July 22, 2025 • 27 mins
Welcome back! This week we are catching up Anna's mum-life & Matt meeting his ultimate man-crush.. plus, we unpack the latest princess treatment trend and put each other to the test. Enjoy x
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I like, literally wake up.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
First thing I'm doing is breastfeeding the baby, so like
I want to have fresh water.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Mummy wants her milk.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Mummy does want her milk. Good morning, Good.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Morning, Anna, Good morning everyone. Where's your head out? Anna?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Matt has brought me a coffee, also got my mama coffee.
It was very nice of you this morning.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I was waiting around our coffee order already.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
You know what. Last night I went to my mum's
house with Sunday dinner.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
It was no it was a little saker Greek soccer
and she.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Had an onion salad and I just oed eat on
onion and I can still taste in my mouth.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
It's so disgusting. I brushed my teeth like four times
and I can't get rid of it.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
When that happens between the other day, I can't remember
it so annoying. It had strong onions in it.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Yeah, anyway, masking with coffee now.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
But it's worth it when you're eating them though.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
It's delicious.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Raw onions red onions or no, sorry they're purple purple,
but they're red. They're called red onions.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Yeah, yeah are they now? I'm like, now I'm the
second guessing.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I'm well, if they're not, that's I'm dumb.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
You know what.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I'm just like I feel like my brain just is
not working the way you used to. And I know
it's a postpartum thing, like your brain like during pregnancy
and post part of your brain rewires itself to help
you to become more nurturing to the baby. But then
it feels to me like my brain isn't working. But
it's just that it's prioritizing like my nurturing side and
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things like that. But like I can't like recall things
or like I'm losing words, you know when you're like
thinking of a word and you're like, oh, what's that
or what's that place called?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
I just like there's nothing going on. There's not a
lot happening, but.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
You're going off not a lot of sleep as well. True. True,
you're constantly like worrying about somebody else, which I think
would Yeah, like you said, rewire your brain.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Yeah, so it's actually not that you're getting dumber. It's
just that your brain has focused so much more.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Just is that scientifically proven?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yeahok no, no, no, it's like scientifically proven. It's like the
gray matter in the brain.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I don't know. Look it up on Google.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
I'll be sure to.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
But I like this morning I did the word all
because I was like, okay, I need to get sharper.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
You do it every day, don't you now? Yeah? I
used to it every day.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I haven't done it in a while, and I was like,
I need to get sharper, Like I need to start
getting quicker. Any hints for today is a word tea
could go anywhere?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Tea?
Speaker 1 (02:31):
I didn't. I didn't actually get the word all.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I know common.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I always get the word all. I always get it
by at least the last try. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
I feel like, guys, if you're not on wordle, get
on wordle. It's really good for the brain.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
It is. We recommend it. We've been doing it. I
went to Sydney last week and I flew up for
the Fantastic four event. It was awesome. I got to
are you a fan of Pedro Pascal.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
I'm gonna be really honest with you.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I knew the name and I've seen him on the
morning TV because of the movie, but I don't know a.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Lot about it.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Everyone on the internet loves him. He's like the new
heart throb of like he's everyone's like he's been on
every movie, but.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
He hasn't really, he hasn't really just.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
To watch Gladiator too, No last of us. No, I
watched him in a movie the other day that no
one would have watched, Bloodsucking Bastards, where he plays like
a vampire. No one would have watched that. But that's like,
that's one that I know from Game of Thrones.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
I have watched him a throw.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Do you remember him in Game of Thrones? No, Well, yeah,
he was there. I was literally this far away from him.
He smiled and waved at me and I said hey, bro,
and he said hey, waved at me. That was pretty cool,
and that was it. That was it. Yeah, well these
people there and he but like have you seen all
the things now that people are like on the on
TikTok they're all the Australian interviewers with us really awkward
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with him, Like they were really leaning into like the
sleazy side of it, calling him like daddy with a
capital D and all this stuff. And like the girl
who's in Vanessa Kirby who's in the interviews with him,
he's like feeling really uncomfortable in there. Really, Yeah, it
just was a bit strange, like they're really playing iy icky. Yeah,
they're really playing into that. He's like this heart frob
but he is like he's a cool dude. But like
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they're really leaning into it now and it's a bit
uncomfortable in a lot of the interviews.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Yeah, yeah, that is uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
And I guess if it was the roles reverse and
it was a woman, they wouldn't really do that, or
would they would they be like, mummy, mummy, I'm a
Mummyma's sister.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
No, I don't think so. I think it would be
like if you were like, you're a mummy with the
capital M.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
So they're saying that, they're like you're a daddy with
a capital D.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah. Yeah, and he sort of plays it off and
then he realizes what they're saying and he's like pretty
uncomfortable about.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
It, right, Yeah, But overall.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
It was a great day. I went with my sister.
It was fun.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
I can't wait to see the actual movie here, do
you know what you're saying?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
The daddy thing reminds me of there's this viral video
on TikTok at the moment and it's this little baby
yelling out babe, and the woman is like, I used
to think it was so cringe when parents would call
each other mummy and daddy, mummy and daddy. But she's like,
now my baby yells out for their dad. And he's like, babe,
babe because she calls her husband babe, babe.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
That's really sha imagine sway yelling out babe to you.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Like no, no, because I've started doing it. I'm like,
where's daddy.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
But it's like, you know, yeah, I've seen people do
it to their dogs even Yeah, like it's just something
that you do.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
It's a real thing.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Well on heartthrobs, I thought I just put this in there.
I spoke about the sauna last week. This time in
the sauna this week, a guy goes to me and
there he goes, oh, were you in the gym today?
And I was like yeah, and he goes, did you
have the white T shirt on? And I was like, yeah,
that was me. I was working out and he goes yeah.
He goes, oh, I just want to say, you remind
me of a young Henry Cavill.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Show me.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I said, I said, define young because I'm probably the
same age as him now. And he laughed and he
was like, no, no, like when he was Superman.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
So that's like a big compliment.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
That was a massive compliment. And it's not the first
time I've been called that I look like Henry Cavill.
So if anyone wants to argue that, let me know.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Bring up the photo. I can see it. I think
it's a jawel line. It's definitely the jaw line. Okay,
we have to talk about Yeah, you look like it somet.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
He's forty two years old, so I probably am a
young one younger version.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
There was a hilarious photo left in our Facebook group.
