BMMS 12-1-25

We're Back From Vacation!!! We talk About The Best & Worst Parts Of The Weekend, Coach Is In Trouble, Eating 10k Calories Then Dying, Cannabis INduced Vomiting On The Rise, We Spoke To An Awesome Listener, Jeff Hensley Stops By, & Lindsey Has A Gravy Armada!!!!

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happening at Dave and Busters starting on Wednesday morning, and yes,
we'll be there for twenty eight hours straight. One of

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the fascinating things that always happens with this is the
number of people that come out that have like I've
listened for years or I've heard you guys do this
every year, but I've never been out there.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Fifteen years. You never made it. I get it.

Speaker 5 (05:28):
Life, life happens. I get it. Fifteen years Yeah, well
you know it's fifteen years of stuff happening. Yeah, No,
I get it. I get it. But your chance is
going to be to come out there. Your chance to
come out there is going to be starting Wednesday. So
we're looking forward to that. I was gonna hold onto
this story, but it's just too juicy. And have you

(05:49):
heard the story about the high school football coach who
has been well. The police want to talk to him
for having child pornography and simpliciting a minor.

Speaker 6 (06:03):
Yeah, I was gonna bring this story up on Wednesday
if we didn't this story. As soon as I saw,
I've been praying for this man. This man pisses me off.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Why were you praying for me?

Speaker 6 (06:14):
Because initially this the story headline was undefeated foot high
school football coach goes missing and people thought was he abducted?
My first thought was, oh, he's undefeated, another school's jealous,
another coach off.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
Sure.

Speaker 6 (06:33):
Yeah, so I was like praying for this guy. Then
a week goes by and it's like, no longer missing.
Now he's a fugitive, And I'm like, s B, I
don't think he's a fugitive yet.

Speaker 1 (06:46):
You have to be detained and then and then you
go on the run, scupy.

Speaker 6 (06:51):
Yeah, well i'm missing suspect, I guess.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Yeah, the police want to talk to him. Yeah, I
think they're going to charge him.

Speaker 5 (06:58):
But I never heard he was missing, Like, oh no,
what happened. I've always known it's been associated with this
suspicion of him soliciting minors.

Speaker 6 (07:07):
No, the original was missing undefeated.

Speaker 5 (07:10):
Yeah no, I'm just telling you what I saw, and
it's a really fascinating story. Like Lindsay said, the football
team is really good. They're undefeated. Matter of fact, they're
still playing and tried to play without their coach and
because it's the thing they know, and they're still winning.
They're still undefeated and they're still in the playoffs, which
is interesting because the chaos that comes around that type

(07:30):
of thing from parents to do you let your kids
still be a part of it?

Speaker 1 (07:34):
You know? Jerry Sandusky, like all that stuff comes to mind.
You're like, well, what's happening? And this guy wasn't just
a football coach.

Speaker 5 (07:41):
He was also the pe teacher, and so he had
a lot of access.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
To a lot of kids.

Speaker 5 (07:48):
And the story goes is that when he got word
that the police were coming to talk to him or
arrest him, he left and his family says, and this.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Is where I'm like, huh.

Speaker 5 (08:00):
His family says he was lasting going into the woods
with a weapon, and so obviously they're searching the woods.
Now why would the family not stop him? I mean,
I get the whole point of like, good, I hope
he whatever. But if you if you're you're like yo,
yo yo, maybe they tried and he put up a fight,
then you keep following him, all right?

Speaker 6 (08:20):
You know what?

Speaker 5 (08:21):
I'm saying, I just seems like the guy you've went
into the woods, what are you gonna do?

Speaker 7 (08:24):
Right?

Speaker 5 (08:25):
Kind of like what happened with that kid that he
was suspected of hurting that girl that in a Yellowstone
or something like that, and they.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
Were like, uh, he just he went we he hasn't
been here and.

Speaker 5 (08:38):
We found out yeah, no, he had totally been there
and they were helping cover it up for him.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
Nice. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (08:44):
Uh So that's the part where I'm like, come on,
that feels a little suss.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
And the town's small.

Speaker 5 (08:49):
It's five thousand people, Okay, it's small. And the school
is like, he's not allowed on campus. Obviously they it's
all just allegation so far. He hasn't went through trial
or anything, but the school is like he is suspended,
he's not allowed near students, he's not allowed on campus.
Like I said, he was the pee teacher. His son

(09:10):
still teaches at that school, which is like, you know
he was in the splash zone.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Yeah, I'm sure he's getting questioned for sure. What did
you know? You know your dad was into this? People
knew in.

Speaker 5 (09:21):
A town of five thousand people, people knew they were
just okay, with it. And what I mean by that
is he was the coach, so you didn't question some
of the motives. Hey, the coach wants me to come
over to his house, right so we can go over plays.
You're like, yeah, go learn right, Yeah, you're not questioning

(09:43):
it the coach. We're gonna have a retreat. We're gonna
go into the woods and have a bonding experience.

Speaker 6 (09:51):
Tession.

Speaker 5 (09:53):
Wow, he's p I don't know how much tutoring you're
gonna have. Throw the ball, don't throw the ball right,
duck sit ups.

Speaker 8 (10:00):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (10:00):
But you know what I mean, Like you go, oh's
they're gonna be okay with those things, right because you.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
Think because he's a teacher, you know everything's gonna be
all right.

Speaker 5 (10:07):
I'll do you one better because he's the coach of
a winning team. Yeah, I want my kid to go pro. Yeah,
so yeah, go be with the coach alone.

Speaker 8 (10:18):
Now, there's a lot of people there that could help
cover that up because of that reason.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
You know, we got a winning team. We want to
go and take state. Da da da da.

Speaker 5 (10:26):
Well, I'm not gonna say anything because if you know,
we bust this guy, then that ruins our chances of
getting in the front page of the paper. Whatever, Right, Well,
that's everything, especially in small towns.

Speaker 1 (10:38):
Winning football is everything.

Speaker 5 (10:40):
Now you look forward to it all year, right, Like
you've seen the movie, Varsity Blues are Friday night lights.
They close the town down, right for games. That's not
a I grew up in Northeast Iowa. That's a thing. Yeah,
that's real. And that's that book's based off Texas. That's
not even right Northeast Iowa. So if they do it

(11:02):
Northeast Iowa, you know they do it in a lot
of towns. And for me, the idea that covering it
up maybe, but more of you just didn't question it.
You didn't suspect it, right, right, It was in front
of you, so therefore you didn't question. It's not like
he was doing it in the shadows, right, he was

(11:24):
doing it in front of everybody. But because the behavior,
which like if you had the science teacher being like
we're having a sleepover, We're going to have a retreat
for bonding and class, you go no, Right, but it's
a coach, so that makes sense. Hey, it worked for
Denzel and remember the Titans. Why can't they do it?

(11:44):
Tell me if I'm wrong, tell me if this is
a giant leap, right, but you forgive it because it's
the coach, and you forgive it because they're winning. And
if you're not going to question it because he's going
to bow up.

Speaker 6 (11:56):
Well yeah, and if and if a student never came
to one of the parents during that time.

Speaker 5 (12:02):
Yeah, this is exact. He may have just gone hunting
and they didn't know. Maybe bad wording by the article, right,
nah man, everybody was talking about this. It wasn't like
nobody knew. They knew this guy was a suss and
they were coming to get him.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
Hey, I'm going hunting, Okay, have fun. And I think
when you say a weapon, you're not implying a shotgun.

Speaker 5 (12:32):
You're not going out with your orange. Where's your oranges?
Where's your where's your camo?

Speaker 9 (12:35):
Right?

Speaker 1 (12:37):
Right? Oh, I'm just gonna I'm just gonna raw dog it.
I'm gonna raw dog my hunting today. Take my chances. Okay.

Speaker 5 (12:48):
No, that they clearly knew it was a weapon of
some port part that was not a hunting situation, right,
And it's football season. He ain't hunting, right and they're
in the playoff. He ain't hunting, Nobody, He's got a
lot on his mind, just needs to go for a while.
Oh he's got a lot of Yeah, he's got a
lot on his mind, namely boys, underage children. That's what

(13:11):
he's got on his mind. And I don't there was
somebody posted a photo there like here he is in Iowa,
and you're like, come on, this.

Speaker 1 (13:18):
Guy looks like the cliche football coach. Bald head got.

Speaker 5 (13:23):
To be six three, six four, clearly still enjoys food
a right, he looks like the cliche football coach, high
school football coach. So uh, I think when you go
to point him out, he's gonna look like every you
know has been linemen right in every town.

Speaker 7 (13:41):
Right.

Speaker 1 (13:42):
Oh yeah, he totally looks like kind of guy that
touching kids right now, that you see the Jesus in the.

Speaker 9 (13:48):
Toast, it's usually my line.

Speaker 5 (13:51):
I think he was emulating you. I don't know if
he's dead, I don't know. It wouldn't surprise me. He
takes the chicken exit. No, not at all, not at all,
something serious like that. Yeah, I'm sure that's exactly what
he did. They'll probably find him in ak You were

(14:11):
a creek somewhere. And don't get me wrong, there is
a difference between you are having struggles in life and
taking your life and that's troublesome, rather than you are
taking your life to escape conviction, which is what a
lot of them do, people that pedophiles.

Speaker 1 (14:27):
Yea suspected I should say.

Speaker 5 (14:30):
I don't want to face the music of what I've done,
you know, so let's just go ahead and end it now.
I don't know if I'm there than sitting in jail.
I don't know if I'm there that it proves you
did it right, because just the accusation alone is damning.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
Yeah, but it doesn't look good. Yeah, it does not
help your case. No, no, no, no. But then after
that there is no case.

Speaker 5 (14:52):
You leave the opinion to everybody. They make the story.
They finish the narrative. Yeah, Epstein right, because he hung himself,
we get to finish the narrative. There's no way to
clear that up. Yeah, there's no way to give us
the clear truth. Jack Ruby shot Oswalden. That negated the

(15:15):
opportunity to get the truth right. That's what sucks with
something like that happens, because now we'll never know if
this guy, or any of those cases right there, say
it old time. We'll never know what exactly happened, would
we anyway? If they didn't, maybe the chances are creator
for sure, But now it's just as it ain't happening. Yeah,
you may get some documents with some official stamps on them, right, well,

(15:37):
that hardly means that that's the truth.

Speaker 1 (15:40):
That's just what they found.

Speaker 5 (15:42):
But as far as this guy is concerned, by the way,
his name is Travis Turner. If if you care, I
don't know, maybe we shouldn't be saying his name. But
as far as I could find this morning, there was
no update on where he was, and I would think
if they found this guy.

Speaker 1 (15:56):
Dead, it would be released pretty fast. Don't get him
confused with the Canadian actor and rapper Travis Turner though. Okay,
don't worry if you can't to start Google and be
like what this guy Canadian rapper?

Speaker 5 (16:11):
Don't worry touching kids? No, how about this. He was
the football coach of the Year in twenty twenty one.
He was the softball coach of the year in two
thousand and six. Uh, just two years ago a fellow
coach was charged with indecency with a child.

Speaker 1 (16:29):
Two years ago, charged with him. Yeah, and he just
didn't learn his lesson. Huh ah, well I don't. He
may have, but that doesn't negate what you did, right,
and you probably simmered down for a while. Hey, we
got to chill out for a while, lay low. Yeah,
let this blow over and we'll start touching kids again.

Speaker 5 (16:55):
Five child porn charges and five solicitations of a minor
by hug charges, where, if I'm not mistaken, that was like.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
Hey, right, what are you doing?

Speaker 7 (17:07):
God?

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Praying on him? Either Facebook, Instagram, right, whatever.

Speaker 5 (17:12):
Maybe it's because I'm older, Maybe it's because I'm just
not in that realm, but going online, going what are
you doing to anyone?

Speaker 1 (17:22):
Is? I don't. I think it's weird to text that
to my wife. It's creepy. It definitely has creepy vibes.

Speaker 5 (17:29):
Hey, what are you doing right now? I noticed you
walking down the hall at school today? Yeah, that's nice
skirt you're wearing.

Speaker 6 (17:45):
Or I noticed you didn't participate in gym class today.
You didn't give it your all? Why not like that
starting the conversation some young female or male.

Speaker 5 (17:56):
We're not clear, yeah right, because it's just says children. Yeah,
we're not clear on what it is. So these were
the high school kids, though, not that it makes a difference.
It just says minor. We're not clear on what it is. Well,
she was sixteen, right, right, right, this is West Virginia, right.

Speaker 6 (18:11):
I see. There is a discrepancy in the story, though.
I feel like because we've been told by movies that
you can you have to wait twenty four hours right
to file a missing person's report. But in real life,
we've talked to police officers that said, no, that's not true.
You can do it right away when someone is missing.

(18:32):
In fact, that's what we ask you to do.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
Right. Time matters in a missing person's case.

Speaker 6 (18:37):
Exactly. His wife is saying that when he left and
didn't come home, she called the police and they said
that he had to be gone for twenty four hours
before she could file a missing person's report.

Speaker 5 (18:52):
Yeah, and again small town, it could have been somebody like, hey,
just telling you, sorry, you can't like they were on his.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
Side, right, oh maybe right, like.

Speaker 5 (19:05):
Ah, sorry, you gotta wait twenty four hours. And she went, well,
maybe the movies are true. I hope to god something
happens where I go missing. My wife just doesn't rely
on herself and what the Google tells her.

Speaker 1 (19:16):
I hope she surrounds.

