November 19, 2025 • 28 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
And we're back for another.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Episode of being tired O the funnynother episode of the
blombin o Ce podcast. I am the official block stop.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
And I am the official hot roller.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
And we all had to sable heroes. And I just
came back from orlanda y'all. I'm so tired.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Oh he's so tired.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
But he had a great time, great time networking. So
me and French, if you got some things that works.
If I got to grab you from the back of
your head, girl, I'm taking you along with me. That's
been by the way we were going. We're going to
the top. I can't leave you. No, we can't be
locked in now, you can't.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
We're stuck.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Even if I got it, I put a brick so
you can't roll over. Break in the front of breaking
the back that will CHI will not be moving. You
gonna go. You're so tired. Yeah, I'm so tired.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
You're fighting it right now.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
But so great things came out this week, man, so
I can't complain. You go ahead. I mean some checks
that's about to come in our names.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Amen claiming it. It's already signed, so it's in the mailbox.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
You're just waiting for the inky drive.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah, it's already that, already in the mailbox.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Waiting for the post office man to come get it.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Hello, you know the government shut down a little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
My food stamp side for like, Oh my gosh, I'm
in love.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
He's in love and I love the love for him.
This is a love podcast now, writes in love.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Oh my god, sh that was a whore. See, people
could change.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
How's that going for you?
Speaker 2 (01:31):
I love it. I'm happy you feel it. I've never
been happy like this in a long time.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
That's that's honestly, like for a black man to say that.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Literally, she showed the god I have sex when.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Just so you guys haven't been No, y'all have sex.
We just yeah, because I was thinking, I was like,
I'm the celebrated too.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Oh no, but I love when I get you.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
You could just be there. It's not about the say
not that he broke.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Her face against me. It just felt like everything.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Okay, do people have opinions about your relationship?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Nobody didn't give me no opinion. But even if they did,
who gives.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
A fuck about the opinion, because there are some people
that shouldn't have opinions.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
On you, not not about my happiness. No, you should
not have I.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Don't think anybody should have any people.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Have an opinion about you going to see an manager?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Oh hell yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Do you give a fuck about it?
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Not at all?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Are you going to see it?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
What Sunday?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Happy birthday to.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Who my man?
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Okay, take cut through that, take cut.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Through there, But no for real. The reason why I
said that is because obviously today's episode is about people opinions,
and me dating or being with someone that is incarcerated
has a lot of people in a tizzy because I
have people that used to be my friends. People are
calling me and they're like, Oh, this person's posting about
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if you're holding somebody down in jail, you're stupid, You're this,
You're that, you know what I mean. It's just like, damn,
you got a fucking opinion, but you was holding niggas
down for free, niggas doing you dirty. But I don't.
I don't one thing about it. I don't comment on
people's relationships because I feel like that's not my business.
If you ask me, if you ask me my opinion,
i'll give you. If you put me in your relationship
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and you ask me for the shit, than I will
if you're just a friend of your venting to me,
then I listen. I'll tell you my little one too.
But I'm never gonna be more angry than you. I'm
not gonna call you. If I see you posting the
motherfucker what them like? What are you doing now supposed
to do that? I'll look and I'll judge silently, but
I'm not gonna just go out and come out my face.
A lot of people don't know their place when it
comes to other people's relationships, and I feel like that's
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something that people shouldn't have an opinion on it.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
At the same time, who gives a fuck how you
feel like? Keep it to yourself talk behind my back.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
If I was if I was younger back in the day,
then opinions would hurt me, you know what I'm saying,
because it's like, damn, these are people that I love
because I used to the people's opinions, the people that
matter to me. Their opinions of me do matter somewhat,
you know what I mean. But when you no longer
really matters to me, then your opinion doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
People don't even be knowing a whole thing in a
real story, and they just.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Want to people just see somebody. They see me going
up to the jail, and they see me, they see
him in a wheelchair, so they automatically assume, Oh, he's
using her, you know what I mean, he's playing or
da da da da da da da, not knowing the
nothing about us.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
And I'm not gonna.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Yeah, and I'm not going to break that down because
I don't have to justify anything to it. We didn't
sit there and meet We're not pinpals. We didn't meet
through prison, you know what I'm saying. So for people
to even.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
They're vulnerable, she didn't need love, so she went to
the jails.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
None of that exactly. That's what before he even went
inside it, amen, and that's what people think. I've known
him since twenty twenty. I didn't just meet him right away.
We didn't just get right in a relationship like we
built our relationship.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Oh she's not settling the fuck.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
That's a real man right there.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
She's fucking happy.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Why just kids, she just be happy? Why we can't
love the fact that she's just happy. Why we got
to have an opinion about the fact that she's going
to the jails.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Because people are they find something negative in anything, because
if you wasn't because they talk about the people that leave,
people in jail, they talk about the people that's there.
You know what I'm saying, They talk about the people
that meet them. Did They talk about the people that
get married, They talk about the people that fuck off
while the nigga's in jail. They talk about you regardless.
So it's like at the end that you mun as
will do what the fuck you want.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
The crazy thing about it is you got a pinion
and you're not worried about your own life, and your
nigga fucking right behind you. He's not even in jail.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Listen, I got so much. I could say so much
about other people's relationships, but I don't and I'm not
even that type of person. And even no matter what,
that's what I love about myself, not to too my
own horn. But no matter what people do to me,
I'm not gonna do it back to them. But I'm
not gonna go back on social media and post what
I feel about someone because at the end of the day,
God will deal with you heathen. So if you're watching this,
if you see this clip, this is for you. I
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don't talk about nobody I used to be friends with.
I don't make you a topic, a subject on any
type of part of my life because at the end
of the day, if we are no longer friends, it's
my choice. It's not one person out there that I
want to be friends with that I'm not friends with.
I've been that girl. I'm gonna stay that girl walking
and rolling. And I do realize that a lot of
people stay friends with me because I'm in the chair
and if I was walking, they wouldn't be friends with
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me because for some reason they make it makes them
feel like a little superior, you know what I'm saying,
Because it's like, oh, she's pretty, but she's in a wheelchair.
But bitch, I still get attention when we go outside.
But am I your token wheelchair friend?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:11):
And then when people realize, like, my personality is still
gonna pop, niggas still gonna want me, even though I
don't want niggas I'm happily in love, it's still like
I could still pull whoever, you know what I'm saying.
And bitches do get intimidated by that. They get intimidated
about confidence, you know what I'm saying. It's not even
just about looks. It's just like the way I carry myself.
One thing about I'm gona get dress, I'm gonna fel good,
I'm gonna look good, I'm gonna smell good, Ima taste good.
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Bitches can't relate and that's the problem. But again, like
I said, if we are no longer friends, you should
not have an opinion on me because I don't have
an opinion on you. I don't even think about your bitches.
