Communication is key! Conrad needs help rebuilding the bridge to Elise

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, Sauna, I'm in love and I've been going out
with this lady name at least, all of a sudden
seemed like we started getting distant. You know, I know
I'm not perfect, and I know there's some things about
myself that could change, and one of them, I believe,
she said, was communicatingymore. But I miss her. I need
to do whatever I need to do just to win
our heart back.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
I'm gonna tell you from a woman's perspective, and I
don't know you or her, so I don't know like
the details of what her complaints were or whatever.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
And we can, you know, talk to her in a
minute if I can get her on.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
But communication is like key when it comes to any
type of relationship. You know, if you really did love her,
then maybe you should have communicated better.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
I mean, she'd just say things like I want to
go out, I want to do this, I want to
do that. But I've worked a lot of hours, and
I guess I should have explained that to her, the
reason why, you know, a lot of time, we want
to do things that we can't. And I guess that
was the not communicating part on my part. Yeah, I
should have stepped back a little bit and listen.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
What kind of communication have you tried, Like did you
text her, call her? She's just not picking up and
responding like I.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
Tried, But all I'm getting back at one word answers.
I've written a letter, no response. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:12):
I mean, the fact of the matter is that she
might be done. But positive part is we don't, you know, judge.
So our job is just to see if we can
get you guys to talk. Let me call Alise on
the number you gave me, and then if I can
find her, I'll get you on so you can say
what you need to say.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
Okay, okay, thank you.

Speaker 4 (01:28):
Hi, Hey, good morning.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
So I'm calling you because we were talking to Conrad. Okay,
and I know that he's been trying to communicate with
you a little bit. And girl, I don't remember the
last time I heard somebody so heartbroken. I'll like him
say is that he is here on the phone waiting
to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (01:48):
And he did.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
Say that communication was one of your biggest issues. So
if you want to talk to him, like, can you
tell me a little bit about that if you don't mind.

Speaker 4 (01:57):
It's not to say he's not like a great man.
Like he really he's a great guy, but when it
comes down to stuff that's important to me, like, he
just doesn't listen. I got tired of also just repeating
myself over and over because he thinks I'm telling him
something for the first time.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
So before I get him on, like what was your point? Like,
are you really done?

Speaker 4 (02:15):
I can't go back to the same relationship that it was.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
Well, let's figure it out. If you don't mind, I'll
put him on.

Speaker 4 (02:22):
Yeah, okay, sure, So.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
Conrad, we've got Elise here, but I've gotten a little
background on what the issues were, and you were right,
it was communication.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
It is communication, but.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
She did share that there are still feelings there on
her side, So shoot, I told him earlier. Girl, I
was like, if you really love this girl and your
heartbroken when she says change needs to happen, you got
to do it.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
So I don't know how you want to respond to that.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
Conrad, First, Hello, Elise, how are you?

Speaker 4 (02:56):
I almost said, hi, babe, because like, oh it all Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
I am willing to do and chain to communicate and
do what needs to be done because we had it,
we had a good relationship. My focus is on getting
us to a place where we were thinking about moving
in together, and I just wanted things to be right.
And I guess it's that man thing that you know,
try to do everything yourself without communicating, And I understand

(03:23):
now to move forward with anyone, you need to communicate listen,
and I'm just staying completely Yeah.

Speaker 3 (03:29):
You need to listen to her, I think, is what
I got from it.

Speaker 1 (03:32):
And oh that too, well, yeah, I mean.

Speaker 3 (03:35):
Talk, talk, and listen. I don't know where things go
from here.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
I know that they probably won't be the same as
they were in the beginning. But if you guys still
have feelings for each other, you know that says that
there is a chance. And saying you're going to listen
and communicate conrad is one thing than actually doing it.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
So yes, action actions are allowed in the words, I
understand it and believe me. For what I've been going through,
I know and I want it proved to you that
I have and will change to benefit both of us,
and hopefully listening to.

Speaker 4 (04:07):
You, it sounds really good. I just actions speak louder
than word, absolutely

Speaker 1 (04:12):
So I appreciate your help you so much