October 23, 2019 • 28 mins
Champions Of Mind Podcast - Episode 230 - Happiness Workshop From Africa
Welcome to the Champions Of Mind podcast - game changing content from the UK’s leading success, mindset and motivational coaches Llewellyn and Rhys Davies and James Burtt.
This week we take you behind the scenes at our Happiness Workshop that James and Rhys delivered over in South Africa. This workshop was the girls of the orphanage that we support and the kids of the wider squatter community camp. This was a follow up session to a mini-training we delivered earlier in the year.
We used the time with the kids to highlight the importance of happiness, sharing stories that backed up how enthusiasm, self-awareness and a willingness to get through tough times gets results eventually.
This is part one of the session that we delivered - check back in for session 2.
And before you think, ‘well, this is training for kids, what can it teach me’ bear in mind that when we asked the kids to list potential obstacles to success they replied with things like violence, no money for school, no shoes, death of a parent and fear… so they might be kids but they have probably have more genuine life experience than most!
We would love to know your top takeaways from this episode, so let us know the lessons you’ve learned by tagging us on Insta Stories https://www.instagram.com/championsofmind/
For more tangible, actionable and usable mindset and motivational content head to the official Champions Of Mind website now via www.championsofmind.com
Welcome to the Champions Of Mind podcast - game changing content from the UK’s leading success, mindset and motivational coaches Llewellyn and Rhys Davies and James Burtt.
This week we take you behind the scenes at our Happiness Workshop that James and Rhys delivered over in South Africa. This workshop was the girls of the orphanage that we support and the kids of the wider squatter community camp. This was a follow up session to a mini-training we delivered earlier in the year.
We used the time with the kids to highlight the importance of happiness, sharing stories that backed up how enthusiasm, self-awareness and a willingness to get through tough times gets results eventually.
This is part one of the session that we delivered - check back in for session 2.
And before you think, ‘well, this is training for kids, what can it teach me’ bear in mind that when we asked the kids to list potential obstacles to success they replied with things like violence, no money for school, no shoes, death of a parent and fear… so they might be kids but they have probably have more genuine life experience than most!
We would love to know your top takeaways from this episode, so let us know the lessons you’ve learned by tagging us on Insta Stories https://www.instagram.com/championsofmind/
For more tangible, actionable and usable mindset and motivational content head to the official Champions Of Mind website now via www.championsofmind.com
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(00:04):
Welcome to the Champions of Mind podcast, weekly content to help you take your
mindset, business, health and wealthto the next level. Starring the UK's
post in demand action taking coaches Llewellynand Riese Davies with host James Burt.
(00:27):
You've been so give me a showof hands. Who is happy? Are
you? Stamp up? Beginning?Yeah? Everyone happy? Okay, because
you know, in order to achievesomething in life, if you want to
(00:50):
make money, if you want abigger house, if you want a naice
car, if you want to besuccessful at school, you are aware that
you have to be happy. Sowhat I can when I mail it Old
Tabby? Yeah, because yesterday Iwas looking at some people and you were
frowning. My wan, you lookyou look moody, moody, you look
(01:17):
sad. So you're not going toachieve anything. If you wake up and
you're moody, you're sad. Sohard and took achieve. If we're not,
it is third or what little moody? So this is what I want
you to think about, okay,on the scale of one to ten.
(01:38):
From one away over ten tennis feelingextremely happy, ten what Tabby and one
is really sad and miserable and oneyou love? Where are you today?
We're an old guy? Or more? Thank you? So what I wanted
to do is draw this down,and I wanted to mark where you are
(02:00):
Brian or LinkedIn when Adrian taking andyou mark? Are you doing a special
style like this? Everyone focused forme? They're playing around. I'm being
deadly serious today. I feel likeabout this sad house and let me house,
I fight, you run? Okay? Then everything done? Look at
(02:29):
it? Okay? So who whoput ten? Who's very happy? Can
might be then ten? Lane?Oh wow, doode? Is anybody sad?
Anyone sad? Shammy hands if he'ssad? Okay, this is good?
