Andrew Z in the Morning! 6.12.2025 - Hour 1

Andrew Z in the Morning! 6.12.2025 - Hour 1

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dive ADHD and I lively got like a two minute
tensions van.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Yeah, turn your audio down, turn your audio down on this,
on your on your path. Oh it's Kelly, not you,
not you. So you don't watch movies at all?

Speaker 1 (00:15):
No, I suck at watching movies. I'm like five minutes
and then I'm on my phone. It must be like
a generational thing, like you know, young but old at
the same time.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
So I do get on my phone.

Speaker 4 (00:26):
I can't help myself, but I go early in the
morning a lot of times, so no one else is
in the theater except me.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
And yeah, see for me, it drives me crazy when
people are on the phone. I know, put your damn phone.
If we're gonna watch this, we're gonna watch it together.
Don't half ass.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
You know, some of us can do two things at once.

Speaker 5 (00:46):
I'm not one of them.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
Their women.

Speaker 5 (00:51):
It's a superpower.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
But yeah, so I guess the supermovie comes out in
like a month, and uh wait, really it looks really good.
And like I said, as a kid, remember when Christopher Reid,
the first Superman came out, we were My family was
obsessed with it, like I have my mom do like
a curl of perm curl in my hair.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
Like that.

Speaker 2 (01:16):
But oh, you know what I did watch yesterday on
Steve Remi's recommendation. I watched that movie titan which is
a documentary about these people who two years ago, about
a year and a half ago, they got into submarine.
This rich Jude was about to got the submarine and
took paying customers down to down to see the Titanic

(01:39):
and then it just it just imploded and killed them all.

Speaker 5 (01:42):
Ocean Gate, Yeah, ocean Gate, ocean Gate y.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah, that's the name of the company, was ocean Gate.
And I watched it. It was it was a documentary, so
it's you know, it's all real life stuff. And they
had because he was rich and they were doing something different.
There was a lot of video footage of like leading
up to it and stuff. And I think the most
interesting part of the movie was that everyone everyone's smart, like, oh,
he had like some of the best scientists and engineers.

(02:11):
Everyone told him your ship is fucked up, like everyone
told him, and he'd and and he would just start
either they fired or got quit or quit because they
weren't being listened to all. And then all he had
around him was people that were yes, men, and and
that was his demise because everyone told him do this.
So he was using microfiber. I think he was using

(02:31):
my carbon carbon fiber, some sort of fibers where it's
just a bunch of there are a bunch of fibers
and they make a hard substance. And that's what he
was using for a submarine. No one had ever used
that stuff. And they and they had a sound thing
because every time you go down like some of the
fibers would break, so and they would. You can hear that.

(02:51):
You can hear the audio. It's it's kind of creepy.
You hear the audio. Hear him breaking, and they tell him,
it's like, dude, you can't use this material down No
one's ever used his material down here. But it was
cheaper than going with like a steal or something cheaper.

Speaker 5 (03:03):
Yeah, the bottom most of using cheaper materials.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah, that's you. And then his his test kept failing,
and I'm like, get away from the fucking carbon fiber
whatever you're because it's insane. And of course he ended
up being he thought he thought it was uh. He
called Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos like big dicks, and
he wanted to be a big dick analogy lay at him.

(03:28):
It was. It was good when it was called Titan.
It was a really I don't know about our forty minutes.
It was really a really good movie. You should check
it out if you get it. If you look for
something to h to watch this weekend and it's National
beef Jerky Day, National jerky Day today, you guys eat jerky.

Speaker 5 (03:43):
I do.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
It's good for protein, actually it is. So it's like
a good snack out the day. I'm like a horrible snacker.
So if I do do snacks, it's gotta be something quick.
I actually am horrible at eating over on this big
so it makes no sense. Gotta be a genetic.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
What do you mean horrible? If eating? What do you mean?

Speaker 5 (03:58):
I eat like one time a day? Really, yeah, one time.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
But you work out all the time. You're supposed to
like six me.

Speaker 5 (04:03):
I know, that's just I don't know, man, I don't
do it. I don't got the time.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
I literally will eat after I work out, which is
usually like an eight thirty nine o'clock at night. I
usually start my morning with like a protein shake and
a bottle of water, and then that gets me through
the whole day.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
Wow, it's weird. It's weird.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
My boss at work all the time, she'll be like,
do you want to order lunch on a card? And
she's offering me free food and I'm turning it down. Wow,
not hungry, you know what happens? Like I'm one of
the people like if I eat, I immediately will get
tired afterwards, and so like, I think, years of just
not eating throughout the day and staying on go has
just like became like a habit for me. So food
isn't really a thought until my day is completely done

(04:40):
and I'm settling down.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
Who are you a weirdo?

Speaker 5 (04:44):
A weirdo?

Speaker 2 (04:44):
You're such a weirdo.

Speaker 5 (04:45):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
As I get older, too, I feel like food used
to fascinate me so much in my younger like twenties.
I don't know what happened when I got here, but
now I'm like so indecisive when it comes to eating.
Nothing ever sounds good. But when I am hungry, I'm hungry,
but nothing sounds good.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Question because you and last time you were here, you're
you're a bigger guy, and you obviously have been taking
care of yourself and I see you in the gym
all the time you really do you think some of
it is like I'm scared to go back because you know,
I'm scared to go back to what I was. I
put so much work in.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
I don't think so because I am such lot Like
I'm I'm a lifestyle change is so locked in that
the gym is a must for me every day. Like
if I don't go to the gym, then I'm not
really having the best day. The gym is how I
complete my day. So I very rarely ever skipped the gym,
missed the gym. I take it to the extreme of
like literally, if I'm going out with friends on a
Friday night or if I have dinner plans, I'm still
gonna figure out how I can fit the gym into

(05:36):
that before I go to these plans, whether if I
had to get up earlier and go to the gym
before I go to work. But this lifestyle change was
a phenomenal one for me. Honestly, I feel so much better,
Like I feel like a completely different person.

Speaker 2 (05:48):
Really, see I wish and I've talked with this. I'm
never gonna they say that you those indoor fins that
the release when you work out. Man, I'm there I
just don't have I've worked out before, and I just
they're not thing, and I wish they were. But it's
always going to be a struggle for me working out,
and every minute I do it, I hate it, like
it'll want to be done.

Speaker 3 (06:08):
But once it becomes a habit, it changes.

Speaker 4 (06:11):
I mean, I hate it too, Dude, I hate it too,
but it does I agree with him. If you don't
work out and you're used to that, then it's up
your day.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
But I promise you, like I was out a point
in my life, I've worked out. I guess on and
off my entire life. This is probably the most consistent
I've ever been. But I used to hate the gym.
And let's be very clear, I'm pretty sure there's people
like me who work out every day and there's days
I hate going to the gym and I don't want
to go. But that's where dedication, determination takes over anything.
Because I'm here to continue a journey to make a

(06:41):
healthier lifestyle for me. So if I don't go to
the gym, then I'm giving up on myself. So it's
more of a self thing that I'm focused on. I'm
working on being better each day by one percent, and
this is all part of that plan.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
Good for you, man.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
So how long do you work out?

