August 12, 2025 • 28 mins
Hey listeners! We just wanted to take a moment to catch up and let you know we'll be gone for a bit while we await the arrival of Michael and Abby's newest family member. Send all the good vibes for a safe delivery of baby Benjamin!
We love you all hope to be back soon. As always, thanks for listening and stay safe out there!
-Anxious and Afraid crew
We love you all hope to be back soon. As always, thanks for listening and stay safe out there!
-Anxious and Afraid crew
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Roscoe lay down down.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Mm hmmm, hey today attitude such a team runs.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Worse than the toddler.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
No, thanks.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Less your wife? Yeah, did it not be on my cordo?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
He's like, see that wasn't so hard.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
This should be my spot all the time. Why do
you need that table stretch out right? Here's perfect for you.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Hello, Hey, guys, welcome, welcome. I'm Mabbie and I'm Seana.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
And this is anxious and afraid.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Oh that was smooth for a no episode.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yeah, this is a non episode, guys.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
We finally got.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yeah, so we figured that we wanted to have a
little fun convo since you like listening to us talk,
and we're just gonna update you guys and and talk
about what's happening in our lives.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Yeah. Currently, my foots asleep. I'm having regrets on how
I sat. Dan and Rosco's here as well, of course,
tangled up in chords. He's moving around as we speak,
on the curls everywhere.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yeah, he's a sweeping Okay, there you go. You gonna
take a nap. So what's up Abby? What is making
you anxious and afraid? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I'm the most pregnant I've ever been.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
It's you are the books.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
It's true. I'm past the point I got last time. Wow, congrats, thanks.
I bet you're having so much points. It's a purity
every day, super comfortable. Yeah. I think. Well, last last
time with THEO, I was induced at like thirty seven weeks.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
And I think I was thirty nine when I was.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Were you induced? Okay? Yeah, but I was thirty nine.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
I think it was thirty nights, okay to the day.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
For some reason, I thought I was thirty eight, but
we did the math and I think it was thirty seven.
I'm pretty sure I was thirty nine. And then everything
went terribly wrong, except for you know, THEO got here safely.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
So that was everyone's alive and safe and that's great.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yes, So this time I've been doing everything in my
power to not be induced because my induction last time
failed and that's why I got a C section after
like many days of labor, which is not the funnest
surgery to have, no, and it makes having a newborn
really really fucking hard because you're also recovering from a
major surgery. So I can't walk around, no, And I
(03:08):
remember I popped a stitch. I was just trying to
do you did it's gross. So this time trying really
hard not to be induced. So far, so good because
now I'm I'm further than I got with THEO, so
that's cool.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
And your blood pressure is great, it's.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
I mean, it's getting its starting to creep.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
It's creeping.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
It's creeping, but not as bad as it was with THEO.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
You're still way lower than I was throughout my whole
Nazi say no and they make me.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Feel like yours is so bad, and I'm like, I
know so many people that have had much higher blippery
I was always in the one fortieth really the whole time,
pretty much. I am only at like one thirty five
I think was my last one. And they were like, well,
it's kind of elevated, or.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Ah, you're fine.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I literally ordered my own blood pressure cuff like an
old lady because I'm like, I'm going to monitor this
at home so you guys can't make me feel bad.
So anyway, I think I'm approaching thirty eight weeks now,
and we have a like a team work barbecue this
weekend that tomorrow it's tomorrow. Yeah, after we get through that,
(04:12):
I'm like, okay, coming.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
And out on that ball. Yeah, eat the spicy food.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I'm gonna start doing all the things because I am
so ready to be done.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I'm being pregnant. How exciting and scary.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
It's so scary. I was telling Shauna I have I
was having cramps the other night, and I was scared
because we're still waiting on our friend to drop off
the car seat for us. And I started panicking and
I was like, I can't go into labor. We don't
have the car seat yet. And so my my solution
to that was to make myself go to sleep, because
(04:47):
in my head, if I made myself go to sleep,
I wouldn't go into labor.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
That's right, that's how it works, right.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Yeah, and I didn't, So I guess that is how
that works.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
So you'll get that car seat. We'll slaper silly. Yeah,
we'll get done.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
We're gonna give it done.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
I'll knock on our door for you.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah. So, but besides the car seat, everything else is
You're ready. We're ready as we can be. I guess right,
I'm scared.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Now you're just like kind of mentally preparing.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
It's just gonna be so different because we have a
toddler Yeah, it's gonna just be a whole new experience. Yeah,
I'm like, I don't know. I guess we'll see how
THEO reacts. I really just don't know what to expect. Yeah,
is he gonna be like super clingy or like he's
a mama's boy is the thing?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
So he's probably gonna be a little jelly.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Oh, he's gonna be jelly. But that's okay. I did,
It's expected, but it's still hard to go through. Yeah,
if anyone has tips or tricks, you can send them
to me on all things. Baby, I'm just like, I
know a lot of it's gonna come back, but I
having this second child is just so much different from
the first. Like, I feel like I was researching everything
(05:57):
like a crazy person on the first and of course
we didn't we knew nothing what we were going through.
The second one, no urgency. I haven't been looking up shit,
So yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
That's probably kind of nice, though, you're a little bit
more like it's a mentally chill a little bit.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
I feel like I'm still panicking, but I don't have
the all the website energy to look it up. Yeah. Yeah, anyway,
how about you what's going on with you?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Oh boy, Well, I'm still going to therapy for me.
I'm actually going on a weekly basis, which is the
most I've ever gone. So I'm like working on myself
real hard, trying to use other coping mechanisms for life.
So I'm working on myself. Did you see you saw
(06:47):
my little post I posted? I haven't posted like myself
in like forever online, like it's always Ryland of course,
because she's the cutest, Like I don't take selfies anymore. Weird,
it's so weird.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Anyways, stop doing that.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
By the way, I'm I'm still me over here anyway.
