135. American Murder: Gabby Petito Part 3

This week we are covering the Netflix documentary, American Murder: Gabby Petito. This will be a three part series if you would like to watch and follow along.

Gabby Petito made national news when she went missing in August of 2021 and a nationwide manhunt ensued for her boyfriend Brian Laundrie. No one would be able to guess how this story would end in tragedy.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:20):
Hey, everyone, welcome to Bless This Mess and the True
Crump Podcast. I Don't care? Here was do says? Do?
All right, we're back with part three of the Gary
Patito documentary on Netflix. This will wrap it up for us.
We are moving on to other things.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
You're just saying that because we watched fifty times.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
I've watched it like fifty million times. I am. I've
I've I've felt the feels, I've thought the thoughts, I've
written the writings. I'm ready to let it all out
and then close this chapter and move on. I did
we We watched the The Long Island one. Oh? What

(00:59):
was the one you watch that I was so mad about?
It was something else. The police were so like.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Terror.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Oh Karen Reid. Oh. Someone messaged us on the Instagram
and asked me, have you heard this case? Oh? Do
I have feelings about the Karen read thing.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
No, we're not doing a three part series on that.

Speaker 1 (01:17):
It's not a three parts series. We could just do
a summary of it though, anyways. But yeah, I I think,
I am. I can't. I well, I'm not going to
run it because if somebody hasn't seen the documentary or whatever,
but my personal feelings is that if she, if she
did do it, it wasn't they. I can't believe the

(01:40):
amount of charges they tried to bring up on her.
I mean, you find this out right away, like they
went straight from you know, this should have been a
if anything, if she accidentally hitting, why she was driving drunk,
should have been like, uh, what's it not.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
It's like a manslaughter or something.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
Like a manslaughter or something like that type of level.
But instead they're like, no death penalty, no, yeah, they
just want to like give her a life in prison
or whatever. Anyways, I don't think I'm on the fence,
but I'm starting to think she didn't do it. Stu,
I think she's I think there's some corrupt cops going
on there.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
Kind of like the Brian laundry. You don't think you
did it either, Stuart?

Speaker 1 (02:18):
Why are you so stupid? You're so annoying? Anyways, all right,
well let's get into this. The only thing I was
gonna tell the people about is that we had another
incident with the neighbors. We had the dog situation with
the neighbors. If you recall a lot back. Hopefully not either, Yeah,

(02:39):
because I make it a point to not ever get
to know the neighbors. But Stu somehow, always no matter
where we live, starts yapping it up in the front
yard with them.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
They find me anyways.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
So which that's because I just don't go outside in
the front yard. I'm just like I'm walked away, either
in the backyard or Yeah, the HOA came in, citizen,
we got a letder. The h o A sen is
a certified letter. Our yard did not look that bad.
Everybody calmed down.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
It was terrible.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
No, it wasn't that bad, Stuke terrible. They we had weeds,
but it wasn't like a jungle grown out there. You
can't grow anything that big here. Obviously all our plants
are fucking dying here because nobody wants to live here.
And so anyways, so that Friday.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Night, yeah we went the corpus came back in. Our
yard was a disaster.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, it wasn't a disastrous stew.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
I was out there pauling the weeds.

Speaker 1 (03:32):
It doesn't matter. But when you look at it, imagine
if we had quit. Oh my god, I'm about to
fucking hit you. No, imagine what our yard looked like
in Louisiana after a week of no thing that that's
not pet what people are probably picturing. It was not
like that. There were some little like bristle weeds, but
there was a bunch of them. It wasn't that bad.
That's what happens. We lived in a stupid hoa anyways,

(03:53):
don't even get me started on the h aay, But
what the neighbors did this time? So all of a sudden,
there's like these children over there next door, and there
weren't any children really before. I don't remember recall having
children over there. Well, Stu comes in Friday night. It's
like I'm laying in bed watching probably my Long Island
Killer or whatever serial killer thing, and he's like, You'll

(04:16):
never believe. He's like, I'm so mad. There's rocks all
like big rocks in our pool and all over our backyard.
And I'm thinking, calm downs, do like whatever. He's like,
those kids, those fucking kids next door throwing rocks over
or whatever and everything, and I'm I'm like, I'm like tired,
I just want to I'm not really that invested in this.
I'm like, okay, we'll deal with tomorrow. Well I decided

(04:36):
to go out there and look, these are giant rocks
and there's probably like fifty now, yes, there were like
twenty no between the whole yard and between like the
whole deck and the pool. Yeah, there was probably between
forty and fifty rocks, like big, pretty big sized rocks.
And so I'm pissed. I am a livid, So I

(04:57):
go back in. I put my brawl back on and
got dressed because I was about to march over there
just in my pajamas with no brawl because I'm a
little bit like I'm, you know, Muskogee trash. So it's
that's just how we roll. And Steve's like, you gotta
put some clothes on, so they made me. I was
so mad. I put my brawl back on, it, throw
on my clothes, and I was fixing to go out there.
But lucky for them, they had I guess the the

(05:22):
dad had found out or the stepdad had found out
that the kids were doing this, and he made one
of them write like a handwritten note apologizing and that
they would come in like pull weeds. So that's how
Stew ended up with the neighbor kids out front pulling weeds.
Because I was like fuck that. I was like, I'll
just we'll just claim up the rocks. They've apologized at least,
they're like on top of it or whatever, and they

(05:42):
know that they're doing it because you gotta watch out
in this neighborhood. There's a lot of parents that just
don't care and they just let their kids. There's like
kids over there slashing tires right now, a couple of
streets over. Yeah, and one person says they know who
the kid this is in the Facebook group, know who
the kid is or whatever, and like there's nothing being done.
Like there's kids in thisighborhood that are bad, but these
people next door, they are like they're on top of

(06:03):
it or whatever. So anyway, so that was the dramas.
But that's how it stew ended up pulling weeds out
there with the kids. But I wasn't gonna have them
do anything because I was, like I told you, I
was like, okay, if we have them come pull weeds,
I was like, we're gonna have to get to know
the neighbors, and I just really don't feel like doing that,
so we'll just we'll just let it go. That's a
true story anyway, So that's our drama.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
He came up to me while I was out there
pulling weeds, and then he sent the kids over. I
was like, hey, I guess I got to learn a lesson.
I guess I have have them come pull weeds.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, and so yeah, because our ever the other the
two year old and the baby were asleep, and so
our daughter was she was like looking for dadda or whatever.
So I walk out and I see him talking somebody.
So I'm like peeking around the corner because I don't
want to see me, because I don't want to interact
with anybody.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Because your pajamas with nobraun.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
I was again, yes, this was during the day on Sunday,
or or no, this was Monday. Anyways. All right, well
that's our story for the week. But okay, let's get
into the if you're if you've if you've been skipping,
this is your time to join because we're gonna, oh sorry,
we're gonna get to the third episode of Gabby Petito. Now,

(07:11):
if you don't know what's going on, go back and
listen to the other two episodes. All right, so we're
gonna start back with the news has gotten out that
Brian was missing, and the crowds outside the home continued
to grow because like this is we're fever pitch. Now
Gabby's missing and now Brian's missing, and the family's not
talking to anybody. Now. Rose, she's the real friend of Gabby's,

