Ep. 451 "All I Needed Was a Margarita and Some Discipline"

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Yeah, you're a check one two, check one two? Is
this Mike on? Is this Mike going?

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hey listen man, it's the one and only Trunks that
a DJ SYSM and you're listening to cocktails Dirty Discussions
with Kikia Medina Monroe.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Here.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
Today's cocktail is called the Black Girl Margarto. So the
ingredients you need. You're going to get a bottle of
RAS prossecco, some margarita, makes the filthy black cherry syrup,
some ice, some tequila, and some simple syrup and you're
basically going to make this like a normal margarita. But
do not shake it with the proscco in there, because

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we all know what happens when you do that. So
put all the ingredients except for the prosco and you
shake or shake it up, poured into your favorite red
plastic cup and top it off with Isa Ray's prosecco
and enjoy. You guys, that is a black Girl margarita.
And it tastes like a beautiful summer day. You're sitting

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at the pool. There's tall sexy men around, and you're
glistening from the sweat. You don't look tired. You know,
you start sweating too much and you're not cute no more.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
You look worn out.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
It's dark and you're just like, man, this isn't the
pool party is not fun no more? Does anybody have
some shade? I started cute? You guys?

Speaker 1 (01:25):
Try that out and I almost drink all of wine already.
Is hot as hell, you guys. But anyway, welcome back
to cocktails, dirty discussions. I am Kiki said, So, hey.

Speaker 2 (01:38):
Y'all, I'm a Dina mine around.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
You know, this drink is just it's really good. It's
perfect for the summer. It's a good pool side drink,
polside drink. Sorry we're late this week, but that's okay.
We're still here. You could be listening to this. Maybe
turn it on with other people if you're in an
adult environment, and share and keep sharing and keep sharing

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and keep sharing and keep sharing.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
Please keep sharing. Tell a friend to tell a friend.
And we didn't have July.

Speaker 1 (02:08):
Happy for the July, I didn't really well anyway.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Yeah, the girls are busy. The girls are busy, that's
the and the girls are busy. He has her show.
I watched it. I watched I always say his name wrong.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
Devow DeVoe.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
I watched the first one, and you at a guinea
over there interviewing me and being nice to him. I know, now,
y'all see what I was like, I don't know why
to call me, but I really put some work into
that and I was patient.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
I listened. I judged, but I didn't judge them there, Devo,
I didn't judge him. I mean, well I did, but
the judgment was good. Yeah. I was like, this is
a prime example what i'd be talking about right here,
the man Savannah. Where did that come from?

Speaker 2 (02:58):
Waiting to excel?

Speaker 1 (02:59):
Okay, but really it's funny because he wasn't mean. He
was somebody's husband and not hers, and her mama was
giving her that bad advice. You shouldn't always listen to
your mama. You got to check what kind of person
the person is that's giving you advice, and that's something
you need to keep in your nogging.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Okay, you cannot always listen to your mama and your parents,
and you just can't do it. And you know, it's
really interesting because y'all know, I got my real estate
license and I am a realtor and a lot of
real estate buying homes, especially if it's your first I'm
buying is very emotional, and I have to always tell people, friend,
you can't listen to your mom, Like I mean, you can,

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but you can't say that because sometimes people want to
be like, well, my mom said, yeah, but your mom
doesn't know Georgia law when it comes to real estate.
So it's like certain things, it's like I get that
your mom is like this, but it's like, Okay, now
we're gonna look at the inspection together and I'm gonna
tell you the facts. You're asking for stuff that doesn't
make sense. A handyman can fix this for twenty dollars.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Don't leave your mom.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Doesn't you know what I mean. So it's like it's
just like, yeah, don't always listening to your mama. But
I get this. Sometimes we all do it sometimes and
then you be looking like you told me to do this,
and now I'm not happy, and there we are.

Speaker 1 (04:15):
Now. I hope that's not how you guys. Is Friday
is going on your weekend? I hope everybody's having blash?
Do you have plans for the fourth of July? Like
we are literally recording this Thursday up to the minutes.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
You know, I I have some work to get done.
This weekend. I am gonna take a moment to have
some family time with my brother and my niece and
my nephew, Zane is down here from California for the summer. Yeah,
and that is my little buddy, and so we're gonna
do like some daytime family activity stuff. And then there
is a party that I got invited to and some

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of my girlfriends are like, just come, just come, just come,
And I'm not sure if I'm gonna go yet, cause
I'm just like, y'all, is it gonna be Is it
gonna be wild? And it is given wild in his vibes, but.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
I don't know a party like a public place or
like somebody's house type mansion party.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
You know how mansion parties go. So it's like it
can be really fun and and then it can go overboard.
So I'm just trying to decide, like am I gonna
do it? A part of me kind of wants to
because I told you I'm taking my high love, and
it got me wanting to go outside and and and
do things, so I might go, but I might or
maybe it's just like a good test to see, like

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how strong are you gonna hold on to whatever you
decide you want going into it?

Speaker 1 (05:34):
Are you gonna stick to that? Or when you see
somebody's fine ass son, does it all falter? I don't know.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
I mean it's like a midterm because we're halfway through
the year. Are you passing you fail it?

Speaker 1 (05:47):
Yeah? So I will see. I might do some poo.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
I'll definitely do some pool activity. You got plans before.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
I might be going to a pool party. But it's
not until Saturday. I don't know why I was thinking
it was tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Tomorrow's the fourth, yeah, but and I don't.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Know why it's not tomorrow. Yeah. But I'm not throwing it.
It's not my business and I don't have to bring shit,
I don't have to cook nothing, So I'm going probably
as long as I wake up. I really wanted to
veg out. Y'all know, when I find a show, when
I find anything that I like, I stick to it
and I become obsessed. So because I can't find any

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more really good time loop stuff. Thank you to all
of the suggestions that y'all send. Pretty much everything that
anybody sent me I watched, listen to, or whatever. If
you have more, please send them. I welcome them. I
would appreciate it. I had no more. But I've been
watching Resident Alien. Have you ever heard of that show
or seen it? No? Are you guys?

Speaker 2 (06:45):
No?

Speaker 1 (06:45):
Okay, well I started another nerd show. I started The
Better Sister? Did you tell me to watch The Better Sister?

Speaker 2 (06:50):
Somebody tell me to watch I watched it.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
It's good.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
I haven't finished it, and I'm.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Trying to get you don't like it.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
I don't not like it because I love Jessica Bill,
but I don't think I like it as much as
everybody else likes it. But I'm gonna finish it because
it's not bad. But it's also just kind of it
was dragging.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
Yeah, I agree. Now I be saying, like a movie
starring Nicole Kidman, where she gets to be the best
character that I think she ever plays, which is a
rich white bitch. Hmm.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
And I say that.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
Like she comes off really bitchy, like she's better than people.
She's me what was that thing? The couple, This the
perfect couple, the perfect couple. That is the character that
I think she does the best, the rich white bitch.
She plays that part so well. It works really great
when she's rich. I don't know that I've ever seen
her in a role where she wasn't rich. I think

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I've seen her like middle class. I don't know she
can do poor.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
I don't know, because she just doesn't have the bone structure.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
She does it, especially now because well I'm not gonna
do that, but I yeah, she's she's that's what she
should do. I love to see her and at Riller
with Jessica, Bill hates to see me coming. Well, I'm
sure they love it because I'm gonna binge it. Did
you ever watch Limehouse? No? Okay, if you did, you

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watch Paradise?

Speaker 2 (08:12):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (08:12):
Did you like Paradise?

Speaker 2 (08:13):
Loved it?

Speaker 1 (08:13):
Okay? You will like Limehouse?

Speaker 2 (08:15):
And what's his name is?

Speaker 1 (08:16):
Started lime Town? I'm sorry, not Limehouse.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
He's starting to be fine to me.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
What's his name? Starling?

Speaker 2 (08:22):
I never really was attracted him, but he's starting to
look like I was like, he.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
Got a body on him. I didn't know that until
I've seen that shower scene, and I was just like ill.
It's like watching her fine stepdaddy who you didn't know
was fine because you only ever see him in clothes,
and then you busting your mama's room one day. Watman
is his room too, and they're fucking and then you see, oh,
I mean we've been climbing him behind. Fine man. And
then you know what made him even more attractive.

Speaker 2 (08:49):
Well, he was talking about his wife and how much
he loves her.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
It is something about the man when you see them
dote on their wife love their wife. And it's not
like a sexy attraction attractiveness where I want them. It's
just like I love this. I love this for y'all.
I hope I have this one day, but in a
positive way, not jealous or anything, but it's just I
love it. It makes the person more attractive really, and

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it's like, let me add this to my list.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
To see a man want to shower and love on
his wife like and it's not in a performative way.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
It's like, wow, that's just it's beautiful.

Speaker 2 (09:25):
The trend of not wanting to do that, that's lame,
y'allame loser. And I can't wait to do that for
my man, Like yeah, but I want him to do
it more because it just I feel like it works
out better. It does. It's like a healthier relationship if he's.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
Got to do it more. It's just like some things
aren't equal. We don't make the rules. You guys, we're
just and I'm trying to get an I don't know
about you, but I speaking.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
Of trying to get a night. Can you know how
I have not been having sex right? And that's another
time where it's like, I don't really know how this
is gonna go. I'm I gonna wait until I get married.
Am I getting married? I don't know, but I am
so consider right and I really I'm trying to do
it at least for a year, and so far, so good.
But it gets really hard. It gets hard. I'm talking

(10:14):
about it. I know it. The more I heal, the
harder it gets because now, like I said, I'm looking
him in the other night, I was laying in my
bed and I was like, I got to do something.
I was like, my back hurts, my neck, twitle that diddle.
I can't sleep, And so I grabbed my Lilo and
I twiddled my diddle and I was so happy that
I did that.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
And self care its finest.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
And that's what I was about to say, self cared,
It's finest, and it really it my Lilo toy specifically,
it's helping me get through the healing journey in a
healthy way. Isn't that crazy.

