May 4, 2023 • 6 mins
Haley from Manchester is being ghosted. They worked out and went to brunch. She thought they had a great time buy hasn't heard from the guy since. She wants to know why she's being ghosted.
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(00:00):
All the hits, Kiss ninety fiveseven, Courtney and Kiss of the Mornings
of Anna Walmer, Jeff Time tomake a love match? Are you guys
ready for Second Date Update? I'mready? Yeah, let's go. All
right. You go on a firstdate, you have a great time,
and then you get ghosted. Youwant to know why you call us?
It's happened to Haley. She's onthe line. She's at Manchester. Good
morning, Haley, good morning,Welcome to Second Date Update. Obviously you
(00:20):
know what it's all about. Obviouslyyou went on a great first date and
now you're getting ghosted. Tell meabout this great first date you went on.
Okay, So I went on adate with the Sky and we both
really love to work out, sowe decided to meet up at my gym
(00:40):
before heading to Brench, which,you know, it's just so wonderful when
you can actually go with a partnerto the gym, you know, I
think it's so hot. So wedid that and I just thought it was
absolutely amazing. I had such anawesome time. Brench was delicious. After
you know, the gym, andnow I can't get a hold of him.
(01:03):
I've reached out and I just shejust won't get back with me.
Okay, well, it sounds likean incredible date. The producer says,
the guy's name is Zachary. Thatlike you went on the date with.
But it sounds like you and Zacharya nice workout, hitting up brunch,
had a great time, and you'regetting completely You're telling me you're getting completely
(01:23):
ghosted, completely ghosted. Now,Haley, I hate to say it.
I can't help you here because youdid two things I've never experienced, working
out in brunks. God, soI apologize. I have no idea why
zach Attack is not calling you back. All right, this is what we're
gonna do, Haley. We're gonnacall up Zachary and we're just going to
(01:45):
ask him to tell us about thedate and how he felt about it.
I just want him to be honest. If you're ready to find out why
he's ghosting you, we're gonna makethe call. Awesome. Thank you,
all right? Hold on. Iwonder if she was like talking too much
while he was working out, becauseVon gets annoyed when I was sham.
Yes, that could be. Hegets really annoyed with me. Some guys
(02:07):
don't like working out with their partners. Is which is women do? I
think? I don't know really right? Hello? Hi, is Zachary there?
This is Zach. Hey Zach,It's Courtney. Hey is zach Attack.
It's Walmart Jeff, Hey, Zach, it's Savannah. Hey. We're
calling from Kiss. I have tolet you know. Yeah, you're on
(02:29):
the radio this morning. Cool,Okay, Okay, Well, here's the
deal, Zachary. We do somethingcalled second Date Update where you go on
a first date and you have areally good time, you make a connection,
but you get ghosted and you don'tknow why you're getting ghosted. We're
like the middleman. We like figureit out. And I gotta tell you
you're on second Date Update because Haleycalled us about a date you guys had.
(02:51):
Okay, yeah, okay, allright, well listen. According to
Haley, zach the date was amazing. She thought it was incredible, sexy.
You guys were working out together andthen you guys went out to braunch.
She says, she's reached out toyou and you're ghosting her and she
wants to know why. So Iguess we're asking you how the date was
for you and what the heck's goingon. Yeah, okay, well I'll
be honest. The date she wasgreat. I think she's a really awesome
(03:16):
person. Here's the deal. Thedate was horrible. I like to work
out, yes, but I workout like maybe twice three times a week,
and I lift weights. I don'tdo much else. Besides that.
We went to her Jim. Shesuggested that we meet at her gym.
(03:39):
Found out that we were not goingto be lifting weights, we were not
going to be doing any sort oflike team workout. We were going to
be taking a hot yoga class.Okay, and I'll preface this. I
will lead in with I don't likeyoga to begin with, and add a
(04:00):
hot element is a terrible idea.I felt really embarrassed. And then she
was also just sort of laughing atme and making fun of me the whole
time. All right, listen,Zachary, I get it. I've done
hot yoga before and I'll never doit again. That was like some hardcore
stuff right there. And if youdon't do yoga, some of those poses.
Yeah. But how was brunch?I mean, did it was?
