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September 9, 2020 11 mins
你听说过这样一句话吗:多人的饭局算不上真心的交流,不过是互相应酬?小时候对交朋友的认知是这是一件很开心、很简单的事;但是长大后似乎觉得自己跟谁都玩的来,但也似乎跟谁都不太熟……
「老朋友越来越远,新朋友从未出现」大概是很多现代人的社交状态吧?其实我们都知道,变得复杂的不是成年人的友情,而是成年人的心态——随着年龄增长和社会经验的丰富,人类会变得较少亲近他人、不愿吐露真心;而在这样的前提下,“交朋友”这件事本身的难度和门槛也就变得比小时候高了。
友谊是两个人之间相互的情感,交朋友还是要讲求精神上的“门当户对”,只有能量和思想同频,在精神上门当户对的人才能成为真正意义上的朋友,所以那些应酬式的饭局,其实与你无关。

主播/ Ash, Ilona
后期/ Jian
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