I can't remember your bitch's name. You bitches can't as
spelled pralte. Yeah, yo, No, never got me here, No
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Friday popping myself.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Fuck pinions. I hate when a person got an opinion
about my podcast, our podcasts, and that these niggas ever
did an episode a day in their life. Hmmm, they
don't know how I feel to be talking sitting on
the counter talking people just be talking out to be
sitting there, like, are you qualified to even talk to
me about this shit? Mmm? Like if you noler. One
day somebody was talking to me, I ain't gonna say
no name, and they would just talk about the podcast.
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Oh you should do that, you should do that, just that.
And third, and my grandfather walked past me and say,
if that nigga can tell you all life, you should
start one. And I love and I hugged my grandfather.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I said, Yo, nigga says, I hug my grandpa.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I just didn't know the right way to say it.
You feel me like you're not qualified, so shut the
fuck up. Right.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
And at the end of the day, it's a lot
of people that are starting podcasts, And even though I
may not never watch them, I would never sit there
and tell somebody, oh, you shouldn't do is, because at
the end of the day, what's not for me maybe
for somebody else While you're giving an opinion, only you
can't give an opinion on somebody else's Opini becauset the
end of the dy's silling to say their opinion right
or right. Absolutely, you could talk about facts. We can
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argue facts, but we can't argue opinions. So it's really
no point. If we don't agree, then we just don't
agree right.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Right right or right right. No cat, when a person
got an opinion about me being chestising my kids, I
hate that ship. Mmm, I hate that ship. Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
I was on a bus the other day, but wait,
I got a good one. I was on a bus
the other day and Brent is doing something like he
was doing like he was literally making slow faces, and
I'm like, what the fuck A, But he's fucking with me,
you know what I'm saying. And I'm like, so the
guy is like, oh, some guy, he just looked two
stops so crazy his damn self. And we coming from
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Long Alans, you know, Long Island people were really more friendly,
you know what I'm saying. So he's just like, oh,
you know they they got these gotta be kidful screaming
them because they got these new little nigga is my child.
He came out my pussy and I'm gonna do what
the funk I please, because guess what, when when the
he gonna say, I want to go with my momy nigga,
So shut the fuck up.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
When the kids gonna be kids, Nah, kids ain't gonna
be careds. I'm checking my kids off a bit. If
it's bell, like time for get money for that? Are
you giving me money for Bell? No, don't don't tell
me how to raise my kid, even.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Even parents, even parents because my mom sometimes, like I
had to tell my mom the other day, and I
love my mother to death because she's an amazing grandmother.
I had to tell her. I said, Mommy, you're doing
what Grandma used to do to you to me. If
I'm telling my son something, don't undermine me in front
of him, because then he's gonna.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Think he can.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
He's gonna think because he's looking for Grandma to save him.
And I have to tell my son. I said, don't
nobody fucking word matter when I'm around. If I'm telling
you to do something, that's what you do.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Tell my son that all the time, because I mean,
shout out to my mother. I know they don't mean
on home, that's all I said. I don't know. I like, yo,
stop stop because now when he get older and get
then there's like, now you want me to.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Step up because parents parents didn't get older and forget
when they become grandparents. They tend to forget that they
were parents themselves and having children their first time for themselves.
You know what I'm saying. At the end of the day,
this may be my first kid, this may be my only,
but this my motherfucking kid. He came out your balls,
mine came out my mother fucking coochie. So I didn't
I be damned if a motherfucker telling me. And we're
doing this shit with disabilities, So it's a it's a
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different level for me because I'm a female. On top
of that, my son's gonna be bigger than me. And
not only is he gonna be, he gonna be bigeran
me real soon, because I'm already seated. You understand what
I'm saying. So I have to put a certain level
of fear in him so that he knows he cannot
play with me. And it's it's not just fear like
it's it's mostly respect, you know what I mean. Because
my son, he loves me, he adores me, and I
adore him. At the end of the day, I'm raising
a black boy, and I'm not raising him for myself.
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I'm raising him for the world black king, Amen, a
black king. I'm raising him for the world king, not
just for myself. So I have to prepare him for everybody.
He's not gonna talk to you nice. Everybody's not gonna
treat your nice. But no matter what or how people
treat you, you still gotta carry yourself in the manner that's
presentable for how I raise you. It's gonna reflect when
you go outside, you're literally a reflection of me. And
that's why I teach my kids. So whenever anybody says
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around my momm he likes my mother likes to baby
him and all this shit. We ain't doing all that.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
And opion, don't tell me about my disablement. If you're
not disabled, like please this this, this shut up. Shut
the fuck up. If you want to, if you want
to practice, and then you want to come go to
Amazon order your stick and then come holler at me.
I hate when people are, oh, now you're doing it wrong,
and I'll just be looking like.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
How the fun You're gonna tell me how I'm doing
it wrong?
Speaker 2 (11:16):
If this worked for me, They're like, it's like, yo,
you're doing it wrong.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
You suck, and this is the motherfucker I can see.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
I just got quiet. I just looked at the name.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
What clearly you can see you can They said it right,
and he just.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Like my bad, Like yo, just just just go go.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Oh. People are always seeing me when they see me
pushing this. This nigga said to me the other day,
he said, oh uh, why you He said, you just
you you rolling that you did that by yourself. I'm
thinking he about to give a compliment like, oh, you're
doing you know what I mean? He like, why you
don't have somebody with you? I said, you just had
to disrespect the fuck out him. I said, you see me,
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You just asked me if I just buy myself right?
He said yes. I said, so, why the fuck you
asked me? Why said that? You stopped me from what
the fuck I gotta do? And you stopping the flow
And I could have been where I need to do faster,
but she would look like I'm struggling. I'm out of breath.
People walking get out of breath.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Some people are paying just be ignorant because.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
They just want they have to say something. It's like
the token thing to say to it. It's like they
have to say something to a disabled person. I have
to speak to it. It's like it's something and I'm like,
oh no, I gotta say it. I gotta do it.
Even bus drivers like I'm sitting there on the bus earlier,
I'm trying to get on and she's she's like, oh,
she takes up more time with im. I ain't gonna lie.
I'm handy, capable. I get on that shit. I'll hop
on hop if I pop on pop. If I lift
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the chair up, I do all that shit locket and
she She's like, oh, because I'm like, I could do
the hooks, but you're taking more time. Should I'm sucking
my teeth about getting the bus and a wheelchair because
you taking more fucking time.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Then let's go.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
All for the straps. She said, Oh, don't touch the straps,
and straps is dirt. I'm like, miss, I touched my
wheels every day. I gotta wash my hands. My hands
is fucking dirt. Let me touch the strap and let's go.
This is New York. I've been a kid in the city,
in the streets. You know what I'm saying. I was
playing in dirt when I was motherfucking My immune system
is up. Let's go, please, let's go, let's go. I
got heresizer, got any well, that opinion.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
People got opinions that they should have. Oh boy, that
old boy got a less Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
I don't really know how to articulate this the right way,
but I think white people should stay out of black business.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Hello fucking low and I agree.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Yeah, I think you should stay out of black business.
