EP. 448 "Soft Launches and Hard Lessons"

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Yeah, yeah. Check one two, Check one two. Is this
Mike On? Is this Mike On?

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (00:06):
Listen man, it's the one and only Trunks that a
DJ sis and you're listening to cocktails Dirty Discussions with
Kikia Medina Monroe.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Yeah, today's cocktail it is called truth Serum. The ingredients
one and a half ounces of tequila Blanco, a half
ounce of Contra or Triple sec a half ounce of
fresh lime juice, tiny splash of cranberry optional, It's just

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for color, and then you're gonna have a lime twist
as a garnish. So here's how you're gonna make it.
You're gonna pour your ingredients into a shaker filled with ice,
shake well straight into a coop glass, and garnish with
that lime twist. And that is truth Serum. You ever
told somebody the truth?

Speaker 1 (00:55):
Yeah? Lies? It just depends, you know. You know how
people always say, like when you drink, and I named
it because I'm like, oh, this is my kind of
drink is mostly liquor. There is a little lime juice
in there, and I guess if you add that cranberry.
But they say that like when you're drunk, drunk mind
speaks like you're sober. Sometimes that's true. I don't believe

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that trauma Tabby line and living in my fantasy. It's
a whole lie.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
And it's like your brain doesn't actually know what was
and it's like some.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
Yeah, possessed and that's why they call this spears. I
don't know who that girl was. I've never seen that
girl a day at my life. I'm sorry for that girl,
but it's been a long time since I've had like
a really bad, drunken bad episode where like I went
off on people couldn't remember that sort of thing. Thank
God for growth. Yeah, it doesn't feel good, and it's

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like when everybody's recapping, you don't want to hear it
because you know something ain't feeling right even though you
don't know, and you gotta trust what the people tell you.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
I always wonder, like do sometimes when someone can't remember
what happened drunkenly, like are y'all adding extra shit into this?

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Like once you know, yeah, she was that fucked up
we gone jazz, and.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Yet she really doesn't remember, and then everybody just keeps
adding more and it's like and you can't even say
a nothing because you don't.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
You don't know. And yeah, anyway, Auntie, don't do that
no more, thank goodness. But anyways, welcome back to cocktails.
I'm Kiki said so, and I am Adina Monroe. Hey, y'all,
what you got coming up for the summer? Have?

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Oh well, this some stuff is coming up for the summer.
But I was gonna ask you what I have coming
up as an appointment. And I'm really into skincare. Y'all
know that I do not play my my skin. And
any type of beauty hack that there might be that
can be somewhat natural, even if it's a little, you know,
a little extra something. I'm gonna get micro needling. Have
you ever done it?

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Thoughts? I liked it, you did like it was uncomfortable, uncomfortable,
like it hurts. I wouldn't call it a flat out hurt.
It's uncomfortable, like uh, like okay, you know when they
used the needles for botox or like even I would
compare it more so to like your eyebrows getting your
eyebrows done, like microcheading or micro blading. So it's more

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like that they will put numbing stuff on you sometimes.
But I'm like that shit, I never strong enough. I
can feel, but it's just like uncomfortable, not unbearable, it's
just like and then afterwards I felt like my skin
was sensitive. But the results I got, I was like, oh,
I should do it again. Never did it again, but
I liked it.

Speaker 2 (03:29):
Okay, Okay, I'm gonna try it.

Speaker 1 (03:32):
And so I'm excited, Like I just makes you want
to do it because your goal we're.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Fresh skin, Like just im just as fresh as the
skin can look. Because I do think like, even though
I take really good care of my skin, I also
put on makeup and do all this stuff, and so
sometimes there's like a level of healthy skin that you
can get to where like it just shines even through
the makeup slowly. Yeah, very glowy, sodient, radiant. I'm just
going through a little going for a radiant look. And

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I never did it, so I'm.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Like, let's see what this, what's gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Yeah. I love a good beauty and handser. I am
not against any of them.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
So I'm excited about that.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
Have Paradise and Vibe coming up in August August twenty
fourth through the twenty seventh, we will be in Sedona, Arizona.
We have an amazing program lined up an amazing line
of guests that are joining us, including Easter Ray.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
So if you would like.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
To come, go to Paradise and Vibe dot com and
tell them I sent you and I can't wait to
have a little turn up slash healing session with you.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
I'm excited about Beyonce. Oh yeah, So my sister is
gonna come, yeah, Mallory to Atlanta for the Atlanta show.
We're going on July eleventh and with some of my girlfriends,
and we have been talking about outfits. Her husband bought
her the tickets and then such a good husband, what

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oh yeah, I ate a little extra poort the rest,
not the rest of the tequila, the rest of the spicy. Anyways,
he bought her the tickets, and she has been to
a Beyonce concert. Matter of fact, she missed a Renaissance tour.
But I think that the last Beyonce concert she went
to she went with me and it was in I
want to say, it was in the old Georgia Dome.
Maybe it's a Formation tour. I don't know, but we

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my mama bought those tickets, so we had noseweeds, but
it was still great to be in the building energy.
So this time he was like, well, how much the
chickens cost. I was like, well, how much you want
to spend because I want to buy them together, so
make sure we can sit together. So you got the tickets.
We're on the floor and I've never sat on the
floor for a Beyonce concert. I've been in the one

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hundred level because I'd be nervous about being short and
am I going to be able to see? And one
thing I love about a Beyonce show is like all
of the visuals that she has and so it's like
it's really I mean, you want to be closer, but
it's not a bad seat. There's so much to see,
so much to experience. It just feels so great. So
last time I went, I was very low in the
one hundreds and it was great and I kind of

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liked it because you could see the visuals better. But
I'm excited because we're gonna be on the floor. And
then if you haven't done this, I'll give you a
little hack. So whenever the tickets were going on sale
initially and everybody was buying them, some people bought resales,
some people bought regular. If you bought your ticket and
you want to exchange it. They have more tickets available
in some places. I guess maybe I don't know why,

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but you can exchange your ticket for a closer seat
if it's the same price, and if it's not the
same price, you just paid the difference. So we were
able to exchange our tickets for closer seats and there
was no price difference, and I was like, Oh, this
is even better. I'm just very excited. We got to
get our looks together. Outsideide. Yeah, outside of that, I

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think that I don't have anything planned exactly, but I
have been working on a plan to go somewhere. I
really wanted to go on the Paradise and Vibe trip
and I went and I was looking at I was like, Okay,
can I do it? Can I do it? But I
think it's the dates that don't work because I have
a conference during that time. But I don't know. It
ain't over till it's over. I still go all the time.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
It ain't over, and it still isn't over. You know
where the movie that's from the Notebook.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
Oh that is a good movie. But yeah, so if
I don't get to make it on Paradise and Vibe trip.
I still want to go to Sedona. I still would
like to experience it. It's been on my list, so
I may go there. And then I was thinking about
my birthday and I had why is it that time? Well,
it's damn near three months away, you know, and if

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you're going to do something and really plan it, I
don't like a good plan, even if we vera I
just need a plan. It's like a safety and that
it makes me feel good. What are you thinking I'm
doing for your birth time? I don't know. So somebody
else brought it up and I was like, oh, I
should think about it. I would thinking about doing a
sister's trip. We'll see, And you know, I love my
favorite little island here is out, but I want to

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go to some other places, so we'll see. I was
thinking about Granada or Ganada. I don't know how you
pronounce that. I thought, okay, we'll go with Granada. I
was looking at that, and I was looking at Majorca, Spain.
I need to check the weather and see what is
giving during that time of year. And where else? Was
I saying about Columbia and Mexico. So I got a

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lot of options, but I need to narrow it down,
or maybe I'll just be right here. I don't know.
We'll see. I'll keep y'all posted. But I want to
have a good birthday. I would like to celebrate and
celebrate with people and eat good food. That's what's most important,
next to the people. The good food.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
Yeah, I forgot. In July, I'm going to the Sarah
Jakes conference and she's doing it in Atlanta this year.
I'm so excited Carla will be She's on the media team,
and I am just like, I'm excited.

Speaker 1 (08:47):
I want to meet Sarah Jakes so bad, Like I
just I just.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
I feel like it could happen. I feel like it
could happen, and I just need her to know and
I just love her so much. But I haven't even
thought about my birthday.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
Yeah, I mean, it does seem far away, but it was.
It doesn't, but it's really not. But like time fly,
it's just crazy. It's ei think you want to do
something big or lucky.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
I have an idea of something that I would like
to do for my birthday. I'm not going to share
it because I don't have it all panned out yet,
and it's a it would be a surprise for other people.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Oh, but that's it is.

Speaker 2 (09:23):
It's it's a thing that I have been wanting to do,
but I want to be able to do it in
the way that I would like to do it, and
it's a very specific way. And so y'all need to
find somebody to buy this condo that I have listed
because that would fund it of my DMS.

