September 19, 2024 • 6 mins
Anita is married to one guy, but has a crush on his brother... who is also her ex. WTF is going on?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Signa g Morning show going down right now on a
base them on for Hip Bobby and RB. It's one
of six point one km Yale signa out today. So
your favorite fellas is here. You play about the jeep
biz hey man, Lex Jones. Now, Lex, you know how
it goes down man seven fifteen. Every morning we kick
off Crush on You, where somebody sits down and let
us know about what's going on in their romantic life.
Anita actually hit us up today, man, and she has
(00:21):
a real sticky situation going on. I'm gonna let her
go ahead and tell you pretty much the ins and
outs of it. Anita, what's up? Baby?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
So I'm married. We've been married like two years and
it's just been not easy. Here's a little backstory. Ten
years ago, I dated his older brother.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
His name is Rich.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
We were really high school sweethearts, like so he ended
up cheating on me. So like after college we broke up.
So I ended up get it with his u his
brother and.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Like, oh so you got with his brother out of
spider or something or what was that even about. It
wasn't like I was.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Getting back at him, but it was just like familiar
and comfortable, but like they were different people. Here we
are now. Like my husband, he's in a weird place.
I don't even know all of his issues right now,
but it's not good. I've been like reaching out to
rich and like rich has been like emotionally helping me,
and like.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
And you and Richmond having a little some go on.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I'm like pretty much ready to end the marriage anyway.
It's a bit of breaking point with this, but I
really have some feelings for rich Again, here's where I'm
having an issue. Yesterday, Rich and I were talking and
he brought up the fact that he still loves me.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Oh damn.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
It's really hard because like he just told me that,
and I'm like, oh my god, I love him too.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I mean, your husband already has snatched you from his brother. Anyway,
To be quite honest with you, y'all got any kids
or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
No, No, we did not end up having any kids.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Okay, well, I mean, as long as there's no babies involved,
that's definitely a good thing. All y'all really need to
sit down and talk. But how about for starters, we
go ahead and get rich on the phone.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Oh good, Okay, I mean, but.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
The that's a the bay baby, just go and let
it happen.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
You know, with Thanksgiving right around the corner. She is
about to mess up the whole dinner. And I'm not
here for it. Bro, I'm not here for it.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
That's all you're thinking about.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Listen, it's all funny games. So some stuff and come
flying across the table.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Yeah, hopefully hopefully not a knife as well.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
My gosh.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Hell all right, well, I mean, let's go ahead and
try to see if we can get Rich on the
phone and get his take on things. She don't know, nobody,
she don't know, no other family. For real. You can't
do anyway. I'm not gonna judge the woman. Crush on
you happens everyone and set fifty right here on the
sign of G Morning Show. We about to get Rich
on next. Here's some glow rilla bring people together on you?
(02:38):
Is my safe y'all have been taking people up on
that crush on you on the morning show Base number
one for Hip Hop and R and B one six
point one k l sign a G Morning Show going
down for your Thursday on the Bazo off hip Hop
and R and B. It's one of six point one km. Yeah,
sign it out today. So the boys is here Man,
(02:58):
you play it pot in the jeep biz Man like
John Man Lex crush on you. You know, it goes
down every single morning. Seven fifteen, This one's a doozy.
Anita called us basically saying that she's been spending a
lot more time technically with her brother in law, who's
also her ex boyfriend, because her husband's kind of got
some things going on. He just hasn't really been showing up.
(03:18):
She said. Honestly, it feels like the marriage has really
been over already. But the thing that makes it messy
is the fact that you know, Rich, who's you know,
her husband's brother has said that he still loves her,
and they you know, broke up ten years ago. Have
been high school sweet storry hearts and stuff like that.
So now we're just trying to get to the bottom
(03:39):
of a man and trying to figure out how to
best go about this thing. Now, she did say her
and her husband don't have any children, so you know
there's that, But also, I mean, you guys gotta be
honest about what's happening. So we got Rich on the
phone man trying to figure things out. Rich, what's going on? Man,
gibiz here.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Your man like Jones.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
So we've been talking to Anita this morning. They're Rich Anita, Yeah,
we've been. We've been talking about you too, Bro.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
What did she say?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
She said that she was pouring your heart out to him.
