July 21, 2025 • 28 mins
Ok, Lala and Chloe lighten things up with a slowed-down lightning round! Chloe dishes on her ideal first date, how to score bonus points on said date, and whether she’s ghosting or been ghosted! She talks reality TV, sex on TV, DMs, must-have beauty products, fillers and botox, and fluorescent lighting!
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Speaker 1 (00:06):
Hello, my love, Welcome to the bonus episode and give
them a La podcast. I'm here with Chloe V. Hello, gorgeous,
Hello gorgeous. So we're gonna keep it light. This is
just gonna be a bonus of like lightning round questions.
I had a close friend on and I'm like, this
is lightning round, bro, Like this is the slowest, but
luckily it's a bonus, So take your time, Okay, okay.
(00:27):
Ideal first date just.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Like the Lave Island finale on about fireworks, snorkeling, tanning
in the sun, eating chalc heatory boards until I'm bloated.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Can I ask you, though, where do you go from there?
If that's the first date? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
First day?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Yeah, first date? What is an ideal first.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I didn't like just a date in general, but that
is I don't like dinners.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Really, you more of an activity girl.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I don't want to spend two hours getting my day
and then worrying about how my hair and makeup looks.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
And then I want you to save me at my
worst reading on the first day. So would you prefer
that it's like just come over and kick it, or
like let's go on a hike.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I would say jump in my car.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Okay, we'll drive to Taco Bell so fun, fast out
in the car, kick off mee up, listen to some music,
go for each other's playlists, look at the moon and stars,
and read each other's a strategy shots.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
And then I'm gonna say if I like you or not,
because if we can't have a conversation, you're not blowing
my back out.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
And you're not blowing my back out either. That's for
damn sure. I love that.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I thoroughly enjoy having my Instagram be so like because
I don't get ready a lot these days. So if
someone sees me, if they're like, hey, I want to
set you up. Here's our instagram, you're seeing me at
my worst.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Love it literally, and then you're a bumshell when you walk.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
In and they're like, oh fuck. One thing someone can
do on a first day eight for instant bonus points.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Well, okay, they do on a first date in some
bonus points for.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Me, I would be asking about my kids taking an
interest okay, acknowledging the fact that I have because if
you can't do that on like, this isn't going anywhere
ever at all, So why am I here.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
Yeah, yeah, I respect that.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Like, so as a single person bonus points, what can
they do? I think definitely opening my door at not car,
just the door into where we're going.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
I think yeah, But then I feel like, now it's
can I even have a conversation with you?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Like the bonus point would be them making me laugh.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Oh that's a big one.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
But then would that be basic?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
No? I don't think that's basic at all because my
parents were together for just shy of forty years before
my dad passed away, so they were like, thank you,
they were very much together. I asked my mom, because
you don't see relationships that last like that, I said,
how did you know that, like my dad was going
to be your forever? And she said, your dad always
(03:07):
made me laugh?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Yeah wow, So that's not basic at all. That's actually
the key to like long lasting love. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Ghosted or Ben ghosted both for you, both for me.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I mean, I ghost you ghost people?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Oh kloud, Your twenty six is showing I know you've
never been ghosted. No, of course you haven't looked at
to be honest, ghost you.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
I think it's because I pick up on the intuition
before then I got them.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
It's it's like a premeditated ghost like pre ejaculation, Like
I can kind of see they're getting soft, so.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Then I pull away.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Wow, you beat them to the punch.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Yep, toxic red flag. So on.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
A couple of weeks ago, I did a bonus where
we were talking about spring fleeings and fails, and there
was this guy who I won't bore you with the
whole and my listeners have heard it, but I will
say so, we had been hanging out, going out with
each other, like dating, right, and I'm at his house
and he says to me, I'd like you to start
(04:17):
spending the night, like when you don't have your daughter,
And she said her dad's you should stay here, and
I said, I don't feel comfortable doing that because I
get really attached. Yeah, never heard from him again. Isn't
that fucking crazy?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Hey just wanted to buy you back out?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
He certainly did. He left me with that, so he didn't.
I didn't.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Congratulations though, imagine being stuck in that relationship level.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Go Yeah, and you know what the red flag should
have been the fact that he had fluorescent lighting?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
What's that?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
The worst kind of lighting for anybody. You could be
like Kim Kardashian and still be looking rough.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Oh now you've given me a new No, I don't
we have an I think we've turned them off.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I'm gonna go in my boyfriend's house some face time.
You is this fluorescent light in?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah? He also told me he didn't. He walked everywhere.
That's why he didn't need a car. He told me, h, yeah,
I'm minimalists. Grow up. It's called you're broke as fun.
Grow up, grow up, grow up, dude. That's another reason
why I don't date. I'm like, my picker is so off,
like I'm just attracting.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
I'm taking you out, please do.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Like, where does one even go? You would know, though,
because you just moved to La like a year ago,
so you know, like all the fun new places.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Single spots, you know about them?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yeah, but are these like twelve year old tiktographs a
great place?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
What's it called the Desert five?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I don't even know what that is? Where is that?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
I'm gonna introduce you to. Desert five is in West Hollywood.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
It's full of cowboys, Southern boys, okay, men, grown men.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Yep, calling Mace clipping my hair and putting my tits up.
Let's fucking yeh y hah. Save a horse, ride a cowboy.
I've never ridden a cowboy before you will. I will
after you take me out. Favorite way to spend a
girls night in.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
On the sofa with Duvets, chocolates, baking brownies, watching Love
Island or something.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
It's just perfect for me.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Game night, love a game night? What's your go to game?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
You know? Love it easy?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
You can play four plus ten, you fall out, you
make up straight back after.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I love this. Do you like all reality shows or
are you into more of like the competition based ones.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
I love the loved ones like Love is Blind.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
He is one of my favorites. Love on the Spectrum
is my own. Come on, it doesn't get better than
Love on the Spectrum. Do you watch the Bachelor? No Bachelorette?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
No? Okay, neither do I and I've never seen Love
Island either?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Oh really?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
This season?
