September 4, 2025 • 6 mins
John went on a great first date, and now he's being ghosted. He wants to know why his date isn't returning his calls.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Are you guys ready for a little second date update?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Yes, yes, ma'am, I really want to make a love match. Yes,
let's do it. We're going to endfield this morning. John's
on the line. John wants to be on Second Date update.
Apparently went on a great first date. Now he's getting ghosted.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Good morning, John, Hey, good morning. Hey.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I'm doing tremendous Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Ah, well, you're welcome. Hopefully we can help you out obviously.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
You know, Second Date update is about getting ghosted after
a beautiful first date, and we try to get you
some answers. The producer says, you want went on a
date with a girl named Kaylie.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Tell us about this date.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah, I thought it was a great date, you know,
I you know, I took her out. We had steak,
you know, some fine wine. You know, we had a
great conversation. You know, I really thought Johnny was on
his game that night. So I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Okay, So and there was good conversation, Like you felt
a connection?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Yeah, Like I don't know who wouldn't have a connection
with Johnny if you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Okay, Hey, John, let me ask you a question. We
always asked this all the girl that call in. Did
you you didn't drink too much? Did you?
Speaker 3 (01:03):
No? No, you know I even you know, I was
the driver, you know, I dropped her off home. You
know I was a gentleman, you know. You know Johnny
doesn't you know, drink too much or get crazy like that,
especially on a first date.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah right?
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Did you pay for the date?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Okay, yeah, you know, Johnny's a gentleman. You know, Johnny
pays for everything. You know. You know I would to
you know, expect you know, you know somebody I'm super
interested obviously, you know, to you know, have to pay,
like you know, I would just rather, you know, Johnny
take care of that. You know, Johnny takes care of
his ladies.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
All right, sound like a good guy, all right, I
feel like I should call you Johnny though I called
you john to begin with.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
We're gonna do you like to be Do you like
to go by Johnny?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
John? Fine? But yeah, you know, you know Johnny is
Johnny's kind of cool.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Okay, Well, this is what we're gonna do. We're gonna
call up Kaylee.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
We're gonna ask her about the date You're gonna be
listening in at any point. If you would like to
talk to Kaylee, feel free to jump in. Okay, sure,
did we even ask you? You reached out to her
like you sent her a text after the date and
you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Do we ask you that?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
You know? I don't know if you did or you didn't,
But yeah, you know, I've reached out to her and
you know, I just haven't heard anything back.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Okay, Hey, why else would he be calling us? It's
second date updates?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
I know, but I want to clarify.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Just ballin, gotcha.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
He could have said, no, I haven't reached out to her.
She needs to reach out to me because I took
her out.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I dad for us.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Just let's call her.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Yeah, let's hold on. Let's do hold on. John, Sometimes
you annoy the out of me. Jeff, Jeff just taking
the wheel.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Most of TikTok as well. If you read the comments
section on these things.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Thank you TikTok. Hello. Hi is Kaylee there? Yeah, Hey, Kaylee,
it's Courtney, Kaylee, it's Walmart.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Jeff.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Hey, Kaylee, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety
five to seven.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
You're on the radio this morning. Good morning, good Hello.
Well this is second date update. Hopefully you're familiar with it.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
If somebody goes on a first date and they make
a great connection and they want to see that person again,
but they're getting ghosted, they call us and we try
to get some answers.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Oh, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
So John and Enfield called us. Hopefully I'll remember this date.
He said, you guys went out to a really nice
restaurant that he felt a connection. The conversation was great,
he said. Walmart even asked him. You asked, did he
drink too much? He said no, he was a perfect gentleman.
He's reached out to you and you're ghosting him. Do
you want to tell us why I do remember John?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
And the reason being is because John would not refer
to himself in the first person.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
It was always John this, John that.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
So it was like, for example, he'd be like, John.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Loves the stake.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
It was so bizarre.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
I thought that stuff only happened in movies.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Okay, we were tipped off, you know, I didn't he
didn't mention.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Yeah, he mentioned himself when we talked to him as Johnny, Johnny,
this is Johnny.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
That so to you too, Yeah, Johnny was a gentleman.
