October 30, 2025 • 6 mins
Alexa from Manchester went on a great coffee date. She's being ghosted and wants to find out why.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date up day time. I'm so excited. Guys, we're
going to Manchester. We've got Alexa on the line.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Good morning Alexa, Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Hey. Welcome to the show. Welcome to second date Update. Obviously,
second date update. You go on a first date, you
want to see the person again, and you're getting ghosted.
You call us and we get the answers, so hopefully
we can get you some answers. Tell us about this
great first date you had.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Okay, Yes, so I met this guy on him Yep,
we went out. It was really good. Okay, let me
pick the cafe that we went to for our first date. Good.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I know.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
We had great conversations, coffee, he was smoking hot. I
cannot lie.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
And since then I have texted him twice and he
hasn't responded. All right, And yeah, I just want to
know why I'm getting ghosted because he seems very into
me at the time.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Okay, The producer says his name is EJ. Is that right?
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
EJ.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I think going to a cafe, having a nice cup
of coffee and good conversation is a great first date.
Speaker 5 (01:10):
Yeah, I gotta say, I agree.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, And you felt like he was flirting with you,
like flirty, like touching you every now and then or
laughing or yeah very much.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
So very much. So he was like a little bit jittery,
like good, like happy nervous vibe.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Oh I like that.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Cue.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
I don't know why you're asking us why you're being
ghosted when you can just say, Alexa, tell me why
I'm being ghosted?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
That nice?
Speaker 5 (01:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
How long have you been cooking that one?
Speaker 5 (01:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
They all can't be home runs, Alexa.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
He was probably so excited when he found out that
your name was Alexa.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
All right, so let's get back to it. EJ is
ghosting you. According to you, you had did you have
anything in common or you just felt like an attraction
to him?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
I guess there was a sort of a natural chemistry.
We kind of had similar senses of humor.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I love that, okay, And there was just it wasn't
awkward or anything.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
No, I mean it.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Was giggly and nervous.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
It was not awkward.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
Okay, that's cute, though giggily nervous is cute.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Maybe he's the type of guy that would have rather
had a cocktail or go to a brewery instead of
having a cup of coffee.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
All right, Well, I think it's rude that he's ghosting you.
It doesn't sound like he has any reason to ghost you.
We're going to put you on hold. We're going to
call EJ. And we're going to get some answers. Are
you ready to find out why?
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I'm ready? Thank you?
Speaker 2 (02:30):
She sounds super nice, so nice.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
A good cafe coffee date, Grab a muffin or a snack.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
I love a good muffin with my coffee, blueberry one.
I don't know if this is the right number again,
what's wrong with you?
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I get confusedly? Hi? Is EJ there?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Hey, e J.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
It's Courtney Eats. What's up, buddy, it's Walmart chef.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss Nightieven. You're on
the radio this morning, EJ.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Hi, okay, surprise.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
All right, I'll tell you why you're on the radio, EJ.
We do something called second date update. You go on
a first date, you have a great time, You reach
out to that person because maybe you want a second date,
and you get ghosted. We get the answers. I'm gonna
be honest with you. If you're honest with us. Okay,
Alexa called us. Alexa called us said that she went
(03:28):
on a great first date with you, like I think,
she said, you guys, had great conversation, went to a
cafe and had coffee. She felt a connection. Wait, she
also said you're super hot.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
And she thought you were flirting with her. But she's
reached out to you twice and you're totally ghosting her.
What's happening?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
I'm being honest. It was it was really why is
it just beyond the star?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Okay, we want you to be honest.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
She did not say anything that about the date being
bizarre for her, though, Yeah, what like what happened?
Speaker 3 (04:04):
You know?
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Honestly, I was just shocked as a type of place
she chose.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
It was a cafe.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Yeah, okay, it was a.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Cat Did you say cat c at cat cafe?
Speaker 6 (04:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Okay, Wait, so it was one of those places where
like cats are up for adoption and they walk around.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
Uh, you could say that it was more than that though.
They were running around everywhere.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Like their cats.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
I mean it was just cats everywhere on the table.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Do you not like cats?
Speaker 6 (04:51):
No, I say the truth, I don't, okay, I mean
it was to the point where like, I'm still I
had hair, cat hair on my clothes. Okay, well that's
that's kind of finding cat hair on my clothes.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
All right, I.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Gotta tell you, EJ, Alex is not go ahead, Alexa,
you heard what he's saying.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I just have to jump in here. I had no
idea this was how you felt about cats, and honestly,
it is a major deal breaker for me. A man
who doesn't like cats is not the one for me.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Okay, yeah, well, I'm I just don't I don't even
understand how you could not like what is your problem
with them? You know?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
My my preference is that I just I really don't
like cat hairs the end in my nose and my
clothes and everywhere.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
So wow, cat, I mean, this is just it is
truly shocking, like they're they're extremely important to me.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
So okay, see this going anywhere?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
If if this is the case, that's what I feel.
And do you haves Alexa?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Yeah, I do have several.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I'm glad that you found out he doesn't like cats.
It was miscommunication. He didn't know that he was going
to a cat cafe.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
That's fine.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
I would just suggest EJ next time, just being honest
with her. She's texting you, just text her back and say, hey,
I didn't feel a connection A and be A don't
like cats. Yeah, seriously, I think what you did good
was good, Alexa, because those cat cafes are there to
help cats find homes, so thank you.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah, and now people are talking about second date update
and going to a cat cafe, and those who didn't
know there was cat cafes in Connecticut.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Will now go to a cat cafe and hopefully adopt
a cat.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Everyone wins. Thank god, he wasn't allergic, all right, So
no more dates.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
That's it. You've got your answers. Alexa and EJ just wasn't.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
A match, Okay, thank you, thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
You're welcome
Second date up day time. I'm so excited. Guys, we're
going to Manchester. We've got Alexa on the line.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Good morning Alexa, Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Hey. Welcome to the show. Welcome to second date Update. Obviously,
second date update. You go on a first date, you
want to see the person again, and you're getting ghosted.