This is good to put five orless? Can might be then five
(02:50):
or the bads? Oh your pencilis a writing okay, let me get
another, Pam flows gonna wait forTibia to get a pencil. Okay,
okay, wicked. And what Iwant you to do now don't write,
don't as well? Is right down? Five things? One under their fan?
(03:14):
They five? That makes you happy? You san? Is it singing?
Is it dancing? I want toknow what makes you happy? Tabi
San, please make sure you're writingdown and I want to see is that
(03:36):
one like one? You write itdown? You didn't five yet? No
good woman? Okay, yeah sheput food food food food, so you
see? Yeah? And music yeahyeah, music yeah, of course of
(04:00):
course. Okay, one more minute? What's the till more? Where you
are there? Tell you what?What do you think makes me happy?
Getting one? An hour in themTabby's You can say food again, what
(04:25):
makes me happy? Getting m TabbySam? Thank you? Be in life?
Oh be belong. You always needto try and focus on what do
little concentrator focus. I wouldn't talkthe things that make you happy there don't
right down, don't tabby sum,but you also happy with camel it.
(04:48):
Need to practice doing the things thatdon't make you happy. We do a
little weirds until things on that Tabbyscene because this is life. Give up
paid unfortunately, go's what? Okay? So then what I want you to
do so I know about that youdo is think about your life or now
they and I I want you towrite down five things that make you feel
(05:12):
sad about all them too? Theirfive fits. There's Sam and some would
school please you're cool, They're sadtalk somebod cool Opus's I'm gonna get you
to share them about about don't doublebecause you know what ladies and gentlemen,
(05:32):
that's about my nay. You can'tgo through life orcas honor get their level
people without being sad. What's updouble some good school? It's packaging parts
of life, but give the partsthe double pe. We just need to
understand. We see what makes ussad, but give him what ail with
some school and that's okay and alreadypart of life. Go we pin what
(05:57):
makes me sad? Giving him whatthis? Then go some rooke have a
guess and go some choc guess Ifeel guys, guess I feel like game
with some foo what makes me sad? And I wading discob I'm nad and
what s no? You know whatmakes me sad? Went to be so
beat James in the game that waslike, Sha, do you know what
(06:24):
makes me really sad? But whenpeople are not happy and they're sad and
then make excuses and then by theexcluse, see where it's a baun.
Do you know that I slept onthe mattress well izing and I had to
steal food and then a good adiadid you know that? Not table?
(06:44):
And you know now I've made overa million pounds and only games a million
run da pounds from sleeping on themattress from roberta madrazing Robin food go to
making a million pounds, it's amillion pounds. If I can do it,
you can do it. If you'rea million bund over years, you
just have to work very hard.Coming a toad? Does that make sense?
(07:06):
Lo, this is everyone not atme. If it makes sense,
opously said, that's all it's that'sall good, good, Okay, Then
what are the what are the fivethings that make you sad? Then don't
put food again, Sam, Sowe're gonna put okay, we're gonna put
the five things down here, we'regonna write them down. So give me
(07:28):
the first thing that makes you sad? Okay, any a bunch of three
one, I'm thank you suffering,Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna take him
out. Can you some four morethings? Please? Thank far. Snipping
(07:50):
without eating has always said, yeah, well do well down so so being
hungry, Yeah, yeah, it'swry. Definitely, I'm not happy homeless
man, h do you know ortheater that's some of the most successful people
(08:20):
on this planet. More infortedly havefound all of these but whole to think
every single one about Safari the Follasucied that life been hungry massage. I'm
sixty to seventy percent, been homeless, sixty to seventy But that's not lap
(08:41):
that excites me. Yeah, I'mtab easy because are no excuses because I'm
not the excuse? Does that makesense? Sense? Fantastic things things?
They too happen that they do,but that's just seeing other people fighting fighting,
ye conflict. One more thing,please superstars and we're happing you start
(09:05):
up and we have okay, wehave abysil oh death, theft death death
(09:31):
death Yeah okay, then right,So if we look at these things,
I guess what can we do tochange these things? Game? Or what
must we do to accept them?So I'm gonna ask you a question.
(09:58):
Can we change so change? Oh? Yeah so that again? Yes?
Yes, yeah, yes yeah there. So I want to know give back
that m how do we change sufferings? N will change with him? And
(10:22):
I want some answers. Please getback the dance, back the dance album.
