Andrew Z in the Morning! 6.12.2025 - Hour 2

Andrew Z in the Morning! 6.12.2025 - Hour 2

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is sign for Steve's sleeve.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
More Steve.

Speaker 1 (00:07):
Hey, hey, hey, what is going on?

Speaker 2 (00:10):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (00:10):
Well, man, you can tell like you could just tell
one of the I did one of the like the
most whitest things I could ever have done last night,
and that was well.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
First of all, you know that Kelly wipes her dog's
butts when they come in from being outside. So you
sure this is the whitest thing you could do?

Speaker 2 (00:29):
Oh yeah, okay, what is it? I sat and attended
an antique car show.

Speaker 3 (00:38):
At a senior retirement centers.

Speaker 4 (00:41):
So that is pretty bad.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
It is crazy, you know, I don't know. I like
looking at those cars, but there's these guys will sit
there their week They will take their weekends and sit
there for hours and hours, just sit sit a chi
lawn chair by their.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
Car and tell you about them for hours and they
love it. Yes, I got this.

Speaker 5 (01:00):
It was.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
It was a really good show.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
So it was over at the New System over the
Genesis Village over there off of Reynolds Road, and they
had one hundred and forty seven antique cars.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
They were as cool.

Speaker 4 (01:15):
It's huge.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
Yeah, it was a huge. It was the biggest one
that they've ever had. They've had this thing for like
thirteen years, but this is their biggest one, almost one
hundred and fifty cars.

Speaker 2 (01:24):
Really cool, like a.

Speaker 3 (01:25):
Lot of food and everything, a lot of different vendors
and stuff. So it was funn to do because like,
I'm in hospice care, so there's the proceeds for this
went to hospice in Northwest Ohio. So it was like
the fifty to fifty. But they weren't even there. They're
like the biggest entity. But all the other competitors, like
six of us were there. Were like and it's so
funny because we all do the same thing. We've all

(01:47):
like tried to steal each other's patients, so it's so cool,
like we're sitting there giving each other this stanky like
who's going to cross the line.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
It was hilarious, fun times all right. And by the way,
on your recommendation, Yester, Steve watched them. I watched that movie.
What did I say, Tight Titan Titan about the the
submarine exploded going to the Titanic. That was really good?

Speaker 2 (02:10):
Was it good? Really good?

Speaker 1 (02:11):
It was really it's a documentary. If you like documentaries,
you're gonna love it.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Was there anybody hot in it?

Speaker 1 (02:17):
Anybody hot in it. I mean there's dudes in there.
You love dudes, So.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
I like hot dudes, not job of the hut dudes.

Speaker 1 (02:26):
The second All right, what's going on to sleeve? Steve?

Speaker 2 (02:30):
I feel like Andrew did last night? I watched a
little TV. You can watch a little TV tonight too.

Speaker 3 (02:34):
Game four, the Stanley Cup Finals, is on at eight
pm Eastern non TNT and True TV. The Florida Panthers
host the Edmonton Oilers, and then the series premiere of
the Secrets of the Bunny Ranch is going to be
on at nine pm tonight on Anny, a documentary about
the dark side of Nevada's Moonlight Bunny Ranch, which was
featured on HBO's Cat House and then on Amazon. Deep Cover,

(02:58):
a fast paced action comedy starring Bryce Dallas Howard as
an improv comedy teacher who recruits two of her students,
Orlando Bloom and Nick Muhammad, to help her infiltrate a
London gang after she's approached for the help by undercover
cop Sean Bean.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
So there you go, right, what else?

Speaker 3 (03:16):
And so sad I heard this last night, of course,
so befitting an antique car show. They were talking about
the death of Brian Wilson, so, the original founder of
the Beach Boys, had passed away. His family didn't announce
the exact date or cause of death, but he was
diagnosed with dementia and placed in a conservative ship last year.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
He was eighty two years old.

Speaker 3 (03:39):
Wilson was considered one of the great pops songwriters of
all time. Under his guidance, the Beach Boys output rivaled
that of the Beatles Man hit after hit after his
here's the audio.

Speaker 6 (04:09):
What you don't realize how many hits the Beach Boys

(04:52):
heads literally.

Speaker 4 (04:53):
Like literally, I was just thinking that, like they I mean,
I'm not a big fan of them. I don't know
why I wasn't, because I knew everyone I.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Know I wasn't a huge fan either. When he died,
it wasn't a big deal to me. But then as
the day went on, people said that this guy was
Brian Wilson was a genius, and to put it in
the context, how great he wasn't writing and arranging the
vocals for the Beach Boys were. Here is him singing
lead on one of their most beautiful songs, and this

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is just his vocal.

Speaker 7 (05:25):
I'm all set one, two, three, four, I.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
Would get it. It's just amazing. I would I would
consider them the rival of the Beatles, right, like like
Beatles are.

Speaker 3 (06:08):
That's what they're saying. Yeah, they pegged them as one
of the rivals.

Speaker 5 (06:12):
Can get behind that? That was loo key like fire.

Speaker 8 (06:14):
I'm really I mean, I know a couple of songs
because they're like commercial songs, Boys or the Beach Boys,
but I totally, first off, I understand why they're called
the Beach Boys.

Speaker 5 (06:24):
That was definitely beach music.

Speaker 8 (06:25):
Like I could get behind that for some popular reasons,
but I think I'm I literally not kidding you. Spotify
with that say, I literally just added that to my
playlist because this would be definitely good music for my
office when I'm chilling.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
So, so you were too familiar because you're you're a
young guy, you weren't too familiar with them. I mean
this means the way before.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
You're Yeah, I know of the Beach Boys. I know
the name.

Speaker 8 (06:44):
I like I said, I've known some of the songs
that played just because they're popular, but no, I've never
sat listened to a whole beach Boy song.

Speaker 5 (06:51):
But We're about you today.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
They got me, yes, But you gotta admit though, when
you do listen to the music closed, right, you do imagine.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Yourself on the beach, Absolutely sure.

Speaker 5 (07:03):
And I was back in Florida, Back.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
In Florida, man, I was. There was one point Paul McCartney,
who from the Beatles, says he considered Brian Wilson's God
Only Knows, God Only Knows right the greatest song ever written. Wow,
And that's from Paul McCartney.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
That's big.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
And then he had the daughters. They did Wilson Phillips,
Carney and Wendy Carney and Wendy Wilson. Thank you. He
does love Wilson Phillips. They were great singers. Yeah, yeah,
all right, And.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
Then there's some accolades for that.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
So Ron Wood from The Rolling Stone summed up what
a lot of people are probably feeling right now. Brian
Wilson and Sly Stone in one week, the world is
in morning, So there's going to be one more. Always
in threes, always in threes.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
And he else and him? Or is that it?

Speaker 2 (08:01):
That's pretty much it? Though?

Speaker 5 (08:03):
What else?

