BMMS 7-14-25

Welcome back From The Weekend!!! We Talk About The Best & Worst Parts, Who Has The Best Ice Cream When It Comes To Fast Food, This Bag Definitely Doesn't have Drugs In It, Sex Is Better Rolling Down The Street In A Stolen RV, Happy Hour Ban Is A Thing, We Talk To An Awesome Listener, Jeff Hensley Stops By, Kids Are Finging New Ways To Rip Off The Bar, & Guess Which NFL Team Has The Most Arrests?!?!?!?!?

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(04:09):
my daughter's birthday over the weekend and we had some
people over and we were just chit chatting as adults
do when kids are having a birthday party, and we
were talking about the best ice cream, like fast food
ice cream, Like you're going to get ice cream? Where
do you go when it's like, hey, we're just gonna

(04:30):
grab something quick. So like after school on Thursdays with
my kids, we always go get ice cream. And it's
either Broms or Sonic okay, And I don't have invested
interest in either one of those. They're both fine, but
I don't know if I have And this is where
I got I got to was, I don't know if
I have a place in like whole hoole hole the

(04:52):
best like Broms, they're frozen, Their fro yo is pretty good.

Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yeah. As far as a drive through fast food, yeah,
it would either be dear Queen of Brahms for us.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
And there's not a dairy queen here.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
Yeah, there's one right next by our Oh so.

Speaker 9 (05:06):
I gotten broken in okay. Yeah, and there's that one
up on an Admiral, don't go to it. But I
don't think there's one out in the Awasa area at all.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
I didn't even know there was one in town in
the metro.

Speaker 9 (05:18):
Yeah, yeah, they're two. We have two, maybe more, but
two that I for sure.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
Uh.

Speaker 9 (05:24):
And that's the thing about fast food. I mean, so
you've got it has to have a drive through. So
you got McDonald's, you got Sonic. Does Burger Kings sell
ice cream? I don't think they do.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
Yeah, I think they do have shakes.

Speaker 9 (05:35):
Oh oh okay, is that considered? Will you consider that
a shake and ice cream?

Speaker 3 (05:40):
Yeah? I think okay, sure it's ice cream.

Speaker 9 (05:43):
Shake is ice cream, Yeah, with a little bit of
milk liquified so you can drink it's oka made with milk. Yeah,
that's fair. That's fair. But other than that, like like
Lindsay had mentioned, like was that cold Stone Creamery or
some jive like that. I don't know if they're still around,
but that wouldn't be considered as food. Basking Robbins wouldn't
be con they have a drive through. I was just

(06:04):
about to ask I had been to one, and so
long do they have a drive through? So that would
work out. And if you're asking me, I would probably
put them at the top of the list. Those Basking
Robbins is ice cream icons. They've been around far longer
than any of these other places. You're cold stones, you're
freezing cows. You're sure cow is so good?

Speaker 1 (06:27):
Like, Oh, I don't know if basket around has been
around long and Broms I.

Speaker 9 (06:32):
And this could be because it's a regional thing, right,
maybe it's a regional thing. But I grew up and
I remember Basking Robins going there in the eighties. Of course,
I was living in California at the time. You know,
we didn't have a Broms out there.

Speaker 8 (06:44):
So maybe for some of these, you know, people that
have lived in Oklahoma or at least in this region
their entire life, maybe that would count. But for me,
at least for me the continental traveler than I am,
Inner Cotten in all Cott traveler than I am, I'd
have to put Basking Robins up there because they the longevity,

(07:06):
the amount.

Speaker 9 (07:06):
Of flavors that they have, like a thirty one flavors bro.
This says that Burking offers Sundays milkshakes, soft served cones.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Wow, so they're full.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
They have the gamut, but do their machines work right?

Speaker 9 (07:22):
Right? I think if you had a you know, bullet
to the head type of thing.

Speaker 1 (07:28):
I mean, I'm a flurry's pretty solid.

Speaker 9 (07:31):
Yeah, I don't know, man, bullets to the head. I'm
going Broms because I'm sticking regionally here because this is
where I live at. Now, Okay. With Broms, I can
go in there. They've got so many different flavors, and
I can go in there and be like, hey, I
want this flavor as a shake. Like let's say I
want their peanut butter Cup true flavor ice cream as
a shake. They'll do it.

Speaker 3 (07:51):
And the samples too, you can sample something.

Speaker 9 (07:54):
I mean most most places that serve scooped ice cream, Yeah,
let you do samples. Yeah, Okay, here's a hot take.
Brom's over thirty one flavors. I don't love Baskin Robbins.
I think it's fine. It's just there's so many choices.
There's you don't go in there and go oh man,
they have the best, right, it gets a little overwhelming.

(08:15):
I agree.

Speaker 3 (08:16):
I remember Baskin Robbins being I was being introduced to
the waffle cone with Baskin Robbins. I like that and
I and I think that Baskin Robbins for me is
very nostalgic. We used to go there after a movie,
especially as a teenager. It was like, go to the movie,
then you go there to Godfather's Pizza, and then thirty

(08:37):
one Flavors right after for dessert because they were connected. Yeah,
that was like the hangout. So that's why I think
I enjoyed it. But I'm kind of with you. Their
ice cream was just myth for me. I mean, it
was ice cream. There wasn't anything very special.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
We go there like if we go with my kids,
I'll find something.

Speaker 9 (08:56):
Don't worry.

Speaker 8 (08:57):
But you go, uh okay, like you just settle on
something here. You don't go you gotta get X At
Basking Rocket.

Speaker 9 (09:04):
There seems to be like a lot of pressure. You
gotta line behind you. You're trying to figure it out
and you're like.

Speaker 8 (09:08):
Oh, peach it is then yeah, hey, and don't sleep
on Chick fil A ice cream. Their shakes are so
good I've had, Dude, Their peach shake is good, their
coffee shake is really good. Any of those special flavor
ones they do, like seasonal ones.

Speaker 9 (09:24):
I mean it's so good. I mean water Burger's got
a banana pudding shake, pepper shakes pretty solid.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
They need to bring that one back. That's the best.

Speaker 8 (09:35):
People people sleep on Whataburger all the time. They just
write it off with some drunken place to go at
the end of the night.

Speaker 9 (09:41):
As it is. But their I think their fries are solid.
I think they have a solid.

Speaker 3 (09:45):
Burger and gluten free apparently.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
I think all fries are gluten.

Speaker 3 (09:52):
Free, well if you but if you cook them in
the it depends on the oil. Like some places will
cook them in the oil with their onion rings or
whatever else.

Speaker 9 (10:01):
But that's true, that's true. I've had some places where
I'm like, these fries taste like, you know, old grease
or rings or something. Yeah, that's all the establishment to
clean their grease out. Yeah, But if you have a
gluten problem, going to a fast food burger joint should
not be in your in your repertoire.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
You're probably right, what are you getting there?

Speaker 9 (10:23):
Bundless burger? Yeah, I'm just saying that, like, if you
go and you're like, and I'm not saying you shouldn't
be entirely have all the things you want. I'm just
saying that if you're like you have a gluten allergy,
the fries being gluten free shouldn't be your biggest concern.

Speaker 3 (10:35):
We have salads though, too there.

Speaker 8 (10:37):
Yeah, I mean people love going to those places for salad.

Speaker 10 (10:41):
Yeah, but I mean I guess if you have kids
in your car that like, I don't want to wear
and I'm starving, and if you're you know, in a pinch,
gotta go through there, there at least you have options.

Speaker 9 (10:54):
I guess. Sure.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (10:57):
No, what about TCBUI.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
Nobody thinks that's good?

Speaker 9 (11:03):
Is that still around? It was?

Speaker 8 (11:06):
It's never good. It was never good. It's not yogurt
you were. It was trendy. It was a like a
social thing. Like you saw it going around, You're like, yeah,
cool man, and then you you thought it was unique.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
It ain't good.

Speaker 9 (11:21):
That's the reason, like places like Cherryberry don't hang out. Right.
There's only one left that I know of, and it's
over there by Fishbones off us seventy first a minga.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
Yeah, garnet or whatever.

Speaker 9 (11:37):
But the to me there there's you're just like, eh,
it ain't that great. Yeah, I don't like those cherryberry
places or stuff like that. That stuff adds up quickly, man,
because they they charge you by like wait wait, yes,
and you're like, oh, I'm gonna fill this up because
I'm stoned and I want a lot of ice cream.
Next thing you know, you gummy bears and worms and

(11:59):
sprinkles and cheer reason this and that, and the next
thing you know, you're paying fifty dollars for a couple
of hours for men. It's ridiculous. Yeah, only kids like
going there. And even then you got a guy to'll
be like no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no no,
you don't need that many gummy worms on your tell
me when you're like, eh.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
Damn it.

Speaker 8 (12:20):
There was a story online over the weekend of a
girl who went through an Oklahoma girl who went through.

Speaker 9 (12:26):
The drive through at Starbucks and when she went through,
the guy was like, oh, are you tired?

Speaker 8 (12:34):
And he was like yeah, and he was like, how
about an extra shot of espresso? And she was like thanks,
And then she got her bill and she got charged
for it, and she thought she was getting it for free,
not getting upsold and I'm and she felt like she
got scammed. Yeah, no, not everybody's giving you a gift, right.

Speaker 9 (12:56):
She should have asked, I think it's on her are
you pay? Am I paying for this? Or are you
going to give it to me? It's totally on her
on her.

Speaker 3 (13:04):
But he you look tired. They said that to.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
Her, apparently rude.

Speaker 9 (13:09):
It's just my face.

Speaker 7 (13:11):
I know.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
It's like it's like saying you look like.

Speaker 8 (13:14):
I don't think that that's rue. I don't think that's rude.
And people are like, you look like you're having a
good day. Just because the it sounds positive doesn't mean
they weren't trying to be. Are you tired like I'm
trying to be?

Speaker 9 (13:25):
You know?

Speaker 1 (13:25):
Do I need to back off a little? Like worn
down in Haggard? Yeah, they didn't say you look like.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
I don't know what that's the same thing.

Speaker 1 (13:34):
Yeah, maybe you didn't put makeup on it.

Speaker 3 (13:37):
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (13:38):
Maybe it is me. You need a shout of espresso
to wake that.

Speaker 3 (13:41):
As exactly.

Speaker 11 (13:45):
At of espresso in this I saw a really great
take about Uh it was somebody going to like some
burger place and they asked for a tip, which we have,
you know, beat this into the ground.

Speaker 9 (13:56):
But they said something there's really interesting, and it said
that I'm tired of paying for things twice. If I
leave a tip on the machine, now you and your
manager you don't know. If I leave a tip, you
and your manager now have to divulge who gets the money? Right?

Speaker 8 (14:12):
Why should I have to pay for things twice? I'm like,
that's not a horrible take, not at all. We're not
talking about the bar where someone brings you a drink.
We're not talking about waiters or servers bringing you a drink, right,
the ones that are at the counter then they flip
that old screen around and say okay, sign here and
tip right whatever. That didn't really do anything but just

(14:33):
reach around, pull one out, maybe open one up for
you and hand.

Speaker 9 (14:38):
It to you. Lazy.

Speaker 8 (14:39):
Yeah, it was just an interesting take to be like,
I don't want Why am I paying for things twice now?
And also it's not like I'm handing you the cash
if I leave a tip on the receipt or whatever.
You know, I left you a tip. You know when
you do your bill, your checkout at the end of
the night, that you're getting ten bucks. My bill left

(15:01):
you ten bucks or whatever. At least you think you
are anyway, But if it's on the screen and then
it goes away, you don't know. And then I don't
know if the owner, because you know, business owners are
always real honest, No, there are plenty that are shady,
so I don't I can only hope you get it.
It's a really interesting, well scam, yeah, to be quite honest, but.

Speaker 9 (15:26):
Yet we're so indoctrine to do it now. Yeah, I
one hundred percent believe that.

Speaker 8 (15:30):
And you've got one side who feels like, yeah, we
leave tips, that's what we do. And then you get
another side's like, hell yeah, take a tip, and the
other side's like.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
Me, mister beans type of thing.

Speaker 9 (15:42):
It feels like a scam when every time I buy something,
I leave a tip, so like they get I go
to the donut shop, they always go you know, do
you want to leave a tip? Should I leave a
tip at the donut shop they're getting my donuts? Yeah,
I don't think you should. That's that's just me, I mean,

(16:02):
because you're not. It's not like you went in placed
your order for your donuts, went and sat down at
a table and then they brought donuts to you with
your If that's the case, like a typical sit down
restaurant or something, yes give them an extra dollar or
two if you just walk up to the counter. They
turn around, stuff a couple of glades in a bag
and say, here you go, have a nice day.

Speaker 3 (16:23):
I think it's the do you tip when you when
you order carry out and you drive and go pick
it up yourself and take it home.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
I don't know if he's the best gage.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
The only time, the only time I have ever done
that is I went into a Chinese restaurant. I'd ordered
carry out, and they said, it's going to be a
few minutes. Would you like a soda while you wait
something to drink? And they handed me a cup because
they had a fountain drink and I said, sure, that's

(16:57):
very nice. And I sat down and waited and had
that's right, and waited and so I think I ended
up tipping, like leaving two dollars in cash or something
in the tip jar. But normally I wouldn't tip. If
I'm doing carry out.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
If there's a jar, I never put money in it
because I don't pay.

Speaker 9 (17:13):
With cash, right, And if they gave me a soda
because like they're already inconveniencing me.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
Why am I tipping them for inconveniencing me.

Speaker 9 (17:23):
That's a good point.

Speaker 1 (17:25):
Right, the order wasn't ready.