(07:32):
you know, the one that's not Giggles. Rose. She is
not on Brian's side at all, and she believes that
he just ran off, like to get away from all
this because he obviously did something to Gabby. Now the
FBI agents are talking about the fact that they can
not just arrest Brian without a body or proof that
he killed a Gabby because at this point all they

(07:52):
have is Gabby's gone. They have no other clues as
to where she was. They can't prove that she didn't
just run off for something like that, but they just
have her family go and no, she would never do that.
So they start the documentary starts showing all of like
the TikTok and social media post about Gabby and people
starting to speculate and everything like that, and then people

(08:14):
actually started to come forward on social media, like making
their own videos saying that they thought they saw Brian
in Grand Teton National Park around that time. And so
this is when Norma Jean from last episode, she starts
to wonder if that person that she picked up back
in August was Brian Laundry. She's like, I think this

(08:34):
is I think this might be him, Like she's actually
one of the ones that's interacted with him. So she
calls the police and this helped them narrow down the
timeline in their search. So actually all the social media
crazy and everything has actually benefited them. And so as
this case gets out, they start getting more and more tips.
And these are my favorite characters from the documentaries too.

(08:57):
It's a couple of van life vloggers named Jen and
Kyle Bethune and they're channels called Red White and Bethoon.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
Unique.

Speaker 1 (09:09):
Anyway, so they hear about Gabby, so then they talk
about you know they're talking about when you hear a
no Mad go missing, it spreads real quickly in the
no mad.

Speaker 2 (09:18):
Community, So oh this is yes.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
Yeah. So they saw that the dates that the FBI
was asking people to see if they had seen Gaby
or Brian, and the original time frame was like August
twenty first through twenty fourth somewhere in there that they heard.
But later on the FBI actually changed that timeframe and
said that the date range should have been for the
Spread Creek camping area would have been August twenty seventh

(09:43):
through the thirtieth. So a friend calls you know, Red
White and Bthoon, and they're like, hey, you guys need
to check your video footage again, just to make sure
because the timeline has changed, Like the timeline has changed.
So they pull it back up and lo, behold, there
is Gabby's van on their little like their driving in
their thing. And so they got one of those like
car cams or whatever, and they're driving and over to

(10:05):
the left side you see Gabby's van sitting on the
side of a road in that Spread Creek campground. Well,
they immediately called police and to.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
Let them knowst do Well, why wasn't they, Hey, we
got footage.

Speaker 1 (10:22):
No, they do not immediately please hey listen, they're YouTubers.
They're trying to get their money. I get it, you know,
do you do? They immediately posted to their vlog channel,
and then this quickly gets millions of views overnight, like
everybody's because this is like major news. Everyone's kind of
in quarantine right now. This is all we're focusing now.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
Then the play is going to be like, hey, don't
tell anybody, because we need to keep this.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
They're like no, Yeah, They're like, no, we need to
we need to spread out. We need everybody to be
following the Red White and bathoons.

Speaker 2 (10:51):
We only got five hundred followers right now.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Yeah. So anyway, so this racks up these millions of
views overnight. The FBI receives the video foot and they
go to the place to locate the spot where the
van was, and this allows them to significantly narrow down
the search area. So this was a big break, these
these Red White and batoons getting this. Yeah, so they

(11:16):
start searching the there's like a river body, like a
like a little creek, So they start searching the river
bottom because it's real shallow and everything. They're on horses,
there's people on foot. They're just searching everywhere in that
area because now they've been able to kind of narrow
it down a little bit. So one of the people
on horseback comes across a body and it was clearly Gabby.
Right away they knew, and they said that her body

(11:38):
was not in a like a natural position, and she
was wearing a sweater with the hood and it was
like overhead and you could see her hair hanging out.
They said her boots were set next to her, and
there was like a small fire spot on the ground,
like where like someone had lit a fire. So they
could tell immediately that the crime scene was staged. Again,
bodies not in a natural position, her boots are just

(12:00):
sitting next to her like that. It's just all weird, like.

Speaker 2 (12:04):
She just died out and exposures. Huh. Yeah, like she
saw a camp and campfire and.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
Like took her shoes off and then made like a
little They said, it was just a little tiny spot
for like a fire.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
Wasn't like a cook enough to cook a camp or.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
Even keep you warm. So Gabby's stepfather, he was the
one that was in Wyoming, so he came out to
the scene and he's the one that had to identify
the body. Now, it had been out there for almost
a month in the elements, so her body was pretty decayed.
But he he knew right away that it was I mean,
everybody knew it was her. So then he had the

(12:39):
task to have to call back home and let her mom,
dad and stepmom know. Now, poor Rose, who's like the
best friend of Gabby, she finds out from a reporter
who calls her and says they found a body or whatever.
So she's finding out this way. So the story quickly
gets out and next thing you know, there's helicopters flying
over above the crime area. I mean, it's a whole hooplaw.

(13:02):
And now, the Corners report did come back about a
month later, and it was determined that she died from
blunt floor's trauma and strangulation, with strangulation being the final motive,
so it was clear she did not die in a
natural way. I mean, we all know Brian did it.
We do it like everyone knows.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
Alert everyone knows now that the police have a body
that can start building a case against their prime suspect,
which is the waiter at the Mexican restaurant. You're not funny, no, okay,
it's Brian Laundry. As we well know, they know from
an eyewitness that they got into a fight at the
Mexican restaurant and Gabby was crying. However, when they are

(13:45):
in the Whole Foods later that day, they seem normal.

Speaker 1 (13:48):
Spending an absorbent amount of money on organic food on.

Speaker 2 (13:51):
Seventeen dollars mayonnaise. I found out they have I was
unaware of that. They know that Gabby's van was seen
between six and six thirty p on August twenty seventh.
Gabby sent her last text messages and video footage around
eight thirty pm that night.

Speaker 1 (14:07):
Yeah, they were able to go when we say the
last text message, the last text message that they believe
she sent, because he of course sent messages later on,
and then they were able to look at her files
and she kind of did the same pattern every day
where she'd kind of move and edit files and stuff
like that on her computer every night at about that time.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
So they are able to determine it was her.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
Yeah, they don't think that was Brian doing that because
it was very similar too, because you know, he didn't
give a fuck about the video footage. He'd I don't
know what he thought was going to pay for their
their Whole Foods lifestyle.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
You know, you think he'll want to go whole Whole
Foods or he was No, he wanted to go.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
No, he was doing yoga in the morning, Steward, Yes,
he wanted to go to Whole Foods.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
Okay. On August twenty ninth, Brian called his mother and
they had a fifty five minute phone call.

Speaker 1 (14:56):
That bitch right there.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
Oh, ROBERTA and they can continue to call back and
forth for a few more times that afternoon. Soon after that,
the parents wired twenty five thousand dollars to an attorney
in Wyoming. That's a lot of money. Yeah, I mean
it's not even retained. I don't know. That can't even
be a retainer of money. That's just like a big
chunk of money like that.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
No, And they do talk about it later, like the
amount of money and what it could only be for mm.

Speaker 2 (15:24):
Yeah, that same evening, Brian was hitchhiking his way back
to Spread Creek and that's when he had been picked
up and brought there. And the lady.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
Not the same evening that they had Gabby moving around
the same evening that he called his parents.