So I decided to post some and I was like, hey,
I'm just, you know, trying to find myself here. I am.
I'm trying to excuse me, figure life out. And here's
some evidence of that, like trying to do happy things.
And then a lot of people actually were like, oh
my gosh, I can so relate, Like I'm trying to
(07:21):
live little happy moments too, even though like the time
is the hardest. Yeah, And they were like even like
strangers were like, hey, if you need to talk to me,
you can, and I like was starting to cry, like
I don't even know you.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
That's so nice. I loved that post. You put a
sexy photo in there too.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Yeah, I try to make myself feel there's trip a
little hot sometimes.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
I think a lot of people can relate to that.
I feel like a lot of people had a hard
year this year.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Yeah, yeah, definitely. I feel like a lot of people
are having one of the worst years this year in
all aspects, and I'm definitely one of them. And I'm
trying to, like, I'm just trying to like get myself back. Yeah,
you know, I'm more than just a mom. Yeah, I'm
more than just doing chores. And I need to figure
(08:11):
out how to be me again, right.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
I think that's very important. It's hard to find yourself
after having kids, and like, true, you're in your thirties
and your body's changing.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
That's true. Everything's different. I'm trying to like handle things different.
I'm just trying to better myself, which is really hard.
It is hard putting myself first, Who who does that?
I can't do that. That's the hardest thing. But actually
every week, which is rough but necessary, and yeah, so
(08:42):
like major breakthroughs some yeah, I'd say, I mean every
therapy session is definitely like, wow, Glad I got that done.
Speaker 4 (08:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
You know, it's always like nerve wracking going there, and then.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
I feel so much better.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Yeah, I'll be like bouncing my leg the whole time,
and then I'll be like exhausted by the end of it.
But yeah, if that's any motive and any motivation for
anyone else who is struggling wanting to find themselves again
or start therapy, go to therapy. You know you're not
alone and I'm doing it and so can you.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Yeah. I really enjoyed when I went to therapy. I
mean I'll probably get back into it eventually. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I always had like it was COVID.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
That's right. I'm like, why did I stop? Oh COVID.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
That makes sense. Yeah, COVID definitely always had phases, maybe
like going once a month, but yeah, this is like, no,
I'm gonna I'm gonna work on on this one. Yeah
once a.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Week please, No, that's great. I think I think it's important,
even just like little self care, Like I finally got
a massage last week.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
How was it?
Speaker 3 (09:46):
The massage was good. We couldn't do deep tissue, which
was sad.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Yeah, it's hard when you're pregnant, I can't lay on
the table.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
Why can't you just dig into the backs of my
thighs like I need you.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
To, Like I don't care if I fall off the table.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Break spine please, But it was it was very relaxing.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Yeah, you really needed that done. I kept pressuring you
you did.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
I was finally like, you know what, just do it, Like,
just get the Why why are you not getting the massage?
I think it was just like I have appointment fatigue, and.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I can get that, Like you're going to so many
freaking appointment appointments.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
I'm so sick of asking for the time off. Yeah,
but I was just like it's important. And then I
like came home and like immediately took a little bit
of a nap and then that was nice.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
So yeah, she needs that.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
Everyone should just take a moment, even if it feels
like you're being You're not being selfish, like just do it.
Just have a little self care.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yeah, learn how to breathe, breathe deeper breath right now,
oh my gosh, and potty training. Hello, that's been our
big thing happening right now. So prefer prity training Rylan, And.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
She like she's so smart she took right to it.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Yeah, we got number one down. We're still working on
number twos. Twos are hard. Choos are hard, but oh
my gosh, she loves it. Should we celebrate. We always
say like god it go and we sing a dance
and she loves it. We give her stickers. So it's
been working out. I'm so proud, like like, of course
we like cried when she it's so funny to like
(11:20):
get emotional like, oh my god, she poop. So yeah,
we've had those moments. But yeah, that's a big one
for as like you know, on as a parent. Yeah,
that's huge, Like tackling potty training. I was I was
nervous to really start it. I was like I'm not
I'm not ready, like I'm not ready, Like she's probably ready,
but I'm not ready. And then she was like, yeah,
this isn't that hard, Like yeah, it took her about
(11:42):
a day to get it down, which is great for
the number one. So that's that's nice.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
We've been on a slow burn with potty training for
months and it's just not it's it's just like we
haven't fully committed and now there's gonna be a baby,
and so I'm like we're just gonna have to.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Pause it and try it yeah later at a time.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Yeah, there's no way. And everyone says they regress anyway.
After you have your baby, they like become more baby
like because you know they're jealous.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Or the toddler becomes more baby like. That makes sense.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Like they are a potty trained, they'll start having like
accidents and stuff, and so I'm like, Okay, well, if
that's gonna happen, then I guess we'll just give up
for now and and try again later. He's only he's
only two and a half, so it's not like a
huge deal.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
But no, he's still got time and he'll probably get it. Yeah,
pretty well too, hopefully.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
I don't know. He's so stubborn. He's the most stubborn.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Child, that's true. He is a boy, and I don't
know what it's like to have a boy.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
There's a lot of throwing. There's objects just thrown all
the time in our house, and my reflexes have really
gotten pretty good. Nice, Yeah, I can just I don't
think you noticed. But at my baby sprinkle, you were
(12:59):
like you were carrying something and you like whipped around
and like came within inches of hitting me in the
face and just he like witnessed me like matrix dive
out of the way, and she's like, wow, that was
really good reflexes.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
I'm like, yeah, what, I almost hit you and you
didn't notice, no idea, but like what was I holding?
Speaker 3 (13:19):
I think you're holding a box of diapers or something
when I just swung it at you.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
I'm sorry, I'm not aware vace around.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
You really aren't. If Sean and I go into public,
I'm usually hurting her around like a cattle dog, Like.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Yeah, that's true. I've always been that way. Thanks Dad.