Speaker 9 (17:27):
Yeah, so yeah, they'd better give me a drink because
I'm here when I'm supposed to be right. The tip
is for going above and beyond or doing a good job,
and now you got I'm inconvenienced. I gotta wait. That
is not a good job. Well done, doesn't deserve a tip. Yeah,
I don't. So like I've stopped going to Starbucks and
I have my coffee here. Yeah, because I would do

(17:51):
the mobile order when I left my house and then
when I would get there, you know, grab it and go.

Speaker 1 (17:56):
I don't know why, but this one person that.

Speaker 9 (17:58):
Works there has been waits till I show up, and
if they're busy, guess what.

Speaker 1 (18:04):
Yeah, I have to wait. It kind of defeats the
purpose of the convenience of a mobile app.

Speaker 8 (18:09):
Thank you, And you know what the response is, I
just want it to be hot for you, bitch.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
It's hot.

Speaker 9 (18:16):
It's it. Are you telling me it's gonna cool that much?
You order it extra hot anyway, don't you? I mean
it's drip coffee, so you can't get it extra hot,
and I'm so I was just like, Yeah, why are
you ruining my experience? Why you were ruining my treat?

Speaker 1 (18:33):
This is the only treat I get.

Speaker 9 (18:36):
And that's for it.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
I can't get donuts, they're not open. This is my
only treat.

Speaker 9 (18:44):
All right.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
We got tickets to Daughtry. We're gonna give away.

Speaker 8 (18:46):
We've got best and Worst of the week, and our
listeners are awesome and Jeff Hinsley will join us coming
up at nine.

Speaker 1 (18:51):
You've got a question.

Speaker 9 (18:52):
About divorce or custody or guardianship, he will answer that
when he's in the studio. We'll be back.

Speaker 4 (18:58):
USA's Morning Show, The Big Man Boarding Show. The Assault
continues the next ninety seven.

Speaker 9 (19:04):
To five MD. It's time for news quakies, world news,
local news, and news that just makes you say, what
the Here's corby Gimbean Lindsay with what's going on news
quakies from The Big Man Morning Show in nineties.

Speaker 3 (19:18):
On the five, police find drugs and bag labeled definitely
not a bag full of drugs. This happened on Monday,
July seventh in Wisconsin. So police track down a vehicle
tied to a wanted person, but once they made contact,

(19:39):
it quickly became clear there was more. There was a
lot more going on than just a warrant. So in
a post on Facebook, the Pleasant Prairie Police Departments at
officers located a vehicle in connection with a wanted person
and realized there was a lot more going on there.
Canine Chase, a police dog unit used primarily in pursuit

(20:00):
of a suspect, was brought into the scene, who subsequently
alerted the officers on the vehicle, leading to a probable
cause search and police found cocaine, a loaded firearm, quantity
of US currency, and a combination of a drug paraphernilia
in the vehicle. During the search, all the items were

(20:21):
found in a bag labeled definitely not a bag full
of drugs. Two thirty seven year old men from Kenosha,
Wisconsin were arrested on the scene, and according to police,
the driver of the vehicle was charged with possession of
a firearm by a felon, possession of cocaine, and possession
of drug paraphernilia. The passenger was charged with carrying a

(20:43):
concealed firearm, possession of cocaine, and possession of drug paraphernilia,
and the post said thanks to our officers for staying
alert and keeping dangerous items off of the streets.

Speaker 9 (20:57):
I don't know what the mindset of criminals is to
do that. You know, they're trained, right, they think they're
trying to be funny. Yeah, and their tweakers is what
it is. So they're trying to stay organized and be
funny all at the same time.

Speaker 8 (21:11):
So you're saying the motive wasn't to deter police from
looking in there. It was that was just never even
on the radar exactly. That's like wearing the iron with
stupid shirt or whatever. Right, it's funny, it's quirky, you know.

Speaker 9 (21:23):
And it's like, I almost put my drugs in here
in the bag that says definitely not drugs, and it
always comes up every time it's got drugs in it,
and it's usually cocher meth that's I found in there.
Very rarely do they find, you know, a stoner with
a bag full of drugs that says definitely not a
bag full of drugs.

Speaker 3 (21:40):
Right. The bag itself looks like it might be made
of hemp, but it also is like the size of
a cosmetics bag like a makeup bag.

Speaker 9 (21:47):
Yeah, that checks, at least in my experiences. Anyway. I
love the like that whole part of how police search
for stuff, Like they know to look in tiny bags,
they know to look in canvas bags they don't expected
to be in just a baggy in plane sight right,
look in your sunglass case or your glass case.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
It's a middle console.

Speaker 3 (22:06):
And you're even more screwed when they have the dog
with them, because it makes their job that much more easier.

Speaker 8 (22:12):
The dog's getting it no matter what every time. It's
literally their only job is naked. Couple cod having sex
in a stolen RV. This comes out of West Virginia
where this couple, a thirty five year old woman named
Shannon Bryant and her forty eight year old boyfriend Matt McDonald.
They were driving down the road in an RV and

(22:33):
a police card spotted him. Old Shannon was straddling a
Matt as they were going down the road, and so
cop blights them up, pulls them over. By the time
they get pulled over, Shannon's in the driver's seat and
Matt's in the passenger seat. And about this time, as
they're questioning him, a car drives by and says.

Speaker 9 (22:54):
They switch seats. Let the officers know, Hey, that's not
who really was. So anyway, they started questioning them, and
they asked Old Shannon, because she was the one in
the driver's seat, what were you guys doing, as to
which she frankly responded, we were fing. Okay, So they

(23:16):
pull them out because they appeared to be highly intoxicated,
is what they say. They get them out of the RV,
they read them both their rights. That's when Matt admitted
that him and his girl were naked and trying to
have sex while driving, and that they switched seats when
they saw the cop car. Well, they searched the RV.
They found drug paraphernalia and a bag with a white

(23:38):
powdery substance in it. They also found painkillers and a
broken glass pipe in an area where Old Shannon said, yeah,
we ditched the drugs over there once you pulled us over.
So anyhow, and then they ran the plates on the RV.
Come to find out the RV was reported stolen from
nearby town as well, so of course they get locked up.

(23:59):
They were arrested for in decent exposure, drug possession, DY
in possession of a stolen hit hole. I'm not sure
which RV would be the best for banging in. What
do you mean? I figured they're all kind of the same.
I mean till short ones and the long ones, the
pull ones that just pop ups right. Well, no, that'd
be more of a camper. Okay. You know I'm talking

(24:21):
like the the shorter RVs that are only like maybe
twenty feet long, kind of look like a short bus,
you know what I'm talking about. And then you got
the long ones that like, you know, breaking bad where yeah,
making meth in the back or whatever. What's the threshold
where they are no longer are campers and they are
RVs because I kind of thought they were called r
V campers. Oh what campers are towed.

Speaker 3 (24:41):
Yeah, and RV drives it. You can drive one.

Speaker 1 (24:44):
It's like a fifth wheel that is a is a
camper yeah.

Speaker 9 (24:47):
Yeah, and an RV of course has you know you're
driving it, Okay, which apparently I learned take it from
TikTok whatever you want, man, But lawyers on there, they're like,
you can have a an open container in an RV
if you're not upfront in the driver passenger seat. So
let's say Corban you're driving the three of us in

(25:09):
an RV. Right, you're driving. Me and Lindsey can sit
in the back and get tanked while you're driving. But
as long as we're not up there upfront with you,
we all good. I thought everybody had to be buckled
in and everything.

Speaker 3 (25:22):
Now there's no buckles.

Speaker 9 (25:23):
Yeah, you're just here's your stuff, just in the box,
just bigger bang bang bang. If Phil Reck's huh yeah wild,
that's so wild to me. Let's stick it across the country.

Speaker 4 (25:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (25:35):
No, I don't want to be driving your asses the
whole time because you want to get drunk.

Speaker 1 (25:39):
I know that trick on a road trip.

Speaker 3 (25:41):
That would be.

Speaker 8 (25:42):
Legislator wants repeal of happy hour ban. So there are
growing calls for repeal of a happy hour band in Massachusetts.
It wasn't acted in nineteen eighty four to reduce drunk
driving incidents. State senator. A state senator says he wants
to wants communities to be able to into happy hours
if they so choose. He believes lifting the band would

(26:04):
help businesses and nightlife in the state. So essentially, a happy.

Speaker 9 (26:09):
Hour band is more of just a time period drink special. Right,
they can still have a happy hour and call it
a happy hour, but there just can't be a special. Now,
there are eight states that have happy hour bands. Oklahoma
is one of them. Really, yeah, that's right. Yeah, in
Oklahoma there's an exception. You can do an all day
price point, but you can't do a time specific price point. Huh,

(26:29):
I did not.

Speaker 8 (26:30):
I had heard something like that before. I thought it
got changed. I don't know anyway. The point of this
is to try and reduce drunk driving. There is zero
data to show that it reduces drunk driving.

Speaker 9 (26:42):
It doesn't at all whatsoever, because people are still going
to drink and drive no matter what time or what
special you're getting.

Speaker 8 (26:48):
Well, the misk because the idea is that there's a
drink special, you'll consume more than you should. And where
the ridiculousness is in that is the amount you drink
doesn't necessarily make you a drunk under the influence after
one two in some cases, right legally, So you what's
it matter if you have one or it's you know,

(27:08):
silver coin night, right, So to me, that's a very
anniquated law in general.

Speaker 9 (27:15):
Agreed.

Speaker 3 (27:15):
So if we don't have a happy hour here.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
Happy hour ban Yeah?

Speaker 3 (27:20):
Yeah, oh, oh, we don't have a ban here.

Speaker 1 (27:22):
You can have call it happy hour.

Speaker 9 (27:24):
Yeah, you just can't have certain prices like you know,
two for one beers or three dollars you know, Miller
LTEs from what three to five?

Speaker 8 (27:32):
Time sensitive. It has to be an all day thing.
Now they may promote that it's you know, hey, come
by for this, but that price has to exist all day.
I see interesting right now, maybe that's changed. It's just
what I read that there are eight states in Oklahoma's
one of them they have an exception is.

Speaker 3 (27:49):
And is that just on alcohol? Because if you think
about like Sonic has happy Hour from.

Speaker 9 (27:54):
Yeah, I don't think food's are concerned when drunk driving.
Well what people are getting loaded off of those you know,
water slushes?

Speaker 8 (28:01):
Yeah right, the sugar high dude, their coconut creampie shake.
I will punch someone in the face for really. Oh god,
it's so good.

Speaker 9 (28:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (28:09):
I think happy hour is like Taco Tuesday. It's just
a marketing phrase.

Speaker 9 (28:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (28:14):
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Speaker 1 (28:49):
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Speaker 9 (28:51):
Forty six days Yeah, that's right, forty six days left
to Ronklahoma twenty twenty five Labor Day weekend prior us say,
get your full lineup and your link for ticket. It's
at the website that rocks Lahoma, KMODI NAGA. Best and
Worst of the weekend. What's the best thing that happened
to you this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
to you this weekend? BMMS and whatever that is to
eight two nine four five. We'll read yours text here

(29:14):
in a minute, so get it to us BMMS and
what's the best and worst of the weekend to eight
two nine four five, lindsay what's the best and what's
the worst.

Speaker 3 (29:23):
Friday was really great. We had some friends come by
and we ordered some sushi and watched the Katie Taylor
and a Man of Serrano fight on Netflix. Wasn't the
outcome I had hoped for when it came to that fight,
But at least it went ten rounds and it was entertaining.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
Who's the boxing fan in your family?

Speaker 3 (29:44):
Probably me? Probably me?

Speaker 1 (29:46):
How much was the pay per view?

Speaker 3 (29:47):
It wasn't It was on Netflix? Oh yeah, and it didn't.
It didn't buffer like the Tyson fight did.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
No, I can't imagine it would.

Speaker 3 (29:57):
Yeah, I mean that was what But that was great
about the ladies boxing. It went the ten rounds. It
was very entertaining. It wasn't over. That's what I hate
about pay per view. You spend all that money and
then it's over in like two or three rounds. You're like,
what the night is paid for?

Speaker 1 (30:14):
Well, I mean that must be why you ordered sushi
because it would be over.

Speaker 3 (30:17):
Yeah right, No. But I was very disappointed that Amanda
Serrano didn't win, and then at the end when she
was like, hey, I changed up my my the way
that I was my game plan, Like, you shouldn't have
because if she would have fought, in my opinion, if
she would have fought the way that she had twice
before she would have won because she should have won

(30:39):
twice before. But that Katie Taylor was head buttoner the
last two fights.

Speaker 1 (30:44):
And it's not head budding. That's part of fighting.

Speaker 3 (30:48):
That's so illegal. Ah, not really, it's not UFC, it's boxing.

Speaker 1 (30:53):
There's no head butting in the UFC. Well they do, no,
it's a boxing tactic. You lose used to lead with
your head.

Speaker 3 (31:02):
Well, she is a great fighter.

Speaker 1 (31:06):
They're both phenomenally.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
She and she throws so many more punches and they
were just they just kept their distance. Anyway, it was
a good it was a really good night Saturday, the
family and I rainy day. We decided uh to sit
down around the dining room table and play a Monopoly,
my least favorite game in the world. But Moses, our

(31:31):
exchange student, had brought us the game from Australia, an
Australian addition. The most disappointing part about the Australian edition
the game pieces are still the same as the original
American pieces, so you still have your thimble and all that.
But and so we're playing. We started around seven pm

(31:54):
and we didn't finish until one am. It was so long.

Speaker 9 (32:00):
Yeah, why did it take that long?

Speaker 3 (32:03):
Because it's monopoly, and Monopoly.

