October 23, 2025 • 6 mins
Brady went on a great first date, and now he's being ghosted. Brady took his date on a haunted hayride and hasn't heard from her since. He wants to know why he's being ghosted.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second Date Update time, guys. We're going to East Windsor
this morning. We've got Brady on the line, who got
ghosted after a first date, and we're going to try
to get answers.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Good morning, Brady, Hey.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
What's up guys?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Hey, well, welcome to the show. Welcome to Second Date Update.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
It's up, Brady, Thanks a lot for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Well, hopefully we can help you out today. Tell us
about this great first date, like, who was it with,
where'd you go?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
What'd you do?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Well? I met this really really sweet girl and I
went out with her for our first date. I took
her on a haunted hay ride, Okay, and yeah, it
was really really cool. We talked a lot, we had
a really great connection, and I haven't seen her since.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Okay, Okay, So the producer says, the girl's name is Kendall.
Is that correct, Kendall?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
That's right.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Okay, So you take Kendall on a haunted hay ride,
but you haven't talked since. Did you reach out to her?
Are you expecting her to reach out to you?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I mean I've texted her a couple of times, like,
you know, saying I had a really good time and
you know, asking if she wanted to go out again.
But I just haven't heard anything, and it's been you know,
a while, almost a week or so.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Okay, Hey, rides are great too, especially haunted ones. You know,
the girl gets a little frightened and maybe she grabs
onto her thigh or something like that.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
You're the man, You're the protector.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Yeah, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Yeah? All right?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Was it a scary hay ride?
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Like I mean, you know some of them are like yeah, yeah,
it was like a haunted hay ride thing, like a
Halloween themed.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
That's scary, Savannah. That would scare me.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
You know, I don't I don't like scary things. I
don't like Halloween. This, this would be a big no
for me.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
All right. Well, maybe that was it for her. I
don't know. But you thought she had a good time
and you guys had a connection.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah it was fun.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Okay, all right, Well.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Since you reached out to her and you're getting ghosted,
we're going to call her up and ask her what
she has to say about the day.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Are you ready to hear her answers?
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
All right, hold on, we're going to talk to Kendall.
You're going to be listening in feel free to jump
in if you want. Okay, something's off.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
I don't know. I think I'm not a Halloween person,
so for me, this is all just a big okay,
big no.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Hi is Kendall there? Hi, Hi Kendall. It is Courtney Kendall.
It's Walmart chef.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Hey, it's Savannah and you're on the radio. You're on
Kiss ninety five seven this morning.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Oh hi, Hello, welcome to the show. Kendall.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I have to tell you you're on Second Date Update.
Hopefully you're familiar with Second Date update.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Yeah, I've heard of it. Okay, once or twice.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Okay, So Brady called us. He said he took you
on a haunted Hey ride. He said, okay, this is
starting off well. Yeah, he said, you guys had a
great time, you had a connection, you had a blast
that night, and he's reached out to you twice and
you have not responded.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
You're ghosting him.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Uh yeah, Yeah. We ended up going on this wanted
Hey ride. It was a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
I he's a great guy. Okay, we did have a
lot in common. We do have a lot in common.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Okay, So why ghost.
Speaker 5 (03:11):
I'm sorry, why are you ghosting?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Him.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Then well, you know, I was expecting him to hold
my hand to protect me, and instead he was telling
me joke that he was making a lot of jokes
about having a huge knife collection, loving chainsaws. And then
at one point there was a guy who ran up.
I guess it was a scare actor who ran up
(03:34):
with this chainsaw. And instead of you know, shielding me
from this man, he pushes me in front of him,
shielding himself. And I would be like the victim, this.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Guy, stop, stop wat waat.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
So you're in a haunted Hey ride and he's he's
talking about he loves chainsaws and he loves this is
a first date and he is a knife collection.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
No, this is giving serial killer. I'm done. I'm done
with this.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Exactly my thought process. I was like, even this guy
either he loves horror movies and this is his gimmick,
or he's, like you said, a serial killer, and I
need to get out of here before I end up
on dateline.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Okay, literally, though, that's a that's a horrible first date.
