September 18, 2025 • 7 mins
Nikki from Wethersfield went on a great first date and now she's being ghosted. They went mini golfing and had a few cocktails. She had a great time, but hasn't heard from her date since. She wants to know why she's being ghosted.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Almost time for a second date.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Up date. You guys were going to Weathersfield this morning
and NICKI went on a great first date.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Nicki is getting ghosted and wants to know why.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Good morning, Nikki, good morning, Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
No, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hopefully we can get some answers for you. Tell us
about this great first date you went on.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Okay, so we went and we played mini golf, and
then we went to a brewery and we like we
sat outside and we had a few beers and we
just like talked for like a long time. I mean
there was instant attraction on Like I thought he was
like super cute, Okay, immediately all right, and you know,
like I really want to see him again. And then
(00:40):
you know, after the date, I've texted him and I've
reached out, like trying to schedule something to get together again,
but he's not responding at all, and like now I'm like,
now I want to know why, because like I think
that it was an amazing date okay, and I'm like,
what happened?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
So, Nikki, it sounds like a great day. So mini golf,
you go to a brewery. Conversation, flows did you feel
like it was flirty. You felt like a connection. You
guys were flirting back and forth.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, definitely, like definitely felt like good chemistry. Yeah, you
guys felt like really good.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Did you guys hook up in the parking lot or
anything like that?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
No?
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Okay, no, I mean you don't have to have sex
in the parking lot, but I mean like a kiss
or anything else.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Just ignore him. Don't even answer that. Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
You know a lot of times so we always ask
if you if you go out for drinks or you
go to a brewery.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah, do you feel like you drank too much?
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Definitely? Not like I had two beers like it's a paper. Yeah. Yeah,
I kept it very good.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I was very lucky.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
All right, Well, you know we're gonna do. We're gonna
call him up. I mean, it sounds like a great
day to me. I can't you know, I don't know
what would have gone wrong and why you're getting ghosted
like this.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
So we're gonna call him up.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
We're gonna ask Luke just to be honest about the
date and tell us how it went.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Are you ready to get some answers?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
And my thought is hopefully he just didn't get your
text message. That you sent, you know, thanking him for
a date. Like hopefully he thinks you're blowing him off
and it's a miscommunication.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
So hold on and we're gonna call Luke.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
All right.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Well, we're in Weathersfield. It is Second Date Update. Nicky's
on the line, and Nikki told us about a great
first date she went on with Luke. Uh. You guys
went to minigolf, then you went to the brewery and
you felt a total connection. You've reached out to him
and you're getting ghosted. Is that the gist of it, NICKI, Yeah,
we're gonna call him up right now and find out
(02:44):
why you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
You'll be listening in if you want to talk to him.
Feel free. Okay, okay, okay, okay, hold on. I don't
know what this could be. Maybe maybe he didn't like
the way she played minigolf.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
Hello, Hi is Luke there?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Yeah, this is he.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Hey Luke, it's Courtney.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Hey, it's Walmart chef.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Hey, it's Savannah And you're on the radio this morning.
You're on Kiss ninety five to seven.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Okay, you're on Second Date Update. Hopefully you're familiar with it,
but if you're not.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
If you go on a first date, you have a
great time, make a connection, get ghosted, you call us
and we get the answers, and that's why we're calling
you this morning, Luke.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Okay, Okay, So Nicki called us.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Nicki said she had a great first date with you. You guys,
went to play mini golf, went to a brewery. Conversation
was great. You're a great guy. There was flirting. She's
attracted to you and she'd love to see you again. Yeah, okay,
Well she said she reached out to you when you're
(04:02):
ghosting her, and we just want to know why are
you ghosting Nikki?
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Like what's going on?