Speaker 1 (32:05):
No, I'm serious, Why did it take that long?

Speaker 3 (32:08):
There are six of us playing, it just takes forever.

Speaker 9 (32:12):
Whose idea was it to play Monopoly? Of all the
board games you could have played, well, whose idea was
it to play Monopoly?

Speaker 3 (32:20):
I mean Kevin had mentioned it, he brought it up.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
Let's play, he brought it.

Speaker 9 (32:24):
You should play?

Speaker 3 (32:25):
Yeah, yeah, absolutely start And if our table, if our
table didn't weigh like four hundred pounds, I probably would
have flipped it. Because Monopoly for me always starts the
same way, good in the beginning, and then it does
not end well for me. I mean I had the
whole corner, so the property is an Australian monopoly are

(32:45):
very hard to pronounce. But I basically had the boardwalk
and the the second corner that whatever the brown areas are, yeah,
right right next to after you pass go And I
had hotels and they were loaded up, and I'm like, yes,
I'm going to be in the money. No, because my luck,

(33:08):
I always end up on the go directly to jail.
And so what happens when you go to jail You
can't collect while you're in jail. So when every time
someone would finally land on my properties. I can't collect
on it because I'm stuck in jail, so it was
just annoying. I ended up coming in second place, which

(33:29):
is just another word for loser. So fine, God, yeah,
I just hate that game.

Speaker 8 (33:36):
Yeah, think of the fact that you spent you know,
six hours of time together as a family.

Speaker 1 (33:43):
Forget the you came in second.

Speaker 3 (33:45):
No, just so frustrating. But yeah, overall, pretty damn good weekend.

Speaker 9 (33:53):
Best and worst of the weekend? What's the best part
of the weekend? What's the worst part of the weekend?

Speaker 8 (33:56):
Get yours to us, BMMS and whatever that is to eight, two, nine,
four five, gimp be?

Speaker 1 (34:00):
What's the best and what's the worst?

Speaker 9 (34:02):
I guess the best part of the week and to be,
I didn't go out and do anything this weekend. I
actually stayed at home. I didn't go out to any
bars or didn't party it up any Just a nice, chill,
relaxing weekend at the house, just me and the dogs,
which is unusual because I haven't done that in a
long time.

Speaker 7 (34:23):
Now.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
You usually run it a pretty high ouctoen I do.

Speaker 9 (34:25):
In this this weekend. I mean, it was raining, I
have my remote on Friday, which was it was all right,
you know, warm a golf tore around there, you know,
looked like I don't know, not me, but yeah, so
it was all right. Went home, Da da da da.
Chilled all weekend. The worst part of the weekend the
one time I do get out. My brother and I
we go out and we play disc golf Saturday at Riverside. Right,

(34:47):
lost my favorite putter. That sucks. Now. I have lost
this putter inside my house at least four times, and
I finally found it, recovered it. Cool. There it is,
put it my bag, been using it ever since. And
I've had I had this putter for twenty years now,
twenty years. It's been a long time since I got
that putter. Anyhow. So whole three launch it griplock, goes

(35:09):
off towards the river, and I'm like, all right, well,
I see to roll over there. I'll just go and
try to find it. And we look and look and
look and look into some bitchink. Can't be found anywhere.
All right, chalk it up as lost. You think that'd
be the worst part, Nay, nay. While I was looking
for said disc golf disc, I guess I had run

(35:33):
into some poison ivy, and now I have poison ivy
on various parts of my body, some less pleasant than others.
If you catch my drive, how did you get it there?
Gotta take a whiz man, And you didn't realize that
you had the oils on your hand, So now, oh no,
I've got poison ivy crotch your region right here, so

(35:56):
some on it, mostly just around it, right, So it's
your own fault, it is. And it's not like it's
a It's not like it's a bad breakout. Like my
youngest boy's mom, we were floating the river before he
was born, right, she had to go use the bathroom,
and she didn't realize which leaves she was using, so
she cleaned herself up with poison ivy leaves, right, And

(36:17):
you know.

Speaker 1 (36:17):
That breakout was bad, bad, bad.

Speaker 9 (36:19):
It's not that bad. It's just irritating and I gotta
I gotta slather my junk and various other parts of
my body with cortisone or whatever to keep from itching.
And you know, it's good for a little while, but
like right now I'm itchy, and I'm like this sucks.

Speaker 3 (36:37):
So how long does that last?

Speaker 9 (36:39):
Oh? That's fun because I googled it, and I was
wondering how long this poisoned ivy lasts a week to
three weeks.

Speaker 1 (36:45):
Yeah, now unless you get a treatment on it.

Speaker 9 (36:47):
Yeah, And they sell some stuff at Walmart that I
found is really good, drives it out real good, gets
you taken care of within a couple of days or whatever.
But it's not cheap, you know. So I'm like, all right,
we'll just deal with what I got and work through
the itchiness and pain. But I got it under my eye,
on the back of my neck, under my left boob,
you know, of course in the cronchil regions. You know,

(37:09):
it's just it's a mess. Yeah, It's not like I
was rolling around in it. I was just kind of
peering through the bush trying to see if I could
find my disk anywhere. And it was just enough to
get the oil on your hands, and that's all you need.

Speaker 1 (37:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (37:23):
My wife, if it's in the air, she gets it,
she'll get it. And it doesn't bother me at all.
I'm not saying I'll rub rub it all over my body, right,
but if I'm clearing it out, it doesn't bother it. It
does not bother me at all. I used to break
out really bad, but it's not. You know, the last
couple of years, it's really hadn't been that bad of
an issue. But I generally try to avoid it, but

(37:44):
I couldn't this time.

Speaker 3 (37:45):
I don't think I'm like you, Corbyn. I don't think
I'm very highly allergic to it as well. Kevin and
the kids, Yes, they see it and they are breaking
out from it.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
Yeah right, I'm cleaning it up. She can't be out
there with me.

Speaker 9 (37:59):
Yeah, she'll, she'll, she'll get it on her skin, like
exposed skin because it's I guess it's the spores are
in the air or whatever. Yeah. If you guys want
to go to Whole three over Riverside and look for
a blue putter, it says voodoo on it, have at it. Y'all.
Ain't gonna get the poison ivy like minded? Oh no,
I don't deliberately put myself in that situation.

Speaker 3 (38:16):
Will this teach you to wear gloves or take a
pair of gloves with you?

Speaker 7 (38:21):
Oh?

Speaker 9 (38:23):
Come on now? What?

Speaker 3 (38:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (38:25):
No, let me get my long sleeve shirt, my jeans,
my gloves, and my bottic lava. So therefore I'm not
getting poison ivy. How do you need that delicious pastry
Baltic lava not a bottle of muh? This guy, the
stove was hot that time, but it can't surely be
hot again.

Speaker 10 (38:44):
Now.

Speaker 8 (38:45):
Best and worst the weekend? What's the best part of
the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend? Bmms
and what that is to eight two, nine four five.
Best part of the weekend was my kid turning ten.
It's crazy to think of ten years going by so fast,
but uh, it was cool to see her play. We
were going to do a pool party, but it was raining,
so we had to call it earlier, and so I
had to come up with quick games to play inside

(39:07):
the house, which was awesome. I went and bought a
bunch a bunch of cheap tissue boxes and they had
to like empty the tissue boxes.

Speaker 1 (39:13):
And unrolled toilet paper rolls.

Speaker 9 (39:16):
I mean, just stuff that they thought was ridiculous and
fun and kind of. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:21):
I was just trying to fill time.

Speaker 9 (39:22):
Yeah, and we got to be outside on the patio
because it was seventy degrees or some crazy I don't
even know a time on my kid's birthday where it
was that awesome outside. It ended up being beautiful weather
on Saturday afternoon Saturday evening, not good pool weather, but

(39:44):
beautiful weather, and grilled out and hung out with some friends.
It was stayed up, the kids got to stay up late.
It was it was awesome. Did she have friends stay
the night? No, I'm not a big fit proponent of
staying the night. Yeah, that's not a thing that I
think we can discussion. Yeah, if she asked, okay, But
I am not soliciting it or encouraging it. Being responsible

(40:07):
for other people's kids I take as a giant responsibility,
so I don't take it lightly.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
I ain't gonna encourage it.

Speaker 9 (40:14):
In the event that she does, she's like, hey, Dad,
I want to have some friends spend the night. What
is the number of kids you would allow in your
house to stay the night? Like, you know, for me
at least me growing up was like two at most.
It's a great question. I've never really thought about it
top of my head. I don't have a number. If

(40:34):
she wants five.

Speaker 8 (40:34):
Okay, okay, because if she's asking, it's clearly important to her, right,
I'm not gonna get in the way of that.

Speaker 9 (40:41):
Right, right, But inviting the whole class of thirty over
to spend. I mean, okay, sure, yeah, thirty will be
the limit. Oh god, I'd never I mean, I don't
think she's going to invite seventeen people over right.

Speaker 3 (40:55):
Growing up, when I had if it was a sleepover,
and if I said, can I just have two friends?
That never worked out because one of us always got
left out and it sucked. So it would always.

Speaker 9 (41:07):
Happen, always just one.

Speaker 3 (41:10):
Yeah. Yeah, those two bitches ended up being the mean girls,
and I was like, Mom, send one of them home,
so it was always just.

Speaker 9 (41:19):
One or I was a weird psychologist thing kicking in
right there.

Speaker 3 (41:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (41:24):
I mean as a kid, I remember going to plenty
where it was just three of us total and it
was fine.

Speaker 3 (41:28):
Yeah, I forgot For boys, it always works because they're
playing video games.

Speaker 9 (41:33):
Yeah, I don't remember, like growing up video games weren't
thinking until I was like fifteen. I remember staying at
Aaron Coffin's house and it was the first time I
got to sleep in our sleep stay up all night,
right you guys, try to see who can actually stay
up all night long?

Speaker 8 (41:50):
Yeah, and seeing the sun come up. His mom was
a ten by the way.

Speaker 3 (41:55):
Yes, like going to his house.

Speaker 8 (41:57):
Oh yeah, yeah, best and worst of the weekend.

Speaker 9 (42:00):
What's the best part of the weekend? Worst part of
the weekend. Worst part of the weekend would have to
be just late nights. Usually is my weekend is when
I get to catch up on sleep. And we were
up late Friday night, we were up late Saturday night.

Speaker 8 (42:12):
In my world, it's no one am god awful Monopoly thing.
I'm talking like ten thirty Best and worst of the weekend.

Speaker 9 (42:22):
What's the best part of the weekend. What's the worst
part of the weekend? Best of the weekend?

Speaker 8 (42:26):
Not really happening on the weekend, but today my wife
and I are celebrating the twenty fifth anniversary. I love you,
Alyssa Marie Worst. I worked on my daughter's old car
yesterday in the Florida heat, getting it ready to sell,
and the buyer had to give her parents the money
to pay rent instead. Best took metals in the jiu
jitsu competition. Worst feeling it this morning. Best played two

(42:50):
rounds of golf under ninety both rounds. Worst came home
yesterday to a broken sprinkler head, so this month's water
bill will be interesting. Best got a new front hire
installed my motorcycle, and the place cut me a great deal.
Worst had to trim my eyebrows to keep from turning
into Wolford Brimley. Didn't check the setting and buzzed nearly

(43:12):
to the skin. My wife hasn't said anything yet, but
I'm pretty sure she wants to. Yeah, you gotta buzz
them both.

Speaker 9 (43:18):
Scissors, man, scissors are the best way to trim your eyebrows.
So you do not buzz them down that way, or
just put a comb over it, right and then you
don't worry about it.

Speaker 1 (43:32):
That's what I do.

Speaker 8 (43:33):
I just do the comb down back and that's that.
Or use a guard that's also a good choice. Yeah,
you don't have to raw dog.

Speaker 9 (43:40):
It just doesn't feel the same cord right, And I
don't think enough guys do their eyebrows.

Speaker 1 (43:47):
By the way, By the way, you should be doing
it every.

Speaker 9 (43:51):
Week, at least every week. By forty you should be
doing it every week. Wow, stuff grows fast.

Speaker 8 (43:58):
Yes, Monday's trim day for me when I try to
get everything, m beard all that stuff because it'll get
wildly pretty fast.

Speaker 9 (44:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (44:07):
So we were on this cruise, right and there was
a water slide you had to stand in line for,
and my wife cued me into something I'd never done before,
and she was like, check out people's toenails. Do you
know people don't trim their toenails?

Speaker 3 (44:20):
Yeah, on a regular No.

Speaker 9 (44:22):
Yeah, it's disgusting. Is so disgusting going out in public,
like especially if we're going out to a water park
or on vacation.

Speaker 1 (44:29):
Always, I always, I do it pretty much anyway.

Speaker 9 (44:32):
Just because of jiu jitsu, right, but I always make
sure I do an extra cut before doing a water
park and people go out there with their talons and
you're like, dance.

Speaker 3 (44:43):
Yeah. Every time my kids say I need new shoes
because my shoes are too small, I'm like, let me
see your toenails. And seriously, nine times out of ten
it's because they haven't trimmed their toenails. They need to
cut their toenails and then your shoes will fit.

Speaker 1 (44:59):
What age did you stop trimming their toenails?

Speaker 3 (45:05):
Probably around nine or ten and they started doing it themselves.

Speaker 1 (45:09):
Howld your youngest eleven?

Speaker 9 (45:11):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (45:12):
I thought they were like eight or nine.

Speaker 9 (45:13):
No, eleven, we were once she first started, right, Okay, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Uh yeah. Crazy. How bad people's toenails are.

Speaker 9 (45:23):
So next time you're out of the pool or anything, like,
look at people's toenails.