He was that way too, But yeah, I like to
like dilly dally and look around, like not in front
of me, and just like what He's just.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Kind of like gently moving you around, like oh, you're
in these people's way, and you're just like.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Just walk into That's so true. Well, I'm sorry I
was the face.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
With the I have a boy toddler, so I'm really
good at dodging things now because impressive, thank you. No
one told me at the time. Jesse and I were
laughing about it openly, but you weren't paying attention. Of course.
I wasn't take it. Wow, Oh yeah, Shauna and Jesse
threw me a baby sprinkle.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
It was very sweet. I was funny.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yeah, it's a sprinkle because it's not a full shower. Yeah,
because it's your second And we just like did like
a lunch and it was really nice.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
I think there was no air conditioning and it was
like ninety something degrees and we were like, what is happening.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Yeah, we weren't expecting that. So it was a little
rough there, a little rough. We were all sweaty, but
but it was fun. It's a summer's cue.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Yeah, yeah, son of We just wanted to like check
in with you guys, feel you guys in because obviously we're.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Gonna have to take a break another one.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Sorry, We're gonna unofficially call this season two finale and
we'll come back for season three at some point.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Yeah. The plan is is that I'll be working on
an episode or so and we'll come back with me
and you can listen so you can chill since you're
still in new mom mode. Yeah, and so that's the plan.
I feel like I still have the perfect episode to
come back with, Like I have the opening line in
my head, like, oh, I'm prepared. I just have to
do it, which is always my problem.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Yeah, getting it done is the hard part. But yeah,
I don't We don't have any plans to be done done,
so no, of course not.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
We love this.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
We we're just gonna be kicking around. We have all
this equipment. What are what are? What are we gonna
do with it all?
Speaker 2 (15:33):
We kind of keep using it.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
We have to use it. We have all these whiteboards and.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Whiteboard markers, markers.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
We can't waste the markers. So we'll be back, of course,
because we love doing the podcast.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
And we don't know obviously how long. I guess we're
gonna kind of like just wait it out to see
how you feel.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
And yeah, I don't remember how long we went last time.
Was it like a year or more than that?
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Damn I do that was yeah, I think a little
over a year.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Yeah, I mean it takes about that long to get
back on like a sane sleep cycle. True, true that
because I think we sleep trained for you at like
what eight months or eight yeah, and then we were
like finally starting to get some like decent sleep. But man,
it's a rough go of it before.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Yeah, you do any of that, so well, maybe not
as long since I'll come back with an episode and
you'll just have to like react. That's my plan.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Be awake.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
As long as you're just awake listening, you.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Just take my eyes open and.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Yeah, maybe I'll do a couple for you like you
did for me. So yeah, man, I'm gonna try and
get my shit together too.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I've been doing this podcast for so long.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Honestly, it was before COVID, do you That was nineteen.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Yeah, it was before COVID.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
And then we recorded during COVID too.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
We did remotely. Yeah, we did some zoom episodes or whatever.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
That took some stupid engineering.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
On Michael's part. We just showed up right.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
It wasn't even zoom.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
It was so what was it called on?
Speaker 1 (17:11):
We were using discord Discord, and I had a bot
that would join the voice chat and then record everything,
and then I was editing in a different program because
it recorded an output in a different format, and then.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
The sound quality was still probably shit.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
It was probably definitely was.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
Well, that was before what's the main video one that
everyone uses now? Is it zoom or zoom or team teams? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:41):
Back then, I mean those we didn't have teams.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Those came out and got much better after COVID because
we all needed a necessity. But before then it was
like Skype, Yeah, Skype, which sucked for sound quality.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Wow, it's been five six years and I feel like
we've lived through so much.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
You it's twenty twenty five, Isn't it.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
Disgusting to realize how much time is? What the fuck?
I remember celebrating my thirtieth birthday and now I'm thirty
turning thirty five? Ew?
Speaker 3 (18:11):
What is time?
Speaker 2 (18:13):
It's going by way too fast.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
It's cruel.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
In the state of the world. In the state of
the world has been going up and down and down
and down and down, and that's hard to deal with.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Into flames, I know, like, what am I bringing this
baby into I'm Sorryfully things get better hopefully, Yeah, what
are you gonna do? Life goes on, um.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
World keeps spinning yep, whether we're here or not.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
So that's our plan, that's our lives.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Michael, Do you want to did you want to add anything? Right?
Speaker 4 (18:46):
No?
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Are you anxious and afraid of having baby number two? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (18:50):
All the things? Yeah, but also low key because like
we've done that before.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
It's another boy, So that mystery is Yeah, lesson.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
Definitely coming in, you know, experience.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
Experience, We know which diaper brand we need, We've done
it before.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
It's just the new part is that we're gonna have
two at the same time.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Yeah. Yeah, I'm kind of like, how the heck do
you do? Like bedtime routines? Like, there's so much like
up in the air, because we have everything so routined
out now and scheduled pretty well with the and now
it's gonna be like all different. And I'm like, and
then they're probably gonna share a room eventually. I'm like,
how does that work? There's just a lot of unanswered
(19:35):
scenarios that we're gonna st hit. But I mean we're
certainly not the first.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
To do it. And uh, other people have multiple kids. Yeah,
I mean you're gonna survive.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
My sisters each have three, so they figured it out somehow.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
You're gonna be You're gonna be fine, You're gonna be
just great.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Yeah, it's gonna be fine.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
I'll make you some lasagnas.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
We've already got a lot of people saying they'll make
us food, which is super nice. Yeah. I almost feel
like we have had more support around this time than
last time, which is cool. I think it's because we
know more people now that I've had kids, so.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Like like and we've experienced it ourselves, We're like, oh,
oh we need to be there for each other, like
we know what you need food, Oh, you can't cook
because you're exhausted.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
Yes, yeah, so that's cool that we have that support
and yeah, it's gonna be fine. It's going to be fine. Everyone,
just like, give me all the positive vibes to have
a v back because I don't want another sea section.
