Should I Move To Florida?

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.
We are the breakfast club. It's time for asking yea, hello,
who's this? ZERI tell Charlo Man? Is NAZERI to God too? Peace?
Lord Peace King? How are you? Lord Man? What's up?
Charlot Man? How you doing that? I'm blessed black and Holly,
favorite King. Let's see how you are today? What's your

(00:22):
question for you? Brother? Okay? So check this out. So
I just got I just got with this new girl.
We've been together for like a month and a half, right,
and she wants to move me to Florida. She getting
ready to move to Florida. But my ex, my ex,
is like trying to get back with me, and I'm
conflicted on what should I do. Like, I really like
my ex. I ain't gonna lie. This new girl. She cool,

(00:44):
She's a little different than when I'm used to So
I'm like conflicting on how I should go about it.
So why did you in your ex break up? Well,
we was just at that time, we was just on
two days. We was on two different pages. She was
she was working a lot and being you know, at
the time, I wasn't working so you know, we just
we just didn't really get get to spend a lot

(01:04):
of time together. And I felt like, you know what
I'm saying, it just wasn't it wasn't going the way
it was supposed to go. So I kind of fell
back and being it just kind of dispersed that way.
You know. I will say, it's hard to move on
with somebody else if you're not over your ex. Uh huh?
And did you want to move to Florida? Are you
really after a month and a half considering moving? I mean, yeah,

(01:25):
one thing, Okay, So I live in a super small town, right,
so I'm ready to I've been wanting to leave here forever,
so now I got the opportunity to go. I want
to go. But it's like, damn, man, I don't. I
don't know if if after a month and a half,
like we won't be moving for like another month, like
a month and another month in I half to be
like March, the beginning of the March movie moving. So
I'm like, maybe I could build be ready to go

(01:45):
by the inn, but I'm still I don't know. That
just sounds really too soon. Here's my suggestion, because moving
on when you're not over your ex. It's not gonna
be good. You're still going to be communicating with her
and thinking about her. It might make it even worse.
I also don't think you should just up and moved
to Florida with somebody that you just started dating a
month and a half ago and you have the opportunity

(02:06):
to move. You don't have to date somebody to move.
You can always do what you decide to do. So
I think you should slow it down, take your time
if you decide to move later. And you and this
new girl actually really things are going well because you
can always go out there and see her visit and
see how you're feeling. But I don't think you should
commit to moving if you're not sure with her. Yeah,

(02:28):
I mean, I guess you're right. I don't know. I
just I know I want to get out of this
damn and you can. You don't gotta date somebody in
order to move. You know that it can be an
inspiration for you. Okay, So like my new girl, she
she got a lot of money, So you're about to
be a sugar baby. I mean, because she's like twelve

(02:48):
years older than me. You know, I'm thirty three, So
she she ready to retire, Like she go on the
floor to buying our house on the beach, and she like,
I want to take you with me. So you really
just like because she's taking care of you, No, because
you don't like she don't take care of I don't
ask her for nothing, you know what I'm saying. Like,
and she like, she don't really do too much for me,
but like this is just what she's been talking about

(03:11):
the past couple of weeks. Like because because we were
friends for like a month and a half before we
started dating, maybe two months before we started dating, so
it was like okay, and then she was always telling
me she was gonna move the Florida. We we really
didn't plan on dating. It kind of happened like slowly
but surely, and then't want to right na Zeri. My
advice to you is continue to date until you decide

(03:33):
what you want to do. Don't make a huge decision
like moving in with this woman until you know that
that's who you want to be with, because you might
get back with your actually might not. You're not obligated
to anybody right now, but just make that decision for
yourself so that you're not stuck somewhere where you wish
you was somewhere else. That's the worst feeling. Yeah, that's true, man,
I'm so glad I got to get through the y'all.
Try to call I work. Usually I'm usually at work

(03:55):
right now, but I didn't have to work today, so
I'm like, no, I'm gonna try to call the breakfast club.
At least do you you don't have to work at
all once you move? Yeah, right, exactly. You know I'll
use it. So I look at y'all on my apps.
To y'all that day later because I'll start later than
when I work. So I listened always listen to the
next show the next day. So it was I'm like,
now I gotta call me and I gotta try to