Yes, Fushia had money, sayloud money. It's truth, isn't
it? Okay? So I'm gonnawrite down money, But there's something that's
more important than minute. You don'twant to tell a body because I like
(10:45):
money. What's more important than uneygive him? Canna give me some love?
Can give me? You're gonna doit? Okay, so that before
working hard? What's more important thanworking hard? Close? Close, house
(11:11):
close, I'm gonna come to ina minute, prop education and win for
them to be fold to that propereducation close almost how healthy? No?
No? Can I give you myanswer? Fire two things, the two
(11:31):
debate you never forgets, and welive by kindness and love. Even agree
with me, men blaby men mmhmm, because you can be very intelligent.
Foreha liver. If you're not kindmada house are fun, it's not
(11:56):
good. They can have all themen in the world. I'm gonna tell
little fair, but if you haveno love in your heart, it's worthless.
Later makes sense. The kindness andlove is the foundation when you move
forward, respect, respect. Icompletely agree in h one more, one
(12:28):
more thing, but then we canprevent suffering. Please, I'm very part
of you. Sure anybody my lastcome come on, try try, try,
my young guys, please please understandthis right and when I used normally
(12:56):
I used have to rob food,you will ready, and I slept on
the match and then they give Icouldn't give up, Beau. It was
won't be here now next give upand I wasn't gonna get some more as
now I have more money than everyonein England, and England doesn't didn't give
up because as I'm gonna give up. So she's completely won, she said,
can can we call this? Youhave too faith faith me and you
(13:20):
don't give up? Does this makesense? So when you wake up?
Right? So I hold you onthe show and you've got holy shoe and
any that we faith? Okay,so please la? So my men,
(13:43):
well, okay, can we waitjust now? I mean too, can
we change you for your hungry China? Can wait? Okay, give me
some naps? Yes, yes,okay, okay, I'm gonna give you
(14:05):
a different answer if I am.We happened now yes and no? Yeah?
And a yeah? And what doI mean by yes and no?
You? Why do I mean killing? She said? It can happen or
(14:26):
it cannot. Thank you? Thankyou? So there, How do we
change so China? If we're hungry, change that we have no money?
We have no joby, we haveno food? What do we do?
(14:46):
Putdon make a garden? What happensif you can't make a garden? What
if I putter? Ask for howfanta? Please or bad? What else
(15:13):
must we do? Down? Yes, sir, I would so it's still
food. We done daddies, somy man, excuse mess ups? Yeah,
no up attention to me. I'mnot playing game. So it's stealing
(15:39):
food? Good or back? Sodynn h Yeah, it's bad, but
I understand because I've done it before. I understanding because the net so I
wouldn't recommend you do it, soget it. But I understand what somebody
one? So if you steal food? So how would bloody joke? Just
(16:00):
make sure no one's watching. Okay, so here's the thing he ento here
if we look at the first fivethings, I guess if you're hungry,
holla be what would happen if you'rekind to people? Fine? Now about
(16:25):
whoa? What did you say?We said you will receive? Does everyone
get away? If you're nice topeople? The shop? But for something?
Again? Does that make sense?Yeah? If you're hungry, if
you we can be kind to receivethe can write it down? Fat more
fat or come in on final orI get with it on a fact?
(16:56):
What was the second thing we talkedabout? You've already other. We don't
go again. Oh you can bemy writing. That's good. So what
happens we give out? Look,you will receive what god ton, do
you understand it? Why? Always? Because so many people that are hungry
(17:22):
by being in that are homeless's butthey're negative. Is not gonna get anything
I need to. I'm not IfTobasso comes and he's like this, I'm
not gonna give him lima funny.Why don't you get time to go where
this makes sense? If he comesmather had and he's smiling a smile and
(17:45):
he's happy, and that's happy.I said, hey, hey, bro,
do you want this makes sense?Work? And this is how life
works. Life? So you haveto deploy kindness and torn and in and
that's a fact and the need writtenit down for me little okay, okay,
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okay, if you look your fullshare at the full thing that I've
written down, we fucking want toshare. What is it? Okay?