If you can just put all of your vibes into that, yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
That's what we're hoping for. I know you could do it,
but you know, you never know what's going to happen.
Speaker 3 (20:43):
I know I'm not against getting an epidural if it
comes to that, but this time around, I'm trying to
do unmedicated, which also seems really hardcore.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Yeah I would never honestly, I'm just.
Speaker 3 (20:57):
Like, whatever I have to do to not have a
sea section, all, do it.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
Yeah, because that like slowed you down last time, right,
was epidural.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
It could have It could have also just been my
body just not ready being like, hey, I've been doing
this for like two days and I'm tired and I'm done,
which fair. Yeah, so I don't know. It could have
been the epidural. It could have not been the epidural.
But if it was the epidural, then I'm like, I
can't have you, boo. I can't have you unless they
give me toastin and then I feel like I'll have
(21:25):
to have it. But we'll just see.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
We'll just see, sending all the good vibes. Obviously you're
gonna talk all about it when we come back. Yeah,
you'll get the gory details, full birth story.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Did I give the full birth story last time? I
don't remember some people. Sometimes people ask me and I'm like,
the haze of that time.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Oh, you block it out.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
It's crazy what you block out, like what your brain
literally protects you from. Yeah, that's why we keep having
kids because I'm like, why can't I remember such a
traumatic like time of my life? But I'm like, your
brain literally it's like, hey, boo, we're actually just gonna
wipe that from your memory. You're welcome, And I'm just like,
(22:07):
do you want to I want to remember some of it, Yeah,
but you can't. It's weird. Brains were weird. But anyway,
we're hoping for a better time this time. Yes, but
I am nervous because I don't know what it feels
like to go into labor like naturally. So that's all true,
very mysterious to me.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Like is your is your water gonna break on its own?
But like I didn't experience that, I feel.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
Like it's gonna happen. Okay, So I dropped my schedule
down to only working in office one day a week
and I work from home the rest. I feel like
it's gonna break the one day I'm in office.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
That would be your luck so hard.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
I'm just gonna ruin my work chair cause.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
A stain on the car. Oh my gosh, what a
story that would be. Honestly, I'm gonna miss you. I
have to like talk of the office you. That's true.
Everyone will make sure you never forget it.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Yeah, I'll miss everyone at work, though, I mean, I'll
just miss seeing adults.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
But I'm talking to an adult that isn't a baby.
Yeah yeah, yeah, I guess I can just go to work,
you know, as normal without my best friend's fine.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
I know. I mean, you're only down to seeing me
once a week now anyway, So it's like amasing you
into it.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Yeah, I guess so distancing yourself.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
And it's not like you can't just come over whenever
you want.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
You mean, I can't just show up what you want to.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
You can come over whenever you want.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Yeah, all right, Well that's our stick.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
That's our stick. We'll be back when we can. And
we love you guys, and we're really appreciative of all
the support and all the listens that we've gotten, even
though we season two has been rough.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
We've been all over the place and if we've even
had comments like it's okay whenever you upload, you upload,
and I'm like, thank you. It was really hard right now,
but like obviously we still want to do this because
we love it and we love each other and love
you guys.
Speaker 3 (24:06):
And I don't think I'm ever not going to be
obsessed with like disasters and fu crime and that's no,
it's just my comfort and writing and reading about it
is just fun for me.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
So morbid curiosity. Yeah, did you hear about the real quick?
Did you hear about the guy that died on the
Annabel tour?
Speaker 3 (24:26):
Yes, a tour manager.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
He was like a popular investigator and he just like
what collapsed during the annabel tour.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Like wasn't he like he was her tour manager. He
was like the one taking her around.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Really, I don't know all the details, but we were
That was a shook moment.
Speaker 3 (24:42):
Like I'm pretty sure they were like sharing a hotel
work gloss.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
That's wild.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
Yeah, and he I don't think they released like the
autopsy or like how he died.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
But he was so young. He was like fifty four
or something like.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
But the fact that he died, I mean, while you're Annabelle, right,
and like everyone's gonna be like mm, people keep covering
all like the crazy shit that keeps happening wherever she goes,
and I'm just like spooky.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
It's kind of weird, so spooky.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
I don't know how I feel about her the validity
of all of that, but like just the coincidences are
pretty weird.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
Yeah, that one, that one was a weird one.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
I think. And it was in Getty's Bird too, which
is like it Yeah, I think that's where they were at,
which is already full of.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Just bad the most haunted area, one of the most haunted.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Nakedive energy and like ghosts, so she was probably just
like supercharged.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
I don't know, maybe he wasn't like treating her well.
Maybe she was like, oh I need better accommodations. This
hotel sucks and I don't know, I watch out.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
For that doll.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
Yeah she's got Is she listening? Why is she touring?
Speaker 2 (25:51):
We should stop talking about she was supposed to be
in a box. They need to stay in a box.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
I know, Like that's crazy that they're actually just touring
a haunted doll around. It's kind of wild after all
of weird the movies and stuff. They're like, shouldn't she
stay and heard like yeah, holy water box or what
a coincidence though, Yeah that was a wild story.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
Yep. Anyways, anyways, we're gonna end it out.
Speaker 3 (26:14):
We probably should. I got to give you haircuts. Oh yeah,
Sean's gonna cut her hair so that we look so
fresh for birth pre birth haircut, pre birth haircut.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
I got you.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
Okay, Well, we'll miss you while we're gone. Maybe we'll
still post some updates every once in a while on
the socials for sure.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
And uh, I'll definitely let people know when Ben arrives.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
Yeah, and you guys can still message us and stuff.