Speaker 1 (09:39):
If you know somebody that wants it. It's in Atlanta, Georgia,
the Atlantic ex Atlanta. Niggas be looking good in there.

Speaker 2 (09:45):
It ain't good, I said, Well, I said, hey, I
need to probably experience that pool before we sell this thing.

Speaker 1 (09:51):
Let's have a pool day. That might be great.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
But speaking of birthdays, it's so funny that you said
you were thinking about your birth because I was thinking
about my birthday and what I would like to do
and hopefully I.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Can do it.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
But last year for my birthday, somebody's son. Really like,
have you ever had somebody ruin your birthday?

Speaker 1 (10:08):
Yeah? It does not feel good. This is do you
feel like this? It's like that is the one day
that is truly just yours. You ain't got no twin nothing,
It's just your day. It's your personal holiday. Christmas to
be about the damn kids, thanksgivings, about who makes the
best mac and cheese a potato salad and who didn't
fuck up what? Hey.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
I love birthdays, like even if you're at odds with
your partner, like the birthday is just not the day
to do this. And I say that not because of presence,
not because of anything like the material. Somebody didn't make
their birthday this year, and to create an atmosphere where
and I literally said this to him anyways, but for

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somebody to create like an atmosphere or bring up an
issue on a birthday, to me.

Speaker 1 (10:58):
That is just what the young people say. That's crazy work.
That's crazy. That's another one of my phrases. I love y'all.
Keep them cup, tell me some more what the kids
we said, because I love that. That's nasty, nasty work.
That's what they say. My bad I misstep. That's nasty.
It's nasty work.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
It's nasty work, and I'm just nasty say it because
it's like I just feel like you gotta keep reminding
the don't mess up people's birthdays.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
Like don't do that, like, just don't do it. It
is not nice. I am someone where it's like.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
I'm gonna celebrate you on your birthday even if you're
on my I'm talking about like partners, if you're together.
It's like, you really want me to just remember my
birthday and be like, wow, last year, you really messed
up my birthday in a way that is just like not.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
Okay, Like it's like, oh, you hate me, you hate me.
That's immediately how I feel. And then I won't say
what I would do.

Speaker 2 (11:48):
You know, when you start to come out of you know,
when you start to come out of the heartache from
the heartbreak and you start to see the truth because
there's a large portion of like you just are like
really hard on yourself.

Speaker 1 (11:58):
The awakening where you start to look back and be.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
Like nig I took you to Fiji, South Africa to loom.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
I wasn't gonna say it, but I shove up and
thinking it like you've got some motherfucking nerves and even
around the United States of America around them have you
lost son Toronto, Look, we became international girls. Even before that,
I took you on a train.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
Ride like ooh, I don't I don't play about birth
like I just feel like that ain't the time it's
not the time. Put it aside. Again, everybody doesn't. It's
not about money, it's not about Everybody doesn't make the birthday.
All I wanted you to do was wake up and
make me some fucking breakfast.

Speaker 1 (12:43):
Had you in their pity pack pitipack baker's man making
goddamn biscuits. I was concerned. And that wasn't a birthday,
And that was just on GP. Just because you start.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
To wake up damn pancakes, you start to wake up
french toe, you start to wake up perky bacon.

Speaker 1 (12:59):
Now I eat poor bacon. Yeah, times have change, motherfucker.
I know that's right. You had beef baking. I'll never
have to beefake. Well, girl, I might have to bring
you some beef bacon. It's good. I don't, oh, it's good.
What does it look like? It looks like pork bacon,
but it's beef.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
Now, you know what's interesting. So while I will nibble
on a little pork bacon, I can't. I haven't brought
myself to be able to buy it at the store
and make it because I'm nervous.

Speaker 1 (13:19):
It just gets too bubbly and greasy. You didn't cook
it in the oven. That's the trip. Oh yeah, girl,
we should go to cook Square House and do a
cooking class and do a little shopping and ventures. Y'all
want to say that I love the Cooks Square House
and I like, there's that sponsor. I know, right, Maybe
we could do a cooking class. Maybe we'll go show
y'all how we do it and then maybe do a

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cooking class that that's something that is on my list
of things that I would like to do. Maybe we
do it together. Yeah, anyways, cook it in the oven.
If y'all not cooking your bacon in the oven, cook
it in there. I bought this thing. It's a silicon mat.
It has ridges, so it's like you're putting it on
a wire rack, but no wire and dishwashers. Safe for
a slazy girls, and so the grease drips down in there.

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You're not gonna have the grease on your becon baked beacon,
on your bacon, and it will still be flat and crispy.
And it's got a spout on the side, so when
you take it out of your bacon sheet, you can
train it. Do you make breakfast every most mornings?

Speaker 2 (14:16):
No?

Speaker 1 (14:16):
Because I don't really like it. We're gonna have people
over there or man or something. I do like to
make breakfast, and what do you what's your go to?
It depends on who I'm looking for. But I like
to have a meal.

Speaker 2 (14:25):
It's different meal, different breakfasts for this. So somebody might
just get a little cup of orange juice and it
harribleed egg.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
No no, no, that's a struggle breakfast. Because if I'm
gonna get busy, I'm getting busy, okay. Some people prefer
waffles to pancakes or vices. Some people have dietary restrictions.
Some people want a big, old hearty breakfast. And if
it's the weekend and I've got more time, I'm gonna
do a little shrimp and grits. I'm gonna do something
like we're going out to brunch, but at home, I
can make my cocktails. I gets busy, okay. But if

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it's a weekday, waffles because I've got a waffle maker
that I love by Cruks che Chee or something like that.
I bought it at Target before the is shoes. But
that brand is a black On brand and I bought
it and I love it. It's great the waffles. What
else I like to make. I love a hash. I
like to do a sweet potato hash, and so I

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dice the sweet potatoes and I put onions and peppers
in their spices and seasonings.

Speaker 2 (15:18):
Um.

Speaker 1 (15:19):
Sometimes I'll do chares, so top it with some eggs,
not scrambled, I will. I like my eggs done, so
I'll fry them and pop them on top of it.
If you like yours a little running, I would just
put it on top of like a I'll cook it
in the oven. It gets roasted eggs. Oh, not the eggs,
the whole dish. So I don't do scramble. But I
might crack the egg on top of the setup towards

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the end, and then it'll bake, so it'll be like
a sunny side up egg. I like my eggs all
the way done. I want shit running around on my plate.
Everything needs to be dead belly. Okay, yeah, so I
would put yours in the oven. I'm gonna fry mine
on the stove and just put it in at the end.
But yeah, I've got a few breakfast things, but I'm
not really a breakfast girl. In the same breakfast avocado

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toast with smoked salmon. I like to shave a boiled egg.
Do you ever do that? I would get my megga markalon, okay,
and I just love to shave that on there. You
put some pickled red onions on there, sometimes some capers,
a little sprinkle of spice, smoke salmon, different types of
smoked salmon, a little deal. Sometimes I mix up my
cream cheese. I'll make an avocado fruit. I mean, I

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like making breakfastuff and I'll be like, that's a lot
of fucking.

Speaker 2 (16:25):
Break Yeah, that's why I do the same. Y'all all
get in saint breakfast and it's good what should be making.
I will get a bag at or a little the
loaf of French bread to make many French toasts, so
it's not a big old slice of I don't big
things just give me.

Speaker 1 (16:39):
A lot of stress. Okay.

Speaker 2 (16:40):
So I cut it and it's about like this big,
and I'll make a little mini French toast. I love
eggs scrambled or a little sunnyside, but little jelly mm hmm,
egg some avocado, and I.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
Love a hat with avocado avocado slice.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
Or I'll make it like guacamoile, but don't put all
the GUACAMOLEA and greens in there. I'll literally just chop
chop up the guacamole and put a little bit of
seasoning and now a little bit Greek yogurt because it's
just I'm just putting Greek yogurt on everything.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
Greek yogurt in the avocado, like an avocado mash, essentially
on top.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
Okay, little scoop on top, if that's what you would like.
And maybe some potatoes. Maybe not, depends on how hungry
we are, but that's about it.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
A little mouse. How do we get on breakfast? I
kind of want to make that sweep hair. I can
make it for my family, not Thursday, maybe not love Friday.
I can make it on Friday.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
Yeah, I love a little sweeps or a little Reglar
potato hash, a little hash.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
I just love the smell of green peppers and onions
cooking and olive oil. Like have you ever had corn
beef hash?