Speaker 1 (45:27):
It's so gross. So it was Jesus and the toest.

Speaker 8 (45:30):
I couldn't not see it after that, everywhere I went,
I'm just looking at people's toes like a.

Speaker 9 (45:34):
Freak, right, all walking around like the velociraptor.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
Weah.

Speaker 8 (45:39):
Greatest left Saturday for Houston. Worst it's for work and
my AC doesn't work in the truck. Upside rain so
not that hot. Best having my vasectomy done. Worst had
my vasectomy done. Best thing went to cosmic baseball. Worst
home run ball hit off the rip of my glove.
Off the tip of my glove. I bet that is Best,
got a kitchen faucet. Worst found out our eight month

(46:02):
German short hair pointer puppy thinks kettlebells are balls and
she can pick up and toss a ten pound one.

Speaker 9 (46:10):
Dang you, Holy co your catch. Reason seven hundred and
fifty three thousand not to get a dog. Worst I
was on the list for a hate breed show in
Oklahoma City Saturday, but wasn't able to make it out
with the storms, wet roads, and balding tires. Best I
was on the list for hate Prey.

Speaker 8 (46:30):
Best competed in Jiu Jitsu at forty two Yesterday, Worst
Superstore this morning. Best made some money selling baseball cards
with TKD Worst people only one of my peak Crow Armstrong.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
Now your peak Crow Armstrong.

Speaker 8 (46:48):
Yea Best of the week and my youngest son balled
out in this baseball tournament.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
Worst of the weekend.

Speaker 8 (46:54):
Spent six hours in the er with my step son
after a motorcycle wreck.

Speaker 11 (46:59):
Sucks.

Speaker 8 (47:00):
All right, We got tickets to Daughtry we're gonna give
away when we come back.

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Speaker 9 (47:14):
It says here that Trump says US to send patriot
missiles to the Ukraine. President Trump says the US will
be sending patriot missiles to Ukraine. Speaking yesterday, he continued
to speak of his disappointment with Russian President Putin and
saying that he has surprised a lot of people by
talking nice and then bombing everyone at night.

Speaker 1 (47:35):
He went on, is that official?

Speaker 9 (47:39):
What's the way I get it? He went on to
add that an exact number has not been agreed to,
but the that Ukraine needs it for protection and that
the European Union is paying for it. Trump is set
to meet with NATO's Secretary General Mark Aruda at the
White House today. Tom Holman reacts to federal ruling on

(48:01):
ICE raids. Appearing yesterday, Holman said that he doesn't think
any federal judge can dictate immigration policy, adding that it's
a matter for Congress and the President. Any predicted that
the Justice Department will take the issue to an appeals course.
Friday's ruling was issued after the ACLU and other groups
argued recent ICE operations in the Los Angeles area amounted

(48:24):
to racial profiling. What else we got here? Oh yeah,
here's a good one for you. Walmart's recalling eight hundred
and fifty thousand water bottles. Walmart is recalling around eight
hundred and fifty thousand Ozark Trail water bottles. The retailer
says it's taking the sixty four ounced metal bottles off

(48:45):
the market because some customers have been hit in the
face by the lid. Have you seen Have you seen
any of the videos? Huh, oh man, they're on the TikTok.
I just found a few before the show started. In
the These lids are blowing off the tops of these cops. Man,
and I guess you could potentially be hit in the

(49:06):
facer of ball with the lid. It's pretty pretty interesting.

Speaker 1 (49:10):
They're causing vision loss.

Speaker 9 (49:12):
Yeah, like two people says they lost their vision because
of it. So far, The Consumer Product Safety Commission says
the lid can forcefully eject, posing serious impact and laceration hazards.
Anyone who owns the recalled bottle can bring it into
Walmart for a refund. All right, Oh they're great. Yeah,
you dig around though, they're pretty good. They're pretty good. Lastly,

(49:35):
here Odeck lifts the boiled order for Bartlesville public water supply.
Oklahoma Department of Environmental Quality issued the boil order after
samples pulled from one of the city's forty sampling sites
on June tenth showed positive results for eco life. The
city said the water utilities Department crews will continue to
watch this area in hopes of discovering what may have

(49:58):
caused the issue.

Speaker 1 (50:00):
These videos are crazy, right, All right?

Speaker 9 (50:03):
Do you remember those water rockets when you were a
kid and you put water in and you pump it.

Speaker 1 (50:08):
That's what this looks like.

Speaker 9 (50:09):
But it's a hard plastic lid. Yeah, yeah, put an
eye ol of that isn't that crazy?

Speaker 1 (50:15):
Watch poop?

Speaker 9 (50:17):
What's happened? Oh no, It makes me wonder is that
you know something they're putting in that's causing the lit
Like if you're putting soda in there and a carbonation
builds up and boom, there goes your lid. Or is
that just Is that just how they are? I don't know.

Speaker 8 (50:33):
Water, if you put carbonated beverage in a sealed container,
you're asking for trouble, right.

Speaker 9 (50:39):
But to take an eye out lose vision?

Speaker 1 (50:42):
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Speaker 9 (51:06):
Morning, Kim be Well, good morning Corbn. So we're getting
you hooked up with a pretty badass custom golf cart
from Yingling Flight and every other Friday will be I'll
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Looks like they're going to be a DOCS country marked
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I'll remind you as we get closer, But go ahead

(51:28):
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Speaker 8 (51:36):
Time for our listeners are awesome. This is where we
talk to a listener. They share part of their story
with us. And it looks like on the line with
us right now is Vernon. Hey, Vernon, how are you?

Speaker 7 (51:46):
Hey? Done? Good? How you doing?

Speaker 8 (51:48):
I'm good, Vernon. It says here you've been married one year?
Now you I Am not going to give your age
because some people don't like that, but you're over for
fifty and you got you've.

Speaker 9 (51:58):
Only been married a year?

Speaker 8 (51:59):
That is that's that feels like not very long for
someone who is over fifty.

Speaker 7 (52:06):
Yeah, I was married once before and after twenty nine
years ship the lifts and here I am.

Speaker 1 (52:16):
She left you after twenty nine years?

Speaker 7 (52:19):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (52:20):
Wow? Was there signs or were you caught off guard?

Speaker 7 (52:25):
Well? I guess there was signs I look back now,
but I just overlook the red flags.

Speaker 1 (52:32):
Like, what was one afterwards that you found in hindsight?

Speaker 7 (52:41):
I wanting to spend time together, he wanted to go
out with her friends and bite me as well.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (52:47):
Was that like a regular thing that she would do
or just like you know every now and again, was
like every time she went out, She's like, no, you
stay at home, Yeah she does.

Speaker 7 (52:57):
I'm going out with my friends. I'll be like, h well, okay.

Speaker 9 (53:00):
That's us, right.

Speaker 1 (53:01):
You thought you were being supportive. Do whatever you want
to do.

Speaker 7 (53:04):
Yeah, I mean I'm not the one trying to keep people,
you know, seeing their friends and stuff. I would never
do that.

Speaker 9 (53:10):
Yeah, but.

Speaker 7 (53:12):
Who knows who cares? That's in the past.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (53:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (53:16):
Was that when when you just because you got married again?
Was that hard to date again?

Speaker 7 (53:22):
Oh? I gave up. I didn't want nothing to do
with women. Uh, just being honest, heart, I looked at
like I was gonna be me and my dogs for
the rest of my life and I'm done. Yeah, and
uh yeah, then this one here come come around, and
she pursued me and asked me out on the first date,
and uh yeah, I talked to my kids about what

(53:43):
they thought about it and everything else before I went
out with her and went from there and we wound
up getting married.

Speaker 9 (53:49):
How does she uh say, hey, hey, burn, I want
to go out with my lady friends. Does she ever
do that your current wife now? And if so, does
do is there kind of like a little issue there
with it or not? Now?

Speaker 7 (54:01):
If she was to go out with them, she's more
than broke them up and told her that. But she's flested.
If I'm not going, she's not going.

Speaker 9 (54:08):
Oh well that's cool.

Speaker 1 (54:12):
And how did she pursue you?

Speaker 9 (54:14):
Like?

Speaker 1 (54:14):
Were you caught?

Speaker 9 (54:15):
Were you going? Wait?

Speaker 1 (54:15):
What what's happening?

Speaker 9 (54:16):
How did she pursue you?

Speaker 7 (54:19):
Oh? She pestured and bugged me at work. We happened
to work at the same place. She got hired in
a couple of months after me, and she started fissuring,
bugging being I mean, I'm the type of person I
like to joke and cut up anyhow, So I'm joke
and cut up with her plus everybody else. And then
one day she started to texting me and we talked
half the night, and then the next thing I know,

(54:40):
she called me and asked me if I wanted to
go go out on a date and I was like,
walk in. She was now and I was like, give
me a minute because I was out on the yard.
I had to take a shower and everything else.

Speaker 8 (54:51):
And how how many years ago was this?

Speaker 7 (54:55):
This was what two and a half years ago?

Speaker 9 (54:58):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (54:59):
Okay?

Speaker 8 (55:00):
And so did you feel cliche statement? But did you
feel like you were in high school again?

Speaker 4 (55:04):
Like?

Speaker 7 (55:06):
Yes, I was very I felt very awkward. Yeah, I
didn't know. I don't know how to date. I haven't
been the date and scene in twenty some years.

Speaker 9 (55:15):
Yeah, I would.

Speaker 7 (55:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (55:16):
I would imagine like you got all these butterflies in
your stomach and.

Speaker 1 (55:22):
You were like, oh man, I don't know if we're
gonna kiss.

Speaker 7 (55:26):
Yeah, pretty much. I was nervous, Rick, but I went. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (55:30):
I would imagine it was where'd you go for the
first date with her?

Speaker 7 (55:35):
We went to the racist.

Speaker 8 (55:37):
Like like short track or you went to a dog
or hors.

Speaker 7 (55:41):
Erround rounds, just just a round race track. Yeah, we
would have to. Yeah. I was like, okay, so I
like racing and I'm like, all right, well I like
that too.

Speaker 8 (55:55):
So how long did it did it take for you
to decide what to wear?

Speaker 7 (56:01):
I didn't take long I just I went and took
my share, put on pair of jeans and a decent shirt,
and I was out the door.

Speaker 9 (56:08):
Right right, a decent shirt, because you don't want the
not decent shirt, of course. Yeah. So did you did
you kiss her on the first date?

Speaker 7 (56:20):
Uh? I think I dude?

Speaker 9 (56:22):
Okay, did she put out on the first date? Oh?

Speaker 7 (56:25):
No, no, no, No, that's good, that's good.

Speaker 12 (56:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (56:29):
Yeah, I'm I'm also old fashioned. I believe in waiting
a little wall.

Speaker 9 (56:33):
How long it was a little while we talked about here?
Two three dates? The next day?

Speaker 7 (56:36):
What? Oh? No, I think it was a few months
before we ever started doing anything.

Speaker 1 (56:41):
Wow, And is she your age?

Speaker 7 (56:46):
Uh? No, no, she is not.

Speaker 8 (56:49):
Yeah, listen, listen to that statement again. No, that tells
me she's much younger than you. How many years younger?
You can ballpark it if you'd like, how many are younger?

Speaker 7 (57:02):
Well, they put it this way. I talked to my
kids about going out with her. The reason I talked
to her talk to them about that is because I
found out how she was where I figured out how
she was, And she's six months older than my oldest son.

Speaker 9 (57:17):
How do your kids feel about that?

Speaker 7 (57:20):
They told me. They said, that you haven't been this
happy in years.

Speaker 1 (57:23):
Go for it, right right, that's dude.

Speaker 9 (57:28):
Congratulations, she's twenty years younger. Wow, good for you man.

Speaker 8 (57:34):
That that what a what a what a Maybe confidence
isn't the right word, but what a confidence boost that
had to be, especially after what happened to you.

Speaker 7 (57:44):
Yeah, and that's that was something. It kind of took
me a little bit there at the beginning, but now
I just look at it and laugh and go.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
On, yeah, yeah, because what's it matter if you guys
are happy.

Speaker 7 (57:55):
Yeah, And it's not like I was dating her when
I was twenty something and she was in teams. Yeah,
that's not good. You know, we're both over the age
of thirty, so we're good.

Speaker 9 (58:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (58:08):
Well, good for you man. Congratulations. That's some great stuff
right there. Man, Thank you for sharing. That wasn't on
the list of things to talk about. So I know
we caught you a little off guard. It says here
that and this isn't correlated to your ex but it
says ask about saving a woman from drowning at the river.

Speaker 7 (58:25):
Oh yeah, we had a bunch of buddies where we
went to the river float down to Illinois, and of
course we was having our adult bell bridges and having
a good time canoe in front of us husband and
wife or boyfriend and girlfriend, I'm not sure which. They
got a little too far out and caught a log
and flipped the canoe. Well, the woman got trapped inside

(58:48):
the canoe and the current couldn't get out, so me
and a couple of buddies built in. Took us a
couple of times, but we finally got her dug out
of the canoe because it current was so strong. And
then after we all got our composure again, we went
back and it took six of us to get the
canoe undone so we could get it back over to
them because we was only about halfway down his Yeah,

(59:11):
that was terrible. I'm just glad that she made it
out all right.

Speaker 9 (59:13):
Yeah, did it scare you afterwards, like when you reflected
on it.

Speaker 7 (59:18):
Yeah, we all thought, Nick gumb that was close because
we didn't know if he was going to get her out,
and we thought we was going to have somebody pass
away right there. But we actually got her and her
her man was flipping out. He kept trying to get
in but he kept getting pushed down before he could
get over.