We still have our you know, the accountcer turned on
and everything. So for show, for show.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Anyway, give us topic ideas maybe, yeah, well that'd be
helpful look at while we're gone for show.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
Okay, okay, it wasn't a good app but good night,
have a good night, see you later. Bye.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
It was terrible.
Speaker 5 (27:00):
Treason bason basons, bason bases that you have to
Roscoe lay down down.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Mm hmmm, hey today attitude such a team runs.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Worse than the toddler.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
No, thanks.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Less your wife? Yeah, did it not be on my cordo?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
He's like, see that wasn't so hard.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
This should be my spot all the time. Why do
you need that table stretch out right? Here's perfect for you.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Hello, Hey, guys, welcome, welcome. I'm Mabbie and I'm Seana.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
And this is anxious and afraid.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Oh that was smooth for a no episode.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yeah, this is a non episode, guys.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
We finally got.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yeah, so we figured that we wanted to have a
little fun convo since you like listening to us talk,
and we're just gonna update you guys and and talk
about what's happening in our lives.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Yeah. Currently, my foots asleep. I'm having regrets on how
I sat. Dan and Rosco's here as well, of course,
tangled up in chords. He's moving around as we speak,
on the curls everywhere.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yeah, he's a sweeping Okay, there you go. You gonna
take a nap. So what's up Abby? What is making
you anxious and afraid? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I'm the most pregnant I've ever been.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
It's you are the books.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
It's true. I'm past the point I got last time. Wow, congrats, thanks.
I bet you're having so much points. It's a purity
every day, super comfortable. Yeah. I think. Well, last last
time with THEO, I was induced at like thirty seven weeks.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
And I think I was thirty nine when I was.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Were you induced? Okay? Yeah, but I was thirty nine.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
I think it was thirty nights, okay to the day.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
For some reason, I thought I was thirty eight, but
we did the math and I think it was thirty seven.
I'm pretty sure I was thirty nine. And then everything
went terribly wrong, except for you know, THEO got here safely.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
So that was everyone's alive and safe and that's great.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yes, So this time I've been doing everything in my
power to not be induced because my induction last time
failed and that's why I got a C section after
like many days of labor, which is not the funnest
surgery to have, no, and it makes having a newborn
really really fucking hard because you're also recovering from a
major surgery. So I can't walk around, no, And I
(03:08):
remember I popped a stitch. I was just trying to
do you did it's gross. So this time trying really
hard not to be induced. So far, so good because
now I'm I'm further than I got with THEO, so
that's cool.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
And your blood pressure is great, it's.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
I mean, it's getting its starting to creep.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
It's creeping.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
It's creeping, but not as bad as it was with THEO.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
You're still way lower than I was throughout my whole
Nazi say no and they make me.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Feel like yours is so bad, and I'm like, I
know so many people that have had much higher blippery
I was always in the one fortieth really the whole time,
pretty much. I am only at like one thirty five
I think was my last one. And they were like, well,
it's kind of elevated, or.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Ah, you're fine.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I literally ordered my own blood pressure cuff like an
old lady because I'm like, I'm going to monitor this
at home so you guys can't make me feel bad.
So anyway, I think I'm approaching thirty eight weeks now,
and we have a like a team work barbecue this
weekend that tomorrow it's tomorrow. Yeah, after we get through that,
(04:12):
I'm like, okay, coming.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
And out on that ball. Yeah, eat the spicy food.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I'm gonna start doing all the things because I am
so ready to be done.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I'm being pregnant. How exciting and scary.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
It's so scary. I was telling Shauna I have I
was having cramps the other night, and I was scared
because we're still waiting on our friend to drop off
the car seat for us. And I started panicking and
I was like, I can't go into labor. We don't
have the car seat yet. And so my my solution
to that was to make myself go to sleep, because
(04:47):
in my head, if I made myself go to sleep,
I wouldn't go into labor.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
That's right, that's how it works, right.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Yeah, and I didn't, So I guess that is how
that works.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
So you'll get that car seat. We'll slaper silly. Yeah,
we'll get done.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
We're gonna give it done.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
I'll knock on our door for you.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah. So, but besides the car seat, everything else is
You're ready. We're ready as we can be. I guess right,
I'm scared.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Now you're just like kind of mentally preparing.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
It's just gonna be so different because we have a
toddler Yeah, it's gonna just be a whole new experience. Yeah,
I'm like, I don't know. I guess we'll see how
THEO reacts. I really just don't know what to expect. Yeah,
is he gonna be like super clingy or like he's
a mama's boy is the thing?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
So he's probably gonna be a little jelly.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Oh, he's gonna be jelly. But that's okay. I did,
It's expected, but it's still hard to go through. Yeah,
if anyone has tips or tricks, you can send them
to me on all things. Baby, I'm just like, I
know a lot of it's gonna come back, but I
having this second child is just so much different from
the first. Like, I feel like I was researching everything
(05:57):
like a crazy person on the first and of course
we didn't we knew nothing what we were going through.
The second one, no urgency. I haven't been looking up shit,
So yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
That's probably kind of nice, though, you're a little bit
more like it's a mentally chill a little bit.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
I feel like I'm still panicking, but I don't have
the all the website energy to look it up. Yeah. Yeah, anyway,
how about you what's going on with you?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Oh boy, Well, I'm still going to therapy for me.
I'm actually going on a weekly basis, which is the
most I've ever gone. So I'm like working on myself
real hard, trying to use other coping mechanisms for life.
So I'm working on myself. Did you see you saw
(06:47):
my little post I posted? I haven't posted like myself
in like forever online, like it's always Ryland of course,
because she's the cutest, Like I don't take selfies anymore. Weird,
it's so weird.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Anyways, stop doing that.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
By the way, I'm I'm still me over here anyway.
So I decided to post some and I was like, hey,
I'm just, you know, trying to find myself here. I am.
I'm trying to excuse me, figure life out. And here's
some evidence of that, like trying to do happy things.
