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Welcome Back From The Weekend!! We Talk About The Best & Worst Parts, When A Drunk 13 Year Old Steals A Cop Car, Setting Fire To Adult Stores, Tampons In The Yard, We Talked To An Awesome Listener, Jeff Hensley Stops By, & When The Lottery Send You To The Hospital!!!

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that question is to eight two nine four five. We
have a sports story I want to start with, but
it's too good to just leave for sports, and that
is Mark Sanchez. So for those that don't know, Mark

(04:14):
Sanchez was in Indianapolis for the Raiders Colts game to
do his commentary like he does. And I guess Marky
decides to go out and get completely annihilated on Friday

(04:38):
night and decides to confront a sixty nine year old
oil truck recycling driver to telling me he can't park there,
continue to get in an altercation again with a sixty

(05:03):
nine year old man. We'll get to it. Apparently proceeds
to which I don't know if this is a fair statement.
The man was sixty nine. Whoop this man's ass, to
the point where the old man goes, I'm in danger

(05:25):
of my life, and not once, not twice, repeatedly stabs
Mark Sanchez in the chest. Mark Sanchez goes to the
hospital because he's been stabbed. Safe to say at this
moment he won't be doing the game Sunday. Yeah, we'll

(05:47):
have to call in the work. Hey, boss. Keep in mind,
he's married, has some kids. I believe I think he
has four kids. He just had twins three weeks ago.
I'm sorry, I'm sorry that was not accurate. His wife
had twins three weeks ago, thirty eight years old. Mark Sanjiz, Yes,

(06:09):
by the way, yes, And apparently he was trying to
tell this driver he couldn't park there. You can't park there.
The hotel doesn't want your service. And the guy's like, eh, okay,
just a good old boy trying to do his job
right now. This isn't like Mark Sanchez is standing waiting

(06:29):
for his uber at the front of the hotel. No,
he's in the alley getting in confrontation with this man
to the point where he has to run down the
alley to get to the driver. So when the police
interviewed Mark Sanchez at the hospital, he says, I don't

(06:50):
know who did this to me. I don't know how
this happened. He might not know the guy who stabbed out.
I don't think the guy. That's a safe statement for sure.
Then they realize there's footage of the incident from the
hotel security cameras and they see Mark Sanchez be the

(07:14):
complete aggressor in the situation. There's eyewitnesses that thought they
were just messing around until they saw the old man
fall off the curb and then get into a melee.
Apparently there's no actual video proof of the stabbing happening.
They don't have that pinpointed, but they have them whooping him,

(07:40):
whooping this old man's ass, and the old man says
that at one point Mark Sanchez tried to get into
the truck, which he can't do right, because then that's
a theft. That's another charge. It's unlawfully entering a car.
I don't know, something like that. And so Mark Sanchez

(08:01):
decides to get into like what are you doing? Is
he gonna move it himself? I guess you can't park here.
I'll move this damn truck myself. Have you ever driven
a truck like that, Mark, I mean it was it
says it was a box truck, okay, so, but if
it was an oil recycling truck, it probably was more
of like you know, a honeywaggon type of scenario. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

(08:22):
And they apparently go back and forth, and this is
my favorite part where maybe this is where it went
sideways I'm sorry it went sidewayser right. The old man,
because he's sixty nine, doesn't have his hearing aids in

(08:45):
because his box truck so loud when he drives, and
said he had to constantly lean in to hear what
Mark was saying. You need to move your truck? What
don't want me said? You need to move, sir? I
have the hoops just an unbelievable detail of the incident.

(09:11):
And if you have not seen the video of the
picture of the individual who got his ass completely whooped,
it's clear this man, oh got beat up for some somehow.
He got a giant laceration on the side of his
on the side of his mouth. Yeah, I mean it's
got to be four inches me here long. Yeah, that's

(09:33):
a lot of blood.

Speaker 3 (09:35):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (09:36):
How much of that is his? And how much of
that is Marx?

Speaker 6 (09:42):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (09:43):
And for me, the idea that you've got this like,
is he just going out and just being like I'm
on vacation, right, I've never done a football game, but
I've prepped for fights. It takes a couple of days.
And I could only imagine he's probably got people helping him.

(10:07):
And it's not like he was in New Orleans, or Vegas,
right right, Miami something. Yeah, that kind of atmosphere is
expected party atmosphere. He was in Indianapolis. I'm not dalging
on Indianapolis, but I think it's a fair statement to go.
It's not like New Orleans.

Speaker 2 (10:28):
Right.

Speaker 1 (10:29):
No, man, I can't wait to get to Indianapolis and
get I said, no one, well, said Mark Sanchez. I'm
ready to get all bluetot out there. Man. Ah, listen, man,
he's working. He just had twins. You know, he's got
he's got a lot going on, so he, you know,

(10:50):
took an opportunity to I'm alone. Finally, I'm gonna relax.
I'm gonna have a few drinks and then uh, and
then I'll get ready for work. Ultimately, he works five
months of the year. Hold it together, man, yeah, really relax.
A lot of people online are going, oh, this is
CTE it maybe, but I think it's alcoholism. I'm right

(11:16):
here with you. He got blackout drunk, and I think
it'd be pretty easy to pinpoint that from his family
and friends. Oh yeah, sure if they say anything. Imagine
his wife getting a call, ma'am, your husband's in the hospital.
He's been stabbed. Oh, my oh gosh, did they catch

(11:38):
the guy? Yeah, I just told you. He's been stabbed.
He's in the hospital. Your husband, he was the aggressor,
and then you got twins and what you got to
get on a plane right right and fly to in
Maybe there's a direct I don't know. I'm sure there
is from LA. If there is a drinking problem, do you,

(12:02):
as the wife, pack up all your kids and take
a flight to Indianapolis to go be with your husband
who started a fight with an old man and got
stabbed several times? I mean, yeah, yeah, I don't know
if you take your kids, but right, I mean, she's
probably breastfeed I don't know. I don't know. I feel

(12:24):
like if there's if that's a problem. I don't know
if he has a drinking problem, but let's just pretend
that he does, right. I think it's on the table
for the conversation, absolutely, one hundred percent. But if there
is a problem, and this has been an issue in
their marriage for some time, I don't think I would.
I mean, listen, we'll talk when you get back. Stay

(12:46):
in the hospital, dude, he was in critical condition. I
hear you, like, this is I'm aware of your problem.
I don't want none of your mess, but I think
you would as a somebody you maybe their marriage is
a facade at this point. I don't know, because again,
you take your situation and place it into theirs and go,
I love my wife. If something happened, I would want

(13:08):
to be by her side in the hospital as soon
as possible. But let's be clear, it's a four hour
flight and you got to find a babysitter, get all
that together. By the time you get there. He's but
he's sobered up right in that moment of clarity. Oh god,
what did I do? Yeah? Oh no, And there's no

(13:28):
way a guy who has a clean criminal record, never
been in a lick of trouble. This is like hism
to fight, you know what I mean? Like, that's not
his thing? Are we talking about Mark? Were talking about
the old man Mark, Mark Sanchez. It's just not in
the character trait historically, but fumbles things like that, Yes,

(13:51):
but this no, so to me. It wreaks way more
of some sort of addiction issue. Me, bro, you worked
five months a year and you're out getting plowed on
week five. Well, no, hear me, It's not like it's
week eighteen, Like it's the last one of the year.
We're going out with the crew. It's week five. Maybe

(14:16):
maybebe he was drugged.

Speaker 2 (14:18):
That's what I'm wondering.

Speaker 1 (14:20):
No, no, no, those people that say, oh, I got
roofed at the bar last night, I have a hard
time believing. I think you just got wasted. I believe
you went out and you got a lot more to
drink than what you thought, and you just got blackout drunk.
It's possibility you could have gotten roofed. However, I think

(14:43):
you just got really drunk instead. I think I think
it'll be quite clear, quite fast. If this is kind
of his thing, he gets really drunk when he goes
out of town. There are some people that do that
when they go out for work trips. They just get annihilated.
What I can't wrap my head around is that you

(15:04):
go and do this the night before to whatever, the
Friday night before where you've got to be on your game. Yeah, well,
maybe that was his plan. All Right, I'm gonna go
out because he didn't have to be on until Sunday,
So you spend all Saturday recovering and then you're ready
to go on something. Yeah, except if you're trying to

(15:24):
be a professional. You're not gonna recover on Saturday, right right.
You want to be on the top of your game.
You would want to, you would. And the people I know,
most of the people I know, I'd be lying if
I said I have. And I've done production crews for
short track races and basketball game, NBA games, college games.

(15:49):
I've seen how that those crews. Some of them throw down. Yeah,
a lot of them don't because they're just happy to
have a gig. Yeah, but there are some people out
there that can go out, get blasted and go to
work the next day like it's nothing because they've been
doing it for so long, you know, and they're just

(16:09):
kind of used to it. They think they can. Oh yeah, true.
Their ego gets out in front of them, and that
could be the case in Old Wark here just now.
I get like going out having a couple of drinks. Sure, sociall,
I I get that. But to go out and get
completely juiced to the point where you get black out

(16:34):
is crazy. That is college behavior. I suspect we're going
to see him come out. He's going to say he
needs to go to rehab, especially apology. He'll say he
needs to go to rehab, probably part of a deal
to lessen the charge. I don't know if he'll get criminals.

(16:55):
He'll get prison time, but I think he'll get community
that type of thing. He's gonna get a slap on
the rest. I can't imagine Fox is gonna let him
come back and do Brad. I can't imagine that's a
liability because this guy could sue him and Fox. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
Now Mark Sanchez is worth forty million dollars. There is

(17:19):
a chance public apology go to rehab, pay this guy off,
pay his hospital bills, maybe maybe another mill on top
of it, just you know, hey, let's not take this
any further. Make no mistake. He's paying his hospital bills.
But the probably what happens is the guy's insurance for
the company works for will pay the insurance or pay

(17:39):
the medical bills, and then the insurance company will sue
Mark Sanchez. But that doesn't negate his criminal charges. That
won't make those go away. Yeah, that is that is
now a state a city state issue. It is not
up to the individual the victim. So there's assault and battery, right,
I'm trying to think of what are the charges he

(17:59):
would have because he's not the one who did the
stab and he's the one who got stabbed, but he
did pummel that old man so public intox I'm thinking
along with assault and battery, harassment Harris man. Yeah, okay,
I wanted to see. It's like a crazy list of charges.
Oh yeah, yeah, because they get him on a bunch

(18:21):
of stuff, right, They get him for like I mean,
they they're entering the car thing right right that it
wouldn't be surprised if they try to tack on attempted murder.
Maybe so, but I mean what he I don't know,
would Mark get it attempted murder because it's not like

(18:42):
he stabbed the old man. The old man stabbed him.
The man felt like he was in defense for his life,
like he had to protect his life and tried to
keep up for a minute, and I was like, oh no,
if I don't stab this man, he's going to kill me.
And you could make an argument you didn't even know
who did it. You were in a black rage. But

(19:04):
the idea that never a lick of trouble, and at
thirty eight you're getting yoked up like this, like what
are you doing? Yeah, And that's another reason he may
not get into a lot of trouble for this because
it is first offense and with a good attorney, which
he can afford one, he may not get into any

(19:26):
trouble at all whatsoever. Yeah, that is a miss. It
is a misunderstanding that just because you have good you
don't have a lick of history criminally that and you
have a good lawyer, that it does not it does
not degrade the violent and aggressiveness of it. Right, And

(19:51):
this is the most important part. There is multiple video
angle evidence. All right. So he's being charged with battery,
with injury, public intox and unlawful entry of a vehicle,
all misdemeanors. That's another thing. They're all misdemeanors so far.

