Ep. 452 Blocked on Everything But Facebook... and He Still Found Me

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I wasn't driving anywhere. I had a good time. I
went to a place over there off of Prescent called Blackjack.
Have you been No. It's like a Asian fusion kind
of it gives us speakeasy vibe. It's not a speakeasy
but it's just if she talks about going out with
this guy all these rich kid friends and she's like yeah,
and then he brought all these girls over here and

(00:21):
I didn't even have a seat mom, and she was
just like okay, So like I'm just trying to figure
out how much did he put in. That's what Candy
get at. And she's like, I don't want to do that.
When to do something different, they're like, okay, well that's right,
but what you gonna do because you to move to
this apartment down in Brooklyn, and I know you ain't
moving us.

Speaker 2 (00:38):
In travel, travel, it's even if you don't go with
me or Kikey, make sure y'all going to see the world.
It's healing. I was like, I'm gonna go out there,
I am gonna have a good time. I'm probably gonna
get some really nice things. It's gonna do the same
because he already started doing the stuff and I didn't
even go, and I was like, the pro is if
I don't go. It was some I needed four tires
and I could get them, but he was like, I
got it four four, Yeah, you're a check one two,

(01:02):
check one two?

Speaker 1 (01:03):
Is this Mike On?

Speaker 2 (01:04):
Is this Mike On?

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Hey?

Speaker 2 (01:05):
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Speaker 1 (01:46):
A filthy black cherry.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
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super Nova.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
Sexy. This ain't y'all. I am so excited for Friday
and just the overall Beyonce weekend. I had to pull
my hat out. I wanted to bring my platinum wig,
but it was looking like a hamster. Where'd you get
your hat from Amazon? That from Amazon? I just love it.
It's got something in the back, but I just love

(02:19):
the detail on the song.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
I like the thing in the front. Tiger's eye.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
I'm sure to say, no tiger's eye. This hat was
twenty dollars. It's cute, thank you, and I had good vibes.
What does tigers?

Speaker 2 (02:32):
I do?

Speaker 1 (02:32):
Protection? Is that one of my tigers eyes? I was
probably this my damn Apple pencil. I finally lost the AirPod, y'all,
and I'm upset about it. Just thank you. I just
thought about it. It's dead on Spring Street somewhere. Last Saturday.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Spring Street, Well.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
That was the route we took on the Uber. It
was the airport, the airport to go to Houston. So
that was so in and out. I went on Saturday
concert with Sunday, came back my day and I went
to the Hell Yah show and I had a good time.
And I had this hat on. So if you thought
you saw me, it was like, who is this crackhead
looking bitch with a blind wig? It was me? Well

(03:12):
did you see me Monday or you saw me at
the time. Oh yeah, I mean, I don't know. I
came off of a plane. I don't know how it looked,
but they upgraded me.

Speaker 2 (03:19):
Baby.

Speaker 1 (03:19):
So I was drinking them Proteco, some little bubblies in
the can. You know. I wasn't driving anywhere. I had
a good time. I went to a place over there
off of Crescent called black Jack. Have you been. It's
like a Asian fusion kind of it gives us speakeasy vibe.
It's not a speakeasy, but it's definitely small place and stuff.
I'm tired of these tapest restaurants. And I'm gonna tell

(03:41):
you why why. It's a scheme that Todd set up.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Who's Todd?

Speaker 1 (03:47):
I knew I was gonna have to explain this to you.
Who is Todd In the Real Housewives of Atlanta. It's
an infamous line from the Real Houseves of Atlanta, the
show I've only asked you to watch for the past.
Time's Katy don't like you.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
If you don't like it, you don't like it. That's
the one clip that I just absolutely I don't know.
You know, the worst shows Nannie and Candy and Candy's like, well,
I don't like it, and then he's like, well if
you don't, I said what I said?

Speaker 1 (04:13):
What I don't like it? Oh? Well yeah I said
what I said And what just said?

Speaker 2 (04:17):
What's a bullshit? I just love that clip. I said
what I shaved, Like like, I wonder if they watched that.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
You know what? NINNI kind of has that thing she
and sharp hass that I was talking about, you know
with the mouth. Yeah, like the heavy lip, tongue jaw situation.
Really it's like a little TMJ issue because sometimes when
she speaks, as you said it, I thought about it.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
I I just feel like in that moment, she was
just so mad.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
That's how she always tells. Oh, I mean when she's mad. Yeah,
but I like, speaking.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
Of reality TV. Let me just ask you this. Really,
I don't have ever asked you this, and be honest, bitch.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Let's say, because I will being honest about Let's say Bravo, Like.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
What's the little man saying that does all the brother shows? Andy,
Let's say and Cohen Andy Cohen. He's like, bring I
want all the podcaster girls that are doing something bring
no no, no, no, no, no, no, finish He's like, everybody
can't come. But he's like, I want you, Kiki to pick.
We're gonna do a reality show with podcasters, and I

(05:22):
want there to be I want there to be some drama.
I want there to be some deception. I want there
to be friendships, and I want there to be uh sex.
Who would you pick? He said, he and he says,
you can pick, you can pick.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
You can pick.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Five people, five let's say six people.

Speaker 1 (05:45):
In addition to me? Yes, six an addition to me,
oh uh huh, because then that's an odd number. I
gotta leave somebody out.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
Okay, there's no number. He's just like, do you think
we should put on.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
The Let's make it interesting. It's like, this is a
I'm trying to get my hat right with the camera shit. Okay, okay, okay.
So you are a messy bitch who lives her drama
with that question, so you've got to make the cast
because you know what time it is for reality TV,
and that's what we need on the cast. I don't
care about how I'm gonna because I don't give a

(06:23):
fuck about anything real. We are selling TV. We need
these advertisers and we need this shit to be good.
I'm not trying to have season sixteen of Real Housewives
of Atlanta on my hands, okay, And I know that's
what Andy is gonna be saying, So I'm like, baby,
I got you all right, Okay, So we got us right.
Who's next? And the biggest one is Mandy b because

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we gotta have her on the show. That's gonna be
drama immediately, y'all. Immediate, but also boisterous, contradictory a lot.
And tune in on season one of the podcast Queens
of Atlanta and you will see what the rest of
the adjectives are. Gotta have her, Wheezy, But Wheezy, I'm sorry, Weezy,

(07:11):
you would be a friend of the show your two
books MBC constant, So that's not one of my six.
So we got three. Wheezy is a friend of the
show more valuable than Cynthia. If you all watch housewives,
you know what that means. Cynthia is their beautiful girl.
But and she probably seems like a nice person like.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
You do need everybody to calm down, like y'all, we
can't be fighting allday because I'm telling you right now,
I'm throwing a drink.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
But she did get in a fight before. Okay, now
let me see who else. Okay, we're filming here Tropical
Island where because you know, they have like the Ultimate
Girls Trips show where they take housewives from different places,

(08:00):
different cities, different franchises, and they put them all together
to do like a two or three week trip or whatever.
You should be native or should it be a travel trip?
I think it's got to be native. We just have
our core cast first.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
I feel like we got to start here because we
already arguing on the plane we getting kicked. Somebody's getting
kicked out of first class. So let's just start in Atlanta.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
Well I don't okay, my next people. These are not
people that I think will get kicked out of first class.
It just happens to be the order of things. Okay,
So Drea and Lex got now. Okay, so now we're
at five. We've only got one more. We need We
need somebody. It's like, how the fuck did they get here?

(08:47):
You know, they're not a close friend to anyone, but
they still got thrown in the mix because they always
have that fake friend in the mix and maybe they
become real friends later, but they're not. But they add
something so you know what, you know who? We need Carla, Carla.

(09:12):
We need Carla motherfucking will Maris with her Puerto Rican
black and yes, and if we get her high enough,
we could shake the table. She got that, baby, she
got drama. She's tied into people, she has mentors, but
she is actually like knowledgeable about podcasting. She is What

(09:37):
the fuck did we say this on here? That would
be good because imagine everybody coming together and then okay,
now who we're gonna have in the back end to
do what producers? Just people back behind the scenes. Jerome,
we need to u No, He's going to help keep

(10:01):
the drama so that we can all drama. It doesn't
have to be bad drama. Remember his drama has always
been with his own people. We just be there.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
I drama, you gam You told me though.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
Yeah, because I didn't really have nothing to do with us.
We were just there witnessing. It had absolutely nothing to
do with it.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
But Jerome needs somebody in his ear to be like, Okay, sir,
let's draw back on this.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
He's just he's not on the show. He's just putting
stuff in people's ears. You need that, okay, because do
we want people to turn on or turn off. We
don't need him to turn off. We didn't turn off,
we didn't tuned in, and we make YouTube videos about it,
and then you have the Tiki talks and they need

(10:49):
to be on Twitch watching it and wherever else I'll be.

Speaker 2 (10:52):
I just keep thinking about when we tried during COVID.

Speaker 1 (10:55):
That was supposed to be a parody of a reality show.
Obviously everybody that I understand it is supposed to be
a parody. It was not supposed to be a reality.
It's supposed to be a parody of a reality. Do
you think we were real husbands of Hollywood? Like, we're
not supposed to be that.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
I was on crutches. I couldn't even leave trying.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
To fight me.