I remember you said that. Yeah, I was bizarre.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
And that's the Anie role.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Okay, that's the only reason he was referring to himself
in the third person.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
That's that's it.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Yeah, it was weird, was it not. I mean it
had to been weird for you guys too.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
I mean we talked to him for about two minutes,
and I think he did it like four or five times.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Okay, can we just bring Johnny on, john Johnny you.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
There, Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Okay, So you did.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
It to us, and you did it to Kayleie, like
referring to yourself in the third person. That doesn't make
you a bad person, but I think she Kaylee, you're
ghosting because you think it's weird.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yeah, oh yeah, I you know, I never even noticed that, Like, yeah,
that's just kind of crazy to me. Like I don't
get why that would be a big deal or anything.
But yeah, I didn't. I didn't know that was something
I did. Sorry, not gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I think that'd be a little bit of an ick
for me too, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
So it's an ick for you, all right, Yeah, I
feel like for me it wouldn't be. But it just
is bizarre. I mean, is it You don't realize you're
doing this, Johnny?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I guess not, like you know, you know, Johnny likes
to have a good time. But I don't know, like
I don't know. I guess, like you know, I know,
it's not just my name, like I guess I say
names all low. You know, I work in the business world,
and you know I like to repack names a lot,
you know, just so I don't forget them. And I guess,
you know, maybe that's something I picked up, and you know,
maybe I do it to myself, like I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Okay, is there any desire, Kaylee to give it another
shot and see if he doesn't refer to himself in
the third person a lot or is or you're just
no connection for.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
You unfortunately, Noah, I'm just not interested.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Okay. So well, John, I guess you got your answer.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Maybe next time you go on a date, try I guess,
refrain from referring to yourself.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
And the third person.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Yes, I guess you know. John'll be all right though.
So thanks guy, thankin so well.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Listen. At least you got your answer, Kaylee. We appreciate
you being so honest. Yes, of course Okay.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I wish you both good luck in the dating world
and thank you so much for being on second.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
D and update, thank you guys, be bad. Thank you
Are you guys ready for a little second date update?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Yes, yes, ma'am, I really want to make a love match. Yes,
let's do it. We're going to endfield this morning. John's
on the line. John wants to be on Second Date update.
Apparently went on a great first date. Now he's getting ghosted.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Good morning, John, Hey, good morning. Hey.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I'm doing tremendous Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Ah, well, you're welcome. Hopefully we can help you out obviously.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
You know, Second Date update is about getting ghosted after
a beautiful first date, and we try to get you
some answers. The producer says, you want went on a
date with a girl named Kaylie.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Tell us about this date.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah, I thought it was a great date, you know,
I you know, I took her out. We had steak,
you know, some fine wine. You know, we had a
great conversation. You know, I really thought Johnny was on
his game that night. So I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Okay, So and there was good conversation, Like you felt
a connection?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Yeah, Like I don't know who wouldn't have a connection
with Johnny if you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Okay, Hey, John, let me ask you a question. We
always asked this all the girl that call in. Did
you you didn't drink too much? Did you?
Speaker 3 (01:03):
No? No, you know I even you know, I was
the driver, you know, I dropped her off home. You
know I was a gentleman, you know. You know Johnny
doesn't you know, drink too much or get crazy like that,
especially on a first date.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah right?
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Did you pay for the date?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Okay, yeah, you know, Johnny's a gentleman. You know, Johnny
pays for everything. You know. You know I would to
you know, expect you know, you know somebody I'm super
interested obviously, you know, to you know, have to pay,
like you know, I would just rather, you know, Johnny
take care of that. You know, Johnny takes care of
his ladies.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
All right, sound like a good guy, all right, I
feel like I should call you Johnny though I called
you john to begin with.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
We're gonna do you like to be Do you like
to go by Johnny?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
John? Fine? But yeah, you know, you know Johnny is
Johnny's kind of cool.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Okay, Well, this is what we're gonna do. We're gonna
call up Kaylee.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
We're gonna ask her about the date You're gonna be
listening in at any point. If you would like to
talk to Kaylee, feel free to jump in. Okay, sure,
did we even ask you? You reached out to her
like you sent her a text after the date and
you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Do we ask you that?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
You know? I don't know if you did or you didn't,
But yeah, you know, I've reached out to her and
you know, I just haven't heard anything back.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Okay, Hey, why else would he be calling us? It's
second date updates?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
I know, but I want to clarify.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Just ballin, gotcha.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
He could have said, no, I haven't reached out to her.
