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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Jusey in the Morning.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
It's time away again ju.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
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(00:34):
to Andrews in the Morning.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
All right, I'm andrewsy Demetrious, Nick Dimus is not here,
Kelly lads is, Stephen b is and look at Denny Crumb?

Speaker 4 (00:44):
Is your last day, Denny?

Speaker 2 (00:45):
So you go and begin Hey last day A Denny
Crumb is here as well. Who all right, and we
get over to Steve. Steve, good morning, Good morning, morn
standing what's going on?

Speaker 5 (01:03):
Oh, we're just hanging out with my new neighbor Meg
and Meck what yep? She lives downtown. Now run into
her periodically. We have a little girl chat.

Speaker 6 (01:15):
Super fun. But she dropped the bomb on me yesterday
real quick.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Did you see if she would come on the show
just to say, Hi, I don't know if she I
don't know she I don't know if she would, but
it'd be fun to ask her. Ye, ask her. So
you're allowed to drop the you're allowed to make the announcement.

Speaker 5 (01:32):
Then for her, well, I'm gonna phrase it this way
because she was just asking. She's like, you know, we
we got on the subject of like dating, and she's like,
you know, where do you go? Because she's trying to
get a feel for like things to do, where to go.
So she's been hanging out in Detroit so much and stuff.
So she's back here full time now. And so I said, Oh,
what kind of guys do you like? And she says, well,

(01:52):
she says I like girls too, Like.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
Helly really tell her that I like girls as well.

Speaker 6 (02:01):
She looks amazing, She looks really really good.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
She looks she was happy.

Speaker 4 (02:08):
Me and my wife are open to having a girlfriend.

Speaker 6 (02:12):
Are you really volunteer?

Speaker 4 (02:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:14):
So, like all the dudes on here want to bang
Meghan Maker right now. That what's happening.

Speaker 4 (02:17):
So I don't know what Meghan mak is, but so
you so, Denny, you he's just throwing it out there.
Have you ever had it?

Speaker 1 (02:25):
I want to catch it.

Speaker 2 (02:26):
Have you and your wife had a girlfriend before?

Speaker 4 (02:28):
No, not like an actual, like you know, throuple type situation,
but but you're open to it. We've had fun with
other women before, you know.

Speaker 7 (02:37):
Are you open to ale though, like a permanent I
don't know for sure if she would be one hundred
percent okay with it, with with with being like a
third person committed into the relationship, but uh, she's she's okay.

Speaker 4 (02:48):
With having fun though.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
That's cool too.

Speaker 4 (02:51):
Yeah, listen, and I know, Steve, Steve, you didn't know
me before I was married, but Andrew did. And uh,
this is exactly the type of marriage that you would
see me with.

Speaker 3 (03:03):
From what I've gathered, you're quite a hound dog back
in the day.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
Yes, I did get a text into since Kelly's going
through it, going through it, does that mean Steven be
is gonna leave Andrew's mom and go not to Dundon Kelly?

Speaker 4 (03:16):
Well, oh my, what's.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
Wrong with Andrew's mom and I have Actually we're kind
of on the same level as Denny and his wife.
We're open to a third There's a lot of me
to go around, you know, right, Steve?

Speaker 5 (03:35):
With every day so much of this so early but
she's super fun, so we're gonna hang out and stuff.
So she's part of like this. So so she's in
a works for a group of like Britney and Meredith
to like the Power Women's social media business. They do
a lot of social media work for a lot of

(03:55):
powerful businesses around the community.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
So well, you know it, man, it's gonna be interesting.
So are more people I think of that generation because
she's younger. I think she's younger than all of us.

Speaker 6 (04:05):
I think, yes, she is.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yea is she of the generation where it doesn't matter
if you're if you have a connection and you you
have to feel with someone, it doesn't matter if a
guy or girl you're open to whatever.

Speaker 6 (04:16):
It alluded to.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
If this is if if you make me feel good
and we love hanging out together and we connect, and
then like man, woman doesn't matter as much anymore to
this generation as well.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
Look at the conversation like that, that's becoming more open.
But a lot of people usually don't have the sexuality
as a spectrum, like like like there's you know, there's
there's completely straight on one side, there's completely gay another side.
And the thing is like most people are not on
the opposite ends of you the spect most people are
like somewhere like I can't like I'm mostly straight or
like you know, but even like you know, like like

(04:51):
us on the show, like hey, Ryan Reynolds is a
great looking guy, we're not always straight.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
You know. I've done a lot of research.

Speaker 3 (04:56):
Just want to point out that I never agree to
that I've done.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
I've done a lot of research on this, Diny. It's
called Kinsey Kensington scale. Kensington is a is a uh
is a doctor or a psychologist or something. And he
says that, like you said, it's a spectrum. You're you're there,
you're the super straight or or super gay, and then
there's so much in the middle of the most perfect time. Yeah,

(05:24):
doctor d we're talking about are you That's the first
thing she says.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yah, Kellie talks a little dirty to me, so you're
a little maybe I try sexually it doesn't want to
try it.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
We were talking about the Kensington scale though of sexuality,
where where it's like a it's a spectrum, you know,
there's super gay and then super straight, and there's so
much in the middle of you know, people whatever I mean.
And I said, the younger generation now is more open
to what doesn't It doesn't matter if you make it.
If if we click and you make me feel good,
then then we can we can do whatever.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, And you know, I think that we get adapted
to social norm so easily that who knows if it's
if thirty forty years ago, if it was more socially acceptable,
if you saw it more on TV, if you heard
about it more, and then it's like, oh, yeah, okay,
it's okay. It's just like food. You didn't like food,

(06:23):
and all of a sudden, everybody else likes it, and
then you're willing to try wakam on whatever it might be.
And I do think that yeah, And now, do not
get me wrong. Do not get me wrong. I am
not saying it is a choice at all. I do
think that there are people. I think you are born gay,
for sure, But as far as being fluid and pan

(06:45):
sexual and just falling in love with the spirit or
with that human I do think that that is more
probably within most people, when it's not socially acceptable, it's
just your brain kind of think.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
It's been like that since the beginning of time. We
just were, like you said, it wasn't untilrible we were hiding.
It was hiding, you had to hide in the shadows.
And now it's it's more open, it's more acceptable. People
can come out and be I mean, I mean now
it's a kind of an under assault a little bit,
but I mean you can be out and be yourself
and and it's okay. It doesn't matter what.

Speaker 6 (07:18):
I don't care about that.

Speaker 5 (07:20):
When it comes to the sexual buffet, I'm always ordering attack.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
I was like, did Steve just come out straight?

Speaker 1 (07:32):
Did he just claim to be a trisexual?