Speaker 6 (06:55):
For?

Speaker 5 (06:55):
Two hours? And so it's a process.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
So generally I will go to the gym and I'll
start off with thirty five to forty five minutes of cardio.
After I'm done with that, I will do a ten
minute sauna session before I start lifting. I live for
about forty five minutes to an hour and then I'll
end with another ten minute sauna session before I leave.

Speaker 2 (07:12):
Now, you're so busy? Do you Are you tired?

Speaker 5 (07:15):
Are you I'm tired today?

Speaker 3 (07:18):
I was tired.

Speaker 2 (07:19):
Really, yeah, there'll be Do you do you uh your drugs?
Do you have a girl in your life?

Speaker 3 (07:26):
No?

Speaker 1 (07:26):
Single forever. I told you this last time, because I
don't have the time right now. It's not a part
of the plan for me. I feel like that would
slow me down. I know that there's a lot of
people can multitask that, but what everything that I have
going on for myself, I don't think that I would
be able to do as much as I'm doing if
I had to entertain someone else. It's not that that
I am not looking for that. I can't say I'm
not looking for It's not that I'm not open to

(07:48):
that right now, that just doesn't have a place in
my I don't think I could provide someone the time
that they would require.

Speaker 5 (07:53):
Do you that's selfish? Do they? I hook up with people.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Okay for sure?

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've have like reoccurring people that I
hang out with. But I feel like, again it's I'm
not looking for that. It has no value for me
at this time. I like to travel. For instance, I'm
going to San Diego next month for a week. Then
the month after that, I'm going to Virginia Beach. The
month after that, I'm going to Austin, Texas.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
You like your vacation.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
I mean I like to travel, and I like to
put myself in positions where one day, when I do
settle down, I'm properly prepared for that. But again, a
person requires time, and if I can't give you my
time and attention, then I'm literally just playing with you.

Speaker 2 (08:29):
So when you go on these trips, do you go
by yourself?

Speaker 1 (08:32):
It depends on the trip. So the one to San Diego,
I'm going there because I have a friend that lives there.
Virginia Beach, I'm going by myself, Austin, Texas. I was
literally going by myself, but then a group of friends
were like, I want to go, so then they're jumping
on train with me. But San Diego trip more or
less is for me to find out if I like
the city because I'm going to relocate in a year
and a half to two years, so I'm kind of
trying to dabble in where i want.

Speaker 5 (08:53):
To live at.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
Oh my gosh, So I was just watching Maybe reels
and there's a girl that's kind of your age, and
she decided that she's going to relocate in a year,
and so you're going on her journey with her. So
every month she picks a city and she's considering living
and spends a week there and then like documents like
all the places and then rates it at the end.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
And that's kind of like kind of what I'm doing
because when I moved to Florida, I went to Miami, Tampa,
Saint Pee, Cocoa Beach. I did that for about a
year and a half where I was taking a trip
every two months, and I was doing like a Thursday
night flight and I'd come back late Sunday, So I
was like not missing much work, taking a Friday off,
so I was just eight hours of vacation time. And

(09:37):
then I think I went to Florida a total of
sixteen times in a year and a half before I
locked in on Saint Pete and Tampa and I was like,
this is it because I can get beach, I can
get the big city, I can have a great job,
and I can alternate this all. I lived there for
four and a half years, and I think it was
one of the best decisions of my entire life. I
came back to Toledo. Not that I don't love Toledo. I'm

(09:57):
always gonna love it. This is my home, but there
is so much much more out there.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
And I'm just and you're young, you're a baby.

Speaker 5 (10:07):
I don't know. My knees in my back would say otherwise. Promise.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
It's funny because San Diego. I have two favorite cities
in the entire world for me, and San Diego is
one of the two. San Antonio's the other one. But
San Diego is so beautiful, so beautiful, Sonny, and seventy
three hundred and sixty five days a year, and it's
just such a vibe. Man, You're gonna love San Diego.

Speaker 5 (10:29):
Let's keep our fingers crossed. The riots. Don't make it
down there crazy.

Speaker 2 (10:34):
Please, Hey, Kelly, why is you're You're all blurry like
you got to filter on or something.

Speaker 3 (10:38):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (10:39):
Maybe it's my maybe myling, maybe my camera is dirty.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
Maybe so I don't know, but I have no filter.

Speaker 2 (10:46):
But I do have to say I have to give
my friend Connie Hayley passed away. I just saw that
on Facebook this morning. She has been a lifelong supporter
of every show, every crazy business, everything I've ever done.
Connie is such an amazing woman, and cancer got her. Yeah.
I met Connie because we were doing a contest for

(11:08):
New Orleans and it was the longest boobs. Connie came
in the studio. She had the.

Speaker 4 (11:14):
Longest boobsh what you guys did the craziest ship?

Speaker 2 (11:21):
I know?

Speaker 4 (11:22):
Isn't it better? I can't tell you you're okay? I
cleaned my camera.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
Goodness, sorry, someone said Kelly. Stoner said high tray.

Speaker 5 (11:32):
Oh Kelly, what's up? How you doing?

Speaker 2 (11:36):
Yeah? So anyway, what else? All right, let's get into that.
There's a lot of news. Let's get into the news,
all right.

Speaker 5 (11:43):
Here you go.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
Man sentenced to decades in prison for a Toledo drive
by shootings, including one that injured a toddler. Young guy
man Joseph McNamara now sentenced. I'm sorry the judge Joseph
McNamara sentence Ethan Smith to forty two years in prison
on June eleventh.

Speaker 3 (12:02):
And how old is he?

Speaker 2 (12:03):
I mean, he looks like he's the thirty age. Yeah.
Authorities are still searching for that inmate who escaped on
June sixth from the Lucas County treatment facility. He dude
was in shackles, he was in handcuffs. He rolled out
of the car and just started running. And they still
can't find him. I want, yeah, no.

Speaker 5 (12:28):
Doubt, world ends got to find him. I need him.
I need him.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
He made Kelly storm. She hadn't snorted all weekend.

Speaker 3 (12:35):
I'll think I did too. Yesterday.

Speaker 2 (12:38):
Okay, all right, a driver crashed into the Toledo Repertoire
Theater main gate. It's getting ready for upcoming shows too,
but they're now facing some traffic and parking concerns because
of that. Did you hear about this story? This dog?
So a family dropped their dog off at Pupp's Paradise

(12:58):
in Perrysburg and got a call less than a day
later that their dog had been found dead. Yeah, Nala.
It was a twelve year old Chihuahua, So just a
little thing. I mean it was twelve, I know, and
at Chihuahua because they don't. But we get here we
have so she They dropped their pup off on June fifth,
when the owners, Raoul Morello and Maria Aria, got a

(13:20):
call the following day saying there was an emergency. They
only boarded her when necessary. It was just a handful
of times, they say. She always wanted to be held.
Her owners left her pup Paradise before with no issues.
Before this most recent state, Nala had to go through
a temperament test, which she passed. Pup's Paradise said dogs
are grouped by temperament and play style, not just size,

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So again it was a little Chihuahua. So Nala was
dropped off. The next day, Marilla and Aria, who the
mom and dad, got the call that has disrupted their lives.
They had just landed in Florida and her daughter got
video from Paradise that Nala was found. In the video,
dozens of dogs were seen walking around with two workers nearby.

