XR University

XR University

Want a peek inside the world of kink from those who know it best? Longtime BDSM lifestylers and professionals Ian Rath and Aiden Starr host this intimate, sexy and entertaining show that is perfect for viewers of any level or experience in kink. Using eXtreme Restraints props, toys and tech, they show you the newest toys to play with and invite sexy guests to try them out and share their unique and very explicit experience with them. Conversations between Ian and Aiden are not only fun to listen to, they’re easy to understand and perfect for people from all walks of life who are interested in enhancing their sex life.

Episodes

The Orgasm Gap with Bella Rolland

May 4, 2023 • 64 mins
On this month's episode of XR University, we have guest Bella Rolland join us to talk about female pleasure and help bridge the gap… the orgasm gap!
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Kink and Disability with Rachel plus Maya Woulfe

March 10, 2023 • 34 mins
With over 25% of the population identifying as disabled, knowing how to adjust for neutral positions that aren't painful and still let everyone feel sexy, empowered and feel pleasure is important. Our illustrious hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath invite an exciting new guest, Rachel, who lets us take a look inside the world of enjoying your body as a kinky, disabled person
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Play & Pleasure with Zariah Aura

January 6, 2023 • 22 mins
In this episode of XR University, hosts Ian Rath and Aiden Starr invite Zariah Aura, a gorgeous trans woman, to share how she uses sex toys to enhance her own pleasure and fully enjoy her body!
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Roleplay with Charlotte Sins

November 1, 2022 • 28 mins
Fantasize about role play scenes? Want to be a kinky animal? Enjoy the idea of "breeding" fantasies? On this episode of XR University, we get into our favorite part of BDSM, the element of having fun and playing! Everyone has a fantasy. How do we talk about it and bring it into the bedroom? Our hosts Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their guest Charlotte Sins dive into the psychology of role play and show us some of the toys that are grea...
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Building a Dungeon (Sex Room) w/ Casey Calvert

October 3, 2022 • 27 mins
While How To Build A Sex Room takes viewers into the world of building new rooms, remodels and upgrades, our show shares ways to make it easy for yourself to create a spicy room that is specific and unique to your kinks and desires.
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Bondage Gear with Destiny Cruz

August 31, 2022 • 26 mins
Ian and Aiden, are joined by the vibrant Destiny Cruz to discuss the headspace and communication involved with proper, professional, fun, and stimulating bondage play. If you're wondering about Episode #112 that episode was too visual for an audio podcast. We suggest heading to our site for that one.
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Corporal Punishment with Daddy An Li & Elori

July 7, 2022 • 34 mins
In this episode of Extreme Restraints University, guests Daddy An Li and Elori join Ian Rath and Aiden Starr to teach and talk about Impact Play and Corporal Punishment! You can enjoy Aiden, Ian, Elori or An Li nerding out about the science of beating up the body with different toys and enjoy the combined experience and wisdom from all four of them.
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What’s In Our Play Bag w/ Bella Rolland

June 1, 2022 • 32 mins
As people start meeting up via FetLife and munches again, dungeons, playspaces and parties bring us back to planning for fun and kinky nights. Preparing for the best scenario while also being cautious and careful is part of building a perfectly curated Play Bag.
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The Travel Show w/ Page Owens

May 2, 2022 • 23 mins
This week on XR University we tune in to Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their gorgeous and entertaining guest Paige Owens as they talk about the hot topic that’s on everyone’s minds since restrictions have been lifted: travel!
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Fantasy and Reality w/ Izzy Lush

April 4, 2022 • 26 mins
As the world starts to open up, our “proverted” hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath (joined by Izzy Lush) help the audience understand how to be professional when trying new things.
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E-Stim Play w/ Electra Rayne

March 1, 2022 • 22 mins
Get ready to get shocked, or at least surprised, at how fun and pleasurable E-stim can be! Ian and Aiden bring first time guest Electra Rayne into the studio.
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Communication & Valentine’s Day w/ Alexia Anders

February 1, 2022 • 27 mins
In this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by the lovely Alexia Anders to discuss how to use Valentine's Day as a springboard to better sex.
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The New Year’s Show with Maya Woulfe

January 3, 2022 • 31 mins
Ian and Aiden are joined by Maya Woulfe to discuss your sexy new year's resolutions.
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Squirting with Vanessa Vega

December 1, 2021 • 23 mins
Our hosts Ian and Aiden are joined by Vanessa Vega to discuss a sexual technique known as squirting.
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Prostates & Pegging with Ruckus

November 5, 2021 • 38 mins
This month, Ian and Aiden are joined by Ruckus, to discuss both the prostate and pegging play. While we have a male guest to help demonstrate various types of play this episode is for anyone who identifies with having a prostate, and wants to discover new ways to stimulate it.
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Butt Plugs & Booty Sparks with Kira Noir

September 30, 2021 • 32 mins
Ian, Aiden, and special guest Kira Noir discuss and demonstrate Booty Sparks, a unique line of anal toys that include decorated gems, and flashing lights.
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The FemDom Show with Mistress An Li

September 1, 2021 • 48 mins
Join Ian, Aiden, and Mistress An Li, as they discuss and demonstrate the practice of FemDom, or female domination. It includes impact and chastity play.
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Don’t Be Afraid of Sex Toys! with Casey Calvert and Brooklyn Gray

August 4, 2021 • 70 mins
Join Ian Rath, Casey Calvert, and Brooklyn Gray as they discuss how both women and men can introduce sex toys, and other bits of play, into your sexual routine.
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Kinky Dating with Casey Calvert & Kira Noir

June 14, 2021 • 70 mins
Get kinky dating tips from Casey Calvert and Kira Noir as they both speak with Ian Rath about kinky dating and how to find a kinky partner.
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Erectile Dysfunction with Whitney Wright

May 4, 2021 • 48 mins
Erectile Dysfunction, a common condition, affects around 3 million men per year, in the United States. Learn what to do from Ian, Aiden and Whitney.
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