BMMS 8-19-25

You Made It To Tuesday!!!! Brad Pitt Has Made A Lot Of Movies, Michael J Fox has Been Busted, Getting Paid To Do Nothing, Listener E-Mails, To Tell The Truth, & Things Millenials Still Believe!!

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Remember yesterday we did the top grossing Will Smith movies
and it was surprising. What was number one? It was Aladdin? Remember,
And so now I have found Brad Pitt's highest grossing films,
and again the answer will surprise you. So the question

(03:54):
is what is Brad Pitt's highest grossing film? I only
have five of them here, so tried to, uh take
a guess at what you think that is?

Speaker 6 (04:04):
What's the movie he did with Susan Sarandon.

Speaker 2 (04:08):
And h The Two Women.

Speaker 6 (04:12):
Yeah, uh huh. He was really really young. It was
like one of his first ever movies.

Speaker 3 (04:18):
I think where they're they're they they Rob Banks, don't
they or something? They so it's a raw rob women's movie.
I feel like all of us, you should be the one.

Speaker 6 (04:27):
That knows he's pretty young when it came out that.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
You know, plenty of movies that were how when you
were young? Sure? Yeah, trying to remember it is a
cliche thing you say, yeah Thelman Louise.

Speaker 6 (04:43):
Yeah, Elman Louise.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
Yeah he was in that.

Speaker 3 (04:49):
Huh yeah, yes, he's the heart throb. Okay that they're like, yeah, okay,
but I think he's in it for like a brief moment.
But that would that would really be considered his movie.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
No, no, he's not the No either way, it's not
on the list. Gimbi Inglorious Bastards.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Great movie. Still to this day you're watching like this
is amazing. No, not on the list, not in the
top five.

Speaker 6 (05:11):
Wow. Interview with a Vampire.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
Great movie did with Tom Cruise and a very young
Kristen Dunst and I believe late nineties, early nineties Yeah,
isn't that a is it Susan Rice.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
Book?

Speaker 3 (05:27):
There's a whole series on that, and fantastic movie.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
No. Not in the top five would be that animated
show movie he did Cool World.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
Oh yeah, I don't remember this, but Noah's none of
these are animated.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Early early work for him as well. Not good movie.
Not a good movie.

Speaker 6 (05:45):
How about The Mexican that he did with Julia Roberts.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
Okay, yeah, also not a good movie. No, not in
the top five. Let's try to pick good movies he
was in. Well, he's been in some phenomenal movies. Seven
What's in the Books? Gosh, great movie, right, what's the
that's also based off of a book and just phenomenal
from Kevin Space, even though he's weird. Morgan Freeman My

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favorite thing, and is it when they're in the car
driving and they're on More there's the camera's Morgan Freeman
and it's just pouring, and then the pants to Brad
Pitt who's on the other side of the car and
there's not one drop of rain hitting the window.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
I love the silly little stuff.

Speaker 3 (06:26):
Yeah, continuity air is what that's called. No, not in
the list.

Speaker 6 (06:30):
Bullet Train, that's Newer.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
I don't even know the movie.

Speaker 6 (06:34):
Oh he's he's kind of like, as I want to say,
like almost like a not a special agent, but maybe
he's got like martial arts skills.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
And okay, I don't think anybody's seen that movie World
war Z.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
World war Z.

Speaker 3 (06:52):
There now we're getting in an arena of like his
most popular movies. There's talk there's going to be a
sequel to World Wars E. If you've ever seen it,
it is is a completely different zombie movie.

Speaker 2 (07:02):
It's not.

Speaker 3 (07:03):
It is they run really fast, they can jump, they're insane. Yes,
and he plays a government official who's pulled back into
service to help figure out what the problem is.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
Number two.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
Moneyball, Moneyball made up movie that people think is true,
and he plays I forget the sports guy, but the
evolution of baseball and how they recruit people for the
Oakland A's And it's not.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
In the top Time. Mister and Missus Smith.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
Mister and Missus Smith where he cheated on Jennifer Aniston.

Speaker 2 (07:39):
Number four, Okay, great movie.

Speaker 6 (07:45):
Fury Fury.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
That is the movie with.

Speaker 3 (07:51):
Chilah Labouf and a bunch of other ones about a
World War two regiment. No World War one regiment. I
believe a tank regiment, and yeah, no, it's not the list.
How about Burn after reading Burn, after reading great movie,
very artsy, very weird and weird dildo machine in the
movie that is a not on the list. Benjamin Button,

(08:17):
Benjamin Button where he's in it but not and it's
about aging backwards and that is not on the this list.
And to be quite honest, not a very good movie.

Speaker 2 (08:29):
Any of the Oceans movie on there.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
Now we're see these are big movies. Ocean's eleven is
on here.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
Number five. Okay, so you've named three of the five.
Lindsay you gotta step it up girl.

Speaker 3 (08:41):
Last Week Club, great movie, right, This is a movie
that is a part of my upbringing. The ending might
be one of the best indings of a movie of
all time, where he's like, you just met me at
a weird time and that's not what last one give be.

(09:03):
Meet Joe Black, Meet Joe Black a fantastic movie that
I think is one of his most underrated performances. He's
Brad Pitt in a way that he's not Brad Pitt,
and it's such a brightly shot movie. All the characters'
faces are almost bloomed out, they're so bright and he
the first like five minutes of the movie, he gets

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hit by a car and goes flying, and Anthony Hopkins
is in it, and unbeknownst to us until it's revealed later,
he is the devil if I'm not mistaken, there to
take Anthony Hopkins away and he gets close to the
female character who's Adorbs in that movie. Not on the list,
all right, So Ocean's eleven, number five, four hundred and

(09:48):
fifty million, Mystery Missus Smith four hundred and eighty seven million,
number three, one of my favorite movies mostly from a
history standpoint and the characters they're in her that are
in it, and is Troy at number three, four hundred
and ninety seven million. If you've never seen it. It's
also a Brad Pitt movie where he's not Brad Pitt.

(10:09):
You almost forget he's Brad at the height of him
being the heart drop right. Number two World War Z
and number one a movie I have not seen a
movie that just got announced as the highest grossing sports
movie of all time. Oh and it's very new in
the theaters. And that's f one where he plays a

(10:31):
Formula one racer looks pretty good.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
I've seen the commercials for it. Looks good.

Speaker 3 (10:35):
Five hundred and fifty two million dollars. Wow, is his
highest growth in his six So he's done all these
amazing movies that you're like, ah, what's he got left
in him? Right, He's in Seven Years of Slave. He's
phenomenal in that movie. And then you're like, what does
he have left in him? What could he possibly do?
And here he does this movie that I got to
be honest, I have zero interest to see and it's

(10:57):
his highest grossing movie ever.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
F One's fine. I like Form One.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
I've seen part of the show on Netflix where they
do is It on Netflix where they do the behind
the scenes of the drivers and you're like, okay, I've
watched a couple races, it's all right for me, it's
all right.

Speaker 2 (11:15):
Yeah, they're doing more than just going around the circles. Yes,
there are too.

Speaker 3 (11:19):
It's almost disgusting how much money is in it is
really what freaks me out about it. And there's like, yeah,
I wrecked it, so yeah, I have no interest to
see that movie at all.

Speaker 2 (11:30):
Surprised Happy Feet was not on that list anywhere.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
I was actually surprised how low Oceans eleven was. I
was under the impression that that that Soderberg movie is
like highly coveted.

Speaker 6 (11:43):
Because there's I mean there's what two or three of them.

Speaker 2 (11:46):
I think it's a franchise.

Speaker 3 (11:47):
Yeah, between the women and stuff that did it, And
that movie's not new. By the way, the original Oceans
eleven came out a long time ago in two thousand
and one.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
It's twenty four years old. Wow, right, still watchable. It's
incredibly watchable.

Speaker 3 (12:02):
It is him and George Clooney make a pair, like
their chemistry on air is awesome.

Speaker 2 (12:10):
It's awesome to watch.

Speaker 3 (12:12):
But I was shocked there weren't I mean, happy Feet
I would not put on the list.

Speaker 2 (12:15):
Now, well, when you do that, you know it's not
it's not what you're expecting. Nobody would expect Happy feat
to be at the top, just like we weren't expecting
a Laddin to be at the top. So no, that's
the whole reason I do it is because it's, uh,
you're like what Snatch?

Speaker 3 (12:31):
I forgot he was in Snatch Seven years in Tibet
is really good.

Speaker 2 (12:34):
I like, ye once upon a time in Hollywood, I
thought that was really Oh yeah, good movie.

Speaker 6 (12:40):
Forgot about that one.

Speaker 3 (12:43):
You know, I'm looking at his list and we've pretty
much named all of his good movies.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
Yes, we did, besides the five.

Speaker 3 (12:50):
That we talked about. And by the way, not a
good dad, not a good person Pitt Yeah a drunk Yeah, Okay,
he's now like doing podcasts talking about it and how
like abusive.

Speaker 2 (13:06):
That was the whole reason Jolie was done with them.
She took the eight kids and left.

Speaker 3 (13:10):
There was an incident on a plane where he apparently
was quite abusive, and that's when that was her final straw.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
Kids. The kids hate him? Wow?

Speaker 6 (13:21):
Yeah, I think there's only one of of the kids
in the bunch, the one that's actually his, that has
anything to do with him.

Speaker 2 (13:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
All I know is they've changed their name so they
don't carry his name.

Speaker 2 (13:36):
That's how much they don't like him. What. Yeah, there's
a couple of them d knocks Leon Well that's Jolie
Pitt hyphenated. They're all hyphenated. They don't like their dad, Zara, Marley,
Vivian and Shiloh. They took de Mama's name. That's something crazy.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
Yeah, we have friends, we all know people that are
like their dead sucks they don't want anything to do
with them or any parent really, And when they tell
you why, you're like, yeah, no, that makes sense. And
Brad Pitts that guy who would have guessed, I know exactly,
you'd been like, hey, it's America's sweetheart.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
Yeah, that's the fun thing, man. You got this persona
on screen or whatever, and there's a dark reality that
they don't show on the shirt, you know, because people
are just regular people. Yes, but las, yeah, what we
see is the actor or the musician or whatever the
case is. We don't ever see the real person. And

(14:37):
that's still cosy that comes out later on because you know,
for the longest time he was he was the best.
He was America's dad. But but same thing in the shadows.

Speaker 6 (14:46):
He was like, all right, I think Surrey Cruise has
done the same thing with Tom Cruise.

Speaker 3 (14:54):
Yes, but to me, that's different because of his scientology connection.
That child's mother also, who is the famous actress, was like,
I'm done.

Speaker 2 (15:03):
I can't be a part of this.

Speaker 6 (15:05):
Nicole Kidman's daughter is in the middle of a lawsuit
right now with Nicole Kidman. Apparently. I saw I saw
a quick video on TikTok where Nicole Kidman is suing
her daughter, like served her with a cease and desist,
and she was like, I'm avoiding this so she can
sue me.

Speaker 2 (15:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (15:24):
I think it's because the daughter went out and said
that on TikTok Listen, you can be the child and
be crazy of a famous person.

Speaker 2 (15:32):
So it's entirely possible.

Speaker 3 (15:35):
And if you're a kid, you to one of the
like Nicole Kidman or Tom Cruise. You're in the shadows.
You're constantly in your parents' shadow. Your parents come for
pta night, meet the teacher.

Speaker 2 (15:48):
Parents.

Speaker 3 (15:49):
They don't care about you. They want to meet Nicole Kidman.
They want to talk to Nicole Kidman. You go to
a that you play in volleyball, they want to come
watch you play volleyball.

Speaker 2 (16:00):
Gets exhausting, right, Your parents are overshadowing you.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
Yes, you're trying to be your own person, and they
go everywhere you go.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
There there she is.

Speaker 3 (16:10):
Like, hey, your mom's no cold Kidman. Hey yeah, some
people handle that well. Some people don't. And I can
understand a kid not handling it as they cry and
complain when they go to their second home, right, and
they have no problem. They don't worry about if they're
going to get a car when they turn sixteen. They

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don't worry about the cost of insurance for their kids car.
They aren't forced to get a job, but they're like,
it's not fair.

Speaker 2 (16:41):
Mom's more famous than me. There's a lot of celebrity
kids who hate their parents. Sure, like, And I just
did a quick Google search Tom Cruise on the list.
Elon Musk. Of course, we just talked about Brett. But
that's okay.

Speaker 3 (16:55):
Hold On, Elon Musk is different because just by the
sheer statue called chance.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
Okay, because he has so many kids, right.

Speaker 3 (17:03):
Right right, one of them is bound to hate him. Yeah,
and he's not around right right. I think he's got
it with a few different women.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
Kate Gosling's on this list.

Speaker 3 (17:12):
Okay, yeah, but we understand that cuckoo. She's go back
and watch some of the video of how she treated her.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
Husband on the oh on that show.

Speaker 3 (17:24):
Oh my gosh, how did he deal with How did
we accept it right? How did we think it was okay?
Did we just not care? Like this is entertaining? What
an idiot?

Speaker 6 (17:31):
She's like an at home nurse now.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
Yeah, because she can't go anywhere because she's such listen,
this person's so horrible. The Karen haircut is based as
off her.

Speaker 6 (17:42):
That's why she like, she's like home care. She like
comes into your home and she works with I don't
know if it's like special need needs children or if
it is older folks, like she is an at home
care nurse now because the money that she made on
the show, she had to spend in legal fees against

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her ex husband.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
Brought on by her. Yeah, she's her own undoing. Yeah yeah.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
Her kids don't like her just because and for her
to be involving other kids' lives is in crazy.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
Billy Ray Cyrus is also on here as well. Yeah,
Miiley hating her dad. Yeah, and the brother, the brother
Anthony Hopkins and Abigail are on this list. Okay, Woody Allen.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
Again, I think he's he also slept with one of
his daughters, if I'm not mistaken.

Speaker 6 (18:38):
That doesn't matter, right, right, So the other kids, of
course would have a feel a certain way about.

Speaker 2 (18:43):
Him, by the way, we gotta get him on the
death pool. Go ahead, and a right, King Charles and
Harry sure they hate each other? Sure, yeah, yeah, yeah,
that's quite a bit. That sucks. What else we got here. Share.
That's pretty that's pretty famous one right there. Share in
Elijah Blue.

Speaker 3 (18:59):
I mean I think she's tried to be in his life.
I may I think more of Elijah Blue and the dad.

Speaker 2 (19:11):
I mean I could see some resentment, Yeah, Angela. He
never came to a game.

Speaker 6 (19:17):
Angelina Jolie and her dad, her old man.

Speaker 2 (19:20):
Sure, John Voyce.

Speaker 6 (19:21):
Yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (19:22):
Also not a good person.

Speaker 3 (19:23):
No, No, see some of the things he said, like
when they were when she was a kid and stuff.
You're like, what's going on? Uh yeah, but he wasn't
around again. You're you're a celebrity, you're an actor, you're
a top actor, and you try to have a you
can't have a normal family life. There's no like be

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home at five and then I'll take you to you know, practice,
I'll be there for a story time. No, because you've
got to go and fly to la and or go
to London for a premiere, or you've got to go
to the media tour, or you're go filming.

Speaker 2 (19:57):
For forty five days straight.

Speaker 3 (19:59):
Right when you're a parent that's gone for forty five
days straight, they move on. Yeah, yeah, because they've got
to figure out a system. They end up being raised
by the nanny or whatever or the mom whoever's the
one left behind has to figure it out. Yeah, but hey,
you want it to be famous. It's price you pee, right,

(20:21):
And that's something you wanted to be famous. You wanted
all the money in the world. You want to be
the big time actor. But you sacrifice goddamn near everything. Yeah,
just to get to that point. Relationships and whatnot. They
say family, friends, work. You can only have two. And
if the people you know, like in this example, it's

(20:43):
friends and work, sometimes it's family and work.

