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Welcome Back From The Weekend!!! We Talk About The Best & Worst Parts, The Air Guitar Championships Just Wrapped Up, The California Butt Sniffer Is Back At It Again, We Spoke To An Awesome Listener, Jeff Hensley Stopped By, & Babyface!!!

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I so something happened this weekend. I don't know if
you guys saw the news, but the Air Guitar World
Championships occurred, and this is something that's happened before. I
have the videotists and so you guys can see some
of the performances. And I mean this with all honesty.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
I don't get it. I don't get it. I understand
why they do it. I ain't dogging on why they
do it, but it almost looks like they don't. They're
not really air guitaring. So, for those that aren't familiar,
air guitaring is where you act like you're playing the guitar.
Seems simple enough, yeah, and so, so the way it

(05:00):
works at the Guitar World Championships is you get two
rounds in each one's sixty seconds round one, you get
to pick your own song. Round two a surprise song
handed to you right before the round. Oh I like that.
You don't have time to practice. You gotta think on
your toes. There's also a dark horse qualifier the night before.

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Winners there move into the final bracket along with national champions.
There's now there's qualifying all over the world in America
and then they send your best there. But if you
think you still got it to be a national champion
air guitarist, you can go to this country where they

(05:46):
do this and try to be a dark horse, so
you compete as solos. I didn't know this, But you
can have an air roadie ha ha, Like they're pretending
to be a roadie or you you are pretending that
you have a road No, you you have someone who
is the roady. They're allowed to help with props, but

(06:07):
no bands. No, you can't have like a guy. It
can't act like they're playing guitar. I guess I'm not
sure what an air roady would do. Maybe exchange the guitar.
I don't know what you would do. They walk up
on stage and hand you a fake guitar. Maybe maybe
tune it for you, switch them out if you break

(06:27):
a Sixty seconds is not very long, so I don't
know why you would waste time doing that. You start
your routune within ten seconds either point one finger or upward,
or the music starts. That's how it begins. You can
use props dress whichever way you like. No real instruments
or props used as instruments, and props must be removed

(06:50):
after your performance. No confetti or mess left on stage.
That last one feels like a lesson learned. Yeah, right guy,
too much glitter man. The organizers like, I'm just one guy.
I don't have time to go and sweep up your confetti.
Got people up here slipping on stage, breaking the angles

(07:11):
because you get damn confetti. Judging or scoring is done
on a scale from four point h to six point oh.
No scores below four point zero. So four is the
new one. Yeah, but maybe it's because it's the championship.
They've already gotten rid of the ones, twos and threes,
and they're like, all right, four is the bottom. We'll
take it from there and go Sure. What they look

(07:32):
for originality, ability to be taken over by the music,
or how lost you seem in it stage presence, technical merit,
how convincingly you mimic actual guitar moves, artistic impression, which
feels like all of it, y'all, and airness, not with

(07:56):
an h uh huh with an a air guitar. If
there's a tie, they go to an air off, which
is a sudden death round using a song from the organizers,
and the order is decided by rock paper scissors.

Speaker 6 (08:12):
Of course, that's a very good argument of settled.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
The winner gets a custom guitar, the Flying Fin, and
so there's two sixty second rounds, right the dark Horse,
and the dark Horse, for the first time ever won
last night a right yesterday. It's never happened in the
history of dark Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 7 (08:35):
Due they should.

Speaker 4 (08:37):
They should put it in a big like shadow box whatever,
and then just have an invisible guitar in it.

Speaker 1 (08:45):
I mean that makes sense. You're not playing a guitar.
I don't know why you should win a guitar exactly.
And Angus, the Angus was the guy's name. It was
a air guitar off with some guy from Japan, and
he was the dark Horse. He ended up winning.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
You can see him.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
I think he's the guy with the black paint on
his face, okay, and yeah it looks a lot. There
are times when they're doing this it looks like they're
mimicking masturbation a lot.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
And it's really weird.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
It's almost like if you do the and I don't
know what qualifies you as a judge. I don't know
if you have like I've done judging at barbecue competitions.
You have to go through training. Yeah, you can't just
show up at least the legitimate ones. And so maybe
they do that as well. Here's another weird thing about
the Air Guitar World Championships. They don't release the names

(09:36):
of the songs they played, okay, like to the public
in general, or like, we don't know the song he
played to win. We don't know the song he played
to become, you know, enter as a dark horse. We
don't know the songs like you know the spelling bee.
They tell us the words of the word that won,
right right, right, right, right right. They don't say he

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won with a foreigner.

Speaker 4 (09:58):
Song or you know right, or she played you know.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
Yeah, well keep guns n' roses right, And I think
that that's a giant mistake because there are people that
would hear and go, man, I could slay that on
your guitar, right, I would think, But they don't do
it because again I think these the organizers are quite
lazy and they're like, we don't want to deal with
the copyright. That makes sense, that makes sure, sure, yeah work.

(10:26):
And then here I had this thought too, which is
better air guitar or air drumming. I'm picking air drumming. Yeah, same,
I air drum way more often than air guitar.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
I'm being honest.

Speaker 1 (10:40):
Don't recall the last time I air guitared, but I
know I've aired a drummed more than once in the
last month. I would agree.

Speaker 6 (10:45):
I think that air drumming is probably more common. But
when it comes to a competition style, I think you're
getting more theatrics out of a guitar than you would
a drum kit. And here's my reason why, thinking that
with the air guitar, you can move around the stage, right,

(11:08):
you can utilize the entire stage, you can jump, you know,
you can do the splits. With the drums, you're just
you're sitting there, right, You're pretty stationary now as your
arms are flailing about. Yeah, that's not very showy when
it comes to a competition.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
I don't think full disclosure. Air guitar is not really
entertaining either. It's more comical. It's because it's pretty ridiculous,
and I don't see how air drumming wouldn't be any different.
I think again, I think because you're stationary as a drummer,
you're just sitting there, right, But.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
You can move around, just like air guitaring.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
Like there are drummers that have that whole like exactly
acting a little ridiculous, over dramatic about it, just like
air guitar, I understand. But it's just your arms. It's
just your arms that you're unless you're getting cables hooked
up to you and you're trying to do the Tommy Lee,
you know, spin upside down, watch ug a bottle of

(12:06):
Jack Daniels sort of drumming then, you know, but you
can't use props, right, you know what I mean? So
there goes that idea. Yeah, you just have to suspend time, right,
But there is no air drumming World Championships. What other
instruments and air trombone, trumpet, maybe air trumpet.

Speaker 4 (12:26):
Or a saxophone.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
I don't think so air piano, you're at your words
stationary exactly, but they haven't seen saxophone might be the exception.
Now I don't see a lot of trumpeters running around
the stage. True statement. I think with the piano you
could get away with it. It's not it is you're
sitting like a drummer. But like think of like Jerry

(12:49):
Lee Lewis where he get his leg up on there
and then start playing the piano with his foot. Don't
move the goal post because I tried to do that
with drummers and you said no, because drummers aren't using
their do But I think that drummers, drum drummers do
use their feet to drum, I think is what you
mean to say. Drummers will use their feet to drumming,
just just the one. But they're not grabbing the actual sticks.

(13:11):
They're using it on the kick drum on the base right.
They're not using the actual sticks in the right in
between their toes to drum. But like like I said,
with the piano, man, you could really get into it. Yeah,
I just And by the way, I don't need you
big big bad voodoo daddy fans text it and tell
me the trumpet runs around settle down, squirrel nut zippers

(13:35):
real big fish. Uh yeah, but I wouldn't. I think
that air drumming would be more entertaining. Have you watched
a buddy air drummer? Go what are you doing? And
then correct him? Drumming? I never have.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
No but air guitaring we would, right.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
You look like you're playing a guitar, dude, man the
air clarineto right, the air piccoloo.

Speaker 6 (14:07):
I got a mean session of air flute going on.
Guys can't hang out to air flue.

Speaker 1 (14:12):
Maybe that's what needs to happen at the Big Bus
in Oklahoma, the air flute competition. Why do they do
I don't know why they don't do air guitar at
Oklahoma any of the Oklahoma camps.

Speaker 6 (14:24):
That is a very good question. And Shannon, if you're listening,
she's the one that runs the big old bus, you
might want to think about that. Because you got the stage,
You've got the stripper pole up there already.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
Why not drunk people doing air guitar? Hell, yes, think
about it, Shannon, I know you're listening. Women doing it
in their bikinis just topless, sure, yeah, guys could do
it bottomless. Yeah, Timmy, he was a special EDS kid
at South of Dale Elementary where I went to school,
and he would play the air guitar, but it was different.

(14:55):
You can't use props. Man. You go into the bathroom,
you know the bathroom, You going there, and Timmy's in there,
going I play the guitar with his pants around his angles,
and you're like a god, damn, Timmy put it away.

Speaker 6 (15:10):
That really happened. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

Speaker 1 (15:13):
Man.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
I didn't deal with it.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
I just turned around. I was like, I don't gotta
feel that bad. No child should have to go through that.
Timmy was just trying to make friends. Sure, that's a
hell of a way to make friends. Man, Try that
at the Walmart. You know. Oh, yes he was special.
Well he wasn't.

Speaker 2 (15:34):
Yes, he wasn't being creepy though.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
He just just like you did that as a kid,
but you did it in privacy, So some people, some
people don't understand the privacy part of it for whatever reason.
As long as you're not being creepy about it, you're good. Huh.
It's not like he went into the girls bathroom and
did it. It's not like he chased us to do
it with the big knew of no. I mean he

(16:01):
didn't chase me. I never saw him chase anybody.

Speaker 4 (16:04):
Because you never you never stuck around long enough.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
To watch Corn's like, I'm out of here. To this day, though,
I'll go ahead and put this on the record. To
this day, if I walk into any bathroom and anybody's
playing the air guitar with their pants around their ankles,
I'm leaving immediately, as I am not hanging out to
see what that's about. Are you reporting it though, or
are you just walking away? Question? I never I never

(16:27):
told on Timmy, right, because I was like, ah, when
am I going to go to an adult and be like, hey,
the special egg kid is in there playing guitar. He's
in a real solo music moment with his pants around
his ankles, playing guitar hero before guitar Hero was Yeah,

(16:51):
he was ahead of his time.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
Timmy was renaissance man.