Speaker 1 (10:47):
Because you don't need nobody else when you got Leelo,
come on here, Lee, Like my name is le Okay.
I am telling you that we have some really good
quality stuff. I've been talking about Lelo for years. That
was the first toy that like I splurged on because

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it was not, I think, the first toy that I
really liked. The I told you all about this. I
thought I was gonna burn my Kuchie off because like
the it had batteries and it like started melting on
the inside. Everything got too hot, like it was just
it could have been really dangerous. I survived and so
did my bussy, all of the pieces of it. But

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I decided I need to get something that is quality.
I have no pain in my wrist thinking I was
getting Carble Tunnel. I liked that it was chargeable, so
I just plug it in versus having a fine batteries.
It's nothing like we are ancient. So for our younger listeners,

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there was a dark time in Earth's history. The entire world.
We did not have door Dad. We didn't even have apps.
Apps came out like I was probably in college, so
I was an adult. There were no apps. It was
just like you maybe had a phone. Hopefully you better

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not talk too much before nine. We thought we was
lit when we could talk three minutes after seven, like
phones were a nighttime thing. Batteries came off, they might
you might lose it. Anyway, I'm getting sidetracked. I had toys.
The toys were just great, and then I realized like

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they had all kinds of other stuff, and I've explored.
I have my favorite, so I'd be wearing mine out.
And I don't always follow the instructions, but if I did,
it probably last longer. But they'd be lasting years.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
They really do. And the battery another one.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, I just, y'all, I just.

Speaker 2 (12:51):
You know, I'm not really a masturbator, and y'all know
that you are. You always have said that.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
But I went to a rough patch last year. But
Lelo is what brought me back, and.

Speaker 2 (13:03):
It's strengthening. Lelo is helping me strengthen my relationship with
the vibrations, and you know, I'm just I'm not mad
at it. So thank you le Lo.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
Yeah, thank you. I mean, if y'all want to feel
like we'd be feeling during your self care moments or whatever,
I guess you should check them out too, because like,
why not? Why not? What's it gonna hurt? I might
need to order a new product. Actually, I'm going to
browse their sight when I get home tonight and see
what they might have dowing. I literally bought the same

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thing that died on me. I know I wore that bit, y'all,
I was doing too much. Like sometimes you need to
let things like it's just like a phone or you cannot.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
You gotta let it breathe. And that's why you just
need to have several different options. So y'all, y'all go
over to pick your selections and tell us what you pick.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
What else has been going on?

Speaker 2 (13:58):
There has been a lot going on. Oh, I'm doing
another trip.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
I'm doing Kiki post. Did you see? I want to
go do the survey, but it wasn't ready yet. I
think I clicked too early.

Speaker 2 (14:11):
So if you clicked it in my bio. For some reason,
when I put it in the bio, it starts to
act up. So we'll put the link in the description. Also,
you guys, this is separate from Paradise and Vibe. Paradise
and Vibe is still happen to Easter Ray is still
coming to Sedona in August. Go to that too if
you can. But oh, and next year.

Speaker 1 (14:25):
We're going to Turkey. Don't tell nobody I told you that.
But the Balloon Festival.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
Not the Balloon Festival. It's a whole different theme and
I can't wait till I can share it. But I'm
doing a lover girl's only trip. I literally had this
idea overnight. This company Trova trip kept reaching out men
for a few years now, and I was like, I'm
not going to do it because I don't want to
confuse people with paradise and vibe.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
And then I was like, you know what, do your
own thing. Both can happen, and this one has more
of it.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
It's all me. So I decided the girls are sad.
I've been sad and I needed help. I needed somebody
to pick me up out of it. And several people
helped me, and I was like, you know what, when
I started to open up about my breakup, about my
relationship and some of the things that I was struggling
with Kiki, I got an outpour of women that were
just like VISI, I'm sad, Like I'm talking about voice notes,

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crying and people not believing in themselves anymore and being
like I can't find nobody else, And I said, oh, Nola,
you're not the only one.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Like people go through that, and it's like one of
those things where you want to be quiet for all
of the myriad of feelings that you have and you
just deal with it yourself.

Speaker 2 (15:31):
And you're not and you sometimes you maybe don't know
how to deal with it, maybe you don't have the
community around you to deal with it, and sometimes you
feel like you want to die, Like I like, I
can't even explain it any other way. And so I said, no,
you know what I said, We're going to do a trip.
I want the girls to come. If you've been heartbroken,
if you're sad, if you're lonely, if there is just
some sadness that you have. This isn't a sad We're
gonna cry all day trip, no, bitch. We're gonna go

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do the things that you do when you do get
out of the healing. You dance, you maybe do dretting.
I'm just play.

Speaker 1 (16:00):
I think. So you get.

Speaker 2 (16:02):
Tattoos, you eat good food, you feel beautiful, you get
dressed up, you pick yourself up, and you get out
of it. And do it with me. Baby girl, got you.
You not gonna die, and there is gonna be another
man and we're gonna go to another country to find him.
So if you would like to come with me in
twenty twenty six for my lover Girl's trip, this is
not a retreat, bitch. We are going to just have

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a good time and vibe with each other. Click the
link in the description. Fill out the survey. So far
we have Thailand as number one, and then we have Greece,
and then we have Morocco, and then we had Hawaii.
But the more people that vote, that might change, and
then we'll pick the timeframe after that, So make sure
you guys pick it. I would love to have you come.
Tell a friend, to tell a friend, and bitch, Come
if you sad, Come if you're happy, Come if you're single,

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and come if you're in a relationship and still sad,
because that happens also, and it sounds like.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
It's gonna be a good time. You said it'll be
next year.

Speaker 2 (16:55):
It'll be next year there and so I don't I'm
not sure what month yet because it you know how
it is. Things on the location and they break down
the best times to go, they'll tell you the you
know how much it's gonna cost, and but it'll be
next year, for the love of girls, and I'm really
excited to just like see y'all.

Speaker 1 (17:13):
And let you know you're not alone.

Speaker 2 (17:15):
You not alone. Everybody didn't been crying.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
People have been through some things. Yeah, and it's okay.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
My best friend came to visit me last at this point,
I think it's probably two weeks ago. Hannah came.

Speaker 1 (17:27):
How was that?

Speaker 2 (17:28):
It was such a good time. We didn't get to
it was funny because we were texting when she got
back home. She was like, we didn't take one picture
and we really didn't even get to like catch up
because she has a baby now and so it's just
kind of different. So y'all do ran after the baby,
and like, you know, it's just so hard, like you
can't really have a full conversation when the babies were
that little, so it was just always one, he's one,

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or if you let her tell it, she's like a
mom thirteen months.

Speaker 1 (17:50):
I'm like, say one, we're not.

Speaker 2 (17:53):
The baby is twenty seven months?

Speaker 1 (17:55):
What the fuck is even that?

Speaker 2 (17:56):
What is that?

Speaker 1 (17:58):
Some change?

Speaker 2 (17:59):
The baby is forty nine months?

Speaker 1 (18:01):
Probably when you're twenty one years old and Auntie going
to show you good time.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
Yeah, but we had fun. I got a new tattoo.
I got a mirror. I got a little mirror.

Speaker 1 (18:09):
See yeah, you see that beauty and the beast. Is
there a meaning behind it? There is.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
It's to always remember yourself. Remember yourself. It's real easy
to forget, especially when you're a woman. So I got
a little mirror and I absolutely love it. Hannah and
I did that together. We always that's our thing. We
go get tattoos together. We got but sheek tattoos together,
the same thing. She didn't get the same thing this time.
We just got different tattoos. But we always go and
like that's our bonding experience together. And so she came.
We had a good time. She spent the night with

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me one night and her and the baby, and it
was cool. We got up just a little smidge and
then then it was done because we're grown and everything
is quick when you get old. Also, I, oh, Kiki,
I gotta tell you this. So after that scary Amazon
delivery driver situation, I told myself, you know what, and

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this is a part of the love girl experience of like,
let me start to try new things. I keep saying like, wow,
I really have to become the man that I wanted.
And at first it was really sad, like I was like, damn,
like me, I hate this for me. But now I'm like,
you know what, I actually kind of like it for me.
So I have a gun coach. I'm learning about guns
because I said I'd be damned if a nigga run

(19:20):
up on me again. Period pop pop, Yeah, yeah, don't
play with me. So I didn't tell them that, but
I was like, I started my I had my first
lesson and this is an eight month of course. So
it's teaching me how to comfortably handle my firearm so
that you, like a lot of people go buy a
gun and then you don't actually know how to use it.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
And now that's why people be getting going to prison
for shooting the wrong fucking.

Speaker 2 (19:45):
Person, or that's why kids get a hold of guns.
And now it's really even more sad than that. So
it's a woman led company, and it's a mom and
a daughter and one I think the daughter's in the Navy,
and the mom is just really good at guns, and
so I am absolutely loving it. All these different books
we do online courses I meet in person. They're not
only teaching me how to comfortably handle my firearm and

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correctly handle it. They teach you how to talk to
kids about it. They teach women how to conceal it
if you have on tight clothes, if you're going on
a date and you want to conceal it somewhere where
maybe you don't want the man, so you don't want
to put in your pants, but you may want to
put in your like they teach.

Speaker 1 (20:18):
You to walk around like a Texas ranger.

Speaker 2 (20:20):
Yeah, they teach you the laws they are going to
One of the main things that I'm nervous about and
excited about is they're gonna put you. They're like, if
you ever have to use this, it is more than
likely going to be a high stress situation. Your target
is probably going to be moving. And so what they
do is they put you in several different high stress
situations with your firearm. And one of them is you're

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in a field and you like, they act like people
are not like slavery, more like war.

Speaker 1 (20:46):
Oh, more like war, more like war, and like somebody, wait.

Speaker 2 (20:51):
A minute, and somebody is trying to get you, and
you have to successfully get out in the high stress situation. Also,
they put you in a situation where you're in a
home and there's a glory and somebody and they said
the scenes are so scary that like they want you
to really feel how you would feel if you were
in the house and somebody broke in. Do you know
how to calm down, get your firearm, get your target ready,

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and like get in the stance and move and like
shoot like shoot to kill. They teach you about how
important it is not just supposed to play around. Yeah,
you're not supposed to play around and you but you
also the lady was talking about how it really is
like a mindset thing you have to get because I
was scared. I was scared. I couldn't even pull It
took me forever to be able to pull the trigger.
And she's like, by the end of this course, you
would be dead. That's not gonna be you. She was like,
you're gonna be You're gonna be solid. But they I

(21:34):
like that. They also they also teach you how to
bandage a wound. So if you did get shot, or
if somebody with you got shot, like they're gonna teach
you how to sew it.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
Like you.