Speaker 2 (20:47):
Right, even if the people you know in life.

Speaker 3 (20:52):
You pick two things and if they have a problem
in their family, you can associate what it is. Right,
You can find it pretty fast when you narrow it
down to those three pillars. All right, we gotta take
a break. We got tickets to Rockaholma. We're gonna give away,
We've got listener emails. We've got to tell the truth.

Speaker 2 (21:05):
We'll be better. It's time for newsquakies. World news, local
news and news that just makes you say, what the
Here's Corbyn, Gimbi and Lindsay with what's going on news
Quakies from the Big nd Morning showing ninety seventy five
AMoD Michael J.

Speaker 6 (21:22):
Fox busted for DUI after a high speed chase. So
this happened in Illinois, where twenty eight year old Michael J.
Fox apparently was trying to get to just around eighty
eight miles per hour, but he fled the scene of
a hit and run on the West side of Chicago.

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Police tried to stop him, but instead he slammed the
gas and led them on a high speed chase that
ended when Fox ran a red light, slamming into another
vehicle with two people inside that car. They were taken
to the hospital and Fox was found to be intoxicated

(22:04):
with an open bottle in his car, and a breathalyzer
showed Fox to be three times over the legal limit.
He faces multiple charges, including aggravated DUI, aggravated fleeing and eluding,
and several traffic violations.

Speaker 3 (22:23):
Hey are you Michael Bolton? It must be great to
have the same name as Michael Bolton?

Speaker 4 (22:28):
Right?

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Sure is?

Speaker 6 (22:30):
Do you know Michael Bolton? But you must know his music?

Speaker 2 (22:35):
Right?

Speaker 6 (22:36):
That's your favorite song?

Speaker 2 (22:39):
A woman seue's company that paid her for twenty years
to do nothing. So this comes out of France where
this fifty nine year old gown named Lawrence Lawrence von Wahsenhoove.
She worked for this company called Orange, and she worked
for them for a long time, and she had really
high hopes of making it up into the business. Right
in the company did some hr training and one day

(23:03):
she comes down sick and instead of letting her go
or whatever the case is, they just kept her on payroll. Listen,
you just got to show up. That's it, Lawrence Larry
the woman show up, that's all you gotta do. So
she did for twenty years. She just showed up. But
the thing about it is she says that they never
gave her any responsibilities. They didn't give her any roles

(23:26):
or anything. In fact, she went on to say that
there was no form of human connection at all whatsoever
while doing this job. So she says that it damaged
her mental health and left her feeling invisible. So this
woman takes this company to court and now she is
suing them for her mental damage.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
I mean, to get paid to do nothing's pretty awesome.

Speaker 2 (23:55):
Yet, Yeah, and just to sit alone like no human interaction. Uh,
I got my TikTok. You're gonna sit me down in
the basement, right and yeah, nothing to do, just sit
here and hang out.

Speaker 3 (24:10):
You believe we get to do another office space reference.
But as long as you got your red stapler, that's it, right,
I hear you. But human beings are social by nature,
and that would be good for a short amount of time.
But eventually you want to see someone.

Speaker 2 (24:25):
Sure, But I mean, if you're just there from like,
let's just say nine to five, eight hours, and you
get your human interaction at home after work, go socialize,
do other things. Maybe maybe unless you're just such a
lonely person that you don't have anybody else. But if
that's the case, whose fault is that? It's not the
company's fault. No, that's true. You know they're only responsible

(24:49):
for you from nine to five. Now, go on out
there and get some friends. You weirdo, Quit being weird.

Speaker 3 (24:54):
Listen, you might be an introvert. It might be hard
for you.

Speaker 2 (24:57):
Yeah, true.

Speaker 3 (24:58):
Weirdo settle down on a couple charged with theft and
abuse of corpse. Colorado couples facing charges after allegedly hiding
a corpse in their apartment for nearly two years. I
can't believe how common this is. We read these stories
a lot. Police went to Lakewood residence in July after

(25:20):
the brother of sixty four year old James O'Neil requested
a welfare check. Police eventually found O'Neill's body hidden under
an air mattress in the apartment. O'Neil reportedly died in
December of twenty twenty three, and investigators say the couple
delayed reporting the death so they could keep receiving Social
Security income. Fifty five year old James Agnew and fifty

(25:43):
seven year old Suzanne Agnew have been charged with theft,
abuse of a corpse, and unauthorized use of financial device.

Speaker 6 (25:52):
How do you get past the smell of a dead body?

Speaker 2 (25:56):
Lie? Not lie? Like? Why right? The stope stuff?

Speaker 3 (26:01):
Yeah, he's covered. Lie, I'm confident. See here's the See,
this is what we do. We take our lives and
associated with the situation rather than if you live in
filth new filth doesn't add Yeah, your nose is already
in the filth area.

Speaker 2 (26:22):
So you used to your nose blind to it.

Speaker 6 (26:24):
And it took the brother two years to do a
welfare check on his brother.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
Listen, maybe he was out of country.

Speaker 3 (26:32):
Maybe maybe he was on an expedition on a ship.
Maybe studying the ways of the Antarctic penguin just couldn't
get around to it.

Speaker 6 (26:45):
Maybe there was a falling out and he's like, I'm
sick and tired of him not taking my calls.

Speaker 3 (26:51):
Or they contacted the brother about the Social Security and
they're like what do you mean and didn't know. Maybe
they were not connected anymore and they're like, well someone
should go check on them, and I'm not there. Welfare
checks have to be one of the worst things police
officers do because you just.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Don't know what you're getting yourself into. Now you can
say that with any situation as being an officer. But
you're like, hey, I need you to go check on
my grandma. You know they okay.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
There's one floating around TikTok where the officer goes and
knocks on the door and this guy goes he's immediately
out of the shoot what And that says like, I'm
just doing a welfare check. I need to speak with
everyone in the house. No, you don't, you get off
my property.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
There seems to be a lot of those people just
bucking up to the officers. I'm like, you know, you
would not be near as much trouble if you just cooperate,
but instead you got to feel like you got something
to prove. I don't think it's that.

Speaker 3 (27:48):
I think people feel like it's an overreach and they
feel like that it's unnecessary. Now, in this case, there
was some child abuse claims and the officer was like,
I'm not leaving because it just raises their suspicion.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
Right right, those videos, at least the ones that I
see anyway, whether they're traffic stops or whatever the case is,
the cops are always going to win in the end,
right Mary. Rarely does the citizen like Okay, well sorry, yeah,
you're right, we'll let you go. That never happened.

Speaker 3 (28:19):
The only time I've seen that that happen is DUI
checks right when they're like, I'm not giving you.

Speaker 2 (28:24):
You can't detain me. This is an unlawful detainment.

Speaker 3 (28:27):
But you're right, they'll either just hang out, get a warrant,
not leave. D day has begun. Yeah all right, you
can look for these stories on our Instagram.

Speaker 2 (28:37):
We'll be back.

Speaker 4 (28:38):
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Speaker 3 (28:41):
That Good Morning Lindsay, Good Morning Corbyn.

Speaker 6 (28:43):
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Speaker 2 (29:04):
Good morning, Gimpee, Good morning Corba. I'm gonna be out
this Friday at Slow Riding Brookside getting you pre qualified
for the flight and fairway your chance to score a big,
badass golf card from Yingling. Flight Friday is going to
be your last chance to get pre qualified before the
big giveaway next Wednesday. So apparently people have go to jokes.

Speaker 6 (29:27):
Okay, I could see that.

Speaker 2 (29:29):
Do you have a go to joke?

Speaker 6 (29:30):
No, but I think my dad did, and I think
the guys were at my husband's work, do like they
have like a bunch of dad jokes.

Speaker 2 (29:38):
That they Sure I have dad jokes, but I don't have.
The go to joke? Is the joke you always tell? Yeah, kimp, Yeah,
It's one that I've been working on since I was eighteen. Uh.
A priest of Mexican and a rabbi walk into a bar.
That's as far as I've gotten. I don't have anything
else for it. I haven't come up with a punchline yet,
but it's a good silence breaker. Yeah, definitely creates silence.

(30:07):
I have one with my kids. I guess we're like that,
but it's not really a joke. It's just a dad thing.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
Yeah, where like they come in and go, uh, dad,
I'm hungry, and I'm like, you're not hungry.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
Your name is Scarlett.

Speaker 6 (30:18):
Sure, yeah, dude, yeah.

Speaker 3 (30:21):
Right, but that's not I don't do that with strangers.
I don't think you guys have ever heard me do that,
but people apparently do have go to jokes like this one.
A man goes to a funeral. He asked the widow
if he could say a word. He goes to the
front and says plethora, sits back down. The widow leans
over and whispers thanks. That means a lot. Or this one.

(30:49):
I went to a beekeeper to get twelve bees. He
counted and gave me thirteen. Sir, you gave me an extra. No,
that's a freebie. What's the difference between a hippo and
a zippo.

Speaker 2 (31:05):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
One is very heavy and the others a little lighter.

Speaker 6 (31:11):
Cute.

Speaker 3 (31:14):
People are shocked when they find out what a terrible electrician.
I am that's the joke. Yeah, that takes a minute.
That's one that you were waiting for something else. What
did the sign say on the door?

Speaker 2 (31:29):
I'm sorry?

Speaker 3 (31:30):
What did the sign on the door of the brothel say?

Speaker 6 (31:34):
I don't know?

Speaker 2 (31:35):
Open twenty four to seven. This might be the best
joke I've ever read. What did the sign on the
door of the brothel say? Beat it? We're closed? Oh?

Speaker 3 (31:55):
Why did the half blind man fall into a well?
I don't know, he couldn't see that. Well, don't say
uh huh after I tell the punchline. My dad asked
me the other day, are you even listening to me?
Which is a really weird way to start a conversation
if you ask me. I've heard that variation with wives

(32:18):
and stuff. What did the cannibal get when he was
late for dinner?

Speaker 2 (32:26):
Leftovers?

Speaker 6 (32:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (32:29):
The cold shoulder? I stand corrected, said the man in
the orthopedic shoes. Oh why does scuba divers fall backwards
out of the boat? Because if they fell forwards, they'd

(32:52):
still be in the boat. You've heard of Murphy's law, right,
It says that anything can go wrong. We'll go wrong.
But have you heard of Cole's law. No, it's thinly
sliced cabbage.

Speaker 2 (33:11):
Oh god.

Speaker 3 (33:16):
A wife calls her husband and says, be careful driving home.
Some complete moron is driving down the wrong side of
the motorway. The husband says, that's there's not just one,
there's bloody hundreds of them. Please tell me I'm condescending.
That means I talk down to people.

Speaker 2 (33:36):
Oh jeez.

Speaker 3 (33:38):
These are people's go to jokes like these are they
are acknowledging. These are the things that they use on
a rag basis. Text one here says, what do you
call it when Batman skips church?

Speaker 6 (33:51):
Now?

Speaker 2 (33:52):
Christian Bale?

Speaker 6 (33:54):
Hmm.

Speaker 3 (33:57):
I always thought Batman was Catholic. He just feels like
a athlete, right. I bought my friend an elephant for
his room. He said thanks, I said, don't mention it. Okay,

(34:20):
don't sure. I didn't say these were good. I bought
some shoes from a drug dealer. I don't know what
he laced them with, but I've been tripping all day.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
Jee Oh my gosh.

Speaker 3 (34:36):
We lost our father after an accident. Because we couldn't
remember what blood type he had to tell the EMT.
Dad kept screaming for us to be positive, but it's
really hard with him gone. That's a blood type I
don't know. A man is sitting with his three daughters

(34:59):
having breakfast, and the middle daughter asks Daddy, why am
I named Roses. Dad explains, well, Rose in our family, Well,
Rose in our family. We have a tradition that we
put the baby in bed and put a bunch of
different flowers above her on the bookshelf. The first one
to will and fall onto the bed is what we

(35:21):
name her. And since the rose petal fell on you first,
that's why we named you Rose. The oldest daughter said, oh,
that's why I'm named Lily, because the lily pedals fell
on me first. That's right, Dad said, And the youngest
youngest daughter says half in blah, and Dad yelled, quiet bookshelf.

(35:52):
If I'm being honest, I'm reading these blinds, so God
knows what's about to happen. A man is arrested for
killing and eating a bald eg He brought it, he
brought He brought it in front of the judge to
try and justify his actions. He explained, I was lost
in the woods and starving. I saw the eagle catch
a fish in its claws. I throw a rock to

(36:16):
try to make it drop the fish so I could
eat it.

Speaker 2 (36:18):
But the rock hit the.

Speaker 3 (36:19):
Eagle and killed it by accident. I couldn't let it
go to waste. The judge says, that's understandable. I'll let
you off with a warning. She beckons the man approached
the bench and asks him in private, just between you
and me, what does a bald eagle taste like? The
man says, somewhere between a spotted owl and a California condor.

(36:47):
For those who don't know, that means he eats a
lot of birds.

Speaker 2 (36:50):
And endangered ones.

Speaker 3 (36:51):
Yeah, protect it one, Okay, this is gonna be my
last one. A man decides to quit his job and
run away to join a pirate crew. After spending a
few hours at the dock, he sees a man who
has a peg leg, a hook hand, and an eye patch.
The man is obviously a pirate captain. Obviously, the man

(37:12):
promptly joins the captain's crew and they ship out to
sea that very day. Later that night, the man walks
up to the captain and says, I'm sorry, but I
just can't hold back anymore. How did you get your
peg leg? The captain says, R twas me first day
at sea as a young lad A great big swell

(37:33):
came from the sea and knocked me overboard.

Speaker 2 (37:36):
Before my crew could pull me.

Speaker 3 (37:37):
Out, a giant, one eyed fish swam up and bit
off me leg. The man goes, that sounds terrible. What
happened to your hand? The captain says, R twas me.
Second day at sea, Another great big swell came from
the sea, knocked me overboard.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
Before the crew could.

Speaker 3 (37:53):
Pull me out, big giant, one eyed fish swam up
and bit off my hand. The man tells the captain
it sounds like the fish has it out for him,
and asked what happened to his eye? Captain says, oh,
twas me third day at sea. I was looking at
the sky when a bird came and in my eye,
the man says, and that's how you lost your eye.

(38:13):
The captain response, No, twas me first day with the hook.
If you're someone who has one of these jokes, I
would love for you to share it with me.

Speaker 2 (38:26):
That's a joke.

Speaker 3 (38:27):
Yeah, we got some coming in. Oh no, we can
share them, though. What's the worst. What's worse than two
ladies running with scissors? What's that I'm not telling you.
Two cannibals were sitting on a log eating. One said
I hate my mother in law. The other said, maybe

(38:50):
put some ketchup on it.

Speaker 2 (38:51):
Oh god, what did the fat girl say to the
other fat girl? Who cares?

Speaker 3 (38:58):
They're fat? A three legged dog walks into a Western
saloon and says, who shot my paw?

Speaker 2 (39:11):
Oh God? Maybe I need to read that again for everybody.

Speaker 3 (39:19):
A three legged dog walks into a Western saloon and says,
who shot my paw?

Speaker 2 (39:29):
Because it's foot?

Speaker 3 (39:29):
Because it's foot? Yeah, not his father? What has two
butts and kills people? An assassin?

Speaker 2 (39:43):
Uh? I won't read that.