Speaker 5 (19:17):
Herself with people that know what they're talking about, and
maybe this lady thinks she's doing that right.

Speaker 8 (19:23):
But the thing is, you just don't know who's who anymore.
In a case like this, you don't know who's covering
for who.

Speaker 5 (19:30):
I would imagine the chaos of the moment is like
getting a drink out of a fire hose. So anybody
that's willing to take on any part to help relieve
the amount of stress you're taking on, you welcome it.

Speaker 1 (19:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (19:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (19:43):
And just because she called the police or that doesn't
mean she physically dialed the phone. I would think if
the police were looking for him and she was like, hey,
he's missing, they would have went.

Speaker 1 (19:54):
Where did you last see him?

Speaker 9 (19:56):
Man? Right?

Speaker 1 (19:57):
There would be no wait twenty four hours? Well I've
seen him walking into the woods with AHC from what
I know. And I could be wrong on this.

Speaker 5 (20:06):
Police take child pornography and solicitation of a minor suon.
I'm gonna use a word I don't use very often,
super duper serious. Well yeah, serious, super serious, sure, super
duper serious.

Speaker 1 (20:20):
Whoa unless everybody's in on it?

Speaker 5 (20:24):
But think about the movie The Departed, and in that movie,
Matt Damon is the corrupt state trooper. And even then
he he finagles and works his way around everybody being involved.
But there are people that are suspicious of him and
think something's up. So I think you're right, even if

(20:49):
everybody's involved. Sure, but at some point, when it became
a national story, state authorities got involved, and at that
point they're gonna go, why is this guy making No,
we're making the calls now. Yeah, and then I start
questioning everybody. I would think so I could be wrong,
but I would think so. Crazy story either way, And

(21:10):
I'm sure we're all relieved to know he's the only
one that's in coaching that does this in plain sight,
not a trench coat with sockholders waiting for your kids.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
No, in plain sight.

Speaker 5 (21:29):
The whole point of a predator is they lie in
wait until it's time to pounce when you're not paying attention,
when you give them a leash that's pretty long where
they can just you know, cover it up.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
Oh, No, we were going over plays. He had to
stay late. Right, Do you always go over plays with
your pants off? Yes? In prison? Right?

Speaker 5 (21:56):
All right, listen, we've got tickets to the Cowboy Cup.
We're gonna do best and worst, so we can I
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and the worst part of your weekend was So get
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If you're listening to the Big Mess, going to new news.

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Quikies, It's time for newsquakies, world news, local news and
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Gimpion Lindsay with what's going on news quakies from the
Big nine Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (22:23):
In ninety seventy five, AMoD fitness influencer bites it after
eating ten thousand calories a day. So this Russian fitness influencer,
Dimitri Nianzen, he was desperate to kind of make a
name for himself in the influence world. He wanted to

(22:44):
show his followers that his weight loss solution was doable
in just about any situation. So he was going to
put on fifty five pounds in a short period of
time to show everyone how to lose it. That master
weight gain plan consisted of eating up to ten thousand
calories of nasty crap food every day until he hit

(23:06):
his total goal weight. A month into his eating challenge.
Things went really bad for him because he was eating
a bag of chips in front of his followers. He
said he felt discomfort, and eventually he said, I'm going
to go to the doctor. Hours later, he passed away
in his sleep from heart failure. He was in grape

(23:28):
shape overall, but his extreme eating program ended up taking
a toll on his internal organs.

Speaker 1 (23:37):
I feel like that's disingenuous.

Speaker 8 (23:39):
Yeah, it was probably some other underlying is Yeah, that
just did not help any Yeah, whatever.

Speaker 5 (23:44):
The implication that you eat potato chips and you'll die
is not accurate. Probably what happened his body, he shocked
his body because he had another problem and this made
its surface right.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
And it doesn't sound like he went to the doctor.

Speaker 6 (23:56):
Yeah, ten thousand calories, that's not that cho alarming, But
maybe to someone who's not who's boy like you said,
shock the body not used to doing that and eating
healthy all that time and then turning to just junk food.

Speaker 1 (24:09):
Yeah, well, what's the Hamburger doing in here?

Speaker 5 (24:12):
I'm not saying people should eat ten thousand I'm just
saying there are plenty of athletes, powerlifters, oh, that have
famously eaten that many calories.

Speaker 1 (24:21):
Yeah, but they work it off though, right pretty much immediately.

Speaker 5 (24:25):
Yeah, I mean I doubt this guy stopped working out. Yeah,
if it was something he did, and maybe those people's
bodies are used to it. Yeah. I'm also kind of
a believer. When someone's like, let me prove to you
I'm not gay, You're like, okay, settle down.

Speaker 8 (24:41):
Man accused of breaking into apartment and unwrapping families Christmas gifts.
This happens Sunday, and I don't understand why people have
the Christmas gifts out already, but hey whatever, everybody does
things differently, not just me.

Speaker 5 (24:50):
Some people like they have to Thanksgiving, man, it all
goes up. They have the gifts if they have any.

Speaker 8 (24:54):
My girlfriend's one of those and she's got hers. She
had hers up well before Thanksgiving, so we two eaches there. Anyhow,
So this comes out of Banger Main, where this couple
woke up and they found a guy sleeping on his couch,
right on their couch, and they're like, well, hey, who
are you what are you doing here?

Speaker 1 (25:10):
Well?

Speaker 8 (25:11):
The who is a fifty year old guy named Jose Harvey,
and he refused to leave the apartment. They said, oh,
I'll get he said, I ain't going nowhere. Naturally, they
called the police out. That's when they discovered the bathroom
window had been opened and all their Christmas gifts were unwrapped.
Jose couldn't give the police any kind of logical reason

(25:33):
asked to why he was in the apartment, but they
went ahead and took him in for aggravated criminal trespassing.

Speaker 1 (25:38):
Anyway, probably just a homeless.

Speaker 5 (25:41):
Guy philosophical difference. Yeah, the story is so fantastic. I
told Gimpie just minting, I'm so excited to read my
news quickie. Cannabis induced vomiting on the rise right. A
new study show some unfortunate cannabis side effects are on
the rise. Researchers at the University of Illinois, Chicago found
that er visits for cannaboid hypermesis syndrome is rising. People

(26:07):
with CCHS experience periods of intense cramps, nausea, and vomiting
that can last one to two days. It's been coined
scrammating because the pain felt while vomiting is so uncomfortable it.

Speaker 1 (26:22):
Causes people to screen. CHS.

Speaker 5 (26:26):
Typically happens in those that have been using cannabis chronically
for several years, and scientists don't yet know the costs.

Speaker 1 (26:36):
No, this is not a real thing. This is not
a real thing at all.

Speaker 5 (26:42):
It's kind of like when people drink, you know, started
drinking alcohol, and they're like, it'll make you murder, it'll
make women whorse. Now, well that might be true, but
not entirely.

Speaker 8 (26:52):
I have been doing the cannabis for the majority of
my life since I was sixteen.

Speaker 5 (27:00):
Either way, and you're hold down forty five now, so
over three decades. Yeah, thirty years. I've been into this
sort of thing. I've only barfed on the weed one time. Yeah,
one time, and that's when I was uh oh, how
old was? I was seventeen, just moved here and a
buddy of mine rolled up a whole like twenty sacks
eighth into one joint, right.

Speaker 1 (27:23):
Big cheech and chong badass hooter.

Speaker 8 (27:25):
Yeah, and it was just me and him and another person,
so three heads on those one hooter, right, and uh
and uh you.

Speaker 5 (27:33):
Were experimental in high school, it was. It was a
younger me anyhow.

Speaker 8 (27:37):
So I I ripped that and then I went home
and then I laid down, and then I got up
and then just horfed everywhere and that was the only
time that I've ever barfed on the weed.

Speaker 6 (27:50):
Trying to think how many times I barfed on weed,
I can think of twice for sure, and one was
when I also was seventeen. I mixed weed and mad dog.

Speaker 5 (28:00):
It was the mad dog that Yeah, mine's not far off,
but it's not the weed that made me vomit.

Speaker 1 (28:07):
Cherry skull oh, yeah, and weed? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (28:12):
Was I was the room spinning because of the weed
or was the room spinning because of.

Speaker 1 (28:15):
The cherry skull?

Speaker 5 (28:16):
Yeah? I'm probably the cherry schull oh in mountain dew
because that's what we did. Oh yeah, nothing says nineties
like that.

Speaker 1 (28:24):
Good God.

Speaker 5 (28:25):
The article didn't say how old these people were right
going into the hospital. I mean it said you had
to have been doing it for years, Okay, so I
would think, you know, a while. Well, I asked that
question because all of us it happened when we were younger,
when we first started out, right, so the tolerance wasn't
that high. And that's kind of what made me think.

(28:46):
If these were all kids that are going into the
hospital because they're barking all over the place because they
can't handle their weed, man, well, then that explains everything.
But if they're adults, then that's a total different story.
So this says the researchers analyze dat from nationwide sample
of ER visits in the US between twenty sixteen and
twenty twenty two, and they looked for diagnosises related to

(29:10):
this vomiting syndrome and cannabis use. And during the study
one hundred thousand cases of suspected CHS were documented. They
found the annual rates of CHS were steady, and then
starting in twenty twenty, the cases in the ER surged.
Cases did decline in twenty twenty two, but they were

(29:31):
still above the pre twenty twenty levels.

Speaker 8 (29:35):
Okay, well, I was thinking, well, now nowadays, compared to
where we were when we were first started, the weeds
a lot stronger nowadays, right, That's fair to say. It
was a lot stronger than what it was back in
our day when we first started. Maybe that's case, But
this week at twenty twenty and before twenty twenty, I mean,
same kind of chronic. You know, it's not that Mexican

(29:55):
ditch weed, that brickweed. You know that we used to
get better.

Speaker 5 (29:58):
I think what you're implying is that the the tainted
stuff would actually get you more sick than today's Yeah,
to me, that doesn't mean people are being honest in
the er true, right, And again it goes back to
you know beer before, heard in the yard. That's not
a real thing. No, it's a scare tactic. This is
this happens on a.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
Lot of things.

Speaker 5 (30:19):
You get, They try to people that are against it
find these stories and then throw the hyperboleon it.

Speaker 11 (30:25):
Right.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
I'm not saying you shouldn't be careful with weed. You
should be.

Speaker 5 (30:27):
You should be careful with anything. The dosage of anything
is the poison. But come on, you scream? No, have
you ever heard anybody vomit in screaming for forty eight hours? No,
even your kid who's had the worst flu.

Speaker 1 (30:41):
No, no, no, no, I'm not saying it doesn't happen.
But it's super super super super rare.

Speaker 3 (30:48):
No.

Speaker 6 (30:48):
The only time I've ever seen someone vomiting and screaming
is if in a movie and there's a demon inside
of them. That's what's fair screaming, that's fair, all right?

Speaker 5 (30:57):
And why would you in this day and age, why
did you let something like that make you vomit when
you can take zofran is that it is which will
stop the vomiting instantly.

Speaker 9 (31:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (31:09):
When I was a kid, he just vomited in the
trash can until it was done. But now no, you
just give him that and they stopped vomiting.

Speaker 1 (31:14):
Weak ass people nowadays, right, Sure, you're supposed to be sure.

Speaker 5 (31:19):
Back in the day, washing their hands. Didn't wash their hands.
You got in there with their bloody dirty hands.

Speaker 6 (31:24):
When we drink out of the water.

Speaker 1 (31:26):
I'm watching. I watched over the I watched this the
special on Garfield getting assassinated. It's on Netflix. It's a
four part series. It's so good.

Speaker 5 (31:36):
And but the doctor that tried to treat him, another
doctor was there, was like, hey, we need to be
washing hands. And the doctor's like, I'm the doctor here.
And at one point he's digging into Garfield's back with
a tool to get.

Speaker 1 (31:49):
To the bullet and he puts it in his mouth.

Speaker 5 (31:54):
And then grabs it again and then goes back when
you got your hands full, Corbick, Come, I don't want
to spoil it for people, but why do you think
President Garfield died a natural cause infection?

Speaker 1 (32:07):
A natural infection, Yeah, from a bullet.

Speaker 5 (32:11):
When they did the autopsy, they found the bullet was
fine and hadn't heard any organs, and that if he
just would have been treated correctly, he would have been fine.
They let just anybody treat the president. I'm not joking
when I say that this guy probably wasn't qualified to
be the doctor, but he pushed and people believed him,
and they're like, yeah, yeah, hope the president.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
But he had no business doing it.

Speaker 5 (32:32):
So what I'm getting at, I don't know, because I've
lost my train of thought.

Speaker 1 (32:37):
All Right, we gotta take a break.

Speaker 5 (32:39):
We've got tickets to the Cowboy Cup we're gonna give away,
and our twenty hour Toy Drive starts on Wednesday.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
Small toy drop it off. Start making plans for that.
Now we'll take a break.

Speaker 6 (32:48):
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hour toy Drive to benefit the Marine Corps Toys for Tots.
It kicks off on Wednesday, and I hope that you're
gearing up for it as well. Buy a new un
wrapped toy and bring it to Dave and Busters either
Wednesday or Thursday and help an underprivileged child have a

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(33:33):
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five For the best and worst of the weekend, lindsay
what's the best and what's the worst?

Speaker 6 (33:48):
Well, we were off all week and I had to
deal with a lot of worst my U before we left.
My back was very aggravated and so I was down
for most of the week and then waking up Thursday
morning on Thanksgiving to a phone call for my mom.