Speaker 1 (16:56):
All Right, we gotta take a break. We got takes
to Rockaholmer. We're gonna give away we've got best and
worst of the weekend. Uh, and we're gonna take your
questions from about family law. For Jeff Fensley, he'll be
in at nine. Being's kind of in that limbo phase
right now and for this like next seven days or
four days or whatever, until we really get into college football.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
They show some baseball, but thecho was.

Speaker 1 (17:17):
In full swing yesterday and they had marble races. Okay,
it was like the most of my kids have ever
watched ESPN ever. And the slippery stare competition.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
Oh, that's always a fun one. It is good.

Speaker 1 (17:31):
Yeah. I watched car jujitsu. Car guts is awesome. Dude,
It's crazy. It's it's it's interesting. At least, that feels
like like a real sport, right you know what I mean,
Like you you're literally fighting to win, right Yeah.

Speaker 2 (17:50):
Yeah, it isn't like marble racing, right, car it's jiu
jitsu in a car. Yeah, in the front seat.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
You get to utilize the entire car, front seat, backseats, belts,
all of it, you know. For the competition.

Speaker 6 (18:05):
Also the pillow fighting, yeah, championship, yeah, which I was like, Okay,
I gotta watch this.

Speaker 1 (18:12):
I mean, this seems legit. Why can't that become a
regular sports.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
I don't know, I don't know. Was there men and
women's division?

Speaker 1 (18:19):
Maybe, I don't know.

Speaker 6 (18:20):
I just I saw it on TV and I was like,
what the hell is this And I turned it over
and it was it was dudes fighting each other and
I was like, okay, this, but.

Speaker 2 (18:28):
They were in their pajamas.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
Interesting, No, they're shorts, not like your typical pillows, I guess. Now.
The whiffle ball games were on two, and that is
a whole other level. It is just a scoch higher
than Beer League, okay, because they're taking it serious. But

(18:50):
the funniest part was the ump behind them plate and
then throwing these balls. And if you know anything about
throwing a whiffleball, you can make it do some crazy
things and the ref like jumping out of the way.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
It's a whiffle ball.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
Bro Right, you ain't gonna get hurt, not that.

Speaker 2 (19:06):
Bad any maybe you do.

Speaker 6 (19:07):
I don't know, but bro what happened wiffleball injury twenty six.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
And watching these guys like step up and they've got like,
you know, gear on and they're like practice swinging, and
I just it's hard to take it seriously.

Speaker 6 (19:21):
I'll roid it out for a whiffleball.

Speaker 2 (19:23):
All like focused. I get it. It's fun, but they're like.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
Swing, swing better, better, better, better, better, swing, and You're like,
what's happening that's a plastic bat.

Speaker 2 (19:38):
Yeah, or is it?

Speaker 1 (19:41):
That got me thinking too, And it looked a little
different than the red bat that I've seen given to kids.

Speaker 4 (19:45):
From play school.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
Yeah, it looked a little more quote unquote legit. I'm
sure there's some people that listen that play in a
woofleball league around here. If that's a thing, I never
seen it. I'm sure it is. You can't just jump
to the chairampionships lens.

Speaker 2 (20:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (20:03):
Yeah, but it looked like was there a debate, like
I like this wiffleball bat compared to this brand? I
don't know. I don't know, but it's a great way
to pass the time when you're like because there was
nothing on I watched yesterday.

Speaker 4 (20:18):
I always thought basketball would have been a thing after
that movie came out.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
No, that was the whole point of the movie, right,
I know, ridiculous.

Speaker 4 (20:24):
It was, But I mean, if you've got whiffleball championships
and car jitsu and pillow fighting, why not make basketball
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best and Worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
that happened this weekend? Worst thing that happened this weekend?

(21:23):
BMMS and whatever that is to eight two, nine, four five,
lindsay what's the best and what's the worst?

Speaker 4 (21:30):
The best obviously going to Arrowhead Stadium on Friday and
watching the Chicago Bears take on the Chiefs. I'd never
been to Arrowhead Stadium. My son had never been to
an NFL game. Now I hadn't been to an NFL
game since college. When I went to school in Minnesota,
my roommate's dad had season tickets to the Minnesota Vikings games.

(21:54):
So I went to one, maybe two, maybe two. We
got the plaguer of going. And so that was back
when Dante Culpepper was the Vikings.

Speaker 2 (22:05):
Oh yeah, over two decades ago.

Speaker 4 (22:07):
Yeah, Moss was still playing. It was exciting times. And
so I hadn't been to an NFL game since.

Speaker 2 (22:13):
And before that, had you been do an NFL game?

Speaker 4 (22:15):
Yes? Yes, I'd seen the Bears play at Soldier Field
once and down at Lucas Oil Stadium one time against
the Colts, and that was it. So you know about
a handful of time.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
That's a large amount for.

Speaker 4 (22:32):
Right. So and I'll tell you what the energy at
Arrowhead Stadium just walking in is. It's magical.

Speaker 1 (22:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (22:41):
And my son just lit up like a Christmas tree.
He was. That's just a preseason game, yes, And I
walk in and and you know, I say hello to
the security and actually, of course you actually we walk
in and you get checking, you know, skin your ticket
or whatever, and of course you're directed right into the

(23:03):
pro shop. It's almost like disney World, you know, you
exit a ride and there's the gift shop when you exit,
so we're looking around. We buy some merch. A couple
of years ago, he had a Travis Kelsey jersey stolen
at school, and so we replaced a jersey, got a
new jersey, actually got a different jersey, and so he

(23:27):
did get someone else. He got someone else number fifty two, Yes, no, no,
a different lineman.

Speaker 1 (23:37):
Uh well, I think fifty two is Creed Humphrey, George,
Carl Loftis, maybe Chris Jones.

Speaker 2 (23:46):
Maybe I'm just naming guys that popular.

Speaker 1 (23:49):
What made him get something other than it's.

Speaker 4 (23:52):
A it's a defensive it's a defensive lineman, defensive end.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
Uh well, it'd be Carl Loftis probably possibly that.

Speaker 4 (24:00):
Maybe that was it. Maybe that was it, and I
have the number wrong, but it was because he plays
a defensive end. And see that's what he wanted to
change it up. And so uh and we got a
really cool six sweatshirt, a T shirt and some magnets. Okay,
And I said, now, if you want to get these items,

(24:21):
now you're gonna have to hold onto this bag. And
he says, okay, you know, so we're carrying he's carrying
around this bag the whole time, go get seats. We
had some friends there, uh, and we're sitting with them
and we're taking pictures. We got so close. We're watching
the guys warm up, and that was so exciting because
we weren't expecting to see any starters warming up, and

(24:41):
we're watching them, and I'm taking video of Travis Kelcey
running toward what I felt like was towards me. Your yeah, yes,
And if you saw him in Happy Gilmore too, he
looks nothing like he did in that movie. The boy
is in shape and just his butt was tight and
he looked amazing. They all did, they all did. And

(25:01):
then I saw on my team, the Chicago Bear side,
and I must admit I was more starstruck to be
on the side watching the Chiefs players because they're full
of studs, you know, and now like TV and movie stars. Really,
but I do have a little crush on Colston Loveland.

(25:22):
He's a tight end for the Bears, rookie number eighty four.
He is hot, and I almost feel like a pedo
saying it because he's twenty one years old.

Speaker 2 (25:29):
But well, that wouldn't make you a petal, I.

Speaker 4 (25:30):
Know, I know, but he's just young, but he's very
good looking. It was just so much fun. Very expensive.
I think one seltzer is like seventeen dollars. Oh yeah,
and there so.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
You get How early did you get to the stadium.

Speaker 4 (25:49):
We got there at four o'clock.

Speaker 1 (25:51):
So did you walk around the tailgating and stead?

Speaker 4 (25:53):
They did? We did, and there was many I was
surprised how many Bears fans there were.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
Sure it was cool.

Speaker 4 (26:00):
There was I like the public tailgating they had.

Speaker 2 (26:02):
They have one that if you don't want to do
your own, you can pay to get into.

Speaker 4 (26:05):
And then we stumbled across like the back where the
players actually show up in players entrance, Yeah, the player's
entrance and where they go through security. And Andy Reid
pulled up with he had a police escort. He drives
a big old truck and he gets out of his
truck and I snapped a photo of him and and

(26:26):
he just slowly walks into security with his Hawaiian shirt on.
And sure, yeah, it was it was really neat.

Speaker 2 (26:31):
Did you get to your seats before the national anthem?

Speaker 8 (26:34):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (26:35):
Yes, and that was awesome too.

Speaker 1 (26:37):
The fireworks and did they do a flyover?

Speaker 4 (26:40):
They didn't do a flyover. They did fireworks okay, yeah,
and a Disney star saying the national anthem. And I
think when when they say it in the Home of
the Chiefs, I think that almost startled the singer. I
don't think he was expecting it because on the yeah
on the screen, think he looked surprised that that happened.

Speaker 6 (27:06):
Was the Disney star?

Speaker 4 (27:07):
I was young man, exactly. Yeah. He's in a new movie,
Zombies four or something like that, The Worst Part, Same
night Chiefs game, Worst Part. Game's over. Marcus and his
buddy rush down after the game ends to get autographs.

(27:27):
He's got his jersey on, he wants he's got a
sharpie in hand. He wants someone to sign it, whoever will. Obviously,
the players are kind of in a bad mood because
they lost in the last three seconds.

Speaker 2 (27:40):
I don't think they care well.

Speaker 4 (27:43):
He had put his bag on the seats that he
bought in the pro shop three hundred and thirty dollars
worth of merchandise, minus the jersey because he was wearing it.
And he comes back no signal, so we all leave.
We walk out of the stadium. We're walking to the

(28:03):
car and I look and I go, dude, where's your
stuff that you bought at the pro shop. And he
looks at me and he's like, oh my god, I
go dude, are you kidding me? And he goes, oh
my god, Oh my god, I go rush, run run
back there. They did no way. They let him back in.
Security escorted him back to the seats. They looked. They

(28:25):
came back empty handed, and the security guard says to me, listen,
our security is very good at cleaning up because we
were some of the last people out anyways, because they were,
you know, looking for autographs. And he said, they do
a good job of clean sweeping. He goes, we have
a loss and found go to this website right here,
and he stood with us while I filled it all out.

(28:46):
I took a copy of the receipt, took a picture
of it, uploaded it, and he said, if they found
it before someone else, he will get a phone call
on Monday and they will even ship you the items.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
So what was in the bag because he was wearing
the jersey, what was a hoodie, a T shirt?

Speaker 4 (29:01):
And three magnets.

