August 10, 2025 • 10 mins
Mindy is joined by her family, along with Joe and Jill, to discuss family favorites!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
And that does. See, That's how I felt sometime I
was left in the dust because Jimmy's such a daddy's girl.
But by the same token, I would say, and a
lot of people along our life have said that Kylon
is a mama's boy, Kamie, do you think so?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
I mean he was always a grandma's boy too, and
that was your mom. So it was both you guys. Yeah, yeah,
for sure.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Do you think that in our family, Cammi, that there's favoritism?
To be honest, because you always don't know me. You
were the stepchild. You always say what you always.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Say, boy, Yeah, I mean I had to grow up,
but yeah, you definitely loved Kylin Moore.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
I'm I don't know, honestly, do you feel like there's favoritism?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I don't know. I think that both you and Dad
would do anything in the world for both Kylin and I.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
There's a picture we were at a petting zoo and
oh my gosh, she carries us around everywhere, Jill everywhere.
We're talking to Joe Schmidt Joe Schmit's peak retirement planning
with his mom. Jill and Cammy is in studio as
my daughter and Boots heard the topic and he wanted
to come in and join the party. And we're so
glad that you're with us, Boots. But Cammy carries around
this picture and we're all of the petting zoo. Because
(01:13):
I was a stay at home mom with them, and
I only worked weekends. I anchored the news on weekend morning,
so it was with them, I was the helicopter hovering mom.
But I think one day that they will appreciate that
if they ever become parents. But she's got this picture
where we're all three together, Kylon, Cameron and me, and
I've got I've got my arm all around Kylon.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
And look at me. I'm like a three feet away
from her.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Seriously, but you know deep down that I would never
I never would have a favorite. I don't think parents
do have favorites. Oh do you think some boots?
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Oh it his hands down, my mom's favorite.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
My brother was.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Listening to this. He would tell you my mom didn't
like my brothers as much as me. It is a fact.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Okay, Doug, if you're listening, call it.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
Oh yeah, he would say.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
In a minute, we do have a phone call, and
I want to get to Joe and Jill about this. Too, Clint,
we are talking about family dynamics. The truth of it.
We're not going to hurt anybody's feelings. Although I'm probably
going to go home and cry after this episode, but
not really. Clint, what is on your mind when it
comes to family dynamics, Well, I would.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Create with Boots. I am my mom's favorites. You know
that's great. However, I would like to say to you
being a single mom, is what you taught your children
was gratitude? That is true, something they will take with
(02:37):
them forever. Oh have anymore?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Do you believe that came in? And do you learn
gratitude through your parents to be grateful for stuff? Think
about that, I think, Clint breaks up a great point.
Are you grateful for everything? Did you learn?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
I think I think part of that I was you
teach me what really does matter in life? And from
that stim that sense of gratitude for like a great
family dynamic, two parents that love each other so much,
like things like that, like You've given me so many
things to be grateful for, and like I from other
families I've met, friends I've met I see things that
like that's not always the normal case, and a lot
(03:22):
of other situations where like man like, I am extremely
grateful to have two parents that worked so hard for
everything they have and they've given every opportunity that Kyle
and I could have ever wanted and just ran with
it and things like that, Like, You've given me so
many things to be grateful for, and it's not like
you've just hand them to me. You've taught me the
same thing, Like I have to work hard for anything
I want, and so I think by you teaching me
(03:43):
what's really important in life, you have given me a
sense of gratitude.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Jill, you're shaking your head, Yes, you do. You agree
with Clinton?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Now I kind of see the opposite side too. My
daughter Stephanie and Joe have always they've been great kids,
and I'm grateful for that. They never got in trouble,
you know, And so kind of the same thing what
cam me saying about parents, But it's also the same
thing about kids.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Well, there's some kids that could stretch you out, you.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Know, but I think you guided them properly, the two
of you, of both parties, because you guide your kids
the right way. If a lot of parents like you
hear about the Kia boys and see these guys that
the media says are misunderstood. They're not misunderstood. Their parents
are garbage. And I'll say it you guys. It's when
you have garbage parents, you have garbage kids. And sometimes
(04:24):
you probably played basketball with garbage kids but had good
coaches that were able to pull them aside and say,
now they're successful. I know a lot of guys that
came from garbage to coach helped form them and make
them better people. So that's a big thing. But I
think I think it's all about parenting and telling what's
right what's wrong, and not listening to the media and
social media and all the garbage they got in front
(04:44):
of them.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
You said something right when we were a commercial break,
and I want to get more into it in a minute,
but you said families work out best when the parents
are on the same page. And I couldn't agree with
you more. Before we go on to that, your brother
is on the line. So is this done, Doug? Are
you on the line right now?