And one of the things that I really don't like
is when white people are making arguments like you're ten
times more likely to get killed by a black person
than you are a white person. It's like, it's like
one is so frustrating that even like for me to
even answer this the right way, I gotta go so
deep into history and break so many things.
Speaker 4 (13:36):
Now I'm already tired mentally, you know what I mean.
But it did.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Yeah, but it deserves that much though, because I got it, Like,
and why the fuck do you think that is? You
know what I mean, like stay out the room. Yeah,
but that's something that urts me, you know. And I
had a clip that went I don't know if it went,
but it did good. And like I started to clip
off by saying like I got serious angers toward white people,
and I wish I could change it and be like
I got serious anger toward white supremacy, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
So I've been arguing with people all week about this.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
I see that, Yeah, niggas, I got serious anger towards
white people. Yeah, I did see that one. It wasn't
expecting that one from you. But then it was just
like the way it came off, it just seems like.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
You know what I mean, But I hate the way
that I said it though, you know, because it's.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Like the angry black man.
Speaker 4 (14:18):
I don't want innocent people catching strays, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Because it's some nice, nice, beautiful white people out here. Yeah,
there are live I live next to some live next
to whole respectable like they like they don't do too
much like I love it, like, hi, by are you okay?
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Man? That not in not in not in my Black
History Year. We ain't doing that ship on here. This
is black the revolution will be televised, my brother, I said,
Black History Year, nigga. Another opinion that I don't like
is men need to stay out of women's business.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
I feel like that's one that I keep saying, Oh
a woman do this? If a woman did that? That
shit is That ship is annoying. It irks me, and
it's like y'all put us against each other. I don't
want to go against the man. We need men, men
need women and women need men. They're putting there trying
to make it seem like it's a.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
World sak like that.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
No, I'm not even in my wheelchair. I'm in this.
This is what the media chair.
Speaker 5 (15:22):
Oh I say, yeah, look he chir y'all see he
thought it was me that was squa screen.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
I said, God, because I'm getting anxious? Should I I
ain't gonna talk?
Speaker 2 (15:36):
You don't let me?
Speaker 1 (15:37):
So. Yeah. So it's just like I feel like a
lot of men have so much to say about a woman,
and what should I even see men saying how a
woman should wash or what causes yeast infections? Stupid ship?
You get what I'm saying, like different things on a
women's body, and it's like you cannot comment on it.
You cannot comment on what single motherhood is like. Even
if you had a single mother, you still don't know
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what it's like to be a single mother because you're
not one. You can't have an opinion on something that
you've never went through. And if you do have an
opinion with it, keep that shit amongst people that think
like you, not nobody that didn't ask for it. If
I ain't ask your mother fucking opinion, shut the fuck up.
If you see me walking outside with my kid, don't
assume to think that we struggling, We unhappy, and we
need a man and all and a dad in all life.
You know what I mean. We don't. Don't assume that.
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Don't assume that like, don't assume anything about a woman
at all, period.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
That's it. And women need to stop putting a business
in this shit too, which you mean a lot of women,
A lot of women have opinions when it comes to
men business.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Like what oh, I feel like women should stay up the.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Streets like absolutely, like women gassing man up to like
a women give their opinion that they feel is facts
and start confusion against men only opinion fights and everything.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
Only man, I'm giving my opinions too, is my mother
fucking me?
Speaker 2 (16:58):
And and that's how it supposed to.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I ain't giving my opinions a bunch of other niggas
as that's that's not I don't. I don't want to
argue with niggas. And that's what I'm on Facebook, on
Instagram with that social media ship. Even in the comments,
if you ever seen me respond to the comments, I
really politely dubbed them like we're not about to do this,
you know what I'm saying, Like I don't want to
your picture. No, I'm not talking about pictures or nothing
like that. I'm talking about just period in general. That nobody,
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nobody commented, nobody.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
If you're happy, you happy. That's all that matters, like
people are. I'm a person.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
I don't have no back to what the fuck you
said though, because you said that women comment on men ship.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
All the like, what everything?
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Like what I give examples?
Speaker 2 (17:43):
You give examples.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
I give examples of how men being women business.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
With yours like you said street ship?
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Okay, what else?
Speaker 4 (17:50):
What about specific though, like if.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Like me and my friend going through something, me and
my friend going through something, Oh no, you ain't fucking
with this nigga, this nigga, this like, can I be
a man?
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Mmm?
Speaker 2 (18:04):
I've seen women do that ship?
Speaker 1 (18:06):
But see, but what if your woman feels like it's
to protect you? Like, okay, I see this fake and
this nigga because I want my man to tell me
if he sees some floor shit in one of my friends.
I respect my man's opinion. He gonna tell yourself, but
that's not street ship. That's just protecting. That's the protecting mechanism. No,
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my man, he'd just tell me sometimes.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
I was just like, I don't mean to sound like yeah,
get shut the fuck up that I keep it to
myself like I went my homemiane, I see that girl
coming on the line and all that, and I just
I don't say nothing, and it's like, yeah, that nigga's
a nigga, this, that, and the third. It's like it
could just be a little conversation that you could just
have with your your brother, that's your brother, a little conversation.
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Females put extra ship on it when you just think,
like yo, like.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
So you feel like women need to show that's fair.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
I'll take that.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
I just wanted a little bit more insight as to
what so you're saying. They just put themselves insides men
and inserted.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
I could be on the phone, you grabbing the phone
and give me your opinion. Nobody asks you, Oh no,
that's kind of crazy. Nobody asks you you have had
a homie like that?
Speaker 4 (19:19):
What had a homie like work?
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Like, I'm talking to my homie and my girl is
giving her opinion, Like somebody asks.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
You, see, I see this a little bit differently because
the truth is the reason why she feel that way
because you was what you tell her when that nigga's
not around, so.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
She feels very involved in the situation.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
It's some girl that just gotta added two cents.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
In, But that's because certain if you don't want them
to add don't have certain conversations around around. Yeah, I
feel like that's that's what we advocate too, because I
know I won't have certain conversation, I won't have certain
conversations about people in front of certain people if I
don't want them to have any input on it.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
Because I say, it goes back to what you said,
niggas need to stay out of female business.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Because that's like if I'm sitting there, yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
Like like you said, they need this, Like I hear
female talk and all that, I don't got nothing to say.
I don't gotta I don't got a.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
So you never told you never told any one of
the women that with like, that's not your friend unless
you come and ask me. Oh no, see I don't.
I don't like niggas like you. You need to talk me, not.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
If you if she's doing you wrong and everything else.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
But I'm like, if I'm coming to you as if
I'm coming to you as my mean and I'm telling
you like if you come come to me your man. No,
I'm not saying that.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
If you coming to me, of course I'm gonna give
you my opinion, but I'm not gonna sit there and
listen to you talk on the phone and just be
just waiting to give my opinion. But there are a
lot of guys that females.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
A lot of guys don't got a dog.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
I don't got a dog in this fight. I'm cool,
But babe, what you think about this? She did this
just on the third.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
See, I'm giving my opinion that if I'm hearing some
somebody doing something wrong to the person that I'm with,
then I'm gonna give my mother fucking opinion because you're
gonna hear me out. You, my nigga, when I said, oh, so,
what did you do that?
