Andrew Z in the Morning! 7.9.2025 - Hour 1

Andrew Z in the Morning! 7.9.2025 - Hour 1

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
What day is it to day?

Speaker 2 (00:01):
It's Wednesday, Jesus is only Wednesday.

Speaker 1 (00:03):
Get some coffee.

Speaker 3 (00:04):
You woke me up.

Speaker 1 (00:05):
Definitely need my coffee, you.

Speaker 4 (00:06):
Know, I really need what what do you need?

Speaker 2 (00:09):
Caffeinated bacon?

Speaker 5 (00:10):
Genius? I can get behind that, pumped him. I right, buddy, Yes, yes, yes,
let's like this scandal.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
You know what time it is?

Speaker 3 (00:17):
What is it?

Speaker 6 (00:18):
So time?

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (00:19):
Yeah, good morning? You is born ning, good mooning, good mooning,
good mooning. It is Wednesday. The date is February ninth,
twenty twenty five. Welcome to a dimeter Z Kelly Lance,
the Princess of Property from Howard Hannah Realty. We got
Dinny Crum and Lisa Lisa Lento done.

Speaker 4 (00:44):
Yeah, that's what I'm going.

Speaker 5 (00:44):
By these What made you pick that?

Speaker 4 (00:48):
Just so many people that still know.

Speaker 7 (00:49):
Me as Lisa Lento even though it's from like twenty
five it's not a long time.

Speaker 5 (00:53):
Yeah, and then you're just like so just kept on
to it.

Speaker 6 (00:55):
So I don't know, Yeah, I just so all my
like high school friends call me Kelly Robbins.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
That's my name, Like that's what I'm in their phone,
is right?

Speaker 7 (01:04):
I mean?

Speaker 2 (01:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:05):
Have you ever have you ever look at your phone
and call somebody who you haven't called in a while
or just and they're in your phone. They're in your
phone for twenty years as what you originally know them as. Yeah,
and I mean your relationship has progressed, but your phone
still says I gut at the bar.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Yes.

Speaker 6 (01:27):
So when I was dating, we wouldn't give guys that.
We never called them by their first name.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
We had like.

Speaker 4 (01:34):
Nicknames for all Joe from Bumble.

Speaker 6 (01:37):
Like like we were like the boxer yeah, or the
little Mexican Jesus.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
Did you ever see that bad?

Speaker 2 (01:48):
Right?

Speaker 5 (01:48):
That's what we did.

Speaker 7 (01:50):
Did you ever see the story where the lady accidentally
she was sending a birthday invite to for her like
daughter's birthday party, and somehow it went to like all
contacts and it showed all the contact themes, And that's
how she had people listed in her phone as like
like Gary, the guy I hooked up with, Like it
went out to like all the kids in there last parents,

(02:13):
like her family. She was like mortified. It was like
a whole thing. It was so funny.

Speaker 5 (02:17):
I just got a text in four one nine, three,
four five through three seven five, this is triple A.
We're on our way, Jesus man. So so check this out.
So I go, I have to go sign some paperwork
in Temperance yesterday, and I got to get there before five,
and I get there at four fifty five, and I
fucking come outside and I have a flat tire. So
I call Triple A and they get there at six thirty,

(02:40):
which ninety minutes is a long time, but I mean,
I guess I can deal with it. And so I
have a truck, and the truck the sparre is on
the outside of the bed and then you like lower
it down or some bullshit. I don't know, and so
you have to do that. And I've never had a
flat in this car, so so I didn't know. I

(03:00):
didn't have a jack. So I had to call Triple A.
I I wasn't gonna change it anyway, but I had
to call Triple A. And then the dude is jinking
around with it from like six thirty to like seven,
and then he's like, man, it's rusted or I can't
get it down or whatever. Whatever. I'm like, I don't
care cut it down, just get it the fuck there's
a full size spare and whatever. He's like, We're gonna

(03:21):
have to toew you home. I'm like, you told me home.
I'm in temperance. It's gonna take another hour, and then
I have to go still find a tire. I'm like, dude,
come on. So anyway, he's gonna tease say, all right,
so I'm gonna drop this car. You gotta call again,
and then I'll come right back to get you. I'm
gonna have to because he had a car on his tour.
He said, I'm gonna go drop this car. You call
us back through Triple A, and I'm gonna come back

(03:42):
and we're gonna be good.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (03:43):
So anyway, I do all that, and so this is
like six thirty seven o'clock, eight thirty, still no one's
showed up. And then around a forty five, I get
an automated message and says one hundred and twenty seven minutes,
and I'm like, that's gonna be ten fucking a. I've
been here since five.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
I'll tell you like I I saw your Facebook live
last night, like oh Andrew with Facebook Live, and it
was the news and it was the most boring Facebook
Live I was. I was very disappointed in that episode.

Speaker 5 (04:17):
That's because my Facebook lives have been so hot lately.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
Yeah. I was like, I was like, oh, let's let's
see what happened now, and then it was just like
it was a filler episode, filler.

Speaker 5 (04:27):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (04:29):
So anyway, so then it's gonna so they tell me
it's gonna be ten o'clock, and then I'm like, I
want to speak to a fucking manager. I'm sitting here
for four hours. It's like nine. Manager never called me back,
and I just I had to call another guy that
lives around there that came and cut the thing off
and got my tire on. And I think I got
home at ten thirty. For five o'clock, I left at

(04:51):
four thirty. I think I got home at ten thirty.
Last night, Andrew insane.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
It was in a shit show.

Speaker 5 (05:00):
Man and Lista just said she welcome to the clubs.
Lisa just walked in and when she walked in, she's like,
what is going on with your life? What? It was like?

Speaker 7 (05:08):
I had I was on the show like two weeks ago,
and then I had really like seeing a a whole
lot and you know, I'm in my own I live
in my own bubble. Yeah yeah, And so all of
a sudden like I caught like a Facebook Live and
I was like, yeah, I caught like the good episode okay,
and I was.

Speaker 4 (05:26):
Like, holy crap, Like what happened since last week.

Speaker 5 (05:31):
It's funny because I talked to well, I talked to
the lawyer. This lawyer, She's like, I didn't know who
you were. Please stop posting. I'm like, you didn't tell
me not to post. She's like, I told you not
to talk about it. That included social media. But I
didn't know.

Speaker 4 (05:48):
But that's when that's like your life or like part
of your job.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
When the lawyer says, don't talk about it, You're like,
except for Facebook Live, right, there's a constitution about except
for my.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
Show every day.

Speaker 3 (06:00):
That's what I thought.

Speaker 5 (06:01):
Yeah, so it was so so just let you know
how bitter and petty it is.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
We're going to talk about it.

Speaker 5 (06:10):
Oh, go ahead, go ahead, least just be filtered.

Speaker 4 (06:12):
I I know that lawyer.

Speaker 5 (06:13):
Well, we don't have we don't have an app anymore
right now. The app has been shut down. So uh yeah,
so we're on we're on Facebook, we're on all our
other stuff, but we're not on an app. So if
you're trying to get on the app, you ain't gonna
get it, but we're moving. We're moving over to the
Pirate Radio app. Anyway, it's a better app. And so
by next week we should have that done. But it

(06:34):
was just it's just we got shut down about three
days too earlier than we needed to be. So for
whatever reason, I don't know that. Oh there's there's been
a lot of petty, a lot of petty for whatever reason,
I just why, why is it? Why didn't just walk away?
You just walk away and we're all good, You're good,

(06:55):
I'm good. Have have you been You've been had a
couple of breakups there at least have you been? Is
it petty?

Speaker 4 (07:00):
I have petty?

Speaker 5 (07:02):
Or is it like it? Is it pretty amicable or well.

Speaker 4 (07:06):
Let's see.

Speaker 7 (07:07):
Recently, I did hear from I'm just gonna say an
ex okay, I'm not gonna say and this is a
funny story, and they were like, can you please quit texting?
My ex said I can't be a social media I
can't be an influencer like I had like this, Hashi.
It was actually kind of trending. It was going well,
you know, And and I did have an ex say
that to me that, you know, like, oh you think

(07:28):
you're a social media you're not gonna be a social
media influencer. And I was like, I'm like a Toledo influencer,
you know. And so I got to say, this is
maybe like three months ago, but like, you know, way
way way years out of like the relationship, and you
text it, and I was like, well, how like narcissistic
of you to think that that's about you?