Man said you loved her all right? I mean she
basically said that, you know, you've really been showing up
for her, Man, and let us know that you know,
your brother's kind of going through some things and the
simple fact is you guys still have feelings that have
been here even while they've been married and stuff like that. Man,
And I think now she just kind of wanted to
(04:23):
put everything out there in the open. We'll go ahead
and Patrick, Anita, Hey, Anita.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
What are you doing? I needed advice? Like this is heavy,
it's a lot, and like I needed to like ask somebody,
But like, I guess it kept out of the back.
I definitely feel that same way too, and like what
do we do from here?
Speaker 1 (04:43):
That's a really good question right there. But I mean
I feel like Rich you just got to keep a gangster.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Man.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Do you actually want to be with her?
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Yeah? But I guess I'm not ready for everybody to
know that. But yes, I mean I really have wanted
to since high school, in college, since we broke up.
I mean, yes, of course I want to with her.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Oh yeah, I get that.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Man.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
It seems like it's deep and clearly neither one of
you ever lost those feelings. It's just sad that you
know it's such a sticky situation. And I understand Rich
you know your brother's going through some things, but I
feel like, man, you need to sit down with him
and have a real heart to heart. Bro y'all need
to have a true conversation, and also you and the
Needa that need to kind of figure things out.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yeah, it's probably gonna get a little harder before gets easier.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
But you think I mean, I guess we're gonna do
it today because it's out there now, so I guess
it's happening.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Wow. Well, y'all hold on, man, we want to talk
to you a little bit more off air. Lex. You've
been real quiet during this whole thing. How you feel
about it, bro? Because they messing up the holidays.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
We are months two months away from Thanksgiving, three months
away from Christmas. Everything is canceled now because of these two. Listen,
no food, we ain't getting no mag of cheese. We
ain't getting no cranberry sauce nothing.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
I'm gonna step out on a limb and say they
probably won't be celebrating the holidays with the rest of
the family. Clearly might want to take this year off, Amen,
But look, hey, love looks different for everybody man, and
you know, apparently they have a situation they already had
going on. But make make whatever makes your heart smile,
I guess do that. Just don't be dogging nobody else. Sure,
(06:16):
crush on You happens every single day. Make sure you
check out that Crushing You podcast over there. Free your
hair radio app
Signa g Morning show going down right now on a
base them on for Hip Bobby and RB. It's one
of six point one km Yale signa out today. So
your favorite fellas is here. You play about the jeep
biz hey man, Lex Jones. Now, Lex, you know how
it goes down man seven fifteen. Every morning we kick
off Crush on You, where somebody sits down and let
us know about what's going on in their romantic life.
Anita actually hit us up today, man, and she has
(00:21):
a real sticky situation going on. I'm gonna let her
go ahead and tell you pretty much the ins and
outs of it. Anita, what's up? Baby?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
So I'm married. We've been married like two years and
it's just been not easy. Here's a little backstory. Ten
years ago, I dated his older brother.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
His name is Rich.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
We were really high school sweethearts, like so he ended
up cheating on me. So like after college we broke up.
So I ended up get it with his u his
brother and.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Like, oh so you got with his brother out of
spider or something or what was that even about. It
wasn't like I was.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Getting back at him, but it was just like familiar
and comfortable, but like they were different people. Here we
are now. Like my husband, he's in a weird place.
I don't even know all of his issues right now,
but it's not good. I've been like reaching out to
rich and like rich has been like emotionally helping me,
and like.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
And you and Richmond having a little some go on.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I'm like pretty much ready to end the marriage anyway.
It's a bit of breaking point with this, but I
really have some feelings for rich Again, here's where I'm
having an issue. Yesterday, Rich and I were talking and
he brought up the fact that he still loves me.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Oh damn.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
It's really hard because like he just told me that,
and I'm like, oh my god, I love him too.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I mean, your husband already has snatched you from his brother. Anyway,
To be quite honest with you, y'all got any kids
or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
No, No, we did not end up having any kids.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Okay, well, I mean, as long as there's no babies involved,
that's definitely a good thing. All y'all really need to
sit down and talk. But how about for starters, we
go ahead and get rich on the phone.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Oh good, Okay, I mean, but.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
The that's a the bay baby, just go and let
it happen.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
You know, with Thanksgiving right around the corner. She is
about to mess up the whole dinner. And I'm not
here for it. Bro, I'm not here for it.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
That's all you're thinking about.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Listen, it's all funny games. So some stuff and come
flying across the table.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Yeah, hopefully hopefully not a knife as well.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
My gosh.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Hell all right, well, I mean, let's go ahead and
try to see if we can get Rich on the
phone and get his take on things. She don't know, nobody,
she don't know, no other family. For real. You can't
do anyway. I'm not gonna judge the woman. Crush on
you happens everyone and set fifty right here on the
sign of G Morning Show. We about to get Rich
on next. Here's some glow rilla bring people together on you?