Speaker 2 (17:41):
I haven't because my mom talks so badly about it,
because she said when she was growing up, that's all
her struggle. She said, that's all that. They would make them.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
A lot. Yeah, I liked it, but now it does
like dog food. They're not beating the allegations yet and
a lot of times come straight out of a can
and you like heat it up, but you don't have
to have it that way. But that's the only way
it was served to me. I tried to do it
a little different, but I'm like, well, I just won't
think about its origin story. Okay, m that sounded I

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didn't make it sound appetizing. But it does taste good.
It don't taste like how it looks. It literally looks
like dog food. It's like chopped up potato, but not
like dice. But like I keep want to see bless yeah,
thank you. Uh, y'all know what cornby pash looks like.
But I like it. I just we need mine to
be extra crispy, to give it a different texture than

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that can stuff, because it'd been looking like, I don't know,
a Little Caesar's meal, not Little Caesars the pizza, but
you know with the cute dog when they put it
on the plate and it looks like petaso oh, it
looks like that is let me find a peastri It's like,
I know it, Okay, So you know how I like.

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Have you ever been at publics, for example in March,
like before what's the holiday with Irish folks. Oh where
they get drop St. Patrick's Day and they'll have pushtrami
or the corned beef out and it's brisket but it's
very pink. Okay, let me just like similar, but it's

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like tender. It's not gonna be like on a shark
cooterie board. It would be more tender juicy meat. Anyway,
is that in like tiny dice? I'm just gonna show you. Oh,
I hope I remember to put a picture up so
y'all can see too. But as long as i'm taking,
y'all gonna being googled. Okay, corned beef hash if corn any? No,

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the beef is corned. I don't know what that means.
I don't know. I don't know. It's kind of like
it seems like it's like, uh, I don't want to
say pickle because that's just making everybody's stomach turn. Okay,
so this is like if you make it fresh, right,
so that doesn't look as bad as what I'm about

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to show you next, which is the can y'all eat
any weird stuff for breakfast? Tap it in the comments? Okay,
so like this would can be look these pictures look
great because okay, this is probably the best examits. And
it's a breakfast food. Yes, you eat it for breakfast,
like if you go to the Cracker Beer. I know
so many people don't like crackerber, but they got pancakes

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and they warm up that syrup syrup as you would say,
it is good. But this is how I want mine
because I needed to be a little crisp. But it's meat.
It is because I can't. And they say, just heat
and served by this. Oh, this is this, that's what
I picture this and this. But you got a kid
cooking like the medicated dogfoodn't have to give shy. Yeah,
when Willie was sick and she had caught that whatever

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the fuck from that fucked up dog that was around
and thank god they're gone, she had to eat the
rice and the chicken. But it was coming out of
a can, and I just said, to hell with this.
I'm making my babies feel I would need this, not
feeding it to my girl, not my queen, my little
princess baby girl. M h. Anyway, well that's what you

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said about breakfast. I don't know. I was gonna make
some more breathing catfish and I had every intention to
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(22:16):
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Speaker 2 (22:24):
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Speaker 1 (23:02):
She didn't know it.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
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Speaker 1 (23:08):
Like you just get try.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
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Speaker 1 (23:15):
Couldn't even take a long time the word let her
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Speaker 1 (23:36):
Oh, I can't hear. I was at Beauty Master, but
they've got some sales down here. I can't heard it
because it's so much.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
You're looking at baby hair brushes, jail brown, weave weeks.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
Y'all come up new press ons and there very cute.
Thank you. I said, they got way better press ons
in here.

Speaker 2 (23:52):
Then you're looking at the do rags. You're like, is
that bow wow?

Speaker 1 (23:55):
And it was it is and brushes and everything. I said,
I know that's right.

Speaker 2 (24:01):
Yes, I just love a little boow. Go see him
at six Flags he was performing.

Speaker 1 (24:06):
I saw him. What was that place where it's like
a beach. No, it's like an amphitheater. So it was
the Scream Tour, and it's like an indoor outdoor thing.
So like some people get seats. I was devil on
the lawn. Yeah, we were like junior higher high school.

Speaker 2 (24:20):
I think I know what you're going about. I don't
know the name of it me either.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
My mom and my sister played a nasty prank on me.
I'll never let this go. I just had a flashback,
so they I got a T shirt. I was the
one who loved him. Mallori loved little Romeo. Perfect sisters
don't need to be fighting over imaginary boyfriends on the
music video shows like One on six In part Her
and MoMA, I'm like, how do you is a child?

(24:45):
I was a pre teen. I don't even think Mallard
was in the double digit yet. Maybe I don't know.
Y'all colluded together and decided Mallory's just gonna scribble a
signature and tell me that y'all got me an autograph.
Oh that's some mean. When I found out, I turned
into the motherfucking hawk. Okay, I ripped that ship up.
Was so mad, but I still ripped it so I

(25:06):
didn't rip up the pictures, but I was like, why
did y'all do this? It's very upset.

Speaker 2 (25:10):
Did I ever tell you about the time my mom
and my sister played a prank on me and told
me that my brother got hit by a car on
the bike in New York.

Speaker 1 (25:15):
What the fuck? And that sounds grown because that's when
he was living in New York. He was living in
New York.

Speaker 2 (25:21):
I was like Clark, Atlanta, and I remember I was
getting my hair done and I was at a salon
and they called me and were like can you talk?
And I was They're like, you need to sit down
for this, and so I.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
Was like, man, excuse me, and I like, you know,
it's a death call. Yeah, something like that.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
So I got up in little cape still on and
everything dang, and I to this day I don't let them.
I was like, that's not even y'all. Aren't even those
type of people. Why did you do that to me?

Speaker 1 (25:46):
That was the first threecycled dead relatives like normal people
would do when they're calling at work.

Speaker 2 (25:51):
My sister was like, Malik was was crossing the street
in Brooklyn and he got hit by a car and
he didn't make it. Her to this day tries to
act like she forgot that she did that, and I'd be.

Speaker 1 (26:02):
Like, oh no, ma'am.

Speaker 2 (26:04):
I told remember I called my grandma and told them
both of them, I don't cuss.

Speaker 1 (26:08):
You should.

Speaker 2 (26:09):
I'm not a person that cusses in front of older people.
I definitely can't cuss in front of my parents. My
sister and my mom said fuck both of them. I
used chest, I said, I hung up, and I turned
my phone on for the whole day.

Speaker 1 (26:20):
Oh yeah, because I was shaken. That's that. That's a
different kind of man and hurt. Why did y'all do that?
I'm actually don't call him when we leave him, Like,
do y'all remember we got there? Why did you do that?
I would be like, and this is why I still
got trust issues. It's y'all you told me my brother
and he's not dead. We didn't Malik know. I actually
don't know. I would call him to just mess up

(26:42):
the whole thing. Fuck summer for everybody, because do you
know that your own mother and your and then.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
My mom tries to tell you she wasn't a part
of it, just because she didn't. She was like, well,
I didn't say anything I was like, but you were
on the call.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
You never owned it. If this was the court of law,
you're an accomplish. Why didn't speak up? Snitch or you
go into the clinker clink clink?

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Speaking of clink clink, I don't know why. But I
really haven't been that interested in the Diddy case, have you?

Speaker 1 (27:15):
I've been interested. Somebody DM me and was like, oh,
can you do this on the show? No, Well for
several reasons, and I was sure, And I'm sorry, girl,
I was sure. I was in my feelings that day
and I was like, well, let me respond. I want
to forget to respond, but I'm not keeping up with
that in a sense to give a play by play.
I don't really want to talk about it with too

(27:35):
many people because it gets me really rouled up, Like,
and I'm not really open to hearing everybody's stuff and
y'all already be mad or in your feels about whatever.
I'm not open, and because I know I'm not open,
That's how I feel about many things. And it's just
like I've learned, don't talk about it if you're not open,
and just protect your peace. That and we don't be

(27:58):
recording enough in real time we're recording two episodes today.
We recorded to last week now, but there's plenty of
people on the internet doing it. I'm also not a
legal analyst. I'm not gonna I feel like something like
that is so serious and so like I can be
playing around. I don't want to be cracking jokes. Everybody

(28:19):
doesn't always get our sense of humor. I just would
feel irresponsible to be doing that because I know, fuck
up stuff and then I'm let my opinion get over it.
But yeah, I don't like talking about it. It is interesting
to me for different reasons, like seeing it all play
out and seeing people's reactions as much as I can handle.

(28:42):
I always think it's interesting how I mean, obviously it's
a celebrity, but how some cases are so public and
others are not. And there's still famous people to this
day who get caught up and stuff, but it's not
always followed like this. But it's overwhelming.

Speaker 2 (29:03):
I haven't really Yeah, it doesn't even really pop up
on my timeline, which is I'm like, huh. But speaking
of people's opinions and everybody being like overpassionate about stuff
and having their own views on things, I was at
the gym the other day and I asked, and I
rarely talk to people because I really am just trying
to say funkys. But we were talking about something and

(29:24):
I was like, I asked the men do they open doors?

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Kiki?

Speaker 2 (29:31):
It turned into such a debate. I just got quiet
and I was like, whoa, what is happening?

Speaker 1 (29:38):
The question was do you open doors? Well? What doors?
I was like, all the doors? He was like, well,
all the doors? Doors you walk through, doors you walk
through in the car door? Do you open the door?