Oh and what about were it's your head out family suits?
I find it has posted a photo of this person
that looks like Matt. I'm not more offended, and I
for sure will think that you look like this person.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
That looks I'm not going to talk shit about people,
but like, no, that does not look like me. Dude.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I'm literally you're holding it up beside your face. It's
like your twin. Like, I don't know that you look
like that guy. It's the forehead and the hair and
maybe the eyes. It's like from the eyes up. I'm
gonna let's put a photo of Matt and this guy
side by side, and you guys can go, we will
do a pole and you guys can say what you think.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
But I think for sure they've hit the nail on
the head.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Some people have said they don't see this.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
I think they're just probably trying to be nice, see
because you're.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Like, no way, I don't say it. I'm sorry, I don't.
I don't say I can see what you mean by
the eyes, like the.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Look at the forehead, look at the hair. Oh, you're
taking his hat off. It's uncanny, the resemblance.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I don't see it. I don't see it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Okay, let's talk about the Coldplay scandal.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
We cannot do this episode of Were's your Head Out
without addressing this because it.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Has been everywhere, and I mean everywhere.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
There's memes, there's people can't even go to sports games
with how people replicating this.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
It has gone crazy.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
The day after, my whole new Seede was literally the same.
It was literally nonsense, and some of the staff, I'll admit,
was fucking hilarious.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
This is the biggest affair since Bill Clinton.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
That's big, and no one even knew these people like,
they're not famous people, they're.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Just well, i'd say they're famous now.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
They're famous now, but imagine just being a normal two
normal people. One is a CEO, one's ahead of HR
next minute your face. They made international news, not national news.
This went outside of America. This is viral on steroids.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
So what did the girl originally just posted it just
because she thought it was funny or did she know
who they were? You don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Well, I think what happened was is obviously the JumboTron
at the Coldplay concert went onto these people. They've looked
so suspicious, like the way that they moved was like
they're doing something wrong. And then I think because Chris
Martin called out, they're either having an affair or they're
really shy. Then I think I think a lot of
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people who had that footage were like, I mean, the
internet can do its thing and find anyone. You can
google reverse an image and find people and obviously their
workplaces come up.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
You can literally search their.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Linkedins or their facebooks find out that they're both in
a relationship and Bambalam, the internet went crazy.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
So yeah, it's just gone off its head off.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Its are so funny, like they're like, I'm going to
invite a girl for coldplay thing and see if she's
serious or not. Just like shit like that, like so funny.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
So funny, like the people like comparing them to the
Titanic moment because of like the arms around them.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Like the memes have been unbelievable, and.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
There's somewhere they get like people like I don't know,
they get like two wrestlers or whatever, some two people
that don't like each other, and they have them like
this caught together on the screen, like, yeah, hilarious.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
I'm like, this might be controversial, and I have completely
engaged in all of this content, like I'm not.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Oh, I think sending it to you.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Yeah, you've been sending it to me. I've been sending
it to like my family group chats. I have totally
engaged on sharing these memes and I think definitely they've
been hilarious. But this is maybe like two am and
of breastfeeding, and the EmPATH in me has gone like,
oh my god, imagine being number one those two people.
Imagine being their families, Imagine being their kids. Imagine being
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caught up in that saga and like the weight of
the world on you, like imagine going from people not
knowing you to being in every single person's news feet
it feels.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Like did the daughter do something? Or is that real
or is that fake?
Speaker 2 (10:35):
It's so hard to tell because I feel like everyone's
trying to like be involved in it, and everyone's trying to,
you know, be like the new funny meme that everyone says.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
People were bagging the daughter for capitalizing on it, and I.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Was like, I think it's a fake daughter from what
I can tell, but I don't know. I don't know,
Like there is a part of me that feels bad,
and I'm like, oh my god, if something happened to anyone,
or like if something happened to either of them or
someone in their family, because this the weight of this
has been so heavy, feel guilty because I've shared those
memes and I'm like, it's so funny.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
I was talking to my friend about it and they
were saying, it takes something crazy like them doing self
harm or something where like the internet will realize yeah, shit,
they're real people involved.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Yeah I know, And like, it's so it's so hard
because it's the memes that.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Have come out of this are amazing.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
I think it's some of the best people forget that
they're actually real people because of all the memes and
like they're on their screen NonStop, and yeah, people can't
compartmentalize that they're actually real people and they dissociate that.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
And look, apparently the wife has been commenting on some
people's posts being like, please stop joking about this. This
is serious, this is my real life.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Like that's got to Yeah, I could.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Imagine, like I can't imagine, but yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Look, okay, yeah that'd be rough.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Look it's hilarious. I've definitely engaged in the humor of it.
But in the back of my mind, I'm like, oh, well,
I feel for the family.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yeah, I get the empathy side of things. That's a
good part. All right. So on that, Anna, I guess
I want to hear where your head's at. On Princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Let's do it.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Princess treatment. Anna has been thrown around a lot on TikTok.
So I've seen some videos of people's partners, girlfriends holding
their boyfriend, husband, partner over a bowl of ice. And
if they say all that, I've seen one they had
a hose that would think it started and if they
said the wrong answer, they'd spraying with the hose.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Yeah, So it's like, is this princess treatment or is
this the bare minimum?
