Modern Anarchy

Modern Anarchy

Modern Anarchy is your weekly invitation to reclaim pleasure, sex, and desire as radical acts of collective liberation. Hosted by Queer Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist and Researcher trained in Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy, Dr. Nicole. She is the leading academic voice on non-monogamy and embodied pleasure. Modern Anarchy explores intimacy, erotic sovereignty, and healing through raw conversations with pleasure activists, artists, therapists, and rebels from around the world. Are you ready to dive in? Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com

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July 29, 2026 92 mins

On today’s episode, we have Elmo Painter (she/her) join us for a conversation about the evolution of the erotic. Together we talk about being in caterpillar soup, sex magic rituals, and embracing the question marks.

🔥Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy ⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-liberation-relationships-group⁠⁠⁠

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On today’s episode we have Coco (she/her) join us for an conversation all about erotic authenticity. Together we talk about coming out later in life, finding belonging within ourselves, and doing the scary thing anyways because discomfort is part of the process.

🔥Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy ⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-liberation-relationships-group⁠⁠⁠

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On today’s episode, we have Cash (they/them) join us for a conversation about reprocessing trauma and savoring your pleasure. Together we talk about queering the field of psychology, the power of dance, and being devoted to nature.

🔥Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy ⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-liberation-relationships-group⁠⁠⁠

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On today’s episode, we have Amber (she/they) join us for a conversation all about being a messy, real human on their pleasure journey. Together we talk about pleasure mapping, vulnerably cracking your heart open, and the breath of a good orgasm.

🔥Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy ⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-liberation-relationships-group⁠⁠

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On today’s episode, we have Karen (she/they) join us for a conversation about healing in relationships. Together we talk about actually feeling your trauma, the language of pleasure, and becoming present with yourself.

🔥Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-liberation-relationships-group⁠

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On today’s episode, we have Empress Wu join us for a conversation exploring the psychological edge of power exchange. Together we talk about finding other cuckoo bitches, nutting off mic, and the politics of the taboo.

🔥Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-liberation-relationships-group⁠

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On today’s episode, we have August (she/her) join us for a conversation about healing through self-pleasure. Together we talk about, girl boners, fantasy brunches, and being turned on by your creativity.

🔥Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-liberation-relationships-group⁠

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On today’s episode, we have Dean (he/him) join us for a conversation about radical community building. Together we talk about dismantling the romance myth, NRE safety planning, and curiosity over campaigning.

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On today’s episode, we have Jess (she/her) join us for a conversation about normalizing the full range of the human existence. Together we talk about embracing the surrender of orgasm, learning to trust your intuition, and freeing the sounds of the body.

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On today’s episode, we have Aaron (he/they) join us for a conversation about the sexual tension between safety and risk. Together we talk about following your erotic compass, the existential obstacle of isolation, and cumming to our life intentions.

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On today’s episode we have Justine (she/her) join us for a conversation about the adult word, pleasure. Together we talk about how sex education differs across the states, when receiving pleasure is difficult, and moving through miscarriage.

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On today’s episode we have Gili (they/them) join us for a conversation all about the language of desires. Together we talk about the power of curiosity, learning to meetyourself, and embracing the gray space.

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On today’s episode we have Michelle (she/her) join us for a conversation all about how these current systems are impacting our access to eroticism. Together we talk about cuckholding your jealousy, the sexiness of respecting others’ autonomy, and being an ethical slut.

Queer Joy: Psychedelic Therapy Group: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/queerpsychedelictherapy

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On today’s episode we have Ewan join us for a conversation unpacking the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about non-attachment with jealousy, embracing the obstacle, and the journey of connecting with your authentic self.

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On today’s episode we have Liam Wignall (he/him) join us for a conversation about the transformative power of community. Together we talk about an evolutionary perspective on non-monogamy, what happens when you see your therapist at a dungeon, and the ethics of privacy vs transparency in non-monogamy.

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I LOVE YOU, DEAR LISTENER! Here's to a lifetime of learning, unlearning, and learning together.

Special thanks to my dear friend, Dr. Lydia. I couldn't do this work without your loving support, laughter, tears, and companionship along the way. I love you, dearly.

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On Today’s episode we have Jane (she/her) join us for a conversation all about liberating our communities and stepping into empowered pleasure. Together we talk about the bravery to be curious, integrating the wisdom of a dominatrix, and doing the lord’s work of pleasure liberation.

💙Free Queering Psychedelics: Set, Setting, and Sacred Joy in Queer Community Workshop ⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/event-detail...

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On today’s episode, we have Dr. Jen (she/her) join us for a conversation about building the courage and skills needed to talk about sexual pleasure. Together we talk about expanding our comfort zone, habituation in long term relationships,  and cross cultural sex education.

💙Free Queering Psychedelics: Set, Setting, and Sacred Joy in Queer Community Workshop ⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/event-details/queering-...

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On today’s episode, we have Mel (they/them) join us for a conversation about building anarchoqueer communities. Together we talk about having an orgy with the universe, joy as a form of resistance, and releasing demons one orgasm at a time.

💙Free Queering Psychedelics: Set, Setting, and Sacred Joy in Queer Community Workshop ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/event-details/queering-psychedelics-set-setting-sacred-joy-in-qu...

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On today’s episode, we have Melissa (she/her) join us for a conversation about aligning your sex life and your politics. Together we talk about decentering men, being witnessed in peak orgasm, and burning down the word foreplay.

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