Back To Happy: The Breakup Recovery Podcast

Do you keep trying to 'start fresh' only to find the same old painful patterns repeat? This episode uncovers a common trap in heartbreak recovery: the desire for a "Clean Slate". We expose why simply moving on or changing your surroundings doesn't work.  The real work is in understanding and integrating the trauma, not erasing it. In this episode we discuss three essentia...

Are you still giving your ex too much power? If they are the central villain in your story, they are still the star of the show. This episode teaches you the powerful technique of Rewrite The Role. Learn how to demote your ex from antagonist to a small, necessary supporting character—the catalyst for your growth—so you can fully step into your position as the protagonist and reclaim the narrative of your life.

Are you feeling profoundly alone in your heartbreak? This episode validates why your grief doesn't follow anyone else's timeline. We break down the three Isolation Traps—from your friends' "sympathy fatigue" to the pressure to "perform" healing—that keep you silent. Learn how to stop hiding your pain, set boundaries for your peace, and find the loving connection and strategy you need to heal authentically.

We all think the opposite of love is hate, but it's not—it's indifference. In this powerful episode, we reveal why holding onto anger is the final, invisible trap that keeps you tethered to your ex and delays your healing. Learn how to identify hate as simple engagement and discover practical steps like Energy Recall to cut the emotional cord, reclaim your peace, and achieve the ultimate proof of freedom: true indifference.

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Are you feeling stuck in your healing journey? It's not your ex holding you back—it's The Desire Trap. This episode exposes the emotional illusion that keeps you longing for the past. We reveal the three ingredients of this trap, explain why confusing "longing" with "love" prevents acceptance, and give you two powerful, actionable steps (Radical Acceptance and Redirected Desire) to break free, reclaim your power, and move confident...

This is a roadmap for anyone ready to transform their heartbreak into a catalyst for growth. In this episode, we'll explore why a breakup can feel so difficult and how to turn that pain into power. You'll learn how to identify your unique breakup style, understand the subconscious programming that influences your reactions, and discover how to confidently build a future that truly lights you up. This isn't about getting over your e...

Ready to move on from your breakup for good? In this episode, we're talking about the identity shift—a profound internal change that can help you break old, unhealthy relationship patterns. Your host, [Your Name], explains what an identity shift is and share...

After a breakup, your inner critic can be your worst enemy. But what if that voice isn't even yours? In this episode, we'll explore the surprising origin of post-breakup self-blame and give you a powerful 5-step exercise to rewrite the script, silence the critic, and start truly healing.

After a breakup, we can get trapped in a fantasy of what could have been. In this episode, we'll explore why our brains fixate on past mistakes and dive into a powerful, single strategy to help you break free from that illusion. Join us to learn how to drop the weight of regret and reclaim your power.

In this episode, we delve into the concept of "failing forward" and how embracing failures can lead to greater success and personal growth. Discover inspiring stories and practical strategies for turning setbacks into stepping stones, and learn how to build resilience and confidence in the face of adversity.

In this episode we tackle the intricacies of breakup recovery by exploring the concept of the Motivational Triad: seeking pleasure, avoiding pain, and conserving energy. These natural instincts often guide our actions, but they can also hold us back during times of emotional upheaval. Join us as we unpack how these drives affect our healing process and discuss strategies to overcome them.

In this enlightening episode, we tackle the myths that can keep you trapped in the cycle of heartache after a breakup or divorce. Join us as we explore five common misconceptions, including the myth of closure, the idea of "the one," and the belief that being single equates to loneliness.

In this episode, we explore the thought patterns associated with the four attachment styles during breakup recovery. We dive deep into how these thought patterns influence emotions and behaviors, providing listeners with valuable insights to navigate their healing journeys. By understanding and recognizing these patterns, you can gain greater control over your emotional well-being and embrace the process of hea...

In this episode, we explore the transformative journey after a breakup, focusing on how your attachment style affects your healing process. Discover practical growth strategies for anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles. Learn to reflect on past relationships, identify patterns, and implement self-soothing techniques while establishing healthy boundaries. We'll discuss fostering supportive relati...

In this episode, we explore the complexities of anger, distinguishing between justified and unjustified emotions. We dive into how understanding our anger can foster personal growth and improve our relationships, especially during challenging times like breakups. With insights into the emotional baggage that anger can create, we discuss its impact on our interactions and the importance of processing these feeli...

In this episode, we explore the importance of prioritizing emotional well-being and its impact on both personal growth and family dynamics. Discover practical strategies for nurturing your mental health, including engaging with self-help books, joining supportive communities, and finding creative outlets for your emotions. We'll discuss how these steps not only enhance your resilience but also create a safe and...

In this episode, we dive deep into the journey of healing after a breakup, exploring practical steps to break free from unhealthy emotional patterns. Join us as we discuss how to analyze your thoughts and feelings, set firm boundaries to protect your time and energy, and embrace new opportunities for personal growth. Whether you're struggling to move on or simply seeking to improve your emotional well-being, th...

In this episode, we explore how our thoughts influence our breakup experiences. If you or someone you care about is navigating the aftermath of a breakup or divorce, this episode offers valuable insights into how mindset shapes healing.