Speaker 2 (21:01):
And now we arguing, I don't got a dog? That's right.
Mm hmm. I'm not gonna.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna argue with you because
I can. I'm able to see different aspects. I'm able
to see everybody's point of you, not just my own.
That's like the blessing and curse that comes with being
in gyminal people.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
See, I just feel like people just have I just
feel like people have an opinion, but they can't handle
it when you give it back.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
Okay, I can respect that, so so to be fair,
people that shouldn't have opinions it's people that aren't able.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
To take your to receive it, to receive your opinion,
to receive it. That's fair because somebody can saying say, oh,
I don't think this person is for you. I don't
know what we're really going through or whatever the case
may be. And when I can sit and say, well,
I don't think your nigga, I don't think your girls
for you hate people like and it's like you mad
at me. You're not talking that. Wo. You should have
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kept your opinion to yourself when it came to my relationship.
I'm doing it. I'm doing it for you.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
I do hate people like that like that, to be.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Honest, especially like like I don't have like people around me,
like bro, I don't think she it wow. Wow. You
can't even tell me why.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Because people are superficial. A lot of people will look
and they'll think like, oh, this is what's for me.
Is not your It shouldn't be your cup of tea anyway.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
I don't need you. If she makes you happy and
you love it, you like it, I love it. I'm
got no dog in this fight.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
I've had people have opinions on me and then they
try to like like oh, she's a hole, she said.
She's that. You know.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Sometimes you give you a pinon, they turning on your ass, like, wait,
what the fuck this happened?
Speaker 1 (22:35):
What the fuck like, how did that become a fucking hell?
I didn't even.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
Know, mean personally, I just I don't know. I just
keep my just keep my dog to myself because I
don't want to put my dog in nobody fight. I'm
one of those man. I can hear. I can hear
the guys up and all that them spidery fuck like
I act like I don't hear tuning it out. I'm
not one of them niggas that guys up. Wait, baby,
get off the phone. On the phone and you you
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hear your they get a background. Nah, Yo, she fucked up.
She is a whole. Wait, bro, are you a female?
Sit your ass down, nigga, turn on ESPN. I don't
got a dog in this fight. I don't now my baby.
Come and tell me something. Yeah, I'm gonna tell you. Nah,
could have handled it different or ya. Now she is wrong.
All you gotta watch your different shit. Yeah, I absolutely
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do that. That's just me. But I feel like the
biggest opinion people have is people relationships that's true. No, No,
it's just people relationships.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
And then their relationship isn't perfect on its own. Even
the people that portray for their relationships to be perfect,
they are not. They shouldn't even be able to give advice,
you know what I'm saying, because those people. If you
have an opinion or feeling on someone else's relationship when
nobody's asking you, you're not happy in your own relationship
because I don't even have enough time to have the
energy to tell you about how I feel about your relationship.
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If I'm focused on.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
My own, you're losing sleep giving me your opinion while
your man is outside, don't God knows what why outside
doing gardens?
Speaker 1 (24:01):
What you need to be the only time I'm have
an opinion on someone's relationship is if they're really being
done forul and they.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Get your guys a friend and beat it on.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
I'm gonna always tell the truth, like look, listen, and
even I tell my cheat on. But I'm a woman,
so it's different from me because these people cry to me.
I hate when people cry to me. Don't come to
me crying to me about your ship if I can't
get my opinion on your ship. Absolutely, because anybody that
I went crying to, I took it and I listened.
And that's what I told bitches, because when I was
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going through what I was going through, when I was crying,
everybody telling me, oh leave it baby, through that cool boom,
I took it. I listened. I ain't getting mad, and
I started giving advice to bitches about they niggas. Everybody
hated me, then I was the problem.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
No not. If they come to you crying, then you
have everybody people, can you if.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
You come to me crying, I got the right to
say what I feel like saying. If I'm the if
I'm the fucking shoulder to cry on, damn need the
dictor ride on you bitches come to me with you'all
motherfucking proms. I'm gonna save what the fuck I want
to say.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
I just hate the people that come to you for
your your opinion and when you give it to your
day start moving. Funny told you like yeah, mm hm,
I damn. If you don't, I'll just speak up.
Speaker 1 (25:15):
So tomorrow of the story is don't give no motherfucking opinion.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
Being a band to yourself, amen, And that's the episode.
Because you're to yourself. I don't know what I mean
entertaining this opinion. Ship manya business. You're not disabled, maya business.
You're not doing podcasts. Man your business. You're not in
a relationship. Man your business. If I don't come and
ask you how you feel about this, mine your fucking business.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
If it ain't your birthday, mind your business?
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Are you for real?
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Seriously?
Speaker 2 (25:47):
Don't ask about the blob and I see podcasts. Mind
your business.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Mind your business. Don't ask us about anything about friend.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
She got her man hold on her son. Y'all don't
know the dynamic, and y'all don't know the relationship with them.
Mind y'all fucking business does. She's smiling, she's happy. That's
all that matters.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
And my baby was smiling too, And they say, he
looks just like his stepdaddy.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I'm dad. I ain't got an opinion.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
That's you see that right.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
People need to learn from that. I ain't gotta appear today.
Mind your my business, my business. So I said whatever
I said on the podcast, and they're like, oh, he's bad.
The love bug for the mind your business. People grow,
Mind your business.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
And people have to also understand that people are allowed
to change. If someone changes don't sit there and hold
them in the prison of what they use of who
they used to be. Give people grace, allow them to
be this new person, and allow them to be great,
and allow them to do it without doubts. Don't doubt
the person, because that makes a lot of people just
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want to stay away from you, or it makes them
go back into their old self because you're not believing
in who they can be. Allow people to bro You
might have knew me, but you no longer know me.
If you're not in my everyday circle, then you don't
know me. You see me, you might see what I'm doing,
You might have some ideas or whatever.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
The case may be.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
You might be building up this whole facade. You still
don't know me anymore. You knew me.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Because me I grew. That's it.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
And you can't have an opinion on somebody that.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
I could be a bed man. Yeah, it's and that's.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Do you have any Do you have any motivational words
for the people this week before we close?
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Yeah? The motivational words is maya motherfucking.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Business Manya motherfucking business I think great.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
To the point, maya motherfucking business Wait till that person
come and ask you your opinion, and you give your opinion,
but just waiting just to give her opinion. No, maya
mother and this is another episode of blind business, is
another episode of maya motherfucking business.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
We're tired of fun. Yes, good night everybody, and happy
birthday to my men.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Her me and her man. And I know you're gonna say, oh,
she said her man, Ma, your motherfucking business bit. I
ain't saying all that I said, bitch, I said it.
