BMMS 9-16-25

Elton John Has Made His Old Knee Caps Into Jewelry, Don't Cut Off An Ambulance, AWoman Attacks Her Boyfriend With A Hatchet While He Sleeps, Car Jacking Nuns, Famous People That Went Missing, Listener E-Mails, To Tell The Truth, & Robert Redford Died!!

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that at nine or to tell the truth. I don't
know if you guys saw the story this morning, but
Elton John had knee surgery and he turned his knee

(03:54):
caps into wearable jewelry. Hmm. Quote when I had mine, well,
I had my kneecaps removed, the left fore fest than
the right one. I don't know why I'm turned Australian.
I asked my surgeon if I could keep the knee caps,

(04:16):
which he was rather startled about. And uh, he had
a jewelry designer who had creative liberty to do with
he want do what he wanted with them. The jeweler
said they baked the knee caps to dry them out,
noting the process makes the bones raw like pummus and porous,

(04:40):
and it allowed them to be painted with acetate and
polished up. Have you seen the pictures? Yeah, they're gaudy.
What the hell?

Speaker 4 (04:49):
Well, I mean I think he's gaudy, you know, just
just the way he you know, dressed centric.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
Yes, sure, he weird. Yes, yeah, that is so bizarre.
And apparently they're going to like auction them off. I
don't know. So the question that I by the way,
I'm never I love my wife, I love my kids.

(05:18):
I'm not wearing their kneecaps right my neck so weird.
If you were, though, what body part? That's what I
was getting to like it. If you if you were
going to get a body part made into jewelry, what
would you get, assuming it can be done right, lendsey.

Speaker 5 (05:45):
An eyeball would be kind of cool.

Speaker 4 (05:49):
Maybe like a necklace or an eyeball ringked that's another question.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
It's your eyeball why.

Speaker 5 (05:59):
I'm always watching But I don't know. I feel like
an eye represents in other cultures, like they have the
the the blue eye, and in Greek mythology and they
have the evil eye. Is the they keep evil spirits away.

(06:21):
I know we don't have one.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
I know, but I'm asking why the eye.

Speaker 5 (06:25):
I just feel like the eye it feels less weird.
An eye feels less weird. This kneecap, to me, it
looks like more of a seashell or something.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
So what's the eyeball? Would you do? A necklace or
a ring?

Speaker 5 (06:45):
Most likely a necklace, a bracelet, a brooch. It would
either be a necklace or a ring. I think a
ring would.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Be huge, yeah, and it would be noticeable because it
would be so massive on your hand.

Speaker 5 (07:01):
Unless it was just like a hat, like just the
either the pupil or I mean, because if you just
did a pupil, then it would almost look like a
black on it.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
Okay, you gotta go with hall Elton. John's doing it,
and he took his whole last kneecap, right, so I
feel you have to use the whole eyeball in your
case for that.

Speaker 5 (07:20):
And if you, I mean, it would probably shrivel up
a little bit because you would have to dry it
out again.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
We're assuming it can be done, yeah, so yeah, yeah,
you want to raise it on your finger right now, gimbi,
I'm gonna do.

Speaker 4 (07:36):
I'm gonna do my little hand right, that is me, right,
And if anything ever happened where it had to be amputated, yes, Doc,
I would like to have that, even if it is
just the the skeletal remains, no flesh or anything like that.
Let's let's glue these bones together so they stay in place.

(07:56):
And I'm definitely making a necklace out of it. Wear
that some bitch like flavor flav right there on my
neck because it's such a huge part of my life.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
It is.

Speaker 4 (08:06):
It has made me who I am, you know, so
I can't think of any and I would be great
knee capture a little weird.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
My one elbow, no man.

Speaker 4 (08:16):
Chop that son of a bitch off, right, there at
what should be the elbow at the bend. Right, so
you're looking at what do you say that is Corbyn?
About maybe eight inches?

Speaker 1 (08:29):
Where's my where's Yeah? I think that's eight or nine inches? Yeah, yeah,
so right there at the bend, well that's ten inches
ten and a half. You're good for you ten and
a half.

Speaker 4 (08:40):
Inches right there. So yeah, it would it would stick out.
It would be noticeable for sure. But I mean again,
it's it's it's me, how about you?

Speaker 6 (08:48):
Man?

Speaker 1 (08:48):
I think that makes I mean for a mix, you're
totally right. That is memorialized forever. Put it on a
plaque hanging on your wall. Like Billy big Mouth bass man.
We're making jewelry and have Billy big Mouth bass in
my card today. I don't know my balls, I guess,
so my wife make him a necklace. Wouldn't be great

(09:11):
corporate for school events and maybe work, but you know,
not out with the girls. I guess. I don't know.
But you're the because Elton John is wearing his knee cap,
so I'm assuming that we are wearing the jewelry that
we're making. So you would be wearing your own testicles
around your neck, which is pretty awesome and hilarious. What
are those that my balls? For those reasons?

Speaker 5 (09:34):
I like the idea of balls as ear rings.

Speaker 1 (09:44):
Yeah, sure, dangle dangle lingle. I mean maybe one as
a ring would sound pretty awesome. Again, it's still pretty
big for a ring, right, she's talking ear rings? No,
I know, so for you yourself, but you could you've
got to them.

Speaker 4 (09:59):
You make two rings and you've got good hands, isn't hurt, right,
so you can put one on each hand, boom pal
or just one.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
Because it's pretty big, but it's a two finger ring. Okay?
Can you imagine me hitting you in the face with
my ball? Are the gold plated or they just taken?
What's wrong with you?

Speaker 6 (10:21):
Like?

Speaker 4 (10:21):
I look at Elton John's jewelry and it's like it's
got the knee camp but it's surrounded by what looks
like gold plating, and it looks like it's got some
diamond in the in the center or whatever. So I
guess I mean, yeah, diamond encrusted, gold plated, not bronze.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
So jewelry. Second question, you can have a body part
made into jewelry of your partner. What are you picking?

Speaker 5 (10:53):
It has to be jewelry that's the topic. I'm gonna, Yeah,
I'm gonna have his balls made into ear rings for myself.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
Interesting, Yeah, because.

Speaker 5 (11:06):
Why not that? I mean why I mean if this
is gonna be the thing or the a ring, both
of them. I also like his hands, no pick one. Oh,
there's not much of body parts of his that I

(11:29):
would want to wear as jewelry. But I think balls
would work as earrings.

Speaker 4 (11:36):
Okay, GIMPI as I'm thinking about this. She has got
the prettiest eyes ever, But eyeballs themselves, they're all the same.
So the eyeball, the eyes, you know, I would have
to take the skin in everything, and the same way
with her smile. She's got a beautiful smile, right, But again,
lips are lips, So if I'm going for lips, I'm

(11:56):
going for the lower.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
Half, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (11:59):
So i'd have to do like a like a laby
a necklace, you know.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
But yeah, I know that.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
Yeah, yeah, And well here's here's my other thought on this.
Like I don't know if it's considered jewelry or if
it's more ear mumps, right, like like actual ear mufs,
But that could be considered jewelry. Of sorts, because my
thought is, no, take those knockers and turn them in
the ear mouths.

Speaker 1 (12:27):
Ear Muffs are not jewelry. It's an accessory, so is jewelry. No, listen,
if she you go off on fifty thousand things, why
can't We're getting away from the topic. And that's the
thing about about her. She's normal, right, just like everybody else.
She doesn't have a tiny, weird little arm or anything
like it. I guess she does have a jacked up

(12:49):
finger because we have talked about that before.

Speaker 4 (12:52):
One of her fingers is a little different. So Boom
just figured it out. I'm taking her weird finger, and
I it'd have to be a necklace because I'm not
a ring wearing kind of gang. I'm not gonna put
on an anklet.

Speaker 1 (13:09):
Okay, Now, even when you were married and you'd wear
your wedding ring, I'd be like, that looks weird.

Speaker 4 (13:13):
It does, and it feels weird, right, it feels weird
because it's just you know, my hands. Uh So, either way,
no matter what body part I'm turning into jewelry, it's
going to be a necklace. And I think I would
have to take her one weird finger.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
I've got a great ass. Yeah, her whole ass, the
whole ass. Huah, So that like flave a flav necklace. Right,
I get what you're saying.

Speaker 4 (13:41):
And and like the thing is is like with Elton
John's that's that's bone.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
So it's pretty solid.

Speaker 4 (13:47):
So you would have to cut off her butttalks and
then I guess what we are we going to make
a mold out of it or you gotta solidify it something.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
Again, we don't want to go too far down the
rabbit hole, but we started with the idea that it
can be done. Okay, yeah, yeah, because I don't want
to change my answer. And now then, well I'm sorry
you didn't think it through clearly. I mean your wife doesn't. Yeah,
I know, right, Yeah, I get its content, but this

(14:18):
is a really creepy conversation. Hey, we talk about topical things.
He's not our idea. Blame Mountain John. Take it over
with him and his people are. Yeah. I didn't bring
this up. I just found the thing. I was like,
that's interesting and it looks stupid.

Speaker 5 (14:34):
Yeah, it's not a good looking piece of art.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
Jewelry body part to it's just gold. It looks stupid.

Speaker 5 (14:43):
Yeah, I mean it looks like, I don't know, maybe
old fossil or something that he found and put some
gold around it.

Speaker 1 (14:52):
Right, you would only know it's a kneecap because he'd
be like, huh, knee cap.

Speaker 5 (14:55):
Yeah, yeah, it's weird.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
This is probably the example of I have a lot
of money and I don't know where to spend it. Yeah, definitely,
it is exactly one hundred percent correct because I don't
in the story I had it didn't say how much
it was worth the value of it. Pretty sure, I
don't know. Pay someone's house off would be pretty awesome. Right.
They'll even rename the house the Elton John House. I'm sure, sir,

(15:21):
Elton John, you pay, you pay off my house out
and John. It will be known as the Elton John House, right.

Speaker 5 (15:26):
Yes, and I will name every single room. Every room
will have a plaque with the song in your song titles.

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Speaker 1 (16:00):
Who's Quickies from the Big nd Morning Show.

Speaker 5 (16:01):
In ninety seventy five, man break checks ambulance on its
way to emergency call forty seven year old Terrell Osbourne
of Middletown, New York. He was arrested for road rage
when this ambulance driver was responding to an emergency call.

(16:23):
Osbourne was driving in a two thousand and one Chrysler
when an ambulance legally passed him while rushing to an
emergency with its lights on. Osborne apparently didn't like that.
Maybe he was in a hurry as well. He started
following the ambulance, driving recklessly at high speeds, pulled alongside

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the ambulance, then illegally passed it and cut in front
of it, trying to stop the vehicle. And he did,
and his actions prevented the paramedic from continuing to respond
to the emergency call. Osbourne was then charged with obstructing
emergency medical services, reckless driving, and several traffic violations.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
Yeah, what are you doing man?

Speaker 5 (17:11):
Exactly?

Speaker 1 (17:13):
So did the ambulance have its lights on it? Did?

Speaker 2 (17:16):
It?

Speaker 1 (17:16):
Did?

Speaker 5 (17:17):
And sirens?

Speaker 4 (17:19):
That's crazy. He reminds me of that National Lampoon's movie
Deadly Sins Seven Deadly Sins. It's got Andrew Dice Clay
in it or whatever. And he's on his way to
the convenience store to get his girlfriend tampons and an
ambulance is coming through and he totally just cuts it
right off to pull into the convenience store parking lot. O.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
Goodness, I there's gotta be footage of this, right, hopefully
you'd think that ambulance would have like a dash cam
on it or something like that. I will say. Going
down the rabbit hole of YouTube's and watching people do
break checks so funny because they get out acting all
tough or acting like they got injured, and the person's like,

(18:06):
I have a camera on my dash right, and that
is what they call evidence. Yeah, and guess what happens.
The insurance makes you pay for both cars at that
point because you caused the wreck because you want to
be a douche, right, because you just think you got
to protect your little territory of that's not yours, right

(18:28):
right woman.

Speaker 4 (18:29):
It hits boyfriend in head with a hatchet while he
was sleeping. Oh my, this comes out of North Dakoda
just recently, all right, at the beginning of this month,
a gall that goes by the name of Lena dio
Leverra I believe that's how you say it.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
Anyhow, So.

Speaker 4 (18:47):
The story goes that there's Lena and then her boyfriend
and then another dude living in this garage type situation,
and that the the other man, not the boyfriend, okay,
woke up to the sounds of screams and another sound

(19:07):
of what he described as splitting wood. And when he
wakes up, he sees Lena over her boyfriend with a
hatchet in her hand. Apparently she had whacked the guy
in the head and then again like in the hand,
like he was trying to block the shot ended up
getting his hand. So according to this other dude, he

(19:31):
was missing fingers or they were just damn near dangling off.
So he says that Lena was out of it and
that she came to when she heard the sound of
the couch's foot rest clicking and then saw all the
blood and then that's when she high tailed it out
of there. Don't see you and anyhow, So the guy
calls nine to one one. Ambulance comes out, Police come out,

(19:54):
They see the trail of blood. Dude goes to the hospital.
The man who was attacked to the boyfriend, he goes
to the hospital to get you know, fixed, because he's
got a giant cash in his head from a hatchet
and a hatchet wound and his fingers are missing. So
the police see the pictures of the hatchet wound in
this guy's head, they see that his fingers are missing.

(20:15):
They found the trail of blood, and they're like, all right, well,
now we got to find this crazy bitch that's in
here hacking people up while they sleeping. Well, they did
catch up with her. They caught up with her two
days later in Minnesota, don't you know. And they ended
up arresting her. And she said that she wasn't going
to answer any questions she wanted to tell she wanted

(20:35):
her attorney there. Nonetheless, she goes to court.

Speaker 1 (20:40):
Was the last Friday.

Speaker 4 (20:42):
Yeah, and now she has been charged with attempted mere
deer and aggravated.

Speaker 1 (20:47):
Assault dude using the hatchet on somebody's crazy. Yeah, yeah,
I like to find out why she did? Yeah? What
did he do? Yeah? Yeah? What was it?

Speaker 4 (20:57):
Did you find something on his phone while he was
sleeping or you sleep walking and grabbed a hatchet and
started whacking away?

Speaker 1 (21:05):
Now, what the hell's going on? She's on a period,
right right?

Speaker 4 (21:10):
What happened to cause you to make you want to
go whack into your boyfriend's head while he was sleeping?

