October 9, 2025 • 7 mins
Nicole from Hartford went on a great first date, and now she's being ghosted. She wants to know why he's next asking her out for a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Are you guys ready for a little second date update action?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Oh my god, maybe we can make a little love connection.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Nicole is on the line in Hartford, went on a
great first date. She's getting ghosted and wants to know why.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Good morning, Nicole, good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Yeah, I just can't figure it out.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Okay, well that's.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
What we do, and we do it really well. We're
going to get you some answers. So the producer says,
you went on a great first date with a guy
named Ben.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Tell me about this date.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Oh yeah, it was. It was awesome. We went to dinner.
We had a really great time. I mean, she's really
everything that I have been looking for. Oh, super smart, successful,
good looking, I had an amazing personality. Like I just
(00:50):
really thought we had made a connection. But after reaching
out to him, so thank him for a great date.
Tell him I had such a good time. I just
haven't heard anything and I don't know why.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Hmmm, that is weird. So you felt a connection, do you?
Was it like when you were on your date. Did
you feel like there was flirting back and forth between
the two of you.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Oh yeah, there were vibes for sure.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Okay, so there was flirting vibes, great conversation.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Did Walmart Jeff, Jeff just fell asleep?
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Ye?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Nothing, I was thinking about like football, because I mean
there's a lot of stuff going on right now that
occupies a guy's mind. And like, honestly, like if you
texted him, No, if you texted him on like a
Saturday afternoon or a Sunday afternoon, he probably saw it,
put the phone down and then just forgot about it.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Oh I do that all the time. Yeah, all right,
that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
So maybe maybe that's it Jeff, because Jeff is in
some sort of weird sports mode right now too. He's
not even paying attention to Oustenacole. Nope, that could be it.
Did you drink too much on the date, Because sometimes
we've come across that where the guy's like, well she
was wasted and I had to like drive her home.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
It's true.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Oh no, I'm like a one glass of wine kind
of gal. So that can't be either.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Okay, all right, let's just call him up. What do
you guys say, we're gonna call up. We're gonna call
it Ben.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
You're gonna be listening in at any point if you
want to talk to Ben, feel free. You're gonna be
on hold listening in the whole time.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Okay, Okay. She sounds like a sweetie.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
I know she's It sounds like it was a good date.
She seems like a good girl.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Like, let's see what happened, all right, let's see what
Ben is all about.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
If you could stay awake, Jeff, Yeah, yeah, sorry. Inconvenience you.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Sometimes the women in all the chatter, it's like, oh.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
God, hell, hi is Ben there?
Speaker 7 (02:40):
This is him?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Hey Ben, it's Courtney, Ben, It's Walmart chef. Hey Ben,
it's Savana.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on
the radio this morning, Ben.
Speaker 7 (02:49):
Oh hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Hey.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
We're calling because you're on something called second date update.
That's when somebody goes on a fantastic first date, but
they get ghosted after that and they want answers.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And I'm just going to be.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Honest with you, and we want you to be honest
with us. Nicole called us and said, you guys went
on a great first date.
Speaker 7 (03:10):
We did.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
She said, you're.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Checking off all the boxes. She said, you guys have
a lot in common. She said you're really good looking,
and she felt a connection. She said she was reached
out to you, but you're ghosting her and she wants
some answers.
Speaker 7 (03:25):
So do we Yeah, yeah we did. We had a
great date. She's really cool and I thought that, like,
we really hit it off. There's some things that were
said that I just make me a little questionable about.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (03:41):
Sure, if she's ready, if.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
She's ready for a relationship. Yeah, okay, what was said?
What do you mean what was said?
Speaker 7 (03:49):
I just there she said some things that make me
think she's not over her ex.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Oh all right, well that's that's legit. Can you tell
us what was said?