He were out though, right,
And we're back for another.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Episode of being tired O the funnynother episode of the
blombin o Ce podcast. I am the official block stop.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
And I am the official hot roller.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
And we all had to sable heroes. And I just
came back from orlanda y'all. I'm so tired.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Oh he's so tired.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
But he had a great time, great time networking. So
me and French, if you got some things that works.
If I got to grab you from the back of
your head, girl, I'm taking you along with me. That's
been by the way we were going. We're going to
the top. I can't leave you. No, we can't be
locked in now, you can't.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
We're stuck.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Even if I got it, I put a brick so
you can't roll over. Break in the front of breaking
the back that will CHI will not be moving. You
gonna go. You're so tired. Yeah, I'm so tired.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
You're fighting it right now.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
But so great things came out this week, man, so
I can't complain. You go ahead. I mean some checks
that's about to come in our names.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Amen claiming it. It's already signed, so it's in the mailbox.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
You're just waiting for the inky drive.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah, it's already that, already in the mailbox.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Waiting for the post office man to come get it.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Hello, you know the government shut down a little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
My food stamp side for like, Oh my gosh, I'm
in love.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
He's in love and I love the love for him.
This is a love podcast now, writes in love.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Oh my god, sh that was a whore. See, people
could change.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
How's that going for you?
Speaker 2 (01:31):
I love it. I'm happy you feel it. I've never
been happy like this in a long time.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
That's that's honestly, like for a black man to say that.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Literally, she showed the god I have sex when.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Just so you guys haven't been No, y'all have sex.
We just yeah, because I was thinking, I was like,
I'm the celebrated too.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Oh no, but I love when I get you.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
You could just be there. It's not about the say
not that he broke.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Her face against me. It just felt like everything.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Okay, do people have opinions about your relationship?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Nobody didn't give me no opinion. But even if they did,
who gives.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
A fuck about the opinion, because there are some people
that shouldn't have opinions.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
On you, not not about my happiness. No, you should
not have I.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Don't think anybody should have any people.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Have an opinion about you going to see an manager?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Oh hell yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Do you give a fuck about it?
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Not at all?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Are you going to see it?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
What Sunday?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Happy birthday to.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Who my man?
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Okay, take cut through that, take cut.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Through there, But no for real. The reason why I
said that is because obviously today's episode is about people opinions,
and me dating or being with someone that is incarcerated
has a lot of people in a tizzy because I
have people that used to be my friends. People are
calling me and they're like, Oh, this person's posting about
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if you're holding somebody down in jail, you're stupid, You're this,
You're that, you know what I mean. It's just like, damn,
you got a fucking opinion, but you was holding niggas
down for free, niggas doing you dirty. But I don't.
I don't one thing about it. I don't comment on
people's relationships because I feel like that's not my business.
If you ask me, if you ask me my opinion,
i'll give you. If you put me in your relationship
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and you ask me for the shit, than I will
if you're just a friend of your venting to me,
then I listen. I'll tell you my little one too.
But I'm never gonna be more angry than you. I'm
not gonna call you. If I see you posting the
motherfucker what them like? What are you doing now supposed
to do that? I'll look and I'll judge silently, but
I'm not gonna just go out and come out my face.
A lot of people don't know their place when it
comes to other people's relationships, and I feel like that's
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something that people shouldn't have an opinion on it.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
At the same time, who gives a fuck how you
feel like? Keep it to yourself talk behind my back.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
If I was if I was younger back in the day,
then opinions would hurt me, you know what I'm saying,
because it's like, damn, these are people that I love
because I used to the people's opinions, the people that
matter to me. Their opinions of me do matter somewhat,
you know what I mean. But when you no longer
really matters to me, then your opinion doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
People don't even be knowing a whole thing in a
real story, and they just.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Want to people just see somebody. They see me going
up to the jail, and they see me, they see
him in a wheelchair, so they automatically assume, Oh, he's
using her, you know what I mean, he's playing or
da da da da da da da, not knowing the
nothing about us.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
And I'm not gonna.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Yeah, and I'm not going to break that down because
I don't have to justify anything to it. We didn't
sit there and meet We're not pinpals. We didn't meet
through prison, you know what I'm saying. So for people
to even.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
They're vulnerable, she didn't need love, so she went to
the jails.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
None of that exactly. That's what before he even went
inside it, amen, and that's what people think. I've known
him since twenty twenty. I didn't just meet him right away.
We didn't just get right in a relationship like we
built our relationship.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Oh she's not settling the fuck.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
That's a real man right there.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
She's fucking happy.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Why just kids, she just be happy? Why we can't
love the fact that she's just happy. Why we got
to have an opinion about the fact that she's going
to the jails.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Because people are they find something negative in anything, because
if you wasn't because they talk about the people that leave,
people in jail, they talk about the people that's there.
You know what I'm saying, They talk about the people
that meet them. Did They talk about the people that
get married, They talk about the people that fuck off
while the nigga's in jail. They talk about you regardless.
So it's like at the end that you mun as
will do what the fuck you want.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
The crazy thing about it is you got a pinion
and you're not worried about your own life, and your
nigga fucking right behind you. He's not even in jail.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Listen, I got so much. I could say so much
about other people's relationships, but I don't and I'm not
even that type of person. And even no matter what,
that's what I love about myself, not to too my
own horn. But no matter what people do to me,
I'm not gonna do it back to them. But I'm
not gonna go back on social media and post what
I feel about someone because at the end of the day,
God will deal with you heathen. So if you're watching this,
if you see this clip, this is for you. I
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don't talk about nobody I used to be friends with.
I don't make you a topic, a subject on any
type of part of my life because at the end
of the day, if we are no longer friends, it's
my choice. It's not one person out there that I
want to be friends with that I'm not friends with.
I've been that girl. I'm gonna stay that girl walking
and rolling. And I do realize that a lot of
people stay friends with me because I'm in the chair
and if I was walking, they wouldn't be friends with
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me because for some reason they make it makes them
feel like a little superior, you know what I'm saying,
Because it's like, oh, she's pretty, but she's in a wheelchair.
But bitch, I still get attention when we go outside.
But am I your token wheelchair friend?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:11):
And then when people realize, like, my personality is still
gonna pop, niggas still gonna want me, even though I
don't want niggas I'm happily in love, it's still like
I could still pull whoever, you know what I'm saying.
And bitches do get intimidated by that. They get intimidated
about confidence, you know what I'm saying. It's not even
just about looks. It's just like the way I carry myself.
One thing about I'm gona get dress, I'm gonna fel good,
I'm gonna look good, I'm gonna smell good, Ima taste good.
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Bitches can't relate and that's the problem. But again, like
I said, if we are no longer friends, you should
not have an opinion on me because I don't have
an opinion on you. I don't even think about your bitches.
I can't remember your bitch's name. You bitches can't as
spelled pralte. Yeah, yo, No, never got me here, No
(06:53):
Friday popping myself.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Fuck pinions. I hate when a person got an opinion
about my podcast, our podcasts, and that these niggas ever
did an episode a day in their life. Hmmm, they
don't know how I feel to be talking sitting on
the counter talking people just be talking out to be
sitting there, like, are you qualified to even talk to
me about this shit? Mmm? Like if you noler. One
day somebody was talking to me, I ain't gonna say
no name, and they would just talk about the podcast.