Speaker 2 (11:15):
You tried to fight me, No, I did not.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
You set up and said less square up and I
was like, you were on crutches, bitch. It was all
on camera trying to fight you. I just went off
so bad.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
This was so bad. Like if we ever get I
feel like to share that we have to get to
like scaling heights to be like oh this is funny now,
because it's still.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
All sometimes you know, you got to do those things
to get somewhere that was lost with that episode that
we did with the yoga girl. I don't know who
has that footage the yoga girl. I think she did
like yoga or something. And she had brought all the props.
We were at Bravo Ocean in the little room before
they had the cute room of the grass wall, and

(11:57):
she brought the thing that shows the vaginant was like
a three D model of something, and she was doing
all of this descriptive stuff. And that hard drive is
in somebody's Mustang with an Arizona tag. I don't know
where the fuck it was gone from Houston. I thought
it was in my bag. It was empty, so that's

(12:17):
the only place I could Wow.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
We have had do you remember that?

Speaker 1 (12:21):
Never Mind, that was dramatic.

Speaker 2 (12:22):
We won't to rehash it, but yeah, that would be
a good reality show.

Speaker 1 (12:27):
But yeah, I think I think that could be good.
I wish I've been watching. I know you don't really
watch a lot of reality TV.

Speaker 2 (12:35):
And I'm somebody told me to watch The Island like
they were like, just watch it, and I was like,
do you watch it?

Speaker 1 (12:42):
No, I don't. That's not my my tie. But I
will say everybody's been telling me the same thing, and
I'm like, I turned it on while I was doing
some other stuff, right, And this is what happened. I
turned it on. It was a background noise. I'm listening
to it, but not really looking. I would glance up
every now and then to try to see the people's faces.
But I got to gist that like people get eliminated

(13:05):
and stuff. I didn't realize people get eliminated and people
get replaced, and they're like bringing new people in all
the time. It is chaotic and very horny to me.
Now I looked at I was trying to do some
self cart in the late night hour and figure out
ways to help my sleep pattern.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
What hour was it, I'm just scary.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
It's probably about three four. I don't know. I really
hadn't been sleeping for a long time. And then once
I finally got in the bed, Brooklyn don't take me
to sleep, but I wouldn't be in the bed. I
would just sit at the computer like and that's probably well,
I don't know. I think I'm crazy anyway, but I
think part of my erratic behavior over the past two

(13:48):
or three months is because I was operating on like
two hours of sleep, two to seven hours of sleep
in like three to four days, not each day. Like
I was not sleeping, I couldn't sleep. I would worry myself. Anyway,
we'll talk about that on Patreoch. But oh, Love Island, okay,

(14:08):
So everybody kept telling me to watch Love Island turn
on son. I'm like, what are these noises? I'm thinking
Whitley is doing something chewing some shin't in a business.
She's not. She's sleep knocked out, head to the side.
She's feeling good. I look at my iPad, which is
what I had to show playing on. These people are blindfolded,

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and the motherfuckers are walking up to them strangers and
some people that they just met hours ago, and they're kissing.
And they constantly have these kissing childes. I don't know
how Love Island works, but I know some horny ass people.
And everybody vow Trax better be sponsoring.

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Well they probably not.

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They probably not, but they should be. This is who
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but you were about to say a reality show you
were watching.

Speaker 1 (17:48):
Oh that I am watching. Oh next Gen NYC very
lighthearted for the most part. It's their young younger than nuts.
And these are people like just beginning to be.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
Adults, like twenty twenty one.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
And there's one guy man like he's so old. He's
not even thirty yet, but he's just like the oldest
of the bunch. But what I like about the show
is what I liked about Housewives in the beginning. I
want to escape from my reality and enjoy this fake
reality of rich people on my TV screen. Most of

(18:27):
them are kids of housewives. So, like Candy's daughter is
on this show. And I'll just tell you, guys, if
y'all haven't watched it, watch it. It's available on Peacocks
on Wednesdays. I don't know when it comes on Bravo,
if it even comes on Bravo. But Candy, everybody, No,
Candy is very rich. She has a daughter. Her daughter

(18:47):
went to NYU. She got a degree in like music
business or something. I guess. The original thing was she's
supposed to go to law school next natural trajectory. But
she was talking to Candy and Candy's husband Todd, I
want to go I don't want to do that, and
I really want to do something that you haven't done.
I feel like I'm always in your shadow.

Speaker 2 (19:08):
Who went to law school?

Speaker 1 (19:09):
No, nobody went to law school, but the music industry,
just like I want to be a DJ. Candy rolled
her eye so hard. She rolled him back to when
she first started escape, and I felt her on that
because it's like, bitch, I didn't go to college, so
what are you talking about. You're in my shadow? This

(19:30):
is the plan. Anyway, I won't go too far on that.
But Riley tells a story and I was like, this
is some rich people shit I can never want. Hopefully
one day, but I can't relate to. She talks about
going out with this guy all these rich kid friends,
and she's like yeah, and then he brought all these
girls over here and I didn't even have a seat, mom,

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and she was like okay, So like I'm just trying
to figure out how much did he put in? That's
what Candy kept asking. She trying to get to the bottom.
You'll in to a club, you got a table section,
whatever it was costs money? How much did this boy
put in that you have been complaining about Riley telling
all these other details. So she was like, so the

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sebbe is like, Riley, how much was it? She's like,
I just want to get away from my mom. This
heifer says it was fourteen She's like, it's like fourteen something.
My broke ca ass mind. Immediately I'm thinking fourteen hundred,
fourteen thousand, bitch. And because Candy is a real ass mama,
she whacked her baby with that purse multiple times. I

(20:37):
know Bravo cut out multile, but she was like, are
you serious, Like.

Speaker 2 (20:42):
Who paid for it?

Speaker 1 (20:44):
Riley? Candy starter?

Speaker 2 (20:46):
How does she have the money?

Speaker 1 (20:49):
It's rich, but is.

Speaker 2 (20:51):
It Candy's money or that's what Candy wanted?

Speaker 1 (20:53):
You know? She said, I know it's not on the
car that I paid for. How did you pay for that?
She asked, in the same questions you asked. She's like,
with my money? She said, well, what money you got?
And it was funny because the conversation leading up to
that is them talking to Riley like you graduated college,
and the agreement was in January. You'll be cut off financially,
So what is your plan? You don't want to go

(21:15):
to law school? Law school, I assume would extend that.
And she's like, I don't want to do that one
and do something different. They're like, okay, well that's why.
But what you gonna do? Because you to move into
this apartment down in Brooklyn, and I know you ain't
moving nothing cheap. Even Kim's daughter ain't moving to nothing cheap.
And she keeps talking about how her mama is asking

(21:35):
her for money, but she's with a billionaire. She didn't
looked up her mama taught her something.

Speaker 2 (21:39):
Oosem's with a billionaire.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
Kim's the white woman. She's not with the football player
no more. Her daughter, but no, she's not with a
football player no more. They are going through divorce. It's
been a messy ass divorce. It's been a lot of stuff.
I don't know what's true what's not, So we'll skip her.
But the daughter, the youngest, yup, he's herried. Oh so

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his granddaddy. I think it's his grandad, not his daddy.
Pretty sure it's his granddaddy. Start a Zaxpy's there are billionaires.
His job description is investor. You know what that means, girls, now,
it's something does mean you don't have to work. You

(22:25):
got money already, so all you do is like invest
in other scheff to make your money. You're not clocking in,
you're not worried about You're not sitting here podcasting telling
about everybody who's been in your pussy hoping to make
a quick butt.

Speaker 2 (22:37):
Well I was long, But in real estate sometimes you
meet investors and you're like, you're not a millionaire, but
like you are investing, okay.

Speaker 1 (22:44):
But I'm just saying, like he has a lot of money, okay.
And so she is on the show and I see
what she's doing. People have been talking about her, like, girl,
why are you worried about money? You with a billionaire.
She's got to play the game. Her mama tell her,
y'all shut the fuck up unless this girl get something
because her mom can't give it to her. Anyways, she
is with this guy. He moves to New York with her.

(23:06):
From here, they get a ten thousand dollars a month apartment.
They got to pay eighteen thousand dollars broker fee. Have
you considered being a realtor in New York.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
No, I would never.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
It's too expensive for you.

Speaker 2 (23:20):
What, it's just as stress. I'm not gonna be hustling
and bustling in the New York City. I have no
want to do that.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
So losing weight and improving your health does not have
to feel impossible. I feel like y'all can trust that
for me, because y'all know I will give up at
the drop of a dime. I don't like working out.
I don't like eating healthy all the time because sometimes
it's like, okay, you want to combat a problem or
you know, whether it's like truly like health or just vanity.

(23:49):
Because I got both, I get discouraged and very easily, y'all.
I have never felt this way about any of the
things that I have done or taken to try and
do better. With taking care of myself, it's so much easier.
I'm not feeling discouraged. I am seeing results everything that
they have said was gonna happen. I'm doing it for

(24:11):
weight loss. I don't know what the medicine is called.
It's touched to the tee, but it is great because
what's happening is I'm not having those sugar cravings like
I used to. It only happens. I'll be honest. There
were days where I wasn't taking my medicine like I
was supposed to do. I'm supposed to take it every day.
That's user error. So if you're not doing the instructions,

(24:32):
that could happen. But when you get back on it,
it's just like, ah, I'm good. Like I was turning down.
So I was in Houston, you guys, where there's so
much great food, and I was turning stuff down. I
was like, oh fool, I'm just gonna have this. I
just want a little We all stopped at the table
at one day, like, what's going on, baby, I'm on
that life OURX plan and they are getting my gut right,

(24:53):
They're getting this body right. I am dropping pounds, I
am feeling lighter, I'm sleeping better. They didn't even say
that that is what would happen. I just can't tell
y'all how much I love it. And I love that
even though I was rambling during my appointment with the
medical professional, because that's what you'll do when you start off.
You talk to somebody and you tell them what you're
trying to do. What your concerns are, talk about your history,

(25:16):
you know, all that stuff. You're really talking to somebody.
They're not giving everyone the same thing, right, they are
going to make sure that you know they're monitoring what's
going on. You have to check in every month, and
I like that because I don't want you just ship
me stuff without ever checking in. And I feel like, well,
what am I taking? You know, you don't have to
worry about any of that. I am feeling good on it.