(14:07):
Once they start to clear. Nala is found on the
ground by a worker with bite marks on her neck.
One of the bigger dogs, Bitter Jugular, and they say
that she may have been dead instantly.

Speaker 3 (14:21):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 4 (14:23):
See that's what I do, not listen, I pay someone
to come live at my house and sleep with my guys.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
Someone else said down on one of the Perrysburg pages
that we don't board our dog.

Speaker 4 (14:33):
I have the most wonderful girl that does it, and
she's like, only charges me forty dollars a day. So
but of course I pay her more because my dogs
are high maintenance.

Speaker 2 (14:41):
Uh huh.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
I need that other dog on a block by tomorrow,
the one who bid its neck geese.

Speaker 3 (14:46):
They don't know which one right because.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
Of the whole gotta go. Well. They knew that they
knew their dog was getting older, but I mean you
don't because, like you said, she's twelve, But I mean
you don't expect her to be No.

Speaker 1 (14:57):
I didn't expect it was going to end like that
when you said paradise. For some reason, instantly thought groomer.
When I was younger, my mom took a dog to
the groomer had a flea dip, and then that was
the last dip. Then it dipped like I guess the
fleet dip. It's like very toxic. So if it's done wrong,
it can kill your dog. It can go in like
sepsis or anti shock or something whatever. But my dog

(15:17):
got flee dipped and then it came home and then
it was slabbery and then it was dead.

Speaker 4 (15:21):
Oh my god, out of my life. I think I
would just but back to the.

Speaker 5 (15:27):
Dog, I definitely feel yeah, I wouldn't board a dog either.
I don't even trust dog parks.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
I don't have a dog, but I've had my mom
has two huskies. We've had dogs my entire life. I
I just don't think. I don't trust dog parks. Not
that I don't trust my dogs or my mom's dogs.
I don't trust other people's other people know how to
properly train, you know, not even that when dogs start fighting,
it's really hard to get in between that. My mom
had dogs my entire life. I've been in between my

(15:53):
own dogs fight and I've been attacked by dog.

Speaker 5 (15:55):
So like, no, I'm good, I'm good.

Speaker 2 (15:57):
Actually they had a video, they had video, did an investigation,
but basically some a big dog just took a bite
at a nala and and right in the jugular and
she died instantly. Now pup's paradise. They put a statement online,
but people are are roasting them pretty hard. I guess
this's happened a few years ago, maybe with another dog,
and they're saying that they should have never put never

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allowed a big dog to be around a little dog
like that. But like they said, they do it by
not size, they do it by by temperament. And a
lot of people said the same thing. This is dumb.
They said, it's dumb. Right they're saying, I mean, they're
saying people are saying they do a test before, but

(16:40):
they're saying people, no, they need to shut it down.

Speaker 5 (16:44):
Who's doing the test?

Speaker 2 (16:46):
I don't know, man, it's crazy. So I don't know
what we're gonna say.

Speaker 3 (16:51):
I mean, do you stay have a dog in drug
his dog to take the test?

Speaker 2 (16:56):
Right community members say the former Right eight locations are
becoming an ice sore, you know, all over northwest Ohio
and then in Michigan too, that all these ridings have
filed for bankruptcy. And the problem is they've all had
these prime spots right on corners, so that these empty
buildings are becoming an ice sore, and they're like, and

(17:16):
no one wants that bigg a building. Like I agree
that that prime real estate and that bigger building. I mean,
people can't they people don't want to put their businesses
in there, so they're just sitting there empty.

Speaker 5 (17:26):
We got two options, car wash or dollars.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
Jesus or vape shop shot. It's all we got is.

Speaker 5 (17:33):
Time that might actually boom.

Speaker 2 (17:34):
Everybody vapes well, but there's a vape shop on every corner.

Speaker 5 (17:37):
Not enough two seconds.

Speaker 2 (17:40):
They need more, I know they are. It's bad. Well,
and is the problem is can you get secondhand smoke
from vape? I've been wondering because because my wife she'll
just vape wherever now, like before you go outside and smoke,
and now with the vaping, she's just vapes anywhere. I'm like,
I'm inhaling this. I don't smell anything, but I don't
think it could be good. I need I need to

(18:01):
figure it out. Breaking news on an Air India passenger
plane bound for London crash shortly after takeoff. This just
happened this morning. Air India said two hundred and forty
two passengers and crew were on board, including one hundred
and sixty nine Indians, fifty three British, seven Portuguese and
a Canadian. They said the flight was involved in an incident.

(18:24):
It was an immediately clear how many casualties there were,
but there you go. So that that again happened in
air India. Crash that took off in India's western city
of a'm abada Amabadad.

Speaker 5 (18:37):
I'm about a crash.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
Jesus right, bro. Cities across the US are joining in
solid solidarity with anti ICE protests in Los Angeles, where
National Guard troops now have the authority to make temporary
arrests under certain conditions. Everywhere from New York to San Francisco,
New York. I mean, it's just there's protests everywhere else.

Speaker 5 (18:58):
Watching Saturday. You're in Toledo. I don't know if you
guys know the note Kings protest.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
Yeah, where's it at.

Speaker 5 (19:04):
There's gonna be one downtown.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
I believe, Uh, there's one downtown.

Speaker 5 (19:09):
There's one on Central.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
I know the one on Central starts at like three
or four Central and Secorp. I can't remember if Downtown
was eleven am. I think Downtown might be eleven am
and then Central is I'm pretty positive. But either way,
I'm gonna be at work and I wish I could go. Yeah,
I'm like, this is definitely my type of event.

Speaker 2 (19:25):
Well, it's funny because and I know we have a
lot of Trump supporters listening. I wonder if any of
them are are just disturbed at all by this, by this,
this parade on so well, this parade on Saturday where
they're gonna have military vehicles all rolling through like it's
a South It's like a North Korea type parade where
the military's is rolling through town and it's for his birthday,

(19:47):
and it's just weird. It's all weird. Even Republicans are like,
this is weird. It's one Republican said, this is a Republican.
Here's a Trump sport. He said, Look, lions don't have
to tell you they're a lion. The jungle knows that
they're a lying And there's just something weird that we
don't usually do stuff like this. We don't have we
don't have to show our military MC people just know

(20:09):
know who we are, like, we don't have to do that,
and it's just.

Speaker 5 (20:11):
Such a weird character. He is such a weird Did
you see that?

