Cowboys and Cocktales w/ Kiara "Kiki Said So" Walker & Medinah Monroe

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Girl, I take a kick, yourseld girl, I'm going on
a date. And the only reason why I went on
the date you not realized.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
I mean I saw it on the map, but to
be in the space and realize how close I was.
That was my Birthday present and Christmas before the next
ten years. I'm recently divorced and I've decided to spend
the block on some d from college to re learn
my body. The initial slip took my breath away, long,

(00:30):
hard and thick. Six months of celibacy toss just like
my salad. Congratulations, yeah, yeah, Check one two, check one two.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Is this Mike going?

Speaker 2 (00:44):
Is this Mike going? Hey?

Speaker 1 (00:45):
Listen, man, it's the one and only trenks that the
DJ says.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
And you're listening to cocktails Dirty discussions with Kikia Medina Monroe.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
Here today's cocktail. It's called the lou Cowgirl. We are
stealing Cowboy Carter spirits over here, woo.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
The ingredients you need.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
To make a Delulu Cowgirl one and a half ounces
of Sir Davis whiskey, Hey point seven five ounces of
peach snops, one ounce of fresh lemon juice, a half
ounce of some simple syrup, and you're gonna top that
with some ginger beer. I love ginger beer garnish with
a peach slice or an edible flower. And here's how
you're gonna make a Delulu Cowgirl. You're gonna build over

(01:30):
ice in a tall glass or a Mason jar. And
I love a drinking a mason jar. It just gives
a character. Stir gently in top with the ginger beer,
garnish with your peach slice or your delusions, and enjoy
a Delulu Cowgirl.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Wooo yeah, guys, welcome back to cocktails, dirty discussions. I
am Kiki said.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
So, hey, y'all, I'm me Dina Minro.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Now when you taste your cocktail, I didn't realize till
I was putting it together. I forgot the peace snap.
So this one has extra ginger because there's ginger liquore
and the ginger beer. Do you have a favorite brand
of ginger beer? But I still like it? I think
now that I'm having this, the peach snaps might have

(02:15):
made it too sweet.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
Speaking of peaches, have you ever had a grilled peach? Yes,
Oh my god, it's so good and it.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
Just looks pretty indifferent.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
So favorite brand of ginger beer? I honestly don't know,
Like I feel like it's whichever one just be what's
the one in the little mini.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
I always get the one that.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
Be Q Mixer or fever Tree. Fever Tree also does
the glass bottle. It might be fever Tree where it
has a real bottle cap and then they have the
little bitty cans. But Q Mixers does the little bitty
cans too. I like several brands. Q Mixers has one
that's hibiscus and then they have like an extra spicy ginger.

Speaker 3 (03:01):
It's good. It's just so so tasty. That's really good.
L Yeah, uh huh.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
We are still sippingcer Davis. You guys real quick. We
have some announcements and then we'll do word sex and
then I'm gonna talk about Cowboy Carter for less time
than I had anticipated. I'm sure you're like, hey.

Speaker 3 (03:20):
You had a time at that concert.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
I almost had a fucking heart attack. But I'll tell
you all about that later. I do want to remind you,
guys to make sure you're checking out XOMAN. Thanks to
everybody who has already listening, subscribed, been sharing and all
this stuff. Why don't y'all start like posting clips like
just videos and stuff and tag me and tag them,
but especially tag me so I can repost you any

(03:44):
of your favorite parts, whether you're listening or sharing or
watching it or whatever. Yesterday the video dropped for Roscoe Dash.
That one surprised me. I really enjoyed that episode. And
then next week is David Banner, so so there's that. Also,
I will be in Dallas, Texas as a podcast movement conference,

(04:05):
the big one I'll be speaking at that. It's August
eighteenth through the twenty first. There will be a link
in the description with a special code so that you
can sign up and get a discount and come. If
you are interested in podcasting, whether you are talent behind
the scenes or whatever. If you have a business that
would be good for podcasters, if you are looking to
advertise on podcasts. They even have like free tickets for brands.

(04:28):
You just apply, and if you're a student, if you've
never been to a conference or whatever, they do even
have you can apply and they'll let you go for free.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
It's in Dallas.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
It's in Dallas at the Gaylord, that convention center situation,
so it'll be there. I don't know how long I'm
gonna stay I'm gonna see my family while I'm there.
I'm really excited about it. I was hoping I would
get to do this when this one is a big one.
I think it might be their twentieth anniversary or something
like that. It's like an anniversary. And I think that

(04:58):
they are based in Dallas and so they're having it there.
Everything is like super western theme. I'm trying to decide
if I want to wear one of my cowboy carter
fits or not. I probably will. If I don't wear
it when I speak, I'll wear it later. I was
also thinking about a business suit. I'm just gonna pick
something that Beyonce did and go with that. But if

(05:18):
you are interested in learning more about podcasting stuff, do that.
If you are in Dallas and want to connect, let
me know, and then sign up for the book club.
And also, you guys, we have content on Patreon. Now
we've got some new fresh stuff. If you are one
of the twenty seven hundred people who missed when we
was getting drunk and stuff, well baby I did. I
was tootsi rolling, I was rolling my booty and all

(05:40):
kind of stuff, even more than on the episode. So
Part one South this week, Part two comes out next week,
and then you know, we'll see what happens. A Phone
and Worst Behavior Tour December something. I'll put it in
the description box. You guys, come with me. I'm going
in December. You've got time. I have a promo code
it's Kiky, and use that whenever you're registering. It is

(06:02):
open to everybody. They have lots of different options for
your room setup and for payment plans. I can't wait
to see y'all.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
I love a good payment plan. Now cut the people.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
Out because paying a lump sum of money for anything.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
The girls that can do it great.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
Good for you, bitch. You gotta do a little spread
it out. Yeah, and it just makes you feel better.

Speaker 3 (06:24):
It does.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
I was gonna say something. You just said something that
made me think of something.

Speaker 2 (06:30):
But the conference, the book club, going to Dallas, seeing
my friends and family, Western theme, Beyonce.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
Suit I forgot.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
It'll come back. It'll come back. That's exciting, Kiki. Okay.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
A few of my announcements you guys again. Loulu's Legacy
of Love Foundation. I have been talking about this every week.
I hope you guys will donate if you can make
it to the Save the Tatas two point zero Breast
Cancer Awareness Walk October twenty fifth in Tampa.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
It is one of my very good girlfriends.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
She put on this foundation in honor of her mother
who passed away from breast cancer, and it is one
of the very few breast cancer breast cancer organizations in
the US that specifically dedicated to serving African American women.
It's a beautiful foundation. The mission is to bridge the
gap and care for minority women. So they help women

(07:24):
buy wigs, they help you get your mammograms, they help you,
they help women of color with what you might need
on this breast cancer journey.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
And they also have a walk.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
So if you guys are interested in donating or you
want to go to the walk and get more information
on how you can be a part of this, go
to Lula's Legacy of Lovefoundation dot org and do what
you can do, Send to a friend, and just continue
to help spread the word. I would appreciate it, and
so would she. Also my lover Girl's only trip men

(07:55):
are not allowed. We are going to Thailand. If you
did not get a chance to take the survey, but
you would like to still get information on the trip,
like when we're gonna go. How many people I'm going
to allow to go because I don't think I'm gonna
hit the I don't think i'm gonna do.