(34:08):
Her boyfriend of ten years passed away.

Speaker 1 (34:10):
Oh Man, on.

Speaker 6 (34:12):
Thanksgiving morning, I had shown you that sore he had
on the back of his leg, and it wasn't healing.
It wasn't healing, and he actually, I mean he was
getting it treated weekly. He was on dialysis for the
past six years, I want to say. And he at

(34:33):
first when he was first diagnosed, the doctor said, you
know you are you could get a kidney transplant, and
he said, you know what, I'm sixty seven years old.
Save it for someone who's young, and I can live
on dialysis. So every other day he would get dialysis,

(34:53):
and just recently, this sore popped up on the back
of his leg and it just started getting wor and
worse and it would not heal. And every day that
he would get dialysis, they would treat the sore. Well.
After probably a month of it not healing, he decided
to go somewhere else to a different doctor get another opinion.

(35:14):
And he went to a wound specialist and they took
him into the hospital and they said, we're going to
keep him overnight and they said he needed like five
or six different antibiotics. And the next day they said,
after further testing, we're gonna have to amputate this leg.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
Damn just so infected.

Speaker 6 (35:36):
Yes, it was sepsis, and they said that it had
gotten into the tendon. Well then that doctor said, well,
I need to call his heart doctor to make sure
that this is something that's doable.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
Right, Yeah, yep.

Speaker 6 (35:51):
The heart doctor says he can't go under because he
won't come back out if he goes under. Only thirty
percent of his heart at the time was working.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
Man.

Speaker 6 (36:01):
Yeah, so they decided, will make me comfortable if that's it,
because I can't live with this pain. He couldn't even
lift his leg at the end of it, and he said,
just stop my dialysis because that sucks too. So he did.
He went into hospice care and it was like three

(36:22):
days and Thursday morning. The man was born on Christmas
and died on Thanksgiving. And my mom said, you know,
he lived a life of joy and gratitude and I'm
just glad he's not in misery and pain any longer.
He's not suffering. Yeah, she said she had one, you know,
one really good night with him before Thanksgiving.

Speaker 1 (36:42):
She was with him when he went well, oh she
not that got it.

Speaker 6 (36:46):
Sit with them and yeah, talk to him. He was
pretty coherent and till the end.

Speaker 5 (36:51):
Going through hospice care, sucks, yeah, but she said I'm
not I'm sure worse for the person that's going through it,
but I'm just to watch somebody go through it.

Speaker 6 (36:57):
She actually sent me pictures of this facility and she
was like, if I ever have to go into hospice care,
this is where I want to come. Because she was like,
this is like a five star resort. She said she
felt like she was like in Disney World. This place
was so nice.

Speaker 1 (37:15):
It's weird. Yeah, it's not like the people can ride rides, right,
but she.

Speaker 6 (37:18):
Said that there was a movie theater inside, they have
a Starbucks inside. I mean the people were extremely kind.
I hope so I know exactly right, but she said
it was just beautiful.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
I've been around three hospice nurses and three separate incidents,
and each time they're like amazing individuals.

Speaker 5 (37:39):
Oh how those people are hospice nurses. I because basically
you're death. You are the grim reaper. I'm not trying
to undermine what they do, but they're showing up. Yeah
means death is near.

Speaker 7 (37:52):
Right.

Speaker 1 (37:53):
That sucks unless you're.

Speaker 5 (37:57):
Carter, right, who was on hospice for over a year.

Speaker 1 (38:02):
Yeah, yes, so what was the best? Then?

Speaker 6 (38:06):
The best was I finally have my my back pretty
much under control. I'm gonna go back to my pain
management doctor on Friday. But uh, Trader Joe's opened and broken.
Ere I did see that this week.

Speaker 1 (38:21):
Okay, just big one thing.

Speaker 6 (38:23):
Yeah, that was really cool.

Speaker 1 (38:24):
It's weird to compare your back getting.

Speaker 5 (38:27):
Right to a scam store opening.

Speaker 1 (38:31):
Well, I mean it's Trader Joe's. Dude, it's never stopped
foot in one. I like stuff than Trader Joe's. But
they're not exactly.

Speaker 6 (38:39):
They're the unexpected cheddar mm hmm. It's delicious.

Speaker 1 (38:45):
Is that just regular cheese?

Speaker 7 (38:46):
Is that?

Speaker 2 (38:47):
Yes?

Speaker 6 (38:47):
Yeah, it's spreadable. It's a spreadable cheese.

Speaker 5 (38:50):
Oh my goodness, this is gonna be awesome. I want
to say the dumbest thing. Their hand loation is awesome. Okay,
the Trader joe I'm not joking. The Trader Joe's handlotion
is awesome. Noted it's five bucks. Yeah, it's so awesome.

Speaker 6 (39:07):
Dude. They're wines. Eh, I think it's now. It used
to be two buck chuck, now four buck chuck being
six buck chuck, super inexpensive.

Speaker 5 (39:16):
Their cookie butter, oh, oh my god, so good. Yeah,
they have good stuff. But when you find out how
they operate, You're like, ooh.

Speaker 6 (39:25):
Don't tell me if it's bad, I don't.

Speaker 1 (39:26):
It won't stop you. Yeah, it won't. It won't.

Speaker 5 (39:29):
Best and worst the weekend. What's the best thing that
happened to this weekend? The worst thing that happened this weekend?
Give me what's the best and what's the worst?

Speaker 11 (39:35):
Not?

Speaker 8 (39:35):
The best part of the weekend was definitely Saturday for
the Cancer Sucks, the nineteenth annual Cancer Sucks Concert down
at the Can's Ballroom.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
Bro Let me tell you what.

Speaker 5 (39:43):
Of course, Josie's got slated, and of course Aranda kicked
ass playing with their boot and everything. But the local bands,
the winners from our Battle of the Band's contest, were
so goddamn amazing. Now, Coda Lewis was numb one right,
and he did a great job, don't get me wrong.

Speaker 1 (40:03):
Did a killer job. But Circus stole the show? Man?

Speaker 8 (40:07):
Did NICUs stole the show? Such a high energy? We
they well, was it Straight out of Hell or something
like that? Straight to Hell was the song that they
submitted for us. Of course they played that and it
was awesome. They did a killer rendition of Pantera Walk Yes,
which was awesome, so much energy, so grateful those guys were,

(40:30):
and so was Code to Lewis.

Speaker 1 (40:31):
And I don't want to undermine that.

Speaker 5 (40:33):
What they did, but the circus, they just they just
stole the show. Impressed you very much, so and impressed
everybody you know. And so that was the absolute best
part of the week And being up there, of course,
and working with Rick and cancer sucks.

Speaker 1 (40:47):
It's always always a good thing.

Speaker 5 (40:49):
Yeah, I look at that event as obviously. I want
people that go to enjoy whatever the bands we picked.
I just don't want to disappoint Rick. That's that's the
thing for me.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
Man, And he was not. He was not disappointed. I
don't know if I've.

Speaker 5 (41:01):
Seen him disappointed ever. No, after all these years of
working with him. Yeah, good solid group of people right there.
That cancer sucks.

Speaker 8 (41:07):
The worst part of the weekend was also Saturday, though,
because pestilence stole everybody from me. Everybody that was supposed
to go to the show with me, my brother, my daughter,
my girlfriend, my brother daughter sick couldn't go, come down
last minute, sorry sick, can't make it. My girlfriend two
of her kids were sick. Sorry, can't make it. So

(41:29):
I had to go.

Speaker 1 (41:29):
It alone.

Speaker 8 (41:30):
Not a big deal, not the first time, probably won't
be the last, but I was looking forward to having
everybody there, and then it was just like last minute, Sorry,
can't do it.

Speaker 5 (41:40):
Damn pestilence. Best and worst of the weekend. What's the
best thing that happened this weekend? And the worst thing
that happened this weekend? Bmms and whatever that is to
eight two nine four five, send us at tax and
tell us what the best and worst was.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
We'll get to that in a minute.

Speaker 5 (41:53):
The best part of the weekend was we celebrated my
daughter's birthday, which was awesome.

Speaker 9 (41:58):
She was excited.

Speaker 1 (41:59):
Of course, family get together and inflatable for kids to
bounce on, and all that was.

Speaker 5 (42:05):
We picked like, I let them pick whatever inflatable they
want that we rent and I just have a dollar
amount they can't go over. And they picked them like
sure we met the criteria. I don't care what it
looks like. I don't care what it does as long
as it's not a water one right now, Like I
don't care, And.

Speaker 1 (42:20):
So she picked it.

Speaker 5 (42:21):
They delivered it. It was massive. It had to have
been two stories. It was why the guy put it in,
He's like, where do you want. I'm like, ah, right here,
She'll be fine. He's like, are you sure, I'm like, yeah,
that's fine.

Speaker 1 (42:31):
Man. It was bigger than my It felt bigger than
my house. Mike. She took a she took my phone
and took pictures at the like she wanted to take
some pictures going down the slide part of it, right,
and she took one from the top looking out over.

(42:53):
Let me see, Do I have it still? Yeah? That
was from the top.

Speaker 8 (42:57):
Oh my gosh, oh wow, it was bigger than your Yes,
is this older daughter, younger da youngest youngest?

Speaker 5 (43:04):
Uh, training eight? Doesn't want to turn a but at
turning eight. But so that was awesome just to see
and watching kids. I think watching kids interact is just
so awesome. And then the worst part of the weekend
also has to do with my kids is I had
to tell them one of their classmates died. And it's
really it affected me more than it affected them, because

(43:27):
the idea that that's those people's Thanksgiving and Christmas, those
parents like.

Speaker 1 (43:34):
Tragic. Yeah, you tell your kids and you're like, okay, right,
they don't.

Speaker 8 (43:39):
Grasp exactly what's happening, and they may not until they
get back to class or yeah. Yeah, so that was
because I'm like, you, we didn't want to do it
on my daughter's birthday and tell her because that would
have ruined it.

Speaker 1 (43:51):
And so you're like, all right, well, let's wait.

Speaker 5 (43:52):
And then I was like yesterday, remembering we hadn't said anything,
I was like, hey, we gotta tell them.

Speaker 1 (43:58):
Oh yeah, I'm like, we needed to. We didn't talk
about something really sad.

Speaker 5 (44:02):
I'm like, a girl died and you're like, uh, yeah, okay,
So did.

Speaker 8 (44:07):
They find out before you told them or that's just
their natural reaction when you told them.

Speaker 5 (44:11):
I think she just knew. Okay, I think she just knew.
Maybe possibly, maybe they had talked. Oh maybe you can
read my tone. I don't typically deliver news of death
to them, right, I think I've only done it one
other time.

Speaker 8 (44:24):
Yeah, But to guess it just straight out the shoot
like that, I find it is a little strange.

Speaker 1 (44:27):
Yeah, maybe she played a part. I don't know you'd
ever know.

Speaker 5 (44:31):
Best and worst of the weekend. What's the best part
of the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend?
Best was Thanksgiving one the Packers game. Worst was the
cold snap and developing a new kidney stone. Those are
comparable the kidney stone and a cold snap one. You
can put a coat on more. I won't tell you
which one. Best went to the OU game and watched
them punch their ticket to the college football playoffs. Worst

(44:52):
woke up sick today from being outside all day Saturday.
If you get a chance, go look at the video
of the lsu PI. I think it was the quarterback
like taking his cleats in the pregame and like trying
to damage the field.

Speaker 1 (45:06):
It's a wild video. Just to be a dick.

Speaker 5 (45:09):
Yeah, oh god, yeah yeah, Best is I had a
four day weekend. Worst I was on call and tims dropped,
so heat was important Sunday. Yeah, people want their heater
to work. Yeah, I'm and tested it all here. Best
had a bunch of six shows this week. My boyfriend
and I also adopted twelve hardcore children Worst Whitechapel push

(45:31):
Pit last night. I guess that's a band doesn't don't
at church thing. Maybe it is you adopted twelve children.
Is that what I'm reading correctly?

Speaker 1 (45:40):
Physically?

Speaker 8 (45:41):
I don't know if it's like legitimate went to court
and adopted them. Were just like, hey, you're gonna be
my little group of minions.

Speaker 5 (45:49):
Now, yeah, I don't know what that means. I'm going
to guess maybe like some sort of tree thing where
you give them.

Speaker 1 (45:56):
I don't know. Best and worst of the weekend.

Speaker 5 (45:58):
My fiance earned forty one on Saturday, so we had
an amazing day celebrating her. Worst is that it just
kept getting colder and colder, so we were stuck inside
most of the weekend. I went out this morning because
they would talking about snow all that I was going
to take the trash out. I didn't think it was
that cold. Yeah, it wasn't that cold this morning.

Speaker 1 (46:17):
Go out there. Now, Oh did it get cold? It's dropped.

Speaker 8 (46:20):
Yes, it's dropping wetness and iciness from the sky, and
it is.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
It's quite chilly outside.

Speaker 5 (46:25):
It was snow and when I came in, Yeah, not
quite as bad as it is now though, Like you
might have to worry a little bit when we go
home this afternoon.

Speaker 1 (46:32):
Ah, now you're finally. Uh. Worst.

Speaker 5 (46:35):
I did not know there would be sleep freezing rain
this morning when I rode my motorcycle into work. Do
you watch the news. I feel like they've been talking
about it for like three days.

Speaker 1 (46:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (46:46):
Best, there were twenty two people at my house for Thanksgiving.
We had a great time and I love them all,
but think good Lord, think the good Lord.

