May 11, 2023 • 6 mins
Nick went on a great first date. He thought they made a connection but he hasn't heard from her since the date and he wants to know why. Find out in Second Date Update.
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(00:00):
All the hits, Kiss ninety fiveseven, Courtney and Kiss in the morning.
Just about time for second date update. We're going to Plainville this morning.
Are you guys ready, Savannah,Walmar, Jeff Yeah, yeah,
I'm act more excited. Yeah,I'm excited to be here. The vibe
is off in the studio this morning, I can feel it. Anyway.
A second date update. You goon a first date, you have a
great time, but then you getghosted and you want answers. Call us
(00:22):
it happened to Nick. Nick ison the phone in Plainville wants to know
why he's getting ghosted. Good morning, Nick, Hey, good morning,
thanks for having me on. Welllisten, I hope we can help you
out. I love making. Ifeel like the last couple of times we've
made love matches and gotten second andthird dates, haven't we, guys thinks.
So yeah, it's been a goodrecord. Sometimes it could just be
a misunderstanding. So obviously, Nick, you know all about second date update,
(00:44):
which means you went on a greatfirst date and you're getting ghosted.
To tell me about this great firstdate? Yeah, yeah, definitely.
Well, I went on a daterecently at dinner with the s girl named
Riley and he had a great time. I enjoyed myself. I believe she
did too, and you know,I feel like we had a lot in
common. But now it just seemsthat after the fact that she's not responding
(01:07):
to me out of nowhere, LikeI'm just confused on the same scratching my
head here because I called her nothing. I sent her a text, no
response. This is what I liketo call the classic Springs sampler. Now
with spring here, a lot ofthese ladies are getting back into the dating
game because winter's over. But they'regetting back and they're just kind of sampling
off the menu. A little fromthis guy, can take a little advantage
(01:30):
of this guy. I think that'swhat's happening here. Nick, don't listen
to him. He's clueless, Nick, not maybe j Walmart. Jeff has
not gone on a date since Idon't know, twenty years, how many
years was the last time he wenton a date sometime. But anyway,
I know women, and I knowwhat's going on. Okay, all right,
listen, Nick, here's the deal. We're gonna call up Riley if
you're ready to find out why she'sghosting you. We're just gonna ask her
(01:53):
to be honest, but you're gonnabe listening in. You're gonna hear the
whole thing. Okay, it's aface so ridiculous. I mean, if
that does exist, the spring standsbrilliant. Yeah, it's just a woman
who goes on a lot of datesto get free food. Sounds like something
you ordered a Chinese Hello. Heyis Riley there? Hey is Riley there?
(02:23):
Hey Riley, It is um Courtney. Hey, what's up? It's
Walmart Jeff, what's up? It'sSavannah. I gotta let you know.
We're calling you from Kiss ninety fiveseven and you're on the radio. Riley.
Oh my gosh, Um, Yeah, what's this about? Well,
Riley, if you're familiar with theshow, then you know all about our
Second Date Update, which is afeature when somebody goes on a first date
(02:46):
and they have a great time,they make a connection, but they get
ghosted and they want answers. That'swhen they call us and you, Riley,
are on Second Date Update this morning. Oh my gosh. All right,
So here's the deal. This guyNick got in touch with us.
Sounds like a great guy. Hetold us he took you on a date.
He had a fabulous time, Ithink he said he would. You
(03:07):
guys had a lot in common,you went to dinner, You're attractive.
He even said he's reached out toyou. I don't remember if he said
he called you and texted or didboth. But you're ghosting him and he
wants to know why, because he'dlove to take you on a second date.
Riley. So there was one weirdthing, and honestly, this is
what kind of gets him the way. Um. So things were going pretty
(03:30):
okay, just kind of like someawkwardness of the first date, and I
mentioned that I have two cats,and the dude just doesn't let it go.
So he keeps calling me a crazycat lady the entire time. Oh
my god. First using and jokingand like that would have been okay,
(03:54):
but then he wouldn't drop it.He would he like even pointed out out
like a small amount of cat hairon my clothes that I didn't get the
lent roller. Um. And thenat one point he just flat out told
me that he hates cats and findsdisgusting. I can't see. Can I
(04:15):
just say one thing, Riley,I used to have two cats, Vanessa
and Amelia, And I think Iremember that might have happened to be before
too, where somebody was teasing meto go, you're the cat lady.