Speaker 2 (15:39):
That, yeah, that was the lady that was coming back,
Norma Jean.

Speaker 1 (15:42):
And then he also was picked He was actually picked
up by two people. So there was the first girl
that picked him up at her and her boyfriend picked
him up and got him to Jackson, and then the
lady or got him to a certain point, and then
the Norma Jean picked.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
Him up and took him back to the campground. It's
Spread Creek, Yeah, Brian continued to text, Gabby.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
Yeah, he kept he was texting her. I was texting
Cabby to make it like I love you see soon
you know, He's like texting her and then as if
nothing has happened.

Speaker 2 (16:18):
And then he was sitting there with her phone and
texting himself much.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
His parents probably told him to do I guarant damn
t you. His parents said, you need to make it
look like she was still around. M M.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
Now it was clear by cell phone towers that the
phones were in the same area. On August thirtieth, Brian
was caught on CCTV traveling from Wyoming back to Florida,
and this is when he texted Gabby's mom about Stan.
So he was using her phone and.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
That's when he That's when the mom was starting to
question things because he called the grandpa Stan instead of
Grandpa Yeah and so, but yeah, whenever they were he
was saying. They were saying that the phones, it was
clear they were next to each other, and he was
texting Gabby, I'm headed back, and he was saying he
was far farther away than the spread kings like okay,

(17:06):
it's clearly.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
Like dude, come on now. He also used Gabby's credit
cards to pay for gas, as well as sending himself
money from Gabby's Zell account or sent from her account
using Zel. There was one transaction for seven hundred dollars
that had a memo saying, goodbye, Brian, I'll never ask
you for anything again, which.

Speaker 1 (17:28):
Again, yeah, got a dick. And what's crazy about that
amount of money that he that that was sent is
that part of the the like the whole thing was like, oh,
she was just gonna pay buy buy him out of
the van, like his portion van. There's no way seven
hundred dollars is gonna cover that. And he's not gonna

(17:50):
like want more from her or whatever, because remember whenever
he got back, he said he told he told the parents,
or the parents said the sister thought he had flown
in and left Gabby the van. Remember that was the
story that they told. This supposedly told the sister, and
then that's when they found the van at the house
and they're like, wait a minute, something's not add So

(18:11):
on September twenty third, a federal arrest warrant was issued
for Brian and they showed up at his house to
arrest him, but he was still missing at this point.
Now because I Remember they didn't actually have anything to
go arrest him or any cause or anything. Now they
have a body and.

Speaker 2 (18:28):
They're like, okay, I mean, and I want to try
to get him on grand theft of the band since
his name wasn't on it.

Speaker 1 (18:33):
Yeah. Well, whenever you make it through the FBI academy stewing,
you make it into a local agency, call you okay.

Speaker 2 (18:42):
Yeah, have the FBI comment, I'll fix things for him,
all right.

Speaker 1 (18:45):
Reports of sighting started coming in from everywhere. Of course,
everybody seen Brian. Everybody's seen him.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
He was with Elvis.

Speaker 1 (18:52):
Yeah, he even Dog the bounty hunter hunter was looking for,
saying that he knew Brian was probably a fan of his.
I don't know if he knew that or he just
something dog.

Speaker 2 (19:02):
Well, dog needs some money here on TV.

Speaker 1 (19:06):
So the FBI learns that a call came into local
police saying that a car. So there the FBI is
learning this. So there, there's a call coming in from
a local police to a local police station saying that
a car had been left for a substantial period of
time at a city park called Micah Micah Hatchie, Maya, Maya, CA.

(19:27):
Hatchie Creek Environmental Park, I probably said that wrong.

Speaker 2 (19:31):
Oh, you'll get a letter.

Speaker 1 (19:32):
I'm gonna get a Yeah, there's gonna be angry reviews,
You dumb bitch.

Speaker 2 (19:38):
We just got one, like not too long ago about
the Oh, I think we're already discussed that.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
Still getting about Valdosta, Yes, yeah, I still think it's
funny that someone got upset about something we said about
cut off Luise. Anyway, if you're still well, she was
mad about so, I'm sure she's not listening. But anyway,
So this car had been left there for a while.
They trace the plates for that vehicle that was called in,

(20:03):
and it's goes back to the lawn that local police station.
Police station does it goes back to the laundries, and
the laundries go pick up the car and they drive
it back home. Now, while all this is happening, this
was before they found Gabby's body. This is all just
happening in a separate police station, and the FBI is
unaware that all this is going on. They find out
about this after the fact. So that's why a lot

(20:26):
of these timelines are a little confusing or whatever, because
some of this stuff was happening and there wasn't a
rest warn or anything for him. So they're just investigating this,
but they're still trying to gather all the facts, and
everything's happening happening kind of fast. So when the FBI
learns about this whole car incident at this park, they
go and talk to the laundries and they tell the

(20:46):
FBI that Brian told them he was going camping and
he had taken some food and necessities for a few days,
which just wasn't like weird for them to have Brian
news because he's, you know, he's in a camping, he's
living a van life or whatever. He would do things
like this, like go into the woods and camp and
things like that. So the FBI was surveilling Brian and

(21:07):
trying to keep track on it track of him, but
apparently they did lose track of him, and so they
said that they mistaked him at one point for his
mother or something like that. But I don't know if
the family is trying to do the old Switcher root,
We don't fucking know.

Speaker 2 (21:21):
I'm sure they were dressing him up and he might
have been in a dress or something, and yeah, costume
or trying to get out of the house.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
And this is where I don't like that bitch sister
of his or whatever anyway. So they the documentary shows
text messages between the sister and the mom and they're
just like making fun of the FBI, and they're saying
that they must have their top notch team on this.
They're like laughing about this whole thing. And Gabby's dead,

(21:47):
Brian's missing, and they're just like joking about how they
like lost him. That's what I'm pretty I'm sure they
probably did some sort of thing to make him to
confuse them or whatever.

Speaker 2 (21:58):
Plus thing, you got all the people out there protest.

Speaker 1 (22:00):
Well, so I was curious about this because I did
go outside the documentary because I was thinking, how did
they how is all this like happening or whatever? And
they said that there wasn't always protesters online. It really
hyped up after like Gabby was found. Was you know,
our body was found, but this he went missing before

(22:23):
her body was found, so that's why he was. It
wasn't like there was protesters out there at twenty four
to seven, just like putting like spotlights in their windows
and stuff like that. Like there wasn't like that, they
said it just it did ramp up to that point
you know. So anyway, so they are making fun of
the FBI, making fun of this whole situation, which I

(22:45):
just think is in poor taste. And I think that
that's because so that's when that bitch Cassie or whatever
went on news and was like, oh, we don't know anything.

Speaker 2 (22:53):
We are.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
My mom's not even talking to us. She's a lying bitch.
Her mother's a bitch. They're all terrible people, and they
all deserve to hell. Anyway, So they so now that
they know where Brian's car was, they can kind of
begin searching. And why are you laughing at I just called.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
Everyone you a bitch, You a bitch, everybody bitch, you're
the you're the Oprah bitches. Yes, a bit.

