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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hey, it's Delilah. Thank you for stopping by. I have
put together some of my favorite radio moments here to
share with you on our daily podcast. For the last
several years, I have been blessed to spend my life
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with mister Wright. Before that, I had hooked up with
mister Cheater. Cheater where jameter, mister wrong, mister Wright, but
not the right time? Are you looking for the right one?
We're going to hear some wonderful phone calls from folks
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who are searching for their lifetime love. Stay tuned for
that coming up next. Hello, thank you for calling the
Delilah Show. Who is this Chris So?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Who is on your heart tonight?
Speaker 3 (01:01):
All right? Now, I'm looking for that special girl in
my life. I've been out of a relationship for about
five years and I'm fully trying to get back into
the dating scene and try to find that special girl
that will make me happy.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
And where are you looking for, miss Wonderful? What are
you doing to make Here's.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
A present food section over at County Market.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
That's a place to look. She probably likes food, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Yeah, all right, so let's explore this a little bit more.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
How old are you I am fifty two fifty two.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So you've already been down in a couple of paths
and probably found out what you don't want in a partner.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
But tell me what you do want in a partner.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Someone that's honis has a strong faith, career, job, stable family,
something like that.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
So good jobs, strong faith. What does her personality look
like though?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Is she quiet and shy and has a big heart,
a lovable heart, good sense of humor, big heart. These
are all good things.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yeah, I would say that just about describes probably three
quarters of the women who listen to my show.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
I hope you don't have to wait too long. You
have a great night, Teresa. Thank you for being so patient.
This is Delilah. You're welcome.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I'm good? What can I do for you?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Well, first of all, I want to say I love
your show. I think you're very inspirational, and your faith
in God always keeps my faith growing.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Well, thank you. Now that's a sweet compliment.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
But the thing is right now, I feel like God
is in here in my prayers. I'm thirty two years
old and I've been without a relationship for six or
seven years, which is okay. I've been fine I'm very independent,
and I'm.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
You're ready, Yeah, you're ready for him to send that
right one year?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Way right?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
And then I think my standards are too high and
I don't know. Sometimes I'm just like, well maybe I
don't know. So then I keep praying and.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Well it depends. What are your standards? What are you
looking for?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Someone that doesn't smoke, has a good job, I'd work,
I'm like children, loves children, great sense of humor, family oriented.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Well, those are great standards. But if you would put
one other thing before all of that, Yeah, somebody who
loves God and has a strong faith like you do, right,
then all the rest will fall into place.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Right, don't you think?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
So if I were you, I'd just be saying, okay, God,
you know who I need. You know who the right
person would be to fit with my personality, and anytime
would be a good time.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Until then, I'm just gonna be patient. Do you see
how patient I am? And He'll bring the right man
into your life.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Yeah you think so.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Well, here's what I believe, Teresa, and a lot of
people disagree with me, but this is what I believe.
God didn't create everyone to be married. Some people are
not meant to marry right, completely and totally content to
be single.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
And that's good. That's great.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
They can live fulfilled, wonderful lives without all the obligations
and responsibilities of a partner. However, if you have the
desire in your heart to be intimately connected with a person,
to be one with another person, that desire came from God.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
All right, that sounds good. I needed some kind of
inspirational message.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Nancy, What can I do for you tonight?
Speaker 5 (04:46):
I'm wanting to share greetings with a friend that changed
my life about four years ago. We met each other
at the ripe old age of fifty eight, and we've
lost touch this past few months. It's been six months
since I've heard from him. So it's kind of heartbreaking,
even at this stage in my life, to have met
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somebody so wonderful and then to lose track.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
So, okay, how did you lose this person?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Well, he had some business commitments that he had to
take care of and left the area where we are,
and although I've seen him a couple of times over
the last four years, in the last six months, I
haven't heard from him. One of the last messages I
got was something about computer breaking down, which is entirely possible.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Okay, girlfriend, Yes, I want you to do me a favor.
What's that Get the book. He's just not that into you.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
Uh Oh okay, okay.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
I had read this book twenty years ago. Oh the
heartbreak it would have saved me. I'm like, duh, why
didn't I know this stuff? But do not waste.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Another hour of your day staring at the phone or
looking at the computer waiting for a note.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Oh I've gotten passed that part.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Oh good, good, Because you know what, it's far better
to be alone and not be lonely than to be
kind of in a relationship with somebody and not know
where you stand and wonder what they think or.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Feel forget that.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
Yes, I agree, all right, you have a good night.
It's so great talking to you.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Hi, Gabe.
Speaker 7 (06:31):
What can I do for you something? Maybe you could
play a song for me. I'm a single guy out
here and I've had two failed marriages looking for that
special someone out there, you know what I mean. I've had,
like I said, I've had two bad marriages. I just
it seems like, you know, I can't really find that
right person, and it just seems like no hope for
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me or someone feels like I'm going to be single
for the rest of my life and I just feel
like there's nothing here for me anymore. I just feel like,
you know, I want to back up and move somewhere else,
you know, maybe start a fresh life.
Speaker 8 (07:05):
Yeah, but wherever you go, there you are, and the
sadness that you're feeling, and the loneliness and the emptiness
isn't going to change just because you change where you live.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
See.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
The thing is, if you go out looking for love,
you're going to find another broken person. But if you
go out looking for life and living life fully, doing
the things you love, things that you're passionate about, then
you're going to find like minded people who are into
the same sort of thing you're into. And one of
those people might be missus.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Right.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
You're right, but looking for.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Love isn't going to work. You've proven that. I've proven that.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
So instead of looking for love, look for life and
live it fully. And as you do that, you will
find a multitude of people to be friends with, and
you may find a special woman to be in love with.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
You're absolutely right, so hopefully things will work out. I
appreciate it. Alilah, Thank you.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
You have a great night. I so hope you have
enjoyed these radio moments as much as I enjoy bringing
them to you. I'll share more with you
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Each weekday on Hey It's Delilah.