if I was
the first one to cut that off, I don't know,
I just didn't sit well with me.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Yeah, So I was like, when it sold it on,
so you can't take it off just for context.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Sorry, yeah, just sold it on. And I was like,
when it comes off, that's when the time is right
for it to come off. And I was in the
bathroom at the office and I walked out and got
caught on a hinge and I didn't realize what it
was and I sort of like pulled my arm and
it foolish because it's like I was so broke. No, no,
it didn't break, but it was like I could have
(13:31):
rolled it off my hand if I wanted to. It
got really loose. Apparently it's gold and it's really stretchy. Yeah,
and I could have rolled it off if I wanted to,
but I didn't, And it was like really just frustrating
because it rolled down all my wrist and that. So
I went into the shops at Chadston and I went
up and I was like to the girl there was
a couple of girls, and now I waited for them
to leave the shops. I didn't really want everyone to
hear it. I was like to the girl working there,
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I was like, hey, I just got this bracelet. It's
sort of loose. I didn't realize it's under warranty, but
I was like, hey, I want to change the letter.
I was like, this my ex's wife, and I actually
like started choking up as I was talking to her,
and I was like, fuck, I actually didn't think I
was going to get that emotional over it. And then
she was like, oh, like I understand it. She was
(14:14):
actually really kind. This girl was really kind there and
actually took the time. She's like that's fine, Like this happens.
People come in and get their excess changed over. And
I was like okay, and then she's like, come with
me and took me to like the soldering place where
they do it. And as she was changing it, because
I put a z on there now for Zakowski, and
I started like I was actually holding back tears. In
the middle of the chad stent while she was doing it.
I think she could tell. She sent me a message
(14:36):
on Instagram and said, I hope you're okay. Oh nice girl.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
So you were fully crying.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
I wasn't fully crying obviously, have this the safety glasses on,
and I was just like not looking at it, trying
to hold back tears.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
That's sad.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Yeah, I mean it's just this stuff is like I
don't think he's like, yes, yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
It's just that what Like I feel like everyone's been
asking about that bracelet and it's like that one thing
that was kind of like still almost like connecting you guys.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
I don't like because I got told that she's still
got hers on and I just like I don't know
something there, but.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
I guess, well, I'm proud of you for thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
I thought doing it.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
I wonder like, I don't know, I'm big on like
kind of like what you were saying, like it'll fall
off when it's meant to, or like it'll break when
it's meant to and that'll be like the final like whatever.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Really, and I think that it didn't break and I
went in to change it sort of as well, and
I sort of was like in my mind I don't.
Maybe I just get it fixed and keep the actual
letter there. But I'm like, no, I'm here now, that'd
be silly. Yeah, it was like that would be silly,
you know, Like I knew that if I went there,
I was going to get emotional about it and possibly
cry tear up, which I did. So that was another
(15:41):
reason I was sort of holding back on getting it done. True.
I mean, it's not you don't want to make yourself
cry what he wants.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
To, you know, we avoid that. I don't even watch
sad movies. I'm like, nah today.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Actually, sorry, I should just mention this. Actually I actually
got to the car and cry. Drove the whole way
home crying.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
I think that's like healthy. Oh yeah, I did think
it's healthy to let it out and then be like cool.
I just had about like thirty minutes of full low
and crying, just as long as no one's.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Being was driving down the morning looking at me in
my full range of wild track, just crying while driving.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
There you go, that's so sad.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
It's not it's sad, but it's it's it is what
it is slack, you.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Know, Well, just a pivot from that on the day
that you got married last year. It's also swayed six
month birthday.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
It's a happy So that's happy.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
What's now there?
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Yeah, that's happy. That's good.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
So we are taking him to the aquarium this weekend.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Why are the aquarium? He's six months old? I really
see the sharks.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
We took him to the aquarium in Hawaii and he
was like four months and he loved it. So I
was like, now he's like way more alert, he's way
more interactive. So I feel like just a random question.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
Why it was.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Smaller than I think the Melbourne one, but it was good?
Yeahum is and a quarium. Yeah, it was just a
nice fish and you know last time I went, they
had a huge croc Let me know if it's still there?