Speaker 1 (23:20):
I just hate that family so much. They're just terrible people,
just truly terrible, awful people. And anyways, so now that
it's like I said, they have this car, they have
the family actually saying well, he went to this camp area,
this park, and so they're like, okay, well at least
we have this to start with. Unfortunately, the area there

(23:40):
he went to, it's like two parks kind of come together,
and it's actually forty square miles and about twenty thousand
acres of land to search solid. Yeah, so it's not
exactly it's narrowed it down in terms of like we
know what, you know, part of the state he's in,
but you're still a huge area to try to find somebody,

(24:03):
if he's even still there, if his family, you know,
they don't know if he's still there, or did his
family like just park the car there and do this
whole charade and then this whole focade.

Speaker 2 (24:13):
Stoose, yeah or no, watch a net.

Speaker 1 (24:17):
Question in like Mexico or something like they just got
him out of the country or something like that. I mean,
because this is coming from the crazy bitch who like
wrote him the letter, the the burn after reading and stuff.
I'll bring a shovel and.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
Some some garbage bags and help him. Son. Here's twenty
five thousand dollars for your attorney.

Speaker 1 (24:36):
Yes, no questions asked. So they had local, state, and
federal agents plus volunteers looking for him. They talked about
dogs that were that they brought into the park that
were looking for him, like trying to track his scent.
But the problem was where you are in Florida, and
they kept getting attacked by alligators. So they're like, okay,
I have a real back in the dogs, so they have.

(24:56):
They've also had during this time period, they have torrential
rain because it is Florida, so it's just flooding everywhere.
It's just, I mean, it's terrible. The people searching for
him are like going in like waiters and stuff like that,
an alligator infested water, trying to find this dumb ass.
So it's been so for weeks they're looking for Brian.

(25:19):
It's been Finally, after thirty seven days after Brian's gone missing,
on October twentieth, the waters finally receded enough where they
could open up the park to the public. And this
is when Brian's parents went out to the park to
look for Brian again. And I also thought this was
weird because in the documentary they make it sound like

(25:40):
they just went out there and within an hour they've
located him or whatever. Apparently they had gone out and
looked for him earlier, but once it flooded, they couldn't
go out there and obviously look or whatever. But the
dad had gone out and looked for Brian a couple
other times. But it was.

Speaker 2 (25:57):
Odd that they found him so quick.

Speaker 1 (26:00):
Yes, I mean even if they've been looking for him.
I just find it odd that they found him so quickly.
So within an hour they first locate so police are
following them, the mom and dad go in for within
an hour, they locate a waterproof bag. The it's obviously Brian's,
they can tell. And then about forty five so they
bring that to law enforcement. And then about forty five

(26:21):
minutes later in that's now they've kind of narrowed it down.
Law enforcement actually finds Brian's remains. Now only skeletonal remains
were found and in autopsy would later be done determining
that he did die by a gunshot. Self inflicted gunshot
would into the head. Now, Rose, she found out that

(26:41):
his parents found him, and she was like pissed. She's like,
there's there's no answers now the parents just all of
a sudden just find him. This is like shady, you know,
But she's the one that's actually Gabby's friend. That's not
Giggles over there, giggles. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:00):
Inside the waterproof bag that they find are pictures of
Brian and Gabby and a notebook from that. Brian had
written multiple letters to his family telling them he loved
them and goodbye. He had also written a story about
what happened to Gabby, saying they were crossing a stream
and she fell. He had to carry her, and she
was in pain, and he thought the merciful thing to

(27:22):
do would be to put her out of her misery.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
Is this, yes, Stuart, this is he thought it would
be merciful that she I guess. The fall in the
stream was just streamfall. It was cold, and she was
in pain, and this was the best means to I'm.

Speaker 2 (27:42):
Just gonna bash her head and then once she's knocked out,
strangle her.

Speaker 1 (27:46):
Yes. Well, I don't know. I don't know what all
he wrote in there, but they would later say that
that that, you know, the autopsy would not did not
support his stories.

Speaker 2 (27:59):
Yea, his story of how things went down.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
Yeah, I don't know how. They they didn't talk about
what specifically if he said how he did it, but
they said that the autopsy did not support the story
that he was saying. So it was completely made up
because he basically said he didn't want to go on
without Gabby and he would just take his own life.

Speaker 2 (28:18):
Well, yes, that's what I was about to say, is
that he would not be able to go on without
Gabby and he would take his own life.

Speaker 1 (28:24):
I was summarizing it because I already said the part
about the autopsies. And you could just skip down stew
but you didn't take the hint. Just start here, he
said in his letters.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
He said in his letters that he rushed home to
spend time with his family and that he wanted to
go to New York. Let James or TJ kill him.
He also stated it is the.

Speaker 1 (28:45):
Brother or the I believe the step.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
He also stated his parents were innocent and to leave
them out of it, and they had lost a son
and a daughter.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
That's just insulting right there. Yes, and it's they said
they thought it was all that. He would just throw
that line in there because they.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
Are Roberta wrote this.

Speaker 1 (29:04):
Roberta probably wrote this bullshit.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
After she shot him.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
She might have yeah, well but she's well, she is crazy.

Speaker 2 (29:14):
Well she's like Brown, I love you, but this could
come back on us. Fine.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
No, I don't think she would know. She would never know.
She would not do that.

Speaker 2 (29:23):
You don't think she'd put him down. No, if a
rabbit dog.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
No, if she like maybe some weird not because it
would come back on her. She didn't care. She wrote
that letter saying she would help bring a shovel and
she was doing whatever to help him out. She would
have done whatever.

Speaker 2 (29:38):
Well, now she knows he can't get away with it.
Now she's like, hey, I gotta cut my losses.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
No, I don't think that's at all remote.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
I gotta cut the brown tips off.

Speaker 1 (29:47):
We really, we're sitting next to our peacey that's dying.

Speaker 2 (29:50):
Slowly and in between tags where.

Speaker 1 (29:52):
We've been watching TikTok videos on how to say what
we need to do. I think we think it's getting
too much like But the point is is that Roberta
is obsessed with Brian and maybe if he asked her
to kill him or something like that, she might do it.
But no, she wasn't worried about herself. She would have
just like gone to prison with him and then taken
care of him in there.

Speaker 2 (30:11):
That's possible. They talk about the burn after reading letter,
and Rose says she loves her mother very much, but
would be completely disturbed if her mother sensed her or
something like that, as.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
Would most people.

Speaker 2 (30:24):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
Yeah, And as they're talking about this letter again, they're
showing because this letter is now made it out into
the universe, and like there's news anchors and everything going
to she said she'd bring him a shovel to help
bury the body, you know, just in shock that this
lady you know, said all these things in a letter.
So then we are with Gabby's parents and they're all

(30:48):
talking about this twenty five thousand dollars that was wired
and how, like you said earlier, you don't just send
the dad was like, you don't send some lawyer in
some fucking why owning twenty five thousand dollars.

Speaker 2 (31:02):
For domestic abuse charges? Yeah, because he's jaywalking charges.

Speaker 1 (31:06):
Because he was going with the The parents are still
going with that. All he told them was that Gabby
was gone, and they asked no other questions about it.
That they knew nothing else, that she was just gone.

Speaker 2 (31:18):
They don't know what the left.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
Yeah, they don't know what does gone mean? They don't
know anything.