Can I listen? I gotta be honest, Brady's listening, and.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Brady, yeah, hey, you took her to.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
A hunted hey, right, I get that, but I'm with
her and it should be kind of like romantic and fun.
Instead you're talking about chainsaws in your giant knife collection.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
I feel like such a douchebag. I see now. I
am so sorry, Like I I you know, I was
trying to be funny and I was trying to like, yeah,
I was teasing you, and I get it. I understand
if you didn't want to go out with me again,
(04:54):
I would get it. But hey, if you do, by
any chance, I really do of a great time with you,
and I am sorry. I promised I would never do
any of that stuff again.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I okay, can I just.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Jump in, Brady, do you have a giant knife collection?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I actually am a really avid home cook, so I
do have like I do have like kitchen knife sets
that I'm really happy about. But I really am not
like a creepy person. And I was just trying to
be funny and I get it now. I mean, if
you if you didn't want to go out with me again,
(05:32):
i'd understand, But if you did, I promise I wouldn't.
I wouldn't do anything like that. I really am like,
that's not me, and maybe I just kind of wanted
to impress you or make you laugh. And I think
I just took it a little too far, but you know,
I really am, genuinely I'm sorry, Kendall.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
I mean we did have a great time.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
He's a good guy, Okay, I.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
Mean I would go out with him again, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
All right, Yeah, well I'll text you. That'd be amazing.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
All right, this is what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Listen, and Kendall, and you did say you had a
good time, it just wasn't in your vibe. All the
joking about the knives and the chainsaws and all that.
I'm gonna pick up the tab for the second date.
I'm gonna put you guys both on hold. We're gonna
pay for this next date, and then either one of
you call us back with an update.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
So I'd love to know how the next one goes.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
And please don't make jokes about like duct tape and
trash bags, nives Newer.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Yeah, how woul we do something non murderous? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Can you do that, Brady?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah? I mean we could just grab dinner or something.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Okay, perfect bowling is great too. All right, Well, you
guys will keep us posted. I'm gonna put you both
on hold. Thank you for being so honest with us, Kendall,
We appreciate it, of course,
Second Date Update time, guys. We're going to East Windsor
this morning. We've got Brady on the line, who got
ghosted after a first date, and we're going to try
to get answers.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Good morning, Brady, Hey.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
What's up guys?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Hey, well, welcome to the show. Welcome to Second Date Update.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
It's up, Brady, Thanks a lot for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Well, hopefully we can help you out today. Tell us
about this great first date, like, who was it with,
where'd you go?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
What'd you do?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Well? I met this really really sweet girl and I
went out with her for our first date. I took
her on a haunted hay ride, Okay, and yeah, it
was really really cool. We talked a lot, we had
a really great connection, and I haven't seen her since.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Okay, Okay, So the producer says, the girl's name is Kendall.
Is that correct, Kendall?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
That's right.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Okay, So you take Kendall on a haunted hay ride,
but you haven't talked since. Did you reach out to her?
Are you expecting her to reach out to you?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I mean I've texted her a couple of times, like,
you know, saying I had a really good time and
you know, asking if she wanted to go out again.
But I just haven't heard anything, and it's been you know,
a while, almost a week or so.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Okay, Hey, rides are great too, especially haunted ones. You know,
the girl gets a little frightened and maybe she grabs
onto her thigh or something like that.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
You're the man, You're the protector.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Yeah, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Yeah? All right?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Was it a scary hay ride?
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Like I mean, you know some of them are like yeah, yeah,
it was like a haunted hay ride thing, like a
Halloween themed.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
That's scary, Savannah. That would scare me.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
You know, I don't I don't like scary things. I
don't like Halloween. This, this would be a big no
for me.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
All right. Well, maybe that was it for her. I
don't know. But you thought she had a good time
and you guys had a connection.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah it was fun.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Okay, all right, Well.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Since you reached out to her and you're getting ghosted,
we're going to call her up and ask her what
she has to say about the day.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Are you ready to hear her answers?
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
All right, hold on, we're going to talk to Kendall.