Yes, yes, yes, Sowhat happens if we respect respect, pardon
(18:26):
it's so well done by If youdon't if people don't respect respect and they're
not nice to me and they havea nice one. I'm not spect I
get incident, what would I bending? Would that mean their wives? And
if people don't respect me unrespected initiallyrespect if they continue to and they haven't
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somebody told disrespect This is what dolfbye, I don't want you in my
bad So if you are hungry andnot tonally in your way bad tan.
If we continually show respect to you, some bad you're going to receive not
(19:11):
to She's how it works and whatI really want you to and then take
you by time to win my menand know I respect that your living conditions
is very torch some p. That'sthat's not a reason to show disrespect,
disrespect because sometimes when things are notgoing away and it's gonna win within twenties
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that ama thing from my own personalexperience, from one thing, you can
get very angry towards life, failfrom the pain and you hate people and
bad but you can't matter what Imean? Does that make sense especially to
the adults right? And that bitness? You know what? Guy always gotta
(19:56):
be nice and does that makes sense? Guys? Okay, I want you
to think us three questions to askme before I beforeward? Okay, do
you put tar three questions? WhatI needs three? I think winning with
(20:17):
him myself, even from the adultsgiven you the quote, men's like you're
looking okay, first question play okay? Question happen? Put up in?
Yeah? How did it start foryou to start stealing? What happened?
(20:41):
All it was is that I grewup in a deprived area in Coventry Country,
in Coventry in England, and myfamily had no money. And if
I'm looking an you have a choice, and then another choice, do I
staff can lap it or do Itake food? I wanted to take food
(21:03):
to eat and then but the firstopportunity I had, I gave it all
back. Not the food because Iat it, no I did, but
but the money. The first timeI went away to work in America,
I physically had to take food frommors reception because I had no man.
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And at the end of the trip, I gave it all back, and
I could see does that make sense? Because what I want you want to
pay massive attention men and my manis that at such a young age,
if you deploy and kindness, funrespect, you shall receive received food does
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everyone hear that? My man?Okay? So I want you to repeat
after me, very loud, love, respect, kindness we shall receive.
And again please love, respect,louder kindness. I'm from here, we
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shall receive most louder from here weshall receive. Thank you very much.
So then, oh question my inspirationin life. Please understand this inspiration.
(22:40):
I've said this for twenty years,like twenty years. Anything is possible.
Put it down on your paper.What I mean by this is can I
get you? I don't care whoyou are. I cannot do our room
where you are or a guy whoof you scared cal what you have or
(23:03):
what you don't have, give usnona. You can achieve anything or got
them bad thing. If mad,you believe in yourself, will believe.
That's it. And that's my epikon inspirational and the reason being and no
money. You know, if youwake up how to saying I hate hungry,
(23:27):
You're not gonna do nothing? Needsphered if you ever listen to relax,
you wake up and you're excited,how to what tabel you can achieve
anything you want or joy it.I'm I don't really get inspired by anything
life itself I can inspire life.I can I be really honest and transparent.
(23:52):
You inspire inspiring. And because Irespect that, it's a little bit
tough for you at the moment,and because I'm tired of following. And
that's why I come over here.Because even though I'm giving you back,
that's why I give you like I'myou, you will give me an awful
of wisdom and inspiration. Father wasshy lily inspirationing at them, and there's
nothing better than coming back and seeingyou will grow. And now I am
(24:14):
twit And that's Jenue what inspires me, you know, back where I'm from,
that's what I'm gonna get. Onething like business cars, money,
holiday day Disney And he didn't callthat gets boring really quick. They are
born, that's been defending. What'sreally cool. It's coming over here,
(24:37):
madam numb killing the hole now.And that's why I want you to know
that. People, I mean,I'm on James, only when you do
the work, madam singing, We'regoing to get that. Does that make
sense? Focus? Okay, Janewill get to take over in a minute.
Mate. Okay, one more questionor question from the adult from the
(24:57):
staff. That's gonna be have onnow. It's not a question as such.