Speaker 5 (21:17):
Maybe it was ambient, Maybe she was on the ambient.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
I mean we've read stories, We've read stories, but I
don't know if we've read stories of people being violent
on ambient. Yeah, they just usually get up with the couch,
cushions in the oven, make a cake in the microwave.
Yeah yeah, not bludgeon somebody with a right man accused
of carjackie nuns leaving church. Sure, yeah, it's it's horrible.

(21:48):
Uh this man, this happens in Saint Louis. I'm telling you, man,
just trying to get stuff to work for me. A
man is accused of carjacking a pair of nuns as
they were leaving church. The incident happened last month in
Saint Louis, when Jordan Grundy allegedly held up the women

(22:10):
with a toy gun and forced them out of their car.
He took off, leading the police on a chase that
ended when he crashed the car. The Wisconsin man was
already in jail when he was hit with the additional charges.

Speaker 4 (22:23):
I don't understand that story. What additional charges? I mean
he got the charge for carjacking.

Speaker 1 (22:30):
No, I mean I don't understand. I don't understand carjacking.
I mean, you gotta go, you gotta go. No beats walking, No,
I don't. I literally don't like bank robbery. Okay, I
can get my head around that. You feel the need
for money, right, you're in backed up against bankruptcy or

(22:50):
pay the bookie or whatever. Carjacking I don't understand it.
I don't think it ever works out. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (22:58):
I've never carjack, nor have been car jack. But I
imagine if somebody had just, yeah, right, just committed a that.

Speaker 1 (23:05):
Is a fear of mine.

Speaker 4 (23:06):
I'm not gonna lie because I'm on the bike most
of the time, right, and anybody at an intersection come up,
rip me off that some bitch and take off with
my bike.

Speaker 1 (23:14):
I think you have nothing to worry about because the
moment you step off that you just don't hold the
handle bars, it's gonna fall over. Good luck.

Speaker 4 (23:20):
That's nine hundred pounds that you're gonna have to pick
up off the ground, right, good point. Nonetheless, I'm thinking that, like,
maybe if you just committed a crime like robbed a
convenience store or something, and you need to get out
of the area fast, that's why you'd be like, give
me the car or sister, and then you know, pull
the nuns out and take off, right, the only thing
I could think of.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
But if you're going to commit that crime, a couple
of nuns makes the best sense that they're gonna forgive you. Right.
I guess he needed the car, but more than we did.
Write him. He's testing me, right, just saying they would
have been far more compassionate empathetic forgiving. I don't know, man,

(24:01):
there's stories of nuns who don't be playing around, and
how do we know not one of them's packing, you know,
underneath that robe that they're wearing just pulled out like
you know, forty four.

Speaker 5 (24:10):
Or something, or maybe they had mace.

Speaker 1 (24:15):
Listen, I don't know of any nun who's packing, And
I don't know what story you're referring to of like,
h they're messing around. You're not in middle school. We're
not talking about middle school nuns, all right, the ones
with the ruler. We're not talking about the reformatory schools
the back in the day where they did atrocities. Right,
it's just passed down from none to none. Right, it's

(24:35):
just embedded in them, right, systemic. All right, we got
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We all know about Amelia Earhart Jimmy Hoffa, right, those
two people went missing. We have a guess where they
might be, but ultimately we don't know where they're at, right,
And that led me down a rabbit hole of people
who went missing who are famous or were famous, never
to be seen again. And we've talked about people going

(25:45):
missing on the show a lot, and since doing the show,
I have developed opinion that it happens a ton. People
just evaporate. Now, whether they harm themselves and whither away,
or they harm themselves and die, or someone takes them alien,
I don't know, but it is clear to me that

(26:08):
it happens a lot. Not enough to be like, hey,
don't let your kid ride their bike, but it does happen,
and some of these are really bizarre. So Richie Edwards
was in the band Manic Street Preachers and on February first,
nineteen ninety five, he checked out of his hotel in
London and was supposed to head to the airport for

(26:30):
a US tour and he was never seen again. They
found his car abandoned two weeks later near a bridge,
which was a notorious suicide location, and they never recovered
a body, and he wasn't presumed dead. So that happened
in ninety five until two thousand and eight. Wow, And

(26:51):
that's such a big deal for families, right, because if
you're not if you don't get a death certificate, a
lot of things can't happen. You're just missing Joe Pickler. Now,
he was in the movie Beethoven. He vanished in two
thousand and six at the age of eighteen. They found

(27:12):
his empty car part near a bridge in the state
of Washington, just days after friends last saw him. Inside
the vehicle, they found his wallet and a note that
expressed a desire to be a stronger brother. They believe
he may have jumped from the bridge, but they never
recovered his body. I think those two it's fair to
say that probably they jumped from the bit. Yeah, that

(27:36):
feels like a fair connection. There is an author of
a book back in nineteen forty four called The Little Prince,
and that is Antoine de Saint Expery. He was a
military pilot for the Free French Air Force in nineteen

(27:58):
forty four, he took off from an AIRBA flow a
reconnaissance mission over occupied France. He and his plane never returned,
vanishing without a trace over the Mediterranean Sea. They said
it was a mystery for decades until divers finally discovered
the wreckage of his aircraft off the coast of Marseille
in two thousand.

Speaker 4 (28:19):
Okay, so he probably crashed his plane, and then you
didn't say they found a body, So it's probably eaten.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
By sixty years. It's probably yeah, yeah, but again feels
like a fair connection. Yeah, that's what happened, right. There
is an actress and dancer from nineteen forty nine called
Jene Spangler. She left her Los Angeles home, telling a
relative she was going to a night film shoot. Two
days later, authorities found her purse with a torn strap

(28:50):
near an chance to Griffith Park. It contained a cryptic,
unfinished note addressed to a Kirk that mentioned seeing doctor Scott.
The discovery led to a massive investigation that briefly involved
Kirk Douglass the actor, but no trace of the woman
was ever found. This one's really fascinating. Tammy Lynn Leppert.

(29:11):
She was a beauty queen and actress, and she was
known to be a little erratic. She worked on the
movie Scarface. She told her family she had feared for
her life. On July sixth, nineteen eighty three, she left
her home in Cocoa Beach, Florida, with a male friend.
He later told police he dropped her off alone in
a parking lot following an argument. The girl, who was

(29:33):
eighteen at the time, never seen again. They believe she
is connected to a string of drug ring murders in
the area at that time. But I feel like that's
just a leap, right, Yeah. In the eighties drugs, Yeah,
especially Miami. Yeah, cocaine and then like she died, well

(29:54):
it must have been drugs.

Speaker 5 (29:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (29:57):
They still got her listed as a live on her Wikipedia. Yeah,
just says you know, disappeared July of eighty three.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
Like we talked earlier. Unless the death certificate has been issued,
all right, she would be considered still alive. I guess
you're right. And if you have like somebody who has
a cell phone and they die, you you can't close it. Yeah,
you have to have a deserty. Gore'd be like, yo,
they died, we have to close it. But you can't
be like they're missing, right, right right.

Speaker 4 (30:26):
It could be a possibility of that movie bit being
a part of it.

Speaker 1 (30:30):
Screwed her up so much.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
To where she's just like, I'm I'm moving to Sweden
or whatever and never told anybody.

Speaker 1 (30:37):
I mean, she was with someone. He probably killed her,
would be my guest. Yeah, more than likely. You just
dropped somebody off in a parking lot and leave them.
You're supposing, okay. There's an author named Ambrose Bierce. He
was known for cynical stories and journalism about the Civil War.
In nineteen thirteen, at the age of seventy one, he

(30:58):
traveled to Mexico, the witness country's of revolution, as an
observer with Panto Villa's army. He was last confirmed contact
was a letter he wrote from the Chihuahua on December
twenty sixth, nineteen thirteen. After that date, he was never
seen or heard from again. They don't know where he went.

(31:19):
Barbara Newhall Folet. She was a child prodigy in the twenties.
She found literary fame with her novel The House Without Windows.
As an adult, she grew unhappy with her marriage, and
on December seventh, nineteen thirty nine, she walked out of
her apartment after an argument with her husband. She left
with only thirty dollars, never seen again. Her husband did

(31:41):
not report her missing for two weeks. Wow. Her case
became largely forgotten until a modern rediscovery of her work
brought the mystery to public attention.

Speaker 5 (31:50):
He killed her, Yeah, he followed her and killed her.

Speaker 1 (31:54):
No, he killed her and just said she left the apartment. Hey, yeah,
But the thing is there's no body to be found,
so where's the bodies? There was no looking for it.

Speaker 4 (32:05):
Okay, the authorities are just like, Eh, nobody cares about this.

Speaker 1 (32:09):
He could have low time author I'm sure he could
have killed her, drug her down the street. Ain't nobody
see nothing, ain't no cameras working? Right? That was back
in the time when people went to bed at a
decent hour, right, and you dig a shallow grave. Yeah,
two weeks? Where are they going to go? Look?

Speaker 5 (32:29):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
They don't have cell phones to pin Yeah in nineteen
fourteen or whatever the hell in nineteen thirty nine, Yeah,
I guess your police work wasn't as thorough as it
is nowadays. Harold Holt, he was the Australian Prime minister
He vanished while swimming at a beach on December seventeen,
nineteen sixty seven. His companion watched from shore as he

(32:51):
entered the surf and was quickly pulled away by an undertow.
The incident triggered one of the largest search and rescue
operations in the nation's history. Authorities never recovered his body,
and he presumed drowning, and has since spawned numerous conspiracy
theories over the years. Yeah, he drowned, ye undertow. You
don't think about that. But when you have world leaders,
you're like, hey, not in the ocean, right, Hey, no

(33:14):
juggling knives because he can't. Accidents happen exactly. They inside
and be boring, right, don't ride your bicycle, right. Connie
Converse she is a singer songwriter and was one of
the earliest artists in the fifties folksing, but she never
found commercial success. In nineteen seventy four, a delusion woman.

(33:34):
This woman who became delusional decided she needed a completely
new start. She packed her belongings and made converse. Never mind,
it's gonna make a joke. She made the converse that starts.
She packed her belongings into her Volkswagen Beetle left a
series of fellow farewell letters for her family, and then
drove away from her Michigan home. Her family respected her

(33:54):
wishes never heard from her again, leaving her untimely fate
a complete mystery. How do you not ever reach out? Oh,
I know she's a bitch or they're a hole? Rightly, right,
it's one of those two things.

Speaker 4 (34:12):
All of the family, though not even like a distant
cousin is like, Man, I haven't heard from cousin Connie
in a long time, or.

Speaker 1 (34:20):
What she's up to.

Speaker 5 (34:21):
Maybe they were a very small family.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
I mean, I haven't heard from any of my cousins,
nor have I reached out to them. I guess you're right.
I have one cousin I talked to maybe once a
year during the chief season.

Speaker 4 (34:34):
But I bet you if you didn't talk to them
during the season, they might come back and be like, hey,
is everything all right? And we usually talk at least
once this time of year.

Speaker 1 (34:45):
No.

Speaker 5 (34:46):
No, because people live their lives. They get busy, yeah,
they living. Unfortunately, this woman, Dorothy Arnold. This happened in
nineteen ten. She was a New York socialite and a writer.
She vanished in broad daylight while shopping in Manhattan. After
leaving her family's upscale residence. She purchased a book and
spoke with an acquaintance on Fifth Avenue. That was the

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last confirmed sighting of the twenty five year old. Her
wealthy family initially tried to handle the situation privately, delaying
a police report four weeks in, hampering the official investigation.
Despite extensive searches and numerous theories, no trace of her
was ever found. I'm going to make a leap on
this one and say she was pregnant and not married.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
For that time of the Yeah, Okay, I can see that.
And if they were wealthy and socialites and they wanted
to keep it private, they probably didn't want to be
tarnished with this out of wedlock marriage, right, and so
they just killed her. That's possibility it happened. Yeah, this
one is fairly recent and interesting. NBA player Bison Delhi.

(35:53):
He vanished in the South Pacific along with his girlfriend
and the boat's captain. The sole person to returned from
the trip a board was his older brother. He later
docked the catamaran in Tahiti. He claimed he shot Deally
in self defense after an argument and fled using his
brother's passport and money. Before authorities could fully investigate his story,

(36:15):
he died from an insulin overdose, leaving the exact events
of what happened at sea a complete mystery.

Speaker 5 (36:22):
Wow, and he was an NBA player here somewhere, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (36:27):
Huh, I don't remember the story.

Speaker 5 (36:29):
I don't either.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
I have no recollection of an NBA player going on
a boat and his brother saying, yeah, we have self defense.
You know, hey, he probably wasn't big enough yet. I
mean they have the photo of him playing. Yeah. This
one is Yelinia CARRIESI. She's an Italian television personality. She
vanished while visiting New Orleans in nineteen ninety four. The

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daughter of two of Italy's most famous singers, she was
last seen staying at a hotel in the city's Free Quarter.
The leading theory stems from a security guard's report of
a woman matching her description jumping into the Mississippi River.
They found no body, and her father declared her legally
dead in twenty fourteen. Hail Bogs. In October seventy two,

(37:18):
a small plane carrying US House Majority leader Hail Bogs
vanished vanished somewhere between Anchorage and Juno during a camping
a campaign trip in Alaska. His disappearance triggered a massive
thirty nine day search. Investigators never found a trace of
the aircraft or it's for occupants that November, both Bogs
and Congressman Nick Bajish, who was also on board, were

(37:40):
re elected after their deaths. Are the miss being missing.
The incident led directly to a new federal law mandating
that most civil aircraft carry emergency locator transmitters. Glenn Miller.
Like Glenn Miller Orchestra, during World War II, Poular, American
bandleader Glenn Millard traveled through Europe to entertain Allied troops

(38:04):
with his orchestra. December fifteenth, nineteen forty four, he boarded
a small military plane in England for a flight to
newly liberated Paris. The single engine aircraft vanished somewhere over
the English Channel never reached its destination. Officials never found
the wreckage or remains, and presumed the plane crash to
a combination of mechanical failures and poor weather. You're just

(38:25):
making that assumption. There's no data to know that, right,
not my Glen.

Speaker 5 (38:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
Rico Harris former Harlem globetrider Rico Harris vanished in twenty
fourteen while driving from southern California to Seattle to move
in with his fiance. Thorty's later located as abandoned car
in a remote state park parking lot in the hills
of Yolo County. Yellow investigators also found his backpack and

(38:55):
phone nearby, but there was no sign of the six
to nine athlete. Despite extensive searches and the rugged train,
he was never found. His family had no answers. Wow, six',
nine it's a little hard to blend. In, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (39:12):
They got them listed as a former professional basketball. Player
are The globetrotters?