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (12:35):
So look, in case you've missed it, it's a new
dating trend. It's been talked about a lot. It's when
partners are doing thoughtful things. Sometimes it can be over
the top gestures, and it's just basically to make their
partner feel pampered. I don't know, bringing your coffee in bed,
that's something that I love, paying for your nails to
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get done, opening doors for you, driving you and your
princess vibes.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
So, and the partner has to say whether they think
it's bare.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Minute, bare minimum or princess treatment. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
And bare minimum means stock standard bread and butter.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Yeah, Like you should be doing that, like if you
care about me. Look, I have dated someone who was.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Very very against princess treatment.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
If I so much as was like, can you get
me a coffee in the morning, it was all too hard.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
It was your high maintenance.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
You're brat, spoil, spoiled brat, very triggering, triggering.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
What oh we spoke about this before. I think there
is a fine line between the spoiled brat and a princess.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
I think it's the way you react when it doesn't
happen defines that.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Yeah, like I was saying to Matt, I obviously love
having a coffee in the morning. It's just like part
of my don't we all, It's part of my love language,
especially at the moment, like I like literally wake up
first and I'm doing is breastfeeding the baby, like I
want to have fresh water.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Mummy wants her milk. I just like.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
What the mummy does, want her milk.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Saying that.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Fel like, you know, I want to be looked after
a result, and I think as well, when you become
a parent, princess treatment is in some ways necessary because
you need to be looked after by your partner because
you're looking after the baby. And so like pre baby,
Mike was giving me the princess treatment, which I appreciated,
but now it's like you really need someone to be
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like looking out for you, so well.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Yeah, because you're looking out for someone else, so you're
putting your effort into into them.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
I mean, how hard is it to make someone a coffee?
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Like you were saying, if there's not a coffee and
you like, crack the shits.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
Like it shouldn't be like a huge argument. No, it
should just be like, hey, I would like it if
my partner you made me a coffee. It makes me
feel special. And then I feel your partner should communicate
in a healthy way back and be like, oh I
understand that's something I want to do. I think it
takes two people for that situation.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Yeah. I think that like if there's like a mutual
respect in the.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Relationship that if either of you ask each other for
anything really like you pretty much should do it, like
obviously not like kill someone, but like not like.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
I don't know why I said that, but you know,
like not like extremes, but.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
But like general things and yeah, general things. And I
think in a healthy relationship as well, it's back and
forth totally. You would Prince treatment, King treatment. What is
it like King treatment? Katment with them the King treatment. Yeah,
like you should be like, yeah, I want to do
the same thing back.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
I think spoiled brat it's where you want it all
and don't give anything in return.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
But like like I was saying with that X in
that relationship, it was like everything needs to be equal,
you know, like if I do something for you, you need
to return the favor. Otherwise it's not fair, it's not equal,
and I just don't know if relationships necessarily work like that,
And I think sometimes that's where princess treatment can come in.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Things.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
For you a woman, it's not conditional, but I feel
like you both should be actively trying to make each
other's life easier and totally how do I explain it
with like, it's just like you both want to do
stuff for the other one. You don't you don't resent it,
you don't begrudge it. You're just happy to, you know,
help going out and help your partner out.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Should we listen to the video that started it all?
I think this video is very controversial.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
When I hear this.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
Video, it kind of makes my eye twitch a little.
But let's listen to like two minutes of this and
get the vibe of this girl.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
Let's talk about princess treatment. If you're at a restaurant
and how you interact with the wait staff and the hostess.
If I am at a restaurant with my husband, I
do not talk to the hostess, I do not open
many doors, and I do not order my own food.
So if someone had sent me a message a couple
of weeks ago asking about like let's say your husband
drops you off and he goes to work the car,
what do you do or if it's raining or something
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like that, and he wants you to put your name down.
And I had a very similar situation happened to me
with my husband a couple of weeks ago. I offer
her question on the screen so you can see exactly
what she's saying. But we pulled up. Me and my
husband pulled up to a restaurant and he wanted to
run in and see we didn't have a reservation. He
wanted to run in, Well, we didn't have a reservation,
so we wanted to go up and see if it
was possible for us to get in. He pulled the
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car up at the valley station, he got I stayed
in the car. He got out of the car, told
the valet I was going to run in and ask
a question. I'm going to leave my car here. I
sat in the car while he ran in and asked them.
They said, yeah, we have stays for you. And then
my husband said, okay, I'm going to go get my
wife and then I'm going to park the car. So
he comes back out, opens my car door, walks me
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into the restaurant opens the door, and I stand and wait.
I did not make eye contact with the hostess. I
did not talk to her. I waited until my husband
came back. He comes back, does the exchange with her,
and then we went and sat down.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
I feel like this woman is very extreme. Would you
not say so?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Like she's just rude.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
It's like, why would you not make eye contact with
the hostess or talk to the hostess because that's your husband.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Surely that's a rage bay TikTok, Like that can't be real.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
That's like bullink twice if you're in trouble and need
help vibes Like, I feel like that's very It just
lacks a whole lot of independence. She wants that, she
says she wants it, but like who really wants to
like not be in communication with the outside world and
let your husband do all of that, Like, let's be real.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
I think that's like it's controversial in many ways. Obviously
it's reinforcing gender roles, so like the woman has no
independence if the husband's like, you know, ordering food for them,
Like they have no what's that movie?
Speaker 1 (18:35):
And they're like white chick.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
White, Perhaps, what is that guys, and for the lady
a salad and perhaps a salad and she goes perhaps not,
I'll get mistakes.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
So that is hilarious. I have not seen that movie
in forever.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
If I remembered movie quotes, if I remember studying like that, dude,
i'd be in a different place. Dear Ductor, I know
how to spell when I upload Instagram stories.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Anyway, back to princess treatment. Should we play princess treatment
or bare minimum.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
With between us? And we have to say whether it is.
This should be interesting.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
All right, let's do it. Okay, let's start with opening
the car door. Princess treatment or bare minimum?
Speaker 3 (19:24):
What do you think? I think it's circumstantial. I mean
I would open the cards or for date nights and
getting too ubers or our car for date nights. I
mean we're running to the gym or running to the
shops and that. I mean, if I'm there on that side,
I'll open it like a gentleman. But I'm not gonna.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
I think it's princess treatment. Yeah, I think princess treatment.
It's not bare minimum.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
I think it's somewhere fine line, like it's polite to
do that. I think, Yeah, like I would sometimes laugh
and jump out the car first and like jump across
the bonnet to do it and make that's cute.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Yeah, I think it's annoying to have to wait for
someone to get around the car, Like I.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Just prefer to get out.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
It's not taking that much energy for me to open
a car door, like I'm cool.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
I can do that.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Pulling out a chair at a restaurant that's polite.
Speaker 3 (20:12):
I just do that anyway, that's bare minimum. I think
at a restaurant that's polite and princess treatment. You think so.