Speaker 1 (06:56):
I'd like that. Oh I heard it was fantastic, incredible.
Though it's a lot going on, like four nights a week.
You got to really be available, right You can watch
it on catch up.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
I mean, I haven't been sleeping I've adjusted my sleep
schedule to make sure that I watch level.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
I see that you watch it. Yeah, that makes me
so happy. I love that. I love being so into
a show. That's how I was with Thrones, where I
would like adjust my sleep schedule.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
To watch it.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
One thing you'd never do on camera again?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
One thing I would never do on camera again. I
would run it back and do it all over again. Really, yeah,
you wouldn't change the thing. No, I don't think I would.
I've never had sex on TV.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Well that's good.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
That would be my only because my family and everything else.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
So like when they too hot to handle, do you
guys go into a room at any point where it's
like you get to uh, like I think on Love
Island they go to where they so hide away, hide away, Yeah, justddle,
just cuddle.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
There was one time that I forgot I was miked
and I met a guy at this bar and they
like caught me on camera like talking to him or whatever.
And we pull up to the house and with my
friend and cameras are inside and I didn't think our
mics would pick up because we were outside in the car,
And I was like, I'm gonna call him to come
(08:25):
over and they heard me, and I was like, fuck that,
I am not doing this. They were like, okay, just
like we'll have you guys talking here and then you
guys can go upstairs and close the door and just
like then we'll leave. Okay, And I the same thing.
I don't know how you were on a show like that,
because I get so awkward. Yeah, when someone's filming you
(08:48):
talking to it's like, oh god, right, yeah, like you
got to make sure your game is on point.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
I know, and then you open yourself up to criticism.
Oh gosh, she's not funny.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Did you have them little cameras or did you have
the men behind the cameras holding the camera like handheld
the big big daddies and then I was an older
guy behind the camera.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Yeah, sometimes it makes it feel bit weird.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
I'm like, oh God, I'm literally on bed in the
bed with someone kissing them and I've got bloody Steve
over here, bloody in the corner on one knee, really
trying to get the zoom in shot of I's tongue
in and I'm.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Like, I feel physically sick. I do, I don't, but
I also don't even want to see that stuff on TV. Like,
the one thing I will say about filming the show
that I was on was it was kind of the
same production since I entered. Yeah, so I felt comfortable
with Steve. Yeah, filming love Steve, you know, and Steve
(09:50):
would have my back. Yeah, don't get the zoom in.
But like, what's worse them criticizing me or criticizing the
person that I'm like, he's so hot. I don't know.
I don't know what's worse. It's all just very and
then to think about, like, oh so it's like around
forever when you have kids. One day they're gonna be
(10:12):
able to watch too hard to handle? Oh no, and Google,
I know, trust me, these are the things they keep
me up.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
And I haven't even thought about that.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah, oh no, worst DM you've ever received, worst DM
I've ever received? Know what?
Speaker 2 (10:30):
It's funny, I don't know if it's my worst someone
just calling me out for having no ass.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
They do it all the fucking time. They I mean,
you don't have a bum. I'm like, I need to
go to the gym.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
But they're my motivation that they keep me determined to
grow a bum and go to the gym.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
You know what, though, the way clothes hang on you
is really nice. And when I say hang, I don't
don't mean like they're hanging on you because you have
no lass, but I mean, like, you know, like someone's frame.
It's like there are certain things I can't wear because
I'm like, it doesn't hang on me the correct way. Yeah,
like I couldn't wear what you're wearing right now because
it wouldn't fall properly.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
Oh, thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
And you have boobs so fake? Oh so are mine.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
I was eighteen, I was like, okay, I'm sick of
looking like a boy. You know, double a boobs, no bum,
skinny like a stick.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
I'm really tall. They used to call me lanky in
my school. That's not that bad.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
How tall are you?
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Five ten?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Oh you're so lucky. Did you model? Yeah for a
few years. Yeah, I us the tattoos and rebelled. You're like, fuck,
there's fake tits and tattoos. Yes, I'm done with.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
It, fake teeth, fake kits. I'm gonna go into it.
Entertain you it be a reality TV star.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Are your tooth fake?
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:53):
They are good? Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Most people come out looking like wow, you know those
little like wind up teeth. Yeah, top and bottom, yelling
them Wow, I'm impressed, thank you, they're so good.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
The mad Yeah, have you ever wake?
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Like? Sometimes my lips make people mad? Why stop fucking
injecting your lips? I'm like, why do you care?
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Something that's so nice and plump.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
And I haven't had them injected in a while. Thanks.
But I kind of want fake teeth because what happens
with mine is they get narrow towards the back, fake teeth,
so it looks like I only have four night all right,
m m, I don't have any teeth left. Oh they
Oh so they're.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Like down to the night and shaved them. Babe.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Fuck were you asleep?
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Irreversible?
Speaker 2 (12:45):
Fuck?
Speaker 3 (12:45):
No, was I asleep? I was awake air and all
the toes and oh my gosh, oh it was horrible.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
I would have passed out.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
What happens if one of those pops off and you
just got a fly to Turkey and get redone?
Speaker 1 (12:56):
You went to Turkey? Yeah, that's where I want to
get my hairlined done. It is the well I have
postpartum hair right now, but I'm like, I want like
a perfect hairline. Oh okay.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
Some people take their pubes and put them on their
hairdline and bald. Baby, how would you get them from.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
The hair they slice the back of your.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Head, remove it from satin pop?
Speaker 1 (13:21):
No, I got my cookie lasers, so there ain't nothing
down there. I'm like mister Bigglesworth.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
I need to get that.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, I don't know. I heard the bushes coming back,
so maybe I guess. Depending on who I sleep with,
they may be really signed Spike.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Spike spce like that film Spike Butch How to Tend.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
The Pants Off. But it's just pure Spike. I fucking
love you.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
You're fun. I think you're hilarious. Most ridiculous dating advice
you've ever been given.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Don't ever have sex on the first date.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
That is so ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I'll do what I want.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I'll do what I want and by the way, has
nothing to do with it if it works out or
does it exactly right. Yeah, that's great. I love that.