I'm thinking, I hate it whenpeople say that, because honestly, you
know, I like cats. Imean, Walmart, Jeff, you the
cat man. You've got like fiveNo, I don't have five cats.
I have two cats. But Imean I wouldn't consider that like creepy cat
(04:36):
lady stuff unless you're wearing like asweater with a picture of your cats on
it. That's true. No,that's not typically my first date attire.
But all right, No, soI think, can you bring them on?
And there you go? Nick ison the line, and I meant
(04:57):
to tell you Riley, but Icouldn't get it in. Go ahead,
Okay, listen, I was joking. It was just a little teasing here,
and it's not I didn't think youwould take it that much to heart.
Yeah, but when you say that, they're disgusting. I also just
like, you know, if itwas gonna go any further, like would
(05:18):
you feel comfortable being in my apartment? Like those are the kind of questions
that like I'm considering. Um,Hi, by the way, Uh yeah,
so you didn't answer my calls ortexts because of that. Really,
yeah, it just didn't seem right. I don't know, Like it seems
(05:43):
like we're pretty incompatible. It seemslike you were pretty into it, But
I don't know how into it Ican be when it just seems like you
don't like ask them you don't likeanimal? Well, guy has doesn't have
an issue with cats. You know, I have allergies some months. Okay,
So I think the question I'll becomeRiley. Is there not liking a
cat thing a deal breaker for you? I think? I think so.
(06:04):
It's like it's so much part ofmy life, you know, I live
with these things. Like it wouldbe like if he hated my roommate,
you know. All right, Sohere's the deal, Riley, would you
like to go? I'm usually Ioffer a second date and I pick up
the tab. But if it's adeal breaker for you that Nick has allergies
and doesn't really like cats, thenI don't. I mean, do you
(06:24):
want to go on a second date? Yeah? I think there's more to
it than that, but I justdon't think that work compatible and I don't
think a second date is a goodidea. All right, guys, Well,
listen, I just want to thankyou for being so honest and being
on second date. Update Yeah,thanks good
All the hits, Kiss ninety fiveseven, Courtney and Kiss in the morning.
Just about time for second date update. We're going to Plainville this morning.
Are you guys ready, Savannah,Walmar, Jeff Yeah, yeah,
I'm act more excited. Yeah,I'm excited to be here. The vibe
is off in the studio this morning, I can feel it. Anyway.
A second date update. You goon a first date, you have a
great time, but then you getghosted and you want answers. Call us
(00:22):
it happened to Nick. Nick ison the phone in Plainville wants to know
why he's getting ghosted. Good morning, Nick, Hey, good morning,
thanks for having me on. Welllisten, I hope we can help you
out. I love making. Ifeel like the last couple of times we've
made love matches and gotten second andthird dates, haven't we, guys thinks.
So yeah, it's been a goodrecord. Sometimes it could just be
a misunderstanding. So obviously, Nick, you know all about second date update,
(00:44):
which means you went on a greatfirst date and you're getting ghosted.
To tell me about this great firstdate? Yeah, yeah, definitely.
Well, I went on a daterecently at dinner with the s girl named
Riley and he had a great time. I enjoyed myself. I believe she
did too, and you know,I feel like we had a lot in
common. But now it just seemsthat after the fact that she's not responding
(01:07):
to me out of nowhere, LikeI'm just confused on the same scratching my
head here because I called her nothing. I sent her a text, no
response. This is what I liketo call the classic Springs sampler. Now
with spring here, a lot ofthese ladies are getting back into the dating
game because winter's over. But they'regetting back and they're just kind of sampling
off the menu. A little fromthis guy, can take a little advantage
(01:30):
of this guy. I think that'swhat's happening here. Nick, don't listen
to him. He's clueless, Nick, not maybe j Walmart. Jeff has
not gone on a date since Idon't know, twenty years, how many
years was the last time he wenton a date sometime. But anyway,
I know women, and I knowwhat's going on. Okay, all right,
listen, Nick, here's the deal. We're gonna call up Riley if
you're ready to find out why she'sghosting you. We're just gonna ask her
(01:53):
to be honest, but you're gonnabe listening in. You're gonna hear the
whole thing. Okay, it's aface so ridiculous. I mean, if
that does exist, the spring standsbrilliant. Yeah, it's just a woman
who goes on a lot of datesto get free food. Sounds like something
you ordered a Chinese Hello. Heyis Riley there? Hey is Riley there?