Speaker 3 (08:12):
Like a huge group.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
I do huge groups with Paradise and Vibe, which I love,
but I really want to connect with y'all. This trip
is one that's for the girls that have been heartbroken.
I'm not even gonna lie to you like your feeling's
been hurt. It was a rough year. The niggas w
was stomping on your heart and you just want to
have a good time. And so in order to connect
with you, I would like to keep it a small group.
So make sure you click the link in the description
so you can sign up for the email list and

(08:33):
stay up to date with that information.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
I would appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
And if you do want to come on a big trip,
you can still come to the Paradise and Vibratry. We're
going to Sedona, Arizona. It's gonna be great. August twenty
fourth to the twenty seventh. We have day passes available,
a virtual experience available, so go to Paradise and Vibe
dot com check it out and pick what's gonna work
for you. We do have Esa Ray as a keynote
speaker and I get to interview her, and I'm very

(08:57):
excited about that. So I hope to see you guys
at one one of our trips, whether you're going to
Worst Behavior to where you come into Thailand that's not
till next year, or maybe we'll see you in Ta Donas.

Speaker 3 (09:07):
So you guys check it out.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
Lots of options, lots of things to do, Okay, so
I'm gonna do we'd sex really quick and then we'll
get into the things for today.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
Asstsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.

Speaker 2 (12:49):
Hey, So this one is just a what the fuck

(13:18):
is even this?

Speaker 3 (13:19):
This?

Speaker 2 (13:22):
This story is about some damn prisoners and you guessed
it Florida, Miami to be exact, who had a damn
baby together. And I was like, what's happening? Okay, So
here's the story. Okay, two inmates and a Miami prison
had a baby together without ever meeting in person. Excuse me,

(13:45):
raggedy bitches, I'm sorry, and I thought jumping out, so
ai baby, No, it's a passer through the toilet baby,
I guess. Okay, Jon the past and Daisy Link.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
Somebody was hispanic.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
Guess I'm just saying, Okay, Daisylink are both locked up
for separate murder charges.

Speaker 3 (14:07):
Really be murdering people violence?

Speaker 2 (14:11):
I mean sometimes I've watched a lot of daylight. Sometimes
I see how people get there. Pokes the bear, pokes
the bear. Anyways, it's not okay, it's not writing, don't
you do it. They were locked up for separate murder
charges at Turner Guildford Night Correctional Centers. That is a
long name, and who is Turner Guildford Night. I wonder
what that person did or is it different people. I'm

(14:33):
gonna look that up later.

Speaker 3 (14:34):
That's the name of the prison. Mh.

Speaker 2 (14:36):
I'm guessing, well it's correctional center. I wonder if that's
like jail, Like you ain't really been sentence yet, because
I'm trying to figure out how two prisoners a man.
Oh maybe somebody's let's just keep reading. Okay, so they're
on different floors, they've never met, but they somehow still
found love. A way to make a baby through the
ac event. Okay, so not the toilet, but which would

(14:57):
make sense. It is water through the ace event. Here's
how it went down. Allegedly, they started talking by knocking
on the air vents and standing on their toilets to chat.
I have seen this on some of those lock up
shows where they're in the prisons, and they really do
be communicating and passing love letters and stuff like high school.

(15:18):
But instead of dusk to dusk, it's through the toilets
and the vents. And I'm like, such a creative brain,
why didn't we use this for something else or a
way to not get caught anyway, So they're passing it
through the air vents and standing on their toilets to chat.
The events also doubled as a delivery system, so they
started passing notes, pictures, and then sperm to pass. Oh yep,

(15:43):
I knew it to pass. Who identifies as mail, masturbate
it into serm wrap saren rap is like naha, get
in it several times a day for a month, rolled
it up like a cigarette and sent it down the
vent link who identified as a woman with then you

(16:03):
he's a yeast infection applicator to inciminate herself and guess what.
It worked so well they keep saying identify. I'm still confused.
Is everybody else confused with me. Okay, that's what I'm like,
because at first I thought it was gonna be like,

(16:26):
I'm like, but wait, because how is it? Because somebody
sent me this, I'm confused to Okay, let's see if
there's anything more. Okay, so they used the damn monasterat
thing to put it up there, and.

Speaker 3 (16:41):
Somebody is a woman.

Speaker 2 (16:43):
So but I'm confused why it's one facility. That's what
made me initially think this is like a jail, like
holding facility until you're getting sentenced, because sometimes they alternate floor.
It's like a dorm. I don't know. I got a
lot more googling. I guess I could have done that
before I came here in my bad but this ain't
no news reporting. This is just mess, all right. So
despite the Virgin Mary comparisons in calling it a miracle baby,

(17:05):
fertility experts say it's improbable but definitely not impossible. The
baby was born this summer.

Speaker 3 (17:10):
Damn or baby, cause where are you going.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
In the system? Sorry to that child anyway. One of
our listeners sent this in to us. Do you know them?
How did you even get wind of such a thing?
I would really like to know, and what is your
algorithm looking like.

Speaker 3 (17:29):
I really wish we could do an episode in a prison.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Oh wow, like the guests, you want to go in
the prison, just.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
Not like I don't want to get locked up, but
like I just think it would be so dope to
like get to know like a woman who maybe killed
her partner, and like they're like, you know what, y'all
can come in here, set a We got four or
four creators. They come, they set up the cameras and
we really interview her in prison. She's in her jumpsuit
and we're sitting here still doing cock because we make
a little cocked and we're like, girl, you kenana and
she's like, well I got some hooch and like she
made a little hooch.

Speaker 2 (17:57):
They're not gonna let that come.

Speaker 3 (17:58):
They're not gonna let that go down.

Speaker 1 (17:59):
But but I'm just saying, what that would be an
amazing conversation, Like what's.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
Why we gotta go down there? Because I think the
setting would just be she's not coming here now. I
don't want to.

Speaker 2 (18:09):
Risk obviously not she's in prison. We're free to go place. Yeah,
like we go I think this date twenty twenty or something, Girl.

Speaker 3 (18:17):
That would be great I wonder how we could make
that happen.

Speaker 2 (18:20):
You work on that and that be no girl, I'm
gonna put a pin in that.

Speaker 3 (18:27):
Anyway.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
That's it for weird sax. That is really weird and
I'm still confusion.

Speaker 3 (18:32):
That's wild.

Speaker 2 (18:34):
Is somebody let me know in case I forget or
remind me to google this because you know, my mind
be all over the place. Anyway. That's it. Y'all keep
sending it in the stories. I really appreciate it. Now
onto the show. Now, what what have you been up to?

Speaker 3 (18:48):
You know what? I have been.

Speaker 1 (18:53):
Really paying attention to my body, Okay, paying attention to
my life, taking care of I mean.

Speaker 3 (19:03):
I've been trying to take care of myself. I'm not
gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
I've been trying to take care of myself, mental, physically,
all the things that you're supposed to like hit. I
went home this past weekend to go to a funeral
and that was rough.

Speaker 3 (19:17):
Funerals are always like you really gotta.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
Die, Like every time it had way around it, there
is ain't no way around it, and so every time
it happens, it's like wow. So one of my childhood
best friends who were still really close her dad passed away,
and so I stopped everything and went down there. And
I thought this was really interesting because when I walked
into the wake, I wasn't I'm from Arlington, Texas's.

Speaker 3 (19:42):
I never thought it was small, but maybe it's small.