Speaker 2 (20:08):
Could the hotel also get on board with anything criminal
for what? I don't know, like just.

Speaker 1 (20:15):
The hotel can't make criminal charges, only the state.

Speaker 2 (20:18):
Or right right, right? But can they I don't know,
file a complaint against him?

Speaker 1 (20:22):
They could bar him from ever staying at the hotels again, Okay,
we don't want you in our hotel. That kind of
stuff belongs to a lacina. We'll be knocking lakingta man.
That's fine, it's fine, you know, what you're signing up for. Though,
when you stay there, you know what you're signing up for.

(20:43):
There's a good chance it won't be a peaceful knight.
I don't know. I've always had a good time at
the Lakingta's to my point, that's the pool is shallow,
you know, right, The chance somebody's skinny dipping in the pool.
High priority, eh, people getting wasted pool side high priority
with their own sixer and the crazy hotel bar stuff.

(21:07):
The uncomfortable conversation he has to have with his wife. Yeah,
with a lot of people, his wife, the network, there's
no conversation with the network. You think you're done, Yeah,
you're done. Have a nice day. And they don't exactly
roll with the backup. If they were like, hey, Mark
isn't feeling well, He's gonna make the trip, but he

(21:29):
may not do the call because he's not feeling well.
They may be ready and have somebody in line, but
for a stabbing that feels and maybe they do, maybe
they have an alternate in the area they can go to,
just because you never know what, anything could anything could happen,

(21:51):
even getting stabbed, but to have you know what, sixteen
alternates hanging around. Right, it's a lot of work, man,
a lot of work. Crazy, crazy story, crazy story. And
when you hear everybody's like, we're shocked, We're shocked, We're shocked. Well,
they can't go Well, we knew this was gonna happen, right,

(22:12):
it was just a matter have you Christmas parties, get
out of here. Wild story about Mark Sanchez, and I
just couldn't get enough of it. I'm like, what kind
of guy?

Speaker 5 (22:24):
Like?

Speaker 1 (22:24):
At first, I thought he was getting a hooker, right,
drug deal gone bad? Right, That's what I thought it
was initially, And then you go, oh, he had they
Initially it was like, oh, he had assaulted a door
dasher who couldn't who wouldn't move his car, you know,
Mark had to wait forty five seconds. And they're like, no,
he chased a man down an alley in a box
truck working an old man, an old and old man. Yeah,

(22:48):
a man who probably should have been retired. Yeah, to
be honest, but because maybe he's bad with finances. I
don't know. He's working at sixty nine on a Friday night. Right.
Recite clean oil pumping, grease from the hotel, restaurants, grease traps, right,

(23:08):
and some of y'all go, huh, then you've never been
near a grease trap. Well, that is some nasty smelling stuff. Yeah,
for those who know, grease trap is the instead of
a garbage disposal, restaurants will have a trough that collects
all the fat and foods and things like that before
it moves on to the sewer and you have to

(23:28):
have it cleaned out once a week, once a day,
it depends. And I always knew that when I worked
at Chuck E Cheese. I was sick that day right
because I didn't want to do it as the nube.
All Right, we got to take a break. We've got
tickets we're gonna give away to see mud Vaine, who
are going to be over at the Tulsa Theater with

(23:50):
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will be It's time for newsquiggies, World news, local news
that just makes you say, what the Here's corby Gimbean
Lindsay with what's going on news quickies from the Big
nin Morning. So in ninety set of five ad.

Speaker 2 (24:09):
Thirteen year old crash's stolen police vehicle while drunk. This
happened last Tuesday in Flagstaff, Arizona. A thirteen year old
driver and an eleven year old passenger survived a high
speed crash stealing a Chevy Silverado from the Flagstaff Police

(24:29):
Department around one am last Tuesday. Vehicle traveled on Interstate forty,
crossed into oncoming traffic, and exceeded one hundred mile an
hour before the team lost control. The car struck a
guard rail, rolled multiple times, and hit a tree with
such force that the steering wheel separated and landed fifty

(24:51):
feet away. Both children sustained non life threatening injuries and
were hospitalized. The thirteen year old who was driving. Their
blood alcohol level measured zero point one point eight three,
more than double Arizona's adult legal limit. That teenager faces
doui charges. Obviously, officers said, we're thankful the kids are okay,

(25:14):
but this could have ended way worse. Juvenile joy riding
and underage drinking are extremely dangerous. Talk to your kids
about the dangers of drinking and unlicensed driving.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
Does she know Mark Sanchez that silly kids man sets
fire to two adult novelty stores. Now let's get them
out of Washington where a forty eight year old guy
at seven five on a Wednesday, goes to the adult Airport.

(25:47):
Video and security footage shows him carrying a gas can
into the dildo store the adult novelty store, and he
pours gas lane all over the floor, sets it on fire,
and then walks out of the store with his boots
on fire while there were people in the back in

(26:07):
the adult theater portion of the store. You know what
I'm talking about? Those adult theaters, right, No, why don't
you explain what they're like? Well, that's where you go
and you watch porno and you could whoop it back
there if you want. It always smells like bleach. You
not own a home, right, That's so bizarre to me, man,
It's like, what why it's a kink. That's the only explanation.

(26:30):
I guess. I don't know. I wouldn't want to sit
in those seats. I just don't need somebody on my
rid or on my left. Right, Well, I'm doing that.
I mean, I'd like to prefer I guess who it is.
But I've never been to one. I have been to
stores that have them, and I'm like, Okay, that's what
goes on back there. That's cool. I've never been back there,

(26:52):
so I don't know. If it's like a you're in
a closet with a TV sort of thing, or if
it's like like you're in a theater like the AMC.
My understanding of the one downtown is its booths. Okay,
so there is some privacy there. Yeah. I know there's
been movies that show those and they're like theaters. Like,

(27:13):
didn't pee wee Herman get popped in one of those? Yeah, yees, yeah,
that was weird man. Okay, So full of disclosure, right,
I'd be lying if I didn't say the idea of
a massage parlor when I was younger interest me. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And I've told the story of going and being creeped
out and couldn't figure it out and was like, ah,

(27:36):
I'm out of here. Yeah, but the idea of going
to a movie theater to yank, it has never been
on my radar of things. No, and the knowing that
just everybody else there is doing the same thing, it's
so bare. So you know how when you see somebody

(27:58):
in the hall there's a head nod or whatever. I
don't know what you do there, because I would be
careful different kind of head nod. How So, Mark, do
you wear shorts. Don't right, I don't do you go?

(28:18):
How do you get a job there? Do you go?
I just need a job man? Or do you go?
I really want to work there. I've been a customer
for so long. I want the discount. Can you operate
a mop and bucket? Anyway? Why'd you quit that place? Oh? Man?

(28:39):
The management? Sure? Everything I touched was just sticky? Anyway,
So he leaves there. When I had this client that
came in, he was so nice all the time, softest
hands ever. Your daughter wants to get a job there,
Oh god, no, do anything else. I'll set you up

(29:02):
an OnlyFans account. Just don't worry. How much are they
paying your.

Speaker 2 (29:08):
Work there?

Speaker 1 (29:09):
That is not a good idea. So anyhow, so he
left that particular adult shop and then goes to another one.
He goes to the love Zone, and that's where he
set fire to the door of the love Zone while
the owner was in the back in the office. Right. Well,
then he runs off in hides. Police find him nearby
in a parking lot. They try to arrest the man,

(29:32):
but he wasn't having it. He threw a metal object
at the deputy and then tried to run. Well, that
didn't work out because they caught up with him and
arrested him for two counts of arson, burglary, and resisting arrest.
Maybe one of the best news stories we've had in
a long time in a great firefighter facing stocking charges

(29:53):
after throwing one hundred tampons painted red into x's yard.
I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna be honest
with you. When I read this story, initially I was
a total male chauvinist. Yeah, because I thought it was
a man.

Speaker 2 (30:12):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
A Florida woman has been arrested for throwing tampons into
her ex boyfriend's backyard. Hey now a spokesperson with the
Sheriff's office as twenty eight year old firefighter Gabrielle Franzi
is facing misdemeanor stalking charges after she allegedly threw over
a hundred tampons into her ex's yard and that the

(30:35):
tampons were painted red to make them look used. The
report claims she was unhappy because her ex boyfriend had
a new girlfriend, and that Frensie's mother and aunt were
with her in the vehicle during the incident. They should
get charged too. It's a family affair. We got you, girl,

(30:55):
We support you. Crazy here here you dropped one you
should do you should get tampons. Let's go buy one
hundred how many hundred box? Twenty?

Speaker 2 (31:06):
Oh you can get a box of one hundred?

Speaker 1 (31:08):
Okay, okay, so one box of tampoons and a small
court of red paint. I'm just saying the amount of
effort she had to put in to do this. She
had to buy the box, she had to take the
plastic whatever thing that you get it out of, dip
them all, figure out how you're going to transport him
without getting red all over you and the inside of
your truck, right, and then stand there and go one two.

(31:30):
The three of them would have to do at least
thirty each. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (31:34):
Yeah, it was like a weekend project.

Speaker 1 (31:36):
Yeah. Now, did you say it was the frameor of
the backyard? It was the back It says, backyard. That's
so weird. Why are the backyard? Ain't nobody going to
see the backyard? He'd be spread right, how many people
see the backyard? Maybe where they were at there isn't
like an alley scenario, you know, like that's where they park.
That would make sense. Yeah, don't be seen. We don't
want to get caught. We just want him to come

(31:57):
out and walk his dog and see he's red tampon.
He's got cameras not in the alley, Well, let's do that.
They caught it because of other neighborhood cameras and they
have that flock camera system, so that's how they pinpointed
her in that location when she didn't need to be.
And apparently she's a highly according to the story, a
highly decorated firefighter whatever that means. Means she does a

(32:19):
good job. Yeah good saved a couple of kids from
a burning building. Yeah maybe yeah, sure, yeah, but now
all that Sanchez gone all because he moved on, ye,
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What's the best thing that's happened this weekend and the

(33:48):
worst thing that's happened this weekend? BMMS and whatever that
is to eight two, nine, four five, lindsay what's the
best and what's the worst.

Speaker 2 (33:56):
The best we celebrated my kids pretty much this weekend.
Yesterday we went to the lake. We had some great news.
One of the twins did got mastery level in math

(34:16):
on Friday. The other twin soray, yeah, it was pretty awesome.
And one of the other twins found out he was
testing like ninety percent above his class on Boract in school.
And Marcus got his official acceptance letter in college for

(34:40):
TCC so he is now a college student while in
high school.

Speaker 1 (34:45):
Hooray.