(07:17):
Oh you should do that, you should do that, just that.
And third, and my grandfather walked past me and say,
if that nigga can tell you all life, you should
start one. And I love and I hugged my grandfather.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I said, Yo, nigga says, I hug my grandpa.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I just didn't know the right way to say it.
You feel me like you're not qualified, so shut the
fuck up. Right.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
And at the end of the day, it's a lot
of people that are starting podcasts, And even though I
may not never watch them, I would never sit there
and tell somebody, oh, you shouldn't do is, because at
the end of the day, what's not for me maybe
for somebody else While you're giving an opinion, only you
can't give an opinion on somebody else's Opini becauset the
end of the dy's silling to say their opinion right
or right. Absolutely, you could talk about facts. We can
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argue facts, but we can't argue opinions. So it's really
no point. If we don't agree, then we just don't
agree right.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Right right or right right. No cat, when a person
got an opinion about me being chestising my kids, I
hate that ship. Mmm, I hate that ship. Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
I was on a bus the other day, but wait,
I got a good one. I was on a bus
the other day and Brent is doing something like he
was doing like he was literally making slow faces, and
I'm like, what the fuck A, But he's fucking with me,
you know what I'm saying. And I'm like, so the
guy is like, oh, some guy, he just looked two
stops so crazy his damn self. And we coming from
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Long Alans, you know, Long Island people were really more friendly,
you know what I'm saying. So he's just like, oh,
you know they they got these gotta be kidful screaming
them because they got these new little nigga is my child.
He came out my pussy and I'm gonna do what
the funk I please, because guess what, when when the
he gonna say, I want to go with my momy nigga,
So shut the fuck up.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
When the kids gonna be kids, Nah, kids ain't gonna
be careds. I'm checking my kids off a bit. If
it's bell, like time for get money for that? Are
you giving me money for Bell? No, don't don't tell
me how to raise my kid, even.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Even parents, even parents because my mom sometimes, like I
had to tell my mom the other day, and I
love my mother to death because she's an amazing grandmother.
I had to tell her. I said, Mommy, you're doing
what Grandma used to do to you to me. If
I'm telling my son something, don't undermine me in front
of him, because then he's gonna.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Think he can.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
He's gonna think because he's looking for Grandma to save him.
And I have to tell my son. I said, don't
nobody fucking word matter when I'm around. If I'm telling
you to do something, that's what you do.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Tell my son that all the time, because I mean,
shout out to my mother. I know they don't mean
on home, that's all I said. I don't know. I like, yo,
stop stop because now when he get older and get
then there's like, now you want me to.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Step up because parents parents didn't get older and forget
when they become grandparents. They tend to forget that they
were parents themselves and having children their first time for themselves.
You know what I'm saying. At the end of the day,
this may be my first kid, this may be my only,
but this my motherfucking kid. He came out your balls,
mine came out my mother fucking coochie. So I didn't
I be damned if a motherfucker telling me. And we're
doing this shit with disabilities, So it's a it's a
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different level for me because I'm a female. On top
of that, my son's gonna be bigger than me. And
not only is he gonna be, he gonna be bigeran
me real soon, because I'm already seated. You understand what
I'm saying. So I have to put a certain level
of fear in him so that he knows he cannot
play with me. And it's it's not just fear like
it's it's mostly respect, you know what I mean. Because
my son, he loves me, he adores me, and I
adore him. At the end of the day, I'm raising
a black boy, and I'm not raising him for myself.
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I'm raising him for the world black king, Amen, a
black king. I'm raising him for the world king, not
just for myself. So I have to prepare him for everybody.
He's not gonna talk to you nice. Everybody's not gonna
treat your nice. But no matter what or how people
treat you, you still gotta carry yourself in the manner that's
presentable for how I raise you. It's gonna reflect when
you go outside, you're literally a reflection of me. And
that's why I teach my kids. So whenever anybody says
(10:53):
around my momm he likes my mother likes to baby
him and all this shit. We ain't doing all that.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
And opion, don't tell me about my disablement. If you're
not disabled, like please this this, this shut up. Shut
the fuck up. If you want to, if you want
to practice, and then you want to come go to
Amazon order your stick and then come holler at me.
I hate when people are, oh, now you're doing it wrong,
and I'll just be looking like.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
How the fun You're gonna tell me how I'm doing
it wrong?
Speaker 2 (11:16):
If this worked for me, They're like, it's like, yo,
you're doing it wrong.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
You suck, and this is the motherfucker I can see.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
I just got quiet. I just looked at the name.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
What clearly you can see you can They said it right,
and he just.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Like my bad, Like yo, just just just go go.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Oh. People are always seeing me when they see me
pushing this. This nigga said to me the other day,
he said, oh uh, why you He said, you just
you you rolling that you did that by yourself. I'm
thinking he about to give a compliment like, oh, you're
doing you know what I mean? He like, why you
don't have somebody with you? I said, you just had
to disrespect the fuck out him. I said, you see me,
(11:51):
You just asked me if I just buy myself right?
He said yes. I said, so, why the fuck you
asked me? Why said that? You stopped me from what
the fuck I gotta do? And you stopping the flow
And I could have been where I need to do faster,
but she would look like I'm struggling. I'm out of breath.
People walking get out of breath.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Some people are paying just be ignorant because.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
They just want they have to say something. It's like
the token thing to say to it. It's like they
have to say something to a disabled person. I have
to speak to it. It's like it's something and I'm like,
oh no, I gotta say it. I gotta do it.
Even bus drivers like I'm sitting there on the bus earlier,
I'm trying to get on and she's she's like, oh,
she takes up more time with im. I ain't gonna lie.
I'm handy, capable. I get on that shit. I'll hop
on hop if I pop on pop. If I lift
(12:28):
the chair up, I do all that shit locket and
she She's like, oh, because I'm like, I could do
the hooks, but you're taking more time. Should I'm sucking
my teeth about getting the bus and a wheelchair because
you taking more fucking time.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Then let's go.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
All for the straps. She said, Oh, don't touch the straps,
and straps is dirt. I'm like, miss, I touched my
wheels every day. I gotta wash my hands. My hands
is fucking dirt. Let me touch the strap and let's go.
This is New York. I've been a kid in the city,
in the streets. You know what I'm saying. I was
playing in dirt when I was motherfucking My immune system
is up. Let's go, please, let's go, let's go. I
got heresizer, got any well, that opinion.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
People got opinions that they should have. Oh boy, that
old boy got a less Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
I don't really know how to articulate this the right way,
but I think white people should stay out of black business.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Hello fucking low and I agree.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Yeah, I think you should stay out of black business.
And one of the things that I really don't like
is when white people are making arguments like you're ten
times more likely to get killed by a black person
than you are a white person. It's like, it's like
one is so frustrating that even like for me to
even answer this the right way, I gotta go so
deep into history and break so many things.