And then a lot of people actually were like, oh
my gosh, I can so relate, Like I'm trying to
(07:21):
live little happy moments too, even though like the time
is the hardest. Yeah, And they were like even like
strangers were like, hey, if you need to talk to me,
you can, and I like was starting to cry, like
I don't even know you.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
That's so nice. I loved that post. You put a
sexy photo in there too.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Yeah, I try to make myself feel there's trip a
little hot sometimes.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
I think a lot of people can relate to that.
I feel like a lot of people had a hard
year this year.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Yeah, yeah, definitely. I feel like a lot of people
are having one of the worst years this year in
all aspects, and I'm definitely one of them. And I'm
trying to, like, I'm just trying to like get myself back. Yeah,
you know, I'm more than just a mom. Yeah, I'm
more than just doing chores. And I need to figure
(08:11):
out how to be me again, right.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
I think that's very important. It's hard to find yourself
after having kids, and like, true, you're in your thirties
and your body's changing.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
That's true. Everything's different. I'm trying to like handle things different.
I'm just trying to better myself, which is really hard.
It is hard putting myself first, Who who does that?
I can't do that. That's the hardest thing. But actually
every week, which is rough but necessary, and yeah, so
(08:42):
like major breakthroughs some yeah, I'd say, I mean every
therapy session is definitely like, wow, Glad I got that done.
Speaker 4 (08:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
You know, it's always like nerve wracking going there, and then.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
I feel so much better.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Yeah, I'll be like bouncing my leg the whole time,
and then I'll be like exhausted by the end of it.
But yeah, if that's any motive and any motivation for
anyone else who is struggling wanting to find themselves again
or start therapy, go to therapy. You know you're not
alone and I'm doing it and so can you.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Yeah. I really enjoyed when I went to therapy. I
mean I'll probably get back into it eventually. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I always had like it was COVID.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
That's right. I'm like, why did I stop? Oh COVID.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
That makes sense. Yeah, COVID definitely always had phases, maybe
like going once a month, but yeah, this is like, no,
I'm gonna I'm gonna work on on this one. Yeah
once a.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Week please, No, that's great. I think I think it's important,
even just like little self care, Like I finally got
a massage last week.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
How was it?
Speaker 3 (09:46):
The massage was good. We couldn't do deep tissue, which
was sad.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Yeah, it's hard when you're pregnant, I can't lay on
the table.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
Why can't you just dig into the backs of my
thighs like I need you.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
To, Like I don't care if I fall off the table.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Break spine please, But it was it was very relaxing.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Yeah, you really needed that done. I kept pressuring you
you did.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
I was finally like, you know what, just do it, Like,
just get the Why why are you not getting the massage?
I think it was just like I have appointment fatigue, and.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I can get that, Like you're going to so many
freaking appointment appointments.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
I'm so sick of asking for the time off. Yeah,
but I was just like it's important. And then I
like came home and like immediately took a little bit
of a nap and then that was nice.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
So yeah, she needs that.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
Everyone should just take a moment, even if it feels
like you're being You're not being selfish, like just do it.
Just have a little self care.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yeah, learn how to breathe, breathe deeper breath right now,
oh my gosh, and potty training. Hello, that's been our
big thing happening right now. So prefer prity training Rylan, And.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
She like she's so smart she took right to it.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Yeah, we got number one down. We're still working on
number twos. Twos are hard. Choos are hard, but oh
my gosh, she loves it. Should we celebrate. We always
say like god it go and we sing a dance
and she loves it. We give her stickers. So it's
been working out. I'm so proud, like like, of course
we like cried when she it's so funny to like
(11:20):
get emotional like, oh my god, she poop. So yeah,
we've had those moments. But yeah, that's a big one
for as like you know, on as a parent. Yeah,
that's huge, Like tackling potty training. I was I was
nervous to really start it. I was like I'm not
I'm not ready, like I'm not ready, Like she's probably ready,
but I'm not ready. And then she was like, yeah,
this isn't that hard, Like yeah, it took her about
(11:42):
a day to get it down, which is great for
the number one. So that's that's nice.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
We've been on a slow burn with potty training for
months and it's just not it's it's just like we
haven't fully committed and now there's gonna be a baby,
and so I'm like we're just gonna have to.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Pause it and try it yeah later at a time.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Yeah, there's no way. And everyone says they regress anyway.
After you have your baby, they like become more baby
like because you know they're jealous.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Or the toddler becomes more baby like. That makes sense.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Like they are a potty trained, they'll start having like
accidents and stuff, and so I'm like, Okay, well, if
that's gonna happen, then I guess we'll just give up
for now and and try again later. He's only he's
only two and a half, so it's not like a
huge deal.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
But no, he's still got time and he'll probably get it. Yeah,
pretty well too, hopefully.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
I don't know. He's so stubborn. He's the most stubborn.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Child, that's true. He is a boy, and I don't
know what it's like to have a boy.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
There's a lot of throwing. There's objects just thrown all
the time in our house, and my reflexes have really
gotten pretty good. Nice, Yeah, I can just I don't
think you noticed. But at my baby sprinkle, you were
(12:59):
like you were carrying something and you like whipped around
and like came within inches of hitting me in the
face and just he like witnessed me like matrix dive
out of the way, and she's like, wow, that was
really good reflexes.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
I'm like, yeah, what, I almost hit you and you
didn't notice, no idea, but like what was I holding?
Speaker 3 (13:19):
I think you're holding a box of diapers or something
when I just swung it at you.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
I'm sorry, I'm not aware vace around.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
You really aren't. If Sean and I go into public,
I'm usually hurting her around like a cattle dog, Like.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Yeah, that's true. I've always been that way. Thanks Dad.