And I would also stand up when they come.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Back and and do the think every single time, and yeah,
it's gentlemanly, but I just think like it's unnecessary. I
just do that letting him order your food.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
So say the waiter comes up and they're like, hey,
what are you guys ordering, And you've already told Michael, yeah,
your order. You would still tell the waiter you wouldn't
let Michael order it and be like real manly and be.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
Like I don't really like I wouldn't really be like,
oh my god, you're so manly from place, replacing the
order like I'll do it, He'll do it. It doesn't really
like matter. So I would say that's princess treatment.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Yeah, I say bare minimum.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Bare minimum, Okay, next speak it to the hostess.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Well, I just think that's princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
That's princess treatment. For sure.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
It's rude to not talk to the hosts.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I think like if you're at a restaurant, like and
they talk to you, talk back, not making eye contact
with weight, stuff, arrogant, rude, agreed princess treatment, but like
not in a good.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Way giving her the first bite of your food. Princess treatment.
That's weird.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
I feel like I'm saying princess treatment as in it's
like too much, but like I love princess treatment as
much as the next person. But then again, I feel
like it comes down to, like what you want as
your princess treatment.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Would you want Michael to give you the first bite
of his food?
Speaker 1 (21:38):
No, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Like some people might be like, oh, that is something
that's important to me, and I want that princess treatment
for me.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
I'm like, but that's what I know at the top.
I said that because then that you communicate that with
your partner, totally understand that it's like your love language. Yeah,
and then they'll go okay, well, like you know, she
might want me to open the doors for you here.
Then oh, she doesn't want this, so it's all communication,
healthy stuff.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Filling up her fuel tank. Yeah, that's princessa really. Yeah,
I think that's princess treatment. But Michael does do that,
so yeah, I appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
I don't think yeah's minimum.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
Paying parking tickets.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
Who got the fine or the ticket?
Speaker 1 (22:21):
But well, I guess let's let's talk about.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
If they parked there and got the fine, that's on them.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Yeah, but what about just like if you're parking Michael
gets mine.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
Yeah, I get it. I think that's bare minimum. Yeah
I get that. Yeah, well I'm driving the time, so
you get out and you you're responsible for your where
you park? True, you know what I mean, you're responsible
for that.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Interesting one n Following other girls on social media bare minimum,
bare minimum minimum.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
If you're in a relationship, there.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
Is no need to be following exactly girls.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Yeah, yeah, why why remembering her birthdaym bare minimum?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Buying her favorite snack.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
I would do that all the time. That's bare minimum.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Yeah, bare minimum.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
And also I don't know if it's on here. But
like I think bare minimum is if say you're at
the shops and I would go buy flowers just I'd
see people on mind saying they're just the cheap flowers
from Coals or Willies. But I'd be like, no, you
can get twenty five dollars bouquet of flowers. It shows
you thought of them when you were Yeah, and it's
nice and it lightens up the house. Like I think
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that's bare minimum. Yeah, that's not princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
Yeah, princess treatment.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
Do you once a week and just buy bouquet flowers.
They don't have to be twix and you're thinking me
twenty five dollars in under Yeah, but it just shows
you're thinking of them.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, yeah, that's nice. I know that.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
Like some people love flowers. I like chocolate, so when
I get chocolate made just a dream, I do that.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
Okay, let's do a couple more sharing location.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
I've seen a lot of like tiktoks and stuff on
this and it's it's very controversial. I think it's okay.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
We did an episode on this and like so many
people share their location, but me and Michael still don't
share our location.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
I think for safety reasons. It is if it's done
in a toxic way and I want to see your
because I want to.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
Follow you, but then I feel like it becomes toxic.
It's kind of like one circumstantial with the relationship. It
can be circumstantial for sure. Yeah, I think like for
something that can be like, oh, it's a safety thing
can also be like a what are you doing? Where
are you at? And then it can bring in those
few I don't know, do you know what I'm trying
to say, Like sometimes like something can be innocent, but
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then it can become like that because.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
You're used to it and you're used to checking away.
If it's taken away from you, you're.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Almost totally It's like with an X of mine, we
shared Instagram's like Instagram passwords. We both had our Instagram
the other person's Instagram, and what started as something that
was meant to be like a trust thing became something
that became really toxic because then like girls would be
messaging him and then I would be like off the handle,
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and like you know, it was just like became this
real toxic environment of like I need to see who's
messaging you.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
I've always yeah, I've always said that sort of stuff
is okay, but it's how it's done, do you know
what I mean? Like, if it's done for a toxic reason,
then it's toxic. But if it's done for just like you.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
But it can start innocent. That's that's what I think.
I think it can start really innocent but then become toxic.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
I mean like, yeah, there's so many different reasons, Like
isn't it Yeah, it's yeah, Like have you seen when
Molly May asked Tommy Fury for his phone and he's
like no, and they're all he's hiding something, but he
was planning the engagement? Like it's just like.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Is that on their show?
Speaker 3 (25:40):
I can't remember where I saw it on TikTok. Maybe
it was Fair, maybe it was I don't I saw
something about it. I don't really take I don't really
want to digest that content, but I saw it and
everyone's like he was and he said he was planning
the engagement. So it's just like circumstances. Everything's just like
so do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Yeah, for sure?
Speaker 2 (25:56):
I mean, do you do you believe in the rule
of fifty to fifty of what you were talking about?
Speaker 1 (26:01):
Fifty to fifty.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Before do you think that things in a relationship should
be fifty fifty?
Speaker 3 (26:04):
You know I was trying to say before, is it's
all circumstantial. Nothing should be fifty fifty. Nothing should be transactional,
nothing should be like that. But it should be do
you know what I mean? Like it should be like, oh, okay,
it should be. People should be grateful for stuff and
they should respect respectful. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
The thing is that things aren't fifty to fifty.
Speaker 3 (26:21):
Like life's not fair.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
Life isn't fair exactly. Like, you know, one person in
the relationship might be working, one might not be. One
can do this, one can do that. Like, I think
it's just about making each other's lives as easy as
physically possible.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
That's the best way of putting it. Yeah, and understanding
and going.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
Out of your way for people.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Yeah, Okay, Matt, I think we've really dug into princess treatment.