Speaker 3 (08:04):
So former MTV VJ and Nanda Lewis lost her battle
with breast cancer.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
And she was only fifty two.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
I can't picture, I can absolutely. I was a MTV freak.
I watched all this. Here's the problem is she's like
second or third generation, so like this first areas was
like Kurt Loader and Paulie Shore and all those guys.
She was more of the younger I watched it up
until I was like, I've watched it for twenty five years,

(08:33):
like I shouldn't have, Like it wasn't really my demo,
but I loved it. So she was more of the
later generation, like who's that Sway? Like Sway and Anda Lewis.
There was more like the second generation of VJs. But
that's sad fifty two man.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
I remember watching that when you when MTV would come
on that little done, that little theme song would come on.
They see that little astronaut bouncing around. Oh my god,
I love that.

Speaker 1 (08:57):
Why why would that programming not work today? Like what
it would work?

Speaker 8 (09:00):
People watch music videos. Music videos are anticipated too. I
feel like they should definitely bring that back. I feel
like a lot of people and not even that they did,
like the summer GYM concerts, like where they would go down,
this would be such a good time that.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
MTV spring break. Dude, I would sit there and watch
when that area when that would come.

Speaker 8 (09:17):
This would be a good Netflix Huluite should pick this
up immediately.

Speaker 5 (09:21):
I don't know what. They're dropping the ball here.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
They're dropping the ball Sprang. Remember Springer Break where Jerry
Springer was down their hostess shit and man, god.

Speaker 5 (09:30):
Love sp opportunities are there. They're just failing.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
Yeah, they are failing. Man, what else, Steve Well?

Speaker 2 (09:36):
It went down yesterday.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
Harvey Weinstein was convicted of sexual assault in his sex
crimes retrial in New York City. Now, the majority female jury,
the majority of female jury on Wednesday found the former
Hollywood producer guilty of sexually assaulting Miriam Haley, but acquitted
him of a second charge of sexually assaulting Cata Socola. Now,
the jury could not reach a unanimous verdict on a

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third count involved being Jessica Coaman, and was told to
resume deliberations Thursday morning.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
Now.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
In his twenty twenty trial, Weinstein was found guilty of
sexually abusing Haley and Man. He was serving a twenty
three year sentence in New York until those convictions were
overturned in April of twenty twenty four.

Speaker 2 (10:16):
Now, he pleaded not.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
Guilty to all charges on his retil, but both Haley
and Man testified against him again. In their testimonies, Haley
alleged that Weinstein forcibly sexually assaulted her in his apartment.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
In two thousand and six.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
My Man accused him of raping her in a hotel
in two thousand and three.

Speaker 1 (10:34):
I mean, I think we all agree, poor Harvey Weinstein.
Fuck him? Yeah, fuck him? Is he out or something?
Because you said that that he got his sentence overturned
in twenty twelve four he did?

Speaker 5 (10:48):
Is he just out?

Speaker 1 (10:49):
I think he had shit going on in Hollywood and
in New York and this.

Speaker 2 (10:53):
Is temporarily they're going to get him. Yeah, this is
in New York. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
Fuck what else if some body don't grab him and stuff?
Because people don't stand for that stuff.

Speaker 1 (11:02):
Man, not anymore. They used to poor women too. They
used to say anything, used to go crazy. What else?

Speaker 2 (11:10):
Steve Britney spears, you guys took a break.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
She took a break from wearing skimpy outfits and dancing
on Instagram to rail against her excess so in opposed
that she's apparently already deleted.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
Britney says, I dated too e fing complete a holes.

Speaker 3 (11:25):
I realized I love their dogs more than them, and
I think it's because they're dogs bowed to me every
time I entered the room. Now, the guys were, of
course cruel humans and never even acknowledged me and never
held my hand in the car for six years.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
I choose animals over people any day.

Speaker 3 (11:41):
So I was on to say she'd been feeling defeated
after an extremely shady week. She goes on to say,
I'm so turned off by humanity and the way people have.
Literally I have no words. There's no words which to
exes Britney referring to. But I'm thinking we could all
kind of.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
Yes, she has a bad room. Relationships. Man, if you
have you been in relationship trade.

Speaker 5 (12:03):
Yeah, they've been in a multi relationships. I'm not in
a relationship. They no, they don't, they don't.

Speaker 8 (12:10):
The last one I was in was like four years
from when I was eighteen to getting at twenty two,
and I had the best time of my life, honestly,
But I think that it just the end of it
fizzled out, and after that I just started working on myself.
I feel like some people are relationship bound, like they
need another person. I don't need that. I don't need
that I find the same comfort and joy in myself

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that most people need other people to find.

Speaker 5 (12:35):
And it's not simple for me.

Speaker 4 (12:36):
So healthy, I mean so healthy.

Speaker 8 (12:38):
I'm not even that the dating pool just sucks? So like,
what am I rushing to run into that? For half
the two of the people that are relationships aren't even happy.
So I'm in that you continue my streak. I ask
everyone that's dating in Toledo, I'm like, what is the
dating pool like? And they all say it sucks? And
what it's not.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
It's not a few people, it's one hundred percent of
the people say dating in Toledo's sucks.

Speaker 8 (13:00):
It does so and I feel like the last couple
of times I've came here, you ask if I'm dating,
and I will never date in the city.

Speaker 5 (13:06):
There's nothing appealing in the city.

Speaker 8 (13:07):
That makes me and I want I'm moving, So I
would never settle down in the city with anyone who
plans on staying here because I will not be here
for the rest of my life. That's just kind of
like a backtracking me backwards in my opinion.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
Yeah, they hold me here, they'd beholding you.

Speaker 4 (13:22):
I feel like I do feel like women in your
life that you must be. They're like, it's such a
challenge for them. Are women? Does women try to think
that they they're gonna be able to reel you in.

Speaker 8 (13:35):
That's actually a really, really good topic because a lot
of women like to think that they can change your mind,
and I think for me that is the biggest turn off. Like,
I feel like I'm very open, I'm very honest, and
the last couple women that I have had some discussions
conversations with hung out with. You know, I set my
intentions vary from the beginning of what my intent is,
where I plan on doing, if I'm dating, if I'm

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looking for that, and I say it here out loud,
I say it on my social media, I'm not looking
to date. So like, if you want to go out
to dinner and we want to have fun.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
That makes it hot for girls, we can do that.
They want to think that your challenge. They want to
think they're the one.

Speaker 5 (14:10):
They'll never win the challenge.

Speaker 2 (14:12):
I'm not.

Speaker 5 (14:13):
I'm not on the market. Here's a good time on
a long one to be interest.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
You do the same thing though, is the more you
the more you act like you're you're not into it,
the more.

Speaker 4 (14:23):
They I will say the difference between him and D
is D says that, but like within twenty four hours
he's in a relationship. He's kind of like, yeah, as
you call.