Speaker 9 (59:32):
So was there ever a moment where you or your
friends felt like you weren't going to make it through
that scenario.

Speaker 7 (59:42):
We were young and dumb, and we done made the
decision we was going to get her out one way
or another.

Speaker 8 (59:49):
Yeah, because they say that people that drown in those
scenarios are people trying to help, right.

Speaker 7 (59:54):
Yeah, we had our life oserver was on it first,
but it wouldn't let us get down to her because
she was about us two foot underwater and we couldn't
get down to it. And the current was so strong
it kept pushing us away, so we had to take
them off. So we had to just risk it to
go for it.

Speaker 9 (01:00:08):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (01:00:10):
And so literally we were standing on this big woodpile
facing the current, standing straight into it, more than standing
sideways in the water hanging on to her and crying
her out because that current was strugg The river had
been up for a while, so it had some strong currents.
That was back in the eighties, I think, Yeah, it

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was in the eighties.

Speaker 8 (01:00:34):
They Yeah, So now very many people can say they
directly were a part of saving someone's life, you know,
outside of like a first responder or something like that.

Speaker 1 (01:00:43):
Or a doctor maybe, but so do you reflect on that.

Speaker 7 (01:00:46):
Still, I'm just glad we was there to help. That's
all I'm glad about. I'm glad we was there to
help them and get her out of there and get
her out of that situation. I mean, and my buddies,
we whenever I run into them, which I haven't seen
half of them in twenty years, but when I run
into him, I bring it up. We talked about it

(01:01:06):
a little bit, and we go on just talking about
how crazy that day was. Because of that minutes. To say,
all of our adult berivileges wore off real quick when
we was in there doing that.

Speaker 1 (01:01:16):
Oh yeah, the adrenaline cleaned you up pretty fast.

Speaker 9 (01:01:19):
Yeah yeah, Yeah, that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:01:23):
Man.

Speaker 8 (01:01:24):
It says here that you almost had to be put
in a wheelchair from a broken back.

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
How'd you break your back?

Speaker 9 (01:01:30):
What happened?

Speaker 7 (01:01:31):
Uh? I'm not sure how I broke my back. I've,
like I said before, I haven't told you all, but yeah,
I've rode bulls, I've raced motorcycles, I've raced cars. I've
been in numerous fights, been hit with tire irons and
ball bats. I've been cut with knives. So I don't know,
I'm I ain't no telling.

Speaker 9 (01:01:50):
I know.

Speaker 7 (01:01:50):
The doctor said that my back had been broke. The
vertebrae got broke, slid down the little ways and rehealed,
but the bottom part was still growing and trying to
find its match. I guess, so it was cutting all
the nerves and they was petrified to do the surgery.
They said that it's gonna be the wheelchair the rest
of my life. In about six months, there's nothing they

(01:02:11):
could really do about it. And they said that the
looking at the X rays and also the MRI and stuff,
they said the scar tissue around my spine showed that
it was back when I was probably in my late teens,
early twenties, maybe mid twenties at the most. So I did.

(01:02:31):
I had a fun, fun time growing up. So my
parents had two bad childes. There's some mind so there's
no telling what broke it. I'm surprised I didn't know
it was broke, but back then I was I don't
know if I can say this on the air, but
I was held on the water.

Speaker 9 (01:02:51):
Yeah, you're good man.

Speaker 7 (01:02:52):
I was always doing something.

Speaker 9 (01:02:54):
Yeah. You mentioned getting in fights with like tyrons and
getting stabbed. What situations or environment were you part of that?
Those situations presented themselves.

Speaker 7 (01:03:09):
Oh, just some of the people I hung out with,
or some of the places we went to go have fun.
And then growing up, I was in fights my whole
life because I graduated high school at four foot nine
and so I was always the shortest kid in school.
I was always picked them. So I learned to fight

(01:03:29):
at a young age.

Speaker 1 (01:03:33):
How old were you the last fight?

Speaker 9 (01:03:34):
You were in?

Speaker 7 (01:03:36):
Last fight? I was in the last true fight. I
was what twenty two? Twenty two?

Speaker 1 (01:03:45):
Yeah, so that ship is sailed. You're not looking to
get in fights now.

Speaker 7 (01:03:49):
I've never liked to fight, but I will. But I've
never liked to fight. I don't want to stop fighting
with stupid. But if someone was picking on somebody and
they couldn't defend theirselves, I'm also still one of the
ones that have run over and go that's enough. You've
got to fight somebody or picking them. Do me that
I'll fight back, right.

Speaker 8 (01:04:07):
But but yeah, it says here you have six kids
together now with as a combined family. Tell me about
your kids. You said you talked to them, Tell me what, like,
what makes you proud of them? Tell me about them?

Speaker 7 (01:04:24):
Oh see, I've got I have me and myself. I
have two boys and a girl, and my wife has
a girl and two boys. Uh, I'm really proud of
my kids. They've done. They've grown up, showed how much
of my boys, showing how much of a man they
can be, taking care of their family, working hard. They've

(01:04:45):
got families of their own, kids have thrown that. I
don't know what to say, but they're just I'm proud
of everything they've done and how they've turned out. My
daughter the same way with her, she's got finally got
her first kid. I'm proud of her and her accomplishments
and things that she's done. And she's a good hearted person.

(01:05:06):
My boys are good hearted. Then I've got the new kids,
and they're good kids. I'm proud of them. They seem
to be great kids. I've only been around them for
two and a half years now, but everything I like, you,
I like everything about them. They're good and they're the
young ones are still kids. I mean, you know, they

(01:05:27):
are kids. And the oldest, the daughter, she's nineteen and
turned twenty. She's doing good, you know. But all of
them have a tendency of having good hearts, care about
other people. But then they also don't want to take
slack from a lot of people too. And I think
that's great.

Speaker 8 (01:05:47):
I think it's interesting to just hit me that you
were done with kids, like your kids are pretty much
grown up and moved on with life, and here you
meet this wonderful woman and she comes along with kids
as well, and suddenly you're a dad. They are a
step dad to young kids again.

Speaker 7 (01:06:03):
Yeah. Yeah, my kids range from my oldest, talked about
all six of them, from thirty eight down to thirteen.

Speaker 3 (01:06:12):
Wow, well they keep you young.

Speaker 7 (01:06:14):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, they keep me young. But yeah,
my kids were all grown and moved. I've had an
empty house and everything happened. And then I got with
her and I had three kids move in and the
daughter moved out because she's old enough and everything. So
I still got the two boys at the house, seventeen
and thirteen, or he'll be seventeen this year and then thirteen.

Speaker 9 (01:06:38):
So that's great, man, Yeah, that's really great.

Speaker 7 (01:06:43):
I know a lot of people, a lot of people,
because they have kids, they don't want nothing to do
with a woman. It's like, well, why she has kids? Okay,
so well kids are kids. I don't care if they're
your kids. My kids and nobody else's kids. Kids are kids.
I love kids.

Speaker 9 (01:06:59):
I'm sure there are people that are around your age
that maybe their partner left them or cheated on them
or whatever, and they find themselves in this part of
their life where they're like, ah, that's it for me.

Speaker 1 (01:07:12):
What advice would you give them?

Speaker 7 (01:07:15):
Well, I've stud over until it's over. There's always something
out there, There's always you know, there's always a good
reason to stick around and nothing else stick around to
hack people off. Yeah, I'll admit I had a bad
time on my ex left, went through a bad time

(01:07:37):
and everything else, but made it through it and found
this one here out in love again, and I figured
I was done. But yeah, I wouldn't trade none of
this for the world.

Speaker 8 (01:07:48):
Did your new wife save your life?

Speaker 7 (01:07:54):
My daughter did, being honest. How So, she saw where
I was going and told me to make a doctor's
appointment or she was gonna make one for me. So

(01:08:14):
but yeah, got that taking cave and had to take
some minutes for a while. But I have on medication
anymore since I've met my wife. Now I'm not on
any kind of medication anymore. I'm back to being myself.

Speaker 9 (01:08:28):
Yeah, which is good.

Speaker 8 (01:08:29):
Yeah, did you hear your daughter the first time or
did it take a little bit of convincing.

Speaker 7 (01:08:37):
It took a little bit of convincing. Yeah, she finally
put her foot down and she's a little petitue thing,
but she's like, I'm gonna I'm gonna beat you at
take you the doctor myself, take your twist.

Speaker 9 (01:08:49):
So yeah, that's awesome man, that is You've got some
great stories. Sounds like things are well for you, and uh,
I just preciate you sharing your story with us. Man.

Speaker 7 (01:09:02):
Yeah, not a problem.

Speaker 1 (01:09:04):
And the last thing here it says you're a trucker.

Speaker 9 (01:09:06):
Are you back home same day or long haul?

Speaker 7 (01:09:12):
So I'm usually going all week and get home on
Friday evenings and I get Friday evening is Saturday at home,
and then I'm back on the road like today, I'm
I'm already up there in Missouri. Actually I'm getting unloaded
as we speak.

Speaker 8 (01:09:25):
Okay, Yeah, And then where do you go after this?

Speaker 7 (01:09:30):
Wherever? They assume me? I never know until they let
me know where I'm going next.

Speaker 9 (01:09:34):
Right, what's you just got to call in?

Speaker 8 (01:09:36):
Let them know what's your secret for life on the road?
To make it feel comfortable.

Speaker 7 (01:09:43):
They calls every now and then talk to the family
you love, and that's what you're doing it for the
people you care about.

Speaker 3 (01:09:51):
Do you cook your own meals when you're on the road.

Speaker 7 (01:09:55):
Sometimes, Yeah, I've got a microwave. Anyhow, I don't have
any grill or anything. I decided not to bring a
grill onto the truck, but I do have a microwave.
But I do microwave stuff I have. I know how
to cook.

Speaker 9 (01:10:07):
So yeah, do you ever pull up to like a
Hampton Inn or something like that, or that free breakfast
for the guests and you walk in and get some breakfast.

Speaker 7 (01:10:16):
I've thought about it, but I haven't done it. It's
hard to park a big rig in any park a lot.
You got to. You gotta have a place to get
that thing in there.

Speaker 1 (01:10:25):
Yeah yeah, well you never know.

Speaker 8 (01:10:27):
Man, that's a good hearty breakfast there with some powdered eggs.

Speaker 7 (01:10:30):
Yeah, oh yeah, yeah. Yeah. One good thing about this
rig is I got my own sleeper icebox and I
do keep a lot of snacks, some food on here
because people can't tell it because I'm still a little guy.
But I like to eat, so I eat all the
time while I'm driving.

Speaker 3 (01:10:46):
Yeah, what's your favorite travel snack.

Speaker 7 (01:10:50):
It's a favorite travel snack. Yeah, well, I love This
is gonna sound terrible. I love vegetables and albums and
peanuts peanut.

Speaker 9 (01:11:00):
Yes, yeah, dude, this has been fun talking to you.
Be safe out there, Vernon, watch out for those civilian drivers.

Speaker 8 (01:11:06):
Don't let them get in your way. And I appreciate
you taking the time, and you know, good luck with everything, sir.

Speaker 7 (01:11:13):
Thank you. You'all have a great day, all right, buddy.

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
See la Vernon, Our listeners are awesome. Take a break
and we'll be back. Tilsa's Morning Show continuous.

Speaker 9 (01:11:22):
Next. I've gone to the bar and open a tab.
Have you done that, lindsay yes, gimp, I can imagine. Yeah,
sometimes forgot to close it.

Speaker 8 (01:11:30):
I think that's a common thing, and then you have
to go back the next day and get the card,
or they close it out for you and add their
own tip to it, which they will tell you they
do that, which seems probably logical. If you're going to
forget it, then I'll go ahead and take care of
this for you. Well, there's a trend happening in the
bar scene that it's not fair and it's wrong, but

(01:11:53):
it is.

Speaker 9 (01:11:54):
It is genius okay.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
And college Corbyn may would have done this.

Speaker 8 (01:12:00):
People are doing is they're going to the bar like normal,
given the card, just do a tab to hand the
card back. In most cases, that's a pretty common thing
nowadays in most bars, and they drink the night away,
and then at some point during the night before they leave,
they freeze the card or lock the card. Oh, the

(01:12:21):
consumer will yes, and then when they go to run it.

Speaker 1 (01:12:26):
It apparently does not let the transaction go through.

Speaker 9 (01:12:31):
Man, hey your bill. Yeah, you're stealing.

Speaker 1 (01:12:37):
The legal term is defrauding an innkeeper.

Speaker 9 (01:12:39):
Yeah, but the from a nefarious standpoint, you're like, wow,
sounds brilliant because back in the day, if you wanted
to freeze your card you had to call them or whatever.

Speaker 8 (01:12:52):
Right now you can. I can open my up, freeze
it right now, and unfreeze it right now. I can
do it all on my phone. It's incredibly simple.

Speaker 9 (01:13:02):
So what do the tenders do? The bartenders, what do
they do when that happens? Is there anything they can do? Sorry, sir,
your card was declined. I don't think there's anything you
can do. But okay, I mean, unless you know their
phone number, you might know their name. I don't when
it runs it. I don't know if it keeps track
of their name and everything. It might just unless you're
what was your name?

Speaker 1 (01:13:22):
Pierce? Okay?

Speaker 9 (01:13:24):
So okay, so these kids are are, you know, running
up a tab and then freezing their card and then
just leaving? Like is there never ever a point where
they're like, hey, I got a tab out right, you
know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (01:13:37):
Right?

Speaker 8 (01:13:37):
They just leave just like when you, like stated you've
walked your tab before.

Speaker 3 (01:13:43):
It's basically dining and dashing.