Speaker 6 (05:02):
Yeah? I'm here, Mandy, Really.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
The family favorite? Did his? Did your mom like him
the most?
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Oh? My goodness, you have no idea. He did no wrong.
He really didn't. Yeah, I mean anything, It wasn't just
it Dan, Dan did the best. I mean, Dan was
the baby. You know, my oldest brother got all the
new stuff and he broke it. And of course I
(05:29):
was a middle child. So the middle child syndrome is true.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
It's a great topic, the middle child syndrome.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Yeah, it truly is. And then and then you had
Dan come along five years later, the little baby, And
and then and then mom, Mom, just was he again
he didn't know wrong or Dad or me because Dave
was already out of the house by that.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
But you knew the truth, right, you saw.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Oh it's just I have somebody. It's a whole nother
show again.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
What happened?
Speaker 1 (06:01):
We've got another caller, But dog, you know that it
was it.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Wh just said something earlier, all joking aside, we said,
with good parents, so in good coaches and good upbringing,
it helps kids be better kids.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
You know, our parents were always there for us. They
really were. And I mean, and that's what's wrong today.
I mean, there's so many split homes and split everything.
It's just it's sad. It's you know, we've all seen it.
We've all coached, we've all done the grade school coaching.
And and I did the baseball and all everything. And
our oldest brother Dave did as well. And you see
(06:33):
it and it's not It's always been that way when
the split parents and then you have the fight that
you know, one parent ties out and do another parent
or tries to.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yes, absolutely, you know what, Doug. You brought up a
great point. When Kimi was on a travel team with
the Bandits, there was one of her her players, her teammates,
and we all felt so bad for because never once
did either parent ever come to any of her games.
She would have to travel with the coach, like the
coach would have to fork out money for her to fly.
(07:04):
You know what I'm talking about, right, Cam, But when
you see that as a teammate, doesn't it break your
heart to you? Like, because your parents were there, We
didn't miss hardly a game with you and Kyline. We
would divide and conquer. One would go with Candy's game,
one would go with Kylan's games. But when you saw
Alie never having anybody there, you look at me like that,
do you think she's listening. No, We're in a totally
different state. But that's but that happens, And didn't you
(07:25):
like your heartbreak? For her.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Yeah, it does break, but it also teaches you, like
how important being on team was for her, Like I
can't imagine if she wasn't on that team. Obviously, it
was some terrible family circumstances and it was harder for
her always like having to stay and someone she stayed
in our hotel round me right, Like she always had
to bounce around. But at the end of the day,
like that was a sense of family for her being
on that team. And I mean it wasn't hard to
(07:48):
beat the family that she had at home, but it
was still like like she got to go play D
one And I think a lot of that came from
the people that sacrificed for her, because when you.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
See other people not having what you did, you see
it a lot. In basketball, Yeah, I mean for sure.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
I mean especially with playing au basketball, as you know
with Randy, I mean, most of the top town is
inner city and so it's just less opportunity is typically
the case. And so that was kind of my eye
opening experience as a kid, like playing basketball with people
and from that environment. I mean, I'm from Caro, Ohio.