(02:38):
Is my safe y'all have been taking people up on
that crush on you on the morning show Base number
one for Hip Hop and R and B one six
point one k l sign a G Morning Show going
down for your Thursday on the Bazo off hip Hop
and R and B. It's one of six point one km. Yeah,
sign it out today. So the boys is here Man,
(02:58):
you play it pot in the jeep biz Man like
John Man Lex crush on you. You know, it goes
down every single morning. Seven fifteen, This one's a doozy.
Anita called us basically saying that she's been spending a
lot more time technically with her brother in law, who's
also her ex boyfriend, because her husband's kind of got
some things going on. He just hasn't really been showing up.
(03:18):
She said. Honestly, it feels like the marriage has really
been over already. But the thing that makes it messy
is the fact that you know, Rich, who's you know,
her husband's brother has said that he still loves her,
and they you know, broke up ten years ago. Have
been high school sweet storry hearts and stuff like that.
So now we're just trying to get to the bottom
(03:39):
of a man and trying to figure out how to
best go about this thing. Now, she did say her
and her husband don't have any children, so you know
there's that, But also, I mean, you guys gotta be
honest about what's happening. So we got Rich on the
phone man trying to figure things out. Rich, what's going on? Man,
gibiz here.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Your man like Jones.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
So we've been talking to Anita this morning. They're Rich Anita, Yeah,
we've been. We've been talking about you too, Bro.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
What did she say?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
She said that she was pouring your heart out to him.
Man said you loved her all right? I mean she
basically said that, you know, you've really been showing up
for her, Man, and let us know that you know,
your brother's kind of going through some things and the
simple fact is you guys still have feelings that have
been here even while they've been married and stuff like that. Man,
And I think now she just kind of wanted to
(04:23):
put everything out there in the open. We'll go ahead
and Patrick, Anita, Hey, Anita.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
What are you doing? I needed advice? Like this is heavy,
it's a lot, and like I needed to like ask somebody,
But like, I guess it kept out of the back.
I definitely feel that same way too, and like what
do we do from here?
Speaker 1 (04:43):
That's a really good question right there. But I mean
I feel like Rich you just got to keep a gangster.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Man.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Do you actually want to be with her?
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Yeah? But I guess I'm not ready for everybody to
know that. But yes, I mean I really have wanted
to since high school, in college, since we broke up.
I mean, yes, of course I want to with her.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Oh yeah, I get that.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Man.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
It seems like it's deep and clearly neither one of
you ever lost those feelings. It's just sad that you
know it's such a sticky situation. And I understand Rich
you know your brother's going through some things, but I
feel like, man, you need to sit down with him
and have a real heart to heart. Bro y'all need
to have a true conversation, and also you and the
Needa that need to kind of figure things out.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yeah, it's probably gonna get a little harder before gets easier.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
But you think I mean, I guess we're gonna do
it today because it's out there now, so I guess
it's happening.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Wow. Well, y'all hold on, man, we want to talk
to you a little bit more off air. Lex. You've
been real quiet during this whole thing. How you feel
about it, bro? Because they messing up the holidays.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
We are months two months away from Thanksgiving, three months
away from Christmas. Everything is canceled now because of these two. Listen,
no food, we ain't getting no mag of cheese. We
ain't getting no cranberry sauce nothing.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
I'm gonna step out on a limb and say they
probably won't be celebrating the holidays with the rest of
the family. Clearly might want to take this year off, Amen,
But look, hey, love looks different for everybody man, and
you know, apparently they have a situation they already had
going on. But make make whatever makes your heart smile,
I guess do that. Just don't be dogging nobody else. Sure,
(06:16):
crush on You happens every single day. Make sure you
check out that Crushing You podcast over there. Free your
hair radio app
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