Speaker 1 (39:17):
Professional? No but SOME i MEAN i think you get
paid to play. Basketball, yes that makes you. Professional you
may not BE nba. Though some players do THE nba
and then like for a year and then go do.
That some do it after they. Retire some never go, right,
like why don't want to do? THAT i was JUST
i just, play you, know throw confetti.

Speaker 4 (39:36):
Right the basketball on the, string trink.

Speaker 1 (39:39):
Hold the kid's finger and make it. Spin the ball
spin on their. Hand let's do this last. One Sean, flynn,
legendary the Actor i'm. Sorry the son of legendary Actor Errol,
Flynn Sean, flynn built a career for himself as a photo.
Journalist while on assignment covering the war In Southeast, asia
he and fellow journalist Journalist Dana, stone rode motorcycles Into.

(40:01):
Cambodia the two men rode directly into a checkpoint manned
by rogue gorillas and were taking. Captive Either flynn Nor
stone were ever seen, again and they're both presumed to
have been executed by their. Captors, YEAH i can see.
That another basketball. Star John brisker here into reputation is

(40:23):
the most volatile and intimidating forward In american. Basketball after
his basketball, career he traveled To uganda in the spring
of seventy eight during the brutal regime of dictator IDI.
Aminh brisker vanished shortly after, arriving sparking theories that he
was working as a. Mercenary THE Us Department State, sorry
THE Us State department officially declared him dead in nineteen eighty,

(40:44):
five but his remains are. Unconfirmed he'll be a play
basketball mercenary feels very. Different, Yeah, oh you gotta have
a cover up. Somehow if you're a. Mercenary, NO i
don't kill. PEOPLE i kill it on the, court all.
RIGHT i make a mean duck com. Fee But i'm
also a. Spy, Yeah jilly, child all, right we gotta

(41:08):
take a. Break we'll be. Back if you're listening To
The Big Man Morning Show Shane, gillis tickets are up for.
Grabs he's gonna be at the B Oka Center. Saturday
i'm gonna try and get some tickets and not winning
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i am leading with.

Speaker 4 (41:27):
Ten corbyn you are hurright behind me with, nine And
lindsey is kind of behind you with the oven last week's.
Winter that would be.

Speaker 1 (41:35):
Me So lindsay And corbyn are your choices at eight
three three four, six oh k M O d call.
Up decide who's gonna be your clue. Giver whoever gets
the most right is gonna win those tickets to See Shane.
Gillis good, morning you're on the. Air what is your, Name?
Hilly how are you? Today Good? Billy who do you

(41:57):
want to give? Clues lindsay Or? Corbyn? Uh? Corbyn billy
sixty seconds are on the. Clock timer starts after the
first Clue are you? Ready, YES i am H Amy
lee and her band most famous their most famous song

(42:17):
Bring me To. Live, yes this is the rapper with
The Crazy hair And yes and his most famous Songs. Paradise,
yes this Is they sing the song and it starts
to female Crazy hair tin roof rustin rufreston ten roof Rust,

(42:50):
uh Love Shack. Yes, Uh John Popper Harmonica's Fat, yes
their most famous song Opposite Around. Yes, uh he was
just here for Uh. Oklahoma uh He, yes he has
a song Called Beautiful. People this is about drugs The Dope.

Speaker 3 (43:13):
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Speaker 1 (43:14):
Yes, uh this is the band is named. After, okay
five Yo. Billy that was. Impressive you are on, points. Sir.
Uh let's see if that's going to be good enough
for the. Win, Okay, okay good, morning you're on the.
Air what is your? Name this is not.

Speaker 6 (43:37):
All, Right.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
Mike you And lindsey have to beat Five are you?
Ready are you? Ready, yes, Sir let's do.

Speaker 5 (43:46):
It, Okay. Mike this group just saying the national anthem
at a football. Game the opposite of, girls bad, girls
the opposite of girls, guys smaller uh, huh, yes, yes

(44:17):
and very popular song of. Theirs the last word of
the song is, uh another word for street.

Speaker 1 (44:28):
Back street, back all, right, no.

Speaker 5 (44:31):
No no We. Uh when something comes to a, close
not the, beginning the, start not the, beginning opposite of, beginning.

Speaker 1 (44:48):
Deep, Break, uh the.

Speaker 5 (44:53):
The opposite of. Beginning uh huh, yes a dead.

Speaker 1 (45:02):
Blank let's see What gimpie has in his four x. Four.
Well it says here THAT Fbi Director patel goes before
The senate and The. HOUSE Fbi Director Cash, patel with
his weird eyes is in the hot seat almost there At,
patel look me in the eye when you tell me what's?

(45:23):
Happening is does got the weirdest? Eyes? Man, like what
the hell is going? On it's like they're going each.

Speaker 4 (45:28):
Way they're all just you can go your own, Way
fleetwood mac Am.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
It says here That patel is already set to appear
today and tomorrow before The senate and then The house
for the Annual oversight, hearing but The charlie Kirk Meyer
deer investigation will no doubt takes center. Stage his leadership
of the agency is reportedly under fire over the kirk,
investigation with some noting the suspected killer is behind, bars
mainly because his father turned him.

Speaker 4 (45:54):
In it's also worth noting Former Missouri Attorney General Andrew
bailey being sworn in as Co DEPUTY Fbi. Director it's
been reported that The White house created the position and
has not explained the hiring to.

Speaker 1 (46:11):
Patl. Loo, yeah of course you're go to highly this.
Guy why don't worry about? It what's? Happening what else
we got? Here trump confirms Second venezuelan narco. Strike President
trump says there's been ANOTHER us strike against suspected drug
runner From. Venezuela he posted On True SOCIAL us military

(46:34):
forces conducted a second strike against positively identified extraordinarily violent
drug trafficking cartels From Venezuela International.

Speaker 4 (46:43):
Waters he added the strike resulted in three male terrorists
killed in. Action NO us forces were harmed in this.
Strike the FIRST us military, Strike olier This, much struck
A venezuelan drug boat in the southern Erap ben says
here That Marshall county Leads nair's cases rise to fifty
two bomb Bombom another dozen people have Contracted legionaire's disease

(47:07):
In Marshall. County The Iowa department Of health And Human
services now confirmed fifty due cases since last, month up
twelve From. Friday one, fatality an eighty two year Old
Reverend Bernard grady of a marshalltown has been. Reported officials
suspect a cooling tower is the source and are still.

(47:27):
Investigating and then, lastly Here Eileen collins to Visit Tulsa
air And Space museum for documentary screening and the book.
SIGNING i know you're. Excited The Tulsa air And Space
museum will Welcome Colonel Eileen collins of The United States Air,
force retired On september. Eighteenth Colonel collins is the first

(47:48):
woman to pilot and command A nasa spe. Shuttle she
will be present for a screening of the Documentary, spacewoman
and a public book signing and on stage.

Speaker 1 (47:59):
Conversation what if we want to talk to her? Afterwards?

Speaker 5 (48:03):
Though then good Morning. Corbyn, hey if you've got an
idea for Our top Five songs list that we do
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always send us an. Email LIKE i, said this one,

(49:05):
says here's Something i've been thinking. About my husband is
obsessed with. Gardening it's not meth. ME i could care
less about, soil, fertilizer whatever bug is eating the. Tomatoes,
HONESTLY i find it. Boring but here's the. DEAL i
try to support. HIM i brag on how good the yard.
LOOKS i make sure to tell him how MUCH i

(49:27):
love the veggies he. Grows and every YEAR i even
go with him to this big home and garden. EXPO
i don't go BECAUSE i love, IT i go because
he lights up when he's around people who are into
the same. Thing so here's my. Question how much do
you really have to get into your partner's. Hobbies isn't

(49:47):
being supportive enough or do you need to fake interest
to keep the? PEACE i wonder if you asked people
that have married twenty Five, well let me back, up
what is the duration of time someone has to be
married for you to? Go they're good at? Marriage AND
i bring that up BECAUSE i mentioned a little bit

(50:10):
of it. Yesterday Is akon's getting divorced after like twenty
three years of. Marriage and there are plenty of people
that are married a long, time but they they're just,
Like i'm too old to in this right and they
stay in. It so to, ME i feel Like i've
said this, before seniority in longevity don't really mean that.

(50:30):
Much that doesn't mean you've got it figured out or you're.
Good so what's the amount of time someone has to
be married for you to? Go, well they can give good, advice.

Speaker 5 (50:43):
LENDSAY i don't know if THERE'S i don't know if
there is really a. Time BUT i think if you
look at them and, think, man you know they they
seem to be. HAPPY i think it's just how you
feel when you're around that. Couple you, KNOW i think
if you if you look up to that, relationship no

(51:07):
matter the time that they've, been however long that they've been, married.

Speaker 4 (51:12):
GiB i think if if somebody's been married forty fifty sixty,
years that's a long ass time to be with. Somebody,
yeah that's a long ass time to just be, like,
Oh i'm not going anywhere to.

Speaker 1 (51:28):
Tolerate uh. Huh SO i Think i'd like to think that.

Speaker 4 (51:32):
After forty fifty sixty years of, marriage you've got to figured,
out you, know how to cohabitate with somebody for that
long without wanting or actually murdering, them you know WHAT i.
Mean SO i WOULD i would say about that forty fifty. Years,
YEAH i heard one of my friends his brother old

(51:53):
af but they just celebrated their seventy fifth wedding. Anniversary
seventy five years that's.

Speaker 1 (52:01):
A damn long.

Speaker 4 (52:02):
Time so the twenty twenty three as like you, know
econ or. WHATEVER i don't, know things still. Change but
if you've been dealing with the same person and, living you,
know together for forty fifty sixty, years that says, something.

Speaker 1 (52:17):
RIGHT i just wanted how old are these people are
in their, nineties the, old old Old they got married at. Fifteen, yeah,
yeah it was common back. Then, yeah oh my, gosh
old days getting married. Children oh it's children getting married
to each. Other but, yeah your point's. Taken. YEAH i

(52:40):
don't know if there is an, age BUT i think
is there an age where they're too? Young they've been
married too short of a time to be having good
advice or to.

Speaker 6 (52:50):
Know?

Speaker 5 (52:51):
Yeah, probably how is? That like if you're what is it?
It can't even drink? Yet can even you know WHAT i? Mean?

Speaker 1 (53:05):
Like how long have you been? Married that is too
little of a time to be giving advice or to
think they have it figured?

Speaker 5 (53:13):
Out oh, oh like the honeymoon's not even over. Yet like
you guys have been? Married what six? Months?

Speaker 1 (53:18):
Whatever you? Think this is a question for? You sure.

Speaker 5 (53:22):
Before the.

Speaker 1 (53:24):
What is?

Speaker 5 (53:25):
It the seven year? Itch so before seven? Years?

Speaker 1 (53:30):
Probably so anything below seven years you don't know jack
about being.

Speaker 5 (53:35):
Married you make it past that seven year, Mark.

Speaker 4 (53:39):
Okay, Gimpy i'd say anywhere from six months to hell
even ten, Years AND i think ten years you could
probably even stretch it further than. That you've probably stretched
it to at least fifteen to. Twenty after twenty, YEARS
i think you kind of got it figured. Out BUT
i mean with acons proved it, that like you, know
then they probably did have a figure. Out but after

(54:01):
because we don't KNOW i have a read end to.
IT i don't know what the situation is, sure but
maybe the last couple of let's just, say last, three,
four five, years they've just been kind of going through the, motions,
right maybe doing it for the kids or, whatever you
know WHAT i. Mean But i'd say definitely six months

(54:22):
to ten.

Speaker 1 (54:23):
YEARS i think five is a good. Number, OKAY i
think IT'S i think it's a myth to undermine because
of the years that they don't. Know have they gone through.
Adversity if you've been married and have no, kids never
bought a, house you never had financial, TROUBLES i don't

(54:43):
know if you've got to figure it, out, Right but
if you lost your when you lost your, job you
lost your, parent you've had a, KID i could see
taking advice from. You you've dealt with some, adversity tried
to deal with the other person's. Quirks when that's when
things got when the sea's got a little, rough, Right

(55:07):
SO i was just trying to figure, out like what
quantified one's ability to give advice on something like, this
should you be so getting into your partner's? Hobbies some
texts that are coming. In if seeing your partner happy
gives you extra, happy then why not just continue joining
them in those? Things, also it's not a two way.

(55:28):
Street does he not partake in things with you that
you like more than he? Does it's a two way
street in my. Opinion another text does not take many
years to know what's. Good it's having the time to
handle and react to a situation properly when it comes.
Up another text depends on the. Person some people want

(55:49):
a hobby for their loan, time and they could care
less if their spouse supports. Them for, me it's my
classic cars and. Trucks it's nice when my wife goes
to shows with, me but she doesn't, always and she
is definitely not out in the shop working on them with,
me right because she'd be in the. Way. Right, oh
she could be a tool. Wench, Yeah but then you're, like,

(56:11):
no not that A phillips, head? Right? Uh sounds like
her husband's a. Herbiehore oh, God i've been married thirty.
Years i've been married longer Than i've not been. Married
got started, early, then, sure listener emount from somebody who

(56:34):
says their husband is obsessed with. Gardening, ME i couldn't
care less about, soil fertilizer or whatever bug is eating the. Tomatoes,
HONESTLY i find it. Boring here's the. DEAL i still
try to support. HIM i brag on how good the yard.
LOOKS i make sure to tell HIM i love the
veggies he, grows and every YEAR i even go with
him to the big home and garden. EXTPO i don't

(56:55):
go BECAUSE i love. IT i go because he lights
up when he's around people who are into the same.
Thing so my question is how much do you really
have to get into your partner's. Hobbies is it being
supportive enough or do you need to fake interest to
keep the.

Speaker 5 (57:09):
PEACE i don't think you need to fake your. INTEREST
i think going and supporting is. AWESOME i, MEAN i
don't think you're faking it when you're you're obviously eating
the vegetables that he grows and enjoying those.

Speaker 1 (57:28):
Eating them with.

Speaker 4 (57:29):
Discontent this cucumber is so, Delicious, oh thank you so.

Speaker 5 (57:37):
MUCH i MEAN i think that YOU i think that
they are in a bit lying to. THEMSELVES i think
that she wouldn't enjoy the if he didn't. CARE i
think it would probably bother her if the yard didn't
look as nice as it does, now if it went.
AWAY i don't, know it's probably used to.

Speaker 1 (57:57):
IT i THINK i know plenty of people who don't
care about their.

Speaker 5 (57:59):
Yard, oh it, WOULD i think it. Would it would
bug me if all of a sudden it just they stopped.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
Caring, no you would just have to do it. Yourself,
Yeah and she's shaking her head, no by the, way she, says, yeah.