I think overall we agree that making your partner feel
special is important.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
That's not princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
That's not princess that's not princes treatment. That's the bare mean,
that's a bare minimum exactly.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
That's the best way to put it.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Yeah, Okay, guys, until next time Bye, bye bat,
I like, literally wake up.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
First thing I'm doing is breastfeeding the baby, so like
I want to have fresh water.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Mummy wants her milk.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Mummy does want her milk. Good morning, Good.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Morning, Anna, Good morning everyone. Where's your head out? Anna?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Matt has brought me a coffee, also got my mama coffee.
It was very nice of you this morning.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I was waiting around our coffee order already.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
You know what. Last night I went to my mum's
house with Sunday dinner.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
It was no it was a little saker Greek soccer
and she.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Had an onion salad and I just oed eat on
onion and I can still taste in my mouth.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
It's so disgusting. I brushed my teeth like four times
and I can't get rid of it.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
When that happens between the other day, I can't remember
it so annoying. It had strong onions in it.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Yeah, anyway, masking with coffee now.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
But it's worth it when you're eating them though.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
It's delicious.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Raw onions red onions or no, sorry they're purple purple,
but they're red. They're called red onions.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Yeah, yeah are they now? I'm like, now I'm the
second guessing.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I'm well, if they're not, that's I'm dumb.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
You know what.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I'm just like I feel like my brain just is
not working the way you used to. And I know
it's a postpartum thing, like your brain like during pregnancy
and post part of your brain rewires itself to help
you to become more nurturing to the baby. But then
it feels to me like my brain isn't working. But
it's just that it's prioritizing like my nurturing side and
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things like that. But like I can't like recall things
or like I'm losing words, you know when you're like
thinking of a word and you're like, oh, what's that
or what's that place called?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
I just like there's nothing going on. There's not a
lot happening, but.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
You're going off not a lot of sleep as well. True. True,
you're constantly like worrying about somebody else, which I think
would Yeah, like you said, rewire your brain.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Yeah, so it's actually not that you're getting dumber. It's
just that your brain has focused so much more.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Just is that scientifically proven?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yeahok no, no, no, it's like scientifically proven. It's like the
gray matter in the brain.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I don't know. Look it up on Google.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
I'll be sure to.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
But I like this morning I did the word all
because I was like, okay, I need to get sharper.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
You do it every day, don't you now? Yeah? I
used to it every day.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I haven't done it in a while, and I was like,
I need to get sharper, Like I need to start
getting quicker. Any hints for today is a word tea
could go anywhere?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Tea?
Speaker 1 (02:31):
I didn't. I didn't actually get the word all.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I know common.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I always get the word all. I always get it
by at least the last try. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
I feel like, guys, if you're not on wordle, get
on wordle. It's really good for the brain.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
It is. We recommend it. We've been doing it. I
went to Sydney last week and I flew up for
the Fantastic four event. It was awesome. I got to
are you a fan of Pedro Pascal.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
I'm gonna be really honest with you.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I knew the name and I've seen him on the
morning TV because of the movie, but I don't know a.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Lot about it.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Everyone on the internet loves him. He's like the new
heart throb of like he's everyone's like he's been on
every movie, but.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
He hasn't really, he hasn't really just.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
To watch Gladiator too, No last of us. No, I
watched him in a movie the other day that no
one would have watched, Bloodsucking Bastards, where he plays like
a vampire. No one would have watched that. But that's like,
that's one that I know from Game of Thrones.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
I have watched him a throw.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Do you remember him in Game of Thrones? No, Well, yeah,
he was there. I was literally this far away from him.
He smiled and waved at me and I said hey, bro,
and he said hey, waved at me. That was pretty cool,
and that was it. That was it. Yeah, well these
people there and he but like have you seen all
the things now that people are like on the on
TikTok they're all the Australian interviewers with us really awkward
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with him, Like they were really leaning into like the
sleazy side of it, calling him like daddy with a
capital D and all this stuff. And like the girl
who's in Vanessa Kirby who's in the interviews with him,
he's like feeling really uncomfortable in there. Really, Yeah, it
just was a bit strange, like they're really playing iy icky. Yeah,
they're really playing into that. He's like this heart frob
but he is like he's a cool dude. But like
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they're really leaning into it now and it's a bit
uncomfortable in a lot of the interviews.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Yeah, yeah, that is uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
And I guess if it was the roles reverse and
it was a woman, they wouldn't really do that, or
would they would they be like, mummy, mummy, I'm a
Mummyma's sister.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
No, I don't think so. I think it would be
like if you were like, you're a mummy with the
capital M.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
So they're saying that, they're like you're a daddy with
a capital D.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah. Yeah, and he sort of plays it off and
then he realizes what they're saying and he's like pretty
uncomfortable about.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
It, right, Yeah, But overall.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
It was a great day. I went with my sister.
It was fun.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
I can't wait to see the actual movie here, do
you know what you're saying?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
The daddy thing reminds me of there's this viral video
on TikTok at the moment and it's this little baby
yelling out babe, and the woman is like, I used
to think it was so cringe when parents would call
each other mummy and daddy, mummy and daddy. But she's like,
now my baby yells out for their dad. And he's like, babe,
babe because she calls her husband babe, babe.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
That's really sha imagine sway yelling out babe to you.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Like no, no, because I've started doing it. I'm like,
where's daddy.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
But it's like, you know, yeah, I've seen people do
it to their dogs even Yeah, like it's just something
that you do.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
It's a real thing.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Well on heartthrobs, I thought I just put this in there.
I spoke about the sauna last week. This time in
the sauna this week, a guy goes to me and
there he goes, oh, were you in the gym today?
And I was like yeah, and he goes, did you
have the white T shirt on? And I was like, yeah,
that was me. I was working out and he goes yeah.
He goes, oh, I just want to say, you remind
me of a young Henry Cavill.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Show me.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I said, I said, define young because I'm probably the
same age as him now. And he laughed and he
was like, no, no, like when he was Superman.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
So that's like a big compliment.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
That was a massive compliment. And it's not the first
time I've been called that I look like Henry Cavill.
So if anyone wants to argue that, let me know.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Bring up the photo. I can see it. I think
it's a jawel line. It's definitely the jaw line. Okay,
we have to talk about Yeah, you look like it somet.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
He's forty two years old, so I probably am a
young one younger version.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
There was a hilarious photo left in our Facebook group.