Speaker 2 (20:15):
Elon Musk now apologize for a bunch of the tweets weirder.
He's even a weirder one. Literally, So Elon tuoted, I
regret some of the posts I made about the President.
They went too far, and uh and Elon and and
Trump talked on the phone yesterday, so Elon basically came
a little bit exact.

Speaker 1 (20:38):
Someone on My Life said they had twenty seven people
detained in the last few days in green Bat. Maybe
that was Green Bay. I don't know what green Bat is.
Maybe green Bay.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
Yeah, it's crazy. And again they're supposed to go after criminals.
We're all in a green like if you want to,
if you want to, if you want to unite both sides,
deport the criminals.

Speaker 5 (20:59):
That was like, uh, And it did make a good point.

Speaker 1 (21:02):
It was basically saying that there's Russian immigrants, there's Polish immigrants.
Why are we so focused on the Hispanic immigrants?

Speaker 6 (21:08):
You know?

Speaker 1 (21:09):
I feel like I also didn't see any Russian immigrants
being deported or anything like that. Well, another thing too,
is is, uh, didn't he just bring immigrants from South
Africa here?

Speaker 2 (21:23):
Immigrants?

Speaker 5 (21:23):
I'm not understanding what's the picking and choosing around here?

Speaker 2 (21:26):
And the other problem too, is that people it's very
people like, well, if you didn't come here legally, then
you got to go. But what people don't understand, and
you've got to get past the headline, and it's the
immigration system is broken. The process to get here is broken.
If you're desperate, if your family is starving and you
have no future, or you're being targeted because you know

(21:47):
you again the government is targeting you, you're gonna do
if you're desperate, you're gonna do whatever you can to
get here. So if if which are everyone agree, both
sides agree are our system is broken? And so people
would get here however they can. They want to be
where it's free and where they have a chance and free.

Speaker 5 (22:06):
There's not even any chances it might be.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
Arty chances anymore. Nintendo Switch is the second it's from
the Nintendo Switch to is the fastest selling game console
of all time. I believe are you a gamer?

Speaker 1 (22:21):
I used to be a gamer, but I don't have
time to game, so it'd be down. But I could
believe that the Nintendo switches because that's like the Game Boy.
It can be you can set it up at home
and you can make it a handheld. So it's it's
multi versatile, and I feel like you can game at
home and keep gaming in the car.

Speaker 5 (22:40):
So I feel like it's good for little kids.

Speaker 2 (22:42):
What's the hot game? Is still Grand Theft Auto? Is
that like to be?

Speaker 5 (22:44):
I mean, I think Call of Duty? I don't know now.
I retired gaming a long time ago.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
A man in Florida assaulted another man with a machete,
and then the attacker gave the victim a ride to
the hospital the.

Speaker 5 (23:00):
East side of Toledo.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
Man, what what is your what is your number one
beverage that you cannot live without?

Speaker 5 (23:09):
Sparkling water?

Speaker 2 (23:10):
Really sparkling water.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
Like flavor, like the big bottles from Krogers that are
like seventy nine cents there there.

Speaker 5 (23:15):
They taste it tastes just like pot. But it's water.

Speaker 2 (23:18):
Okay, it's carbonated, Yes, carbonated? What about you kill wine? Wine?
That is the number one you can't go without?

Speaker 3 (23:28):
Yeah, I'm a realator.

Speaker 2 (23:29):
Well, this is America has spoken the number one drink
that they cannot live without is coffee.

Speaker 3 (23:37):
Yeah that's my second really coffee? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (23:40):
Yeah, you can't do coffee like messes up my adderall bro.
I literally will like start freaking and buzzing out.

Speaker 2 (23:47):
Really yeah, oh my god, like heart.

Speaker 5 (23:49):
Palpitations and everything starts sweating. Wow, I can't do it.

Speaker 2 (23:52):
Yeah, they said coffee is the number one, the most
important drink that you cannot live without nowadays. In ranking
of fast food business, fast food places is in. Here's
the top ten. Checkers and Rallies at number ten. Of them,
they're only give at number ten, number nine as Hardy's,

(24:12):
number eight is Zaxby's, number seven is no, I'm sorry, Hardy's, Rby's,
Zaxby's raising canes at six, Chick fil A at five,
bo Jangles at four, Freddy's Frozen Custard at three, which
we don't have, Shake Shack two, and in and out
number one, really yeah, number.

Speaker 5 (24:33):
One, and they're in select cities. That's crazy. McDonald's didn't
make the list.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
McDonald's actually made the worst. If you're noticing some of
the places made the worst list, here goes. These are
the five Oh, these are the five worst. Here are
the five worst. Popeyes, Churches, Burger King, McDonald's, KFC.

Speaker 5 (24:50):
I'm surprised Chappole wasn't on there.

Speaker 2 (24:51):
Yeah, it's always busy, Yeah, it is always busy.

Speaker 5 (24:54):
Liter right, they never have nothing. That's probably why.

Speaker 2 (24:58):
In the end of an era, no one wants front
hotel front desks anymore. They seventy percent of American travelers
are more likely to check themselves in using an app
or a self service kiosk instead of walking up to
a traditional front desk. They say, it's one of the
things that really could probably go. They don't. I don't
we use them. We stayed at a hotel a couple
of weeks ago and we used the front desk still,

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but an automated checkown.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
They always use them because I like to, especially if
I'm coming in and I don't know the area, I
want to ask them, where's the best where's the best steakhouse?

Speaker 3 (25:31):
Where's this? Where is that?

Speaker 4 (25:32):
I'm always asking them and they're giving their suggestions, Yeah,
because I want to know. And then I don't just
take their word for it, you know, because I want
I just ask everybody.

Speaker 3 (25:43):
I want to go to the best place.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
Right, No, I agree, especially if you've never been there before.

Speaker 4 (25:48):
Yeah, I mean if and who knows if you're going
to be back, So you want to experience everything, you know, So.

Speaker 2 (25:53):
This one is interesting. Bartenders are supposedly annoyed because young
gen zers don't don't leave their bar tabs open like
older people do. And here's here's what they're saying. Why
it's say some of it's due to budget habits of
younger adults. But they say by opening a tab and
saying yep, I'm buying a round of drinks and closing

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it after that, you know you know how much you're spending.
So instead just leaving it open, the drunker you get,
you just kind of start throwing shit on there and
your bill goes higher. And younger people aren't about that. Plus,
they say, the younger people like to irish goodbye, so
you can't roll out. You you don't want to have
to go to the bar before you before you roll out,
or if it's busy, you don't want to have to wait.

(26:35):
So people they're just using it, buying their drinks, taking
their card back, and then just going just going about
their their business.

Speaker 1 (26:42):
And I see both sides because I used to bar
tend and I'm also one people who doesn't like to
keep tab opens because I like to irish goodbye and
getting to the bar to get your tab closed. They're
not really trying to service you for that. If you're
not getting another drink. They wanted you to make money,
not cash out, so I could see it, but it
is frustrating, especially and you're like trying to make a
million drinks and then you got to run a card again.