Speaker 8 (14:36):
It, I've been single for so long. I think that again,
just the thought of happening to constantly entertain someone just
makes me cry healthy. It's like a very draining I'm
tired already. I couldn't even imagine done. Told these fools
on it. I've been with Kevin nineteen years. I'm like,
don't date in the city. I have never dated in

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this city.

Speaker 1 (14:57):
Yeah, yes, why is that? What?

Speaker 2 (14:59):
What is wrong?

Speaker 1 (15:00):
Why Toledo? Why is Toledo so bad for dating?

Speaker 3 (15:04):
I actually give you several reasons. Several reasons. One because
was everyone A lot of people think they're entitled. That's one.
They think if they see somebody sees the other person,
they think that that person has to come over to
them if they want to be acknowledged, and vice versa.

Speaker 2 (15:21):
So what winds up happening?

Speaker 3 (15:22):
They check each other out, but nobody makes a move
to say hi to one another. That one reason too,
that everything is centered around a bar, a bar, and
a drink. Nobody has any creativity on how to meet
or maintain a relationship outside of a bar.

Speaker 4 (15:38):
That's truth.

Speaker 3 (15:44):
I'm hell, honey, I'm the preacher, love, Honey, I've done
this a long ass time.

Speaker 2 (15:48):
Honey. Well, people are not creative. They're not creative.

Speaker 3 (15:51):
They expect, they expect the relationship to land upon them.
They don't want to do the work. They definitely don't
want to be creative. And they definitely don't know how
to stand out. That's the other thing. And people get comfortable.

Speaker 4 (16:03):
I might need to take some lessons from you.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
What do you mean? What are you breaking news here?

Speaker 2 (16:12):
Who's that?

Speaker 4 (16:13):
No here?

Speaker 2 (16:15):
What?

Speaker 4 (16:15):
No news here?

Speaker 1 (16:18):
She said, Kelly, what is going on?

Speaker 2 (16:23):
What?

Speaker 1 (16:24):
What?

Speaker 2 (16:24):
Not?

Speaker 9 (16:24):
Ready?

Speaker 1 (16:25):
You're not ready? Okay, we'll leave it alone than you.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
So when you're ready, I'll give you that list. I
gave that list that in seen I have I have.
I'm telling people I am the best matchmaker. That's what
I'm telling everybody. You better come. If you're single, you
better come to my party tonight. I have a record
of matching people up.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
We of couse, so we have a let's do a
vibe check, because Kelly, you see, I'm not I'm a
bad man. I am I am not good. I'm not
a good work work husband, because I think you're dropping
hints you're going through Are you going through it? You're
going through it through? Like are you Like someone just
asked the question this morning. Are you happy right now?
One to ten?

Speaker 5 (17:05):
Trey very happy?

Speaker 1 (17:06):
Well, give me a number ten ten, Steve eight eight,
Yeah for you? All right, Kelly, where are you at?
I'm gonna I'm gonna three, I'm gonna three, going through it.

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I am going through it.

Speaker 5 (17:30):
Yeah, this is temporary, folks.

Speaker 1 (17:32):
I know, what do you mean to tell? Tell us speaking?

Speaker 5 (17:35):
Because it's obvious. I mean, I can't say it's obvious.

Speaker 8 (17:37):
But in this time that it's three or five and
you're not the happiest, these are the moments that you
should be listening the most, paying attention the most. There's
obviously a message or something that you should be learning
in this moment, whether it's on yourself, your surroundings, the
people you involve yourself with. So I feel like, although
it is a three or five of your happiness, you
could find so much joy in finding ways to improve

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yourself off your circle and your day to day activities
in life. Because we need to have these low moments
so we can have high moments, because if you didn't
have these low moments, you wouldn't appreciate great times.

Speaker 1 (18:10):
I mean, I dig it a text in four one
nine three four five three three seven five is Kelly single?
Question mark?

Speaker 2 (18:19):
Oh, here they go?

Speaker 1 (18:21):
Sounds like I maybe, it sounds like I may be
able to take Kelly to poundtown. So it said, missus lats,
I'm not looking to buy a house right now, but
I'm looking to put something in your garage. Oh my gosh,
the listeners. Jesus. I'm in the doctor's office now, so
I can't hear the answer. If she's single, she's not,

(18:45):
she's not. It's not time. It's not time for Kelly
to assume.

Speaker 8 (18:48):
You could put something in her garage for free. Crazy
crazy pickup line.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
Crazy.

Speaker 5 (18:55):
Then I I don't know.

Speaker 1 (18:58):
Listeners.

Speaker 2 (18:59):
I don't know listeners are vultures.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
But if you know, do you notice that, Kelly, like
when when you're in a week time, do you notice
that guys like, well like since that and then just
try to swoop in and like they think that.

Speaker 2 (19:11):
They have a chance.

Speaker 1 (19:13):
So weird they guys are guys are so arrogant, Like
we think that that yeah, we're we're the prize and
every woman that we that we deemed that that's the
one we want to go out with, that we're just
just gonna swoon over.

Speaker 2 (19:26):
You.

Speaker 1 (19:26):
Dudes are so stupid, so funny.

Speaker 2 (19:29):
They're scavenger. Oh my god. I sit there when I
go out with some of.

Speaker 3 (19:34):
These guys and I'm listening to the plot of the
talking pot. We're scanning the room like who they're going
to talk to, and oh my god, they waste fifteen
minutes talking about the girl that they don't even know
and won't go over there and say hi. I'm like, y'all,
y'all make me sick, I said, I said, honey, homos, honey.

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We act fast because because the competition is stick Kelly Kelly.

Speaker 1 (20:00):
Another one in, I'm not Pee Diddy. I'm not Pee Diddy,
but girl, I'll show you how to use some baby oil.

Speaker 4 (20:07):
Mercy do.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
Another one, No, it's not even Doug. Someone else said,
how is Trey single? He seems like the sweetest guy ever.
Another one said, I've been picking up those hints from
Kelly for weeks now. I have not I had. I
had to walk in the doctor's office. I'm listening now,
but on my buds but I didn't breath. I didn't

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hear the answer. I'm female and married. I just want
to know is Kelly single. She she's not ready to
say it this moment. We don't know she's going through it,
and we're just trying to figure We're trying to Kelly
and I are trying to figure life out.

Speaker 3 (20:42):
So you better listen to trait because trade and graduate
from the same school I have. Honey, don't date in
this city, honey, don't do it. Take take you behind
up to Detroit, Honey. Spend a day and a half
up there, get you a hotel room, Honey, just a
tourists and a half.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
You can't you get's weird though. You can't just go
like like searching for a random city by yourself. I'm
gonna tell yourself. And you're by yourself at a bar.
You can't walk up to Peter, that's.

Speaker 2 (21:13):
The best time.

Speaker 8 (21:14):
First Off, she's a woman, so she didn't need to
walk up to know when she needs to sit there,
look pretty and wait for someone to approach her. But
I'm gonna tell you a trick that uh, some female
friends in Florida taught me. They would go to the
nicest hotel and they would go to the bar and
they would sit at the bar and they would just
look at the menu. And that's how they would find
eligible guys who had some money, some changes in the

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pocket to spare a damsel in distress. And I think
that nowadays that is a good way to do it.
So I'm Detroit.