Speaker 4 (07:47):
You know, like it was, but.

Speaker 7 (07:51):
That's not the point, okay, But you know it's just
I don't know, like I don't do This is my
philosophy with breakups. You know, I believe fully in karma,
and I know how I live.

Speaker 4 (08:08):
I live my life. Right.

Speaker 7 (08:09):
I'm a good person. You know, I'm kind even in
a breakup. I still am very like kind and generous.
And if you're gonna do me dirty or you want
to go out and be petty and stuff, that's on you.
I'm not gonna like get involved with that. I'm just
gonna hold my head up high and walk away.

Speaker 5 (08:23):
Right, Yes, what's the point because because in the end,
I mean, you're gonna be petty, then I gotta be
petty and then next thing, you know, all your ship
is sold on marketplace.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
Yeah, and what was in the apps off?

Speaker 5 (08:36):
And the point and what's the apps off? Well, what's
the point of all that?

Speaker 7 (08:39):
And all it does when you know, when things get
ugly and things get like crappy like that, all it's
doing is costing both people more mindy.

Speaker 4 (08:46):
Yes, you know it's it's.

Speaker 5 (08:49):
Crazy, fucking insane. I got a text in four one
nine three four five three three seven five honestly doesn't
surprise me. Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
I will say this though, like when you break up.

Speaker 6 (09:00):
The hardest thing it's been for me is like running
into friends that he's told.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
Because he told them his version.

Speaker 5 (09:10):
Oh yeah, so so they already have a thought of.

Speaker 6 (09:13):
You so so and yeah, and the last time it happened,
they go, oh so that's your version. I was like,
oh yeah, no, yeah, that kind of And really that's
when I get upset.

Speaker 2 (09:27):
But I was so good. I wanted to rage text,
but I didn't.

Speaker 5 (09:31):
Yeah, it's like you wanted to read checks him. Yeah, yeah, yeah, No,
it's not worth it, Tim, Just Tim turning in people
trying to get on the app. Yet it's not working. Tim,
I'm working on We're actually actually it takes it back
if you if you have an iPhone and you search
Pirate Radio or Andrew Z in the in the app store,

(09:54):
the app is there already, It's just it's not there
for Google. Let me look real quick. I'm sorry, I
guess just go to what is good?

Speaker 4 (10:02):
We're gonna do like Facebook Live.

Speaker 5 (10:03):
Yes, absolute, Yeah, that's what That's where most people are
watching right now. But I want to where's the app store?
How do you do that? Let me see I'm looking anyway.
Steven be Hardy is here.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
Good morning, Stephen be Hardy, Good morning, my friends.

Speaker 5 (10:17):
Tough day yesterday, very tough.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
I haven't stopped crying.

Speaker 5 (10:21):
Really. Yeah, tell everyone what you had to do.

Speaker 8 (10:25):
Uh, yesterday we had to put my dog down.

Speaker 3 (10:30):
And I told Andrew yesterday. I feel way worse about
that than I do about what he's going.

Speaker 1 (10:38):
There's just a lot of shifting and chaos going.

Speaker 7 (10:43):
It is like a weird do you guys feel like
it's kind of like a weird time like in the
world right now. It's just like there's so much Toledo
has been crazy lately.

Speaker 5 (10:51):
Lisa, I don't know, it's insane. Yeah, things are insane.
People are going like I don't know anyone that's not
going through it. You know, whatever whatever it is for them,
they are going through it.

Speaker 7 (11:04):
It's like we're in some kind of weird like vortex
or something where like stuff is just going all wonky lately.

Speaker 4 (11:10):
It's just it's really a weird time right now.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
First psychic jam, when you need her.

Speaker 5 (11:15):
I know we're gonna bring her. We're gonna have to
bring her in and see what's going on with her.
But if you search a pirate radio and I'll post
a link or something, but we were not even on
there yet, so I don't even do that, all right,
So yes, even so, how long had you had your dog?

Speaker 8 (11:33):
Well, I got him when like my foster grandma, I
guess is what she was when she passed away. So
I got him back in twenty seventeen. So it's just
been a we've had him for like eight years.

Speaker 6 (11:49):
Sucks, man, don't I don't even think I could. That's
like the one of the hardest things I'm gonna do.

Speaker 5 (11:54):
It was I think, Yeah, it.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
Was pretty rough.

Speaker 8 (11:56):
It was like easier to talk about it, and then
like the moment you get in there, you're just like, oh, ship, yeah,
I guess we're doing this, And like you know, I
wanted him to be as comfortable as he could be,
but he was freaking out a little bit.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
He hates the vets. So we're just in there and
I just felt really bad. But we were all around him.

Speaker 5 (12:13):
So that's good. That's good man, all right, Yeah, at
least I'm good.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
Thank you.

Speaker 7 (12:20):
I don't know you, but let you do what and like,
I don't know put my I don't.

Speaker 5 (12:26):
Know chans wear, I don't nowhere at could she put
her handsomewhere.

Speaker 1 (12:32):
Steven if she wants. I had one lady offered to
show me your titties because I.

Speaker 5 (12:37):
Was so sad, and I was just like, that's sad.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
I was like, you picked the wrong day to offer
me that.

Speaker 5 (12:42):
That's what That's what happens when you live in a
stripper world, Steven. That's what they do.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
Who gives hugs.

Speaker 8 (12:51):
They're like, here's some titties. I hate seeing you sad.
I was like, those are nice, but doesn't replace my dog.

Speaker 5 (12:58):
Yeah, we will be on the people are like I
listened to I have the Pirate radio app, but that
we're not We're not on there. I have to learn.
I have to figure out how to shoot it to there.
So I have to shoot it to the app to
get it's not gonna happen today. It ain't gonna happen today.
By the way. Bobby Smith, remember Bobby, he he only
eats fruit. Yeah, I know, he's a fruit. He's a fruit.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
My first interview he's listening.

Speaker 5 (13:19):
Yeah, really just two years ago, Bobby. That's all he
does is eat fruit. He's a fruitarian. Nothing else, I think.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
And sometimes he only pigs eats.

Speaker 5 (13:28):
One fruit, so they're like watermelon for like forty five
days and then eat like oranges for like sixty days,
and that's all he will eat.

Speaker 1 (13:35):
Is that like really good for you?

Speaker 5 (13:36):
I know, I don't know if it's good for you,
it's good for him. He's lost. He was like three
or four hundred pounds. He weighs like one hundred pounds now.

Speaker 4 (13:42):
Well, yeah, at water skinny too.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
I thought about that the other day.

Speaker 8 (13:48):
I just bought a whole bunch of fruit, and I
was like, damn, I could probably just like live off
this ship, you know, every day.

Speaker 1 (13:53):
But I wasn't sure if it was something you could
do or not.

Speaker 5 (13:56):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
I mean, any protein I was gonna say, it can't be.

Speaker 7 (14:01):
I mean, you might lose weight, but it can't be
healthy for your body, like you're not getting all the
nutrients that you bought.

Speaker 5 (14:06):
Bobby swears by it.

Speaker 6 (14:07):
Though, but he also, like I watched a lot of
his stuff because it was he was my first interview,
so and he says that he gets into this. It's
almost like a running high. It's like a fruit high.

Speaker 5 (14:23):
Wow. By the way, someone said, Steve Reimi is also
a fruititarian.

Speaker 3 (14:30):
That's funny.

Speaker 5 (14:35):
Even the low hanging fruit.

Speaker 1 (14:39):
Key.

Speaker 5 (14:39):
Oh, I love Kelly snorts is so funny. All right,
I got I have a question for you. Would you
rather look good or feel good? That was the That
was the survey question that was asked of Americans. Would
you rather look good, so you know, on the outside,
or feel good on the inside? Denny Crome.

Speaker 3 (15:01):
I mean, it's like it's feeling a lot of times
those things go hand.