Oh is there a crocodile?
Speaker 1 (17:18):
And like stood over it.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Oh yeah, I was just kind of there for the fish.
Colorful fish moving around like it's sensory, Like he goes
to baby sensory class. I feel like this is censory.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
With jellyfish light up in there and see that's cool. Cool,
he'll like that.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
Yeah. Anyway, should we get into today's episodes to it? Okay, guys,
so you might have seen this on TikTok. But everyone
is talking about the Australian effect. It's actually a trend
that's going around at the moment where you see a
person from overseas. I think a majority of these are
from the UK, and when it comes to like the females,
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they normally have like fake eyelashes, fake I don't know,
lip fillar, like just it's a very overdone look. And
then the Australian effect happens and they have this natural
glowy obviously using Goldie Bee, they just have like this
really natural look. So that's trending at the moment, even
(18:18):
with the guys. Like the guys who are doing the
Australian effect, they're kind of like.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
I actually you've seen it. You keep going, you keep going.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Yeah, the guys have the Australian effect. They're like one
in the before they're skinny and pale, and then all
of a sudden they're like beefed up and like got
long hair.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
Girls are doing though, and girls they're not.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
Well, it's just like that natural look. Everyone's going to
that like natural, glowy, really fit type of vibe.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Well, I think the reputation of Australia around the world
is laid back, isn't it. Yeah, like it's more of
a laid back sort of culture. Yeah, so maybe that
fits into that reputation that we have. But I do
agree that I think that the girls and this isn't
saying it's in a nasty way, but I think the
girls in the UK are more into those hair extensions
(19:09):
whit filer, you got.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
The hair flicks, my hairbag or my hair.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
But I genuinely believe that, like if you watch the
Love Island girls in the UK one, I feel like
they've got that sort of energy about him. Ones that
I've seen on Instagram and all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
And it's just a trend. Like I mean, there was
a point in time where like everyone had like the
not everyone, but like a lot of people were like
kind of like duck lip vibes, like the lip filler,
the filler on the face. Now I feel like the
trend is like create that natural look. But in some
ways it's harder to create that natural look. It's more
steps because you're like getting that glowy effect and like
(19:46):
all of the skincare prep beforehand and like blah blah blah. Anyway,
I saw this study which was really interesting. Basically, they
showed two women to males and females. I think one
was Sydney Sweeney and the other one was a girl
who won Miss Universe Australia. And the girl who won
(20:08):
Miss Universe Australia was very glam like, lots of makeup, beautiful,
and then Sidney Sweeney and she had more of a
natural look about her, also still gorgeous. Anyway, they showed
these two women to people, and the majority of females
picked the Miss Universe girl so more glam, more makeup,
(20:29):
like visually can see that she's wearing makeup, and then
the males chose the Sydney Sweeney picture because apparently they
found in this study that men hate being able to
see makeup on women. So when they look at a
woman and go, she looks really natural, even if she's
had filler and botox and whatever, but it's more about
(20:51):
like visually being able to not see the makeup. Men
are more attracted to that. And I just found that
super interesting. So like what the women were like, oh,
she is more beautiful women versus the more natural one
that kind of attracted the men.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I see that. I understand that. I know that when
I've had partners in the past and they'll go out
and get their makeup done professionally for an event or
for a wedding or something like that, I actually prefer
when they just do their makeup for work, just like
chill make chill makeup and that full glam and they
come back from I don't what do you get your
makeup done? The says Mecca. I mean like, and you
(21:27):
come back and then you know how, they will get
it done and then they got this full basic lamb
and I'm like, yeah, you look beautiful. Yeah, But I
actually prefer like just them doing it every day for this.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
See, this is a bane of my existence because Michael
does this to me as well. So like I'll go
to a full glam event. He's like, but you look
better in the morning, and I'm like, but do I
I don't know if I'm.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Not firsting in the morning. I mean, I.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Don't want to plug Godibee again, not like godybe in
the morning. But yeah, when I get my makeup done
and I've got like a full red lip or like
a winged eye line, and I feel amazing, I want
Michael to be like, damn, you look hot, but you
know what I mean, Like, I'm not like really received,
Like he's like, my wife's beautiful. He always says this
one thing, but I prefer you natural. I'm like, like,
(22:16):
what is it with men and this natural thing? I mean,
you can maybe shed some lightmap I.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Don't I don't know. I think how do I explain this?