Speaker 2 (29:04):
Just out of curiosity?

Speaker 4 (29:05):
What magnets one that said go chiefs, I think, and
then two of the same or the inside of the
stadium with the fireworks going on. Okay, yeah, yeah, how
much were those? Uh four dollars and fifty cents apiece?

Speaker 2 (29:23):
Damn Yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
I was telling my wife that you went to the game,
and she's like, we should go and I'm like, I'm
been kind of against it just because it's so expensive,
and she's like, come on, we should do this.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
We're in a good situation. We should try to do this.

Speaker 1 (29:40):
I'm like, okay, So we look at a couple of
games and I look and I'm not sitting where you
the three hundred level. Get out of here.

Speaker 4 (29:46):
We didn't either. It was awesome. We got to move down, okay.

Speaker 1 (29:51):
And I looked and the seats that we would want
to sit in would be anywhere between for two tickets
two thousand dollars to fifteen h Wow, that's first and
second level. Yeah, hard pass. That's a hard pass for me.
Is that a piece? Or is that total? For two tickets? Okay,
for two.

Speaker 2 (30:10):
Tickets, that's insane.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
Yeah, that isn't I told my wife, I'm like, why
don't we just get a room here and get it
catered and have our own little party in a hotel.
That's still way cheaper.

Speaker 4 (30:20):
Yeah, right, and that hotel that we actually see that
true by Hilton. It's like at the airport, brand new.
I guess it's it's been open less than a year.
It was awesome, good And what's interesting, they had like
this twenty four to seven coffee bar inside the hotel lobby.
And guess what they had honey at the coffee bar,

(30:42):
which was something that we had talked about on the
air on Friday morning.

Speaker 2 (30:45):
Apparently very common.

Speaker 4 (30:46):
Yeah, delicious, delicious. It was very nice.

Speaker 2 (30:50):
That's excellent.

Speaker 8 (30:50):
Yeah, thanks.

Speaker 1 (30:52):
Best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
that happened to you? And the worst thing that happened
to you? Gimbie. Worst part of the weekend would have
been Friday.

Speaker 6 (30:59):
I was post to go see Hank Williams Junior at
the Bok Center on Friday, but that old son of
a bitch postponed his show like a day before, maybe
two days before. I was so stoked. I mean I'd
seen him before at at Born and Raised, you know,
but this is different. It's the Bok Center. It's it's

(31:20):
seeing a country music legend for sure, you know, while
he's still around. And I am I am a Hank fan,
so I was really excited for that, and then I
got the email. I was like, oh, Hank has been
postponed until September.

Speaker 1 (31:33):
I think like September nineteenth or some jibe like it.
And I was like, well, that sucks, but at least
it's not come, you know, canceled indefinitely. We'll find out
come closer to September or whatever. I mean. He is
seventy six, that's that, I get it. I like breeze.
He's still a big old boy for being seventy six.
But I get what you're where you're at, got the

(31:54):
health issues. He sits down to play a lot of
his music, so it's not like you're catching Hank in
it prime, you know, where he's all jacket on cocaine
and pills and having a damn good time. But nonetheless,
it's still country music legend, and I was really looking
forward to it. But the best part of the weekend
would be Saturday. So Saturday, start off the day, it's

(32:16):
it's my old lady's sister's birthday, and she rented out
the private room at the dust Bowl. Okay, so go
down there and there's.

Speaker 6 (32:23):
Like a dozen of us bowling for her birthday. And
I whooped everybody on the first round, and then not
so much the second round came in like second or third.
On the second round, Okay, first round is like a
like a one sixteen. I think I'm old, which is
not that bad, you know. It was like an eighty
something on the second round or whatever. But so then

(32:44):
that was fun. That was fun. And then after that
we went over to my old roommate. He's got his
own house, starting his own little family and stuff. My
illegitimate bastard kid is what I call him, because I
treat him like my child, you know, take care of
da da da da no unless he's young.

Speaker 1 (32:59):
Like.

Speaker 6 (33:00):
So we all gather over there and had a little
barbecue until I had to go back downtown because the
Normandys had an EP release party concert down at the Vanguard,
which was awesome. Those guys put on a fantastic show
every time that I see him. Got to see a
couple of other bands that I've never heard of before,
which put on a good show. But here's the best

(33:20):
part of that entire Normandy show. The Normandy's up there
and they're playing there doing their thing, and my old
lady and I are kind of like right in front
of the stage. But there's like a little small row
of people right in front of us. And one of
these people is a kid that has got to be
maybe nine at the most, nine yeah, yeah, and he's

(33:41):
there with I'm thinking that it's his older brother. I'm
thinking probably fifteen, sixteen seventeen, still have braces on, right,
and he's there with his dad, and the dad's kind
of off in the back while the kids are up
on the stage, you know, close to the stage and
joining the show. And this little rocker man, I'm ton
it is so awesome, both hands up in the air,
just slay in a way. And as he's up there

(34:05):
just rocking his little face off, right, Jay, the lead
singer for the Normandies, comes down singing right there next
to him, you know, puts the mic in his face,
lets him sing.

Speaker 1 (34:16):
Along a little bit right along with him. That was cool.

Speaker 6 (34:20):
And then so Jay backs off, and then the guitarist
comes by and he's rocking right next to this little
dude and he hands him a pick, puts his guitar
kind of in his general area, and lets him slay
on the guitar while they're playing one notts. I was like,
that is awesome. That's a core memory for that kid

(34:42):
right there. Chet is fantastic. So just the see and
the look on his face. My old lady got a
picture of it. The look on that kid's face while
he was thrashing on that guitar. I was like, that's
what it's about right there. That was the absolute best
part of the weekend.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
Fast and worst part of the weekend bmmss and whatever
that is to eight two nine four five. The best
part of the weekend would be I have been dealing
with a repair at my house since May, and the
guy that's supposed to do it, who owns a business,
said he would come out. Finally did in like early April,

(35:20):
but didn't or said he was going to come out
in early April, didn't come out until May, and they
figured out what the part was and said he was
going to order it. All of May goes by, I
don't hear from him. Part of June goes by, and
I'm like, yo, man, what's up, And he's like it's
on back order, Like all right, sure, let that go

(35:46):
by till after fourth of July.

Speaker 2 (35:50):
Text him again, like what's up man? No response.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
I contact the manufacturer of the product and ask for
the part myself to see if they'll send it to me.
They want to know who I have trying to make
the repair. Then they say, your repair guy's been on vacation.
I'm like, bitch, no, he hasn't. And then miraculously, two

(36:14):
days later, the guy contacts me and lets me know
he's got the part, tells me he'll be there by Friday.

Speaker 2 (36:21):
Keep in mind that was the about the end of
July or whatever. Mid July crickets.

Speaker 1 (36:29):
Crickets, first week of August Crickets. I text him. I'm like,
why don't you just mail me the part. I'll put
it on No response. Then I get a text like,
we'll be there Friday, last Friday. Great sounds good your
actions though you words mean nothing to me. Actions or

(36:52):
what mapp they'd show up Friday. Great to people I'd
never seen before. And all the time I've been dealing
with them, they show up. They're back there twiddling with
the part, trying to figure it out. About an hour
he comes back up and he's like, Hey, it's the
wrong part.

Speaker 2 (37:07):
We have to order another part.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
Damn you don't say you don't say so. That's the
worst part of the weekend and the best part of
the weekend. Are you going to continue to use this
same service or this is the kicker?

Speaker 2 (37:23):
I have no option.

Speaker 1 (37:25):
I have to. He's the only person that repairs this
product and it's under warranty, so I gotta use their
like this sanctioned guy. I can't. I tried to call
the place and said, sin, I need this part, and
they're like, no, you got to deal with It's the
most asked backwards thing. If I would have known this,
I would have never bought this product. It pisses me
off so bad, and it's all and I'm not this guy.

(37:46):
It's all I can do to not dog him and
call him out on the air. No, I don't think
you should. I don't think that's good karma. Life is
hard for everybody. Everybody's doing their best just because it
doesn't correlate with what I need. Yeah, like six months now,
that's not like I'm out money still, I'm just inconvenienced
because the part's laying in the middle of my backyard.

Speaker 4 (38:08):
And how is it? How is it the wrong part?
When they their guy came out and yeah, I know
and you and you tried ordering it.

Speaker 1 (38:17):
But I only ordered it because that's what their people
told me was the part. Right. Oh yeah, you got
one job, and I have no recourse. I'm what I'm
gonna sue him. I can't sue him, nor for what
for not showing up for an appointment? Right? Right?

Speaker 2 (38:34):
For not ordering the part. I'm so annoyed.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
I'm so frustrated. Can you report them to the Better
Business Bureau? Sure?

Speaker 2 (38:44):
Leaving a review? It means nothing.

Speaker 6 (38:45):
Yeah, maybe, I don't know. I've never had to do
it before.

Speaker 1 (38:49):
It means nothing, especially if they're not a member of
the Better Business.

Speaker 4 (38:52):
Bureau, right, and you have no other choice but to
use them.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
I know he's already annoyed with me because I don't know.
I think since May I've been in his ear a lot,
but not like every day. I feel like I'm giving
plenty of time May until now feels a little crazy.

Speaker 4 (39:10):
Yeah, we're almost this September.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
Anyway. Best and worst of the weekend? What's the best
part of the weekend and the worst part of the weekend.
Best got to spend the first weekend with girlfriend. Worst
wore her out and she can't walk right now. I'm sure,
Oh God, for you, I'm sure she's bedridden. Best of
the weekend we got to see our son's first high
school football scrimmage. Worst of the weekend Binge watched Building

(39:35):
the Band and got zero done around the house.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
Sunday, Corbyn, is this a pool part? I don't have
a pool.

Speaker 1 (39:43):
Best rode and my bike out to Eureka Springs and
rode the pig trail. Worst bike broke on my way
home and have to trailer at home. Best, I got
the throttle linkage on my project truck assembled. Worst, it's
got some new popsicles. Was excited to try a new flavor,
sat on the couch and unwrapped it. Then my cat

(40:05):
jumped across my lap, rubbing one entire side of her
body across my popsicle.

Speaker 2 (40:10):
I rented it off and ate it anyway.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
Hey o the Pole, which is.

Speaker 2 (40:16):
Also a movie. Lindsay won't promote.

Speaker 1 (40:17):
At nine.

Speaker 2 (40:18):
We got to take a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 5 (40:20):
The Big Med Morning Show returns.