Speaker 3 (07:36):
He was also thinking about Megan Mack.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Steve turned him straight.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
Steve, I have a question, are you are you a
gold star gay?

Speaker 6 (07:47):
Oh? Yeah, I may gay, gold.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
Levels, gold star, but it's like, you're gay, you've only
been like with one woman, A gold star you have
never been with a woman. Now, a platinum gay is
a c section. They've never touched a vagina.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
Your mother had But Steve had a girlfriend, Yeah, engaged, Okay,
so he was engaged.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
So silver star has had a growl from never and
is your mother had a c section, So you've never
touched a vagina. Wow, I know, I know my gay
category and I love that.

Speaker 4 (08:33):
Steve immediately wanted to be gold he's like, yes, I
am a gold I don't care about And then he's like,
darn it, I'm a silver. I was a C section baby,
but I've touched a vagina.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
You felt rob so you went for it, your copper.

Speaker 2 (08:49):
So you were so steve, you were engaged, and then
like what happens? Like, was it because you were gay
that the engagement fell a partner?

Speaker 6 (09:00):
No, that's exactly why.

Speaker 5 (09:01):
Because I was just like, cause I've seen the stories
and heard like all you know, guys and or girls
that go into the marriage they know they're gay. If
they go through it just for to please the parents,
I'm like, uh uh no, and it always comes out wrong.
But you know, a lot of disappointment, a lot of lies,
a lot of seed behind the back. I'm like, I'm
not doing that. I'm like, I'm not doing that to me.

(09:23):
I'm not doing that to.

Speaker 3 (09:23):
Her much respect.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
Yeah, right, for sure.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
And it's not just to please the parents. It's sometimes
you know, society has made people feel like, well maybe
it'll change, Maybe I can you know, I can just
get put myself in a situation where I'll adapt so
much that I don't have this desire anymore that I'm
not going to be my authentic self and that might work.
And it's just such a sad concept.

Speaker 4 (09:48):
Doctor D.

Speaker 2 (09:49):
Someone did ask, what star do I get for being
married and still have never touched a vagina?

Speaker 1 (09:58):
You get a sad stuff.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
Cloudy face?

Speaker 2 (10:04):
All right, Steve, what's going on in sleeves?

Speaker 4 (10:06):
There's a lot.

Speaker 6 (10:07):
There's a lot going on.

Speaker 5 (10:09):
So here's some riveting TV on a FI Lifetime Achievement
Award Contribute to France list for coplas on tonight at
ten o'clock on TNT.

Speaker 6 (10:18):
So there you go.

Speaker 5 (10:19):
Maybe the first month ever that more people watch TV
on streaming than on cable and networks combined.

Speaker 6 (10:26):
Wow, by the fact for you.

Speaker 3 (10:28):
Wow, you know cable networks are making a comeback.

Speaker 2 (10:32):
No, no, no, no, no. It's sad to me. I
don't know if it's sad to anyone else. Like to
see radio going away and to see television going away
like the companies.

Speaker 4 (10:43):
Now I even stream my cable TV.

Speaker 3 (10:47):
Yeah, I could say it's not going away though, it's
just evolving.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
No, it's going man, I'll tell you what. NBC just
got rid of all their cable channels except for except Bravo,
and they got rid of CNBC, M, S, NBC A
and E all of the Discovery only I know they
got rid of the USA.

Speaker 3 (11:07):
They only have.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
Yeah, they start a new company because it's dying so
quickly that it's messing up the balance sheets. And uh
a paramount or someone else.

Speaker 4 (11:16):
Just did the same thing, so that they sold USA
to someone else.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
It's they've made a separate company because they're trying to
separate the losses from cable too affecting the rest of
their business. It's just the linear cable. It's just television
is just dying. It's television radio dying.

Speaker 4 (11:33):
It makes me.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
Said too, like the fact that the days that we
could just turn your tune in and you had to
be there to watch Ross and Rachel at Thursday at
eight o'clock.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
And Sundays what Walt Disney.

Speaker 2 (11:48):
Mutual Louse White. You remember Wild Kingdoms? Wild Kingdom on Sundays.

Speaker 6 (11:52):
It was such good TV.

Speaker 4 (11:53):
I know, well, I agree, it's sad. It's nowhere near
the heartbreak of losing Blockbuster.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
So remember that. God, the fun of going to the
video store, Yeah, God, that was that was such an
excitement for the family and we would go in. It's like,
can we get a can we get a candy too?
Like you get one candy and to pick out your
own movie, get like three or four movies for the weekend,
and you would have them for like seven days, and
then you have to find another video store because you

(12:20):
have late rentals.

Speaker 1 (12:21):
And did you charge that if you didn't rewind a
curtain area?

Speaker 4 (12:27):
Oh yeah. As soon as I was, like as soon
as I turned eighteen, s the video stores right back
in that back area, and I was I was just curious.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
When you're a teenager, you're like looking at the people
coming out judging.

Speaker 4 (12:40):
I wasn't judging them. I was envy.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
Yeah, No, you were, you were, I was judging.

Speaker 6 (12:48):
I was judging.

Speaker 2 (12:49):
Really on a on a Friday night, that was really
something to look forward to as the family is to
go to the video store and everyone had to pick
out a movie.

Speaker 4 (12:56):
Yeah, in a video game, remember the video game rentals?

Speaker 3 (13:00):
When I was a killing game, Hey, you guys were rich.

Speaker 4 (13:06):
I would have to convince my mom. But grand theft
thought it was not as bad as you hear on
the news.

Speaker 3 (13:10):
It's not damn bad. It really wasn't, man. I mean,
you just could kill hookers and stuff like that, right,
I got a big deal. Jesus, what a big deal.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
We wonder you wonder, you wonder why the society is
so screwed up in video games? You're teaching kids to
kill hookers. I mean.

Speaker 4 (13:26):
The video games were Jack the Ripper, the original serial killer,
started out killing hookers and there was no video games
back then.

Speaker 3 (13:33):
Yeah, that was just what do you think, curiosity? I
don't know.

Speaker 2 (13:37):
Someone said, I guess some text mentioned four one nine
three four five three three seven five. Someone that remember
the rewind fee. Oh yeah, behind rewind.

Speaker 4 (13:48):
You didn't rewind that tape? They charged you? Oh I
got a text?

Speaker 2 (13:52):
I still blockbuster three dollars. They actually sent me to
collections for three dollars. Man, funny, I know, all right,
what else, Steve?

Speaker 5 (14:02):
Happy birthday to the man who literally countered off the
crab of the Beatles on their first album and it's.

Speaker 6 (14:07):
Still rocking today.

