September 11, 2025 • 6 mins
Jake went on a great first date, and now he's being ghosted. He packed a lunch and went hiking with Jenna. He texts her a few times, but hasn't heard back. He wants to know why he's being ghosted.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, you guys, it is time for a second
date update. We're going to Southington this morning. Okay, and yeah,
Jake's on the line. Obviously, went on a great first date.
Now he's getting ghosted and we're going to get the answers.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Good morning, Jake, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Hey, So Jake, tell me, well, first of all, welcome
to the show. Welcome to second date update. Tell me
about this first date.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah, so I thought it was a pretty great first date.
You know, we went on a hike and you know,
I packed a lunch and some wine, and you know,
we had a great day, and you know, at the
end of the date, you know, we even shared a
kiss and like everything seemed great. And then like I'm I,
you know, I messaged her a couple of times the
night after and you know, said, you know, thanks for
(00:41):
having such a great date. And then that was the
end of it.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Okay, Okay, So you go on a hike, you pack one.
It sounds like a fantastic and very romantic date.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Sounds good.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Did you did you, guys? Obviously, did you feel like
a connection, like physical connection?
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Yeah, for sure. Like I said, we shared a kiss
at the end of the date, and like, you know,
I didn't just you know, hop in out of nowhere
or anything like that. So like I definitely felt the connection,
and like, you know, it seemed like, you know, she
enjoyed the kids and stuff. So yeah, I don't know
what's happening, hey, Jake.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
This is what I like to call audition season for
the ladies out there that are single. Basically, they'll go
on a bunch of dates just to land a guide
just in time for fall, and they can get all
like the pumpkin patch photos and the pumpkin spice lattes.
She might be like just playing the field and maybe
hitting up like a couple of different guys and then
you know, if you might move on to the next
(01:32):
round in auditions.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Bro, where do you come up with this stuff? Honestly,
don't look. Don't listen to him, Jake. To me, it
sounds like a great date and romantic and you kissed
at the end.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
What we're gonna do is we're gonna call her up.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
We're gonna just ask her. To be honest, you're gonna
be listening in and at any point if you want
to talk to her yourself, you can just jump right
in okay, sure, okay, you're gonna be listening in hold on,
let's call her curious. I'm so curious to find out why. No,
it sounds so romantic, like a little picnic, little wine,
like come on, I don't even like wine, and it
sounds like a great I don't get you don't like
(02:05):
wine vodka?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Hi, is Jenna there?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Yeah, hey Jenna, it's Courtney Jenna.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Hey, Jenna, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven.
You're on the radio this morning, Jenna.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Oh my god? Really?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Yeah, Hey, you're on the show because we do something
called second Date Update. I'm sure you're familiar with it,
and you go on a first date. Yeah, okay, you
get ghosted. We get answers, Jenna, I gotta tell you.
Jake called us. He said he went on a great
date with you, that he actually packed a bottle of wine.
You guys went for a hike. There was definitely a
(02:45):
physical connection because you kissed at the end.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Of the dates.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
He says, he's reached out to you and you're ghosting him.
What is going on?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Yeah, I'm ghosting him.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
He sent me a pick.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Whoa oh oh, I'm.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Like, what else do I need to say?
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Like just come right in with it? Okay, wait wait,
I'm looking him wait like fully unsolicited pick.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah, so okay, like he's a stranger. I don't know
what's going on. Oh okay.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
So he reaches out to you with a like hey,
I had a great date, and then he sent a
picture of his wiener. All right, I'm confused. Can we
just bring Jake on?
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Jake?
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Hey, Jake, why what are you doing? Why are you laughing?