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Speaker 1 (40:59):
Good luck, all right, it's time for our listeners are awesome.
On the line with us right now is Marcus. Hey, Marcus,
how are you man? Are you doing pretty well? Uh?
It says here that you are an R in. How
many jokes get made about you being a nurse.

Speaker 9 (41:18):
Considering I used to be a welder a lot?

Speaker 1 (41:21):
Okay, yeah, those are very different careers.

Speaker 9 (41:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
What made you want to have welding and become an RN.

Speaker 9 (41:32):
Welding? It was kind of, you know, I was young,
I was divorced and kind of I had to type
of thing, and I wanted to go back to school.
And I grew up helping people and and you know,
got satisfaction from that, and uh so, yeah, that's how

(41:54):
that happened. My brother he had an office job at
the time, and was like, you know what, why don't
you go back to school for nursing. You've talked about
it before.

Speaker 1 (42:04):
And I do you make more nursing than you did
as a welder?

Speaker 9 (42:08):
Yeah? Yeah, I do. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
That was a laugh there. Did you hear that.

Speaker 1 (42:12):
There's a little chuckle.

Speaker 9 (42:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:15):
And here's my thing, Like, I've thought, Hey, if I
were to get fired or whatever, maybe I would go
be a nurse. But I got to be honest, I
don't want to see balls, and I also don't want
to clean up vomit or feces. How often does do
those three things happen for you?

Speaker 9 (42:32):
A lot? I mean, uh, you know in the ICU,
which is where I spent the first half of my career.
You know, it depends on the nurse, you know. And
I've always been the kind of person that would jump
right in and help. And and you know, I'm not

(42:52):
above anybody at my CNA's or anybody. I ask them
for their help and and we just tackle it together,
you know. So I wipe butt and clean up vomit
and do all of it. You know how many I'm
always thankful that I'm a nurse. You know, I really

(43:13):
enjoy it.

Speaker 6 (43:14):
How many times has somebody come in with something stuck
in their butt that somehow mysteriously just.

Speaker 9 (43:21):
Gather uh and more than more than the public would know. Yeah,
I mean I've seen some things. You know, I've seen them,
you know, the without being overly descriptive that you know,

(43:42):
the really really long nack lights.

Speaker 1 (43:51):
I'm gonna I'm going to say a number, and you
say higher and lower, and the number of balls you've
seen in your life?

Speaker 9 (43:57):
Okay, Oh my gosh, all right, higher, higher, a hundred,
a higher.

Speaker 1 (44:08):
Five hundred, higher, thousands, what'sn't much higher?

Speaker 9 (44:18):
Yeah? I've been doing this thirteen years, man, I've seen
thousands and thousands of balls.

Speaker 1 (44:24):
Is it safe to say a day doesn't go by
where you see another man's genitals?

Speaker 9 (44:29):
H'm I mean no, A workday, A.

Speaker 2 (44:37):
Good save, its good save?

Speaker 1 (44:38):
I love it, man. Yeah. And so it says here
that you've seen some crazy things. Something about a mom
and daughter.

Speaker 9 (44:48):
Yeah, I was on a travel nurse assignment in California
and a mom and daughter were fighting. They were arguing
and their family dog. It was a bull mastiff. And
I'm a dog lover, you know, I've got a big dog.
But so there must have been some crazy stuff going on,

(45:11):
but to make this happen, But they're two hundred pounds
bull mastiff just snapped, you know, apparently, and it mauled
the mom and then the daughter. You know, the mom
was like late forties maybe and the daughter was in
their early twenties. And yeah, they were marked head to toe.

(45:35):
I mean it looked like a bear attack, you know,
or something, is what I mean. I just couldn't believe
that this was from a dog.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
Is what's the hardest injury or reason someone's in there?
Is it anything that involves kids? Is it burn victims?
What is the hardest thing to witness?

Speaker 9 (46:00):
Let's see, I've always hated seeing the people that you know,
got in the position they're in, and it was while
they were doing something good, you know, like while they
were helping somebody. Like you know, I've had a patient

(46:21):
that was quadriplegia because he was helping a neighbor cut
tree limbs during an ice storm, you know, and a
tree kicked back and he you know, spent the rest
of his life from you know, not being able to
move from the neck down because you know, he was
helping someone. That kind of stuff I don't understand, you know.

Speaker 1 (46:45):
Right, because someone's got good intent and then they pay
that price. Yeah, well, you being a nurse isn't the
reason we have you on. So we're going to get
to that in a minute. But it says here that
you saved a coworker's life. I'm sure you've saved many
people's lives, But how did you save a coworker's life?

Speaker 3 (47:03):
Uh?

Speaker 9 (47:03):
Man I Uh, I was chargers one night and this,
you know, we were we were sitting at the nurses
station talking about two o'clock in the morning, me and
a couple of coworkers, and she was just studying there,
talking and one of the nurses got up and said

(47:26):
she was going to check on her patients, and the
other lady that was the part of the group, the
three of us, you know, I turned around and was charting,
and and I heard a little noise, you know, like
like a thud or like you know, something hit the wall,
and and I just said even okay, and uh didn't

(47:51):
hear a response, and and I looked back and she
was totally out and against the wall. And and I
did bear hugger and grabbed her later down on the floor,
started CPR and bollered for help. And as soon as
we got her hooked up to the cardiac monitor, I've

(48:13):
seen that she was in d FIB, you know, a
fatal heart rhythm, and shocked her and got her out
of it, and you know, ambulance was already on the way,
even though we were at a hospital, you know, and
you know, she was talking before she left. So it

(48:36):
was pretty crazy.

Speaker 2 (48:37):
Why, I mean, you're in a hospital, explained that to me.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
When you're in a hospital, why do you got to
call an ambulance to where you're at?

Speaker 9 (48:43):
Well, we were in at this job I'm talking about.
We were at a rehab rehabilitation hospital and we didn't
have like an er or you know, and so we
were right across street from a hospital. But you know,
so hospital came, I mean, the paramedics came, loaded her

(49:08):
up and took her across the street to the ear.

Speaker 1 (49:11):
That's amazing, man, I don't know, I don't think enough
people know CPR.

Speaker 9 (49:17):
Yeah, yeah, that's yeah, I agree.

Speaker 1 (49:20):
But that again, that's not why we have you on.
We had you on because you're a noodler. How long
have you been noodling?

Speaker 9 (49:27):
I've been noodland since I was about twelve years old.

Speaker 2 (49:31):
Wow, how did you get into it?

Speaker 9 (49:34):
I grew up in the country, and you know, I
was just I'd spend during the summertime, we'd spend time
at the lake on the water, and I was at
my best friend you know, from school and growing up,
and I just you know, we bailed out of the
boat and told his dad. You know, they talked about,

(49:57):
you know, noodling and stuff, and so we started, you know,
his dad jumped in the water with us and showed
us how to do it.

Speaker 2 (50:07):
What's the biggest catfish you've ever caught?

Speaker 1 (50:10):
Noodle in?

Speaker 5 (50:12):
So?

Speaker 9 (50:14):
Yeah, you know, yeah, several around ride around the seventy
pound mark. You know, it took a while to break that,
to finally hit seventy. But you know a lot sixty
five to seventy pounds, but seventy pounds, yes, And what.

Speaker 1 (50:32):
Is the like if you try to, you know, you
catch a fish, go all, how long did it take
you to bring it in? What is a measurement to
determine how challenging getting a seventy pounder is? What's the
right question I should be asking a man.

Speaker 9 (50:47):
So, you know, it's pretty funny. When we were younger,
my buddy, the same guy I've always done it with.
You know, we would take our girlfriends or whatever when
we were young.

Speaker 4 (51:00):
And.

Speaker 9 (51:02):
They would always make fun of us because, you know,
they they said, you know, it sounded like it sounded
like we were doing something dirty, because you know, it
got oh you know, oh I got my foot in
this hole, or oh I got my hand in this hole,
or oh yeah, come around the back, you know, stuff
like that. You know, they would just be listening or

(51:25):
sitting on the bank or in the boat listening to us,
and they're like, you know, you guys sound disgusting. But
you know, sometimes if it's a difficult situation and the
fish has multiple ways out, because a lot of times

(51:46):
they'll try to escape, you know, instead of you know,
coming right at you, and there'll be multiple ways out
from under a big rock or piece of concrete or
whatever it is under the water, and you've got to
block all the ways out, you know, with the people

(52:06):
that you have with you or or whatever, and force
that fish to come at you. Sometimes and and sometimes
it's you know, measured in hours. Sometimes I spent three
hours trying to catch a fish.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
How long did it take you to catch that seventy pounder?

Speaker 9 (52:27):
About probably about thirty minutes.

Speaker 2 (52:30):
Have you ever gotten injured noodling.

Speaker 9 (52:34):
Whose ribs scraped arms? You know, and being a nurse,
you know, you know when I wouldn't wear long sleeves
or gloves or anything when I was younger. I didn't
want to go to work with you know, all these

(52:54):
cuts and scrapes on my arms and and get some
kind of infection, you know, so I would have to
wear long sleeves and I go back to work to
cover all the stars. But uh, yeah, I've had bruise
GRIBs from fish knocking me out of the way. I've
had my arms where it looked like I've you know,

(53:15):
been in a motorcycle wrecker or something and had road
brash all over my arm. This is what it looks
like when when you catch a big one and it
goes like all the way up your arm.

Speaker 1 (53:26):
Do you have an elusive one, like a maybe a
folklore of a cat you've been trying to get for
a while, Well, I.

Speaker 9 (53:39):
Mean I've definitely got stories of the one that got away,
you know, those kind of stories and what's the.

Speaker 1 (53:49):
What's your favorite, what's your favorite one that got away
story you like to tell? Or if I asked your buddies,
they would say, that's the story for you.

Speaker 9 (53:58):
Probably, Uh, the one that my buddy he got his
butt whipped by. I mean we we kind of just
guessed when we're talking about it because because he had
a hold of it, you know, and I was right
there trying to get Hilm and trying to get the fish,

(54:18):
and it just kind of whipped both of us. But
it was probably about a fifty five pound blue bluca,
and it flipped him over backwards. It looked like he
you know, it was like sea flexing this fish. But
it hit him so hard and he was trying to
hang on to it and the tails whipping him and

(54:40):
he's trying to hold on and I'm getting slapped in
the face and you know with the tail, and you know,
he flipped over and the fish just whipped both of
us and got away.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
Yeah, when in reality, it probably just hit him and
he kind of tripped for something and then the fish
took off. That's awesome, Listen, Marcus, it's been great talking
to you man. Thanks for sharing your stories. With us
and good luck being nurse. Man.