That's the worst advice. I love it. Guilty Pleasure TV show?
Oh what is a Guilty Pleasure reactor? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
I don't really I would say that love Island or something.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
No, Yeah, because I mean, I spend so much of
my time during the watching it, I don't get any
of my own work done, so I feel guilty.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
But it's a pleasure.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Who do you think should have won?
Speaker 3 (14:31):
I think the people that did win am I And
were they.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
An actual couple? Like authentic?
Speaker 2 (14:37):
They were an authentic couple. He was a bombshell and
then she cut it off with Zack. Thank god her
and Brian got together. I don't think I reached some pepe.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
They were a couple.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Yeah, I just I just don't know, okay about them.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
It's her name Maya, that one a Maya. And then
how did you feel about is it?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
Hoodah hohodah?
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Yeah? Did you like her? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:07):
She was super relatable. I think she will definitely.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
I mean even her family came in and was like,
you should have shut your mouth in a few scenes.
She's aware, she knows she crashed out, she knows she
was putting uncomfortable situations and she probably shouldn't have had
the way that she did.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Yeah, but she's on TV.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Millions of people are watching the pressure out of her
being mugged off on TV, being chosen, not being chosen,
being put in like.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
Situations where it's abnormal.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Yeah, you're with someone you've been sleeping in the same bed,
you've slept with them, and then all of a sudden,
bombshows come in and they have to kiss the bombshells
in a challenge. That's my man. In the outside world,
it would never work.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
I would never do it. I would kick off.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
I would, well, yeah, I would.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
There's no way.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
So the bombshells are people who come in after everyone's coupled.
That's what a bombshell trying step aright. Yeah, I know
it sounds like a heartbreaking show. Why not Hearts Get Broken? Okay,
did you vote? Are you a voter?
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Wow? Because they probably make it easy, right.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
You just text, you just tap it.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
It's like an app downloaded. You just send your notifications,
keep you updated.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
You press it.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Well, that's why people are so obsessed. It's like a
game that everyone gets to play. Oh, I'm watching next season.
You bet your fucking ass, I'm watching next season. What's
your toxic trait in the group chat? Example, responding to
everything with a heart emoji, not responding because you're a ghoster.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
I just don't have time.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
I get overwhelmed. Everyone knows I'm a bad text or
if you have something to say, call me on the
phone real.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Quick, by ice, timmy.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
Yep, let's get it done. I don't need to back
and forth with this shit.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Yep, exactly the same.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
Yeah, I would say, you know what, that's a that's
a toxic trait. Another one I love muting.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
I mute it and I'm like, shit, there's like a
thousand miss read. And then I see my friends are like, oh,
you come into ibifah, and I'm like.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
I didn't even realize that we were going.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Yeah, and do you go no, yeah, should be there
right now.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Oh, you'd much rather be here only give them all
podcast obviously. How many unread text messages do you have
on your phone right now?
Speaker 3 (17:20):
Not as much as my emails both so texts.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
I have five hundred and sixty unread okay, emails, I've
got fifteen four hundred and ten Oh my god, yeah,
I got thirty three missed calls.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Okay, I have four hundred and fifty missed calls and
probably and voicemails that's a mis called voicemail. And then
I have seven hundred and seven hundred and twelve texts,
probably because they're the muted ones. Wow, And I only
have thirteen emails. I took the entire flight from JFK
(17:58):
to Lax and delete emails the entire way. Wow, when
I tell you, my vision was pretty fucked up. By
the time we landed, I could like barely see. I
was like, I'm never doing that much screen time ever again.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
You need to teach people how to have that level
of determination to do that.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Because that's a skill, Babe. You should put that on
your fucking resume, in your Tinder bio, in your hot ry,
our higher hinshit.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
I feel like that would be something on a resume that,
like a large corporation would hire me to.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
Deal wife material.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Thank you, it's actually very nice. You're giving a Ted
talk called how to survive a Sneaky Link? What's your
opening line?
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Every single one of you little fuckers has how to
sneaky link.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Don't try and deny it. There are multiple levels of
having and being a sneaky link.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
And today I'm going to divulge into every little crevice.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
So we're on the signe bite ooh.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
I love it. All business as well, yeah, and I
feel very exposed. It's a Ted talk, Yeah, that has
to be business, not it's all business. Yeah, ted talk
is very serious.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
My last question one big sister rule that you swear
by that would shock your younger self.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
What do you mean by big sister rule that do
you give?
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Don't you give advice on your thing? Like, let's say
I come to you about dating a first date? Okay,
first date? Okay, what was a rule that you had
if you had one?
Speaker 3 (19:39):
Okay, though I would give my younger self. Let me
think about that for a second.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Or that would shock your younger self.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
What can I think of one? Right now?
Speaker 1 (19:46):
Can I tell you one of mine?
Speaker 3 (19:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (19:49):
So I loved your like horrible advice someone giving you,
which was don't sleep with someone on the first date.
I have now told myself when you start dating, you
are not allowed to sleep with them until you know
that they're going to fit nicely because but not because
it will ruin anything, but because I get attached.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
If I were to tell my younger self, you're not
going to sleep with this person because you'll get attached,
my younger self would be like, fuck that attachment. We
don't even know what that is. Like we're here for
a good time, right, Yeah, Like there's so many things
that I don't know you would think that. Back then
I would it wouldn't be an issue. No, and now
(20:32):
it's an issue. Oh wow, crazy, that's a really good
one I have. I feel like if I had any
rules for my younger self, she wouldn't miss it anyway
because she's very no, I'm going to do it and
I'm going to figure it out. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
I think one rule that I would tell my younger
self would be it comes across quite quingy though I
want to hear it.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
You can't love anyone.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
You can't love anyone, and you're not going to be
able to know how to receive love if you do
not know who you are and what you want in
your life in a romantic partner.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
That doesn't sound cringey at all.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Because I was just like so codependent and I would
engulf myself in relationships and now I know, Oh I
didn't know who I was Philly.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Wow, you just blew my mind.