Speaker 3 (39:47):
What's a pirate's favorite letter? They'll say? Our response, you
think it'd be R but it's the sea. Oh Jesus,
I can't tell. These people are calling in for a
Rocke home and tickets. What do lesbians and mechanics have
in common? Let's they both have snap on tools. Hey,
we're gonna give away tickets to Ockaholm when we come back.

(40:11):
Sing Sing is the game. You've got to guess the
song that is on the card by the clues we
give you. If you get more than the other contestant,
you win. Those tickets to Rockaholm A pair of weekend
GA tickets to Rockaholma Labor Day Weekend eight three three
four six oh K m O D.

Speaker 2 (40:29):
Current record is well, it's super tight. You have eight
and I have eight and Lindsay at seven last week's winter.
That'd be a whole batch of nobody.

Speaker 3 (40:37):
So everybody's available to play. Eight three three four six
oh K M O D. Good morning, you're on the air.
What is your name, Claire Clarence?

Speaker 2 (40:48):
Who do you want to give? Clues?

Speaker 3 (40:50):
Lindsey, Gimpy or Corbyn? Uh gimp Clarence has real nice parents.
All right, Clarence, you and Gimpy has have sixty seconds?
Timers arts after the first.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
Clue, Clarence. Right. This is a song from a nineteen
eighties lady rocker lesbian. Last name is the name of
a plane? Another another word? There you go? What's her
most favorite, most popular song? Put another diamond that you thought? Well, yeah,

(41:24):
that's part of it. But what's the actual name of
the song? Like Elvis was the king of what rock?

Speaker 3 (41:32):
And Rover?

Speaker 2 (41:33):
There you go? Jone Jets song has rock and roll
in the title. What's the opposite of hate opposite of hate.
There you go. Uh. This is a song by the
Fresh Prince of bel Air about dancing. Who is the
Fresh Prince of bel Air there, Clarence Smith? Yes, so

(42:00):
a song about dancing? Oh subscribe? Can they give me it?

Speaker 6 (42:07):
I get have a different clue.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
I can't get it off my head. Well, this is
all you're gonna get for me? There, Clarence, can't think
of it? Well, time time.

Speaker 3 (42:19):
One is what you got now, Clarence, listen, you can
win with one. Okay, it's happened, brother, So hang on
the line. Okay, all right, Good morning, you're on the air.

Speaker 2 (42:32):
What is your name? Good morning, you're on the air.
What is your name? Jesse Club, Hey Jesse? How are
you today? All right? Your choices for clues are Lindsay
or Corbyn cor Jesse.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
Sixty seconds are on the clock. Timers starts after the
first clue. We have to get more than one.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
Are you ready?

Speaker 3 (43:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (43:04):
All right.

Speaker 3 (43:05):
This group is a ninety eighties eighties song.

Speaker 2 (43:11):
Ninety song.

Speaker 3 (43:12):
It's three girls and they're singing about boys and how
bad they are. And this is what H two O
does when it travels.

Speaker 2 (43:28):
Over the edge of the cluff. Correct.

Speaker 3 (43:32):
This is a British nineties band and it is one
word title and the beginning of the song they go, oh,
let me ask you when you have a little kid

(43:53):
and they have to there's the tooth fairy and Santa.

Speaker 2 (43:56):
They what in those believe? Okay?

Speaker 3 (44:03):
Now what's the opposite of believe?

Speaker 2 (44:08):
Doubt? Okay? So you got believe Cain is Cain is
or was.

Speaker 3 (44:25):
Honest? I'm sorry, Jesse, time has ran out. We have
a tie, which means nobody wins.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
Well, now you really don't get anything.

Speaker 3 (44:40):
I'm sorry, man, there was a tie and so nobody
wins anything.

Speaker 2 (44:45):
All right, I appreciate it, all right, buddy, see you later.
All right, give you this the one I ended on.
That's a tough one, man. I think you were on
the right path. I think the Caine is part of
threw me off. Cain's brother is able, Kane killed his brother?
What was if? If you know that story? Whatever? So
I get where you're going at with that one. Some

(45:07):
people if if you hear something and it's so out
of this world, you'd be like, man, that is so blank.

Speaker 3 (45:17):
Crazy, yeah, dumb, yeah, stupid yeah. Emf and unbelievable was
the song and when the Gimpie ended on.

Speaker 6 (45:29):
Was this one.

Speaker 3 (45:32):
Yeah, I think you were on the right path. And
this is in the word there is. Sometimes you call
this it's a piece of bait. Sometimes you use okay,
sometimes there's a dance is called this, but it's also
the name of bait.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
Sometimes. I was trying. I ran out of time. I
was going with the the bait part at the end there.
But yeah, when the blak.

Speaker 3 (46:01):
Going, the going gets tough, when the blank, when the
when the going blanks? Yeah, never mind that sounding where
and I was going for when the going gets uh yeah,
trying to get him a say, get yeah, yeah, getting
jiggy with Will Smith, getting jiggy with it.

Speaker 2 (46:20):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no no.

Speaker 3 (46:21):
I can't name one lyric in that song besides no
yeah and.

Speaker 6 (46:26):
No no, no, no, no no.

Speaker 2 (46:27):
We can't do that. Can't just sounds because oh is
a is the phrase? Uh huh, it's not really a sound. Yeah,
well it's all right. The record still still at eight
and a for you and I and still seven for
see what Gimpi has in his four by four oh

(46:48):
calls here that Leo J to give House Oversight Committee
Epstein documents the Department of Justice will hand over the
files on Friday. Although House investigators originally requested the documents
to submitted back today. Request of materials include all documents
and communications in the DOJ's possession connected to Epstein and

(47:08):
his associates, to Gillen Maxwell, as well as files further
relating or referring to human trafficking, exploitation of minors, sexual abuse,
or related activities.

Speaker 3 (47:20):
So we're going to go from one group of government
officials going trustice, there's nothing, to a different group of
government officials going no, there's nothing.

Speaker 2 (47:28):
Yeah, pretty much basically.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
Trust us, there's nothing in there worth seeing?

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Is letting go what else we got here? More STU
states are sending troops to d C. More Republican led
states are sending National Guard troops to Washington, d C. Ohio,
South Carolina, Mississippi, and West Virginia are all sending soldiers
to d C to assist federal law enforcement. In recent days,
President Trump is deployed National Guard troops and federal law

(47:53):
enforcement officers to address crime and homelessness in the nation's capital.

Speaker 3 (47:58):
It's wild to see soldiers on the street. It's wild
that if there's such a crime problem to send unarmed people,
right and to deal with it?

Speaker 2 (48:11):
Right? What else we got here? Oh? Yes, MSNBC invadels
its new name, the Goodness Right. The cable news network
will be now known as my Source for excuse me,
let's try that again, My Source for News, Opinion and
the World, or ms NOW. The name change will follow

(48:34):
NBC Universal spinning off most of its cable channels like USA, CNBC, E,
and sci Fi into a new publicly traded company called Versant.
Ms NOW will be separate from NBC.

Speaker 6 (48:49):
News ms NOW.

Speaker 3 (48:51):
I don't okay, so, like I know people that are
that are dedicated to Newsmax, Fox or CNN.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
I have never heard anybody be like.

Speaker 6 (49:02):
Man, gotta have my MSNBC, or.

Speaker 3 (49:06):
Been to their house and that's on right right. The
others I've been and those are on.

Speaker 2 (49:11):
Yeah. It's usually like it's usually like a secondary sort
of thing. You're like, all right, I got what I
got over here, you know, I'm gonna flip over to
MSNBC and find out what's up.

Speaker 3 (49:19):
It feels like that's a channel you just put on
when nobody can agree what channel it should be on.
In an office that's fair in the break room or
in a bank right right.

Speaker 6 (49:28):
MS now seems like multiple sclerosis now or does you
know some sort of an ailment?

Speaker 2 (49:36):
If they were smart, they do another channel called MS
later MS.

Speaker 3 (49:41):
Maybe we'll have we'll have more on this story on
MS later after.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
Ten right right, MS after a.

Speaker 6 (49:48):
While, MS after dark?

Speaker 2 (49:50):
Uh you lastly here. Teachers from California and New York
must pass America First test. Teachers from California New York
must pass now must now pass a new America First
certification test to work in Oklahoma public schools. The certification
will assess their understanding of biological gender differences in Oklahoma.

(50:10):
Oklahoma's history standards. High school history lessons, for example, include
claims about the twenty twenty election a Land alleged a
voter fraud. The curriculum also covers the idea that COVID
nineteen may have come from a LABLA and removes lessons
on George Floyd's death and the Black Lives Matter movement. Oklahoma,

(50:32):
like most states, is facing a teacher shortage, and it's
offering teachers bonuses up to fifty thousand dollars, but they
must pass the new certification test.

Speaker 3 (50:41):
The part that's the most funny for me on this
is those are the only two states with woke people.

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Speaker 3 (51:27):
For listener emails, you can always email us show at
kmod dot com is the email address to send your
question you have that you need help with. This one
says since the baby came, My partner says, I act
like gaming is more important than family. I like throwing
on my headset and getting lost in a game. It's

(51:49):
my way to relax, But every time I do, I
get grief for checking out or not stepping up enough
as a dad. I don't think it's fair that I
have to give up the one thing that helps me decompress.
Am I being selfish? Or is it normal to still
want some me time without feeling guilty when you have
a kid listener email from a gamer, someone who likes

(52:14):
to game play on their gaming system, and they've had
a baby and baby mama. I'm assuming baby mama, I don't. Actually,
I guess it is because she says stepping up enough
to be a dad, that they're not doing enough, and
that they play too much video games.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
I have not been a gamer for a while. I
used to play probably when was it what are we on? Three?
Or four?

Speaker 3 (52:45):
When three or four came out? That's when I kind
of faded off.

Speaker 2 (52:49):
Three or four of what PlayStation? Oh yeah, yeah, okay, yeah.

Speaker 3 (52:53):
I had an Xbox, I had a Cube, and I
had a PlayStation. And depends you know what game I
wanted to play at the time. Is the system I played?

Speaker 2 (53:03):
And I played a lot. Halo came out, you'd be
playing a lot of Xbox. I used to go to
Halo network parties.

Speaker 3 (53:11):
I'd never done that, where you go to someone's This
was before, like not before the internet, but before like
it was easy to get online. You could get online,
but the lag was so bad, right right, So we
would go to some of that works here her ex
husband and before I even knew her, and we'd go
to their house and we'd set up everybody's Xbox.

Speaker 2 (53:34):
Land parties is what they're that's what they're called. Yeah,
and play connected.

Speaker 3 (53:38):
Together, play for like hours, like till the sun comes up.

Speaker 4 (53:43):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
Playing Halo specifically.

Speaker 6 (53:47):
We couldn't have one in our house before children. Even
when Kevin and I worked as dating. He was like, no,
we shouldn't have one because I will ignore everything and
just play video games. Right, it's a weakness Heroin, Like.

Speaker 2 (54:01):
Most people won't do hero because they're like, I know
it's going to be good. Yeah, I'm gonna like this
way too much.

Speaker 3 (54:07):
Yeah, you don't hear that about cocaine.

Speaker 2 (54:09):
You only hear that about Heroin. Right. I don't want
to do it. I want to get hooked instantly.

Speaker 3 (54:16):
We had an original Nintendo of course growing up, and
we would play it anytime we.

Speaker 2 (54:21):
Weren't outside, like all the time.

Speaker 3 (54:25):
Mario, Mario Party, I'm sorry, Mario Brothers, Spilunker Contra, of course,
Zelda Home Run Derby I think is what it was called.
The baseball game was called, of course, Techmo Bowl. And
then going to college is when I didn't have a
gaming system. My roommate did and we would play all

(54:46):
the time, like but would miss class type of playing. Wow, yeah,
completely irresponsible, but.

Speaker 2 (54:56):
You get sucked into it. Those video game creators, they
know what they're doing. Sure, they know what you're doing.

Speaker 3 (55:01):
But what I was trying to get to is that
I got out of it because I had more fun
with the woman I was dating, Right, I'm just being honest.
It was more fun for me to hang out with
them than it was to play video games and yell
at children.

Speaker 2 (55:18):
Right right.

Speaker 3 (55:21):
Text came in simple communicate set a time that works
for y'all. Yes, it's something that you enjoy, but things
change whenever you have a baby.

Speaker 2 (55:32):
So what they're saying is, all right, Jim, you can
only play from six to eight. It's pretty much treating
this grown man like he's a young child, putting a
time limit on his gaming time.

Speaker 6 (55:46):
Well, set a time, Well, set a time like the
baby doesn't go by a time.

Speaker 2 (55:52):
Yeah, baby sleep all the time.

Speaker 6 (55:54):
Oh babies, you're on baby time? Like, that's not going
to work.

Speaker 2 (56:00):
When a baby's born.

Speaker 3 (56:01):
Sure, the mom has to do the majority of it,
specifically breastfeeding.

Speaker 2 (56:06):
Now's a hold on, hold on now.

Speaker 3 (56:10):
The other partner can help out, but ultimately there's if
you're breastfeeding, there's maybe change a diaper, of course, but
ultimately breastfeeding and napping takes up the majority of the
time for the first what three months, nine weeks, twelve,
twenty four weeks?

Speaker 6 (56:30):
Sure, however long you're breastfeeding for. And if she's breastfeeding.

Speaker 3 (56:35):
Sure, sure, So I don't know if you're like, you're
not treating him like a child. The idea is you
come together and agree right, not like this is when
you will do.

Speaker 2 (56:45):
This because I agree with you.

Speaker 3 (56:47):
There she's a cheating whore, cheatings time to get out
and bang her other baby daddy.

Speaker 2 (56:53):
I mean I normally women right after they have a
baby aren't real excited to have sex.

Speaker 6 (57:00):
Right.

Speaker 3 (57:03):
If you've ever had the city come through and the
easement and tear all that up, you wait a couple
weeks before you replan everything.

Speaker 2 (57:11):
You don't want to jump right back. You're not gonna
put your garden right back in now.

Speaker 3 (57:16):
You're gonna wait to make sure they're not coming back
anytime soon. Reasonable answer, Are you being selfish? Gonna say probably? Yes,
things change a lot when you have kids, when they're
not so needy, then you can start back. Nuclear answer,
Just remember that game system will always be there for you.
Your family will eventually let you down.

Speaker 2 (57:38):
Always keep that.

Speaker 3 (57:39):
In mind when making decisions about where to devote your time.
Not wrong, no, not wrong. That gaming system will always
be there waiting for.

Speaker 2 (57:49):
You until it takes a crap and then you go
on by anyone, or until.

Speaker 6 (57:53):
She takes a baseball bat to it. I mean she might.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
Then that's that's much. That's insanity. That's the reason it is.

Speaker 3 (58:02):
That's a crazy, insane behavior. Absolutely, And it felt like
you almost made that a threat.

Speaker 2 (58:11):
Uh huh, it could be that's not cool either.

Speaker 6 (58:15):
It's it's definitely not, but her hormones could be.

Speaker 2 (58:18):
That's control, right.

Speaker 6 (58:21):
You just never know what you might do.

Speaker 2 (58:23):
No, I can. You're an adult.

Speaker 6 (58:27):
Also, you're an adult playing video games taking care of
your baby.

Speaker 2 (58:33):
What are you? My mom? Adults play video games all
the time. Why is that wrong.

Speaker 6 (58:40):
But he's if he's she's saying he's ignoring their newborn
for his gaming.

Speaker 3 (58:44):
That doesn't mean that's true, though, Right, Just because she's
saying that doesn't make that true.

Speaker 6 (58:49):
Well, he's asking is he being selfish?