Speaker 1 (46:52):
They all left only a few hours. Yeah, those are awesome.

Speaker 5 (46:56):
Best I passed my test to be an electrical contractor or.

Speaker 1 (47:00):
Someone's cow was loose and we.

Speaker 5 (47:03):
Tried to help corral him, only for him to be
hit by a truck, and well he didn't make it.
Good God, are you the worst corrallers ever?

Speaker 1 (47:12):
Steak and brisket for everyone? Were you corralling him on
the highway?

Speaker 5 (47:20):
It's possible, Maybe corral him into a fenced area.

Speaker 1 (47:26):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (47:27):
Best of the weekend got a new house. Worst of
the weekend now fighting my whole family in a legal battle.
Why did they call Dibbs right?

Speaker 1 (47:36):
That sucks?

Speaker 5 (47:37):
Best was getting all the Christmas lights put up on
my house. Worst was getting the mist concert because I
got called into work.

Speaker 9 (47:47):
Ben.

Speaker 1 (47:47):
I shot my first deer forty two years old.

Speaker 5 (47:49):
Worst bottom motorcycle cups a couple of weeks ago.

Speaker 1 (47:52):
Eating Sorry the screen moved.

Speaker 5 (47:56):
I was like, that's weird. Worst bottom motorcycle a couple
of weeks ago. I can't ride it's too cold, pussy.
I knew layer up pussy, I mean ice and snow
feels like a legitimate Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
But just because it's chilly outside, come on now fast.
Five days off in a row.

Speaker 5 (48:15):
Worst had to drop twelve thousand dollars in repairs to
the attic so mice quit eating the insulation and duckwork
expensive holiday.

Speaker 1 (48:26):
That kind of thing drives me back.

Speaker 5 (48:30):
One morning because we get up so early, and I will,
I'll work in my living room in the morning when
I first get up at like three and two things
I have caught doing that. One I heard a leak
in my roof. I heard the dripping from the attic
hitting because mine's foam insulation on the roof part right,
so I could hear it hitting the boards and drywalls
in the attic. Caught it well before it became a thing.

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The other heard a mouse chewing on the wall.

Speaker 1 (48:56):
I hate that. I'm still people like, do you hate
getting up that early?

Speaker 11 (49:00):
No?

Speaker 1 (49:01):
Right, because you find things like that because there's not
a lot of annoise.

Speaker 5 (49:04):
Not a creature was stirringwell except the mouse. Yeah good part.
It was my daughter's first real Thanksgiving with us. Worst
is the a hole stole our only car. Right before Christmas. Yeah,
that is that sucks. Another text. I love this weather
so much. I'm so wet right now. We'll put on

(49:25):
a jacket. We gotta take a break.

Speaker 1 (49:29):
We'll be back.

Speaker 9 (49:30):
Let's rush for the Big Man Morning show.

Speaker 5 (49:33):
Well Covid says here that Netting y'all, who is seeking
a pardon from his real president's Netting Yahoo, is currently
standing trial in his country for bribery and fraud and
breach of trust, and his request comes after President Trump
through his support behind a pardon for the Israeli Prime Minister.
In a letter to her Zog, Trump expressed that he

(49:57):
respects the independence of the Israeli just the system and
its requirements, but said the cases against Netanyahu is a political,
unjustified prosecution.

Speaker 1 (50:09):
Bomb file. Pope Leo calls for peace and unity during
his first trip a bron Pope Leo says the a
two state solution is the only solution that can ensure
justice in the Israeli Palestinian conflict. The pontiff made comments
yesterday while flying from Turkey to Lebanon for the last

(50:30):
part of his first international trip as pope. Earlier, Pope
Leo delivered a message of peace and unity. As part
of his trip to the Middle East, he led a
mass in Turkey on Saturday after a historic visit to
Istanbul's Constantinople's Blue Mosque.

Speaker 5 (50:48):
Here's how dumb I am. I see that headline and
I'm like, why is the Pope talking with Lebron Lebanon,
Lebanon Bron, not Lebanon Zuri either. Just to make sure
that's Oh God, no, go down that rabbit.

Speaker 1 (51:05):
The Pope's coming to Missourra, Yes, yes he is. What
else we got here? New Orleans reportedly next on the
border patrol list. More than two hundred border patrol agents
are reportedly heading to Nollins Noorans.

Speaker 8 (51:20):
There's been speculation that the city is next on the
federal government's immigration right down list after operations in Chicago,
Los Angeles.

Speaker 1 (51:28):
And Charlotte's.

Speaker 5 (51:30):
Some schools and No Orleans have sent out messages to
parents that their children will be safe on campus, hoping
to prevent panic.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
And then lastly here told the city. I get that note.
I'm like, oh, what right? Why do you I just
assumed that right? No, no, no, no no, no, They're.

Speaker 5 (51:48):
Fine, it's fine, fine, Everything's gonna be fine. Lastly, here.
Tulsa City Council approves new ordinance to help fund fire department.
On November twelfth, the City Council approved an ordinance that
will allow the tolls of Fire Department to build drivers
insurance companies when they have to respond to carrecks. It's

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all to help increase the department's funding. The ordinance isn't
part of a new policy several other cities like Bigsby
and Sand Springs have adopted.

Speaker 6 (52:16):
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Speaker 8 (52:38):
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We've got more to give away all week. And if
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time for our listeners are Awesome. This is where we
chat with the listener and they share a part of

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their life with us. And if you're interested in sharing
your story with us, I you gotta do with Texas
bemms and what your story is T two nine four five,
we may pick you to be a part of our
listeners Are Awesome. And on the line with us right
now is Jeremy. Hey, Jeremy, how are you?

Speaker 7 (53:15):
Are you.

Speaker 1 (53:17):
Good? Sorry, we're having a hard time hearing you there. Yeah,
I'm here, Okay.

Speaker 5 (53:24):
It says you're married. You've been married a while, man,
twenty seven years. How did you meet your wife?

Speaker 7 (53:32):
Well? I was walking down the street and there is
a bunch of kids around a car that was boke down.
I overheard like them trying to diagnose it, and I
was like, well, sounds like the transmission's bad. And a
girl hopped out of the car and asked me to
marry her.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
What are you throwing some hyperbole on there?

Speaker 7 (53:57):
No, it was just like, will you marry me? And
then I just kept walking and she figured out who
I was through a mutual friend. Then the next thing
I know, she figured out where I worked and started
working where I worked.

Speaker 5 (54:13):
That is that is a little stalker, is right? Thank goodness,
you have a little bit. Did that kind of were
you at all when she started like, eh, I'm at
your work?

Speaker 7 (54:26):
Then there was one day I was walking down the street.
Her and her friend offered me a ride and they
locked me in her car and took me to the movies.

Speaker 5 (54:35):
Okay, so we've got stalking, we've got kidnapping. It's do
you tap the phone if you need help? Right, if
you need us to break you out, tap the phone.

Speaker 7 (54:47):
I've been a prisoner for twenty seven years.

Speaker 1 (54:50):
Yeah, give line that. That is a It might be
one of the more wild stories we've heard about how
somebody met their partner. What did you like about her?
How long did it take for the Stockholm syndrome to
kick in?

Speaker 7 (55:03):
Oh, it wasn't too long. We pretty much hit it
off from there. We were always getting in trouble, fooling around,
having fun at work, and actually I lost that job
because we were having a little too much fun playing
around in the kitchen one day.

Speaker 1 (55:18):
Like you had sex, no horsing around.

Speaker 5 (55:22):
Okay, did you ever have sex with her at work. No,
did you just get fired or did you both get fired?

Speaker 7 (55:33):
I think it was both. It was twenty seven years ago,
it was a while back.

Speaker 5 (55:37):
Yeah, Yeah, that's pretty good story too. That's pretty awesome.
And the next job, did you go, hey, maybe we
should work separate places.

Speaker 7 (55:47):
No? She ended up in the medical field.

Speaker 1 (55:52):
And what about you?

Speaker 7 (55:54):
I just did all kinds of odd jobs bouncing around.

Speaker 1 (55:58):
What's the oddest job you've ever had?

Speaker 7 (56:02):
Oh? Probably when I was a carnee?

Speaker 5 (56:04):
Okay, okay? How many? Like how long were you out
on the road as a carneye?

Speaker 7 (56:11):
Around a year?

Speaker 1 (56:13):
And would you be gone the whole time? Or was
there you'd be on the road and then come back
for a few days or was it on the road
the whole time.

Speaker 7 (56:22):
Sleeping inside of rides and semi trucks.

Speaker 1 (56:26):
That does not sound awesome.

Speaker 7 (56:31):
It was pretty rough.

Speaker 1 (56:33):
Yeah. Is there a lot of bad actors in that group? Like?
Is there a lot of drugs and some.

Speaker 5 (56:43):
Maybe petty crimes like in those circles?

Speaker 7 (56:48):
For sure? There was one night in Beatrice and Nebraska
we were all drinking and on like accid on the
bumper car and two o'clock in the morning and the
sheriff came out and told us to kind of simmer down.
Act accordingly.

Speaker 8 (57:07):
This is farmland act accordingly for carnies. But sir, we
are we're high on acid at two o'clock in the morning,
playing bumper cars. I think we are acting accordingly.

Speaker 1 (57:18):
What's that?

Speaker 5 (57:19):
What's the craziest thing that happened while you were a carnea?
The story that sticks out in your mind that maybe
you shouldn't tell.

Speaker 7 (57:27):
I was a water clown and that kind of pissed
everybody off. It got to the point where they had
to I had to padlock the inside of my cage
so people quit trying to pull me out.

Speaker 1 (57:40):
What is a water clown? For us uneducated.

Speaker 7 (57:45):
Who you're trying to knock down in the water?

Speaker 5 (57:47):
Okay, so you would you would cut people so bad
that they would want to get to you.

Speaker 7 (57:53):
Oh yeah, there's one night I kind of got stuck
in my water clown voice there from Bobo Sure, And
I was at a bar and a guy turned around
and he was like, here's that punk Bobo, aren't you?
And I was like, yes I am, and turned around
and he knocked me out.

Speaker 9 (58:12):
What it? God, guys are pussies?

Speaker 1 (58:17):
Words huh.

Speaker 11 (58:19):
Yep uh.

Speaker 5 (58:20):
And so did you call the police or did you
just go ahead part of the job. Sorry, we couldn't
hear you.

Speaker 7 (58:29):
The other guy's handled it, okay, just mended up drug
out in the parking lot.

Speaker 1 (58:34):
Okay. Does Bobo usually run with a crew?

Speaker 7 (58:39):
We're kind of a family.

Speaker 1 (58:41):
Sure, Okay, Yeah, that makes sense. So it was other
carnies that were there to help you out? Yeah, okay, Well.

Speaker 7 (58:48):
I was only like nineteen. That's the only way I
got in.

Speaker 1 (58:51):
Oh he got he got beat in essentially. Huh yeah.
And why'd you leave? Why'd you get out of the
carney business?

Speaker 7 (59:00):
Har any business that's not pay anything one hundred and
some odd hours a week. Showers are hard to get,
so you kind of find yourself cleaning up in bathrooms
and stuff. Just got tired of it.

Speaker 1 (59:13):
Yeah, not a great pension plan, it says here. And
I've got to be honest.

Speaker 5 (59:20):
We've had a lot of interesting people on our listeners
are awesome, but I've never had this note on the
sheet that GIMPI gives me.

Speaker 1 (59:25):
But it says here you've been stabbed multiple times. Yeah.
When you say multiple, are we just talking too or
are we talking more than two.

Speaker 7 (59:34):
Well, the first time was then ninety five, just celebrated
the thirty year anniversary of this incident. But I was
at a friend's house watching TV. Two of our friends
showed up, said that they needed a ride home, and
my friend went to take him home. They murdered him

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behind the wheel of his pickup truck and came in.
I got stabbed in the throat and the shoulder five
times in the back. Why just wanting to rob the house?
Go get more dope?

Speaker 6 (01:00:12):
And you knew these people?

Speaker 11 (01:00:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:00:15):
I started with him a couple of nights before.

Speaker 1 (01:00:18):
And so did the police arrest them?

Speaker 11 (01:00:20):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:00:21):
In Life plus twenty, Wow, did you have to testify? Okay,
I'm sorry the phone cut out.

Speaker 7 (01:00:29):
We're on my eighteenth birthday. I would testifying.

Speaker 1 (01:00:33):
That's crazy. Were you scared at all about testifying?

Speaker 7 (01:00:37):
No? Not really?

Speaker 1 (01:00:39):
And how long did it take you to recover?

Speaker 11 (01:00:41):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:00:41):
How long were you in the hospital overnight?

Speaker 6 (01:00:44):
Over?

Speaker 1 (01:00:45):
You got stabbed in the neck and you were in
the hospital overnight.

Speaker 7 (01:00:48):
Yeah, pulled the knife out of my throat and that's
how I ran the guys out of the house, fabbing
at him.

Speaker 1 (01:00:53):
You get did you get to cut them at all?

Speaker 7 (01:00:57):
So?

Speaker 1 (01:00:59):
Well? That's wild, dude, that would be enough.

Speaker 5 (01:01:02):
That feels like you've got enough in the stab quota
for everybody in this room and maybe a few people listening,
plus yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:01:08):
But you've been stabbed more than once.