Speaker 3 (21:26):
So I would tell her to just like, have fun, babe.
But when do you feel like you.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Sat there and you were like, I feel like I
know myself enough to get into a romantic partnership.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
When I start to recognize patterns are changing. Okay, because
I can talk myself in and out of anything.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Isn't it wild how that works?
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (21:49):
Yeah, so I think when the patterns are repeating themselves, yeah,
I'm not exactly like where I want to be in
a relationship with my Whereas if I am actively trying
to seek curiosity in how I react in a relationship
and how he makes me feel, and seeing in my
body and being aware of my emotions, being able to
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communicate my emotions, it's like, oh, okay, Chloe knows how
to communicate her emotions. Chloe knows how to admit when
she's wrong in friendships. Chloe knows how to take responsibility
and accountability for not texting in the group chat and
apologize in So once I start to have like a
blueprint that I'm proud of and not guilty of in
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my friendship circles and my relationship circles, that's when I know, okay,
I kind of have like a sense of self.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Do you think that's a British thing coming in? Like
do you feel like women in America age or I
guess mature slower than women where you're from, Because I'm
telling you it's wild to hear you talk this way.
At twenty six.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
Oh my god, I love it.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
It's just you, or if it's just you, guys are
raised differently.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
I have no idea.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
I grew up on a counselor state. It was very
much do you know what what I think it is?
I went through a lot when I was younger. My
dad was a drunk, he was an alcoholic, went to
rehab a bunch of times. My brother died of an
overdose when I was fourteen. My auntie died six months
later of cancer, like when she was in her thirties.
My mum and dad were constantly everywhere. It was kind
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of I was being bullied at school. As I got older,
I would attach myself to toxic men and like, I've
had to learn the hard way. So I think just
through the struggles in what I've been through, I've had
to really think shit.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
So I for that or you know, yeah, I have
no idea.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
So you're going to attribute it to what you experienced at.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
A young age and wanting to yeah, I think so?
I think so.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
I mean I feel like if I didn't have any
of that happen, I wouldn't even want to know, right,
I would just lean in because babe, I've been toxic
as fuck.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
I think we all have it all our lives.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
And I've been that victim mentality of every You've done
everything to me, but you know you were just doing
it and I was just in your way, right, So
it happened to me at that time.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (24:19):
I do know what you mean? Yeah, yeah, see detaching
yourself from them, Okay, I think it might be a
you think. I think this is work that you've put
into yourself. I don't think it has to do with
where we come from. Okay, yeah, do you find American
women are more friendly? I've started watching Ladies of London
That's why you do you think American women are more
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bubbly than women from England? You're pretty bubbly though, I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
I think I haven't really seen a difference, really, Yeah,
I haven't seen a difference. It might be because I'm
in the entertainment industry, so like everyone that I see
has a personality. But I think what I've seen from
American women is they can be more bitchier. The gossip
culture is bigger out here in the UK. It's very
like I've got a problem. Come over here we're hashing
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it out.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
Oh, you's be great on like an ensemble, like a
reality TV show that's not a competition, but like Housewives exactly.
He's actually in thirty years. Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
I could never really couldn't. I don't think I could know.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Why do you think you couldn't do it?
Speaker 3 (25:33):
I wouldn't want to expose myself to that.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Oh toxic.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
Yeah, yeah, I'm trying not to be.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Your toxic traits would come out full force.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
Yeah. Do you watch Housewives? Have seen a few episodes.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
I love it, like selling Sunset, who's always drama.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
So okay, so you're a Netflix girl, Yeah, I love
that for you. Yeah, your show is on Netflix. You
say true to Netflix. It's like me and Bravo. I
watch all the Bravo shows. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
I think because I'm from London as well, we don't
have Peacock, Bravo or any of that.
Speaker 3 (26:05):
Wow, we don't have any of the Hulu.
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Yeah, and you just moved here to me.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
I don't know something that you guys have.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Okay, my last question because I want to know what
is your favorite like go to beauty Actually two things.
Your favorite go to beauty trend YEP whether it's makeup, skincare,
and your favorite thing to like do to your face.
If you do, you inject your face at all, not
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anymore are used to Okay, let's talk about that. You
would injected with filler in botax.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
Oh yeah, I had botox, cheek filler, lip filler, chin filler,
nose filler, jaw filler.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
And now you're over it.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
And I did not recognize myself. Really yep, look at
me on the circle type in clotheage the circle and
you will see a completely different that I. Honestly, my
dad cried, had an intervention and was like Chloe. It
was like the height of my diction as well, like
I was just small it and just I.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
Did the malady was on me.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
I was injecting everywhere and then didn't recognize, but didn't
recognize myself. Took the lashes off, dissolved all the filler,
and then now one of my lips is uneven.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
I just get it plumped. Yeah. I love getting my
lips done every now and again.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
Yeah. I love a nice pout. And then what your
go to when it comes to like, let's do makeup
and then skincare because your skin is like glass.
Speaker 3 (27:26):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Okay, the reason why my skin looks like glass is
because of my makeup settin spray. So I use Elf
jew Elf Dewy missed. It's a little blue bottle. It's tiny.
It's a fine spray. I couldn't ever go to anything else. Really,
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you have to pat it down. Sometimes it has oil
in it, so you basically do your makeup ad the powder.
Your face looks cake yep, whether you want the smooth
look or the dewy look. On the days I want dewey,
I coat my face in it. It's like oil and
it like smelts all your makeup together, and it's like, oh,
chef's kiss.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
And then all you do is part with the finger. Yeah, dude,
I'm getting it.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
And sometimes if it's too oily like it is right now,
like around my mouth, I'll just get a powder puff.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
And just I'm not getting oily at all. I'm buying it. Nope,
it's fantastic, do it. Thank you for doing the lightning
round and answering my beauty questions and then like literally
go and look at your face on the circle because
now I'm just very well, oh my human, and I'm
gonna buy the Elf Deuce Spray please do amazing. Thank
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you guys for listening to another bonus episode of To
Give Them All Podcast. I'm gonna catch you guys next week.