(25:37):
I'm loving it. How has your experience been?

Speaker 3 (25:39):
So?

Speaker 2 (25:40):
My journey with life our XMD is really it's interesting.
I at first was on the breakup diet, like I
just wasn't eating and I wasn't working out, and I
was just not being healthy by not eating. And so
it's interesting, like the journey was okay, but you gotta
eat some food and you need to start working out.
One of my friends made me start working out. So

(26:00):
when you implement working out, did that then I was like,
let me actually start eating right, eating right, and then
the lifear XMB. You can remix it how you want
to remix it. If you are like, which I'm not
about to be working out? Cool, you can take the
pill you're still going to be or whatever medicine they
give you, you're still going to lose weight. In my journey,
I was like, Okay, I want to lose weight and

(26:21):
build muscle, and I don't want to lose too much weight.
So they capped me at like a number where it's like,
this will help me just maintain what I was building.
And I absolutely love that I have the power to
do that because I was losing weight, but there was
like a little pudge that I just couldn't get rid of.
There was two rolls on the back of my sides. Kiki,
I've never been able to get rid of those roles.

(26:41):
They go. I took a video in the gym the
other day. I asked my girl and I said, well,
you take a video of my back. The roles are gone,
and I know that's the lifear XMD. Like I'm just like,
sometimes you just need a little help. So you might
be listening this and be like, I don't want to
be walking around looking like a bobblehead. You don't have to.
You might just want to lose like a few little
pounds and you can. You can do that, and that's
what I just love it. I also love that there's

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no contracts if you try it and you're like, I
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Speaker 1 (27:07):
Yeah, whatever.

Speaker 2 (27:09):
I can honestly say, I'm wholeheartedly excited about this brand
and I've been looking at before and after photos. I
just did this last night, and I cannot believe just
where I'm at right now. It also helped me chisel
down my face, like you can't do that working out,
like you know what I mean, Like it helps you

(27:30):
target some of those areas that really are just difficult.
I don't care what y'all say. I love it.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
I love it too. I have been very pleased. I
am so happy that we are working with them. I'm
happy with the overall experience, and I'm going to continue
to use them. I have more goals. And then I
was like, you know what, I've scheduled another appointment because
I wanted to talk to them and just like address
some other little things going on and just see if

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they may be have something to help me. And so
I'll keep your guys posted about that and let you
know if there's anything else. But I know that they
do stuff for like men's hair loss. Oh, they just
stuff for a rextile dysfunction. There is no reason to
be walking around here with the what's his name George
Jefferson and a limp noodle if you don't have to,

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if you want to live your life like that, dude,
your baby, that ain't got nothing to do with me.
But if you don't want to, there's no reason and
there's no shame. We all need a little help.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
We do, and it makes me even wonder like I
don't know how to put ribs down. You know how
we always talk about the men with the big hips
and how it's really hard because you were just born
like that.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
But if it's fat and not just a wide set
pelvict bone because your bones, if you really are big
bone down there, I mean, they can't do nothing about that.
But if it's a little stubborn.

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U with support that actually works. The link is in
the description box below, And now we'll get back to
the show. All right, Well, anyway, I just saw they
had to pay that monthfucker eighteen thousand dollars for a
fucking rental.

Speaker 2 (29:51):
Why would they be renting?

Speaker 1 (29:52):
I do. I have a lot of questions because they
don't know if they want to stay there.

Speaker 2 (29:56):
Yeah, but you can still own it and pay a
mortgage and then just rent it out.

Speaker 1 (29:59):
Yeah. He doesn't want that commitment because they're doing it together,
and he's just like, I don't want that commitment. And
I have other properties in Georgia's that have other properties
other places, and it's New York, Like I don't want that.
We can try this for a year and let's see anyway,
So they're doing that. I mean this show. I enjoy
this show. I think that a lot of their petty

(30:20):
arguments are childish, but that's what I like about reality TV.
I don't want it to be think piece bullshit. I
just want to see some rich people doing shit that
I can't do or would not do, and just be like, Damn,
you're rich as fuck. How y'all navigate there arguing over
petty stuff? Oh you think I don't look like a

(30:41):
fashion designer. That's the kind of stuff I want to
see on reality TV. I like what it's like, not
when y'all are really like digging up real drama about
people in court cases and all kinds of I just
want petty ass, rich bitch drama. You think I have
no sense of style? Ava Dash, so Ava Dame Dash's

(31:03):
daughters on there, who is also Rachel Roy's daughter, Becky
with good hair.

Speaker 2 (31:08):
Remember when everybody thought they were talking about Rachel the.

Speaker 1 (31:10):
Chew, Oh wait, Rachel Rachel.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
They were like, it's not Rachel Ray. Y'all dog food
and the show.

Speaker 1 (31:20):
She was like, I don't like Rachel Ray because her
voice annoys me.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
But I just it wasn't wrong.

Speaker 1 (31:27):
Damn. I didn't realize.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
Chel and it was they had the wrong right.

Speaker 1 (31:33):
It was like, okay, wrong, Rachel, I did see. Well.
I won't put that off York New York Post. That's
the gossip. Anyway. I had a great time watching that show.
It comes out on Wednesdays on Peacocks. This is not sponsored.
I just hope that y'all enjoy. If you enjoy watching
the show, please hear me. Nobody's watching it with me.

(31:58):
Oh but I got something I need y'all to watch
for real. First of all, I should have said this
from the beginning. I did not. Let me see that.
I want to give a huge thank you to all
of you guys because you did what I asked you
to do with the new show. XO. Man, y'all have been
in them comments, y'all have been send me stuff, and
I really I just want to wholeheartedly say I really

(32:19):
appreciate all the support everybody has given. Please continue, it
doesn't stop here.

Speaker 2 (32:26):
Continue.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
I mean I need you for at least six more months. Thanks. Also,
if you don't like something, just DM me. Please do
not leave it in the reviews. I'm begging you please
and that but I have seen people do that for cocktail,
so I don't want to get to that point, but

(32:47):
I just I cried a little bit. Y'all know, I'll
be trying to act hard, but I'm not a thug.
I'm not a gangster booth. I am just me, and
sometimes emotions strike me at strange times, and lately I've
been way more emotional than I have ever been in

(33:08):
my entire life, and I've been trying to embrace it
instead of run from it. And so I just really
want to say thank you to you and to everybody
listening watching, however you were consuming the show, I really
appreciate it. Last night and today I felt really good
because one of my favorite episodes that I've recorded, it
came out. Well, when you guys are hearing, this is

(33:30):
the episode that came out last week was sky Black.
Maybe y'all don't know him. He used to dance for Beyonce.
That's where I first knew who he was when she
was on maybe the Beyonce Experience tour, the one where
she had the DVD and everything that you could buy
if you can go to the tour, and she performed.
She performed several songs, but I don't know if it's

(33:53):
if I don't know what song it was. Some songs
she dances with a man. He's very attractive, he is
the man. And when I interviewed him, he talked about
being homeless, and I promise I was not trying to
be funny, and I didn't even ask it all the
way because I was like, I don't I'm trying to
navigate this new space and figure out the tone of

(34:14):
what they want, and then also like not make people
feel uncomfortable. But I was really wondering, like, how are
you living in Atlanta? And you look good? You couldn't
find no older lady to give you a home. But
he wasn't in Atlanta. He was in La So that
made him make more sense anyway, point being, he hit

(34:36):
me up afterwards. I really enjoyed the interview. I learned
a lot about him. I do this thing with that
particular show because it always has to be a guest.
I'm the only host, and I'm never going to do
a solo episode because it's all about how men feel.
So I was wondering, like, how do you get here?

(34:57):
What's going on? All these things? And I try to
have I write down like whatever I think about the
guests beforehand, and then after the episode, not after it
comes out, but like after I record it, I write
down what my new thoughts are, if they are new.
And it's a challenging myself to like look at people

(35:20):
and be like, Okay, we can have all of these
preconceived notions about people, but you never really know anybody
until you have a conversation. And then even one conversation
is not enough. You have to continue building on that relationship.
What people put out you don't. You just don't always
know the full story, and you've got to talk. You've
got to communicate and experience and be with people. So
I've been doing that, but with him, I really really

(35:42):
enjoyed it. He cried. This is the one where I
was telling y'all, somebody cried. He was crying multiple times,
and I was about what different stuff, Like, I'd asked
him one of the big things that we talked about
that he hit me up. I was like, I was like,
have you ever taken a moment to sell? When was

(36:04):
the last time you took a moment to celebrate yourself?
And we were just looking at each other and I
was like, but then he kind of got choked up,
and he was like, I haven't And I guess I
never really thought about it because it's just like you
keep moving. It's like you what does he do now?
Is still he's an actor?