Speaker 2 (19:43):
It's not small because Arlington is a major suburb. I
remember learning this. Y'all know I'm full of random facts.
It was like one of the biggest suburbs that did
not have public transportation because when we were in high school,
which was I mean it was only yesterday, but you know,
over three hundred thousand people lived there.

Speaker 1 (20:02):
It ain't small, especially just when I go home and
see people, it'd be feeling small because it's like people,
some people really never left. And that's what it's always
so interesting to me. It's not good or bad, it's
just interesting. But when I got there to the wake
fresh off the plane, my.

Speaker 3 (20:19):
Girlfriend Sharina was like you came, and I.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
Was like, bitch, yes, Like well, this is a big deal.
Like I might not be able to make it to
all the things. I might not be able to come
to your birthday. I might not be able to do
the things. But Sharena is one of those She's like
a staple friend in my life, Like it doesn't matter
how much time goes, you know how you have some
friends where you've known them, they knew you in life
when you weren't like you were a kid, and so

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those friendships always remain for me. It's like, like I
would never not show up for you, especially in a
moment like this when you're we both used to be
getting in trouble by your daddy, like what like weeds to.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
Be like that's somebody you had a relationship with.

Speaker 1 (20:58):
Yeah, like mister John had a huge part in my life.
And so she just kept saying, like, I just really
appreciate you for coming, and I was like I would
not have had it any other way. It doesn't matter
what is going on, I'm coming, Like I'm gonna be
here for you. And it was just one of those
moments in our friendship where you get to see if
you always say this, like the people that show up

(21:18):
for you when it's not like the birthday party or
the fun it's not the fun stuff like and it
was a lot to like I had to stop a
lot to like come, and I would do it all
over again because that's what you do when you care
about people and that's rough, like you know daddy, Like
she's a daddy's girl. It was just it was a
beautiful experience that we got to connect and hang out
and I got to see other people from high school,

(21:39):
and I was happy that I could be there for
her because it was rough, and meet all of her
children again in like the new one. She got a
bunch of them and rekindled with her mom. And just
like see other people, like I said, other people from
high school. And then something about funerals. I think we
talked about this before when your granddad passed away. Was

(21:59):
when you you go to a funeral, you get to
hear about the beautiful moments of someone's life that you
they maybe didn't tell you about because it's like no
one would just be like, hey, do you know how
many people have influenced Like if someone does say that
it's weird, no one's gonna talk about it you funeral.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
And probably don't.

Speaker 3 (22:12):
Yeah, no one likes you.

Speaker 1 (22:14):
And so hearing like all the people that mister Johnny
had impacted in his life, and one of a lot
of people got up there and said, and this is
what I've always said, The way that he loved his wife,
Sharina's mom. Everybody was like, the way that man loved
his wife. Like some men were like, that's why I
did business with him. He loved his wife so much.

Speaker 3 (22:33):
And you can trust him, and you can trust him.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
And one pastor got up there, because mister Johnny was
a pastor also, he got up there and said, uh,
Johnny gave the type he loved so hard.

Speaker 3 (22:46):
What did he say? I thought it was I was.
He was in there crying. He said, Johnny gave.

Speaker 1 (22:52):
You his aw in love and then when he didn't
have any more, he would go search for some more.
I was like, that is so beautiful. Just really have
that type of like just that type of.

Speaker 3 (23:09):
Love in your life.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
And I like a lot of people, especially like our generation,
I feel like it's very I won't say it's impossible,
but I do think that it's a little bit more
difficult to find men.

Speaker 3 (23:21):
And I say men not.

Speaker 1 (23:22):
Because a woman shouldn't love, but I say men because
at the end of the day, in my world, I
do believe that the way the man runs the household
dictates how everything's gonna go. And so you kind of
set that the man sets that standard. And so like
when a man loves his wife so much. It was
just it was a beautiful thing to witness, and I
was glad I could be there, very sad, but also

(23:44):
got to reconnect with some friends and went on a
little date talk about the little.

Speaker 3 (23:51):
Could up.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
That text almost wreck. I don't know if I was
driver or not, but I screamed or so. I was like,
what the hell we a girl?

Speaker 3 (24:02):
I said, girl, I'm going on a date.

Speaker 1 (24:04):
And the only reason why I went on the date, Okay,
I'll just tell you now, was because I was like, Okay,
I have been feeling very beautiful. I'm not gonna lie.
I've been feeling beautiful and like not like in a
uh like a physical way, but just like a feeling it.
And if you've ever been like yeah, and like if

(24:25):
you've ever been down bad ever, I'm talking about damn.

Speaker 3 (24:33):
I'm talking about everything just down.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
Like everything's just like you look like Mary J. Blige
does now when she has to perform, just upset. Hate
to be here. It's going I'm going down, baby, my
whole world upside down. I don't want to be here.
My clothes don't fit. I just want a cheeseburger and
a hot dog.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
I don't even want to be here, like I'm just
coming out of the darkness, like for real, oh, y'all,
I don't. I've been blessed to not look like what
I have been going through and I and I will say, like,
I've just been blessed and I look like that.

Speaker 3 (25:09):
So I was like, you know what. I was talking
to my sister and I.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
Was like, like, I want to I kind of want
to start dating, like I know, I said the whole
year the year thing, but I was like, Okay, let
me try this back home. So there was somebody we
went to high school with. He owns a restaurant in Dallas.
I'm gonna send you the information, and I had already said.
I was like, hey, right, I hit him up and said,
did you tell me you own a restaurant? And I
can't remember because I was like, I'm gonna have a
free day and I'm gonna I was gonna just go.

(25:36):
I wasn't asking him to nothing for up. Yeah, I
just didn't know where check out your bists.

Speaker 3 (25:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:40):
I was like, I want to go check out your spot,
and I'm really excited, And honestly, I thought I was
gonna be ghetto, and so I was like, I don't
want nobody to come with me food. I wasn't sure
and that's why, so I hit him up. I was like,
can you send me the information? He's like he sent
it to me and I was like, oh, there's a
real restaurant.

Speaker 3 (25:54):
I said that to him. He was like, what did
you think it was?

Speaker 1 (25:56):
I said, I thought it was going to be Parsley
on the plate and he was like, it's not a
Parsley insight and there is no hooka, so you could
you could.

Speaker 3 (26:02):
It's a good it's a nice restaurant.

Speaker 1 (26:03):
It's American bistro and a lot of seafood and it's
called the Charlotte.

Speaker 3 (26:09):
And I was like, okay, I was coming and go
support you. I'm really proud of you.

Speaker 1 (26:12):
And then he ended up being like, oh well, like
I was gonna go with you, like I wanted to
go with you.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
And I I got nervous. Bach I was like why
you know?

Speaker 2 (26:21):
I was like, what do you mean? Why you know? Why?

Speaker 3 (26:24):
Why? Why would you like?

Speaker 1 (26:26):
I take him like I'm being weird because I ain't
talking to no man so long. I was like, why
should I let him come?

Speaker 3 (26:31):
And Mecca was like, yes, it's like it's.

Speaker 2 (26:33):
Just eating some food, and quite honestly, it would be
even more awkward because it's his goddamn restaurant. What if
he was just there and then he just looking at
you and every time you look up and you see
him looking at you, and he really want comes to
down and just did you did you really want to
sit there and eat alone? Are you just scared?

Speaker 3 (26:47):
Because I going like just going support and he was
like yeah. He was like, actually I would like to
take you. Let me be clear, let me take you.