Speaker 5 (14:08):
Paul, Sir Paul McCartney is eighty three, and here's just
a small sample of the great music he's given us
throughout his career.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
Oh my god, so many amazing songs. All right, here
you go, a little Pumpcartney who bos the bagar? Great one,

(14:37):
another one, great one.

Speaker 4 (14:46):
Back and you Wes has on.

Speaker 8 (14:48):
It was twenty years ago today, please living the.

Speaker 3 (15:19):
Wow his vocal rangers underrated. Yeah, that boy can hit
some notes.

Speaker 2 (15:24):
Yeah, Paul McCartney, I mean the amazing things that he's done.
Jesus listen songs hit after hit after hit.

Speaker 4 (15:30):
I didn't have the Kanye song on there.

Speaker 2 (15:32):
What Kanye song he did?

Speaker 3 (15:34):
He did?

Speaker 4 (15:34):
It was for four or five seconds. It was him
him Kanye and was good. It was really good.

Speaker 3 (15:39):
I remember when it came out, everybody was like, who's
Paul McCartney.

Speaker 2 (15:43):
This was a problem kid.

Speaker 4 (15:44):
This was probably about a year or two for Kanye.
It really started like yeah, the.

Speaker 3 (15:48):
Downside you still kind of loved at the time.

Speaker 2 (15:52):
What else well.

Speaker 5 (15:53):
Beyonce recently thanked Paul for writing, of course, Blackbirds, saying
thank you, Sir, Paul McCartney for writing one of the
best songs ever made it. Every time I sing it,
she feels honored. So that version is on her latest album,
Cowboy Curder There.

Speaker 2 (16:06):
So here's what here's our production staff is put together,
worked on it all day yesterday. A mashup of Beyonce
and Paul McCartney doing Blackbird. Here.

Speaker 3 (16:16):
We was saying gonna be like Willie Nelson and Steve Perrius.

Speaker 2 (16:19):
I don't remember.

Speaker 9 (16:20):
Yeah, here you go, blackbirds singing in the dead. Take
these bunken wings.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
And learn to fly.

Speaker 1 (16:36):
Oh your.

Speaker 9 (16:40):
You're only waiting for this song and tour.

Speaker 3 (16:50):
Blackbirds singing in the dead, jav sunken eye, learned to.

Speaker 2 (16:57):
See all your life.

Speaker 9 (17:04):
You were only waiting for this moment to be free.

Speaker 8 (17:09):
Black bird, f live.

Speaker 4 (17:15):
Bird, fly.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
Into the line.

Speaker 9 (17:19):
Of the dark line black second the dead up, Take
these broken wings and learn to.

Speaker 1 (17:27):
Fly on your life.

Speaker 3 (17:34):
You were only waiting for this moment.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
Tour run. You were only waiting for the all two rise.

Speaker 9 (17:44):
You were only waiting for this moment and too ride.

Speaker 2 (17:50):
That was really good.

Speaker 3 (17:50):
That was that was pretty good.

Speaker 6 (17:52):
My production team is talented.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
Two goats. You were working all day, two goats. All right?
What else?

Speaker 6 (17:59):
Steve Well the sad news I know.

Speaker 5 (18:01):
I woke up this morning thing and turned on the TV,
and I was like, oh, so shocks a TV chef
and Burrell, who called culinary fumblers through hundreds of episodes
of Worst Cooks in America, died yesterday at our New
York home.

Speaker 6 (18:13):
She was only fifty five years old.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
She was fun I hate that when I hear that.

Speaker 2 (18:20):
I too. I saw her age and I'm like, fuck,
I know, I mean we could. We aren't the age
where we could literally drop dead at any minute, and
it would, and we were at the age where it
could happen.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
Silver lining though, like that could happen to anybody at
any time, Like yea.

Speaker 2 (18:35):
That's like that, but it seems I don't know it
with fifties. Hits me, man, when I see when I
see someone of their fifty I'm like, good that it
just happens, Like not.

Speaker 1 (18:42):
Only will I not date them, but shut up? She
said they might drop dead at any time. So Danny,
we'll fill you in. A few months ago, Andrew we
were talking about there was a girl that Kelly and
I both know she's an info and we were joking
about it and we were like, oh, she should come

(19:02):
into the show, and oh, Andrew, you want to and
he was like, I'm not attracted to women that are
over fifty. And he really wanted to take it back
because I obviously we are over yes.

Speaker 4 (19:15):
I Andrew DiCaprio over here, So that he denied it.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
He tried to deny it. He tried to say he
had a stroke when he said.

Speaker 4 (19:26):
That I can believe.

Speaker 2 (19:27):
Look, look doctor, I can respect, I can love you beautiful.
I just it's just not my thing.

Speaker 4 (19:39):
It could be it could be thing.

Speaker 1 (19:41):
I'm not trying to be overly confident. Super I feel
like if you and I were bost I do feel
like you would not turn me down.

Speaker 2 (19:49):
I think you're right, you know, right, you know when
I turned Kelly down, I agree with that.

Speaker 4 (19:56):
And like, like Suzanne Summers was hot till she was
like seventy five or whatever.

Speaker 2 (20:00):
Yeah, I mean, it's just it's kind of it's just
like some just like young like teenagers.

Speaker 4 (20:07):
Yeah, it's uh, stop right, you know it, Just stop, lawyer.

Speaker 3 (20:12):
We're not going to talk about this anymore.

Speaker 4 (20:16):
By council. I don't have to say. Andrew DiCaprio as
soon as his women like cant a car, Andrew's like, hey,
you know what, this isn't working out anymore.

Speaker 2 (20:25):
Steve, go ahead.

Speaker 4 (20:26):
I don't understand me.

Speaker 6 (20:28):
Save me, Save me, Steve so much. R Kelly. R.
Kelly's in the news, you guys.

Speaker 5 (20:34):
He spent two days at a North Carolina medical facility
over the weekend after he claims he's suffered an overdose
from medications provided by prison employees. Now the Bureau of
Prison Officials administrative amount of medication that significantly exceeded a
safe dose and caused mister Kelly to overdose, putting his
life in jeopardy.

Speaker 4 (20:51):
It's the remixes, prescription popping pills in the prison.

Speaker 2 (20:57):
Body rolling.

Speaker 4 (20:59):
Baba's rolling and his body into all kinds of positions.

Speaker 3 (21:05):
I got.

Speaker 6 (21:06):
It's kind of in jeopardy there, man.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
I know he says it's in jeopardy, but the others
trying to get out the other side is saying it's
all bullshit. But I mean, he overdosed. You can't overdose
in prison. Like they give you your medication and you
and they want you take it. How does that happen?

Speaker 3 (21:24):
Like did he.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
Take it and then took it all at once?