Speaker 5 (27:02):
But I could see both sides.

Speaker 1 (27:04):
So maybe they should have a self service tap or
cash out or something right at the bar.

Speaker 5 (27:09):
That would be a good like tablets or something or handheld.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
We do we are we at the point where everyone
knows how to use like a self service kiosk, now
because I know, I mean we at the grocery store
kind of trained us. And then now McDonald's has the
self service kiosk and everyone kind of has that now, right,
I mean we know how to use them.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
To be honest, in some places it's very fitting. I
feel like that would be very fitting at a bar
as well. Like even if at a bar they had
many tablets around and that you could order your own
drink then pay, then the tickets could come out with bartender.
Then a bartender could really just focus on making drinks
and I happened to entertain everybody around them.

Speaker 2 (27:42):
But then would you would you put a tip? Why
would you you put a tip drink you're making drink.
I mean, yah, someone just checked into a hotel yesterday
and would wouldn't always prefer a person. Okay, I got
another one here, my wife or No. I've never heard
of an Irish goodbye before, but I have heard of
the Mexican book Goodbye. And that's when I shows up

(28:03):
at your front door. No, what's an Irish hello?

Speaker 1 (28:11):
You come into a friend group blacked out, drunk already,
and so instead of leaving and dipping out, you come
in a train rat.

Speaker 5 (28:20):
I learned that in Florida.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
I learned that in Florida.

Speaker 1 (28:22):
Yes, literally, when you're like late to the party and
you show up already like messed up.

Speaker 5 (28:26):
Iris Hello.

Speaker 2 (28:26):
That's hilarious Irish hello. Never heard of that. It's funny.
I was watching a baseball game with my uncle yesterday,
and uh, the padres are doing like well, you know,
they're these these picota games. People are especially baseball games,
because people they don't like to go to the games.
You like to go do the other stuff or go
around or whatever. But they have these them nights to

(28:48):
make people you know, show up, and they have like
a what was the night it was? I don't know,
Asian night or something.

Speaker 5 (29:00):
It was.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
It was it was like Asian American Knight. And then
then my uncle said, why didn't they have Hispanic American Night.
I'm like, no, I's too easy for ice. You think
you're getting on the air parking lot shuttle and all
of a sudden taking you off, Like that's not doing that.

Speaker 4 (29:17):
Ship they have Now that you talk about it, they
do have a Hispanic Night at the Manhattan Yeah.

Speaker 2 (29:25):
Oh man, I don't know, but I don't know who's
showing up this year. That sounds like a trap to me.
I don't knows. Set up a defunct story of the day.
Here's a list that has just come out with the
breeds of dog most likely to get diarrhea. Here are
the six higher risk. Dude, a dog gets diarrhea that

(29:46):
is the worst. Like it's just running all over the
fricking floor, and then they're wiping their butts.

Speaker 4 (29:52):
And oh my god, y'all know that I wipe my
dog's butts before they come in the house when they
go body.

Speaker 3 (29:57):
No matter what it is and what is.

Speaker 2 (30:01):
Do, I can't even imagine you boarding your dog. It
wouldn't be possible. All right here, the dogs with the
the risks were the highest six breeds. The Maltese, the
miniature poodle, the kava pooh what is a kava poo? Poodle?
And something? What is that? German shepherd, Yorky and cockapoo

(30:23):
are the ones that are the most explosive poodle? Uh No.
In sports, the Pacers beat the Thunder last night to
take a two games to one lead in the NBA Finals.
Aaron Rodgers says returning to football was the best decision

(30:45):
for his soul. But will it be the best for
the souls of Steeler fans? Will find out? All right,
Steeler fans? Are they excited about Aaron Rodgers coming to
the Pittsburgh I don't know anyway. I got another text
for one nine three four five three three seven five.
Can we play a game called tell me You're white
without telling me you're white? Kelly, you go first. I

(31:08):
wipe my dog's butt before they come in the house.
Real for real? Um? What else? Oh? A guy dumbass
of the day. A guy peed on a mountain of
spam at Sam's Club. I don't know what it takes
to have your Sam's Club membership revoked, but this ought
to do it. Seventy year old man facing charges for

(31:30):
allegedly peeing on hundreds of cans of spam at a
Sam's Club near New Orlando. His name is Patrick Mitchell.
It happened on May thirtieth. He pleaded not guilty in
court this week. Cops say he was at a Sam's
Club in Lady Lake, Florida, when he stepped stopped to
urinate on two pallets of canned goods, a palette of
spam and a big stack of Vienna sausages. After he

(31:54):
zipped up, he wandered around the snack section for a while,
sat down on some patio furniture for about ten minutes,
pay for everything in his cart, and left.

Speaker 5 (32:02):
He didn't even know who did it. No, I forgot.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
I think that's what happened. Probably be seventy. They id'd
him using info from his Sam's Club card, arrested him
in his home in the villages. He's facing a disorderly gun.
That's the that's that big one, right, that big retiring
place where anything goes. They're all swinging and stuff. The
store had to throw out everything on the palettes, over
thirty three hundred cans of Vienna sausages, twenty seven hundred

(32:27):
cans of spam, a cabined value of ten thousand dollars
spam and van he was gonna buy spam. Do you say,
would you eat spam? Would you would?

Speaker 1 (32:37):
You never had spam? You never have, never had it.
I've had a Vienna sausage though. My mom used to
eat them all the time. Yeah, I don't know why.

Speaker 5 (32:44):
I'm thinking back at the flavor of it, and it's
very canned tasting.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
Oh you've had spam, right, Killy, No, never had no.

Speaker 3 (32:51):
I never will either.

Speaker 5 (32:52):
Sam is like the fish Hawaiian thing though.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
Yeah, huge, and it's number one. It's like a number
one in Hawaii. It's their biggest market. But the problem
is is I've had it before. It's not bad, but
there's this there's this gelatin on top. When you peel
the can back and there's just layer of fucking whatever
it is. I don't even know. It's just ham. It's
it's it's it's a ham with no bone in it.

(33:15):
It's like smashed hamd together kind of like burger would
be I guess, you know, because it's like ground hama,
like ground ham, and then they's put together in a low.

Speaker 5 (33:23):
Like corn beef hashes.

Speaker 2 (33:24):
But but it's but it's like a loaf.

Speaker 5 (33:26):
Yeah I seen that solid Yeah, solid, like fried up.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
Maybe you're not gonna try it.

Speaker 5 (33:34):
Maybe I'm going to Hawaii next year, So am I
are you really?

Speaker 2 (33:38):
I'm gonna hook you with my buddy who lives in Hawaii.
He's he gotta he's got a place.

Speaker 1 (33:44):
That the Big Island where they say that that's where.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
That's where my boy is. I should have when did
you go kill me?

Speaker 3 (33:51):
About two years ago? Okay I got to that little
hula girl he did.

Speaker 2 (33:58):
Yeah, So I want to go to Hawaii caause that
I could stay at my buddy's house. I don won't
at the costumea.