Speaker 2 (36:25):
Oh okay?

Speaker 1 (36:26):
So he didn't want to dance anymore. He wanted to act,
and so that's what caused like an issue. But he
was like, this is what I really want to do.
So now he's acting and so and he's had like
a quick trajectory and then he got married. He's got
a baby on the way, Like he's literally successful. Now.
A show that I know that he starts in is

(36:49):
All the Queen's Men. Okay, and he married kJ she's
an actress that's on a show called Sissis that's on
bt BT. But they're both actors and they've been doing
all this stuff. And he was just like, yeah, I
wasn't getting booked for anything, and then I started getting booked,

(37:12):
and then I'm getting booked, and now I'm married and
now I'm doing this. And i'd asked him about having
children and so, because I did this interview in December
and it's just now coming out forever later, they are
pregnant and they've got a baby on the way, and
it's just like he was like, oh, I can't tell
you that, like he was being coy about it. But

(37:32):
I was like, oh, congratulations, So I'm telling all this.
His wife hit me up first and she was like,
I really enjoyed it. I watched it. You did a
great job, all these positive things. And then he had
messaged me today and said something, and something we talked
about was like, I was like, you don't celebrate yourself.
Why not like to sit across and say that you

(37:54):
were literally homeless and you didn't even try to use
your good looks to come up, because I would have.

Speaker 2 (37:59):
If I was you.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
You think I wouldn't have been fucking for somebody to
be saying somewhere please. Anyway, it's like homeless, weird, not
with this body, not with this fact. And he looks good.
He's tall, he's got sky black s k y H
b O A c K. Now the people be trying

(38:22):
to act like, you know, he don't know this. I
was gonna ask he is strong, but he is and
I will say this when he came to the interview,
it's not as pretty as that, Like he looks like him,
but I could see I got it. And I don't
mean this in a rude way, but I just see, like,

(38:44):
how when all of your pictures look very professional, very
manicured and put together, how you can get that look?
And then we did talk about his wedding pictures because
I was like, you had a train and then boot
zone and I was like, oh, he was like, yeah,
my grandfather who raised me because his parents had nothing
to do with him. He was like they my grandfather

(39:08):
was like into all the cowboys stuff and he would
wear the cowboy boots, so I wore that as a
tribute to him. And then I had a broach. Everybody
was talking about my brooch with the brooch had a
picture of him because he didn't make it to my
wedding day. He passed and I needed him there with me.
And then he shared a story which is what made
him cry and almost made me cry, but I wouldn't

(39:29):
better to cry because I paid for our kid to
do my makeup and I was like, I don't know
what that wid coming off because everything was slide off anyway.
It was just an emotional moment for everybody, and it
was just nice to see somebody also be okay with
being emotional. He wouldn't shy about it. And I was like,
did people make fun of you because you was doing

(39:49):
balleting from Miami? I straight up asked him because he
from Miami Miami. He was like, I didn't care about that,
and I believed him in high school or like throughout
life as a kid growing up, and he was like,
I wasn't worried about that. I was worried if somebody
told me my turn wouldn't write. He was like, I'm not.

(40:10):
I can't worry about other people. I've always kind of
been a loner, and this is what I liked. I
just want to be great at what I do. I
can't let the outside noise get to me. And I
was like, you know what, I usually don't be believing
me when they say stuff like that in those situations.
I believed him because it's sometimes that is true. Sometimes

(40:31):
people really are just like I am so okay with
me or okay with the things that I want I do.
Tune out the outside noise anyway, point B. I really
enjoyed that. Next. Okay, so this week, y'all will hear
Adrian Marcel. He's an R and B singer. I wasn't
familiar with him before, but I like his music. And

(40:52):
then it's Rascal Dash and David Banner. I really hope
y'all watched the Dave Banner episode Rosco Dash because I
had a good time. Dave Banner was working for it.
For well, I'll tell you about Rosco on.

Speaker 2 (41:03):
Petraw is Roscoe Dash still making music?

Speaker 1 (41:07):
Yeah, he started making new music. Come on, Roscoe, well Roscoe?
Because I was like, osc y'all, we missus, Shorty put
it all the damn come on, cause what like you
got me through college and want too much of my adulthood.
I should have retired the club. I asked him if

(41:29):
you got tired of club music, what y'all gonna have
to watch it to find out? But he said, I
mean he's trying to do something different, like you grow up.
And I appreciate him for saying that, And I was like,
do people try to make you do say he's like absolutely.

Speaker 2 (41:48):
Actual named Roscoe?

Speaker 1 (41:51):
Oh no I'm not. But I did ask like, what
is that like like having success so you and then
like getting to this point and maybe people are like
trying to keep you in a box and you want
to expand and he was like, yeah, they'd be doing it,
but whatever, and I was like, we'll talk about this later. Anyway,

(42:17):
Please continue to listen to the show, watch the show again.
New episodes on audio for okay, shit right, okay. Audio
episodes come out every Tuesday. The video episodes come out
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(42:38):
subscribe all those things, but also please, please please, if
you feel it in your heart, share it. I'm really
proud of this. I'm really excited about it. My stepdad was.
And something else for the people who don't know. I
didn't know this. Do you realize that sometimes when we say, oh,
subscribe to the subscribe to this, people always think that

(42:59):
they have to pay. No, if you subscribe to Cocktails,
you don't have to pay. That is free. Patreon, there's
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Speaker 2 (43:11):
But if you subscribe to YouTube or subscribe on Apple podcasts,
it's free.

Speaker 1 (43:18):
On Spotify, it's free any of the regular ship only.
Patreon is what costs extra because that's different content that
is coming. But yeah, I didn't realize that. I was
talking to myself that and he brought that up and
He was like, how much does it cost? How much
is just your subscription? I'm gonna send it to my
friends and some sona because this is the one that's
okay to share. I was like, yes, it's okay to share.

(43:43):
And I was like, what do you mean, what is
it costs? I was like, it's free because at first
I'm like, you got minutes what you're talking about? How
much does it cost? But I didn't realize. So yeah,
and that's for any part, well not any podcast, but
most podcasts, you guys. A lot of this stuff is free.
So just because you hear subscribe doesn't mean that you
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Speaker 1 (44:15):
Just do damn thing.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
Yeah, it means a lot goes a long way, So
make sure y'all subscribe. Oh yeah, and I wanted to.

Speaker 1 (44:22):
Okay, So I'm really sorry I told you guys. I
don't want to be talking about grief forever. But I
did tell y'all about my grand natty passion. That's why
I didn't go to Jamaica for Memorial Day.

Speaker 2 (44:33):
We came.

Speaker 1 (44:35):
I didn't go because the funeral was literally the same.
I was still gonna try and make it happen because
I was like, that might be a good pick me.

Speaker 2 (44:41):
Up or I'm not I would have been wild, but
I don't.

Speaker 1 (44:45):
Have to be wild. I could just be in Jamaica, yeah,
because you weren't wild.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
Yeah, but I wasn't sad, like sad, like going sad,
I think, but I could.

Speaker 1 (44:54):
Stay in my room whatever. I don't know anyway. Funeral
was Saturday of the weekend. S iad and go, but
not too fear. Hopefully don't nobody else die, because I'll
be back in December, and then I will be letting
you guys know very soon, hopefully by my birthday. We're
the next Kiki's Travel Tribe trip is We're not sure.

(45:16):
We're still working out details because I want it to
be just as great as the last one. But I'm
really excited about all of those things. So you guys,
if you're interested to go to Worst Behavior Tour dot com.
If you want to come to Jamaica, we are going
to be at Hedonism too, the resort for a few
days in December. I'll put all those details I can't

(45:37):
remember off the top of my head, but it's early
December's before Christmas. You can even go home and get
baptized after the sinful things.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
That you do.

Speaker 1 (45:46):
M So there's some and for all my sad girls.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
Come on the Love Girls Trip. We're gonna have a
really good time. I'm not sure if we're going to Thayland, Greece, Spain, Italy.
There's so many options, so click the link in the
disc scription and vote on where you'd like to go.
I feel like in my soul Thailand is going to win.
And I've already started to put together the perfect the y'all,

(46:12):
what I got going, it's absolutely amazing. It's like going
on a date with me. Is very creative and very fine,
very romantic. So make sure you guys go do the survey.
And if you can't make the Lover Girls Trip, don't forget.
I got Paradise and Vibe, and so this the Lover
Girl Trip will be in twenty twenty six and twenty
twenty six. With Paradise and Vibe, we're going to Turkey
and the theme of that is absolutely phenomenal. This will

(46:33):
probably be my favorite one just because of what we're doing.
So always subscribe to Paradise and Vibe. Go to Paris
and Vibe dot com. Tell them I sent you and if.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
You can make it.

Speaker 2 (46:42):
So we just traveling, bitchies, We just traveling. If you
can come to Sedona, come on, baby.

Speaker 1 (46:46):
Where do they go for your for your trip?

Speaker 2 (46:49):
We don't know yet. We're still litter.

Speaker 1 (46:51):
No to like do the thing. Oh, we're gonna.

Speaker 2 (46:55):
Yeah, We're gonna put the link in the in the description,
so I don't just like a long link.

Speaker 1 (47:00):
You didn't say the link that. I was just trying
to prompt you to say it. But okay, so it's
gonna be a link the thing.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
Yeah, it'll be a Lincoln. It's gonna just click it
and then take the survey and then once we pick
where we're going, we'll give the rest of that.