Um. For me, I feelthat your story really it's actually inspired
because um, I grew up knowingthat as which people like obviously some of
us, because that obviously they camefrom very rich. Yeah they the money
(25:19):
and stuff. But after hearing thestory, I also followed your stories also
on face you and your brother,and when I went your story, like
I thought inspired that as we said, a lot of people we tend to
blame we are in Yeah, I'mwho are so people to become angry at
(25:41):
the world and the people of abrother part of the pan and I have
a chance. I grew up mymama's amas because my father is a past
so I grew up having a lotof love from them. I generally care
about the cloth, and I cansay much for my home, so I
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love of love I didn't even have. I hate that a lot of young
lame the situation that what you canyou can get up so true yourself and
(26:27):
not feting yourself when it comes fromand respect and sacked. Look like she
said, you know all I didget brought up on my publish finished school
(26:52):
of getting a lot brought up inthe house for a four winning four no
men around me. It was notchilling and by default, and I will
receive financial riches of the respect andthe love of the world completely with you
so wild, why don't you sharethat with me? So, guys,
James is going to take over now, so James don't go over again.
(27:15):
And James's got the fantask of figuringout what you need to do and the
James on happiness and the sadness andjust you, guys, James on what
it is you need to do withto be so every single week to every
way towards being happy, taking awaythe sadness. We go the areas of
(27:36):
your life and you defending some morelove, more kindness, and more importantly
some more respect. And then goto some respect. One second, my
friend, respect the two ways,expect, the fair, the tools to
the bid. It is firstly,you misrespect yourself, respecting that you need
(27:57):
to respect to this and I'll respectabout and they go hand in hand.
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Welcome to the Champions of Mind podcast, weekly content to help you take your
mindset, business, health and wealthto the next level. Starring the UK's
post in demand action taking coaches Llewellynand Riese Davies with host James Burt.
(00:27):
You've been so give me a showof hands. Who is happy? Are
you? Stamp up? Beginning?Yeah? Everyone happy? Okay, because
you know, in order to achievesomething in life, if you want to
(00:50):
make money, if you want abigger house, if you want a naice
car, if you want to besuccessful at school, you are aware that
you have to be happy. Sowhat I can when I mail it Old
Tabby? Yeah, because yesterday Iwas looking at some people and you were
frowning. My wan, you lookyou look moody, moody, you look
(01:17):
sad. So you're not going toachieve anything. If you wake up and
you're moody, you're sad. Sohard and took achieve. If we're not,
it is third or what little moody? So this is what I want
you to think about, okay,on the scale of one to ten.
(01:38):
From one away over ten tennis feelingextremely happy, ten what Tabby and one
is really sad and miserable and oneyou love? Where are you today?
We're an old guy? Or more? Thank you? So what I wanted
to do is draw this down,and I wanted to mark where you are
(02:00):
Brian or LinkedIn when Adrian taking andyou mark? Are you doing a special
style like this? Everyone focused forme? They're playing around. I'm being
deadly serious today. I feel likeabout this sad house and let me house,
I fight, you run? Okay? Then everything done? Look at
(02:29):
it? Okay? So who whoput ten? Who's very happy? Can
might be then ten? Lane?Oh wow, doode? Is anybody sad?
Anyone sad? Shammy hands if he'ssad? Okay, this is good?
This is good to put five orless? Can might be then five
(02:50):
or the bads? Oh your pencilis a writing okay, let me get
another, Pam flows gonna wait forTibia to get a pencil. Okay,
okay, wicked. And what Iwant you to do now don't write,
don't as well? Is right down? Five things? One under their fan?
(03:14):
They five? That makes you happy? You san? Is it singing?
Is it dancing? I want toknow what makes you happy? Tabi
San, please make sure you're writingdown and I want to see is that
(03:36):
one like one? You write itdown? You didn't five yet? No
good woman? Okay, yeah sheput food food food food, so you
see? Yeah? And music yeahyeah, music yeah, of course of
(04:00):
course. Okay, one more minute? What's the till more? Where you
are there? Tell you what?What do you think makes me happy?
Getting one? An hour in themTabby's You can say food again, what
(04:25):
makes me happy? Getting m TabbySam? Thank you? Be in life?
Oh be belong. You always needto try and focus on what do
little concentrator focus. I wouldn't talkthe things that make you happy there don't
right down, don't tabby sum,but you also happy with camel it.