Speaker 2 (21:47):
I think the daughter was in the Navy.

Speaker 1 (21:48):
I knew it this girl.

Speaker 2 (21:51):
When they showed me the videos, I was like, I'm
gonna be doing this show. You're gonna be doing this.
So I did my first lesson and I was like,
I'm the only black person. It's a whole lot of
country white people. But I don't even care. I was like,
here I am, and we're going to North Georgia to shoot.
And I said I'm coming and I'll be there.

Speaker 1 (22:07):
Lawa croft too.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
Ready and I'm ready.

Speaker 1 (22:10):
I was.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
She was teaching me how to load the gun. I
ain never loaded the gun in my life, but real
I read into the gun range, but I didn't do
the things and I didn't want to go to the
gun light. When you was a gun range, what did
you do when you have the gun? They did everything
and they were like, okay, I didn't enjoy that. Though,
I'm not gonna lie. Every time I've gone to the
gun range, I'm always like I don't want to do this.

Speaker 1 (22:28):
It's like I'll do it, but I am.

Speaker 2 (22:30):
I am frightfully, I'm nervous, like i'd be shaking and like.
So that's why I was like, let me know, let
me really get comfortable with this.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
I would like to take this course too. It sounds
like a master I was excited about it, really yeah,
and I was like, I want to get in there.
I wanted to be like Laura Croft. I wanted to
be like, what's that show with Zoey sid That was
just no, that was a movie. It was something recently.
She's like in the military, yes, lying at yes, thank you.

(23:02):
I just I I have realized y'all knew this already.
But I love a female lids show, and I love
when they come in and they do things where it's
like typically a man. So it's typical to see a
man leading an action show or an action movie and
walking around busting caps and everybody's ass and just being
powerful and just like doing it. She took some bullets,

(23:23):
she was killing people. I love how. I'm sure it's
not like this in real life because it's TV, but
I liked seeing their military operations and they're just running
around all in your uniform and just being so persiled.
I was like, I want to do that. I don't
want to be no military. I would just like to
know how it's like how being a person in a
video game it's like a real slash virtual experience.

Speaker 2 (23:46):
It's a skill, even to the point of like when
you're looking at a target.

Speaker 1 (23:50):
I was like, loading them bullets is hard. It was
hard loaded them.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
I was really hard. She was like, you want to
know how.

Speaker 1 (23:55):
To do it.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
She's like, now imagine if so, imagine this is a
high stress situation and somebody's chasing and you gotta do this.
She was like, that's why it's so important. Or you're shaking,
and like there was a we had a conversation about
like she was asking me why I want to do this,
and I told her about the situation. But then I said,
you know what, I also had like a I was
thinking one night and I said, you know, it's not
just that, it's also like the men are different nowadays.

(24:17):
And I said, I said, imagine I'm married and we
have kids, me and appling, all of them, my man,
and we're sleeping in the bed. Somebody busting down the door.
He's like, I got a baby. I'm like, go get them.
And he goes down there to get them, and they
actually get him because we ain't never been in.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
This situation before.

Speaker 2 (24:30):
They get his ass. Now, now the man running up
here to get me appling all of them, and I'm
just like, he gonna get those babies because I don't
know how to No baby go down their handle. And
I got this shit up here. I wish you nigga
would it, and I really know what I'm doing. It's
not it's like little babies go do what you'll go somewhere,
And I really am like, don't play with me.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
When I see little kids as a gun range or
I saw they had movies too, but that's fake in
real life. I have seen the kids and the way
that some of them are able to move. Who's confidence.
I literally saw a video the other day and people
had a lot to say about it in the comments,
but you know, fucking people, I liked it. It was

(25:09):
a family and so it was like a dad, I
don't know a backstory, but his daughter is blindfolded. She
could not have been older than like eight. She could
pick up a gun, pick up the bullets, know the size,
know the gun, know how to load it. She could
do everything blindfolded. And somebody had said something like, oh uh,

(25:32):
she's never gonna find a man because bloh, shut the
fuck up, because what does that have to do with anything.
He's teaching his daughter something that is valuable self defense
and self defense and just having the confidence to do
something and not needed to rely on somebody. And it's
just like whether any of that part was even a

(25:52):
facter to be able to do all that shit blindfolded
as a little kid. He didn't even get a driver's sizes.
But you know, all these bullets scared of you, girl
in the best way teach me. I want to know
that is going, Like what about when she goes to college?
I thought she will feel so much safer and like
having a dad that is taking the time to show
you these things. I think that that's good if your

(26:15):
daddy really knows.

Speaker 2 (26:18):
Another thing that I think is cool is she that
we talked about was she was like, We're not just
gonna teach you how to kill people. She was like,
there's also gonna be we're gonna teach you how to
use this as a weapon. Let's say you are somebody
does pisbody. Yeah. She was like, I'm like, she was
showing me, like what to you how to use this
if you are like I don't want to. I don't
want to, but I will, but I don't want to,

(26:39):
So She was like, we're gonna teach you how to
do that. We're gonna teach you how to maneuver if
you're on your back, God forbid you're getting raped, We're
gonna teach you how to do I mean, And they
offer all these other self defense classes, and I really
was looking at my grown self, like, wow, you have
to know how to defend yourself. You can't rely on
a man. You might not have one and he might
not be able to protect.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
You, and he might not be there, like, well, I
don't know something I'll do be attached to the hip,
but everybody is not.

Speaker 2 (27:04):
Like I mean, at some point he got to use
damn toilet. You go in there too, and you gotta
protect him. What if somebody come in listen, just hear
me out, you know, for oh, he is what if
what if something happens and like it's a situation where
for real, Like what if it's a situation where like
you're in a public situation and he gets hurt and
you and he can't he's like he can't.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
He's yeah, no, not you. Just like I left Bobby
in the street because then man was running after us.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
No, I pulled my shirt out bow like. I just
was like, okay, this is this you were there's so
many scenarios you gotta think about. But the one thing
they were like, it's the safety, it's the rules. You
have to change your mindset, don't you don't. You gotta
know what you're doing and you gotta pay attention to
not only the target, but you're surrounding like everything around
it because you can really hurt people. Yeah. I was like, wow,

(27:54):
like this is She was like, if you're in a
situation and it's like a mass shooting and you can
you have a shot to get like the person who's
doing this stuff, you gotta know what you're doing. You
can't just pull it gun now you're shot an eight
year old and it's so skilled.

Speaker 1 (28:04):
I was looking at the lady like you really know
what you're doing. Yeah, it's more than just a little
point and shoot like that kickback and understanding like how
your eyes work when you're looking through even if it
has that little viewfinder thing, how do you see it
versus you know what you might think it is is?
It ain't easy.

Speaker 2 (28:25):
I am turned on, Like I don't you feel powerful?
That's why when I told her I was a woman
hear me roar. That's how I feel when I have
the gun.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
And if you get too close, bitch, you'll get.

Speaker 2 (28:35):
Got don't play with me.

Speaker 1 (28:36):
Now close on pro methazine or comethazine, whatever the fuck
that little rapper. I don't know. My sister gotta shoot
them up playlist And sometimes when I get I know,
like we're not shooting up people, but it's just got
all like that kind of music that the young kids
listen to, and it's got a little green emoji gun. Anyway,
I like it and it gets me in the mood

(28:56):
when I'm going to the gun range because I need
to act like people's after me.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
And it's when I was in the gun rage, I
felt sexy because it was like I'm a woman in
there by myself. I've been in it before, but it's
in something like I was like, oh my fad my
man here for it was like the man was like,
what you doing here?

Speaker 1 (29:12):
I was like getting ready, get ready? What are you doing?

Speaker 2 (29:16):
Yeah? What you doing?

Speaker 1 (29:17):
But and I was but then they saw me. I
was like, we walked in. I was like, lady later
later later she was like, take your stance me. We
just talked about it.

Speaker 2 (29:26):
I was like okay, and she was like telling me
how to hold it and I was doing it, and
this gun did you have? I had a nine milimeter,
but I don't know a Samson what is it called.
I don't know more than I was trying to figure
out how big it was Smith and Wesson. And I
was doing, that's a good one, and she was like,
you got okay, she was like she was, she was
counting down.

Speaker 1 (29:42):
I will be about them.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
Some man had a bazooka gun next to us and everything.
I was like, and I put the gun down. I said, Madison,
I can't.

Speaker 1 (29:51):
Have you shot a gun to silencer. No, okay. I
don't want your to think that we are like out
here trying to do bad things. And I hope this
shit don't get but let me just say this. I
used to always wonder why they didn't always use silencers,
because a lot of times it's the gun shot that'll
make somebody else call somebody, right, So I'm just like,

(30:14):
why wouldn't you just use the fucking silencer? And I
remember I said that on here a long time ago.
Somebody's like those are illegal, but you're shooting somebody all I.

Speaker 2 (30:23):
Didn't say, it's legal. I said, they don't. You can't.
Everybody can't just buy a silencer.

Speaker 1 (30:27):
Well no, no, it was. It was definitely somebody else.
Oh But anyway, what I realized because I shot with
a silencer at a gun, rang that shit is heavy.
I didn't know that.

Speaker 2 (30:39):
Guns were heavy.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
I actually was tired.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
I said, that's heavy.

Speaker 1 (30:44):
Yeah, you're gonna need that self care lighter. Someone else
is not gonna give you that carporotone. But anyway, the
silencers are heavy. And then I wanted to shoot a
big gun, but that was the one I was scared of.
The handguns were better. But then I did that, and
I was like, the first gun I was shot was
some kind of shotgun. Because I was hunting. I know

(31:05):
that y'all would never picture it, but I don't know
what it is about shooting. I like it hunting. I
killed a boar. I was down out in Toombsboro, Georgia.
I shot a wild boar, killed him on my first shot,
and then I barbecued him, had ribs. That was some

(31:25):
good meat. Like damn, it was some good eating. Not
better than Fox Brothers.

Speaker 2 (31:29):
I don't really wish we could get Fox Brothers as respond.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
And I was dming them the other day, but I respond, well,
they responded to me first because somebody else went and
they were like, you keep talking about them, So I went,
they tagged him and tacked me, so I reposted and
I was saying hey, But then I thought about it.
I was like, oh, you know how it is like
sometimes with companies or whatever, whoever is actually running the
social media thing.