Speaker 1 (47:12):
But until where do you really want to go?

Speaker 2 (47:14):
What's your top place? If you could pick, I'm not
gonna lie. I already had it in my mind that
I wanted to go to Italy. But I wanted to
go I wanted to do Sicily. I wanted to do,
and then I want to do like a country I
love the country side of any country, like, so that's
what I wanted to do, but the girls are not
I want to do that I love. I wanted to

(47:35):
do like a farm to table type of thing where
we're like on a farm, we milk the cat, like
we just do.

Speaker 1 (47:40):
Like that sounds fun to me, doesn't it.

Speaker 2 (47:42):
It's like, but you know, I will see what happens
with like the voting because it also shows the age
range and like the best times to go. So in
my mind, the way that I see like a trip
like this going is we can travel to the city
when we want to. But I like to try new
things whenever I'm feeling down about anything because it just
makes me feel better. Like I like to challenge myself.

(48:03):
When I auditioned for the worship team, it was because
it scared me and so like that's the type of
stuff that helps me get through thing. So that was
my thing. I was like, let's all be on a
farm together, like we got to fish for our food
and do all our stuff. But Italy is last on the.

Speaker 1 (48:17):
List, so I really want to go there. Italy is
like at the top of my list the last time
I did a travel survey, Toland was at the top,
and then Colombia. I think we might be going somewhere
in South America, but I really want to go to
I really want to go to Italy. I want to

(48:38):
go eat. Yeah, And there were a few other countries
in Europe and Africa specifically that had different like food
influences and wine influences. Don't we should check out? But
I was just like, I guess I'm alone, ranger. Maybe
you just take a trip after your trip, we just

(48:58):
take another trip with out of being a group trip
and go because I want to go. That sounds cool.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
It's US. And then after Italy, I was like, Okay,
Spain because Spain also I don't know yet. Maybe again
I like the countryside, so Salamanca there, it's the country side.
It's it's the country side. Yeah, So it's I'm a
country girl when it comes to the other countries, not
in America, but that type of situation, like the I

(49:25):
want to be where the vineyards are, but we gonna
make it happen. Even I've been to Thailand, all of
the options that they have, I've been to all those places. Bangkok,
Chang Mai and Fouquet, So if we do if Thailand
ends up winning, we will do Fouquet because Fouquet is
a They got the moon Festival vibe. Yeah, it's a
vibe like you can do all the things island y.

(49:46):
The food is good. We are definitely going to a
NAUGHTI club. I might not go outside in America, but
I'll go outside in Thailand. So I'm excited. Travel. Travel.
It's even if you don't go with me or Ki.
Make sure y'all going to see the world. It's healing.

Speaker 1 (50:03):
Yeah, and I think it's just good to just like
be around different people, have different experiences. Got to expand
your overall worldview.

Speaker 2 (50:12):
Absolutely, So make sure y'all check out all the links
in the description. I guess we don't have weird sex,
and I guess we don't do we have advice cottails?

Speaker 1 (50:21):
We do I have a weird sex? Oh yeah, okay,
so I'm want to read the weird sex. Let men
get to it. It's very short. Losing weight and improving
your health does not have to feel impossible. I feel
like y'all can trust that for me, because y'all know
I will give up at the drop of a dime.
I don't like working out. I don't like eating healthy

(50:43):
all the time because sometimes it's like, Okay, you want
to combat a problem or you know, whether it's like
truly like health or just vanity. Because I got both,
I get discouraged and very easily, y'all. I have never
felt this way about any of the things that I
have done or taken to try and do better. With

(51:04):
taking care of myself, it's so much easier. I'm not
feeling discouraged. I am seeing results everything that they have
said was gonna happen. I'm doing it for weight loss.
I don't know what the medicine is called. It's touched
to the tee, but it is great because what's happening
is I'm not having those sugar cravings like I used to.

(51:25):
It only happens, I'll be honest. There were days where
I wasn't taking my medicine like I was supposed to do.
I'm supposed to take it every day. That's user error.
So if you're not doing the instructions, that could happen.
But when you get back on it, it's just like, ah,
I'm good. Like I was turning down, so I was
in Houston, you guys, where there's so much great food,
and I was turning stuff down. I was like, Oh,

(51:46):
I'm just gonna have this. I just want a little
We all stopped at the table at one day, like,
what's going on, baby, I'm on that life OURX plan
and they are getting my gut right, they're getting this
body right. I am dropping pounds, I am feeling lighter,
I'm sleepy, being better. They didn't even say that that
is what would happen. I just can't tell y'all how
much I love it. And I love that even though

(52:07):
I was rambling during my appointment with the medical professional,
because that's what you'll do when you start off. You
talk to somebody and you tell them what you're trying
to do, what your concerns are, talk about your history,
you know all that stuff. You're really talking to somebody.
They're not giving everyone the same thing, right, They're going
to make sure that you know they're monitoring what's going on.

(52:30):
You have to check in every month, and I like
that because I don't want you just ship me stuff
without ever checking in, and I feel like, well, what
am I taking? You know, you don't have to worry
about any of that. I am feeling good on it.
I'm loving it. How has your experience been?

Speaker 2 (52:42):
So my journey with life our x empt is really
it's interesting. I at first was on the breakup diet,
like I just wasn't eating and I wasn't working out,
and I was just not being healthy by not eating,
and so it's interesting, Like the journey was okay, but
you gotta eat some food and you need to start
working out. One of my friends made me start working out,
so when you implement working out, did that, then I

(53:07):
was like, let me actually start eating right, eating right,
and then the lifear XMB you can remix it how
you want to remix it. If you are like, which
I'm not about to be working out, cool, you can
take the pill. You're still gonna be or whatever medicine
they give you. You're still going to lose weight. In
my journey, I was like, Okay, I want to lose
weight and build muscle, and I don't want to lose
too much weight. So they capped me at like a

(53:28):
number where it's like this will help me just maintain
what I was building. And I absolutely love that I
have the power to do that because I was losing weight,
but there was like a little pudge that I just
couldn't get rid of. There was two roles on the
back of my sides. Kiki, I've never been able to
get rid of those roles. They go. I took a
video in the gym the other day. I asked my
girl and I said, well, you take a video of

(53:48):
my back. The roles are gone, and I know that's
the lifear XMD.

Speaker 3 (53:52):
Like.

Speaker 2 (53:52):
I'm just like, sometimes you just need a little help.
So you might be listening this and be like, I
don't want to be walking around looking like a bobblehead.
You don't have to. You might just want to lose
like a few little pounds and you can. You can
do that, and that's what I just love it. I
also love that there's no contracts if you try it
and you're like, I don't want to re up. I
don't want to, you don't have.

Speaker 1 (54:09):
To like it? Yeah, whatever.

Speaker 2 (54:11):
I can honestly say, I'm wholeheartedly excited about this brand,
and I've been looking at before and after photos. I
just did this last night, and I cannot believe just
where I'm at right now. It also helped me chisel
down my face like you can't do that working out
like you know what I mean, Like it helps you

(54:32):
target some of those areas that really are just difficult.
I don't care what y'all say. I love it.

Speaker 1 (54:39):
I love it too. I have been very pleased. I
am so happy that we are working with them. I'm
happy with the overall experience, and I'm going to continue
to use them. I have more goals. And then I
was like, you know what, I've scheduled another appointment because
I wanted to talk to them and just like address
some other little things going on and just see if

(55:02):
they maybe have something to help me. And so I'll
keep your guys posted about that and let you know
if there's anything else. But I know that they do
stuff for like men's hair loss. Oh, they just stuff
for a rectile dysfunction. There is no reason to be
walking around here with the what's his name George Jefferson

(55:23):
and a limp noodle if you don't have to, if
you want to live your life like that, dude, you baby,
that ain't got nothing to do with me. But if
you don't want to, there's no reason and there's no shame.
We all need a little help. We do, and it
makes me even wonder like I don't know how to
put ribs down. You know how we.

Speaker 2 (55:41):
Always talk about the men with the big hips and
how it's really hard because you were just born like that.

Speaker 1 (55:45):
But if it's fat and not just a wide set
pelvict bone because your bones, if you really are big
bone down there, I mean, they can't do nothing about that.
But if it's a little stubborn.

Speaker 2 (55:54):
Fast, just try it and tell us how you like it.

Speaker 1 (55:58):
And it's for everybody. It's not just a woman, women
in everybody, Yeah, no matter what it is. Yeah, y'all
gotta check it out. So enough of us telling you
about how much we love it. We want you to
try it. If you have it already, and if you have,
y'all should hit us up, send us an email or
DM and let us know how it's going for you. Anyway,
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(56:39):
you with support that actually works. The link is in
the description box below, And now we'll get back to
the show. You said a man is not a necessity.
A man is a luxury, like deserve. Yeah, a man
is absolutely not necessity. Did you mean that to sound

(56:59):
me even bitter? Oh not at all. I adore desert,
I love man. I think men are the coolest, but
you don't really need them to live. Okay, So somebody
got a uti.

Speaker 2 (57:16):
It's been a long time since I had a UTI,
but I've had one before. I feel like if if
you have a vagina, you've had a uti.

Speaker 1 (57:23):
This this good girlfriend of ours says that one time
I got a UTI from a man who didn't deserve it.
And that's even worse. Like, imagine getting a UTI and
you know it's from a sexual interaction from someone and
you just feel like I want to spit in your face. Okay,
So she says, girl, this man was not even that fine.

