April 20, 2023 • 7 mins
Mary from East Hartford went on a great first date. She had an awesome time and made a great connection. She hasn't heard from her date and wants to know why he's not returning her calls.
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(00:00):
All the hits, Kiss ninety fiveseven, Courtney and Kiss in the morning,
Walmart, Jeff and Savannah getting readyfor second date update. Guys,
are you ready? I'm ready?Yeah, of course. Okay, all
right, Well, anyway, we'regoing to East Hartford. Mary is standing
by a second date update. Ifyou go on a first date and you
have a great time, but thenyou get ghosted Collins and we try to
get the answers for you, ithappened to Mary, and she's going to
(00:20):
tell us all about the date.Good morning, Mary, good morning.
All right, well, welcome tosecond Date Update. Welcome to Kiss ninety
five seven. I hope we canhelp you this morning. Oh thank you.
Yeah, I really could use somehelp about this recent date that I
went on. I'm trying to figureout what went wrong. I guess.
Okay, Well, the producer says, you went on a date with a
guy named Joel. Tell me aboutthis date. Yeah, okay, so
(00:44):
definitely his name is Joel, andwe has a really nice time, I
thought. We went out for Mexicanfood, we enjoyed some margaritas, and
then we went to my friend's house. It was just a house party,
a little intimate gathering and I hopethat went really well too. It seemed
like my friends loved him. They'veactually been asking like, how are things
going? Kind of awkward because Ihave not heard from him at all.
(01:07):
I got ghosted after sending him atext saying hey, you know, thank
you so much for a good night. Okay, okay, okay. So
you go out from Mexican. Didyou feel like the conversation flowed and you
had a nice deep connection. Yeah, I actually did feel like that,
and it's been a while that I, you know, since I have felt
like that. So I really noticedhim and like I felt like the parks
(01:30):
were flying truly. Okay, Mary, let me ask you a question,
because when my friends met my fiancefor the first time, they were purposely
being obnoxious and annoying. Were yourfriends trying to like intimidate him? Oh
my gosh, not at all.Their super chill, laid back just kind
of just go with the flow.So I don't think you could be that.
I don't know what it is.Did you did you get chips and
(01:53):
salsa? Oh? Always, theyalways bring that out at the place,
but I go through. Okay,So what does that get to do with
anything? What does chips, AND'salso have to do with Joel ghosting.
What does that have to do withit? No, it's just saying sometimes
it's just you might be a littlehigh maintenance if you have to get the
works when you go to a Mexicanrestaurant. Oh gee, you know what.
Don't listen to him, please,Mary. It sounds like a fabulous
(02:15):
date. I can't believe you're gettingghosted. What we're gonna do is have
you on hold. We're gonna callJoel Mary and we're just gonna ask him
about the date, and you're gonnabe listening in. Is that okay?
Yeah, that's okay. You know, if you want to talk to him,
you can jump in, or Ican bring you in, you know
whatever, you're more comfortable with.Um, but we're gonna get you some
answers. Okay, Mary, Okay, thank you. I'm nervous for her.
(02:39):
That's so weird. It sounds likeit went so well. Maybe it's
because they didn't get craving. Hello, Hi is Joel there? Yeah,
this is Joel. All right,Hey Joel, it is Courtney, Hey
Joel, it's Walmart, Jeff,Joel, it's a vanda. What's up?
(03:00):
And we're calling from Kids ninety fiveseven. Yeah, I gotta tell
you're on the air Joel this morning. Okay, what's going Okay? Well,
m We do something on the aircalled second Date Update, where if
somebody goes on a first date andthey have a great time, but they
get ghosted and they want to knowwhy, they call us and we get
the answers, and so you're onsecond Date Update because Joel Mary called us
(03:23):
and told us she had a greatfirst date with you. Basically, this
is what she said. You guyswent to dinner. I think it was
Mexican. The food was great,conversation was great. After dinner, you
went to a house party. Oneof her friends was throwing. She says,
all her friends loved you like youwere amazing. She reached out to
you to thank you for the date, and you've completely ghosted her, like
complete, and she wants answers.Can you give us some answers? How
(03:46):
was the date for you? Well, the food was amazing. I will
say that the date was fine,like everything would seem cool when we were
out to dinner, but we gotto our friend's house. It was not
like a party. It was somekind of pyramid scheme that they were pitching
(04:09):
me on. It was it waslike what yeah, yeah, it was
ridiculous then, and I want toyou know, I couldn't get out of
there fast enough. I was like, this is not she's she's a lunatic.
And then as soon as I gothome, she's been blowing up my
phone ever since, like, ohmy god, you're gonna miss that.
You're gonna you know, we makeso much money, don't be stupid,
like, no, this is it'scrazy. I've never even experienced anything like
(04:31):
this before. Like she was thedate was just a scam to set me
up, to bring me to apyramid scheme pitch at her friend's house.