Speaker 7 (01:01:11):
Yeah. Walking down the street, girlfriend and I were kind
of drunk and arguing, so there was a separation. She
was maybe twenty feet behind me as we were walking,
and I must have said the wrong thing I don't know,
and she shot me in the left shoulder blade.

Speaker 1 (01:01:30):
With a knife. Well, I don't know what's happening here,
but it sounds like we're having some phone problems. Shot,
he said. Okay, how did you hear that? Okay?

Speaker 4 (01:01:45):
And so.

Speaker 1 (01:01:47):
What happened with that? Did she go to jail?

Speaker 7 (01:01:50):
I knocked the gun out of her hand, threw it
down a storm drain. Then she pulled out a knife
and stabbed me in the.

Speaker 1 (01:01:56):
Back literally yeah and physically yes.

Speaker 7 (01:02:00):
And that really pissed me off because I'd already been
stabshed several times before. So I punched her two times.
We both ended up in jail, but I was released
the next morning, no charges, and they kept charges on her.

Speaker 6 (01:02:15):
I know she was your ex, you said, but what
was her reasoning for coming after you.

Speaker 7 (01:02:23):
I haven't seen or spoken to her since then that night,
and so I really don't know. She was just kind
of crazy, a little crazy to begin with.

Speaker 1 (01:02:33):
Yeah, that tracks, that makes sense. I think that's an
appropriate label. You know, I'm not a big fan of
always calling women crazy, but this feels appropriate this time. Yeah,
did she go to jail? Do you know?

Speaker 7 (01:02:45):
I'm pretty sure she ended up in jail over that,
because that's again, I don't really know. It was like
a week later as when I became a carneye.

Speaker 5 (01:02:54):
Oh, so okay, now I'm getting the picture. You also
may have taken the carney job to get out.

Speaker 7 (01:02:59):
Of Yeah, definitely.

Speaker 5 (01:03:03):
Did you take that job thinking it was gonna kind
of clean things up? Or did you know it was
going to be such a crazy life.

Speaker 7 (01:03:11):
It was kind of crazy, but I was just ready
to get out of Illinois and they were there. I
really had nothing going on for me at the time.

Speaker 1 (01:03:20):
Right, how'd you come to Oklahoma?

Speaker 7 (01:03:23):
Then, dear?

Speaker 1 (01:03:26):
I'm sorry here? Who moved here?

Speaker 7 (01:03:28):
My mother?

Speaker 1 (01:03:29):
Okay?

Speaker 7 (01:03:31):
So, and so I came here to stay with my
mom originally?

Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
And is your mom still with us? Yes?

Speaker 7 (01:03:39):
And now she's in Illinois. She's follaby listening right now?
She moved back, Yeah, where I'm originally from. Okay, Champagne, Orbana, Illinois.

Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Okay. Let's talk about your kids, man, if you don't
mind specifically your boys. How old are your boys?

Speaker 7 (01:03:59):
Seen year old boy and a twenty four year old
boy who just gave me my first grandchild on the
third of last month.

Speaker 5 (01:04:05):
That's awesome man, congratulations. And it says that they are
enlisted in the military. What branch of service?

Speaker 7 (01:04:13):
They're both the US Marines?

Speaker 1 (01:04:15):
Okay? And did they did you encourage him to go
down that road or did they say, dad, we want
to be Marines?

Speaker 7 (01:04:23):
Was actually in votech for criminal Justice and got recruited
into the Marine Corps through there, and then the younger
boy decided he was just going to follow his older brother.

Speaker 1 (01:04:35):
And when they came to both of them came to
you and said they were going to do this.

Speaker 5 (01:04:38):
How was your feelings about that, because some people get
a little apprehensive about their children enlisting.

Speaker 7 (01:04:43):
Well, I was just proud.

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
And are they both still your oldest still is the
oldest still in the Marines.

Speaker 7 (01:04:51):
Yes, he's a crew chief on a fifty three helicopter.

Speaker 1 (01:04:56):
No kidding, that's cool. And where is he stationed?

Speaker 7 (01:05:02):
North Carolina? And have you got Marine Corps Marine Corps
air Station New River?

Speaker 1 (01:05:08):
And have you got to see your grandchild yet?

Speaker 7 (01:05:12):
No, it was nine weeks early. He's still in the
hospital over there in North Carolina. And it's probably best
that we league give them time.

Speaker 1 (01:05:21):
Yeah, that's probably a good idea. And do you have
a I'm the cool granddad t shirt or mug?

Speaker 3 (01:05:29):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:05:29):
No, Yeah, Christmas is coming off, so what about I'm
a Marine dad? Do you have one of those?

Speaker 7 (01:05:38):
Was my profile picture on Facebook for a while. And
I have a sticker on my back window of my
car proud father of a US Marine.

Speaker 5 (01:05:45):
That's awesome. That's cool man. And tell me some things
about your daughters. You have four kids, man, that is
that's awesome.

Speaker 9 (01:05:52):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:05:52):
Good for you? Having four kids is I think intense,
but it sounds like it worked out for you. Tell
me about your daughters.

Speaker 7 (01:06:00):
My oldest daughter really hasn't figured out what she's going
to do yet. Youngest daughter is thirteen. And know she's
still in school, she's in choir, she's in band. Marching
band gets a lot of awards every year for like
the presidential honor role and all kinds of stuff.

Speaker 9 (01:06:22):
Awesome.

Speaker 1 (01:06:23):
That's great man.

Speaker 5 (01:06:24):
And do you think that the behavior of your boys
and your daughters comes from you or your wife? Yes,
that's awesome. Well listen, Jeremy, it's been fun talking to
you man. Thank you for sharing all that. I hope
you have a great Christmas, great holiday. Congratulations on being

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a granddad. And I appreciate you taking the time to
talk to us.

Speaker 1 (01:06:49):
Oh yeah, thanks, all right, man, see you later.

Speaker 5 (01:06:52):
Here's this really crazy story about a metal band that
kind of surprised me because.

Speaker 1 (01:06:59):
Of their notoriety in metal, and they are the band
members are suing the lead singer of the band.

Speaker 5 (01:07:07):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:07:08):
The band is Cradle of Phillis.

Speaker 5 (01:07:09):
If you're unfamiliar with them, they are probably one of
the bands responsible for kind of mainstreaming a lot of
metal music. And their shows are really really great, and
their fans are rabbit as hell. And you think Swifties
are crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:07:23):
They probably don't like that.

Speaker 5 (01:07:24):
Connection, but they're they're they're like you know, ICP fans
or Jimmy Buffett fans. They're really passionate. You don't people
don't like those comparisons, but it's the truth anyway. So
in August, the spouses for a couple of the band

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members I'm sorry the band members. A couple of band
members announced they were leaving the band over quote foolish
clown antics.

Speaker 1 (01:07:58):
Okay from the front man. Is he like coming up
with one of those flowers. He's like, hey, smell my
flower and then sports him in the eye. No, okay.

Speaker 5 (01:08:06):
They said his behavior was unprofessional and created a toxic
work environment and a psychopathic sessions contract that they had.

Speaker 1 (01:08:15):
To be a part of. Welcome to the workforce, bro
one of the members I'm sorry. The lead singer, Danny,
said that those allegations are dumb and that he made
a really long post online sharing a lot of personal
details about his aunt ex bandmates, and then he followed

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that up with another statement apologizing for airing out all
that dirty laundry, but went back to that the accusations
of theft and exploitation are false.

Speaker 5 (01:08:46):
And damaging and they're going to go to court. And
some of the legal complaints are that their has included
that they have not paid them for sessions studio sessions,
including multiple albums for the last four years, if not

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more than that. Some saying they even didn't get paid
for videos, shooting two music videos, cuts of the merchandise
that they were promised, some design creations that were used
in T shirts and albums and things like that. And

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they then also are suing for death amation, saying that
the lead singer said that one of the females in
the band drink alcohol while pregnant. Oh no, and that
her tragic miscarriage was caused by her alcohol consumption.

Speaker 1 (01:09:52):
And what are you doing, man?

Speaker 5 (01:09:56):
They're asking a court to issue in order acquiring the
band to destroy and see selling any merch featuring their
likeness and suing them for copyright infringement, defamation, and they're
asking for compensatory damages, punitive damages, and turney fees. So
I'm sure Cradile Films will still go out, it just
won't be credile filth.

Speaker 1 (01:10:16):
No, it probably hasn't been original members for a while.
But that's crazy, right. Everybody always talks about that.

Speaker 5 (01:10:26):
In bands, they're like, oh, we're gonna make a ban,
except the moment you sign a contract, it is no
longer fun, right, and it becomes a job.

Speaker 1 (01:10:34):
It's a business, yep. And some usually one person is
like I'm gonna be the business.

Speaker 5 (01:10:40):
I'll be the business side, and everybody else goes along,
and then when it's time to do business stuff, people
don't like it, or the guy who does the business
stuff is diabolical and unfair and doesn't treat everybody like equals,
and maybe he should or shouldn't I do. I have
no idea, but it is a to I did not

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see the story coming. Now there's such a long time
metal band with such notre like roots that are so
deep in the scene that now you go, oh, that's
not cool.

Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
Yeah, it's none of the originals I think maybe like
one just any probably yeah, and Martin Martin, Martin Scaruka. Yeah,
there was a buttload of former former members.

Speaker 2 (01:11:31):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (01:11:33):
That Usually that means something that they just can't get
their rest together, or one person probably in this case,
Danny is a dick and they're like, I can't work
with you, or he goes.

Speaker 5 (01:11:44):
This is my band, right, get out of here, right, Hey,
it's my way of the highway.

Speaker 8 (01:11:50):
And if you want to be a part of that life,
then they kind of gotta kind of gotta deal with
it a little bit, don't you. No, I mean, nobody
has to put up with anything at all, whatsoever. But
if it's like if you had dreams and hopes of
aspirations of being in this major metal band, you're like,
I finally made it, and I was like.

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
Okay, I'll put up with yours for a little while.
I guess, yeah, but I don't know if this helps
your case in the future. No, right, if you're like, oh,
I'll do this and that'll pull me to another gig,
suing that that's not gonna be awesome. Nobody's gonna want that,
you know, to go along with, or maybe they will,
I don't know. Maybe you get enough of you guyst together.

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But I think you don't have to put up with it.
You could have called it out from the beginning.

Speaker 5 (01:12:35):
Now, maybe you would have done that and he would
have been like, he's just bitter because we didn't pick
him or her or whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:12:41):
But either way, you've got a pretty long list of
people that aren't in the bandah.

Speaker 8 (01:12:52):
Yeah, And you think that might hurt you if you're
having like tryouts, auditions or whatever for new I don't know,
a triangle player or whatever, you're like, ooh, you guys
have gone through.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
A litany of people.

Speaker 5 (01:13:03):
I don't know if I want to be a part
of this or not, or maybe so maybe maybe the
best triangle player would be like, I could be triangle
player in a lot of bands.

Speaker 1 (01:13:12):
I don't need this, right, take my triangle and go home.

Speaker 5 (01:13:15):
But Mike, who just started playing the triangle right, might
be like, hell, yeah, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:13:24):
This is a major metal opportunity for me. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:13:27):
I think about that sometimes when you see like a
really like a metal band with a violin player and
you're like, hm, doesn't seem right, But sometimes it works out.
I mean rarely, do you go, oh man, that was
a great song. The guitar, the double kicked, oh man.

Speaker 1 (01:13:41):
And the violin really brought it together. It really felt
like it made sense at that point. Did you hear
the way he rocked that banjo? Yeah? I wonder what
band has had the most members ooh okay throughout all
the years, uh war, I'm gonna put Guara top of

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that list, because those guys have been around since what
the eighties?

Speaker 5 (01:14:07):
Oh my god, Creative Filter has had thirty five different members.

Speaker 1 (01:14:10):
I told you they had a lot of them, man,
thirty five Yeah, yeah, I'm not saying the problems you
but the problem is you me Lewis, They just can't
get on board.

Speaker 9 (01:14:28):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:14:30):
They just didn't cut it.

Speaker 2 (01:14:31):
Man.

Speaker 5 (01:14:34):
Aquabats if you know that band, I've never heard of them.
They're just this band that, like a lot of SKA
guys went through it. And uh, like Travis Barker was
a drummer at one time. Dave Grohl was a drummer
at one time, if I'm not mistaken. They've had a
lot of famous people, but you never know if those
are like guest appearances, right.

Speaker 3 (01:14:56):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
Mega Death has had twenty five plus members rotate in
and out. That's not surprising.

Speaker 5 (01:15:02):
Yeah, for those that don't know. Dave Mustein was in
Metallica and there he was too much for Metallica. They
were like, you gotta go dude. Yesterday I realized how
old I was. So I was watching sixty CVS Sunday
morning and they did a special Metallica Oh wow, and
not about their music, goodness about their charitable work, which

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is awesome.

Speaker 1 (01:15:24):
If you're unfamiliar about their charitable work. They do a
ton of it.

Speaker 5 (01:15:28):
And it all started with the after shows when they
started doing arena tours and stuff. They would take the
leftover food and donate it to food banks, and it
just kind of escalated to the behemoth that their charitable
arm is now including giving scholarships to people. This was
what the CBS Sunday Morning was about, giving scholarships to
people for trade stuff like semi drivers and welders and

(01:15:50):
things like that. They have a Metallica Scholarship Fund dedicated
specifically to that.

Speaker 8 (01:15:55):
You think, uh, you know, when they got in they're like,
oh man, we're gonna party, We're gonna drink, We're gonna
rock and roll is going to be awesome. And then
like what is this say, Cebe a Sunday Morning is like, hey,
cbea Sunday Morning wants to do a bit on us.

