The Daily Mess What Are The Good Ole Days Plus Would You Go Back To Change A Bad Day

I’m always asking questions.  The fun begins when you start researching for answers. Such as…   Why are so many people locked in on always wanting to talk about the good ole days?  Plus…If we could go back and change a bad day would you?   I’m Arroe…  I am a daily writer.  A silent wolf.  I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen study then activate.  I call it The Daily Mess.  A chronological walk through an everyday world.  Yes, it’s my morning writing.  As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people tend to throw it to the side and deal with it later.  When a subject arrives, I dig in.  It’s still keeping a journal!  By doing the research the picture becomes clearer.  This is the Daily Mess…  

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
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why is because the fund begins when you start researching

(00:22):
for answers such as, why are so many people locked
in on always wanting to talk about the good old days? Really?
The good old days? Plus if we could go back
and change a bad day, would you really do it?
My name is Arrow. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf.

(00:43):
I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,
then activate. I happen to call it the daily Mess,
a chronological walk through in everyday world. Yeah, it's my
morning writing as a receiver of thoughts and ideas. We
as people tend to throw things to the side because
we all think we're going to deal with it a
little bit later on. How you doing so far with that?

(01:04):
When a subject arrives inside of me, I know it's
time to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal,
but by doing the research, the picture becomes clearer. This
is the daily mess. Why do so many people, including
my mother, get lost in those things called the good
old days? First millions of people worldwide struggle with this

(01:27):
the good old days? Where they really the good old days.
It's well documented that nostalgia is both comforting as well
as deceptive. The number one reason why we invest so
much in our good old days past is because it's
easier for the brain to digest. We are guilty of

(01:47):
remembering the feelings of safety, simplicity as well as joy.
It smooths out the present with its edgy paths of uncertainty.
This is such a rough place because as our inner thinking,
it creates patterns that are convinced that our memories are
polished against messiness. While doing that, the comparisons of the

(02:09):
good old days and today make all that is now
actually lesser than what it truly is. The past offers control,
it's finished, it's predictable. When we are facing today's headlines,
it's so much easier to give ourselves permission to retreat
into those good old days because it just feels safer

(02:33):
coming up next. We all experience a good and a
bad moment. But if you could go back to change
out a bad moment, would you really do it? Hey,
thanks for coming back to the daily mess. We all
experience good and bad moments, some either too light to
handle or some that are just so out of control.

(02:54):
And yet here we are. We're trying to figure out
how we can get back to those bad chapters and
see if we can challenge ourselves to kind of get
them to go in a right direction. If you could
go back and change a bad day, would you do it?
One mental expert says, it's an honest move to think
that you truly have what it takes to make that

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change something that wasn't really bad but it was. But
here's the reason why it needs to change, but we can't.
It's our perspective. We think we've got more knowledge about
how to handle something that was really bad at one time.
We're going to go back there with the experience to
handle things. True connection or recognition doesn't come from reliving

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a moment. It's having a firm grip on better understandings
of that moment, its depth, and its purpose. Going back
into the past to correct a bad moment involves you
returning to that very person you once were, and is
that one thing that you want to do in your
present day of happening. Many men, any health leaders, believe

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that you'll end up in the same exact situation, all
of that time required to go back and mentally reset
up the stage, then hitting play only to see there
ain't any change, and that can lead to a bad
moment in your place of right now, High Marrow. And

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that's the daily mess