May 29, 2025 • 6 mins
Crissy from Bristol went on a great first date, and now she's being ghosted. She wants to know why her date is avoiding her calls and texts.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, we're going to Bristol.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
You guys, are you ready for a little second date
update action in Bristol?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Absolutely? All right. On the line is Chrissy. Good morning, Chrissy,
good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Hey, welcome to the show. It is second date update.
So obviously you went on a great first date and
you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
That is that it?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Oh yes, Oh my gosh, So tell me.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
About this great first date. The guy's name is Steve.
Is that his name? Okay, tell me about.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
The date, my gosh, best date. So we went to
a very fancy restaurant. The food was perfect, the conversation
was great. I mean, he is literally everything I'm looking for.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Okay, this is overall.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
This is an excellent date, Like, couldn't have gone any better.
And so after the date, I texted him the next
day and you know I wanted to meet up again. Okay,
good date. The night before was so great? All right,
and now I'm getting ghosted and I have no idea why.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
So did you drink too much? Do you think you
had too much alcohol?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Oh no, no, no, I do not drink at all.
That is so bad for your health. I would never
touch the stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay, maybe that's why you're getting ghosted right there.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Top's sober Susan in the house.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
It's chrissy.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
I'm sorry, but yeah, yeah, it's sober Chrissy Jeff. All right.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So, and then you reached out to him. He has
not responded. Did he get too drunk on the date?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
No, he did have a couple of drinks and I
didn't like that, but I figured because it was the
first date, I could look past it and you know,
maybe we could figure that out later.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Now. Is drinking like a deal breaker for you?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
It's not necessarily a deal breaker. I mean, I'm really
in a health and wellness so it's not something that
I partake in, and I prefer my partners not.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
To do that.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Okay, okay, but you know what, first date, I'll let
it pass and we can just talk about it later.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
All right, Okay, all right, Well, listen, this is what
we're gonna do. We're gonna put you on hold. We're
gonna call up Steve. We're gonna ask him about the date.
You're going to be listening, and if at any point
you want to talk to him, you can, Okay. I'm
just gonna ask him to be honest, and why he's
ghosting you.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okay, I don't know. I just feel like she's aggressive.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (02:13):
I feel like, if you're into health and wellness, it's
not a big deal.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
I mean, as long as you know she's not pushing
it on him.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Sounds aggressive. Hi is Steve there? Hello? Hi Steve, it's Courtney, Steve,
It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Hey Steve, it's Savannah.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
You're on Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the radio
this morning.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Oh cool, how's it going?
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Hey, it's going well. Listen.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
We're calling you because we do something called second date Update,
where if you go on a first date and you
have a great time, but you get ghosted and you
want answers, you call us.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
And that's why we're calling you.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
You're joking.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
No, We're totally not joking, are we, guys? No, this
is not joking.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Unfortunately, Chrissy called up. I'll fill you in. She says, you, guys,
went on a great first date. You went to dinner,
really good conversation. She says, she want doesn't want to
waste time. She wants to see you again, but you're
ghosting her. How is the date for you?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
You know? And this is perfect because she is. She's
very nice. But that was one of the most control
freak Micromanagy has to have everything her way dates I've
ever had. I So this is wild.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
So tell me why.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
So you felt like she was a little aggressive or
a little controlling.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Oh, more than a little. The entire night she was,
you know, talking about how, you know, all she does
just go to the gym and work out and but
every you know, two minutes she was say, Oh, but
I'm not I'm not a control freak or anything. I
don't because I'm not, which like that best textbook she is.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Okay, she's there, Chrissy's there, Steve, she was listening in,
So go ahead, Chrissy.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
He says, you were pretty much a control freak.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
I'm not a control freak. Why would you say something
like that. I thought we had a great time.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Yeah, we did have a good time. But you know,
all you did was talk about them going out to
the gym and working out, and when you sent the
bread back.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Come on, set, wait, I mean bread. You sent the
bread back? Is that what you said?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, they brought Why would bread with our dinner? That
is so bad for you?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Sometimes that's the best. They're so good. They get me
every time.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
If you start to fill up on bread before you
get your protein, and you're not going to get enough protein,
and it's not you're not going to be sufficiently full.