Speaker 2 (55:11):
Sounds like you really enjoy it. Do you work in
overnight or what do you work?

Speaker 4 (55:14):
Uh?

Speaker 9 (55:15):
Work? I work in a little rural hospital now during
the day. I've spent most of my career all night.
But but yeah, I'm on days now, so I'm among
the living.

Speaker 1 (55:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (55:28):
It's a whole nother breed when you work the overnights.

Speaker 9 (55:30):
Right, yes, for sure.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
Yeah, right on. Man, Thank you so much, buddy, and
have a great day. Yeah, thank you, all right, man,
see you later. That's Marcus. Our listeners are awesome. We're
gonna take a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 5 (55:41):
You're listening to the Big Med Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (55:44):
Tonight is another powerball drawing.

Speaker 1 (55:46):
It's up to three quarters of a billion dollars and
so you're going to see a lot of talk about that.
And then I saw this where a guy in South
Carolina bought one hundred and sixty two identical Lotto tickets
and he won eight hundred and eleven thousand dollars. Huh.

(56:09):
I agree. I was kind of lost on this, and
when you hear the details, I think it's fishy.

Speaker 4 (56:16):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
He says that he had a hunch about the numbers.
So he spent three hundred and thirty nine dollars on
tickets with the four numbers in a pick four drawing,
and he won. He even shared his hunch with somebody
at the store where he bought the numbers. They did

(56:39):
the same thing. They bought twenty They won twenty five
thousand dollars. It's the largest payout ever awarded to a
single player in a pick four drawing. The numbers were one, seven, three,
one A hunch. Here's the problem with stories like this.
You go, you make a statement that's really silly, like

(56:59):
trust your hown. How many times does this happen? NA
never paid? Yeah, exactly exactly. But why play the same numbers?
What and then one number work just fine?

Speaker 4 (57:11):
Exactly?

Speaker 2 (57:13):
I would.

Speaker 1 (57:13):
I can only imagine that if you let's just say,
you play the number once and it hits the combination
and you win a thousand dollars. I don't know the breakout,
But then if you do it one hundred and sixty
two times, the payouts better.

Speaker 6 (57:25):
Kind of like eliminating a lot of the other people
to play those numbers. Maybe I think it's like more
of the winnings in for him, So I think.

Speaker 1 (57:33):
It's more like increasing your bet on like a red Okay, right,
this seems weird.

Speaker 6 (57:38):
If you're going to buy one hundred plus tickets, you
would think that they would all be different numbers. That way,
you know, kind of increases your chances.

Speaker 1 (57:45):
But okay, whatever.

Speaker 2 (57:47):
I mean, I don't know anything. I guess you.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
I wonder if that means he won like fifty bucks
on each one, right, that would make sense, right?

Speaker 2 (57:58):
Or would it be five hundred? Now it would be
five thousand?

Speaker 6 (58:02):
Yeah, yeah, because he only bought like one hundred plus
tickets and got eight hundred and fifty thousand.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
You say, yeah, yeah, so he won five hundred dollars
on one hundred and sixty two tickets.

Speaker 6 (58:13):
Wow, that's still still a good chunk of change.

Speaker 1 (58:17):
I mean, yeah, eight hundred and eleven thousand dollars. You
pay pay off a house for sure. Absolutely had a
couple of credit cards, and you'll pay taxes, yeah you will.
You gotta think what if they take straight half right
off the top.

Speaker 2 (58:30):
So it's just that's easy, master.

Speaker 1 (58:31):
Yeah, that's four hundred thousand. Now I'll take that.

Speaker 6 (58:34):
Sure, I'll take you four hundred thousand dollars.

Speaker 1 (58:37):
Sure. I wonder if that puts you on the radar,
like do you have a harder time doing taxes? Like
do you open yourself up to an audit. Oh, that's
a good question, because you.

Speaker 2 (58:48):
Had they see a giant spike one year.

Speaker 6 (58:51):
I don't know, maybe maybe not with something like that
giant number. Yeah, I know, maybe that that man. That's
the first thing. I think that guy must have won
the lottery.

Speaker 4 (59:00):
No, because it probably says it like you you probably
would get a CPA at that point to do your taxes,
and it would I don't know. Hey, it was a
lottery win, so it's a one off.

Speaker 2 (59:12):
You know, you probably would have trouble putting that in
the bank.

Speaker 6 (59:17):
All eight hundred and eleven thousand dollars.

Speaker 1 (59:18):
I mean, if you show up with a check for
four hundred eleven thousand dollars, they're gonna be like, okay,
well little clear in ten days, ain't deaths?

Speaker 4 (59:24):
Oh yeah, I'm sure they're holding it for period of time.

Speaker 1 (59:28):
I got a check from the state and they held
it for ten days. Yeah, and it wasn't near not
even close to that, right, And I was like, why
it's this Maybe not?

Speaker 2 (59:38):
Maybe that makes a bunch of sense. Meanwhile, I got a.

Speaker 1 (59:41):
Check for a class action lawsuit and that cleared the day.

Speaker 6 (59:45):
Of course, you're seventeen dollars and thirty four cents.

Speaker 2 (59:48):
It was fifty thank you very much. I was very
happy with that.

Speaker 1 (59:53):
Hey, yeah, fifty bucks. It's fifty bucks.

Speaker 2 (59:54):
I asked my wife. I'd been like, did you turn
this in?

Speaker 1 (59:57):
She goes, what are you talking about? I don't mess
with any of that stuff. Okay, check shows up for
fifty bucks. I'm a little confused. I will take it.
Oh yeah, click click, oh yeah, mobile lap, that's deposit
right on, and you gotta go to the bank.

Speaker 2 (01:00:13):
Yeah, dude, seven dollars, I deposit right away. Hey, you
do not mess around to that.

Speaker 4 (01:00:18):
That's my coffee in the morning.

Speaker 1 (01:00:20):
It's lunch. Yeah, I don't have to share it. I
get to eat wherever I want. I don't have to have,
you know, Mickey D's again leftover soggy nuggies.

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
Those snack snack things though, we're so good.

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (01:00:36):
Yeah, oh yeah, that's my go tune there.

Speaker 1 (01:00:40):
Now.

Speaker 6 (01:00:41):
You can't go wrong, man. You give it to the
two of those. You get a ranch, one maybe a
buffalo one ranch, all day, done, done.

Speaker 1 (01:00:48):
It's not something that was ever on my radar before,
because now they have the adult happy Meals and I'm like, eh, okay,
it's just a value meal shaped like a you know,
written off like a happy meal with a different shape
pretty much. But those snack thems man, I'm like yeah, and.

Speaker 6 (01:01:04):
They're relatively inexpensive too.

Speaker 1 (01:01:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:01:07):
Instead of beding ten bucks or whatever, you know, three bucks,
lunch is done.

Speaker 1 (01:01:11):
Yeah, and then you have a debate going on to
your head and how many do I want to order
and not look fat like a fat ass? All? Yeah?
How big are they for co workers? Yeah? That's it.
I mean, they're they're not They're maybe six that man,
it's like a it's like a average soft taco.

Speaker 6 (01:01:34):
Shell, like a soft taco tortilla. Yeah, I think that
size of the tortilla they use in just a regular
old chicken strip.

Speaker 1 (01:01:41):
Yeah. Yeah, can't go wrong, you can't. All right, we
got to take a break. We'll be back on Saturday.
They had the annual game in Ireland between Iowa State
and Kansas State, and something very weird happened and I uh,
I'm sure this happens at games, not just ones in Ireland,

(01:02:02):
but a fight happened all right, right, It's not uncommon.
You see plenty of videos out there of fans fighting
each other. Yeah, usually Team A against Team B fan
base type of scenario. But the quarterback for Kansas State,

(01:02:23):
his dad got in a fight with his son. Oh wow,
who were there to watch brother and son play? And
the video I got it so you guys can see it.
I don't know what's wrong with you too. They look dumb,

(01:02:43):
but they have made an apology. We sincerely apologize for
our actions following yesterday's football game in Ireland. Senseless bickering
escalated into an unnecessary fight. We have resolved our differences
and take full responsibility for our actions. We have apologized
to our immediate and extended family, and now extend our

(01:03:04):
apologies to Kansas State University, it's alumni and fans. We
regret this incident, have learned from it, and are committed
to ensuring it doesn't happen again. Please accept our deepest apologies. Huh,
you learned what you learned from it?

Speaker 4 (01:03:23):
Learned from it is what I want to know in.

Speaker 1 (01:03:24):
Twenty four hours that it's embarrassing, right, Yeah, and you're
committed to ensuring it doesn't happen again, what until you
get called chicken? What are you talking about? Bickering? Here?
You are, your son is a candidate to be a
pretty great quarterback. Yeah, and you two are fighting, not

(01:03:46):
only fighting the first game of the season in another country,
national attention, global attention. I wonder because it was in Ireland.
I wonder if there was an alcohol involved and that's
what escalated the fight. There's always alcohol involved with football
dead but like they got all a little too saucy.
Well we're in ire Listen when in Dublin. Okay, you know,

(01:04:09):
let's get pissed drunk off of some beer that we're
not used to. I'll buy that with your son if
he's old enough. What does that mean? Well, if he's
old enough to drink, no, I mean you're fighting with
your son. There's no telling.

Speaker 6 (01:04:25):
There could be underlined issues like from like decades ago
that finally came out because we're on vacation in Ireland.

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
But you're not on vacation.

Speaker 4 (01:04:34):
You're there to play a game.

Speaker 2 (01:04:35):
You're there to watch.

Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
Your brother's son play a game. You're right, but to
them it's vacation.

Speaker 4 (01:04:41):
Why are you throwing the ball like that? Why are
you playing like this?

Speaker 2 (01:04:45):
He should have missed that. No, he shouldn't have. You're dumb.

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
No, you're dumb. Brought you know this world. I'll take
you out. Yeah, did you watch the video? Gimpie over?
Oh yeah, there we go. You watched the video. And
then I'm gonna share a picture with you, a different
picture with you, so you can see, Oh.

Speaker 6 (01:05:09):
My goodness, trying to pry him.

Speaker 2 (01:05:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:05:14):
This isn't like they came like, what are we doing?
This is no, I'm committed. You called me chicken. Yeah.
They're not just an each other's face bickering at each other.
They are locked up.