Speaker 2 (34:46):
Pretty exciting. So we spent the day at the lake
and got some good lake time in water was kind
of chilly but refreshing at the same time. The worst
part of the weekend, I would say, I was pretty
excited to see a new Matthew McConaughey movie come out.
I was looking forward.

Speaker 1 (35:06):
To The Lost Bus really.

Speaker 2 (35:10):
Yes, because it's a mile to see Matthew McConaughey.

Speaker 1 (35:15):
He's like driving a bus full of like kids through
a fire, right if I remember the commercial correctly.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
Based on a true story, and yes, the fire was
in Paradise, California, back in twenty eighteen, and he was
supposed to be this hero bus driver saving like the
classroom of kids, getting them all to safety. Great. I

(35:40):
was excited to see, Oh, Matthew McConaughey back doing something.
This movie started off so slow. I ended up falling asleep.
It was such a let down, bummed out.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
You couldn't tell that by the advertisement.

Speaker 2 (35:57):
Huh No, in the trailer looked great to me. I
was like, this looks great.

Speaker 1 (36:02):
What do you think his last good movie was not
voice roll? I'll let you just pick the year. Okay.
I was gonna say Lincoln Lawyer. You don't, okay, I
mean that was twenty eleven, Okay, because I don't think

(36:22):
I don't keep up with Matthew mcconnaey a whole lot.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
Yeah, I don't remember what his last that I would
that I have seen that I enjoyed.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
Okay, So these are the movies that that are out
now that he was the non voice Okay, White Boy Rick, Oh,
that was a pretty solid movie, Okay, Serenity never never
heard of it. The Beach Bum The Dark Tower in

(37:00):
twenty seventeen, an American neo western science fantasy film loosely
based on Stephen King's novel series. Okay, Gold Kubo in
the Two Strings, I'm in twenty sixteen now, The Free
State of Jones. The Sea of Trees in twenty fifteen,

(37:26):
Naomi Watts. Okay, twenty fourteen, Interstellar, A lot of people
think that's a good movie. That's twenty fourteen, and then
twenty thirteen was easily his best year. Dallas Buyers Club,
Wolf of Wall Street. Yeah, twelve years. It's been twelve years. Wow,
So your expectation of having a good movie from him now.

(37:48):
His voice stuff, he's had the sing movies. His voice
stuff has been awesome, Dark Stuff. Dark Tower was all right,
twenty seventeen movie. I really enjoyed White Boy Rick, but
I haven't seen anything past that. And I just seen
the commercial for the Lost Bus and I was like, wow,
that looks like a third Nice to know that I

(38:09):
won't have to be wasting my time on to be winning.
What is White Boy Rick about? He is an arms dealer,
kind of like a like a hillbilly arms dealer whatever,
not like a legit one, and it's a father son business,
if you may. It's pretty solid. Well, it was twenty
nine million dollars to make and it only brought in

(38:30):
twenty six Well, just feel a little short. So it's
considered not good. Yeah, okay, all right, best and worst
the weekend? What's the best part of the weekend. What's
the worst part of the weekend, GIMPI, Well, I think
the best part of the weekend would have been Saturday.
I got together with some friends and we rode to bikes,
blues and barbecue and Rogers. Started off with a small

(38:55):
group and then we met up with another group in
Muskogee and we totaled twenty eight bikes in a pack,
riding from Muskogi to Rogers, Arkansas, and it was it
was awesome. But when you have that many bikes in
a group and you're trying to do the whole scenic route,

(39:18):
windy roads and highways, it's it's bad news, man, it's
bad news. We had two people go down. There's this
one cat man cause I'm like, did you know all
these people? There's just kind of I knew the people
that I was with and part of the larger group
that we met up with, but not a lot of them, right,
I would say this larger group that we met up with,

(39:39):
I maybe knew like a small handful five of them, Okay,
so a lot of people that I didn't know, And
so so that large group is kinda we all bunched together,
and so it's this large group, and then it starts
with me and then my group, which there was like
seven or eight of us something like that. Okay, so

(40:01):
I'm kind of in the middle of this pack or whatever,
and there was this one cat. I'm keeping my eye
on him the entire time because I don't know if
they were a lot of these people were just inexperienced
riders or inexperienced when it comes to riding in a
group like that, especially a large pack like that. And

(40:21):
there's this one cat that was next to me because
we're riding staggered. It's not side by side, but it's
just kind of, you know, offset of each other, yet
still in a formation of sorts, not just willy nilly
all over the road or whatever. So we're riding staggered
and there's this guy that's that's kind of next to me,
and he's having issues the entire time, shifting just I

(40:44):
don't know. I was like, bro, do you even know
what the hell you're doing? So I'm like keeping my
distance from this guy. And as we're going through I
think it was like Highway eighty two or something like that.
I forget the exact highway, but it's tight two lane highway.
And this guy I see him, he is, he's getting

(41:06):
closer and closer to the edge. And now keep in mind,
on this road, there's no real shoulder. It's just drop off, right,
and maybe maybe a six inch drop off, okay, And
he's riding this line right on the edge, and I'm watching,
I'm watching, and I'm like, he's gonna fall off. This
guy's gonna fall off the road. And sure enough, as

(41:28):
soon as that thought passes my mind, dunk dunk. There
he goes off the road right, and he handles it
like a champ for the most part. Man. He shuts
her down, and he tries to get back up on
the road, but again, there's lip there. You can't just
hop back on the road, not on your bike anyway.
So he ends up kind of putting it over right,

(41:49):
didn't like completely lay it down, but you know, still
it's not upright for the most part. All right, So
that guy goes off the road, and I'm like, holy crap,
and I go around him because why because if I
stop or slow down or check brakes real quick, that's
going to cause all the people behind me to just

(42:09):
domino effect and pile up. And so I just keep
on going, and everybody's going around. And there was another
guy who was on a chopper like bike, and he'd
had issues from the beginning as well with his back
tire Da da da da, Like God gave him every
sign in the world not to go on this ride,
but he did it anyway. So anyhow, so as everybody's

(42:33):
kind of scattering after this guy goes off the road,
this other cat had to do quick thinking, right, and
his chopper takes the right side off of the road
into the grass, into the dirt, and goes around the
guy who would laid his bike down or you know,
dumped it over a little bit. And this guy too
decides I'm just gonna pop right back up onto the

(42:54):
road and go on about my business. Well it did
not work that way, because he ended up flipping his
bike right, broke his triple tree handlebars come off right.
Bad news totally. All this could have ended a whole
hell of a lot worse than what it did. Luckily,
there was a record that have happened to just be

(43:14):
coming by at the same time. Stops had like a
dozen zip ties in his trucks, So the dude ends
up zip tying his handlebars back to his forks just
to get him to Rogers right again. Every sign this
guy could have had a need to not go on
this ride, he had it, but he did it anyway,

(43:36):
So that wasn't the worst part of the weekend though.
I mean, the ride was great. We went out there,
we checked out the festivities, we had some good barbecue,
and then we rode the Pig Trail all the way back,
which is a really awesome highway down there with lots
of twist and turns. But only seven of us went
on that trip and cut it down a little bit

(43:57):
pretty much. Yeah, so, uh, that was the best part
all of that, you know, just phenomenal riding. And I
guess the worst part of the weekend is is I've
got a ZiT on my ass right that I have
tried to pop several times and it ain't happening. So
when you're riding for that long, sitting on a ZiT

(44:19):
on your ass and made for a very uncomfortable ride
all weekend long. Yeah, how the bike holed up? Because
this is the first big trip of the bike, right,
this is the first big trip of the bike, and
she did just fine. Have you named it yet? I'm
going with the silver fox. We're gonna call her Foxy

(44:39):
for shorts, So fuck lady. Yeah. Best and worst the weekend.
What's the best part of the weekend. What's the worst
part of the weekend? Bmms and what that is to
eight two nine four five. Best part of the weekend
would be I'm alive and beat up some sixty nine

(45:01):
year old man in an alley and then get stabbed,
So that's good. Worst part of the weekend, let's see, Saturday.
Worked all day at the school till like three o'clock.
The football game then went into overtime that my kid
was cheering at and so that prolonged it. My kid

(45:22):
had two projects they had to work on for the
that are due today, so I had to help with those,
which drives me insane because I'm doing like they're not
my projects, right, But you're in it. You're in it now. Yeah.
My check engine light came on back on my car
again after just having in the shop, so I got

(45:42):
to get it back in the shop. No, I mean, listen,
it was like two hundred bucks for the last repair.
If it cost six hundred on this one, I'm still
less than a car payment. That is true because that
car's paid off, it's got one hundred and twenty thousand
miles on it. I'm going to try and get every
drop out of it. So, yeah, it was it was fine.

(46:04):
It was a fine adulting weekend. It's always good, right,
best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
that happened this weekend? The worst thing that happened this weekend?
This says, Best. Moved to our new place out in
the country. Worst, I'm sore as hell. Worst, couldn't it
get drunk with my wife at a wedding. Best it's
because we found out she's pregnant and it'll be our

(46:25):
first child. So did you get drunk too? Or did
you or did you also not get drunk? Right, it's
only fair if you don't. Best part took my nephew
to the ice Cube concert. M your nephew wanted to go? Huh?
Worst was sick all day yesterday. I'm not saying ice

(46:46):
Cube wouldn't be a fun show. I'm just saying your
nephew implies eighteen twenty. Maybe maybe he likes classic hip
hop because it is classic. It is worst of the weekend,
working all weekend. Best of the weekend being closer closer
to Friday and having four days off. Best of the

(47:08):
weekend we met a new addition to our family and
got to watch our son play baseball. Worst of the
weekend Giants and Dolphins lost again. Yeah that Jackson Dart
Funds over huh. Best part I used my Megaide passes,
took the kids of the fair. Worst part still spent
two hundred dollars there only my checks. Best part was

(47:31):
I earned some free time from the kids this weekend
and went to karaoke with some coworkers. Worst was probably
a husband leaving for work again. Yeah, I don't know, man,
if I have some free time away, karaoke is not
on my agenda, Well, you're not a karaokeer, so that

(47:53):
makes sense for you. I mean if I had, like, hey,
you get a pass away from your kids, which feels
like a wild statement to wake, but like, I'm probably
going to jiu jitsu, maybe like something you find enjoyable. Yeah,
not something that well I'm already paying for that not
something i'd have to pay for. I think this is

(48:16):
where my head is, okay, because you ain't getting out
of karaoke for under fitty.

Speaker 6 (48:23):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (48:23):
I mean it is possible go in there, just have
a few drinks, if any at all. Yeah, I know
been times I've gone in. It's very few and far between.
But I can go in and spend twelve bucks on
a karaoke night and that'll be it. What's on tap exactly? Yeah,
all right, we're giving away tickets to see mud Vaine.