Speaker 4 (13:36):
Now I'm already tired mentally, you know what I mean.
But it did.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Yeah, but it deserves that much though, because I got it, Like,
and why the fuck do you think that is? You
know what I mean, like stay out the room. Yeah,
but that's something that urts me, you know. And I
had a clip that went I don't know if it went,
but it did good. And like I started to clip
off by saying like I got serious angers toward white people,
and I wish I could change it and be like
I got serious anger toward white supremacy, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
So I've been arguing with people all week about this.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
I see that, Yeah, niggas, I got serious anger towards
white people. Yeah, I did see that one. It wasn't
expecting that one from you. But then it was just
like the way it came off, it just seems like.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
You know what I mean, But I hate the way
that I said it though, you know, because it's.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Like the angry black man.
Speaker 4 (14:18):
I don't want innocent people catching strays, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Because it's some nice, nice, beautiful white people out here. Yeah,
there are live I live next to some live next
to whole respectable like they like they don't do too
much like I love it, like, hi, by are you okay?
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Man? That not in not in not in my Black
History Year. We ain't doing that ship on here. This
is black the revolution will be televised, my brother, I said,
Black History Year, nigga. Another opinion that I don't like
is men need to stay out of women's business.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
I feel like that's one that I keep saying, Oh
a woman do this? If a woman did that? That
shit is That ship is annoying. It irks me, and
it's like y'all put us against each other. I don't
want to go against the man. We need men, men
need women and women need men. They're putting there trying
to make it seem like it's a.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
World sak like that.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
No, I'm not even in my wheelchair. I'm in this.
This is what the media chair.
Speaker 5 (15:22):
Oh I say, yeah, look he chir y'all see he
thought it was me that was squa screen.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
I said, God, because I'm getting anxious? Should I I
ain't gonna talk?
Speaker 2 (15:36):
You don't let me?
Speaker 1 (15:37):
So. Yeah. So it's just like I feel like a
lot of men have so much to say about a woman,
and what should I even see men saying how a
woman should wash or what causes yeast infections? Stupid ship?
You get what I'm saying, like different things on a
women's body, and it's like you cannot comment on it.
You cannot comment on what single motherhood is like. Even
if you had a single mother, you still don't know
(15:58):
what it's like to be a single mother because you're
not one. You can't have an opinion on something that
you've never went through. And if you do have an
opinion with it, keep that shit amongst people that think
like you, not nobody that didn't ask for it. If
I ain't ask your mother fucking opinion, shut the fuck up.
If you see me walking outside with my kid, don't
assume to think that we struggling, We unhappy, and we
need a man and all and a dad in all life.
You know what I mean. We don't. Don't assume that.
(16:20):
Don't assume that like, don't assume anything about a woman
at all, period.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
That's it. And women need to stop putting a business
in this shit too, which you mean a lot of women,
A lot of women have opinions when it comes to
men business.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Like what oh, I feel like women should stay up the.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Streets like absolutely, like women gassing man up to like
a women give their opinion that they feel is facts
and start confusion against men only opinion fights and everything.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
Only man, I'm giving my opinions too, is my mother
fucking me?
Speaker 2 (16:58):
And and that's how it supposed to.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I ain't giving my opinions a bunch of other niggas
as that's that's not I don't. I don't want to
argue with niggas. And that's what I'm on Facebook, on
Instagram with that social media ship. Even in the comments,
if you ever seen me respond to the comments, I
really politely dubbed them like we're not about to do this,
you know what I'm saying, Like I don't want to
your picture. No, I'm not talking about pictures or nothing
like that. I'm talking about just period in general. That nobody,
(17:24):
nobody commented, nobody.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
If you're happy, you happy. That's all that matters, like
people are. I'm a person.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
I don't have no back to what the fuck you
said though, because you said that women comment on men ship.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
All the like, what everything?
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Like what I give examples?
Speaker 2 (17:43):
You give examples.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
I give examples of how men being women business.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
With yours like you said street ship?
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Okay, what else?
Speaker 4 (17:50):
What about specific though, like if.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Like me and my friend going through something, me and
my friend going through something, Oh no, you ain't fucking
with this nigga, this nigga, this like, can I be
a man?
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Mmm?
Speaker 2 (18:04):
I've seen women do that ship?
Speaker 1 (18:06):
But see, but what if your woman feels like it's
to protect you? Like, okay, I see this fake and
this nigga because I want my man to tell me
if he sees some floor shit in one of my friends.
I respect my man's opinion. He gonna tell yourself, but
that's not street ship. That's just protecting. That's the protecting mechanism. No,
(18:28):
my man, he'd just tell me sometimes.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
I was just like, I don't mean to sound like yeah,
get shut the fuck up that I keep it to
myself like I went my homemiane, I see that girl
coming on the line and all that, and I just
I don't say nothing, and it's like, yeah, that nigga's
a nigga, this, that, and the third. It's like it
could just be a little conversation that you could just
have with your your brother, that's your brother, a little conversation.
(18:53):
Females put extra ship on it when you just think,
like yo, like.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
So you feel like women need to show that's fair.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
I'll take that.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
I just wanted a little bit more insight as to
what so you're saying. They just put themselves insides men
and inserted.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
I could be on the phone, you grabbing the phone
and give me your opinion. Nobody asks you, Oh no,
that's kind of crazy. Nobody asks you you have had
a homie like that?
Speaker 4 (19:19):
What had a homie like work?
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Like, I'm talking to my homie and my girl is
giving her opinion, Like somebody asks.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
You, see, I see this a little bit differently because
the truth is the reason why she feel that way
because you was what you tell her when that nigga's
not around, so.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
She feels very involved in the situation.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
It's some girl that just gotta added two cents.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
In, But that's because certain if you don't want them
to add don't have certain conversations around around. Yeah, I
feel like that's that's what we advocate too, because I
know I won't have certain conversation, I won't have certain
conversations about people in front of certain people if I
don't want them to have any input on it.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
Because I say, it goes back to what you said,
niggas need to stay out of female business.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Because that's like if I'm sitting there, yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
Like like you said, they need this, Like I hear
female talk and all that, I don't got nothing to say.
I don't gotta I don't got a.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
So you never told you never told any one of
the women that with like, that's not your friend unless
you come and ask me. Oh no, see I don't.
I don't like niggas like you. You need to talk me, not.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
If you if she's doing you wrong and everything else.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
But I'm like, if I'm coming to you as if
I'm coming to you as my mean and I'm telling
you like if you come come to me your man. No,
I'm not saying that.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
If you coming to me, of course I'm gonna give
you my opinion, but I'm not gonna sit there and
listen to you talk on the phone and just be
just waiting to give my opinion. But there are a
lot of guys that females.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
A lot of guys don't got a dog.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
I don't got a dog in this fight. I'm cool,
But babe, what you think about this? She did this
just on the third.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
See, I'm giving my opinion that if I'm hearing some
somebody doing something wrong to the person that I'm with,
then I'm gonna give my mother fucking opinion because you're
gonna hear me out. You, my nigga, when I said, oh, so,
what did you do that?