Oh and what about were it's your head out family suits?
I find it has posted a photo of this person
that looks like Matt. I'm not more offended, and I
for sure will think that you look like this person.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
That looks I'm not going to talk shit about people,
but like, no, that does not look like me. Dude.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I'm literally you're holding it up beside your face. It's
like your twin. Like, I don't know that you look
like that guy. It's the forehead and the hair and
maybe the eyes. It's like from the eyes up. I'm
gonna let's put a photo of Matt and this guy
side by side, and you guys can go, we will
do a pole and you guys can say what you think.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
But I think for sure they've hit the nail on
the head.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Some people have said they don't see this.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
I think they're just probably trying to be nice, see
because you're.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Like, no way, I don't say it. I'm sorry, I don't.
I don't say I can see what you mean by
the eyes, like the.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Look at the forehead, look at the hair. Oh, you're
taking his hat off. It's uncanny, the resemblance.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I don't see it. I don't see it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Okay, let's talk about the Coldplay scandal.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
We cannot do this episode of Were's your Head Out
without addressing this because it.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Has been everywhere, and I mean everywhere.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
There's memes, there's people can't even go to sports games
with how people replicating this.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
It has gone crazy.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
The day after, my whole new Seede was literally the same.
It was literally nonsense, and some of the staff, I'll admit,
was fucking hilarious.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
This is the biggest affair since Bill Clinton.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
That's big, and no one even knew these people like,
they're not famous people, they're.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Just well, i'd say they're famous now.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
They're famous now, but imagine just being a normal two
normal people. One is a CEO, one's ahead of HR
next minute your face. They made international news, not national news.
This went outside of America. This is viral on steroids.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
So what did the girl originally just posted it just
because she thought it was funny or did she know
who they were? You don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Well, I think what happened was is obviously the JumboTron
at the Coldplay concert went onto these people. They've looked
so suspicious, like the way that they moved was like
they're doing something wrong. And then I think because Chris
Martin called out, they're either having an affair or they're
really shy. Then I think I think a lot of
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people who had that footage were like, I mean, the
internet can do its thing and find anyone. You can
google reverse an image and find people and obviously their
workplaces come up.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
You can literally search their.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Linkedins or their facebooks find out that they're both in
a relationship and Bambalam, the internet went crazy.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
So yeah, it's just gone off its head off.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Its are so funny, like they're like, I'm going to
invite a girl for coldplay thing and see if she's
serious or not. Just like shit like that, like so funny.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
So funny, like the people like comparing them to the
Titanic moment because of like the arms around them.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Like the memes have been unbelievable, and.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
There's somewhere they get like people like I don't know,
they get like two wrestlers or whatever, some two people
that don't like each other, and they have them like
this caught together on the screen, like, yeah, hilarious.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
I'm like, this might be controversial, and I have completely
engaged in all of this content, like I'm not.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Oh, I think sending it to you.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Yeah, you've been sending it to me. I've been sending
it to like my family group chats. I have totally
engaged on sharing these memes and I think definitely they've
been hilarious. But this is maybe like two am and
of breastfeeding, and the EmPATH in me has gone like,
oh my god, imagine being number one those two people.
Imagine being their families, Imagine being their kids. Imagine being
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caught up in that saga and like the weight of
the world on you, like imagine going from people not
knowing you to being in every single person's news feet
it feels.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Like did the daughter do something? Or is that real
or is that fake?
Speaker 2 (10:35):
It's so hard to tell because I feel like everyone's
trying to like be involved in it, and everyone's trying to,
you know, be like the new funny meme that everyone says.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
People were bagging the daughter for capitalizing on it, and I.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Was like, I think it's a fake daughter from what
I can tell, but I don't know. I don't know,
Like there is a part of me that feels bad,
and I'm like, oh my god, if something happened to anyone,
or like if something happened to either of them or
someone in their family, because this the weight of this
has been so heavy, feel guilty because I've shared those
memes and I'm like, it's so funny.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
I was talking to my friend about it and they
were saying, it takes something crazy like them doing self
harm or something where like the internet will realize yeah, shit,
they're real people involved.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Yeah I know, And like, it's so it's so hard
because it's the memes that.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Have come out of this are amazing.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
I think it's some of the best people forget that
they're actually real people because of all the memes and
like they're on their screen NonStop, and yeah, people can't
compartmentalize that they're actually real people and they dissociate that.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
And look, apparently the wife has been commenting on some
people's posts being like, please stop joking about this. This
is serious, this is my real life.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Like that's got to Yeah, I could.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Imagine, like I can't imagine, but yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Look, okay, yeah that'd be rough.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Look it's hilarious. I've definitely engaged in the humor of it.
But in the back of my mind, I'm like, oh, well,
I feel for the family.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yeah, I get the empathy side of things. That's a
good part. All right. So on that, Anna, I guess
I want to hear where your head's at. On Princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Let's do it.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Princess treatment. Anna has been thrown around a lot on TikTok.
So I've seen some videos of people's partners, girlfriends holding
their boyfriend, husband, partner over a bowl of ice. And
if they say all that, I've seen one they had
a hose that would think it started and if they
said the wrong answer, they'd spraying with the hose.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Yeah, So it's like, is this princess treatment or is
this the bare minimum?
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (12:35):
So look, in case you've missed it, it's a new
dating trend. It's been talked about a lot. It's when
partners are doing thoughtful things. Sometimes it can be over
the top gestures, and it's just basically to make their
partner feel pampered. I don't know, bringing your coffee in bed,
that's something that I love, paying for your nails to
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get done, opening doors for you, driving you and your
princess vibes.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
So, and the partner has to say whether they think
it's bare.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Minute, bare minimum or princess treatment. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
And bare minimum means stock standard bread and butter.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Yeah, Like you should be doing that, like if you
care about me. Look, I have dated someone who was.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Very very against princess treatment.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
If I so much as was like, can you get
me a coffee in the morning, it was all too hard.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
It was your high maintenance.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
You're brat, spoil, spoiled brat, very triggering, triggering.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
What oh we spoke about this before. I think there
is a fine line between the spoiled brat and a princess.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
I think it's the way you react when it doesn't
happen defines that.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Yeah, like I was saying to Matt, I obviously love
having a coffee in the morning. It's just like part
of my don't we all, It's part of my love language,
especially at the moment, like I like literally wake up
first and I'm doing is breastfeeding the baby, like I
want to have fresh water.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Mummy wants her milk. I just like.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
What the mummy does, want her milk.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Saying that.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Fel like, you know, I want to be looked after
a result, and I think as well, when you become
a parent, princess treatment is in some ways necessary because
you need to be looked after by your partner because
you're looking after the baby. And so like pre baby,
Mike was giving me the princess treatment, which I appreciated,
but now it's like you really need someone to be
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like looking out for you, so well.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Yeah, because you're looking out for someone else, so you're
putting your effort into into them.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
I mean, how hard is it to make someone a coffee?