(04:15):
talk to you to day. I hopefully I have to
get to when I'm glad I've made it all right.
You can do that, though. You can go out there
and you can visit and see how you feel, but
don't make that huge commitment where now you got to
find another place and move to you know, and went
to Florida. Just take your time, sir. Okay, Charlotte Magne,
I need can I have a book? Please? Done? Deal
I'm gonna send you a copy of um Shook one

(04:37):
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(05:00):
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(05:42):
home heating fuel for you, but anyway, asking call up
right now as the Breakfast local boarded morning. Everybody is
DJ Envy angela Ye, Charlemagne the guy. We are the
breakfast club. But in the middle of ASKI, Hello, who's this? Hi?
This is Crystal from Jersey. Crystal from Jersey. What's your
question for you? Okay? So, okay, I'm a Leslian right,

(06:03):
So I um, I work with this beautiful young lady
and we've been talking via what'sapp for a quite a while,
and I wanted to know, like I'm afraid to get
like shut down by her, but like should I try
to ask her out? Like I'm really nervous even talking
about it. But he's like amazing. We're always texting and

(06:26):
you know, she's always giving me back the same kind
of energy. But you know, it's like work, so it's
kind of like, I know you're not supposed to, but
it's like come like, well, it's so she's a lesbian. Awesome? Yeah, okay?
And what are the rules when it comes to dating
coworkers at your job? Is there any type of I

(06:47):
mean about what they feel about I don't feel when
it comes to that, but it's just the static that
I don't know if she decides to say, you know,
now I'm good, it'll be like you have to look
at that person every day knowing that. Okay, but have
y'all ever hung out awkward? Have y'all ever hung out
outside of work? I mean no, because I really haven't

(07:11):
like trying to pursue it is that kind of like
I'm just telling nervous sometimes when I'll be talking for it,
so I kind of just, you know, play regular, but
I still get the vibe from her, like I'll like
going a little bit, but not so much, you know
what I'm saying. I don't know if if I'm making
any sense. So why don't you suggest instead of acting

(07:32):
like it's a date, that y'all do something together. It
doesn't have to be a date, just to see how
the vibes are in person, because it's always different, and
that's when you can really tell I got you. Yeah,
I'm gonna be hell of nervous, like because if I
like somebody like I give out that you know, I
like you energy. You get what I'm saying. I'm not
I'm not aggressively, so I try not to be. But

(07:52):
you know that I that I'm really like you'll you'll
know it, like just straight off, like if if you're
talking about or something, you could suggest a restaurant. What
city are you? And our things open? Um in New Jersey?
I mean things are fairly fairly open. I mean it's
it's it's okay. But I'm like a, I'm like a

(08:13):
damn yoo nervous talk about you have no idea but um, yeah, yeah,
you just have to be careful. Amazing, Yeah, I know,
I don't trust me. Her vibes are amazing, and it's
like I don't want that that if it was it,
if she wanted it to be like a friendship or whatever,
like I would I would know that we're friends, just

(08:34):
to know that I can like talker, you know, like
all the time, even though she might not like me
like that, Like I don't want things to get awkward.
That's what I'm trying about void really well, that's how
some of the best relationships start. They start off as friendships.
So that's why I do feel like y'all need to
hang out in person just to really get the vibe.
It's one thing for you guys to be talking via
What's app or however, y'all are communicating with each other.

(08:56):
But it's a whole nother thing when y'all see each
other in person, and that's when you're determined is this
a friendship thing? Or can we take this to another level?
But just don't put any pressure on it. Just suggest
maybe go and get to grab something to eat, or
maybe you need to go pick something up at the store, like,
oh yeah, you want to meet me. I could use
some help picking this out and then you guys figure

(09:17):
it out from there. I'm explained. Appreciate you, all right,
good luck, all right, thanks a lot. All right, Well
ask five one oh five one if you need relationship advice.
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(09:40):
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a breakfast club. Good morning,