Melanie thinks her boyfriend, Kev, might still be in love with an old flame!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, Yeah, So I started talking to this guy who
happened to be like one of my really close friends.
He was in a long term, committed relationship before we
started talking. Sometimes when we're doing certain activities, he may
like kind of mix us up a little bit, and
that can kind of like make me, of course angry.
But I got to, you know, show that. It's just

(00:22):
like I feel like if you're thinking about it all
the time, you know, you're bringing her up sometimes or
even when we're out, he's like, oh, she loves that.
Like I'm just like okay, really okay. And so here's
the kicker. She hit me up on Instagram and in
the message, she was just basically like, hey girl, you know,
I know that you guys have this thing going on,

(00:42):
but I really can't seem to get him off of
my mind. And she goes to say, like, you know,
she knows that I could be potentially good for him
and that this could be something, but she does love
him a lot, and it's taking everything in her to
kind of like just lit go. And I haven't told

(01:03):
him yet. I'm not I don't even know how to
tell him.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Well, I mean, you just got a babe girl like
you know, if you're stepping back, you know, being selfless
and being like, maybe they deserve another shot, and that's
that's something you got to address with him. So let's
get uh, let's get him on the phone and just
you know, tell him this new information and see see
what he decides. I guess, but it sounds like you've
already made up your mind, like you want to check out. Yeah,

(01:28):
So what's his name? I'm sorry I didn't catch up.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
Kevin. Oh, take keV.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
There she goes, hello, Hey, baby, So this is really
hard for me to tell you, even though, like I
mentioned a time before, you know, everything regarding your ex,
and I just been kind of thinking that maybe you
guys need to try.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
Again, you know, give give things a second chance.

Speaker 4 (01:55):
Meaning that I don't have any feelings for that girl.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
I really, I don't know why.

Speaker 4 (01:59):
I know we would think that.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
I get it from you. I feel like you you
bring her up a lot in conversation, and you sometimes
even get us, you know, confused with one another, and
it just like has me confused.

Speaker 4 (02:11):
I'm sorry that you feel that way, but all my
feelings are directed towards you.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
Well, I didn't tell you this, but she messaged me
on Instagram, and she still has feelings for you. She
basically la laid her heart on the table.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
What did you guys break up for keV? If you
don't mind me asking.

Speaker 4 (02:31):
We just like grew apart. We argued about like because
I guess we didn't have an agreement on kids having
children and she.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
Didn't okay, yeah, And so that's what drove you guys apart.
So it wasn't like cheating or finances or anything. It
was just one of y'all wanted children the other one
didn't miss a line.

Speaker 4 (02:46):
Yeah, yes, And it was like a big argument and
and I just we just decided to go separate ways.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
Well after hearing you know, obviously what Melanie shared with you, Like,
where does that put you? Because talking about someone else
when you're in something normally only means that they're on
your mind a lot. Yeah, more than they should be.
I guess if you're trying to be with somebody else.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
I mean, to be.

Speaker 4 (03:06):
Honest, I just didn't like know how to tell Melanie
because we kind of built a connection. But to be honest,
I have feelings the whole time for her the whole time,
and I was trying to get over her, and I
didn't notice what I was doing the whole time, But
I mean, I guess, yes, I still have feelings for her.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
Well, she's coming to you telling you that she sees it,
and then now hearing from your ex like and it
sounds like she's okay with you, know, letting you guys
revisit and see if you can mend what you had.
Is that right, Melanie?

Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah, I mean I'm okay with that decision, and I'm
appreciate that you are open and honest with me.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
Yeah, because honestly, it's not fair to her if if
you just keeping her there and that ain't really where
your heart lies. Brot.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, all right, Well, I mean I think you know,
obviously a lot of clarity was achieved today, a whole lot,
And this is obviously a conversation you guys have to
continue and then figure out how you move forward. But
you know, shoot, being honest with each other is always
the best way to go about things, to spare each
other's feelings and time and everything else. So I don't know,

(04:08):
I wish y'all both the best of luck.

Speaker 4 (04:09):
Man, Thank you, thank you,