Speaker 1 (03:29):
You went on one date with this woman and you're
sending her a DP?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Well yeah, but you know, like we shared a kiss,
like I said, and like I don't know, I thought
that was like, you know, the kind of like the
next step, Like that's fine, Psycho. I'm like jail for that. No,
Like I just thought it was the next step, Like
I didn't think it was so angry, Like, okay, I'm with.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
You on this, Jenna, the next step?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
You thought she wanted adep?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
What is wrong with you? Jake? Hey?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
You know I thought it was a pretty good one too,
Like if we're gonna be honest, like you know, you know,
the boys don't call me for nothing.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Oh my God, I'm so confused by this. Like I
would think you would wait a little bit, Jake, before
you send these photos like first date. It's a little cuckoo.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Wait, hold on, can't consent?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Is everything?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
What is wrong with you? We're insane?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Can we get another male's perspective? One more, Jeff, like,
is this like the logical next step? Because I'm so shocked,
don't ask Ken? Yeah no, I'm actually really curious. So
what Jeff has to say about this? Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
I mean back in the day, the next step, Yeah,
I wasn't the old pick. Yeah, no, that's weird.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
You gotta get I mean, at least go to second base.
Yeah you're not saying no, I don't think I can't
raise this.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
The age old question of what second base nowadays? Maybe
that is his second day.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
This really took a left turn, Jenna, I will say
for you to be offended, I agree, Jake. I think
that was probably a little bit disgusting to send a
picture after your first date when she didn't even ask
for one.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
It's a little forward. Well you know to me that
that is second base. Like, first of all, I just
thought it was playful and the second of all, Like,
how was like sending a pick worse than like, you know,
actually like touching a private part Like okay, like that's
what second base is. So like no, like I don't
get the big deal. Like it was just playful. It
(05:31):
was intimate and like, you know, I've done this before
and never had any complaints like this though.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
I don't know, maybe it wasn't a big deal for Jenn,
if you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I gotta say it was not impressive.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
That's why I felt maybe that's why you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
It's no big deal.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Maybe you scared of it, you scared of the cobra.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
All right, Corney, can we move on? I'm like, yeah,
I usually offer to pay for another date, but I
just feel like Jenna, this is I get it. I
think it was out of line to send the photo.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Jake.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
I'm not going to offer to pay because I'm absolutely
one hundred percent positive that Jenna's not going to want
to go on a date with you.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Well that's fine because she sounds a little upset.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
If I'm going to be honest, Okay, that's fine. Listen,
I'm with you Jenna on this one. Thank you for
being honest, very honest, too honest.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Great
All right, you guys, it is time for a second
date update. We're going to Southington this morning. Okay, and yeah,
Jake's on the line. Obviously, went on a great first date.
Now he's getting ghosted and we're going to get the answers.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Good morning, Jake, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Hey, So Jake, tell me, well, first of all, welcome
to the show. Welcome to second date update. Tell me
about this first date.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah, so I thought it was a pretty great first date.
You know, we went on a hike and you know,
I packed a lunch and some wine, and you know,
we had a great day, and you know, at the
end of the date, you know, we even shared a
kiss and like everything seemed great. And then like I'm I,
you know, I messaged her a couple of times the
night after and you know, said, you know, thanks for
(00:41):
having such a great date. And then that was the
end of it.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Okay, Okay, So you go on a hike, you pack one.
It sounds like a fantastic and very romantic date.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Sounds good.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Did you did you, guys? Obviously, did you feel like
a connection, like physical connection?
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Yeah, for sure. Like I said, we shared a kiss
at the end of the date, and like, you know,
I didn't just you know, hop in out of nowhere
or anything like that. So like I definitely felt the connection,
and like, you know, it seemed like, you know, she
enjoyed the kids and stuff. So yeah, I don't know
what's happening, hey, Jake.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
This is what I like to call audition season for
the ladies out there that are single. Basically, they'll go
on a bunch of dates just to land a guide
just in time for fall, and they can get all
like the pumpkin patch photos and the pumpkin spice lattes.
She might be like just playing the field and maybe
hitting up like a couple of different guys and then
you know, if you might move on to the next
(01:32):
round in auditions.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Bro, where do you come up with this stuff? Honestly,
don't look. Don't listen to him, Jake. To me, it
sounds like a great date and romantic and you kissed
at the end.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
What we're gonna do is we're gonna call her up.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
We're gonna just ask her. To be honest, you're gonna
be listening in and at any point if you want
to talk to her yourself, you can just jump right
in okay, sure, okay, you're gonna be listening in hold on,
let's call her curious. I'm so curious to find out why. No,
it sounds so romantic, like a little picnic, little wine,
like come on, I don't even like wine, and it
sounds like a great I don't get you don't like
(02:05):
wine vodka?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Hi, is Jenna there?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Yeah, hey Jenna, it's Courtney Jenna.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Hey, Jenna, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven.