Speaker 2 (31:50):
I mean, do you know who that happened that? What company?
That happens? With me a lot? But I'm like, y'all
needs to really look at me. Arby Parker, I'm like,
they get so many tags and I'll see them and
they sometimes will respond and I'm like, you.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
Need a manager. That's where I think you're at. You
need a manager. It's just hard to find a manager
because there's so many scamming ones out there that'll be
trying to charge you fees as.

Speaker 2 (32:12):
Then they don't be working.

Speaker 1 (32:13):
Like but the manager is supposed to eat off of
what they get they get commissioned, right, is the standards
you guys.

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(34:34):
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Speaker 2 (34:35):
I was like, yeah, we do.

Speaker 1 (34:36):
We talking about certain things a lot that are unofficial.
Well they're not sponsors and they should be, but they
bring me join my personal life. Kenders. Yeah, did you
see Kinders has stuff and I don't go in the
frozen food Ayle, They got a frozen food but I'm
about to go because they have new products. They have

(34:59):
multiple different types of chicken wings. I'm not really a
but since it's Kenders, I'm gonna try it out and see.
I'm gonna go to publics this weekend. I will report
back by the end of the month and let you
guys know that that they have some kind of potatoes something,
some veggies something. But they have different stuff in the
frozen food section. And I was like, y'all about to

(35:20):
take over. This shit is good.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
And if I get on here and tell y'all that
it's good, who's related to mister Kender? Is mister Kender alive?
They got fries?

Speaker 1 (35:33):
Yeah, they got fries. I saw them. I've been seeing
all the Kender stuff and then I've been seeing We're
not the only ones. I mean, obviously, because this shit
is fucking good good, but so many people have been
showing their collections. My mom keeps sending me stuff about
Megan Marco and the Lake Crusette stuff. I don't care
about none of that. I want to see the girls
Kender's collection to make sure I got all the spices

(35:54):
and flavors. I want thirty one flavors that Bootylicious, kinder
season okay, and the sauces. I love thee truffalo, A
truffalo truffle buffalo.

Speaker 2 (36:08):
Now you know I don't like truffle. I'm very sensitive trouble.
It tastes like Bookers.

Speaker 1 (36:11):
It's not to me. Okay, well never mind for you
on that. You won't enjoy that. But they also have
a Louisiana creamy buffalo, which is good. It's not too hot.

Speaker 2 (36:22):
They had some other sauce and Barbara.

Speaker 1 (36:25):
I recently know that's a big back family. No disrespect,
but like with food, food be too seas.

Speaker 2 (36:32):
And that's good. I recently did a grocery store run.
I meant to send this to you, yestually one of
my girls. I had one of my girlfriends the other
day with her mom. She was like, my mom's older
and I just need somebody to take her to the store.
And it was like, they're Nigerian. It's an international store.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
What show you into?

Speaker 2 (36:49):
Still international? This lady was.

Speaker 1 (36:51):
Getting in her craft.

Speaker 2 (36:52):
Girl.

Speaker 1 (36:52):
I was screaming because I was. They were jumping and
the craws girl.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
I was like, that is absolutely wild. I was just
one of the little but he's bucked up at me watching. Yeah,
he's standing over there.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Well, what time it is?

Speaker 2 (37:09):
I was like it was fish heads and I was like, wow,
I've never.

Speaker 1 (37:12):
Been a minute. Will you go to the grocer. You
don't never see none of this at any grocery store.

Speaker 2 (37:18):
You telling me at Public's there they got a whole
fish with the heads on them. Yet that part, yeah,
I've never seen crabs living.

Speaker 1 (37:26):
I was usually in the water if they do have them,
like you know, in the water, the lobster tanks and stuff.

Speaker 2 (37:31):
Sometimes they had a turtle in the tank. I said,
excuse me, turtle. That turtle as a pat or eat
eat it. They said, they eat that turtle and I
said that's not okay. Why not because that's not okay.
Like I was just looking at the little turtle like
people eat rabbits. You know that right, My turtle is
about to die. It was, it was, I was very

(37:55):
I was like, why she got her crabs? I said,
we're gonna put that in the car. I said, what
if they get out? Said they know they want to
get out, And I was.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
Like, usually rubber band them and put them in a bot. Nope,
they put them.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
They put them in a bag and they just rolled
the bag down. No, it was a paper bag and
oh yeah, they get out and she was like, no,
they won't get out.

Speaker 1 (38:10):
And I was like, wow, but when you open that bag,
you gotta put that top on that pot.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
I got some really good juicy mangos. I was like, wow,
I wow, grocery store. But yeah, Kender's is really good,
and uh yeah, I want to remind everybody just really quick.
One of my girlfriends, she has a breast cancer awareness
walk in Tampa October twenty fifth and it is Saved
the Tatas two point oh. This is her second year

(38:36):
doing it. Her mother died from breast cancer and the
cause is amazing. We'll put the link in the description
so you can donate to help someone with their breast
cancer journey, or to get checked and or to get
a weak like I don't know. They're doing so many
things for breast cancer patients and they are doing that walk.
They live in Tampa. You should try to go and
you can register create a team with the link in
the description. Which you been not too Kiki.

Speaker 1 (38:59):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (39:00):
Last weekend I went to Houston and I had a
black a mini. I know so much has changed. Did
you see any old flings.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
No, but I did go to the Boil House, and
I was so happy that they still had crawfits because
we're technically out of seasons the last couple of days.
I'm sad about it. Anyway, I saw some friends. I
saw a bunch of friends. I went out. I went

(39:32):
and saw Beyonce on Sundays. So I'm sure most of
y'all know Beyonce almost died on Saturday night.

Speaker 2 (39:40):
Wasn't that serious.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
I mean she was suspended in the air and stuck
and the car was leaning way too much. I wasn't
there for that show. I went on Sunday. I wonder
if somebody got fired. I think so absolutely. I when
I woke up in the morning, I saw all of
these like all the all the funny people on Instagram
that were making skins. They were all reenacting what Blue

(40:03):
Ivy did since everybody says she's the manager, and it
was funny to me. I can't remember the creator's name,
but it was somebody and he was pretending to be
Blue Ivy firing everybody, and he was just like my mother.

Speaker 2 (40:15):
You had my mother suspect and she almost died. Okay,
everybody who was on the car team fired. You're fired.
If you had anything to do with this, I don't care.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
If you had to take a poop, I don't care
if you had to pee, I don't care if you
wanted to eat. All safety checks should have been done.
What was the problem? You know what, It doesn't matter.
You're done. Get out. Did I fire you yet? Cause
you're gone to I don't like it. And then she
was well he because he was playing her. What are
y'all doing? Get comfortable. We're staying here so that this

(40:48):
doesn't happen again. You're not going home. We're staying here
until tomorrow's show. Get comfy. More work to be done
because I don't understand how this happened, my mother. And
then in the background, it's like him or maybe somebody
looks like him, just they made him smaller in the video,
like is roomy, and she's just in the back like, yeah,

(41:10):
what my sister said, And I was like, exactly, Anyway,
I went the next day, she cut sixteen carriages, the
whole thing with a car. She did fly around, and
she zoomed on that horseshoe twice. I don't remember if
it was supposed to be twice or not. I enjoyed
the show. I didn't realize until it was over and
we were packing up. I was like, I didn't get

(41:30):
to hear my favorite song. I figured she wasn't gonna
do the car, but because I watched the movie from Renaissance,
I know that she typically has multiple identical sets. I'm
hoping I'm going again next week in Atlanta. In Atlanta,
my sister's coming out here, and I'm really excited about that.

(41:50):
When this was dressed rehearsal, Houston, Oh, her hometown for me.
Oh for me and my friends yea, and we were
just like, this is dressed for hers, So we're trying
to get out together. Nobody shit came together good. We
couldn't find it.

Speaker 2 (42:03):
It was just a mess.

Speaker 1 (42:04):
But in the end it all worked out. But I'm
really excited and my sister's gonna come to this one.
Her husband had ended up canceling her birthday trip. They
were going, I don't know if they were going to Mexico.
They was going somewhere. Canceled it last minute for a valid,
valid reason. But then he hit me up. He was like,
I feel really bad, but I think it was work related.

(42:27):
But he was like I'm gonna get her tickets to
go with you to Beyonce, So y'all go tell me
where you want to sit and all this, and so
he sent me the money and then it was funny
because she knows all of this now. But it was
funny because he wanted me to keep it a secret
because we got the floor seats and last time we
were definitely far far far as far as you could

(42:48):
be from the floor last time me and her went together,
and so he was like, oh, keep it a secret.
I was like, can you haul water?

Speaker 2 (42:54):
Did he get take any stickey? No that she had.
She still got it available.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
Well, she put it up for sale, but I don't
think anybody's bought it. So yeah, yeah, long on their
Well i'll send you this section. It's on Friday. Oh yeah,
that's crazy. I'm so sorry for that. Well, anyways, we

(43:20):
will be there in a funeral and we're gonna be
having a good time. Me and her are really saiting.
She her outfit is looking really good. She's making hers
and I wish that I would have started a long
time ago. I was like, do you think I can
make this? I have an idea. We're gonna see if
it happens or not, I don't know. Obviously didn't get braids,
but I did wear a platinum blond wig and now

(43:42):
I want one for real. And I started to pack it,
but I didn't have enough time to straighten it. I
will be bringing that platinum wig out. Baby, this speak
of the devil. Here she go, call me girl, I'm
at the show talking about you. But I have an
idea about my fit. I really liked how my Houston
fit came together. I am excited about it. I just
can't wait. And then she has like a lot of

(44:04):
plans for us. Are we doing? Is working creating content?
And so she's like, you can get doing your job.
You're right, So it's good to have a little sister.
I'm just really excited about it. But I ate the crawfish.
I went out. I went to the strip club because
the like I used to be. But it was five
in the morning and I had I woke up in

(44:27):
the morning. I do wake up in the morning, even
if I don't want to write. She's been all day.
I've been to Beyonce, I've done all this stuff. And
then I was like, why is everybody up? Then I
had to remind myself. People be on drugs. Stop comparing
yourself to people in these streets because people be coked
up and everything else. And everybody also didn't wake up early.
That's another piece. But I'd have been to the Beyonce concert.

(44:49):
I've been over the river and through the woods.

Speaker 2 (44:53):
Why should just gone to the hotel? Well, I thought
I was okay to go out because I was still
feeling like the rush of being in Beyonce's You just
feel good, you know, it's euphoric.