(04:48):
Need to practice doing the things thatdon't make you happy. We do a
little weirds until things on that Tabbyscene because this is life. Give up
paid unfortunately, go's what? Okay? So then what I want you to
do so I know about that youdo is think about your life or now
they and I I want you towrite down five things that make you feel
(05:12):
sad about all them too? Theirfive fits. There's Sam and some would
school please you're cool, They're sadtalk somebod cool Opus's I'm gonna get you
to share them about about don't doublebecause you know what ladies and gentlemen,
(05:32):
that's about my nay. You can'tgo through life orcas honor get their level
people without being sad. What's updouble some good school? It's packaging parts
of life, but give the partsthe double pe. We just need to
understand. We see what makes ussad, but give him what ail with
some school and that's okay and alreadypart of life. Go we pin what
(05:57):
makes me sad? Giving him whatthis? Then go some rooke have a
guess and go some choc guess Ifeel guys, guess I feel like game
with some foo what makes me sad? And I wading discob I'm nad and
what s no? You know whatmakes me sad? Went to be so
beat James in the game that waslike, Sha, do you know what
(06:24):
makes me really sad? But whenpeople are not happy and they're sad and
then make excuses and then by theexcluse, see where it's a baun.
Do you know that I slept onthe mattress well izing and I had to
steal food and then a good adiadid you know that? Not table?
(06:44):
And you know now I've made overa million pounds and only games a million
run da pounds from sleeping on themattress from roberta madrazing Robin food go to
making a million pounds, it's amillion pounds. If I can do it,
you can do it. If you'rea million bund over years, you
just have to work very hard.Coming a toad? Does that make sense?
(07:06):
Lo, this is everyone not atme. If it makes sense,
opously said, that's all it's that'sall good, good, Okay, Then
what are the what are the fivethings that make you sad? Then don't
put food again, Sam, Sowe're gonna put okay, we're gonna put
the five things down here, we'regonna write them down. So give me
(07:28):
the first thing that makes you sad? Okay, any a bunch of three
one, I'm thank you suffering,Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna take him
out. Can you some four morethings? Please? Thank far. Snipping
(07:50):
without eating has always said, yeah, well do well down so so being
hungry, Yeah, yeah, it'swry. Definitely, I'm not happy homeless
man, h do you know ortheater that's some of the most successful people
(08:20):
on this planet. More infortedly havefound all of these but whole to think
every single one about Safari the Follasucied that life been hungry massage. I'm
sixty to seventy percent, been homeless, sixty to seventy But that's not lap
(08:41):
that excites me. Yeah, I'mtab easy because are no excuses because I'm
not the excuse? Does that makesense? Sense? Fantastic things things?
They too happen that they do,but that's just seeing other people fighting fighting,
ye conflict. One more thing,please superstars and we're happing you start
(09:05):
up and we have okay, wehave abysil oh death, theft death death
(09:31):
death Yeah okay, then right,So if we look at these things,
I guess what can we do tochange these things? Game? Or what
must we do to accept them?So I'm gonna ask you a question.
(09:58):
Can we change so change? Oh? Yeah so that again? Yes?
Yes, yeah, yes yeah there. So I want to know give back
that m how do we change sufferings? N will change with him? And
(10:22):
I want some answers. Please getback the dance, back the dance album.
Yes, Fushia had money, sayloud money. It's truth, isn't
it? Okay? So I'm gonnawrite down money, But there's something that's
more important than minute. You don'twant to tell a body because I like
(10:45):
money. What's more important than uneygive him? Canna give me some love?
Can give me? You're gonna doit? Okay, so that before
working hard? What's more important thanworking hard? Close? Close, house
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close, I'm gonna come to ina minute, prop education and win for
them to be fold to that propereducation close almost how healthy? No?
No? Can I give you myanswer? Fire two things, the two
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debate you never forgets, and welive by kindness and love. Even agree
with me, men blaby men mmhmm, because you can be very intelligent.
Foreha liver. If you're not kindmada house are fun, it's not
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good. They can have all themen in the world. I'm gonna tell
little fair, but if you haveno love in your heart, it's worthless.