You call us and we get the answers, so hopefully
we can get you some answers. Tell us about this
great first date you had.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Okay, Yes, so I met this guy on him Yep,
we went out. It was really good. Okay, let me
pick the cafe that we went to for our first date. Good.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I know.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
We had great conversations, coffee, he was smoking hot. I
cannot lie.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
And since then I have texted him twice and he
hasn't responded. All right, And yeah, I just want to
know why I'm getting ghosted because he seems very into
me at the time.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Okay, The producer says his name is EJ. Is that right?
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
EJ.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I think going to a cafe, having a nice cup
of coffee and good conversation is a great first date.
Speaker 5 (01:10):
Yeah, I gotta say, I agree.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, And you felt like he was flirting with you,
like flirty, like touching you every now and then or
laughing or yeah very much.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
So very much. So he was like a little bit jittery,
like good, like happy nervous vibe.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Oh I like that.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Cue.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
I don't know why you're asking us why you're being
ghosted when you can just say, Alexa, tell me why
I'm being ghosted?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
That nice?
Speaker 5 (01:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
How long have you been cooking that one?
Speaker 5 (01:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
They all can't be home runs, Alexa.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
He was probably so excited when he found out that
your name was Alexa.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
All right, so let's get back to it. EJ is
ghosting you. According to you, you had did you have
anything in common or you just felt like an attraction
to him?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
I guess there was a sort of a natural chemistry.
We kind of had similar senses of humor.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I love that, okay, And there was just it wasn't
awkward or anything.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
No, I mean it.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Was giggly and nervous.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
It was not awkward.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
Okay, that's cute, though giggily nervous is cute.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Maybe he's the type of guy that would have rather
had a cocktail or go to a brewery instead of
having a cup of coffee.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
All right, Well, I think it's rude that he's ghosting you.
It doesn't sound like he has any reason to ghost you.
We're going to put you on hold. We're going to
call EJ. And we're going to get some answers. Are
you ready to find out why?
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I'm ready? Thank you?
Speaker 2 (02:30):
She sounds super nice, so nice.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
A good cafe coffee date, Grab a muffin or a snack.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
I love a good muffin with my coffee, blueberry one.
I don't know if this is the right number again,
what's wrong with you?
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I get confusedly? Hi? Is EJ there?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Hey, e J.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
It's Courtney Eats. What's up, buddy, it's Walmart chef.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss Nightieven. You're on
the radio this morning, EJ.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Hi, okay, surprise.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
All right, I'll tell you why you're on the radio, EJ.
We do something called second date update. You go on
a first date, you have a great time, You reach
out to that person because maybe you want a second date,
and you get ghosted. We get the answers. I'm gonna
be honest with you. If you're honest with us. Okay,
Alexa called us. Alexa called us said that she went
(03:28):
on a great first date with you, like I think,
she said, you guys, had great conversation, went to a
cafe and had coffee. She felt a connection. Wait, she
also said you're super hot.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
And she thought you were flirting with her. But she's
reached out to you twice and you're totally ghosting her.
What's happening?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
I'm being honest. It was it was really why is
it just beyond the star?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Okay, we want you to be honest.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
She did not say anything that about the date being
bizarre for her, though, Yeah, what like what happened?
Speaker 3 (04:04):
You know?
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Honestly, I was just shocked as a type of place
she chose.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
It was a cafe.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Yeah, okay, it was a.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Cat Did you say cat c at cat cafe?
Speaker 6 (04:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Okay, Wait, so it was one of those places where
like cats are up for adoption and they walk around.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
Uh, you could say that it was more than that though.
They were running around everywhere.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Like their cats.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
I mean it was just cats everywhere on the table.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Do you not like cats?
Speaker 6 (04:51):
No, I say the truth, I don't, okay, I mean
it was to the point where like, I'm still I
had hair, cat hair on my clothes. Okay, well that's
that's kind of finding cat hair on my clothes.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
All right, I.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Gotta tell you, EJ, Alex is not go ahead, Alexa,
you heard what he's saying.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I just have to jump in here. I had no
idea this was how you felt about cats, and honestly,
it is a major deal breaker for me. A man
who doesn't like cats is not the one for me.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Okay, yeah, well, I'm I just don't I don't even
understand how you could not like what is your problem
with them? You know?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
My my preference is that I just I really don't
like cat hairs the end in my nose and my
clothes and everywhere.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
So wow, cat, I mean, this is just it is
truly shocking, like they're they're extremely important to me.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
So okay, see this going anywhere?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
If if this is the case, that's what I feel.
And do you haves Alexa?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Yeah, I do have several.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I'm glad that you found out he doesn't like cats.
It was miscommunication. He didn't know that he was going
to a cat cafe.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
That's fine.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
I would just suggest EJ next time, just being honest
with her. She's texting you, just text her back and say, hey,
I didn't feel a connection A and be A don't
like cats. Yeah, seriously, I think what you did good
was good, Alexa, because those cat cafes are there to
help cats find homes, so thank you.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah, and now people are talking about second date update
and going to a cat cafe, and those who didn't
know there was cat cafes in Connecticut.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Will now go to a cat cafe and hopefully adopt
a cat.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Everyone wins. Thank god, he wasn't allergic, all right, So
no more dates.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
That's it. You've got your answers. Alexa and EJ just wasn't.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
A match, Okay, thank you, thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
You're welcome
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