Speaker 5 (21:41):
They have some of the nicest hotels, nicest place. You
need to go. Sit in that lobby and hang out
for a little bit. You'll find someone. They'll find you,
They'll find you.

Speaker 3 (21:48):
Man.

Speaker 2 (21:49):
See how fast y'all went to bar. Y'all went right.

Speaker 5 (21:52):
To I said hotel, yeah, hotel, restaurant.

Speaker 2 (21:55):
Yeah, okay, but Andrews said bar.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
Yeah, he did say bar. So what where's a place
to find We're like, we're to even start the com like,
do you want to go to like the what's it?
The Ford Museum? What is that? The Ford? Like they
have a nice little place. So they got a bunch
of places up. Do you just go to sight seeing
by yourself?

Speaker 3 (22:11):
Trade just said you go. You go to the Shinola
Hotel right there. They have a beautiful lounge. It's right
a cause from the Gucci store. So first off, you
see a single man shopping at the Gucca store. Honey,
you might want to zero in out that, because if
he's in there, he is in there for a reason.

Speaker 2 (22:26):
Like you sit in that in that lounge and you
just kind of people watch.

Speaker 3 (22:30):
You can go to townhouses, a great lounge you can
go to like a little concert. Look up if it's
a cool jazz place going on, or a cool speakeasy,
or see if there's a gallery opening. Like look at
the social pages and scan the activities of that.

Speaker 1 (22:44):
But see, aren't you weird if you're going by yourself,
Like if you're just roaming around Detroit going to events
by yourself, people can think you're weird. No go places
by yourself.

Speaker 8 (22:54):
Just told you, I travel by myself. I don't have
to appeal to anyone. I do exactly what I want
to do. When you go travel with a group of people,
they start adding things that you didn't want to do.
They start messing up your timeline. They are were sleeping
in late, I got I gotta get up early. I'm
trying to do things. I'm not trying to worry about
no one else but myself. See, this is why dating
doesn't work because everything I do I'm really just doing.

Speaker 5 (23:14):
It for me right now, and so that's the same
thing with.

Speaker 4 (23:16):
It's very intentional, like in your life right now exactly.

Speaker 8 (23:19):
I know what i want out of life, and so
I feel like I'm not gonna diminish that dim't or
hold it back. I know what I'm going for, and
I think that that's why everything comes my way.

Speaker 5 (23:27):
I uh like.

Speaker 8 (23:29):
Career wise, I started UH and leasing consultant as a
leasing consultant December second. I just was promoted two weeks ago.
Now I'm the leasing manager of a property. I did
that within a five month time span because I worked hard.
I had my mindset. I knew what I wanted out
of this, and I did everything I needed to do
to put myself in that position and I got that promotion.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
I guess the texts mentioned four one five through three
seven five said I'm trying to mingle with Tray. He
seems healed, and the one said, uh, but see here's
the here's a woman. It's like he just told you
he's not trying.

Speaker 5 (24:00):
I don't think that's honesty.

Speaker 8 (24:02):
I could have been lying to her and I could
have told her and sold the world. But instead I'm
just being honest.

Speaker 1 (24:07):
And someone said, I did hear the subtle hits hints
myself about Kelly. I'm about half your age, missus lats,
but I'll have you saying your own name by the
end of the night.

Speaker 2 (24:21):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (24:22):
Say, I think the sexiest attribute for anybody it's confidence
in being by yourself.

Speaker 4 (24:29):
So I mean, honestly, that's I've never really been by myself,
so it's it's it's interesting.

Speaker 1 (24:35):
But you but you seem like the type of person
that would be like, You're okay with it because you
like hanging out with friends, and I think having good
friends and knowing how to how to have good how
to have platonic relationships around you, I think that would
be an important part because you still want to fill
fill those voids and you don't have to fill them
with a romantic partner. But you like hanging out with
you like hanging out with people. Yeah, And are you

(24:58):
okay with being by yourself? Like as far is like
out going out like I am. I am too. It's
just it seems kind of weird. Learning learning okay.

Speaker 3 (25:06):
Well, it depends on where you're going to if you
automatically you're seeing if somebody is going to a bar
that's weird. There are places you can go outside a
bar that are totally acceptable to be by yourself. There's
nothing better than to being in like a local coffee shop,
like it around ten o'clock in the morning's people watch
send It, get your emails done, flip through a magazine.

(25:27):
That's a great way to meet people. And it's not
in a bar. And nine times out of ten you're
seeing the people as their raw self. They're not all
dressed up, they're not done up. You're seeing them without makeup.
That's cool. Or they're on their way to the gym.
You can tell.

Speaker 2 (25:40):
You can tell a lot they're.

Speaker 3 (25:41):
Going to a coffee house early on the weekends. You
can tell a whole bunch of our people.

Speaker 1 (25:46):
Interesting.

Speaker 2 (25:46):
I could write a book.

Speaker 1 (25:47):
I could write a book right right, all right, what
else do you get and sleeze anything else?

Speaker 5 (25:50):
Interesting?

Speaker 1 (25:52):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (25:52):
I just think this one is too funny. And I
got to hear the audience.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
I was laughing.

Speaker 3 (25:56):
I was like, oh, this is okay, there's a video. Okay,
I'll fight it again. Hang on, Dolly park in one
streak naked through Tom Jones back yard.

Speaker 2 (26:06):
I forgot to hear this.

Speaker 1 (26:07):
Here we go.

Speaker 9 (26:08):
This was when Tom Jones lived over in bel Air.
I don't know where he lives now, but he was
just hot as he could be and sexy. And I
had some friends out to Hollywood. I was living out
there at the bel Air Hotels and we were just
out having fun and we'd been out and had a
couple of margarita's and I said, this is Tom Jones' house.
And they said, well, let's go over there.

Speaker 5 (26:25):
And I said, no, we can't go in the yard.

Speaker 1 (26:27):
You know, they must have security.

Speaker 9 (26:28):
And they dared me too streak through the yard because
that was back when everybody was streaking, and they kept
thearing me and double dog there me and I just
couldn't take it. So I just stripped down and ran
across the yard.

Speaker 4 (26:39):
I couldn't take it.

Speaker 5 (26:40):
And I don't think he saw me.

Speaker 9 (26:42):
If he did, I didn't impress him much.

Speaker 4 (26:46):
She is so cool, she is.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
Are you a Tom Jones? You probably you don't play.
Don't even know who Tom Jones is, but I know
who is Dolly's. Well, Tom Jones is too, the one.

Speaker 5 (26:57):
For a second, yes, he.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
Was sing voice voice, what's that pussy cat?