Speaker 7 (04:00):
She just I don't know. We were out and she
had mentioned her ex, Josh several times I think, And
she told me that he still spends time with her parents,
and I just, you know, seemed a little like a
red flag.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
So yeah, definitely for you to remember the ex's name,
she mentioned him more than a few times, exactly right.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yeah, and hanging out with the family still all right,
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
That makes total sense, Ben, But I want to bring
Nicole on because she's been listening in.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Sorry I didn't tell you that, Nicole. Do you hear
what he's saying? Are you over? Are you still?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Like?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Are you over your ax or not.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Well, of course, I'm so over my ex. I'm so
sorry I did that. I'm really really over Josh. I'm
looking for deeper love. I oh man, I've really got
to stop mentioning him. I mean, he's just you know,
my parents and just like him, and so he's still
(05:02):
around some and I'm but I am. I promise it is.
He is just like a friend at this point, I guess,
and I'm looking for the real thing. And like I promise,
I'm so sorry that.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I did that. I don't know. I got to be
straight with you, Nicole. If I was like.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Dating a guy and his ex girlfriend was still around,
and it's if if it's if it's like an ex wife,
you guys have kids together like that, I can understand.
But if you have like an axxious kind of hanging
around like.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I would with the family, yeah I would. I would
feel really weird about that. That's just me.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
I get that. You know, we have a dog. That
doesn't help, Okay, but like I promise that, I'm over it.
It's just this dog that's like addicting us still for
for now, Okay, I'd be really interested, really interested in
having another date then I really would. I had such
(05:57):
a good time with you.
Speaker 7 (06:00):
I mean yeah, I really liked you too. It was
just a little alarming and I didn't really know what
the situation was there.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Well, I promise to uh not mention you know, he
who must not be named Voldemort ever again.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
I'm screaming.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
If we give it one more try, maybe.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
Uh yeah, yeah, I'm gonna jump.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
In because this is what I'm gonna do. I absolutely
think you need. You guys need to go on another date.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
You know that you were upset Ben that she was
mentioning the ax. Let's try another date. Let's not mention
the ax. Let's not mention the dog. Let's just you
guys together, you know, without that. I'm going to pick
up the tab though. We're gonna pay for the second.
Speaker 5 (06:49):
Date, all right, Okay, yeah, well go do go, do
anything you want, have fun, don't mention the ax, and
definitely keep us posted in call.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Okay, I will thank you. I'm excited then, Yeah, me too.
Are you guys ready for a little second date update action?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Oh my god, maybe we can make a little love connection.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Nicole is on the line in Hartford, went on a
great first date. She's getting ghosted and wants to know why.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Good morning, Nicole, good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Yeah, I just can't figure it out.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Okay, well that's.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
What we do, and we do it really well. We're
going to get you some answers. So the producer says,
you went on a great first date with a guy
named Ben.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Tell me about this date.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Oh yeah, it was. It was awesome. We went to dinner.
We had a really great time. I mean, she's really
everything that I have been looking for. Oh, super smart, successful,
good looking, I had an amazing personality. Like I just
(00:50):
really thought we had made a connection. But after reaching
out to him, so thank him for a great date.
Tell him I had such a good time. I just
haven't heard anything and I don't know why.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Hmmm, that is weird. So you felt a connection, do you?
Was it like when you were on your date. Did
you feel like there was flirting back and forth between
the two of you.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Oh yeah, there were vibes for sure.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Okay, so there was flirting vibes, great conversation.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Did Walmart Jeff, Jeff just fell asleep?
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Ye?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Nothing, I was thinking about like football, because I mean
there's a lot of stuff going on right now that
occupies a guy's mind. And like, honestly, like if you
texted him, No, if you texted him on like a
Saturday afternoon or a Sunday afternoon, he probably saw it,
put the phone down and then just forgot about it.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Oh I do that all the time. Yeah, all right,
that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
So maybe maybe that's it Jeff, because Jeff is in
some sort of weird sports mode right now too. He's
not even paying attention to Oustenacole. Nope, that could be it.
Did you drink too much on the date, Because sometimes
we've come across that where the guy's like, well she
was wasted and I had to like drive her home.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
It's true.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Oh no, I'm like a one glass of wine kind
of gal. So that can't be either.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Okay, all right, let's just call him up. What do
you guys say, we're gonna call up. We're gonna call
it Ben.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
You're gonna be listening in at any point if you
want to talk to Ben, feel free. You're gonna be
on hold listening in the whole time.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Okay, Okay. She sounds like a sweetie.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
I know she's It sounds like it was a good date.