Speaker 2 (29:46):
It's not like that you get into And I had
to stop everybody because all the men were getting so passionate.
Who do you think you are for me to open
every door? And I was like, is that a direct
question to me or the women that.

Speaker 1 (29:56):
You deal with? How did it start?

Speaker 2 (29:59):
I just was like, do you I can't remember what
we were talking about something and I can't remember, but
it was something.

Speaker 1 (30:04):
Oh no, I remember.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
There was there's a man there and he's pretty attractive,
and I asked one of the girls do you think
he opens doors?

Speaker 1 (30:10):
That's what happened. I just asked the girl that I
was talking to.

Speaker 2 (30:13):
Curiosity she and she blurted it out, do you open doors.
He was like, sometimes yeah, he was. Sometimes I was
like and then so then her and I kept talking.
I was like, that makes him a little less attractive
to me.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
Again. To me, it ain't no personal attack, even.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
If you're because some of the women were like, oh,
man isn't going to open every door. We're all speaking
from our personal experiences. If men are not opening your door,
that's your experience, and it's not a there is not
a right or wrong answer, like it's okay. Everybody got
so like animated and loud and angry, like the fact
that you thiny.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
Have roid rage because you were in the gym right now.
They're all hyped up on like steroids and shots and stuff.
Were they big that.

Speaker 2 (30:56):
They were just shocked at the fact that I would
really stand on open the door open And it's not.

Speaker 1 (31:01):
Like a demand. What was the issue though? That's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (31:04):
I think when if you get that passionate about something
that is a positive thing, opening a woman's door is
a is one of the To me, it's such a
pure form of just respect.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
It's not a why are we battling this?

Speaker 2 (31:18):
Like now, if you and a lot of these men
have daughters, it's not like a I'm demanding you to
open the door. We're all speaking from our own experiences,
and if that is your experience, don't try to make
it mine.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
Friend and I have been in some situations where it's
like the men weren't opening the doors.

Speaker 2 (31:34):
But then when you experience somebody where the men are
opening the doors, you're like, oh, this really does some
men really do think they should open all the doors.
It's like the car doors. Are he gonna let you
in before he gets it? Yes, because it's a safety situation.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
What are you talking?

Speaker 2 (31:46):
I really just had to get quiet. I was like, y'all,
it's not an argument. Why are you mad? You know
why you're mad because you probably should be opening doors.

Speaker 1 (31:52):
I just really was shocked by bad.

Speaker 2 (31:53):
I was like, it's not an argument, and y'all not
about to change my opinion.

Speaker 1 (31:57):
You know how I feel about doors opening.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
If you don't mind your door not being opened, keep
moving like that.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
It was really interesting. It's so upset if you are
just saying it's less attractive to me, then all of
a sudden, it's World War three in the gym.

Speaker 2 (32:12):
You already don't want to I'm not gonna open every door. Okay,
but a man will okay and like, okay, you don't know.

Speaker 1 (32:21):
I think I asked you already. But it does make
me curious. Like for the men who were so passionate,
one got two of them. For the men who are
so passionate about not opening the door, not opening every door,
what's the reason? Is something happen? I'm curious. I'm genuinely curious.
If you're a guy who feels like that, please happen
and let us argue.

Speaker 2 (32:40):
With you, he's gonna have an answer. You're listening too
much rap music and you need to turn some of
it off.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
Do you feel like it's it makes you less than
in some way? Do you feel like it's a control thing.
Do you feel weird about being nice? Have you been
taken advantage of for being a nice guy? Do you
respect who you're with and that's who you're with. Were
you with somebody before who disrespected you and you did
those things and so now you have turned you have

(33:07):
changed your mind. I won't even say anythings that I
don't want to upset anybody. I would really like an answer.
I'm really genuinely curious. I'm not gonna say nothing. Probably
because I will say something spicy. I just won't say nothing,
but I would like to read it. Please let me know.
And for the women who.

Speaker 2 (33:21):
Are all the women were also like, a man is
not gonna open up every door, and I was just.

Speaker 1 (33:26):
Like, that's your experience, and oh well, if he's not right.
If no man from this say forward chooses to open
every door for you but you want him to, well,
oh fucking well, all we really need is for somebody
to open to the gates to Heaven. At this point,
like my anways be doing stuff and saying everybody isn't

(33:46):
and some people feel like everybody is. We can't say
figure from your own experience.

Speaker 2 (33:50):
My thing was it's not a negative thing to open
a woman's door.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
I was like, why are we mad? And That's what
I'm confused about. So if you do think it's negative,
man or a woman, or or whatever you like to
call yourself, let us know what is negative about it?
What's the problem. Sometimes when it comes to nice things
and people complain about it, I am curious, like, what's
your hang up about it? Yeah, I'm sure I have mine.

(34:14):
I can't think of anything off the top of my head,
and I've probably got a reason, and if I don't.
Sometimes when you realize you don't, you just being weird,
you check yourself and change. Y'all need to give a
god damn reason. If you was in the gym with
Nanna and you was going off and getting all hyped
up in your blood vessels with thumping type in, I believe,

(34:35):
I know that's weird, like to be mad about it.
It's like, oh no, I don't. I feel like honestly,
from the men, a lot of them don't be thinking.
They're not thoughtful period, and they don't for whatever reason,
they don't feel the urge to try to be chivalrous.
That doesn't matter. Whether it's like you get women who

(34:59):
just do whatever for you with bare minimum effort and
that's what you're used to. You feel like you just
want to piss women off and you really just like
to fuck us and you don't really like us whatever.
It is, a lot of it. I feel like it's
just lazy, like you don't because what could be the
possible reason that's an issue for you to open the door? Yeah,
that is very simple.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
It's very simple. That's like the like I said, it's
just a form of respect. But oh I don't know.
I don't know, guys, I'm just making it. It's just
making it easy to not be dating till twenty twenty six.

Speaker 1 (35:30):
Yeah, I mean he ain't missing it.

Speaker 2 (35:32):
And the amount of working out that I'm doing all
of my damn door, I can it.

Speaker 1 (35:37):
Shut it real fast so you can't get in, and
you can open your own fucking door too, Blue Blue lad,
I said it in my heart anyway, I forgot. We
got a little weird sex and then we got a
few little dis or that. For this week's topic, you
said a man is not a necessity. A man is
a luxury like dessert. Yeah, man is absolutely not necessity.

(36:02):
Did you mean that to sound meaning bitter? Oh not
at all. I adore dessert. I love men. I think
men are the coolest, but you don't really need them
to live. So this week's we were at sex. Very
short story. This one is sex sent me to cardiac arrest.

(36:25):
I hope that y'all are being careful out there, because
she should be happening. So a woman in the US
collapsed in the middle of sex. This reminded me of
the Golden Girls because Rose's husband I believe done and
had a heart attack in the middle of them having sex.
But this time it was a woman. I don't think
she died anyway. She was rushed to the hospitals and

(36:46):
she had symptoms of a brain aneurysm. Turns out her
orgasm he fucked her so good he made her heart
stop for real. But turns out the orgasm had triggered
a rare thunderclap headache that mimics a stroke or a seizure.
It's been documented in actual medical journals as post coital headaches.

(37:09):
You know. Coidal is like fucking a legit condition that
is triggered by blood pressure spikes during really intense orgasms. Now,
this particular woman did make a full recovery, but said
in her follow up interview, my husband keeps saying it's
a compliment that the sex almost killed me. I wouldn't

(37:29):
know how to take that. Do you want to be
the next Netflix documentary? Or did you fuck me like?
I don't want to be fucked like that? Like when
the people be like, I want to be fucked in
to oblivion, Know the fuck I don't I want to
be I don't even want to be fucked asleep because
it might be a forever sleep. I just want to cuddle.
I'm good. Yeah, that's absolutely thunderclap headache, stay thunder that

(37:56):
mimics a stroke or a seizure. Yeah, I've ever been
around somebody for real who stroked out or had a seizure.
That shit is scared, Sean, I just had a seizure
and it was scary. I was like, happen. So I
imagine if a big, full sized human, I'd want. Yeah,
that shit is scared. I've been there. Anyway, that's it
for weird sexual I'll keep sending me these stories. I
appreciate it. DM him to me or email them to

(38:18):
except one of the emails in the description box below,
and we're gonna move on to our topics.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
So you guys, this week, we're just gonna do a
quick little this or that. If it's happened to you,
maybe you get a little story out of us. But
I always think it's important to kind of just like,
you know, refresh on.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
Like what you like, what you don't, what you have had,
what you didn't, so we can change. They do they
sore do.

Speaker 2 (38:42):
So the first one that I have on the list
is this or that. Okay, would you like him to
text back fast, or would you like to text him
back fast or make him wait?