It's a rural community.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Bulldogs, Yeah, like Martins Ferry's got five thousand people. So
Doug and I will tell you everyone knew your business
and your parents backed the people that rolled you under
the bus.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
So I had one of the most incredible experiences in
basketball in high school. So Calvin Booth is a Columbus native.
Probably a lot of people listening know who he is.
He played in the NBA for ten years, He went
to Grove Port, he played at Penn State for college,
and then he went on to be a GM for
the Nuggets and everything from there. So he actually coached
(08:51):
me in AU basketball and he completely funded our entire team.
I mean he paid for our flights, he paid for
our hotels at the best places.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
My kid get on.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
We didn't pay do I mean we got.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
The nicest.
Speaker 7 (09:04):
We had will three or four workouts a week. I
mean it was incredible experience. And what I just remember
about that is I was probably one of the only
kids that was truly grateful for it, and like not
only myself but my parents, my parent I remember my
dad after every single practice going up to Calvin, hey,
why do you do this? Thank you so much? Like
this is incredible, and no one else gave him that
(09:24):
type of appreciation. It got to a point he's like,
I'm done. I'm done doing this because no one cares
about it.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
So real quick, Doug, before we let you go. But
that being said, you're one of those he gives back
a lot, I give back a lot.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Well, you probably learned it from your parents.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
Parents, and and Doug helps kids that are in bad
situations all time in the Ohio Valley and we try
to help, like what he's saying, And I think that
comes from your parents, isn't I right, say.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
Doug, It's very true. It's very true. We were very fortunate.
You know, we didn't we weren't rich, but we never
went without and Dad showed us work, ethics and and
and truly the mom mama was always helping people as well.
So it's what we you know, we've seen growing up.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
I'm so glad that you called in and surprised, as
Boots didn't think you would. But we are up against
the break. We're going to pass the break. We are
going to continue this conversation family dynamics. Does it matter
having good parents or not? Let us know call us
up at six one four, eight, two, one nine, eight
eighty six
And that does. See, That's how I felt sometime I
was left in the dust because Jimmy's such a daddy's girl.
But by the same token, I would say, and a
lot of people along our life have said that Kylon
is a mama's boy, Kamie, do you think so?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
I mean he was always a grandma's boy too, and
that was your mom. So it was both you guys. Yeah, yeah,
for sure.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Do you think that in our family, Cammi, that there's favoritism?
To be honest, because you always don't know me. You
were the stepchild. You always say what you always.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Say, boy, Yeah, I mean I had to grow up,
but yeah, you definitely loved Kylin Moore.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
I'm I don't know, honestly, do you feel like there's favoritism?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I don't know. I think that both you and Dad
would do anything in the world for both Kylin and I.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
There's a picture we were at a petting zoo and
oh my gosh, she carries us around everywhere, Jill everywhere.
We're talking to Joe Schmidt Joe Schmit's peak retirement planning
with his mom. Jill and Cammy is in studio as
my daughter and Boots heard the topic and he wanted
to come in and join the party. And we're so
glad that you're with us, Boots. But Cammy carries around
this picture and we're all of the petting zoo. Because
(01:13):
I was a stay at home mom with them, and
I only worked weekends. I anchored the news on weekend morning,
so it was with them, I was the helicopter hovering mom.
But I think one day that they will appreciate that
if they ever become parents. But she's got this picture
where we're all three together, Kylon, Cameron and me, and
I've got I've got my arm all around Kylon.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
And look at me. I'm like a three feet away
from her.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Seriously, but you know deep down that I would never
I never would have a favorite. I don't think parents
do have favorites. Oh do you think some boots?
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Oh it his hands down, my mom's favorite.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
My brother was.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Listening to this. He would tell you my mom didn't
like my brothers as much as me. It is a fact.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Okay, Doug, if you're listening, call it.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
Oh yeah, he would say.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
In a minute, we do have a phone call, and
I want to get to Joe and Jill about this. Too, Clint,
we are talking about family dynamics. The truth of it.