Speaker 1 (27:05):
Here's a little Tom joke. So Tom Jones is on
the voice. He's one of the judges, but the UK voice,
not the American voice. So there's times where he'll just
be like be judging and he just breaks out into song.
This is how talented this cat is. Because you don't
you don't really you don't think of Tom Jones as
being all that talented. But here here is just a clip.

(27:26):
This is him from the Voice. You Tom, when did
you stop?

Speaker 9 (27:28):
When did your career start?

Speaker 8 (27:30):
I recorded It's not Unusual when I was twenty four
and they went to number one.

Speaker 10 (27:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
Yeah, I recorded it at the end of sixty four
and it came out at the beginning of sixty five.

Speaker 9 (27:44):
You when you went in to record the song, did
you feel at the time when when you heard the
song was like, yeah, this is a hit?

Speaker 3 (27:50):
I thought so yes, because I did the demo you
see for Sandy Show that was that was meant for
Sanday Show.

Speaker 5 (27:55):
But when I heard it back, I said whoa.

Speaker 9 (27:57):
And then they played it a Sanday Show and God
bless her, she said, whoever singing this?

Speaker 2 (28:01):
I said, song, Wow, I recorded it, probably.

Speaker 1 (28:04):
So then he's he's having a conversation with the voice judges, right,
and then all of a sudden, he's bust under the song.
He's right so the band, he's like, he's playing for
me right now. They had to bring him a mic
and everything.

Speaker 5 (28:23):
He wasn't expecting it.

Speaker 1 (28:24):
He's not use.

Speaker 5 (28:25):
You want to be by one. He's not un.

Speaker 10 (28:32):
Fun with anyone. For me to see you hanging about
put any one, He's not on us. You want me,
I want to die, He's not unuse.

Speaker 5 (28:50):
You want to go out?

Speaker 1 (28:51):
I didn't tell him. He's still. He's gonna be like
sevn yeor eight.

Speaker 4 (28:56):
Wasn't he like known for women throwing at their panties
at Oh?

Speaker 1 (29:00):
Absolutely, Tom Jones is sexy. Motherfucker. He's eight and he's
still sexy. Got that voice, You got the accent. People
women love accents. You get yourself an accent. He could dance,
you know.

Speaker 8 (29:11):
When we were when I lived in Florida, me and
my friends used to like go to the bar and
lie and say we were from other places and burn.
So I used to do accents all the time, just
like this. So I would I would lie to them
and say I just came here from London and I'm
in town for a little bit. So I was just
wondering if you wanted to hang out for the night.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Oh ship, dude, you are already good looking. Some bitch,
you throw an accent. Women would throwing panties at you.

Speaker 5 (29:35):
Game changer, game changer.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
He just didn't do it.

Speaker 8 (29:41):
I don't think they would be impressed by that. Not
in this city. This ain't the place. You gotta know
you're surrounded. Maybe if I had a gun on my hip, so.

Speaker 1 (29:49):
Would said I'm not even gay, and I would throw
my underwear a Tom Jones, Oh wow, there it is there.
It is all right?

Speaker 11 (29:56):
Is that it?

Speaker 5 (29:57):
Steve?

Speaker 2 (29:58):
Yeah, that's pretty much all right, Steve.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
That is a Steve sleeve, all right. Taber trafficking weather.
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Stateline Sauce Company. I'm Andrew z E Kelly Lats the
Princess of Property from Howard and A Realty and hanging
out with us every Thursday. It's a social media influencer
Trey Berry is in the house.

Speaker 5 (34:54):
Let's go.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
Ju Trey. People are loving you, man. They're like, I'm
so glad that he's in there, and he's doing a
great job. Blah blah blah, I mean.

Speaker 5 (35:10):
Pretty cool whatever.

Speaker 1 (35:14):
And you're so humble as well, which we love absolute absolutely.

Speaker 5 (35:17):
I'm just a chill guy, like I said.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
So, there's an interesting article that I was reading this
morning I want to go by with you. Guys. Uh
it's it's six friendship red flags we all quietly pretend
are normal. We talked last hour or to about a
girl who seems like she's the one that's given in
the relationship, and is she not feeling that she's getting

(35:39):
anything back from the relationship, And so I thought this
would be a good article to kind of coincide with
that six friendship red flags we all quietly pretend are normal.
Number one, only reaching out when they need something. I
get people get busy with responsibilities outside of friendship, like
working family. That's completely normal, and every relationship has its
ebbs and flows. However, if the only time that a

(36:03):
friend ever reaches out to you is when you need
they need something, that is a huge red flag and
an indication they're using you. Friendship should not be transactional
or one sided. Both parties should get the same level
of fulfillment. Of course, friendships change as you get older
and life gets busier, but a good friend will check

(36:24):
in even if they don't need anything, perhaps especially then.
So if you find out that the only time they
get a hold of you is when they need something,
that is a bad sign. Another bad sign is never apologizing,
just moving on. This is often disguised as acting like
adults or not wanting to draw out conflict, but avoiding
accountability and not owning up to mistakes is a red

(36:48):
flag in any relationship friendships included. This is an example
of emotional manipulation, and a friend who acts this way
likely lacks the emotional intelligence needed for a healthy relationship.
Do you have any friends like that? Anyone got any
friends like that? Where they just never apologize, is always
moving on even if they do something wrong once you
get over it. What do you mean? Why do you

(37:09):
say that?

Speaker 5 (37:09):
Because I don't.

Speaker 8 (37:11):
I'm a good person who distanced myself from people who
act like that. I used to have friends like that
all the time, though, really, but I've met some amazing
friends who if they can if they here, if they
want to, they will.

Speaker 5 (37:24):
That is a true statement.

Speaker 8 (37:25):
You should live by it because there are people out
there who are genuine and if they want to, they
will do for you. For example, my best friend Zizis
I met her when I lived in Florida. I've had
friends who literally have book flights to come hang out
in Flido, which is absurd because they're like, you're leaving
Florida come to Toledo at that, But she actually just
surprised me two days ago and is flying here from

(37:47):
Virginia Beach to be here for my birthday, and so
I get that.

Speaker 5 (37:50):
I let that be an example.

Speaker 8 (37:51):
If they want to, they will, Because I have friends
who live in Toledo who don't have no time for me. Ever,
they make an excuse of why they're so busy. But
if a friend is gonna flight paying money to come
to Toledo, if they want to, they will.

Speaker 5 (38:04):
That's an example.

Speaker 8 (38:04):
So you should have people in your life who set
standards who you allow in your life. And she is
a prime example of if you want to, you will,
and if that's I have other friends who are just
like her, But she's one of the examples that if
you can't mask that energy because I would do that
for my friend. That's the type of person I am.
And so she reciprocated a type of love language that
I would do. I would fly to her no matter

(38:26):
what if she wanted me to, even if it was
just a day that she wasn't have a good day.
I'm gonna figure out how I'm gonna get there somehow,
some way, FaceTime you out, I'm gonna make the time
for you. There's genuine people in this world.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
Wow, all right, Kelly, feeling any of these first two.