Speaker 1 (38:51):
I'm texting backfast. I'm too old to be playing this
goddamn game. I'm texting, and now if I don't text
back fast, I'm not the game girl. I'm not like,
oh it's too fast. Fuck that shiit. I like you
and you need to know it because I might not
say it working on it, but I'm texting back fat.
I'm texting Lightning. I'm texting back to him. I'm wait
because for what what? So you can check Susan and

(39:15):
Shirlene and big Glow. No, I'm texting you back fast.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
I just don't understand the point of like strategically waiting
to text to me.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
Honestly, it feels childish. Most of the games, say I
didn't even never like to play for real. I like rules,
not games. I would say a lot of them is
just because I thought that's what I had to do,
and then eventually I came to my own, probably sometime
after turning thirty. I don't want to play no fucking games.
Mm hmmm, I don't like it. M h okay. Next one,

(39:46):
Kiki tall and toxic or short and secure? Does it exist?
Either way. What's tall? The building that he's six five?
But he toxic did that before six A. Bay ruined
it for all tall men text tall short. Okay, you

(40:08):
did say short and secure. I would take short and
secure the way, how short is he a little person?
Let's just say he's five to ten. Oh that's fine,
that's fine. I can work five to ten. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (40:18):
Since May ruined it for all tall five feet, I
will never date if you are six ft, I actually
don't even want to damn six okay, six to one,
you can be right.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
I don't know. I think you need to be like
six four or six three for your cut off modina. Yeah,
I don't want to talk.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
They got too much confidence. Be ghosted or be the
ghost s.

Speaker 1 (40:43):
Casper baby, I'm ghosted. I don't want to be ghosted.
They don't feel good. And the way my mind be working,
I really wish there was something I could plug into
my ear and my eyes and I don't know my
heart and just transcribe my feeling is because maybe Ryan Coogler,
who I would have all of the movies ready to go.

(41:05):
Because the way that my mind works and it's all
of these things happening, I've created so many things. If
you ghost me, please don't leave me like that. I'm
gonna have to ghost you. Oh that stressed me out
even thinking about being ghost again. And i'd have been ghosted.
And I know I did some things, but like damn,
I said, bye, bitch.

Speaker 2 (41:23):
Date someone who's obsessed with you but kind of ugly
or fine but emotionally unavailable.

Speaker 1 (41:29):
Oh I'm taking the obsessed with me but kind of ugly.
But again, what kind of ugly are we talking? Because
my mama sent me Ooh, I don't want to shaw
these people, so I'm not gonna tell y'all what I'm
looking at, but you can take guesses in the comments,
and I'm just gonna hard them if they're right. My
mama sent me some links to some shows that's going
on on the internet, and I was like, girl, what
the fuck is this? Some of those are men? Oh

(41:56):
oh well that's a different story. That was back to
the dutty case. But yeah, and she sent me links
and I was just like, okay, so regular ugly or
like grimlin grimlin? Wait what was the options? Because i'dnet
got caught up all levels of ugly.

Speaker 2 (42:14):
Date someone who's obsessed with you? But kind of ugly
or fine. Well, it says kind of ugly, so he
just kind of.

Speaker 1 (42:20):
Okay, kind of. Oh, I'd rather take kind of ugly
or fine, but emostly unavailable. Fine and emotionally unavailable is
perfect for a just sex situation. I'm good on that
right now. I don't even really be fucking for real.
I barely pull out my vibrators, and y'all know that
is a major change. I don't know my pussy got broken.

Speaker 2 (42:40):
I thought mom was broken, but it's not. And I'm
getting a wax on the twenty second. It has been
so long.

Speaker 1 (42:46):
Did you get some numb and cream that doesn't work
for me?

Speaker 2 (42:49):
It's gonna hurt and I'll be okay, and I'm just
but I'm gonna have to trim it up before i
go because it's that crazy, like I think it's been
since last October.

Speaker 1 (42:57):
Girl. I know you fucking lite, I'm not like flippers.
You should go to beauty matter. They having to sail
before the end of the month is up.

Speaker 2 (43:05):
Because she can't just rip that it's and I'm just
because the only reason why I'm even.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
Getting your lips off, the only reason why.

Speaker 2 (43:11):
I'm even getting a wax is because it is summertime
and we're about to have pool situation, shooting the huge
all the stuff. Yeah, so it's like, Okay, I gotta
get you ready, girl, but don't get excited because you're not.

Speaker 1 (43:22):
You're not getting anything but a fresh wax, but a
fresh haircut, some touches from the wax lady.

Speaker 2 (43:31):
Okay, sneaky link or soft lunch.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
What we call on a soft lunch and what we
call a sneaky sneaky.

Speaker 2 (43:40):
Link is nobody knows what what is going on with
who you got going it on with soft launch is like.

Speaker 1 (43:45):
Does he know? Mm hmm okay, okay, hine man, Okay,
what's soft lunch? A little soft.

Speaker 2 (43:51):
Lunch, like you kind of softly bring him out. I
really like and how Jesse.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
Wu has just dove out into the worst hard launch
that is a car. And I told myself, I was like,
maybe next time I'll do that. I'm glad I hadn't subject. Yeah,
that's a hard lunch lunch at least how I feel today,
I'm more like Isa Ray whatever we want to call that.
When she had her wedding, was like, yeah, a man

(44:18):
and then she was like this was a vera Wang.
She's still cracking jokes. That's how I want to be.
This was a fashion of a wedding couture collection, because
y'all know it ain't gonna be God damn via Wang
at Best House of CEB. But when I think of
Sneaky Link, I'd be thinking like, fuck buddy, like you

(44:39):
don't really like him? Yeah, like soft launch is like
you tease a man. I guess from those two options,
I would take soft launch if it's what I'm thinking.
But like you said, well, don't nobody know what's really
going on but you and him? I prefer that because, say,
i'll my business speech. I really be feeling. But y'all know, okay,

(45:02):
you catch me, ran ahead, give a.

Speaker 2 (45:05):
Second chance or block and bliss? Do you give second chances?
He messed up?

Speaker 1 (45:12):
Oh? I mean I've be given all the chances. I'd
be acting like what would I even call it? I
don't know, like Jesus, yeah, all forgiving and that ain't right.
Jesus had told me one time, like girl, let me
do my job. You say you're lying this same where
are you supposed to be? You need to just pray,
get on your knees to pray full sentence, don't stop

(45:35):
it and get up. Just come on, baby girl. Yeah,
but I have been the one to give lots of chances.
I want to do that no more, though I would.
I would rather block. Sometimes it's like, just move on.
I got commission commitment issues, But I also have what

(45:56):
would it call what would we call that? I got
issues with hanging on and letting go. Bitch, I'm fucked up.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
You're normal, okay, last one date someone who lives two
hours away or lives two minutes away, but it's always busy.

Speaker 1 (46:15):
You can't live two hours away from me, two hours
like traffic, or two hours like Chattanooga, Chattanooga, Chattanooga. You
would rather that? M wow. Because fortunately I don't know
what this imaginary person may have. But the way I'm
seeing it right now is like I have a lot
of flexibility with Like I just need to get stationary.

(46:36):
So if I can get to you and be there
for whatever amount of time and I still got to
do my stuff, but I just need to be stationary
while I'm working, then we can have time together. Like,
I have the flexibility to move around and be closer
to you when I want it, And I'd be needing
a lot of fucking space. If you live two minutes
away from me and it's hard for me to see you,
I feel like you don't really like me. You're married,

(47:01):
and yeah, you don't really like me. Why the fuck
is it so hard to see me if you're tuning
its away? Why did you even entertainment? Why you ask
for my information? Why did you do anything? Why did
you let me make my sweet potato hash and my
marry me shrimp and grits and bereathman catfish? You let
me do all that, and now you're not calling me
unless there's food on the stove. Like that didn't happen

(47:24):
to me or anything. But I was just thinking I
got lost in it.

Speaker 2 (47:28):
Yeah, okay, this is for real, the last one, because
I really do want to know this or that a
soft life man or an ambitious hustle hard man.

Speaker 1 (47:36):
Wait a minute, he's a soft life man, That's what
I was gonna ask. He's trying to give it to
me or he wanted for himself. Girl, fuck a soft
Excuse me? What the fuck is even that?

Speaker 2 (47:45):
Have you been seeing those memes where they dressed the
men up as Disney princess, Well you.

Speaker 1 (47:49):
Send it to me next time you see it. Police,
I have not seen this A soft life man, a
soft what did they do all day get their nailstuff? Definitely?
And what I don't even have a child.

Speaker 2 (48:02):
There was a man that was in my DM the
other day and he's liked, could you suggest a good
nail salon for me?

Speaker 1 (48:06):
And I was just was so. I was like, you're
trying to holler at me.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
It's okay if y'all get manni's and petties or y'all
for a good judy. No, he really was looking. He's
sent me a picture of his nails. It was very
I don't like no amount of zest in my man.