(02:23):
Hey Riley, It is um Courtney. Hey, what's up? It's
Walmart Jeff, what's up? It'sSavannah. I gotta let you know.
We're calling you from Kiss ninety fiveseven and you're on the radio. Riley.
Oh my gosh, Um, Yeah, what's this about? Well,
Riley, if you're familiar with theshow, then you know all about our
Second Date Update, which is afeature when somebody goes on a first date
(02:46):
and they have a great time,they make a connection, but they get
ghosted and they want answers. That'swhen they call us and you, Riley,
are on Second Date Update this morning. Oh my gosh. All right,
So here's the deal. This guyNick got in touch with us.
Sounds like a great guy. Hetold us he took you on a date.
He had a fabulous time, Ithink he said he would. You
(03:07):
guys had a lot in common,you went to dinner, You're attractive.
He even said he's reached out toyou. I don't remember if he said
he called you and texted or didboth. But you're ghosting him and he
wants to know why, because he'dlove to take you on a second date.
Riley. So there was one weirdthing, and honestly, this is
what kind of gets him the way. Um. So things were going pretty
(03:30):
okay, just kind of like someawkwardness of the first date, and I
mentioned that I have two cats,and the dude just doesn't let it go.
So he keeps calling me a crazycat lady the entire time. Oh
my god. First using and jokingand like that would have been okay,
(03:54):
but then he wouldn't drop it.He would he like even pointed out out
like a small amount of cat hairon my clothes that I didn't get the
lent roller. Um. And thenat one point he just flat out told
me that he hates cats and findsdisgusting. I can't see. Can I
(04:15):
just say one thing, Riley,I used to have two cats, Vanessa
and Amelia, And I think Iremember that might have happened to be before
too, where somebody was teasing meto go, you're the cat lady.
I'm thinking, I hate it whenpeople say that, because honestly, you
know, I like cats. Imean, Walmart, Jeff, you the
cat man. You've got like fiveNo, I don't have five cats.
I have two cats. But Imean I wouldn't consider that like creepy cat
(04:36):
lady stuff unless you're wearing like asweater with a picture of your cats on
it. That's true. No,that's not typically my first date attire.
But all right, No, soI think, can you bring them on?
And there you go? Nick ison the line, and I meant
(04:57):
to tell you Riley, but Icouldn't get it in. Go ahead,
Okay, listen, I was joking. It was just a little teasing here,
and it's not I didn't think youwould take it that much to heart.
Yeah, but when you say that, they're disgusting. I also just
like, you know, if itwas gonna go any further, like would
(05:18):
you feel comfortable being in my apartment? Like those are the kind of questions
that like I'm considering. Um,Hi, by the way, Uh yeah,
so you didn't answer my calls ortexts because of that. Really,
yeah, it just didn't seem right. I don't know, Like it seems
(05:43):
like we're pretty incompatible. It seemslike you were pretty into it, But
I don't know how into it Ican be when it just seems like you
don't like ask them you don't likeanimal? Well, guy has doesn't have
an issue with cats. You know, I have allergies some months. Okay,
So I think the question I'll becomeRiley. Is there not liking a
cat thing a deal breaker for you? I think? I think so.
(06:04):
It's like it's so much part ofmy life, you know, I live
with these things. Like it wouldbe like if he hated my roommate,
you know. All right, Sohere's the deal, Riley, would you
like to go? I'm usually Ioffer a second date and I pick up
the tab. But if it's adeal breaker for you that Nick has allergies
and doesn't really like cats, thenI don't. I mean, do you
(06:24):
want to go on a second date? Yeah? I think there's more to
it than that, but I justdon't think that work compatible and I don't
think a second date is a goodidea. All right, guys, Well,
listen, I just want to thankyou for being so honest and being
on second date. Update Yeah,thanks good
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