We're not going to hurt anybody's feelings. Although I'm probably
going to go home and cry after this episode, but
not really. Clint, what is on your mind when it
comes to family dynamics, Well, I would.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Create with Boots. I am my mom's favorites. You know
that's great. However, I would like to say to you
being a single mom, is what you taught your children
was gratitude? That is true, something they will take with
(02:37):
them forever. Oh have anymore?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Do you believe that came in? And do you learn
gratitude through your parents to be grateful for stuff? Think
about that, I think, Clint breaks up a great point.
Are you grateful for everything? Did you learn?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
I think I think part of that I was you
teach me what really does matter in life? And from
that stim that sense of gratitude for like a great
family dynamic, two parents that love each other so much,
like things like that, like You've given me so many
things to be grateful for, and like I from other
families I've met, friends I've met I see things that
like that's not always the normal case, and a lot
(03:22):
of other situations where like man like, I am extremely
grateful to have two parents that worked so hard for
everything they have and they've given every opportunity that Kyle
and I could have ever wanted and just ran with
it and things like that, Like, You've given me so
many things to be grateful for, and it's not like
you've just hand them to me. You've taught me the
same thing, Like I have to work hard for anything
I want, and so I think by you teaching me
(03:43):
what's really important in life, you have given me a
sense of gratitude.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Jill, you're shaking your head, Yes, you do. You agree
with Clinton?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Now I kind of see the opposite side too. My
daughter Stephanie and Joe have always they've been great kids,
and I'm grateful for that. They never got in trouble,
you know, And so kind of the same thing what
cam me saying about parents, But it's also the same
thing about kids.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Well, there's some kids that could stretch you out, you.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Know, but I think you guided them properly, the two
of you, of both parties, because you guide your kids
the right way. If a lot of parents like you
hear about the Kia boys and see these guys that
the media says are misunderstood. They're not misunderstood. Their parents
are garbage. And I'll say it you guys. It's when
you have garbage parents, you have garbage kids. And sometimes
(04:24):
you probably played basketball with garbage kids but had good
coaches that were able to pull them aside and say,
now they're successful. I know a lot of guys that
came from garbage to coach helped form them and make
them better people. So that's a big thing. But I
think I think it's all about parenting and telling what's
right what's wrong, and not listening to the media and
social media and all the garbage they got in front
(04:44):
of them.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
You said something right when we were a commercial break,
and I want to get more into it in a minute,
but you said families work out best when the parents
are on the same page. And I couldn't agree with
you more. Before we go on to that, your brother
is on the line. So is this done, Doug? Are
you on the line right now?
Speaker 6 (05:02):
Yeah? I'm here, Mandy, Really.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
The family favorite? Did his? Did your mom like him
the most?
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Oh? My goodness, you have no idea. He did no wrong.
He really didn't. Yeah, I mean anything, It wasn't just
it Dan, Dan did the best. I mean, Dan was
the baby. You know, my oldest brother got all the
new stuff and he broke it. And of course I
(05:29):
was a middle child. So the middle child syndrome is true.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
It's a great topic, the middle child syndrome.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Yeah, it truly is. And then and then you had
Dan come along five years later, the little baby, And
and then and then mom, Mom, just was he again
he didn't know wrong or Dad or me because Dave
was already out of the house by that.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
But you knew the truth, right, you saw.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Oh it's just I have somebody. It's a whole nother
show again.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
What happened?
Speaker 1 (06:01):
We've got another caller, But dog, you know that it
was it.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Wh just said something earlier, all joking aside, we said,
with good parents, so in good coaches and good upbringing,
it helps kids be better kids.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
You know, our parents were always there for us. They
really were. And I mean, and that's what's wrong today.
I mean, there's so many split homes and split everything.
It's just it's sad. It's you know, we've all seen it.