Speaker 4 (01:05:26):
I hate you, dad, I don't want your life.

Speaker 2 (01:05:30):
You've always been there for him, but not me. Right, so,
and then now I'm sending you the picture. This is
the quarterback.

Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
Okay, wait a minute, one of these things is not
like the other. Yeah, who the daddy? Who's the daddy
in the fight? Where's the dad? Is that the dad
on top?

Speaker 6 (01:05:52):
I can't tell because he looks a lot darker.

Speaker 1 (01:05:54):
Than his son. Not that that means anything, but this
this kid, No, that's his dad.

Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
Nope, he's not.

Speaker 6 (01:05:59):
Nope, Okay, okay.

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Good morning Gimpie, Well, good morning Corbyn.

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Speaker 2 (01:06:36):
Join us in the studio now is Jeff Hensley of
Hensley Associate.

Speaker 1 (01:06:39):
It's good morning, Jeff, good morning, and Jeff is here
to answer any question you have that has to do
with family law. That can look like a question about divorce,
it can look like a question about guardianship. It can
look like a question like adult adoptions, which is a thing.
If you have any of those questions or anything else
has to do with family law. A couple of ways
to get your question to us eight three three four

(01:06:59):
to six KMOD where you can ask him yourself, or
you can email show at kmod dot com, or you
can text BMMS and whatever your question is. To eight
two nine four five. This email came in and it
says I have a friend who is the father on
the birth certificate, but not the biofather. They are not
married and she is leaving him due to incompatibility. The

(01:07:21):
child is four years old, bio dad is not in
the picture at all. Does the current legal dad have
any rights or to visitation or anything else. This is
in Tulsa County.

Speaker 10 (01:07:31):
Well, let's assume, I mean, I'm assuming it's a paternity
case and they're not married instead leaving for incompatibility. But
the way they've set it up, it sounds like a
paternity thing. So you know, if he's on the birth certificate,
they gives a presumption that he's dad.

Speaker 7 (01:07:44):
Typically under the statute, you have to That's what I'm
looking for, just went play.

Speaker 10 (01:07:51):
You've got to dispute praternity within the first two years.
So my point of telling you all this is the
fact that, yeah, I mean, we just need to file
a paternity action and go from there. I mean, he's
the one that signed the acknowledgment, he's the one who's
held the child at as his own for the last
however many four years.

Speaker 7 (01:08:05):
I guess or whatever.

Speaker 10 (01:08:06):
So yeah, I mean, who give rid of this is
give us a call. We can get that that happening
for sure. Absolutely, we'll look at it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
So even though he's not bio Dad, he's been presumed
as the father for four years.

Speaker 10 (01:08:19):
Well right, I mean under the statute, he signed the
he signed the birth certificate, and probably signed the acknowledgment. Okay,
because they do him at the exact same time at
the hospital, all right, So that gives him a presumption
that he's dad. I mean, I don't know why they
there's obviously a story as to why bio Dad's not here,
as to why Biodad's not on those items. And so
you know, there's a there's something called a seven oh

(01:08:40):
six B argument that says, and that means nothing to
anybody but Famiula attorneys, where it says, if you can
find somebody who's held the child that is their own,
all right, and I said, hey, this is my kid,
blah blah blah, those kind of things, then they.

Speaker 7 (01:08:54):
Can be the person who is the legal individual. Okay.

Speaker 10 (01:08:58):
In this case, we've got someone whose name is on
the birth certificate too, So I mean he's got a
good setup for it two green flags there, Yeah, two
green flags absolutely, so gives a call, we'd be happy
to help you with that, Jeff, any more details?

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley Associates is here to answer your
question eight three three four six oh kmod or BMMS
and whatever your question is to eight two nine four five.
These are a couple that hung back from last week.
My lawyer was a family friend that started my divorce
for cheap, but he has recently died. Can another lawyer
just pick up where he left off? And he also

(01:09:29):
had most of my paperwork that's disappeared? Will that be
a problem, So can we just pick up?

Speaker 7 (01:09:35):
Yes, obviously we can do that.

Speaker 10 (01:09:38):
Yeah, for sure, it may not be cheap, but we
can pick up because I don't know what cheap means
in their sense.

Speaker 7 (01:09:45):
But yes, we can pick up get the divorce moving forward.

Speaker 10 (01:09:48):
As far as the documents are concerned, you know, we
we may just have to see if the person can
help us recreate them if we can't find them, if
they're not if we can't get a hold of them
for some reason, because the guy passed away and his
office is shut down and nobody knows who the paper
I mean there's all sorts of scenarios, but we can
try and get If it's discovery iis. Man, if it's

(01:10:09):
like you know, filings and what we call pleadings that
were filed to the cortess, that's a big deal. I mean,
we just pull that off osc in. This not an issue.
If there's been other documents provided to the other side,
we can recreate, help help recreate part of the file
by contact to them and having them send us what
they have. And there's ways to try and get things
going and figure things out. But you know, anymore specifically, Yeah,
we just we pick up and we move forward. Absolutely, Jeff,

(01:10:31):
no reason to be stuck.

Speaker 1 (01:10:31):
Jeff Heinsley from Hensley Associates is here. Get your question
to us eight three three four six oho KMOD or
email show at kmod dot com or text bmms and
whatever your question is to eight two nine four five.
My husband and I have some close friends who have
three girls they adopted at three years of age and
as newborns. They discussed with us the desire that should

(01:10:52):
something happen to them, they would like us to take
over guardianship of the girls, and they do have plans
to try to get their wishes on paper through the
court in a situation of adoption, would they still only
be nominating us? And could the blood relatives of our
friends have a chance of this says, beating us out

(01:11:13):
if they choose to fight it.

Speaker 10 (01:11:17):
So, first of all, there would have to be a
guardianship if someone passes away. And we kind of talked
about this, and I'm glad we bring this up every
once in a while. The idea of what we're talking
about is the idea of godparents essentially. Okay, that's kind
of the overall arching theme on this one. And the
idea behind that is is it's an agreement between the parties.
You would put it in a document like a will

(01:11:38):
or a trust or something like that that says I
nominate so and so to be the guardians of whoever.

Speaker 7 (01:11:44):
Okay.

Speaker 10 (01:11:44):
Now that's when the blood relative family would step in. Okay,
even if your friends are nominated, the family can still
step in and say, look, I know they were nominated,
but we still have higher standing because where grandparents or
aunt and uncles or brother whatever it may be, Okay,
they can step in and argue there. But let's say
they don't okay, And let's say they agree with the

(01:12:06):
guardianship because they know that you guys were close like
brother and sister, and you guys were super close and
all this other stuff, and they're okay with the guardianship. Okay,
once the guardianship is in place, we can do the
adoption all right. And once we get to the adoption
side of things, all right, if you've got mom and
dad who have passed away, all right, it's not like

(01:12:26):
we have to serve anybody as far as a biological
father we didn't know about, and all that other kind
of things that we normally kind of do with in
step parent adoptions.

Speaker 7 (01:12:36):
Okay, so it's a much easier process.

Speaker 10 (01:12:39):
They can they complain about it, not really at that point,
because they've already given up through the guardianship. Now, can
someone always come in and try and make a stink, Absolutely,
But that doesn't mean that they're.

Speaker 7 (01:12:49):
Going to quote win or beat you out.

Speaker 10 (01:12:51):
So you know, I'd like to get a few more
details and find out, you know, do you think the
family's going to object or not object the kind of thing.
But remember we've got to get that guardianship in place.
You can't just jump immediately to adoption once you've passed
away and you've left your kids to somebody or nominated
somebody for a guardianship.

Speaker 7 (01:13:07):
So and remember our nomination is not automatic.

Speaker 10 (01:13:09):
You still have to go file the guardianship paperwork at
the courthouse and do all the things you're supposed to
do for a guardianship, even with the nomination.

Speaker 1 (01:13:17):
The important part for me when I read this, and
I want you to clarify it for me sure, is
that the emailer is thinking, or the texters asking, does
the can the bios come back?

Speaker 2 (01:13:32):
Or that that's over right?

Speaker 1 (01:13:34):
Well, I mean as far as rights for those parents,
those individuals to the kids.

Speaker 10 (01:13:38):
If they are going to well, first of all, when
you're talking about rights to children, okay, with the exception
of the hierarchy of guardianships, all right, where family comes
in first over friends and things like that. Grandparents don't
have rights to their grandchildren in our state. Aunt and
uncles don't have rights to children whose parents have passed

(01:13:59):
to way, brothers and sisters don't even have rights to
that kind of stuff, or if their parents passed away
and they have yet younger siblings. I got to do with, Okay,
outside of a guardianship hierarchy, that it's not like they can.

Speaker 7 (01:14:10):
They don't just have quote, just rights.

Speaker 10 (01:14:11):
Okay, if you're gonna follow a guardianship and you've been
nominated as the god parents and you've been nominated to
take care of these children because the parents had passed away,
then that's when the family would have to step in
because you have to give notice to those family members
that are still around. Okay, not every little cousin and
a lot of stuff, but like grandparents and aunt nucles,
things like that, you've got to give notice. And if

(01:14:33):
if they are interested in doing the guardianship, then they
would show up and file their entry and take it
from there. But if let's say they don't and everything
goes fine and they agree with it, all right, and
then you decide to do adoption down the road, that's
not a time for them to butt in. Okay, that's
just not gonna happen. And it can't happen because they
don't have any rights to those children at all, in
any way, shape or form.

Speaker 1 (01:14:55):
If it's a mess, and they're all uniquely different, and
I think all the ones we've seen so far demonstrating
how unique everything is, it isn't as cut and dry
as adoption or as guardian ships and if you need clarification,
Jeff is here to answer those questions right now. Eight
through three four six ozho KMOD email show at show
at kmod dot com, or you can text bmms and
whatever your question is to eight two nine four five.

Speaker 2 (01:15:17):
This says we have fifty to fifty.

Speaker 1 (01:15:19):
I have found out when the kid is at mom's
for the week, he's actually been staying at his uncle's
and Mom has not been seen him because she got
kicked out of her house and grandma doesn't want to
watch him. I found this out through the school because
he had to change a bus route. Okay, so then
in violation of the agreement.

