The Daily Mess Life Without An I Love You Plus Deeper Pockets From Women

I’m always asking questions.  The fun begins when you start researching for answers. Such as…   What’s the effects on a person’s life that grew up in a household that rarely if ever said, “I love you.”  Plus…women’s jeans, why in God’s name don’t they come with deep pockets?   I’m Arroe…  I am a daily writer.  A silent wolf.  I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen study then activate.  I call it The Daily Mess.  A chronological walk through an everyday world.  Yes, it’s my morning writing.  As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people tend to throw it to the side and deal with it later.  When a subject arrives, I dig in.  It’s still keeping a journal!  By doing the research the picture becomes clearer.  This is the Daily Mess…

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's been one of the most successful talent contests on
the planet, NBC's The Voice since twenty sixteen. I've been
blessed with the opportunity to share a lot of conversations
with those that have been featured. You can get them
all at Arrow dot net, Rroe dot net. Look for
the podcast that Voice. Enjoy the exploration. I'm always asking questions.

(00:22):
The reason why is because the fund begins when you
start doing the research for answers such as what's the
effects on a person's life that grew up in a
household that rarely, if ever said I love you? Plus
women's genes, Why in God's name don't they come with
deeper pockets. My name is Errow. I'm a daily writer,

(00:44):
a silent wolf. I stand on the sidelines and do
nothing but watch, listen, study, then activate. I call it
the Daily Mess, a chronological walk through an everyday world. Yeah,
it's my morning writing as a receiver of thoughts and ideas.
We as people tend to throw oh things to the
side because we think we're gonna deal with them later.
Just remember that Tom Brady did not always score a touchdown.

(01:08):
Ah no arguments. I saw it, I fell witness to it.
Michael Jordan when he shot that ball didn't always go
in the net. I see, I was there. I was there.
When a subject arrives inside of me, I know it's
time to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal.
But but but but but by doing the research, the
picture becomes clearer. This is the daily mess growing up

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in a household where nobody ever said, or barely said,
I love you? How does that play out with somebody's future?
First and foremost, such conditions do not doom a person's
path of growing forward. It does, though, shape your experiences
through emotion, connection, and self worth. Never should you forget

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the multiple ways that love is actually shared as well
as shown actions, consists, and see and protection. So many
of us grew up experiencing how love is implied and
not spoken. God, that sounds like my dad. It's not
always easy to tell someone I love you. It sounds fake.

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So what do we do? We search for other favorable
words and expressions. How often have you heard this one?
Love is something you earn, not something you're given. Oh boy,
now we've entered a Yoda moment. This leads to perfectionism
overworking to feel valued high anxiety. Plus, you become sensitive

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to criticism as well as silence. People affected by the
lack of an I love you choose emotionally safe relationships.
They reparent themselves while breaking the pattern for future generations.
Awareness is your superpower. It is never too late to
sneak in and I love you. No, I do, I do?

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I love you. I love you so much. Coming up next,
women's genes. My wife wants to know why don't they
come with deeper pockets? Hey, thanks for coming back to
the daily mess the subject women's genes. Why don't they
come with deeper pockets? This is looked upon as being

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an everyday frustration and it comes straight from the soul
of fashion economics and assumption about the woman behind such
a decision to not create clothing lines with deeper pockets.
Deep pockets affect the way a pair of genes actually
sit on the hips and thighs. The fashion world calls
it a reason to create smoother silhouettes. Designers see pockets

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of bulkiness and the visual disruption. It's also because women
are seen as carrying a purse oh boy. Therefore, pockets
have been labeled unnecessary for the ladies. The world of
Clothing Designs openly admits that even today, women are more
apt to carry accessories, not just wallets, tools, or huge

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key rings. Deep pockets for women means fabric, more fabric,
higher costs. Recent reports show that designers who've taken the
steps to create better pockets for women are starting to
gain financially. The biggest roadblock itself is time. Fashion is
always going to take its time. It's worse than a

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first grader on its second week of school. Are you
still coming here? You come here, you come No, No,
we're up here. Come on fashion, Oh brother him maero.
And that's the daily mess.