Tommy's Divorce Is Finally Finalized & He Wants To See If Rebecca (The Woman He Had An Affair With) Will Date Him Now

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, guys. You know, I'm not really proud of this
too much, but a few years ago, I cheated on
my wife and I met this lady many years ago
named Rebecca. I mean, I think we were in love
with each other, to be honest with you, and it
was great, and I actually wanted to leave my wife
at the time. I had young kids, so it just

(00:22):
didn't seem like the right time, not because of our relationship,
but just because of the kids and I'm not with
my wife anymore. We finally did get divorced. She found
out about the affair. She found out about a bunch
of other stuff too as well, which I don't want
to go into right now. So now I'm single again,
and Rebecca that's all I think about, because I wanted
to be with her at the time. Like I said,

(00:42):
it's just in my life at that time, it just
wasn't the right time, and so I tried reaching out
to her, tried texting her a few times, tried emailing
her a few times, and heard you guys the other day.
I was thinking, you know, I wouldn't see if maybe
you guys might be and uh possibly reaching out to
her and seeing, you know, if she wants to just

(01:05):
meet if nothing else, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
So, I mean there is a possibility she changed her
number unless you know otherwise, and she's just not wanting
to talk to you. So that's the other thing, like
if it is the same, and she might be like,
you know, that was my life's mistake and learned her
lesson and not want to deal with it. But I mean,
the minimum we can do is try the number that
you have and see if we can get on the
phone and then see if she's willing to talk to you.

(01:28):
So if you want to hold I can.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
Do that that it would be great. I appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
Hey, I'm still a little confused. So okay, I'm okay.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
Yeah, so we are on a radio may not be
your station of choice. I'm just gonna make a guess,
but it is from someone that you know. So I've
got Tommy on the.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
Phone, of course you do. Yeah, He's been trying to
contact me a lot lately.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
Okay, So I'm sure that he's left messages and details
in his emails or whatever about what he wants to
talk about. And you know, the choice is obviously yours
whether you even want to speak to him or not,
because we have a little bit of background on what happened,
you know, and obviously not responding to him, says in
bright letters where you're at, But I don't know.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
It's up to you honestly too. You say, like he
actually hasn't provided many details about why he's been reaching out,
so your curiosity and yeah, I guess that's just kind
of put an end to this.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
Okay, Tommy, Hey guys, Okay, she's here and willing to listen.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
Oh wow, Hey, Rebecca, I'm sure you know I've been
trying to get a hold of you a lot lately.
I just want to let you know. I guess right
off the bat that I'm not married anymore, to get
divorced about six months ago, and since then you're literally
the only thing from the time I wake up to

(02:50):
the time I go to sleep I'm thinking about. That's
why I started, you know, a couple of months ago.
It's starting to try to reach out, and it's one
to see if he might be interested in, you know,
nothing else. Just know, we'll see where things go. But
maybe just getting a cup of coffee or tell me that.

Speaker 3 (03:04):
I'm going to interrupt you right there. I am so
far moved past this. I'm very confused why you would
think I would be interested. Like what happened with us
was truly like the worst thing I've ever done, So
I'm not interested at all. I don't understand why you

(03:25):
think I would be.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Well, he said that you guys, you know, were in
love and it was maybe.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
Yeah, this is just a reminder of like a time
in my life I am not proud of. And there's
just I think too much bad karma associated with this.
Like I learned my lesson from that time. I don't
ever want to be involved in anything like that. Again,
I'm feeling a kind of way about you talking about
this publicly so well.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
I mean, it's understandable, Tommy. I mean, but there was
a chance, right, there was a slim chance, and because
you hadn't really gotten it straight from her and.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
Now you have. Yeah, all right, Well, thanks guys, and
we're back up. Please, you know, feel free to anytime
you want to reach even just get a cup of
coffee anything. I'm always here for you if you're interested me. No,
all right, thanks guys,