Speaker 5 (15:03):
In hand, and this one does not. You're either hideous
on the outside or you're you're perfect on the inside.

Speaker 3 (15:09):
I feel good?

Speaker 5 (15:11):
What does it feel good? Not even close? Really, you'd
just be a hideous monster on the outside. And as
long as you feel good, you're okay. It's like Shrek.

Speaker 4 (15:19):
Like Shrek, that's like such the good human answer.

Speaker 5 (15:23):
I know. So if you look like Shrek on the outside, Kelly,
and but you're you're you're you're perfect in the things
are together? Do what do you want to do?

Speaker 4 (15:32):
What do you think?

Speaker 5 (15:33):
I'm cracking good.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
I don't care how I feel.

Speaker 3 (15:38):
I don't care how I feel on the outside. These thoughts,
they could be terrible twenty four to seven, as long
as when I look in the mirror, I go there,
there it.

Speaker 5 (15:47):
Is the ISoP there, it is there, It is all right.
So Denny's inside Kelly's outside me.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
It's just like, you know, you can't really give a
ship what people think.

Speaker 4 (15:57):
I do, and I think that's work.

Speaker 3 (16:01):
That's what the meta that's what the meta version of
this question is, essentially, is like do you do you
care what you think? You can care what other people think?

Speaker 5 (16:08):
Like other people think, but Denny, But Denny, Here's it's
a it's a one hundred percent fact that the world
in life is easier if you look good. I mean,
it just is like the life is fucking harder for
people that don't get good your.

Speaker 3 (16:25):
Period, correct about that. But at the same like, I
have to live with me twenty four to seven.

Speaker 5 (16:31):
I get it.

Speaker 3 (16:32):
I hear you like you you guys, you guys, you
in particular see me for two hours a day. There's
people who work they'll see me for eight, nine, ten
hours a day. But you know, I live with myself
twenty four seven. So like, I like, I'm I'm not
going to carry around a terrible feeling.

Speaker 5 (16:45):
All right, Stephen b.

Speaker 1 (16:48):
Oh, I'll take the looks. Yeah here, oh day, I don't.
I don't give a shit about that inside stuff, he.

Speaker 5 (16:58):
Said, all day. All right, Lisa, you're up one hundred percent.

Speaker 4 (17:03):
How I look on the outside?

Speaker 3 (17:05):
Question?

Speaker 4 (17:06):
No, like, there is no question, Holy okay. And I
do feel like we realize who the good human in
the room.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
Is and it is not we want.

Speaker 5 (17:19):
And for me, it's one outside like that. It's not
even a clos superficial. It's not even a close guy
I am.

Speaker 8 (17:25):
So I don't think I'm superficial. I think if I
had the option to be, I definitely would be.

Speaker 5 (17:31):
You would be superficial. All right. So, so four out
of five said outside. So here's what Americans say. Three
in four Americans claim they'd rather feel good.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
So, like how you put all time?

Speaker 5 (17:46):
I'm not You're not in the minority of Americas, the
minority of this room.

Speaker 3 (17:54):
Choose my friends.

Speaker 2 (17:57):
We're terrible.

Speaker 1 (17:58):
Definitely find some more.

Speaker 8 (18:00):
Yeah, we're all too good looking over here, She's she's Denny.

Speaker 5 (18:07):
You're hideous, bro hideous. I got some text messages In
four one nine three, four five three three seventy five,
Rachel said, I'll take feeling good as long as I
can keep my my good boobs. I gotta lose those
two Jeff Jeff ray s is going to be a
great show when there's laugh snorting. Only twenty minutes in,

(18:29):
exactly exactly, Rachel said, you can always always put a
bag over my head too. I got another one, plastic
on another one. I lost my dog last may can
Lisa put her hands all over me? Please?

Speaker 4 (18:47):
I don't know what do you look like? He's all
about lux Have you noticed do you have a boat?

Speaker 5 (18:53):
That's right?

Speaker 1 (18:55):
He can be ugly if you have a Boat's true.

Speaker 5 (18:58):
It's true for summer. Is just for summer. Yeah, what
do you have to have in winter to be able
to be ugly and still hang out?

Speaker 3 (19:08):
And that's the other thing. You don't have to look
good because like you know, like the attractiveness meter that
goes up when you're funny, and it goes up when
you have money. Like there's things that you can do
to offset not looking great.

Speaker 5 (19:20):
That is.

Speaker 7 (19:21):
I actually had an experience like that where I wasn't
like physically attracted to somebody at first, and as I
got to know them in their personality and everything, then
I was like.

Speaker 4 (19:31):
Super attractive to them. So that definitely happened.

Speaker 5 (19:33):
The problem is in the Bumble, Tinder, whatever the dating
app is world is where we we judge people so
much on looks now that we don't even sometimes we
don't even give him a chance to get to know them.
It sucks.

Speaker 6 (19:47):
Andrew, would you ever do one of those sites Bumble
or Tinder?

Speaker 1 (19:52):
Something grinder for you? Buddy?

Speaker 5 (19:56):
The only thing, the only thing I would consider is
for one night single.

Speaker 7 (20:02):
I'm going to make you like my little project and Kelly,
I gotta get you guys like both like us.

Speaker 5 (20:09):
I would love it.

Speaker 6 (20:10):
We got to represent the over fifty god, Right's I
mean there are actually I have some really nice members
that are over fifty.

Speaker 5 (20:19):
When you were because we consider you that you're the
dating expert, Lisa, we were talking about this yesterday. Does
it seem like this season in the older generation forties fifties,
that more people are single or not in like because
I don't know if I'm noticing it more because it
was a point or yeah, because you're or if or

(20:42):
if if that is true.

Speaker 4 (20:44):
No, I think that there are.

Speaker 7 (20:45):
I think what I've noticed is that they stay very secluded,
like they don't you know, they're not on the apps
as much. They're they're not I guess, like putting it
out there. They're not telling people that. And then you know,
like when I started this and all of a sudden,
they're like, oh and I still Like every day we'll
get several messages from people that are probably in that

(21:06):
age range and they're like, I don't know, I.

Speaker 4 (21:08):
Saw the pictures.

Speaker 7 (21:09):
There's some cute people, but they look kind of young,
you know, like I think they're they're nervous, they don't
they just stick to themselves, or maybe they think like, well,
this is just how it's supposed to be for me,
you know where I think if you're under fifty, you're
still like, oh, I got a lot of time, Like
I still want to find someone to get married again,
you know, things like that. So I just I do
think that there is a difference.

Speaker 5 (21:30):
Yeah, Kelly told us yesterday that she does not want
to get married again. Do you want to get married again?

Speaker 7 (21:35):
I absolutely do. Really, yeah, I believe. I believe in married.

Speaker 5 (21:39):
I've been married once, right.

Speaker 7 (21:41):
I was married once for fifteen years and then in
a long term relationship.

Speaker 4 (21:46):
But one believe in marriage.

Speaker 7 (21:48):
And I've seen, you know, people that are married and
it lasts and they're happy.

Speaker 4 (21:53):
I think this is the difference. This is the issue.

Speaker 7 (21:55):
I think people get married because it's the right thing
to do or the next step, the progression in their relationship.

Speaker 4 (22:02):
That's never going to work. Okay.

Speaker 7 (22:05):
I want to get married because I meet someone and
I'm so in love with them that we want to
share that together and that's an experience we have together.
And I think if people would start doing that with
marriage in general, it would make a big difference.

Speaker 5 (22:17):
That's interesting.

Speaker 2 (22:18):
You don't have to get married to enjoy each other
and does.

Speaker 5 (22:22):
Not want to get married again? Yeah yeah, but you
had to throw out there. But the.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
Text that's if you have money.

Speaker 4 (22:35):
Yeah yeah, yeah, Now you're talking my language.

Speaker 5 (22:38):
The boat, the guys with the boat.

Speaker 4 (22:40):
I do need health insurance, right, ship.

Speaker 5 (22:44):
That's what I need to know that I need a
nurse or I need something. Is someone with good health insurance?

Speaker 4 (22:48):
Yeah? So are we all self pay here?

