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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Crush on You sign a g morning show? Righty on
came yo Yo, good morning. Hey you playing the gbiz.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
So we've got my guy Lawrence here on the phone.
Got a lot going on, but I'm gonna let you
tell the people because you know, Crush on You is
just about trying to get some people together working through
relationship issues, and you definitely have some.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
So tell us what's going on for crush babe.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Yeah. So I'm just calling in because I got this
weird situation where my girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant. Right, Okay, yeah,
but we have been at least on speaking terms. We've
been like texting at least, but it's kind of crazy
because like, she got pregnant by my best friend.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Okay, So I need a little bit more backstory on this, Like,
so how did we get to that point?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
So yeah, I'll be honest for a little bit. I
feel like we weren't happy in a relationship and I
did cheap first, so I've got to take, you know,
for a responsibility for that. I didn't get anybody pregnant,
but you know, I don't think she was really feeling
them like that. I just really think she went to
get back at me.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
It's what it sounds like.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yeah, yeah, but I never planned for us and not
be together really, so it's complicated, okay because I still
got feelings for but kind of thinking about it and
trying to work through some of it.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So yeah, there's a lot, there's a lot.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah. So I hit up my best friend and was
just like, if you don't step up, I'm definitely gonna
step up and take care of your kids. And I
mean he's gone, he's like in the wind. He still
has a responded. I don't know if you think I'm
joking or if I'm just trying to catch him outside
or something like that, but like I'm dead serious, like
I'm definitely gonna step up and take care of the
baby if she if she wants me to.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
And he hasn't tried to reach out to her either,
Like just nobody's seen him type.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Yeah as far as I know, Wow, nobody's seen him.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Okay, So what's her name? Because we got to get
her involved in this conversation.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Uh Resa, sonag you morning? You on came ol, Good morning,
it's girl sona WhatsApp? Hey, giz here Hello? So Lawrence
hit us up, biz and who.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
You know, wants to step up and get back with
his girl, who apparently is now carrying his friend's kid.
It's a lot going on, but I'm sure there's more
to the story, and she's going to be telling us.
Resa is on the phone what her side of it is, right,
So Resa.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Good morning, mama, good morning, congratulations, Thank you to be
not under the I guess ideal circumstances. Girl, But when
is it like I'm a I'm a single mom. So
you know, I got a little bit of background about
how you've got here from Lawrence because he gave us
(02:33):
a call. But I want to hear like from your side,
like what is the situation in your eyes?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
You know, Elle has We've been together a long time,
you know, six years, and I never thought I'd be
in this situation. I love Elle with all my heart.
Elle has basically been a shit on me for many
many years and cheating over and over again with you
(03:01):
know the last one that really you know, took the
show with someone in my church family. Yeah, and you know,
I just I checked out and I'm pregnant by his
ex best friend. It's nothing that I'm waving my hand
proud of but at that point in time, his best
friend had checked in.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I heard that he hasn't even reached out to you though,
since he's gotten the news, because Lawrence is actually on
hold waiting and he said that he hasn't talked to
him either.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Oh he is.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, Okay, he wants to talk to you, so let's
get him on the phone.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Lawrence.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Okay, Hey, Lisa, I appreciate you answer. And I know
we've been, you know, going through some things, and I
did want to tell you, like with full accountability, that
if you would have it, I would definitely like to
get back with you. Answer that a way to make
this work?
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Wow, you know, guys, this is this is emotional. I
don't mean to get like all emotional, but you broke
me in so many ways, and you saying you want
to step up and be a part of our lives
does mean a lot to me.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
You know, broken people break other people, and I there
was something about me that just wasn't right either. So
I've been getting my head straight in my heart right.
So yeah, So I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
So does that mean am I hearing that like you're
willing to give it a chance exactly?
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Like are we open to it, you know, what's up?
Speaker 4 (04:27):
I mean, I'm open to it, and I appreciate the help.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Guys.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
I have to think about this and when my baby
comes out and you look at my child with hours like,
what is that really? You know? I just don't. That's
a whole another layer of this, and I just I
don't know. I don't have all the answer.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yeah, I would agree that, you know, saying what do
you think right now? Like saying yes or no is
probably a lot with everything that's gone on. But I
mean it sounds like el she is willing to at
least talk through it, right, which you guys have already
kind of started.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
So I mean it's a start, man. And if you
really love this woman and you really want to be.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
There, like you just don't give up, you know, and
you both have to change the things, I guess moving
forward for each other.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
So I don't know. I hope it works out.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Yeah, I appreciate that. We'll keep working through it.