She seems like a good girl.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Like, let's see what happened, all right, let's see what
Ben is all about.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
If you could stay awake, Jeff, Yeah, yeah, sorry. Inconvenience you.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Sometimes the women in all the chatter, it's like, oh.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
God, hell, hi is Ben there?
Speaker 7 (02:40):
This is him?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Hey Ben, it's Courtney, Ben, It's Walmart chef. Hey Ben,
it's Savana.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on
the radio this morning, Ben.
Speaker 7 (02:49):
Oh hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Hey.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
We're calling because you're on something called second date update.
That's when somebody goes on a fantastic first date, but
they get ghosted after that and they want answers.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And I'm just going to be.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Honest with you, and we want you to be honest
with us. Nicole called us and said, you guys went
on a great first date.
Speaker 7 (03:10):
We did.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
She said, you're.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Checking off all the boxes. She said, you guys have
a lot in common. She said you're really good looking,
and she felt a connection. She said she was reached
out to you, but you're ghosting her and she wants
some answers.
Speaker 7 (03:25):
So do we Yeah, yeah we did. We had a
great date. She's really cool and I thought that, like,
we really hit it off. There's some things that were
said that I just make me a little questionable about.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (03:41):
Sure, if she's ready, if.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
She's ready for a relationship. Yeah, okay, what was said?
What do you mean what was said?
Speaker 7 (03:49):
I just there she said some things that make me
think she's not over her ex.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Oh all right, well that's that's legit. Can you tell
us what was said?
Speaker 7 (04:00):
She just I don't know. We were out and she
had mentioned her ex, Josh several times I think, And
she told me that he still spends time with her parents,
and I just, you know, seemed a little like a
red flag.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
So yeah, definitely for you to remember the ex's name,
she mentioned him more than a few times, exactly right.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yeah, and hanging out with the family still all right,
Oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
That makes total sense, Ben, But I want to bring
Nicole on because she's been listening in.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Sorry I didn't tell you that, Nicole. Do you hear
what he's saying? Are you over? Are you still?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Like?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Are you over your ax or not.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Well, of course, I'm so over my ex. I'm so
sorry I did that. I'm really really over Josh. I'm
looking for deeper love. I oh man, I've really got
to stop mentioning him. I mean, he's just you know,
my parents and just like him, and so he's still
(05:02):
around some and I'm but I am. I promise it is.
He is just like a friend at this point, I guess,
and I'm looking for the real thing. And like I promise,
I'm so sorry that.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I did that. I don't know. I got to be
straight with you, Nicole. If I was like.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Dating a guy and his ex girlfriend was still around,
and it's if if it's if it's like an ex wife,
you guys have kids together like that, I can understand.
But if you have like an axxious kind of hanging
around like.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I would with the family, yeah I would. I would
feel really weird about that. That's just me.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
I get that. You know, we have a dog. That
doesn't help, Okay, but like I promise that, I'm over it.
It's just this dog that's like addicting us still for
for now, Okay, I'd be really interested, really interested in
having another date then I really would. I had such
(05:57):
a good time with you.
Speaker 7 (06:00):
I mean yeah, I really liked you too. It was
just a little alarming and I didn't really know what
the situation was there.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Well, I promise to uh not mention you know, he
who must not be named Voldemort ever again.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
I'm screaming.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
If we give it one more try, maybe.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
Uh yeah, yeah, I'm gonna jump.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
In because this is what I'm gonna do. I absolutely
think you need. You guys need to go on another date.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
You know that you were upset Ben that she was
mentioning the ax. Let's try another date. Let's not mention
the ax. Let's not mention the dog. Let's just you
guys together, you know, without that. I'm going to pick
up the tab though. We're gonna pay for the second.
Speaker 5 (06:49):
Date, all right, Okay, yeah, well go do go, do
anything you want, have fun, don't mention the ax, and
definitely keep us posted in call.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Okay, I will thank you. I'm excited then, Yeah, me too.
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