He was that way too, But yeah, I like to
like dilly dally and look around, like not in front
of me, and just like what He's just.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Kind of like gently moving you around, like oh, you're
in these people's way, and you're just like.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Just walk into That's so true. Well, I'm sorry I
was the face.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
With the I have a boy toddler, so I'm really
good at dodging things now because impressive, thank you. No
one told me at the time. Jesse and I were
laughing about it openly, but you weren't paying attention. Of course.
I wasn't take it. Wow, Oh yeah, Shauna and Jesse
threw me a baby sprinkle.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
It was very sweet. I was funny.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yeah, it's a sprinkle because it's not a full shower. Yeah,
because it's your second And we just like did like
a lunch and it was really nice.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
I think there was no air conditioning and it was
like ninety something degrees and we were like, what is happening.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Yeah, we weren't expecting that. So it was a little
rough there, a little rough. We were all sweaty, but
but it was fun. It's a summer's cue.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Yeah, yeah, son of We just wanted to like check
in with you guys, feel you guys in because obviously we're.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Gonna have to take a break another one.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Sorry, We're gonna unofficially call this season two finale and
we'll come back for season three at some point.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Yeah. The plan is is that I'll be working on
an episode or so and we'll come back with me
and you can listen so you can chill since you're
still in new mom mode. Yeah, and so that's the plan.
I feel like I still have the perfect episode to
come back with, Like I have the opening line in
my head, like, oh, I'm prepared. I just have to
do it, which is always my problem.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Yeah, getting it done is the hard part. But yeah,
I don't We don't have any plans to be done done,
so no, of course not.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
We love this.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
We we're just gonna be kicking around. We have all
this equipment. What are what are? What are we gonna
do with it all?
Speaker 2 (15:33):
We kind of keep using it.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
We have to use it. We have all these whiteboards and.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Whiteboard markers, markers.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
We can't waste the markers. So we'll be back, of course,
because we love doing the podcast.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
And we don't know obviously how long. I guess we're
gonna kind of like just wait it out to see
how you feel.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
And yeah, I don't remember how long we went last time.
Was it like a year or more than that?
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Damn I do that was yeah, I think a little
over a year.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Yeah, I mean it takes about that long to get
back on like a sane sleep cycle. True, true that
because I think we sleep trained for you at like
what eight months or eight yeah, and then we were
like finally starting to get some like decent sleep. But man,
it's a rough go of it before.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Yeah, you do any of that, so well, maybe not
as long since I'll come back with an episode and
you'll just have to like react. That's my plan.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Be awake.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
As long as you're just awake listening, you.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Just take my eyes open and.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Yeah, maybe I'll do a couple for you like you
did for me. So yeah, man, I'm gonna try and
get my shit together too.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I've been doing this podcast for so long.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Honestly, it was before COVID, do you That was nineteen.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Yeah, it was before COVID.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
And then we recorded during COVID too.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
We did remotely. Yeah, we did some zoom episodes or whatever.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
That took some stupid engineering.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
On Michael's part. We just showed up right.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
It wasn't even zoom.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
It was so what was it called on?
Speaker 1 (17:11):
We were using discord Discord, and I had a bot
that would join the voice chat and then record everything,
and then I was editing in a different program because
it recorded an output in a different format, and then.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
The sound quality was still probably shit.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
It was probably definitely was.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
Well, that was before what's the main video one that
everyone uses now? Is it zoom or zoom or team teams? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:41):
Back then, I mean those we didn't have teams.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Those came out and got much better after COVID because
we all needed a necessity. But before then it was
like Skype, Yeah, Skype, which sucked for sound quality.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Wow, it's been five six years and I feel like
we've lived through so much.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
You it's twenty twenty five, Isn't it.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
Disgusting to realize how much time is? What the fuck?
I remember celebrating my thirtieth birthday and now I'm thirty
turning thirty five? Ew?
Speaker 3 (18:11):
What is time?
Speaker 2 (18:13):
It's going by way too fast.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
It's cruel.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
In the state of the world. In the state of
the world has been going up and down and down
and down and down, and that's hard to deal with.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Into flames, I know, like, what am I bringing this
baby into I'm Sorryfully things get better hopefully, Yeah, what
are you gonna do? Life goes on, um.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
World keeps spinning yep, whether we're here or not.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
So that's our plan, that's our lives.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Michael, Do you want to did you want to add anything? Right?
Speaker 4 (18:46):
No?
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Are you anxious and afraid of having baby number two? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (18:50):
All the things? Yeah, but also low key because like
we've done that before.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
It's another boy, So that mystery is Yeah, lesson.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
Definitely coming in, you know, experience.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
Experience, We know which diaper brand we need, We've done
it before.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
It's just the new part is that we're gonna have
two at the same time.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Yeah. Yeah, I'm kind of like, how the heck do
you do? Like bedtime routines? Like, there's so much like
up in the air, because we have everything so routined
out now and scheduled pretty well with the and now
it's gonna be like all different. And I'm like, and
then they're probably gonna share a room eventually. I'm like,
how does that work? There's just a lot of unanswered
(19:35):
scenarios that we're gonna st hit. But I mean we're
certainly not the first.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
To do it. And uh, other people have multiple kids. Yeah,
I mean you're gonna survive.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
My sisters each have three, so they figured it out somehow.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
You're gonna be You're gonna be fine, You're gonna be
just great.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Yeah, it's gonna be fine.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
I'll make you some lasagnas.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
We've already got a lot of people saying they'll make
us food, which is super nice. Yeah. I almost feel
like we have had more support around this time than
last time, which is cool. I think it's because we
know more people now that I've had kids, so.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Like like and we've experienced it ourselves, We're like, oh,
oh we need to be there for each other, like
we know what you need food, Oh, you can't cook
because you're exhausted.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
Yes, yeah, so that's cool that we have that support
and yeah, it's gonna be fine. It's going to be fine. Everyone,
just like, give me all the positive vibes to have
a v back because I don't want another sea section.