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Like you were saying, if there's not a coffee and
you like, crack the shits.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
Like it shouldn't be like a huge argument. No, it
should just be like, hey, I would like it if
my partner you made me a coffee. It makes me
feel special. And then I feel your partner should communicate
in a healthy way back and be like, oh I
understand that's something I want to do. I think it
takes two people for that situation.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Yeah. I think that like if there's like a mutual
respect in the.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Relationship that if either of you ask each other for
anything really like you pretty much should do it, like
obviously not like kill someone, but like not like.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
I don't know why I said that, but you know,
like not like extremes, but.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
But like general things and yeah, general things. And I
think in a healthy relationship as well, it's back and
forth totally. You would Prince treatment, King treatment. What is
it like King treatment? Katment with them the King treatment. Yeah,
like you should be like, yeah, I want to do
the same thing back.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
I think spoiled brat it's where you want it all
and don't give anything in return.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
But like like I was saying with that X in
that relationship, it was like everything needs to be equal,
you know, like if I do something for you, you need
to return the favor. Otherwise it's not fair, it's not equal,
and I just don't know if relationships necessarily work like that,
And I think sometimes that's where princess treatment can come in.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Things.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
For you a woman, it's not conditional, but I feel
like you both should be actively trying to make each
other's life easier and totally how do I explain it
with like, it's just like you both want to do
stuff for the other one. You don't you don't resent it,
you don't begrudge it. You're just happy to, you know,
help going out and help your partner out.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Should we listen to the video that started it all?
I think this video is very controversial.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
When I hear this.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
Video, it kind of makes my eye twitch a little.
But let's listen to like two minutes of this and
get the vibe of this girl.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
Let's talk about princess treatment. If you're at a restaurant
and how you interact with the wait staff and the hostess.
If I am at a restaurant with my husband, I
do not talk to the hostess, I do not open
many doors, and I do not order my own food.
So if someone had sent me a message a couple
of weeks ago asking about like let's say your husband
drops you off and he goes to work the car,
what do you do or if it's raining or something
(16:51):
like that, and he wants you to put your name down.
And I had a very similar situation happened to me
with my husband a couple of weeks ago. I offer
her question on the screen so you can see exactly
what she's saying. But we pulled up. Me and my
husband pulled up to a restaurant and he wanted to
run in and see we didn't have a reservation. He
wanted to run in, Well, we didn't have a reservation,
so we wanted to go up and see if it
was possible for us to get in. He pulled the
(17:13):
car up at the valley station, he got I stayed
in the car. He got out of the car, told
the valet I was going to run in and ask
a question. I'm going to leave my car here. I
sat in the car while he ran in and asked them.
They said, yeah, we have stays for you. And then
my husband said, okay, I'm going to go get my
wife and then I'm going to park the car. So
he comes back out, opens my car door, walks me
(17:33):
into the restaurant opens the door, and I stand and wait.
I did not make eye contact with the hostess. I
did not talk to her. I waited until my husband
came back. He comes back, does the exchange with her,
and then we went and sat down.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
I feel like this woman is very extreme. Would you
not say so?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Like she's just rude.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
It's like, why would you not make eye contact with
the hostess or talk to the hostess because that's your husband.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Surely that's a rage bay TikTok, Like that can't be real.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
That's like bullink twice if you're in trouble and need
help vibes Like, I feel like that's very It just
lacks a whole lot of independence. She wants that, she
says she wants it, but like who really wants to
like not be in communication with the outside world and
let your husband do all of that, Like, let's be real.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
I think that's like it's controversial in many ways. Obviously
it's reinforcing gender roles, so like the woman has no
independence if the husband's like, you know, ordering food for them,
Like they have no what's that movie?
Speaker 1 (18:35):
And they're like white chick.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
White, Perhaps, what is that guys, and for the lady
a salad and perhaps a salad and she goes perhaps not,
I'll get mistakes.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
So that is hilarious. I have not seen that movie
in forever.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
If I remembered movie quotes, if I remember studying like that, dude,
i'd be in a different place. Dear Ductor, I know
how to spell when I upload Instagram stories.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Anyway, back to princess treatment. Should we play princess treatment
or bare minimum.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
With between us? And we have to say whether it is.
This should be interesting.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
All right, let's do it. Okay, let's start with opening
the car door. Princess treatment or bare minimum?
Speaker 3 (19:24):
What do you think? I think it's circumstantial. I mean
I would open the cards or for date nights and
getting too ubers or our car for date nights. I
mean we're running to the gym or running to the
shops and that. I mean, if I'm there on that side,
I'll open it like a gentleman. But I'm not gonna.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
I think it's princess treatment. Yeah, I think princess treatment.
It's not bare minimum.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
I think it's somewhere fine line, like it's polite to
do that. I think, Yeah, like I would sometimes laugh
and jump out the car first and like jump across
the bonnet to do it and make that's cute.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Yeah, I think it's annoying to have to wait for
someone to get around the car, Like I.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Just prefer to get out.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
It's not taking that much energy for me to open
a car door, like I'm cool.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
I can do that.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Pulling out a chair at a restaurant that's polite.
Speaker 3 (20:12):
I just do that anyway, that's bare minimum. I think
at a restaurant that's polite and princess treatment. You think so.