Speaker 5 (22:52):
Think we are well? Steven? Do you have Do you
have insurance through your work?

Speaker 1 (22:55):
Not yet, but I will you will.

Speaker 5 (22:58):
Denny's a union guy, so he's.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
Getting great and incredible.

Speaker 2 (23:04):
I still have it.

Speaker 6 (23:05):
I'm technically I'm still Tim's domestic partner.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
Oh for how long he's given me? I think until
I move out. So I'm getting everything done.

Speaker 4 (23:15):
Are still Are you still living together right now?

Speaker 2 (23:19):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (23:19):
But not worst? Yes?

Speaker 5 (23:22):
And did you did you have to do that Lisa
when you're with your ex?

Speaker 3 (23:25):
No?

Speaker 4 (23:25):
Nope, no did we moved out right away? He actually
went and lived with his.

Speaker 7 (23:31):
And his parents and gave me, you know, like a
month and it wasn't long, but gave me a month
to find a new place, living it out, and you know,
and I was lucky. I found something like right around
the corner, still in the kids school district, things like that,
so you know, it worked out. But I have I
know a lot of people have been in that situation
where they end up having to live. I mean I

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just talked to well last night, a friend that met
me and my friend Gin now he was telling us
kind of like his whole story, and he said a
lot eleven months he lived with his acts eleven months.

Speaker 2 (24:03):
Well.

Speaker 6 (24:04):
Tim asked if we could do it until October because
and I'm.

Speaker 5 (24:07):
Like, no, did you don't they say? Don't they say
that you that you shouldn't leave the house? Like, if
you're right, is that true?

Speaker 2 (24:16):
Killing that's true?

Speaker 6 (24:17):
But why I don't know because right now we're negotiating.
You know, he has to pay me out of the house. Yea,
And until I get the money.

Speaker 5 (24:26):
You're staying in it.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
I have no choice. I mean I could.

Speaker 5 (24:32):
No.

Speaker 6 (24:32):
I mean, we're doing the best we can. We have
good days and bad days. But yeah, I mean I
could buy a house now, but the counsel has told
me I should stay in the house until I get paid. Okay,
So I've been looking at houses and I'm like so
torn on what to do or what to buy.

Speaker 2 (24:52):
And so I guess it's good that I have this
time to think.

Speaker 4 (24:55):
What and not having to make a rush decision.

Speaker 7 (25:00):
I think that's the benefit of it, right, Like, if
you are still in the house, you have some time
to prepare. I had to make kind of like a
rush decision and more difficult.

Speaker 5 (25:09):
I'm with you, I have to be out by the
end of the month, and I'm moving into an RV.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
You know what.

Speaker 5 (25:18):
The river right I have?

Speaker 7 (25:20):
You know, I have Pinterest boards on these like tiny
houses and or barn dominiums or these the what's the
they take the big.

Speaker 5 (25:30):
Crates containers contain contains.

Speaker 7 (25:33):
I think I think that you, if you are single
and you're going to look for something, do the most
cost effective thing you can do so you can like rebuild.
I didn't have that choice. I had kids. I had
to find something in a certain school district that was,
you know, big enough for three kids at the time.
And that really stinks because you're already rebuilding from your situation.

(25:53):
Then you're going into something that's very expensive. So my
advice is, if you can take the time, if you
can now rush into something, go to whatever's cheapest so you.

Speaker 4 (26:03):
Can just get back on your feet and rebuild again.

Speaker 5 (26:05):
That's what I'm going to try to do. And I'm
hoping that I get hit the lottery because one of
my mom's friends, well no, I not literally hit the lorry,
but one of my mom's friends lives like ten minutes
from here, five minutes from my mom right on the
same street, and her husband just died and she's kind
of older and she lives by herself on twenty six

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acres in Perrysburg.

Speaker 4 (26:27):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 5 (26:28):
So I'm like, can I just have a quarter of
a quarter of a quarter of an acre to part
my RV and my food trucks? And I'm good, Yeah,
I don't need a whole lot? Is this is too
much for anyway? It is what it is. I don't well,
and as.

Speaker 7 (26:40):
You get older, like you do, want to start simplifying
your life anyways. You know, if I have one one
child is already out of the home. You know, I
have another one who's seventeen, it's not me long before
he's out of the house. And then I'm thinking to myself,
you know what I have right now for just me
is a lot to take care of.

Speaker 4 (26:58):
It's a lot of yard, it's a lot of house.
And I'm like, you know, I.

Speaker 7 (27:02):
Would rather have something simple, like I really I'm tired
of doing it all on my own.

Speaker 5 (27:08):
I think I'm gonna like it, but I'm gonna I
already have the RV, so I'm going to try it
and see if I don't. Then you know, I have,
I have moved. Then I move on. Then Steve and
I get to play a bachelor pad together and.

Speaker 1 (27:20):
That might be a thing for real.

Speaker 4 (27:23):
Yeah, are we moving this to my house? Is this
what's going on?

Speaker 5 (27:26):
And we yes, we are looking, We are looking.

Speaker 2 (27:28):
We are lucky.

Speaker 4 (27:30):
I do have a really big dining room table.

Speaker 7 (27:33):
Yeah, it's like, it's the one good thing I got
out of my my thing. It was it's an our
house table. I really wanted that table. Actually we had
a lot of issues about this table. Okay, but I
was like, my god, I was.

Speaker 4 (27:46):
Getting that table. That was really the only thing I
really wanted.

Speaker 5 (27:49):
You know.

Speaker 4 (27:49):
It wasn't like I had that in the Christmas tree.

Speaker 5 (27:51):
So it was like, but here's here's the problem with
the r V is asking Kelly and Kelly yesterday is
if if I said I said, hey, what's up, you
will go back to my RV, that that that would
be a problem. That'd be problematic because neither Kelly's would
go back to my RV.

Speaker 3 (28:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (28:06):
See you No, I would not say, well that that's
an issue. Man, I will tell you this. I know,
but I know you do. I don't want those girls though, sure, well, no,
you not long term?

Speaker 4 (28:21):
Yeah, those are not married.

Speaker 2 (28:27):
Shows girls hug.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
We don't hug. We show tits.

Speaker 4 (28:31):
It is, it is true.

Speaker 7 (28:32):
Unfortunately, I have like a newer friend who's a friend
of a friend that I met, and he's recently divorced,
and he was saying, how you know, He's like, I
have four kids now. Two of his kids are older
and grown two or younger, you know, to like live
on their own. But he's like, I have four kids.
I'm living in an apartment, you know.

Speaker 4 (28:51):
So even though the.

Speaker 7 (28:52):
Guy is a great guy and he's got a job
and all this stuff, he's like, there's just a lot
of things that when I tell somebody, they're like instantly like, oh,
like scared off by scared by bage?

Speaker 5 (29:02):
Yes, yeah, scared by baggage. But at fifty, I mean
when you're not even fifty, if you're forty, if you're older,
if you're older than Steven Stevens in his thirties, there's
gonna be baggage, right. Is there anyone that doesn't have
baggage in their forties? No, No, everyone has baggage.

Speaker 7 (29:16):
Yeah, everyone has baggage probably from here thirty on up. Yeah,
Like you know, maybe in your twenties you're still not
like loaded down with it, But everyone else, it's about
how you process, how you handle it, do you you know?
I hate My biggest thing is, this is a huge
issue with relationships and dating is when people project their
past relationships onto their new partner or the new person

(29:38):
they're dating.

Speaker 4 (29:39):
It's a huge issue.

Speaker 7 (29:42):
I've had that conversation with men that i'm seeing where
I'm like, i am not, I'm sorry you're.

Speaker 4 (29:47):
Extent when I have sex with you, you know, like, I'm.

Speaker 7 (29:49):
Sorry, that's not me, Like, you can't keep projecting that
under me, because.

Speaker 5 (29:53):
This is because I will have sex.

Speaker 7 (29:54):
Yeah, I will do it right right my hands on.

Speaker 5 (30:01):
You see, this is our house table.

Speaker 7 (30:08):
No, But like in all honesty, it is an important
part of relationships. That's a whole separate topic.

Speaker 5 (30:12):
Uh huh.