(48:43):
They're gonna be at the Tulsa Theater with Static X
on Thursday. Get your tickets to Tulsatheater dot com. We'll
be back. Let's see what Gimpi has in his four
x four. Now, well cool? It is here that judge
blocks Trump administration from sending National Guard to Portland. Hey,

(49:06):
federal judge has blocked the administration from sending members of
the federalized National Guard to the streets of Portland, Oregon.
US District Judge Karen Immerguts immigrants. Immergoots Anyhow, she granted
the motion for a temporary restraining order filed by the

(49:27):
state of California last night. The emotion stopped the deployment
of up to three hundred members of the California National
Guard to Portland. California Governor Newsom said that he's going
to sue the administration after it federalized three hundred California
National Guard troops and deployed them to Oregon. That says

(49:48):
here that the Dems to cocus virtually on government shut down.
House Minority Leader Haking Jeffries uploaded a letter to his
website that said people will die if the Affordable Care
Act tax credits are not renewed in a government funding
stop bill, Get stop bill. He also said millions will

(50:11):
lose their healthcare coverage and the cost of premiums, co
pays and deductibles will skyrocket. President Trump and Senate Majority
Leader John Thune and House Leader Mike Jansson have all
vowed not to cave into the Democrats' demands for healthcare funding.

(50:32):
What else we got here? The Supreme Court to kick
off a new term. The Supreme Court will hear some
controversial cases in the new term that begins today. On
the docket will be cases involving the use of erase
in congressional redistricting, conversion therapy for miners, and state laws
banning transgender athletes and girls' sports. The High Court will

(50:55):
also hear cases involving the Trump administration, including the legality
of global tariffs and on whether Trump can fire democratic
appointed officials without cause. And then lastly here the Oklahoma
Pet Collective Society to hold Rescue Runway event on October
twenty third. Yep, that's the thing. The Rescue Runway Event

(51:16):
will be held on Thursday, October twenty third at Studio
three eight, which is at three eight South Lansing Downtown.
It's going to be going on from six thirty to
nine thirty. It will showcase adoptable dogs as they walk
the carpet alongside community members in a fashion show fundraiser.
The event will also have speed dating with the dogs,

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allowing attendees to spend some time with the potential pets
to find a match, and a silent auction offering guests
the chance to bid on the items. Also music, raffles, photos,
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sorry Monday. Good morning, Lonnie. How are you good? I'm good, buddy, Lonnie.
It says here you've been married two years. Tell me
how you met your wife?

Speaker 7 (52:52):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (52:52):
Facebook to a friend?

Speaker 1 (52:54):
No kidding?

Speaker 6 (52:55):
Were you nervous?

Speaker 1 (52:56):
Were you nervous doing it that way?

Speaker 6 (52:58):
Oh, dud's super nervous, like for real, super nervous.

Speaker 1 (53:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (53:02):
I'm not really my style to be that way. I'm
more of an in person kind of guy, you know
what I mean?

Speaker 1 (53:08):
We met? Did you take her out? On a like
on a date somewhere, or did you just meet for
drinks or what'd you do?

Speaker 6 (53:14):
We met up for drinks and it worked out from there.
We clicked together and it was awesome. By She's perfect.

Speaker 1 (53:21):
When you when you sat down, like at the bar
to meet her, did you go, WHOA, what should I order?

Speaker 6 (53:27):
Like?

Speaker 1 (53:27):
Hey, maybe I should pull back? Or just ordered your regular?
Or what'd you do? No?

Speaker 6 (53:32):
I just ordered my shot a while turkey and my
prebr and asked her what she wanted.

Speaker 1 (53:37):
And what did she say? Do you remember?

Speaker 6 (53:39):
Yeah? She won? Course?

Speaker 1 (53:40):
What was it meant to be at that moment? Right?

Speaker 6 (53:45):
I mean, I guess if you like drinking pea water?

Speaker 1 (53:47):
But yeah, that's probably for a different podcast, all right?
Uh Lannie. It says here that you're an electrician. How
long have you been an electrician?

Speaker 6 (53:58):
About twenty years?

Speaker 1 (53:59):
And what made you want to get into that field?
Is there a family that have done it or.

Speaker 6 (54:06):
Had I started having kids and I need the trade
that was going to pay me enough to raise them.
And I had a buddy that was electrician and he
brought me into the trade and I never left.

Speaker 1 (54:17):
And do you do residential or or business to business stuff? Like,
what do you usually do for electrical work.

Speaker 6 (54:23):
I'm a commercial electrician, okay, and I can I can
wire anything, but I'd prefer to the commercial side.

Speaker 1 (54:30):
Yeah, the guys that have been doing a long time
seem to be that seems to be the answer. They
say they don't want to do residential.

Speaker 6 (54:39):
In the house, you know, I mean so.

Speaker 1 (54:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (54:41):
I like things to challenge me. I like to be
challenged while I'm at work.

Speaker 1 (54:47):
It says here speaking of challenges, it says that you
got crushed at work by your boss. Now is that like, uh,
he's a he's good with his words, or he physically
crushed you.

Speaker 6 (55:00):
He basically crushed me with a skytrack. I don't know
if you know what that is. Well, it's it's a
huge forklift. They can raise up six stories. It's basically
a forklift on steroids. And I was I was breaking
the rules and we were a lot of people in there,
and I was riding where I was sure to be riding.

(55:23):
And when he parked the skytrack, he dropped the boom
on me, and he didn't realize he dropped the boom
on me. And then he got out. He started walking away,
and they heard me gurgling, so he had to get
back in the skytrackt and then raised the boom up
off me and pulled me back out. Yeah it was
a good time. Ow.

Speaker 1 (55:47):
I think some people might know this as a workload,
a worklift or a workload if you know what those are.
It's looks like a tractor, but it's got a forklift
on the like on an extended arm.

Speaker 3 (55:57):
Uh.

Speaker 6 (55:57):
Yes, yeah, that is correct.

Speaker 1 (55:59):
They use it for like, uh and doing fiberglass pools,
and sometimes they use it to do tornado shelters and
things like that. Uh so how much? What were your injuries?

Speaker 6 (56:13):
Like? I broke all my ribs on the right side
and have them on the left side, and then I
straightened all the muscles in my back.

Speaker 1 (56:22):
So this happens, do Like, does you have to call
an ambulance?

Speaker 6 (56:26):
Oh? Yeah, they called the amulets. They rushed me in
the hospital and all the nine arts and everything else,
and the hospital like probably ten twelve hours later. So
let me go home.

Speaker 1 (56:36):
Did they give you the morphine? Did they give you
the morphine while you were in transport?

Speaker 6 (56:40):
I don't like No, I don't like drugs.

Speaker 1 (56:43):
So you just raw dogging it all the way straight?

Speaker 6 (56:46):
Up.

Speaker 1 (56:47):
Oh, give me the drugs? Yeah, how long did you
miss work?

Speaker 6 (56:54):
Three weeks out?

Speaker 1 (56:56):
And did you have any residual pain? Any problems?

Speaker 6 (57:00):
They were bok a rib Oh yeah, that's not fun.

Speaker 1 (57:04):
No, no, And it seems once you do it, it's
so easy for it to happen again.

Speaker 6 (57:10):
And then going back three weeks later, man talk about
don't talk to me please, it don't make me last, right,
And I didn't even want to breathe even to make
me laught?

Speaker 1 (57:21):
How was your boss did he? Was he remorseful? Were
you mad at?

Speaker 7 (57:24):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (57:25):
Yeah, very well, don't say it again, friend? Yeah? Yeah, okay,
what happens? You go? That's much better. That's a better
choice of words.

Speaker 6 (57:37):
I'm sorry, No, no, it happens.

Speaker 1 (57:40):
And did your boss like buy you lunch for a
while or anything like that to make up for it?

Speaker 6 (57:45):
They fired me a month later?

Speaker 1 (57:47):
Well that's awfully nice, right.

Speaker 6 (57:50):
What I thought too? Caused him out?

Speaker 1 (57:53):
Yeah? What what did he? What did he say? The
firing was for?

Speaker 6 (57:57):
Were you good? And slow?

Speaker 1 (58:01):
And and do you.

Speaker 6 (58:02):
That's all I feel like they were. No, they kept
another crew and my crew, so I knew it was
out of resentment or whatever, you know.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
I mean, yeah, that sucks. Now my understanding is in
that that trade there people are looking for good electricians
all the time. Did you have trouble finding a gig
after that?

Speaker 6 (58:27):
Oh, Christian, and you're not working you don't want to,
that's the bottom line. Yeah, straight up, I can't. It's
so easy to find a job out It's fine, even funny.

Speaker 1 (58:41):
Now it says here that when you were eighteen years
old that you got in some trouble. Tell me, tell
me what what what you did or what you were
accused of doing.

Speaker 6 (58:54):
Okay, so what I did when I got convicted of
I thought none. I was eighteen years old and I
got with this little girl and she liked to do
miss and I started doing myths and then I started
doing stereos from the kmart. And after so long, I'm
doing the same thing over and over the end I

(59:16):
got busted.

Speaker 1 (59:18):
And did you stay with that girl?

Speaker 6 (59:21):
Well, I haven't seen her for a lot of years.

Speaker 1 (59:24):
And so you go at eighteen, you go to prison.
How how long was your conviction?

Speaker 6 (59:31):
I did see I did six months in and eighteen on.

Speaker 1 (59:35):
Parrel Okay, what was that first day like? At eighteen?

Speaker 6 (59:40):
Rather, it's crazy. I went in there I had like, okay,
so first you go to county, and after I went
to county, they take you to Lexton. They take Lexton
and they process you there. I had hair halfway down
my back and they have to shave everything off your
head and your face. So I lost my whole head

(01:00:02):
of hair and they got put into the sew the
person who's in there for murder. So it was an
awesome experience.

Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
Now, all right, did they let you sober up in
county or how did that go?

Speaker 6 (01:00:15):
Oh? I had to sober up the county obviously. When
I get the county and I know that I'm fixing
pull change here in about three months. It takes about
that long. I've already been convicted and I've already been
put in county. So now I'm in county and so
now I'm working out. I'm doing pushing up sort of
just trying to get myself in shape. Yeah, I mean,
so I can go down. Because when I got arrested,
is I was so I was before I caught my habit.

(01:00:36):
I was six to two hundred pounds. When I got
locked up, I was six to one hundred and twenty pounds. Yeah,
I lost a lot of way. I was in a
bad spot.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
Do you reflect on that first time that you did
that and the path it altered for you in your life?

Speaker 6 (01:00:58):
Oh? Always and every day. I knew that when I
hit that guard and I met those people, that's not
where I belong, you know what I mean? Yeah, And
I knew then that I needed to get myself right
and get rid of this habit, and I did so
I would have a math in FI teen years.

Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
And when you when you got to did you go
all right? I guess I got to punch somebody in
the face or did you try to stay low?

Speaker 6 (01:01:21):
I try to stay low, but you know there's always
that one's going to test to you. So I had
to have me a little bout about about it, and
I won, and nobody else mess with me again.

Speaker 1 (01:01:33):
Never had a visit from the sisters.

Speaker 6 (01:01:36):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:01:38):
Uh, What would be your advice to someone that's going
into prison.

Speaker 6 (01:01:47):
Keep your head low, don't associate with anybody, and just
wait for yourself to get out. Thank for real, Like,
don't mess with nobody in there, dude, don't don't associate
with anybody, don't get yourself to any trouble you don't need.
You're there to do your time, and you're there to
get out.

Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
I thought you had to pick a crew to be with,
like a group of people.

Speaker 6 (01:02:11):
If you're going no sir, no sir. You can be
a vigilant all you want and people respect that. They
might test you, they might come try you, but as
long as you stand your ground, they'll leave you alone.
They don't want to fight. They want to punk. They
don't want to fight.