Speaker 2 (58:52):
If this is the only thing that he's got that
you know helps him unwind? I mean he could be
out doing right. I'm just saying it could be a
lot worse.

Speaker 3 (59:05):
Tex says, just had a baby and mom is getting
upset he is getting his me time. When was the
last time she got me time since the baby arrived?
I dared to guess she hasn't had any besides maybe
a shower here and there. So yes, she's upset. Dad
isn't stepping up. Both of our lives have dramatically changed.
She wouldn't be the only one sacrificing her me time.

(59:27):
Got a sacrifice, Dad's too. Another text, just like to
grow up? Another one adulting sucks man up? Another text
just time to grow up? Damn talk talk to text
and I guess they're correcting. Is this the only issue
now that the baby is here? Or is it an
issue before the baby came?

Speaker 2 (59:46):
That's a good question.

Speaker 3 (59:46):
Yes, Like you're using the baby as the excuse, but
you've always had a problem with it, never spoke up.

Speaker 2 (59:57):
Maybe that may be the case. Who knows, Yeah, more
than likely. Sounds like the guy likes to game a lot,
so there's nothing wrong with that hypothetical question.

Speaker 3 (01:00:07):
Lindsay, how much time is an acceptable amount of time
to game in a week if you're with someone who
likes to game?

Speaker 6 (01:00:19):
A few hours? Three hours, three hours a week?

Speaker 3 (01:00:22):
Hold on, gimpee, I'm sorry, I mean, I know, I know,
I'm just asking how much do you think would be
an acceptable amount of time for someone who likes to game?
Assuming you would be in this situation, what would be
an acceptable amount of time that you're dating? No, in
this situation, Oh, when someone's like, hey, you should have
a certain amount of time to do this. What would

(01:00:43):
be an acceptable amount of time?

Speaker 6 (01:00:45):
Maybe an hour a day, an hour a day?

Speaker 2 (01:00:50):
What do you think, gimpie, As long as you want,
there shouldn't be any time limit. Are you still getting
your proverbial chores done? You know what I mean? And
when I say that, you know, are you still making
sure like the house is cleaned or whatever? Do you
pulling your weight around the house if you are then

(01:01:12):
there shouldn't be any time limit at all whatsoever. Now,
if things are slacking, you ain't doing nothing. Okay, I
can see where the problem is there. But as long
as you're getting your proverbial chores done, you should be
able to play as long as you want.

Speaker 3 (01:01:27):
This doesn't apply to me, and it only applies to Gimpy.
So I'm gonna ask Gimpy this question. You are dating
somebody new you have for a while, you're in a
committed relationship, did you guys have a conversation about gaming
and how much is an acceptable amount of time of gaming?
What I'm asking is like when you are with someone

(01:01:47):
and you're thinking about getting married, Not that you are,
but you say, hey, how do you manage your finances?

Speaker 2 (01:01:53):
How do you do this? How do you do that? No,
those conversations never come up in any relationship that I've
ever been in and all whatsoever. It's just this little
thing we call life and we figure it out, you
know what I mean, Like when my girl's with me,
I don't play video games near as much, and hell,

(01:02:13):
I really don't play near as much as I used
to anyway, much like yourself, Corby and I used to
game all the damn time and stay up and even
miss work and blah blah blah. I play in the mornings,
maybe a little bit in the afternoons, but most of
my gaming's done morning time while she's still asleep. And
then she gets up, we go and find something to do. Hell,

(01:02:36):
she just recently started joining me in the gaming session.
She's like, I want to play Call of Duty. You're kidding. No,
I played it for the Xbox, but not the PlayStation.
Get the hell out of who is this girl? Here's
a controller. I'll tell you what to do and I'll
help you out. And we sat down and hung out
and I sat there, I, which was a first for me,

(01:02:56):
sat and watched her play video games and mess with anything.
I was just content sitting there watching her drop my
KDI down to nothing. When did you get with Gary
and hook up the electrodes to the doll? How'd you
find this girl? Man? I tell you what, I don't know.
I don't know, but I sure am glad that I

(01:03:18):
got this.

Speaker 3 (01:03:19):
And because she is right there, I spres you to
have sex right after she said that.

Speaker 2 (01:03:23):
My goodness, But yeah, I think as long as you know,
you get your your responsibilities done. Then you should be
able to spend a couple of hours in the evening
time winding down from your day, And the same way
with the woman in here. Whatever it is that you
do that helps you decompress from your day. You know

(01:03:45):
you should be able to spend at least a couple
of hours in the beginning of the day or a
couple of hours at the end of the day. Follow me,
So does that make sense? You know that way everything's
done in the middle.

Speaker 3 (01:03:58):
This text says, maybe she wants you to do the laundry,
do the dishes, clean the kitchen, vacuum. Another one says,
as a dad of kids, four kids under seven, I
still make time to game for me as long as
I perform my daddy duties, I should be able to
do what I want within reason. But also I can
go into I can go into more detail. Sure, grow
up manchild, time to adult like a real adult. If

(01:04:21):
if get to play today, call it a bonus. Games
are not the priority in your life anymore. Uh, gimby,
let's play cod Another one, women are chemically imbalanced after
a baby. Just after a baby. Huh, she is stressed
out and struggling mentally. Just do what you're told for
a while, man, and it will be the best for
both of you.

Speaker 2 (01:04:40):
Promise. Just do what you're told.

Speaker 3 (01:04:43):
Man.

Speaker 2 (01:04:44):
Hmmm.

Speaker 3 (01:04:46):
For the record, everyone's chemically imbalanced, right, not just women.

Speaker 2 (01:04:51):
The struggling part's true mentally, but we're there. They're shedding
an organ. Just do what you're told for a while.
Do what you're told, peasant. Oh god, no, yeah, nowhere
have to live like that? No, man or woman. Children,
that's a different story. Do what you're told.

Speaker 3 (01:05:09):
Listener email since the baby k my partner says, I
act like gaming is more important than family.

Speaker 2 (01:05:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:05:13):
I like throwing on my headset and getting lost in
a game. It's my way to relax. But every time
I do, I get grief for checking out or not
stepping up enough as a dad. I don't think it's
fair that I have to give up the one thing
that helps me decompress. Am I being selfish? Or is
it normal to still want some me time when you
have a kid, Lindsey.

Speaker 6 (01:05:33):
Yes, you're being selfish. Games are now a luxury and
when you have the time, you can spend it playing
your games. But what your wife right now wants is
she wants her mean time she's jealous of you playing games.
Maybe she wants to play games, Maybe she wants to

(01:05:55):
chill out and relax and do what she wants. But
right now she is so focused on this new baby,
your child too. She wants you to be involved in
what she's doing with the baby.

Speaker 2 (01:06:06):
Too, called jeff Ensley.

Speaker 6 (01:06:10):
D whatever. She just doesn't want you to be checked out.
She wants you to be involved in it as well,
whether she's got it handled or not. She wants you
to be there because it is your child too, and
she wants that family unit. Because yes, she is struggling
mentally and she's totally jealous while she's doing things with

(01:06:32):
the baby, you are not. That's what it is. So yeah,
for a little while, it's gonna be a little nuts.
So don't do as you're told, so to speak, but
just be there. You know, you're a unit, you're a partner.

(01:06:54):
Be her partner. And again, games are a luxury, so
there's gonna be time for you to have that luxury
again and just be there for her. Just understand.

Speaker 2 (01:07:06):
That's it easy, gimbi, I get it. Man. Everybody needs
their me time in some form of the other. I'm
a fan of why don't you get up early before
going to work and you can get your gaming time
in there. That's what I do, and I've been doing

(01:07:26):
it for many years and it seems to work out
for me, you know, or at the end of the day.
You know. Again, this goes back to get your proverbial
chores done first. I'm not saying that taking care of
children's is a chore, you know, whatever it's it's just
a phrase. Man, don't don't get all bent out of
shape about it. But get your proverbial chores done and

(01:07:49):
then you be all right. You know, you get your
meat time. Mama can have her me time as well,
read a book, or I don't know, do laundry or whatever.
Women do you think women laundry to relax. I'm just
messing around, but that everybody needs. They take her a
vacuum for her birthday. I'm sure she'll love it. Right,

(01:08:09):
Merry Christmas, here's a crock pot. Everybody needs their meantime.
Everybody does. You guys will figure it out. Here's the
thing for you. Everything's going to work out the way
that it's supposed to. Regardless.

Speaker 3 (01:08:26):
This might be the Beck's best text, and I think
I agree with it. Should have worn a rubber, my guy.

Speaker 6 (01:08:33):
There you go.

Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
If you're unaware of the responsibilities that come when having
a kid, then that's on you, right, you should have
been aware. I really get annoyed when people are like,
nothing's gonna change when I have a kid. Good luck,
everything changes at least for one of you. So yeah,

(01:08:55):
if you didn't want a kid and all the things
that come with that, then maybe you shouldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:08:58):
You should have worn a rubber.

Speaker 3 (01:09:00):
There's also this thing that happens a lot in relationships.
Somebody in a relationship has to be the primary.

Speaker 2 (01:09:06):
It's just the way it works.

Speaker 3 (01:09:08):
And sometimes the primary tells the other person what to do,
or it's interpreted as they're being told what to do.
Because somebody is the primary, somebody's the person that kind
of sets the agenda for everything. If it's willy nilly
and nobody does that, then who what do you do?
It's like mowing the lawn, Hey, it's you. You you
want to be the person that mows the lawn. Hey,

(01:09:28):
you want to be the person that does laundry. Hey
you want to And that's kind you got to figure
that out. And some people in relationships float through it
and then they have a kid and they really have
to start assigning responsibilities.

Speaker 2 (01:09:37):
But if you choose to be.

Speaker 3 (01:09:38):
The primary woman, then that's on you. You can't expect the
other person to just come along with you unless you
discuss it. You gotta have that communication. You got to
talk about it. And it's not being told what to do.
There are things to do to keep a house functioning,
and if you want a partner that plays a part

(01:09:59):
in that, you should do that. If you don't, and
with all that being said, if you want a game, game,
but everything's different. That's the part that I never understand
about having kids and men struggle with this dramatically, is
that a woman has nine months to come to terms

(01:10:20):
with it, has nine months of thinking about it every day,
every moment, NonStop. A guy doesn't, right, it's just not
carrying it. Just one day there's a baby there. I'll
never forget when my both my children this happened, and
standing outside the waiting room in scrubs waiting to come,

(01:10:43):
I'm just waiting for my wife.

Speaker 2 (01:10:46):
It was.

Speaker 3 (01:10:46):
There was so much anticipation on a way different level, and.

Speaker 2 (01:10:51):
Then there was just this baby for my wife.

Speaker 3 (01:10:53):
She'd already been with it and connecting with it for
nine months. There's no way for a dad to do that.
So there's a there is a psychological blockage that is
occurring that you got to come to terms with, and
women sometimes just expect the man to get with it.
It's like buying a new car. You don't know how

(01:11:16):
to do anything. When you get a new car, you
don't even know how to do anything. Or a woman's
been thinking about it NonStop for nine months.

Speaker 6 (01:11:24):
True, but I think I think that guys do connect
a little bit. They go to the ultrasounds, they go
to they field baby's kicking.

Speaker 3 (01:11:33):
They read it's an appointment, but you can't do ah.
Not every guy does that, And you don't know when
it's kicking. You have to be wait to be told
that it's happening, and going to an ultrasound is an appointment.
I'm just being honest. The woman's highly anticipating it, and

(01:11:54):
maybe the guy is to see it, but not like
the woman. They want to know who's kick in their inards.
A guy's like, yeah, I want to see if we'll.

Speaker 2 (01:12:04):
See if if it's a boy, how big? Yes, Yes,
it's just not the same.

Speaker 3 (01:12:12):
There's a psychological disadvantage for the father when the baby's born,
and the women just expect men to be at that cadence.

Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
I don't think that's fair.

Speaker 3 (01:12:23):
But with all that being said, if you want someone
to make you French toast every morning, find someone that's
gonna make you French toast. Maybe have that conversation before
you decide to get knocked up or you decide to
knock someone up.

Speaker 2 (01:12:34):
All right, we gotta take a break. We'll be back.
Listener to email.

Speaker 3 (01:12:36):
You can always email us show at kmod dot com.
This email says, I'm at the point where I I'm
at the point where I want to walk away from
my marriage. My husband's porn has gotten out of control.
He hides it, lies about it, tells me I'm overreacting.
I feel like I'm not even in the running anymore.

(01:12:57):
I'm angry, I'm embarrassed and exhausted. Is porn a deal
breaker or is it just something wives are supposed to
live with. I think the most important question here is
what kind of porn?

Speaker 2 (01:13:13):
Right when you first said it, it sounded like he was
making porn. Right, maybe he is. My husband's porn is
getting out of control. Well, tell him to dial back
on the only fans a little bit. But if it's
making money, I mean, porn's terrible until you start seeing
his page actions.

Speaker 3 (01:13:31):
Right, oh right, Gimbi, I'm gonna ask you a question
again that I asked you in the last segment. Did
you with your current partnership discuss porn?

Speaker 6 (01:13:40):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (01:13:40):
No, lindsay, did you and your husband discuss porn? And
if he watches it or how much?

Speaker 6 (01:13:48):
Trying to think back twenty one years, Maybe probably came
up in a conversation, but there's you know, if they're like, no, real,
we don't have any rules about it or anything.

Speaker 2 (01:14:04):
Like that, well, they'd be your rules, to be honest.

Speaker 6 (01:14:08):
Yeah, probably if he did watch it.

Speaker 3 (01:14:10):
You want to twist your relationship up today, ask your
partner how much porn they watch?

Speaker 2 (01:14:15):
Yeah, and then what kind.

Speaker 3 (01:14:19):
Hey, babe, do you watch porn? Guys, we're gonna ask
that to the girl. Be prepared to be asked back, right, Yeah,
and vice versa.

Speaker 2 (01:14:28):
I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:14:31):
I don't know, my wife asked me. I'd go yeah, right,
for the show.

Speaker 2 (01:14:36):
Of course, to research, Uh, you've sure been doing a
lot of research midgutes lately.

Speaker 3 (01:14:44):
You are in the bathroom a long time. Wow, that's
where I do all my work. My best work happens
in there. Watching porn a deal breaker.

Speaker 2 (01:14:57):
I can't see where for some people it would be
like because there they don't feel And I think that's
where this lady is. She feels like unwanted by her
old man, you know, because he's too busy watching you know,
two girls, one cup for what happened? Maybe yeah, we
don't know, but nonetheless, ah, and I get that. I

(01:15:19):
get that. I guess would you feel unhunted if your
lady was watching more porn and you know, dealing with you?

Speaker 3 (01:15:28):
I think this question is what you're saying is too
black and white.

Speaker 2 (01:15:33):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:15:34):
If we're having sex at the amount that I want, okay,
then no okay. But if we are not, and there's
no intimacy of any kind, then yes, I get that.

Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
I think that's probably the case for a lot of people,
because well, we're not having any sex because you're too busy,
you know, rubbing it out to these hot blawns here,
you know, which I can see how that would make
somebody feel unwanted.

Speaker 3 (01:16:04):
Yeah, right that I'm not blonde, right, my body doesn't
look like that, right, exactly? That person looks like they've
never had children. Right, that person looks doesn't look like
they have multiple jobs.

Speaker 2 (01:16:19):
So yeah, I think you're right.