If you can just put all of your vibes into that, yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
That's what we're hoping for. I know you could do it,
but you know, you never know what's going to happen.
Speaker 3 (20:43):
I know I'm not against getting an epidural if it
comes to that, but this time around, I'm trying to
do unmedicated, which also seems really hardcore.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Yeah I would never honestly, I'm just.
Speaker 3 (20:57):
Like, whatever I have to do to not have a
sea section, all, do it.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
Yeah, because that like slowed you down last time, right,
was epidural.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
It could have It could have also just been my
body just not ready being like, hey, I've been doing
this for like two days and I'm tired and I'm done,
which fair. Yeah, so I don't know. It could have
been the epidural. It could have not been the epidural.
But if it was the epidural, then I'm like, I
can't have you, boo. I can't have you unless they
give me toastin and then I feel like I'll have
(21:25):
to have it. But we'll just see.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
We'll just see, sending all the good vibes. Obviously you're
gonna talk all about it when we come back. Yeah,
you'll get the gory details, full birth story.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Did I give the full birth story last time? I
don't remember some people. Sometimes people ask me and I'm like,
the haze of that time.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Oh, you block it out.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
It's crazy what you block out, like what your brain
literally protects you from. Yeah, that's why we keep having
kids because I'm like, why can't I remember such a
traumatic like time of my life? But I'm like, your
brain literally it's like, hey, boo, we're actually just gonna
wipe that from your memory. You're welcome, And I'm just like,
(22:07):
do you want to I want to remember some of it, Yeah,
but you can't. It's weird. Brains were weird. But anyway,
we're hoping for a better time this time. Yes, but
I am nervous because I don't know what it feels
like to go into labor like naturally. So that's all true,
very mysterious to me.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Like is your is your water gonna break on its own?
But like I didn't experience that, I feel.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
Like it's gonna happen. Okay, So I dropped my schedule
down to only working in office one day a week
and I work from home the rest. I feel like
it's gonna break the one day I'm in office.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
That would be your luck so hard.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
I'm just gonna ruin my work chair cause.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
A stain on the car. Oh my gosh, what a
story that would be. Honestly, I'm gonna miss you. I
have to like talk of the office you. That's true.
Everyone will make sure you never forget it.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Yeah, I'll miss everyone at work, though, I mean, I'll
just miss seeing adults.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
But I'm talking to an adult that isn't a baby.
Yeah yeah, yeah, I guess I can just go to work,
you know, as normal without my best friend's fine.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
I know. I mean, you're only down to seeing me
once a week now anyway, So it's like amasing you
into it.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Yeah, I guess so distancing yourself.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
And it's not like you can't just come over whenever
you want.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
You mean, I can't just show up what you want to.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
You can come over whenever you want.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Yeah, all right, Well that's our stick.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
That's our stick. We'll be back when we can. And
we love you guys, and we're really appreciative of all
the support and all the listens that we've gotten, even
though we season two has been rough.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
We've been all over the place and if we've even
had comments like it's okay whenever you upload, you upload,
and I'm like, thank you. It was really hard right now,
but like obviously we still want to do this because
we love it and we love each other and love
you guys.
Speaker 3 (24:06):
And I don't think I'm ever not going to be
obsessed with like disasters and fu crime and that's no,
it's just my comfort and writing and reading about it
is just fun for me.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
So morbid curiosity. Yeah, did you hear about the real quick?
Did you hear about the guy that died on the
Annabel tour?
Speaker 3 (24:26):
Yes, a tour manager.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
He was like a popular investigator and he just like
what collapsed during the annabel tour.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Like wasn't he like he was her tour manager. He
was like the one taking her around.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Really, I don't know all the details, but we were
That was a shook moment.
Speaker 3 (24:42):
Like I'm pretty sure they were like sharing a hotel
work gloss.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
That's wild.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
Yeah, and he I don't think they released like the
autopsy or like how he died.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
But he was so young. He was like fifty four
or something like.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
But the fact that he died, I mean, while you're Annabelle, right,
and like everyone's gonna be like mm, people keep covering
all like the crazy shit that keeps happening wherever she goes,
and I'm just like spooky.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
It's kind of weird, so spooky.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
I don't know how I feel about her the validity
of all of that, but like just the coincidences are
pretty weird.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
Yeah, that one, that one was a weird one.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
I think. And it was in Getty's Bird too, which
is like it Yeah, I think that's where they were at,
which is already full of.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Just bad the most haunted area, one of the most haunted.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Nakedive energy and like ghosts, so she was probably just
like supercharged.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
I don't know, maybe he wasn't like treating her well.
Maybe she was like, oh I need better accommodations. This
hotel sucks and I don't know, I watch out.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
For that doll.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
Yeah she's got Is she listening? Why is she touring?
Speaker 2 (25:51):
We should stop talking about she was supposed to be
in a box. They need to stay in a box.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
I know, Like that's crazy that they're actually just touring
a haunted doll around. It's kind of wild after all
of weird the movies and stuff. They're like, shouldn't she
stay and heard like yeah, holy water box or what
a coincidence though, Yeah that was a wild story.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
Yep. Anyways, anyways, we're gonna end it out.
Speaker 3 (26:14):
We probably should. I got to give you haircuts. Oh yeah,
Sean's gonna cut her hair so that we look so
fresh for birth pre birth haircut, pre birth haircut.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
I got you.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
Okay, Well, we'll miss you while we're gone. Maybe we'll
still post some updates every once in a while on
the socials for sure.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
And uh, I'll definitely let people know when Ben arrives.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
Yeah, and you guys can still message us and stuff.
We still have our you know, the accountcer turned on
and everything. So for show, for show.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Anyway, give us topic ideas maybe, yeah, well that'd be
helpful look at while we're gone for show.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
Okay, okay, it wasn't a good app but good night,
have a good night, see you later. Bye.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
It was terrible.
Speaker 5 (27:00):
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