Speaker 2 (31:23):
All we know about gone as it means she's not there.

Speaker 1 (31:27):
Yeah, So that's that's their story that they're sticking to.
And so that's when the parents are like, you don't
you don't just send twenty five thousand dollars. That's not
a casual thing to send a retainer for a lawyer.
For just some small thing that's a for murder, is
what she would be sending that for, meaning that they
knew way more than what they're saying, which we all,
I mean, clearly they knew.

Speaker 2 (31:48):
Now we don't get out of this documentary without another
installment from Giggles. She's talking about her image of Brian
being shattered and they he did something awful. She starts
to cry, but it looks fake as funny.

Speaker 1 (32:05):
There were no tears, Okay, there were. It was like
it was like a and then she put her her
hand up to her face and then that was it.
There was no sobbing or anything like that. It was
seemed very fake to me in my personal opinion. Yes, yeah,

(32:25):
I was gonna say, I mean, I know they I
guess their angle was to have a friend of Brian's
and then a friend of Gabby's to show both sides.
But I don't give fuck about Brian's side.

Speaker 2 (32:33):
Of this, you know, And if that's the best I
could do for a friend. Wow. In October of twenty
twenty two, Gabby's family went to Teton National Park and
visited the spot where Gabby was found. They brought Rose
along with them and they spoke about how beautiful the
area was. Her mom said you could fill Gabby's presence.

(32:56):
While they were there, they brought her ashes and and
even spread ashes around the area, and they felt this
is what Gabby would want. The family took a picture
and there was a huge ORB. If you believe in
such things.

Speaker 1 (33:11):
Stu thinks it's not. I saw the picture. I thought
it was believable. I'm not gonna I don't know if
I believe in this stuff or not, but I'm not
gonna say I don't because I don't want to be like.

Speaker 2 (33:22):
Trying to communicate as an ORB and people don't believe
that you're there.

Speaker 1 (33:26):
No, I don't want to anger the spirits by saying
I don't believe in them, So I'm just gonna be
like neutral in case they're there. I don't know. They
may be there, they may not.

Speaker 2 (33:35):
So you're not gonna pick a side.

Speaker 1 (33:36):
But I know I'm not gonna pick a side because
I don't want to anger them in case they are there,
but I'm not sure they are.

Speaker 2 (33:41):
You know, well, why won't you say that they're real then?
Because you don't want to sound like a crazy.

Speaker 1 (33:45):
Person because I don't know, But I don't want to
anger them. I don't know. Do you know you're not dead,
I'll let you know. Okay, Oh, let me tell you
what if I die before you? Shit is going down?

Speaker 2 (34:01):
You probably will. Statistically, you probably will.

Speaker 1 (34:04):
Statistically that is not even true. Statistically, you're gonna dive first.

Speaker 2 (34:09):
No, you're stressed out, Your quartisol levels are through the roof.
You're gonna cruk off. Then you get that video I
sent you from the Big Time adult in Lady by
the cortisol levels.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
No, I mean Stu's like, okay, you know how they
do all those things where it's always the wife sending
a bunch of reals. No, it's opposite here. Stu sends
me Facebook reels all day long, and then he's like,
did you watch any did you watch that one? No?
Do you sit like twelve today? I don't have the time.
Who has the time.

Speaker 2 (34:38):
I don't know. You sent me all these projects I
gotta do, and then I gotta go do them. I'm like,
who has the time?

Speaker 1 (34:42):
What project have I sent you lately?

Speaker 2 (34:44):
Nothing? Lightly, thank god.

Speaker 1 (34:45):
Except for I want that checkered up.

Speaker 2 (34:47):
Oh god, yeah, and that's going to be a pank.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
No, you shouldn't have asked me for my opinion. Stu
wants to paint the con So we Stu's had to
take down our pole, entire pergola and sand it and
everything because we had a hell storm and we wanted
to save the money or anyways, because it was going
to cost a fortune.

Speaker 2 (35:02):
The wind has been damaging it.

Speaker 1 (35:04):
But yeah, the wind sucks here. Anyways, he wanted to
paint it. Well, I was like, well, why don't we do?
I said, He said what color? And so I showed
him a picture the concrete concrete under the pergola. He
said what color? And so I showed him a picture
of what I wanted and he's like, which color do
you want? The wider than it's It was a picture

(35:24):
of a checkered like they put painted the checkered floor
on the cement outside. And he's like, which color do
you want? That wider? That tan color? I was like, no,
this both.

Speaker 2 (35:35):
It's like what.

Speaker 1 (35:38):
He's like, no, I can't do that. I'm like, yeah
we can, Yeah we can.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
I got to figure that out.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
Yes, well you can do that in still looking at reels.

Speaker 2 (35:47):
I gotta look at reels to figure out how to
do it.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
Yeah, you do it's true. Okay, go on, where were.

Speaker 2 (35:53):
We well, we're talking about it or yep, oh you
remember when there was orbs and the pictures at the
at the Myrtles in St. Francis fell Stuart shut up?

Speaker 1 (36:01):
What No, Stu's being a smart elec because Stu's mom
is like into that type of thing, and so she
would get like little orbs. But we could all see
it was or the rain. It was the rain. But
we let her have it though, we let her have
it kind.

Speaker 2 (36:20):
Of kind Yeah, she took a picture in the dark
while it was missing and then her flash went off.

Speaker 1 (36:27):
Because the Myrtles is supposed to be haunted. But then
after you find the real history of it, the one
actually ever died there, I don't think. I mean, not
the way, not the way that they say.

Speaker 2 (36:35):
One person did what one as they say, the guy
was sitting on his porch, a rider showed up, shot
him and left.

Speaker 1 (36:42):
But it's not the story they say, and what happened there.
That story is true about the guy riding up and
shooting him, I know, but the story that they tell
there is not true.

Speaker 2 (36:52):
No, the other ones are not true.

Speaker 1 (36:53):
No anyways, but yeah, she did take a picture we
let her have it, thought, we let her have it? Well,
what else are you gonna Yeah, yeah, you're not going
to talk her out of it. She's setting her ways.

Speaker 2 (37:03):
Yeah, Okay, back to our story. They also talk about
how many people Gabby has helped ybring an awareness to
domestic abuse, and they even started a foundation in her
name that will help women that are in need of
resources that are in domestic abuse situations.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
Yeah, so they can go to that foundation and actually
just they said, you can hit a button that says
I need resources, and they can. They have money and
stuff like that. Anyways, so now we move on to
the part where they they're kind of doing the aftermath
of this whole you know, this huge media story and everything,
and they're talking about all the other missing people out there,

(37:46):
Like the FBI agent is getting you know, emotional about it,
and she's saying, you know, there's so many more out
there that I need to help and they're important too,
and they need just as much as attention. And then
they speak about how black and brown missing persons do
not receive as much attention. Now as you can imagine,
Gabby's family is talking about this, and you know, they're upset.

Speaker 2 (38:05):
Initially because they just lost their daughter.