Speaker 2 (21:01):
And now we arguing, I don't got a dog? That's right.
Mm hmm. I'm not gonna.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna argue with you because
I can. I'm able to see different aspects. I'm able
to see everybody's point of you, not just my own.
That's like the blessing and curse that comes with being
in gyminal people.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
See, I just feel like people just have I just
feel like people have an opinion, but they can't handle
it when you give it back.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
Okay, I can respect that, so so to be fair,
people that shouldn't have opinions it's people that aren't able.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
To take your to receive it, to receive your opinion,
to receive it. That's fair because somebody can saying say, oh,
I don't think this person is for you. I don't
know what we're really going through or whatever the case
may be. And when I can sit and say, well,
I don't think your nigga, I don't think your girls
for you hate people like and it's like you mad
at me. You're not talking that. Wo. You should have
(21:48):
kept your opinion to yourself when it came to my relationship.
I'm doing it. I'm doing it for you.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
I do hate people like that like that, to be.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Honest, especially like like I don't have like people around me,
like bro, I don't think she it wow. Wow. You
can't even tell me why.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Because people are superficial. A lot of people will look
and they'll think like, oh, this is what's for me.
Is not your It shouldn't be your cup of tea anyway.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
I don't need you. If she makes you happy and
you love it, you like it, I love it. I'm
got no dog in this fight.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
I've had people have opinions on me and then they
try to like like oh, she's a hole, she said.
She's that. You know.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Sometimes you give you a pinon, they turning on your ass, like, wait,
what the fuck this happened?
Speaker 1 (22:35):
What the fuck like, how did that become a fucking hell?
I didn't even.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
Know, mean personally, I just I don't know. I just
keep my just keep my dog to myself because I
don't want to put my dog in nobody fight. I'm
one of those man. I can hear. I can hear
the guys up and all that them spidery fuck like
I act like I don't hear tuning it out. I'm
not one of them niggas that guys up. Wait, baby,
get off the phone. On the phone and you you
(22:59):
hear your they get a background. Nah, Yo, she fucked up.
She is a whole. Wait, bro, are you a female?
Sit your ass down, nigga, turn on ESPN. I don't
got a dog in this fight. I don't now my baby.
Come and tell me something. Yeah, I'm gonna tell you. Nah,
could have handled it different or ya. Now she is wrong.
All you gotta watch your different shit. Yeah, I absolutely
(23:22):
do that. That's just me. But I feel like the
biggest opinion people have is people relationships that's true. No, No,
it's just people relationships.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
And then their relationship isn't perfect on its own. Even
the people that portray for their relationships to be perfect,
they are not. They shouldn't even be able to give advice,
you know what I'm saying, because those people. If you
have an opinion or feeling on someone else's relationship when
nobody's asking you, you're not happy in your own relationship
because I don't even have enough time to have the
energy to tell you about how I feel about your relationship.
(23:54):
If I'm focused on.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
My own, you're losing sleep giving me your opinion while
your man is outside, don't God knows what why outside
doing gardens?
Speaker 1 (24:01):
What you need to be the only time I'm have
an opinion on someone's relationship is if they're really being
done forul and they.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Get your guys a friend and beat it on.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
I'm gonna always tell the truth, like look, listen, and
even I tell my cheat on. But I'm a woman,
so it's different from me because these people cry to me.
I hate when people cry to me. Don't come to
me crying to me about your ship if I can't
get my opinion on your ship. Absolutely, because anybody that
I went crying to, I took it and I listened.
And that's what I told bitches, because when I was
(24:36):
going through what I was going through, when I was crying,
everybody telling me, oh leave it baby, through that cool boom,
I took it. I listened. I ain't getting mad, and
I started giving advice to bitches about they niggas. Everybody
hated me, then I was the problem.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
No not. If they come to you crying, then you
have everybody people, can you if.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
You come to me crying, I got the right to
say what I feel like saying. If I'm the if
I'm the fucking shoulder to cry on, damn need the
dictor ride on you bitches come to me with you'all
motherfucking proms. I'm gonna save what the fuck I want
to say.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
I just hate the people that come to you for
your your opinion and when you give it to your
day start moving. Funny told you like yeah, mm hm,
I damn. If you don't, I'll just speak up.
Speaker 1 (25:15):
So tomorrow of the story is don't give no motherfucking opinion.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
Being a band to yourself, amen, And that's the episode.
Because you're to yourself. I don't know what I mean
entertaining this opinion. Ship manya business. You're not disabled, maya business.
You're not doing podcasts. Man your business. You're not in
a relationship. Man your business. If I don't come and
ask you how you feel about this, mine your fucking business.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
If it ain't your birthday, mind your business?
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Are you for real?
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Seriously?
Speaker 2 (25:47):
Don't ask about the blob and I see podcasts. Mind
your business.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Mind your business. Don't ask us about anything about friend.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
She got her man hold on her son. Y'all don't
know the dynamic, and y'all don't know the relationship with them.
Mind y'all fucking business does. She's smiling, she's happy. That's
all that matters.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
And my baby was smiling too, And they say, he
looks just like his stepdaddy.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I'm dad. I ain't got an opinion.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
That's you see that right.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
People need to learn from that. I ain't gotta appear today.
Mind your my business, my business. So I said whatever
I said on the podcast, and they're like, oh, he's bad.
The love bug for the mind your business. People grow,
Mind your business.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
And people have to also understand that people are allowed
to change. If someone changes don't sit there and hold
them in the prison of what they use of who
they used to be. Give people grace, allow them to
be this new person, and allow them to be great,
and allow them to do it without doubts. Don't doubt
the person, because that makes a lot of people just
(26:53):
want to stay away from you, or it makes them
go back into their old self because you're not believing
in who they can be. Allow people to bro You
might have knew me, but you no longer know me.
If you're not in my everyday circle, then you don't
know me. You see me, you might see what I'm doing,
You might have some ideas or whatever.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
The case may be.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
You might be building up this whole facade. You still
don't know me anymore. You knew me.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Because me I grew. That's it.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
And you can't have an opinion on somebody that.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
I could be a bed man. Yeah, it's and that's.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Do you have any Do you have any motivational words
for the people this week before we close?
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Yeah? The motivational words is maya motherfucking.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Business Manya motherfucking business I think great.
Speaker 2 (27:38):
To the point, maya motherfucking business Wait till that person
come and ask you your opinion, and you give your opinion,
but just waiting just to give her opinion. No, maya
mother and this is another episode of blind business, is
another episode of maya motherfucking business.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
We're tired of fun. Yes, good night everybody, and happy
birthday to my men.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Her me and her man. And I know you're gonna say, oh,
she said her man, Ma, your motherfucking business bit. I
ain't saying all that I said, bitch, I said it.
He were out though, right,
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