Speaker 5 (58:17):
Right AND i. Couldn't So i'm, like don't stop caring about. It,
yeah if the uh the fresh veggies and stuff all went,
AWAY i think that she might have an opinion about.
IT i think it would probably bother because now she's
used to. It BUT i don't think she has to
get so. Involved that's his. Thing does she have a

(58:39):
hobby that she wants him to get involved. In maybe
or maybe. NOT i, mean it's probably just his. Time
that's that is his that's his, thing it's his alone.
Time it's good to be. Supportive you don't have to
get all in with. Him, uh you, Know i'm not all.
In When kevin goes, hunting that's his. Thing he'd like

(58:59):
me probably to get more, involved but it's not my
jam all the. Time go once in a, WHILE i
think that's just.

Speaker 1 (59:08):
Enough.

Speaker 4 (59:10):
Gimpy, yeah you totally don't have to be involved in
your spouse's. Hobbies makes me wonder if this gal has
got a hobby of her.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
Own you, know maybe she. Does maybe some. People not
everybody needs a. Hobby, yeah some people are happy just
being huh, well hobby. Subjective, yeah, Exactly so do you
have to? Do you have to fake?

Speaker 4 (59:33):
It, no you could straight up tell him. LISTEN i
don't give a good goddamn about your. GARDENING i don't
care about these stupid shows you want to go. To
it's not my. JIVE i go BECAUSE i like you
AND i like seeing you. Happy but IF i, could you,
know not go and just spend My saturday on the
couch Eating Bond bonds and watching TRASH, Tv i'd much

(59:57):
rather do.

Speaker 1 (59:57):
That you. Know, uh but you got just like that
one texture. Set it's a two way.

Speaker 4 (01:00:02):
Street so if you don't want to get into his
hobbies and be supportive of his, hobbies don't get pissed
when he doesn't want to get in to your, hobbies
whether it's bunko or whatever the hell that you're. Into
don't get upset when he's not into, it because, well you,
know you got your own thing going.

Speaker 1 (01:00:19):
ON i don't agree that marriage is a two way.
STREET i, AGREE i. BELIEVE i believe that some days
it's two way, street some days it's one way, street
and some weeks it's a one way. STREET i don't
Think Christopher reeves's wife felt it was a two way. Street,
No i'm just saying that like, that that is a,

(01:00:43):
misnomer that it is a marriage is a two way.
Street is he asking you to be? Involved are you
just overthinking? It because it sounds like you're overthinking. It
if he's asking, you, well that's a whole other, thing,
Right AND i think being supportive is. ENOUGH i think
when you're in a, relationship are you giving the person

(01:01:05):
enough room to be? Happy and are they doing the
same for? You and if their room for being happy
is you're? Involved? Okay BUT i think going to The
home And garden, show if that's, yeah why not? Go
i'm sure he watches your stupid. Shows, honey, honey look
at this new air raidor they. HAVE i believe this

(01:01:28):
a long CHEMICAL i can just mal just delivers to my.
HOUSE i just don't have to do. Anything it's. AWESOME
i need a new. Spreader that's why we're. GOING i
got to look for spreader AND i need a good
sham wow. Sham go out into the yard and spread my.
Seed technically kind of are well not? Yours, well nature's

(01:01:55):
somebody's with your hands and you just, go let's see
that is he? Asking if he's not, asking what are you? Doing?
Right what are you? Doing if he's not, asking why

(01:02:16):
are you adding? More you don't have to be a mind?
Reader right listener email you can always email show at
kmod dot. Com we're doing listener. Emails this one's gonna
be fun because they specifically Mentioned lindsay good. MORNING i
have always THOUGHT i was a good, friend BUT i
THINK i have a friend who's beyond. Help she is

(01:02:39):
a fifty something, single never, married never had, kids woman
that has become a recluse and refuses to meet. Men
she literally orders the basic necessities On amazon and doordashes almost.
Daily we meet her for dinner several times a, year
have long conversations about our, lives but my advice has
gone to deaf. Ears i've told her on multiple occasions

(01:02:59):
to create a dating, profile but she says she can't
do that because she is insecure about her. Body plastic
surgery is too, expensive but she still has hope she
can do that one. Day she's known N Cole, kidman
but No Mama Mama june, either just an average sized.
FEMALE i did try to play matchmaker, once but it

(01:03:19):
was a, long awkward dinner for the three of us
and she was not. Interested she literally had someone recently
look at her LinkedIn profile that she dated over twenty
years ago and won't reach out just to make conversation
and see how they're doing because of her. INSECURITIES i get,
it you can't make someone feel good about, themselves BUT
i need some. Insight what are some words of, Wisdom,

(01:03:42):
lindsay especially that you would say to a woman like.
This don't give Your lindsay specific advice. Yet, YEAH i
can only imagine being in the dating scene at, fifty
especially if you don't have, kids or you haven't been
in a sturdy relationship in a. While, yeah or even

(01:04:02):
if a sturdy relationship ended you probably feel a little
lost right, on like on it and feel intimidated insecure feels. Accurate, yeah,
yeah it's it's scary to go talk to people you don't.
Know for some, People, NO i think that's. It that's
the sentence right, right it's scary to talk to people

(01:04:23):
you don't. Know and and and if you just take
that with any fear at all whatsoever that you probably,
have that's that's the biggest problem that everybody.

Speaker 4 (01:04:33):
Has it's, fear and they don't want to face those.
Fears whether you're afraid of the, dark or whether you
are afraid of you, know, spiders or.

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
Just talking to. SOMEBODY i, Mean i'm gonna do my
best to not get on a soap. BOX i blame
quote unquote our parents for. That we were taking not to,
fail and that fail is. Bad, yeah you probably one,
right and that we don't don't take. Gambles we stay
in our pesky. Jobs we don't, like we don't become

(01:05:05):
entrepreneurs because we're afraid of. Failing we're afraid of looking.

Speaker 4 (01:05:10):
Dumb you nailed it right. THERE i don't think you
could said it any. Better we're just afraid to take
chances because we don't want to. Fail we don't want
to look. Stupid afraid somebody's gonna mock us or somebody's
gonna make fun of.

Speaker 5 (01:05:26):
US i want to be.

Speaker 1 (01:05:27):
Judged uh, Huh, well, newsflash people are judging.

Speaker 4 (01:05:31):
Anyway people are gonna judge you regardless whether you fail
or you. Succeed they're gonna judge you on both. Ways
they're gonna judge you either positively or. Negatively let's Take
Patrick mahomes for.

Speaker 1 (01:05:47):
Example here's a guy who's good at his, job appears
to be a good home. Partner yeah, yeah for all we,
know doesn't do, drugs gives good, interviews all around good.
Guy people hate, Him yeah, yeah and not because of

(01:06:09):
of that of first. Football they just hate. Him so you're,
right you get judged no matter what, exactly.

Speaker 4 (01:06:15):
And people don't like. That people don't want to hear the, judgment, which,
OKAY i get. IT i don't want to hear it,
either but you gotta take. It no you, Don't, no you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:27):
Don't you can stand up for.

Speaker 4 (01:06:28):
Yourself But i'm just saying, like people are gonna judge
you anyway, Regardless SO.

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
I don't think you Even i'm not talking about standing
up for. Yourself you don't have to take people's. Criticism
it's their. Opinion it means nothing. Right it's words out of,
mouths that's.

Speaker 4 (01:06:42):
It but people will they do they think they hang
everything on that one either you know what one person
says or what a group of people.

Speaker 1 (01:06:53):
Say listener email from somebody who is trying to help their.
Friend she's fifty, something, single never, married never had, kids
a woman that has become a recluse and refuses to meet.
Men she literally orders her basic necessities On amazon and
door dashes almost. Daily we meet for dinner several times a,

(01:07:14):
year have long conversations about our. Lives but my advice
has gone to deaf. Ears i'm gonna skip ahead. HERE
i tried to play matchmaker, once but it was a,
long awkward dinner for the three of us and she
was not. Interested she literally had someone recently look at
her LinkedIn profile that she dated over twenty years ago
and won't reach out just to make conversation and see

(01:07:36):
how they are doing because of her. INSECURITIES i get,
it you can make someone feel good about, themselves BUT
i need some. Insight what are some words of, Wisdom,
lindsey especially that you would say to a woman like, This, LINDSAY.

Speaker 5 (01:07:51):
I mean she said that she's pretty much a. Recluse
now does she go? Anywhere it sounds like she goes
to dinner once a. Year does she belong to a?
CHURCH i mean there are lots of groups like for
some churches have groups for. Singles maybe she could, join

(01:08:15):
and maybe she could go with her and support visiting with,
her maybe surprising her and taking her, out don't take
no foreign answer and taking her. OUT i don't think
the online Dat it sounds like she doesn't want to
do the online dating, thing especially if she's, not you,

(01:08:38):
know responding to someone that has already reached out to
her on the. LinkedIn maybe asking her to join a
gym with. Her you could be her workout, buddy that would.
Help it sounds like she needs some.

Speaker 1 (01:08:54):
CONFIDENCE i think it would build a ton of confidence
to put her in some leggings in a gym with
a bunch of twenty year. Olds, yeah there are.

Speaker 5 (01:09:05):
Lots of different. Gyms maybe a personal trainer in a
more private, gym but be her workout buddy or just
go take walks with. Her AND i think maybe that's
what she just, needs is more time with a good
friend and just talk to. Her maybe she wants to
talk to not necessarily a, therapist but you just get

(01:09:30):
closer to her and find out what she. Needs maybe
she doesn't want anyone at. All maybe she likes being.
Alone that could. Be my aunt was one of those
people that she was perfectly fine Not she was married
once and had a, kid and when she got, pregnant

(01:09:50):
her husband did not want to be a part of
that child's left so they got, divorced and she was
perfectly fine being single and wrapped up in her job
for most of her, life and she was just a family,
woman basically work in. Family that was. It she felt
like she never needed or wanted a. Man but and

(01:10:13):
maybe this is how your friend is unless she has, said,
Yeah i'd like a. Man but she's not putting herself
out there at. All SO i think right now she
just needs. Confidence so maybe be a workout pal with
her to start.

Speaker 1 (01:10:28):
Gimme, well let's start off with it's none of your goddamn.
Business maybe this woman is really happy living her life
the way that she's doing. It she hasn't killed herself.
Yet that's got to say. Something, Okay but if you
really really insist on. MEDDLING i, WOULDN'T i.

Speaker 4 (01:10:54):
DON'T i dating APPS i think are, great tenders bumbles
in all of. THEM i think they're great because it
gives you an opportunity to converse with.

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
People you see the.

Speaker 4 (01:11:09):
Pictures somebody's gonna love your ugly ass flat. Out that's
all that there is to. It there's a shoe for every, foot,
Right so for the, Gal, yeah you should probably make
a dating profile on one of these dating. Apps it
gives you an opportunity to find people and talk to
them because you're essentially text messaging them before you actually

(01:11:32):
meet in. Person it's a little less, scary all. Right
so you can build up that confidence level by having
a conversation with this person that clearly they swiped right
on you for a reason or they accepted the fact
that you swiped on them for a. Reason, okay so
there's a little less rejection. THERE i have a question

(01:11:54):
about dating the swipe right. Thing, yeah, man uh IF
i guess the thought would, be what if you get
no swipe? Rights you imagine that would be backfiring. CONFIDENCE
i was ON i was on my way. There it's
nice to see, you AND i are kind of on
the same path. Here, yes that can be very. Discouraging,

(01:12:15):
HOWEVER i chalk it up to the lob. Averages you
keep swiping, enough you're gonna find at least. One, again
there's a shoe for every, foot, RIGHT i said it
just a second. Ago somebody is gonna like your ugly.
Ass obviously she thinks she's not a very attractive. Woman
there's shoes for a lot of, feet, absolutely you like
it or not as. Well sometimes they, fit sometimes they.

(01:12:35):
Don't sometimes the shoes too, small sometimes it's too. Big
but the fact of it is is you just keep
hammering it away and eventually you're gonna find somebody who
is just as god awful ugly as you who doesn't
have the confidence. Either you, know and you guys connect
and then you're sitting, there you're chatting back and forth
via text, messages through the app or, whatever and you

(01:12:57):
don't officially meet, them you're not talking to them on the.
Phone you hear those, points so that builds confidence a little. Bit,
well this Person i've been chatting up, with you, know
we seem to have great. Conversations and that's when you
take it to the next. Level, hey these these conversations
have been. Great how about we meet. Sometime we don't
have to go to. Dinner we can meet at a,

(01:13:17):
park you, know and just sit and feed the ducks or.
Whatever SO i, personally in a roundabout, way make a dating.
App take your. Time eventually you're gonna find. Somebody and
for the person who actually sent the, email mind your
own goddamn, business, right quit trying to play. Matchmaker go

(01:13:38):
live your own life and let her live. Hers, yeah
it's none of your. Business it's not your job to fix.

Speaker 1 (01:13:44):
People all you can do is invite them to things
where maybe they're single, people and they either do it
or they. Don't otherwise you. Can't why are you? Meddling
are you gonna judge whether you're good at this based
off of their? Response because some people love to play,
matchmaker they're, like, WELL i got to connect these two. People,

(01:14:06):
no you don't stay out of. It someone, Texting maybe
she's gay and she's embarrassed to tell you because she
doesn't know how you'll react because you've maybe said something
derogatory towards that. Lifestyle you don't. Know maybe she is
seeing somebody and doesn't want to tell. YOU a younger
person or another ethnicity who. Knows it's none of your.

(01:14:30):
Business it's not your job to save. People with that being,
said great things are on the other side of Fear.
Bingo we got to take a. Break we'll be Back
rush four of The Big Men Morning.

Speaker 2 (01:14:43):
Show i'm Doing Great Man playoff baseball.

Speaker 1 (01:14:46):
Tonight, congratulations The jewellers make the playoffs winning that second,
half and so we're gonna get a three game series
and there's gonna be a game In tulsa, tonight, right.

Speaker 2 (01:14:57):
Yep we started out tonight game. One you, know we're
going to do our normal like two Dollars tuesday, thing
so low barrier of, entry coming out and support the home.
Team and then this is the only one we'll play
at home during this. Series that we'll go to games
two and three up In Springfield Thursday.

Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
Friday let's talk about how important the fans are in
these playoff. Games you, know.

