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May 19, 2025 27 mins
In this engaging conversation, Bob Schmidt and certified sex therapist Melissa Hellwig explore the multifaceted nature of intimacy and sexual relationships. They discuss the importance of communication, the complexities of sexual satisfaction, the impact of trauma on relationships, and the reasons behind infidelity. The conversation emphasizes that intimacy goes beyond physical attributes and requires emotional connection and understanding.



This interview was part of my old radio show BS WIth Bob Schmidt on Today's Talk 1490 in La Crosse. 
  • The biggest sex organ is hearing and communication.
  • Sex is about more than just genitals; it's about connection.
  • Preferences in sexual satisfaction are as unique as fingerprints.
  • Most women do not achieve orgasm through penetration alone.
  • Clitoral stimulation is key for female orgasm.
  • Communication is essential for intimacy and understanding needs.
  • Fatigue is a common reason for decreased sexual desire.
  • Sex should be a vital part of a relationship.
  • Infidelity has been a historical issue, exacerbated by technology.
  • Trauma can significantly impact intimacy and trust in relationships.
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