Speaker 3 (01:16:22):
Stek says, I travel a lot and told my wife
I do watch porn when I'm gone. She doesn't like
that and thinks porn isn't necessarily bad, but watching other
women is. So she has agreed to making some for
me and her just to watch ourselves when needed. I
get to watch porn and get to have a great
time making it win when full disclosure, I don't want

(01:16:43):
to see me having sex. I'm just being honest, all right.
So if she's making porn by herself, Okay, I can't
speak for this guy, it's not the same.

Speaker 2 (01:16:54):
It really isn't. It really isn't. You. You said it's
gonna sound terrible, But you see that woman every day.
You've probably seen her clean house naked, right, which sounds
great until they've been in now scrubbing the toilet, you know,
and you're like, oh god, uh, but the with the

(01:17:14):
with the porn, You don't. You don't see that unless
you're watching the same video over and over and over
and over and over and over again. Oh.

Speaker 3 (01:17:23):
This text says it's just porn. At least he's not
out there sleeping with him. Take a trip to Patricia's
and spice things up, get you, get you back in
the running.

Speaker 2 (01:17:32):
If that's what you want, it's right. They're open early
and stay late, seven days a week at all four locations.
You can visit him on Instagram at Patricia's Gift Shop.

Speaker 3 (01:17:41):
The idea that you're just a few articles of lace away, right,
feels like not accurate statement.

Speaker 2 (01:17:49):
What do I know?

Speaker 3 (01:17:53):
Reasonable answer? This sounds like an issue for a pro.

Speaker 2 (01:17:56):
If it's to.

Speaker 3 (01:17:57):
The point you're considering leaving, a counselor's probably the last resort.
Nuclear answer might be time to out freak him. Tell
him you can only get off by slapping his junk
with a spiky leather strap while he eats a chocolate
dipped banana.

Speaker 2 (01:18:15):
The person's not wrong. It might unleash some new kinks
that you didn't know that you were into.

Speaker 3 (01:18:21):
Yeah, the problem with that is be careful what you
ask for.

Speaker 6 (01:18:26):
Right. I'm like, it's about.

Speaker 3 (01:18:28):
Time, Right, I've been wanting a chocolate banana forever, which was.

Speaker 2 (01:18:35):
The weirdest dessert ever. Yeah, they really are people like,
do you want a chocolate dipped banana. I'm like, why, Yeah,
those are only good around like fair time. You don't
see a lot of people just, you know, open up
their fridge on a random Tuesday and pull out a
chocolate dipped banana. But right, that's just me.

Speaker 3 (01:18:50):
It's when you go to a place because I always
tell when we stay at hotel it's our anniversary, and
they give you chocolate covered strawberries. I'm like, that's so lazy.
That's so lazy. It's so cliche. There ain't nothing fancy
about a chocolate dip strawberry. Congratulations, you bought a bag
of toll house and double boiled it.

Speaker 2 (01:19:08):
If that, probably just opened the package of chocolate dip
strawberries in place to monitor.

Speaker 3 (01:19:13):
It's just strawberries and chocolate. You can do the same
with a regular strawberry and a piece of chocolate. Pop
it in your mouth, eat the strawberry. It tastes exact
same because it's always hard and brittle. I'm getting off topic.
A listener email. I'm at the point where I want
to walk away from my marriage. My husband's porn habit
has gotten out of control. He hides it, lies about it,

(01:19:36):
and then tells me I'm overreacting. I feel like I'm
not even in the running anymore. I'm angry, embarrassed, and
honestly exhausted. Am I wrong for thinking porn is a
deal breaker? Or is it just something wives are supposed
to live with?

Speaker 6 (01:19:49):
Lindsey, So, no, I don't think we have to live
with it, but I feel like he has definitely got
an addiction if he's hiding it and lying about it,
so clearly it is a problem. Because once you hide

(01:20:09):
and lie about it, it's like an alcoholic who's hiding
and lying about it. Then it's a problem. And now
it is a problem. And maybe she doesn't want to
have sex with him now because she's so turned off
by his addiction. So mentally she's just not there. That's
why she's like, I'm ready to walk away from this marriage.

(01:20:30):
So she's they're probably gonna have to go talk to
a counselor first. Don't walk away from it. Talk to
someone with him first. He's gonna have to admit that
he's got a little addiction problem going on, and maybe
try watching it with him. Who knows, but I think

(01:20:51):
definitely they're gonna have to see a counselor first.

Speaker 2 (01:20:54):
Gimby. I don't know about seeing a counselor I at
least talk it out. The fun thing about that is,
whether it's porn or alcohol or chicken wings or whatever,
the guy's gonna do it regardless, Right, He's going to
eat his wings at work, He's going to watch his
porn while he's at worker when she's not around, or

(01:21:15):
whatever the case is. You know, I would consider this
much like the video game guy from the first email,
where like this is probably probably all he's got, that
kind of you know, I don't know that brings them
joy in life, but you know it's one of the
last things. Yeah, let him do it. It'd be fine.

(01:21:36):
Is he out there banging other brons? Probably not. Is
he not having sex with you? I don't know. Maybe
if you weren't nagging at him all the time, we
wouldn't have this problem. I think it could be worse.
He could be smoking crack. That's it. Somebody textans said,

(01:21:57):
didn't they ban porn here? No?

Speaker 3 (01:22:00):
They made you have to show an ID and submit
your driver's license, but they didn't ban porn.

Speaker 2 (01:22:07):
And what's porn? Right?

Speaker 3 (01:22:10):
Some people think swimsuits is porn. Some people think in
Abercrombie catalog is porn. So I'm not sure what porn
we're talking about. I don't agree that if you're hiding it,
that means you have an addiction. If you eat McDonald's
when your wife is asked you not to eat McDonald's,
do you have a McDonald's addiction?

Speaker 6 (01:22:30):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:22:31):
Right, we all do those little things that we hide
from our spouses. That doesn't mean you're an addict for
those things. Now that with other things. Maybe maybe he
does that because you've yelled at.

Speaker 2 (01:22:40):
Him for it.

Speaker 3 (01:22:43):
And I always love this attitude of like, he needs
to do this. They need to go to she needs
to go to therapy, She needs to figure out how
to do this, how to deal with this. She's the
one struggling with this happening. Does the wife get to
dictate what happens in the relationship? This is the same
thing as before. Does the wife get to dictate what

(01:23:05):
happens in the marriage? Do either one of you agree
or disagree with that?

Speaker 2 (01:23:11):
I don't think so.

Speaker 3 (01:23:12):
No, Okay, So then she can't decide what they're gonna do, right.

Speaker 2 (01:23:15):
Neither one of them, man or woman, husband or wife
can should dictate what happens.

Speaker 6 (01:23:22):
Is this Is it a conversation that they've had before, Like, hey,
you know, just like the whole French toast thing. If
you want your partner to make your French toast, if
you don't want your partner to watch or partner watching porn,
then you have that conversation.

Speaker 2 (01:23:36):
Right.

Speaker 3 (01:23:36):
It's it's not the porn, it's hey, I've expressed this
dislike that's happening, and you're continuing to.

Speaker 6 (01:23:41):
Do it exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:23:42):
That's a whole nother thing. What he's doing is irrelevant.
But if you have contempt for him, which it sounds
like you do, you have to figure out how to
undo that, right he can't. It will when he stops
doing porn, then it'll be he doesn't take the trash out.
It just the contempt changes to something else. Once contempt

(01:24:05):
is entered into a relationship, it's hard for it to
come undone. It's like cheating, right you when someone cheats
you have contempt for them, It's hard to undo it,
right Yeah, uh, all right, you can always email us
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Speaker 2 (01:24:37):
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(01:24:57):
do it every week. This time time to tell the truth.
This is your opportunity to ask anything you want. Just remember,
keep it clean, no bodily fluids, nothing sexual, and don't forget.
We can and will pass not a question. Let's open
up the phone lines. Here's Corvin in the gang with
all the truth you're going to need.

Speaker 3 (01:25:14):
All right, I put this first question on the kmody
Instagram searcher a nine seventy five kmo d. Would you
rather receive ten million dollars or meet your true soulmate,
the one who loves you unconditionally brings out the best
in you stays loyal through every storm and chooses you
for life. Ten million dollars or your true soulmate, Lindsey.

Speaker 6 (01:25:40):
Do I have the life that I have right now?

Speaker 3 (01:25:43):
The question is ten million dollars or meet your true soulmate?

Speaker 6 (01:25:47):
Ten million dollars because I'm happy with the life I
have right now. I feel like I already have my soulmate.
So give me a ten million, and we're gonna splurt
my fault.

Speaker 2 (01:26:02):
This is my fault. You are unattached to someone.

Speaker 6 (01:26:06):
Okay, ten million. I still like. Ten million dollars is
life changing. I can invest it, and if I'm meant
to be with the person I'm gonna be with, I'll
find them eventually. I will find them.

Speaker 2 (01:26:24):
Gimbi ten million dollars. Soul makes don't exist. That's all
that there is to it. They really don't. I mean,
people are compatible or they're not. You know, you're gonna
find that somebody that you know, Yeah, they'll love you unconditionally,
be there three for the ups and downs. But does
that make them your soul mate? Our souls really bonded
from the very beginning of creation? Probably not? Probably not,

(01:26:48):
So just give me my ten million dollars. Was it
ten million or six? Ten million? Yeah, give me my money.
We'll be all right.

Speaker 3 (01:26:56):
I'm labeled as the crusher, weird. I know what you're
gonna do. What I'm working on it? Ten million dollars.
I can buy a chef. I can buy a dog.
They're pretty loyal.

Speaker 2 (01:27:14):
Right, yeah, right.

Speaker 3 (01:27:16):
I can buy a housekeeper, like what do I I
can buy a therapist, right.

Speaker 2 (01:27:22):
I can get all those other things.

Speaker 3 (01:27:26):
I love my wife. That's not what this is about.
This is a hypothetical question. If you don't have a
partner and you're presented with this opportunity, what are you
taking ten million dollars.

Speaker 2 (01:27:37):
That's a lot of money. You live off of ten
million dollars for quite some time, even after buying a chef,
and I'm a housekeeper in a house and a boat
and all that other jive, and still have plenty of
money left over. Who I ain't buying a boat? You
know what. I don't want the hassle. I'll put a
poll in, all right, but I want the hassle of
a boat. I get it. Well, whatever you know, that
luxury item is, whatever it is that looks for you,

(01:28:00):
looks like to.

Speaker 3 (01:28:01):
You nine seventy five Kmody on Instagram. If you want
to give your thoughts on that, If you were on
an adult site and the person in the thumb nail
was a friend or someone you know, would you click
and watch?

Speaker 6 (01:28:15):
Yeah? I would? Would Would they know that I'm watching?

Speaker 5 (01:28:21):
No?

Speaker 6 (01:28:22):
Yeah, probably gives.

Speaker 2 (01:28:28):
You know. At first, I was like, well, it depends
on who it is, right, I don't want to see Corbyn,
you know, be the star of his own show. Well
that's too late. Yeah, right, But the reality of it is,
curiosity is going to get the cat. Yeah, man, I'm

(01:28:49):
going to Yeah, more than likely, I'm going into watch.
Now how long am I going to watch? Am I
going to watch the entire video from beginning to end?
Probably not, but I'll at least click on it and
take a take a gander.

Speaker 3 (01:29:04):
Yeah, I think curiosity for sure. I'm probably not going
to notice right away usually people in porn previews are
in compromising positions, but maybe after I click on it.
But I'm gonna change the question because I'm curious. Is
there someone you wouldn't want to see like you not
clicking on it, like your pastor.

Speaker 2 (01:29:32):
Ah.

Speaker 6 (01:29:32):
But then again, because I'd have to see it to
believe it like that. No way, that's not that's not
my path, No way, oh it is, and then i'd
have to exit out. But a family.

Speaker 2 (01:29:50):
Member how deep?

Speaker 6 (01:29:52):
Oh? Any we're I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:29:55):
Really we're talking about your mom. So when you say family,
are we talking about even a.

Speaker 6 (01:30:00):
Cousin blood yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:30:01):
Or non blood?

Speaker 6 (01:30:02):
Ah?

Speaker 2 (01:30:04):
Like a friend that's so close it's family?

Speaker 6 (01:30:06):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:30:06):
No? Like in law yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:30:09):
In laws no? Yeah, no, if I saw my sister
in law, no I'm not clicking on that.

Speaker 2 (01:30:14):
No, not even see how freaking dicky?

Speaker 6 (01:30:20):
No, I have a pretty good idea.

Speaker 3 (01:30:21):
No, you have an idea, but then you have evidence
that's a very different, gibbie.

Speaker 2 (01:30:26):
Right, uh yeah, definitely family member. Like I'm not gonna
watch my mom or my aunt's or grandma's you know,
dad's brother, any family at all? Whatsoever? My daughter? You know,
no chance? No, no, no, no, no, no no. But
outside of that, yeah, I'm pretty much open. You know,
I'll watch it.

Speaker 3 (01:30:47):
Yeah, immediate family. What about your partner? Like you didn't know?

Speaker 2 (01:30:54):
Oh and you stumbled across this?

Speaker 3 (01:30:58):
Are you clicking on it to see how recent?

Speaker 6 (01:31:03):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (01:31:03):
Right? What was the upload data? Watching it? No matter?

Speaker 6 (01:31:07):
Watching it?

Speaker 2 (01:31:09):
Yimpy? Yeah, I think I would as uncomfortable as that
would be in as many questions that would be raised
up after that. Yeah, I'm definitely definitely watching. Yeah, you
never know, you might open up again some kinks that
you didn't know that you had.

Speaker 6 (01:31:23):
And depending on the timestamp and if they're alone in
the video, whatever you might be calling Jeff Pensley.

Speaker 3 (01:31:32):
There's a little bit of shrungers cat here, like do
you love them less right if you watch it regardless
of what they're younger or whatever, or do.

Speaker 2 (01:31:43):
You just not open it?

Speaker 3 (01:31:45):
It existed this whole time, right, right, So why would
you torture yourself? You are then implementing the chaos into
your life.

Speaker 2 (01:31:57):
I would not watch.

Speaker 3 (01:31:58):
I don't need that, won't it will only damage my life.

Speaker 2 (01:32:02):
It won't enhance my life, right, Hey.

Speaker 6 (01:32:05):
Might enhance your life. Nope, I didn't know they did that.

Speaker 2 (01:32:08):
Nope.

Speaker 6 (01:32:09):
No, it looks like fun.

Speaker 2 (01:32:10):
No, right, and then you get mad because they never
do that. Right, that's a thing. That's a real life thing.
I didn't know you were in people gain bangs.

Speaker 3 (01:32:22):
Again, you're only asking for problems by opening and watching
the video of your partner in a porn regardless of
when they did it because you're gonna want to know
a bunch of questions.

Speaker 2 (01:32:33):
You're gonna have it.

Speaker 3 (01:32:34):
We need the answers. You won't let it go rather
than like it didn't exist, that was a dream. I
never saw it.

Speaker 6 (01:32:42):
I think you're gonna have questions. Even if you don't
watch it. It's gonna bother you until you do watch it.

Speaker 2 (01:32:48):
So you just gotta go ahead, get like actual that
comes between two people, You're like, just do it and
get it over.

Speaker 6 (01:32:54):
Once it's out there, you know that it's in existence.
It's gonna bug you.

Speaker 3 (01:33:00):
If you watch it, the memory's there. If you don't
watch it, it never existed. You will forget about it.

Speaker 2 (01:33:06):
That's like when you.

Speaker 3 (01:33:07):
Do something work and you think you're in you're embarrassed
to come back to work because you think all these
people are thinking about this and your mistake. No, people
got their own stuff. They forget about your mistakes. So
from my mind, you would if you didn't watch it,
you'll easily forget.

Speaker 2 (01:33:22):
Now if you're you can't let go.