Speaker 2 (26:56):
Hm. He thank you.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
Okay, Okay, He's liked what time were you gonna go?
Like I was gonna go at seven thirty. He was like, okay,
I'm sending you a car.

Speaker 3 (27:04):
I was like, Kiki, I went he sent the car.
I was stressing. I was talking about my sage was like, Pudina,
I was so stressed.

Speaker 2 (27:15):
What was stressing you?

Speaker 3 (27:16):
Because I was like, is he sending the car?

Speaker 1 (27:18):
Because he's because now it's going to be like now
you're coming home with me and you're stuck and we're
having sex.

Speaker 2 (27:22):
And I was you got a phone and you can
get your own.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
But I just went to the left and I was
just like, is he gonna think that, like I expected
this to think that that's why I hit him up.
I don't want them to think that that's what I
was doing. I'm trying to not pay for my.

Speaker 3 (27:33):
Food and I paid for my food.

Speaker 1 (27:36):
Anyways, we went and when we were sitting there, I
was like, I'm weird.

Speaker 3 (27:39):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
If you've ever gone a date with me, then you
do know it starts off very weird until I warm
up and because I was like, is this a date?

Speaker 3 (27:46):
When we got there and he was like, I mean
I wanted to be a day. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:51):
He was gonna like, well do you think it's a date?
And I was like, well, I don't know what to think.
And I thought it was very It was just like
he was a gentleman. He was a gentleman.

Speaker 3 (28:01):
He was I was.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
It was just we had a really good time and
he was like, I've been listening to the show and
I was like, and he was like, and so if
you wanted to be a date, I would like for
it to be a date, but if it's not day,
I get it. He's like, I've been listening to the
show and I heard you talking about what you just
went through. I'm not trying to pressure you into nothing.
I just wanted to let you know that you were
my you know, high school crush.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
I like, mister class mate, I'll see what you're doing,
and I support I said, wash out now, yeah.

Speaker 1 (28:31):
And we had a really good time, had some really
good conversations and having the food.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
The food was good and right, I might have to
slide through when I come next month. The food was good.
And no, way isn't in Dallas.

Speaker 3 (28:42):
It's in Dallas off of Henderson.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
Well, I don't remember the streets. I just wanted to
make sure it wasn't nowhere too too far like play.

Speaker 1 (28:49):
No, no, it's in Dallas, like Dallas. And so that
was my little date and it was very My mom
was blowing my phone gold and get hount to like
one o'clock in the morning because well then afterwards, like
he was like, well then this why I didn't want
to over.

Speaker 2 (29:03):
Cuse nice restaurants don't close. No one I am.

Speaker 1 (29:07):
So then we left and we did go to his house,
and I had fallen asleep, but it was very innocent.
It was very innocent. And I had told me, I said,
you are such a gentleman. You ain't trying to not nothing.
He was like, I'm not like that. Like he was
like if I didn't know you, I would have. But
I'm like, oh, okay, well thanks for respecting.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
He definitely didn't want the ship to be talk right here. Okay.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
So so that was the little day, little food, little drink,
little movie, little little you know, and it was I was.

Speaker 2 (29:31):
Like, okay, outside of like how you felt about him
just being on a date, how did that part feel?
And how do you feel now? Like would you have
another day? I don't even feel safe and comfortable? No,
why not?

Speaker 3 (29:47):
I don't think so.

Speaker 1 (29:48):
I think I felt comfortable doing it in Texas because
I'm not gonna see him again, you know what i mean,
Like it just like it is what it is.

Speaker 3 (29:53):
I'm not doing no longer. He was going home, Yeah
I'm going home.

Speaker 1 (29:56):
This was great, like cool and uh, but like back
in it, I still don't think I'm ready.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
I still don't think I'm ready.

Speaker 1 (30:04):
Somebody had reached out, and it's funny because I'm starting
to get things blurred, like I'm like, do you want
to buy.

Speaker 3 (30:09):
A house or do you want to go on a date?

Speaker 1 (30:11):
Like I'm like, somebody hit me up the other day
and I did give him my number, and I was like, oh,
I thought.

Speaker 3 (30:15):
You wanted to just talk about real estate. You want
to go on a date.

Speaker 1 (30:20):
I'm so I'm now trying to figure out how I
can utilize this, Like I'm like, okay, we're gonna go
on the date. I'm gonna slide you a little like
it's gonna be a buyer's consultation.

Speaker 3 (30:27):
Mm hmm. You're gonna what you're trying to do.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
Trying to make a purchase? Yeah, what kind of purchase?

Speaker 1 (30:34):
Yeah? Or do you know somebody who's trying to Cause
I'm I'm not dating, so I don't know what we're
doing here eating Yeah, and it maybe it maybe could work.

Speaker 2 (30:48):
I don't think so. I think you should just say
no here. And I think you need another phone, or
at least another number. You don't have to get a
whole new phone, okay, you can get just another number
that goes to that phone. So then you know, and
you give out that number for real estate. Okay, so
when people call it, you know, and that's it, and
it's easier to ignore them. But that's good that you

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don't want and you did good and I did good.

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Okay, let's let's see how this goes. Moths.

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But when I was telling you, let's go to the
party on Saturday, my trainers having a birthday party, and
I am kind of excited to just like see.

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So it did make me think, this is kind of
like y'all know, I'm real quick to go real left.
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Speaker 3 (34:22):
Kiki, this was so special.

Speaker 2 (34:24):
She used to always be like, I don't really want
to own a house. I'm like, she don't really mean that.
I got to change your mind, girl, the.

Speaker 3 (34:31):
Whole I keep saying this.

Speaker 1 (34:33):
I'm like, wow, Like when you go to real estate school,
you don't learn nothing that you actually need in the field,
and like it's like while you're learning all this stuff,
and it's like then you get in the field, you're
really a therapist. There's a part of it that's like
a therapist. You gotta know how to negotiate. But it's
also like you are people's therapists because what it is
is you have to change people's mindsets.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
And just about what though about like like what what
they think they can do.

Speaker 1 (35:02):
And realizing that you're making money, you're not in a
you okay, you did You've done your taxes right, yes, okay,
you're not in any your your credit card debt is
the worst debt if you if people are always like,
my credit is bad, that's fine.

Speaker 3 (35:17):
People with bad credit buy houses all the time.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
Now it depends on what is bad and everybody assumes,
and you don't know for a fact on what what
are what can you do and what can you not do?
He was like, I just I just know I can't.
I don't think I can't. And that was the funny thing.
It was like when Lex hit me up one night
was random, she hitting me up late one night.

Speaker 2 (35:34):
To so you're like, oh god.

Speaker 1 (35:37):
She was like, yeah, you know, I gotta movie, I
gotta be out in this amount of time, and you
think you can have me find a rental mm hmm.
And I was like, I don't like doing rent tools.
I didn't say that out loud because it ain't no
money for real.

Speaker 3 (35:49):
It's like reason if I do it, like if I
know you.

Speaker 2 (35:53):
It's a lot of work. But I'm that's not money.

Speaker 3 (35:56):
It's a lot of work. And so but I will
do it for people that I know and love and want.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
And it's like okay, I said, okay, well I'll send
you stuff, but you have you ever thought about buying
lex Is? Immediately I got three dollars and I'm not
and I'm not doing it and I don't have enough time.
I was like, well when is your release? I was like,
you got more than enough time, but you could close
in two weeks. If everything is how it needs to be,
you could close in two weeks.