Speaker 1 (01:16:08):
Yes, we made it. So they actually addressed this because
it's a fair question.

Speaker 5 (01:16:13):
And the uh, James Headfield's like, listen, I think as
you get older, you start caring about all.

Speaker 1 (01:16:18):
The things that you didn't realize were important to you.
That's fair.

Speaker 5 (01:16:21):
And you start, and especially us who have been really lucky,
feel a responsibility to help out.

Speaker 1 (01:16:26):
That's fair. When you're in your early mid twenties starting
out doing that rock band thing, they probably would have
turned that down. Yeah, you know, but you're right as
you gotten older, like okay, yeah, listen, I like to
see my soulf on CBO Sunday morning. Yeah, and I
will say this watching them on that, and I encourage
everybody to go watch it. They did not look good.

Speaker 5 (01:16:45):
Really, they looked and I don't mean like bad, they
just look like hey, which is my statement how I
started this.

Speaker 1 (01:16:51):
I'm aging, right, and they're aging like Lars looked not healthy. Yeah,
but he's just older.

Speaker 5 (01:16:59):
Yeah, They're all older, right, yeah, even Trulia looked a
little You're like, huh right, he's probably the youngest member
of the band.

Speaker 7 (01:17:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:17:05):
Yeah, they've had a lot of man members. For those
who don't know, Yeah, this is here. Santana's gone through
seventy different music.

Speaker 2 (01:17:12):
Damn.

Speaker 6 (01:17:13):
Yeah, the band, the poy Dog Pondering, the band.

Speaker 4 (01:17:17):
I like that.

Speaker 6 (01:17:17):
In Chicago, they've had over three dozen members.

Speaker 1 (01:17:20):
Thirty six.

Speaker 5 (01:17:20):
Yeah, Pumpkins twenty nine inch Nails over twenty. But I
think that that's different like the pump nine inch Nails,
because there's nine inch Nails, which are two people, basically
Trenton Atticus and then and then you have a band
that you tour with, and yes, they are a part
of the band, but they're not really a part of
the band.

Speaker 7 (01:17:40):
Right.

Speaker 5 (01:17:41):
They even get a special asterisk called the touring band, Right. Yeah,
same with Pumpkins. I think at one point you just go,
we just want to see Billy singh.

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
That's really it.

Speaker 5 (01:17:53):
For a while, you'd be like, oh, I want to
see Jimmy Chamberlain drum and then you're like, oh, he's
a mess, or you want to see eh. Right, Sabbath
had a bunch of lineup changes. Ministry has had over
thirty musicians in the band. But I think that's kind
of the same thing. It's kind of a rotating People
say that about Ghost, right, it's just Tobias and then
he's got a couple of cores, and then the rest
rotates through.

Speaker 1 (01:18:14):
A bunch of hard guns coming through hoping out. Yeah,
and you put masks on him because then you don't
have to identify. That's brilliant. Yeah, all right, we got
to take a break. We'll be back. The Big Man
Morning Show returns.

Speaker 5 (01:18:28):
Next Going into this previous week, in week thirteen, I
was nineteen and seventeen. Gimpie and Lindsay were both twenty
three and thirteen. So we're not going to cover Week
twelve scores. But going into Week thirteen, we had the
Chiefs at Cowboys, and we all felt really confident the
Chiefs were gonna win. And I guess we underestimated the

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power of the slant by George Pickens, and we underestimated
the sheer number of defensive pass interference calls that were
gonna happen. Listen, I'm not gonna blame the ref's kind
of guy, but when you go from having four on
one player in his whole career to having four in
one game, I think it's worth exploring.

Speaker 1 (01:19:13):
Whether the refs were doing their job accurately. It felt
a little weird.

Speaker 8 (01:19:17):
I think we're in some kind of weird bizarro world
time shift thing. I don't know what the hell is
going on with football nowadays.

Speaker 6 (01:19:24):
Yeah, it is weird though that, like the Chiefs, their
chemistry is definitely off this season.

Speaker 5 (01:19:31):
I feel like, Yeah, I would say that Mahomes doesn't
have the confidence in his receivers, and he doesn't stay
calm in the pocket, and he's never really been calm
in the pocket, but he's quick to get out of there.
And three of the four linemen and the old line
are injured listen. We could go on and on and
what I think is wrong with the Chiefs. But nonetheless,
I this isn't gonna be awesome for a lot of

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people to hear the Cowboys look red hot. Yeah, they
look awesome. Pickens is crazy in his stats.

Speaker 1 (01:20:01):
I just I considered it a Thanksgiving gift to the canniboy.

Speaker 5 (01:20:07):
Some say that because the Cowboys have had so many
bad Thanksgivings games, but I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:20:12):
Just not a believer in that. The Chiefs just when
you give one hundred yards and penalties, you deserve to lose,
which is what the Chiefs did.

Speaker 5 (01:20:21):
So none of us got that one right. And then
we had San Francisco at Cleveland, which was never really
a game.

Speaker 1 (01:20:26):
Oh, they ran right over that.

Speaker 9 (01:20:27):
Now.

Speaker 1 (01:20:28):
It was a little rough in the beginning. I'm in
the first quarter, the first quarter, I was like, oh, hell,
what is going on? But I tell you what, the
Browns just kept s in the bed one right after another,
and they're I just capitalized on it.

Speaker 7 (01:20:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:20:45):
And then we have the Chicago Eagles game, which, if
I'm being honest, I forgot that game was on. I
was watching college football on Friday and I was like,
yesterday I was like, when's the Bears playing. I'm like,
they played Friday and they ended up stunning I think everybody,
and they are again bizarro world. Yeah that happy for

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Cowboy fan, Like, yeah, that is well deserve. You know
what I learned today is that Ben Johnson never interviewed
for that job. They just gave him the job. Wow,
I'm gonna say that again. The man interviewed for an
NFL coaching job. Now, granted they say it was said
he was offered after the they played each other, the
Lions and the Bears played each other each other, and

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just how bad he beat up there, Like, let's hire
that guy and.

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
They just get sure.

Speaker 5 (01:21:33):
But apparently they were trying to hire Ben Johnson for
the Raiders and that Tom Brady was really the one
pushing for that, and they had talked talked to him,
at least Brady had, and that that's who they wanted,
and Ben Johnson was like, I'm gonna do this.

Speaker 1 (01:21:53):
Never interviewed.

Speaker 5 (01:21:54):
That's how bad he didn't want to be a part
of the Raiders, right, And then that's when they hired
Chip Kelly.

Speaker 1 (01:21:59):
And listen how bad at with Tip Kelly. Apparently he would.

Speaker 5 (01:22:02):
Call in plays to Gino Smith and not give motion
instructions and forget to do that. Or he would call
in plays that had never been rehearsed or on the
sheet right, and so they were like, uh, Like Gino
Smith would go up to the line and be like
this isn't right and sometimes just completely mess up the

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calls in and just a horrible offensive coordinator, a horrible
highest paid offensive coordinator in the NFL.

Speaker 6 (01:22:34):
And what is Geno smith Man? Yes, him tripping yesterday
over his center And.

Speaker 1 (01:22:40):
I mean that happened to Daniel Jones.

Speaker 5 (01:22:42):
That happens a lot with quarterbacks where they get stepped
on their feet. I believe it's happened to Caleb multiple times.

Speaker 1 (01:22:48):
It just happens.

Speaker 6 (01:22:50):
Hey, they just look awful, But to.

Speaker 5 (01:22:53):
Be fair, it's because they got a guy helping them
that isn't calling in the right plays. Again, this is
one of the biggest eye opening things about watching football
is you're like, why didn't he throw it to that guy?

Speaker 1 (01:23:03):
You don't know what the call was, right, Why wasn't
that guy covering that other guy? You don't know what
the call was?

Speaker 6 (01:23:09):
I will I will say brock Bauers, though yesterday he
had I thought the play of the day when he
caught the one handed touchdown. Oh yeah, I mean that
was beautiful.

Speaker 1 (01:23:18):
No, brock Bauers is a stud.

Speaker 5 (01:23:19):
Hey him or mot Max Crosby are the best players
on that team for sure. But yeah, Raiders fan, hoy hoy.
But it is a bizarro world right now with football.
Who would have guessed that the Cowboys and Bears would
be crazy good? And the Panthers, right, Carolina.

Speaker 1 (01:23:37):
Panthers another one. It's like, holy crap, what is happening
with this league? What the hell is going on?

Speaker 5 (01:23:42):
So for the week, I went gimpy and I both
went one and two and Lindsay went two and one.
So that makes the overall record twenty and nineteen, twenty
four and fifteen for Gimpy. And as Gimpy said, this
is a bizarrow world. Lindsay is leading at twenty five
and fourteen. Hey, don't celebrate too much, sesus not overj Forbyn.

Speaker 6 (01:23:59):
Happy twenty six birthday to porn star Paisley Ray. You
can see this weed love and working girl in Our
Little Secret two Size Does Matter twenty two and Sauna Seduction.
She has a tat of a heart with four to
twenty written inside of it on her wrist.

Speaker 8 (01:24:17):
Good morning, Gimbee, Well, good morning Gorbin. Hey you want
to go see Guns and Roses next year? We'll send
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Speaker 1 (01:24:25):
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Speaker 5 (01:24:26):
That's in Missouri? You want to go for free? Hit
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on the IR Radio web. All right, join us in
the studio. Now is Jeff Heinsley of Finsley Associates. Hey, buddy,
how are you?

Speaker 9 (01:24:37):
I'm great man? Are you good?

Speaker 1 (01:24:39):
Happy holidays?

Speaker 9 (01:24:40):
That's rightday season? Right, yeah. So you know, if you've
had Thanksgiving and got pissed off someone through cranberry sauce
in your face, please give us a call. We'd love
to help you with that.

Speaker 1 (01:24:51):
Do you see an uptick around the holidays?

Speaker 5 (01:24:54):
We do.

Speaker 4 (01:24:54):
So.

Speaker 9 (01:24:54):
You know it's like every business has its ups and downs, right,
you know, high peaks of the year, low peaks of
the year, this kind of thing. So, yeah, I mean
holidays are they're especially charged right because we've got uh, well,
the so and so didn't give me my kids or
you know, she wouldn't let me have the Thanksgiving Day
and I had to have you know, all that comes

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or Christmas. I mean, yes, we see that after the
first of the year. I mean it people get crazy,
and rightly so, I mean you've got kids involved, and
you've got people playing games and doing and I don't
mean fun games. I mean they're doing things they shouldn't
be doing. And yeah, I mean it's unfortunate that the
holidays are always tough for everybody, whether it be you know,

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dealing with x's or you're in the middle of a
divorce or paternity issue, or you know. And this is
just a plug. If you're having mental health issues during
this time of year, please call the was it nine
eight eight number. You're not alone, please, There's always people
out there willing to talk to you and take care
of you and help you. So sorry, I just had

(01:25:58):
to plug that in there, because mental health goes a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:26:00):
With what we do.

Speaker 9 (01:26:01):
People can get very depressed and very upset and very
frustrated and all these things during the holidays. So if
you were having those issues, please please please call that
eight number.

Speaker 5 (01:26:11):
Jefferm Heinsley Associates is here to answer your questions about
family law. Maybe you did reach your breaking point over
the holidays, and you have a question about divorce or custody,
or visitations or adoptions, or maybe you want to take
guardianship of a loved one who maybe can't take care
of themselves anymore. Jeff can explain how all that works.

(01:26:32):
And you have a couple of ways to get your
question to us. You can email show at kmod dot com.
You can call it eight three three four six ozho KMOD,
or you can text BMMS in the body of the
text with a space and whatever your question is to
the phone number eight two nine four five. That's how
I got this one question for Jeff Heinsley of Heinsleyan Associates.
My mom passed away this year in October. Before she passed,

(01:26:54):
she had given me her car. It was not put
in writing. She gave it to me knowing she was
about to pass It was not stated in a will,
and I have no written proof. We did not get
the chance to swap the title before she passed. She
was married to my dad, but his name is not
on the title. I currently have possession of the car
and title. I want to know what I need to
do or can I do legally to have the title

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put in my name.

Speaker 9 (01:27:17):
Now that she's gone, well, I mean if she passed,
all of that should have gone through probate too, so
which point there would have been an executor of the
state appointed and that would have all been taking care
of during the probate process. So please gives a call.

Speaker 1 (01:27:30):
Whoever this is.

Speaker 9 (01:27:31):
I will hook you up with Sam Allison in our
best office. He does all of our probate work. He
can give you an answer and how to handle that.
But it should have I mean, that should have all
been done through the probate so at which point it
would have been very easy for the executor to sign
it over and all that kind of stuff. So please
give us a call. There's a solution. We just need
a few more details.

Speaker 1 (01:27:50):
But can we clear some up. Yeah, sure, he has
no right to the car.

Speaker 9 (01:27:54):
No, technically no. I mean there's always this idea of
gift and well, she gave it to me, so it's
mine and all that, but you know, at the end
of the day, it's who holds the title. The old adage,
you know, possession is nine tenths of the last garbage.
We love to say that and we joke around with
our kids and friends about it. Uh, but it's really
not really kind of that way. So please if if

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you've got an issue like this, and it's very common, right,
I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:28:19):
A lot of people say this in this situation.