Speaker 3 (01:33:26):
Sure, I think you're right right, Mary bang Kill, Rosie O'Donnell,
Rosie perez Are, Rosie Huntington.

Speaker 2 (01:33:36):
Whitley, Hubba hubba that's all I have to say, get
out of here. Well, how is this even a competition?

Speaker 6 (01:33:44):
Hubba Rosie Whitley, who's that.

Speaker 2 (01:33:49):
She is an English model and actress who has worked
with brands like Berbery and abercrime.

Speaker 3 (01:33:54):
Yeah's thirty eight years old, compared to Rosie Perez, who's
got to.

Speaker 2 (01:33:59):
Be sixty but still giggity.

Speaker 3 (01:34:04):
And Rosie o'donald, who's got to be seventy.

Speaker 6 (01:34:07):
Yeah, you're gonna marry Rosie Whitley and Banger whenever the
hell you want to, for the rest of your life,
bang Rosie Perez and kill Rosie o'donald because, oh my gosh,
just to hear Rosie o'donald laugh.

Speaker 2 (01:34:26):
Ever heard Rosie Perez laugh?

Speaker 6 (01:34:28):
Yeah? I know, but still you'd only have to put
up with her one time. Plus she's she's crazy and
they say, you know, crazy ones are good in bed,
So Banger wants gimbi.

Speaker 2 (01:34:43):
Yeah, Rosie o'donald definitely has to die in this situation here. Okay,
she is by far the most annoying and the ugliest
hag out of all of these. Now I get where
Lindsay's saying. You know that Rosie Huntington Whitley. Yeah, you
get to bang her all you want. She's not gonna

(01:35:03):
stay like this forever. Let's see her mom right exactly,
look at her grandma maybe even because jeans can skip
a generation. But she's not gonna look like that forever. Okay. Now, granted,
she is gonna be like that for twice some time.
And I think Rosie Perez is still pretty hot for

(01:35:25):
being sixty. I think she's eyes. So I'm gonna go ahead,
We're killing off Rosie O'Donnell. We're gonna bang Rosie Perez, Okay,
and then uh, you know, we'll marry you just because
she's the youngest out of all of them.

Speaker 3 (01:35:41):
All right, So Rosie O'Donnell overwhelmingly the richest one eighty
million dollars, the model forty million, Rosie Perez twelve.

Speaker 2 (01:35:52):
You know, broke ass Rosie right, well is your twelve million.

Speaker 3 (01:35:56):
So people do this all the time when they think
about they picked the hottest person that they want to
be with. If you get a nice car, it takes
more money. The oil changes are more the tires are
more expensive.

Speaker 2 (01:36:15):
They require more attention.

Speaker 3 (01:36:18):
So if you get the luxury one out of these three,
they require all this maintenance, where maybe Rosy O'Donnell or
Rosie Perez requires no maintenance.

Speaker 2 (01:36:31):
You can tell by looking at Rosie o'donald she doesn't.

Speaker 3 (01:36:35):
Some of y'all don't have the cohones to have an
upgraded model. So I am killing Rosy O'Donnell. Oh man,
I just don't want to have to come to her
devents all the time. Right, she's persona non grata. I'm

(01:37:00):
banging the model Rosie Huntington Whitley. If you need me
to explain that to you, go look her up. And
then I'm marrying Rosie Press. Rosie Press feels like my speed, right.
The model feels like I gotta go to raves and
it's a couple's retreat where on bike rides. I don't
want to do right, go clubbing, or I have to

(01:37:23):
see her with all these you know, twenty somethings.

Speaker 2 (01:37:26):
No thanks, we can bang. See you later. Have a
nice day. Get somebody more your age appropriate. Yeah, yeah,
my octang. Yeah, where you both can sit back and
eat oatmeal, enjoy your morning.

Speaker 3 (01:37:41):
Somebody. Since this is the second time this comes in,
I'm gonna read it because I feel like it's obvious.
Mary bang kill Sidney Sweeney, Jennifer Lopez or Tom Hanks.

Speaker 6 (01:37:53):
I'm gonna marry Jennifer Lopez because she's got the most
money and she's hot. Sidney Sweeney, Yes, oh man, I'll
bang City Sweeney and I'll kill Tom Inks GIMPI.

Speaker 2 (01:38:07):
I think that's a good order to go in. I
don't know j Loo's seems she may have the most money,
but she seems a little cuckoo. She she burns through dudes, man,
she really does. And I don't know about Sidney Sweeney
and her her love life. Maybe she's just too new
for anything to come out right now. But if you

(01:38:29):
google real quick, how many boy for or partners or
whatever has Jennifer Lopez had, She's at least what a dozen?
I mean, she's that you say that in a negative way.
She's got to be.

Speaker 3 (01:38:40):
She's fifty one, I think, I mean, so for her
to have a dozen feels appropriate.

Speaker 2 (01:38:44):
Okay, But then again, you also got a she's only
been married four times, right, but she you know, it
seems like she's been with a lot of people.

Speaker 6 (01:38:55):
Which is not Elizabeth Taylor, right.

Speaker 2 (01:38:58):
But like, what's the dear race? Are they together for
a couple of years. Are they only together for a
couple of months? They're signing a prenup? All right, right,
I'm not getting any of that money at all, whatsoever. Okay, Well,
the Nats, he's we're killing off Tom Hanks. It's all
that there is to it. You know, a good guy,
great actor, but you gotta die because somebody's got to

(01:39:18):
die in this situation. I'm gonna go ahead and bang.
I guess Jennifer Lopez because it's been a lifelong dream
since she came around Old Jinny on the block, you know,
and then Sidney Sweeney just being the youngest out of
all of them, you know, stick around for a little while.

Speaker 3 (01:39:34):
Come on, I mean, I feel like I'm gonna repeat myself.
If you want the upgraded model, the maintenance that has
to go along with it is a lot. I eat
Jennifer Lopez. She's gonna require a ton of maintenance. That's
probably why guys can't keep up with her, because she
has this She just runs in an octane that most

(01:39:57):
guys don't want to deal with. Her and Ben Affleck
got together. He looked miserable all the time. So I'm
just gonna hear me out. I'm gonna bang Sidney Sweeney.
That should be obvious. And I'm going to kill Jennifer

(01:40:18):
Lopez because her and Tom Hanks have equal cash, and
then I'm marrying Tom Hanks. Reliable, trustworthy, doesn't have all
that other stuff except for what the conspiracy theories tell us.

Speaker 2 (01:40:32):
Right when he's off on islands somewhere.

Speaker 6 (01:40:34):
Sure, drinking baby's blood, right right.

Speaker 3 (01:40:37):
His biggest problem is he collects typewriters, feels manageable, fair,
and he's got to be sixty three sixty four, probably older,
So it's not like we're gonna have a real active
sex life.

Speaker 2 (01:40:54):
Tom Hanks is a very giggity sixty nine, See what
I'm saying. Feels like the wiser.

Speaker 3 (01:41:01):
Because if we have a prenup and he dies, I
don't get zero, right, So just saying.

Speaker 2 (01:41:11):
How many times I'm gonna laugh with j Lo? How
many times am i gonna laugh with Tom eggs? It
feels like happiness? Is there this or that? Beach or mountains?

Speaker 6 (01:41:24):
Lindsay, I like both, but I like water so much,
I have to choose the beach. I haven't skied in
the mountains in a very long time. I do miss
it very much, so, but beach Son and fun.

Speaker 2 (01:41:40):
Gimby. I mean, I have beach all day, every day. Man,
I do love me the water in the beach life.
I mean this feels like a push.

Speaker 3 (01:41:50):
Okay, I'm gonna relax in either one. Both are gonna
have great views. I don't see the I don't see
the negative either one. I do love going to Mexico,
so I'll go ahead and pick beach. I like this
if you went on vacation, but once you got there,
you have to walk everywhere, including two and from the airport,

(01:42:13):
train station, et cetera. At your destination. Where are you going.

Speaker 6 (01:42:21):
Mackinaw Island, Michigan. It's an island and you've got to
walk everywhere there anyway.

Speaker 2 (01:42:29):
Do they have an airport?

Speaker 6 (01:42:30):
No, they don't have an airport.

Speaker 3 (01:42:32):
So how do you get from the Because it's said
from the airport, how do you get from the airport
to there?

Speaker 6 (01:42:35):
You take a you take a boat?

Speaker 2 (01:42:37):
No walk?

Speaker 6 (01:42:40):
Got it said once you get there, you have to
walk everywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:42:44):
And it said from the airport to and from the airport, Yeah,
or train station or in this case the ferry dock.

Speaker 6 (01:42:53):
Sure, maybe Orlando, Florida. Then, because everything is pretty close.
When you're in and around like Disney World. You know,
you do a lot of walking and you don't really
even realize how much walking you're doing when you're walking
in those parks.

Speaker 3 (01:43:14):
Yeah, but you're not near the water, no kimp thinking.
I'm thinking Ireland, Ireland, the scenery, so walking would not
be that bad, I don't think anyway, just with the
countryside walking wherever you need to go. Sure it may

(01:43:36):
be a long walk, but I think it'd be well
worth it. Part of me is like Hawaii or Florida
or something like that. But let's go someplace I've never
gone before. My initial thought was New York or Paris,
but the airports aren't close long walk. So I'm picking
something that I've seen online a bunch, and that is

(01:43:56):
Saint Martin. Because they always show those people right there
on the beach letting the jet blow them.

Speaker 2 (01:44:01):
Into the ocean. Yeah, that's fir.

Speaker 3 (01:44:03):
It's not a movie Lindsay promoted at nine. But I
feel like the airport's right there, so I can walk
and we're right there. There's no ifs ands or butts.
Feels like these and then I'm at the beach. Where
where else do I need to go? All right, we
got to take a break.

Speaker 2 (01:44:16):
We'll be back.

Speaker 3 (01:44:17):
What year were you born, Lindsay, nineteen eighty one? Give
me what year were you born? Nineteen eighty Okay, so
that would make Lindsey a millennial. That would maccur generation why,
as it's sometimes known, And this is things that millennials
still believe, even though they aren't true anymore.

Speaker 2 (01:44:41):
College degrees guarantee a good job. Yes, no, not true.

Speaker 6 (01:44:49):
I don't I don't know if I've ever really believed that.

Speaker 2 (01:44:53):
They tried to force you to.

Speaker 6 (01:44:54):
Yeah, got to go to college.

Speaker 2 (01:44:55):
You got to get a degree. You're not going to
amount to anything in life if you don't go to
college and get a degree. That's what I was told. Anyway.
Sure you'll figure out everything by the age of thirty.

Speaker 6 (01:45:13):
Hmmm, kind of. I mean that's I guess, maybe partially true,
depending on where you're at in life.

Speaker 2 (01:45:22):
Same one I had.

Speaker 6 (01:45:24):
I had my first child at twenty eight. I was married,
and I feel like I was working, we had a home. Yeah,
I feel like I was pretty much figured out by then.
For me personally, you haven't figured out, not entirely. And
I'm forty three.

Speaker 2 (01:45:44):
Well, you just said Tony different answers, but.

Speaker 6 (01:45:47):
Yes and no, like you have direction at by then.
I feel like, so though you might not have it
all figured out, you do, I think you're an adult
by then. That's when you become an adult.

Speaker 2 (01:45:58):
I feel like, gim be, what do you think? Nah? Man?
You never stop. You never nobody ever gets it figured out.
You learn some things, but you never You can know
nobody at any age, no matter what, whether you're seventy five,
eighty thirty five, or twenty, nobody can say, oh, I've
got it all figured out. I've got this entire thing
of life figured out. It's nothing but easy trained from here.

Speaker 3 (01:46:23):
Yeah, I think the biggest fault of all of our
parents is them parading around like they had it figured.

Speaker 2 (01:46:29):
Out, when deep down aside, they were trying to figure
it out, just like we are right now. Yeah, you
need to hustle to be successful.

Speaker 6 (01:46:40):
Yeah, I grew up learning that too.

Speaker 2 (01:46:43):
Do you believe that today? Why not?

Speaker 6 (01:46:48):
Because you're bound to make more mistakes if you are
always hustling and you're not really focusing. If you hustle
too much, you're not focusing.

Speaker 2 (01:47:03):
What do you think can be? Uh? Well, what is success? Corbin? Well,
success is measured in many different ways for many different people. Uh.
So to be financially successful, yeah, you should probably hustle
and you know, work your ass off if if you
want that sort of thing emotionally whatever. You know, it

(01:47:28):
just really depends on what you look like, what success
looks like to you. Hard work is that there's a
difference between hard work and hustling, right, I don't know.
Tell me, I think there is. I think hard work
and determination gets you where you need to go and
fulfills those life goals. And then with hustling, you're just
you're just doing it. You're just doing whatever you gotta

(01:47:51):
do to make an extra dollar. And I don't know
if that's really good necessary.

Speaker 3 (01:47:56):
I think hustle in this context means side hustle, okay, right,
not move fast right? Uh and uh, I know a
lot of people think you got to have a side hustle,
and I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:48:08):
I don't agree with that. You're spending all your time working.
You can't be great at both at multiple things.

Speaker 3 (01:48:14):
You can you can be okay, right, That's my argument
was like Travis Hunter, you he can't be both great
at both positions, right, And then I'm also not a
believer that hard work will get you success because I
know plenty of people that don't make very much money
and are struggling paycheck to paycheck that work really hard.
So it's not an automatic guarantee, right, just because you

(01:48:36):
work hard. So yeah, I don't. I don't believe in
that at all. Your credit score is everything.

Speaker 6 (01:48:45):
I hate it that it is, like I yeah, I've
I grew up being taught that, yes, your credit means
a lot, and it still does. You can't own stuff
if you're if you have bad credit, you're not going
to get approved for a bad you know.

Speaker 3 (01:49:02):
Yes, Lindsay's fallen into the title of this segment, which
is things millennials still believe, And you believe.

Speaker 2 (01:49:10):
That that a credit scores everything. Yeah, Kimby, it's not.
It does hurt you, but I mean, if you don't
use credits, you can still get the things that you
just have to work a little bit harder and save
a little bit more and you play page just cash
for your car or cash for your house. You don't
need a credit score at all whatsoever because you've got

(01:49:33):
the finances to back it up. Credit is just there
for people that I ain't got all that money and
they want something extra fancy.

Speaker 3 (01:49:41):
Yeah, I don't believe credit scores everything. It makes some
things easier, but they want people who don't pay right
so they make money. Yeah, so it is, but it
isn't if you want to get finance for a boat
anytime you want, Yeah, if you don't care about that,

(01:50:02):
then no, I don't think plenty people buy cars without
good credit. People have great places to live without good credit. Right,
So I'm not a big believer in that loyalty is everything.

Speaker 2 (01:50:14):
Still believe that, lindsay or do you believe that.

Speaker 6 (01:50:20):
It's a nice quality? But I don't think it's everything,
So where's your stance? I believe that loyalty is a
nice quality to have to have and to find in someone.

Speaker 2 (01:50:35):
What do you think, Kimpi, your dog is probably the
most loyal being you'll ever have in your life. And
even then they still let you down.

Speaker 3 (01:50:45):
Yeah, because I may have a treat exactly, I have
to say.

Speaker 2 (01:50:48):
Yeah, So loyalty isn't everything.

Speaker 3 (01:50:51):
Yeah, I think it's what your definition of loyalty is.
Loyalty with work zero, absolutely zero, the lonely look and
even this probably is a misstep. The only loyalty I
expect from my partner, right, and even that I think
is a hope dream, right, because they're people. Right, you

(01:51:14):
need to be on every social media platform no.