(57:44):
That's how it starts. So you know, it's like bad.
He wasn't my man. He wasn't even my favorite stinky link.
But I was bored. What do they say? I don't
hands do the Devil's work or some shit like that. Anyway,
y'all be careful, get a hobby, read a book, Join
my gun club. That's a good one that's gonna get

(58:09):
you some real skills. Anyway, I was born and he
had just posted a thirst trap with some low angles
and tattoos, and I made a terrible decision. We hook up.
The sex is mid damn. He gives jackhammer energy twenty five.

(58:29):
Are you fucking free?

Speaker 2 (58:30):
That's why I'm not doing it.

Speaker 1 (58:32):
I feel you and no regard for the clip. I'm
literally just lady, laying there and hoping it ends before
I cramp up. Then a few days later, my body
starts fighting for its life. That's when she knew it
was a problem. I ended up getting a full on
Uti burning cramping, ping every five minutes, like I'm fucking
eighty seven, bitch, I'm at work taking Cranberry pills like

(58:56):
M and M's. I had a humble myself and door
dash Monoster and a zo like it was fucking Chipotle,
which Chippotle is very high on door Dash Anyway.

Speaker 2 (59:07):
Chipotle on the corner of Piedmont and uh, the four
hundred loop.

Speaker 1 (59:13):
Yes, I hated that one.

Speaker 2 (59:14):
I've written ones, and I went off on the cash
register lady, because why is y'all so mean up in here?

Speaker 1 (59:21):
Why do you keep going back?

Speaker 2 (59:22):
Because it's always just so convenient. I'd be stopping, just
like I got chipotlet.

Speaker 1 (59:27):
Yeah, I know, I don't like that location. I stopped going,
but they used to have a little Indian non non,
it's not there no more. I think it might be close,
I mean not stop still there it is.

Speaker 2 (59:37):
You've been in the scovialed chicken.

Speaker 1 (59:40):
M good it is, and they've opened up multiple locations.
Very spicy, very delicious. Anyway, back to this fish. So
she's popping in peels like Eminem's had to humble herself
order she okay, the kicker he had the nerve to
text what you're doing? Two days later, and I still
entertained it, knowing my bladder was still mad at me.

(01:00:03):
I risked my urinary track for that. Never again she
went back and practice man, and she knew she should have.
That's what the lady. I do hope that this can
be a cautionary tale to anyone who is strong enough
to fight the urge. I totally understand the urge. I
will not encourage urge.

Speaker 2 (01:00:22):
So it's funny the urge, the urges. So I've been
talking to one of my girlfriends. I was like, dang,
like there's one uh act that has resurfaced because he
I had blocked on everything, but I forgot about Facebook
and I was on Facebook. I made a new page.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
Twnd you was your new Facebook?

Speaker 3 (01:00:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:00:40):
I mean I guess, yeah, I mean he did. I
got on there and I never really get out of it.
It's like it look like you're online, but you know,
I just didn't close the tab. So I was on
my computer and I was doing something else and I
went and I was like, oh, okay, it's instant messages up.
I mean I don't really be on Facebook like that.
I do it for like real estate purposes. But like
I saw a message from him and my body did
a little like yes, it was something, and I was

(01:01:03):
like I probably shouldn't respond. I responded and like Hierius
and he was like can I call you?

Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
And I was like, mmm, he just messaged me and said.

Speaker 2 (01:01:18):
Can you just message me instead? Why you need to
call me? You know why you don't need to message me,
or you know that calling me is gonna get you
places you're a vampire. He knows it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:31):
He know yeah. And I was just like, he called
you and what happened?

Speaker 2 (01:01:37):
He called me and we stopped in the phone for
a little bit and he just wanted to catch up
and see how I've been and won day.

Speaker 1 (01:01:42):
How do you think?

Speaker 2 (01:01:43):
I was just like I was telling him how I
had been and then he was like, let me fly
you out and I was like, you said no, I
said no.

Speaker 1 (01:01:52):
Where was he trying to fight you to what? You
came back to a concert?

Speaker 3 (01:01:58):
I know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:59):
I was like she could have added a turkey leg
on a sick crawfish and seen some niggas.

Speaker 2 (01:02:04):
It was crazy. And he was like, Okay, let's go
to the island. And I was like he was pulling
out all the things. She said. I said, what is
going on? I'm trying to I'm trying to to to
make what are you trying to do? Decisions? You know
what I said? I was talking to my girlfriend. She
knows about she said, cause she was like she would
go and I was like, she was like, you.

Speaker 1 (01:02:25):
Live your life and you need to celebrate you don't
be something I've tried to d now multiple times to
celebrate myself. She won't let me take her. I don't
know if she's celebrated on her own, but you gotta
celebrate yourself. This could be an excuse, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:02:38):
And I was just like, well, yeah, no, I don't know.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:02:40):
I don't know something.

Speaker 2 (01:02:41):
Oh no, no, And she said, let's talk about the pros,
and the consert said okay, let's talk about me. And
I was like, okay, so okay, so pros, the pros.
I was like, the pros if I the pros if
I don't go? The pros?

Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
Oh dude, oh why was speaking negative?

Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
Well, because there was no pros if I went, I
said the pros if I.

Speaker 1 (01:02:59):
Go, have a good time.

Speaker 2 (01:03:01):
I have a good time, hopefully, or I go and
you create. Here's what I'm fearful of. I have not
let a man enter my body in a very long time.
Why you gotta hear me out. I don't trust myself.
And I keep saying that, So I'm like, I don't
know if I okay, I already don't trust myself. And

(01:03:21):
so I'm like, so I'm gonna go to a romantic
location and be like I got it, Like.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
No, you don't, I don't know, And so I think
that you have made progress, and then I'll let you
get back to it without interrupting. But do you think, honestly,
right now you have made progress from where you were
in October to today in July July third, Yes, so

(01:03:47):
is the problem? The problem is you're not sure.

Speaker 2 (01:03:51):
I don't haven't been tempted like that, you know what
I mean? Like, I haven't been like I haven't been
tempted by someone that I actually would like because.

Speaker 1 (01:03:59):
I see changes. Oh that's drastic. You are very different
in a very good way. I don't know. I don't
mean that in a bad way at all. I've noticed
like just little things. So I'm just wondering, like, do
you see the little changes in how much of an

(01:04:20):
impact it has on who you are overall? M you do?

Speaker 2 (01:04:25):
I think I see it, and I think that I'm
just scared that Like this is how I explain it
to one of my girlfriends. And this is just being honest,
Like I am the type of woman where it's like,
if I care about a manner, I like you or
you are familiar, and I know how you are, like
I know how he is. He's a pretty great guy,
and like he does the things but it's also like
I'm so nervous that I will let a man come

(01:04:48):
into my life and just totally like throw off all
the changes that I do see in myself. And so
that's the part that's just kind of scary, where it's like, Okay,
I'm gonna come out here, I'm gonna do that, I'm
gonna go on the trip with you. We're like we
will likely a almost have sex if we don't have sex,
and then I'm nervous about like, Okay, if I start
having sex again, are you gonna mess up like the
clarity that I have in my mind and like the

(01:05:09):
positive route that I'm finally on, Like I don't think
even you know how like low I have actually been.
And so it's just like this thing of like, oh,
like can I afford I can't afford to, like.

Speaker 1 (01:05:23):
For your overall well being, you cannot.

Speaker 2 (01:05:25):
I can't get it, And it's yeah, so with some
people it's really easy to be like like I wouldn't,
but with him, it's like you and I, like I
told him, he was like what, I don't understand the brother.
I don't want to spend my summer sad. And I'm
starting to know.

Speaker 1 (01:05:41):
Shit.

Speaker 2 (01:05:42):
But you know it's Kiki's crazy because it's like I
just know so many women and it's just like they
have men in their lives. And I don't hate men,
but I do notice like women that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
Are married, I think you're the gool is.

Speaker 2 (01:05:54):
But I'm noticing there's like this trend of like, if
you don't really truly get yourself together and you're able
to trust yourself, bit sch just be sad like and
it's in the normally the sadness is coming from somebody's son,
and it's like, I can't do it right now.

Speaker 1 (01:06:09):
I've been turned to tell y'all for fifty years and
I've not been alive that long, contrary to Internet believe, Yeah,
it's I can do it right now.

Speaker 2 (01:06:18):
You're I'm gonna go because my girlfriend, she was like, Okay,
so the pros are you gonna go out there? You're
gonna have a good time. I said, I'm gonna go
out there. I am gonna have a good time. I'm
probably gonna get some really nice things.

Speaker 1 (01:06:27):
It's gonna do this.

Speaker 2 (01:06:28):
Because he already started doing the stuff and I didn't
even go, And I was like, the pro is if
I don't go, do what I needed four tires and
I could get there.

Speaker 1 (01:06:35):
But he was like, I got it for bitch, that's
a that's a good man investment. Nobody husband is he No,
I'm all right?

Speaker 2 (01:06:45):
He was like I got it. I was like, I
might as well just keep it this way.

Speaker 1 (01:06:49):
I got it, like you do it anyway, even gotta
bust it up.

Speaker 2 (01:06:54):
He got bust it over. It's like, if I go
out there, here's what's gonna be wrong. I'm gonna go
out there. Give you what you want, don't give it up.
I can't say I don't know if it's gone.