Speaker 10 (01:15:38):
Well, let's say what's I didn't hear a question, but
let's let's set it up like that. Are they in
violation of the order? I mean, obviously something has changed.
She's not using her visitation. I mean that that's just
the thing is, if somebody's not using their their court
ordered visitation, you can file a modification, especially if it's
been six months or more. So you know, obviously mom's
got stuff going on and kids shouldn't be shouldn't be

(01:15:59):
dumped off uncle. That's just not okay, and so could
we file a modification on this? Absolutely, So whoever this is,
call me, let's get it changed. Because if mom's gotten
kicked out, first of all, why Second of all, she
shouldn't be dumping kid off with uncles. She should have
contacted you first and said, hey, I loft my place
to live and our child come live with you until
I find someplace. But obviously they didn't happen because they

(01:16:20):
probably don't communicate, which is not a big shocker for
any case.

Speaker 7 (01:16:24):
All right, so he.

Speaker 10 (01:16:26):
Should be in Whoever this is should be the one
that has a child, not uncle. That's just not how
it should work. And I love that family helps family. Okay,
that's great, but parents come first.

Speaker 1 (01:16:36):
Jeffer Mensley Associates is here to answer questions about family law.

Speaker 2 (01:16:40):
This is an interesting one.

Speaker 1 (01:16:41):
My father is in the hospital fixing to have surgery,
but he has a weak heart and not sure if
he will make it through the surgery. My stepmom is
separated from him but still helping him some. So would
she still have power of attorney and all power over
his decision or my sister that's copower of attorney because
he's not in a position to make those decisions on
his own. Not a unique scenario when people are divided.

(01:17:03):
But there's still a power of attorney in existence, right,
So it sounds.

Speaker 10 (01:17:06):
Like there's already a POA all right, and even though
they're separated, unless that POA has been withdrawn, now you've
got the unique situation of did they say what his
mental state was like?

Speaker 2 (01:17:17):
It does not.

Speaker 1 (01:17:17):
It just says he has a weak heart and get
ready to go into the surgery.

Speaker 10 (01:17:20):
Right, So, if he's still able to make decisions, okay,
that POA is still active. Now, if for some reason
he becomes incapacitated, the POA is obviously void at that
point because he can't revoke it because he doesn't have
the capacity to do it, at which point.

Speaker 7 (01:17:34):
We would want to do a guardianship.

Speaker 10 (01:17:35):
But yeah, I mean, if he's still with it and
hasn't revoked the POA, then stepmom and whoever else are
the co POA people and they get to make those decisions.

Speaker 7 (01:17:44):
Absolutely.

Speaker 1 (01:17:45):
If the father wanted to remove the step mother from
power of attorney, how quick of a process is that likely?

Speaker 10 (01:17:53):
I mean, it's as simple as saying I I as
long as someone other than the person they're trying to
get rid of hears it.

Speaker 7 (01:17:59):
Because obviously probably lie about it.

Speaker 10 (01:18:02):
I'll have to do to say I revoke the power
of attorney at this point, So right before surgery, if
he wanted to, he could say I revoke the POA.

Speaker 7 (01:18:08):
Now the problem with that is.

Speaker 10 (01:18:10):
Obviously there's twofold a. Obviously you want to make sure
someone hears it. B If you revoke it right before
you go in on something like that, then who gets
to make the decisions? Which point you've got to go
to court and get a guardianship. And especially if something
does happen. You know, his heart fails, right and he's
got to have surgery and now he's got brain damage
or whatever it mean.

Speaker 7 (01:18:30):
There's all sorts of scenarios, and.

Speaker 2 (01:18:31):
It says the sister is a copower of attorney.

Speaker 7 (01:18:34):
Right.

Speaker 10 (01:18:34):
So my point is is if you're going to POAs
can be revoked at any point as long as you're
cognizant to do so. In other words, if you're not
able to make decisions because you are mentally out of
it for whatever reason, okay, then POAs are dead at
that point, and you would want to go get a
guardianship so you can make decisions for that individual. But
if the person is cognizant the whole time and still

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has their their wits about them whatnot, they can you know,
grant to revoke a POA at any point. That includes
co POAs and things like that. So you know, if
if could the person say I want daughter to be
full POA and you know wife that I'm separated from
not have any POA as long as they're cong is it,
they can do that?

Speaker 7 (01:19:15):
Absolutely?

Speaker 2 (01:19:16):
What's the burden of proof? I mean, she could go
I never heard it.

Speaker 10 (01:19:19):
Well, again, that's why you want to make sure it's recorded,
or you've got you know, video video, or bring a
nurse in who can testify or something if you're in
a hospital setting or something like someone other than the
two parties involved in this in this case in the POA, okay,
you want someone who can come in and say, yes,
I heard them, testify, But you know, Okahoma, being a
one party state, just record the thing because guess what

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we all have recorders on our phones now, I mean
that's just I guess the beauty in the ugly part
of cell phones is is we can record anything at everything,
at any point.

Speaker 1 (01:19:48):
So Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates is here BMMS
and whatever your question is to eight two nine four five,
or you can email show at kmod dot com or
call eight three three four six Oh. Kmod says, I'm
money able to talk on the phone, but had been
wanting to ask this question for some time now. My
uncle owns some land that he's wanting to give to
me when he dies. But the land deed or whatever

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you want to call it has his name on it
and his ex girlfriend's name on it that lived with
them at the time.

Speaker 2 (01:20:17):
She is nowhere to be found, possibly even dead.

Speaker 1 (01:20:20):
It has been about twenty years since we've last talked
to her, and she was pretty old at that time.
Is there anything we can do? Can he still sign
the land over to me? Or do we need to
try to hunt her down to get her signature as well.

Speaker 10 (01:20:33):
There's a way to make all this happen the way
he wants it, but it's going to be a little
complicated to get her name off. I mean, obviously have
to do your due diligence to find her and give
notice and all these other things. So if you want
to give sam Alice in a call in our Pahuska office.
He handles all those kind of questions. Now, if you
want to get his number, call my office here in Tulsa.
Corbyn will give you here. Give it here several times
before we're done, and we can help you with that.

(01:20:55):
Or you can call this Shoemake Law firm in Pahuska
and ask for Sam. It is our firm. We just
didn't change the name when we took over. So with
that being said, there are ways to make this happen,
but there's always I mean, there's always a due diligence.

Speaker 7 (01:21:07):
You can't do things behind people's.

Speaker 10 (01:21:08):
Back, whether they're dead or alive, right, I mean, you've
got to find out where they are, what's going on.
And again, you can only do so much, which is
why we have three ways to serve people in the
state of Oklahoma. Either by mail, which is a green
card kind of thing proving they got it, or by
process server.

Speaker 7 (01:21:24):
Or if those fail to work.

Speaker 10 (01:21:26):
And you can't find them on social media and all
these other things that are out there not to find people,
then obviously we would print in a newspaper and give
notice that way. So there's ways to make it happen.
But we have due diligence first, So we have to
get that done to prove to the core we did
everything could. We could define her. You know, maybe we
find out obituary. I don't know. We'll have to try
that and see. But you know, we can help make

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this happen. Just give us a call.

Speaker 1 (01:21:48):
When it comes to taking a name off of a
land deed, is that like a name change in terms
of how easy it.

Speaker 2 (01:21:54):
Is or is it much more complicated?

Speaker 10 (01:21:56):
Well, typically, if you know where the person is and
they're willing to do, you do a quick claim deed.

Speaker 7 (01:21:59):
I mean that's what we do and divorces.

Speaker 10 (01:22:00):
Right, someone gets the house and the person that gets
the house has to get a quick claim deed from
the other person, a quit claim deed. There is nothing
more than a document that says, I, so and so
hereby give up all my rights to the property and
give it over.

Speaker 7 (01:22:12):
To so and so.

Speaker 1 (01:22:13):
So.

Speaker 10 (01:22:14):
In this case, if girlfriend's still around all right and
is able to make decisions and sign things, she would
sign a document says I hereby give up all my
rights to this land to give it to him, and
then we would have him. You know, we would do
it in a trust obviously, instead it up so that
when he passes that the land would pass on to
whoever this is. It's contacting us so again ways to

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make things happen, But you got to call us so
we can walk you through it.

Speaker 1 (01:22:37):
Jeff from Hensland Associates is on with us. Eight three
three four six. Oh. KMOD is the phone number. You
can text BMMS and whatever your question is to eight
two nine four five, or you can email show at
kmod dot com. My wife's ex husband got a new
job and lives alone and over the summer we do
week on, week off, but he works from nine pm
to seven am and the kids are at his house

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alone all night. Is this okay for this long? The
kids are twelve and fourteen. I know it's okay for
them to leave them at this age for a little bit,
but is overnight okay?

Speaker 7 (01:23:10):
No?

Speaker 10 (01:23:12):
No, I don't know why anybody would think that that's okay. No,
twelve and fourteen year old Come on, no, no, no, no.
They can't drive if something were to happen, they can't drive.
They can't do anything. I mean, sure they can call
nine one one and they probably have cell phones, but
outside of that, no, no, no, no, no, no no,
bad decision.

Speaker 7 (01:23:31):
Guys.

Speaker 10 (01:23:31):
Okay, that shouldn't be happening. Somebody should be with those kids,
and if they're working overnight.

Speaker 7 (01:23:35):
Nobody's there.

Speaker 10 (01:23:37):
The kids should go to the parent I assume the
one reaching out to us that could take care of
the kids overnight now, because their idea, I'm sure.

Speaker 1 (01:23:44):
Is is, oh, well, they're just asleep.

Speaker 10 (01:23:46):
Well, what does the house got broken into and someone
does something to them or shoots them or whatever.

Speaker 7 (01:23:53):
I mean, no, this is this is stupid, no bad idea.

Speaker 2 (01:23:57):
Is it a motion to modify or is it a
contempt or well.

Speaker 10 (01:24:00):
I mean it's it's not a contempor say, but it's
definitely a motion to modify. If mom can't, if whoever
can't exercise their visitation because they're working overnight, and even
though the kids are quote just sleeping, all right, you
can't leave them by themselves. It is definitely emotion to modify.
Whoever this is, please call me this This worries me.
Okay that this concerns me drastically. You don't leave kids

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that age alone. Now, Seventeen different story. Okay, maybe even
sixteen to a certain degree, if you if they were responsible,
But twelve and fourteen not a snow cones chance in hell,
no way that is a bad decision waiting for something
bad to happen.