Speaker 4 (30:13):
But as far as like the.

Speaker 7 (30:15):
Projecting people need to you, you have to heal and
you have to deal with your own ship before you
If you.

Speaker 4 (30:22):
Just are dating for fun or casual, that's one thing.

Speaker 7 (30:24):
But if you are trying to like seriously intentionally date
and look for somebody, I firmly believe that you've got
to be maybe not all the way healed, but somewhat healed,
and you got to leave that that at the at
the door.

Speaker 5 (30:37):
Here's what Here's what I was telling telling everyone you
yesterday was that if you get out of a relationship,
then I'm like, let's get back, let's jump bar back
into another one. Because here's the wine, here's the why,
here's the why thought.

Speaker 1 (30:52):
This is the beause you don't want to be alone?

Speaker 5 (30:54):
The white well, no, the why is your why? Why?

Speaker 3 (30:57):
Beat?

Speaker 5 (30:58):
Why depress yourself over this because all you're doing is
think about some other one. Feel that fill that with
new love. I feel that with new excitement.

Speaker 2 (31:06):
Feel right.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
But yeah, and and the thing that too many people
do is they'll get with that person while they're still
thinking about the other person. Yeah, and that's that's not
that's you. That's not fair.

Speaker 5 (31:19):
I used to think that.

Speaker 7 (31:21):
I used to have the same when when I first
got a divorce. You know, I've been married fifteen years.
All I knew was how to be a wife. I
had been a wife since I was twenty two years old,
so that's all I knew. And you know, I always
say to this like I am a tradition in the whole.
I know it doesn't come across like that on here.
But I am very traditional in the home. I believe,
you know, in in taking care of a house and

(31:42):
a person and my kids. But somebody gave me this
advice when I was first divorced, and I didn't take it. Okay,
Now this time around, I am taking it. They said,
you need to be okay being alone and being okay
on your own in order for you to ever really
find something really good.

Speaker 5 (32:00):
But why why it's depressed? It is why yourself is depressed.

Speaker 3 (32:03):
It's always depressing if you let it be depressed.

Speaker 7 (32:05):
No, you need to fill your You fill the void
with your own happiness and your own fulfillment. And then
at that point, I believe you are set up and
ready to find I was so happy.

Speaker 3 (32:17):
I was so happy when I was single. I was
so happy, and I and not and like you know
said many times, Andrew, you remember when I when I
was going, you know, through that phase of my life,
and I always maintained I would never get into a
relationship just to get into a relationship. That's how you
get into bad relationships. But you know, and I'm not
going to get with someone unless they either maintain that

(32:37):
current level of happiness or make me happier. I mean,
and I didn't. I did not get into a relationship
until I found someone that did that. Like, you got
to be happy with yourself first, and.

Speaker 5 (32:46):
I'm happy with myself. I'm I'm put together happy. My
life was a ship show by yourself.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (32:54):
And that's not easy, Andrew.

Speaker 6 (32:57):
And that's you know why it is easier to get
into put yourself into a relationship, even though it won't
be successful. It is easier. But that's what I'm struggling
with right now because I don't like to be alone.

Speaker 4 (33:09):
It is right, I've never been alone.

Speaker 5 (33:11):
Actually way, oh, you and I just hang out then.

Speaker 7 (33:15):
I think that's important too, right, That was kind of
part of the whole thing behind four or nine singles.
It's not just about finding love, it's about finding a
support system. Yeah, friends, people in the same stage of
life as you that you can relate to. And you know,
like last night I was out with single people. It's
nice to be able to sit there. And I mean,
you know, we talked about some of our relationship issues
and things we've been through recently. And I do think

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that that is a big key part of it is
you have to have a support.

Speaker 5 (33:40):
System four nine, three seventy five. How are you going
to do your show in an RV? Is st even
going to be driving around live on the show? Hey, guys,
we're at heather Downs and Reynolds.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
I would totally be down way.

Speaker 3 (33:55):
There's a very popular adult website that is similar to that,
except they're in a bus, not an RV.

Speaker 1 (34:04):
They're just stepping up the game.

Speaker 5 (34:07):
Yeah, well we gonna start with an RV.

Speaker 1 (34:09):
We can't fit in a bus.

Speaker 5 (34:11):
We can't all fit in the RV. I don't think
I get a text in four one nine three four
five three three seventy five. It was a dust off
and get in the game. Be the franchise player. Just
because you're with a bad franchise doesn't mean you can't
throw the ball.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
It could be then of dating. You know, you're just
on the wrong team.

Speaker 5 (34:27):
Jill says, no woman wants to be a filler.

Speaker 4 (34:29):
No, no, no one wants to be that stepping stone.
That's my friend, Jeanis.

Speaker 1 (34:34):
Guys don't want to be rebounds either, So.

Speaker 3 (34:36):
That's not fair to anyone.

Speaker 1 (34:37):
Yeah, it's not.

Speaker 7 (34:38):
I think it's one thing if you both are on
the same page, like, oh, This is just something casual.
We're just hanging out together to like keep each other company.
I think it's a different thing if like you go
out there dating and.

Speaker 3 (34:50):
And you're selling some woman a false hope. Yes, one hundred.

Speaker 5 (34:55):
Sandy's like, why you got to move? You have a house.
I'm like, yeah, but it's three grand a month. I'm
oh god, yeah, I'm not doing that for me, Like
for me, like I'm just living in a house by myself,
Like I'm I don't know, yeah, and you know there's
two incomes and all that, and that's I'm not paying
three grand a month to struggle and then yeah, I'm
not doing that right right, Kelly, unless unless you and

(35:19):
Steven move in.

Speaker 4 (35:21):
That's I was just gonna say. The other option is
you keep it and you get roommates.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
That's what I'm going to do.

Speaker 2 (35:26):
But I'm here, you go killing me and Stephen with women.
It's going to be a house and we're going to
be what.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
I love that.

Speaker 5 (35:35):
Why don't you want to be with Stephen and I
We both have titties, we have we have plenty of room.
You know what.

Speaker 4 (35:42):
I think that the whole Golden Girls thing is a thing.

Speaker 6 (35:45):
Kelly I totally want to do it if I'm.

Speaker 7 (35:48):
Still single and maybe, like I'm going to give myself
ten years, okay, you know Tennis year's early fifties. If
I'm still single in my early fifties, I think I'm
going to consider it. I'm going to be like totally,
who's moving Miami?

Speaker 4 (36:00):
Here we go?

Speaker 1 (36:01):
Where to do this?

Speaker 5 (36:02):
Are you? Are you up to moving out of the area,
Like you said you have a seventeen year old.

Speaker 7 (36:06):
Yeah, I mean I still have Easton will be in
sixth grade this year. So however, Easton is open to
going to other schools, you know, like he would go
to one of the private schools. Like if we you know,
move someplace else, I.

Speaker 5 (36:18):
Mean, like I'm talking about the area, Like, yeah, I.

Speaker 4 (36:21):
Mean I definitely.

Speaker 7 (36:23):
Ideally I'd like to have like a half and half
situation where like I can go down to yeah, like
go down to Florida or go to Arizona, like a
couple of months a year. You know, So if any
any single man have like a house in in Florida. Right,
keep in mind, but I'm very single.

Speaker 5 (36:41):
Not very single. You're dating though, right.

Speaker 7 (36:44):
I am dating. I actually thought I found somebody. I'm
just gonna say this. Okay, really, I'm actually really sad.
And that's part of why I went out last night,
because I I in this. I went out of my
comfort zone. This was not like my normal kind of
person that I'd be attracted to. I thought it was fantastic,
just you know, like personality was amazing, and I just thought,

(37:04):
such a cool person. Just I I need to be
I need someone to keep me interested, right, Like I
like to do all kinds of things, and I'm a
little like quirky and you know, and this was somebody
who was just very interesting and just led a really
cool life. And so, I mean three months of like
talking and then it was just kind of like, well
I can't really have any more, like.

Speaker 4 (37:25):
And I was like, what do you mean?

Speaker 5 (37:26):
What does that mean?