Speaker 1 (01:13:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:13:44):
Ess so, but does it would keep because you know,
when you when you hand over your credit card when
they run it whatever, you want to keep your tab open? Yes,
they have your name. They put your name in the system, but.

Speaker 8 (01:13:58):
Usually they ask They usually go what's the name? You
see them type it in? Sometimes they look at the cards.
Sometimes they don't, but they never do, you know, Corby
and J Pierce right right.

Speaker 3 (01:14:08):
Right right. So I'm wondering though, if they if this
is a trend. Yes, if they're yeah, then they're paying
more attention. So if you come back, they're like, hey,
you used to low us some money from the last.

Speaker 9 (01:14:20):
Time, right, and yeah, a regular or whatever. Yes, I
would argue a bartender unless you know they maybe they
remember them.

Speaker 1 (01:14:30):
How many people do they see a night? How many
people open tabs?

Speaker 3 (01:14:33):
Yeah, that's true.

Speaker 9 (01:14:34):
And you go, here's the card for Joe Blow and
you're like, O, don't know what Joe Blow looked like. Yeah,
you might know them by their drink order and maybe
if you see they had, you know, seventy five.

Speaker 1 (01:14:44):
You know Bob's beers. I'd be to go back in
and you who says you have.

Speaker 9 (01:14:49):
To right right now? You don't just go to the
next bar and do the same thing at that place.
Eventually you're going to run out of bars in your town.

Speaker 8 (01:14:58):
It's it's kind of like some of the parking lots
in town. You can not pay, and they'll give you
a ticket, and then you don't pay the ticket because
it's not a They make it look like it's a
real ticket, but it ain't a real ticket.

Speaker 9 (01:15:13):
It's not a city or no.

Speaker 8 (01:15:14):
And what they do is they just the next time
your car's parked in their lot, they tell your car.

Speaker 3 (01:15:20):
But eventually you're gonna unfreeze your card. What if the
bar tries to rerun.

Speaker 9 (01:15:24):
It, well, and I guess you have to pay then, yeah,
or you just keep it frozen.

Speaker 3 (01:15:28):
Yeah, that's an inconvenience.

Speaker 9 (01:15:31):
Not really, because you unfreeze it to use it for
a transaction and then run it again and then lock
it again. All right, unfreeze it to get your McDonald's
frozen again. Yeah, on freezing to get your Starbucks and
freeze it again.

Speaker 8 (01:15:42):
Yeah, it's again. It's pretty easy to freeze and lock
your card. The article stated that some people are gonna
start holding cards again, which, to be honest, is fine.

Speaker 9 (01:15:50):
It doesn't matter. There ain't nothing wrong with that. It
doesn't bother me. Ain't nothing wrong with that at all.
I know they're getting paid and if you run out,
well you're gonna have to come back and get your
card sometime. But even then they can still they have
your physical card, they can run it, add whatever percentage
that they want to or they seem necessary, and then
put it in a little box if they come back
and get it. Sweet if not. Whatever. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:16:12):
When we were at Sutures the other night, I ordered
some stuff and paid with cash. I was like, I
was pay for cash right now, and they're like like
they were just kind of because everybody's like start a tab, Yeah,
I'll do it later.

Speaker 1 (01:16:23):
Whatever.

Speaker 9 (01:16:24):
I think I just threw them off guard a little bit,
and I paid with cash, which is not a normal
thing for me.

Speaker 1 (01:16:30):
I still want my wife to know I got shuitar
Buddies without her. That's really what it was.

Speaker 9 (01:16:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
I have never deliberately walked a tab.

Speaker 9 (01:16:41):
Nor have I know that. You know, at the end
of the night, you know I've left, but I come
back and they're like, hey, get UoS X amount from
last night. Oh okay, so you just you have a
you don't even put a card down, They just it's
under your name.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
Yeah, yeah, they keep a running ta Yeah, but.

Speaker 9 (01:17:01):
It's you know, you just get so lit up at
the end of the night, you know, and it's like
closing time and all your friends are like, wall, let's
go to be and you just kind of walk out
the door, and you know, totally forget. I don't make
it a habit of it, but I know it's happened
a small hand full of times.

Speaker 8 (01:17:16):
In my bar going days. There was a bar I
frequent a lot and knew all the bartenders, and I
would be like, I'll deal with it tomorrow. If they
were busy or whatever, I'd be like, I'm not dealing
with all that, and they would call me and I
wouldn't go back up there.

Speaker 1 (01:17:35):
I just deal with the next day and just give
them a big tip.

Speaker 3 (01:17:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:17:40):
So yeah, No, I have deliberately walked a tab, but
not in a nefarious way. And I wasn't trying to
get out of pain, right not. I'm gonna go drink
up tonight and not pay for a damn thing, right,
Like what these kids are doing both whatever, it is awful,
but it's also incredibly genius. You're just taking advantage of
technology to at your crime. And by the way, how

(01:18:04):
much are you running up that you're like, I ain't
dealing with that a couple hundred.

Speaker 1 (01:18:09):
I don't know what Red Bull and Vodka's run.

Speaker 9 (01:18:10):
But right about six fifty, you know, unless you get
a double, then there's gonna be about thirteen dollars, you know,
So those a lot up over time. Yeah, because you
drink Red Bull and do you drink rep I drink
Jim and Vodka. Jim and Vodka.

Speaker 1 (01:18:28):
Yes, No, good god, I no wonder you've been laying low.
I really need to escape.

Speaker 9 (01:18:35):
No, I need flavorless and toxicity. Yeah, well it used
to be, uh, Jim and Red Bull, the Red Bull
got to be too much for me, too much sugar.
So now I just do tonic water whiskey and tonic water,
whiskey and water essentially. Yeah, sprite, No, too much sugar
in the sprite, that's what tonic is. I don't think

(01:18:56):
so it is. So it probably is, but to me,
it's not near as much sugar not. I mean, he's
still carbonated for sure, but it's just doesn't taste as
sweet as like a sprite does or something.

Speaker 3 (01:19:09):
Why not just do soda water?

Speaker 9 (01:19:10):
Club soda would be No, soda is disgusting because sugar
in it removed off of the face of this planet.
I went through that. I was like, well, which one's better, Da, Da, Dad,
Tonic or club? And I tried and club soda can
suck it. I think I still have some in the
bottom of my fridge that's been there for like three years.

Speaker 3 (01:19:29):
So a club soda is better if he put with
vodka and lime.

Speaker 9 (01:19:34):
Well, it's the lion that's given it flavor.

Speaker 8 (01:19:36):
Yeah, I mean tonic all day, that's the only but
it's but it is soda. It is one of soda, yeah,
it is. It is a little different. The recipes a
little different. Than seven up or sprite. But it is
a lemon lime, right, soda lemon.

Speaker 9 (01:19:52):
Yeah, it's subtle though, Yeah, it's he likes moscow mules
and stuff like that, so he doesn't he's not a
He likes gin and tonics. Yeah, like a lime. I
don't mind limes. I don't hate them as much as
I hate lemons. Limes do not make me want to
punch a baby in the face. Lemons make me want
to punch a baby in the face. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:10):
I know there's a thin line though, between those two,
but I hear you.

Speaker 3 (01:20:14):
Then there's high fruit toasts, a corn syrup and sugar
in tonic.

Speaker 9 (01:20:19):
Yeah it's a soda. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:21):
Uh all right, we gotta take a break.

Speaker 9 (01:20:23):
We'll be back.

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Join's now in the studio is Jeff Hensley from Hensley
in Associates, and he's here to answer any question you
have about family law, divorce, custody, guardianship, name change, any
of the things that go along with family law. He
can answer them. A couple of ways to get your
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(01:21:23):
your question is to eight two nine four five, or
you can call Ar'm sorry. You can email show at
kmod dot com. Jeff, I wanted to start off because
there was news that Brad pitt Andanngelina Julie are still
dealing with their divorce and they filed that a long
time ago.

Speaker 13 (01:21:38):
Well and I thought they ended it. I thought there
was an end that came about. So there's something new.

Speaker 8 (01:21:42):
It sounds apparently there's a question of when they sold
one of their assets and the honesty about the sale
and when it happened, and did they have the right
to do it. How long can you go back on
something like that after it has been As you said,
when we started here, you thought that was settled.

Speaker 14 (01:22:02):
Yeah, I you know, until a decree is in.

Speaker 13 (01:22:07):
I stuttered a little bit simply because when you're dealing
with celebrities and you're dealing with these gigantic divorces that
have so many moving parts that us normal people don't
have those kind of moving parts, you know, with with
Brett and Angelina Julie. The issues you've got there is
is you've got all sorts of custody issues, and you've

(01:22:28):
got these issues about these sales. If you'll remember they
were arguing over I believe it was a winery in
France or someplace.

Speaker 14 (01:22:36):
I can't remember.

Speaker 8 (01:22:37):
You sold her amount or her stake in it without
notifying him, and he apparently the agreement was he.

Speaker 1 (01:22:43):
Would have first right right. So, you know, a very
common thing we would all deal right, right.

Speaker 13 (01:22:50):
I mean, it's not like it's not like we're selling
you know, the Volvo or something and getting first right refusal.
You know, if it was contractual, you know, obviously there's
some contractual obligations as well as regular lawsuit things that
can happen based upon breach of contract that sort of thing,
which may be the case here. I mean, typically once

(01:23:11):
a divorce decree has been entered, all right, there's only
certain things that can be modified. Now, modification is different
than dealing with fraud, okay, and deceit and those kind
of things. If we've got a fraud issue, all right,
When it's dealing with property and whatnot, those potentially within
a reasonable amount of time usually thirty days or so,

(01:23:35):
can be revisited by.

Speaker 14 (01:23:36):
The court and dealing with those issues.

Speaker 13 (01:23:38):
Modifications for child support and custody and visitations if those
can always be dealt with till the kids age out,
so those can be modified at any time. But when
you're dealing with property and things like that, you can
only you know, if you can prove fraud or deceit,
then you can go back and have it revisited. But otherwise,
once property is divided, is divided. So yeah, I mean,

(01:23:59):
and again when you dealing with with celebrities or people
not just celebrities, but people with means with with that
are very wealthy individuals that have very large marital estates
and multiple moving parts from you know, extra businesses to
multiple houses to you know, you name it. Large amounts
of cash and all that kind of stuff. I mean,
it's really a different ballgame, and I've never had anybody

(01:24:23):
like that. But at the same time too, you know,
if there's anybody out there that's like that, please give
us a call.

Speaker 14 (01:24:32):
We'd love to help you.

Speaker 13 (01:24:32):
But my point of it is is lots of moving
parts can cause all sorts of issues. Frauden to see
it coming back, that's what they'd have to look at
if there's a decree in place. You know, I'd read
that it was over, but I you know, didn't necessarily
read that there was a final decree. So, you know,
I just follow these things for out of interest as
a lawyer that does these things, and of course it's

(01:24:53):
you know, famous people, so.

Speaker 1 (01:24:55):
Well I like to bring them up.

Speaker 9 (01:24:56):
Though you're right, how many of us are going to
be dealing with trying to split winery.

Speaker 1 (01:25:00):
That's not common. But what is common and I think.

Speaker 9 (01:25:03):
People take when they read these stories about Brad Pitt
is in this situation, he's requesting access to her text messages.
And people see that and they think, oh, I can
request that in my little situation. How common is it
to people try to request They think there's some evidence
there and how often is that granted?

Speaker 13 (01:25:21):
Well, you know, again, it depends on what it's dealing with.
I mean, if it's dealing with can you well me
and back up and go this way. Can you use
text messages as evidence in a court room?

Speaker 14 (01:25:31):
Absolutely?

Speaker 13 (01:25:32):
Now there's limits on that and limits meaning like, for example,
you just can't show a complete one text out of context. Okay,
you have to show the context of the text message itself.
There needs to be a date on there, because we
need to know when it happened, who they're speaking with,
all that kind of stuff. So there's rules and regulations
in regards to using text messages. Now, in regards to

(01:25:54):
accessing all text messages, you're going to have to.

Speaker 14 (01:25:57):
Get it's got to be very narrow. I mean, you've
got to be looking at I want text.

Speaker 13 (01:26:01):
Messages that dealt with the sale of the winery, uh,
and exactly who she was speaking to about this and
and whatnot.

Speaker 14 (01:26:08):
I mean, it's a.

Speaker 13 (01:26:09):
Very narrow, super narrow area or requests that has to
be made. You can't just say, well, I want to
see all our text messages. Well, that's not in the
purview of what's going on here.

Speaker 1 (01:26:20):
Is that common?

Speaker 15 (01:26:21):
Though?

Speaker 8 (01:26:21):
In commoners, no custodies.

Speaker 13 (01:26:27):
That's his word, not mind. Please don't hate me for
com I'm just I'm just joking. But we don't typically
request other people's text messages because typically the hatred's going
on between the two people, which means we got copies
of it anyway. Okay, Now, have there been Have I
had a case where the other side deleted one hundred

(01:26:48):
and seventy five text messages and forged the documents to
present to the court. Absolutely, and we found that out
forensically all right, and we were able to present that.

Speaker 14 (01:26:59):
And we're still presenting that.

Speaker 13 (01:27:05):
Requesting text messages would have to be something dealing with
the business or something like that. I mean, we're not
gonna request text messages that she's bad mouthing you to
somebody who cares. Okay, A lot of times we deal
with these things on Facebook. I mean, you know, requesting
Facebook post and Instagram post and you know all these

(01:27:25):
other social media accounts where people are putting things. We
do a lot of those nowadays, obviously because social media
is such a big thing.

Speaker 14 (01:27:33):
But you know, when you're asking about specific text messages.