She needs to reach out to me because I took
her out.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I dad for us.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Just let's call her.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Yeah, let's hold on. Let's do hold on. John, Sometimes
you annoy the out of me. Jeff, Jeff just taking
the wheel.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Most of TikTok as well. If you read the comments
section on these things.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Thank you TikTok. Hello. Hi is Kaylee there? Yeah, Hey, Kaylee,
it's Courtney, Kaylee, it's Walmart.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Jeff.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Hey, Kaylee, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety
five to seven.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
You're on the radio this morning. Good morning, good Hello.
Well this is second date update. Hopefully you're familiar with it.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
If somebody goes on a first date and they make
a great connection and they want to see that person again,
but they're getting ghosted, they call us and we try
to get some answers.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Oh, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
So John and Enfield called us. Hopefully I'll remember this date.
He said, you guys went out to a really nice
restaurant that he felt a connection. The conversation was great,
he said. Walmart even asked him. You asked, did he
drink too much? He said no, he was a perfect gentleman.
He's reached out to you and you're ghosting him. Do
you want to tell us why I do remember John?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
And the reason being is because John would not refer
to himself in the first person.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
It was always John this, John that.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
So it was like, for example, he'd be like, John.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Loves the stake.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
It was so bizarre.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
I thought that stuff only happened in movies.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Okay, we were tipped off, you know, I didn't he
didn't mention.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Yeah, he mentioned himself when we talked to him as Johnny, Johnny,
this is Johnny.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
That so to you too, Yeah, Johnny was a gentleman.
I remember you said that. Yeah, I was bizarre.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
And that's the Anie role.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Okay, that's the only reason he was referring to himself
in the third person.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
That's that's it.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Yeah, it was weird, was it not. I mean it
had to been weird for you guys too.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
I mean we talked to him for about two minutes,
and I think he did it like four or five times.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Okay, can we just bring Johnny on, john Johnny you.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
There, Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Okay, So you did.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
It to us, and you did it to Kayleie, like
referring to yourself in the third person. That doesn't make
you a bad person, but I think she Kaylee, you're
ghosting because you think it's weird.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yeah, oh yeah, I you know, I never even noticed that, Like, yeah,
that's just kind of crazy to me. Like I don't
get why that would be a big deal or anything.
But yeah, I didn't. I didn't know that was something
I did. Sorry, not gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I think that'd be a little bit of an ick
for me too, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
So it's an ick for you, all right, Yeah, I
feel like for me it wouldn't be. But it just
is bizarre. I mean, is it You don't realize you're
doing this, Johnny?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I guess not, like you know, you know, Johnny likes
to have a good time. But I don't know, like
I don't know. I guess, like you know, I know,
it's not just my name, like I guess I say
names all low. You know, I work in the business world,
and you know I like to repack names a lot,
you know, just so I don't forget them. And I guess,
you know, maybe that's something I picked up, and you know,
maybe I do it to myself, like I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Okay, is there any desire, Kaylee to give it another
shot and see if he doesn't refer to himself in
the third person a lot or is or you're just
no connection for.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
You unfortunately, Noah, I'm just not interested.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Okay. So well, John, I guess you got your answer.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Maybe next time you go on a date, try I guess,
refrain from referring to yourself.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
And the third person.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Yes, I guess you know. John'll be all right though.
So thanks guy, thankin so well.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Listen. At least you got your answer, Kaylee. We appreciate
you being so honest. Yes, of course Okay.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I wish you both good luck in the dating world
and thank you so much for being on second.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
D and update, thank you guys, be bad. Thank you
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