Okay, you've just blown my mind. That is cannot listen. I'm gonna
be honest, Joel, Mary's onthe line. I need to know if
that's true, because that's awful.Marry you there. Yeah, I'm here.
Okay, go ahead. It's throughthat you can make a lot of
(04:56):
money. I think Joel is makinga mountain out of a mole hill here.
Um. You know, I don'tknow anyone out there who does not
want financial freedom, you know,the ability to beat your own boss,
and you know all you would haveto do. I was trying to let
him know. Would just be like, you know, recruit five people,
and then those people can recruit fivepeople and we can all make money.
I feel like it's a win win, Joel, I kind of get it.
(05:19):
Mary, it was a date though. Did you know it was a
pyramid? Do you? Did?You do? You thought it was a
house party? Mary, it isa house party. Would do it every
month, like we get together andthen we talked about our goals and our
targets to meet and we just wantto like help people improve their lives.
That's what we're all about. SoI don't know, I don't know why
you wouldn't want to be a partof it. Yeah, see what I'm
(05:40):
saying you guys, this is crazythat you should sign up for her pyramid's
game. I don't know. I'vealways wanted financial freedoms. That it's not
a Pyramids game. Your independent businessdidn't pay for dinner? So um?
Oh all right, Well I cansee where this has happened. First of
(06:03):
all, when you're recruiting people andthey're recruiting people, I feel like that's
a pyramid scheme. But Mary Walmartsaid he might be interested, so you
might want to reach out to him. Joel, you have no interest in
a second date, even though I'mnot sure this was a date, are
you you're do you guys have anyinterest together? I got stamped. All
right, well there you go,Mary, and now you have your answer.
Why Joel hasn't responded. Yeah,that's his loss. He sees it
(06:27):
that way. But you know,I'm going to keep making money, and
you know he'd be able to buyway more dinners if you would have just
listen to us. But oh,all right, well listen, this is
obviously not a love match. I'mnot going to offer to pay for a
second date. But I'm glad youboth got your answers. Mary, you
can reach out to Walmart, Jeff, because if that's is that what you're
feeling, Jeff, you want tohit me up, I've always wanted to
be my own boss as well.Doubt you know what, don't hit him
(06:50):
up. I'm just telling you itmight be bad for business. Mary,
But you got your answers. Joel, thank you, Thank you for being
so honest, and I wish youboth, you know, great luck in
the dating world. Yeah, well, thank you
All the hits, Kiss ninety fiveseven, Courtney and Kiss in the morning,
Walmart, Jeff and Savannah getting readyfor second date update. Guys,
are you ready? I'm ready?Yeah, of course. Okay, all
right, Well, anyway, we'regoing to East Hartford. Mary is standing
by a second date update. Ifyou go on a first date and you
have a great time, but thenyou get ghosted Collins and we try to
get the answers for you, ithappened to Mary, and she's going to
(00:20):
tell us all about the date.Good morning, Mary, good morning.
All right, well, welcome tosecond Date Update. Welcome to Kiss ninety
five seven. I hope we canhelp you this morning. Oh thank you.
Yeah, I really could use somehelp about this recent date that I
went on. I'm trying to figureout what went wrong. I guess.
Okay, Well, the producer says, you went on a date with a
guy named Joel. Tell me aboutthis date. Yeah, okay, so
(00:44):
definitely his name is Joel, andwe has a really nice time, I
thought. We went out for Mexicanfood, we enjoyed some margaritas, and
then we went to my friend's house. It was just a house party,
a little intimate gathering and I hopethat went really well too. It seemed
like my friends loved him. They'veactually been asking like, how are things
going? Kind of awkward because Ihave not heard from him at all.
(01:07):
I got ghosted after sending him atext saying hey, you know, thank
you so much for a good night. Okay, okay, okay. So
you go out from Mexican. Didyou feel like the conversation flowed and you
had a nice deep connection. Yeah, I actually did feel like that,
and it's been a while that I, you know, since I have felt
like that. So I really noticedhim and like I felt like the parks
(01:30):
were flying truly. Okay, Mary, let me ask you a question,
because when my friends met my fiancefor the first time, they were purposely
being obnoxious and annoying. Were yourfriends trying to like intimidate him? Oh
my gosh, not at all.Their super chill, laid back just kind
of just go with the flow.So I don't think you could be that.
I don't know what it is.Did you did you get chips and
(01:53):
salsa? Oh? Always, theyalways bring that out at the place,
but I go through. Okay,So what does that get to do with
anything? What does chips, AND'salso have to do with Joel ghosting.
What does that have to do withit? No, it's just saying sometimes
it's just you might be a littlehigh maintenance if you have to get the
works when you go to a Mexicanrestaurant. Oh gee, you know what.