Speaker 4 (38:40):
I think that, like I'm kind of in the place
right now where I'm letting go of bad relationship.

Speaker 1 (38:45):
You're your when did the support transformation? St Like it
seems like you're going through transformation, which I didn't realize
until this morning, because I mean, are.

Speaker 4 (38:55):
You well, it's been a slow burn started kind of
in October and now I'm I'm like just manuering through it.
And but it's kind of makes you reflect who you're
spending your time with and why. And I think that, like,
you know, I'm older, so like i don't know why

(39:19):
I never ever like made myself a priority and so
I'm learning.

Speaker 1 (39:24):
What ways do are you making yourself priority now that
you weren't before? Would you say, like with in relationships
for sure, even not wasting time on bad relationship.

Speaker 4 (39:32):
Even like friends friendship, Yes, doesn't matter. Yes, I've been
kind of cutting some people loose, and I've kind of
been opening myself to other like relationships and friendships that
I'm really really enjoying now.

Speaker 1 (39:44):
So it's interesting. Uh. Number three of the six red
flags of bad friendship having terrible communication. Do you have
a friend who is chronically online but never seems to
answer a call. You can see that they're active on Instagram,
but your text remain unread or least unanswered. That's a
major red flag. They may say they're just not good
at communicating, but really their lack of effort shows a

(40:07):
lack of care.

Speaker 5 (40:09):
I don't believe in that one.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
Relationships because it's hitting you. That's why relationships don't don't
last in the vacuum. Political psychologist says, if you want
a meaningful, long, laster relationship, you will have to put
an effort, time and commitment, and won't it and it
won't always be fun.

Speaker 5 (40:24):
Hear me out though, Oh go ahead, this is my phone.

Speaker 8 (40:27):
I pay the phone bill, right, and so you so
you're telling me I should always be available for someone
because they're reaching out to me.

Speaker 5 (40:33):
I think that that's what I'm saying with that. I
don't agree with that.

Speaker 8 (40:35):
If I'm on social media, I'm doing what I'm doing
on my time because this is my time. And so
I'm not gonna say I'm not ever gonna get back
to you, but I'm gonna do that on my time.
And so just because you text me and say hey,
doesn't mean I immediately needed to jump onto that because
my time is just as important, you know. And so
if yes, if you need me for an emergency, something
is going.

Speaker 5 (40:52):
On, I'm going to be there. I'm a drop what
I'm doing. But a simple conversation.

Speaker 8 (40:56):
I don't think that that makes you a red flag
because you're on social media not responding immedia.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
A couple of things is if you see some if
you're with, spend time with somebody, and you see that
they're always on the checking my phone and always texting
some you always texting and always reading text and whatever,
and then you text them and then they don't text
you back. You're like, all right, I'm fucking with you.
I know that you get if it's important. I know
you get back to people all the time. So that

(41:21):
says to me that I'm not I'm not import That
may be.

Speaker 8 (41:24):
True, but I feel like, again, that's your perception that
you're not important because you see me texting other people.
You've valued yourself not important. I can't change the way
you feel about yourself. That's not how I think about you,
because because I didn't respond to you right now, it
does not make you any less important than you are
in my life I have. So you're saying to me, though,
my time is not important, and how I feel of

(41:45):
what I'm doing is not important because your time is
more important than mine.

Speaker 4 (41:48):
I mean, I've never even thought of it that way.
It's definitely interesting how you broke it down.

Speaker 8 (41:55):
There's boundaries to it, and I feel like, again, there's
a time and there's a place. But if I am
busy working all day, you may see me on my phone.
But I'm a content creator, So who says I'm not working.
I'm not on my phone because I want to be
on my phone. Half the times I on my phone
because I'm posting because there's money to be made monetizing.

Speaker 1 (42:10):
You know, well, the other thing that to that, that's
that's interesting to me, is that, Uh, what was I
gonna say, ship, What was gonna say?

Speaker 2 (42:18):
It was?

Speaker 1 (42:19):
It was a good one. It was a good one, Damn,
I don't remember. I lost it, damn.

Speaker 8 (42:22):
But should you be valuing how important you are to
someone on how fast they respond to your text message?

Speaker 1 (42:28):
Not how fast, but I mean if they're on their
phone constantly, but then when you text them that then
then all of a sudden, uh uh, consistently your texts
go unanswered for a long period of time. When you know,
you sit there with the person, you see them, they're
on their phone the whole time you're with them, Well,
then that that's gonna, that's gonna.

Speaker 8 (42:47):
I can see how that could raise some questions, right,
But I think that it would be a red flag
for me because I just don't I wouldn't. I don't
expect anyone to text me back fast. If I text someone,
I maybe it's just because that's how I am. But
I if I text you, I as long as you
get back to me in twenty four hours, I'm acceptable
with that.

Speaker 5 (43:06):
Well.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
And one of the things that I had it and
I lost it again.

Speaker 4 (43:10):
Fuck, what is going on with you.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
I don't know, I had it. I had it a
second time. Oh I don't. What I was gonna say
is sometimes I'll get a text and I don't know
how to answer it, so then I I think on it,
and this surpise I forget, Like I forget that I
did that to him, really like, I don't know, I
don't know how to answer it, so or I don't
have the information or I don't know what and you
probably should say something.

Speaker 4 (43:29):
I'm looking it up, right, I get back, I.

Speaker 1 (43:32):
Don't, but I don't. I'm like, I'm gonna hold that
one because it's gonna take a little more thinking or
a little more time or a little more information. And
then I forget to get back to it because I'm
very forgetful. And so that's a that is an issue
for me for sure.

Speaker 5 (43:44):
Right.

Speaker 1 (43:44):
Red Flags for friendships number four. Mocking or minimizing your
boundaries or feelings. Disrespecting boundaries or constantly mocking your feelings
isn't just a red flag. It's bullying. They may play
it off as just a joke, but if they're only
if they're the only ones laughing, then they're breaking your trust.
They might even guess like you into thinking your feelings

(44:05):
aren't valid or that they're being brutally honest, but that's
far from the truth. Someone who truly cares about you
will care about your feelings and respect your boundary very much.

Speaker 8 (44:16):
That is a good one, because when I came back
from Florida and I had to re establish my boundaries
that friends here weren't used to me having, because I
learned new ways in Florida and kind of learned a
new version of me I used to hear from my friends.

Speaker 5 (44:30):
You're so sensitive.

Speaker 8 (44:31):
I'm sensitive because I'm telling you what you're doing is
making me feel a certain way. You're just broken because
you've never had anyone communicating with you openly about.

Speaker 5 (44:38):
What you're doing. If you feel like what you're.

Speaker 8 (44:40):
Doing is not a problem, then maybe you're not a
good person for me, or you don't align with where
I'm going. And so I feel like I'm very very
well in touch with that because I've heard so many
times you always have something to say or you I
feel like I'm never doing something right.