Speaker 1 (48:23):
Not a not a nan. I'm talking about a nan.
I don't care what the correct terms are. Don't be
zesty over here. I don't forgot the question. Oh, a
soft life man or.

Speaker 2 (48:33):
A hustle hert or an ambitious hustle harment. I need
the ambitious hustle hard man.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
I want to hustle, hustle, hustle real hard.

Speaker 2 (48:42):
Yeah, I don't know, but I want to be if
I want to have to tell you to go get
a manicure, and that's your alarm song.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
Every day we hustling? Yeah, yeah, I wake up. I'm
trying to get it. I'm sure some rappers said.

Speaker 2 (48:56):
That, I don't want to be with the man that
has it scheduled on his calendar when he's getting his
manicare peticut. It's not a no disrespect. I just wanted
to have to be like you only go when I go, baby.

Speaker 1 (49:07):
Because what the fuck? Why you got time to even
be thinking about that? That that pissed me off. Some
of the businessmen do they be doing it, but people
do it. But I'm just like, are you for real
right now? Maybe for real? They do be dead ass
for real? I want I told you, I really would
like just a woman in their life get a soft
life too. Is it a too? Probably not. If this
is the man that we're talking about, hustle hard, I

(49:29):
want to I want a hustler, Okay, not dope boy hustler,
but like, hey, I'd prefer that then a manicure manny, Okay,
I don't like it. What you well, I know what
you Yeah, y'all tap it in the comments and our
dms and stuff and let us know what you think
and if you have another this or that drop it in.

(49:52):
Maybe won't answer or other people comment. Y'all answer, Let's
have a party with it. Yeah, we are going to
move on to Indecisive Diana, and when we come it
will be time for advice in the cocktails. Would you
stop figuring about what everyone wants? Stop digging about what
I want? What do you want? What your parents want?
What do you want? What do you want? What do

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(52:03):
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When I was sore, I was taken them before I
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the Zen gummies did help. Sometimes I just need to

(52:23):
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so many different ones out there. And I think it's
funny that they thought High Love would only be for

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(54:06):
are back and it is time for the advice. Okay,
this one said, there's a shorter yea because this is
whole episode. We got to save this girl because you
going through and maybe we need to form an episode
around that. Okay? Am I a villain or just getting played?
Hey Kikia Medina, First off, I love y'all your show

(54:29):
is therapy, laughs and real talk all in one. So
I had to come to you for some advice because
this situation has been all the way messed up. Here's backstory.
At the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend, I
was still talking to another guy. Nothing physical happened, but
I guess it was still wrong, and I own that.
My boyfriend found out. We talked it through and I
blocked and deleted the other guy, and we agreed that

(54:50):
we can move forward from that since we were fresh
into a relationship. Since then, I have been one honest
and commitment. I don't know, sometime committed thing you should
do a woman ninety ninety five anyways, keep a few secrets.
You don't have to lie, but just keep a few
things to the chest anyways to help rebuild trust. I
even let him go through my phone everybodysip. Okay, even

(55:16):
I'm rebuilding trust is insecurity. I don't let that happen.
I'm like, all right, see, you gonna be mad child.
Every now and then when people get fucked up enough,
they bring it up, and it's just like, well, which
woman to do? I just feel want to do it again?
Sometimes you just you.

Speaker 2 (55:32):
Don't be seeing and I'm speaking from experience. People be
insecure and from in different arenas, but when it be
stuff like this, it's like, men get so insecure and
it shows up in several ways, and it nine times
out of ten never goes away, and you just it's
all the brunt is on the woman.

Speaker 1 (55:53):
What you want me to do? Okay, bitch, you knew
what it was when you got here, you like the
three thousand, But now you having questions about how I
learned it. Baby, don't worry about that, Just say thank you.
Did I ever tell you about the.

Speaker 2 (56:06):
Time when we were in the airport, I don't. I
can't remember where we were going, and there was a
man he came. He was very respectful and no one,
no one ever comes up disrespectful and was like.

Speaker 1 (56:13):
Hey, Mannina, I listened to the show. I loved your show.
And I was like, thank you so much. I appreciate it.
And I always introduce anybody who's around. When people do that.

Speaker 2 (56:19):
M h.

Speaker 1 (56:21):
It was a whole and I was like, I literally
can't control that. What was issue. The issue was the
person came up to say. I was just like, this
is stressful. Baby gets a movement anyway, to help back
to baby girl. Uh, blind and bothered anyway, That's how

(56:43):
she signed it, to help rebuild trust. I even let
him go through my phone, and I know that's a lot,
but I didn't think he would really do it. Girl.
I don't know why not, Because baby, you give me
the keys. I'm driving off. I'm talking about three months.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
I'm going everything, notes, playlist, photos, fake ass calculation because up, yup,
Google Drive.

Speaker 1 (57:07):
I'm typing specific names, Ruth, mom, mama, nicknames, every nigga name,
pizza hood, Papa John's, Domino's, Marco's, jets. Where are you at? Door,
dash gate, front gate, side gate? Oh the thing?

Speaker 2 (57:28):
Like what?

Speaker 1 (57:28):
You didn't think he was gonna do it? My grandpa
they died twenty years ago. Who the fuck is this
calling you from the grave? Last time I checked, Verizon
ain't got service upstairs.

Speaker 2 (57:39):
You ever? Just wish you could really know what really
happened when something you knew somebody was lying.

Speaker 1 (57:44):
I just want to jump in their mind. I want
to hear that, and then I want to I need
an instant replay because I want to see what really happened.
I want to see how you perceived it. But I
want to see what really happened. Yeah, and we'll never
get that check JBC. Where you at?

Speaker 2 (57:57):
Girl, let us know I may not GBT could like
be like you want me to watch him? And if
he had CHATGBT and he was like active that day,
she could connect to his chatchbyta and.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
What if you could be like, okay, girl, let me
get the rundown on my man. This was te What
you think is past word is she could probably guess
that ship. Oh my god, never thought y'all do that.
She didn't tell us if it works. I'm about to try.
Please try. I'm gonna just do it for myself, not
for anybody else. When I'm gonna see girl, what you
think my past word is if she guesses that ship,

(58:28):
that's scary. I'm not gonna be having an attitude ever
again with her, not with niggas anyway. Oh I started
reading Brooklyn better. Okay. Anyways, okay, so back to what
this girl is saying. Because you fucked up real bad.
I hope you know that. Anyway, I went through the phone,
I just wanted to show I had nothing to hide. Meanwhile,

(58:48):
I never once look through his stuff because I truly
trusted him. And why a man wouldn't. This is why
it gets on my nerves. She want. I want to
show you I have nothing to hote he do. That's
why he's trying to What are all you classic manipulation?
I have done it too. Sometimes I feel you flip
that ship. You flip that ship like Chef Boy or Dy,

(59:09):
like you spending pizzas ninjas.

Speaker 2 (59:11):
A woman, you always stand the chance of falling a
victim to it. I don't care how much healing. I
don't care, Carol, I don't care how old you get,
because we just want to be good.

Speaker 1 (59:20):
We want to be good. I want you to know
the truth. I want you to know the truth. Meanwhile,
I don't want you to know the truth. I just
want you to know what I said and what she's
supposed to. Don't worry about you worried about the wrong thing.
I'm protecting you. I want to be meaning so bad.

Speaker 2 (59:34):
I want to be mean so bad.

Speaker 1 (59:38):
She had a beat on it like like a Tarzan
and Jane shut them titties up. I don't feel her.
She's like, I just want you to know. I don't
have anything to hide that nigga. Polly was really being
honest and he was being insecure and he had ship
because you wrote in for advice and you didn't fuck up.
So I really hope that the advice is not how
do you get him to trust you? Even though he

(59:59):
saw everything, He's still going because I'll tell you where.

Speaker 2 (01:00:01):
Because I also feel like when somebody doesn't like she
said in the beginning, like she was the one talking
to somebody else, but she start when some sometimes people
hold it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:06):
Over your head, little you hold it over their head.