Speaker 7 (37:27):
Like I don't like they can't give me, Like they
don't want to get into a relationship, Like but we're
kind of already in a relationship. Like when you talk
to somebody, Okay, here's here's my PSA. I want to
look at people, put it wherever you want. Okay, here's
my PSA. You do not don't take that time to

(37:48):
get to know somebody. Okay, you're not spending you know,
all day long texting and talking and texting and talking.
Then I mean when we were hanging out, like when
we could we're both busy people.

Speaker 4 (37:56):
Blah blah blah.

Speaker 7 (37:57):
But like like if you don't have the intention or
at least you're open minded too, that this could progress
into something like what are we.

Speaker 5 (38:06):
Doing because it's our age, we don't want to casually date.

Speaker 4 (38:11):
Also like I don't need another friend, but I.

Speaker 5 (38:14):
Got plenty of friends.

Speaker 7 (38:15):
I got lots of friends the whole city. It's leadal,
I don't need another friend.

Speaker 3 (38:18):
I feel like question it's like at any point in time,
like in this talking area, like did he like put
that out there, like, hey, like I'm not looking to
get in anything serious.

Speaker 7 (38:26):
No, he he mentioned a couple of times he was
like it's just a matter of like time, I'm just
so busy. I don't have a lot of time. But
there were a lot of things going on in his
life like during that that kind of like and did
then you know, like there was like I'm like a
death in the family and things like that, And.

Speaker 3 (38:39):
I can't tell you like how many times, like you know,
during my single days where I would you know, I
would tell the girl straight up like, hey, listen, this
is just gonna be some casual and then like two
months in there, like what are we.

Speaker 7 (38:52):
No, it's never going to be casual when you're putting
that kind of time into getting to know somebody. That's
my point is that if you talk to me every
single day, okay, we are forming a relationship and a connection.
If you we I mean like, okay, talked on the
phone for four hours one day, Like I've never talked
to somebody for four hours the phone in my life.

Speaker 5 (39:11):
Sounds painful, but.

Speaker 7 (39:14):
Like you know, if you're going out of your way
to like see somebody, I mean because because because in.

Speaker 5 (39:20):
His mind, in his his dumbass is it's like, why
why are you trying to build your when if you're
not fucking you're you're having some sort of personal relationship?
What is the point if you're if you're not interested
in having this long term, you're wasting time. Well, if
you guys say up front, hey, we're gonna meet every
Wednesday and we're gonna do this, or if I call
you late night if it works out, fine, yeah, but
we're not texting all day and building this. Why are

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you doing this? Why is he doing this a guy
knowing that he doesn't want a long term orlate.

Speaker 6 (39:44):
I totally wholeheartedly disagree. Well, way, I disagree. I think
that like it's about you. I think different.

Speaker 2 (39:52):
People go into things differently.

Speaker 6 (39:55):
And I guess what I'm saying to you, Lisay is
if this is how you feel, you probably need to
put that out there because I just want to have fun.

Speaker 2 (40:03):
And I put.

Speaker 5 (40:04):
You want to text with somewhere every morning, good morning
and all that, and you will go through all that
bullet you.

Speaker 7 (40:09):
Want to have a life story, Yeah, and just have
it just to have fun, just to have I.

Speaker 5 (40:13):
Don't want to know. I don't want to know people.

Speaker 2 (40:14):
I mean, I'm not I'm not having sex. Let's out there.
I mean saying, but you guys no sex?

Speaker 5 (40:20):
Well, and honestly, this wasn't a.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
What's going on? I heard sex with Kelly and I started.

Speaker 3 (40:32):
Completely related.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
I think the.

Speaker 7 (40:34):
Point is that you know, we're not twenty years Yeah,
we're not twenty years old, right, I don't have turns
of waste and and the thing days single way, I
just feel like, you know, when you're having these conversations
and you're talking about like things that you know, there
was times where was like, oh, forget that, that's a

(40:56):
crappy day. But I'll take you like to do this,
this and this, and you know it would be I'm
thinking to myself like okay. And it started out as
a friendship and then I'm thinking, okay, this, I think
this can be more.

Speaker 4 (41:06):
And then I'm following you know, more and more and more.

Speaker 7 (41:08):
Yeah, and then all of a sudden, it's like and
the thing is too, It's like, is it just me?
Are you not interested or you're not attracted to me?
Tell me that that's fine, but it's not. It's like
you're i mean incredible, You're amazing, You're like the you know,
and I am just soever.

Speaker 4 (41:24):
But you know he's saying, oh these things to me,
and so it's like, well, god damn it.

Speaker 5 (41:27):
Like if I'm incredible, right then why are you letting wait?

Speaker 3 (41:30):
Give ahead?

Speaker 5 (41:31):
Why are you letting me go? Let me go?

Speaker 4 (41:33):
Yeah, don't let me go, like you know, fight a
little bit, like figure out how this like my age?
How are you forty two?

Speaker 5 (41:42):
Are you okay?

Speaker 3 (41:43):
Yeah? He might not be ready.

Speaker 4 (41:44):
I mean, you know it's and that's the thing too.

Speaker 2 (41:49):
How long ago has he been in a relationship.

Speaker 7 (41:52):
Four years, he's been saying. I do think when people
are bachelor's for a certain amount of time that is
a factor too, because I think the get very stuck. Yeah,
and for them to like come out of that shell
and out of that bubble, it takes a long time
for them to.

Speaker 3 (42:10):
I'll tell you so, Like you know, again, I was
like that for a very long time. I was probably
like officially single for I don't know, six or seven
years before us I got with my wife, your current
wife now. But she so like she gave she gave
me my space though, and like she she played the
game so well. I didn't even know where we were

(42:31):
in a relationship until like three ks.

Speaker 4 (42:34):
I love that she's amazing.

Speaker 3 (42:36):
Yeah, and she you know, she didn't. She never made
me feel cornered. She never made me feel like I
have to get into this relationship. And then it was
just like, oh, hey, like I guess we're here now.
Like it it's something that it very you know, gradually
happened and naturally happened.

Speaker 5 (42:54):
Curly did the same thing like when we first got together,
like I was like no, no, no, no no, and
she's and next thing, you know, I'm in a relationship.
Then the next thing you know, we're married. The next
thing you know, we have a kid. And I'm like,
how the fuck did all this happen? Like I said
no to all this. I said no, no, no, no,
and it all happened. Man. Sometimes some women know how
to freaking work the game, and I.

Speaker 4 (43:15):
Feel like I'm past the games. It's how I feel.

Speaker 7 (43:17):
I feel like I don't I don't have time, I
don't want to do that. And and I'm also the
kind of person who I'm just gonna say what I
want to say. Like I kind of left it on
the table where I told them my feelings and I said,
you know, if you if you change your mind or
you know, you think about this.

Speaker 4 (43:31):
For a couple of days.

Speaker 7 (43:32):
And I'm not asking to get into a serious relationship
right now. All I'm asking is like to be just
continue to get to know each other. That's all I'm
asking is we continue, but with an open mind that
this can go somewhere.

Speaker 5 (43:44):
So agree.

Speaker 4 (43:44):
I just want to make sure that that's clear.

Speaker 5 (43:46):
I did get a text four one nine three four
five three three seven five. I have a question for Lisa.
I talk to this girl every day. She works at
the gas station. I go to, are we in a relationship?
I should?

Speaker 1 (44:02):
You should try to kiss her and see what happens.

Speaker 4 (44:05):
Yeah, yeah, he's my thoughts.

Speaker 5 (44:09):
You see, are we talking?

Speaker 4 (44:12):
You talked to her at the guest You talk to
her on your phone. Okay, No, you're not in.

Speaker 5 (44:16):
A someone said yes to living like the Golden Girls
exclamation point. I have three friends and we talk about
that all the time. Not sure how I'm not sure
how husbands feel about this.

Speaker 3 (44:27):
But which one of your friends is Blanche?

Speaker 5 (44:31):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (44:31):
I'm Blanche in my friends?

Speaker 5 (44:32):
Really?

Speaker 1 (44:32):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (44:34):
All right, let's uh, let's get it man. I don't
think we've ever run this late. Let's get into the news,
do we care? Let me see, I'm just trying to
find the stuff that week.