Speaker 1 (45:04):
And then before I noted, noted, before I knew it,
you don't have your haird do that thing.

Speaker 2 (45:09):
You were just like.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
You're somebody.

Speaker 2 (45:12):
But then then you was asleep.

Speaker 1 (45:15):
Well, now I didn't have to wonder that because everybone's like, damn,
bitious you fucked up. And I was like, I'm not
fucked up. Y'all are fucked up because y'all are on
real drugs. I just had alcohol and it's I look
at my phone, It's what's hurty, It's weren't you okay?
We have been from spot to spot to spot. Anyway,
it was good to be out. It was good to
hear the music. I had a blast something. I was like, oh,

(45:36):
I got to see my friend Soireya who lives there,
and her daughter's birthday was like a few days before,
so her daughter's birthday party was the weekend before. It
was like, well, I can't I do both, So I
missed her party, but they came out to eat cross
crawfish with me, and it was good to see her.
I love seeing the growth of my friends kids because

(45:57):
as they get older, it's just like seeing there little
personalities developed. Like Sandra has sent me some videos today
her baby has been going to swimming lessons and stuff, right,
and she swam the long way across the pool by herself.
She's five. And then Phoenix is like three or four
and she's like, yeah, Ariel was at my birthday party, girl,

(46:17):
and she's just tell Like seeing them speek is just
nice to see that there are some kids, yeah, who
are being taught things and they have good vocabularies. They
can read, they they can count, because.

Speaker 2 (46:32):
Why y'all are cut from a great cloth. My little
nephew Zaying, he's just so smart and he's so intelligent
and like he thinks like he thinks, my nephew Zay,
he's so his dad has done so great with him
and his mom Margo like both of them, but my
dad is the one who I mean, his dad is
the one's really healthy. So Zane will do things and
it's like we used to think Malik was really hard

(46:53):
on Zaane when it came to like health, He's like stop,
he's little. But I see it now that my brother.

Speaker 1 (46:58):
Willild those values well.

Speaker 2 (46:59):
He he made things a habit that you wouldn't see
in certain kids there are Like Zaying was with me
the other day and I asked him, did he want
an ice cream sandwich? And he said, can I see it?
And I was like sure and he said, he's like,
this just has too much chocolate in it. I said,
what do you want to taste it? He tastes, He
said it's too much chocolate. He said, do you have
an apple? And he he made that decision, and I
was like, his own, that's so important that he's not

(47:21):
like he just kind of like knows, like you don't
do the over sugaring. That's crack for children, like it
just really is for adults.

Speaker 1 (47:29):
For adults, my goddamn problem. Now all the pop charts
my mama gave me and I just looked at him
and I'll be like, damn, you be on your mama's ass,
and I do, and I will because I tell her,
I'll stop doing that with my nieces.

Speaker 2 (47:40):
My sister tries to do something different to your point,
and mom will be like, well, im my grandma, stop it,
I'm telling on you. Yeah, and so yeah, watching the
kids grow into like the people that they'll be, it's
just like beautiful.

Speaker 1 (47:52):
Like I was just like, oh my god, I cry.

Speaker 2 (47:54):
But I wanted to ask you. So you talked about
the Beyonce concert. There were two things I wanted to
ask you. No, they weren't about being said, but something
that you said sparksan. I was gonna say, oh, are
you how do you feel about the Brandy and Monicator?

Speaker 1 (48:08):
I'm really Oh you're not excited about Okay, I'm really excited, Carter. Okay,
do you think that it will be a show like that?

Speaker 2 (48:15):
No? I just I love Brandy. I love Brandy and
I do love Monica. And I was like, oh my gosh,
this is so nostalgic.

Speaker 1 (48:22):
I can't wait.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
So since you're not interested in that, I'll move on
the next thing. I was going to ask you, because
it just jumped in my mind. Did you see the
Beast of interview with her and her best friend and
how she was like, I was okay. I didn't watch
the whole thing, just the clip where the friend was like,
and I saw you giving to everybody else finances.

Speaker 1 (48:40):
I had to leave. I wanted to know what did
you think about that?

Speaker 2 (48:46):
Because I was like, you know what, I had a
similar conversation with an ex friend. It didn't come out
great and clear because I was drunk, but it was
the lady was saying. It was interesting because I was like,
me and my sister were talking about it, and I
was like, while I'm not a friend, and it's like
you just need to end be an enabler and you
just always giving your money out and just because you
have money that means you need to take care of everyone.

(49:07):
I'm also not someone where it's like I'm not gonna
help you if I can in some way. I cannot
come in and save a hole. I can't do that.
But I was like, huh, at what lengths will you
go to help a friend? And if they're not asking,
but you see that they're struggling.

Speaker 1 (49:24):
There is no way on God's green earth that I
could sit across from somebody I am currently calling my
best friend and she's telling me that something about a
repossession of a car. I don't even know what else,
but when it was a lot, it was things. And

(49:46):
it's like, by no means do I think the person
who is struggling should ever expect another person to swoop
in and be captain save a hole? However, and I
have the same conversation with friends and my sisters, and
I was just like, I think it makes you look
like a really shitty person to sit there across from somebody.

(50:06):
It's not like you didn't know. You knew that somebody
was struggling, and you chose not to help cause what
you had to go to H and M. You didn't
need to shop, and we're not looking to you, ma'am
for your fashions. I just thought that was crazy. It
bothered me, and it made me wonder how other people
look at it like you're because I say a lot
of people like I don't. I like you said, I

(50:30):
would want to help, however I could. We don't even
have to be best friends, we can be cool. I
don't want to see people struggle. There were times where
I had friends or even not even close friends, or
people I could actually truly call a friend, but just
we're cool, right.

Speaker 2 (50:47):
You don't say anything to me.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
But I can tell that you're struggling, and we don't
have to talk about it because I can be embarrassing
and I'm not trying to embarrass you. But if I
peep that, I am going to offer whatever help I
can do. Y'all know I'm gonna eat. I'll be homeless
before i be hungry. Okay, I'll invite you over for dinner.
I will bring you through. I will do whatever I can.

(51:10):
If I can do more, I will if I can
speak your name and room, so maybe you can get
an opportunity to get yourself out of this. I will
whatever I can do, I will, And I don't understand
why you wouldn't. I guess I could have tried to
watch the whole thing, but I was just so annoyed.
I was bothered me.

Speaker 2 (51:30):
And it bothered me too, and I was just confused.
And it's just so interesting because like everybody knows, like
I've been on like a spiritual journey, and it's when
I read the Bible. Every day, I pick a chunk
to read, and I every day I get confused because
I'm like, that's what she kept saying, Jesus.

Speaker 1 (51:49):
It's just talking about you, what you're going on in for.

Speaker 2 (51:53):
All of the different means and the different skins. I'm
just I'm cracking it. And I don't want to make
her feel about But it's a weird because every even
I want to even take back, like you don't you
have to give everything. But it's weird because the more
that I learned, like the character of God according to
the Bible, and I am gonna choose to go with
that character. A lot of what I'm reading and studying

(52:15):
is you are supposed to help people even if you
don't have it. And so it's to me it is
like because I think I said, like, it's not your
responsibility to help, but no, no, no, no, yes it is.
And it's like I have been trying to I was
telling my sister this and my aunt this the other day,
trying to look for the opportunities in the world when

(52:36):
because sometimes you just move so fast you don't notice
that somebody needs help. But like, and it's not always money.
Sometimes it's time. Sometimes it's a ride. Sometimes it's a
just asking somebody.

Speaker 1 (52:45):
How are you?

Speaker 2 (52:47):
And I like you're saying really being there to listen,
not just to hey, how you doing, but like if
you want to vent and if you want to share,
if you want to celebrate, I will really listen to you.
And in this part, even if it's an inconvenience for you,
that doesn't mean that you can't you don't do. And
so it's just like I'm just starting to look at
like character like a right, let me check myself first.

(53:11):
But I did see that. I was like wow, like
that's just that's just that's an interesting way to be
treating folks like that, and you especially goddamn best friends,
Like what what's the best friend even mean to you? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (53:26):
And I just I just like any of us, you know,
it's just like okay, if you call somebody that, do
you help them? What's going on? I don't know.

Speaker 2 (53:34):
It was interesting to watch and I did wonder, like
what is what was the conversation after that?

Speaker 1 (53:39):
Like one was there? One I had to be don't
you think?

Speaker 2 (53:44):
Don't you don't think she was like watching?

Speaker 1 (53:45):
Well, I would say there had to be some help giving,
but it wasn't.

Speaker 2 (53:49):
So well she's on her feet now, right.

Speaker 1 (53:52):
I don't know, but I mean like I would think,
like knowing in real time that your friend is going
through this, I would think you would have done something
to help. Not what we saw in the clips. I
don't know. So I don't know what happened. I just wonder.
I hold that they had a conversation. I wonder what
the conversation has been, especially after the internet side, because

(54:14):
they ain't letting up. I've been seeing.

Speaker 2 (54:15):
They're still going. I was like, Dan, they never going,
and it's funny, so it's hard.

Speaker 1 (54:20):
It is funny. Sorry when we do okay my finances,
you know, I couldn't do this I had to do.

Speaker 2 (54:30):
I couldn't eat a whole slabby Ribs when I went
to Fox Brothers.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
I had to get I half a slab combo play.

Speaker 2 (54:38):
But I didn't order every appetizer Mendina when we went
out and get the Tower of Espresso Martini so that
I could.

Speaker 1 (54:45):
Come stumbling home drunk. Do you know I had to
just buy one bottle, no extra frills. I could only
get sprayd cranberydu An or you say you no. You
know how much I hate Kranberry and orange. You know
I hate it? And I just have one Appetizer's a calambari.

Speaker 2 (55:06):
Get on seven.

Speaker 1 (55:07):
You don't want to taste everything. I didn't. I don't.

Speaker 2 (55:11):
I just felt that girl's pang. And I just feel
like most of my friends are rich and I am
not rich, and I'm always like the one who is
the brokest out of the friends. And I'd be looking
like it.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
Was a conversation I had with my friends that I
would call rich too.

Speaker 2 (55:23):
Like I'm like, and I love when people be like
you are your circle. I'm like, all right, we'll wear
a money at because these she's just rich. I was
my girlfriend. I'll be like, bitch, I can't do that.
Why is you like.