Speaker 2 (01:00:09):
And now he has the upper power to keep making
you feel like you did something wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:00:13):
Did you get pregnant? Boy him? Please no like the
first one, because I feel like if you didn't like nigga,
let it guy. You know I wasn't a version when
I met you. Where'd you meet me at? Nobody's married period? Hm?
We single till we married anyways, now okay, So I
just wanted to show I had nothing to hide. Meanwhile,

(01:00:35):
I never once looked through this stuff because they truly
trusted him. But now I'm the one sitting here feeling
play you were. Months later, I found out he's been
talking to other women behind my pack. Miss cleo. Oh god,
my bad. We won't even hurt. But like, girl, maybe
we should start fuck podcasting. Maybe we just need to
be psychics. Okay, he's left, girl, I'm skipping around. Okay,

(01:01:00):
but now I'm the one sitting here feeling played. Months later,
I found out he's been talking to other women behind
my back. When I brought it up, he laughed in
my face. I he okay, I didn't know it was
gonna go here. I'm sorry. We was cracking jokes and
be your heart. That pissed me off, all right, He
literally laughed, Oh, I can fill your tears. I want

(01:01:21):
to cry for you. Me too. He won't answer my
questions about it, just flips it on me. Told you classic,
that's a textbook. Flips it on me and brings up
what I did at the beginning. During that conversation, I
couldn't help myself and just burst into tears. I really
didn't want him to see me down bad like that,
but it just came out there. He told me I'm

(01:01:43):
trying to manipulate him by crying classic, classic, classic, and
that if I'm not going to leave, I should stop
bringing it up. At that point, oh don't you wish
you would have said it first? No apologies, no, nothing,
he honestly didn't even sound like he cares that I
found out that broke me. I'm feeling extremely hurt, dismissed,

(01:02:07):
and ghastly gas lit valid. I tried to fix my mistake,
but now it feels like he's been using it as
a free pass to keep hurting me while painting me
as a problem. And deep down, I'm starting to believe
he's entertaining other women the whole time. So be real
with me. Is this manipulation? Should I have left already
or is there any way to come back from this?

(01:02:29):
Am I holding on to something that's already broken? Thanks
for always keeping it real. I already know what I
should probably do, but I just need your perspective on
this one. Thank you, love thank you, love you ladies.
Once blinded now bothers and from my phone, I love
you girls. Yes, these men have a way of like
doing what they do, and I don't I don't know

(01:02:52):
if anybody will ever have it figured out.

Speaker 2 (01:02:54):
Baby playing us the healthy ones, the non healthy ones,
the rich ones, the broke ones, the young ones, the
old ones, the white ones, the black ones, and the
tall ones, the short ones, the big booty ones, the
n shape ones. They have a way of getting us,
and I don't know if we will ever crack the code. Friend, Clearly,

(01:03:19):
I ain't told you all the story of what has
happened to me, and I won't because I'm that embarrassed.

Speaker 1 (01:03:24):
So I feel your pain. You got to get up,
You got to get up, and you got to go.

Speaker 2 (01:03:31):
And you can't ask is he the one he ain't
because at the level that this has happened with you,
the way he gonna run you through the wringer, it's
gonna be it's gonna be so much worse if you
had a baby, or if you get married and it's
harder to leave.

Speaker 1 (01:03:47):
Right now, it's easy to leave.

Speaker 2 (01:03:48):
All you have to deal with is little tears, maybe
some depression, and maybe a little.

Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Bit of homelessness if y'all live together.

Speaker 2 (01:03:53):
Yeah, but you will figure it out, get get find
your community. You can, you cannot. Don't let him do
this to you. Do not let him.

Speaker 1 (01:04:03):
Please.

Speaker 2 (01:04:04):
I am begging you find the value in yourself, no
matter how hard it is, no matter how sad it is.
If you have to detach from if you gotta go
into solitude for a minute to get through it, I
get it, do it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:16):
I can't. I still can't really listening to love songs.
I was watching Forever and crying. It's high school love.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
You gotta do what you gotta do, though, because the
long term, when you look at it, long term is worse.

Speaker 1 (01:04:25):
If you stay in it. And he laughed in your face,
that is so like, what the fuck is even this?

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
I don't even know you, but I know you're better
than dealing with a man who does not care about
you at all.

Speaker 1 (01:04:39):
That is not care.

Speaker 2 (01:04:40):
And again, I'm gonna say it all the time, what
type of life do you want? I don't know how
old you are, but you sound young. This ain't the
life you want. We've all seen it before. You have
examples of it around you, of women who have stayed
with men who act like this, And then for some
reason you're like, should I marry him? What?

Speaker 1 (01:04:57):
Or sometimes you're like pleading to a judge because you
as when you finally snapped. Now, I think that was responsible,
healthy advice. As a little unhinge one, I'm gonna give
you another option. That's great advice, and then you should
take it if you're feeling good. But every now and again,
a woman gets a little lonely or vindictive and you

(01:05:24):
just want to fuck that. Niggas should up. That's what
you do, if that's how you want to handle it.
Where you stay at this something is telling me. My
spirit is telling me you stay in Houston, Texas, and
I hope you do. If you don't, bitch, book a flight.
Avoid Beyonce weekend. Chick's gonna be sky hot. You know

(01:05:46):
when you need to go down there. NBA weekend, which
is comed MBA Masters of Business Administration. Baby, we're not
talking about that Oil and Gas conference weekend, Black Engineers weekend.
If they do an afrotech, you go down there when
our Queen, Nigerian King, Naderians. I mean, if you like
the queens, maybe you want to switch sides. I don't know.

(01:06:08):
But when the King Naigerians are in town and all
of our other strong man are there, this is just
for a good time. Don't you get yourself wrapped up
in this shit again, because you're gonna get in trouble.
So you need to take a break. Well, you take
a break. I mean, it's gonna be a minute before
these conferences go down. But listen to whatever you need
to listen to, whether it's Whitney Houston, Mariah Care or
Big Low, maybe Yolanda.

Speaker 2 (01:06:27):
Adams, maybe a little Chandler more who Chandler, Chandler Moore, Maverick.

Speaker 1 (01:06:32):
City, Taja COB's.

Speaker 2 (01:06:36):
When you send, I'm like, when I tell you, I
haven't been I can't listen to it. Look it has
to be a gospel song.

Speaker 1 (01:06:41):
Yeah, let me tell y'all. Modina text me we were
she recorded something for her mattress when she was setting
up her mattress, and she was like, oh, I had
never intended to turn this sound on because it was
going to be voiceover. She's like, I left my music on,
my bad And so I was like, well, what was
she listening to? I wonder. I just knew it's gonna
be I said, it's gonna be gospel or Mariah Care.
She was listening to the praise and worship and the gospel.

(01:07:02):
I said, oh, I know that's right, okay, because ain't
nobody get in this bed if they are sanctified. I
know that's right. She was sleeping in that bed alone.

Speaker 2 (01:07:11):
Because here's the thing, and this is something that since
I am with you for real, who wrote this email?

Speaker 1 (01:07:16):
For real?

Speaker 2 (01:07:16):
Anybody else who is navigating a nigga that ancient and
it's maybe he's a little.

Speaker 1 (01:07:20):
Play with you.

Speaker 2 (01:07:21):
He just plays with you. And now you're about to
be sad. And we all know that heartbreaks, sadness, it
drives women. You don't know what's about to happen, but
you know what you do, You're gonna lift yourself up
and you need to just focus on something else. And
you can do this, friend, you.

Speaker 1 (01:07:35):
Can do this.

Speaker 2 (01:07:35):
And the only way that you can really make the change,
at least for me, is you have to really like
you gotta. You can't be listening to the love songs.
So the love songs will have you going back, and
the love songs will have you stay music.

Speaker 1 (01:07:49):
Yeah, and you don't act on that just you know.

Speaker 2 (01:07:52):
And if you're not strong enough to listen to the
hot groum, because I'm not strong enough listen to the
hot grum music, I try to listen to hotgirl music.
And then it's like, now you're going back to the
niggas that also was dragging your feelings through the mud
like this two thousand and eight.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
Do you want to do better or do you not?

Speaker 2 (01:08:05):
And if you do want to do better, there has
to be a transformation. If there has to be a transformation.
That means you have to change your mindset. And if
you're gonna change your mindset, it might be difficult, But
a few months of difficulty versus your whole life with
a man who just doesn't value and doesn't respect you
and doesn't open nin nandor is that really what you want?

Speaker 1 (01:08:22):
He won't even open his heart and he's telling you,
if you're gonna keep bringing this shit up, you should go.

Speaker 2 (01:08:27):
I mean, I have said that to somebody that I
have said that to somebody before to when I meant it,
and he wasn't wrong. We're gonna be honest. He wasn't wrong,
because if you are gonna stay, you're deciding to stay.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
Yeah, And it's like, okay, we've talked about it. I
have said my piece about it the same way he
went through your phone and he's trying to hold that
over your head. You could do the same. But what
I was gonna say about the Afickan man is this
is again, this is just for fun. We're doing it
just for fun because.

Speaker 2 (01:08:52):
They gonna cheat on you too. And he probably got
a wife and kids.

Speaker 1 (01:08:54):
And even if he don't like just girls, sometimes it's
okay to have fun. They gonna talk you up. When
you are with you're gonna feel good and you can
go out and you can have a good time. And
what I was gonna say, which was the toxic thing.
So you decide which way you want to go. I'm
not saying this is good advice. I'm just saying it's options.
You might need to flun it in that niggas face.
Just if you got to bitch, text chat, GPT and

(01:09:16):
giggle at your phone and have him wondering what's going on.
Just close that ship, lock it, change up your past
words and going on about your day. Yeah, you want
to get back at him, make his lunch and be
giggling while you make it. Oh baby, I made your
lunch and have him second guess and in his lunch.
Don't do that. Don't do that. And I put a

(01:09:39):
tack in his office. This is on the internet forever
the fuck. Don't do that. Don't put no Anna freeze
and nobody's drink because you know that. Well, I was
gonna say, don't put Anni freeze because I die. I

(01:09:59):
was just gonna say, like some people put in drinks
because it can be it doesn't you don't always die.
If you just put a little bit it. It makes
people feel like they're drunk, and you know things, Crystal,
I've watched a lot of documentaries. I'm saying, don't do that.
That was horrible advice. You will literally murder.