Speaker 1 (38:08):
Yeah, and so they're watching all this stuff, and then
there's just i mean, people are a little bit harsh
when they're talking about it. They're saying, some white lady
just turned up and it's like, well, didn't just turn
up in the backyard, she you know, passed away and stuff. So,
you know, they're initially kind of taken aback by it.
But then and she talks about she goes on to
talk about how Gabby was important to find her, but

(38:30):
there's an over representation of white women in the media.
You know, they call it the missing a white woman syndrome. So,
like we said, her, her family was initially you know,
a little upset about it and taken aback, but they
did start kind of researching into it, and they found
that it was like a huge problem. There's forty five
percent of missing people are black, brown, or Indigenous, and

(38:53):
they get a very small portion of the media's attention.
So they talk about that, and then from they wanted
to talk about all some of the other things that
so that was brought to their attention. And then also
they were able to help pass a Senate bill, Senate
Bill one seventeen in Utah that would require eleven questions
to be asked if a suspect or suspect suspected domestic

(39:16):
violence situation is encountered by police. And they really believed
that if they had asked these eleven questions then they
would have been able to see that. Gabby was, yeah,
I don't know what the eleven questions are. I didn't look
them up.

Speaker 2 (39:33):
Oh I don't know now, but Caro will look it
up and post it.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
No, I won't to our website, to our website a
website anyway, So I don't know what the eleven questions are.
But I mean those dumb ass cops that helped that though,
they would have probably been the eleven questions to Brian
and just kept on with him being the domestic violence
of victim victim. So then they want to talk about

(39:58):
that initial YouTube video that posted. So she posted one video.
I believe it was August nineteen, twenty twenty one. She
only got one video out and initially it had less
than five hundred views. I think we might have talked
about it last time, and the documentary says that at
this point when they're filming this, it's had seven million views.
So I went looked at it today and it has

(40:18):
eleven point two million, eleven point two million views. I
was like, am I saying that right? Eleven point two
million views? Now the laundries, They finished the documentary with
the laundries. They were never charged criminally, bullshit. They should
have went after him.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
Well, they tried to. I guess they're just wide enough
to get them there.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
No, I don't know if they tried hard enough. There's
shady things are a foot Stewart, but the Potitos did.
They were like, we got to get these fuckers somehow.
So the Potitos did sue them and they ended that
ended in a settlement in twenty twenty four. So I mean,
obviously they're not after it to get the money back,
but they're just trying to hurt these people like for
what they did, because that's the only way you can.

(40:59):
It's like O. J. Simpson. They couldn't get him in criminally,
but they sued him and they actually won the civil
suit and in everything. But then that, you know, I
forgot OJ died.

Speaker 2 (41:10):
I forgot about that he died. He was looking on
golf courses all over America for the killer of Nicole Brown.

Speaker 1 (41:17):
Yeah, he was, but I forgot he died here recently.
Not sad about it, I'm just.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
I think it was like a year or two agoing out,
I know, but I just.

Speaker 1 (41:25):
Forgot that that was the end of an ear there
with the OJ passing away, you know. So anyway, so
that sums up our three part series. I'll tell you what.
I am ready to let go of this. So I
was very gung ho whenever I started. Sometimes just ho,
but I am. I feel at peace with my thoughts

(41:47):
and I've gotten them out, and so we're ready to
move on to other things.

Speaker 2 (41:52):
Do I can't wait?

Speaker 1 (41:53):
Yeah, I think I'm going to start. I think I'm
going to do like a little We were watching Who
the blea Did I Marry? Which is a fun one,
and we saw like a crazy one and I got
to go find it because I think I want to
do that one.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
What was that about?

Speaker 1 (42:10):
No Sparler alert, I don't remember. I gotta go look,
but I remember we were watching. We're like, what the
fuck's wrong with these people? Anyways?

Speaker 2 (42:18):
Well that's most of these people on these weird ones.
These Yeah, that's what I like, the snaps and wives
with knives and whatever.

Speaker 1 (42:26):
Well a lot of them. I like look at like
the more serious ones and stuff, and I'm like, I
need to go find these because these have like the
craziest stories, you know, which we have fun with. We
like a crazy, crazy story and everything that we can have,
we can make some fun. We're a lighthearted bunch, Doudes.
We're covering murder, but we're laughing along the way.

Speaker 2 (42:46):
We're l o elling if you ll ellen at the criminals,
not the victims as many as some people have accused
us in the comment section.

Speaker 1 (42:55):
You know what I was going to say, So tell
me I had I did have some thoughts about Gabby Potito,
and I'd like to just sum it up here at
the end at when I was looking, you know, watching
the end of the documentary, I know, at the beginning,
I said, you know, and she was kind of naive
in the way that she looked at Brian and she
didn't really see these maybe these red flags, and she

(43:16):
kind of saw the best in people. And I said, well,
I see like the worst in people and stuff like that,
like the neighbor kids. I'm ready to go like yes, yeah,
so I go to like a level ten of like
the negative. And she was more like we talked about,
she's more like the positive. Maybe didn't see these manipulative

(43:38):
ways of Brian because that's why. But she also had
really strong uh traits in like being like brave. I mean,
it's pretty brave to just go, yeah, like to do
to be able to just like choose that lifestyle and
be more free spirited. I would think that would be cool,
but I could never do that because I don't have
that in me. But she actually had that to go

(44:00):
and live like the red White and batoons. They're out
there just living stew You.

Speaker 2 (44:05):
Got the doors locked, the alarm on if nobody's home.

Speaker 1 (44:07):
I don't even want to talk to the neighbors forgot.

Speaker 2 (44:09):
See you got the dogs in the room on high alert.

Speaker 1 (44:12):
Yeah when we had dogs. Yeah. So anyways, so that
was gonna say that was like something that she has
that's like, you know, that was really cool that she
was like such brave to be able to go and
and then take that dumb ass with her the suzzling problem.
All right, Well that's that's it, STU. Do you have
a y'all need Jesus? Yeah, No, I do, only because

(44:33):
from help. You got a little help from your friends.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
I got a little help from my friend.

Speaker 1 (44:37):
I keep bye with little help. Don't see star.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
Just stop them, just stop.

Speaker 1 (44:44):
Stop, don't touch me. There, these are no no squares.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
Somebody wasn't lessening for three times at least.

Speaker 1 (44:55):
Yeah, you weren't.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
Go You're not going to say who this is from?

Speaker 1 (45:03):
Who is this from? Stuart?

Speaker 2 (45:04):
Who is this from? You? Tell me, Brandy, you're a
fun does.

Speaker 1 (45:11):
Live We could be my life, my lady, my love.

Speaker 2 (45:15):
Fuck just stop you're running the song.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
I love that song.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
M If you loved it, you would not try to
sing it and run it for everybody else.

Speaker 1 (45:27):
Anyways, I got a song for everything. Just throw me
a word. I'll get you a song. No okay, no, no, no, no, no,
hear me say yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (45:42):
Maybe you have heard this story, not you, Kara, but
the people out there because it was it made the headlines.
Let us say, man steals ambulance, finishes beer before being arrested.
Troopers say, now, since you already.

Speaker 1 (45:59):
Know, it's definitely Florida, I would have guessed Florida even
if I didn't know. Stuart. That's got Florida written all
over it.

Speaker 2 (46:08):
This has comes to us from Clickorlando Dot com by
Brandon Hogan. Hogan, you don't know nothing about that Da
Holgan Hogan's heroes.

