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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, the golcast community page.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
We've been friends with these guys for so many years
and we appreciate every rejected post that they sent through
to us, So thank you very much. Yes, admir Don
sent this through with a little saying on it, this
one's perfect.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
And I went, oh, send it through.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Here we go. Confession time, friends. I've been seeing someone
for six months and things are going great, except I've
noticed the tiniest hint of rudeness, just a smidge. Now,
I'm a big believer in one rule. Treat the cleaner,
the CEO, and the weight staff with the same kindness.
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It's how my mum raised me. So here's my dilemma.
Would it be evil, genius or pure chaos if I
took them to a restaurant known for horrible service just
to see how they behave? Am I testing them? Or
am I setting a trap? Is it ethical setting a
trap to see how they treat people? Before I pop
the question? Be honest, what would you do? Have you
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ever low key tested a partner like that? Please help
me decide if this is okay. Thank you for posting
so a hint of rudeness.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Well, when you're going out with someone you're kind of
low key testing by you know, dating, by introducing in
to your friends, like you've got your close mates. If
they're the sort of person that sits back and yeah,
you know, go forward and have a chat to your mates. Yeah,
obviously they're not going to be the person for you. Yeah,
but yeah, it's it's I would do that. You'd send
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them into rest to see how they act and then
you get a good gest on what their personalitilyt is
like if they're going to be rude to some of them,
why would you?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
But the thing is they've already noticed it.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
So it's the tiniest hint of rudeness, which means if
they're putting I reckon, it's failed. From the moment that
they started thinking about this, I think they want to
I think they want to actually make it end.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Yes, because why would you?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Although are they hoping they're wrong? That's true, and to
take them in there and they'd be amazing.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Yeah, then you go, okay, well maybe I will pop
the question.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Yeah, maybe it was an off day. You just don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I've ended friendships because of people were rude to other
people that were like we went out like friends just
you know, a couple of girlfriends and there was this
one girl who was incredibly rude too. I think we
went to the movies and I was like, I'm too embarrassed.
That's just horrible because I think it's like it's yeah,
it's one of those things.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
It's such a simple thing.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Yeah, but that's what it is if they're a little
bit of a personality. I was friends with like a guy,
and then when we all went out as the group,
I thought this would be good. But they just as
soon as they had a couple of drinks, just in
a different situation, Yeah, they just started acting like a moron.
So the going more just I don't know, you don't
suffer fault trying to just yeah, grab all the attention.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
I'm going I just sit there, just a drink and
you'll be Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
It is funny though, when you even with a friendship
where you do take that step, like you realize that
you've taken a step in that friendship where you've gone
from just like you introduce them to your friends.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
So this could actually be a friendship thing as well.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Just don't use the excuse I've moved.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Does it not work?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Especially when they see yeah, and your.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Face is on the side of the bus Olivia from
Piper mar What do you think?
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Well, I have one big question to the person who
wanted to post this. How long have you been dating
this person?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
For?
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Yes, if you've been dating them, are long enough to
consider popping the question? Maybe you might know why the
bang route and the best words I have they had
a bad date work or but someone doesn't exist them off?
Are they potentially on the mental cycles?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Well that's it. I did actually realize what I was saying.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
It they've been together for six months and he's thinking
about popping the question after six months?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Yeah, I can't talk. We've got engaged after three.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Why are you thinking of popping the question in sixt month?
That's a that's another question. Yeah, that's a bit quick
because that's still the honeymoon phrase.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
How long is a honeymoon are supposed to go for?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Well, I that it goes through roughly a year and
at least one bad thing in someone's life.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Okay, so they haven't.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Heard the year yet and you haven't gone through something
bad in the one person in the partnership's life. And
how do you really know you want to be with him,
because if you can't deal with something like a death
or like a massive blogumn.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Or service, do you know you can be.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
With the long term?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Very Olivia. We're not used to people making sense like that,
especially from this time with Moira and
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Tomorrow.