Crush on You sign a g morning show? Righty on
came yo Yo, good morning. Hey you playing the gbiz.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
So we've got my guy Lawrence here on the phone.
Got a lot going on, but I'm gonna let you
tell the people because you know, Crush on You is
just about trying to get some people together working through
relationship issues, and you definitely have some.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
So tell us what's going on for crush babe.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Yeah. So I'm just calling in because I got this
weird situation where my girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant. Right, Okay, yeah,
but we have been at least on speaking terms. We've
been like texting at least, but it's kind of crazy
because like, she got pregnant by my best friend.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Okay, So I need a little bit more backstory on this, Like,
so how did we get to that point?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
So yeah, I'll be honest for a little bit. I
feel like we weren't happy in a relationship and I
did cheap first, so I've got to take, you know,
for a responsibility for that. I didn't get anybody pregnant,
but you know, I don't think she was really feeling
them like that. I just really think she went to
get back at me.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
It's what it sounds like.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yeah, yeah, but I never planned for us and not
be together really, so it's complicated, okay because I still
got feelings for but kind of thinking about it and
trying to work through some of it.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So yeah, there's a lot, there's a lot.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah. So I hit up my best friend and was
just like, if you don't step up, I'm definitely gonna
step up and take care of your kids. And I
mean he's gone, he's like in the wind. He still
has a responded. I don't know if you think I'm
joking or if I'm just trying to catch him outside
or something like that, but like I'm dead serious, like
I'm definitely gonna step up and take care of the
baby if she if she wants me to.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
And he hasn't tried to reach out to her either,
Like just nobody's seen him type.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Yeah as far as I know, Wow, nobody's seen him.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Okay, So what's her name? Because we got to get
her involved in this conversation.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Uh Resa, sonag you morning? You on came ol, Good morning,
it's girl sona WhatsApp? Hey, giz here Hello? So Lawrence
hit us up, biz and who.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
You know, wants to step up and get back with
his girl, who apparently is now carrying his friend's kid.
It's a lot going on, but I'm sure there's more
to the story, and she's going to be telling us.
Resa is on the phone what her side of it is, right,
So Resa.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Good morning, mama, good morning, congratulations, Thank you to be
not under the I guess ideal circumstances. Girl, But when
is it like I'm a I'm a single mom. So
you know, I got a little bit of background about
how you've got here from Lawrence because he gave us
(02:33):
a call. But I want to hear like from your side,
like what is the situation in your eyes?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
You know, Elle has We've been together a long time,
you know, six years, and I never thought I'd be
in this situation. I love Elle with all my heart.
Elle has basically been a shit on me for many
many years and cheating over and over again with you
(03:01):
know the last one that really you know, took the
show with someone in my church family. Yeah, and you know,
I just I checked out and I'm pregnant by his
ex best friend. It's nothing that I'm waving my hand
proud of but at that point in time, his best
friend had checked in.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I heard that he hasn't even reached out to you though,
since he's gotten the news, because Lawrence is actually on
hold waiting and he said that he hasn't talked to
him either.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Oh he is.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, Okay, he wants to talk to you, so let's
get him on the phone.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Lawrence.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Okay, Hey, Lisa, I appreciate you answer. And I know
we've been, you know, going through some things, and I
did want to tell you, like with full accountability, that
if you would have it, I would definitely like to
get back with you. Answer that a way to make
this work?
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Wow, you know, guys, this is this is emotional. I
don't mean to get like all emotional, but you broke
me in so many ways, and you saying you want
to step up and be a part of our lives
does mean a lot to me.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
You know, broken people break other people, and I there
was something about me that just wasn't right either. So
I've been getting my head straight in my heart right.
So yeah, So I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
So does that mean am I hearing that like you're
willing to give it a chance exactly?
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Like are we open to it, you know, what's up?
Speaker 4 (04:27):
I mean, I'm open to it, and I appreciate the help.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Guys.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
I have to think about this and when my baby
comes out and you look at my child with hours like,
what is that really? You know? I just don't. That's
a whole another layer of this, and I just I
don't know. I don't have all the answer.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yeah, I would agree that, you know, saying what do
you think right now? Like saying yes or no is
probably a lot with everything that's gone on. But I
mean it sounds like el she is willing to at
least talk through it, right, which you guys have already
kind of started.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
So I mean it's a start, man. And if you
really love this woman and you really want to be.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
There, like you just don't give up, you know, and
you both have to change the things, I guess moving
forward for each other.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
So I don't know. I hope it works out.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Yeah, I appreciate that. We'll keep working through it.
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