Don't listen to him, please,Mary. It sounds like a fabulous
(02:15):
date. I can't believe you're gettingghosted. What we're gonna do is have
you on hold. We're gonna callJoel Mary and we're just gonna ask him
about the date, and you're gonnabe listening in. Is that okay?
Yeah, that's okay. You know, if you want to talk to him,
you can jump in, or Ican bring you in, you know
whatever, you're more comfortable with.Um, but we're gonna get you some
answers. Okay, Mary, Okay, thank you. I'm nervous for her.
(02:39):
That's so weird. It sounds likeit went so well. Maybe it's
because they didn't get craving. Hello, Hi is Joel there? Yeah,
this is Joel. All right,Hey Joel, it is Courtney, Hey
Joel, it's Walmart, Jeff,Joel, it's a vanda. What's up?
(03:00):
And we're calling from Kids ninety fiveseven. Yeah, I gotta tell
you're on the air Joel this morning. Okay, what's going Okay? Well,
m We do something on the aircalled second Date Update, where if
somebody goes on a first date andthey have a great time, but they
get ghosted and they want to knowwhy, they call us and we get
the answers, and so you're onsecond Date Update because Joel Mary called us
(03:23):
and told us she had a greatfirst date with you. Basically, this
is what she said. You guyswent to dinner. I think it was
Mexican. The food was great,conversation was great. After dinner, you
went to a house party. Oneof her friends was throwing. She says,
all her friends loved you like youwere amazing. She reached out to
you to thank you for the date, and you've completely ghosted her, like
complete, and she wants answers.Can you give us some answers? How
(03:46):
was the date for you? Well, the food was amazing. I will
say that the date was fine,like everything would seem cool when we were
out to dinner, but we gotto our friend's house. It was not
like a party. It was somekind of pyramid scheme that they were pitching
(04:09):
me on. It was it waslike what yeah, yeah, it was
ridiculous then, and I want toyou know, I couldn't get out of
there fast enough. I was like, this is not she's she's a lunatic.
And then as soon as I gothome, she's been blowing up my
phone ever since, like, ohmy god, you're gonna miss that.
You're gonna you know, we makeso much money, don't be stupid,
like, no, this is it'scrazy. I've never even experienced anything like
(04:31):
this before. Like she was thedate was just a scam to set me
up, to bring me to apyramid scheme pitch at her friend's house.
Okay, you've just blown my mind. That is cannot listen. I'm gonna
be honest, Joel, Mary's onthe line. I need to know if
that's true, because that's awful.Marry you there. Yeah, I'm here.
Okay, go ahead. It's throughthat you can make a lot of
(04:56):
money. I think Joel is makinga mountain out of a mole hill here.
Um. You know, I don'tknow anyone out there who does not
want financial freedom, you know,the ability to beat your own boss,
and you know all you would haveto do. I was trying to let
him know. Would just be like, you know, recruit five people,
and then those people can recruit fivepeople and we can all make money.
I feel like it's a win win, Joel, I kind of get it.
(05:19):
Mary, it was a date though. Did you know it was a
pyramid? Do you? Did?You do? You thought it was a
house party? Mary, it isa house party. Would do it every
month, like we get together andthen we talked about our goals and our
targets to meet and we just wantto like help people improve their lives.
That's what we're all about. SoI don't know, I don't know why
you wouldn't want to be a partof it. Yeah, see what I'm
(05:40):
saying you guys, this is crazythat you should sign up for her pyramid's
game. I don't know. I'vealways wanted financial freedoms. That it's not
a Pyramids game. Your independent businessdidn't pay for dinner? So um?
Oh all right, Well I cansee where this has happened. First of
(06:03):
all, when you're recruiting people andthey're recruiting people, I feel like that's
a pyramid scheme. But Mary Walmartsaid he might be interested, so you
might want to reach out to him. Joel, you have no interest in
a second date, even though I'mnot sure this was a date, are
you you're do you guys have anyinterest together? I got stamped. All
right, well there you go,Mary, and now you have your answer.
Why Joel hasn't responded. Yeah,that's his loss. He sees it
(06:27):
that way. But you know,I'm going to keep making money, and
you know he'd be able to buyway more dinners if you would have just
listen to us. But oh,all right, well listen, this is
obviously not a love match. I'mnot going to offer to pay for a
second date. But I'm glad youboth got your answers. Mary, you
can reach out to Walmart, Jeff, because if that's is that what you're
feeling, Jeff, you want tohit me up, I've always wanted to
be my own boss as well.Doubt you know what, don't hit him
(06:50):
up. I'm just telling you itmight be bad for business. Mary,
But you got your answers. Joel, thank you, Thank you for being
so honest, and I wish youboth, you know, great luck in
the dating world. Yeah, well, thank you
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