Speaker 13 (01:27:36):
On things like this, it's got to be really narrow
you can't just ask for access to everything.

Speaker 9 (01:27:40):
Jeff Hensley from Hensley Associates is here to answer your
questions about family law, custody, guardianship, name change. Maybe you
think you deserve alimony and you need some clarification on that.
Maybe you're worried, you think you're gonna have to pay
alimony and you need clarification on that. Jeff is here
to answer those type of questions. Don't rely on AI,
don't rely on your friends, don't rely on Google. You

(01:28:02):
need to talk to Jeff directly.

Speaker 14 (01:28:04):
Don't use chat GPT.

Speaker 13 (01:28:07):
Okay, I'm sorry when we've seen so many things come
about now as specially pro sain individuals who are going
on and using chat GPT to type up crap to
submit it to the court. AI doesn't know everything, okay,
so please be careful when you're using that garbage.

Speaker 14 (01:28:23):
It's just dangerous.

Speaker 1 (01:28:24):
Yeah, And judges don't like that. They expect you to
act accordingly.

Speaker 14 (01:28:27):
Right well, and they get these things in.

Speaker 13 (01:28:29):
We don't even know how to respond to them because
they're mixing federal and state law that has nothing to
do with anything. And it's like, is this even coherent?
It's like a two year old rodent just started picking
stuff out of the air.

Speaker 8 (01:28:40):
Right, let's talk about pro sa just for one second.
People you usually are motivated to do it for a
financial and not a logical mindset, and and they think
maybe someone will help them along the way, and a
judge cannot help you.

Speaker 7 (01:28:55):
Right, right.

Speaker 13 (01:28:55):
Judges are not allowed in any way, shape or form
to give any sort of legal advice. So if you're
expecting to get in there and pull a fast one
and say, well, I really just need some help, and
it doesn't work that way. Okay, Judges cannot give you
legal advice. They will not tell you what documents to file.
And when you go online, again, we've talked about this
for numerous times over the years. Going online is not

(01:29:17):
the way to do it either. Okay, what's online.

Speaker 14 (01:29:19):
Is not always correct. In fact, nine times out of
ten it's not correct.

Speaker 13 (01:29:23):
So at that being said, if you see something online
that says well, this is how you do it and
this is what you do, that's not accurate in any way,
shape or form.

Speaker 14 (01:29:30):
It might be close, but it's not correct.

Speaker 13 (01:29:32):
And so then you get into these issues of doing
things that the court's going to get upset about because
you're not following the rules, and yes, it's largely motivated
by money. You know, Oh, I don't have the money
for an attorney. Well, I think you've said it numerous
times over the years, Corbyn. You know you can't afford
not to have an attorney represent you, especially when it
comes to kids, because there's all sorts of problems that
can pop up, and there's all sorts of things that

(01:29:54):
you don't know what's going on. This is not what
you do for a living every single day like we do, okay,
day in and day out for almost twenty years now,
So it's one of those things that you want to
give people like us a call so that we can
help you through that process.

Speaker 1 (01:30:05):
It's definitely within your rights.

Speaker 9 (01:30:07):
I just would advise you to advance cautiously because you
could easily get bullied pretty fast in the situation.

Speaker 13 (01:30:13):
Well not only that, but you can end up saying
the way wrong thing in court and the next thing
you know, you're in jail because you've you know, on
a direct content, because you've sworn at the judge or
cuss the judge out in the middle of an earing
because you lost your cool. I mean, I've seen that
happen too.

Speaker 8 (01:30:27):
Jeff is here from Heinsling Associates. He can answer your
questions that have to do with family law eight three
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that question is to eight two nine four five. This says,
my ex is turning our kids against me? Is this
parental alienation? I've never heard that term? And what can
I do about it?

Speaker 14 (01:30:44):
Okay?

Speaker 13 (01:30:45):
So parental alienation is a nice, big buzzword. It has
been a buzzword for many, many years. The problem with
parental alienation improving it? Okay, And when you say they're
turning my kid against me when you're talking about parental alienation,

(01:31:05):
all right, you can throw that word around all you want,
but at the end of the day, unless you've got
an expert that can come in and testify to that,
and a lot of times because of the cost of
an expert, I mean, experts are not cheap. I mean
we're talking thousands and thousands of dollars to have somebody
you know, read through the file and meet with people
and then finally come in and testify. And I mean
it's not a cheap process, which is why a lot

(01:31:26):
of times we don't use them simply because our clients
don't have access to that kind of cash. I mean,
I'm sure if in Angelina and Brad's divorced, I'm sure
they probably had somebody for that, because you know, again,
they've got millions to blow to do that kind of stuff.

Speaker 14 (01:31:41):
Is it real? It is parental alienation real? Yes? Absolutely?

Speaker 13 (01:31:44):
That is basically where one parent is trying to alienate
the children from the other side for some reason, whether
it be by hate or spie or whatever it may be,
doesn't happen.

Speaker 14 (01:31:55):
Absolutely.

Speaker 13 (01:31:56):
This is why we tell people don't talk to the
children about the court case. Your job is to be
a loving parent and to help foster relationship with the
other side. Now, there are exceptions to that rule, okay,
meaning like if the children have been physically or sexually
abused by the other side. Okay, we're in a different ballpark,
all right. I'm not suggesting that that's the case for

(01:32:17):
those kind of cases, but for a normal, regular case,
all right, you're expected as a parent to help foster relationship.
Are there people that try to pin the other the
children against the other side or to the point that
they don't want to be with.

Speaker 3 (01:32:30):
The other side.

Speaker 13 (01:32:31):
Absolutely, Why, Because we're human beings, and I've said I
said before human beings. We suck all of us, Okay,
including myself. I mean, we're humans. We make mistakes, we
say stupid things, we do stupid things, We get angry.
When there's children involved in a divorce or praternity case,
there's obviously high emotions that go along with that, and
sometimes people talk to kids way more than they should

(01:32:51):
about these things. So is it real, absolutely, but proving
it beside, I mean, like an actual person coming in
who has a degree and has a PhD or something
to say, yes, this is a this is parenally alienation.
You know, we use those but man, they're used sparingly
simply because of the cost involved. I mean they are

(01:33:12):
expensive to bring those experts in, which is why unless
it's a big, huge case with lots of money to
be able to be had somewhere in there, we just
don't use them because of the cost.

Speaker 9 (01:33:21):
Jeff Heinsley from Hensley and Associates is here to answer
your questions about divorce family law. Maybe you want to
do an adoption, maybe you need to do an adult adoption.

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is to eight two nine four five like this one.
As a single father, I never received a dime of
child support her father, her her lifestyle would have never
allowed her to pay, and the fight wasn't worth it.
But now that my child is twenty, I heard she

(01:33:51):
can sue her mom back for child support. Is that correct?
Does my child have a time to get started by
number of years she can go back, et cetera.

Speaker 13 (01:34:00):
The children don't get to sue. It doesn't work that way,
and it's never worked that way.

Speaker 14 (01:34:04):
Can the parent who it was owed to go back? Absolutely?
But you've got two.

Speaker 13 (01:34:10):
Problems with this caller, and you know, not being critical,
I'm just laying the facts at Okay, So first of all,
you've got somebody who's twenty excuse me, twenty years old now,
so they aged out two years ago. When you file,
all right, you can only get two years of back pay.
So now you've got the issue unless there was an
existing order. So let's assume, all right, let's go it

(01:34:31):
both ways. Solution not solution, but exhibit A, all right,
is that there was an existing order from the day
the child was born and there was never any child
support paid whatsoever. Can you go back and try and
collect that? Yes, all right, at age twenty, you're only
two years out.

Speaker 14 (01:34:48):
You're fine.

Speaker 13 (01:34:49):
Okay, let's go back and let's try and get some
of that that was already ordered, that should have happened,
all right, assuming they have a job. I mean, here's
the thing. We can't sklee squeeze blood from a turnip. Okay,
it's really that simple, because even if if you get
a judgment, the worst they're going to do is end
up in jail for non payment, okay, on a contempt.
They're going to be in there for six months, they're
going to get out, and they're still going to owe

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that huge amount. And you're not any further along except
in attorney's fees, which we can't collect even though you're
entitled to them because they don't have a job. So
you know, there's factors involved here you have to look
at for trying to collect things, all right, Number one.

Speaker 14 (01:35:23):
Number two, let's go out the other way.

Speaker 13 (01:35:25):
That there was no order in place whatsoever, all right,
and you never got an order even though you had
the child in your possession. All right, we can't go
back and do anything now because there was no order
in the kids twenty years old.

Speaker 14 (01:35:38):
That boat is sailed.

Speaker 13 (01:35:39):
So I mean, this is why we say every case
is different, every factor is different, every fact with any
case can be different.

Speaker 14 (01:35:47):
And that's why you want.

Speaker 13 (01:35:48):
To give us a call so we can walk you
through every bit of these But you know, I'd love
to talk to this person, if whoever this is a
Texas is and please call me this week or my
office this week and let's talk about it, because you know,
I don't know is there an existing order or I mean,
you've got different scenarios based upon specific facts.

Speaker 8 (01:36:03):
Eight three three four six oh kmod is the phone
number to call and talk to Jeff from Hensley Associates
and ask ask your question first time question on this
next one.

Speaker 1 (01:36:12):
Joanne is on.

Speaker 8 (01:36:13):
Go ahead, Joanne, what's your question for Jeff Hensley of
Hensley Associates.

Speaker 12 (01:36:17):
Yes, I am the step grandparent to a girl who's
about to turn sixteen and basically her parents are really
irresponsible and I want to know at what age can
she become an emancipated miner and do we have to
have a lawyer to help.

Speaker 7 (01:36:33):
Us do that?

Speaker 13 (01:36:36):
Okay, So I take a Corbyn's laughing at me because
I took this deep breath.

Speaker 1 (01:36:41):
It's my favorite topic and it really happen.

Speaker 3 (01:36:44):
Yes, I love it.

Speaker 13 (01:36:45):
And here's the thing. Emancipation in Oklahoma. And I don't
know about other states because I don't practice in other states,
but iancipation in Oklahoma is very specific. And what I
mean by that is this. I mean, first of all,
people get these ideas about emancipation because you read about
people like we call it cold and who were emancipated
when they were like twelve. You know, because they had
tons of money, they made their own stuff, they do

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all these things.

Speaker 14 (01:37:07):
I mean, that's the thing about.

Speaker 13 (01:37:08):
Emancipation in Oklahoma is that the kids got to have
a full time job, has to go to school. On
top of that, not to mention, you have to have
the permission of the parent, both parents in this scenario.
So if mom and dad are losers and you don't
know where they're at, then getting there. I'm just explaining
that there's a whole list. I mean, I don't even

(01:37:30):
have them all memorized. Okay, if you give me give
your name or number to Gimpie.

Speaker 12 (01:37:34):
Going to school full time isn't enough.

Speaker 13 (01:37:36):
No, No, if you want to be an adult. I mean,
remember emancipation means you're an adult. Adults, and adults go
to work, Adults make money to survive. I mean, they
have to have their own place.

Speaker 14 (01:37:47):
They've got me. There's a whole set of factors.

Speaker 13 (01:37:49):
And so what it sounds like you needs a guardianship.
You need a guardianship where we can step in and
take that kid out of that bad position and put
them with you.

Speaker 14 (01:37:58):
That's what you need.

Speaker 12 (01:38:00):
So here's my question. The biological grandmother is trying to
obtain that, but I think she's.

Speaker 5 (01:38:06):
As BLACKO as the rest.

Speaker 12 (01:38:08):
So do I have any any chance? Yeah?

Speaker 14 (01:38:13):
I mean you have standing because you're a step grandparent. Yes,
that's correct, you do.

Speaker 13 (01:38:16):
I mean the thing is is that we're going to
have to prove that the other side is unfit in
some way. So if you think the other side is
fruit loops, then that's fine, but we need to prove it.
We can't just get up there and say, well, I
think she's nuts.

Speaker 14 (01:38:28):
I mean we have to prove that.

Speaker 12 (01:38:30):
I think it would be really I think it would
be really hard to prove that the other grandmother is
fruit loops.

Speaker 7 (01:38:35):
It's fruit loops.

Speaker 12 (01:38:37):
In a very vague kind of way. So anyway, okay,
all right, well have you have answered my question and
I appreciate your time very much.

Speaker 14 (01:38:43):
Yes, and you're welcome. You have a good day.

Speaker 9 (01:38:45):
Good Look.

Speaker 8 (01:38:46):
I love emancipatient because people think they can just oh
their freedom.

Speaker 1 (01:38:49):
But no, you don't want to be an adult?

Speaker 14 (01:38:51):
Well right, I mean that's the thing is you want
to have freedom. Power to you, what sixteen year old
doesn't want freedom? Right?

Speaker 13 (01:38:57):
But the problem is is that if you're going to
be an adult, you got to act like an adult.
You gotta have a job, right, and going to school
full time ain't a job, not under the law of emancipation.
I mean again, we get this idea of emancipation, and
I shouldn't say blame. People get these ideas from celebrities, right,

(01:39:17):
I mean, we hear about these children's celebrities who are emancipated.
But understand, like Macaulay Culkin was emancipated, all right to
get because his parents were crazy and they were stealing
his money and all his other stuff. Okay, but the
reason he became emancipated was because of those issues. Now
on top of that, the kid made millions. Okay, Now,
did he get caught, you know, driving through Oklahoma.

Speaker 14 (01:39:38):
With a car full of pot? Absolutely?