Speaker 1 (01:02:28):
What does that mean? They don't want to fight? They
want what do you mean?

Speaker 6 (01:02:31):
They want somebody who's not going to test them. If
you test them and you fight with them, then they
will respect you and leave you alone. If you're just
a little punk and you ain't gonna fight them and
you're going to test them, you're not gonna stab up
for yourself. And that's when you get taken advantage of them.

Speaker 1 (01:02:45):
They want people to roll over and be scared.

Speaker 6 (01:02:47):
Exactly would you? They don't want somebody to test them?

Speaker 1 (01:02:52):
Would you have different advice if you had to, if
you had a longer conviction.

Speaker 6 (01:02:58):
Yeah, find some it to be with.

Speaker 1 (01:03:01):
What do you yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:03:05):
Well, you got to like if you're going to be
there for a long time, bro, you need to find
somebody who's gonna help you and protect you and do
stuff like that. You know what I mean. You don't
want to be in there, bike, You don't want to
be in there by yourself for ten years. That's a
long time. I had a short sentence. So that's how
I played mine.

Speaker 1 (01:03:23):
Did you make friends?

Speaker 6 (01:03:26):
Yeah, the old guys playing horseshoes and stuff. They were fun.
We used to play horseshoes and poker. And while that's
where I've phoned the mynachhet was with the old timers.
They only had a couple of years left or whatever.
We just had a little you know, man.

Speaker 1 (01:03:43):
Okay, so six months go by, you get out. What
is that first day like, do you go somewhere?

Speaker 7 (01:03:49):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:03:49):
What is it for you?

Speaker 6 (01:03:51):
Dude? Walking out of that courthouse and stealing that air
on your face and not having those prison clothes on
your back is one of the best feelings ever have.
I promise that it was awesome for real, Thank you, Hugh.
I did my time. I'm out. I'm ready to go
live my best life. Now.

Speaker 1 (01:04:11):
How long did it take for you to I don't know.
Relax is the right word, but like let your guard
down and not have your head on a swivel.

Speaker 6 (01:04:21):
That's never not stopped.

Speaker 1 (01:04:24):
So you still sleep with your back to the wall.

Speaker 6 (01:04:25):
Huh, that's real talk. I'm not playing then. Okay, anytime
I go to a restaurant, I sit in the back
in the corner, like my head never stops swilling.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
It says here that you're a flat earth. There, sell
me on why the earth is flat?

Speaker 6 (01:04:51):
Shets two hundred and fifty miles a bullet. At where's
the curvature in that bullet? When it's shooting two hundred
and fifty miles? Two bullets curve or we're even that
movie wanted, like can we just kind of throw them
around and they curve around the earth or whatever?

Speaker 1 (01:05:07):
No, but snipers have told many stories about long shots,
and you have to account for the draw.

Speaker 6 (01:05:14):
Well, you account for the drop of the bullet, not
for the curvature of the earth. The bullet's not gonna
fly forever.

Speaker 1 (01:05:24):
No, that's true.

Speaker 6 (01:05:25):
But how how I.

Speaker 1 (01:05:28):
Don't know if they have Do they have bullets that
go two hundred and fifty miles?

Speaker 6 (01:05:32):
It's a rail gun. You should look it up. Educate
your stuff. The rail gun shoots two hundred and fifty miles. Okay,
one bullet shoots two hundred and fifty miles in a
straight straight on boone, I'll hit you from two hundred
and fifty miles with the curvature of the Earth at
eight point three four miles per whatever. Yeah, how's that

(01:05:53):
bullet not curving around the earth.

Speaker 1 (01:05:56):
On this rail gun? Because I don't have time to
look at up ball. We're talking. How do they spot
the target two hundred and fifty miles?

Speaker 6 (01:06:05):
How do you use a telescope?

Speaker 1 (01:06:08):
I don't think telescopes used work two hundred and fifty miles.

Speaker 6 (01:06:11):
Well, I mean I know that the rogun can shoot
a target at two hundred fifty miles away getting a
straight line. And if there's a curvature of the earth,
then that is not accurate. What about bridges and how
straight they are? And if you want to talk to
a pilot, how many pilots do you know they're going
to say the Earth is flat? What about? Okay? What

(01:06:33):
about nothing? Really? Well? Okay, what about the United Nations map?
Why is it a flat Earth map? Well?

Speaker 1 (01:06:41):
I think so they can put all the nations on
one spot so everybody can see them.

Speaker 6 (01:06:47):
You do not believe in the icewalal?

Speaker 1 (01:06:51):
Why don't you tell me what the ice wall is?

Speaker 6 (01:06:54):
Ice walls Antarctica? Why can we not go past the
sixtieth parallel every in the world has a treaty is
saying we cannot go past the sixties farewell, yet we
cannot have world peace. Why is that?

Speaker 1 (01:07:10):
That's a great.

Speaker 6 (01:07:11):
Question, I think because there are realms beyond the Icewah,
we live on a We live in a realm. We
don't live on a planet.

Speaker 1 (01:07:21):
How okay, let's go with that. So they know there's
something beyond that, wouldn't someone would have had to have
gone past it, multiple people, especially if all the nations
agreed go past it and go yeah, that's bad stuff.
We can't go into the woods type of thing.

Speaker 6 (01:07:37):
Yes, they go past that, do not come back.

Speaker 1 (01:07:40):
Well, then how do we know it's bad? I mean,
how do people come back? Go Yo, we don't know
why none of that smoke exactly.

Speaker 6 (01:07:46):
Why are we being allowed to We know it's there,
but yet we cannot go past it according to the trees.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
Yeah, my understanding the treaty is there so no one
takes Antarctica as land like they don't declare it as
you know, Chinese or a US or things like that.

Speaker 6 (01:08:04):
No, you cannot go past the sixteenth param.

Speaker 5 (01:08:10):
That.

Speaker 6 (01:08:10):
You are not allowed to go past the sixtieth parallel.
Who otherwise they will show you down.

Speaker 1 (01:08:14):
Who polices it? Who what? Who polices it? Who enforces that?

Speaker 6 (01:08:22):
See, you're getting into things, so I'm not really sure
who they are.

Speaker 1 (01:08:28):
I'm just trying to understand who that person would be.
I mean, how would they know someone goes beyond it.

Speaker 6 (01:08:34):
I doubt it's a person that's releasing it. It's a
government industry of some sort of type like something that
you got to think, Corbyn, the entire world says, don't
go there, but we can't have world peace.

Speaker 1 (01:08:49):
Aren't there?

Speaker 6 (01:08:49):
Does that make sense?

Speaker 1 (01:08:50):
Aren't there countries past the sixteenth parallel?

Speaker 6 (01:08:55):
No, not past the sixtieth parallel?

Speaker 1 (01:08:58):
Okay, yeah, yeah, I mean so that's for you. The
sixtieth parallel is the big X factor in terms of
why you believe the Earth is flat.

Speaker 6 (01:09:08):
Well, that's not just necessarily that, mister the rail gun.
It's some apps. We've only been taught around globe for
the last hundred years or so. Before that, everybody taught
a flatter But that's what we knew that the Earth
was flat. And now NOWSA wants to come in and
say the Earth is round and we're spinning around this

(01:09:29):
and that, la la la, and we're doing all this
stuff which is not true. I mean, if the Sun
is a space and we have light, why is there
no light in space?

Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
Well? There is, I mean the Sun provides it.

Speaker 6 (01:09:44):
There's light in space, because I thought space was avoid.

Speaker 1 (01:09:49):
In the darkness where there's no sun.

Speaker 6 (01:09:53):
Of course, So how is the Sun in space and
shining light on us but not in space?

Speaker 1 (01:10:02):
Well, just I mean, just like you know, you have
a light on your front yard. It won't illuminate the
whole street.

Speaker 6 (01:10:09):
But it's illuminating my yard in front of it, right, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:10:14):
But the Sun has a distance it will travel and
then dissipate.

Speaker 6 (01:10:21):
So it's traveling from where it's ninety three miles away
ninety three million miles away, and it's not creating light
through space, but it is creating light on my planet.

Speaker 1 (01:10:33):
Yeah, because it's not a sixty wap bulb.

Speaker 6 (01:10:43):
I know. It's about the safety.

Speaker 1 (01:10:45):
I'm just saying, like the power of the light in
your on your on your house, your house light isn't
as strong as the sun. So just like if you
did a you know, a fifteen wat bulb. It wouldn't
be it wouldn't illuminate as much as the driveway as
your sixty wat bulb would be. I'm not trying to
out of it. We're just having a conversation, so.

Speaker 6 (01:11:02):
Oh yeah, I'm having a good time, don't get me wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
Yeah, dude, you are a fascinating cat man. I appreciate
you taking the time and good luck with work man,
and I hope we can.

Speaker 6 (01:11:14):
You guys are awesome and I love you.

Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
Yeah, thank you, all right, buddy, see you later.

Speaker 6 (01:11:19):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:11:19):
Yeah, he sore again. By the way, I had to
hit the dump. He was very passionate about his affection
for us, so we appreciate that. Finsley will join us
in about thirty minutes. If you have a question about
divorce or custody or guardianship or name change or anything
like that, make sure you get your question to us.
The email addresses show at Kmodi dot com, or you

(01:11:41):
can text it BMMS whatever that is to eight two
nine four five, or call when he's in the studio
at eight three, three four six. Oh kmod And we
will be revisiting the conversation we had on Friday to
see Jeff's thoughts on what that gentleman should do. So,
if you remember that titilating experience, we will revisit that.

(01:12:02):
There is a story out there of a guy who
got a promotion at work and he was disgusted by
the promotion and all because he got one more dollar
an hour. Okay, so he felt he should have gotten more.

(01:12:23):
Let's rephrase the question. Uh huh is a dollar more
an hour a legitimate raise? Yeah, eight dollars more a day, Yeah,
I don't. I don't think so.

Speaker 2 (01:12:39):
No, I don't either.

Speaker 1 (01:12:41):
It's technically yes, literally more yeah, but it's not a
it's not a serious raise. It's not a serious promotion.

Speaker 2 (01:12:48):
It's a raise, but I don't feel like it's a promotion.

Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
Now. Promotion would be like, hey, we're moving you to
management or something to that. If no, he did move
into another position and it came with a different salary,
but it was only a dollar more. Okay, Okay. I've
had plenty of jobs where they give you twenty five
cents fifty cents raise an hour and that's as good
as it gets. So to have a dollar yeah, it

(01:13:14):
doesn't seem like much, but it isn't much. It doesn't
seem like it's not much. It isn't much. Yeah, that
wouldn't even buy a week of groceries. Yeah, you're probably right.
But to be fair, they didn't have to give him
a raise to begin with. Well, they could have moved
him over and kept him at the same rate of
pay that he's doing now and just give him more

(01:13:34):
work to do. The idea that you're like, yes, I want,
I'm up, I would like to be considered for this promotion,
and they're like yep, and it comes with more money
and all those things than you do. And you take
a chance potentially that you could get fired, like you
might not be able to do that job. Well, you're
taking a risk for a dollar more now, now listen,

(01:13:54):
let me back up. Anybody gives you free money, you
say thank you, and you move along your way. Right. However,
when you are taking on a new job and they
are giving you more responsibility and they tell you there's
more money, it's a pretty dick move to only give
you a dollar more or quarter more, fifty cents more,

(01:14:16):
whatever that looks like, or nothing at all. Yeah, but
then that's not a promotion, right, right, and not all
jobs work like cars, where they just go, well, you
can do it, right, right, I just a dollar more
is like whoa IL agree with you. I feel it's
a slap in the face. For sure. It's insulting, you know,

(01:14:38):
but again, could have been less, could have been nothing
at all. Be grateful that you even got something. I
guess I'm trying to find a silver lining here that
it's not that bad. Oh, it might be more insulting
because of anything, you're making more money, so they're actually
taking more taxes right for me. I mean, you're right,

(01:15:02):
it is a silver lining. But if I'm like, hey,
I'm trying for the next step up and you're only
paying me a dollar more than I'm good where I'm at, right,
it's kind of like, what's the point why even try
for an easily dollar? I think anybody who has a job,
who wants to advance and move up the ladder, it

(01:15:26):
has an expectation that there is more than eighty dollars
more a week, Right, Yeah, I think that's a very
realistic expectation, and that it's almost like and as I
get older, I have this opinion they don't care. They
know they'll find some other goon to do the job
being management. Yes, yeah, yeah, for sure. There's this sense

(01:15:50):
a misbelief that they're like, oh, well, you've worked here
a while, you deserve it. I don't think that's a
real phrase in corporate America anymore, or not even corporate America.
The working world. Yeah, yeah, there's no you deserve it.
I don't know anybody, And all the times I've been
a part of hirings that someone's gotten a job because

(01:16:12):
they deserved it, right, because you think, what is the
classification that makes somebody deserve something. They've been there a
long time, they do a good job, right. I know
plenty of people that check those boxes that don't get
the promotion. Yeah. And most of the time you see
somebody get a promotion that sucks, Yeah, they're like, well

(01:16:35):
they're just falling forward. So I just think, you know,
people are always like, well, no one stays at a
job for very long anymore. Hell, they don't give promotions, right,
It's not almost where it's not worth staying at a
job for a long time. You know, think of you know,
like my uncle Buck worked for Ford, retired from Ford,

(01:16:58):
worked there, you know thirty. I think something like that
forty years. You just don't really see a lot of
that anymore, well, because I don't think they reward employees
for staying a long time. I was talking with somebody
today that's worked at a place since he's twenty one.
He's my age now and he's now the union representative, right,

(01:17:19):
and I'm like, what's the difference now between like you've discovered,
you've learned since that position's like the younger generation, which
is another phrase, I love the younger generation. They don't
stay anywhere along. They don't. They're not worried about longevity,
where the everybody else is worried about their pension and longevity. Yeah, yeah,
because that's not a thing. That's not a thing pension, right,

(01:17:42):
pension that those don't exist anymore. Maybe certain companies, but
the very few. I've had this discussion here there. What
is the motivation for me to stay here longer? Right,
I'm just being honest, Yeah, yeah, exactly, what's the motivation

(01:18:03):
to work harder? And I hear you to be good
at your job? Okay, that isn't that subjective, right, because
I think we do a pretty good job here right right,
been doing a pretty good job for I don't know
what last almost twenty years based off the boxes that
need to be checked. Yeah, but there's always like, well

(01:18:25):
you could do better, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:18:27):
Sure, So can this guy just use the promotion for
his resume and take that somewhere else?

Speaker 1 (01:18:37):
I mean yeah, but you also could get fired and
not do a good job.

Speaker 2 (01:18:42):
Right, But for experience purposes, Hey, it looks good on
his resume.

Speaker 1 (01:18:48):
Maybe if you only did it for a year, it
might not. Right, only for a year it might not. Yeah,
you did this for a year, but why did you
leave after six months? Because it ain't worth it? Right? Right?
I wanted more money, red flag. I'm just being honest

(01:19:09):
as as I've hired people when they're like, I want
more money, red flag. There ain't more money, right, And
that sucks because you know, you get people who work hard,
who enjoy what they do, and yet you can't compensate
them properly for what they do, not even a pizza party, right,

(01:19:34):
you know, so you have you're you're one hundred percent right,
What's what's the point anymore? Why are we even trying? Well?
I mean, you try so you can excuse me, so
you can have money to pay for groceries. And vacations,
your car like that. But what is the point to
sacrifice your night's, weekends, holidays when it's not rewarded. Well,

(01:19:55):
you get time and a half. Okay, not every job
does that, right. Somebody said, I just got fifty cent
an hour raise and I couldn't be happier. Okay, that
is a raise in your position. It's not a promotion raise.
The example that was given was it was a promotion raise. Right.
He went to a different apartment and with that got

(01:20:15):
a raise and pay. So this start started, this job
got a dollar after ninety days and three dollars after
a year. Of course, the three dollars took people to
quit to get it. If he makes twenty five dollars
an hour and gets a dollar raise and stays with
the company twenty years at a dollar a year, forty
five and twenty if that happen. If you get a

(01:20:36):
dollar a year, right exactly, this could be a one
time raise. Yeah right. We don't know how long he
worked there, right, and it's a different job responsibility. It's
just wild to think about like dollar, You're like, yeah, congratulation,
like pop, you hear the idea of getting a promotion, Pop,

(01:20:59):
the Champagne asked the I've put on the red panties
like you think, yeah, and it's a dollar more. It's
almost like, well, okay, put your granny panties back. Thinks
I just would rather stay here do them a thing. Yeah,
I get that. All right, we gotta take a break.
We'll be back.

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(01:21:58):
Jeff Heinsley from Hensley and Associates. Good morning, Jeff, Hey,
good morning. Jeff's here to answer any question you have
about family law. Maybe you find yourself in a predicament
where you need guardianship over maybe your parent or maybe
your sister's kid. He can answer how that works. Maybe
you want to name change, he can answer how that works.
Maybe you find yourself in a situation where divorce is necessary.

(01:22:19):
He can answer questions with that as well. Get your
question to us show at kmod dot com. You can
call eight three three four six oh KMOD, or you
can text bmms and whatever that question is to eight
two nine four five Jeff. On Friday, we had a
phone call from an individual okay, and that individual was
sharing some things that was happening in his life. Okay,
where his wife wants to name their kid. They're pregnant

(01:22:44):
after one of her co workers. Now there was a
history where the.

Speaker 7 (01:22:48):
Coworker male or female coworker.

Speaker 1 (01:22:51):
She is friends with a male co worker. Okay, here
we go, and she and he was kind of questioning that.
Come to find out they're on all in the same
phone plan together. There's some questionable things that matter. She's pregnant,
what about how do you should he get a paternity
test to make sure he's the father? Is Now, I

(01:23:15):
know you're not a therapist, that's not really your area.
But you have seen the story a lot.

Speaker 7 (01:23:19):
But I was gonna say, you know, we're called counselors now.
It's it's amazing how people tend to think that that
means we do mental counseling.

Speaker 1 (01:23:27):
We don't.

Speaker 7 (01:23:28):
We end up doing it, but we don't.

Speaker 1 (01:23:30):
But if this individual called your office free consultation, well.

Speaker 7 (01:23:33):
If you have any doubts, I mean, you have a
right to say that, say, look, this is weird. You
want to name the kid after this dude, and you've
got the dude on our plan. How the hell did
that happen? I've got some concerns, And yeah, I mean,
because the thing is is if the child is not

(01:23:54):
biologically his, the husband's Unless you do a paternity test,
you're never going to know, and he's going to be
legally responsible for that child forever if it turns out that,
in fact, it's not his. So that's that's why you
want to do these things. I mean, is it a
hard conversation. Yeah, but obviously she should have been talking
to him about Hey, I I put what was the

(01:24:17):
dude's name? I don't know, Okay, I wanted to say
something funny, but we needed the name, So I'll leave
it at that. But you know, she should have told
him obviously, and they've obviously got some communication issues. But
if he's worried about it, yeah, he should definitely get
it checked out because a that meant she cha cheated
on him if it is the other dude's kid at
which means he'll need a divorce, which means she should

(01:24:38):
call us. Or he could be on a whole on
on stuck on forever with that kid if it's not his,
and we don't want that. So you know, you have
a right. It's a hard conversation. You're not gonna like it,
but he's got the right to do that absolutely.

Speaker 1 (01:24:54):
Jeffer Minsley Associates is in the studio. If you have
a question for us, email it show at kmody dot com,
bmms and whatever the question is to a two nine
four five, or call like Melissa's done here to eight three,
three four six oh kmod Good morning, Melissa. You're on
the air with Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates.

Speaker 8 (01:25:12):
I have a question about divorce. I have someone that
flat out refuses to sign the divorce and it's been
like twenty years since we've been separated.

Speaker 7 (01:25:21):
Okay, so you don't have to have his signature. That's
just the thing is is in Oklahoma, if they're not
going to be involved in the situation or in the
divorce process, then we file for default when they failed
to show up, the judge signs off on the decree
and in your divorce and life moves on. So, I mean,
that's one of the things is Oklahoma doesn't require the
other person to have to do that. We have a

(01:25:42):
remedy that allows us to get around that. Should they
choose not to be involved, they can't lock you in
forever in Oklahoma. And so if you're having that problem,
if you'll give your name a number to Gimpie, I
will have somebody in my office or me. We'll call
you this week and we'll get you taken care of
so we can get you divorced and moved on, because
it shouldn't have taken twenty years to get you divorced,

(01:26:02):
and we want to help get that done for you.

Speaker 8 (01:26:05):
Yes, I would very much appreciate that, Melissa.

Speaker 1 (01:26:08):
Can I ask some context when you say he won't
sign the papers, is it because he's not available? Do
you guys still live together?

Speaker 7 (01:26:16):
H scenario no, no, no, no, no, he's just a douchebag.

Speaker 8 (01:26:19):
We have not lived together in like twenty years. He
lives somewhere in Muskogee and we've been separated since a
year after we got married.

Speaker 7 (01:26:29):
Right, So he's just a douchebag and won't won't sign
it right pretty much? Okay?

Speaker 1 (01:26:34):
And when you when you presented him with the divorce
or did you have an attorney draw everything up? And
did he have his own attorney?

Speaker 8 (01:26:43):
No, he had done the I had done the thing through.
There was a place there on memorial that I had
used like payless divorce or something. I had drawn the
papers up.

Speaker 7 (01:26:54):
Yeah, that's the friend I.

Speaker 8 (01:26:56):
Presented it tony, because he's already got another girlfriend. He's
got kids by this girl, and I'm just I don't want.

Speaker 6 (01:27:03):
To be part of it.

Speaker 7 (01:27:04):
Yeah, we can definitely help with that. So if you
give your number to gimp, you will give you a
call for sure.

Speaker 8 (01:27:10):
All Right, I appreciate it.