And I would also stand up when they come.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Back and and do the think every single time, and yeah,
it's gentlemanly, but I just think like it's unnecessary. I
just do that letting him order your food.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
So say the waiter comes up and they're like, hey,
what are you guys ordering, And you've already told Michael, yeah,
your order. You would still tell the waiter you wouldn't
let Michael order it and be like real manly and be.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
Like I don't really like I wouldn't really be like,
oh my god, you're so manly from place, replacing the
order like I'll do it, He'll do it. It doesn't really
like matter. So I would say that's princess treatment.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Yeah, I say bare minimum.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Bare minimum, Okay, next speak it to the hostess.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Well, I just think that's princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
That's princess treatment. For sure.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
It's rude to not talk to the hosts.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I think like if you're at a restaurant, like and
they talk to you, talk back, not making eye contact
with weight, stuff, arrogant, rude, agreed princess treatment, but like
not in a good.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Way giving her the first bite of your food. Princess treatment.
That's weird.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
I feel like I'm saying princess treatment as in it's
like too much, but like I love princess treatment as
much as the next person. But then again, I feel
like it comes down to, like what you want as
your princess treatment.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Would you want Michael to give you the first bite
of his food?
Speaker 1 (21:38):
No, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Like some people might be like, oh, that is something
that's important to me, and I want that princess treatment
for me.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
I'm like, but that's what I know at the top.
I said that because then that you communicate that with
your partner, totally understand that it's like your love language. Yeah,
and then they'll go okay, well, like you know, she
might want me to open the doors for you here.
Then oh, she doesn't want this, so it's all communication,
healthy stuff.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Filling up her fuel tank. Yeah, that's princessa really. Yeah,
I think that's princess treatment. But Michael does do that,
so yeah, I appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
I don't think yeah's minimum.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
Paying parking tickets.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
Who got the fine or the ticket?
Speaker 1 (22:21):
But well, I guess let's let's talk about.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
If they parked there and got the fine, that's on them.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Yeah, but what about just like if you're parking Michael
gets mine.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
Yeah, I get it. I think that's bare minimum. Yeah
I get that. Yeah, well I'm driving the time, so
you get out and you you're responsible for your where
you park? True, you know what I mean, you're responsible
for that.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Interesting one n Following other girls on social media bare minimum,
bare minimum minimum.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
If you're in a relationship, there.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
Is no need to be following exactly girls.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Yeah, yeah, why why remembering her birthdaym bare minimum?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Buying her favorite snack.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
I would do that all the time. That's bare minimum.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Yeah, bare minimum.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
And also I don't know if it's on here. But
like I think bare minimum is if say you're at
the shops and I would go buy flowers just I'd
see people on mind saying they're just the cheap flowers
from Coals or Willies. But I'd be like, no, you
can get twenty five dollars bouquet of flowers. It shows
you thought of them when you were Yeah, and it's
nice and it lightens up the house. Like I think
(23:26):
that's bare minimum. Yeah, that's not princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
Yeah, princess treatment.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
Do you once a week and just buy bouquet flowers.
They don't have to be twix and you're thinking me
twenty five dollars in under Yeah, but it just shows
you're thinking of them.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, yeah, that's nice. I know that.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
Like some people love flowers. I like chocolate, so when
I get chocolate made just a dream, I do that.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
Okay, let's do a couple more sharing location.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
I've seen a lot of like tiktoks and stuff on
this and it's it's very controversial. I think it's okay.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
We did an episode on this and like so many
people share their location, but me and Michael still don't
share our location.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
I think for safety reasons. It is if it's done
in a toxic way and I want to see your
because I want to.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
Follow you, but then I feel like it becomes toxic.
It's kind of like one circumstantial with the relationship. It
can be circumstantial for sure. Yeah, I think like for
something that can be like, oh, it's a safety thing
can also be like a what are you doing? Where
are you at? And then it can bring in those
few I don't know, do you know what I'm trying
to say, Like sometimes like something can be innocent, but
(24:34):
then it can become like that because.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
You're used to it and you're used to checking away.
If it's taken away from you, you're.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Almost totally It's like with an X of mine, we
shared Instagram's like Instagram passwords. We both had our Instagram
the other person's Instagram, and what started as something that
was meant to be like a trust thing became something
that became really toxic because then like girls would be
messaging him and then I would be like off the handle,
(25:01):
and like you know, it was just like became this
real toxic environment of like I need to see who's
messaging you.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
I've always yeah, I've always said that sort of stuff
is okay, but it's how it's done, do you know
what I mean? Like, if it's done for a toxic reason,
then it's toxic. But if it's done for just like you.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
But it can start innocent. That's that's what I think.
I think it can start really innocent but then become toxic.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
I mean like, yeah, there's so many different reasons, Like
isn't it Yeah, it's yeah, Like have you seen when
Molly May asked Tommy Fury for his phone and he's
like no, and they're all he's hiding something, but he
was planning the engagement? Like it's just like.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Is that on their show?
Speaker 3 (25:40):
I can't remember where I saw it on TikTok. Maybe
it was Fair, maybe it was I don't I saw
something about it. I don't really take I don't really
want to digest that content, but I saw it and
everyone's like he was and he said he was planning
the engagement. So it's just like circumstances. Everything's just like
so do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Yeah, for sure?
Speaker 2 (25:56):
I mean, do you do you believe in the rule
of fifty to fifty of what you were talking about?
Speaker 1 (26:01):
Fifty to fifty.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Before do you think that things in a relationship should
be fifty fifty?
Speaker 3 (26:04):
You know I was trying to say before, is it's
all circumstantial. Nothing should be fifty fifty. Nothing should be transactional,
nothing should be like that. But it should be do
you know what I mean? Like it should be like, oh, okay,
it should be. People should be grateful for stuff and
they should respect respectful. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
The thing is that things aren't fifty to fifty.
Speaker 3 (26:21):
Like life's not fair.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
Life isn't fair exactly. Like, you know, one person in
the relationship might be working, one might not be. One
can do this, one can do that. Like, I think
it's just about making each other's lives as easy as
physically possible.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
That's the best way of putting it. Yeah, and understanding
and going.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
Out of your way for people.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Yeah, Okay, Matt, I think we've really dug into princess treatment.
I think overall we agree that making your partner feel
special is important.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
That's not princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
That's not princess that's not princes treatment. That's the bare mean,
that's a bare minimum exactly.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
That's the best way to put it.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Yeah, Okay, guys, until next time Bye, bye bat,
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