Speaker 2 (01:15:19):
It's a it's a tough sell to get the tickets,
sold to be honest with, you so we can always
use the. Support but the guys love. It the fans
that do come, out they're here for the ball game.
Tonight it'll be. Intense you, know the game one of
a three game series is like the most is the
most important game of the. Series, honestly the winner of
tonight's game is the prohibited. Favorite even if we have
to go on the, road if we can take this,
one we'll put all the pressure On. Springfield so they

(01:15:41):
would love to see those fans back behind the, drillers
dug out and behind home plate pulling for him.

Speaker 1 (01:15:45):
Tonight not only are the fans, important but playoff baseball
is always. Exciting it's almost, like can you tell me
If i've got this? Right anything you thought the season
was like is completely different during playoff.

Speaker 2 (01:15:59):
Baseball, YEAH i mean every. Pitch you, know they're hanging
on every.

Speaker 6 (01:16:02):
Pitch.

Speaker 2 (01:16:03):
Uh you, know the batters are, Intense the, managers the
coaches are gonna they're gonna manage this game a little
differently than they do during the regular. Season you, know
our pitching is gonna probably have a little bit of
a shorter. Leash, guys it's just gonna be imperative that
they throw strikes and get ahead in the accounts on
these other. Guys and you, know we're playing the best
team in the. League springfield won both the first half
and the second. Half, uh you. Know but the good

(01:16:25):
news is the last time we played them here at,
home we took four out of, Six SO i.

Speaker 6 (01:16:28):
Think we've got a little bit of.

Speaker 2 (01:16:29):
Confidence but our guys are flying, high coming in us
an incredible. Turnaround you. Know we were we were a
last place team in the first half and uh and
then we finished ten games over five hundred in the.

Speaker 6 (01:16:40):
Second so they're they're playing with.

Speaker 1 (01:16:42):
Confidence not to mention that The dodgers have sent two
of their prospect two to their top prospects To, tulsa, right.

Speaker 2 (01:16:50):
Yeah, Exactly so we got a couple of young sup you,
know like really big time prospects in the. Making host
way To. Paula he'll probably be in the lineup tonight
and Then Zaire. Hope so you had a huge Game saturday.
Night saturday was the key game for us to get
to punch our tickets to the. Playoffs we were down
by two runs fairly late in the. Game, wichita who

(01:17:10):
was chasing, us was winning their, game and if we
lost that, night we would.

Speaker 6 (01:17:14):
Have fallen out of the playoff.

Speaker 2 (01:17:16):
Spot But James, tibbs the third our first, baseman came
up and hit a huge three run bomb late in the.
Game AND i hope, that you, know kind of kind
of made.

Speaker 6 (01:17:25):
Up FOR A hope's big. Game he HAD i think
five ribbies that.

Speaker 2 (01:17:27):
Night so we got some young talent on this, team
AND i think these guys are all going to start
the season with us next. Year so incredible experience they're
getting here in the second.

Speaker 1 (01:17:36):
Half first of three playoff games are happening, tonight just
one home game for this three game series Against. Springfield
get your Tickets Tulsa drillers dot. Com it's going to
be nine to, one eight, night like the you guys
do On tuesdays during the regular. Season so we'll have
all the good stuff that were used to food and.

Speaker 2 (01:17:53):
Beverages, yep, yeah we'll have the same two dollars hot,
dogs two dollars, drinks two DOLLARS ga tickets nine dollars
eighteen cent anywhere in the seating Ball so you, know
with playoff, baseball it's gonna be you're gonna have some
good seats. Available you can probably sit right behind The
drillers dug out right behind home play for nine dollars eighteen.
Cent so it might be the last chance to watch
The drillers at home this, Season so come out and.

(01:18:14):
Support if we do win this series and advance to
The Championship, series The drillers will Host game, one which
Is sunday, night so put that on the. Radar if
we can take Down, springfield we will kick off the
championship series On sunday at One oakfield at five o'clock
in the afternoon On.

Speaker 1 (01:18:30):
Sunday and how about this. Too if you are someone
maybe you can't go because oh it's last minute, plans
mention it in your, office tell your co, workers put
it up on social media that The drillers are playing
playoff baseball tonight and they should get their tickets at
Tul drillers dot. Com support That tulsa team and see
how well we can do into this three game series
with The Tulsa. Drillers get your Tickets Tulsa drillers dot.

(01:18:52):
COM i recommend sitting behind the dugout for The drillers
because you'll get some of that energy of excitement.

Speaker 2 (01:18:57):
Right, absolutely absolutely and absolutely will feed off that. Energy
so come on. Out we hope to see. You the
ball party is gonna be a beautiful night for.

Speaker 1 (01:19:04):
Baseball Tulsa drillers Dot. Com thanks my good, luck all, Right, Thanks,
corbin take a break, Movie Morny, Lindsay good Morning.

Speaker 5 (01:19:09):
Corbin happy fortieth birthday To. Mattress to Actorists Christy, lee
see this Retired canadian legend in Butt buffet two garbage
pale girls, too and ride them and wreck them. Too
before she, retired she had almost three hundred titles to her.

Speaker 1 (01:19:31):
Credit Good, Morning, Gimpie, well good Morning. Corbin, hey if
you ride a motorcycle or, no somebody does and they
want free gas or you want free, gas head out
To Quick trip This. Friday Quick trip on forty you
first And. Memorial i've teamed up with The Law tigers
and we're going to be filling up the tanks of
the first twenty five bikes that come on, through so
you don't want to drag your feet on this. One

(01:19:53):
i'll be out there from five to six, again filling
up gas tanks up motorcycles. ONLY i need you age
riders out there trying to wheeze free gams out of.
Me and you think the amount isn't that, much but
that that's a good, Amount like you're gonna everybody's gonna
fill their.

Speaker 4 (01:20:08):
Tank oh, yeah for, sure, MAN i mean it cost.
ME i need like fifteen dollars to fill my tank
on my bike from. Empty so, yeah but, yes, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:19):
On tuesdays we do to tell the. Truth so let's get.
Started time to tell the. Truth this is your opportunity
to ask anything you.

Speaker 4 (01:20:27):
Want just, remember keep it, clean no bodily, fluids nothing,
sexual and don't.

Speaker 1 (01:20:31):
Forget we can and will pass on a. Question let's
open up the phone lines here you're scorbing in the
gang with all the truth you're gonna, need all, right
bem amss and whatever you'd like to say TO a
two nine four five to ask to get to know
the show, better to tell the. Truth can you remember
your first, Kiss? Lindsey, YES i.

Speaker 5 (01:20:54):
WAS i got kissed by a boy on a school.

Speaker 1 (01:20:56):
Bus you, Too, yeah just by a boy on a
school bus?

Speaker 5 (01:20:59):
Too were you on a school? BUS i was on
a school bus GOING i don't know where was a field.
TRIP i don't know where we were if it was
going to or going back to?

Speaker 1 (01:21:12):
School but how old were?

Speaker 5 (01:21:15):
You? Uh fourth or fifth?

Speaker 1 (01:21:18):
Grade what was his?

Speaker 5 (01:21:19):
Name his name Was, gilbert Bil?

Speaker 1 (01:21:23):
Gilbert and how Did gilbert set the kiss?

Speaker 6 (01:21:28):
Up?

Speaker 5 (01:21:32):
He ACTUALLY i was sitting on the, bus noa no seat,
belts on a. Bus you, KNOW i was sitting there
with my legs up against the seat in front of,
me AND i was kind of slouched AND i had
my hands, crossed and he was sitting next to, me
staring out the, window and all of a, sudden he
looked from the window towards me and kissed me right

(01:21:54):
on my. Cheek, OKAY i was taken By.

Speaker 1 (01:22:00):
Okay thank you AND i are on the same. Page
is that really a? Kiss it was a kiss on a.
CHEEK i mean your grandma kisses you on the, cheek that's.
True what was your first tongue? Kiss first tongue?

Speaker 5 (01:22:15):
Kiss probably seventh or eighth.

Speaker 1 (01:22:18):
Grade what was his? Name?

Speaker 5 (01:22:24):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (01:22:26):
John what's the.

Speaker 5 (01:22:29):
Scenario, oh he walked me home from, school and uh
we were when they say talking and it was, horrible but,

(01:22:49):
yeah it, was, well you know we've been. Talking you
want to be my? Girlfriend like, yeah, sure, okay and sounds.

Speaker 1 (01:22:58):
GOOD i got nothing going, on.

Speaker 5 (01:23:00):
Yeah and it was, Okay, Well I'll i'll walk you
home again. Tomorrow maybe this weekend we can go to
the to a. Movie does that sound? Good, yeah that sounds.
Great and he was, like all, Right i'm gonna Go,
okay AND i go for a hug and he goes

(01:23:21):
in for a, kiss and that kiss got really wet
and it was he put his whole tongue in my,
mouth and it was. Horrible AND i know for a
fact THAT i did not go to the movie theater
within that weekend and did not become his girlfriend, either
because the kiss was so.

Speaker 1 (01:23:39):
Bad who are you to be judging? Kisses, YEAH i,
know but it was gimbi first first reel like tongue.

Speaker 4 (01:23:48):
KISS i think that's what we're going for. Here honestly
didn't happen UNTIL i was sophomore in high.

Speaker 1 (01:23:54):
School her name Was.

Speaker 4 (01:23:57):
Amber couldn't tell you her last name for the life of,
me BUT i knew she was a big breasted, brunette and,
uh we went to see.

Speaker 1 (01:24:10):
Was a, phenomenon phenomenon contrable to? Movie yeah The? Angel?

Speaker 4 (01:24:17):
Yes, Yes and her dad dropped us off at the
theater there In Ponca city and we started watching that
movie and then started making out and did not stop
until the movie was.

Speaker 1 (01:24:33):
Over and you were how? OLED i, Was, OH i
would you get out of sixteenth at that? Time, okay,
yeah SO i have one that is equal To lindsay's
and like kiss on the cheek, scenario fourth, Grade Kim.
MASON i was hiding behind some of the playground at.
Equipment she was a good fifty yards away the bell.

(01:24:57):
Ring it was time to go. IN i engaged in
a sprint Towards, kim and right WHEN i got to,
her kissed her on the. Cheek kept running this little
run by, kissing and then my first real Kiss Monica,
hall eighth. Grade at a. Dance she put her tongue
in my mouth AND i instantly got a. BONER i was,

(01:25:20):
like what is? Happening it was? Awesome thank, You. Monica i'm.
Fifty by the, WAY i remember. THAT i probably can
remember the sweater if you give me a, minute THAT
i was, wearing and how tight my jeans were. Rolled

(01:25:40):
can you imagine a woman, screaming, Oh gilbert during. SEX
i mean there's plenty of people Named, gilbert so, YES
i can give it to, me Gil, Yeah, Gilbert, yeah that's, It. Gilbert.
Yeah they should make. Points it probably exists of just

(01:26:00):
people with very bizarre, names, right like herb oh Barthol
Mule gerdy, Yeah girdy so, hot, right just screaming, names, Right,

(01:26:24):
Simon oh, yeah that's. Fantastic, Oh, lavender that sounds like
a stripper. Name just. Nowadays you, know nowadays people name
their kids really weird. Names you're, like, Okay, Tope, Tope,

(01:26:46):
blaze give it to, Me. Blaze. Uh what was the
last impulse buy that you don't? Regret what is the
last impulse buy that you don't?

Speaker 5 (01:26:58):
REGRET i got a message from my kid's teacher saying
that she was sending home, succulents baby succulents that she
had grown over summer and sending the students home with
the little babies so you can grow them at. Home
so you're gonna have to get some. Pots probably want

(01:27:22):
to buy. One they have them On. Amazon SO i
ordered a, couple since both the twins are in her,
class and SO i ordered two of. Them AND i
asked the. KIDS i, said all, right where's your your
plants that you were sent home? With one goes OH i.

(01:27:43):
TRADED i gave them to another. Kid he asked for.
Them i'm, like what, Okay and the other one, said
mine fell out of my backpack WHEN i was getting
off the. BUS i didn't bother picking them.

Speaker 1 (01:27:54):
Up what?

Speaker 5 (01:27:56):
Okay SO i bought them for nothing, well then YESTERDAY
i came home actually from, work and one of my planters,
outside the plant inside was kind of dying BECAUSE i
didn't have a drain on the. Bottom and the pots
THAT i happened to buy did have, drain SO i,
repotted SO i got to use, them so it wasn't

(01:28:16):
a total bust.

Speaker 1 (01:28:19):
Riveting, yes give me a new.

Speaker 4 (01:28:22):
Ass, Yeah i'm going to have to say it would
be My harley back in that twenty twenty something like,
that twenty, yeah twenty, one something like.

Speaker 1 (01:28:33):
THAT i didn't need.

Speaker 4 (01:28:35):
IT i just saw it on The facebook, marketplace had
the cash in my bank account and, said, well let's,
go and drove down To dallas and picked her up
and then wrote her all the way.

Speaker 1 (01:28:47):
Back And i've been riding that bitch ever. Since two weeks,
AGO i was In costco AND i saw a Giant
costco esque size bag Of stellar pretzels like the ones
you get On southwest that are onion, flavored and they're
like oniony and, sweet AND i bought a giant bag of.
Them AND i don't regret. It, no still not regretting,

(01:29:09):
it by the, way working on, them y, know they're
so good because when you do the flight they give
you just like a tiny. Bag there's like seven in. There, yeah,
no this is Costco LIKE i think the whole thing
was like nine bucks or some ridiculous. Price if you
had to replace your hands with, objects what would you? Pick, lindsay.

Speaker 5 (01:29:31):
Hmm one hand would be probably a, pick like a
hair pick of some. Sort i'll need, that and another

(01:29:51):
maybe a fly.

Speaker 4 (01:29:54):
Swatter, OKAY gimpi, okay, yeah, Utensils like one hand's gonna
be a fork and the other one's gonna be a.

Speaker 1 (01:30:04):
Knight that WAY i can still. Eat, yeah it'd be
hard to eat with the. Flyswater i'm just, SAYING i
Think i'm gonna pick.

Speaker 5 (01:30:15):
A.

Speaker 1 (01:30:15):
Mouth, okay the POSSIBILITY i could still pick up. Stuff,
yeah you were. RIGHT i can still grab food and
put it in my. Mouth WHY i? Laughing, Gimpy.

Speaker 4 (01:30:34):
LIKE i, said the possibilities are endless with that sort.

Speaker 1 (01:30:39):
Of, THING a hand through. It somebody text in and
said That akon had multiple, wives and SO i had
to go look it, up and, yes he is a.
Polygamist he has multiple. Wives he's fathered nine children with
a bunch of different, women isn't That, Uh he's like From, africa,
Right so isn't that like part of their culture whatever

(01:31:01):
or is He mormon something like. THAT i don't.