Speaker 2 (21:28):
It was medicine that they you can't kill. It's medicine
that they gave him and like they they I saw,
I saw it happen on a daily basis. They give
you a little cup and then they make you take
it right in front of him. Then you drink the
water and then they have to open their mouth and
they look around in your mouth to make sure you
took it. How did the overdose?

Speaker 4 (21:47):
If you're looking for sympathy, I will never have sympathy
for a pot.

Speaker 2 (21:51):
It's not sympathy. Is just saying that. But the other
the JUST Department is saying is bullshit. He's just trying to.

Speaker 4 (21:57):
Get out, Like you said, he's just trying to get out.

Speaker 2 (21:58):
But but how did he overdose on medicationion he's supposed
to take?

Speaker 4 (22:03):
Still there I did get Yeah, mean it's possible that
he like you know, something got like you know, the
illegal contraman him there Obviously what happens.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
It says overdose dots by up by six under in
state prisons. So really, yeah, so there's probably lots of
ways to overdose. And then he wanted to blame.

Speaker 2 (22:21):
But here's the thing. But he was in solitary confinement
and what was was he trapped in the closet. Real
quick reference, real real quick, Steve. I got a message
in yesterday. So this is this lady is a big listener,
Sandy White. She texted me yesterday or messaged me and
she said.

Speaker 6 (22:40):
Art A R.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
T Kelly k E L L y art Kelly overdose
And I said, who is that? She goes Art Kelly
question Mark I said, you mean r Kelly.

Speaker 1 (22:50):
She started thought the name was Art Kelly.

Speaker 4 (22:53):
Oh Arthur Kelly, Arthur Arthur Kelly.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
So, so how did it happen? Steve?

Speaker 6 (22:59):
So, Dyslexi is a bitch.

Speaker 5 (23:01):
But anyway, So Kelly takes some medication for anxiety and
to help him sleep, in addition to other medications and supplements.
So he allegedly showed his medication to prison officials when
he was placed in solitary confinement last week, a move
his lawyer claims was meant to punish him for filing
the emergency in motion.

Speaker 6 (23:19):
Now.

Speaker 5 (23:19):
Kelly's lawyer also says that the alleged overdose happened almost
immediately after he spoke publicly about the singer being kept
in solitary confinement. The third settlement also claims that doctors
informed Kelly he had blood clots in his legs and
lungs and requires surgery, but prison officials refused to let
him undergo that procedure because it required a week of recovery.

(23:40):
So mister Kelly's life is in jeopardy right now because
the Bureau of Prisons denied him necessary surgery to clear
clots from his lungs. They are saying he could die
from his condition, and they are letting it happen. There
is no legitimate explanation for that. So his lawyer goes
on to say the inswert occurred on June thirteenth, when
Kelly woke up in solitary confinement at the Federal Correctional

(24:02):
Institute in North Carolina.

Speaker 6 (24:04):
He felt faint, he was dizzy.

Speaker 5 (24:06):
He started to see black spots in certain ways, and
Kelly struggled to get up on his feet. He was
unable to walk. He crawled to the door of the
cell and lost consciousness. So it sounds like it's a
real thing.

Speaker 4 (24:17):
I mean, come on, oh man, I mean you know,
I have my own issues with solitary confinement. But like
I said, I'll never feel.

Speaker 2 (24:23):
Bad for for Art, for Arthur Kelly. What else do youve?

Speaker 5 (24:31):
This is probably the biggest news of the day. Hold
on to this one. What father time catches up to Usaw?
Even Willie Nelson, with the age of ninety two, says
he no longer and will finally stop smoking pots?

Speaker 3 (24:47):
What Who who said that?

Speaker 4 (24:49):
So he's he's giving up on life?

Speaker 8 (24:52):
Right?

Speaker 4 (24:52):
Really knows? The movie Dead three months?

Speaker 6 (24:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (24:55):
Last I saw like Willie what he's got like lung
problems too, so he can't really like inhale it smoke.

Speaker 6 (25:01):
Need for the weed, that's what he says.

Speaker 2 (25:03):
No, no need for the weed. But see here's the problem.
A problem then because people like Steven advocate for no,
no for we being good for you. But I mean,
if you're if you're smoking that stuff, you're taking your lungs.
What's the difference between that and in cigarettes? Like as
far as smoking and like you said he has he

(25:24):
has lung problems, Well, that's probably from smoking weed forever.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
Yeah, I would take that over because like if you're
smoking cigarettes, there's all kinds of there's a lot worse
stuff than cigarettes and chemicals. Yeah, So like I think
if he started having lung problems in like his eighties
he did pretty good or nineties.

Speaker 4 (25:43):
Yeah, Like like there are people who have never smoked
to have lung problems like young at a younger age
than Willie. Yeah, that's actually that's actually pretty incredible.

Speaker 3 (25:51):
But he was like one of the leading ogs for
like marijuana for sure.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
My whole life. He is one of those He's one
of those people who's been old your whole life.

Speaker 4 (26:03):
Him and Morgan Freeman have just been old and Betty
Well about IRP Betty White. But like those three I
remember them being old. Ye, you look the same for
fifty years older the whole time.

Speaker 3 (26:13):
All I know is Snoop still smokes. So we're good,
all right, we got him.

Speaker 2 (26:16):
What are we gonna say, Steve Well?

Speaker 5 (26:17):
So, I guess in this interview he was asking how
he stays young out there on the road, and he said, wow,
I can't smoke anymore.

Speaker 6 (26:24):
Pott.

Speaker 5 (26:24):
He says, my lungs. I've already said no. So he says,
don't do that. So I don't really do anything. Now
he says accept edibles about Yeah.

Speaker 6 (26:34):
Yeah, he's doing edible. So he says, keep in mind
he still does.

Speaker 5 (26:37):
He does still have a line of THFC and a
few spirits called Willy's Remedy. So maybe he's just sipping
slow on his own stuff. So he says, you can't
bottle up his social tomic for ninety dollars or so, Yeah,
he's still getting high.

Speaker 2 (26:50):
We're still getting high. He's just not smoking, yeah.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
Because of his lungs. Yeah, I was gonna say, so
he's not actually done with the weed.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
Now he's done smoke. Well no longer. Yeah, he's involved,
which a lot of people have gone to edibles now, Yeah, Steve.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
I like the Indigo ones for night. The usually help
me sleep, do they?

Speaker 6 (27:11):
Yeah? That's what I take.

Speaker 5 (27:12):
They have the you're out, but them you take it
within an hour you were gone out?

Speaker 2 (27:18):
What else? Steve.

Speaker 5 (27:20):
Tyler Perry is being sued for sexual harassment assault by
an actor.