Speaker 8 (44:43):
Here's some news, Andrew, I saw that picture of you
and Demetrius.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
Over the weekend. Yeah, yesterday, you want to fill me in.

Speaker 5 (44:52):
I mean, he just said, hey, sorry for what you're
going through. And I'm like, I'm like, hey, you want
to you want to talk? And and I went over
there and we talked and it was good. It was
a good talk. He told me how stupid, He told
me told me how stupid I was.

Speaker 4 (45:07):
Yeah, did you guys hook up?

Speaker 5 (45:10):
Not on the first not at the first meeting.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
Get that stalk on sexual tension out of the way.

Speaker 5 (45:15):
No, I'm playing hard.

Speaker 3 (45:16):
To get Demetrius is a fresh divorce is like, you know,
come on, that's like both to a flame. Yeah, he's
over there rubbing his hands together, like, come on over here, Andrew.

Speaker 5 (45:26):
You are a hey am in his age Brackton. He
loves him fifty.

Speaker 7 (45:33):
I've seen him on the are we dating this a
page more than anybody else.

Speaker 5 (45:38):
Someone said that now it's going to be him one day,
me the next day, him one day, me the next day. Ye.

Speaker 7 (45:44):
Yes, that page is crap anyway, I don't even know
why we all follow it the dramama.

Speaker 5 (45:51):
I got a text and I see Demetrius wore a
wife beater for the sleepover.

Speaker 3 (45:59):
So you can feel all of his arms when he's
holding you.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
Did he show you his titties?

Speaker 5 (46:07):
It made me feel better? All right, let's Jesus, let's
get into the news. Let's see I don't care about that.
We are. Oh, Toledo ranks among the top ten most
stressed cities in the US. We're kind of talking about
that Toledo jump from number twenty six to number eight
as the most stressed city in the US. Detroit was

(46:28):
the top of the list, and the Cleveland and Akron.

Speaker 3 (46:30):
What is going on on seventy five?

Speaker 5 (46:32):
Right, Jesus, we're miserable, dude, We're miserable. I don't know why.
I don't know what's going on.

Speaker 4 (46:39):
You know why because we had ten months of gray skies.
That's why. Yeah, that doesn't hold anything.

Speaker 7 (46:45):
And when you talk about all these cities right in
the same cluster, it makes sense to me that weather
is a big factor in it.

Speaker 5 (46:51):
I've been saying it, and I could tell, like, if
it's if it's sunny out, people are smiling, everyone's in
a better mood. And when it's not sunny out, people
are just miserable.

Speaker 4 (47:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (47:01):
I mean, I definitely have seasonal depression. And you know,
people say that kind of loosely. I think it's a
real thing. And I think in the last couple of years,
just with the you know, less snow, more gray skies,
more rain, it's a factor.

Speaker 5 (47:16):
Agreed. Four one nine three four five three three seven
five text instead of are we dating the same person?
Andrew's going to be on are we working the same
food truck. Oh all right, what else is going on?
TSA to the School of the Art, says students. So
they're going to try to replace that stolen sculpture that

(47:38):
uh and and expand their outdoor security system. They had
a sculpture stolen at their front yard.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
I thought they got it back.

Speaker 5 (47:44):
You're oh, yeah, they did get it back, but I
think it was only half of it or it was busted.

Speaker 2 (47:49):
And they probably have to install it again. I mean
it was in pieces.

Speaker 5 (47:53):
Yeah, I think they should replace it with a mariachi guy.
No one that was.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
Due that stole it. Maybe it is there.

Speaker 5 (48:03):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (48:04):
Isn't he like, doesn't he take metal scrapper?

Speaker 5 (48:08):
Scrapper scrapper? A new program is tracking ticks in Lucas County, Okay.
Ottawa River Yacht Club Regatta is set this weekend, So
Muffy and Biff ain't available this weekend. That is the
big regatta, the big regatta.

Speaker 4 (48:26):
I actually saw that. I was like, that kind of
looks fine.

Speaker 5 (48:29):
Muffy, Mobby, pull the sale tighter. We're losing.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Then it could be fun.

Speaker 3 (48:35):
Yeah, you're just going there looking for Richie. Y'll give it.

Speaker 5 (48:41):
But you know, here's the thing. Here, here's the thing,
as I've said before, like, if you're starting something from scratch,
why wouldn't you have tried to do it with someone
that's got their ship together? Because why would you want
to do it with somebody it strung?

Speaker 7 (49:00):
You know, I mean not being rude and I joke
and I'm saying this, you know what I mean. But
in all reality, it's not about you don't have to
be rich anything like that.

Speaker 4 (49:09):
A man.

Speaker 7 (49:10):
I am looking for a man who's a hard worker
and stable. I'm a hard worker, like I think, you know,
work ethic is important. So I do want someone who's
a hard worker and provide stability to my life. And
that's the real, you know, the real thing here, not
just that if you have a boat, it's a bonus.
I'm just gonna throw.

Speaker 5 (49:28):
That that's a cheat code. Cheat code.

Speaker 7 (49:32):
Well, honestly, I didn't realize that I enjoyed boating so
much to like the summer because I've been like in
my friend's lake house a couple of times, and I'm like,
I think I'm a.

Speaker 4 (49:40):
Late girl, Like it's a very good fit for me.

Speaker 5 (49:42):
I really enjoy it. I did a food truck event
at Devil's Lake Saturday. Yeah, Manda, you know what, when
it comes to you can tell people that you just
tell like in their face, people that have money aren't worn.
It's like it's just it's it's a difference.

Speaker 7 (49:59):
Man.

Speaker 5 (49:59):
These you could tell like the kids, like even the
adult kids of this people that own the dude, they're
freaking they look great. I mean there's no stress. I
mean I know there's stress, but I mean we've talked
about money as a ninety percent stress. If you're stressed
about money, your whole it's all you're thinking about. And
these people are not stressing about money and they're living
the best life.

Speaker 4 (50:20):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 7 (50:20):
It's a huge factor in relationships. I mean, that's like
a proven statistic. You know that financial stress causes problems
in a relationship. It's it's a big factor. So yeah,
when you are looking for a partner, that is important.

Speaker 5 (50:32):
It is someone said, Kelly won't go back to your RV,
but she will go back to your boat.

Speaker 4 (50:38):
Yeah, get a houseboat and someone.

Speaker 5 (50:39):
Kelly it's just a floating RV.

Speaker 7 (50:45):
That is funny though, because like if someone had a
houseboat versus an RV, you would you would judge them differently.
You would yeah, it's you would you would be like, oh,
you live in a houseboat?

Speaker 4 (50:56):
Like how like romantic?

Speaker 1 (50:57):
I know, yeah, cool, it'd be freaking cicated hobo. You know,
it's a lot better than you know, they're getting on
the boat like, well, it's not an RV this.

Speaker 3 (51:06):
I think it's just because there's never been a very
popular show about cooking meth on our boat.

Speaker 5 (51:11):
Breaking wet.

Speaker 3 (51:14):
That sounds like a whole show.

Speaker 1 (51:16):
Yeah, it's only on nighttime.

Speaker 5 (51:19):
A new study found that the best states for sports
lovers is Ohio.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
Oh h Io.

Speaker 5 (51:30):
What else? Guys stopped to help an injured bear and
was immediately mauled. Fifty nine year old man in California
trying to help an injured bear on the side of
the road and immediately mauled him. He was treated a
hospital for multiple injuries his arm.

Speaker 1 (51:44):
Was he Caucasian?

Speaker 5 (51:45):
Of course, I don't even that. But I don't even
have to look at of course he's fucking Caucasian.

Speaker 8 (51:50):
I would just look at that bear like, this is
my opportunity to get away. He's injured, let me, let
me fix you.

Speaker 7 (51:57):
I don't know why people make decisions like they don't.

Speaker 4 (52:00):
I don't get it.

Speaker 5 (52:01):
Is today really the shortest day of the year. A
bunch of sites are reporting that today's the shortest day
in history, but it's not. It's expected to be one
point three millisecond shorter than a normal day thanks to
shifts and how fast the earth rotates. But the actual
record was last year July fifth, twenty twenty four, one
point sixty six millisecond shy of a full twenty four hours.