Speaker 2 (36:17):
Do you find that a lot of people the whole
it took a long time thing is really because they're
very indecisive and don't find what they want versus they
don't have their ducks in a row.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
Everybody is different.

Speaker 1 (36:30):
Some people, it could be like you don't know what
you want and you're listening to like there's actually somebody
else who's a part of your decision making process and
you're not letting your real I tell of the purchase.

Speaker 3 (36:44):
This is what I tell people, though.

Speaker 1 (36:45):
If if we're going around looking at houses, first of all,
traffic is bad and gas is expensive for both of us.
Sweet baby, if it's somebody else that's going to help
you make this decision, let's just all be honest. If
you know you're gonna run it by your mom, your boy, whoever,
I don't care who it is. They need to come
here with this because there's no point. And we go
on to look and you're like, I love it, and
then I don't know, You're going to talk to your
mom and your mom's like, well this is she need

(37:07):
to come because this is dumb, Like this is we
need to just get this out the way now. But
that wasn't what That wasn't Lex's issue. It was like
she was just like, no, I can't. I can't own
a home. It's too much. It's too much. It's just
too much. Responsibility. And then I'm like, what you mean
responsibility And she had said some of the things that
I've heard people our age say, where it's like, well,
I want to if something breaks, who gonna fix it? Well,

(37:29):
if something you know who I like having. I like
having the person that you can just call and they're
just gonna come.

Speaker 3 (37:34):
And I was like, yeah, have a friend.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
The types of places that you live in, the type
of money that you're spending, you could have a place
where you don't have to do this alone. Your real
estate agent, it's still with you after the transaction. You
need if something breaks, let me know.

Speaker 3 (37:45):
I got you.

Speaker 1 (37:46):
I'm gonna send somebody. Connect you to somebody that's gonna help.
You need the floors done, I got you. You need
somebody that you need a handyman, I got you. You
need an electrician?

Speaker 3 (37:54):
I got you.

Speaker 1 (37:56):
So it's like, and this is actually going towards you
own something like bro that just isch like, it's just like,
we don't you don't think like that. She was like, well,
I don't think it cold happen that quick. I was like, well,
let's not think letting let me connect to somebody. Let's
just see which I mean it was the way that
it happened. I was just so proud of Lex, even
my lender, like she was like, I love her, like

(38:19):
I love Lex eleven. I was like we everybody just
learned so much. She was like, I really didn't think
I was gonna get approved. And I was like, that's
the thing. You can't just be like I think you
don't know to know, yeah, because you just don't know.
You need to talk to a professional to see what
on your credit is bad that can actually stop you
from getting a home.

Speaker 2 (38:36):
A lot of people don't have credit and they confuse
that with bad credit. Not saying that's her, that's not her,
but like some people don't have anything. That's a little
different than everything get charged off. Yeah, everything is in collections.
You know.

Speaker 3 (38:50):
It worked out.

Speaker 1 (38:52):
We went She told me what she wanted, and honestly,
this was my what's this my first time finding the home? No? No, No,
that one point three million dollar client he thought he
knew what he wanted and then he ended up picking
a house that.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
I had picked for him.

Speaker 1 (39:04):
Because you really have to get to know somebody, and like,
Lex on me everything she wanted. She thought she wanted
to live in a condo, I was like, you don't
want to live in a condo and she was like, yes,
I do, and we went to look at condo.

Speaker 3 (39:11):
She was like mm hm. I was like, I told
you it's expensive.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
It's a certain type of person that really wants to
live in a condo and just waste money like that,
And we were looking really getting to know, like what's
important to you? Real estate is really it is like therapy,
It really is, because you're people think that they know
their big why and then you realize they don't know,
and then you help them figure that out, like why

(39:35):
is this important to you?

Speaker 3 (39:36):
Why do you need to.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
Live like here? Like have you ever thought about here?
And what are you doing this for? The right reasons?

Speaker 3 (39:43):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (39:43):
Like, let's just go see and it's just it was
a beautiful experience to work with someone that we've worked
with in podcasting and then to work with someone like
on the business side of real estate and be trusted
because there was a part of this of me pivoting
into real estate where it was like nobody's gonna take
me seriously, Like who's gonna work with somebody that'd be

(40:04):
talking shit on the internet all day?

Speaker 3 (40:09):
Like who would do that? Like, will they think I'm smart?
Will they do they know that?

Speaker 1 (40:13):
Like I have done so much continued education during this
time to really make sure that I can help the
people that need help, which I thought I was gonna
be do everything luxury, but really what I realized, what
I like is like, I want to help you believe
that you can own a home. It's not that hard
and you don't know what you're talking about. So let's
talk to somebody who does m let's and watch it

(40:35):
work and watch God work and watch like this whole
Like everything about me and Lex working together was just beautiful,
even to the when we were at the closing, we
cracking jokes left and right.

Speaker 3 (40:45):
People are really looking at us, like y'all are really funny.
It's like, oh, we'll see, like we also like do this,
like like it was just such a good time that
this seller.

Speaker 1 (40:54):
You never really meet the seller. The seller was at
the closing and she was taking pictures with us. The
closing attorney that I love working with, he was like,
I mean, we just had a time. It was such
a good time, and like I'm just so proud of
her and proud that could be a part of it,

(41:14):
Proud that her mother could be a part of it
and spirit and.

Speaker 3 (41:19):
It was amazing. So I don't know where I was
going with it, but.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
I said I brought it up. I actually brought it
up for a different reason. But I'm proud of both
of y'all because that's really good. And I texted me
Dina earlier, but I just really love this phase that
you're in, and I like seeing you do something because
outside of podcasting, I would say, this is something that
you actually seem to care about. Like flight being a

(41:43):
flight attendant was cool, yeah, because you get to go play,
but she wasn't trying to be a career flight attendant,
you know, And so it's just it's cool to see
you in this space and see you be passionate about something.
And it's also something where you're helping other people. It's
not charity work, it's other stuff, and it's like something
that you can really do for as long as you

(42:04):
choose to. It's good. But I thought about it because
when I was looking at y'all's pictures and you have post,
I was like, God, damn, this bitch is skinny. I
got to hit the gym.

Speaker 3 (42:12):
Somebody else said it.

Speaker 2 (42:13):
Somebody was like magna. Yes, seven people have said it
to me, people here, people who are not here, but
people who have seen you. You're looking good. Girl. I
don't you what the secret is, but I already know.
That's why I said, I gotta get in the gym
because I got a chip. But Babby, I ain't looking
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out and I was like, oh, I can put this on.
Iin't gonna look good at her, know, but I can
put it on because they used to not be able
to get up.

Speaker 1 (48:44):
The more like the more weight I am thinking about
up in my dulcis the more weight that I lose. Like,
my titties look new, it looks another fresh like addition, I'm.

Speaker 2 (48:54):
Like, maybe want some titties too. When it was in
the hallway, I was like, and then you turn to
the side and disappear and all we saw was titties
and your butN. I was like, yeah, I gotta give
me some titties. I mean, oh well yeah, I mean
they don't sell titties.

Speaker 3 (49:09):
They don't sell out titties.

Speaker 1 (49:10):
But if you've been sad and fat, pick one pickle.