Speaker 1 (01:24:37):
There are so many unique scenarios that you think are
quite normal, but they're all a little bit different enough
where you need to get consultation from someone who's been
in practice for a while and knows the ins and
outs of the court system when it comes to family law.
Not Google, not chat shept. You need to call Hinsley
and Associates. Eight. Make sure you can them call it

(01:24:57):
nine one eight three, nine eight five six nine two
three nine eight five six nine two mentioned KMOD you'll
get a free consultation over the phone nine eight three
nine eight five six two. And if you find yourself
in need of assistance outside of family law, the folks
in Hinsley Associates can help with that too.

Speaker 10 (01:25:14):
Yeah, I'm alluded to that earlier. Were talking about Sam
Allison in the ARBAHUSCA office. Give him a call up there.
He can help you with anything in addition to family laws.
If you've got criminal issues, as we talked about property issues,
if you've got a contract issue, probates Will's trust. We've
been doing a lot of pre nups here lately, so
please give Sam a call up there.

Speaker 7 (01:25:33):
It's the Shoemake Law Firm.

Speaker 10 (01:25:34):
If you can't remember that, just call our office here
in Tulsath the nine eight three night five six nine
two number. Ask for him and we'll get you transferred
up there. But we would love to help you out.
He does a great job. I'm up in Pasca now
once a week with him as well, So if you've
got any questions, please feel free to reach out up there.
But anything in addition to family law, we can help
you with that up there too, So it gives a.

Speaker 1 (01:25:55):
Call nine one eight three nine eight five six nine
two for Hensley Associates.

Speaker 2 (01:25:58):
Jeff, have a great week. We'll be back.

Speaker 5 (01:26:01):
More of the Big Man Morning Show is next.

Speaker 2 (01:26:04):
I just sent a link. It's for an Instagram page.

Speaker 1 (01:26:07):
And I want you to look at the second line,
third column, the one on the very right.

Speaker 2 (01:26:12):
Don't click on it, just look at it.

Speaker 1 (01:26:14):
Okay, this one will look like a kid.

Speaker 2 (01:26:16):
Hell, what do you think? He's in trouble for.

Speaker 1 (01:26:22):
Armed robbery, aggravated child pornography, aggravated. Good lord, that person
is twenty eight years old. In that mugshot, he looks
like he's fourteen. He does look like he's fourteen. Someone
commented months or years? Yeah, right, he apparently this is
the charge who knows the deal's on the deal on it.

(01:26:46):
But again, this is on the Tulsa mugshots webs Instagram.
And so here's my question, and this isn't an argument
for child pornography.

Speaker 2 (01:26:55):
It's just a curiosity question.

Speaker 1 (01:26:58):
If his girlfriend at twenty eight yearsyears old had a
picture of him on her phone and the authorities saw that,
would they just assume it's child pornography.

Speaker 6 (01:27:08):
Just based on looks? Probably, But they'd be wrong in
this example, one hundred percent. They'd be wrong. They would
have to do some investigating and then find find.

Speaker 1 (01:27:16):
The individual or can the person whose phone it was
on go no, no, no? Oh yeah you know twenty right,
yeah that always works over well, yeah, they'd have to
go to the person and the picture, you know who
is in the picture, and be like, excuse me, sir,
I need to see your found a naked picture of

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you on somebody's phone, and I just want to make
sure you're old enough. And it could be a situation
too that I didn't think about is that this individual
masks themselves as a child of that age to get
other pictures of children. Yeah, I could see that, you know,
for that charge, Yeah, I could see that.

Speaker 6 (01:28:00):
What does it take to become aggravated child pornography?

Speaker 2 (01:28:05):
I think, what do you think, Linda?

Speaker 1 (01:28:07):
You want to take a guess on what you think
it makes it an aggravated charge.

Speaker 4 (01:28:12):
Aggravated would be the type of get photos, the kind
of acts that they're in. Maybe if it was a
sexual okay, not just like a nude picture.

Speaker 1 (01:28:27):
I think it's more of the come on, come on,
why won't you do it? They're aggravated that they're not
getting it.

Speaker 2 (01:28:34):
What does it says?

Speaker 1 (01:28:35):
Any person who, with knowledge of its contents, possesses one
hundred or more separate materials depicting child pornography?

Speaker 6 (01:28:45):
Wow, that's how you get it aggravated. So one hundred
or more pictures.

Speaker 2 (01:28:50):
So serious, intense.

Speaker 1 (01:28:52):
Even if it's one hundred and one ninety nine pictures
of child porn it's just possession child pornography a hundred
or more, it's aggravated.

Speaker 4 (01:29:02):
I'm still not convinced that this is an adult this mugshot.

Speaker 2 (01:29:06):
Yeah, you think they're lying?

Speaker 4 (01:29:07):
I mean, I just it's so unbelievably he just looks
so young.

Speaker 1 (01:29:14):
I mean, I know plenty, I know plenty of guys
who don't have facial hair in their thirties. Right, It
isn't common, but I know of some guys who just
can't grow facial hair to save their life.

Speaker 2 (01:29:30):
There's nothing they can do to get facial hair.

Speaker 1 (01:29:32):
Comments are fantastic.

Speaker 6 (01:29:34):
He's got a picture of brick on there, and then
it's like, yeah, Kyle is child mugshot accessible.

Speaker 1 (01:29:42):
People dogging on the website going, how can you publish
a kid's picture?

Speaker 4 (01:29:46):
Uh huh, I mean, my eleven year old looks older
than this guy.

Speaker 1 (01:29:50):
Oh, we're arresting kids now? Well, I think. I think
the other part too, is you're only seeing shoulders up,
so you have no idea how tall this person is. True,
you have no idea what their weight looks like. They
just have a baby face. That is an actual term
people throw around in society.

Speaker 6 (01:30:13):
Baby face reference.

Speaker 2 (01:30:15):
Nobody had that on their be have a mess bingo
card today?

Speaker 1 (01:30:18):
Nobody.

Speaker 4 (01:30:20):
But it's his real name.

Speaker 1 (01:30:22):
Oh fun, don't look get me trying to guess and
net worth and age. I'll do the deats, leslie, what
do you think baby face his real name? Network networth
and age.

Speaker 4 (01:30:40):
Uh.

Speaker 8 (01:30:41):
His last name is Edmunds, Raymond Edmunds.

Speaker 7 (01:30:46):
I believe, going.

Speaker 1 (01:30:49):
Off of like true knowledge that you have Doug around.

Speaker 8 (01:30:52):
Yeah, yeah, Raymond something Edmunds.

Speaker 4 (01:30:56):
His age, I want to say his A is probably
sixty two, gimby.

Speaker 1 (01:31:09):
I want to say.

Speaker 6 (01:31:10):
His real name is Jerome Clancy. He is currently fifty
eight years old and has a net worth of.

Speaker 1 (01:31:22):
Seventy five million dollars.

Speaker 4 (01:31:24):
Okay, I didn't do a networth. We'll go, I'll say
forty five million.

Speaker 2 (01:31:34):
Stel right.

Speaker 1 (01:31:35):
None of you were right, by the way, none of
you had it correct. His real name is Kenneth Edmunds,
so you weren't last. Yeah. Kenneth is sixty six years old, Okay,
and he has a net worth of two hundred million dollars.

Speaker 4 (01:31:54):
No.

Speaker 2 (01:31:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:31:56):
He's written songs for Whitney Houston, Boised Hi Men, Madonna, TLC,
Tony Broxton, Mariah Carey, Beyonce, and a bunch more into
the road might be when you know for sure. He's
co founder of La Face Records with La Reid, so Usher, TLC, Outcast, Pink,
pretty much any R and B from the nineties. Yeah,

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twelve Grammy Awards producer of the Year, one of the
greatest producers ever of all time.

Speaker 6 (01:32:26):
And apparently playing at the Zoo Ampatheater in Oklahoma City
in late September, so you could go see. What was
it that Kenneth Kennick, Kendall, Kenny Kenny Old, Kenny Edmunds.

Speaker 2 (01:32:37):
You don't know me good enough to call me Kenneth right?

Speaker 1 (01:32:42):
Baby face?

Speaker 6 (01:32:43):
I mean, and he said he was what sixty eight, Yeah,
sixty six, sixty six. I mean he still got a
bit of a baby face for being sixty six. Looking
at his Instagram, I think he's trying to do his
best Stevie Wonder impression here.

Speaker 1 (01:32:56):
But I would have never guessed that he was two
hundred men. I knew he was famous, of course, Yeah,
of course, I lie.

Speaker 10 (01:33:02):
You know.

Speaker 6 (01:33:03):
I knew he was big in the nineties and maybe
maybe early two thousands.

Speaker 1 (01:33:07):
I didn't think he'd be doing much. I don't know
if this is true. Guess how he Guess who named
him babyface? There's no way you will guess how who
named him. It's it's im. This name isn't even in
your radar. It's on another planet. Diana Ross, No, not

(01:33:27):
even close. You're getting closer Bootsy Collins really okay from
the Parliament Funk?

Speaker 7 (01:33:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:33:38):
Yes, I met him and was like, man, you got
that Babyface? I mean apparently he played with the whole
p funk God, this is wild. Where's his where's his
life story? On TV? We're's his behind the music? Yeah,

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Babyface or Bootsy baby Face? Yeah, they're still working on it.

Speaker 2 (01:34:05):
Where's his book?

Speaker 1 (01:34:07):
There are only there are only a few musicians, musicians
I'd love to sit down with and like hear some
of their stories. Right, you would think, like a Gene
Simmons or whatever. The problem with that is you don't
know what you're getting his truth. And I know that
applies to anyone, but Gene has a hyperbole element to him,
so it wouldn't feel.

Speaker 2 (01:34:25):
I don't know if I would feel like it's authentic.

Speaker 1 (01:34:27):
But Babyface would be someone I would love to sit
down with and ask him about his experiences in the
music industry, sure, and what it was like. And you know, Flood,
if you know who that is, he's a famous producer.
I would love to talk to him and about all
the bands that he helped produce and any most of
the biggest hits of the nineties he alternative rock. He

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was a part of ya, right, who would be another
one that would be great to talk to, talk to
and hear about all those rock artists that he worked
with and did his wife hanging around at the time,
and like try to tell him, yeah, but I can
sing country should I? I'm just saying that there is
something that you would be fun to talk to. And

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Babyface was not on my radar. If he's I mean,
I know he's playing. There's no reason for him to
promote the show on our show, but I would love
to talk to him about that two hundred million. The
man's got some experience and probably some great stories. Yeah,
I should have said that, all right, we're gonna take

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a break. We'll be back.