Speaker 13 (01:39:40):
Okay, that's his claim to fame for Oklahoma. But he
was emancipated because he had the money to do so
and he was working full time as an actor. Right,
it's not the same for us for people who aren't
in those financial situations. Okay, if you're out again, if
you're going to be an adult, you gotta act like
an adult. You gotta have your own place to stay,
you've got to be have your own job, you got

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to finish up school, You've got to do all these things.

Speaker 14 (01:40:04):
I mean, if you're gonna put on that mantle of adult, you.

Speaker 9 (01:40:07):
Got to be the adult.

Speaker 8 (01:40:08):
Jeff Finsley's joined us from Hensley and Associates eight three
three four six Oh kmo D. Gary is on Gary.
What's your question for? Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates.

Speaker 7 (01:40:18):
My wife's on the phone. Actually she's gonna ask for
you if that's okay, Yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:40:22):
Go ahead.

Speaker 7 (01:40:24):
So I have a question.

Speaker 15 (01:40:25):
We we have a temporary guardian supporter going right now,
and I had my had an attorney, but he ended
up killing himself over my case. It was really good
friend of mine and we're still in court trying to
fight for our children.

Speaker 16 (01:40:42):
I just need help.

Speaker 14 (01:40:44):
Well, I'm gonna be happy to help you.

Speaker 13 (01:40:47):
I mean, I think the best thing would do is
if you give your name a number to Gimpie, I
can call you this morning when I get back to
my office, I'm.

Speaker 14 (01:40:53):
Where you Have you had the show cause hearing?

Speaker 13 (01:40:56):
I mean, you go and you get the emergency guardianship
and then there's this a show call set.

Speaker 14 (01:41:01):
What have you had that hearing?

Speaker 16 (01:41:02):
Yet we've already went, We've already went, been going through
this for over two years. My attorney killed himself. Like
I said, over all of this, I had the judge
breaking across the cools off after all of that happened,
had anybody there to represent me. I had to take
a melopolical test. They said that I feled it that

(01:41:23):
I had HTV in cervical cancer. It showed for methancetamines
and I'm not even on meth or judiugs of any
TYPEO than need and I have a medical caller.

Speaker 13 (01:41:33):
Okay, So again, if you can your name a number
in a GHIMPI, I can call you and we can
walk you through this and we can figure out what
a plan of attack would be moving forward.

Speaker 8 (01:41:41):
Okay, hang on, so gimpee can get your info. Just
for clarification, If your attorney passes the way the UH,
I would assume the court would have some understanding.

Speaker 13 (01:41:53):
Typically, Yeah, I mean it doesn't feel like yes, I mean, well,
first of all, I've never had that scenario. I've never
had a scenario where the other side I mean, have
I had a case one time where the other attorney
died in a car wreck?

Speaker 9 (01:42:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (01:42:06):
I mean, but typically in those cases they get kicked
down the road a little bit, obviously, to give time
for the individual to find a new attorney and.

Speaker 9 (01:42:15):
All that, because obviously someone in the firm might help
step up, right, Yeah.

Speaker 13 (01:42:18):
I mean there's absence unless they're by themselves. I mean,
there are a lot of solo practitioners. I have attorneys
that work for me, but not everybody does. They could
step up and do that. So you know, typically the
courts will have compassion on that, at least to the
point of saying, well, I'm sorry that your attorney. Something
happened to your attorney. I'm going to give you thirty

(01:42:39):
days to find a new attorney and we'll come back
and talk then, but again, every case is different, Every
specific fact is different and tied to that case and
how it's dealt with by the court. I didn't ask
her what county it was in, so I don't know
if it was in Tulsa County or outlying county or
whatever it may be. But I mean, usually there's some
compassion to the point of at least giving the person

(01:43:00):
thirty days to find a new attorney, because obviously you
can't control you can't control even the court can't control
what happens to individuals once they walk out of the courthouse,
so whether it be attorney or client or whatever it
may be. So you know, usually, but again, every case
is different, every fact is different. That's why you want
to call and talk to us at Hinsling Associates so

(01:43:21):
that we can talk to you about your specific case
in the specific facts of what's going on.

Speaker 8 (01:43:26):
Yeah, that's the best sell right there is. You need
to call them for yourself. Each one of these you
heard the emancipation, the last one where the attorney passed away.
They're very unique. There's no blanket answer. That's why we've
got a free consultation with Jeff set up. All you
need to do is call him at nine one eight
three nine eight five six nine two three nine eight
five six nine two mention kmod. You'll get that free

(01:43:47):
consultation over the phone to talk about your case for
about fifteen minutes to kind of help you out a
little bit and get moving in the right direction. And
if you find yourself in other areas of the law
and needing help, the folks at Hinsling are so it
can now help you with that as well.

Speaker 13 (01:44:02):
Absolutely so throw our firm up in Pahusca. It's the
Shoemake Law Firm and I am up there every Wednesday
now working with Sam Allison and the staff up there.
So please give us a call up there. We'd love
to help you out in any way we can. So
in addition to family law, you know, if you've got
some criminal issues, we do a lot of criminal work
up there. If you've got protective order issues, we do

(01:44:24):
a lot with that up there. If you've got oil
and gas issues meaning you know oil and gas leases,
or you've got a piece of property that needs to
be sold, or you know, you have anything pretty much
anything in addition.

Speaker 14 (01:44:34):
To family law we can help you with. If you
need a will or a trust drafted up. We do those.

Speaker 13 (01:44:40):
If you need a power of attorney, if you need
any like I said, contract, anything you need in addition
to family law, we can help you with up there,
and again I will be up there every Wednesdays from
now on, so I'm happy to talk to our listeners
up there as well. So please give us a call
at Shoemake in Tulsa, or should meet in Pahuska or
Hinsley and Associates Untul.

Speaker 8 (01:45:01):
Five six nine two for Hinsley Associates. Make sure you
mentioned km ode nine one eight three nine eight five
six nine two. Jeff, have a great week, Hey you too,
Take a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 4 (01:45:10):
Tulsa's Morning Show is coming right back, a big morning show.

Speaker 9 (01:45:14):
Tulsa's Rock Station ninety MT two thousand, the year two thousand,
What team has the most arrests? Oh God, what team
do you think has the most arrest since two thousand?
Since the year two thousand? Okay twenty five?

Speaker 1 (01:45:33):
The answer shocked me.

Speaker 3 (01:45:36):
Them.

Speaker 1 (01:45:40):
I want to say the Eagles, Okay, Gimb.

Speaker 9 (01:45:44):
I want to go. I want to say the Browns.
I want to say I want to stay with the Browns.

Speaker 1 (01:45:52):
Eagles aren't even in the top thirteen.

Speaker 9 (01:45:54):
I didn't think they would.

Speaker 3 (01:45:55):
More of the fans.

Speaker 9 (01:45:56):
Probably Browns are nonumber six okay, okay, with forty arrests
since two thousand. Okay, wow, that's like two a year,
just a little like two point three years almost. Yeah,
over the last. How about the Dolphins.

Speaker 1 (01:46:15):
The Dolphins come in at thirteen with thirty four.

Speaker 9 (01:46:17):
Okay, Raiders, the Raiders no see people missing.

Speaker 1 (01:46:23):
They just think the Raiders are bad dudes, and they're not.

Speaker 9 (01:46:26):
They got a bad image. They're just a bad team.
How about the Cowboys.

Speaker 1 (01:46:30):
Cowboys not on this list, not in the third top thirteen.

Speaker 3 (01:46:33):
Okay, Chiefs.

Speaker 1 (01:46:36):
The Chiefs are number five with forty one arrests.

Speaker 9 (01:46:40):
I didn't think that they would be on there at all.

Speaker 1 (01:46:42):
Oh yeah, oh yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:46:45):
One guy got in trouble for a domestic for beating
up a vacuum.

Speaker 1 (01:46:52):
That's not a joke.

Speaker 3 (01:46:54):
I remember that.

Speaker 8 (01:46:54):
Yeah, he was at picking up his kid and she
wouldn't let him go.

Speaker 1 (01:46:58):
I don't know, something like that.

Speaker 8 (01:47:00):
So he started like destroying the vacuum, throwing his number
tantrum and they shet. They called the police and they're like, yeah,
you gotta.

Speaker 9 (01:47:06):
Go, boy, What did Hoover ever do to you? Right?

Speaker 1 (01:47:10):
I bet it sucked all right? Forty nine ers not
on the list.

Speaker 9 (01:47:15):
The number one person has fifty seven arrests since two
thousand fifty seven. The Cardinals, Arizona Cardinals. Nope, not even
on there. Huh.

Speaker 8 (01:47:25):
This is what I'm saying, Like when you when I
tell you who the number one is, they have a
pretty what you think is a squeaky clean image. Well
was that the the Patriots in Noka? No, there, Chiefs
forty one arrests. That's number five. Jacksonville Jaguars forty one arrests,
number three, The Bengals at fifty one arrests. We make

(01:47:46):
a big jump between fourth and third. The Broncos come
in second with fifty six arrests, and the Vikings are
number one. Really with fifty seven arrests, isn't that shocking?

Speaker 9 (01:48:03):
I can't remember any time Vikings names get pulled up.

Speaker 3 (01:48:08):
I remember Randy Moss was arrested.

Speaker 1 (01:48:12):
Was he with the Vikings and that happened?

Speaker 4 (01:48:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 14 (01:48:14):
He was.

Speaker 3 (01:48:16):
He ran over a traffic cop.

Speaker 9 (01:48:20):
What ran over him?

Speaker 3 (01:48:23):
Like plowed him down female traffic?

Speaker 9 (01:48:26):
Or he was like taking off and accidentally ran over
her foot oh, dude, Adrian Peterson, I.

Speaker 3 (01:48:31):
Forgot yes, Adrian Peterson.

Speaker 8 (01:48:33):
He was arrested for d w I uh. It was
after he attended the Vikings draft party. Jordan Addison he
was arrested for DUI in July of twenty four. Yeah,
so there's there's a couple just right here. Okay, but
this guy's got a whole list that's fantastic since two

(01:48:57):
thousand's okay, I'll try gonna go back two thousand and five.
Dante Culpepper charged with indecent conduct and disorderly conduct and
loot and lascivious conduct during this infamous love boat party.

Speaker 9 (01:49:11):
Okay, so we got cod forna caton in the public.

Speaker 8 (01:49:14):
Yeah, okay, I'm not gonna name them all, but we've
got indecent conduct, three misdemeanors. Another guy through misdemeanors fifty
degree assault, disorderly conduct, interfering with a pedestrian or vehicular
vehicular traffic. Cedric Griffin was arrested for disorderly conduct after
allegedly being thrown out of a night club.

Speaker 9 (01:49:33):
That means you threw a temper tantrum m.

Speaker 8 (01:49:37):
Another guy was arrested on misdemeanor warrant for reckless driving.
Another guy was cited for misdemeanor marijuana, another guy arrested
for misdemeanor marijuana, and then the most recent ones, we
have a Dui man Ceda Griffin's been arrested a lot,
and another one aggravated battery in two thousand and eight.

Speaker 9 (01:49:58):
Those are all misdemeanors though, right, so nobody really has
a felony on there.

Speaker 8 (01:50:02):
And Randy Moss was arrested in two thousand and two
for his careless driving and marijuana possession. That's just up
to two thousand and nine.

Speaker 1 (01:50:13):
Wow, Yeah, I read that wrong. That was just up
till two thousand and nine. Yeah, they get arrested a lot.

Speaker 9 (01:50:21):
But yet they still continue to let them play.

Speaker 1 (01:50:24):
Yeah, which at least for a while.

Speaker 9 (01:50:25):
Yeah, with like you know, little stuff like you know,
possession of marriage iuana something like that. Okay, I'd still
let them play the game. You know, A Dewey probably
still would let him play. Yeah, I don't have a
problem with him. It's short of a violent crime, right,
And that's what it seems like it happens anyway, Like
people get popped for domestic assault and you know, they

(01:50:49):
still get to play.

Speaker 8 (01:50:51):
Okay, so I'm gonna go this is just in the
twenty tens, there's twenty six of them. I'm going to
tell you how many are battery or domestic Okay, one, two, three,
four because Caleb King fractured a man's skull, damn five,

(01:51:16):
we're gonna put child in dangerment in there? Yeah, six yeah, seven,
seven out of twenty six. So taist statistically it is,
that's not the issue on that team in the twenty tens. Yeah,
d w I though, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven, twelve, thirteen.

(01:51:47):
D w I for sure is the biggest offense on
a lot of these Okay, yeah, they're young, you know,
doesn't make it right, but it's I think it's a
little more excusable than a domestic violence.

Speaker 9 (01:52:02):
Yeah, I don't think it's excusable. It Plenty of people
get killed because someone chose to drive drunks. So I
think when you're of that status, you have a lot
to lose. Not to mention anyone would have a lot
to lose, but I think you should definitely take a
little more careful. You can take on the uber right,
you can pay your buddy to drive you I would
agree with you rather than potentially put yourself in harms

(01:52:25):
way or others and or your career.

Speaker 1 (01:52:28):
I think if.

Speaker 8 (01:52:28):
You some of these marijuana possessions, I agree, they're not
a big deal. And some of them do get suspended
for their issues, right, so they do get a punishment.
Does that do you think you should get in trouble
if you've got a d WY and be pulled off
the air or marijuana or domestic right?

Speaker 9 (01:52:44):
Of course? Yeah, that's that's a fair question because those
that's a job, it's just a job, and people like
well people look up to them. Okay, sure, but that's
that's on them, right that the rules shouldn't be different
from them just because there's citizens.

Speaker 1 (01:53:01):
Yeah, so we think, all right, we gotta take a break.
We'll be back. Telsa's Morning Show.

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