Speaker 2 (49:15):
Hair falling out. Everybody always talks about men's hair loss,
but I saw somebody talking about women's hair loss. All
you girls are scared to have little girls. I've been
hearing that the boys we be making y'all ball headed,
Rumma Edges. Is that true? A lot of people I
know are ball headed a rumma Edges. My mama was
fine before when she had all her beautiful queens that

(49:36):
she forgets about sometimes. But I guess it's not so
bad that she figures out me. I talk a lot
of shit, so it's even. But Josea took some of
that hair out. One of my aunts took some of
her hair. Well, both my aunts, yeah, took some of
their hair out. They had boys. Who's that little girl
with the big eyes that was on Disney Channel and
she had a baby with that little ghetto looking back.

(49:56):
I'm sorry, Chucky. He looks like Chuck, like a big
talk Chucky.

Speaker 3 (50:01):
Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (50:02):
Scott Jackson, she was just on the internet talking about
how her fell out after she had her little boy.

Speaker 3 (50:09):
Now, now this is what I've heard.

Speaker 2 (50:10):
She's old enough.

Speaker 3 (50:11):
I've heard baby.

Speaker 1 (50:12):
If you have like it could be distress, but also
it could be like your diet. Like some people don't
realize like what you ingest can also like especially if
you're about to have a baby.

Speaker 2 (50:24):
Well this is during the pregnancy. Yeah, And and babies
take your news.

Speaker 1 (50:27):
They're taking so if you're not really like over indulging
in the nutrients that you need, like that can also
play a part in like it's just why you bought
hit it.

Speaker 3 (50:34):
Like, I guess not.

Speaker 2 (50:35):
Gonna be mad to be pregnant with the boy. He
takes my hair, and he probably gonna be balled before
he even gets all the way grown, like before he's thirty,
because y'all be born anyway. They got nothing to do
with life x or anything going on in my life.
But I just noticed it, and I wanted, well, it
did have something to do with life ur X. If
you are one of those bad people were talking about
woman or man or in between whatever you're true, can

(51:00):
had some supplements to bring that hair on back. Hey,
why got why had we ball?

Speaker 3 (51:03):
Do?

Speaker 2 (51:04):
Look options out here in this world?

Speaker 3 (51:07):
When you look good, you feel a little better.

Speaker 1 (51:10):
It maybe doesn't fix every problem, but you feel better.

Speaker 3 (51:15):
I've been going through it.

Speaker 1 (51:16):
If I would have also been going through it fat
and ugly, it's just and I have.

Speaker 2 (51:20):
Gone through stuff, feeling fat and it feels worse, right, Yeah,
it was definitely fat. Some days I was ugly and
some days I were better. Those were better days. It correlates.

Speaker 3 (51:31):
Just I'm just saying pick a struggle.

Speaker 2 (51:33):
Mm hmmm, we're saying he was not struggling, that is
Queen Beyonce. But who was struggling with me? So I
went to a concert, amazing time I'd already been so
it wasn't you know, the first time on Cowboy Carter.
But she did have that new horse with the rim
things on the side. I forget what those are called.
I'm sure somebody's gonna let me know. No, it's like

(51:57):
like how the cars in Houston be having them with
the poky things. It had that like on the horses
hips and light I guess shoulder. I don't know what
you call them. Horse parts. Anyways, a big giant golden
horse that she was in the thing with. I was
disappointed because I told y'all I went to Houston. She
didn't sing sixteen Carriages. I love sixteen Carriages. I've loved

(52:17):
it since it came out. I wasn't really playing Texas
Hold Them. I went to hear sixteen carriages. Oh, that
song just resonates. I did not realize. I mean I
saw it on the map, but to be in the
space and realized how close I was. That was my birthday,
present and Christmas before the next.

Speaker 3 (52:35):
Ten years there.

Speaker 2 (52:37):
Everybody was there. Everybody was there. One of my friends
who went with us, and shout out to her because
she initially bought the tickets and everybody paid her back.
So thank you for being rich, friend, and thank you
for the cam flat. I appreciate you nurses getting money.
We went and she was saying how because we went

(52:58):
on night too. She was saying, how you know ninth
three and nine four had jayc Beyonce has a song
called My House Who they came to see me. That's
how I felt. I don't need to see anybody else.
I mean, if you choose girl, it's your show. I'm
just here getting excited.

Speaker 3 (53:13):
I do. Look.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
I was in row for very close to stage. When
she does that sacred part and she sits up under
the like the hair dryer looking thing. We locked eyes.
She looked at me, she saw me. She was looking
at me, like put that hat back on because I
got so hot I was I was overheating you guys.
I took my hat off, Dre. I put it. I
posted a real I've been making content, y'all gotta go

(53:33):
check out my page. My sister been on it.

Speaker 3 (53:35):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (53:35):
But I took off my hat because I thought it
was gonna pass out, like pass out from excited, no excitement,
like I was overheating my heart was something. If I
had on my Apple Watch, it would have been doing
the alert, like checking her eye. I was just like, no,
I can't, and she's like, you are shaking my arm.
I'm getting content. So I was like, okay, Drea, are

(53:56):
you okay? Because at first I can't really see nothing
for real. I'm looking at the screen. I'm fine. I
couldn't really see shit for real, and she wasn't right
in front of me. But I didn't realize how much
time she was gonna spend there. I'm still not over it.
I probably should not have a Sir Davis, shouldn't have
had a Sir Davis pregame because some parts got blurred.
But I was just so excited. I was dancing. I

(54:17):
was getting my life home, stepping on everybody's feet. I
kept taking his hat off. Dre kept saying put that
shit back on. And it's important to have friends like
that who were like, but she looked crazy and stop,
just calm down and stop. Tiffany had to fan me.
I had to sit out. At one point, I was like,
I can't take it. I might have to excuse myself.
Dre had walked out with me. I have never had

(54:38):
that level of excitement. And then every time I see
a Beyonce documentary, a concert or anything, I always leave
feeling really inspired. And that's the other part. It's like,
whether you like her or not, I don't care. Don't
tell me because whatever.

Speaker 3 (54:55):
Don't tell me either, and don't put it in the comments.

Speaker 2 (54:57):
Yeah because bye, and you can be blocked. But all
jokes aside whether you like her or not, when you
see somebody who is really like on top of their shit,
like sometimes when I watch the sports and stuff, I
don't be caring about them. I've aged out of thinking
I might be able to snag one one day that's
over for me. Like maybe I get your daddy, maybe
you give him enough allowance. I don't know. But whenever

(55:22):
I see her, I just feel inspired. And when you
see somebody who's doing something that they obviously love and
that they are passionate about and that they're putting their
all into and they still seem to appreciate those who
appreciate them. That is inspiring and it just adds a
little extra Sometimes when I'm feeling down, when I'm feeling
stuck in a rut, I'm feeling unmotivated, I'm feeling like

(55:42):
everything I do is just black. I've watched Life Is
But a Dream or another Beyonce philm I wish I
could watch Renaissance, but it's not available Anyway. I did
that and it was great. It was also really cool
to see somebody who actually has a legacy to pass
out and see that happening, like seeing her daughters be
there and seeing them work. And then I was just like,

(56:04):
I wonder what it's like to grow up and like
this is your mom and you don't know anything else,
but this is your mom, but she does all these
great things. And it's like you might run into some
probably not, but you could run somebody like me. It's like, oh,
my mom doesn't do that. This isn't normal, Like everybody
doesn't live this life. Everybody's mom isn't performing in front

(56:27):
of seventy thousand people and like people are making signs
about you like it was weird. It was just cool
to see and see how excited they get, see how
excited other people are. And what I also like about
a Beyonce concert is how much people like put into
the effort of their outfits, no matter how it comes out.
Is it's just cool to see. It's so many people,
and then it's just like being there, it's like everybody's

(56:49):
having fun. I heard there was a fight. I didn't
see it because I wasn't turned around.