Bye bye,
Hello, my love, Welcome to the bonus episode and give
them a La podcast. I'm here with Chloe V. Hello, gorgeous,
Hello gorgeous. So we're gonna keep it light. This is
just gonna be a bonus of like lightning round questions.
I had a close friend on and I'm like, this
is lightning round, bro, Like this is the slowest, but
luckily it's a bonus, So take your time, Okay, okay.
(00:27):
Ideal first date just.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Like the Lave Island finale on about fireworks, snorkeling, tanning
in the sun, eating chalc heatory boards until I'm bloated.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Can I ask you, though, where do you go from there?
If that's the first date? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
First day?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Yeah, first date? What is an ideal first.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I didn't like just a date in general, but that
is I don't like dinners.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Really, you more of an activity girl.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I don't want to spend two hours getting my day
and then worrying about how my hair and makeup looks.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
And then I want you to save me at my
worst reading on the first day. So would you prefer
that it's like just come over and kick it, or
like let's go on a hike.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I would say jump in my car.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Okay, we'll drive to Taco Bell so fun, fast out
in the car, kick off mee up, listen to some music,
go for each other's playlists, look at the moon and stars,
and read each other's a strategy shots.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
And then I'm gonna say if I like you or not,
because if we can't have a conversation, you're not blowing
my back out.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
And you're not blowing my back out either. That's for
damn sure. I love that.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I thoroughly enjoy having my Instagram be so like because
I don't get ready a lot these days. So if
someone sees me, if they're like, hey, I want to
set you up. Here's our instagram, you're seeing me at
my worst.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Love it literally, and then you're a bumshell when you walk.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
In and they're like, oh fuck. One thing someone can
do on a first day eight for instant bonus points.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Well, okay, they do on a first date in some
bonus points for.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Me, I would be asking about my kids taking an
interest okay, acknowledging the fact that I have because if
you can't do that on like, this isn't going anywhere
ever at all, So why am I here.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
Yeah, yeah, I respect that.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Like, so as a single person bonus points, what can
they do? I think definitely opening my door at not car,
just the door into where we're going.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
I think yeah, But then I feel like, now it's
can I even have a conversation with you?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Like the bonus point would be them making me laugh.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Oh that's a big one.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
But then would that be basic?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
No? I don't think that's basic at all because my
parents were together for just shy of forty years before
my dad passed away, so they were like, thank you,
they were very much together. I asked my mom, because
you don't see relationships that last like that, I said,
how did you know that, like my dad was going
to be your forever? And she said, your dad always
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made me laugh?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Yeah wow, So that's not basic at all. That's actually
the key to like long lasting love. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Ghosted or Ben ghosted both for you, both for me.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I mean, I ghost you ghost people?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Oh kloud, Your twenty six is showing I know you've
never been ghosted. No, of course you haven't looked at
to be honest, ghost you.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
I think it's because I pick up on the intuition
before then I got them.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
It's it's like a premeditated ghost like pre ejaculation, Like
I can kind of see they're getting soft, so.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Then I pull away.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Wow, you beat them to the punch.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Yep, toxic red flag. So on.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
A couple of weeks ago, I did a bonus where
we were talking about spring fleeings and fails, and there
was this guy who I won't bore you with the
whole and my listeners have heard it, but I will
say so, we had been hanging out, going out with
each other, like dating, right, and I'm at his house
and he says to me, I'd like you to start
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spending the night, like when you don't have your daughter,
And she said her dad's you should stay here, and
I said, I don't feel comfortable doing that because I
get really attached. Yeah, never heard from him again. Isn't
that fucking crazy?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Hey just wanted to buy you back out?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
He certainly did. He left me with that, so he didn't.
I didn't.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Congratulations though, imagine being stuck in that relationship level.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Go Yeah, and you know what the red flag should
have been the fact that he had fluorescent lighting?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
What's that?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
The worst kind of lighting for anybody. You could be
like Kim Kardashian and still be looking rough.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Oh now you've given me a new No, I don't
we have an I think we've turned them off.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I'm gonna go in my boyfriend's house some face time.
You is this fluorescent light in?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah? He also told me he didn't. He walked everywhere.
That's why he didn't need a car. He told me, h, yeah,
I'm minimalists. Grow up. It's called you're broke as fun.
Grow up, grow up, grow up, dude. That's another reason
why I don't date. I'm like, my picker is so off,
like I'm just attracting.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
I'm taking you out, please do.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Like, where does one even go? You would know, though,
because you just moved to La like a year ago,
so you know, like all the fun new places.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Single spots, you know about them?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yeah, but are these like twelve year old tiktographs a
great place?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
What's it called the Desert five?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I don't even know what that is? Where is that?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
I'm gonna introduce you to. Desert five is in West Hollywood.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
It's full of cowboys, Southern boys, okay, men, grown men.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Yep, calling Mace clipping my hair and putting my tits up.
Let's fucking yeh y hah. Save a horse, ride a cowboy.
I've never ridden a cowboy before you will. I will
after you take me out. Favorite way to spend a
girls night in.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
On the sofa with Duvets, chocolates, baking brownies, watching Love
Island or something.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
It's just perfect for me.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Game night, love a game night? What's your go to game?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
You know? Love it easy?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
You can play four plus ten, you fall out, you
make up straight back after.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I love this. Do you like all reality shows or
are you into more of like the competition based ones.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
I love the loved ones like Love is Blind.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
He is one of my favorites. Love on the Spectrum
is my own. Come on, it doesn't get better than
Love on the Spectrum. Do you watch the Bachelor? No Bachelorette?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
No? Okay, neither do I and I've never seen Love
Island either?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Oh really?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
This season?
Speaker 1 (06:56):
I'd like that. Oh I heard it was fantastic, incredible.
Though it's a lot going on, like four nights a week.