Speaker 5 (01:31:06):
Know so which one of his wives is he?

Speaker 1 (01:31:08):
Divorced the first, one the first one he was married
in there through thick and thin and eight other. Bitches, yeah,
YEAH i am the. MOST i imagine when you're a,
millionaire And i'm assuming he, is that you can, go,
yeah we can get, married But i'm having to have other.
Wives and if you are a gold, digger you, go, okay,

(01:31:31):
yeah that's. True what Is ACN's net? WORTH i know
his age BECAUSE i BECAUSE i saw the story about his,
divorce SO i know his. Age what do you think
he how old he?

Speaker 5 (01:31:41):
Is, LINDSAY i would say maybe fifty.

Speaker 1 (01:31:46):
Four, okay and net Worth i'll go with forty. MILI
i know he's fifty three and his net Worth i'm
gonna go with ten. Million it says he's pitty too
close enough, regardless but, yeah he's fifty, million is what
his number? Is fifty? Million, yeah so you're gonna be, like,

(01:32:10):
yeah don't you get, married But i'm gonna have other
wives and if you want this, lifestyle you will be
okay with. It So the QUESTION i have built off
of that scenario, is assuming you were someone who would
want multiple husbands or, wives what's the number that's? Enough,

(01:32:30):
Like i've got enough partners in my, Life, like, yo
that's your? Limit like you, KNOW i don't THINK i
need more than three, cars right or whatever it is for?
You but, wives what's our? Husbands what is the? Number you?
Go that's? GOOD i don't need any. More, sure you
may see one On facebook you want to drive down
To dallas and, get but it's your. Number lindsay.

Speaker 5 (01:32:54):
Four. FOUR i think that you know three someone always
feels left out, right so four is enough to keep
up with when that third one is feeling. Lonely the
fourth one can be there for that third, person and

(01:33:18):
you're just it's just enough to keep everyone. Happy you
never have to be. Lonely and if you, do you
know there're seven days in the, Week so if you
do need a couple of days to, yourself you can have.

Speaker 1 (01:33:35):
That for.

Speaker 5 (01:33:36):
ME i can have that a couple of days to
myself IF i need.

Speaker 6 (01:33:39):
It four is, good.

Speaker 1 (01:33:41):
GIMBIE i Think i'm good with.

Speaker 4 (01:33:43):
Two anything more than that it's just too, much, Man like,
three just trying to keep one happy is hard enough
as it true that you know WHAT i. Mean so
let's just IF i have to have multiple, wives let's
just make a nice as simple To, okay they can

(01:34:03):
play with each other When i'm not you, know up for. It, ah,
dinner get done, quick.

Speaker 1 (01:34:11):
QUICKER i think three feels like a good. Number go
every other, day and then on the, weekend whoever you
know gets the bonus. Day we'll see how the week.
Went i'm not saying that makes, sense but neither does
just having multiple. Wives to, me real do interview struggle

(01:34:33):
with seasons of grief more so than other, times like
example of holiday season on the, horizon or you keep
any traditions or do anything to honor or feel close
to your loved ones that are. Gone So lindsay most
in the close her, Dad gimpie mom and dad and Me.
Dad so we Had Lindsay.

Speaker 5 (01:34:54):
APRIL'S i hate the month Of. April that was the
month that my dad passed. Away so that's a really
hard month for. ME i don't usually do anything. DIFFERENT
i do light a candle on his. PASSING i light
a candle on his, birthday usually on his birthday, too

(01:35:17):
AND i think on the day he, Passes i'll do
a toast for. Him i'll take a shot for him
on his birthday as. Well that's But april is a sucking, MONTH.

Speaker 4 (01:35:31):
GIMB i think the short answer to this is going
to be, NO.

Speaker 1 (01:35:39):
I do. NOT i do not have seasons of.

Speaker 4 (01:35:42):
GRIEF i have pushed that down enough to where it's
pretty far down. THERE i don't do anything to honor
or feel close to a loved one that's. GONE i
think when my mom first, passed like on her, BIRTHDAY i,
would you, know make like a spaghetti dinner or.

Speaker 1 (01:36:03):
Something you, know lasagna is something that she would.

Speaker 4 (01:36:07):
Like BUT i think only did that once or, twice
AND i was, like why why AM i doing? This
SO i have since decided not. To once done is.
DONE i roll by my parents' grave. Sites it used
to be every, day but now it's not so much.
Anymore AND i wave exactly ANYTIME i do pass, By

(01:36:27):
like my brother AND i we were on our way
to the, dispensary which is around the corner from the
cemetery or, whatever AND i simply, Wave and that's about
as far as it.

Speaker 1 (01:36:34):
Goes my dad's, birthday we make, lasagna his favorite. Meal
on his birthday and my mom used to do. It
NOW i do. It my mom comes over for. That
as far as seasonal, grief now it comes and, goes
it hits at weird. TIMES i wouldn't Say i've blocked it.

(01:36:55):
Down i'm just at terms with, it and so certain
Things i'll be doing and it'll just hit me like
a ton of. Bricks or IF i see like something's
happening with my, girls, right that's. That Usually i'm, like,
eh damn. It but as far as, seasonal like At
christmas or, no even when we make, lasagna there's no

(01:37:17):
like grief in. Me it's more for, me it's celebrating thank,
you right because without him last? One if your search history,
leaked what would surprise people the? Most, hmmm.

Speaker 5 (01:37:37):
See, Here i'll come through my own search. History. UH
i recently looked up to see Who Trace adkins was
Because i'd forgotten.

Speaker 1 (01:37:55):
The mountain of. Them, Man, yeah you know.

Speaker 6 (01:38:00):
Can.

Speaker 4 (01:38:00):
Be i'm gonna have to say probably the amount of
porn stars THAT i have in my search, history simply
because Of lindsay's porn star, Birthdays i'm always going to
look to see what they look, like SO i google
a lot of their, names and, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:38:20):
Probably medical, things, okay like grade three turf, toe, ligament, tear,
kids ears, popping really disturbing. Things usually you're, like, OH
i got to see what that's, about just the curiosity of, it, Right,

(01:38:40):
Yeah and then that leads to something, else and then
to something, else and next thing you, know you're finding
out how many kids have had their ears ruptured and
how did they deal With you're, like where AM? I
how DID i get? Here all, right we got to
take a. Break we'll be. Back tell us this morning
show is coming right.

Speaker 6 (01:38:58):
Back The.

Speaker 1 (01:39:00):
Texas morning Of people telling us That Robert redford, Died
and we did see that nobody Had Robert redford on
their death, pool AND i went and. Looked he has been.
Elusive he hasn't been on anybody's death pool in the
history of the. Show, no he's always been old af. Though,
YES i mean, yes but. Yes usually you're, like, okay

(01:39:22):
that seems like a good, candidate but, no he was
elusive at it eighty nine. Right, Anyway SO i was thinking, about,
like what is his best? Movie he's done so many different,
movies and the one THAT i keep visioning any time
THAT i think about, him and especially when he died

(01:39:43):
was indecent. Proposal, yeah he's so menacing without being menacing
because he's the villain in that, story, Right, yeah and
he does a great job of making him himself appear,
charming but is just diabolical his planning and plotting to

(01:40:08):
destroy their marriage like crazy. Flowers don't know the. Movie
it's ninety one ninety two And Woody harrelson And Demi
moore are down on their, luck don't have any, money
need to pay, rent so they decide to go To
vegas because that makes a ton of. Sense, yeah double your,
Money and they try to gamble for winnings and they.

(01:40:32):
Don't they they're down on their. Luck things aren't going,
well and they're playing craps IF i remember, correctly And
Robert redford's. Playing he's clearly looks like somebody and presented
as someone with a lot of money and Asks Demi
moore to blow on the dice for. Luck she, does he.
Wins they're, like, oh good for, him right type of.

(01:40:56):
Thing and he's, LIKE i have an offer for. You
and the offer is one night with his. Wife million dollars,
yeah million dollars, yeah, uh and uh that's that And they're,
like it could solve our. Problems spoiler it doesn't because

(01:41:16):
jealousy be a. Thing she doesn't want to do. It
he pushes her to do, it IF i remember, correctly and, uh,
yeah it's.

Speaker 4 (01:41:27):
Bad they're not supposed to talk about it. Anymore after it,
happened you, know it's just do, it be, Done let's
collect our money and. Go that's not how it worked.

Speaker 1 (01:41:37):
Out they, bang, RIGHT i have A redford to? Anymore
or is it when they when they start dating that
that happens because they start dating in the show in the, movie.

Speaker 5 (01:41:47):
Right, yeah they It splitsville because he can't get over.

Speaker 1 (01:41:52):
It, no, no the, torture oh go oh, yeah you're
like every, minute you're, like good thing that there was
no find my iPhone and back in that, day you'd
be like where is? She oh god, right oh my,
GOSH i would the ulcer would be. Huge, yeah, YEAH
i a drinking. Problem, yeah there'd be a lot that

(01:42:12):
comes from. That maybe you get with her, afterwards but
there's a new thing and you're, like, yeah, right, yeah
it's a fantastic. Movie he did so many good. Movies
that's clearly not his best. Movie BUT i remember him
And all The President's. Men he's great in that movie
With Dustin. Hoffman all The presidents meant about the reporters

(01:42:39):
and The watergate. Scandal, yeah crack that.

Speaker 7 (01:42:42):
Story.

Speaker 1 (01:42:42):
Great we watched in film. CLASS i Remember The, natural of,
course is a great movie that he. DID i didn't
know he was In Pete's, dragon.

Speaker 5 (01:42:53):
The remake he, was, okay, yeah not the.

Speaker 1 (01:42:57):
ORIGINAL i didn't know there was another one to talk.
About he was In Charlotte's. Web, Hey i'm sure he
had a. Voice, well, SURE i don't think he was the.
Pig i'll do. Pig hey it's on. Tub, yeah that movie's.
Great man h and a last he was An Adventures End, Game,
okay in twenty nineteen m what Part Omni BOAT a

(01:43:23):
Fast Boat, fantasia he Plays. Lokia The Dolphin monster was
his last. Movie he was In Captain. America. Yeah i'm
trying to see of the movies that are. Here what
was the last MOVIE i saw from? Him Hold on

(01:43:47):
ninety Eight, OKAY i think that was the last MOVIE
i saw from. Him The Horse Whisper, oh.

Speaker 4 (01:43:52):
OKAY i MEAN i Saw Avengers. ENDGAME i don't remember
him being in. It So i'm trying to figure figure.

Speaker 1 (01:44:00):
Out, well what was his? Part, Yeah lions For lambs
looks really good. Too, YEAH i have not The lost
where he plays where he is in The Indian ocean
eight day for eight, days, okay and his boat's taking on,

(01:44:21):
water a walk in the Woods.

Speaker 4 (01:44:26):
Okay he played somebody that worked For hydra And shield
in In. Game that's why you don't recognize.

Speaker 1 (01:44:34):
Him, Sneakers, yeah he was In. Sneakers that was a great.
Movie never seen It out Of. Africa great. Movie incident A,
galala great, movie he'd. Forget he did some Westerns Bridge Too, Far, yeah,
yeah seventy four version Of Great gatsby The. Candidate, YEAH

(01:44:58):
i remember that book or that. MOVIE i, mean he
did so many great. Movies you could go down the
rabbit hole of his movies Pre Indecent proposal and be,
like these are great. Movies he still did good stuff
in the. Nineties, yeah but it looks Like The Last

(01:45:25):
Castle James, Gandelfini Mark ruffalo And Robert, Redford Spy Game
Brad pitt And Robert. Redford, RIGHT i, didn't, Okay, Okay,
yeah he played a part In It's AN a AND
E is AN a And? E AMC.

Speaker 4 (01:45:46):
Amc Dark wins is the name of the, show and
that's a really good series if you've never watched it.
Before but he just had a small little part.

Speaker 1 (01:45:55):
There An Unfinished, Life Morgan, Freeman Jennifer.

Speaker 5 (01:45:58):
Lopez, YEAH i don't know that one. EITHER i THINK
i feel like that one was like a straight to
video type.

Speaker 1 (01:46:10):
Movie, okay The company you, Keep Shil, Labouf Susan, Sarandon Robert.
REDFORD i had no idea he was in these, movies
AND i THOUGHT i knew a lot of his his.
Stuff Uh, No Unfinished life did not go straight to.

(01:46:35):
Video it was thirty million to. Make it only brought
an eighteen movieon in the box, office so it was
a Third it did Win Best makeup, though.

Speaker 5 (01:46:50):
Hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:46:50):
Yeah So robert Red oh he was considered a heart
throb right for oh, yeah back in the. Day oh, yeah,
yeah oh. YEAH i bet he even won Like People's
Hot man of The year whatever that's.

Speaker 5 (01:47:08):
Called Oh i'm, sure.

Speaker 1 (01:47:10):
Okay, yeah Like World's Sexiest man or whatever the.

Speaker 5 (01:47:14):
Hell sexiest man. Alive, yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:47:18):
Okay you have never really got into any Of Robert redford,
stuff to be honest.

Speaker 5 (01:47:22):
With probably from like the, seventies from the way we.

Speaker 1 (01:47:25):
Were, yeah this has he never. Won oh, yeah butch
casting The Sundance. Kid how do you forget?

Speaker 6 (01:47:31):
That?

Speaker 1 (01:47:32):
Uh, yeah this says he never won, worlds he was never.
Crowned that he was known for outrageously handsome and handsomeness on. Legs,
oh it's not like Going you're cute like a. Duck all,
right your handsomeness for?

Speaker 4 (01:47:51):
Upright, yeah, yes you're, good good.

Speaker 1 (01:48:00):
Enough he was always charming. Man.

Speaker 5 (01:48:04):
Yeah was he ever?

Speaker 1 (01:48:07):
MARRIED i have no. Idea did he have to be? Married? No,
right he was so well.

Speaker 4 (01:48:15):
Liked, yeah married to a goal Named Sybil zaggers in
two thousand and, nine and Then loll Van wagenen from
nineteen fifty eight to nineteen eighty.

Speaker 1 (01:48:29):
Five so he was married at the time of his. Death,
yes to The Sibyl. Gal. Yeah what she looked. Like
she looks like someone who's sixty. Eight.

Speaker 4 (01:48:40):
Yeah she known for Anything german born multi media environmental.

Speaker 1 (01:48:48):
Artist. Yeah that explains. Everything then what does it explain? Nothing? Uh,
Yeah So Robert redford, dead nobody got, points take a,
Break we'll be.