Speaker 1 (55:36):
I had to tell Tiffany now when she's buying the
concert ticket, She's like, just get four of them, bitch,
that's seven thousand dollars. I don't have seven thousand dollars. Bitch.
You do it yoey and put me on it. And
then she did good, and I was like, it past
to have rich friends because everybody rich, and I'm just like, well,
it's good to not be the richest in the room.

(55:59):
As they say, you got to be your around people
doing better than me, because I'm like, well, the fuck,
like you got money.

Speaker 2 (56:09):
And the nurses be rich.

Speaker 1 (56:10):
Like nurses be like, oh, and actually she got a
new job, so she's back. She's trying to get out
of like being in the hospital. That is stressful. And
that's what I hear a lot of nurses say. And
I thought I had to double check my messages when
we had ke Kelsey. When we just had Kelsey on

(56:31):
she says the name of her mess father she works,
and I was like, is that the same one.

Speaker 2 (56:35):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (56:35):
It's another one, but it's above Javo. And so I
went and got a laser face. No, not swim face
four or five. I was lost, and I was like,
these all started to ask skin lab, skin laundry, skin laundry,
that's what it is anyway.

Speaker 2 (56:53):
So it's over there, So I ain't got.

Speaker 1 (56:54):
A laser facial. She's working there now. And I really
enjoyed it. And I was talking to so she injections,
I don't know. I was just doing a facial. I
don't know if it was like she had to do
a bunch of them. I don't know. It's free, and
I went and my skin felt so good. I just
love a facial too, don't matter what kind. Get this
mess up out of me. I've been having breakouts. I

(57:16):
missed my last laser appointment, so then I was like,
I just used a little razor because I can't wax
before the laser because it can't target the hair on
a nick myself. And then I had a bump. I
was like, who, I hope people don't think I got
the you know what I mean? But whatever I about
them people, because I wasn't. I wasn't out cruising for niggas.

(57:39):
I was being a good girl and I was just
eating foods.

Speaker 2 (57:41):
Speaking about out cruising for niggas. You want to go
two things, Oh I was. I wasn't cruising for niggas.
But I was cruising and I saw my ex and
he was with a girl, and it.

Speaker 1 (57:54):
Was I was very uh, well, the recent one I
was really proud of.

Speaker 2 (58:01):
I'm like, oh, I'm he didn't see me and I
but I saw him and I saw her and I
saw him and I saw her, and I just I
just what you do.

Speaker 1 (58:10):
I just breathed and.

Speaker 2 (58:11):
Then I and I had to control my breath and
I kept driving and then I said, I just turn around.

Speaker 1 (58:17):
Okay. Then what happened? I turned around and I went
to go look in the parking line.

Speaker 2 (58:23):
I'll tell you later.

Speaker 1 (58:24):
And but I did see that.

Speaker 2 (58:25):
But I was proud of myself because I didn't cry.
And I was like, oh, I know I'm getting bed. Yeah,
I'm getting I'm actually getting healed. And nobody can rush
you through that. Don't let the people. Don't let anybody
tell you feeling the process. When people rush you through
a process, you don't get through it.

Speaker 1 (58:41):
You don't and you don't handle it. And that's when
you start holding onto ship.

Speaker 2 (58:44):
And now you're lying. And so yeah, you're lying. You
act like, Okay, I haven't listened to a love song
since last October. Yeah, And like one time I walked
into the Trader Joe's and they were one time when
Traders they were playing Jackson, I started crying. I turned
around and walked out and I said, I'm not doing this.
I've only been listening to worship music. But this past
couple of days, I said, let me try it. I'm

(59:04):
I'm feeling a little good. And and I listened to
a full Celine Dion song and I didn't which one.
That's the way it is. And I didn't cry and
I made it through.

Speaker 1 (59:16):
And I said some long songs are I said, oh,
it's working.

Speaker 2 (59:19):
And then I listened to a givee On song and
I thought I was didn't cry. You ever heard of
Teddy Swims? Is he?

Speaker 1 (59:23):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (59:24):
Okay, I didn't know he was. I just discovered him
because now I can. When I tell you, Kiki, I
really was intending. I was like, it's a no, not
even just R and B like everything was like just
I can't do this, like it had to just be
worshiped a Chandler more Tasha.

Speaker 1 (59:40):
Worship music didn't make you gradude.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
But it's a different cry. I'm not crying over a nigga.
I'm crying over the grace of God. Like, so it's
different cries.

Speaker 1 (59:50):
Yeah, and I'm good.

Speaker 2 (59:51):
And if I'm listening to the love song, I'm like,
I don't miss you. No. So I tried it and
I'm so I'm like, Okay, I'm actually getting better because
I because I didn't. I didn't cry so cruising for niggas.
So I started kind of like just I'm not dating,
I'm not still not having sex, but I started just
kind of like entertaining some conversations and I almost baby

(01:00:12):
baby steps. There is a man who I had met
a while ago through somebody, and he wants to. He
does like a lot in real estate. He's not an agent,
but he buys stuff, and so I'm always like yeah,
and so I'm always like sending him stuff back and
forth and like nothing has worked out yet, but I can.
I didn't really know if he was like I don't know.
I was like, is he interested in it? But I

(01:00:33):
keep it real like nigga no. And so he was like,
do you want to go like grab some food? And
I was like hmm yeah, and I was like.

Speaker 1 (01:00:44):
Yeah, yeah, he said it like that.

Speaker 2 (01:00:46):
I was texting okay, and I was like texting that
deleted and that texting I was like because I was like,
is it going to be real estate? Really? And I
was like really, and I was like deleting. I said
yes and then and I almost went. I didn't go.
And We've done that like four times because I personally
am just like kind of like nervous, like I feel
like I'm gonna be weird one on one with a

(01:01:07):
man who doesn't like with the new version of me.
I don't really know how to I don't know how
to just go for it. Yeah. Yeah, So we did it. Twice.
And then we tried to do like do this twice
and I was just like, hey, it's too stressful. Let's
just try again another day. This was too much going on.

(01:01:27):
Let's just try the other day. He's like, okay the
other day. He FACEDI me.

Speaker 1 (01:01:30):
He was like, what you doing?

Speaker 2 (01:01:31):
And I was like, I just left the gym and
I'm at the car dealership getting some stuff. Then he
was like, okay, let's let me take you to lunch.
And I was like okay. And then and then I
got nervous and I was like, hey, nevermind. W I'm
so fucking weird and I know it, and I know it.
I say, hey, never mind, I should just.

Speaker 1 (01:01:49):
Go there and be awkward in person.

Speaker 2 (01:01:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:54):
Yourself, because if you keep playing this game, he gonna
start wondering. Well, see, I don't care, that's the thing.

Speaker 2 (01:02:00):
I don't. I actually don't care if he does wonder
and if he don't taste me no more like I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:02:04):
I don't care. And so he was like okay.

Speaker 2 (01:02:06):
He was like why and I was like, because it's
about to be five o'clock. I don't want to be
in the traffic. And he was like Okay, I was.
He's like, you wanta trygain tomorrow? I was like, let's
try it tomorrow. And so I'm just gonna see, like
how long this goes?

Speaker 1 (01:02:17):
Too.

Speaker 2 (01:02:18):
He's like, what's wrong with you? And I'll be like,
what do you want to buy a house? What's you
trying to do? Like? What do you actually want?

Speaker 1 (01:02:22):
Don't you say that right now? He kind of cute?

Speaker 2 (01:02:25):
He kind of cute. He is he kind of cute,
and he seems kind of cool even off like he
seems kind of cool. And then yeah, and then there
was a night when I went out with one of
my girlfriends and it was her birthday.

Speaker 1 (01:02:38):
Have you been paya?

Speaker 2 (01:02:40):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:02:41):
I don't even know why I mas it faced. I
know I ain't been there.

Speaker 2 (01:02:44):
And it was actually really it's in west uh, like
the west side of you know where you know where
it's at? How it's the Tie place.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
Oh, it's Tied.

Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
No. So we went there for her birthday dinner and
hang out with a lot of older women lately, and
I really appreciate them, like the late forties. Okay, and uh,
it was her birthday and we went and it was
really cute. And after that, I was I've been drinking.
Like when I have a drink, I'll just have one
and I'll have because I don't want to be calling
niggas and I know how I get. So I have
an old fashion I'd be like, can you make it sweet?

(01:03:16):
And then make it sweet? That gets me through. I
can sip it old fashion because you can sip it
for three hours. It's too damn strong, you can't. Anyways,
when we left, I was like, I was feeling so pretty.
My life fire XMD got me all slim, look gut gone,
look but my face. Yes, where are we going? They

(01:03:38):
late forties. They're like, we're going home, and I was like, oh,
So I got in the car and I like my car.
I was like, I don't want to go home and
I've been out in a minute, I can listen to
Celine Dion. I'm gonna call somebody. So I called somebody.
I called somebody that I should have not called.

Speaker 1 (01:03:55):
Bitch.

Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
I was like, I called him and I met him here.

Speaker 1 (01:03:58):
It was.

Speaker 2 (01:04:00):
I called him and I and I called him and
then the phones because I was like, he's still for
horny and yeah, he gonna always be free. Oh you
mean like jail out, he out and and and he
was always a good time. So I was like, i'mnna
call him and he always be out. I'm gonna go
out and I'm gonna do these things and I'm have sex.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
And that's what I said.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
She thought, that's all. You had to put that cut
on the third ring. I said, what are you doing?
I said that out loud. I've moved that little rearview
mirror and said, bitch, what are you doing? And I
hung up the phone. Good job, and then I called
it and then I called the lieutenant bay.

Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
Hell, no you didn't. He was just backside and it
was time to go home. He ain't pick up either,
and that's what I said. I looked at my room
and I.

Speaker 2 (01:04:43):
Said, what are you actually doing?

Speaker 1 (01:04:45):
Go home and go to baby God he protected.

Speaker 2 (01:04:47):
He was like he not ready yet.

Speaker 1 (01:04:49):
I get home.

Speaker 2 (01:04:50):
The first hood nigga called me and said what's up?
And I was like it was a butt dial. He said,
I know your booty want me and I said, oh,
I knew you were the devil. And I hung up
and I'm still going I'm strong, good job, good job.

Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
It happens, we fall down, but what when we get up?

Speaker 2 (01:05:08):
And yeah, it was just you know, cruising after niggas.
It was hard.