You got to really be available, right You can watch
it on catch up.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
I mean, I haven't been sleeping I've adjusted my sleep
schedule to make sure that I watch level.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
I see that you watch it. Yeah, that makes me
so happy. I love that. I love being so into
a show. That's how I was with Thrones, where I
would like adjust my sleep schedule.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
To watch it.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
One thing you'd never do on camera again?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
One thing I would never do on camera again. I
would run it back and do it all over again. Really, yeah,
you wouldn't change the thing. No, I don't think I would.
I've never had sex on TV.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Well that's good.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
That would be my only because my family and everything else.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
So like when they too hot to handle, do you
guys go into a room at any point where it's
like you get to uh, like I think on Love
Island they go to where they so hide away, hide away, Yeah, justddle,
just cuddle.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
There was one time that I forgot I was miked
and I met a guy at this bar and they
like caught me on camera like talking to him or whatever.
And we pull up to the house and with my
friend and cameras are inside and I didn't think our
mics would pick up because we were outside in the car,
And I was like, I'm gonna call him to come
(08:25):
over and they heard me, and I was like, fuck that,
I am not doing this. They were like, okay, just
like we'll have you guys talking here and then you
guys can go upstairs and close the door and just
like then we'll leave. Okay, And I the same thing.
I don't know how you were on a show like that,
because I get so awkward. Yeah, when someone's filming you
(08:48):
talking to it's like, oh god, right, yeah, like you
got to make sure your game is on point.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
I know, and then you open yourself up to criticism.
Oh gosh, she's not funny.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Did you have them little cameras or did you have
the men behind the cameras holding the camera like handheld
the big big daddies and then I was an older
guy behind the camera.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Yeah, sometimes it makes it feel bit weird.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
I'm like, oh God, I'm literally on bed in the
bed with someone kissing them and I've got bloody Steve
over here, bloody in the corner on one knee, really
trying to get the zoom in shot of I's tongue
in and I'm.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Like, I feel physically sick. I do, I don't, but
I also don't even want to see that stuff on TV. Like,
the one thing I will say about filming the show
that I was on was it was kind of the
same production since I entered. Yeah, so I felt comfortable
with Steve. Yeah, filming love Steve, you know, and Steve
(09:50):
would have my back. Yeah, don't get the zoom in.
But like, what's worse them criticizing me or criticizing the
person that I'm like, he's so hot. I don't know.
I don't know what's worse. It's all just very and
then to think about, like, oh so it's like around
forever when you have kids. One day they're gonna be
(10:12):
able to watch too hard to handle? Oh no, and Google,
I know, trust me, these are the things they keep
me up.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
And I haven't even thought about that.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah, oh no, worst DM you've ever received, worst DM
I've ever received? Know what?
Speaker 2 (10:30):
It's funny, I don't know if it's my worst someone
just calling me out for having no ass.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
They do it all the fucking time. They I mean,
you don't have a bum. I'm like, I need to
go to the gym.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
But they're my motivation that they keep me determined to
grow a bum and go to the gym.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
You know what, though, the way clothes hang on you
is really nice. And when I say hang, I don't
don't mean like they're hanging on you because you have
no lass, but I mean, like, you know, like someone's frame.
It's like there are certain things I can't wear because
I'm like, it doesn't hang on me the correct way. Yeah,
like I couldn't wear what you're wearing right now because
it wouldn't fall properly.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
Oh, thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
And you have boobs so fake? Oh so are mine.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
I was eighteen, I was like, okay, I'm sick of
looking like a boy. You know, double a boobs, no bum,
skinny like a stick.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
I'm really tall. They used to call me lanky in
my school. That's not that bad.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
How tall are you?
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Five ten?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Oh you're so lucky. Did you model? Yeah for a
few years. Yeah, I us the tattoos and rebelled. You're like, fuck,
there's fake tits and tattoos. Yes, I'm done with.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
It, fake teeth, fake kits. I'm gonna go into it.
Entertain you it be a reality TV star.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Are your tooth fake?
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:53):
They are good? Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Most people come out looking like wow, you know those
little like wind up teeth. Yeah, top and bottom, yelling
them Wow, I'm impressed, thank you, they're so good.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
The mad Yeah, have you ever wake?
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Like? Sometimes my lips make people mad? Why stop fucking
injecting your lips? I'm like, why do you care?
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Something that's so nice and plump.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
And I haven't had them injected in a while. Thanks.
But I kind of want fake teeth because what happens
with mine is they get narrow towards the back, fake teeth,
so it looks like I only have four night all right,
m m, I don't have any teeth left. Oh they
Oh so they're.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Like down to the night and shaved them. Babe.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Fuck were you asleep?
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Irreversible?
Speaker 2 (12:45):
Fuck?
Speaker 3 (12:45):
No, was I asleep? I was awake air and all
the toes and oh my gosh, oh it was horrible.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
I would have passed out.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
What happens if one of those pops off and you
just got a fly to Turkey and get redone?
Speaker 1 (12:56):
You went to Turkey? Yeah, that's where I want to
get my hairlined done. It is the well I have
postpartum hair right now, but I'm like, I want like
a perfect hairline. Oh okay.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
Some people take their pubes and put them on their
hairdline and bald. Baby, how would you get them from.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
The hair they slice the back of your.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Head, remove it from satin pop?
Speaker 1 (13:21):
No, I got my cookie lasers, so there ain't nothing
down there. I'm like mister Bigglesworth.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
I need to get that.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, I don't know. I heard the bushes coming back,
so maybe I guess. Depending on who I sleep with,
they may be really signed Spike.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Spike spce like that film Spike Butch How to Tend.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
The Pants Off. But it's just pure Spike. I fucking
love you.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
You're fun. I think you're hilarious. Most ridiculous dating advice
you've ever been given.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Don't ever have sex on the first date.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
That is so ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I'll do what I want.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I'll do what I want and by the way, has
nothing to do with it if it works out or
does it exactly right. Yeah, that's great. I love that.
That's the worst advice. I love it. Guilty Pleasure TV show?