Speaker 4 (52:22):
We really lost out.

Speaker 5 (52:23):
I know, the happiest shift workers, like the hourly workers
we weed and vape stores. They are in a good mood.
I had a lady come to the floor.

Speaker 4 (52:34):
High.

Speaker 5 (52:35):
Yeah, she works at What's what's the one in one
of the ones in Michigan, And she was so sweet
and gave me a big old tip. And that was
number one. They said. Caterers are number two, cafe and
coffee shops number three, dentist office four, gyms were five.
It's official. Eating ice cream is the best summer activity. Absolutely.

(52:55):
I mean there's no doubt there.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
I've eaten way too much ice cream already.

Speaker 5 (52:58):
Have you all already to say? In yelp rank the
best chicken sandwich chains in America? Number one was Chick
fil a yep, Dave's Hot Chicken came in second. Detroit
topped the list of the most we talked about. That
Most Stressed Cities study found if you use more emojis
in text messages to your significant other, that might save

(53:19):
your relationship. At least that's a good one for you.
Should you should post that today.

Speaker 4 (53:23):
I use a lot of emojis when I'm talking to.

Speaker 7 (53:25):
Anybody that's not working then actually I always say that,
like when I do meet somebody, I'm like, I kind
of like pre apologize for using so many exclamation points
and emojis, but.

Speaker 4 (53:34):
That's just like who I am.

Speaker 3 (53:35):
Right specifically say that eggplant water.

Speaker 4 (53:41):
Not specifically those ones, not that they don't come off
once in a while.

Speaker 1 (53:45):
Specific Sorry, I was just if you wanted to hang out.

Speaker 5 (53:50):
You know, this is bullshit. Someone said, if Killy dates Andrew,
it's technically a write off because she'd be giving to
the homeless.

Speaker 1 (53:57):
Oh my god. Wow, Well, I mean and you could
look at it in silver lining. That's all the more
reason to date. Y.

Speaker 5 (54:05):
Kelly's friendship is so important to me that that would
never even be a consideration because I would be too
worried to lose that. Because having Kelly in my corner.

Speaker 2 (54:14):
Man, it's been amazing and let's be honest, I'm too
old for you.

Speaker 5 (54:17):
Yeah, and especially wearing those fucking glasses. I would never
in a million years they should say they should say
twenty twenty five on each side.

Speaker 1 (54:28):
I say, fuck you, yes you can, but say it's slower.

Speaker 2 (54:34):
Listen.

Speaker 7 (54:34):
Kelly is like the best dressers in Toledo, like multiple
years in a row, so you can't even lifetime award.

Speaker 8 (54:40):
Yeah, she literally gets nominated for best Dressed every year.

Speaker 5 (54:45):
A new pole Felly Kelly found that cheap weddings are
trending and big, expensive ones are becoming less common. The
three things most likely to cause sticker shock are the
price of the venue, the photos, and the food.

Speaker 3 (54:58):
Good lord, yeah, the food.

Speaker 7 (55:00):
It was the only thing that it's worth spending the
money on because that's all people remember. People remember good
music and good food at a wedding, and that's that.

Speaker 5 (55:07):
That's what that's what's crazy, is like, you know, a
wedding is about a thousand dollars and that's why I
charged the DJ. And I'm like a couple of times
people are like, well, you know, it's a look that's
the most important thing about your fu wedding. If you
want to, if you want to, if you want to
take the chance on some rando, it's an m C,
it's a host, it's everything.

Speaker 3 (55:28):
Go ahead, you can go my route and get paid
to get married. You were there, I know we did
it at a at a New Year's Eve comedy show.

Speaker 4 (55:37):
Oh that's kind of cool.

Speaker 1 (55:41):
What else?

Speaker 5 (55:42):
A bride created controversy by sitting all her plus sized
guests at the same table, and even she even called
the table weight watchers such a bit. She excused it
by saying it was a body put positivity thing.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
No bullshit, you just want to call your friends fat.

Speaker 5 (56:05):
Well, what you want to do is make sure that
they she could keep them out of the pictures. I
think she didn't say that.

Speaker 3 (56:12):
I'm just saying.

Speaker 1 (56:13):
That's so rude.

Speaker 3 (56:15):
Just reminds me like the dude and horrible bosses, like, yeah,
we need to trim the fat. What does that mean?
We got fire on the fat people? Get out of
here to make me sad.

Speaker 2 (56:24):
Sad?

Speaker 4 (56:28):
Fat people are the happy people at the events.

Speaker 7 (56:30):
You know why, because you're you're getting good food and
you're just you're happy, like you're not starved.

Speaker 4 (56:35):
You're not just eating fruit.

Speaker 5 (56:37):
You know. I've lost nineteen pounds in two weeks, Lisa,
Oh well, I thought you.

Speaker 4 (56:42):
Yeah, I did. I think your face and everything I
can tell.

Speaker 5 (56:44):
Oh. The only thing is what the fuck do I
do about this this skin under my chin?

Speaker 4 (56:48):
Well, I've been doing this roller thing. I'll show you.

Speaker 7 (56:51):
Yeah, and I do think it's all get yeah, because
I want to get like this little snatched drawline.

Speaker 4 (56:57):
You know.

Speaker 5 (56:57):
I I I I did chat GPT.

Speaker 4 (57:01):
It's a good good thing.

Speaker 5 (57:02):
I did chat GPT and would it say hold on,
oh my god, it also call you fat. It did not, motherfucker.

Speaker 7 (57:11):
But if GPT, I love chat GPT so much.

Speaker 4 (57:16):
It's like my new best friend.

Speaker 5 (57:18):
It was. I asked it about, hey, so how do
I get rid of the turkey neck or whatever? And
it's like you can do exercise. You can do there's
a medical procedure, right.

Speaker 6 (57:25):
Kill yeah, yeah, you can buy it.

Speaker 7 (57:29):
Anything just every day just so you know if you
do just yeah, you can do exercises. But like clearing
your glands, because I mean you have you know, you
get like I have allergies right now, right, so you
have like some and like stuff like built up and
through here, so like that's just every day. If you
just massage and clear your glands, that's a huge help.

Speaker 5 (57:48):
Really, Yeah, I had no idea and.

Speaker 4 (57:50):
You got to get a What I love saying that word.

Speaker 5 (57:53):
Is that what you're roller? Is that the roller you're thinking, Oh, I.

Speaker 7 (57:56):
Feel like running in my car right now to get
it because I keep it in my car and just
why driving all the time. I do it on like
some of my Facebook lives and like people will be like,
what are you doing. I'm like, what it's It's kind
of soothing to me, Like I love this thing.

Speaker 2 (58:08):
Yeah, and it's kind of cold.

Speaker 4 (58:10):
It's yeah, very cool. I might have a couple of
different things that I use.

Speaker 7 (58:13):
And then the best thing I found was this male
model online. He takes a regular cucumber, slices it like
in the middle on a diagonal, keeps it in the freezer,
and then that's what he uses every morning. Is he like,
you know, it's moisturizing because it's a cucumber, it's cold.
The ice like helps you know, deflame your face and
then it works as like a guasha and you you know,

(58:35):
sculpt your face with it and then you just slice
a little bit off and you put it.

Speaker 5 (58:40):
Do you think it's working? Because like I see the
like people like they take that stuff where like I
don't know, they get shit on their eyes or whatever,
like they like wrigles in her eyes. And then the
before and after, I'm like it looks the fucking saying
like there's maybe there's maybe one there's maybe one line gone,
like that's no one's gonna notice that. No one's gonna
notice that.

Speaker 7 (58:56):
Yeah, if you have lines on your face, you just
gotta do botox, like just you know, bite the bullet
and go do bow tax and then you know. But
for this, I do think the jawline can be massaged
and kind of conformed.

Speaker 5 (59:08):
Yeah, Steve, were you there? Steve?

Speaker 7 (59:12):
I bet Steve used as a guasha find out.

Speaker 5 (59:15):
Yes, I'm here, Okay, let me all right. That is
the news