Speaker 9 (01:28:21):
I here's the weirdest thing. Okay, very similar situation. Right
before I went to law school, I was working at
the law school actually as a research intern. Anyway, long
story shortage. I worked with the lady who was heading
into a surgery and she just somehow knew she wasn't
going to survive, and so she, uh start that day

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before she went out, and she signed everything over to
her son. She signed all the will you know, she
signed all the titles, she transferred all the bank account. Mean,
it's really strange. I mean she ended up passing away.
I mean it's really bizarre. But you know, if you
feel like you're going to pass because you're in that situation,
then you need to start signing things over rather than
just saying, well, you get this and you get this,
because at the end of the day, the probate court

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comes in. I mean, what if there was a debt ode,
what if there were lots of debts, so they would
have taken that car to pay for it, maybe all
sorts of things. So you know, again, that's why we
need a few more details on this because if whoever passed,
if she passed in October, we're probably still dealing with
probate issues or we should. So please give us a
call love to help you out and get all that
straightened out so you can figure out if you keep

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the car on.

Speaker 5 (01:29:26):
Jeff Hensley from Hensley Associates eight three three four six
Oh KMOD is the phone number. Can also text BMMS
or whatever your question is to eight two nine four
five or email show at kmod dot com. This says,
I have a question about how often judges go against
a g A L.

Speaker 1 (01:29:44):
Guardium adler.

Speaker 9 (01:29:45):
I didn't know comes the rest of this.

Speaker 1 (01:29:47):
There's a lot more.

Speaker 9 (01:29:47):
Yeah, Okay, you pause there, and I'm like, this is
gonna give you a chance to indramatic pause.

Speaker 1 (01:29:51):
You know, gl A.

Speaker 5 (01:29:52):
Guardian recommendation and custody cases. In our situation, the child
nine is currently in a partial school part hospitalization program
and her therapist is recommending slowing down family therapy because
she's having major behavioral struggles since the father has been
introduced into therapy. The father is a known huffer who

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has been in and out of rehab. He claims almost
a year of sobriety, but there's no reliable test for huffing,
and just a month can go. A month ago, a
can of compressed air was found in his car he
claimed was glass cleaner for a move.

Speaker 1 (01:30:27):
I took pictures of it and went to the GL.

Speaker 5 (01:30:29):
Despite all of this, the GL is recommending increasing his
time from four hours a week to twelve under circumstances
like these ignored safety risks, therapist warnings, and child in crisis.
How often do you see a judge override a GAL recommendation?
From what I hear, it's pretty rare. Let's clear something
up there, because to me, there's two issues I want

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you to address in this. One is their question is
how often does GL get ignored? The other is when
you suspect the other parties doing something wrong, how much.

Speaker 1 (01:30:59):
Do they take that as truth?

Speaker 9 (01:31:02):
Okay, So first part with GOO almost never. Okay. You
have to understand that judges follow what guardian ed items
recommend typically because and I've been on both sides of this, Okay,
I've argued both sides. I've been on the side of
supporting the GL. I've been on the rare side of
trying to defeat the gl's recommendation. It's next to impossible.

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And here's why, because again, they are the people that
are on the ground. They're the boots on the ground
who are interviewing everybody, talking to everybody, doing everything, doing
an investigation, all the things at court can't do. And
of course remember the guardian ed item has to do
what they think is in the child's best inrist those
kind of things. Now, so it's rare, it's ultra rear.

(01:31:45):
I have never seen it in twenty years of practice.
I have tried several times unsuccessfully to do it, simply
because again that's how ingrained judges are with gls. Now,
what was the second question?

Speaker 5 (01:31:58):
When you think somebody's doing something wrong, like in this case,
a camp compressed air was found in the car, that
is that a real problem.

Speaker 9 (01:32:08):
Well, again, that's conjecture. And unfortunately, unless that's what I
was looking for, the conjecture part, Unless you catch them
huffing the can of air or paint or whatever it
is they're doing, it's weed or whatever it may be.
Weed without a for this for gimfy without a license.

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It out man.

Speaker 1 (01:32:33):
Just because you suspect those you.

Speaker 9 (01:32:35):
Suspect, right, just because you suspect something does not mean
that's what happened. Now, could you be right? Absolutely, especially
if somebody has a history of things. But again, they
have to have the proof. Now, let me throw in
a and I understand where these people are coming from.
Totally get it. I've had clients in this situation. I've
been in this situation. I've got a case very similar

(01:32:58):
with the idea of the same things the guardian ad
libe is doing. But let me kind of jumble it
up and kind of turn it on its head a
little bit, and let me let me hopefully this will
bring some solace to this individual if they're listening. Okay,
think about it this way. When someone is under supervised
visitation for four hours, how do they act?

Speaker 1 (01:33:20):
I mean they're going to be angels?

Speaker 9 (01:33:22):
Right, Okay? Now, have we given them any rope to
try to hang themselves at four hours?

Speaker 3 (01:33:30):
No?

Speaker 9 (01:33:31):
By expanding out all right, they're more likely to do
something stupid, okay, or mess up and hang themselves. Sometimes
it's hard to get past the fact that, yes, this
is this, this is that the counselor is saying this
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Buth understand too,
the guardian dead items are also talking to those counselors. Okay,
guardian ned item never makes a recommendation without talking to

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the counselors and keeping them in the loop. Putting somebody
at a higher time or you know, not unsupervised but
may be monitored or whatever it may be, it gives
them a chance to screw up and hang themselves because
at four hours or whatever it may be, people are
gonna act like angels. They're not going to mess up
because they've got somebody watching their every move every second, right,
Whereas if you expand things out, whether it be monitored

(01:34:16):
or more time or whatever it may be, you're giving
them a rope to hang themselves because eventually they're going
to blow it.

Speaker 1 (01:34:22):
That feels like a risk though it feels like you're
doing at the risk of the child.

Speaker 9 (01:34:25):
Well maybe, but at the same time too, if it's supervised,
somebody's going to be there to take care of it anyway. Right,
So it's one of those things that I'm just trying
to give a perspective to this person, and I understand again,
I completely understand where things are. I understand how they feel.
I really do, because I've had clients like this. I've
got a client right now that's exactly like this. I
get it. But at the same time, too, the guardian

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edldem can't say, well, you know, she needs some he
or she whoever it may be, needs some sort of
tangible evidence that they can use to make a good decision.
One where the because right now, if someone's acting perfect
for four hours, what do you do? You know what
I'm saying, And if it's still supervised at twelve hours,

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and it sounds that I don't know. If they said
it was supervised for twelve hours, that would be strange
simply because the cost alone would be prohibitive for most people.
If it's monitored or whatever it may be, for twelve hours,
it gives that individual a chance to screw up. And
there's also ways to handle it too. I mean, if
the kid wants an out, depending upon their age, obviously,
then they can immediately call the other parent. Haven't picked

(01:35:29):
I mean, there's ways to handle these things, and I
totally get where they're at, but I'm trying to give
a perspective of it's hard to not see someone in
a good light when they're being perfect for four hours
but their every move watched as opposed to giving them
more time. Now, I think four to twelve is a
huge jump. I don't know the specifics of the case
so than what we've been told. And I want to

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remind everybody too when you call in and or you
text in or what it may be, remember whatever I
say on the air is only based upon the little
information you're giving me, all right, not me delling it
to your case and all that unless you call me
and then we can talk more. And that's why I
always encourage people to call us after the show, during
the week or whatever, because then we have more time
to talk about and look into specifics and me pull
your case up and read all the pleadings and all

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that stuff. So anyway, that's kind of where those are at.

Speaker 5 (01:36:15):
Jeferm Heinsland Associates is in the studio to answer your
questions about family law anything else to do with divorce
and custody or guardianship or adoption is a big one
that he likes to help with, and you can contact
us eight three three four six oh KMOD. You can
email show at KMOD dot com or you can text
BMMS and whatever your question is to eight two nine

(01:36:36):
four five. This one says, after three years, my ex
wants to come after me for child support after she
told me the child is not yours and showed me
a so called DNA test and told me to go
f myself, told me to stay away or she'll call
the cops. Can I request paternity before a final hearing?

(01:36:56):
This will be my first court date.

Speaker 9 (01:36:58):
About this, So typically, all right, the law says that
you have to just be a paternity within the first
two years. Right, that's the way the law is written. Now,
have I seen cases where let's assume I'm assuming the
kid is three, We don't know. I mean, it says
after three years, let's just assume that it is a
three year old. Three year old? They can, Yes, you

(01:37:19):
can ask for a DNA test, absolutely, all right. Some
DNA sees me. Some DHS offices are more apt to
work with you on those kind of things as opposed
to being hard and fast. But there are offices in
the state that are super hard and fast. That says, well,
your past your two years, which means now you either
have to deal with it or you find you make
a six oh seven B argument. Okay, that means, okay,

(01:37:42):
that's just fancy terminology. That means if there's somebody else
that has held out the child as their own, okay,
and they're not the biological father, then you can try
and shift it over to them so that they can
be the one to take care of the child. I've
successfully done that on several cases. But again, you've got
to find somebody who's done that, and now there's not
a father figure that hasn't done that, then you're kind

(01:38:04):
of sol a little bit on it. But at the
same time too, you know, is this a paternity case,
is this a divorce? I mean it's one of those
things that you always want to ask for the DNA
test no matter what, to see what they say, to
see if you can get it. Because again, the loss
is within the first two years.

Speaker 5 (01:38:20):
So it just depends what do you do in that
scenario where he thought he was in the clear because
the other party showed a DNA test. Do you not
take people's word and is it two years from when
you are informed or two years.

Speaker 1 (01:38:34):
Of the birth?

Speaker 9 (01:38:35):
Well, it's two years from the birth. How did she
get the DNA test? She would need his DNA, right,
So how did she get his DNA? Which is it is?

Speaker 7 (01:38:45):
You know?

Speaker 9 (01:38:45):
Did she say, well, I grabbed a piece of your
hair off your brush. Sure, you know, whatever it may be,
because you can use that, but typically it's swabs. Right,
We use epithelial cells on the inside of the mouth,
and that's how we do that. We take mouth swabs.
How does she get the DNA test? Was she just
hating on you? I mean what, there's more to this story.
There's always more to these kind of stories, and that's

(01:39:06):
why I encourage people to call. We'd love to answer
more questions, find out a few more facts so that
we can find out what's going on and make, you know,
figure out a game plan for you. But you know,
whatever this is, always ask for the DNA test, especially
when it's in that two to three year range, even
though the loss is to you know, again, if if
you're within that close range, I've seen offices do that.

(01:39:26):
There's no guarantees on this, guys, okay and ladies, listen
to me when I say this, I'm not making any guarantees.
I'm merely telling you what I have seen in my practice.
But there are no guarantees that they will do that, okay,
but it's like dating. The worst they can say is no, right, okay.

Speaker 5 (01:39:42):
Always ask could this be a scenario where she knows
the three years is by and is trying to take
advantage of that?

Speaker 9 (01:39:49):
Possibly? I mean she would have to be really she
would have had to have read the law and really
understood it at some point, or googled it or whatever
it may be. Some people do that, some people don't.
Maybe I don't know. I don't know why she's coming
after three years. And here's the bad part is if
he gets stuck with it, he also she can get
him for two years of back support under the law.
So not only will you have child support moving forward,

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but they'll probably hit him for two years of back
support as well.

Speaker 1 (01:40:14):
Either way, he needs to get in his hands around this.

Speaker 9 (01:40:16):
Absolutely needs to give us a call eight three three.

Speaker 1 (01:40:19):
Four six Oh, kmod.

Speaker 5 (01:40:20):
You can email show at kmod dot com or texts
to bmmss and whatever your question is to eight two
nine four five.

Speaker 1 (01:40:26):
Josh is on right now? Hey, Josh, how are you? Hey?

Speaker 11 (01:40:30):
I'm doing for good?

Speaker 1 (01:40:31):
What's your question for? Jeff Heinsley of Hensley Associates.

Speaker 11 (01:40:35):
All right, Jeff, so I've got I've got one. It's
not about child support, but it's just a court in general.
I'm gonna try to keep it very short. January, both
me and my wife both got arrested. I was facing
two felonies and she was facing one. By March, all
of my stuff got dismissed.

Speaker 7 (01:40:56):
I was told.

Speaker 11 (01:40:57):
The exact words from the attorney or the the judge
was that it was not worth the court's time to pursue. Okay,
my first question is when I had originally talked to
my attorney, they told me that I would have to
have it expunged off my record, or I would it
would pop up in every background check.

Speaker 4 (01:41:17):
Is that true?

Speaker 9 (01:41:18):
That is true? So typically even if it's dismissed by
the courts, people can still you know, businesses or people
whoever can still google it or no Google. But go
to o SCN and see that on osc in that
the charge is still there. It'll show dismissed. But if
you want it expunged, we'll have to. I mean, if
you want it completely gone so no one can ever
see it, we're gonna have to do an expungement. If

(01:41:38):
you'll call my office, we do expungements. We'd be happy
to help you with that. But yes, that is true.

Speaker 11 (01:41:44):
Okay. And then my other quick part, My wife is
still dealing with her side of it. She has been
to five or six arraignments, a couple of pre trials,
and her trials not till February.

Speaker 7 (01:41:58):
Of next year.

Speaker 11 (01:42:00):
It's in Tulsa County?

Speaker 5 (01:42:01):
Is that?

Speaker 11 (01:42:03):
Is that normal for Tulsa County? Just to be so far?
I know her attorney has made the comment that he's
never seen one go quite this far, and it just
seems like it keeps going and going. Is this normal
for Tulsa County?