Oh what is a Guilty Pleasure reactor? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
I don't really I would say that love Island or something.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
No, Yeah, because I mean, I spend so much of
my time during the watching it, I don't get any
of my own work done, so I feel guilty.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
But it's a pleasure.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Who do you think should have won?
Speaker 3 (14:31):
I think the people that did win am I And
were they.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
An actual couple? Like authentic?
Speaker 2 (14:37):
They were an authentic couple. He was a bombshell and
then she cut it off with Zack. Thank god her
and Brian got together. I don't think I reached some pepe.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
They were a couple.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Yeah, I just I just don't know, okay about them.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
It's her name Maya, that one a Maya. And then
how did you feel about is it?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
Hoodah hohodah?
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Yeah? Did you like her? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:07):
She was super relatable. I think she will definitely.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
I mean even her family came in and was like,
you should have shut your mouth in a few scenes.
She's aware, she knows she crashed out, she knows she
was putting uncomfortable situations and she probably shouldn't have had
the way that she did.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Yeah, but she's on TV.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Millions of people are watching the pressure out of her
being mugged off on TV, being chosen, not being chosen,
being put in like.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
Situations where it's abnormal.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Yeah, you're with someone you've been sleeping in the same bed,
you've slept with them, and then all of a sudden,
bombshows come in and they have to kiss the bombshells
in a challenge. That's my man. In the outside world,
it would never work.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
I would never do it. I would kick off.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
I would, well, yeah, I would.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
There's no way.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
So the bombshells are people who come in after everyone's coupled.
That's what a bombshell trying step aright. Yeah, I know
it sounds like a heartbreaking show. Why not Hearts Get Broken? Okay,
did you vote? Are you a voter?
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Wow? Because they probably make it easy, right.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
You just text, you just tap it.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
It's like an app downloaded. You just send your notifications,
keep you updated.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
You press it.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Well, that's why people are so obsessed. It's like a
game that everyone gets to play. Oh, I'm watching next season.
You bet your fucking ass, I'm watching next season. What's
your toxic trait in the group chat? Example, responding to
everything with a heart emoji, not responding because you're a ghoster.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
I just don't have time.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
I get overwhelmed. Everyone knows I'm a bad text or
if you have something to say, call me on the
phone real.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Quick, by ice, timmy.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
Yep, let's get it done. I don't need to back
and forth with this shit.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Yep, exactly the same.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
Yeah, I would say, you know what, that's a that's
a toxic trait. Another one I love muting.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
I mute it and I'm like, shit, there's like a
thousand miss read. And then I see my friends are like, oh,
you come into ibifah, and I'm like.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
I didn't even realize that we were going.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Yeah, and do you go no, yeah, should be there
right now.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Oh, you'd much rather be here only give them all
podcast obviously. How many unread text messages do you have
on your phone right now?
Speaker 3 (17:20):
Not as much as my emails both so texts.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
I have five hundred and sixty unread okay, emails, I've
got fifteen four hundred and ten Oh my god, yeah,
I got thirty three missed calls.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Okay, I have four hundred and fifty missed calls and
probably and voicemails that's a mis called voicemail. And then
I have seven hundred and seven hundred and twelve texts,
probably because they're the muted ones. Wow, And I only
have thirteen emails. I took the entire flight from JFK
(17:58):
to Lax and delete emails the entire way. Wow, when
I tell you, my vision was pretty fucked up. By
the time we landed, I could like barely see. I
was like, I'm never doing that much screen time ever again.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
You need to teach people how to have that level
of determination to do that.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Because that's a skill, Babe. You should put that on
your fucking resume, in your Tinder bio, in your hot ry,
our higher hinshit.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
I feel like that would be something on a resume that,
like a large corporation would hire me to.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
Deal wife material.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Thank you, it's actually very nice. You're giving a Ted
talk called how to survive a Sneaky Link? What's your
opening line?
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Every single one of you little fuckers has how to
sneaky link.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Don't try and deny it. There are multiple levels of
having and being a sneaky link.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
And today I'm going to divulge into every little crevice.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
So we're on the signe bite ooh.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
I love it. All business as well, yeah, and I
feel very exposed. It's a Ted talk, Yeah, that has
to be business, not it's all business. Yeah, ted talk
is very serious.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
My last question one big sister rule that you swear
by that would shock your younger self.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
What do you mean by big sister rule that do
you give?
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Don't you give advice on your thing? Like, let's say
I come to you about dating a first date? Okay,
first date? Okay, what was a rule that you had
if you had one?
Speaker 3 (19:39):
Okay, though I would give my younger self. Let me
think about that for a second.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Or that would shock your younger self.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
What can I think of one? Right now?
Speaker 1 (19:46):
Can I tell you one of mine?
Speaker 3 (19:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (19:49):
So I loved your like horrible advice someone giving you,
which was don't sleep with someone on the first date.
I have now told myself when you start dating, you
are not allowed to sleep with them until you know
that they're going to fit nicely because but not because
it will ruin anything, but because I get attached.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
If I were to tell my younger self, you're not
going to sleep with this person because you'll get attached,
my younger self would be like, fuck that attachment. We
don't even know what that is. Like we're here for
a good time, right, Yeah, Like there's so many things
that I don't know you would think that. Back then
I would it wouldn't be an issue. No, and now
(20:32):
it's an issue. Oh wow, crazy, that's a really good
one I have. I feel like if I had any
rules for my younger self, she wouldn't miss it anyway
because she's very no, I'm going to do it and
I'm going to figure it out. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
I think one rule that I would tell my younger
self would be it comes across quite quingy though I
want to hear it.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
You can't love anyone.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
You can't love anyone, and you're not going to be
able to know how to receive love if you do
not know who you are and what you want in
your life in a romantic partner.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
That doesn't sound cringey at all.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Because I was just like so codependent and I would
engulf myself in relationships and now I know, Oh I
didn't know who I was Philly.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Wow, you just blew my mind.
Speaker 3 (21:26):
So I would tell her to just like, have fun, babe.