Speaker 1 (56:52):
You're seeing it's somebody in the Atlanta show. Somebody broke
into a van and stole the music, And I was like,
is that true?

Speaker 3 (56:58):
Did you see that?

Speaker 2 (56:59):
I saw that what I would like to and.

Speaker 1 (57:01):
Everybody to do with the music, like she's gonna know,
they're gonna know that's the music, Like what are you
gonna do with it?

Speaker 2 (57:08):
It's just dumb, and we need all hands on deck
to catch these low down, dirty scan scoundrels. I would
do a citizen's arrest. I got some handcuffs. I don't
know how easy there to get out of because they
are for sex. But you know, we need to all
turn into Texas rangers and get them. I just wanting
not too like is it real? But I mean it

(57:28):
was a reported on like news. Yeah, I just think
it's crazy.

Speaker 3 (57:32):
I understand what the car was parked on cross Street.

Speaker 2 (57:34):
I think they probably ran in to get something to eat.
This is something that I've learned about people oftentimes, and
this is a cautionary tale if it is all true.
Oftentimes people see a nice neighborhood, a gentrified neighborhood, or
just at least seven white people, and they feel safe
and they think everything is okay. And Atlanta these which

(57:54):
is steal the kids, the grannies, everybody. If you think
somebody is in a wheelchair for real, they might be,
but up underneath this shit, they've been stealing all fucking day.
I'll never forget. I hadn't even been in Atlanta six months.
Somebody walked into two five five and stole my gud
damn phone and.

Speaker 3 (58:12):
It was cracked.

Speaker 2 (58:13):
We don't even want this phone. I was working at
two five to five. They asked for some water. I
didn't really want to give it to them, and it
made me even more mad because I want to got
water for them. And then raggy plastic cups it went
back and they had ran off with my phone and
there I am. Anyway, it was a great experience. If
you can go in Vegas, because that's all that's left.

(58:34):
I hope that you can. And I think that this
is my new personality. Until the rock album comes out,
I don't know. Well, that's what the people are saying.
Act three is so we shall see. I think I will.
I'm ready for it. I'm excited. We'll see. If you
guys haven't gone, you should go. I would not advise

(58:55):
making this anyone's first concert ever, because then what else.

Speaker 3 (58:59):
Will you do?

Speaker 2 (59:00):
Shows that she had two in Vegas? You want to go?

Speaker 3 (59:04):
They're only in Vegas.

Speaker 2 (59:05):
That's the last two, the twenty six. It's after your July.
It's about to be over. Like That's what I was like,
do you want to go? It's two more shows? Because
I was going to go. I had text me I
had already been, but I was just like, I will
go the weather yes, And she was stuck.

Speaker 3 (59:22):
When did you get back yesterday?

Speaker 2 (59:25):
What time we could have made it yesterday? No, not yesterday,
yesterday was too Tuesday? Oh yeah, yesterday it was the
last show.

Speaker 1 (59:35):
No, no, no, When did I get I got back Sunday. No,
I got back Monday morning.

Speaker 2 (59:39):
Oh yeah, we could have made it. I don't know.
The days are lending anyway. If y'all went, I hope
that you have as amazing of a time as I did.
I'm still in shock.

Speaker 3 (59:51):
I love that you got to do that. And I
love Beyonce. I can't wait to see her when she
does her next situation. And so she's touring again.

Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
She already told us you know she is.

Speaker 3 (01:00:02):
And then one day Blue gonna take the torch and I.

Speaker 2 (01:00:05):
Mean she's already doing all the dance news for her
and little Roomy. She's a hoot. I want her to
be in movies.

Speaker 1 (01:00:13):
Sometimes Ms Tina be looking like I mean, sometimes she
is looking like, I wonder what jay.

Speaker 2 (01:00:19):
Z is Surby doing. They probably be fucking tired, these
girls running around here boom cat and alling around Roomy
doing all kind of stuff. They had Beyonce doing a
little dance that the people do I'm talking about Inna. Yeah,
I was say, oh, that's so cy. I had to
learn what it was. I was like, what are Blue
and what's her name doing? And roomy?

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
I just wonder what Beyonce does on a regular day
when she doesn't have a show and she doesn't have
anything to do, Like, what does she just?

Speaker 2 (01:00:42):
I think she gets her feet rubbed?

Speaker 3 (01:00:43):
You think so?

Speaker 2 (01:00:44):
I think she has a lot of sex. You do
think Beyonce is a nasty girl when she like go
home and listen to rocket and speechless on your right home,
You're gonna be like, now, wait a minute, just the
way that she sings about sex and how much she
loves that. Man, I think she's a nasty girl. Well,

(01:01:08):
and I know how it is to be like you.
I mean, y'all don't know this, but with other people
I can pretend to be or kind of mask certain things.
But I know I'm gonna cut up later when it
comes to sex, back when I was having more sex.

Speaker 3 (01:01:25):
We love you, Beyonce. I don't know if you listen
to cocktails maybe you do.

Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
Have you ever heard of it? I know you saw me.

Speaker 3 (01:01:31):
We're drinking a drink and we love you and it's
good too.

Speaker 2 (01:01:35):
I love it. The Sir Davis is good. Y'all need
to get it. I would suggest actually going to the
shorter purchase because usually I begin the stuff, like you know,
I love to get everything delivered. Leaving the house distracts
me so much. With the markup on these apps, I've
been leaving more. They are getting carried away one hundred
and on an app not in the store, So that

(01:01:56):
is the store doing an extreme markup.

Speaker 3 (01:02:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:02:01):
I was like, I know, you fucking line. Let me
get in this car and going down the road anyways, okay,
so okay, So I went to Beyonce almost had a
heart attack. My friends had to fan me. I my, okay,
what is a drug that you would do where you
feel really really good? And then the comedown is like

(01:02:23):
night and day. It's just like horrible, Like you were
just like probably math a crack. Huh.

Speaker 3 (01:02:29):
I never did math or crack, well, not.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
That you know from experience. And I started saying that.

Speaker 3 (01:02:37):
I was like, you'll know, I didn't know because.

Speaker 2 (01:02:39):
I was like, what not something that you did just
you heard about it or maybe you saw it all right, Well,
I don't know what it was, but that come down
Mollie when people.

Speaker 3 (01:02:52):
Were doing MOLLI I think the comedown was bad. Yeah
what happened? I think you're just exhausted.

Speaker 2 (01:02:57):
And like, I mean, if you got to sleep day irritable,
angry Madam I want to pop somebody in the head.

Speaker 3 (01:03:04):
I mean, well, I think alcohol does that to some folks,
so it.

Speaker 2 (01:03:11):
Was different than alcohol. Well anyway, I just I was
asking that because the high of being there. When the
show was over, I was sad and we did have
to leave eventually, I got somebody out.

Speaker 3 (01:03:23):
I was mad.

Speaker 2 (01:03:24):
My feet was hurting. These boots was not made for walking.
I was ready to go. I was just it was
just like, this is over. What do I have to
look forward to now?

Speaker 3 (01:03:33):
Hmm what.

Speaker 2 (01:03:37):
I don't know. I'm still waiting on the answer to
that question. I'm just sad. I want to look and
I'll get on spirit. I mean, sometimes you got to
it's a long ass flight. So that's all the way
across one hundred of them, seatstone lay back.