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Three i'm, menself. Guys we know our, weight we know
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(01:50:19):
WHAT i have for the podcast today Because i've had
it for a while AND i can't talk about it
on the air just BECAUSE i know we're going to
stray way off into some other, topics and that Is
some sex workers were asked their most emotionally challenging job
quote unquote they've ever had to do emotionally? Challenging, yeah
so this. One they shared that this person had home

(01:50:45):
care nurses and they would schedule this woman to come
visit as a. Companion he was in his late thirties
and he had significant physical. Issues he'd even been born with.
It he was a quadriplegic with a. Trake oh. WOW
i could communicate verbally a, bit but had a total normal.
INTELLECT i saw him a few, times but THEN i moved.

(01:51:07):
AWAY i remember he emailed me saying how thankful he
was THAT i would touch him like a human being
and not just a lump of. Flesh everyone treated him
like a child because of his needs for total. Care
he can't do anything for. Himself he's basically a prisoner
in his broken. Body if not for the nurses and
the sex workers that see, him he'd never be able

(01:51:29):
to have any sexual outlet or whatever it. Takes how
crazy is? That do you think about sex workers and
if you want to have an argument for why they
are valid and why there is a necessary, job you
think about the johns that, are you, know at this shady.
Hotel there's a whole subculture of people that need that

(01:51:51):
sexual itch, scratched if you.

Speaker 4 (01:51:52):
Will, yeah AND i guess if they're getting paid for,
it they don't give a. SHIT i, mean we talked
earlier about people, judging you, know and you'd, think be sex,
Worker you're, like all, right, Cool i'm in at you,
know one hundred bucks an hour or. Whatever and then
you get there and you're dealing with this guy who
can't fucking move and he has a, trake you, Know
And i'm sure.

Speaker 1 (01:52:10):
A lot of them are, like, Oh i'm not touching,
that you, know so good for her for doing. It
but if, she why didn't she take him? Away and you,
Know i'll marry the man make him feel you, know
why the fuck?

Speaker 5 (01:52:26):
Not?

Speaker 1 (01:52:27):
Yeah, well some some, people some people treat marriage a
very certain, way and they treat it pretty.

Speaker 4 (01:52:34):
Sacred i'm just. SAYING i, Mean i'm sure it would
have made him. Happy and apparently she had an emotional
connection with the.

Speaker 1 (01:52:39):
Guy, yes but shouldn't she pay him to do? That
then if she's paying him to touch her for her
to touch.

Speaker 4 (01:52:45):
Him, Right but you know after you get, married you
don't have to pay for it as much.

Speaker 1 (01:52:48):
Anymore oh, yeah it's just how much government money for
like people that are on disability, whatever use it on
sex workers like that kind of. Thing that's a good.
Question and are we okay with? It, oh listen at your,
money do whatever the fuck you, want you know, Well
and people don't feel that way about food. Stamps i'm just, saying.

Speaker 4 (01:53:12):
Right so that's technically not money, THOUGH i mean it
goes on a. Card it's going on a, card but
it's made put for. Food but like what you do
with your, Tan IF i, DON'T i don't give a.

Speaker 1 (01:53:22):
Ship but people tell them, like, oh they should be
able to buy soda or Red bull, right candy, right
or steaks or lobster and blah. Blah but if you're
on you should be having you, know. Mush, well that's
because we grew up on government cheese and everybody. Cheese
i've had the government. Commodities they are not fucking. Good

(01:53:44):
the butter is the fucking worst man so and the
peanut butter even. Worse here's another. One this feels pretty.
Common this person said that they had a frequent client
who was just an older. Gentleman he didn't want. Sex
he just was alone after his wife had passed, away
and he would just lay in her lap and talk
about his. WEEK i bet people always be surprised the

(01:54:06):
number of sex workers that it's just a companionship. Thing
they actually they may, occasionally but they Don't that's not
the primary part of their, relationship. Right they just want
somebody to talk. To i've heard that quite a. Bit, yeah,
uh this person Cap this came up a lot clients
that were in loveless marriages and they didn't even want.
Sex some just wanted just physical affection like kissing or

(01:54:29):
cuddling or someone to listen to. Them whoa uh there
was another ONE i wanted to. Read, YEAH i went
to a hotel to meet a. Client he told me
he was staying there because it was close to the
hospital he had just had. Surgery yet this man was morbidly,
obese at least six hundred. Pounds WHEN i got, THERE

(01:54:52):
i learned the surgery was leg amputation at the. Knee
he claimed it was from some type of work. ACCIDENT
i did not believe. HIM i believe it was from.
Diabetes this man had a two leaders of soda all
over the, room bags of candy, everywhere clearly very. Sick
the worst part of the whole experience was that he

(01:55:12):
was so insanely. Massive even me at six to, two
could barely mount and ride this. Man my legs were
so uncomfortably widely mounted on. Him i'm so thankful he finished,
quickly because physically it was difficult to be in that
position at. All that was probably the saddest THING i ever.
Saw escorting six to. Two, huh that's a big. Bitch

(01:55:36):
that's so. CRAZY i see this And i'm, like, dude
don't they like HOW i guess they don't ask weight
AND i when you call in for you know some, Roses, no,
no because you're getting. It you know you're getting paid.
REGARDLESS i can imagine the.

Speaker 5 (01:55:51):
SMELL i was just gonna, say like.

Speaker 1 (01:55:56):
Mold under his. Folds for. One maybe he just came
out of the, hospital so good chance he's. Not but
the smell. THING i know plenty of people that aren't
fat that. Stink that is.

Speaker 4 (01:56:05):
True but, again when it comes to the morbidly, obese
the six hundred, pounders you, know the thousand pounds sisters
or what the fuck?

Speaker 1 (01:56:13):
Ever not? Anymore you, know all, right they they do.
It it's.

Speaker 4 (01:56:18):
FACT i, mean you get so big you can't clean
under every fold unless you're having somebody like a nurse
coming over and you can keep that fucking. JOB i
am not doing, that And i'm not going to scrub
the mold out from underneath your fucking fat.

Speaker 1 (01:56:32):
Rolls. LISTEN i would Be there's two REASONS i will
never be a. NURSE i would be a. Nurse helping
people is a rewarding. Thing but there are two REASONS
i will never be a. NURSE i don't want to
touch another man's, dick right, right because you have to
comfortably like that catheter, whatever. Huh AND i don't want
to clean someone's. Asshole that ship has sailed for. Me,

(01:56:55):
No i'm not cleaning assholes. Anymore so there was a
you would clean a stranger's assle, well, no just.

Speaker 4 (01:57:02):
Anybody, yeah if it's your, kids it's, different or even
your parents, whatever even that's a LITTLE i have.

Speaker 1 (01:57:07):
No plans to clean my mother's. Asshole, LUCKILY i just
don't know about. That if she needs that type of,
ATTENTION i will go in debt paying somebody to do,
it find a. Professional, Yeah i'll gladly be. There so
it's Not Ben stiller And gmore but, right, yeah yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:57:24):
Yeah having to see your mom naked with your ass
cheeks spread is not something everybody should have to deal.

Speaker 3 (01:57:29):
With.

Speaker 1 (01:57:29):
YEAH i remember my mom had hip surgery and SHE
i had to help her get on the toilet and get.
Off even that is, like.

Speaker 5 (01:57:40):
Please let happy, place let medet for.

Speaker 1 (01:57:43):
You she still needed help Get it wasn't the wiping,
part it was getting on and off the toilet. Part.

Speaker 6 (01:57:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:57:49):
Uh this one says THAT i was in a tough
situation and needed. Money WHEN i was, twenty my family
had rejected me AND i just needed to. SURVIVE i
only ever went on dates with sugar, daddies BUT i
branched out a few, times only, three and he was my.
Last he had something terminal he wasn't getting treatment. For
but he looked completely, normal, handsome pretty nice cute, hair.

(01:58:12):
Glasses he just looked like a normal guy on what
you would imagine when you hear the word. Terminal he
was twenty, one just a year older than, me and
over the app he asked me for a normal date
night that ended with sex done gentle and lovingly and
like a normal couple. Would he had never, dated he
was always focused on school. Sports he Thought i'd pay off.

(01:58:35):
It it'd pay off to, wait but it. DIDN'T i
ate celibacy, right, OKAY i. ACCEPTED i came over him.
Pajamas we, cuddled watched one of the resident evil movies
while we ate. Takeout he told me a. Lot that's
HOW i know all. THIS i told him some things.
Too we kissed and did the, deed AND i just
slept next to him that. NIGHT i KNOW i shouldn't

(01:58:57):
have stayed, over but it felt. Right was more personal
than the first two or any DATES i ever went,
on but he treated me better than any MAN i
had met up to that. POINT i kind of fell
in love with him that, night and WHEN i kissed
him goodbye the next, MORNING i just sat in my
car and. Cried wouldn't have changed him if he wouldn't
have changed even if he didn't. INSIST i definitely value

(01:59:20):
my own life more now because of being intimate with
someone whose life is actively. FLEETING i debated trying to
find him on social media to see if maybe he
decided to get treatment and live or drive by that
apartment and by some chance see if he still lives.
There but it's been, years AND i Think i'd be
crush to find out the. TRUTH i wonder.

Speaker 4 (01:59:39):
If that happens more so than what we think and
not so much like the guy right who did. This
so it's the horror in this situation that's like just
been used as a human mattress for most of her
life or, whatever and then gets with you, know a
guy like this who's just, LIKE i gotta do, something
and then finds, that you, know well this this actually feels,

(02:00:01):
good not being just used for a good. Pounding and
then down the, ROAD i, go.

Speaker 5 (02:00:06):
How does she know that he's telling her the? Truth that's?

Speaker 1 (02:00:10):
Fair, yeah you know you don't ask for medical, records,
right are you implying men lie to have? SEX i
don't like your. Implication, Member, never, dude that is a. Jump, yeah,
Right it's one thing to tell him you love. Them, Right,
Hey i'm a. Stockbroker Hey i'm. Dying but if it's

(02:00:31):
going to guarantee you to get laid. WHATEVER i don't, know,
Man i've only got one night to. Live i'm going
to die. Tomorrow fuck me please? Yeah uh it says.
UH i recently started a new. Relationship early, on we
were meeting at a hotel THAT i just happened to
be next to a taco. Bell the first TIME i

(02:00:53):
suggested she hang in her underwear and would go get our.
Tacos eating taco bell in your underwear in a hotel
was a good precursor to pj's and coffee in bed
in the morning or cuddles on the couch after. Work
she always says, happy was happy with. You in with,
sorry she always said she was happy with me showing

(02:01:14):
up in a with a tar paper. SACK i don't
know what all that. Means, uh she was just. FLOORIDA
i never made her get, dressed or go get the
tacos or come with amazes me how crappy some partners
have treated. People week before she started ugly crying BECAUSE
i told her she was smart and beautiful and an amazing.
LOVER i, mean to start having that type of intimate

(02:01:36):
relationship with an escort is?

Speaker 4 (02:01:37):
Wild is that from the customer's perspective or the Whod
so that's from the. CUSTOMER i wonder if That's Captain
saba host.

Speaker 1 (02:01:45):
Syndrome oh, guys, LUCK i mean that's the Whole that's
why guys go to strip. Clubs they want to see
but they when you get engaged to like you, know,
Uh i'm going through nursing, school, Right, yeah guys want
to say they think it's their. Job that's that BULLSHIT
i call out, of like it's a men's job to
provide like. That you think you're saving, somebody, right, Right

(02:02:07):
this woman's, attractive you, know and she needs. Helps, RIGHT
i can save her because she'll have sex with me
IF i save.

Speaker 6 (02:02:15):
Her h.

Speaker 1 (02:02:15):
Huh they're really just using you. Anyway so, uh this
Says i'm a male erotic massage. Therapist you could do
a lot of hand. Jobs the majority of my clients
are married. Women most of them are in sexless, relationships
so that's nothing. New but ONCE i had a woman late,
thirties by no means, whatsoever unattractive your average late thirties.

(02:02:38):
Woman so USUALLY i give the woman a full body
oil massage that transitions into erotic, play usually culminating with
me having oral sex with. Them ew the taste of baby.
Oil though it is, allowed women don't have to do
anything to the, therapist and most. Don't SO i do

(02:02:58):
my thing with this, woman have oral sex with, her few,
orgasms and then come up to cuddle with. Her she
still kind of in the, afterglow reaches down and starts
playing with. Me she asks if it's okay for oral.
SEX i say. Sure she goes on and on does oral.
Sex she stops for a, minute and she, Says, WOW

(02:03:22):
i can still get a man. Hard. Wow it's difficult
to describe the unspoken context that came with that. STATEMENT
i could feel years of, rejection years of feeling like
she was no longer sexy or, Desirable countless attempts to
get her husband in the, mood only to be met
with flaccid. Apathy oh what a, sentence flacid.

Speaker 4 (02:03:42):
APATHY i never thought that women would go to shady massage.

Speaker 5 (02:03:48):
Parlors, no he's coming to.

Speaker 1 (02:03:50):
Her you hear guys you know do. It But i've
never heard of women going and be, like, hey give
me a happy. ENDING i just think they're not as.
COMMON i think they do. Exist you've seen some of
those videos on tiktoks where guys are like massaging women really,
bizarrely like WASHING i don't know what the fuck they're,
doing and like washing them off and really crazy. Massages

(02:04:11):
you're like, that my girl better not be getting massaged like, that,
Right so maybe they do, exist they're just a little more. Incognito, okay,
Maybe SO i don't know if my wife's going to
get massages and they end up being like. That i'm
good with just not, knowing right BECAUSE i don't know,
now AND i could go fucking crazy, going what do

(02:04:33):
you Mean you're going to get assage with the? Man
that's not?

Speaker 4 (02:04:36):
Okay and even, then it doesn't fucking matter if it's
a man giving you massage or a woman giving. You
see What i'm, Saying the same acts can be done.
Regardless on hundred, percent is just a little more acceptable
and sexing if it's a gal doing.