Speaker 6 (27:23):
On his shows The Oval and Ruthless Now.

Speaker 5 (27:26):
Derek Nixon claimed Perry has made several on one of
sexual advances since twenty twenty one. In one instance, he
says Perry pinned him against the wall and groped him.
In another, he's supposedly stuck into bed with him. A
third time, Dixon claimed Perry forcibly pulled off his clothes.
He says that for years Perry has been quote using
his power and influence to molest, abuse, and sexually assault

(27:49):
impressionable and vulnerable employee employees and actors who look up
him stuck to him for guidance and mentorship.

Speaker 6 (27:56):
He wants at least two hundred and sixty million dollars.

Speaker 4 (28:01):
How did he get in bed with him?

Speaker 2 (28:03):
Well, I mean it's Tyler Perry. If he's if he's
on his shows, you can't. I mean, it's no different
than a guy or a girl. How did the fucking
what's that fucking guy?

Speaker 3 (28:12):
Tyler Perry? Like Harvey Weinstein, Harvey Weinstein.

Speaker 2 (28:14):
Yeah, I mean you can't say no, no, no, if
you're if you're an employee.

Speaker 4 (28:18):
No no, no, I get it. I'm not just kind of
I'm center wondering how did he get in his Like
when you say that opportunity, what do you say in bed?
I want to know how that happened? Like, like, was
it in his trailer and Tyler on set? Or did
did Tyler Perry break into his house to cuddle with him?

Speaker 6 (28:34):
Like?

Speaker 4 (28:34):
Like what happened?

Speaker 2 (28:35):
We're you gonna find out? Well, he's The other thing
is interesting to me is that is that this is
the point. Has anyone ever heard any of this about
Tyler Perry before? Is this the first time you've heard
this before?

Speaker 4 (28:48):
I have not.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
I don't follow time. I'm not a Tyler Perry fan. So,
but you've heard it before, Steve. So it's gonna find out.
Usually it takes one and then there's gonna be ten more,
and then there's ten more. You have to decide are
they coming forward because this one made it a path
for them to come forward, or are they coming forward
because they want to get paid? Like, you don't know
both sides.

Speaker 4 (29:07):
It could happen. We've seen both ways the Bill Cosby effects.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Well in the Bill Cosby effect, did they really get
assaulted or did they probably got assaulted? I think, what
did you say, Steve?

Speaker 5 (29:20):
I said what Perry's attorney is saying that Dixon's claims
are fabricated, suggesting that he purposely got close to Perry
in order to set him up for this scam.

Speaker 2 (29:28):
So you got to be careful as a celebrity too,
if you've got money and people will set you up. Like,
who's that girl that it was just in the news
not that long ago that she was able to marry
this guy and he's fucked now he's oh, Bill Belichick,
Bill Belichick, I mean they're not married, that's the story

(29:48):
I remember. But I'm saying, she got in with it.
All you gotta do is is get in and you're paid.

Speaker 4 (29:54):
He seemed she's working a different angle, though, what do
you mean she'sithing?

Speaker 3 (29:59):
Yeah, yeah, she's not working a scam for money. She's
like just there getting the money.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
I mean for now, until until they get married, and
then all of a sudden she divorces as and then
now she's nah, it's real.

Speaker 4 (30:13):
He's no, no, no, no, I don't think I don't
think she like legitimately has feelings for him. But like
I said, I think she's working the ant Nicole Smith thing. Well,
she's like, let me put up with this for you know,
five ten years, and I'm gonna be for the rest
of my life.

Speaker 2 (30:22):
He's gonna die, Yeah, and he's probably okay with it. Hey,
if I get to get with him this hot shake
the end of my life and whatever I would.

Speaker 3 (30:28):
I would be okay with that too.

Speaker 4 (30:29):
If there are worse ways to go out, let me
ask you a question.

Speaker 2 (30:32):
So, if you're elderly, he and a hot dude, if
you're a girl, a hot dude said, look, I wanna
I want to bang you until your until your death.
I'll stay with you till your death. I'll be arm candy,
I will make care of you. I'll take care of you,
do everything. Just Hey, when you die, just give me
your all your stuff? Would you is it? Would you
take that?

Speaker 1 (30:50):
Kelly?

Speaker 8 (30:52):
No?

Speaker 2 (30:52):
You wouldn't you jiggle your mind here?

Speaker 1 (30:56):
You go, No, I would not take that.

Speaker 2 (30:58):
Would you a hot hot chick?

Speaker 3 (30:59):
Stephen said, oh, hands down, you would do that.

Speaker 4 (31:02):
I'm not going.

Speaker 3 (31:03):
To give her all my money. But like if I'm
if I'm Bill Belichick, rich, You're like, I'll give you
a multi million deal just.

Speaker 2 (31:09):
Just to hang out with.

Speaker 4 (31:11):
Give bonus.

Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, I'll give you, Like five mil doesn't more than
plenty doesn't work.

Speaker 2 (31:16):
You shouldn't even care about you just do.

Speaker 3 (31:17):
That at all? A right, it's a business deal. At
that point, you better hold up you were in.

Speaker 4 (31:21):
I guess I've slept with many of people that I
did not care about. People I didn't even like it.
I don't even like you as a person.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
I think they like each other to a certain degree, obviously,
because that's a lot, even for a lady who's just
trying to make money, Like that's an everyday thing, Like
there's got to be something there.

Speaker 1 (31:37):
But we've talked about that before, Like it's not my
thing either. But as far as I don't judge, Like
if both people have a vested interest, both people are
getting something out of it, then you know, as they're adults, Yeah,
and maybe they don't have family, you know, to give
it to or they don't want to whatever it might be.
But that's why I wouldn't. I just think about my kids.

Speaker 2 (31:57):
Yeah, yeah, okay, have had you're not giving them all.
But let's say you're a millionaire and you're gonna give
he wants a one million, he wants one million, and
he's gonna bang you. He's hot, and that's all focused.
He'll be by your side until you're dead. That you
were talking about yesterday, doctor Reamy or whatever, doctor mcsteeny.

Speaker 3 (32:19):
What Honestly, I don't want to be talking about it.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
I was just gonna say, I think it's not It's.

Speaker 2 (32:25):
Not for me, not for you.

Speaker 4 (32:28):
I think I think the female libido that slows down,
you know, but I look at ever slows down for us.

Speaker 3 (32:34):
I disagree you question to ask a woman, you know,
Like for a guy, we will answer that, but for
a woman, I think it's a little bit harder to answer.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
I know I could disagree.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Steve.

Speaker 5 (32:45):
You, Steve, you have any final thoughts, No, I wouldn't
do it. Your self, restep. Your self respect is worth
more than any money.