Speaker 6 (01:51:18):
Same more don't because it gets exhausting and you can
really get well yourself in trouble being on too many
social media platforms. You you get in with the trollers.

(01:51:39):
People talk negative about you, and then you can go
down that rabbit hole of talking negative back, and it's
a whole thing you could. You can spend your whole
day talking negative to people. So yeah, and get wrapped
up into it.

Speaker 2 (01:51:55):
Social media is nothing but a cesspool of hate and discontent,
and I could do so much better in life without its.

Speaker 3 (01:52:03):
Bottom line, Yeah, I couldn't disagree more with how horrible
we treat people on social media.

Speaker 2 (01:52:13):
It's so bad.

Speaker 3 (01:52:16):
And the part that I am always confused by it
with social media is that people desire to be the product. Okay,
you are the product that they are making millions on
your behaviors, your moods.

Speaker 2 (01:52:31):
We talk about Big Brother.

Speaker 3 (01:52:33):
It's funny to watch conspiracy theories play out on Facebook
about Big Brother. Right, when they're tracking you and all
your movements and deciding what ads to target you with
selling the fact that you posted about eating pizza. Right,
they're tracking every movement you make, and in some instances

(01:52:54):
even when you don't know. Yeah, social media is the worst.
Everybody's life would be better if it went away, right,
you would have more Well.

Speaker 2 (01:53:04):
I wouldn't get to see pictures of my knees.

Speaker 3 (01:53:06):
You don't care anyway, right, because if you cared, you'd
be over there. Well, I'm in the military. That's different, right.
People went off to the military before and it worked
out fine.

Speaker 2 (01:53:19):
Yeah, they wrote letters my day, right, we wrote letters.

Speaker 3 (01:53:27):
Uh two more, you need to build be a homeowner
to build wealth?

Speaker 2 (01:53:34):
Mm, no, say more.

Speaker 6 (01:53:37):
I don't. I don't. I wasn't. I wasn't taught that.
I did think to myself like that renting was a
waste of money. I thought that for myself after renting,
it's like I wanted to own a home because I'm

(01:53:58):
just throwing money away by renting an apartment, so I
don't own it. I want to own something. So I
learned that for myself, I wasn't taught to own a home.

Speaker 3 (01:54:11):
Kimby, repeat the question for me again. You need to
be a homeowner to build wealth.

Speaker 2 (01:54:15):
No, you do not. No, you do not, because here's
the fun thing about being a home owner. You are
now responsible for anything and everything that goes wrong. Ac
goes out, that's on your bill. Got a hole in
your roof, start a leaking, that's on your bill. All right,
electrical problem, that's on you. I am a huge fan

(01:54:35):
of renting. Because something goes wrong in my house, I
just call the landlord up, let them pay for it,
let them figure it out. Okay, got renters insurance. If
anything goes right, I'm still covered. Okay. And I don't
see how owning a home has anything to do with
building your wealth. You're not making money off of your

(01:54:58):
house unless I I guess maybe if you are renting
it that might be. But even then, if you're renting
it out, are you renting it and making a profit,
or are you renting it to pay the note and
they keep the upkeep on it that it costs to
own that home. I don't think owning a home has
anything to do with stack and wealth.

Speaker 3 (01:55:17):
There are many other ways to build wealth besides home ownership.
I think that is just one of the ways. You
buy a home, you sell it after a few years,
you can make some money on it. You can make
ten grand, you can make five grand. Owning property and
then selling it later is a It stands the test
of time doing that. So I know plenty of people
that have bought land and then sold it twenty years

(01:55:40):
later and made a ridiculous amount of money. So owning
things and then selling them, Yes, but home ownership is
not the only thing. Last one, tattoos will ruin your
job prospects.

Speaker 6 (01:55:51):
I have been told that.

Speaker 2 (01:55:53):
Do you believe that?

Speaker 6 (01:55:54):
No? I don't. Well, depending on where they are, yeah,
I think face tattoos probably.

Speaker 3 (01:56:02):
Yeah, So overall tattoos will ruin your job prospects.

Speaker 2 (01:56:06):
Do you believe that?

Speaker 6 (01:56:09):
Sure? Because I do believe it to a certain degree.

Speaker 2 (01:56:11):
Yes, Okay, GIMPI not at all, not at all. If
you're good at what you do, and you're good salesman
as in selling yourself, it doesn't matter if you've got
a face tattoo or not. I mean, yeah, sure, it
mays listen, he's a great guy, but he's got a
tattoo of a waiter on his face. Well, listen, it's
a Tattoos can be covered up with makeup. That's all

(01:56:34):
that there is to it. They can easily be covered up,
So tattoos do not mean.

Speaker 3 (01:56:40):
Let me give you a scenario. Your loved one has
cancer and you've tried to see all these doctors and
they're like, Nope, you got to go see doctor X,
whatever that name would be. And you get to doctor
X and you're so excited because you know that this
doctor has one hundred percent success rate of curing whatever
can answer. And you show up and their faces covered

(01:57:03):
in tattoos. Are you gonna think they're not good?

Speaker 2 (01:57:10):
I mean, what's gonna go to this doctor? But he's
gotta be I'll still see them.

Speaker 3 (01:57:15):
So I don't agree that tattoos. It depends on who's
doing the hiring, I guess. But ultimately, no, Remember we
thought when Mike Tyson did, were like this guy's dumb.
It's now his his symbol, like that's his identifier. So
I don't necessarily believe that. All Right, we gotta take
a break.

Speaker 2 (01:57:33):
We'll be back.

Speaker 4 (01:57:34):
If you're listening to The Big Man Morning Show, so
you know who Matthew Perry is.

Speaker 2 (01:57:55):
That friends guy.

Speaker 3 (01:57:56):
Yeah, as he got older, like his mouth got really small.

Speaker 2 (01:58:01):
M hm. You see the interview he did not too
far for yeah, not really small. Look it up. Yourself,
you don't believe.

Speaker 3 (01:58:08):
Nonetheless, they've been going after all the people that sold
him ketamine, right, And I can't decide if this is
good or bad the ketamine them going after all these
people because you're I guess if you can prove they
committed a crime, then okay. But it seems it's a
good deterrent for people to sell stop selling drugs. Sure,

(01:58:32):
but ultimately it's the free will of the person.

Speaker 2 (01:58:35):
I'm with you one hundred percent. If they're doctors, right,
I get it. If it's like Joe blow you or
me or random person selling ketemine on the street or whatever, Yeah,
maybe possibly, But there's plenty of hospitals and doctors and
clinics that prescribe that stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:58:53):
Right, But if they prescribe it outside the medical need,
I think there's some ethics violation there.

Speaker 2 (01:58:58):
Maybe so, But again, this goes back the person, the
user at this point, to control yourself, Yeah, to have
that self control of a little too much ketamine lately,
I think I'm gonna have to dial it back.

Speaker 3 (01:59:12):
Well, they've gone after these people, and they came to
an agreement with this woman known as the Ketamine Queen.

Speaker 2 (01:59:21):
But I didn't know who this was. So I looked
her up. Look at this kid?

Speaker 6 (01:59:25):
Oh right, yes, how you doing.

Speaker 2 (01:59:28):
Yes, she's she's like forty three. For forty three, she's
easily an eight or nine.

Speaker 3 (01:59:35):
Oh yeah, And like here's a picture of her without
all that makeup on.

Speaker 2 (01:59:40):
She's not an ugly person. So of course, of course she.

Speaker 3 (01:59:46):
Was hanging around somebody, and I'm sure he made her
feel she made him feel a certain way, right, and
probably pressured him a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:59:56):
So is this like just like a girlfriend or somebody
you had a relationship with.

Speaker 3 (02:00:01):
I mean, they may have had a relationship, but she
apparently is known for the amount of ketamine she had provided,
not like to a lot of people. Apparently she's known
as the person who sold drugs. She pled to guilty
to five federal charges wow with the Justice Department. She

(02:00:23):
agreed to plead one guilty, one count maintaining a drug
involved premise, three counts of distributed distribution of ketamine, and
one count of distribution of ketamine resulting in death or
serious bodily injury.

Speaker 2 (02:00:38):
But again, I mean, just because she's the one, she's
the middleman or whatever, she's the supplier, doesn't mean that
she forced it down his nose, throat, in his arms. However,
you take ketamine. You know, she didn't force him to
do it. He did it on his own free will.
So again that's on him. I can't say, is that

(02:00:59):
I blame it for you know, before.

Speaker 3 (02:01:02):
Anything that happen, right, Yeah, And she's one of five
people charged in his death. He had five different people
providing him ketamine.

Speaker 6 (02:01:12):
This is wild, right, And what does ketmine do for you?

Speaker 3 (02:01:16):
So they see, Okay, So there's some interesting things about ketamine.
They believe that ketamine is the only they can Basically,
it's a hard reset of the brain and they can't
like people overcoming trauma with micro doocene. Who's the girl
that sings that song with Zach Bryan. Her name's Escaping

(02:01:37):
Me right now, a country singer. We've talked about her before.
She admits that she wrote this most recent her recent album,
uh with.

Speaker 2 (02:01:50):
On kettymine. Oh yeah, okay great? Uh not Grace Potter,
uh Casey Muscrew case. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:02:03):
She talked about how much it changed, but it like
takes you to like a ufork. It's a psych you know,
kind of like mushrooms not but yes, same category, different experience.
Ketamine known as special k horse drinqualizer.

Speaker 2 (02:02:19):
That's what I've always heard it as.

Speaker 3 (02:02:22):
Yeah, it's really strong, But there are studies out there
that say that ketamine can help people with traumatic i'm sorry,
serious trauma to reset their brain, to not let their
trauma hold them back.

Speaker 6 (02:02:35):
Okay, So for PTSD.

Speaker 3 (02:02:40):
No think more like, so PTSD is different than trauma, right,
PTSD has trauma in it, but trauma.

Speaker 2 (02:02:50):
Like you were sexually abused by your father.

Speaker 3 (02:02:54):
Now, if you had PTSD, every time you're around a father,
any father, that may be right, or maybe you have
trouble with relationships or things like that. So they're kind
of similar, but they're not from my understanding. I probably
got that wrong. But I don't think there's any rob
problem using it for that reason, you know. But when
you start abusing, it's much like oh, Matt here, that's

(02:03:15):
where it becomes a bit of an issue.

Speaker 2 (02:03:17):
But that goes with any kind of drugs. Yeah, they
used heroin as painkiller. I mean they still use heroin
for painkillers. Yeah, But it's when you abuse it is
when there's the problem.

Speaker 3 (02:03:27):
So I look to see what the punishment is for
those charges. Maintaining a drug involved premise maximum twenty years
right in prison? Really five hundred thousand dollars fine distribution
of ketymine. Because it's Schedule three, the penalties are lighter
than heroin and cocaine, but still serious. Each count ten

(02:03:48):
years finds up to five hundred thousand, and then distribution
of ketymine resulting in the death. Twenty years in prison
is the minimum. Wow, and a million dollar fine.

Speaker 2 (02:04:02):
Wow. So this person could be locked away for a while. Yeah,
maybe cut it in half, good time, you know, I.

Speaker 6 (02:04:10):
Mean she's pretty. She might only serve.

Speaker 3 (02:04:12):
Five, right, I promise a trial she won't look like that. No,
they'll dumb her down, make her look a little more homely.
If you know the punishment for the crimes you did
are going to prison for life, why would you not
take the trial?

Speaker 2 (02:04:27):
Right? Because there's a better chance of you getting off
and not going to prison. I mean, there's got to
have a good lawyer. There's some statistical chance. Even if she.

Speaker 3 (02:04:38):
I can't even imagine what the negotiation would be like,
settlement wise, to just plead guilty. Even if she got
twenty years, you're still in jail till you're sixty.

Speaker 2 (02:04:50):
Three, right, right? Ten years, maybe five years either way. Yeah,
I don't think that she should get in trouble for it.
I don't think any of those people should get in
trouble for it. I think it's all on the user.
You went too far. Well, somebody's got to be held responsible.

(02:05:11):
This is it, Michael Jackson. Where the fucking doctor was
coming in, you know, and in administering the drugs, pumping
him into his veins.

Speaker 3 (02:05:20):
I mean, if you're doing it without a prescription, I mean,
if you're doing providing a prescription unnecessarily, think again, I
think there's an ethics thing involved there twenty years ago.
I mean, if they resulted in death, you should definitely
lose your license.

Speaker 2 (02:05:35):
I'll give you that.

Speaker 3 (02:05:37):
And again, I'm for the deterrent of drugs, specifically opiates,
right because people sell with no repercussion. Yeah, and if
you buy a car that kills your loved one, there's
a repercussion. So why shouldn't that exist in the drug market.

Speaker 2 (02:05:57):
So how come the manufacturers have said ketamine aren't getting
any trouble for it. They're the ones who made it,
and if they would have never made it, maybe they're
on the list, and then they wouldn't we wouldn't have
these issues. I mean, with the opioid crisis, they went
after big you know, the companies that made that, States
did officially, you know, and maybe that should be the
case here. I don't know. I just don't think it

(02:06:18):
should all hinge on just you know, the person who
sold it to them. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:06:24):
I don't think there's a to compare the kem ketamine
to the opiate opiate opiate pandemic or epidemic.

Speaker 2 (02:06:33):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (02:06:33):
It does not is not fair. I mean, categorically across
the board, there is clear negligence on the manufacturer for
prescribing opiates and the doctors that go with it that
kept pushing it. Sure you know that. You know, it's
like it's okay, and now they're hooked, you know, on
on the on the drugs. There's there's a lot more

(02:06:54):
I think that should be on the hook than just
this one hot forty three year old.

Speaker 2 (02:06:59):
Is it because she's not she definitely has some plump lips. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:07:06):
I saw this thing called marriage graduation. What do you
think marriage graduation is?

Speaker 6 (02:07:13):
Well, I know a lot of I don't know if
a lot of states still make you have like pre
marriage counseling. So maybe when you graduate that it's like, okay,
you can get married now, so marriage graduation, okay.

Speaker 2 (02:07:27):
You can be I've plunged out of marriage, so I
couldn't tell you you took a mulligan. Yeah right right,
I'm a marriage drop out.

Speaker 3 (02:07:37):
It is not education of marriage before getting married. Apparently
it is when you are married happily, but you decide
to live separately to achieve some life goals.

Speaker 2 (02:07:52):
Huh. Okay. I don't know a lot of people that
would be down for that sort of thing.

Speaker 3 (02:07:59):
I know two, maybe three people off the top of
my head, two for sure, that have done this.

Speaker 2 (02:08:07):
Okay. I do know an older couple that's done it.
She lived up here, he lived in Oklahoma City. That
was just like a word thing. It's not like we
were trying to, you know, achieve life goals. Yes, it's
easier that way as opposed to traveling an hour and
a half.

Speaker 3 (02:08:23):
Because I know two people that live here and their
partners live in Houston and in San Antonio.

Speaker 6 (02:08:30):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (02:08:30):
Yeah, and they come back on weekends. They have a
place down there and then they come back on weekends.

Speaker 2 (02:08:37):
That takes a lot of trust, yeah, in that relationship
or you know, some kind of you know, whatever agreement
that they have.

Speaker 3 (02:08:45):
Or plausible deniability. Right, No, I'm too damn needy. Yeah,
but too.

Speaker 2 (02:08:54):
Again.

Speaker 3 (02:08:54):
This is why we say, like whatever, I mean, there's
no formula for marriage. Whatever works for you is what
works for you. But I don't know if you can
call it marriage when you live apart. No, it's not
even really a partnership, is it?