(04:23):
It was brunch better than the yogaclass. You know, Brunch was good.
It felt all I could think aboutwas that class though, and how
bad. It was okay. Ifelt like I was just in my head
the entire time, and I didn'tend up getting to enjoy brunch because it's
Zachary. I am so sorry.That's Harley. She's on the line,
(04:44):
Zachary. Did you hear this?Harley? You were making fun of him
and you took him to hot yoga. Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry.
Okay, So I wasn't making funof you. I was just trying
to like bring some you know,I don't know, I was trying to
make it funny because you couldn't reallydo all the this isn't I was trying
to like make it light and haveyou like not feel bad that you couldn't
do it. Like honestly, Ireally wasn't making fun of you. I
(05:08):
was just trying to make it enjoyable. So if you really seem to not
be enjoying yourself, thank you forsaying that. I get. I just
like, really, I was reallyin my head the whole time, and
you know, I was trying tobe I was trying to, you know,
keep up with you because you're verygood at yoga, and I was
trying to not look like an idiotand I just felt like I was looking
(05:29):
like an idiot the whole time Igot to say Hailey. Zachary said you
were amazing, He said you weregreat. I think it was just listen,
this is what we do. Ireally think if you guys were to
go on a second date, youwould make a connection and next maybe next
time you guys work out, youjust walk on the treadmill together or do
some weights. But I listen,if you guys agree to go on a
second date, it sounds like Haleysorry for the hot yoga and the jokes,
(05:50):
and Zachary sounds like you actually likeHaley. If you guys want to
go on a second date, I'llpick up the tab and maybe not go
to the gym, and we cando what you want to do. Zachary,
honestly, like whatever you want todo. I'm not I'm not really
I think, Okay, this isthis is all you. Maybe we'll get
some drinks and some food and thenyou know, a little later, we
(06:13):
can try it again if I'm feelingenough to do it. Drink that's awesome.
I'd love that a second date.Okay, second date, you guys,
listen. I am picking up thetab and you're gonna go somewhere nice,
you're gonna have cocktails, you're gonnahave a great meal, and then
you're gonna keep us posted on onDating. On the second date, I'm
so excited. Awesome. Thank youso much
All the hits, Kiss ninety fiveseven, Courtney and Kiss of the Mornings
of Anna Walmer, Jeff Time tomake a love match? Are you guys
ready for Second Date Update? I'mready? Yeah, let's go. All
right. You go on a firstdate, you have a great time,
and then you get ghosted. Youwant to know why you call us?
It's happened to Haley. She's onthe line. She's at Manchester. Good
morning, Haley, good morning,Welcome to Second Date Update. Obviously you
(00:20):
know what it's all about. Obviouslyyou went on a great first date and
now you're getting ghosted. Tell meabout this great first date you went on.
Okay, So I went on adate with the Sky and we both
really love to work out, sowe decided to meet up at my gym
(00:40):
before heading to Brench, which,you know, it's just so wonderful when
you can actually go with a partnerto the gym, you know, I
think it's so hot. So wedid that and I just thought it was
absolutely amazing. I had such anawesome time. Brench was delicious. After
you know, the gym, andnow I can't get a hold of him.
(01:03):
I've reached out and I just shejust won't get back with me.
Okay, well, it sounds likean incredible date. The producer says,
the guy's name is Zachary. Thatlike you went on the date with.
But it sounds like you and Zacharya nice workout, hitting up brunch,
had a great time, and you'regetting completely You're telling me you're getting completely
(01:23):
ghosted, completely ghosted. Now,Haley, I hate to say it.
I can't help you here because youdid two things I've never experienced, working
out in brunks. God, soI apologize. I have no idea why
zach Attack is not calling you back. All right, this is what we're
gonna do, Haley. We're gonnacall up Zachary and we're just going to
(01:45):
ask him to tell us about thedate and how he felt about it.
I just want him to be honest. If you're ready to find out why
he's ghosting you, we're gonna makethe call. Awesome. Thank you,
all right? Hold on. Iwonder if she was like talking too much
while he was working out, becauseVon gets annoyed when I was sham.