You'll feel full and then you'll crash.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I mean, she's she's not wrong.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
She's going out to dinner on a first day. It's
so you don't bring this stuff up.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I mean, sounds like a great first But okay, Steve,
was there anything else aside from sending the bread back?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Whatever?
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Was?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Is there any is that it?
Speaker 5 (05:00):
I'm so glad you asked. Yeah, of course there was. Okay,
So I'm on top of her saying that she's not controlling.
Yeah she So. I ordered a steak. You know, we
were a nice restaurant, So I'm gonna get a stake,
all right. I let the bread things slide.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
I got stake and it had butter on top of it,
and she was lecturing me for all the calories of
the butter.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Okay, it's a huge okay.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Punk of butter on this steak. I could not I
couldn't believe they served that to you.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
Yeah, I had to say something, hold on, hold on,
as much as I myself am a health freak.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
No no, no, no, no no no, I.
Speaker 6 (05:34):
Am hold on, give me the butter. I am a
health freak, and I would do this with my food.
I feel like on a first date or in general,
it's not fair to push that on somebody else who
doesn't want to live like that. Like, if you want
to do that and you want your steak, no butter
and no bread, go for it, like I live that life.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
I'm all with.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
You, But I feel like pushing it on somebody else
is just taking it a little too far.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I don't think so. I think that I know a
lot about this stuff, and I'm very passionate about it,
and I'm okay people knowing about that upfront.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Okay, all right? So I feel this is this is
my assessment. It's not a love match. You're just too
far off. It's not a connection. Am I Is that
fair to say?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
With your pee?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Probably? Not?
Speaker 6 (06:14):
All right?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I usually offer to pay for a second date, but
I feel like there's not much of a connection here,
and so I'll let you guys just do your own thing,
but keep us posted on.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Like maybe if you meet somebody.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Christy, that's you know more in tune with what you
believe in and same with you.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Steve.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Give him the.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Money for a gym membership.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
I'm going to another Steak.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Okay or Steak and butter Well. Thank you guys for
being so honest and for being on second date.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Update.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Thanks I you
All right, we're going to Bristol.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
You guys, are you ready for a little second date
update action in Bristol?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Absolutely? All right. On the line is Chrissy. Good morning, Chrissy,
good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Hey, welcome to the show. It is second date update.
So obviously you went on a great first date and
you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
That is that it?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Oh yes, Oh my gosh, So tell me.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
About this great first date. The guy's name is Steve.
Is that his name? Okay, tell me about.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
The date, my gosh, best date. So we went to
a very fancy restaurant. The food was perfect, the conversation
was great. I mean, he is literally everything I'm looking for.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Okay, this is overall.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
This is an excellent date, Like, couldn't have gone any better.
And so after the date, I texted him the next
day and you know I wanted to meet up again. Okay,
good date. The night before was so great? All right,
and now I'm getting ghosted and I have no idea why.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
So did you drink too much? Do you think you
had too much alcohol?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Oh no, no, no, I do not drink at all.
That is so bad for your health. I would never
touch the stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay, maybe that's why you're getting ghosted right there.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Top's sober Susan in the house.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
It's chrissy.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
I'm sorry, but yeah, yeah, it's sober Chrissy Jeff. All right.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So, and then you reached out to him. He has
not responded. Did he get too drunk on the date?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
No, he did have a couple of drinks and I
didn't like that, but I figured because it was the
first date, I could look past it and you know,
maybe we could figure that out later.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Now. Is drinking like a deal breaker for you?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
It's not necessarily a deal breaker. I mean, I'm really
in a health and wellness so it's not something that
I partake in, and I prefer my partners not.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
To do that.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Okay, okay, but you know what, first date, I'll let
it pass and we can just talk about it later.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
All right, Okay, all right, Well, listen, this is what
we're gonna do. We're gonna put you on hold. We're
gonna call up Steve. We're gonna ask him about the date.