Speaker 6 (02:09:07):
I mean situationship?

Speaker 2 (02:09:09):
Yeah, I think it. I think it is a partnership. Still.

Speaker 3 (02:09:15):
If you can be married and your partners serve in
the military and be gone for long deployments, is that
still a marriage or do we excuse it because they're
protecting our freedom?

Speaker 2 (02:09:28):
It's part of the latter half there, it is their
job they're forced to. But ask all the JODI's out there,
you know what I mean? Is it really a partnership?
Is it really a marriage? You know, your old man's
off fucking protecting your rights. I hope you hit the
hope you hit the right button. But they're out there
protecting and serving our country, and meanwhile you're getting bent

(02:09:50):
over by Danny in accounting, always serving or also doing
always like blame.

Speaker 3 (02:10:00):
And the person that stayed back is the philander.

Speaker 2 (02:10:04):
I'd like I think most of the time it is,
but you know you're right when they're overseas. When either way,
when a couple's apart, you just don't And that's why
I said it takes a lot of trust because you
don't know what they're doing and you have to accept
that no matter what, we're gonna make us work. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:10:23):
Yeah, you gotta have blind faith. Ye, But I think
to be in a marriage, you gotta have blind faith, yes,
just in general. Yeah, regardless whether they're here or you know,
two hundred miles away.

Speaker 2 (02:10:35):
True, because you never know what's going to happen.

Speaker 3 (02:10:37):
You can cheat in the same town just as likely
as you can cheat far away. Sure, you can absolutely
be like I'm going to work and then at lunch
someone's splitting her in a half right right, Yeah, and
you have to be at peace with well that'd.

Speaker 2 (02:10:55):
Be on them, right do with your own insecurities.

Speaker 3 (02:10:59):
Yeah, marriage graduation gtf O. My wife came to me
and was like, hey, I mean this has actually come
up with her in her job is where there was
a possibility she may have to relocate a few years back.
And I was like, well, all right, well, I'm not
going to hold her back from her career, she's the breadwinner.

(02:11:20):
She's achieved a lot more than I have. I'm all
for supporting her. And so if she's like, hey, I
have a chance to move to Zimbabwe, then like, okay,
if you think that's what's best for this family.

Speaker 6 (02:11:33):
Oh shit, Zimbabwe.

Speaker 2 (02:11:35):
I mean, I just pulled a city out of my
out of my head.

Speaker 6 (02:11:38):
But I said Zimbabwe, Well, what's the worst that could happen?

Speaker 3 (02:11:43):
I mean, I understand, I understand why you're reacting so negatively.
I didn't say, uh, I didn't say Yemen right where
there's a civil war happening, So I don't I don't
understand why you reacted that way with Zimbabwe.

Speaker 6 (02:11:58):
Ever been there?

Speaker 3 (02:12:00):
No?

Speaker 2 (02:12:00):
Have you no? So then why is your reaction?

Speaker 6 (02:12:06):
I just can't imagine.

Speaker 2 (02:12:10):
Neither can I. But also, it doesn't matter where we live, right,
you know, she moves to Zimbabwe, becomes an African princess,
and you know, as long as she's sending you back, well,
like she's gonna go there find everything. You're resistible. That's
the dumbest thing I've heard.

Speaker 3 (02:12:26):
Throw her whole family and everything away for sure.

Speaker 2 (02:12:31):
Sure, listen, it's been a great run. But I'm a
fucking princess. Yeah, equally happened here.

Speaker 6 (02:12:39):
You need a marriage graduation.

Speaker 2 (02:12:41):
Treated you like a princess every day.

Speaker 3 (02:12:43):
Yeah, but that could happen here. The likelihood of it
happening here is equal.

Speaker 2 (02:12:50):
I ride elephants around here for fun.

Speaker 3 (02:12:54):
I've heard stories of people that get relocated for their
jobs and they have to go to like China or
or something like that, and they live in compounds and
they have security and a driver.

Speaker 2 (02:13:06):
That's to me, that's a whole other thing.

Speaker 3 (02:13:09):
Like if we hey, we're gonna move the family, but
we're gonna have to have a security person with us
all the time, and you will no longer drive, which
actually sounds great.

Speaker 2 (02:13:16):
So you're gonna have a driver. That feels crazy.

Speaker 3 (02:13:19):
Yeah, But life is about experience as an adventure, and
if that's what it is, that's what it is, right.

Speaker 2 (02:13:27):
Get a nice Zimbabwe in vacation out of the deal.
Maybe I didn't.

Speaker 3 (02:13:30):
I didn't sign up to marry my wife with the hey,
I'm marrying you as long as we stay here forever. Yeah,
So that's where my head is with it.

Speaker 2 (02:13:40):
So she's like, job's taking me to Zimbabwe. You're going
right there with her. We're not splitting up. Yeah, I
guess makes sense. I do the same thing.

Speaker 3 (02:13:48):
We're a family. I'm not gonna pull her kids away
from her. Sounds me like the children are gonna have
to learn how to click. Yeah, no, it it's very perfect.

Speaker 2 (02:14:02):
Trope eighty nine ninety three eighty nine hundred and ninety
three miles. That's how far is away Zimbabwe is from.
It's also old Blahome. That's far far. I just had
to look him, like, how far is it? Damn near
nine thousand miles. It takes one day and two hours

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to fly there.

Speaker 3 (02:14:26):
Oh okay, good to see a sea layer. It's just
going for the weekend show my day, that's wid it
is wild.

Speaker 2 (02:14:42):
Yeah, no, I just picked a place. I didn't.

Speaker 3 (02:14:44):
I tried to pick a place that wouldn't be so
fucking judged. But god damn, apparently she's going.

Speaker 2 (02:14:49):
He's like, oh God, Africans, what do you know about Zimbabwe?
That's so horrible?

Speaker 6 (02:15:00):
Just the fact that it's a day and a half away.

Speaker 3 (02:15:02):
You didn't know that? I said, you know that information?

Speaker 2 (02:15:07):
After your reaction, they even.

Speaker 6 (02:15:09):
Speak English, Well, how how are you going to get
get around there? Pack up the whole family and move
to Zimbabwe. What do they eat? What is the weather like?

Speaker 3 (02:15:19):
They eat food? The sunshines there?

Speaker 2 (02:15:22):
The fuck are you talking about? Zimbabwe faces numerous challenges,
including a struggling economy with high inflation and unemployment. Wow,
welcome to America. Political instability, Welcome to Americanizations of rights,
abuse and corruption, Welcome to America. Severe fatigue is also
an issue right, affecting food security. These factors contribute to

(02:15:46):
a decline and living standards and a sense of hopelessness
for many citizens of Zimbabwe. Oh yeah, they're The reintroduction
of the zimbabwe and dollar after a period of using
the US dollar has led to further economic uncertainty. Yeah,
I'm sure Zimbabwe is a good place to live. I

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want to see.

Speaker 3 (02:16:11):
So what does it say what the currency is in Zimbabwe? Well,
it's a Zimbabwean dollar.

Speaker 2 (02:16:16):
They used the US dollar for a while, but they
went back to the Zimbabwean dollars.

Speaker 3 (02:16:21):
Yeah, that's not on here. So let's just say fifty
thousand dollars. Yeah, is how much you make in a
salary and in Zambian money, which isn't the same, but
that would be fifty thousand would be equal to one
hundred and sixteen thousand Zambian dollars.

Speaker 2 (02:16:42):
Okay, so you not Zimbabwe, but yeah, yeah, shiny nickel.
I quit my own oil company in my own hotel.
That movie never gets old.

Speaker 3 (02:16:57):
No, no, no, the Uh yeah, it never does.

Speaker 2 (02:17:03):
Anytime it's on, I gotta watch it. I'll watched it
just the other day. As a matter of fact, it's like,
this is great. I'm laying in bed chilling. I know
I'm gonna be going to sleep, but fucking ah. Euro
trips on a minute.

Speaker 3 (02:17:14):
My wife has a couple of movies that are nose like.
If I'll put it on, she's like no, and uh
that is one and The Town is the other one
like that.

Speaker 2 (02:17:25):
If I stop on it, she's like, no.

Speaker 6 (02:17:27):
Is it because she's just seen it too many times
or she just doesn't like it.

Speaker 3 (02:17:33):
I think, yes, okay, I think she doesn't like it.
And I think my wife's somebody who is not like
a watching movie multiple time person, okay, because I'm like,
she's like, why are you watching this?

Speaker 2 (02:17:43):
I'm like it's good. She's like, we've seen it. I'm like,
I know.

Speaker 3 (02:17:47):
My wife also grew up with uh no TV in
the summer.

Speaker 2 (02:17:51):
Oh yeah, it's sadness. Oh, the same reaction and she
got cancer.

Speaker 3 (02:18:01):
Yeah. And so for her like watching like when we
first started dating, there were movies she'd never seen before.
You know, my kids go to school on the first day,
she never experienced that. She doesn't know what meat the
teacher was like. Oh, she didn't start school at the
public school level. I think to like eighth grade, maybe

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even later than that. So for her, it's like she's like,
I don't need TV.

Speaker 2 (02:18:28):
Right, She's lived without it for so long.

Speaker 3 (02:18:30):
We've talked about it with our kids of putting the
TV away. Do you know what the hang up is
every time we talk about it kids us, I want
to watch TV. Yeah, of course I want to watch
TV for my job, right, And so I'm not going
to be like, well, daddy can watch TV.

Speaker 2 (02:18:46):
Fuck you. It's a hard cell.

Speaker 6 (02:18:49):
Speaking of have you seen the new show on? They
have it on Hulu, but it's called Are You My First? Okay,
So it's kind of like I love Island and the
trashy shit shows that we watch, but it's an island
full of virgins and they are That's what I thought too,

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And they are. Some of these women on there are
like major knockouts like you. They don't look like this.

Speaker 2 (02:19:20):
You can be hot.

Speaker 6 (02:19:21):
And and they're older too, like much older, and a
lot of them like I'm like, they must all be
from like Utah, and a lot of them are. And uh, anyway,
I only watched the first episode, but they are all
looking basically for love so they can lose their virginity

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for the first time.

Speaker 2 (02:19:43):
I don't believe any of that. It's my first time.
I've never done this before.

Speaker 3 (02:19:49):
All Right, So I'm looking at contesting the first guy.
He's from Utah. Okay, I understand, because he's more.

Speaker 2 (02:19:58):
I mean, I would say she is a if I'm
being honest, A seven.

Speaker 6 (02:20:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:20:08):
She's got a butterface, yeah, a horse mouth yeah. Uh Carissa, Okay,
she's cute.

Speaker 3 (02:20:17):
I mean I can't see her face close up, so
I'm I mean again, she's got a great body, nice joke, yes.

Speaker 6 (02:20:23):
And her personality is out pretty outgoing too.

Speaker 3 (02:20:28):
Uh this girl Nope, No, Well you don't believe that
she's a virgin. No, I don't believe she's good looking.

Speaker 2 (02:20:36):
You look like you've been Tasha. Okay.

Speaker 3 (02:20:38):
This girl's yeah, she's probably a seven five.

Speaker 2 (02:20:42):
To an eight five. That's fake. The glasses give it away.
They're too big. They're too big for her. That's the
current trend. Is that what it is?

Speaker 6 (02:20:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (02:20:52):
I don't. I don't. I don't believe it. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:20:58):
Well here's the other thing too out this lindsay that
I think a show like this works with this age group.
They're all about the same age people more than ever
are drinking less and saving sex, and not for a religious.

Speaker 2 (02:21:13):
Reason, just because they don't want to. Yeah, they're just waiting, right,
They're like, there's no rush to do that.

Speaker 6 (02:21:18):
Yep.

Speaker 3 (02:21:19):
So it's not an to me, that's not an impossible reality.

Speaker 2 (02:21:24):
That these people. Now could they be lying? Of course?
How do you value show us your hymen? They're not
going to do it right right right? I think, just
because it's fucking reality to you.

Speaker 6 (02:21:34):
It was pretty interesting though, watching them all come to
the island and some and the awkwardness of them because
you know they're all dialed up and you know they've
had the glam squad dial them up and look really
good inteft, but the way they walk and talk it
is very awkward.

Speaker 2 (02:21:51):
I have one word to debunk all this and all
those other fucking shit ass shows that you guys watch actors.

Speaker 3 (02:22:01):
Well, I mean, once you are on screen, then you're
an actor. So I don't disagree with that any You
just fucking hire actors, all right, here's the deal, aspiring actors.
All Right, I got a gig for you, but I
need you to play this kind of nerdy. You know,
you've been a virgin. Da da da da, that's your role. Sure,
I definitely think there's some of that, but there's also

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people that I mean, you can see it on their lineage, right,
you know, it's too easy now to go and hunt
somebody down and see what their story is. Maybe they
were trying to be on TV or whatever. But there
are plenty of people who go on Love is Island,
Big Brother survivor whatever and see that as a lift
leverage to that next step acting. So I don't think
you're wrong. I do believe this guy's a virgin though. Yeah,

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here you are taking your pr shot for a TV
show and you're wearing your birkenstocks.

Speaker 6 (02:22:49):
So and he even said he was like, he was like,
Rachel's by far the hottest girl in here, and I'm
going to stay away because I know I won't have
a chance.

Speaker 2 (02:22:58):
Yeah, at least he knows his Let me. This girl's
thirty and she's a virgin, and she's.

Speaker 3 (02:23:02):
A cock cocktail waitress. Ye, and a romance romant romanticy author. Okay,
I'm right, smut right, but we we disregarded as it's literature, right.

Speaker 2 (02:23:18):
It's fucking spicy romance novels. Yeah, I don't buy that
at all. A cocktail waitress, a virgin cocktail waitress.

Speaker 3 (02:23:26):
I mean, you can be hot and have jobs that
are known for bad things, like I think it's a
it's a it's misguided to think that an attractive person
has no self control in an environment that is cliche sexualized.

Speaker 2 (02:23:45):
Maybe so maybe you can. But and that's at this
point in time in their life. What about earlier in life,
as they were being raised up, they were still fucking hot,
you know, and there's still those temptations there, and kids
and you know, aren't very good at you know, holding
off temptation.

Speaker 3 (02:24:05):
I think some kids, I think nowadays, kids nowadays can
I mean, I think they can more than ever. Uh,
she's got a horrible ass, dude, look at this, we
got horrible her asses.

Speaker 2 (02:24:17):
Oh that's just terrible. That's that's just that's a terrible shame.

Speaker 3 (02:24:20):
Yeah, look at there's Look how ugly her ass is. Man, hmmmmm,
she's got an ugly ass.

Speaker 6 (02:24:28):
Oh yeah, I'd hate to have that ass.

Speaker 2 (02:24:31):
Yeah, she's I don't understand the eye.

Speaker 6 (02:24:34):
Makeup, but she does wear a lot of eye makeup.
I would like to see. I would like to see
what she looks like without makeup completely.

Speaker 3 (02:24:45):
Yeah, you can never tell. I mean, filters people have
is wild, right, But it does surprise me that there
are versions. I think that you again, you can be
maybe they're attractive and also a virgin.

Speaker 2 (02:24:58):
Maybe they are.

Speaker 3 (02:24:59):
That doesn't it doesn't automatically have to fall in the
line of the experiences we.

Speaker 2 (02:25:04):
Had, and maybe they are good for them. If they are,
I don't believe you still want the fantasy to die. No,
you see the ass on it? Come on, you still
got a great ass, whether she's a version or not. Right,
all right, you guys have a fantastic week.

Speaker 3 (02:25:21):
Thanks for hanging out with us, Cia, Bye bye,