Speaker 3 (32:53):
You're like eighty five ninety, like, who gives a shit
about self respected?

Speaker 4 (32:57):
My self respect is for so Steve, there is there
is a number. The million dollar man had to be.
Assi says, everyone has a price, and he is right.

Speaker 2 (33:10):
All right, thank you, Living life, Steve, Steve.

Speaker 4 (33:16):
That is Steve's sleeve.

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Speaker 2 (37:10):
I'm Andrew Zy Stephen B. Hardy and of course did
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Speaker 2 (37:19):
This one's about and I get it. We get of course.
Doctor D is here. It's for ask doctor D. Doctor
Dieter Hickey is the PhD owner of Serreending Health and Wellness,
Sorenny Nail, Salon, motivational speaker, licensed counselor, and author. And
since you do own a business, doctor D, I just
came across a news story that just popped up in
my news feed, and I want to ask you about
it because people. One thing that people complain about their

(37:41):
own businesses. I can't get people to work, or I
can't get a pitable people to work. I can't get
good people to work, you know in the food truck
business especially like you cannot find you know, good people
to work. And they're saying people are lazy or don't
want to work or whatever. Well, I will offer another
side to that, and it's this one. A new report
just came out found that business ownership for Americans under

(38:03):
the age of forty is it a twenty year high,
So more young people are taking a leap into owning
a small business. So is it maybe we have more
people wanting to start businesses so they don't want to
they don't want to work for someone else, they want
to do their own thing.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
I mean, definitely in my industry. I think that is
an interesting a point. What I thought you were going
to say is there's younger business owners, so they have
difficulty with relationships and educating themselves on how to be
a leader, and instead everyone just thinks it's easy to
run a business. And so when there's disgruntled employees and

(38:38):
staff members and you're not you're just a boss and
not a leader, you lose people. So that's where I
thought you were going with it. But which is a fact.
So I do think that that's part of it with
me and at Serenity, at ebbs and flows. As far
as my staffing, I'm very fortunate we're fully staffed at
this moment. But it definitely does evan blow.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
And I think too that maybe is people.

Speaker 4 (39:05):
What was I say?

Speaker 2 (39:06):
People have different definitions of a business now. I mean
they think that if they're selling bracelets and they're making people,
I think, yeah, it's I'm a business own influencer.

Speaker 1 (39:19):
Yeah what does that mean? Yeah? Absolutely, I think and
I don't want to say, but.

Speaker 4 (39:23):
Real I know how many of those businesses are only
fans pages.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
For some people, that's a business. Though young people consider
that a business, right right, And it's actually tough work.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
I don't, Yeah, and I just think, I mean, and
I'm not saying brick and mortar defines it, but I
do think in my mind my generation, brick and mortar
or like your truck, you know, having something, an investment.
You know, you have an investment, You work hard, you're
broke the first couple of years, you pay your dues,

(39:57):
you build your momentum, and then you know, you create
a business, and then you hope to expand and expound
upon that business. But yeah, I do think that things
have changed. Mentalities have changed, some for the better as
a business owner, some for the worse. I mean, you know,
mental health is definitely more recognized now where when we

(40:18):
were younger, we were depressed. You go to work depressed.
You know, if you're sad, if you're if you have cramps,
if you have a migraine, like, you go to work work.
Life balance is more of a thing now. Again, those
are positive things, but it makes people not show up
a lot more.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
Well, here's the other side of it too. Tell me
if you think this is this is true, is that
we like to live more by exceptions nowadays, because exceptions
they could be so amplified like on a Facebook post
and on the we take these exceptions and now they
have more traction to them, so it makes them look
like more like reality because I think more businesses fail

(40:53):
than succeed. But like Shark Tank and things like that,
everyone wants to follow their dream. And hey, I know
I'm making five dollars now, but Colonel sound Sanders didn't
happen till it was seventy. So I'm going to continue
doing this until like your life is like well fuck,
And now I still don't have any money. I'm still broke.
But you know, have we have we changed the way?

(41:14):
Like is it a good thing that we changed? Eight?
Anyone can have the dream. But on the other side,
have we said the dream is a lot harder than
we think it is, but it looks easier.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
I agree, yes, absolutely the latter, and I think so
for me. And when I do coaching or business coaching
for people, I tell them, don't quit your day job,
follow your dream, but you can figure out have that
regular income, don't just drop everything. And sure there's also
that mentality I need to give one hundred times right

(41:44):
to this or it's not going to succeed. But you
still have to survive to thrive, and so find a
part time figure that out, dabble in it, hobby whatever, hustle,
work one hundred hours a week like I did, and
you have both jobs, and then when you are able
to quit, that's when you know that business has succeeded.

(42:06):
I tried to sell Serenity after about a year because
we were not successful, and I then someone told me
that it was worth the income it was making, and
therefore I realized it wasn't worth anything at that time.
And I hustled, and I had four or five jobs
at the time, and I had to quit all of
them but one to still pay my bills. And then it,

(42:27):
you know, took from there.

Speaker 2 (42:28):
And that's the thing too. I think most businesses are
good ideas, and most businesses can succeed, but you got
to get you got to be able to get in
past that two or three year mark. Most of them
they leave because you run out of money, you run
out of whatever. If you can stick it out for
a couple of years, then most of them will will succeed.

Speaker 4 (42:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:47):
I mean the thing is though too. I also the
analogy I use is you could be an amazing baker.
You can bake the best cupcakes and cakes in town,
and you are the best. That does not mean you're
going to be a good business. You are amazing at
your trade, and people think I'm amazing. I have a
wait list. Why am I working for someone else? I'm
gonna go out on my own. I don't have a

(43:08):
modality at Serenity, and I do something sixty hours a week,
and that's business owner. That's marketing, strategic plan networking, finance,
all of the things that go into being a successful
business owner. That just because you're good at the trade
doesn't mean you're good at those things.

Speaker 2 (43:24):
And it sucks too because and I'll use myself as
an example, I'll use it. So I knew that. I
knew that I wanted to be a restaurant owner, but
you know, I didn't know anything about business. And there's
people that are great at making pizzas or great at
making whatever, and they don't know about business. And here's
the problem is not knowing about it. It could fuck
you to where you're like legally like that's what it means,

(43:46):
you know, Well, frustrating to be because I was even
paying somebody to know that. So I knew what I
didn't know. Yes, so I didn't act like I knew
everything I knew. I wasn't running the day to day business.
I knew what I didn't know. So to hire someone
in still get fucked was really. No one wants to
hear that. No one wants to hear you whine about that,
but really was frustrating.