Later makes sense. The kindness andlove is the foundation when you move
forward, respect, respect. Icompletely agree in h one more, one
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more thing, but then we canprevent suffering. Please, I'm very part
of you. Sure anybody my lastcome come on, try try, try,
my young guys, please please understandthis right and when I used normally
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I used have to rob food,you will ready, and I slept on
the match and then they give Icouldn't give up, Beau. It was
won't be here now next give upand I wasn't gonna get some more as
now I have more money than everyonein England, and England doesn't didn't give
up because as I'm gonna give up. So she's completely won, she said,
can can we call this? Youhave too faith faith me and you
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don't give up? Does this makesense? So when you wake up?
Right? So I hold you onthe show and you've got holy shoe and
any that we faith? Okay,so please la? So my men,
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well, okay, can we waitjust now? I mean too, can
we change you for your hungry China? Can wait? Okay, give me
some naps? Yes, yes,okay, okay, I'm gonna give you
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a different answer if I am.We happened now yes and no? Yeah?
And a yeah? And what doI mean by yes and no?
You? Why do I mean killing? She said? It can happen or
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it cannot. Thank you? Thankyou? So there, How do we
change so China? If we're hungry, change that we have no money?
We have no joby, we haveno food? What do we do?
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Putdon make a garden? What happensif you can't make a garden? What
if I putter? Ask for howfanta? Please or bad? What else
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must we do? Down? Yes, sir, I would so it's still
food. We done daddies, somy man, excuse mess ups? Yeah,
no up attention to me. I'mnot playing game. So it's stealing
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food? Good or back? Sodynn h Yeah, it's bad, but
I understand because I've done it before. I understanding because the net so I
wouldn't recommend you do it, soget it. But I understand what somebody
one? So if you steal food? So how would bloody joke? Just
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make sure no one's watching. Okay, so here's the thing he ento here
if we look at the first fivethings, I guess if you're hungry,
holla be what would happen if you'rekind to people? Fine? Now about
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whoa? What did you say?We said you will receive? Does everyone
get away? If you're nice topeople? The shop? But for something?
Again? Does that make sense?Yeah? If you're hungry, if
you we can be kind to receivethe can write it down? Fat more
fat or come in on final orI get with it on a fact?
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What was the second thing we talkedabout? You've already other. We don't
go again. Oh you can bemy writing. That's good. So what
happens we give out? Look,you will receive what god ton, do
you understand it? Why? Always? Because so many people that are hungry
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by being in that are homeless's butthey're negative. Is not gonna get anything
I need to. I'm not IfTobasso comes and he's like this, I'm
not gonna give him lima funny.Why don't you get time to go where
this makes sense? If he comesmather had and he's smiling a smile and
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he's happy, and that's happy.I said, hey, hey, bro,
do you want this makes sense?Work? And this is how life
works. Life? So you haveto deploy kindness and torn and in and
that's a fact and the need writtenit down for me little okay, okay,
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okay, if you look your fullshare at the full thing that I've
written down, we fucking want toshare. What is it? Okay?
Yes, yes, yes, Sowhat happens if we respect respect, pardon
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it's so well done by If youdon't if people don't respect respect and they're
not nice to me and they havea nice one. I'm not spect I
get incident, what would I bending? Would that mean their wives? And
if people don't respect me unrespected initiallyrespect if they continue to and they haven't
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somebody told disrespect This is what dolfbye, I don't want you in my
bad So if you are hungry andnot tonally in your way bad tan.
If we continually show respect to you, some bad you're going to receive not
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to She's how it works and whatI really want you to and then take
you by time to win my menand know I respect that your living conditions
is very torch some p. That'sthat's not a reason to show disrespect,
disrespect because sometimes when things are notgoing away and it's gonna win within twenties
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that ama thing from my own personalexperience, from one thing, you can
get very angry towards life, failfrom the pain and you hate people and
bad but you can't matter what Imean? Does that make sense especially to
the adults right? And that bitness? You know what? Guy always gotta
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be nice and does that makes sense? Guys? Okay, I want you
to think us three questions to askme before I beforeward? Okay, do
you put tar three questions? WhatI needs three? I think winning with
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him myself, even from the adultsgiven you the quote, men's like you're
looking okay, first question play okay? Question happen? Put up in?