Speaker 5 (04:08):
I mean, honestly, yes.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Honestly, I want you to be honest honestly, yes, honestly.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Like her online picture, like we met online, she's like
nice long hair, and she showed up and like has
like a like short like a men's hair cut, like
a short hair, like men's haircut. Okay, So and I'm
just like that's like a deal breaker for me, Like
I'm like, I mean, long hair. I mean it's just wait, wait.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
It's a deal breaker. She cut her hair and it's
a deal breaker. I feel like that's aggressive.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Wait, I'm sorry you're not going out on a date
with me because I cut my hair.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
There you go, Nicky's on the line. That's exactly what
he said. Nikki.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Yes, that is the movie insane thing I have ever heard, Like,
I'm sorry, that's my hair. That gross is shorter than
in the pictures you saw of me originally. It's not
like I lied about my height or my weight.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Or it's fair.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Yeah, I was just trying something different. I really like
the way it looks, and you're telling me that that
is just the reason I haven't heard from me that
that is actually insane. And it's like you're not going
to look the same forever, buddy, Like come on, yeah,
you're cute now, but like please, what if you gain weight,
(05:35):
what if you lose your hair? I'm supposed to just
like leave, Like that's ridiculous. That is I cannot believe
that somebody would would stop talking to somebody over or fair.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
So if I could say something on Luke's behalf here
the reasons why men don't like women, I I will though,
this is the reason why men don't like women with
short hair. One do like women with short hair? One
You guys always want to speak to the manager. And two,
if we make out with you, it's like we're making
out with our best friend.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Wait a minute, how would you know what make it
out with your best friend because.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
She has a guy haircut, right, think you because there's
no you can't there's no hair to touch.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
It's like and women with short hair. When I talk
to the manager.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
They are all karens.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
You guys are all like, oh boy, okay, there's a
big difference between a short haircut and a Karen haircut.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
You're sitting app you're not helping. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Hair has nothing to do with any of them, both
of you. The Karen, the not karens.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Oh, come on, there is a Karen haircut. It's not
there isn't. It's a personality trait. Nikki.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I am sorry, Luke, you just sound like you are
so superficial.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
I honestly, I'm very happy that we figured out what
the situation was because anyway, I am too.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
I'm so glad we found out.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Luke.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I listen, I appreciate you being honest and not being
a liar. At least you're not a liar, but you
could have at least instead of like you could have
been a liar, oh lutely, but honestly, Luke, I'm sorry.
It's very it is very shallow.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Yeah, so shallow.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Yeah, absolutely insane to me.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
Yeah no, I mean, you know sure, Hair and Girls
is ugly. I'm just being honest.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Oh okay, you know what you could have stopped? Well,
you like you not to continue?
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, he's not. It doesn't sound that bright either. All right,
so listen, you got your answers, You got your answers.
Thank you so much for calling us.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Nikky, and please keep us posted on all the dating
Okay
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Thank you, yes, definitely, thank you for helping me out
Almost time for a second date.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Up date. You guys were going to Weathersfield this morning
and NICKI went on a great first date.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Nicki is getting ghosted and wants to know why.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Good morning, Nikki, good morning, Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
No, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hopefully we can get some answers for you. Tell us
about this great first date you went on.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Okay, so we went and we played mini golf, and
then we went to a brewery and we like we
sat outside and we had a few beers and we
just like talked for like a long time. I mean
there was instant attraction on Like I thought he was
like super cute, Okay, immediately all right, and you know,
like I really want to see him again. And then
(00:40):
you know, after the date, I've texted him and I've
reached out, like trying to schedule something to get together again,
but he's not responding at all, and like now I'm like,
now I want to know why, because like I think
that it was an amazing date okay, and I'm like,
what happened?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
So, Nikki, it sounds like a great day. So mini golf,
you go to a brewery. Conversation, flows did you feel
like it was flirty. You felt like a connection. You
guys were flirting back and forth.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, definitely, like definitely felt like good chemistry. Yeah, you
guys felt like really good.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Did you guys hook up in the parking lot or
anything like that?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
No?
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Okay, no, I mean you don't have to have sex
in the parking lot, but I mean like a kiss
or anything else.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Just ignore him. Don't even answer that. Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
You know a lot of times so we always ask
if you if you go out for drinks or you
go to a brewery.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah, do you feel like you drank too much?
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Definitely? Not like I had two beers like it's a paper. Yeah. Yeah,
I kept it very good.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I was very lucky.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
All right, Well, you know we're gonna do. We're gonna
call him up. I mean, it sounds like a great
day to me. I can't you know, I don't know
what would have gone wrong and why you're getting ghosted
like this.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
So we're gonna call him up.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
We're gonna ask Luke just to be honest about the
date and tell us how it went.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Are you ready to get some answers?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
And my thought is hopefully he just didn't get your
text message. That you sent, you know, thanking him for
a date. Like hopefully he thinks you're blowing him off
and it's a miscommunication.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
So hold on and we're gonna call Luke.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
All right.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Well, we're in Weathersfield. It is Second Date Update. Nicky's
on the line, and Nikki told us about a great
first date she went on with Luke. Uh. You guys
went to minigolf, then you went to the brewery and
you felt a total connection. You've reached out to him
and you're getting ghosted. Is that the gist of it, NICKI, Yeah,
we're gonna call him up right now and find out
(02:44):
why you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
You'll be listening in if you want to talk to him.