Speaker 2 (01:10:13):
I have a friend who made her boyfriend a little
Hennessy drink and put a whole bunch of liquid ben
and drill in it, and then she beat him up.

Speaker 1 (01:10:22):
He woke up and he didn't mmm. So you could
do that. There's lots of options out there. I would
suggest my favorite platform for things like this is Hulu,
not Netflix. They have tons of documentaries and they going
to the documentary and another documentary and a fictionalized series,

(01:10:44):
and you can see all the ways to do it.
If you're gonna treat yourself to a staycation, turn on
Investigation Discovery. There's ideas out there and hopefully you can
just live vicariously through them. And I'm gonna leave it
at that. But fuck him, but I think you should
get a little get back. I mean, put sugar.

Speaker 2 (01:11:02):
And his gas tank. I don't really work. I did
that before. It doesn't work, It doesn't do anything.

Speaker 1 (01:11:08):
Wait, why do you do that? You want to stop
that nigga in his tracks. I know that's right. It
didn't work, though. You know what you could do. He
got a beard a little and his beard stuff. You're
gonna have to dilute that. That's gonna be a slow burn.
I want you to get out before that. What else
could you do? Just start mixing up? He got games?

(01:11:29):
You like to play a game?

Speaker 2 (01:11:30):
Break them, cut them cords, take the whole system and
drop water on it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:36):
Yeah, and just pour water on it and then dry
it off. Put it back.

Speaker 2 (01:11:39):
Matter of fact, before you break the system, log into
the game and talk to the friends that he'd be
playing the games with and tell them just talk shit.

Speaker 1 (01:11:47):
This This might be too far. Y'all gonna be like bitch,
y'all need to log off, and I'm gonna say this.
You know what you could do. There's some maps. I
did this before. This was back in college, but you downloaded.
Have you ever heard of an app called grinder jacked?
Sign him up?

Speaker 2 (01:12:03):
Do that and now he's getting requests and emails and
another thing you can do. My friend, one of my
good girlfriends, told me this. Ah, it was such a great.
It was so great because it just gives you the
what you need. No one gets hurt, though, but it's annoying.
Go to a scientology site and put all of his
information in the scientologists and they will never stop contacting him.

Speaker 1 (01:12:20):
Second best, Jehovah's witness.

Speaker 2 (01:12:24):
Sign him up for everything, because he do need to
get saved.

Speaker 1 (01:12:27):
He need to find a community. Sign him up for everything.
How could I forget the church, a Latter day Saints,
the good old Mormons. Ah, get them too. They're gonna
be bicycling over there in no time. Okay, everybody doing
missionary work. I've been watching secret lives and Mormon wives.
They ain't doing no missionary work.

Speaker 2 (01:12:44):
Sign him up for everything, you can think, But since
for real, you don't stay with that man, you're gonna
be sad. And we have too much awareness right now,
we have access to resources. Friend, you're gonna be okay,
you're gonna be a little uh. I'm not gonna act
like the heart that ain't real. It's real, especially when
you thought somebody was it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:00):
You gonna right us back and tell us where you say,
and then we can proceed from there. Are you in
the city, baby? You want us to pull up on him?
Never mind I'm not gonna do that. You want to
just hang out, we can just have brun we could,
I wouldn't. We just hit us up girl, let us
know where you stay.

Speaker 2 (01:13:15):
At yea, come home because I feel for you all
the heartache.

Speaker 1 (01:13:19):
Girls. Yeah, we're not talking about no cocktails today. We
at a time we want to help her. Y'all send
our good syst some positive vibes. Hopefully you haven't been there,
but if you have, like we have, obviously.

Speaker 2 (01:13:32):
I feel like most women have been there where you
just are.

Speaker 1 (01:13:35):
We got the young girls too, they ain't there yet.

Speaker 2 (01:13:37):
But they acting stupid too. Like we do this thing.
I don't know what it is. It's like when we
just be loving, we'd be loving and forgiving and chances
and then you're like, oh he.

Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
He just okay, it's just like that. That's why you're
gonna do me Like, I don't know what it is.

Speaker 2 (01:13:56):
And when it it's because we can create a child
in our body that we just have different things where
it's like we're willing to put up with more.

Speaker 1 (01:14:04):
Honestly, I think it's just what we're taught. It's like
we're always taught to people like we're always taught to
be caring and loving. The boys don't get that they
get to play football and beat niggas up all day
and people supposed to do stuff for them. Cause now that.

Speaker 2 (01:14:21):
I'm even think about it, when it comes to like dating,
like the amount of like how much I'll be dedicated
to a person, Because it's like how she said, I
just want you to know, I'm not I just want
you to But I'm like, I'm like that too. That's
what I'm talking to me too.

Speaker 1 (01:14:34):
Why I have a few slip ups and I did
that and I was like, this don't even feel right.
They're not doing that to us.

Speaker 2 (01:14:42):
I see the trainers every day in the gym. Some
of them have girlfriends, some of them have people that they're.

Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
And it's like, they want to fuck me and my
homegirl and I'm not even talking about together. Why damn
the nerve of you.

Speaker 2 (01:14:56):
Like you wouldn't a man would never be like, I'm
not going to talk to her because I'm talking to her.

Speaker 1 (01:15:00):
He just wanted he gonna talk to both of y'all,
And naturally, you have the right to.

Speaker 2 (01:15:06):
We gotta stand up, lock your draws up, and don't
be having sex.

Speaker 1 (01:15:10):
To all these men.

Speaker 2 (01:15:11):
But stop being so dedicated, because there ain't nothing to
be dedicated to.

Speaker 1 (01:15:18):
If you're not married. And that's that on that bitch.
So yeah, until you get clink clinked and locked up,
locked in And I talked about a clink, a real
click and a filing in that file, having it down
at the courthouse. Okay, I need paperwork, bitch. Would people
google you? They need to see me when they google me,

(01:15:41):
they need to see you at least just your name.
Married ugly But anyways, girl, cood luck, I'm praying for you.
Y'all gotta supset, mon, y'all really upset anyway. If you
need advice or you have a cocktail senator to his
advice is advice at cocktails pot dot com. Cocktails is
cocktails at cocktailspot dot com. If you just want to

(01:16:04):
drop us a line, pick an email, hit us up,
we'll see it. Don't be email in the snow. Spam
and no titties, so ya gotta cut it down, and
all these goddamn spam bots and the DM talking about
oh and just hit me at my dad chased my phone,
You fucking perverted old ass man. What do you think
that'd be pissed me off. Block pop block. Everybody's getting blocked.

(01:16:25):
And don't tell us how to be women and what
women should be doing, because shut the fuck up and
grow a dick, you raggedy bitch. We got mad speaking
of old men really quick.

Speaker 2 (01:16:33):
Remember when I told you a few weeks ago that
the man had bought me flowers and the thing yeah
after and he was really cool, and he was really nice,
and he was a young man.

Speaker 1 (01:16:40):
It happened again.

Speaker 2 (01:16:41):
I was at no, this was a different and this
was a pervert man. He was an old white man
named John, and he bought me flowers in the grocery store.
But I thought he was about the kidnap me. I
was scared to smell the flower. I thought I was
gonna knock out and get kidnapped because he looked he
looked terrible. He was scary, like he was old.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
You could tell he was a pervert.

Speaker 2 (01:16:58):
You could tell he was like, I know the black
bitches in Atlanta love getting money, and I'll give it
to you. Mm hmmd what casts Yeah, it was gonna
be a horrible cost.

Speaker 1 (01:17:07):
And I was another reason why I know I'm healed,
because I do. I need a few things, but I
was like, jo, if you don't get the fuck out
of my face. I did take them on the daisies though,
but I was just like, wow, is this a new
trend that men are doing on the grocery store. That's
why I'm in Squared all day, baby, I don't even
want to be in. There's raggedy ass Helion's running around.
They're screaming you can't find ship. People don't be Yeah. Anyways,

(01:17:32):
thank you guys. Make sure you are subscribed to our Patreon.
You're phowing us on Instagram. We're at Cocktails podcast, I mean,
he said, so, I'm at Coffee Bean Dean And until
next week, you guys.

Speaker 3 (01:17:44):
Go bye bye bye bye bye bye.

Speaker 1 (01:17:54):
Bye bye

Speaker 2 (01:17:57):
Dry bye bye bye

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