Speaker 1 (46:21):
Are you singing a song now?

Speaker 2 (46:23):
No, I'm talking about a television series that.

Speaker 1 (46:25):
You sounded like you did a little Holgan Horgan.

Speaker 2 (46:28):
Yeah, because that's what Schultz would say to Hogan. Horgan
published March sixteenth, twenty twenty five.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
You're running you for everybody.

Speaker 2 (46:37):
Tampa, Florida. A Tampa man accused of stealing an ambulance
on Saturday finished drinking a beer in full view of
troopers before he was arrested. According to the Florida Highway Patrol,
Michael j Eskian Yon, forty three, faces charges of fleeing
to a lude.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Definitely gonna get a review about that.

Speaker 2 (46:56):
One elude at high speed DUI fourth or subsequent violation,
So they just stop at four. They're like, and the
law if you get the fourth one or subsequent, we
can't keep it, can't.

Speaker 1 (47:11):
Keep listing them. If you've got a fourth DWI though,
you should just be thrown in JELF the rest of
your life because you're gonna have killed somebody at some point.

Speaker 2 (47:17):
Or stealing an ambulance. Yes, driving while license revoked habitual
grand theft of emergency medical equipment, burglary of an authorized
emergency vehicle, and resisting an officer without violence. Records show
troopers respond around eight thirty pm to a report of
a Tampa Fire or rescue ambulance stolen from HCA South

(47:40):
Tampa Hospital, locating it within ten minutes in the area
of South Esperanza Avenue and West Bay to Bay Boulevard.

Speaker 1 (47:48):
According I don't think an ambulance can go that fast. One. Two,
it's not like an obscure vehicle. And three I'm sure
they got GPS's on them.

Speaker 2 (47:56):
Doesn't matter. It's still like a tank.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
Don't know.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
It could be one of them bands. No, well, then ones,
and now they're they're driving them sprinters. Now aren't all those.

Speaker 1 (48:07):
They're not driving? No tank as an ambulance. Okay, it
ain't a fire truck.

Speaker 2 (48:11):
They used to be tanks, those big box looking things.
But they're more sprinter vans now look like sprinter vans,
more aerodynamic to get to the place a little faster.
After an attempted traffic stop, the ambulance took off without
its emergency equipment activated, fleeing for several miles through stop signs,
and at times on the wrong side of the road.
The ambulance came close to hitting other motorists as it

(48:33):
was pursued by troopers and Tampa police.

Speaker 1 (48:36):
The driver people probably just thought this was like a
major emergency though, like, oh my god, someone's got to
get out of the word.

Speaker 2 (48:44):
The driver, Eskeean, brought the ambulance to a stop at
the intersection of South Hubert Avenue and West Okay Okay,
hard word, Imperdardo Street. That's in case you know this
area of Tampa.

Speaker 1 (48:59):
Let me see what it's saying. Im oh, oh, impi
dorato impededrato.

Speaker 2 (49:11):
Like just because you're doing Duolingo Spanish, I know roll Okay,
this is the important headline of the store. They got
him there at this intersection. This is where he then
finished drinking a beer in full view of the troopers.
So he got that last He's like, I'm about to

(49:32):
go down getting arrested. I'm chugging this beer. He held
onto the steering wheel as troopers and police attempted to
take him into custody. I guess he decided he wasn't
going to go at the last minute. He's like, no,
I'm gonna hang on to the steering wheel. Once secured,
he allegedly said that he had been drinking for the
last two days and stole the ambulance after emergency personnel

(49:52):
denied him a ride home. According to the statement, what
people people do call the ambulance to get a ride
from one side of town to the other.

Speaker 1 (50:05):
Really, yes, well, I know whenever I.

Speaker 2 (50:07):
Was, if you don't have to pay for it, you
will get a ride. And then when you get to
the hospital and you just get out and go back.

Speaker 1 (50:13):
You can also get to because whenever I was sick,
one time I went to the I didn't have any insurance.
I went to the like the hospital you go to
that's that you can just go to, and they were
actually I sat in that waiting room for a very
long time. And when I finally got back there and
they're like, oh, you're actually sick, and I said yeah,
and they're like yeah. A lot of these people are
just here to get the drugs. No, not the drugs.

(50:37):
The just want to like sleep and eat and kind
of crash out from their their like whatever they've been
doing the last couple of days. Anyways, all right, well, thank.

Speaker 2 (50:51):
You for well, you know, if you get an ambulance
ride there, you can just bypass all the people in
the waiting room. But it's okay, learn that from my
car wrect.

Speaker 1 (51:01):
Oh yeah, okay, yeah. I was trying to think something
else that that happened, but I don't remember what was it. Yeah,
it was something about, yeah, if you get in the ambulance,
you get to bypass everybody and they'll send.

Speaker 2 (51:15):
You right to the pack.

Speaker 1 (51:17):
Anyways, now I was saying about something with my mom
and cancers, pretty pretty depressing, so we won't go there.
But no, because I found out this might be helpful
to somebody. I didn't know this, but once you get
an appointment at m d Anderson. So my mom had
brain cancer. It was very like one of the worst
ones you can have and everything like that. Anyways, so

(51:38):
we found out that she had this, so I got
her an appointment at m d Anderson, but they couldn't
see her for like a month. I mean, when this
type of cancer, like a month you could be you
could be gone. So anyways, so I'm calling I'm like
trying to fare how I get my mom into this
this to see this doctor sooner. I'm like, this is like,
this is insane. So the one lady I only told me,

(52:00):
she said, so your mom has an appointment there. She said,
so she has a patient number there. I said yeah,
and she said and so she didn't want to tell me,
but she told me. But she didn't want to tell me.
She's like, you know, she's having problems, she can go
to the MD Anderson emergency room. And I was like what,
And she's like, you know, she's having problems. She can

(52:21):
go to the MD Anderson emergency room. And that's all
she would tell me. So then I put it together.
I'm like, okay. So I went in there and I
told my Mom's like okay, Mom, when you're ready, we're going.
We're all driving to Houston. Did We're showing up to
the MD Anderson emergency room And if you go in
that way, they'll see you. They'll She was in with that.
She had was in under like having brain surgery in

(52:43):
like a week. Like they got her all. So they
got her into the like all fixed up because she
because all the swelling and everything because we were in
Lufkin and they were like, really fucking this up power
and I had to get her out of there. So anyway,
so they had she had all that swelling and stuff
on her brain, so they got all that down, they
got her like blood sugar red because it was messing
with all her blood sugar and everything, and then within

(53:03):
a week she was in like a like a fourteen
hour surgery. Awake.

Speaker 2 (53:10):
Yeah, anyways, I can't.

Speaker 1 (53:12):
Yeah, so well because they have to be awake because
they know when they got too far, because she had
the really bad time where it like it's like they said,
it's like spider legs just like wrapping into your brain.
So they can't get all of it. But they got
like ninety eight percent, but it's still it's even if
that two percent's left, it's gonna most likely like spread. Anyways,

(53:34):
depressing story, But if I'm just telling this to help
somebody else out if they're in a similar situation, get
you an appointment. But then you once you're in, you
have an appointment, you're technically a patient and you have
a number, and you can go to the emergency room
and you can if you have like a serious situation
that needs to be like we were on like a
Defcom five situation, like my mom would have probably been
dead within that month if we hadn't got got her there,

(53:57):
So I don't want people think I'm just like get
in the line to be a bit er, like we
were in a bad situation. Yeah, they called GBM like
clia blaststoma multiform. So anyways, and then like when we
were in Lufkin, the doctor was like, oh, yeah, I
can probably get fifty percent of it the tomb around.
I'm like, what the fuck, Like, no, no, that's not okay.