But when do you feel like you.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Sat there and you were like, I feel like I
know myself enough to get into a romantic partnership.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
When I start to recognize patterns are changing. Okay, because
I can talk myself in and out of anything.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Isn't it wild how that works?
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (21:49):
Yeah, so I think when the patterns are repeating themselves, yeah,
I'm not exactly like where I want to be in
a relationship with my Whereas if I am actively trying
to seek curiosity in how I react in a relationship
and how he makes me feel, and seeing in my
body and being aware of my emotions, being able to
(22:11):
communicate my emotions, it's like, oh, okay, Chloe knows how
to communicate her emotions. Chloe knows how to admit when
she's wrong in friendships. Chloe knows how to take responsibility
and accountability for not texting in the group chat and
apologize in So once I start to have like a
blueprint that I'm proud of and not guilty of in
(22:36):
my friendship circles and my relationship circles, that's when I know, okay,
I kind of have like a sense of self.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Do you think that's a British thing coming in? Like
do you feel like women in America age or I
guess mature slower than women where you're from, Because I'm
telling you it's wild to hear you talk this way.
At twenty six.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
Oh my god, I love it.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
It's just you, or if it's just you, guys are
raised differently.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
I have no idea.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
I grew up on a counselor state. It was very
much do you know what what I think it is?
I went through a lot when I was younger. My
dad was a drunk, he was an alcoholic, went to
rehab a bunch of times. My brother died of an
overdose when I was fourteen. My auntie died six months
later of cancer, like when she was in her thirties.
My mum and dad were constantly everywhere. It was kind
(23:26):
of I was being bullied at school. As I got older,
I would attach myself to toxic men and like, I've
had to learn the hard way. So I think just
through the struggles in what I've been through, I've had
to really think shit.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
So I for that or you know, yeah, I have
no idea.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
So you're going to attribute it to what you experienced at.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
A young age and wanting to yeah, I think so?
I think so.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
I mean I feel like if I didn't have any
of that happen, I wouldn't even want to know, right,
I would just lean in because babe, I've been toxic
as fuck.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
I think we all have it all our lives.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
And I've been that victim mentality of every You've done
everything to me, but you know you were just doing
it and I was just in your way, right, So
it happened to me at that time.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (24:19):
I do know what you mean? Yeah, yeah, see detaching
yourself from them, Okay, I think it might be a
you think. I think this is work that you've put
into yourself. I don't think it has to do with
where we come from. Okay, yeah, do you find American
women are more friendly? I've started watching Ladies of London
That's why you do you think American women are more
(24:41):
bubbly than women from England? You're pretty bubbly though, I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
I think I haven't really seen a difference, really, Yeah,
I haven't seen a difference. It might be because I'm
in the entertainment industry, so like everyone that I see
has a personality. But I think what I've seen from
American women is they can be more bitchier. The gossip
culture is bigger out here in the UK. It's very
like I've got a problem. Come over here we're hashing
(25:09):
it out.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
Oh, you's be great on like an ensemble, like a
reality TV show that's not a competition, but like Housewives exactly.
He's actually in thirty years. Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
I could never really couldn't. I don't think I could know.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Why do you think you couldn't do it?
Speaker 3 (25:33):
I wouldn't want to expose myself to that.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Oh toxic.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
Yeah, yeah, I'm trying not to be.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Your toxic traits would come out full force.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
Yeah. Do you watch Housewives? Have seen a few episodes.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
I love it, like selling Sunset, who's always drama.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
So okay, so you're a Netflix girl, Yeah, I love
that for you. Yeah, your show is on Netflix. You
say true to Netflix. It's like me and Bravo. I
watch all the Bravo shows. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
I think because I'm from London as well, we don't
have Peacock, Bravo or any of that.
Speaker 3 (26:05):
Wow, we don't have any of the Hulu.
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Yeah, and you just moved here to me.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
I don't know something that you guys have.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Okay, my last question because I want to know what
is your favorite like go to beauty Actually two things.
Your favorite go to beauty trend YEP whether it's makeup, skincare,
and your favorite thing to like do to your face.
If you do, you inject your face at all, not
(26:33):
anymore are used to Okay, let's talk about that. You
would injected with filler in botax.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
Oh yeah, I had botox, cheek filler, lip filler, chin filler,
nose filler, jaw filler.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
And now you're over it.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
And I did not recognize myself. Really yep, look at
me on the circle type in clotheage the circle and
you will see a completely different that I. Honestly, my
dad cried, had an intervention and was like Chloe. It
was like the height of my diction as well, like
I was just small it and just I.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
Did the malady was on me.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
I was injecting everywhere and then didn't recognize, but didn't
recognize myself. Took the lashes off, dissolved all the filler,
and then now one of my lips is uneven.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
I just get it plumped. Yeah. I love getting my
lips done every now and again.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
Yeah. I love a nice pout. And then what your
go to when it comes to like, let's do makeup
and then skincare because your skin is like glass.
Speaker 3 (27:26):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Okay, the reason why my skin looks like glass is
because of my makeup settin spray. So I use Elf
jew Elf Dewy missed. It's a little blue bottle. It's tiny.
It's a fine spray. I couldn't ever go to anything else. Really,
(27:48):
you have to pat it down. Sometimes it has oil
in it, so you basically do your makeup ad the powder.
Your face looks cake yep, whether you want the smooth
look or the dewy look. On the days I want dewey,
I coat my face in it. It's like oil and
it like smelts all your makeup together, and it's like, oh,
chef's kiss.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
And then all you do is part with the finger. Yeah, dude,
I'm getting it.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
And sometimes if it's too oily like it is right now,
like around my mouth, I'll just get a powder puff.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
And just I'm not getting oily at all. I'm buying it. Nope,
it's fantastic, do it. Thank you for doing the lightning
round and answering my beauty questions and then like literally
go and look at your face on the circle because
now I'm just very well, oh my human, and I'm
gonna buy the Elf Deuce Spray please do amazing. Thank
(28:35):
you guys for listening to another bonus episode of To
Give Them All Podcast. I'm gonna catch you guys next week.
Bye bye,
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