I Finally Overcame My Insecurities Of Being On Top

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:07):
Hello, who's this? Hey? This is killed are you doing?
You were very popular when you called in for asking
and you were talking about being insecure about being on top. Right, Yes,
so I have a follow up. Okay, all right, let's
talk about it. Okay. So me and him had a

(00:30):
long discussion about it, and I went on and told
him how I felt, and so me and him talked
about it, and that night, imagine happened. We put on
some corners and like I watched a couple of things
with different women doing you know, different positions. And because
if you told me to do and I tried it,

(00:50):
and like we have not stopped. I okay, hold on,
hold on, And you did reverse cow girl, Yes I did,
and I did. I be is And let me tell
you something, and that is a workout in itself. So
it feels good because you over there doing your squads,
doing your cry Baby challenge, doing the Busted challenge on it.
That's what I'm talking about, girl. And I've also been

(01:12):
working out too, so it's like, I guess my breathing
is a little bit better. And I am like, man,
I'm telling you, we we have been having some good
night we really have, and you know, It was interesting though,
and I was so glad that you called about that
because a lot of women were weighing in about their
insecurities also, and I was saying, I know he loves
just looking at your body no matter what, and so

(01:33):
everything about you, I'm sure he finds attractive. What did
he say when you guys have the conversation? He was
just like, that is more or less me, And it
was never him who never ever feel any kind of
way about you know, me saying that I didn't want
to get on top or whatever, but he would just
he just was like, um, baby, you're thinking too hard

(01:54):
into it. And also, like I told you, I was
trying to get the light BO and the BBL done
and he's just like, I love you how you are.
You know, that's for women who you know, don't really
like how they look. And right this Stan Money, he
was like, let's go to the gym. We got a
Planet Fitness ship membership, and we've been back and forth
in the jam and stuff or whatever. So like he

(02:15):
really supports me, and I love that about him, Like
he didn't make me feel any kind of way about it.
When I did see him down and talk to him
about it. He was just really open and like my mother,
that's like, that's just you. That's that's you. That's all you.
Has never been me, And so isn't isn't writing on time?
So fun? It is? Look, I always was just nervous

(02:37):
about it because of my weight, you know, and like
my guy, he's a pretty small guy, and I just
always felt like I was too heavy to be on top.
And you know, like so that's the only reason why
I didn't want to do it. All right. Now, My
only advice is make sure you don't go up too
high because because then when you come back down, if

(02:57):
it slides out, it could hurt him. So just be
careful with that. Don't go too high. I did see
on your Instagram where all the you know, people were
comment in this stuff or whatever, and you really really
talk to me like a big sister. And I just
want to tell you that I apprechect you so much,

(03:18):
Like this advice line in c test and speaking to
you about my insecurity, like with everyone listening or whatever
was hard for me. But at the same time you
made me feel very comfortable. I've been here before you
in that position over there, all right, and I think
a lot of women, we do have insecurities about our body,

(03:39):
but I do know for guys, like I said, they're
just happy to be there and they're not thinking look
at this stretch mark, look at that fat like they're
not even thinking like that. They just thinking that this
is amazing. I mean, we're still gonna I mean, most
guys still gonna hit, but they're gonna talk about it
later to their boys at least. And that's what I'm saying.
My whole thing is, you know, like man, the stussing,

(04:00):
what they boys like about stuff like that? To me,
I think they do, you know, they do, they do,
but they I mean, if you if the poem poom
is good, he's still gonna be like, put that poom
poom fire though. Yeah right, well, thank you so much,
and I'm glad that things got so much better for you.
That's and he sounds like an amazing man, so he
deserves for you to write it again tonight. And he is.

(04:24):
I'm I'm actually I'll be thirty five and he's twenty six.
And I had also had insecurities about that too, was
our age because stuff or whatever, But like we're going
on two years now, so all right, now all right, gay,
well listen, keep on following up. I'm glad that you
sound so excited and energetic about it, and I'm sure

(04:45):
he feels better about it too, so that's dope. So
that's what asking it's all about. And I'm happy to
hear from you, yes, ma'am. Y'all, have a wonderful morning,
and goblets all y'all, and to the beach. Took ants

(05:12):
across