Speaker 4 (34:02):
So what I went there was the Spam Festival and
they shut down the hold. I was like so pissy, yeah,
because we're going to go to this this uh seafood restaurant.
I was supposed to be one of the best seafood
restaurants around. But we had to drive the car and
we couldn't get a car because the whole town is
shut down. People dressing up as spam. It was level, honest,

(34:26):
I think every every booth was a different like Kilipinos spam,
sugar spam, It's.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
Funny because every I think, I mean everywhere in in
in America has their their own nuance, their own thing.
But for the most part, we're all kind of the same.
Like we all eat burgers. You know, burgers are nationwide
Mexican food, but Hawaii is a whole different animal. They
ate that stuff called uh what is that called a
poo or pontolu or something some nasty white ship and

(34:54):
I traced it. It was disgusting, and I told my buddy,
I'm like, hey, what I'm gonna come out there. I'm
gonna open a Mexican and restaurant. And he's like, dude,
we don't need Mexican food out here. There's they don't
there's no Mexico. They don't like Mexican food. They don't
care about Mexican food. I'm like, what, like, what is
just I don't know. It's Hawaii. Yeah, Hawaii is its

(35:15):
own animal, man, it really is. What's your favorite Mexican food?
Around here?

Speaker 1 (35:20):
Is Florida, so you know that doesn't count. I was
not in the right part of Florida. I was in
a very gentrified Caucasian part of Florida. The food sucked
where I really literally, I hated the food in Saint Pete.
Tampa had good food, but Saint Pete is where I
primarily lived at. And to be very clear, if you've
been to Saint Pete, it's a lot, a lot, a
lot of local businesses, which is good for the community.

(35:42):
But pretty much what they do there is they they
are aesthetic, so they build businesses to look good. So
people want to come for the vibe, for.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
The uh and for the whole area.

Speaker 1 (35:53):
Yeah, but the food is not flavored. I feel like
it's very basic. Yeah, Tampa has good food overpriced, for sure,
everything's there's over priced. But the food in Toledo, in
my opinion, was one hundred times better here then it
was where I was at in Florida. So I can
specifically speak for me, and the pizza there was ass.

(36:13):
They literally only do like that stone brick pizza. The Artesian.
I'm not really a fan of that. Di Chicago pizza
is my thing.

Speaker 5 (36:20):
I like to trust.

Speaker 2 (36:21):
I'll tell you what, bro We we are in the minority,
like you, and I don't like wood fired pizza. It
tastes burnt to me.

Speaker 5 (36:28):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
And again, it's too much, too much, too much of
like the side, there's not enough pizza to it. I'm not.
I am not a brick oven fan guy, I don't know.
I don't. I'm a wood fired or whatever you call it.
I'm not either. But everyone that's like the hot thing now.
Everyone wants wood fired or coal fired or whatever the
fuck they call it. They love they love it. I

(36:52):
just don't. I got a text in four one, nine, three,
seven five. I was in Costco and a guy stopped
and sat on the bags of rice looking through his phone.
That was gross. I was gonna buy that bag of
rice and get an ass all over it. But what
do you so? Where do you go?

Speaker 5 (37:07):
What's your go to?

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Mexican spun here in town? Then that's what it's crazy.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
A good segue, because I'm sure everybody knows about the
boy in Perrysburg who was pretending to be sixteen. He
was my favorite server at Elviacaro Nowhere to God, he
was my favorite server. I used to go see him
all the time. You know what's crazy about it. I
had been going there for probably like I've known him,
I would say for about two three months time frame. No,

(37:31):
and he literally never ever lied to me about his age.
He always told me he was twenty four. He's really
big into the gym. I'm friends with him on Instagram.
I swear, I swear, so this is That's why one
one morning I woke up and I seen him on
Facebook everybody sharing, and I sent it to the group
chat because me and my friends used to see him
all time. By the way, he used to give me
great deals at Alba Care is like, if you paying cash,
I'll give you a discount, And so we always brought

(37:52):
cash from him because we would like drink like crazy,
eat like crazy there and He'd be like, for you
twenty bucks and I'd literally be having like three pitch
and I would give him another twenty for a tip,
because you know, you're like blessing me. But he never
lied me about his age. He would always The very
first time that I met him, his very first word
to me, I swear to you, I'm god. He said,
you big guy? Are you a cop? Very first words

(38:13):
he ever said to me. And so after that though,
I used to go there often and see him.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
Do you think you have information that you should take
to the police, Because I mean, it's almost like, this
is the first time I'm hearing this, he was almost
living a double life very much because he was serving
to elmc carroll and he told him he's twenty four. Yeah,
and then he's going to high school in Paris. But
I haven't heard that word.

Speaker 3 (38:35):
Like nobody from Perrysbury ever go there. I mean how
I mean, like because he's.

Speaker 2 (38:42):
He was playing a sixteen year old my daughter.

Speaker 3 (38:44):
He's servant drinks.

Speaker 5 (38:47):
He was serving drinks.

Speaker 2 (38:48):
My daughter eighteen just started serving. So yeah, if you
went to ELVI Carroll and you lived in perrys where
you see this kid, You're like, you're not old enough
to be serving anything.

Speaker 1 (38:55):
But then now that I think about it, I feel
like that's a pretty safe place because maybe parents are
going to Elvicuro, but your teenage friends aren't driving to
toleto go to Elvicro.

Speaker 5 (39:04):
Now, I don't think that that's their kicks, especially Perrysburg kids.
I don't think that's happening.

Speaker 4 (39:08):
Like nobody from like all the schools in Perrysburg ever.

Speaker 3 (39:11):
I mean, it's just a weird thing.

Speaker 2 (39:13):
It is really weird. Like this is the first time
I'm hearing of double life. I thought he was committed
to being a sixteen year old and was living.

Speaker 5 (39:20):
Honestly, I don't even think that was his agenda.

Speaker 1 (39:22):
I feel like his agenda someone told me that if
you go to school and you get a diploma or something,
then you're like documentated to be a citizen. And so
regardless of that, that was probably should have started as
a senior, or maybe maybe you have to start as
a freshman because you have no transcripts. I don't know
what happened there, but I feel like that made sense
because I was like, you know, every time I had

(39:43):
met him, he never pretended to be anything younger than
what he told me. He would ask me like if
there were He was like, if you ever want to
go to the gym, could I come with you? Because
he works out too, that's on his Instagram. He's like
a fitness guy. But yeah, I don't know he It
was very surprising to me.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
So you followed him on Instagram? Was there any pictures
of him in high school?

Speaker 1 (40:02):
No, it was just him doing workouts at the gym.
And that's why we followed you because we mutually were
talking about He was like, you're a big guy, Like
how can I get big like you? You know, he
was asking me question and he didn't even tell me
he was from Venezuela. I think that that's where he said.
He originally told me he was from Colombia and so
that and then so like I was like, is he
from Venezuela because I've always known him from Colombia, because
we've had very specific talks. And I was like, and

(40:23):
you wanted to come here, like I've heard Colombia is
a beautiful place, like or people go to Columbia on
vacation all the time. It's it's a beautiful place. So
you left there to come here. I'm not understanding that.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
And this time that is so interesting to me. I asswure, Killy,
is this the first time hearing Shure?