Speaker 9 (01:42:18):
Now? Okay, sir? When he says when the attorneys said
he's not seen one go this far, is it talk
about the specific charge that she has. What do you
mean by norm?

Speaker 11 (01:42:28):
So just the amount of the amount of arraignments. It
was every month we would have to drive. Now, me
and my wife we both moved to Arkansas now, so
for us to get back to Tulsa County it's three
hours one way, the.

Speaker 9 (01:42:41):
Answer, and then we're doing that once a month. I
will tell you that. Unfortunately, the answer to that is
probably yes, at least in what I've seen. I if
you'll call me later. I can give you a little
more specifics on my thoughts on that. I don't feel
comfortable sharing some of those on the air, but yeah,
I have seen some things like that. It's not just Tulsa.

(01:43:04):
There are other counties that have those issues as well.
But unfortunately I.

Speaker 11 (01:43:09):
Know her attorney. He's he's he's dual license for Arkansas
and Tulsa, and his his comment and all of it was,
this is my first trial in Tulsa, and this also
may be my last one in Tulsa.

Speaker 9 (01:43:24):
I'm sorry that your your wife is dealing with all
that were there the same charges you had or if
you don't mind me asking, so.

Speaker 11 (01:43:33):
Uh, mine was accessory and hers was embezzlement.

Speaker 1 (01:43:39):
Gotcha.

Speaker 11 (01:43:40):
I mean, we've we've been able to find a lot
of information to disprove, but it just keeps getting drug
out longer and longer.

Speaker 9 (01:43:48):
Well, I wish you guys the best. If you give
your name or number to GIMP, I will give you
a call and we can have a few more conversations
because we don't have really a time on the air
right now, but hanging there and we'll talk to you soon.

Speaker 7 (01:44:03):
Okay, Thanks you Jeff you're welcome.

Speaker 1 (01:44:05):
Listen. These things can get complicated.

Speaker 5 (01:44:06):
As Jeff said, usually more information is needed, not for
any other reason. Then sometimes there are things you forget
about that you think aren't important to the context, that
can be bodily important. That's why you don't trust chat, GPT,
That's why you don't trust Google.

Speaker 1 (01:44:20):
That's why you don't trust your friend Sally. You want
to make sure you get it from somebody who knows
the court system, and Jeff has the years of experience
to go with that, and we've got him convinced to
give us a free consultation over the phone fifteen minutes.
Fifteen minutes is.

Speaker 5 (01:44:34):
What you'll get for free if you mentioned KMOD when
you call him at nine one eight three nine eight
five six nine two eight three nine eight five six
nine two for Hnsling Associates and just like that other call.
Sometimes things happen to you that aren't part of family law,
and Jeff can help with that absolutely.

Speaker 9 (01:44:48):
So if you give us a call, we can hook
GIP with Sam Allison and our other office up in
Pahusco where you don't worry about the don't worry about
the location. We go well, he goes all over. But
the thing is anything in addition to family, la, you've
got a criminal issue like we just heard, or if
you've got you know, a car wreck, or if you've
got some sort of land issue or probate, or if
you need a will or a trust, or you need

(01:45:10):
a prenup or something like that, please give him a call.
If you don't remember it being Sam up in Pohusca,
please call us in Tulsa. We'll Hinsley and Associates. We'll
get you transferred up to Sam and get him taken
care of before you right away. But you know, the
thing is is you. We do have options, we can help,
and we are wanting to make your Christmas season much easier.
Give us a call.

Speaker 1 (01:45:33):
For Hinsling Associates. Jeff, have a great week, you too,
Thank you back.

Speaker 5 (01:45:36):
I saw the story and I was like, why hasn't
this been a thing before, and especially with this past
week with Thanksgiving and the holidays in general. And I
am not clear why it took this long to put
gravy in a squeeze bottle. You make a face, lindsay

(01:46:00):
like it's gross, And I also did that until I
realized it comes in a jar.

Speaker 1 (01:46:06):
Already. Yeah, I was about to say the same thing.

Speaker 6 (01:46:08):
I don't think it's I don't think it's gross. I
just think it's unattractive. It doesn't look good on your
table for Thanksgiving.

Speaker 1 (01:46:15):
That's where you Nobody puts the jar.

Speaker 6 (01:46:17):
Gravy boats are four.

Speaker 5 (01:46:18):
Yeah, nobody puts the jar though, No slap a bottle
of gravy down to the catch.

Speaker 1 (01:46:23):
Well, you don't even put a bottle of ketchup on
the table. Yeah, so I don't think that would happen
for that, But why there isn't I think you'd sell
more gravy if I had it in a jar, I'm sorry.
If I had it in a squeeze bottle, I would
probably use gravy more often. You think it's because you
gotta heat it up. You can't. I mean, sure, you

(01:46:44):
could eat the cold gravy straight out the jar if
you want it. That's disgusting, Yeah, but it takes a
little bit to heat up, where like with the jar,
you can just open it up, PLoP it in a
pan and you're good, right, Or you can heat it
up in the jar because glass holds heat pretty well.
Plastic melts down. Yeah, maybe that's why they don't do it. Yeah,

(01:47:04):
but if you are just making a leftover and you
just want to on top of whatever and then warm
it up, that works. Yeah yeah, yeah, but it's I
don't have to commit to open a jar for one spoonful.

Speaker 6 (01:47:16):
That's true, but it kind of it gets not hard.
But when it when you refrigerate your gravy, it kind
of like turns like gelatin.

Speaker 1 (01:47:27):
On the wagulate. But it already comes and made in
a jar, and when it's chilled, it's coagulated like that.
It's it's coagulated on the shelf. When you get in
the can. When you get gravy in the can, lindsay,
what do you do?

Speaker 6 (01:47:44):
I I don't get it in the in the can.

Speaker 1 (01:47:48):
You don't know. You've never gotten gravy in the cane.
To be fair, I've never gotten gravy in the can either.

Speaker 6 (01:47:56):
Always have made my own.

Speaker 1 (01:47:57):
You always make your own gravy always.

Speaker 5 (01:48:00):
Now you're making it from scratch or use like using
like McCormick's powder pouch.

Speaker 6 (01:48:03):
Never, I've never even bought mccormicks.

Speaker 1 (01:48:06):
Why gravy pouch. No, that's some good brown gravy. It's fine.

Speaker 6 (01:48:11):
I was just taught to make gravy, so I've always
done it.

Speaker 5 (01:48:14):
Yeah, it's also easy to just rip open the pack
and add water and du right, whisk away, keat it up.
Nobody's ever been like, this is not great gravy. I've
never given my gravy to anyone and they've been disappointed.
And I've only bought it out of a jar, or
I've made it out of a powdered pouch.

Speaker 8 (01:48:36):
Yeah, I've never done the jar thing either. It's always
been the powder pouch.

Speaker 1 (01:48:40):
The only time that we've ever done the jar gravy
is when uh turkey gravy, okay, because that's then I've
never done the pouch for I don't know why you just,
I guess because you think it's fancy, because it right,
you think it's fancy. Can't be given my guess this
powdery slop, let's give him slapping a jar.

Speaker 5 (01:49:01):
I think, if anything, maybe you just don't want to
dirty a dish to make it, so you just put
it in the boat or whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:49:09):
I don't think I own a gravy boat. I don't
I have four. Why you got a gravy fleet? Why
do you need a fleet? One? When are you serving
that many different varieties of gravy at your meals. No,
why do you need four them?

Speaker 9 (01:49:25):
Because my mom find.

Speaker 6 (01:49:29):
I've never bought them. It's because my dishes. If my
mom finds one that matches my dishes, she'll buy one,
and then I think maybe she forgets that I already
have one, and then she'll go, look at this one
pretty gravy boat. You know, the mom like, you don't
have to buy me another gravy boat.

Speaker 1 (01:49:45):
Nobody says gravy boats are pretty right now on that's
all you're gonna get from me come Christmas, or any
other boat you're going to add to your gravy boat collection.
I love that. So anybody coming to the toy drive,
bring Lindsay a gravy boat. Yes, the more off the wall,
the better we get.

Speaker 5 (01:50:02):
People bring us gifts, which is always so nice. Lindsay
only wants gravy boats. Let me say that again.

Speaker 1 (01:50:10):
No one heard you.

Speaker 5 (01:50:11):
Yeah, she's nodding her head. Yes, just bring her gravy boats.
It would make her so happy. Her other four are lonely.

Speaker 1 (01:50:21):
Oh my god, yeah, I don't have a one.

Speaker 5 (01:50:24):
If we were having a thing where I needed to
make great Nope, don't pawn your trash on me. If
I had an event, I would just put it in
a bowl, right, I don't need to have a elongated bowl,
That's all it is. Nope, spoons work really well. They
have perfected the spoon. We had a gravy ladle growing up.

(01:50:48):
We had this is awesome, So we had a gravy boat.
But then we had a sterling silver. I think it's
the only piece of sterling silver we ever I've ever
seen or owned was this ladle and every special hat.
My mom would have to like clean it, you know,
because it's stupid silver. Oh yeah, and that's that was
the only time.

Speaker 1 (01:51:08):
We used it. God forbid I get it to use.
I don't know, get you know, soup out or something. Right,
you're not eating with my gravyria. It's one of those
things that people. I love when people do these that
you thought were normal as a kid, to find out,
like we had furniture we could not sit on.

Speaker 6 (01:51:25):
Oh growing covered in plastic.

Speaker 5 (01:51:28):
No, but nope, we couldn't sit in it, which I
never understood why it was for guests, but I never
saw anyone sit in it ever, And we had guests,
but I never saw anyone sit in it. It held blankets,
like you folded blankets and put it on it, right,
But it's I've never growing up, we had two pieces
of furniture that you were not allowed to use as

(01:51:49):
their intended purpose.

Speaker 9 (01:51:50):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:51:51):
I had a frind in school and there was a
whole room in their house and you could not go
in there. All the furniture was white and there was
white blast like a sitting room or something, and there
was plastic covering the white furniture. I'm like, if no
one uses this room, why is the furniture covered in plastic?

Speaker 8 (01:52:07):
Like you the dust off of it, and because it's
white furniture, dust to turn it a dingy brown yellow color.
Same way with why are we keeping a locked up
and kids kids dirty things up?

Speaker 5 (01:52:18):
No, that's dirty people dirty things up there. But why
have it then if you're never going to use it?

Speaker 1 (01:52:25):
I'm right here with so you can bring your guests
in and say, hey, you see my white love seat
is the great? Do you have stuff now that you don't.

Speaker 5 (01:52:36):
Like your kids can't touch or can't use or you're
saving for that special thing? The only thing I can
think in our house, And my wife is probably better
at this than I am. Is we have some bottles
of bubbles and wine that I'm like, no, we're not
gonna drink it because it's a Friday.

Speaker 6 (01:52:50):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:52:50):
I think it's a.

Speaker 5 (01:52:50):
Ninety one hundred and ten dollars bottle of wine. We're
not doing that, right, Yes, but that's the only thing
that I can think of.

Speaker 6 (01:52:56):
I have a few bottles of wine like that. Also,
the the room that I call my reading room, I
don't let the kids go in there and play like.
I don't want them having the dog chase them in
that room because there's a couple of tables in there
are glass. I don't want them running into that and
breaking them, you know, And I just, yeah, that's my room,
get out of there.

Speaker 9 (01:53:17):
Uh huh.

Speaker 5 (01:53:17):
So it's the same thing pretty much because they probably
have glass in other places in the house, right right, Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:53:24):
But if they run into that or or fall into
it and cut their face all out, I can see
that happening.

Speaker 1 (01:53:32):
Do they ever carry glassware.

Speaker 6 (01:53:38):
To the dining room or in the kitchen? Yes, sure,
they're not running around the house with it.

Speaker 1 (01:53:44):
They're not running around with your table, No, but they.

Speaker 6 (01:53:47):
Run around the house so the dog will chase them,
and if they fall and crash into a glass a table.

Speaker 1 (01:53:54):
What are you talking about? Oh no, you sound like
a crazy person.

Speaker 6 (01:53:58):
Can happen take almost one hundred pounds.

Speaker 1 (01:54:01):
The dog can also stand up on its hind legs
and run around and chase people.

Speaker 5 (01:54:05):
No, lindsay, you are you are doing the thing that
we were both just sharing, that we were indoctrined with,
is they're not going to fall through the table.

Speaker 6 (01:54:20):
You don't know my kids.

Speaker 8 (01:54:22):
Let them try it one time, and if they happen
to fall through and break your table, we can apologize
and never bring up glass tables again.

Speaker 1 (01:54:30):
Here's a question.

Speaker 5 (01:54:31):
Do you have other tables in your house? Yes, it
doesn't have to be glass, but of any cut type?

Speaker 6 (01:54:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:54:37):
Do they run or the dog chase them in other
parts of the house. How many times of those incidents
have they ever fallen through a table and not.

Speaker 6 (01:54:46):
Fallen through, hit, run into, bumped into?

Speaker 7 (01:54:51):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (01:54:51):
Yeah, that's called a table.

Speaker 6 (01:54:52):
Sure yeah, but they're less fragile tables.

Speaker 1 (01:54:58):
It's because you're fancied.

Speaker 5 (01:55:00):
Swarvarsky crystal tables you have in your reading room.

Speaker 1 (01:55:05):
All right, we gotta take a break. We'll be back