Speaker 1 (02:04:49):
It, YEAH i do. NOT i do not desire to
get a massage normal right by a. MAN i want
a woman to do it, Right and so why SHOULD
i shit on her because she wants a man to
do that to, her, right that's fucking. Crazy, no you
can't have a man do, it that's fucking. Stupid Helling,
uh people coming in on the male. Sex. UH i

(02:05:17):
was doing cam. Work but when you're a cam, girl
people can take you into private mode and get a
custom negotiated scene with just. You one TIME i was
camming and suddenly my screen went into private. MODE i
started to take off some of my, clothes just out
of the assumption that this person would want to see me.
Naked he told, me you don't need to do. THAT

(02:05:37):
i just want you to listen to. Me he proceeded
to tell me about how he had been going through
a divorce and was. Struggling he just wanted to read
a short story he. Wrote not only was he actually
a fairly normal, guy he was an amazing author if
what he was reading to me was actually. His SO
i sat there and just listened to him and enjoyed

(02:05:58):
being read his. Words that's fucking. Crazy, yeah, yeah as a,
guy that's. Crazy as even like to pay someone to
listen to you like that is. Crazy, yeah you should
HAVE i don't know friends that would at least listen to.
YOU a, PASTOR a, PASTOR a fucking random stranger on
a park bench joined the fucking writers group On. Facebook,

(02:06:21):
Right i'm just saying, Right But, hey it does you feel, easier?
Though can?

Speaker 4 (02:06:26):
You can you take the converse out of your vagina
and just listen to me for a second.

Speaker 1 (02:06:32):
True? Story that is a true. Story we know someone
who did.

Speaker 6 (02:06:35):
That.

Speaker 1 (02:06:35):
WOW i could never decide if it was hot or. Gross.

Speaker 5 (02:06:42):
GROSS i don't know a.

Speaker 1 (02:06:43):
Converse we were not one hundred. Percent i'm sure didn't
have dog shit on. It maybe it. Did maybe she
took it right off a brand new. One would that
make it?

Speaker 4 (02:06:52):
Better it's the fact there's a sneaker and you're twat.

Speaker 1 (02:07:01):
Whatever you do for?

Speaker 5 (02:07:02):
Money how big was the? Shoe?

Speaker 1 (02:07:06):
Okay, like, like what are we talking like a kid's?
Size that feel? Better i'm just, saying like, you you're
the one that said the size mattered those little infant
shoes at the velcrow. Work maybe it was the fucking
light up ones and every time she jumped up and
down and fucking lit up in her.

Speaker 5 (02:07:26):
Pussy then it wouldn't be a, converse it would be a. Sketcher.

Speaker 1 (02:07:32):
Yep. Uh this says for. Me it's whenever a client
admits two really dark things from their past and don't
see how dark it. IS i met so many men
who tell me stories of being harmed or abused and
they just see it as a good. Thing it really
breaks my.

Speaker 4 (02:07:47):
Heart, oh like the dudes were sexually abused or whatever
by a touchy uncle or. SOMETHING i started up thinking,
that like, maybe LIKE i once murdered a woman at
a bachelorette party or bachelor.

Speaker 1 (02:08:00):
Party, Right, Yeah, well and a couple of other ones
are talking about how a lot of the business is
just being a therapist and a, listener AND i agree
one hundred. PERCENT a lot of guys go to strip
clubs just for, yes to see, nudity but just for
the companionship they. Enjoy it is easier for them to
create relationships with females they are, paying right then with

(02:08:22):
females out in. Public, yeah in the. Wild we talked
about it. Earlier it's that, fear that fear of.

Speaker 4 (02:08:28):
Rejection those fucking strippers and these horrors aren't going to
reject you because you're paying. Them but if you go
up to a random galla start talking to or you get,
rejected that fucking ruins. Everything SO i find it kind of,
sad but at the same, TIME i do what you gotta.

Speaker 5 (02:08:43):
Do.

Speaker 1 (02:08:43):
Man this one, says client was pretty. Normal just one
of me and sexy. Lingerie with, hindsight the signs were.
There he bent over backwards to point out he didn't
usually do. This was a bit heavy on the compliments
with the repeated you shouldn't have to do. This at
the end of the, session he asked for a hug
BEFORE i, left and he was hugging me started down

(02:09:03):
THE i WISH i could take you away from all this.
ROUTE i had to basically knuckle him in the chest
to get what get him to let me go BEFORE
i started to get really pissed. Off for those are
on knucklings where you use the top part of your
knuckles and you rub them on the sternum and it
will make somebody, jilt awake or stop their. Behavior, yeah
they use it to try and bring people out of

(02:09:26):
verses of overdose or. SLEEPING i had about fifteen missed
calls by the Time i'd driven the thirty minutes or so,
home and prior to blocking his, number there were massive
long text messages effectively fantasizing me what our life would
be like If i'd let him take me away from sex.
Work ANYTIME i blocked. Him it took him less than

(02:09:47):
a day to start harassing me with a new, number
and he started messaging other sex workers THAT i worked
with to pass on. Messages all in it took about
three months for him to give. Up there would be
spells of relentless, messages then, silence then in a potology,
message before the cycle started again with a more mature head.
On NOW i should have gone to the, police but
a twenty two year old had no interest in revealing

(02:10:08):
what she.

Speaker 4 (02:10:08):
DID i wonder how many strippers have to deal with.

Speaker 1 (02:10:13):
That, WELL i. WOULD i think a lot of people
think Because i'm paying, YOU i can also assault. You.

Speaker 4 (02:10:19):
YEP i was just thinking more of the sheer obsession
of these. People oh, yeah you fall in love with,
them you want to save, them whatever the case, is
and then you become.

Speaker 1 (02:10:33):
Obsessed you're stalking. Him started WHEN i was nineteen years
old and the client told. Me how told me that
he only chose me because HEMB i resembled their underage.
Daughter oh, WHOA i know that laugh from. Gimpie that

(02:10:56):
is a what the fuck? Laughing, Yeah i'm a little.
Weird Why, Yeah, like what the fuck is the fuck you?
Go never mind wrong, House i'm actually The dominoes. PERSON
i left your pizza in the nufster. Bye, Right, yeah
that's fucked, up. Man, uh.

Speaker 4 (02:11:17):
Newsflash the world's fucked up and everybody in. IT a
lot of these do not surprise me at all.

Speaker 1 (02:11:24):
WHATSOEVER i agree the world is fucked, up and they
don't surprise. Me but hearing them an actual account makes
them real and, therefore you, know it's kind OF i
don't want to bring up The Charli kirk, thing but
it's kind of like The Charlie kirk. Thing when you
see the, video you, go, shit that's, real, right you

(02:11:46):
hear your your mind goes to things like anybody who's
been shot with a long. Rifle that's what. Happens, yeah
so you know people get. Shot, yeah but when you see,
it you, go, oh fuck, Right AND i think that's
the same thing with it as you hear, it as
it actually happened to, somebody and you go fuck. Yeah, yeah,
well welcome to. LIFE i had a former customer With

(02:12:09):
parkinson's DISEASE i met at the. Club he Got parkinson's
at only twenty. Nine once His parkinson's got worse over the,
years his wife started sleeping with his best friend at the.
Time eventually she ended up leaving him for the best.
Friend when his condition, progressed he paid me a few
times to come over and clean his house and WATCH
tv with him and talk to him because he was so.
Lonely to be, HONEST i didn't understand the majority of

(02:12:32):
what he was saying because his speech Was somantha, that
BUT i know it not at a long and pretended
to so he would feel like someone was. Listening he
wanted me to move in and marry him and take
care of, him but it was more THAN i could.
HANDLE i have. MORE i have my own health issues
and can barely take care of. Myself he eventually moved
a couple hours away to be closer to his parents

(02:12:53):
for help because he had no, kids but are there
in their nineties and not sure how much longer they
can help him before they. PASS i recommended he hire
a legitimate, nurse but he kept trying to get me
and other strippers to move in with, him marry, him
be his. CARETAKER i feel like maybe because of the,
disease he was thinking the most, logically.

Speaker 4 (02:13:14):
Which is cheaper an actual nurse or some you know sex.

Speaker 1 (02:13:19):
Worker you're, OH i bet it's. Close you think it's
about the. SAME i bet it's, close.

Speaker 4 (02:13:24):
And at least you're guaranteed sex from a sex, worker
as the nurse may not put out unless she's my,
axe and she probably, would.

Speaker 1 (02:13:33):
But, Whatever, Right SO i just put in how much
is a home healthcare nurse a? Month uh? Huh anywhere
between four to seven thousand a month, okay and they
will do twenty to twenty five hours a. Week. Okay
that's part time. Work it's part time. Work and that's, like.

Speaker 5 (02:13:52):
That's the same that's about the same price as assisted.

Speaker 1 (02:13:54):
Living, RIGHT i bet you the horrors or. Cheaper oh, no,
no assistance livings probably more than. THAT i mean probably
probably in the hundreds of. Thousands the only one that's
got experience with.

Speaker 5 (02:14:07):
It, yeah a month for assisted living.

Speaker 1 (02:14:11):
In indiana right where your grandparents.

Speaker 5 (02:14:14):
Are yeh or they, were it was, well just on
my mother in law. Alone hers was around six a, month.

Speaker 1 (02:14:26):
Six a, month, okay, okay.

Speaker 5 (02:14:29):
My grandmother's, was, well they paid around twelve thousand dollars
a month for both of.

Speaker 4 (02:14:35):
Them, Okay so we'll just say six thousand dollars a
month for one, person because that's that's what that. Person
i'm betting you the horse cheaper you could probably you
could probably get away with a thousand dollars a, month
maybe maybe two two thousand dollars a, month just to
live here and take care of. Me but there's a
lot of mental that goes with. That that that, nurses

(02:14:57):
that's what they.

Speaker 1 (02:14:57):
Do, yeah, well and, uh a prostitute or a sex,
worker it cannot deal with bed sores or any other
medical condition he could be.

Speaker 4 (02:15:08):
Dealing it's a little bit of training and the next
thing you, know, YouTube you fucking you have changed this
horror sex worker and she is now a registered nurse
out helping. People see that's a fucking there's a light
at the end of the tunnel right there there you. Go,
YEP i you, KNOW i used to be a sex,

(02:15:29):
worker but now HERE i am doing home.

Speaker 1 (02:15:31):
Healthcare, well how'd you get into?

Speaker 6 (02:15:32):
That?

Speaker 1 (02:15:32):
Will you?

Speaker 4 (02:15:33):
Know guy paid me to live with him AND i
had to clean his bed sores and wipe his. ASS i, figure,
fuck might as. Well you're only paying me two thousand
dollars a month AND i can go make six a.

Speaker 1 (02:15:44):
Minute. UH a friend of, mine a friend and neighbor of,
mine was a sex worker and she said the toughest
client was a guy in. Hospice he didn't want, sex
just asked her to paint his nails and talk because
it reminded him of his. Daughter, oh she said she
held it together while she was, there but bawled the
whole drive. Home, Yeah i'm sure crazy shit like that.

(02:16:06):
Happens where's the daughter in this?

Speaker 4 (02:16:08):
Situation if your dad's on fucking, hospice why are you
not there spending time with?

Speaker 6 (02:16:15):
Them?

Speaker 4 (02:16:15):
GOD i fucking hope my kids at least come spend
time with me for a little bit While i'm on.
Hospice you, HOPE i. Hope But kat's in the cradle, Man,
true we all got our own laves to live. Dead,
sorry yours is ending so?

Speaker 1 (02:16:28):
Fast, YEAH i mean that's you AND. I we've talked
about this on Are that's all we're trying to do
is that someone's there to hold our hand in the.
End pretty. Much. Uh last one been a sex worker
for eleven. YEARS a couple started seeing sex workers together
to explore their sexuality and grow. TOGETHER i begin all

(02:16:48):
of my couple sessions with a chat about goals and
boundaries for obvious. Reasons this prompted the wife to disclose
some really heavy, experiences which led her to hate her
husband and their, child resulting in multiple long term stints
in psychiatric. Hospitals this feels like a lot for a
sex worker to.

Speaker 6 (02:17:05):
TAKE a.

Speaker 1 (02:17:09):
Trauma dump was, immense AND i remember being alarmed and
a little baffled to see the husband nodding, along appearing
completely neutral while the wife shared all the ways she hated.
Him they shared that physical intimacy really suffered because of, this,
unsurprisingly so we're making a conscious effort to explore sex
as part of their healing process as a. COUPLE i

(02:17:33):
felt like this was a bit intense y FUCKING.

Speaker 5 (02:17:35):
Fg he was just listening because he didn't give a
shit about what the wife was. Saying he just wanted
to get it on with the sex.

Speaker 1 (02:17:41):
Worker or he wanted to watch his wife with sex. Workers,
right that's What i'm. DOING i thought it was the
wife that was going after the sex, worker and this
just cock of a man just lets it fucking, happen
like she wants to fuck somebody, else SO i GUESS
i have to let it. Happen. Yeah after almost an
hour with, this the wife started laying some really intense
boundaries about HOW i was allowed to interact with, them

(02:18:02):
especially the husband in. BED i was already concerned about
how this was booking was going to impact their. Relationship
but her limits were so RESTRICTIVE i started to worry
that she didn't genuinely want to be. There it felt
a little bit like she was humoring the husband, who
for all his patients and nodding, earlier seemed to only
be doing this for. Himself Like lindsay, said my suspicions

(02:18:24):
were validated when the husband tried to challenge one of
his wife's, limits using phrases like come on for. Me
to her, credit she put her foot down every. Time,
okay well that changed. Dramatically all. Right when you think
about the idea of, like what's your craziest situation in
a as a sex, worker you don't think it is

(02:18:46):
somebody in that that's the, story right that you show
up like ding, Dong hey It's mercedes Or mercedes and,
hey all, right so, listen my wife died this, morning
And i'm gonna try and fuck you to the, grief.

Speaker 5 (02:19:06):
RIGHT i want you to do this thing that she
used to.

Speaker 1 (02:19:09):
Do not every LIKE i guess you treat sex work
like when you order some pasta and it comes covered
in green. Peppers you just push that ship to the
side and just fucking go to. Work you plug your
nose and eat.

Speaker 5 (02:19:21):
It exactly what you.

Speaker 1 (02:19:25):
DO i don't. KNOW i feel like that part of
my life is, sailed but apparently, not BECAUSE i fucking
just did it with, pasta with pasta. Crazy that was
a fun. Journey all, right you, guys have a fantastic.
Week you want to mention the tiger thing. Again, Yeah
i'm gonna be out at a quick trip forty First

(02:19:45):
memorial This, friday filling up the first twenty five motorcycle gas.
Tangs don't be bringing your fellow quantifier on.

Speaker 6 (02:19:54):
That.

Speaker 1 (02:19:55):
Well you, know people be, like well you gonna thought
you give me up free. Gas, yeah take your fucking.
Art get the funk out of.

Speaker 6 (02:20:01):
You.

Speaker 1 (02:20:02):
Guys have a fantastic. Weeks bye, bye