Modern Anarchy

Modern Anarchy

Hosted by Dr. Nicole, a queer, non-monogamous clinical psychotherapist, Modern Anarchy is a living exploration of what becomes possible when we liberate our collective pleasure. The show brings together activists, therapists, and researchers from around the world for vulnerable conversations about sex, relationships, and pleasure liberation psychology. Are you ready to learn more about your pleasure? New episodes every Wednesday. Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com

Episodes

October 28, 2026 • 82 mins

On today’s episode, we have Brandon (he/they) join us for a conversation about building the skills to confidently communicate our desires. Together we talk about queering surrogate partner therapy, your sexual boundaries bring you into closer connection, and expanding our window of capacity for pleasure.

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On today’s episode, we have Dr. Nazanin (she/her) join us for a conversation about rewriting your sexual scripts. Together we talk about giggling during sex, embracing our kinky parts, and fine tuning your sexual palette.

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On today’s episode, we have Mike (he/any) join us for a conversation about the  cultural paradigm shift of ethical sluthood. Together we talk about the transformative joy of snuggle piles, getting off the sex escalator, and our non-monogamous mistakes along the way.

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On today’s episode, we have Laura (she/her) join us for a conversation about creatively designing authentic relationship structures. Together we talk about needing flexibility in relationships, when compersion is not easily accessible, and community building across varying levels of experience in non-monogamy.

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On today’s episode, we have Dr. Baddie (she/her) join us for a conversation about the lifelong practice of erotic liberation. Together we talk about the joy of platonic life partners, the unconsciousness impact of labels, and expanding our capacity for conflict resolution.

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On today’s episode, we have Miss Adah Von (she/her) join us for a conversation about expanding our communities of care. Together we talk about underground foot parties, getting beyond prescriptive labels, and being a fan of gossip.

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On today’s episode, we have Ryan (she/they) join us for a conversation about the messy and oh so human journey of expansive relating. Together we talk about the resilience that comes with healing from trauma, knitting in the dungeon, and the power of vulnerability.

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On today’s episode, we have Jordan (she/they) join us for a conversation about learning to release control. Together we talk about slowing down to savor, continued-care, and celebrating your growth story.

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On today’s episode, we have Laura (they/them) join us for a conversation all about the continued practice of being in your aliveness. Together we talk about orgasms as prayer, playing on psychedelics, and the liberatory practice of learning to apologize.

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On today’s episode, we have Ken (he/they) join us for a conversation about all the mistakes that were made along the way. Together we talk about releasing shame through conversation, coming out as polyamorous to your kids, and what makes the difficulty of non-monogamy worthwhile.

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On today’s episode, we have Dr. Eli (she/her) join us for a conversation about the contemporary research on non-monogamy. Together we talk about infidelity stats, when the threesome doesn’t live up to reality, and creatively designing your non-monogamy.

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On today’s episode, we have Jason (he/him) join us for a conversation about tapping into pleasure during these complex times. Together we talk about prioritizing time for sexual pleasure as new parents, when your therapist is at the sex party, and showing up for our local communities.

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On today’s episode, we have Kayla (she/they) join us for a conversation all about reclaiming erotic sovereignty. Together we talk about integrity within power dynamics, reconnecting with your intuition, and the transformation of being witnessed in community.

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On today’s episode, we have Elmo Painter (she/her) join us for a conversation about the evolution of the erotic. Together we talk about being in caterpillar soup, sex magic rituals, and embracing the question marks.

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On today’s episode we have Coco (she/her) join us for an conversation all about erotic authenticity. Together we talk about coming out later in life, finding belonging within ourselves, and doing the scary thing anyways because discomfort is part of the process.

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On today’s episode, we have Cash (they/them) join us for a conversation about reprocessing trauma and savoring your pleasure. Together we talk about queering the field of psychology, the power of dance, and being devoted to nature.

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On today’s episode, we have Amber (she/they) join us for a conversation all about being a messy, real human on their pleasure journey. Together we talk about pleasure mapping, vulnerably cracking your heart open, and the breath of a good orgasm.

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On today’s episode, we have Karen (she/they) join us for a conversation about healing in relationships. Together we talk about actually feeling your trauma, the language of pleasure, and becoming present with yourself.

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On today’s episode, we have Empress Wu join us for a conversation exploring the psychological edge of power exchange. Together we talk about finding other cuckoo bitches, nutting off mic, and the politics of the taboo.

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On today’s episode, we have August (she/her) join us for a conversation about healing through self-pleasure. Together we talk about, girl boners, fantasy brunches, and being turned on by your creativity.

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