You're on the radio this morning, Jenna.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Oh my god? Really?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Yeah, Hey, you're on the show because we do something
called second Date Update. I'm sure you're familiar with it,
and you go on a first date. Yeah, okay, you
get ghosted. We get answers, Jenna, I gotta tell you.
Jake called us. He said he went on a great
date with you, that he actually packed a bottle of wine.
You guys went for a hike. There was definitely a
(02:45):
physical connection because you kissed at the end.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Of the dates.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
He says, he's reached out to you and you're ghosting him.
What is going on?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Yeah, I'm ghosting him.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
He sent me a pick.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Whoa oh oh, I'm.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Like, what else do I need to say?
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Like just come right in with it? Okay, wait wait,
I'm looking him wait like fully unsolicited pick.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah, so okay, like he's a stranger. I don't know
what's going on. Oh okay.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
So he reaches out to you with a like hey,
I had a great date, and then he sent a
picture of his wiener. All right, I'm confused. Can we
just bring Jake on?
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Jake?
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Hey, Jake, why what are you doing? Why are you laughing?
Speaker 1 (03:29):
You went on one date with this woman and you're
sending her a DP?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Well yeah, but you know, like we shared a kiss,
like I said, and like I don't know, I thought
that was like, you know, the kind of like the
next step, Like that's fine, Psycho. I'm like jail for that. No,
Like I just thought it was the next step, Like
I didn't think it was so angry, Like, okay, I'm with.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
You on this, Jenna, the next step?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
You thought she wanted adep?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
What is wrong with you? Jake? Hey?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
You know I thought it was a pretty good one too,
Like if we're gonna be honest, like you know, you know,
the boys don't call me for nothing.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Oh my God, I'm so confused by this. Like I
would think you would wait a little bit, Jake, before
you send these photos like first date. It's a little cuckoo.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Wait, hold on, can't consent?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Is everything?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
What is wrong with you? We're insane?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Can we get another male's perspective? One more, Jeff, like,
is this like the logical next step? Because I'm so shocked,
don't ask Ken? Yeah no, I'm actually really curious. So
what Jeff has to say about this? Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
I mean back in the day, the next step, Yeah,
I wasn't the old pick. Yeah, no, that's weird.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
You gotta get I mean, at least go to second base.
Yeah you're not saying no, I don't think I can't
raise this.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
The age old question of what second base nowadays? Maybe
that is his second day.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
This really took a left turn, Jenna, I will say
for you to be offended, I agree, Jake. I think
that was probably a little bit disgusting to send a
picture after your first date when she didn't even ask
for one.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
It's a little forward. Well you know to me that
that is second base. Like, first of all, I just
thought it was playful and the second of all, Like,
how was like sending a pick worse than like, you know,
actually like touching a private part Like okay, like that's
what second base is. So like no, like I don't
get the big deal. Like it was just playful. It
(05:31):
was intimate and like, you know, I've done this before
and never had any complaints like this though.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
I don't know, maybe it wasn't a big deal for Jenn,
if you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I gotta say it was not impressive.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
That's why I felt maybe that's why you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
It's no big deal.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Maybe you scared of it, you scared of the cobra.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
All right, Corney, can we move on? I'm like, yeah,
I usually offer to pay for another date, but I
just feel like Jenna, this is I get it. I
think it was out of line to send the photo.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Jake.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
I'm not going to offer to pay because I'm absolutely
one hundred percent positive that Jenna's not going to want
to go on a date with you.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Well that's fine because she sounds a little upset.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
If I'm going to be honest, Okay, that's fine. Listen,
I'm with you Jenna on this one. Thank you for
being honest, very honest, too honest.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Great
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