Speaker 1 (01:07:06):
Okay, okay, okay, I feel you. I'm saying I'm the same.

Speaker 2 (01:07:09):
I just don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:07:09):
I do it.

Speaker 2 (01:07:10):
And then you're gonna have me crying this summer. And
I didn't do all this work to be sitting over
here to the backside crying in the summer. Take popping
plan bees and and I'm not doing.

Speaker 1 (01:07:22):
It even guess, say what the hell.

Speaker 2 (01:07:30):
For breakfast? Like I can't fucking do it so much?

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
And inner bit advertised with some caveat any.

Speaker 2 (01:07:37):
Tall like I can't do it. And but I have
been sending him like naked pictures and that's the most.

Speaker 1 (01:07:45):
What a goddamn minute.

Speaker 2 (01:07:48):
That is the most that I will do. I said,
you know what, because he ain't see my teddies yet,
Like he was like, you.

Speaker 1 (01:07:53):
Got so wait you send the pictures with no titties.
You will him.

Speaker 2 (01:08:00):
Know what I'm saying is when he knew me I
didn't have breaston plan.

Speaker 1 (01:08:02):
Sent him with the.

Speaker 2 (01:08:05):
Lost a little way part.

Speaker 1 (01:08:13):
It's a new model baby, this the am okay period.

Speaker 2 (01:08:20):
But I ain't getting on that flight.

Speaker 1 (01:08:23):
What what if he's like, hey, where you gonna go
for your birthday? And you're telling him like I feel
when she goes to the countryside for my birthday. But
like I did the survey, the girls weren't interested. My
family's not coming, blah blah blah. It's expensive. He'said, Oh,
I got y'all, you, your mama, the nieces, the nephews,

(01:08:49):
your daddy, everybody, extended family up to hold on because
we ain't going too far. Let's see immediate family. He's
bringing every everybody can come. Yeah, is he gonna comes
if you want him to. He would like to come,
but he's paying for it, and he wants you to

(01:09:09):
go and have a good time because he feels like
he works so hard, and he likes you and he
just wants to see you happy.

Speaker 2 (01:09:16):
Honestly, I would be like, if you're going to do
all that, could you just buy a house for me?
But I mean that's really.

Speaker 1 (01:09:20):
What I would say. What if he want want?

Speaker 2 (01:09:24):
I don't want my own family? Mom and my familys
are like who is this? Figga?

Speaker 1 (01:09:28):
Like what if he don't have clean money? And he
just like I gotta I gotta burn it fast, okay man,
and I just want to spend it on you before
I go to prison.

Speaker 2 (01:09:39):
If he want to do that, we don't have to
include my family. If he was really gonna do.

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
It, because he can't buy you a house, that fine.

Speaker 2 (01:09:44):
And if he was going to do that, then I
would be like, Okay, well this is what I really
want to do. I want to go to either Spain,
Iceland or one of the places that has there's castles
you can rent, and I would want to go to
a castle and bring some friends. I'm not bringing my family.
Be like, who is he? I can't do past It's
just gonna be weird. And so I would be like
I would me and you can go to a castle
and do the wine, the vineyard experience and the chefs

(01:10:07):
in the castle and the ancient castles and do that.
But like then we could do that.

Speaker 1 (01:10:13):
Well, you called me, You're not call your family bench
because I ain't gonna say nothing. I'm gonna be really
best behavior. I promise I'll be very nice to everybody.
I will take you. Yeah, I will take all my
chill pills. I've been in a good Basically, I want
a free trip to fucking work in Transylvania. I don't

(01:10:34):
give a good God, damn, it's free and I'm out
here in my passport is stamp because this is so
fucking ancient. They don't even have the digital ship. I
don't like that. How do you feel about that? I
don't want a stamp when I go to Calle.

Speaker 2 (01:10:49):
I want a stamp.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
Story everybody and not having stands. But I'm just like, okay, well,
let me shut the fuck up because in a minute
we're not gonna be able to go. No fucking I
want to stamp. I want to Yeah, that little it
just feels official, like yeah, it does. And then like
a few places that way, it was just like digital ship.
They scan on my face. They asked me to take.

Speaker 4 (01:11:12):
Hat off and my wig is not right, and it's like, okay,
hair hat, I have my raids done.

Speaker 1 (01:11:22):
Nobody could do it. What's that upsetting?

Speaker 2 (01:11:28):
We got cast back there cracking up. No, but y'all
niggas is wearing me down. But I'm standing strong and
I'm not proud of you. I'm actually proud of myself.

Speaker 1 (01:11:36):
Too, because when have you ever done this?

Speaker 2 (01:11:38):
Not?

Speaker 1 (01:11:38):
Not? Not ever? Not, I said the cat Yeah, because
I remember one time you said something to me. It's
a very quick combo. You're like, oh, I'm go go
to double day date. You could just bring anybody, and
I don't have anybody. She's like everybody has somebody. That's
what she told me, thinking like anything, Well I don't,

(01:12:03):
and you were like, wow, you could bring this person,
this person. I was like, that would not be a date.
But it's just I sell that to say. It's funny
because time changes it. It's like I would not want
to go on a date with any old body, you know,
And I don't think that she would say that what

(01:12:25):
she said ten plus years ago now, because like, no,
I'm not gonna date with anybody. It's not gonna be
a date or it's gonna be a one sided day.
Somebody gonna be mad. It's not gonna be me if
I invited you. Could you imagine if somebody invited you
on a date and they knew they didn't like you,
because that's how it was feeling when he said, it's

(01:12:46):
like or they knew that they couldn't be who you
wanted them to be at the time. Because that's another piece.

Speaker 2 (01:13:03):
Hey, everybody, it's me with a really quick message for you.
One of my really good girlfriends started a foundation. It
is called Lula's Legacy Love Foundation, and if it's one
of the very very few breast cancer organizations and in
the US, but specifically is dedicated to serving African and
American women in the United States. And I think that

(01:13:26):
it's own world, not only because she lost her own
mother's breast cancer, but that she she's doing something and
it really necessary to I gotta startling. Okay, okay, I'm ready,

(01:13:55):
you guys atually take a quick break from the show
for me to interrupt with a necessity. Very Jesus, why.

Speaker 3 (01:14:06):
Okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:14:19):
Yeahs an in show really quick, just a legends. So
one of my really good girl friends, she lost her
mother to breast cancer and she'd started a foundation. So
the breast cancer are wearing a walk and it's October
twenty fifth and it's called Save the Top. I absolutely
love that. But in the end of her foundation is
Lula Love Foundation. And then it's one of the very

(01:14:41):
very few breast cancer organizations in the US that is
specifically dedicated to serving African American women. I think it's
really important that you guys know this is because you
needed to get it in checked, you need to stay.

Speaker 1 (01:14:53):
Up it and this is foundation.

Speaker 2 (01:14:55):
And then they raise money to pay for man rams,
pay for whigs. If you find out your you can't
be the basically invest in helping young black women saving
themselves and he you, I gotta sorry. On podcast, I'm
get closer closer each time. Okay, Lula, Lula's Love Foundation,

(01:15:34):
name the support and you're going to make sure these
went see supported, how to drive beyond the diagnosis, learn
more about this, Okay, Okay, okay, let's try to see Okay, Hey, guys,

(01:15:54):
really interested in the show the really important message. So
one of my girlfriends, she loves her about the breast
cancer and last year you started a foundation is called
Lula's legacy a love foundation. It's dedicated to breast cancer.
This is their second annual walk. It will be toward
twenty fifth, say the Top Walk. It will be in Tampa, Florida.

(01:16:17):
I'm going to try my hardest is to mediate, but
if I can, I would love for you guys to
either donate to the cause or you will live in
even an effected by a breast cancer. You know someone
who has you. You can find a right registered to
get taming together and then walk. We're going to put
all of the descriptions and then the links and in
the description and you'd like to joint word to donate.
And I want to let you know that all of

(01:16:37):
your donations go towards helping the minority women get what
you need to make sure you don't have a breast
cancer or you have bags with the breast cancer, whether
it's on anagram, wigs, medicine, all of the money goes
towards helping women who do not are aren't able to
afford it. And so I know something that the really

(01:16:59):
important especially audience to hear. This is a reminder to
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Speaker 1 (01:17:25):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:17:28):
Was that okay, we sure, okay, will be better and
better what you're doing.

Speaker 1 (01:17:38):
I was talking to my brother. I was like, I
wish you had a brother, and then I remember read
it and then I was like, I wish you had
a better brother. Who my brother? My brother Joseph. He
called us and I was like, I I'm so sorry.
Something serious did happen. And I was like, oh, I

(01:17:59):
feel so bad, but like I was sleep with five
or six am, and he was like, okay, I called.
He sent us a group message because he only has
sisters essentially.

Speaker 2 (01:18:11):
Which is the best.

Speaker 1 (01:18:13):
Sometimes he need a brother for this because he not
listening to us, so like he needs a brother or something. Anyway,
he was like I called y'all because I'm not okay
blah blah blah blah bunch of stuff. So I was like,
oh shit, no, this is serious, Like this is not
like he's sleepy. So I call him and weren't talking,

(01:18:37):
and then I was just like, Joseph, you do have
a brother. I keep saying you need a brother, You
have a brother. Do you not call your brother? And
so I want to ask you, guys, do you have
siblings where when you are going through like real life shit,
you call them and they don't answer or do they help?