Yes, that could be. Hegets really annoyed with me. Some guys
(02:07):
don't like working out with their partners. Is which is women do? I
think? I don't know really right? Hello? Hi, is Zachary there?
This is Zach. Hey Zach,It's Courtney. Hey is zach Attack.
It's Walmart Jeff, Hey, Zach, it's Savannah. Hey. We're
calling from Kiss. I have tolet you know. Yeah, you're on
(02:29):
the radio this morning. Cool,Okay, Okay, Well, here's the
deal, Zachary. We do somethingcalled second Date Update where you go on
a first date and you have areally good time, you make a connection,
but you get ghosted and you don'tknow why you're getting ghosted. We're
like the middleman. We like figureit out. And I gotta tell you
you're on second Date Update because Haleycalled us about a date you guys had.
(02:51):
Okay, yeah, okay, allright, well listen. According to
Haley, zach the date was amazing. She thought it was incredible, sexy.
You guys were working out together andthen you guys went out to braunch.
She says, she's reached out toyou and you're ghosting her and she
wants to know why. So Iguess we're asking you how the date was
for you and what the heck's goingon. Yeah, okay, well I'll
be honest. The date she wasgreat. I think she's a really awesome
(03:16):
person. Here's the deal. Thedate was horrible. I like to work
out, yes, but I workout like maybe twice three times a week,
and I lift weights. I don'tdo much else. Besides that.
We went to her Jim. Shesuggested that we meet at her gym.
(03:39):
Found out that we were not goingto be lifting weights, we were not
going to be doing any sort oflike team workout. We were going to
be taking a hot yoga class.Okay, and I'll preface this. I
will lead in with I don't likeyoga to begin with, and add a
(04:00):
hot element is a terrible idea.I felt really embarrassed. And then she
was also just sort of laughing atme and making fun of me the whole
time. All right, listen,Zachary, I get it. I've done
hot yoga before and I'll never doit again. That was like some hardcore
stuff right there. And if youdon't do yoga, some of those poses.
Yeah. But how was brunch?I mean, did it was?
(04:23):
It was brunch better than the yogaclass. You know, Brunch was good.
It felt all I could think aboutwas that class though, and how
bad. It was okay. Ifelt like I was just in my head
the entire time, and I didn'tend up getting to enjoy brunch because it's
Zachary. I am so sorry.That's Harley. She's on the line,
(04:44):
Zachary. Did you hear this?Harley? You were making fun of him
and you took him to hot yoga. Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry.
Okay, So I wasn't making funof you. I was just trying
to like bring some you know,I don't know, I was trying to
make it funny because you couldn't reallydo all the this isn't I was trying
to like make it light and haveyou like not feel bad that you couldn't
do it. Like honestly, Ireally wasn't making fun of you. I
(05:08):
was just trying to make it enjoyable. So if you really seem to not
be enjoying yourself, thank you forsaying that. I get. I just
like, really, I was reallyin my head the whole time, and
you know, I was trying tobe I was trying to, you know,
keep up with you because you're verygood at yoga, and I was
trying to not look like an idiotand I just felt like I was looking
(05:29):
like an idiot the whole time Igot to say Hailey. Zachary said you
were amazing, He said you weregreat. I think it was just listen,
this is what we do. Ireally think if you guys were to
go on a second date, youwould make a connection and next maybe next
time you guys work out, youjust walk on the treadmill together or do
some weights. But I listen,if you guys agree to go on a
second date, it sounds like Haleysorry for the hot yoga and the jokes,
(05:50):
and Zachary sounds like you actually likeHaley. If you guys want to
go on a second date, I'llpick up the tab and maybe not go
to the gym, and we cando what you want to do. Zachary,
honestly, like whatever you want todo. I'm not I'm not really
I think, Okay, this isthis is all you. Maybe we'll get
some drinks and some food and thenyou know, a little later, we
(06:13):
can try it again if I'm feelingenough to do it. Drink that's awesome.
I'd love that a second date.Okay, second date, you guys,
listen. I am picking up thetab and you're gonna go somewhere nice,
you're gonna have cocktails, you're gonnahave a great meal, and then
you're gonna keep us posted on onDating. On the second date, I'm
so excited. Awesome. Thank youso much
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