Speaker 2 (44:55):
Now.

Speaker 8 (44:55):
I'm not saying you're not doing nothing right, but I'm
letting you know that what you're doing and how you're
responding to me. It's not right for me, So let
me be honest with you so we can either adjust
this or maybe we can.

Speaker 5 (45:05):
Realize that we no longer align with each other.

Speaker 1 (45:08):
Wow, I know, I just got a text in four
one nine three four five three three seven five. Trey
is my best friend forever.

Speaker 8 (45:17):
Following on social media at Trey t r e y
b u r y on Instagram, Facebook, Me whatever friend
b you r r y berry. Yeah, I want to
be different even though I'm Bury b e r y
on social media, I'm Bury.

Speaker 1 (45:30):
Oh oh, so you can stand out you are? Uh,
Trey is on this radio preaching.

Speaker 4 (45:38):
Yes, hopefully.

Speaker 1 (45:40):
I think I see a new follower. Oh that's for
me though. Sorry, I thought maybe someone wouldn't follow you,
all right? What else? Number five these are six flags.
Number five is acting differently around other people. It's not
uncommon for people to adjust their behavior based on the
social setting they're in or the people they're with. Of course,
you'll act differently at a party than you do at

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school or work. However, acting too faced around certain people
or excluding friends from other groups or activities is a
hurtful form of social manipulation. A friend who acts this
way may only be hanging out with you until they
get a better offer from someone else, at which point
they will ditch you with no remorse. A good friend

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would invite you along and make every effort to include you. Kelly,
are you finding any of this?

Speaker 4 (46:30):
I think that I exclude everybody. So it's if somebody
like texting me, where are you at or do you
want to do something? I just say I'm here, You're
more than welcome to come. And so I'm I'm really
blending a lot of my friends right now and I
like it.

Speaker 1 (46:46):
And do they like it? Because I found I've done
that before where I'm like, hey, I want to pull
these people in and these people together, and then sometimes
some of them would be.

Speaker 4 (46:53):
Weird, Like so my friends know, I'm like, they know
that if they come, they're they're they're going to see
some of my other friends. So it's their choice, right And.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
Finally, your red flags number six six red flags trying
to compete. A healthy friendship is not a competition, and
it can be exhausting when someone constantly tries to one
up you. This often leads to jealousy or resentment on
both sides. Quote, if your friends feel more like opposing
teammates than supportive cheerleaders. Your relationship may have strayed into

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unhealthy territory, but this.

Speaker 5 (47:33):
Is such a man thing.

Speaker 8 (47:34):
And what I mean by that is being in the
position I've been who I feel like I've heard other
guys say you're so lucky.

Speaker 5 (47:42):
I literally hate that. I literally want to punch someone
in the face for.

Speaker 8 (47:44):
That because it's low key at backhand slapping the face
and like to your hard work, yeah, because like so,
my hard work is definitely nothing.

Speaker 5 (47:52):
I just got lucky. Get lucky crazy. But I like
good point being friends with guys.

Speaker 8 (47:57):
I think guys are generally competitors, and so when you
are constantly doing good or they feel like you're doing
better than them, it causes some type of silent resentment
or undercover shade, which kind of falls in with the
acting different around other people. So I've had friends who
put the competition and acting different when you're around other
people because they try to minimize you or demean you

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as a joke of the plot to make themselves feel
more than And I feel like, if we're friends, why
are we not sitting at the same table. Instead, you're
trying to sit me down at a kid table because
you're trying to make yourself feel more than.

Speaker 5 (48:31):
What you should. We should be equal, equal parts.

Speaker 4 (48:33):
Your I feel like women do that too, and I
really do. And it's like my success doesn't diminisure, right.

Speaker 1 (48:41):
Yeah, people need to realize, like you said, it's because
I'm successful and your success, it's not. It's not a
either or I could be successful you. We can all
be successful.

Speaker 8 (48:51):
I just generally think men sometimes are a little harder
on themselves when they feel they're behind or they're not
where they want to be, just because not only do
men compete with other men, when women judgment on how
successful they are. Whether women want to agree to that,
most women nowadays aren't trying to date a man who
has less than what a woman's already bringing to a table.

Speaker 1 (49:09):
It's interesting to say because like for me, like I
watch I watched an interview with Brian Cranston yesterday. He
was breaking bad and he was the dad on Malcolm
in the Middle, and he said he's he's a third
generation actor. His dad was an actor or whatever, and
then now his daughter's an actor and so following his footsteps.
And I'm like, well, man, that must be cool or
or like I look at uh, I look at uh.

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There was a guy locally at Channel eleven and his
daughter's like Anna intern with him for the summer, and
she's so excited, and I'm like, my kids, they don't
want to have anything to do with what I have,
what I do, Like, they don't have anything to do
with podcasting, they don't want to anything do with radio.
They don't want to have anything to do with food trucks.
And I feel almost like they don't value what I do.
And I feel sad like that that I'm that I'm

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missing this time because I don't do it like I
would want to be. Hey, I want my kid to
work the food trug with me. I want you you know,
I want you guys to have your own podcast, like
all this stuff and nothing nothing, and so it makes
it makes you feel like a failure almost like man,
they don't want to be a part of anything.

Speaker 4 (50:09):
Like different interest.

Speaker 1 (50:11):
Yeah, but it's just it's like they don't value what
you do, like they don't like they don't think you're
what you do is meaningful enough for them to want
to do it. I don't know. I guess I judge
myself on that like you said, men judge themselves hard
like that's one of the that's where it made me
click on that about.

Speaker 5 (50:25):
That also could be a lesson.

Speaker 8 (50:26):
No, you could take that lesson and instead of uh,
you feel like they don't value what you do, maybe
you should deep dive into what they are invested in
so you can find value and what they like so
you can kind of collaborate together to find how you
can make that you meet.

Speaker 1 (50:41):
That's a that's a good idea. Now, that's a good idea.
So these are the red flags only reaching out when
they need something. Uh for friends? Red flags friends never apologizing,
just moving on, having terrible communication, mocking or minimizing your
boundaries or feelings, acting differently around other people, and trying
to come all right before we get out of here,

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we get to give me this left normal or note.
People text in and they want to know if they
have done this, if they would they do this thing?
Is it normal or is it weird? I frequently buy something,
regret it and immediately return it. Normal or Nope, frequently
buy something, regret it and immediately return it. I do
not do that. No, No, Kelly.

Speaker 4 (51:23):
I return a lot.

Speaker 2 (51:24):
Do you really?

Speaker 4 (51:24):
But it's not that I regret it. It's just like
I buy a lot, so I return alive, but it
does not. If it doesn't, if I don't feel good
on it, I just return it.

Speaker 1 (51:33):
But why clothing or what do you mean?

Speaker 5 (51:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (51:36):
And I don't.