Speaker 5 (40:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (40:40):
But and again I never got that vibe from him
that it was on some weird thing. There had to
be some reason why he was doing this. I'm not
understanding what it is. I don't know him like that,
But there had to be some agenda to it, because
I think the when he got pulled over, I think
he had a girlfriend of age when he was that
that video of him getting pulled over, that was his
girlfriend here in uh Toledo and she was of age.

Speaker 2 (41:02):
Wait wait, wait, okay, So if you because he had
a girlfriend in Perrysburg, but she was not She was
like sixteen.

Speaker 5 (41:09):
Oh are you sure that's not? When I heard the
girl that was in the video, I think she was.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
What if he's living a double life. What if he's
living a double girlfriend life too. Maybe he's got a
girlfriend when he's Elvia Caro Win when he's adulting, and
he's had a different girlfriend when he's schooling.

Speaker 1 (41:22):
Now, the original story of him getting caught was because
he has a baby, and then his baby I'm called
and like told, so I feel like, yeah, that's I
don't know.

Speaker 5 (41:30):
Maybe there's more of the story.

Speaker 2 (41:31):
We still don't know.

Speaker 5 (41:31):
It's still wrong.

Speaker 2 (41:32):
We still haven't found out what the reason he did that,
Like it was he just doing it to be a student?
Was he just trying to get into this country? Was
he trying It.

Speaker 4 (41:40):
Makes more sense of what he is saying that he
needed documentation. I mean that makes sense to me.

Speaker 2 (41:45):
Yeah, to get into the system and you're starting new personality,
you're starting life.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
Maybe I should write him, bro, that is in your
favorite customer big guy.

Speaker 2 (41:59):
Wow, that's insane? All right? Where were we don't even know?
That was?

Speaker 6 (42:03):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (42:03):
Good news? Okay, time and finally, the good news of
the day. Do you want to hear about a shelter
dog detecting a man seizure or a library returning a
nineteen fifty three wedding photo found in a book to
couple's family the dog, Yeah, sez all right, here we go.
A shelter dog predicted a guy segar at an adoption

(42:24):
event in Virginia on Saturday. Her name is Sienna. The
story has gone viral and several people have filled out
applications to adopt Sienna. Now Here is the director of
the animal control talking about what happened.

Speaker 6 (42:38):
Sienna walked over to a man very deliberately, she had
not met him before, sat down beside him and put her.

Speaker 3 (42:43):
Paw on his foot and just sat there.

Speaker 6 (42:45):
And his wife came around the corner and said, oh
my goodness, this means he's probably going to have a seizure.
She was amazed. She told our volunteer later that they
have three dogs at home. None of them had ever
shown any kind of attention like that before, like a
precursor to a seasual.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
They didn't fucking like himt Sam in his pocket. Wow,
that's crazy, all right? That is the news. That is
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Now back to Andrew Z in the morning on Anderz
tray Berry and of course Kelly, Lat's the Princess of
Property from our Handa Realty hanging with you on this
Thursday Tuesday.

Speaker 3 (48:20):
Who all right?

Speaker 2 (48:21):
We gonna an inbox issue that coming. This is we trade.
People will message the problems they're having and kind of
get our take on them. So here's one for you.
Says hey, Andrew. I've been best friends with someone for
over ten years. We have been through earth thing together, breakups,
job changes, family drama. But lately I feel like the

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friendship is one sided. I'm always the one reaching out,
planning things, checking in. When I stopped texting to see
if she'd notice, she didn't. It's been almost three weeks
and still nothing. Have not heard from her in three weeks. Again,
it's like, best friends. Do I let this friendship go?
Or do I confront her and risk making things awkward?

(49:07):
Can I just just do? I just let it go?
Tired of trying.

Speaker 1 (49:11):
I'm like such a pro on this topic because I've
had the worst friends, I've had the best friends. Really, yes,
absolutely like and I'm so young, but I feel like
I've had so many friends, good and bad. In a
situation like this though, first off, it's like they've been
friends for ten years, So I feel like letting someone
go or thought as soon is kind of a little intense.
You should probably want to check on your friend. Make

(49:31):
sure your friend's good, you know, because you know, just
because they haven't talked to you in three weeks, maybe
they're personally going through something. But I am a firm believer,
and if you feel like things are one sided, you know,
you should definitely approach it.

Speaker 5 (49:42):
Definitely communicate.

Speaker 1 (49:43):
If you've been friends with someone for ten years, at
that point, you shouldn't have any holding back of openly
communicating on how you feel and based on their response.
I feel like that should be how you make your
next move. With people that are in your life that
import you, you should be able to have these tough conversations
that are uncomfortable. A lot of people don't like to
have tough conversations.

Speaker 5 (50:03):
Man.

Speaker 1 (50:03):
I like the fact that first she started looking for advice,
but I think that the advice you should be looking
for is inside herself and with her friend.

Speaker 2 (50:10):
Bro. I've been saying that like people now, especially nowadays
with text messaging and and message, we are we are
so not used to having tough conversations anymore. We just
don't have them. Scared either, we either block a call,
we won't take a call. We won't. Maybe we'll send
a text, we won't. We don't want to have conversations
even on the phone, and much less face to face.

(50:31):
Those are gone. If it's if it's a tough conversation,
people aren't about it anymore.

Speaker 5 (50:34):
They're not so conversation no matter how uncomfortable they are.
Really absolutely, I'm you're a rare breed, Bro.

Speaker 1 (50:41):
I'm gonna dive into a tough conversation because I feel
like it's going to get down to the root of
the cause. I don't have to assume or guess. I'm
going to ask the questions that I want to know,
so I can see how you respond and it doesn't
leave me the opportunity to assume anything you know that
is true.

Speaker 2 (50:55):
Kelly, what do you think I mean?

Speaker 3 (50:57):
And he hit on all the good.

Speaker 4 (50:59):
However, I will tell you that, like, just recently, I've
found my voice. And I was kind of somebody that
when something happened, I would brush it under. I would
make I wanted everybody to feel good, so I wouldn't
come at anybody. I would say, Okay, this is how
they feel. I'm just gonna move on, keep the moving.
But I recently, I'm I've been going through it and

(51:22):
I've been finding my voice, and I think it. It
really does like you can sleep better, You deserve to,
you deserve to speak your truth, and whatever happens happens,
then you go to your next move. Like Terre said,
I mean, I think it is. So it's for me.
It's been so amazing that like, and I'll tell you

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people don't like it.

Speaker 2 (51:46):
People will not like especially when they're not used to it.
From now when.