You're going to be listening, and if at any point
you want to talk to him, you can, Okay. I'm
just gonna ask him to be honest, and why he's
ghosting you.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okay, I don't know. I just feel like she's aggressive.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (02:13):
I feel like, if you're into health and wellness, it's
not a big deal.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
I mean, as long as you know she's not pushing
it on him.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Sounds aggressive. Hi is Steve there? Hello? Hi Steve, it's Courtney, Steve,
It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Hey Steve, it's Savannah.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
You're on Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the radio
this morning.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Oh cool, how's it going?
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Hey, it's going well. Listen.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
We're calling you because we do something called second date Update,
where if you go on a first date and you
have a great time, but you get ghosted and you
want answers, you call us.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
And that's why we're calling you.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
You're joking.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
No, We're totally not joking, are we, guys? No, this
is not joking.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Unfortunately, Chrissy called up. I'll fill you in. She says, you, guys,
went on a great first date. You went to dinner,
really good conversation. She says, she want doesn't want to
waste time. She wants to see you again, but you're
ghosting her. How is the date for you?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
You know? And this is perfect because she is. She's
very nice. But that was one of the most control
freak Micromanagy has to have everything her way dates I've
ever had. I So this is wild.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
So tell me why.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
So you felt like she was a little aggressive or
a little controlling.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Oh, more than a little. The entire night she was,
you know, talking about how, you know, all she does
just go to the gym and work out and but
every you know, two minutes she was say, Oh, but
I'm not I'm not a control freak or anything. I
don't because I'm not, which like that best textbook she is.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Okay, she's there, Chrissy's there, Steve, she was listening in,
So go ahead, Chrissy.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
He says, you were pretty much a control freak.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
I'm not a control freak. Why would you say something
like that. I thought we had a great time.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Yeah, we did have a good time. But you know,
all you did was talk about them going out to
the gym and working out, and when you sent the
bread back.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Come on, set, wait, I mean bread. You sent the
bread back? Is that what you said?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, they brought Why would bread with our dinner? That
is so bad for you?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Sometimes that's the best. They're so good. They get me
every time.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
If you start to fill up on bread before you
get your protein, and you're not going to get enough protein,
and it's not you're not going to be sufficiently full.
You'll feel full and then you'll crash.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I mean, she's she's not wrong.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
She's going out to dinner on a first day. It's
so you don't bring this stuff up.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I mean, sounds like a great first But okay, Steve,
was there anything else aside from sending the bread back?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Whatever?
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Was?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Is there any is that it?
Speaker 5 (05:00):
I'm so glad you asked. Yeah, of course there was. Okay,
So I'm on top of her saying that she's not controlling.
Yeah she So. I ordered a steak. You know, we
were a nice restaurant, So I'm gonna get a stake,
all right. I let the bread things slide.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
I got stake and it had butter on top of it,
and she was lecturing me for all the calories of
the butter.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Okay, it's a huge okay.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Punk of butter on this steak. I could not I
couldn't believe they served that to you.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
Yeah, I had to say something, hold on, hold on,
as much as I myself am a health freak.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
No no, no, no, no no no, I.
Speaker 6 (05:34):
Am hold on, give me the butter. I am a
health freak, and I would do this with my food.
I feel like on a first date or in general,
it's not fair to push that on somebody else who
doesn't want to live like that. Like, if you want
to do that and you want your steak, no butter
and no bread, go for it, like I live that life.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
I'm all with.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
You, But I feel like pushing it on somebody else
is just taking it a little too far.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I don't think so. I think that I know a
lot about this stuff, and I'm very passionate about it,
and I'm okay people knowing about that upfront.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Okay, all right? So I feel this is this is
my assessment. It's not a love match. You're just too
far off. It's not a connection. Am I Is that
fair to say?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
With your pee?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Probably? Not?
Speaker 6 (06:14):
All right?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I usually offer to pay for a second date, but
I feel like there's not much of a connection here,
and so I'll let you guys just do your own thing,
but keep us posted on.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Like maybe if you meet somebody.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Christy, that's you know more in tune with what you
believe in and same with you.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Steve.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Give him the.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Money for a gym membership.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
I'm going to another Steak.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Okay or Steak and butter Well. Thank you guys for
being so honest and for being on second date.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Update.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Thanks I you
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