Speaker 4 (51:36):
I don't shop at traditionally because it takes too much time.
So I'll order, like, you know, clothes or whatever. If
it doesn't fit or it doesn't I don't like it,
I just take it back. And so I can take
I can order like three hundred dollars worth of clothes
and take back two hundred and fifty of it.

Speaker 1 (51:52):
You know, did you know that I was reading this
morning that that there is a see if I can
find it real quick, and it's about ordering stuff or
returning a lot of stuff that you get on you
you'll get on a list, like they'll put you on
a list.

Speaker 4 (52:07):
It can affect Amazon does not get mad at me
because I buy so much from Amazon. But when I
turned things back, they're in the exact shape of what
you what they brought to me. I'm like, I know
you don't take off the tags.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
No, no, I know, But they say that just returning
it can affect your even like your credit score and
stuff like if you if you, if you're.

Speaker 5 (52:28):
Like obsessed about it or not anyways.

Speaker 1 (52:31):
Any.

Speaker 2 (52:33):
All right?

Speaker 1 (52:34):
Someone said, Nope, that's not normal. So yeah, buying something
regretting it immediately returning it is not normal. Someone is
is it normal?

Speaker 5 (52:41):
Or or no?

Speaker 1 (52:43):
That when something breaks in my house, I buy another
one on Amazon and I send the bad one back.

Speaker 5 (52:49):
A lot smart?

Speaker 1 (52:50):
That is normal. Smart smart. I don't know what it's illegal,
but it's unethical.

Speaker 5 (52:57):
But I don't breaking though, so but it is smart. Yeah, Mike,
that is smart. I've never I don't break a lot
of things, but that is smart like that.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
I mean, it's normal for I've done it? Have you
done it?

Speaker 4 (53:09):
Kill now?

Speaker 1 (53:09):
See I've never. I don't know if I've never done Amazon,
but then the Walmart, Like if I if I buy
like a fan and then it broke, so I just
get another fan. I'll put the broke one in there
and brand model change it. I don't know. I don't remember.
I think it was older, maybe out of warranty or
some shit. I don't know. So a normal or note
I will tell people I'm on my way even though
I'm still in bed, or have never left that I

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haven't left the house.

Speaker 4 (53:32):
I hate people like you. It's not normal.

Speaker 1 (53:37):
People do it all the time. I think they they
exaggerate how far away they are.

Speaker 8 (53:42):
I I don't want to go, so like, if I
don't want to go, I'm literally like waiting until the
last minute to even properly prepare for this. But if
if I want to go somewhere, I'm usually there on time.
But if I don't want to go, yeah, I'm probably
going to wait till last minute. I'm on my way
thirty minutes ago.

Speaker 1 (53:58):
So is that one normal or nope? You tell people
you're on your way even know you're still a normal or.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
Note the same?

Speaker 5 (54:05):
Maybe maybe it depends.

Speaker 1 (54:07):
All right, We're we're in the middle on that one
another one four one nine three four five three three
seven five. Is it normal that when my best friends
close don't fit him or he doesn't like it anymore,
I steal them and then tell him later when I'm
wearing it.

Speaker 8 (54:22):
Ye, I have a friend who does that. You're my
best room from Florida's Easy. She used to raid my
closet and she'd be like, I haven't seen you wear this,
it's mine now, and.

Speaker 5 (54:30):
So yeah, she collects a lot of my clothes. So
it's normal, you say, I think so.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
I don't know that that one doesn't. That's not normal
to me. I don't know what about you kellt not
normal on you? All right, let's see I make faces
in the mirror just to see what I'd look like
in different moods. Not normal, everyone says, Everyone says, not normal.

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I will open and close the refridge the fridge repeatedly
hoping new food appear.

Speaker 4 (55:01):
I done that.

Speaker 2 (55:02):
I've done that.

Speaker 1 (55:03):
That is normal, dude, I've opened it. Then I'll go
to the cabinet. Then I'll come back to the fridge
and I'll go back to the cabinet.

Speaker 8 (55:09):
You just got to make sure you might have some
ingredients and make some chop kids and stuff and throw
throw it together.

Speaker 1 (55:13):
Last minute, I rewind. I will rewatch a show I've
already seen just for comfort, normal or nope. We talked
of that yesterday. I think everyone's got their go to,
like what's your go to? Like, Hey, if it's on,
I'm gonna watch it.

Speaker 8 (55:29):
Well, I get out firm watcher of Lelo and Stitch,
and so I literally played that movie all the time
on Disney Plus the new one, you know, the old one.
Like I was a Lelan Stitch fan from Jump like uh,
but I put that on his background noise. Even when
I was little, I used to same same thing Grinch.
I don't even know why. It could be summer and
I would throw the Grinch on. But that was a
hilarious movie with Jim Carrey. And so I feel like,

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like I said, adoh, I don't have the full attention span,
but every now and then I'll jump in.

Speaker 5 (55:55):
Like that's my favorite part. And so I have parts
of things that I like to watch.

Speaker 1 (55:58):
So I know you don't like to watch a movie
because you say your ADHD is bad, But what about
the new Lelo and Stitch? The new.

Speaker 8 (56:06):
I'm gonna go see it, you are, but I think
I'm gonna wait, I'm gonna I think someone said it's
gonna be at Disney plus you and so, like, I'm
more of that type guy. I like to watch things
from the comfort of my own home. I'm for real
a homebody who has social ways, and so every now
and then I like to go out and do things.
But there's even a time limit on that. Like I'm
an Irish goodbye guy. So you see me when you
see me, and then when you won't, you won't.

Speaker 1 (56:28):
All right, that is a normal or nope?

Speaker 5 (56:29):
All right, Trey.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
If people can get a hold of you, how do
they do it?

Speaker 8 (56:32):
They're gonna find me on Instagram at uh the at
symbol t r eu y b u r r y.
I believe that's my TikTok as well, Uh Trey Berry
t r e y b u r r y. And
then on Facebook, I am just tray Berry. That's me
e or b u b e on Facebook, I'm just
my regular self on the Facebook.

Speaker 1 (56:51):
Okay, let's see. Someone is to tell me tell me
your single without telling me your single. I watched Lilo
and Stitch as a grown ass man.

Speaker 8 (57:01):
Because what else am I gonna do in the comfort
of my own home where I pay bills?

Speaker 2 (57:05):
All Right?

Speaker 1 (57:05):
If somebody and if you need a house goes call
Kelly Latts. Kelly Latts is the Queen of property. She
will definitely get your household. And then I'm gonna be
out today. I'm actually in two hours, I'm gonna be
serving at Taylor Automotive in Finley. So me doing lunch
at Taylor Auto. If so Taylor Keia Taylor Key and Finley,
so come on and see me.

Speaker 2 (57:24):
All right. That's it.

Speaker 1 (57:25):
Thank you so much hanging out with us. We appreciate.
We'll see you next week. Have a great day and
we'll talk to you later. And by the way, if
you miss sing the show, get it on a podcast
wherever you get your podcast. Talk to later well.

Speaker 2 (57:34):
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