Speaker 4 (51:52):
Kelly, Well, I actually had to have a really tough
conversation with one of my very best friends and we
had it at the park, and when I got done speaking,
she was even she physically was back and she goes wow,
and she was like, wow, that was exactly. And I
get that all the time now because I really am

(52:14):
I doing. I'm working at myself, I'm going through therapy,
I'm finding my own voice.

Speaker 3 (52:18):
So yeah, I'm going through it.

Speaker 1 (52:20):
That's good though, because I feel, like you said, you
haven't always been like that. So when you start establishing
boundaries and then putting them down and letting people know,
like I'm putting myself first again, it really throws people up.
Like you said, she was kind of physically taken back.
She's probably just not used to that. But it's at
the end of the day when you walked away, though,
I'm sure you were like, damn, that's so amazing.

Speaker 5 (52:39):
It did.

Speaker 4 (52:39):
And you know what, I think that people just it
is with the Internet, like you were saying, Andrew, people
aren't connecting, and.

Speaker 3 (52:50):
So when you.

Speaker 4 (52:51):
Do and they don't want to hear how you're connected.

Speaker 3 (52:54):
It's wild.

Speaker 4 (52:55):
But I'm glad that I'm making steps to better myself,
even at my old age, I'm trying to change habits.

Speaker 2 (53:01):
Do you feel better now when you confront people and
stuff like that. You feel much better now because you
keep on that inside. I mean, you still feel it
and if you can't let it out, it's.

Speaker 3 (53:10):
It's gonna be.

Speaker 4 (53:12):
That's all I used to do, but not anymore.

Speaker 5 (53:15):
But I think even I have been there before it
in my life.

Speaker 1 (53:17):
And I think that again with being a content creator
influencer and learning how to be open with myself on camera,
recording myself also gave me the same sense of being
open with other people, because it's very uncomfortable to record
yourself and make content kind of weird at the same
time because I'm really talking to myself and the phone,
and so through that, I also learned to have tough
conversations with people because that opened me up to new things,

(53:40):
the kind of spit roll. I can't say this is
all because of content and influencing, but I think it
definitely added value to having conversation or more or less
defending myself.

Speaker 4 (53:49):
And I feel like once you then you become your
true authentic self. And I like I bring this back
to when I started this radio thing about two years ago.
The first three months I was I was holding back
because I didn't want people to judge me.

Speaker 3 (54:03):
I have this business?

Speaker 4 (54:04):
What if they don't like me? And I was terrible
the first I'm like, why didn't Andrew kick me out?
Because I was somebody love I was like, I was terrible.
The men that I let down all my walls and
just been authentic and said sometimes sometimes I say stuff
on this radio and I'm like, what the hell did
I just say?

Speaker 3 (54:22):
But it's my true self and I think it's freeing.

Speaker 2 (54:24):
Here's the thing. It's harder for you too, because because
people judge women a lot harder than they do men.

Speaker 4 (54:30):
I mean, but I'll be honest, I've been judging my
whole life like so it's and then you know.

Speaker 1 (54:36):
That's the biggest part about it is you really got
to not care about being judged. And I just made
a post on Facebook good day about this. So many
people aren't even who they really want to be or
who they could be because they're so focused on what
everybody thinks of them. And at the end of the day,
no one's opinion of you really does matter.

Speaker 5 (54:51):
It doesn't.

Speaker 1 (54:52):
That's the hardest thing to understand though and get over
because you are grown up with people judging you, talking
about you.

Speaker 5 (54:57):
Zero grass A woman.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
People are saying they look things like that, So there's
always someone's opinion. I don't know at what age or
what happened to me in my life where I literally
just started living for me. But once I started living
for me and not caring no one thought of me,
I felt so free.

Speaker 3 (55:12):
That's change it was.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
And it's hard to explain because it's not something you
can it's something you feel well.

Speaker 2 (55:18):
And the other thing too, is with social media, if
that's your if that's your if that is really the
most most of your social part of your life. I mean,
it's just so different from reality, like living out there,
like you think you're you think you're you're you're in it,
and it's you know you're going through it. Step outside
and talk to people. Most of them don't even know

(55:39):
what fuck you. They have no idea what what which
drama you're going through? They don't care, you know, it's
just you got to see it's it's such a small
it's a micro it's just a small bit of you,
but yet it's it can encompass you if you let it,
just by by being being on it all the time,
doom scrolling and just it's it's horrible. Social media is

(55:59):
horrible for us, but we can't get away. Everyone says
it's horrible, but no one could get away with it
like I have. I was talking to these teen girls
the other day and they said, we know social media
is bad for us and we don't like it, but
we do it because you have to do it.

Speaker 1 (56:13):
I mean, what else is there to do though, besides
I mean, you could go out, you could be out
with people spending money. I feel like social media is
kind of like a safe haven to do in your
own environment, to come from your home, and I feel
like a lot of people nowadays more or less like
to stay home and like to stay in their own
environment and like to do their own things. So that
kind of falls into just a new mindset that I

(56:33):
think people have, and especially nowadays with these new kids
as well, they're all like tablet kids, which I hate
that so much. Like kids don't go outside and play.
I don't see bikes in front yards anymore. The playgrounds
are empty. They might as well to start building playgrounds
with tablets.

Speaker 5 (56:46):
I feel like there's probably be more action there.

Speaker 2 (56:49):
I've got some text message in four one nine three
four five three three seven five in any situation, if
you're not getting back in return, the level of what
you're putting in, it ain't worth it. It's so so
there's that so all right. So for this person that
messages the sindbox issue, friend have been friends for ten years,
they haven't talked their friend in three years. It was

(57:11):
three weeks, kind of like a test. I'm not going
to text her and see what happens. Well, she ain't
heard a text back. You're Kelly, You're saying confront. You
need to confront the friend.

Speaker 3 (57:19):
You need to use your words.

Speaker 4 (57:21):
I mean ten years is too long of a relationship
and if you truly love her, you need to tell
her how you feel.

Speaker 5 (57:29):
Agreed.

Speaker 1 (57:29):
I feel he's testing her friend at this point, and
that's self sabotaging because if your friend is going through something,
they may not text you for three weeks. I'm going
to be a prime example of it. I am the
worst text heer. My friends will reach out to me.
Like I said, I have a busy life, so by
the end of the day, I'm actually tired, exhausted between
my job doing the gym, trying to make my own content,
working with other brands and businesses with social media, I

(57:52):
feel like my friends are very much important, but I
can't always be there because I have to be here
for myself first. And so I feel like if I'm
not well and my friend would automatically assume that I
have an issue with them without asking me, I feel like, then,
what kind of friend are you that you would assume
that I had a problem without even asking me.

Speaker 5 (58:09):
That's not a good friend.

Speaker 1 (58:10):
So she's no better than the friend that's not texting
back to assume that her friend has an issue with her.
Her friend might be going through the worst times of
her life, and instead of asking is everything good? Are
we good, you're assuming that your friend's not being a
good friend.

Speaker 2 (58:22):
That's not a good friend, all right, get with her,
Get with her, have a conversation. That is our inbox
issue for today.