Speaker 1 (44:05):
Yeah, people are bad at their jobs. I mean there are.
There are a lot of people. When we get confused
like that, like why did this happen? I hire the
expert that just like most businesses fail, most people are
not good at their job unfortunately.

Speaker 2 (44:19):
Yeah, that's a reality check. Yeah, all right, doctor, I
got a question for you. My ex husband was found
dead in his home six months ago. He was a
bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. She's
an ex husband. We were divorced for thirty years before
his death and have two children and four beautiful grandchildren.

(44:41):
For years, he bitterly complained to our children and refused
to attend special events because I left him. When there
were issues, he refused to help, insisting it was my
fault because I had left. The truth is I left
after I walked in on him having sex with my
older sister. Oh god, either of them saw me, and

(45:01):
I never told him and I never told anybody. Now
he's gone. My sister, who recently lost her husband, keeps
talking to me about my exbus husband, saying how good
looking he was. It makes me sick. I love my
husband when I left him, but I never could forgive
but I never but I could never forgive him. I
wish I had said something to him when he was alive,
but it's too late. Every time my sister speaks of him,

(45:23):
I get so upset. I want to confront her about it,
but I fear it would just do more harm than good.
It's not worth it. He's dead. His death has turned
my world upside down. I am so confused right now.
Can he put some clarity on it for me? Doctor
Tche's us out there.

Speaker 4 (45:39):
No, you can't get it right.

Speaker 2 (45:41):
You don't get paid enough.

Speaker 1 (45:42):
I mean, you know, it's I think we're all confused
on why this. Yeah, why nothing was said? I mean,
and we can't go back. But I am very confused
on why something was said. Something couldn't be said without
having anger, angry, confrontation or whatever, just said to get

(46:03):
out there. I don't know how somebody could live with
that and not get that out. But you know, I
think I think you should just look at the death
as closure. I mean, I'm not saying it was a
good thing per se, but at least that's partial closure.
And I am still not opposed to saying to your sister,

(46:23):
I never wanted to say anything. You're so important to me.
Your relationship is worth more than the blame. But I
do need to let you know I know what happened
between you and my ex husband. I forgive you, I
love you, and let's move on and then you have
double closure. That's all I can recommend. I don't think
you should hold that secret anymore. And as far as
why the death bothers you, I think anybody that you're

(46:45):
in a relationship with, and regardless of how that ends,
when they die, it's it's just an curt feeling.

Speaker 2 (46:53):
You can't spend thirty years with someone and not have
some feeling. Still. I do so, you think, you think,
she says, do.

Speaker 1 (47:01):
I think that you're harboring something that you don't realize.
And I think that the value of true forgiveness is
so empowering and healthy, And I think you've already forgiven.
But there's no reason she should ever bring him up
to you again. And you can get that closure taken
care of by letting her know that.

Speaker 2 (47:21):
So you let her know and then let her know
that you forgive her. Yeah, let me ask you this,
what if she denies it? And then like, have you
get in a whole because because nowadays people will deny, deny.

Speaker 1 (47:31):
They'll say, Okay, we both know, we both know the truth.
But you can continue telling yourself that and then move on.
And at least she knows, she knows, she knows, she
knows you know that she knows you know, so it's okay,
move on.

Speaker 2 (47:46):
Yeah. Yeah, Wow, wasn't defense. This is the shaggy defense.

Speaker 1 (47:53):
I have to tell you guys, what what we I know?
Are we done with that one? What we did last night?
We had a little gathering and it was so fun
and I highly recommend it to anybody listening. We had
a Conehead party. What we had a Conehead party and
everybody were you get your cone from Amazon for fourteen

(48:19):
to night? What you talk in the voice? And we
had a ring tous you have to talk in Conehead.
We watched Coneheads in the theater afterwards. But all I
made charcuterie cones and these little things and all the
bugles and drumsticks and all cone food, and you just
look so stupid, and you look so dumb, and you

(48:42):
have this big cone on your head, and you just
have to be able to laugh at yourself, and you're
trying to have like normal conversations on the person forgets
they're wearing a cone. I am not laughed so hardly,
and I don't remember.

Speaker 2 (48:56):
About it.

Speaker 1 (48:56):
It's so funny. And with the ring and trying to
get the rings on each other's heads.

Speaker 4 (49:03):
I'm legit wondering how many people are listening that don't
understand the reference the right So, yeah, yeah, years ago.

Speaker 6 (49:13):
Do you know what it is? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (49:15):
Yeah, so coneheads were It was a clip on Saturday
Night Live with Dan Aykroyd and they were aliens from
other planets. So the cone I'm talking about on your
head is like a foot.

Speaker 9 (49:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
That's the movie we watched, and it had literally i'd
say thirty famous I mean David Spain, Spade, Phil Phil Hartman,
Dan Ackroyd, Jane Curtain, I mean, Drew Carrey, Adam Sandler,
Chris Farley. All, I mean, there was i could go
on and what.

Speaker 2 (49:47):
Did you come up with the idea to do this? Well,
I had.

Speaker 1 (49:50):
I have a friend, her name's Kelly, and she does
it with her family and last year she's like, oh,
we should do this and I'm like, oh, yeah, that
sounds great, Kelly, that sounds so fun. I told my
husband I am not doing that right, and then she's like, no, seriously,
it's fun. So we only have like eight people because
I was not inviting my friends to something so stupid.
But sometimes you do things to pacify people, and same

(50:13):
kind of thing. It was so fun and we laughed
and I was like, oh my gosh, you just have
to get back to that fun dumb, make funn of yourself, clean,
just fun.

Speaker 4 (50:23):
Are you guys at the Roxbury next month?

Speaker 3 (50:27):
I would like intease.

Speaker 1 (50:29):
Yes, I want to see Stephen on the count, hurt.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
Me, you me, you.

Speaker 4 (50:36):
Cocaine everywhere?

Speaker 3 (50:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (50:38):
Now it will be an annual party.

Speaker 2 (50:40):
Yeah really, So you're not going to change up a
different theme every You're going to conehead.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
Party because you look so dumb and funny. It's just
it's really hard to not look at somebody to just
try laugh fun.

Speaker 3 (50:52):
I don't need a cone on my head to do that.

Speaker 2 (50:56):
I get into the question for you, doctor Dee. My
husband works out of state for an oil rig company.
Twenty days out of the month. He gets ten days off.
When he comes home. We may have two days of
quality time together. The rest of the time he spends
on his phone outside. When I recently had spinal surgery,
he came home supposedly do assist me. My doctor gave

(51:18):
him instructions to follow after the surgery. The first was
that observed me for twenty four hours to avert any complications. Well,
after a few hours, he left me alone so he
could spend time with his friends. I was sleeping when
he left. When I woke up, I was in pain.
I called him. I asked where he was. He, as usual,
got upset and said I can't spend my time with
my friends. I replied, no problem and hung up the phone.