You're going to be listening in feel free to jump
in if you want. Okay, something's off.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
I don't know. I think I'm not a Halloween person,
so for me, this is all just a big okay,
big no.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Hi is Kendall there? Hi, Hi Kendall. It is Courtney Kendall.
It's Walmart chef.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Hey, it's Savannah and you're on the radio. You're on
Kiss ninety five seven this morning.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Oh hi, Hello, welcome to the show. Kendall.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I have to tell you you're on Second Date Update.
Hopefully you're familiar with Second Date update.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Yeah, I've heard of it. Okay, once or twice.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Okay, So Brady called us. He said he took you
on a haunted Hey ride. He said, okay, this is
starting off well. Yeah, he said, you guys had a
great time, you had a connection, you had a blast
that night, and he's reached out to you twice and
you have not responded.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
You're ghosting him.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Uh yeah, Yeah. We ended up going on this wanted
Hey ride. It was a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
I he's a great guy. Okay, we did have a
lot in common. We do have a lot in common.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Okay, So why ghost.
Speaker 5 (03:11):
I'm sorry, why are you ghosting?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Him.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Then well, you know, I was expecting him to hold
my hand to protect me, and instead he was telling
me joke that he was making a lot of jokes
about having a huge knife collection, loving chainsaws. And then
at one point there was a guy who ran up.
I guess it was a scare actor who ran up
(03:34):
with this chainsaw. And instead of you know, shielding me
from this man, he pushes me in front of him,
shielding himself. And I would be like the victim, this.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Guy, stop, stop wat waat.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
So you're in a haunted Hey ride and he's he's
talking about he loves chainsaws and he loves this is
a first date and he is a knife collection.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
No, this is giving serial killer. I'm done. I'm done
with this.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Exactly my thought process. I was like, even this guy
either he loves horror movies and this is his gimmick,
or he's, like you said, a serial killer, and I
need to get out of here before I end up
on dateline.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Okay, literally, though, that's a that's a horrible first date.
Can I listen? I gotta be honest, Brady's listening, and.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Brady, yeah, hey, you took her to.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
A hunted hey, right, I get that, but I'm with
her and it should be kind of like romantic and fun.
Instead you're talking about chainsaws in your giant knife collection.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
I feel like such a douchebag. I see now. I
am so sorry, Like I I you know, I was
trying to be funny and I was trying to like, yeah,
I was teasing you, and I get it. I understand
if you didn't want to go out with me again,
(04:54):
I would get it. But hey, if you do, by
any chance, I really do of a great time with you,
and I am sorry. I promised I would never do
any of that stuff again.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I okay, can I just.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Jump in, Brady, do you have a giant knife collection?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I actually am a really avid home cook, so I
do have like I do have like kitchen knife sets
that I'm really happy about. But I really am not
like a creepy person. And I was just trying to
be funny and I get it now. I mean, if
you if you didn't want to go out with me again,
(05:32):
i'd understand, But if you did, I promise I wouldn't.
I wouldn't do anything like that. I really am like,
that's not me, and maybe I just kind of wanted
to impress you or make you laugh. And I think
I just took it a little too far, but you know,
I really am, genuinely I'm sorry, Kendall.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
I mean we did have a great time.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
He's a good guy, Okay, I.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
Mean I would go out with him again, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
All right, Yeah, well I'll text you. That'd be amazing.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
All right, this is what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Listen, and Kendall, and you did say you had a
good time, it just wasn't in your vibe. All the
joking about the knives and the chainsaws and all that.
I'm gonna pick up the tab for the second date.
I'm gonna put you guys both on hold. We're gonna
pay for this next date, and then either one of
you call us back with an update.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
So I'd love to know how the next one goes.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
And please don't make jokes about like duct tape and
trash bags, nives Newer.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Yeah, how woul we do something non murderous? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Can you do that, Brady?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah? I mean we could just grab dinner or something.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Okay, perfect bowling is great too. All right, Well, you
guys will keep us posted. I'm gonna put you both
on hold. Thank you for being so honest with us, Kendall,
We appreciate it, of course,
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