Yeah? How did it start foryou to start stealing? What happened?
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All it was is that I grewup in a deprived area in Coventry Country,
in Coventry in England, and myfamily had no money. And if
I'm looking an you have a choice, and then another choice, do I
staff can lap it or do Itake food? I wanted to take food
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to eat and then but the firstopportunity I had, I gave it all
back. Not the food because Iat it, no I did, but
but the money. The first timeI went away to work in America,
I physically had to take food frommors reception because I had no man.
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And at the end of the trip, I gave it all back, and
I could see does that make sense? Because what I want you want to
pay massive attention men and my manis that at such a young age,
if you deploy and kindness, funrespect, you shall receive received food does
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everyone hear that? My man?Okay? So I want you to repeat
after me, very loud, love, respect, kindness we shall receive.
And again please love, respect,louder kindness. I'm from here, we
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shall receive most louder from here weshall receive. Thank you very much.
So then, oh question my inspirationin life. Please understand this inspiration.
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I've said this for twenty years,like twenty years. Anything is possible.
Put it down on your paper.What I mean by this is can I
get you? I don't care whoyou are. I cannot do our room
where you are or a guy whoof you scared cal what you have or
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what you don't have, give usnona. You can achieve anything or got
them bad thing. If mad,you believe in yourself, will believe.
That's it. And that's my epikon inspirational and the reason being and no
money. You know, if youwake up how to saying I hate hungry,
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You're not gonna do nothing? Needsphered if you ever listen to relax,
you wake up and you're excited,how to what tabel you can achieve
anything you want or joy it.I'm I don't really get inspired by anything
life itself I can inspire life.I can I be really honest and transparent.
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You inspire inspiring. And because Irespect that, it's a little bit
tough for you at the moment,and because I'm tired of following. And
that's why I come over here.Because even though I'm giving you back,
that's why I give you like I'myou, you will give me an awful
of wisdom and inspiration. Father wasshy lily inspirationing at them, and there's
nothing better than coming back and seeingyou will grow. And now I am
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twit And that's Jenue what inspires me, you know, back where I'm from,
that's what I'm gonna get. Onething like business cars, money,
holiday day Disney And he didn't callthat gets boring really quick. They are
born, that's been defending. What'sreally cool. It's coming over here,
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madam numb killing the hole now.And that's why I want you to know
that. People, I mean,I'm on James, only when you do
the work, madam singing, We'regoing to get that. Does that make
sense? Focus? Okay, Janewill get to take over in a minute.
Mate. Okay, one more questionor question from the adult from the
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staff. That's gonna be have onnow. It's not a question as such.
Um. For me, I feelthat your story really it's actually inspired
because um, I grew up knowingthat as which people like obviously some of
us, because that obviously they camefrom very rich. Yeah they the money
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and stuff. But after hearing thestory, I also followed your stories also
on face you and your brother,and when I went your story, like
I thought inspired that as we said, a lot of people we tend to
blame we are in Yeah, I'mwho are so people to become angry at
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the world and the people of abrother part of the pan and I have
a chance. I grew up mymama's amas because my father is a past
so I grew up having a lotof love from them. I generally care
about the cloth, and I cansay much for my home, so I
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love of love I didn't even have. I hate that a lot of young
lame the situation that what you canyou can get up so true yourself and
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not feting yourself when it comes fromand respect and sacked. Look like she
said, you know all I didget brought up on my publish finished school
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of getting a lot brought up inthe house for a four winning four no
men around me. It was notchilling and by default, and I will
receive financial riches of the respect andthe love of the world completely with you
so wild, why don't you sharethat with me? So, guys,
James is going to take over now, so James don't go over again.
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And James's got the fantask of figuringout what you need to do and the
James on happiness and the sadness andjust you, guys, James on what
it is you need to do withto be so every single week to every
way towards being happy, taking awaythe sadness. We go the areas of
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your life and you defending some morelove, more kindness, and more importantly
some more respect. And then goto some respect. One second, my
friend, respect the two ways,expect, the fair, the tools to
the bid. It is firstly,you misrespect yourself, respecting that you need
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to respect to this and I'll respectabout and they go hand in hand.
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