Speaker 1 (01:05:13):
Yeah, niggas was hitting me up and I was like,
I'm not gonna post it.

Speaker 2 (01:05:18):
I'm in town smart.

Speaker 1 (01:05:22):
But then like everybody kept tacking me, and there are
famous on the internet. So I was like, well, no,
I just repost shit whatever I'm here. Let's see what happens.
Some people were mad I didn't respond. I mean, I'm
looking at messages, but I didn't look at the whole
thing that it wanted to show. Read Instagram, can we

(01:05:45):
fix that? Can you turn off no?

Speaker 2 (01:05:49):
Cause, like I mean, like you can read a message,
the other person will know you read it, even if
you mark.

Speaker 1 (01:05:54):
It as unread in your phone. I just want to
be able to look at things in peace and know
that the people are still dreaming of me. Okay, and
this what I got going on? Okay, but none of
that was happening. I didn't have any Rendez foods. I
did go to the strip club. I told you that

(01:06:15):
I went to the place called Area twenty nine. I
went to some other place called Victory Worlds. Did I go?
There was a Mexican man on my ass Victory No,
he would like he dream hennessy, Oh, well, I mean,
he wasn't drinking Hennessy. He was drinking Do Julio. And

(01:06:39):
I hope you all sign up for your class action
lawsuits so we can all get paid. But you know,
it's not what happened the Da Julio, Cosamigos, class A
Zoo and something else. It's not real tequila. What is it?

Speaker 2 (01:06:53):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:06:53):
Whatever makes it real tequila? Being whatever percent from the
plans if they got additives, and but is it making
people sick? No, it's not making people sick. It's just
like they have this high price on it, like it
is super pure and it's not that pure. It has additives,
just like some of the cheaper stuff. It does taste better,

(01:07:13):
but it ain't got nothing to do with the purity
of it anyway. And he was drinking tequila. He was nice,
but I was just like, what are you doing here?
What's going on? But he was like, and it just
felt good to be out. I was enjoying all of
the music. I was joining other people, but he was

(01:07:34):
filling this codgirl. Because that was right after the concert.
I still had my platinum blong with that wig was
doing something to the men.

Speaker 2 (01:07:41):
And my cowboy hat and I wore Monday. I got
back here on Monday. I was supposed to come back
Monday night. I came back a little early.

Speaker 1 (01:07:49):
I went to the Hell Yeah show and I always
so bad.

Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
I forgot, but I was so busy and I had
put it on my calendar because I went to one.

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
Before and I you told me, you always make it
seem fun.

Speaker 2 (01:08:06):
There, I gotta go to the next one. And that
is such a star.

Speaker 1 (01:08:10):
He's such a star.

Speaker 2 (01:08:11):
But the girl who puts it on her name is
Mo and she's such an og like she's been in prison,
and I mean her DM. She don't be responding at all.
I want her to come on the show, but she's
so bad. She's beautiful, she's uh, she has her I
saw her. Yeah, I'll send you her page. And she
just seems so cool and so nice. I saw it

(01:08:32):
was a lot of cool. Well, she doesn't really make
herself know, like you wouldn't know if you don't know.
But I think Dreya knows her personally, because well Drea
wasn't there, she stayed in Houston. Okay, Well, but Mo
is like the she is the one behind it, but
she's not she you wouldn't see she's not a comedian, right.
I was just wondering if she's there because I was
talking to other people. She probably in the background. She

(01:08:52):
is beautiful, she's like, she has a really nice she's beautiful,
and she's just quiet. I don't know her personally, but
that's what seems like. She wasn't talking when I was there,
and I follow her and I'll be sitting her stuff.
But I want her to be a guest on the
show because she's just like an Oh, she's just like
a girl, but like a nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:09:07):
Why you say she's like a nigga, like a boss energy.

Speaker 2 (01:09:10):
Yeah, she just has this boss energy where it's like
all the like I noticed when I was there, like
all the real niggas that was like in the room,
knew her, but not in like I fucked you type
of way, like you a real nigga too, Like it
was just that that happens.

Speaker 1 (01:09:23):
It's very rare. Yeah, a room like that, but sometimes
it happens. That day, it did happen because there were
a lot of people there and I was like, they
were like, oh, I didn't know this. I still have
my blonde wiek on like ewboy head. But they were like, Oh,
it's so good to see you and people be forgetting
and still here. I was like, I've got to go
out more, do you all? But just think I'm dead?

(01:09:44):
What's going on? Maybe sun gotta get outside. I don't
want to go outside because like you feel about dating,
that's how I feel about it outside. If I get
too outside, it's just so fun. I don't remember why
I was outside for so damn long. I mean, outside
was fun, but I had a good time.

Speaker 2 (01:10:03):
Sometimes you have to like it's weird because I like,
I'm like.

Speaker 1 (01:10:06):
Oh, I'm not going with balance. I don't know that's
what you gotta find for me.

Speaker 2 (01:10:10):
It's like what I don't think I realized how much
outside loves me, and it'd be feeling good, and it
be feeling good like I didn't like when I see
those means where it's like they're like in an outside
welcoming me back outside. I'm like, I really was through
back outside and the way we used to be outie
the outside they did me.

Speaker 1 (01:10:33):
He said it for a reason. I like it, like, yeah,
barking that bag. If it wasn't a comedy shop, I
would have been working that back okay, because I was
feeling good in there, and it was just like, okay, well.

Speaker 2 (01:10:47):
But can I tell you this really quick? And I
have never told you this before because I was really
trying to be in love and save my relationship. I
remember one time I went to U Trap City cast.
I went to Trap because I was really like I
was a Trip City cafe. I asked my man, you know,
I love comedy shows. I go by myself. It doesn't
it mean Dave Chappelle, and it could be somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
Nobody always tell me. But that's why I know about
Hell Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:11:10):
Yeah, And so I love a comedy you know, Warren.
I love comedy. I love I just love it. And
so I feel like in my past life maybe I
was like a comedy agent. I don't know, because I
just love it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:20):
So maybe you're a comedian. Maybe I think it was
more like an agent. I don't know that's a comedian.

Speaker 2 (01:11:24):
I just kind of knew it. So so I was like,
maybe let's go to Trap City Cafe. There's a comedy
show and it's going to be so much fun. And
he liked Hoodship. He didn't really like comedy, but he
liked Hoodchit and I was like, well, it's a little hood.
So he's like, okay, let's go. So we go and
it was, uh, it was Kada, it was t I.
It was, uh, what's the guy that came on? He

(01:11:44):
kind of looks like common.

Speaker 1 (01:11:47):
Oh the t someone of the tea.

Speaker 2 (01:11:50):
No, no to create something, to create cret no, no.

Speaker 1 (01:11:55):
Something anyway about. It was a bunch of comedians. I
think Nav was there. It was a bunch of comedians
and I know them, we know them happening.

Speaker 2 (01:12:07):
We're sitting at this table.

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
We can't even have a good time.

Speaker 2 (01:12:10):
Kdub ghost and I'm very much like, I don't. It's
not anybody walks in like i'man from Cotails. You don't
even One time I was in one of Kelly's shows
and she said poor Minds is here and I was like, show.
I was so embarrassed. And then she was embarrassed when
we were embarrassed, and I was like, okay, so we
So I'm sitting there and Kdub is like my nigga

(01:12:32):
Medina here and I was just like, ah, y'all. He
shout this show every edit. T I was like, I
know you.

Speaker 1 (01:12:40):
He didn't know the show, but he knew me.

Speaker 2 (01:12:41):
I was like, hey, everybody was so nice, key key.
At the end of the show, I was like, I
need to come up here. I bring bab. I'm like,
this didn't in. They're like, oh, we heard so much
about you. What's up? And he was gonna stand offish
and I was looking like, what the fuck are you
acting like this? I'm just saying hid Everyone like, oh,
it's so good really quick. I understand things like you
don't need to linger along with niggas. It's weird, but

(01:13:02):
we can speak. And I just wanted to let you
know that it's friendly vibes.

Speaker 1 (01:13:05):
That's it, and I know them and they're cool, and
everybody like I want to let them know. You know
who they are too.

Speaker 2 (01:13:10):
We get in the car. It is World War three? Real?
Did you fuck all of them? Tell me?

Speaker 1 (01:13:20):
I'm my whole is out calling me up. That's exactly
what I said. I was like, what just happened. I
was like, I can't speak to a nigga unless I
fucked him. I was like, maybe I did. I was
at you today. That wouldn't be a good I was in.

Speaker 2 (01:13:34):
The car like, do I need to say this for
therapy station because IM about to go to the funk
off I have an anger problem for y'all who don't
know me. You don't know, and I have worked on
it very well. He has seen it, and it can
when it does, it's not all the way here. So
when it does, yeah, it's it's like if it comes out,
it's like less off Just.

Speaker 1 (01:13:55):
Because I just.

Speaker 2 (01:13:55):
Couldn't believe that you would try me like that, I said,
do you know like what I do? I said, I
know eat each and every one of them has been
on the show, minus T. I've just been around him
and so my face is familiar saying do he just
caught up.

Speaker 1 (01:14:06):
Got caught up in legal trouble. Otherwise he probably would
have been on too. Even cooling it on the interviews.

Speaker 2 (01:14:12):
I said, okay, so do you know that? Do you
know that? Like I'm cool, not like I'm cool, like
I'm a cool girl, but like I'm a cool person.
Like it's not like I get around people and everybody's
like I just want to fuck. There might be some
people like that, but it's also like, and.

Speaker 1 (01:14:27):
You fact me, you know what the material is, you
do like you I can know the fuck. I was
so nobody wanted to fuck me.

Speaker 2 (01:14:37):
I was so offended. I was so offended, Like I
was just like every you think.

Speaker 1 (01:14:42):
Each and every did you put laxative in his food?

Speaker 2 (01:14:46):
No? I cried and we just moved on, and I
was like I got a bunch of friend like but no, really,
I was really like, whoy that's what you thought.

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
It's interesting when things like that happened.

Speaker 2 (01:14:59):
I had it.

Speaker 1 (01:15:00):
Don't like it one bit because it is just like, well, god, damn,
if I didn't speak to them, you would have felt
away and wondered why I didn't introduce you or why
didn't say anything, and why I'm just going over talking
to people. But if it's like damned if you do,
damned if you don't, I don't do you. I don't know.

(01:15:22):
I didn't really know it. I was like, damn, how
is that gonna go with the next man?