Speaker 7 (01:27:11):
Hang on the line, Okay, so let's talk about payless
divorce from it. Okay. The Bar Association has tried to
shut them down for a long time because it's a
paralegal that's running an office drafting up legal PaperWorks and
inherently giving legal advice, whether they realize it or not.
And I will tell you, we spend more time fixing
their mistakes and the crap that they do. And it's

(01:27:33):
just going to take you more time and money instead
of just hiring us to get it done and over
with to begin with. So I have fixed so many
problems on those stupid forms over the last twenty years.
It's unreal. So you know, I'm not being critical of
those people that use them. I'm merely saying that down
the road, when it's all screwed up, you're gonna have
to call us anyway to help us to get you
to fix it, because inherently that's what happens. So and again,

(01:27:57):
don't get locked into the situation of the idea of
the other side has to sign. And I've said this
before many times and I'll say it again. It is
a good movie, so laugh at me if you want.
But you know, sweet Home Alabama, she walks over and says,
I need your signature basically, and he's saying, no, we
don't do that in Oklahoma. It's not required. That's why
we have these motions for default that we can push
right through and if they're not going to be involved,

(01:28:18):
then tech with them. We're going to get the judge
to sign it and get you divorced. So please, you know,
give us a call. We'd love to help you with that.

Speaker 1 (01:28:24):
Jeff Ferminsling Associates is in the studio. If you have
a question about divorce or custody, garnshit, guardianship, any family law,
he can answer those questions for you. Eight three three
four six zero KMOD, text, BMMS and whatever your question
is to the phone number eight two nine four five,
or you can email show at kmode dot com. Like
this person, I've heard you on KMOD out of Tulsa.

(01:28:44):
I'm currently an Oklahoma resident. My legal husband is in
Kansas City and we've been split since two thousand and two.
I want to remarry, but do not want to be
responsible for any of the debt that he has built
between the years of two thousand and two to now.
Is it possible for that to bed in a divorce.
I plan to start divorce proceedings by the end of October.

(01:29:04):
Any help is appreciated.

Speaker 7 (01:29:06):
So anything that from the date of separation forward, anything
either one of you builds up, whether it be debts,
or assets or whatever it may be, that's all on you.
That's Oklhama state law. So anything he has done since
she's separated in which you say two thousand and two,
anything he's done over the last twenty three years, it's
all on him.

Speaker 1 (01:29:24):
What about we're not.

Speaker 7 (01:29:25):
Going to be responsible for any of it. It's only
from the date of marriage to the data separation she
would be responsible for anything. And that's Oka Milan has
been for decades.

Speaker 1 (01:29:32):
What about the fact that he lives in another state
can and that can feel like a roadblock when you're
trying to think this out logistically. Does that affect the filing?
Do you file here? Do you file there? How does
that work?

Speaker 7 (01:29:45):
You could file in either place. I mean, as long
as they don't have children. The reason the children thing
is important is because and I'm assuming the kids would
probably live with her anyway. But even if they don't,
let's say they do have kids, it's the home state
of the children as to where you're going to have
to file in regard it's to child support, visitation, custody,
everything else in the divorce can be done in either state.

(01:30:06):
If she is don't If they don't have any children,
or the children are grown up and aged out. They
can file in either state, so she can get started
on this any time. She doesn't have to worry about
anything he's done over the last twenty three years. That's
all on him, just like anything she's done is all
on her.

Speaker 1 (01:30:23):
Jeff Finsley's he here in the studio. I want you
to call and ask him a question if you need
help with a divorce or custody or guardianship, or someone
like this who's emailed to show at kmody dot com
that has a question about back child support. Okay, what
do I need to do to increase the amount I
send in for back pay on my child support?

Speaker 7 (01:30:42):
So you can always send in extra Okay, You'll just
need to have a notation on there that it's to
be applied to the back support, or if you want
to change the order itself, then you'll have to file
a motion to modify the order as to the back
support to be able to pay more each month. And
it can be done either way. It really just depends

(01:31:02):
on how you want to handle it. Is it a
one time thing you want to do or in every
couple times during the year kind of thing, or do
you want to change the actual order every single month
moving forward. We can do either one. So whoever this is,
give us a call and we can make that happen
for you. And that's a good idea to get caught
up on back support, because what will happen a lot
of times is is people don't get caught up on

(01:31:23):
their back support. Their kids ages out. And even if
we terminate the current customer current child support moving forward
because of the aging out, they still have the riages
to worry about. And remember that those arrearages are charged
two percent interest. Now, thankfully that's easier to beat down
than the old law, which was ten percent, and people
were never beating it down, which is why they changed

(01:31:45):
it to two percent. So with that being said, whoever's
doing this smart good idea, gives a call, we'd be
able to help you with whatever you need.

Speaker 1 (01:31:53):
So this is a question that gets asked and it
can be a button sometimes, but I think it's important
to say to call this out and give the explanation
of why I like buttons. Go ahead. This says, I'm
just curious roughly how much it costs to hire an
attorney for a divorce. We don't have children together.

Speaker 7 (01:32:12):
It depends. You know. I've had some be as cheap
as our retainer or less because they get along, there's
no kids, they've been married a short while and they
you know, literally agree to everything and it's boom boom done.
And then I've had some that are way more expensive

(01:32:34):
simply because we start the process, they claim, they get along,
we get into the details, and all of a sudden
it goes to heck and a handcart. So with that
being said, it really just depends on the people involved
in the issues. I mean, we say this, and you've
said this, you know, all the time, for the time
that we've been doing this. Corbyn is is that every
case is different. You may talk to your friends or

(01:32:55):
your family and they sound the same, but they're not.
Every case is different because every person involved in a
divorce or any kind of custody case or anything any
legal case, we're individuals. We're different from our friends, We're
different from our family members, our spouses or people on
the other side of the case are different from the
people that we know. So cases are largely controlled by

(01:33:20):
the people involved in the case because of the decisions
they make and the choices they make and how they
treat each other.

Speaker 1 (01:33:27):
When people ask me, just because of my proximity to you,
how much it costs. I always try to use an
example of getting a name change. It's a fairly simple process.
But if you want to change your name to mister Facebook,
you could have some roadblocks and it could cost you more.
Not guaranteeing you would get it right.

Speaker 7 (01:33:44):
I mean again, every case is different, and so we
have a set retainer all right, for pretty much every case,
at least from the famul aside. When you're talking about
our using our office in Pasca for criminal case, they
do flat fees and things like that. That it's different.
But you know, at the end of the day, if
we don't use all the retainer at the end of
your case, we refund it back. Whatever's left over, refund

(01:34:07):
back to you. Okay, So if we don't use all
your retainer, then we'll refund back whatever's left over at
the end.

Speaker 2 (01:34:13):
Of the case.

Speaker 7 (01:34:13):
That's what we have to do.

Speaker 2 (01:34:14):
That's the way it is.

Speaker 7 (01:34:15):
But again, you know, it can be as quick, especially
with no children, It can be as quick and as
easy as you want to make it, or you can
drag this sucker out as long as you want to.
Either I mean, it really depends on the people. We
try to push things through as quick as we can
and try to move things along. But again, there are
certain things we can't control. I cannot control pandemics. I

(01:34:36):
cannot control when courthouses closed. I cannot control when people
involved in the case, including the judge as family members,
get sick or die. I can't control if the other
side is pregnant, or you're pregnant and you have to
deliver a baby. I mean, there's certain things in the
world I can't control. I can't control if war breaks out,
who knows with Russia. I can't control any of those

(01:34:57):
kind of things, all right. I can't control the judge's schedule,
all right. For example, I had a coming up for
next month. I had a trial that's been set for
six months, and all of a sudden, the judge is
not available, and now we've had to kick it out
another two months. I can't control that. That's out of
my hands. So there are certain things I can't control,
or my office can't control. But how you treat each other,

(01:35:18):
you can control the people involved in the case, how
reasonable you are with each other. You guys, can control
how much you want to work with one another on
getting things actually done instead of putting the screws to
each other. You guys can control, so you know, there
are certain things that both of us can control and
we can do our best to try and get things
done as quick as possible.

Speaker 1 (01:35:38):
Die I tribe over. Jeff Finsley from Insland Associates is
in the studio. He will answer questions I have to
do with divorce and custody and guardianship and name change
and things like that. And this kind of curtails off
something we've already discussed. Do you recommend Lasso laso for
a cheap divorce?

Speaker 7 (01:35:54):
I don't even know what that is, So I'm going
to go with no. I just don't know what it is.
And you know, the thing is is that if you
don't hire an attorney to draft your to create legal aid,
okay legal aid, I will say yes. And here's why
they are licensed Oklahoma attorneys. I've known a number of

(01:36:17):
legal aid attorneys over the years. They're very good, they're
nice people. They are there to try and help for
free because it's funded by the state. So yeah, I mean,
if you can qualify. Now, that's the other thing about
legal aid Services of Northeastern Oklahoma. Is is that they
are only taking particular cases right now because they are

(01:36:38):
that backed up and they have very few staff and
very few attorneys. So if you can qualify and get
in there, absolutely they are good attorneys. They will take
care of you. But again, they are actual attorneys, licensed,
took the same bar I did, all that kind of stuff.
They're licensed attorneys, so you can trust them. They are
not pair legals, they are not legal assistant. They are

(01:37:00):
actual attorneys. So yes, I would say yes on those.
I changed my answer knowing know what it is now.

Speaker 1 (01:37:06):
Jeffer Mensling Associates is in the studio. This is kind
of a long one question for your lawyer on the show.
My name is John and for eight years I had
some custody of my kids, starting out with five months
I'm sorry, with five miners and my ex refused to
pay the court ordered child support. About a year ago,
the kids went to live with her, which is down
to two miners at this point, and DHS is attempting

(01:37:27):
to retroactively modify the back payments that she still owes
and instead assigned payments to me, claiming that I now
owe What can I do about this. It might be
worth noting the no judge has ever ordered me to
pay child support even after the kids went to live
with her. There may be a few typos in my
work here and using speech to text, I.

Speaker 7 (01:37:48):
Got to love speech to text. You've got a complicated
situation because you've got somebody who starts with all five kids.
I think he said, fine, all five kids and then
three go live with mom at some point with no
modifications on any of the orders. Child support and a

(01:38:09):
rariages cannot under Oaklahma law, be retroactively modified. They just can't.
Unless you've got an emotion that was filed and it
wasn't dealt with to wigh down the road, it can
you can modify it. So let's say you file it
in twenty twenty three, it wasn't finished until twenty twenty five.

(01:38:31):
Can the order cover everything between twenty twenty three and
twenty twenty five? The answers yes. But let's say you
didn't file till twenty twenty five, but your kids left
and went to Mom in twenty twenty three. You can't
change all that stuff. The law is very very clear

(01:38:52):
on this. It is not retroact actively modified unless you
have actually filed that actual motion to answer his questions.
I think he's got several there. And again it's a
complicated situation. The money follows the kids typically, and what
should have happened is is that when the kids went
to live with mom, he should have called and said, hey,

(01:39:12):
mom has three of the kids. Now I've only got two.
We're gonna need to do I need to do a
modification because now we have to do two computations, one
from one against mom for the two that dad has,
and one against Dad for the three that Mom has.
So it gets complicated, and now you've got multiple child
support comps. And then the thing about dhs bless their hearts,

(01:39:34):
is that and it's not their faults. Their computer systems.

Speaker 1 (01:39:37):
Are literally.