(51:42):
He returned two hours later. We discussed it before he
left the house again. I don't know how to communicate
with him without causing issues. What should I do? Am
I wrong? She feels detached from her husband, like her
whole relationship.

Speaker 1 (51:57):
You know, I mean, there's a reason that fifty sixty
percent of marriages and and divice. I mean, people get
married when they shouldn't. People get married, then they grow
and evolve apart. You know, there's a book. He's just
not that into you, and unfortunately he's he's checked out.
And of course you have the right to be upset.

(52:17):
I mean, even if you didn't have surgery. It sounds like,
I mean, somebody that travels for their job, you know,
they should be excited to come home. And it should
be a very small percentage of time that you are
out and about without your significant other, if you're gone
fo or five days a week, right, So I think
it's it's bigger than a red flag. I think it's

(52:38):
a foundation of to me, very obvious that the that
the marriage is over unless you guys get help.

Speaker 4 (52:46):
I love my free time. I love you know, doing
you know, my own activities and things like that. But
I could not imagine leaving my wife like that, especially
when she's like especially when she's in need with the backscride.

Speaker 2 (52:58):
But even in even in general, it's like, if you
have your own hobbies, then you like to play Punkward
the Boys or whatever and do all that stuff, but
you're still coming home and you're still spending six hours
or five hours or whatever is sleeping and eating together.
There's time when you're completely gone for twenty days, you
get home and then two hours later you're out with

(53:18):
your friends, like the fuck and that ain't that ain't
It's like you said, doctor, but you know, sometimes you
need someone the outside to tell you this saint the thing.

Speaker 1 (53:28):
You know, there's no time back. I mean unless he's like, oh,
I just feel disconnected from you and I want to
go to counseling. I want to say this marriage, which
it doesn't sound like. I mean, like Denny said, even
when she was in a medical need, he wasn't there, so.

Speaker 2 (53:43):
It could even there twenty four hours for her.

Speaker 1 (53:45):
Yeah, yeah, there's.

Speaker 4 (53:48):
I guess something that the boys are just going to understand, like, hey,
my wife's back as fucked Yeah, like she needs me
right now. We can play call of duty later.

Speaker 3 (53:55):
Dude, His boys should have been like, don't you have
a wife at home with bad spy? Yeah, I'd be
feeling like you're kind of a bad.

Speaker 2 (54:08):
Right, You're fun to hang around with, but man, you're
an asshole husband.

Speaker 4 (54:14):
Piece of brois.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
Sometimes you tell your friends the pieces of this one
is done. This one is done for like you said,
unless unless he's he's committed to make major changes and
whatever it's And she's not wrong, right.

Speaker 1 (54:29):
Doctor, Absolutely not. I think I think you've probably I
mean only if I have to play devil's advocate, knowing
that we don't know all the details. If I have
to put blame on her at all, it would be
you've probably enabled him for too long. And it wasn't
until the spine surgery that now you're trying to lay
the hammer down. But you probably didn't have enough respect

(54:52):
for yourself in the past to you know, this ultimatum
or these conversations. He's it's gotten to the point that
you probably just allowed it too long. But you're probably
just trying to not you know, fight and have peace, but.

Speaker 2 (55:06):
Any other thing too for a lot of people not
to do. If some of you, if you'd agree, Man,
it's hard. It's a huge step to like you're ruining
I mean, I know you're in a bad talks really,
but you're ruining your life, Like where are you going
to live? How are you going to do your finances?
All your ship is combined? How do you detach all
that stuff? How do you do the house? I mean,

(55:27):
there is a lot that keeps you together. I mean
in that stuff, right.

Speaker 1 (55:31):
You're right, and the standards get lower and lower and lower,
and it's just like, well, I don't want to do
all that stuff there for at least he did this
and least and I see, you know, as a woman's
empowerment person and speaker and counselor. Yeah, it's very frustrating
to see. And I always say, if he's not going
to have respect for you, at least have respect for yourself.

Speaker 4 (55:51):
And I'll say the standards are probably in a direct
correlation with your happiness too, yeah, because that's just.

Speaker 2 (55:58):
You have to be miserable. I mean, you can't. I
can't live like that. It's unfortunately, it's a hassle going
through all that shit, but I mean it's worth for
your happiness in the end. It's worth it long term.
Long you'll look at the long term, all right, Sereni
Health and Wellness Surrende Nail Salon. What's going on, doctor d.

Speaker 1 (56:12):
Well It is still June. And as you know, whenever
there's a holiday in a particular month, even when that
holiday passes, we keep our specials until the last day
of the month. And I don't think we have any
more until Black Friday at this point.

Speaker 2 (56:26):
Oh wow.

Speaker 1 (56:26):
So if you'd like to get a discounted Manny petty
massage facial packages, buy them for yourself or you know,
if you didn't get what you wanted this Father's Day,
come get yourself a deep tissue or a sports massage.
Throw it on your account and take care of you.
You deserve it, all.

Speaker 2 (56:43):
Right, Thank you, doctor D. I'm doctor D from Sereni
Health and Wellness RNY Nail Salon. Thank you. And then Denny,
are you here tomorrow?

Speaker 4 (56:48):
Nope? Nope, now here tomorrow nopey Vegas. Yeah, I fly
out at ten forty five tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (56:54):
Would have fun.

Speaker 4 (56:55):
Pro So, yeah, I'll be at the in the airport
tomorrow and have fun.

Speaker 2 (56:58):
And then, by the way, even be hearty. His podcast
Unstripped is up right now wherever you get your podcasts.
How was the show this week?

Speaker 3 (57:07):
It was good Man, good one. Yeah the girl that uh,
oh my god? What I love the ladies man, I do,
But I don't miss dealing with strippers. I'm dealing with
it in a different way now. But it's pretty much likeache.

Speaker 2 (57:23):
You're you're you're requiring them. To be somewhere and they'd
be unreliable.

Speaker 3 (57:28):
This girl had like special requests, like I have to
be on the show by myself, no other girls because
I have anxiety or whatever. And I was like, Okay,
we'll make it happen. And then the day comes and
she texts us at like three in the morning that
morning like, hey, my nerves got the best of me.
I won't be there in the morning. I was just like,
oh my god, we made this whole episode for you,

(57:48):
but it did me and my co host. We just
sat there and talked about a bunch of stuff, so
it was great.

Speaker 2 (57:53):
Check out Unstripped wherever you get your podcasts, and we'll
talk to you guys to more and have a great day.
Bye bye.
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