I think maybe when they get the makeup done, it
is a little overdone sometimes and you're just like you
look at it glam Yeah, it's like you just look
pretty without it. That's what I used to think when
my partners would come back at the full glam maker. Yeah,
they get it over done for the photos and that,
and I just think that, like, yeah, you're naturally beautiful.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't know, but you see, like, okay, let just
let me play Devil's advocate. You are a single man now.
You love a first trap, probably from women where there's
like beautiful, you know, makeup and like overdone.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yeah, I say first traps Gorne of the day of.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
Of a first trap to a first track, yeah, and
getting reeled in by them really yeah, done in the days.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
Okay, I think that I think the whole if someone's
still getting reeled in by a first trap.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Do you know what's so hilarious because this is just
like me adding in a little bit of mum life.
I mean, like we were talking about this the other
day and I was like, you know, at the start
of our relationship, I was like taking all these hot
photos and like sometimes I would send him a cuffle
and be like, oh, just like out with my friends.
Now all I send him is like the baby projector
vomited up Pooh explosion. Our lives is so different.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
That's a natural progression of life. Though, I mean, don't
what's the word, don't don't deprive him of a first trap.
Keep the spark going.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
You know what I mean? Though, Like when he's in
the car driving and it's like you have received a
photo from Anna, He's like another Pooh explosion.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
I mean I was talking more of like when a
girl would post it on the I feel like that
day and age just sort of is done that.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Yeah, And I mean, going back to the Australian effect,
I think this trend is do you think.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
That when you move to Australia that you got the
Australian effect.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
I mean I was like eleven or twelve, I'm going
to go with no very young to get your eyelashes done,
and I wasn't quite onto like the fake lashes the
filler twelve years old. But I mean it is interesting.
I think Australian lifestyle is more conducive to that Australian effect. Look,
(24:32):
like you know, people were closer to the beach the
sun shines. I mean not really in Melbourne at the moment,
but overall, like we have a warmer climate, so people
are going to the beach. You don't really want to have.
This is more of a an outdoor, outdoor lifestyle.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
Yeah, and like you know, it just people take their
fitness seriously here.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
I feel I know that we're over generalizing. I will
say that like statement, obviously we're doing like we're talking about,
like in general overall, like it is more of an
active lifestyle. I've obviously lived in the UK, have lived
in different places around the world, and like you know,
in the UK, when it's winter for like ninety percent
(25:14):
of the year or eighty percent of the year, sun
sets it four sometimes. Yeah, specific parts of we're.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
Here in the Gold Coast of Queensland, the sun's up
at four am and they do a five to nine
it is a.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Good lifestyle in the gold Host So I do think
about that sometimes. I know you've lived there, but I
don't know. I'm just like, it would be nice to
just like wake up early in the morning, go watch
the sunset. Do you know what? That is my one
dyslexic thing that I continue to say, and I don't
know if I'm ever going to get over it. I
always mix up sunset and sunrise.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
I had an age why TV shows and movies mixed uff?
And I'm a massive movie man, so like it would
actually boil my place. I know it's a fucking TV show,
not a movie. Stop with my brain.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
I like, it's so annoying. Like when I even go
to say sunrise, I have to really think about it,
Like what isn't clocking with my brain? Sunset?
Speaker 1 (26:11):
I don't know, they're completely Also, I want to stress
by saying, beauty is in the eye of the holder.
So when Michael thinks you wake up and look beautiful,
that's in his eyes.
Speaker 2 (26:24):
Saying I don't.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
I don't remember one hundred fair I'm the only time
you saught me wake up was Love Island. Yeah probably, Okay, guys,
So that's all we have time for I hope you
have a lovely week guys.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Matt just like our producer, and until next time,
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