(01:18:58):
I want to know what's going on. I know with him.
Once he told me it was something serious, I was like, oh,
I'm tapt in. I mean when he called me, I
was sleep. But I always call him and the rest
of my sisters do too, and we're all like that.
And I feel like I've heard you share experiences and
you're like that, like if your siblings call you and
they need you, you're there immediately.

Speaker 2 (01:19:21):
Like what immediately? I'm talking about immediately? What you mean
people who are not like that? It's crazy to me.

Speaker 1 (01:19:29):
If y'all got some siblings yalling, ignoring, they calls, what
the fuck is up? Why are y'all doing that? What
kind of sister or brother are you? That makes me upset.
That's something gets me rad up.

Speaker 2 (01:19:39):
But it's interesting because everybody isn't. I thought that everybody
was close to their siblings until you start learning that
everybody some people. Everybody's not like some people would be.
I wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (01:19:48):
But even if it was a sibling, Like I'm not
close to all of my siblings, but my siblings that
came out my mom's coaching, we're close. And I've told him.
I was like, I know I can be judgy at times,
but I don't want to try to feel like y'all
can tell me stuff if y'all want me to pause,

(01:20:11):
and I will pause my judgment. Sometimes I just be
trying to help and maybe it doesn't come off right.
Tell me, I'm gonna be there for you, because as
judgmental as I can be, I can also be very
much there for you. And I'm gonna ride for you
because you're my sibling. And it's crazy to me how
many people do not have that. It's sad or their

(01:20:33):
siblings are mean, or you don't.

Speaker 2 (01:20:36):
Like each other, and when at the end of the day,
that's all you have, like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
You're family, Like you can't even turn to them.

Speaker 2 (01:20:42):
I be feeling like that, Yeah, I'll be telling them.
One time, my niece Disney had said something to my
sister and I was like, oh, who are you talking to?
She was like, I'm talking to my mommy and I
was like, I don'kay, but she was, and I was like,
I would thump you on your forehead. But then it
was funny because her brother, her little brother, said he
can barely talk.

Speaker 1 (01:21:02):
We'd be like, what did you say? He gotta.

Speaker 2 (01:21:08):
He was like, I was like, do you think I
get your bunkings? They don't say, but they don't say,
like you get your what they called butt or bottom,
they call it bunkin's. And he was like, did I
get your bunkings? Because I talked to she talked to
my sister Crazy, and then I talked to Tank Crazy
and then that's her little brother. I'll get your bunkins
And I said, that's what I'm talking about. We all
got each other.

Speaker 1 (01:21:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:21:29):
I was like, but you're not gonna get my bunkins.

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
Get not because I'm exactly I'll.

Speaker 2 (01:21:33):
Get your motherfucking bunkings.

Speaker 1 (01:21:35):
And I got a rank up in here. But that
was he said it.

Speaker 2 (01:21:39):
So he said it with his chest. He was like,
I like that, I will get your bunkings. And I
was like, sit down for I throw some water on
you because you don't like water on his hair. Well,
he was like, he just gets so dramatic when you
wash his hair, like he's just like he starts. I mean,
long road, very long road. This has been This has

(01:22:01):
been a great episode these this week and last week.
I'm glad we got to catch up with y'all because
we didn't have an episode and then we relate with
this episode. But thank you guys so much for sticking
Make sure you check out all the things. I don't
know if I mentioned this in the beginning, but I
just want to make sure I keep saying this. One
of my girlfriends, she is doing a breast cancer awareness

(01:22:23):
walk Save the Tatas two point zero and it's in
honor of her mother. Her mother died of breast cancer,
and I just think it's beautiful what she's doing. They're
trying to raise money, so you guys check the links out.
You can either donate to help somebody with breast cancer
and that journey, or you can sign up, create a
team and join the walk in Tampa on October twenty

(01:22:45):
fifth at nine a m. And again, this is their
second year doing this, and I'm just so proud of her.
I'm just like, wow, Like when people get movements going
and they really feel it and you're like, wow, you're
really doing that.

Speaker 1 (01:22:55):
Takes a lot of work something that matters.

Speaker 2 (01:22:58):
Yeah, like it just it takes a lot of work.
And I'm just like, wow, you.

Speaker 1 (01:23:02):
Know it's to her And I hope that you guys
help us raise some money. Yeah, please do, Tampa. I
won't be there either, but I can donate something.

Speaker 2 (01:23:12):
I think that would be great.

Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
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the show. Like I said, leave likes, comments and subscribe
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Speaker 2 (01:23:29):
I'll be forget about the Get the Car game, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:23:31):
Get the Car game. And also check out my news
show XOMN podcast. I'm interviewing all these different men. The
next episodes are Rosco Dash, David Banner. Pick the guests.
I help with booking the guests, but like we did

(01:23:52):
so many, I don't pick all of them, Okay, not pick,
but they have all been very interesting and and uh
one Okay, so David Banners when I'm really looking forward
to there's another one. And I think it's people people
might not recognize or realize that they know who he is.
His name is Willie Moore, Duran Willie Moore Junior. He

(01:24:16):
was pretty willy when we were young Tatiana's at Venice Beach.

Speaker 2 (01:24:22):
This is not pretty ricky, pretty willy. Okay, oh willy, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:24:26):
Lay, okay, Yeah, he's uh. I interviewed him and that
was interesting, and I it never clicked because I read
about him and I did all this stuff, but it
didn't click. This same damn person. Wow, he's a character.

(01:24:50):
He's a hoop and I want him on here too
because I want him to talk unfiltered and not like
clean clean, yes, yeah clean. And I told him, I
was like, okay, I'm gonna hit you up soon because
I got another show too, and I want I want
a lot of most of them to come over here
and talk to us too, because I would like to

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hear when they're uncensored. Some people I got good vibes
from them because they were like, I won't say that,
I won't say that, like they knew to censure themselves.
And everybody who told me something where they censored themselves.
I was like, okay, gotta have you on cocktails because
you're not afraid of being uncensored. I the people who

(01:25:33):
are afraid of being uncensored. I get it. This ain't
for you. I just want you to come and have fun.
Like this is a fun show. It's less serious. But anyway,
that was that was good. I just hope y'all continue
to watch it and support it and like, comment, subscribe,

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leave comment, tell everybody and tell them you want more,
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Speaker 2 (01:26:00):
Yes, and oh, real estate update you guys, I am
really thriving in my real estate career.

Speaker 1 (01:26:09):
And congratulation like you.

Speaker 2 (01:26:13):
I have a few closings coming up and I'm really
excited about them. And I just want to remind everybody
that if you are someone where you have a non
traditional job career, way of source of income, as long
as it's legal, you can there are options for you know.
I just I'm realizing like how many, like specifically black

(01:26:36):
people don't really understand like how easy it is to
get into a home and how like you think it
is a huge responsibility, but like you can do it.
You if, like I mean, some of y'all are responsible
for lives, so like you could do it and it's
worth it. And so I just am always going to
say like, just let's just see what you could do.
I have a home buyer's guide. It's going to be virtual.

(01:26:59):
It's not in person because people like virtual better, better
with that type of thing. On July twenty third. So
in class, it's like a it's a it's just a
guide of like me and another realtor and a lender,
kind of just showing you. If you're a content creator, like.

Speaker 1 (01:27:14):
A webinar, I'm just trying.

Speaker 2 (01:27:16):
Yeah, not a book, not a book. No, this is
like a virtual class. And I don't away say class,
it just sounds so it's very laid back. So if
you have a non traditional job entrepreneur, if you are
a podcast or your content creator anything like that, and
you do have some source of income and you did
your taxes and you're just kind of like, I can
never own because I don't know how my money. No,
just come learn and see like the different options that

(01:27:38):
are for you so that you could possibly get into
home ownership in twenty twenty six. So I'm not even
trying to rush you. So y'all check out my Instagram.
The links will be in the bio, and just come
and learn something. Don't assume you can't just because you're scared.
So I just want to make sure I say that
real estate is a really powerful source of income, and

(01:28:02):
I'm I am really just like, wow, this is an
amazing situation that I got into that I really didn't
even want to. It was really for revenge because my
boyfriend make me feel broke. So y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:28:14):
Check it out. Oh why well, I will say thank
you guys for listening. I thank you guys for checking
out the show. Click the links to the description and
also earlier, I think I said this out loud in
my head. If there's some things that y'all are interested

(01:28:37):
in hearing our opinions about another didity trial, not any
trial honestly, but anything else, and it's stuff a less
because I am very interested to know what y'all want
to know what we think about, like certain topics or
certain things, or just whether it's like a big I

(01:28:57):
don't want to do trials. But outside of like big
trials and news things like what do y'all want our
opinions on, We're really interested to know what you want
to hear about, no matter how outland this shit may be,
so hits up and less know anyway, Thank you guys
so much for listening. We appreciate you for being here.
Signs to the end and make sure that you click

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all feelings to the description Boxman and has multiple trips.

Speaker 2 (01:29:23):
And next week we will be back to a normal
show weird sex, advice and cocktails because we skipped it.
I didn't weird sex, you did weird sex, but we
didn't do advice in cocktails, So yeah, it'll be back
to We were just.

Speaker 1 (01:29:35):
Kind of like, yeah, we can just save it for
a time because we want to make some other stuff happen. Anyway,
see you guys next week.

Speaker 2 (01:29:44):
Bye assas.

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