Speaker 2 (01:15:28):
Mmm?

Speaker 1 (01:15:30):
I don't know, girl, because I don't. I don't know.
I leave his ass at home. Call me girl. I
like comedy, show up a good time, I tell yeah,
because it's not like everything gets once a month. Is
it the first Monday of them? No, because that was

(01:15:50):
isn't the last Monday of the month, because that was
the thirtieth. I don't know, because I think it's just
like it's I think it's once a month, and then
I know that they started late.

Speaker 2 (01:16:01):
Isn't at the same place. It looked like it was
an OLDCVS.

Speaker 1 (01:16:05):
No, this time it was at seven Midtown. We had
a hosting there when it was called something Else Wherever.
We did a brunch in the beginning of twenty twenty
when the world shut down, not the Grits and X place.
That was something Else before. Traffic is what it used
to be called. So now it's called seven Midtown. So
it was there and I saw like I saw a

(01:16:27):
lot of people that I knew.

Speaker 2 (01:16:30):
It was.

Speaker 1 (01:16:31):
It was kind of nostalgic, even though that it was
a good time. I want to go. I want to go,
And I went with a man and I was wondering
if he was going to have that reaction because he'd
be having that reaction and I do be fucking people,
so it's like you just never know, but like not
these people. Maybe if he would have been with me

(01:16:51):
in Houston, but I didn't even see nobody I had
fucked before while I was out.

Speaker 2 (01:16:56):
They were just you know, Also, you want to take
someone that you really care about around where there might
be well if I really like it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:04):
Yeah I would, but it's just like I'm not fucking
them anymore. So you're gonna have to get over Are
we gonna like not go places that I love because
I put somebody onto something I love. Just be the
just look at it like you're.

Speaker 2 (01:17:17):
The winner now.

Speaker 1 (01:17:18):
And you know what?

Speaker 2 (01:17:19):
This is why I'm taking a pause from dating, because
I can't handle all of this thought process.

Speaker 1 (01:17:22):
I gotta think.

Speaker 2 (01:17:23):
I don't be doing the thought I gotta think about
how you're gonna feel if somebody pops up there.

Speaker 1 (01:17:29):
How about you just be great? So neither of us
are thinking about him, because I just in my mind,
if I was a man, I would just feel like
if I was seeing a woman and I am treating
her right and making her happy, I don't give a
fuck who she was with before. If I feel solid

(01:17:50):
in what I've done and what I continue to do
for her, like I don't care if we're around the
off speed and what you're gonna do take her from me. No,
she's not going anywhere because she's happy here and she
was unhappy with you. I heard about you, bitch. Well
that's a little girly, but you know that's how I
would feel about it. But I'm just like, why y'all
don't be feeling that way, Like I'm with you. Maybe

(01:18:12):
if I go to the bathroom too long, you should
be worried. If you don't see him either, then be
worried and.

Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
I might have looked and God took you. Gotta be careful.
But like if you are on your p's and q's,
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:18:28):
And even it's also like any woman that's worth having,
I would say she's she should pick the better option.
If she doesn't pick you, let her go, I mean,
easier says than don we We don't know that, but yeah,
I don't know, but I'm glad it wasn't me. And
I'm just glad I would have been stressed in another city, Atlanta,

(01:18:51):
not so much. All the niggas that I used to
deal with, I wasn't fucking them. Most of them weren't African,
and they all went to prison and got deported for fraud.
So like I'm good or they're dead, so hm hmm,
pressed in peace, well hm, probably not knowing what they did.

Speaker 2 (01:19:10):
I ran into someone that I used to deal with
who well at the gym.

Speaker 1 (01:19:17):
I thought I saw him the other day. It was
another man with a big mouth. I try.

Speaker 2 (01:19:20):
He does have a big mouth. I tried so hard,
I told you. And when I go to the gym,
I take my glasses off. I can't and you as
a gym. I saw him and I saw him as
soon as I walked out. I took my glasses off,
I took my sweater off, I put my phone up,
and I just went to the I was trying to
just avoid him, and he I saw him see me.
He tried so hard to get in my way and

(01:19:41):
he did and he did, and I was just I
just looked at him and I was just like He
was like, you see, you're not gonna see me and
say how to me?

Speaker 1 (01:19:48):
And I was like, I didn't see you. And I
just was like I'm working out.

Speaker 2 (01:19:52):
Yeah, Like I was just like, okay, leave me alone,
Like leave me alone, please leave me alone.

Speaker 1 (01:19:57):
Did I say something more? Yeah? He was like how
you been?

Speaker 2 (01:20:00):
He was trying to have a whole conversation. I was like,
I'm really working out, like I'm really focused, and he
was like, oh my bad. I was like, yeah, different
situation now because I need to be so thirsty over
you and now here you are like, yeah, bitch, he
just kept trying to be in my face, and a
part of me was like, I'm that nigga. That is

(01:20:20):
kind of how I felt.

Speaker 1 (01:20:21):
Have you feel like that? Yeah, because I did text
my friends the other day. Pussy is still good because
they still think about they hit me up baby, and
they're mad and I love it. But I'm not responding.

Speaker 2 (01:20:31):
Yeah, I'm not gonna respond. I'm not gonna do that.
I'm gonna I'm gonna do what I'm doing. I'm gonna
he'll come to the Love Girls trip and let's do
what we do. Do you want to do weird sex
or no? No? Okay, well I have one.

Speaker 1 (01:20:45):
I'll save it for next time. I kind of have
to pee, so do I?

Speaker 2 (01:20:49):
I forgot to put an advice into cocktail? Well?

Speaker 1 (01:20:52):
Damn well, what's happen is it? Well, we're just gonna
skip all of the rest of it. This is a
different kind of episode. It's lashed its way, less editing.
That means you get it earlier in the day instead
of nighttime. It's fourth of July. Anyway, go pop some fireworks,
but not like they did in California where they blew
up that whole thing. And I saw somebody's pregnant girlfriend
and don't be like Terry, don't be like Terry. Remember

(01:21:15):
where he's in the little wheelchair and they're like, Terry move, Terry,
who the Harry Day move?

Speaker 2 (01:21:21):
Terry?

Speaker 1 (01:21:22):
You never seen that?

Speaker 2 (01:21:23):
This is legendary real surfaces and he's in the wheelchair
and he pops it. He doesn't.

Speaker 1 (01:21:29):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:21:29):
It's from YouTube. It's old. It comes up every short
of July and Terry, Terry pops. He puts down the fireworks,
but he doesn't move, and it's about the and his
friend is.

Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Like, Terry move, Terry, Terry move, Terry move.

Speaker 2 (01:21:44):
Almost said it it.

Speaker 1 (01:21:44):
It's hilarious. Blush up.

Speaker 2 (01:21:46):
It starts to pop, but Terry can't move because he's
because he's in the magic and he's just like like,
gory damn. So Larry, y'all be careful with these fireworks. Yeah,
Terri survide, but it was scary.

Speaker 1 (01:21:58):
Terry was just Likeifornia did not survive. It was just
like bombs over bag Dad. They talk about people missing,
they're not missing. Bit shake burns up. Somebody was barbecuing.
I'm sorry, somebody was barbeculing.

Speaker 2 (01:22:09):
Y'all be careful. Don't be like Terry. Be careful with
the fireworks for real. Don't let baby sit off fireworks.
That's not smart. Get some little rock cat Yeah, just
thep frocks for the kids. And if you're doing fireworks,
make sure they're legal in your neighborhood. Also, I really
do want to say if you don't do them in mine.

(01:22:31):
If you have a dog, do not have your dog
outside without a leash if there's gonna be fireworks.

Speaker 1 (01:22:37):
Fireworks terrified dogs.

Speaker 2 (01:22:39):
So even if you're leaving your dog home alone and
you're there's gonna be fireworks around, put the dog, put
the thunderblanket on them, or put them in a tight
Take care of your dogs. That's the most stressful time
of the year for dogs.

Speaker 1 (01:22:51):
I didn't even think about the damn. Yeah, I'm gonna
worry about it. She got diarrhea, y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
It stresses them out. But I'm a mother first, Yeah,
so take care of your babies. Look at the description
and click the links. Look at the Breast Cancer Awareness Walk.
If you're in Tampa, please please please donate or join
the walk.

Speaker 1 (01:23:09):
Get a group together.

Speaker 2 (01:23:10):
It's a great way to have a little do that
before brunch, Come on the trips, listen to Kiki show,
do all we can't check out X man.

Speaker 1 (01:23:17):
I'm telling you all about it the next week's episode
because I have some things to say.

Speaker 2 (01:23:21):
Yeah, it's happy fourth of July, be free.

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
Yeah and uh yeah all the links? Uh what else
does I say for this week?

Speaker 2 (01:23:30):
Damn?

Speaker 1 (01:23:31):
I forgot guess is not fucking important. But if y'all
know where I can get a good platinum blond wig.
I just really want to be like Beyonce and Tyrant
when she is riding that bull that when I watched
her do that, I was just like, I've got to
get in the gym, bitch. I need my coure to
be strong like that. You done pop down with me?

(01:23:54):
I will, Okay, I'm scared to go to that gym
because I know it's the I know what kind of
jim it is. Because I told you Jayco that gym.
He don't go where you go, Okay, because when you
told me, I was like, oh, that's why they don't
see each other because I told him to. Yeah, I'm
scared to go there. And then he'd be working out
with some other people.

Speaker 2 (01:24:12):
One of our listeners and she actually ended up. I've
had a lot of And she started coming and she
was like, oh, this is hard. I ain't seen her
since you paid the trainer. And she was like, yeah,
but she's a doctor.

Speaker 1 (01:24:22):
I was like, oh, well, it's just dropping the bucket anyway, y'all,
thanks for listening. We gotta pee. We have no cocktails
of our own, no way.

Speaker 2 (01:24:31):
So all my cocktails consist of li lo.

Speaker 1 (01:24:35):
And so next week I did come back and feel horny.
So next week and tell a friend to tell a
friend you want to know how this pussy was something
and on that, Yeah, I know, right, Gucy, next time
on cocktails, maybe you'll hear about it. Maybe you won't,
but you won't know unless you click it. Bye good

(01:24:58):
bye bye.

Speaker 2 (01:25:01):
By bye bye bt bt B, goodbye bye bye. We
are a dry we by good bye bye

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