We've all coached, we've all done the grade school coaching.
And and I did the baseball and all everything. And
our oldest brother Dave did as well. And you see
(06:33):
it and it's not It's always been that way when
the split parents and then you have the fight that
you know, one parent ties out and do another parent
or tries to.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yes, absolutely, you know what, Doug. You brought up a
great point. When Kimi was on a travel team with
the Bandits, there was one of her her players, her teammates,
and we all felt so bad for because never once
did either parent ever come to any of her games.
She would have to travel with the coach, like the
coach would have to fork out money for her to fly.
(07:04):
You know what I'm talking about, right, Cam, But when
you see that as a teammate, doesn't it break your
heart to you? Like, because your parents were there, We
didn't miss hardly a game with you and Kyline. We
would divide and conquer. One would go with Candy's game,
one would go with Kylan's games. But when you saw
Alie never having anybody there, you look at me like that,
do you think she's listening. No, We're in a totally
different state. But that's but that happens, And didn't you
(07:25):
like your heartbreak? For her.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Yeah, it does break, but it also teaches you, like
how important being on team was for her, Like I
can't imagine if she wasn't on that team. Obviously, it
was some terrible family circumstances and it was harder for
her always like having to stay and someone she stayed
in our hotel round me right, Like she always had
to bounce around. But at the end of the day,
like that was a sense of family for her being
on that team. And I mean it wasn't hard to
(07:48):
beat the family that she had at home, but it
was still like like she got to go play D
one And I think a lot of that came from
the people that sacrificed for her, because when you.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
See other people not having what you did, you see
it a lot. In basketball, Yeah, I mean for sure.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
I mean especially with playing au basketball, as you know
with Randy, I mean, most of the top town is
inner city and so it's just less opportunity is typically
the case. And so that was kind of my eye
opening experience as a kid, like playing basketball with people
and from that environment. I mean, I'm from Caro, Ohio.
It's a rural community.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Bulldogs, Yeah, like Martins Ferry's got five thousand people. So
Doug and I will tell you everyone knew your business
and your parents backed the people that rolled you under
the bus.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
So I had one of the most incredible experiences in
basketball in high school. So Calvin Booth is a Columbus native.
Probably a lot of people listening know who he is.
He played in the NBA for ten years, He went
to Grove Port, he played at Penn State for college,
and then he went on to be a GM for
the Nuggets and everything from there. So he actually coached
(08:51):
me in AU basketball and he completely funded our entire team.
I mean he paid for our flights, he paid for
our hotels at the best places.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
My kid get on.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
We didn't pay do I mean we got.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
The nicest.
Speaker 7 (09:04):
We had will three or four workouts a week. I
mean it was incredible experience. And what I just remember
about that is I was probably one of the only
kids that was truly grateful for it, and like not
only myself but my parents, my parent I remember my
dad after every single practice going up to Calvin, hey,
why do you do this? Thank you so much? Like
this is incredible, and no one else gave him that
(09:24):
type of appreciation. It got to a point he's like,
I'm done. I'm done doing this because no one cares
about it.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
So real quick, Doug, before we let you go. But
that being said, you're one of those he gives back
a lot, I give back a lot.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Well, you probably learned it from your parents.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
Parents, and and Doug helps kids that are in bad
situations all time in the Ohio Valley and we try
to help, like what he's saying, And I think that
comes from your parents, isn't I right, say.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
Doug, It's very true. It's very true. We were very fortunate.
You know, we didn't we weren't rich, but we never
went without and Dad showed us work, ethics and and
and truly the mom mama was always helping people as well.
So it's what we you know, we've seen growing up.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
I'm so glad that you called in and surprised, as
Boots didn't think you would. But we are up against
the break. We're going to pass the break. We are
going to continue this conversation family dynamics. Does it matter
having good parents or not? Let us know call us
up at six one four, eight, two, one nine, eight
eighty six
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