Feel free. Okay, okay, okay, okay, hold on. I don't
know what this could be. Maybe maybe he didn't like
the way she played minigolf.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
Hello, Hi is Luke there?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Yeah, this is he.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Hey Luke, it's Courtney.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Hey, it's Walmart chef.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Hey, it's Savannah And you're on the radio this morning.
You're on Kiss ninety five to seven.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Okay, you're on Second Date Update. Hopefully you're familiar with it,
but if you're not.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
If you go on a first date, you have a
great time, make a connection, get ghosted, you call us
and we get the answers, and that's why we're calling
you this morning, Luke.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Okay, Okay, So Nicki called us.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Nicki said she had a great first date with you. You guys,
went to play mini golf, went to a brewery. Conversation
was great. You're a great guy. There was flirting. She's
attracted to you and she'd love to see you again. Yeah, okay,
Well she said she reached out to you when you're
(04:02):
ghosting her, and we just want to know why are
you ghosting Nikki?
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Like what's going on?
Speaker 5 (04:08):
I mean, honestly, yes.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Honestly, I want you to be honest honestly, yes, honestly.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Like her online picture, like we met online, she's like
nice long hair, and she showed up and like has
like a like short like a men's hair cut, like
a short hair, like men's haircut. Okay, So and I'm
just like that's like a deal breaker for me, Like
I'm like, I mean, long hair. I mean it's just wait, wait.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
It's a deal breaker. She cut her hair and it's
a deal breaker. I feel like that's aggressive.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Wait, I'm sorry you're not going out on a date
with me because I cut my hair.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
There you go, Nicky's on the line. That's exactly what
he said. Nikki.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Yes, that is the movie insane thing I have ever heard, Like,
I'm sorry, that's my hair. That gross is shorter than
in the pictures you saw of me originally. It's not
like I lied about my height or my weight.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Or it's fair.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Yeah, I was just trying something different. I really like
the way it looks, and you're telling me that that
is just the reason I haven't heard from me that
that is actually insane. And it's like you're not going
to look the same forever, buddy, Like come on, yeah,
you're cute now, but like please, what if you gain weight,
(05:35):
what if you lose your hair? I'm supposed to just
like leave, Like that's ridiculous. That is I cannot believe
that somebody would would stop talking to somebody over or fair.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
So if I could say something on Luke's behalf here
the reasons why men don't like women, I I will though,
this is the reason why men don't like women with
short hair. One do like women with short hair? One
You guys always want to speak to the manager. And two,
if we make out with you, it's like we're making
out with our best friend.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Wait a minute, how would you know what make it
out with your best friend because.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
She has a guy haircut, right, think you because there's
no you can't there's no hair to touch.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
It's like and women with short hair. When I talk
to the manager.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
They are all karens.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
You guys are all like, oh boy, okay, there's a
big difference between a short haircut and a Karen haircut.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
You're sitting app you're not helping. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Hair has nothing to do with any of them, both
of you. The Karen, the not karens.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Oh, come on, there is a Karen haircut. It's not
there isn't. It's a personality trait. Nikki.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I am sorry, Luke, you just sound like you are
so superficial.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
I honestly, I'm very happy that we figured out what
the situation was because anyway, I am too.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
I'm so glad we found out.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Luke.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I listen, I appreciate you being honest and not being
a liar. At least you're not a liar, but you
could have at least instead of like you could have
been a liar, oh lutely, but honestly, Luke, I'm sorry.
It's very it is very shallow.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Yeah, so shallow.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Yeah, absolutely insane to me.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
Yeah no, I mean, you know sure, Hair and Girls
is ugly. I'm just being honest.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Oh okay, you know what you could have stopped? Well,
you like you not to continue?
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, he's not. It doesn't sound that bright either. All right,
so listen, you got your answers, You got your answers.
Thank you so much for calling us.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Nikky, and please keep us posted on all the dating
Okay
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Thank you, yes, definitely, thank you for helping me out
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