Speaker 3 (01:03:53):
You could do it for Beyonce twice.

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
I don't know. I don't know if I could, But anyway,
that was my Beyonce experience. Shout out to everybody else
saw there. The costumes were great. Y'all did great.

Speaker 3 (01:04:07):
I weirdly wish I could have gone. I'm glad you.

Speaker 1 (01:04:10):
So we'll save the rest of our topics for next
week's episode, and when we come back, we have some
advice to read for you guys, and then we'll head
on to to cocktail.

Speaker 2 (01:04:46):
All right, you guys, we are back from Indecisive Diana.
It's time for the advice. If you have a question
that you want us to try to help you out with,
email us advice at cocktailspod dot com and make sure
you put advice in the subject line.

Speaker 3 (01:04:59):
So this one is titled Am I doing too much
for a one night stand?

Speaker 2 (01:05:03):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
Heyka Keimmedy. First of all, I love y'all. I've been
listening for years and y'all have gotten me through some
wild dating phases. Okay, here's my dilemma. I'm going on
vacation soon and I already know I want to have
a hot girl.

Speaker 3 (01:05:16):
Moment, she said, a moment, naw, a summer a moment.

Speaker 1 (01:05:20):
There's this man I've been texting who lives in the
city I'm visiting, and the vibes are giving vacation smash.
I've already booked a wax bought new lingerie, been drinking
chlorophyll water and on debating. No, you only steam and
a wax buttthole. God damn mash, am I doing too
much for a man? I've never met in person, like

(01:05:42):
I'm excited, but also I don't want to be disappointed again.
And part of me feels like if I prepare less,
it'll be good, but that's always how it goes. Please help.
Should I give this my full effort or just let
the dick find me?

Speaker 3 (01:05:56):
Signed? Hot and over prepared?

Speaker 2 (01:05:59):
Uh waitsens she doesn't know that she's seeing him.

Speaker 1 (01:06:06):
No, she knows she's seeing him, she's never met him before,
like in her.

Speaker 2 (01:06:11):
I think the overthinking part is doing too much. I
think you just do your appointments though, because what you
don't want to happen is you get there and you
realize like, oh, he's actually pretty cool, he did nice,
thoughtful things. And then you sitting there with the fucking
bush down there and that's not how you like to be,
and you're not feeling confident, and then you're in your

(01:06:32):
head about stuff. Whatever you want to do. I wouldn't
do no yoni steam. I think that might be but
a wax or whatever. And when you're begetting wax, you
don't get your.

Speaker 3 (01:06:40):
Boody all wax like a Brazilian.

Speaker 2 (01:06:43):
It just feels like somebody look at my eyes. That
part feel good when they would put the warm one.

Speaker 1 (01:06:47):
I'm never going to tell you not to over prepare
when it comes to like that, just because like I
personally just like it to be just in case I
don't want it to be because first experience, like, don't
do that to me. I won't do that to you.

Speaker 2 (01:06:57):
Yeah, don't show up with wolf pussy unless say your thing.
But have fun and stop being in your head. Do
the things that you want to do. If you if
the script was flipping you were a man, what would
you want a woman to do in terms of preparing
her physical body for you and what you want her
to be overthinking about fucking nothing? So like, yeah, anyways,

(01:07:19):
good luck. Hopefully you can send us a cocktail after
you see him. Okay, now we're gonna move on to
the cocktails. If you have a cocktail that you want
to share, please send it to us. The email is
cocktail Cocktails at cocktailspod dot com. Uh huh uh, but

(01:07:44):
I can't. I won't come. How don't mean you think
is it some catch in the place that it is?
Somebody sat.

Speaker 3 (01:07:55):
Once upon a time not long ago.

Speaker 4 (01:07:56):
I was.

Speaker 2 (01:08:00):
Okay, let me get through this quickly.

Speaker 4 (01:08:03):
Hi.

Speaker 2 (01:08:03):
Kiky a Medina loved the growth, the outfite per episode,
and the wisdom over the years. Welcome all right, faithful
listeners since the beginning, and I love y'all dearly. Let's
get into it. I'm recently divorced and I've decided to
spend the block on some d from college to re
learn my body with someone I actually felt like I

(01:08:23):
could be myself around. Okay, I was in my head
a couple of days ago leading up to my dick appointment,
so I said, what would Kiki a Medina do? Would
we do? I pulled up in some sexy lingerie under
a little sun dress with my I'm curious to know
cars in my purse.

Speaker 3 (01:08:38):
I noticed, right, you better have your a Medina kid.

Speaker 2 (01:08:41):
Mmm hmm. We're sitting on the couch making small talk,
and all I kept thinking was was the dick really
hitting in college or was it convenient thatck question.

Speaker 3 (01:08:51):
That's a huge gap.

Speaker 2 (01:08:53):
Mm hmmm. He could have learned some things and some
people be stuck in their waist. Okay, I confidently pulled
the cars out of my purse and we get to
lie thing, reminiscing and answering the questions per card. Then voila,
would you like to end this game and have sex.
I love when that one comes up and I looked
at him and I said, oh, of course. We make

(01:09:17):
our way to the bed. I let my dress drop
to my feet, revealing my lace one piece. He takes
my double d's and starts licking and kissing my collar, ball, neck,
my lips. Oh. He lays down on the bed and
props me up on his face and goes to work.
Oh the head was so good, sucking on my clip gently,

(01:09:41):
going in and out with his thumb in my butt, whisperings, damn, girl,
you taste so cool. I'm moaning, not trying, trying not
to slip up and say my ex husband's name. Out
of habit being with somebody, I just always say nobody's name. Alright,
I faintly let out, Oh, yes, now it's my time,

(01:10:05):
n Shane. All right, girl, what you're gonna do? I
started giving him head and he's moaning, grabbing my hair,
telling me how, telling me he loved how sloppy I'm
getting with it. He puts on a condom and slides
it in. Love the safe sex there. The initial slip
took my breath away, long, hard and thick. That man

(01:10:27):
started talking in my ear and missionary so good. I
thought about all the nasty shit I want to do
in the future. You're gonna cream on daddy's dick. Oh shit,
this pussy so wet, just like I remember. You should
just start singing. Say my name, Say my name? All right?
He turns me around and was balls deep while choking

(01:10:49):
me doggy styles, saying relaxed, I'm gonna say good carry you, y'all.
The way that man made my body feel it was
worth the wait. He finished seven to ten minutes later.
We cleaned up, and he walked me to the car
and told me to call him at any time if
I needed some dick. I will be taking that man
up on his offer. Six months of celibacy toss just

(01:11:12):
like my salad. Congratulations girl, because fuck that ex husband.
And I'm glad that you had a good time.

Speaker 3 (01:11:19):
Me, sir, I'm glad you had a good time. You
have no regrets?

Speaker 2 (01:11:22):
Yes, okay, you guys. Thank you so much for tuning
in to another episode of Cocktails. Please be sure to
check the description box for the links to everything, And
remember we did post part one of a Patreon video.
Part two will come out next week and then we'll
have some more stuff. We'll try to live some life
or something. I don't know. We gotta get out of
the house before it gets gold again. Yeah yeah, yeah, none.

(01:11:45):
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(01:12:05):
and make sure you're following us on Instagram together. We're
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coffee Beandean And until next week, you guys, goodbye.

Speaker 1 (01:12:18):
Goodbye, bye bye bye bye b by relations, Goodbye.

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