Speaker 2 (54:20):
So yeah, go back to the Morgan practice on the
cadavers and get back to me. We're going to We're
going to Houston.

Speaker 1 (54:25):
Yeah. But the thing was my dad was gonna just
like go for that, and I'm like I had to
step up and just take charge of that whole situation.
That was like not gonna be okay. Anyways, depressing, she
did pass away. If if you guys have, yeah, if
you guys have, we're been with the podcast for a
long time, you are aware of that. So anyways, so

(54:46):
fun fun stories always.

Speaker 2 (54:49):
Here, fur good ambulance chase.

Speaker 1 (54:55):
What So that might help somebody if they're in a
similar situation they don't know and they don't have a
nice nurse on the line. That's like, if she's having
an emergency, she can go to the MD Anderson emergency room.
So all right, well, I guess we'll be back in
a week or two with something more lighthearted, something new, something,

(55:15):
something murderous, but a little maybe a little fun, little whimsical, little.

Speaker 2 (55:20):
Sultry, little whimsical murder huh.

Speaker 1 (55:23):
Yes, something from who the bleep did I marry? Or
Wives with Knives or snapped.

Speaker 2 (55:33):
Wives with knives?

Speaker 1 (55:34):
Or is that there is a show called Wives with Knives? Anyways?
All right, so do you have anything else for us?
You're waking up something? Oh god, I have.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
You got to get people all the things anyway, the copies,
the Instagrams and all, Oh.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
Yeah, fall us on Instagram, Instagram, gram dot com, slash
Bless This Mess podcast. You can check out my page
where I share our day to day life for a
little bit of it as a like more like projects
we do and things like that at Cultivating Underscore Caro,
which Stu thinks is stupid, I do. And then we

(56:16):
have Facebook rate Review subscribe five stars only criticism in
the comments. Don't really care, but just give us the
five stars. And then, because we're probably at this point
in time, we are who we are, We're probably not
gonna At the beginning, when people you would criticize us
in the reviews, we would kind of take it to
heart and maybe change. But at this point we're not
going to we are who we are that we change. Yeah,

(56:39):
there were some things. We talked more over each other
and stuff. We did take some some criticism and we're like, okay,
we need at the beginning, but now we're like seven
or eight years into this, we're like, fuck it, We're
just here.

Speaker 2 (56:51):
So yes, because we have Our last review was from
Christy back in February. She just keeps giving us review bumps.
Every now and then she just refreshes hers.

Speaker 1 (57:02):
Are you going to read it?

Speaker 2 (57:04):
Oh? I can?

Speaker 1 (57:05):
Well, what are you? What are you doing?

Speaker 2 (57:06):
I was just letting people know. I was letting Christy
know I've seen it.

Speaker 1 (57:09):
Yes, we Yes, I did tell her that we saw
Sooner's GG.

Speaker 2 (57:12):
I mean, I'm guessing that's Oklahoma Sooners. Yes, I'll allow
it since it was five stars.

Speaker 1 (57:19):
Anyways. Yeah, right, you subscribe patreon dot com. You get
the episodes of twenty four Hours, Early in ad Free.

Speaker 2 (57:29):
And Our Undying Gratitude.

Speaker 1 (57:31):
Yes, and then what did you have something? Stu? You
were looking something up I'm I'm killing time here. I
was looking, well, you had something, what you were going
to do?

Speaker 2 (57:46):
I was looking to see what the last review, well
guy was It was back in PEDI.

Speaker 1 (57:49):
Yeah, you guys suck February Come on, guys, twenty twenty four.

Speaker 2 (57:52):
Review bump from Christy, Kara and Stu, with their Southern charm,
honest and incredible sense of humor, makes this podcast the
absolute best. Their cute family stories are a bonus. Look
at that, right, the.

Speaker 1 (58:06):
Cute feelings were hours that I was going to call
the police.

Speaker 2 (58:11):
Yeah, that's true. You didn't say you're gonna tell them.

Speaker 1 (58:13):
No, I didn't say it was gonna kill the twop
and it wasn't. The thing is is that we've had
so many things going on in this neighborhood. I was
already like, okay, are we already had the dog situation
and they didn't care about that. So it's pretty shocking
for them to care about the the rocks.

Speaker 2 (58:27):
Well, I think they did care about the dog.

Speaker 1 (58:29):
They didn't care about the pit bull trying to break
down our fence to it because they allowed it to
happen for a month and then no, I don't want
to hear whatever the guy's story was about it.

Speaker 2 (58:38):
Okay, kids seem nice now, they're just wet the little
misguid at the moment. Hopefully they get them sorted out.

Speaker 1 (58:45):
We won't go into their personal.

Speaker 2 (58:47):
Story now because they might have come across this podcast
or personal But.

Speaker 1 (58:50):
I was upset because we, like I said, we've had
this stuff in this neighborhood where kids are slashing tire stuff,
And I'm like, and if it was probably about fifty
giant rocks, it was pretty shocking to see. No, it wasn't, Stuart,
You're you can't know, you're a freaking liar.

Speaker 2 (59:06):
I scooped him out with a neck in the.

Speaker 1 (59:08):
Pool and on the decking there was a lot of
rocks and they were pretty large. They were larger rocks they.

Speaker 2 (59:16):
Could have blown in from the yards going on the
pool deck.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
Sure you're the one that came in. Was like, I'm
in a fucking I'm so mad about this and everything,
and then I finally get hyped up about it.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
You're like, calm down, Well, there's probably down broad There
might be fifty with the ones that are still on
top of the purgle in that out there.

Speaker 1 (59:32):
Yes, there's a bunch of them. That we can't even
get down there on the like the purgl.

Speaker 2 (59:35):
I'd be more mad about that, but the hall put
a bunch of holes in the purgle in that in
the place sucks.

Speaker 1 (59:41):
I was just here in h o L concerned. I
just need to move. I need to not be here.
I couldn't even like. My eyes were so scratchy today.
I couldn't even harmly see because my contacts and all
the dust. It's a magical place.

Speaker 2 (59:56):
We love it. Move here. I'm buy our mouse.

Speaker 1 (01:00:00):
Come take my job so that they'll but only if
you work within the same company. I do so so
that we can be moved. But if you do work
for the same company I do, Please don't tell. Don't
tell anybody if you're hearing me from work, this is no.
You didn't you didn't. Just just walk the other way. Anyways. Okay,

(01:00:24):
one thing, we're done. We've said enough. You have all right, Well,
we will see you guys in a week or two.
By everyone, say bye, ste bye, Steve.

Speaker 2 (01:00:33):
Telling you know it's bad to be SUPERSTI sho fud.
Nothing else is working. It's pretty hurting. Sack this word.

Speaker 1 (01:00:53):
I can