Speaker 7 (01:39:41):
Old, old, old, to the point that they have not
been touched since the eighties. And what that means, effectively
for the rest of everybody out there is is that
they can't So say, let's let's say one comp said
Mom owes one hundred dollars, and I know that's not
the number of just using easy math for my brain
early the morning with no caffeine. And let's say Dad

(01:40:03):
owes three hundred dollars, okay to mom. So that means
that that technically you would cross over right one hundred
minus to three hundred, you know you would. You would
do it that way and there would be one comp
and life would go on and everything will be perfect. Well, unfortunately,
their systems can't do that. Their computer systems are not that.

Speaker 1 (01:40:21):
Once.

Speaker 7 (01:40:22):
They are not that sophisticated, thank you, sophisticated to be
able to handle that. So there literally will be two
checks flying in different ways so that you can keep
trying me.

Speaker 1 (01:40:34):
It's a nightmare.

Speaker 7 (01:40:36):
Whoever this is, please call me, Please call the lawyer.
Corbyn will give it our information. Please give us a call.
I'd love to help you with this. You've got a
fairly complicated situation and don't believe everything that DHS tells
you unless you're talking to the actual attorney, because sometimes
things get misstated by accident and not on purpose. And
again you can't retroactive unless there was a motion of file.

(01:40:58):
So complicated situation. This is why you want someone to
represents you. We can help you out. Give us a call.
We'd love to help.

Speaker 1 (01:41:06):
Here's my hope for you is that you get to
talk to someone that can be an authoritative voice about
the family law situation. That's why Jeff's on the show.
It doesn't matter if you find help on a corrugated
board or you use legal aid services or your friend Sally.
Make sure you have a conversation with Jeff and Hinsleyan
Associates to verify that information. Let him help you, and

(01:41:28):
we've set up a free consultation with Jeff fifteen minutes
you mentioned KMOD When you call nine one eight three,
nine eight five, six nine two, and Jeff will give
you some time answer those questions, try to help you along.
And it's important to get it the right way because
you think you're saving money, but you could be leaving
so many loosens that you may get kicked back later

(01:41:50):
and that's not going to be awesome. So nine eight three,
nine eight five, six ninety two for Hinsleyan Associates, anything
that has to do with family law, he can help you.
Night three nine eight five. I'm too mentioned KMO D
And if you find yourself in a situation where you
have assaulted a grease truck GRISA recycling truck driver and
you've been stabbed, Jeff can help with that too.

Speaker 7 (01:42:11):
That's right, so through our office of PAHSKO and don't
worry about the location. It's the Shoemake Law firm up there.
If you don't remember the name after us saying it today,
just give Hinsley a call in Tulsa. We can get
you hooked up with there. With them up there. Sam
Allison is our attorney up there. He does a great
job anything in addition to famil I can help you with.
So if you've, like you said, you know, assaulted or
hit a grease truck driver, or been stabbed, or you

(01:42:34):
did stamb somebody or any of those kind of things,
please give them a call up there. They can help
you out with that. They do the free fifteen minute
consultation as well, So please give them a call and
tell them you heard them heard this on KMO D
and Sam will give you that time and make sure
that you're taken care.

Speaker 1 (01:42:50):
Of all right. Nine eight three nine five six nine
two for Hinsley and Associates. Nine one eight three nine
eight five six nine two. Jeff, have a great week,
Hey you too, We'll be back.

Speaker 6 (01:42:58):
Guy.

Speaker 1 (01:42:59):
In July, it was a forklift driver had seventeen dollars
in his bank account. Decides to buy a lottery ticket,
scratches it wins one point three million. Oh oh hi nice,
Yeah right. So that was in July. In September, he
was in the back of an ambulance suffering from bilateral

(01:43:20):
pulmonary embolism. So that's not a heart attack. Heart attack
is blockage to the heart. This is post heart so
probably to the lungs or something. And he apparently NonStop
partied and that's what caused it. He says he's been

(01:43:41):
partying for the last three months, burning the candle at
both ends. Quote. It allowed me to live a bit
of a life I've never lived, but I think I
went the wrong way about it. It was enjoyable until
my health became an issue. Apparently, about three weeks ago,
a blood clot in his leg spread to his lungs,

(01:44:02):
and he says he couldn't walk, couldn't breathe, he called
the ambulance, got wheeled into the ambulance and that's when
everything started changing for him. He obviously credits the hospital
for helping save his life. Quote. It just makes you
look at both sides of life, because it doesn't matter
if you have a million, one hundred million, a trillion.

(01:44:22):
When you're in the back of an ambulance. None of
it matters, says the guy who's spin it post. Yeah,
right here, that's after you've spent all that money, he said,
I left my job. I never should have done that.
I lost the structure of my liferom day to day living.
It was a complete disconnect from the life I was living.

(01:44:44):
He says. He is now focused on the next six
to nine months so he can be back to the
full version of me. What a dummy. Yeah, yeah, he
got rich and said, I'm going for it. Man, screw
you guys. I'm partying. Listen. I know a million dollars
sounds rich. I don't think it is. I don't think

(01:45:05):
it is. I think it is a lot of money,
one hundred percent right. But as this story demonstrates, you
can blow it pretty fast. And when you're rich, the
idea is you it's infinite, right right right, There's no
there's no end to it. Yeah, it's comfortable, I don't
think so not comfortable sitting in the back of that No, no, no,

(01:45:29):
you get a million dollars. Let's just say they take
three quarters of it for taxes. For the conversation, so
you have seven hundred and fifty thousand dollars. You're going
to stay in your two thousand square foot home. No, no, no,
because you feel like you're rich now and you can
afford a half a million dollar home. Right, So now
you're down to two fitty. I bet you got some bills. Yeah,

(01:45:51):
so let's just say it's about fifty grand. Now you
got two hundred. Hold up, you haven't even gone on
vacation yet. You haven't even bought a car yet. We
know you ain't paying no bills when you get your
lottery winnings the first thing. And I may be wrong,
I don't think that I am. People get that big

(01:46:12):
influx of money, they're going straight to what this guy did.
They're probably they're gonna go eat. They're gonna get a
new house, they gonna get a new car, they're gonna
go on vacation. All those bills that we've been putting
off for the past god knows, hella, we've been putting
them on this law, Why pay them now? Let's have
some fun while we have this money. As has been

(01:46:38):
demonstrated time and time again, of all the time of
you and I together, I'm just not built that way, right,
I believe in giving people money that I owe money
to because I kind of like honoring my work, right right, right, Well,
you know, the honest person would pay their bills, the
honest person would pay their debts. But the person that

(01:47:01):
has never had a lot of money and then gets
into an influx of money, that's that is what happens
every time, at least in my experiences with people that
I've known, you know, that's what happens when they get
an influx of money. Well, I guess it makes sense
because if you aren't good with money, why would you
suddenly become good with money when you have a million

(01:47:24):
dollars exactly? So screw the the bill collectors. You probably
pay your utilities. Sure, you know, you got to keep
lights on somehow if you're partying like this cat was eluding.
He wasn't sitting down on you know, Monday night with
the checkbook. No. No, He paid that month's bills and

(01:47:47):
then said, hey, Tony, I got a million dollars. How
much blow can I get for a million dollars? Right?
That's all I heard. By the way, he did blow
and hookers. That's all that happened for him, right that
there were a lot of people in his house he
just met. There was a lot of music still playing.

(01:48:08):
Maybe a pizza on the record player with the needle
going round and right right right, some kid maybe trapped
in the glass coffee table.

Speaker 2 (01:48:16):
Let's have the best time. Will never remember.

Speaker 1 (01:48:18):
Yes, absolutely, People that don't give a flying doodo about
you Nope, nope, or your house nope. They're there because
you got the blow and you got the money, and
you're sharing. Why because you can't. I got them one
point three million dollars. Get a little two for you,
A little two for you. Oh you want to take
some home with you? Here you go, eah, get the

(01:48:42):
hell out of my house. A certain type of rich
they call that that I can't say on the air.
The idea. Okay, so you win a million dollars at
your current rate, how fast would you go through it?
So you're not adding what do you mean, we're not
we're not adding, we're not adding money to it. Or

(01:49:03):
if you get a million dollars, huh, how long at
the current way you spend money? Could you make it last?
So we're not buying new house, new cars, got it,
got it, got it, lindsay.

Speaker 2 (01:49:13):
I think I could definitely make it last because I
would just shove it into savings.

Speaker 1 (01:49:20):
Right. So the idea is you're currently spent, the money
you are currently spending would go towards that you're not adding.
You're not adding an investment portfolio.

Speaker 2 (01:49:35):
Ten fifteen years.

Speaker 1 (01:49:36):
Okay, GIMPI And I'm not adding anything. I'm just living
off of this one point three million dollars million dollars
or I'm just living off of it. Let's pretend I
don't have a job. This is it? Uh oh yeah,
probably probably about five to ten maybe maybe, And that's
simply because you know, car's paid off. I got a

(01:49:57):
motorcycle payment that I got to make. The only difference
is you're not saying no to things, right, So you're
not saying to going out to dinner every night. You're
not saying no to you know, going to the lake
every weekend. You're not saying no to buying that shirt
that you want. You're not saying no to buying another
pair of shoes that you don't need, right right, right,
that's not adding, that's you practice restraint. There's no practicing
restraint on buying a million dollar home because you don't

(01:50:20):
do it now, right, right, right, right, right, So that's
not restraint. Right, that's not an option. So that's what
I'm saying, Like you would just stop saying no, right,
I would probably be eating out Giggy more often as
opposed you know, I would probably be buying my groceries
at research as opposed to Win. Right, No great value cupcakes.

(01:50:47):
That's right, we got full value.

Speaker 2 (01:50:52):
You might go to the bakery.

Speaker 1 (01:50:53):
Right, it's the actual bakery. Right, You're not going to
the discounted meat section. Right, where's the stuff in the counter?

Speaker 7 (01:51:02):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:51:02):
It's play cases. I've been I have been knocking it
back and forth for a long time. Wow, I want
to try my hand as some prime rib. It's just
too expensive, right to make? What hell not? This time?
I am going to ruin a prime rib? Why?

Speaker 6 (01:51:19):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:51:20):
Right, you you smoke a lot of meat, but you
probably brisket is probably something you don't go towards. It's
too expensive to reach. Yeah, absolutely, so we'll be getting briskets.
Oh yeah, right, exactly if if one fails throw the trash, yeah,
give it to the do don't even give it to

(01:51:40):
the dogs. Are homeless people just straight and trash, Right,
I don't give it to the dogs. No, no way, man.
Canned food. Now, all that grease is going to run
right through them. I don't even crap it on my floor. Right,
his pets would all get like canned food. Right that
stupid commercial you see with like real meat, and you're like,
get out of here. Nobody doing that for the dog. Right,

(01:52:01):
A collar with like actual diamond studs on it. Vet Care,
what shots you can tell you got some money. He's
going to the doctor. He's not saying he's gonna tell people,
but they'll be signed. So I took my dog to

(01:52:22):
the vet.

Speaker 2 (01:52:23):
His tooth gets fixed.

Speaker 1 (01:52:24):
Right, we're not adding no, he's just not saying no anymore, exactly,